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Your Mind Is Programmed To Stay Poor (Here’s How To Rewrite It) — Transcript

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  1. 0:00If you feel stuck when it comes to
  2. 0:01making and keeping enough money, it's
  3. 0:04not because you're lazy. It's not
  4. 0:05[music] because you're bad with numbers.
  5. 0:08It's because 99% of people have been
  6. 0:10programmed in a way that makes it almost
  7. 0:13impossible to break through with money.
  8. 0:16You didn't choose that programming that
  9. 0:18you have. You inherited it. And it shows
  10. 0:22up as a set of beliefs about [music]
  11. 0:23money that you have been carrying since
  12. 0:25you were a young kid without ever
  13. 0:28[music] once choosing these beliefs. And
  14. 0:31that's why you can read the books, you
  15. 0:33can watch the videos, you can make a
  16. 0:35budget, you can promise yourself that
  17. 0:37this is your year, and after 12 months
  18. 0:40later, you're still standing in the same
  19. 0:43spot struggling trying to see why is
  20. 0:46this happening to me over and over
  21. 0:48again. the same number, the same amount
  22. 0:50of stress, that same tight feeling
  23. 0:52inside your chest when rent is due or
  24. 0:55bills need to be paid. I know that
  25. 0:58feeling. It's not fun. I also know the
  26. 1:01feeling when I started to make money and
  27. 1:03I didn't understand it where it felt
  28. 1:05like someone was clenching my throat and
  29. 1:07it felt even more scary. Now, this is
  30. 1:11not a discipline problem. This is a
  31. 1:13wiring problem. So, in this video, we're
  32. 1:16going through the five money beliefs
  33. 1:19that you have to let go of if you want
  34. 1:21any of this to change in your life and
  35. 1:24exactly how to replace each one so you
  36. 1:26can actually start building toward your
  37. 1:29next level of wealth. And I want to be
  38. 1:31specific with you today because most
  39. 1:34conversations about money mindset stop
  40. 1:36at the mindset. And this is something
  41. 1:38I've talked about for a long time. The
  42. 1:41mindset around money. This is an
  43. 1:42important and essential element. But if
  44. 1:46that's all you think about, then it
  45. 1:48makes you feel something for a few
  46. 1:51moments, maybe even for a few hours, and
  47. 1:53then you close the app and nothing in
  48. 1:56your account moves. So, every belief we
  49. 1:58cover today, everything that we're
  50. 2:00talking about comes with a number that
  51. 2:03you have to go find or a sentence that
  52. 2:06you have to say out loud to somebody.
  53. 2:09So, this is not just a feeling or a
  54. 2:11feel-good video with some insights. This
  55. 2:14is an assignment that I want you to take
  56. 2:16on today. This means you have to
  57. 2:19actually show up and do something
  58. 2:21differently. I'm going to give you some
  59. 2:23core things throughout this video, but
  60. 2:25at the very end, I'm going to tell you
  61. 2:26specifically what you need to do to
  62. 2:29unlock these new beliefs. So, it's not
  63. 2:32just feel-good ideas, but actual actions
  64. 2:35you take to create the momentum that
  65. 2:37you're looking for around money and
  66. 2:40wealth. And I've spent over a decade
  67. 2:43sitting across from billionaires,
  68. 2:45self-made millionaires, investors,
  69. 2:47founders, mega entrepreneurs, people who
  70. 2:49have built something out of nothing.
  71. 2:51people who had an idea, a concept, an a
  72. 2:55thought, some type of imagination around
  73. 2:58something they wanted to make that
  74. 3:01wasn't already in the world. The action
  75. 3:03they wanted to take that hadn't been
  76. 3:04taken yet. a an idea that matured into
  77. 3:08conversations, actions, creations that
  78. 3:12then were sold, whether it be with
  79. 3:14services or products, software, events.
  80. 3:17And they put this idea into the world
  81. 3:19and they enrolled people in this belief
  82. 3:22and vision. And through an exchange of
  83. 3:25services, goods or ideas, they were able
  84. 3:29to capitalize with a currency that
  85. 3:32created abundance. And for years, I was
  86. 3:35waiting for one of them to slip to give
  87. 3:37me the exact tactic or the loophole. And
  88. 3:41I wanted to learn the thing that they
  89. 3:42knew that I didn't. The challenge is it
  90. 3:45never really came. What came instead was
  91. 3:47a lot more uncomfortable cuz I wanted it
  92. 3:50to be easier. I didn't want to stress
  93. 3:52anymore. I didn't want to struggle
  94. 3:54anymore around money. You know, sleeping
  95. 3:56on your sister's couch is something that
  96. 3:58I did for a year and a half. And it
  97. 4:00wasn't enjoyable. It didn't feel
  98. 4:02fulfilling. It didn't feel like I was
  99. 4:05responsible. It didn't feel like I was a
  100. 4:07a grown adult even though I was in my
  101. 4:09mid20s. It felt like I was suffocating
  102. 4:12and I didn't know how to get out. The
  103. 4:15thing is they didn't have better
  104. 4:17strategies. The mega billionaires and
  105. 4:19millionaires that I sat across from for
  106. 4:21the last decade plus, they didn't have
  107. 4:24better strategies. They had different
  108. 4:26beliefs. And this is the thing that you
  109. 4:29need to understand. that if your beliefs
  110. 4:32are limited based on inheriting them
  111. 4:35throughout your entire life up until
  112. 4:37now, this is not your fault that you
  113. 4:40inherited these. But if you have certain
  114. 4:43beliefs that have limited you to earn
  115. 4:45more or constantly see a progression in
  116. 4:48your earning capabilities, then it's
  117. 4:51something you need to change. And what
  118. 4:54they believed about money was so
  119. 4:56different from what I believed
  120. 4:58personally around money that we were
  121. 5:00basically playing two different games.
  122. 5:04And if you feel like you've been
  123. 5:05financially stuck, you've been playing
  124. 5:08the wrong game. And I remember sitting
  125. 5:12across from someone who was early in my
  126. 5:1620s when I was trying to figure out how
  127. 5:17to make money. I had a meeting with a
  128. 5:19guy who was making multiple six figures.
  129. 5:22And for me at that time, I was like,
  130. 5:23"This is a whole another level because I
  131. 5:26was barely making a couple hundred
  132. 5:27dollars a week." And so multiple six
  133. 5:29figures in my early 20s, I was like,
  134. 5:31"How is this person doing it?" I
  135. 5:33remember I begged him to sit down with
  136. 5:36me. We went to a Starbucks coffee shop
  137. 5:39uh in Columbus, Ohio, and I had about an
  138. 5:42hour with this guy, and I said, "What is
  139. 5:45the secret? Like, I just don't know how
  140. 5:48you even get someone to pay you that
  141. 5:50much money." And I remember he literally
  142. 5:53stood up and he said, "If you want to
  143. 5:56create more wealth, you have to tap into
  144. 5:59being so uncomfortable within you to
  145. 6:02overcome those beliefs and that takes a
  146. 6:04consistency of courage." And he was
  147. 6:07like, "What is the biggest fear you have
  148. 6:08right now within yourself?" And I was
  149. 6:11like, "You mean around making money?" He
  150. 6:12goes, "No, just around you as a
  151. 6:14personality." And I said, "To be honest,
  152. 6:16speaking in public was my biggest fear,
  153. 6:18my biggest concern at the time." And he
  154. 6:21said, "That is the place that's holding
  155. 6:23you back from creating more wealth in
  156. 6:25your life." And if you want to earn more
  157. 6:27money, if you want to become financially
  158. 6:28free, I don't care if you're speaking in
  159. 6:30front of tens of thousands of people on
  160. 6:32stages or you're speaking in a in a
  161. 6:34group of people in a boardroom at a
  162. 6:36company, you need to have the ability
  163. 6:39and the skill set to enroll people in
  164. 6:42you, to enroll them in your vision, your
  165. 6:46desires, your dreams, your wants, what
  166. 6:48you want to create in the world. Whether
  167. 6:49you're looking for an investor, you're
  168. 6:50looking for a customer, you're looking
  169. 6:52for someone to hire you, you're looking
  170. 6:54for a sale, whatever it is, you need to
  171. 6:57have the courage to be able to
  172. 6:58communicate your vision clearly and
  173. 7:00enroll people in you that you're capable
  174. 7:04of actually doing the thing that you
  175. 7:06want to do.
  176. 7:08And at that point, I was like, well, I'm
  177. 7:10screwed because I can't speak in front
  178. 7:12of five people without stuttering and
  179. 7:14stumbling and having no idea where to
  180. 7:16take them. and he said, "Okay, I'm going
  181. 7:18to give you a challenge. Every week for
  182. 7:20the next year, this is your goal. And by
  183. 7:23the end of the year, if you don't see
  184. 7:25yourself creating more financial
  185. 7:27opportunities for yourself, then let me
  186. 7:29know. But every single week, if you show
  187. 7:31up and do a speech every week for a
  188. 7:34year, you'll start seeing your financial
  189. 7:37capacity increasing to new levels." And
  190. 7:40I was so terrified. I was so scared that
  191. 7:44I knew that's exactly what I needed to
  192. 7:47do. It's the thing I didn't want to do
  193. 7:49at all. It's the thing I resisted the
  194. 7:51most in school. But I was like, "Okay,
  195. 7:54here's a guy who has a different belief
  196. 7:57that he learned how to communicate and
  197. 7:59then was making hundreds of thousands of
  198. 8:00dollars a year speaking all around the
  199. 8:02country." And I said, "Okay, where do I
  200. 8:05go?" He said, "Go to a place called
  201. 8:06Toast Masters. You can find them all
  202. 8:09over the world. Find one in your local
  203. 8:10city." And I signed up that week and I
  204. 8:14went every week and I gave a speech
  205. 8:16every week for a year. I didn't care if
  206. 8:18it was 2 minutes or 20 minutes. I showed
  207. 8:21up and I spoke. And that ability by the
  208. 8:24end of that first year, I was making
  209. 8:26$5,000 a speech. I wasn't even making
  210. 8:29$5,000 in six months when I started this
  211. 8:33action. And I started overcoming this
  212. 8:35belief that I wasn't able to do
  213. 8:37something. And it changed my life
  214. 8:40because I started to shift my beliefs by
  215. 8:43going all in on these insecurities,
  216. 8:46these fears that were blocking me and
  217. 8:48holding me back from developing myself
  218. 8:52to have more skills that were more
  219. 8:55valuable in the marketplace and in any
  220. 8:58industry that I stepped into after that.
  221. 9:01And so you got to be thinking about what
  222. 9:02is the thing that is holding you back
  223. 9:04the most? What is the belief? What is
  224. 9:05the fear, the insecurity that is holding
  225. 9:07you back the most? You need to start
  226. 9:10going all in on that. And this is where
  227. 9:14I started. I started with no money, with
  228. 9:16no plan, with no income. And I was
  229. 9:19absolutely certain that my problem was
  230. 9:21that I had no money. And I was like, if
  231. 9:23someone would just give me some money,
  232. 9:25it would solve all of my problems
  233. 9:27because I don't have any. And yet, it
  234. 9:29took me years to figure out that my
  235. 9:31problem was every belief that I'd
  236. 9:34inherited about money. It wasn't that I
  237. 9:37didn't have it. It was the beliefs I had
  238. 9:39around money. And I want to get into
  239. 9:42these five core beliefs right now. So,
  240. 9:45let's get into these five beliefs right
  241. 9:47here. And I want you to notice something
  242. 9:49as I talk about each one of these. I'm
  243. 9:51going to share some examples around each
  244. 9:52one. They won't sound like beliefs to
  245. 9:55you. You're going to be like, "Louis,
  246. 9:56huh? Is that a belief? They're just
  247. 9:59going to sound like facts to you, like
  248. 10:01just how things are in your life. And if
  249. 10:04you've already come to this video,
  250. 10:07you've come to this episode, then this
  251. 10:09is going to sound like a lot of your
  252. 10:11life. This is exactly why they've lasted
  253. 10:14this long. You'll recognize at least
  254. 10:17three of them that I'm going to talk
  255. 10:19about for you specifically. And I want
  256. 10:21you to comment after the one that speaks
  257. 10:24to you the most. And after each one, I'm
  258. 10:27going to share with you how to catch it
  259. 10:29in the act when that belief comes up to
  260. 10:31you and exactly what to do this week to
  261. 10:35break that belief. Because a lot of
  262. 10:37people come and they'll consume
  263. 10:39something or they'll read a book and
  264. 10:40it's just a feel good. They don't take
  265. 10:42the actions. And I'm telling you, when I
  266. 10:45met with this early mentor in my early
  267. 10:4820s who was making hundreds of thousands
  268. 10:51of dollars a year, for me it it might as
  269. 10:53well have been a hund00 million because
  270. 10:54I had nothing sleeping on my sister's
  271. 10:56couch. It shook [snorts] me and I had a
  272. 11:00choice to make. I could have said, "Nah,
  273. 11:03that's too uncomfortable to do. That's
  274. 11:04too much. I can't go give a speech every
  275. 11:06single week to strangers. That's just
  276. 11:09too embarrassing. What if I fail? What
  277. 11:11if they make fun of me?" I had a choice
  278. 11:13to make. I could have let my fear, my
  279. 11:16insecurities, and my beliefs hold me
  280. 11:18back and keep me playing small forever.
  281. 11:23And thank God, my younger self didn't do
  282. 11:25that because I went all in. And it gave
  283. 11:28me a level of courage. It gave me a
  284. 11:30level of skill set, a level of
  285. 11:31knowledge, and a level of experience
  286. 11:34that created a personal credibility with
  287. 11:36myself. And because I had personal
  288. 11:39credibility with myself, I knew how to
  289. 11:42navigate certain situations that were
  290. 11:45comfortable or uncomfortable. I knew how
  291. 11:47to speak in front of billionaires in
  292. 11:50small private rooms behind the scenes. I
  293. 11:53knew how to speak in front of teenage
  294. 11:55students in a classroom who were
  295. 11:58distracted. I knew how to speak in front
  296. 11:59of 10,000 people at once who wanted to
  297. 12:02get motivated, inspired. I knew how to
  298. 12:04speak to individuals one by one around
  299. 12:06an idea that I had around a goal or a
  300. 12:09vision and because I developed that
  301. 12:12skill early on and I dismantled the
  302. 12:16belief that I was not good at speaking
  303. 12:19and therefore I would never amount to
  304. 12:21anything or never create financial
  305. 12:23abundance without that. It unlocked so
  306. 12:27many other things that I was able to do
  307. 12:30because I went all in on that
  308. 12:31insecurity. Now it doesn't mean this was
  309. 12:33easy. It doesn't mean it was fun. It
  310. 12:35doesn't mean it was enjoyable. And in
  311. 12:37fact, the first few months were pretty
  312. 12:39miserable. But it has created a lifetime
  313. 12:42of freedom and a credibility within
  314. 12:44myself that has therefore created a
  315. 12:47reputation of who I've been able to get
  316. 12:50results for others and therefore created
  317. 12:52more opportunities for myself from
  318. 12:54others as well. So throughout this
  319. 12:56entire episode, I want you to grab
  320. 12:58something to write with. You're gonna
  321. 13:00need it because the number one money
  322. 13:03belief
  323. 13:04is that people like me don't make more
  324. 13:08money than this.
  325. 13:11People like me don't make more money
  326. 13:13than this. And this is what a lot of
  327. 13:16people when I ask questions to about
  328. 13:18what's them holding them back from
  329. 13:19making money. People talk about that
  330. 13:21there's like a limit to how much you
  331. 13:23think you're able to make. And
  332. 13:27I want you to think about what that is
  333. 13:30for you. Why do people who suddenly
  334. 13:33start making more so often end up right
  335. 13:37back where they started? Sometimes a few
  336. 13:40people break through and then they fall
  337. 13:43back. Why is that? Why do people fall
  338. 13:47back to a certain level of comfort? Why
  339. 13:49do people sabotage? Why is that? because
  340. 13:53there's a number in your head that you
  341. 13:56have quietly decided is what someone
  342. 13:59like you makes. Maybe it's just because
  343. 14:03you've picked up on it
  344. 14:06on accident because you didn't pick it
  345. 14:08up on purpose. It got set by what your
  346. 14:11family earned, by what your friends
  347. 14:13earned, or what people talked about in
  348. 14:15your sphere of influence, and by what
  349. 14:18the first good job you ever had pay you,
  350. 14:21gave you, whatever it might be. It
  351. 14:23didn't get set by logic. It get set by
  352. 14:26emotion, by your nervous system feeling
  353. 14:30this is what it's supposed to be. You
  354. 14:32watched a room go quiet when maybe the
  355. 14:35mail came in and there was a certain
  356. 14:37amount of either bills or checks that
  357. 14:40came in or didn't come in. You heard an
  358. 14:42argument through the wall. I knew
  359. 14:43growing up I heard a lot of arguments
  360. 14:45and it was almost like what wasn't said
  361. 14:48was the thing that I picked up more than
  362. 14:50the arguments and what was said. It was
  363. 14:53like what was said was scary by parents
  364. 14:56and things like that, but it was almost
  365. 14:58like the tension and the energy of my
  366. 15:01parents
  367. 15:03when they didn't speak, but we all knew
  368. 15:06something is off and they're not happy
  369. 15:08and it doesn't feel safe. You saw
  370. 15:11someone's face change at a register or
  371. 15:14when a check came in, whatever it might
  372. 15:15be. When you see the interactions and
  373. 15:18the emotions of the people who are
  374. 15:21responsible for your life and you picked
  375. 15:24that up based on that, nobody sat you
  376. 15:27down and taught you to be afraid of
  377. 15:28money necessarily. You just absorbed it
  378. 15:31and then you built a ceiling out of it.
  379. 15:34This is something that I did. This is
  380. 15:35something we all do. This is not a make
  381. 15:38wrong or this is you're a bad person
  382. 15:39because this is something that's
  383. 15:41happened to you. This is just a part of
  384. 15:43human nature. And unfortunately, some
  385. 15:47people have been instilled in this
  386. 15:49energy and these beliefs and others
  387. 15:53didn't have that. And I felt like I
  388. 15:55needed to overcome constantly myself, my
  389. 15:59own limiting beliefs on what I
  390. 16:01experienced from my sphere of influence,
  391. 16:04which was originally my parents and
  392. 16:06therefore then kids in my class and
  393. 16:09therefore their parents and picking up
  394. 16:10on all these nuances around what is safe
  395. 16:13and what is not safe in my nervous
  396. 16:15system around a belief around money. And
  397. 16:18here's the part that messes people up.
  398. 16:20Let me know if this has messed you up.
  399. 16:22your mind will defend that ceiling like
  400. 16:24it's protecting you. And so when you go
  401. 16:27above it and you earn more and something
  402. 16:29pulls you back down, it's like, okay,
  403. 16:33your car breaks, some type of deal falls
  404. 16:35through, maybe you didn't get the job
  405. 16:36when you thought you were almost about
  406. 16:38to get it, and you start spending your
  407. 16:41money on something that you didn't need,
  408. 16:42whatever it might be. you stop doing the
  409. 16:45one thing that was actually working and
  410. 16:47you call it bad luck or you call it, oh
  411. 16:50man, this happened in my life and I got
  412. 16:53pushed back down to a certain level that
  413. 16:56I'm comfortable with. And this isn't
  414. 16:58about luck. It's a thermostat. Your mind
  415. 17:02would rather be broke and familiar than
  416. 17:05wealthy and unrecognizable to yourself.
  417. 17:09Because unrecognizable and unfamiliar
  418. 17:12can be very scary. Even if it's
  419. 17:15something that you desire and want, it's
  420. 17:18hard to get to that place if you don't
  421. 17:21believe you deserve it. So, here's the
  422. 17:24tell to know if this is something that's
  423. 17:28running your life. It's not always being
  424. 17:32broke. That's the obvious version.
  425. 17:34Sometimes it's making good money. It's
  426. 17:36actually like, "Oh, I'm making good
  427. 17:37money." And still opening your banking
  428. 17:39app with one eye closed. Or maybe you
  429. 17:42don't even want to check your banking
  430. 17:43app cuz you're like too scared to see
  431. 17:47how much you're making or much maybe how
  432. 17:50much credit card debt you're still in
  433. 17:52that you don't want to pay off.
  434. 17:53Sometimes it's quoting a number and
  435. 17:55immediately discounting it before the
  436. 17:58other person even responds. So you say,
  437. 18:00"Okay, here's how much I'm going to
  438. 18:01charge, but actually I'm going to give
  439. 18:02you a little bit off because of this,
  440. 18:03this, this, and I'm going to go down
  441. 18:05here." And it's before seeing how
  442. 18:08someone responds to what you're offering
  443. 18:09them. Sometimes it might be the money
  444. 18:12showing up and then disappearing because
  445. 18:14holding it makes you anxious, hoarding
  446. 18:17it also makes you anxious, and spending
  447. 18:19it makes the anxiety stop for a few
  448. 18:22hours, whatever it is. And listen for
  449. 18:25the sentences. You know, what are the
  450. 18:27things that comes out of your mouth?
  451. 18:30Is it I've always been bad with money? I
  452. 18:33don't understand money. Someone else
  453. 18:35handles the money for me. I'm just not a
  454. 18:37numbers person. I'm not really a money
  455. 18:39person. I don't really know too much
  456. 18:41about investing. So, it's not my thing.
  457. 18:42I'm just going to keep my money here.
  458. 18:45This is not my world. It's not my
  459. 18:46industry.
  460. 18:48Every one of those sentences is a
  461. 18:52ceiling with a nice voice.
  462. 18:55You're a good person. You're a nice
  463. 18:57person. You work hard. If you're here,
  464. 18:59you want to personally grow. You want to
  465. 19:01develop yourself. You're a good human
  466. 19:03being if you're here watching this right
  467. 19:05now listening to this.
  468. 19:07But maybe this is something you've said
  469. 19:09in the past. Listen, this is something I
  470. 19:11I said every one of these and more when
  471. 19:14I was growing up. And even when I
  472. 19:15started to earn money, I was afraid of
  473. 19:17it. I was afraid of feeling bad or I was
  474. 19:21afraid of, oh, I'm making more than
  475. 19:23other people. maybe I shouldn't talk
  476. 19:24about this. Whatever it might be,
  477. 19:27there's a ceiling
  478. 19:30with each one of these conversations.
  479. 19:32You believe and speak out loud.
  480. 19:35And here's the good thing. There's a
  481. 19:38thing that you can do right now, a
  482. 19:40rewiring that you can do today, this
  483. 19:43week, that will support you in
  484. 19:45overcoming this. I don't want you to
  485. 19:47just feel seen right now. I want you to
  486. 19:50go find your ceiling. It takes about a
  487. 19:54few minutes and when you find it, it's
  488. 19:57going to give you clarity on how to
  489. 19:59break through that ceiling. So, step
  490. 20:00one, I want you to write down a number
  491. 20:03for me. I want you to write this down.
  492. 20:05You don't have to put it in the
  493. 20:05comments. I want you to write it down
  494. 20:07for yourself. Write down the most money
  495. 20:10you have ever held in your bank account
  496. 20:14for more than 30 days without spending
  497. 20:16it. So, what is that number that you've
  498. 20:18ever had in your bank account at one
  499. 20:20time that you're like, "Wow, I've got
  500. 20:22$1,000 or $500 and $10,000 or $500,000,
  501. 20:27a million, whatever that is for you."
  502. 20:29Put that number down. Just circle it and
  503. 20:33have that number for yourself.
  504. 20:35Not necessarily your best month, but the
  505. 20:38most you've ever let sit in your bank
  506. 20:40account or in cash if you keep all your
  507. 20:42money in cash for some reason. That
  508. 20:45number is not your earning limit. That's
  509. 20:47your comfort limit. That's your ceiling
  510. 20:50number. Now, most people find out their
  511. 20:52problem was never income. It was that
  512. 20:55every time the number got too high, they
  513. 20:59got uncomfortable and they found
  514. 21:01something urgent to spend it on. At
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  540. 22:08by selecting work mode available on plus
  541. 22:12and pro plans. So step two, I want you
  542. 22:15to write down what you do if your income
  543. 22:19doubled tomorrow. So overnight, boom,
  544. 22:22double the income comes in or double the
  545. 22:24sales or double the revenue wherever
  546. 22:27you're at in your in your career or as
  547. 22:29an owner of a business, whatever it
  548. 22:31might be. If you're a freelancer, if it
  549. 22:33doubled tomorrow, what would you do if
  550. 22:36your income doubled specifically? Where
  551. 22:38does that extra go? Does it just sit in
  552. 22:40a bank account? Do you just hold it in
  553. 22:42the bank? Do you go spend it on a bunch
  554. 22:44of things? Do you put it in multiple
  555. 22:46accounts? Do you invest it? Do you buy a
  556. 22:47car? Do you buy watches? Do you buy
  557. 22:49purses?
  558. 22:51If you can't answer that in the next few
  559. 22:54minutes,
  560. 22:55then a raise wouldn't change your life
  561. 22:57or doubling your income wouldn't change
  562. 22:59your life. it would just disappear
  563. 23:01faster. Money without a destination
  564. 23:03always finds one. So, I need you to
  565. 23:06start thinking ahead of time. And this
  566. 23:08is what wealthy people do around their
  567. 23:10beliefs.
  568. 23:12When they have money coming in, they
  569. 23:14specifically know where the money's
  570. 23:15going. I have a vision for how I want my
  571. 23:19money to work for me, for this business,
  572. 23:22for the charities that I support, all
  573. 23:24the different things for the future as
  574. 23:26well. And therefore, I feel more
  575. 23:28comfortable and more at ease when
  576. 23:30money's coming in because I know exactly
  577. 23:32where it's going. Whereas earlier in my
  578. 23:34career when I started when I was poor
  579. 23:37for a few years starting in this
  580. 23:38industry, I just wish someone would pay
  581. 23:41me because I was broke on my sister's
  582. 23:43couch. And the first few years as I
  583. 23:46started to earn money, it was more money
  584. 23:48than I could ever imagine, right? And I
  585. 23:51remember the first time I made $20,000
  586. 23:53in a month, I go, I'm like the richest
  587. 23:54man in the world. That's how it felt. It
  588. 23:56was like this new level of adrenaline
  589. 23:58and excitement that I never even
  590. 24:00imagined cuz I was like, I never want to
  591. 24:02be poor and broke and living on my
  592. 24:04sister's couch ever again. That feeling
  593. 24:07doesn't feel good. So, I was earning
  594. 24:10based out of a scarcity. And I never
  595. 24:13learned how to rewire that feeling in
  596. 24:15the first few years. It took years of
  597. 24:18pain and frustration and burning myself
  598. 24:22out because I was so afraid to go back
  599. 24:25and that's not a healthy way of earning.
  600. 24:28So step three is I want you to raise one
  601. 24:31number by 20% this week. So what does
  602. 24:35that look like? One price, one rate, one
  603. 24:39ask. And when you say it, stop talking.
  604. 24:42So, if this is something like you're a
  605. 24:44coach and you're trying to sell
  606. 24:46something, I want you to
  607. 24:49raise the number of your service by 20%
  608. 24:52this week. And when you say the number,
  609. 24:56don't explain it. Don't justify it.
  610. 24:58Don't fill the silence. The silence
  611. 25:00after your number is where the old
  612. 25:03belief lives. Sit in on it one time and
  613. 25:07something permanent changes. This is
  614. 25:09very uncomfortable. I remember when I
  615. 25:11was starting out in this industry, in
  616. 25:13this in this business, and someone I
  617. 25:16offered to do a consulting session for
  618. 25:20someone at the time. It was around
  619. 25:21social media back in 2009.
  620. 25:24And I offered to do some a session for
  621. 25:26someone that I knew for free. I said,
  622. 25:28"Let me come in and show you how to use
  623. 25:29social media to help you in in your
  624. 25:32goals for your business at that time."
  625. 25:34and I just wanted to do it for free to
  626. 25:36show him what I was capable of doing and
  627. 25:38trying to show him some results quickly.
  628. 25:41At the end of this session, maybe it was
  629. 25:42two hours, he went into the other room
  630. 25:46and he came back and he wrote me a check
  631. 25:48and handed it to me and it was for $100.
  632. 25:51And at the time I was like, "Wow." I go,
  633. 25:53I was just happy to do this for free
  634. 25:55because I wanted to help this person and
  635. 25:56I thought maybe I could help him improve
  636. 25:59with his business. And he was like,
  637. 26:01"This is going to help me so much. you
  638. 26:03have no clue. Here's $100. And I
  639. 26:06remember being so blown away that
  640. 26:07someone would pay me $100 to do some
  641. 26:10consulting and coaching for a couple
  642. 26:12hours. It was like mindblowing. $100
  643. 26:15that I can teach you something, help you
  644. 26:18with something, give you value, and
  645. 26:20you'll exchange, give me $100 in two
  646. 26:22hours. It blew me away. Now, I started
  647. 26:24saying, "Okay, well, let me what if I
  648. 26:26try to do this every week with someone?"
  649. 26:28And so I started marketing my services
  650. 26:30back in 2009 for $100 for a session to
  651. 26:33help people with their their social
  652. 26:35media at that time. And it started
  653. 26:37working and I got a bunch of people to
  654. 26:39do this for me. And I was like, "Oh,
  655. 26:41wow. They're all getting results." And I
  656. 26:44remember thinking, "Okay, let me try
  657. 26:46$150.
  658. 26:48Let me try $200, $250." I remember that
  659. 26:51$300. And I remember thinking, "Oh my
  660. 26:53gosh, this is powerful. If I'm able to
  661. 26:57show results for someone, if I'm able to
  662. 27:00build credibility within what I'm
  663. 27:02capable of doing for others, give them
  664. 27:04results,
  665. 27:06they refer me to other people.
  666. 27:10If I feel like it's valuable enough
  667. 27:11that, you know, they gave me $100 and I
  668. 27:13helped them make $10,000, then surely
  669. 27:16$200 is still a good uh service exchange
  670. 27:20for service. $300. Okay, they're still
  671. 27:23making a lot more money than the
  672. 27:24exchange for this. and it's saving them
  673. 27:26time, energy, and taking them out of a
  674. 27:29frustration. Long story short, for the
  675. 27:31next five years, I kept doing this. I
  676. 27:34did this exercise and I would increase
  677. 27:36my rates whenever I felt like I had
  678. 27:39delivered the value for that time and I
  679. 27:42got them value based on the money they
  680. 27:44were spending me, based on what I was
  681. 27:46charging, I just kept saying, "Okay, how
  682. 27:48can I be more uncomfortable with my
  683. 27:50ask?" And it went from $100 in a session
  684. 27:54to $10,000 in an hour for coaching at
  685. 27:57one point. And I remember I stopped
  686. 27:58doing it after $10,000 an hour. I was
  687. 28:00like, "Okay, this is interesting. I
  688. 28:03wonder how much I could charge for
  689. 28:05someone." This was probably 10 years ago
  690. 28:08when I charged $10,000 in an hour for a
  691. 28:10coaching call. And I remember doing this
  692. 28:12one coaching call for an hour. It wasn't
  693. 28:14even over Zoom or anything. It was just
  694. 28:16a an audio call. And the person said,
  695. 28:18"This is some of the best money I've
  696. 28:19ever spent. Thank you." what you taught
  697. 28:21me here is going to help me make a lot
  698. 28:23more money. And so if I can charge
  699. 28:2610,000 and someone can make a h 100,000
  700. 28:28or they can make 500,000 from a taking a
  701. 28:30few simple changes in their business,
  702. 28:33for me that was worth it. But you've got
  703. 28:36to practice this. And the first time I
  704. 28:39did it, I was not sure if someone's
  705. 28:40going to pay me more than $100. So the
  706. 28:43more you practice this, the better it
  707. 28:46will be. The first time you charge for
  708. 28:49something that felt too high to say out
  709. 28:52loud, you know, does it feel
  710. 28:54uncomfortable? You need to have the
  711. 28:55courage to back the results you can get.
  712. 28:58And it doesn't mean everyone's going to
  713. 29:00actually say yes to you. Some people
  714. 29:02might say no. In fact, a lot of people
  715. 29:05try to book me for speaking today and I
  716. 29:07give them my number and they say it's
  717. 29:09too much and I just say that's okay. I
  718. 29:11don't need to speak at your conference
  719. 29:12or at your event. So, you need to know
  720. 29:14what your your number is for you. And
  721. 29:17maybe I would take less if I wasn't
  722. 29:19earning the money that I had now uh
  723. 29:21based on what the market was willing to
  724. 29:22offer me. But you have to be thinking
  725. 29:24about that for yourself because people
  726. 29:27like me don't make more than this as a
  727. 29:31belief is holding you back. And that's
  728. 29:33something that was holding me back for
  729. 29:35years until I learned to have the
  730. 29:37courage to develop certain skills,
  731. 29:40overcome the insecurities and the the
  732. 29:43fear of rejection and embarrassment by
  733. 29:46going allin in developing credibility
  734. 29:48for myself. Money belief number two, if
  735. 29:52it didn't hurt, I didn't earn it. So why
  736. 29:56do so many people work themselves into
  737. 29:59the ground and still never build
  738. 30:02anything that lasts? You know, I have a
  739. 30:03few friends that um you know, their
  740. 30:07parents worked very hard for 30, 35, 40
  741. 30:10years in a career in an industry
  742. 30:14hoping that they would have some type of
  743. 30:16retirement at the end of the day. And
  744. 30:19sometimes that doesn't always work out
  745. 30:21and it always makes me sad to hear. And
  746. 30:23it's because they either spent too much
  747. 30:25constantly, they didn't know what to do
  748. 30:26with their money, whatever it might be.
  749. 30:28And sometimes people just overwork
  750. 30:31themselves, they burn themselves out
  751. 30:33because you weren't taught that money is
  752. 30:35a payment for pain, not payment for
  753. 30:39value. And that's what you were taught
  754. 30:41is that money is a payment for pain, not
  755. 30:44payment for value. Payment for pain
  756. 30:48is challenging. And this is what a lot
  757. 30:51of us heard growing up.
  758. 30:53Look at the language of of what every
  759. 30:56one of us heard growing up. If you're
  760. 30:58watching this, you probably heard people
  761. 31:00say, you know, if you want to earn
  762. 31:01money, it takes blood, sweat, and tears.
  763. 31:04It's hard earned money. Nothing worth
  764. 31:06nothing worth having comes easy. None of
  765. 31:09those phrases are about value that you
  766. 31:11heard growing up. Now, I'm not saying,
  767. 31:13listen, I work extremely hard, but I
  768. 31:15also make sure that I have some type of
  769. 31:17harmony in my life where I'm not burning
  770. 31:19myself out constantly because that's not
  771. 31:22a rich life in my mind. And that's a
  772. 31:25belief system that just makes me get
  773. 31:27sick and hurts the people around me. So,
  774. 31:31there are phases and seasons and times
  775. 31:34where I put in extremely hard work, but
  776. 31:37I also know when to pull back and to
  777. 31:40recalibrate. And it's thinking about how
  778. 31:43can I add more value, not how can I work
  779. 31:46harder. There's a difference there.
  780. 31:48Every single one of us or every single
  781. 31:50one of these is about suffering. Get
  782. 31:52these kind of beliefs that we heard
  783. 31:54growing up. You know, money doesn't grow
  784. 31:56on trees. You've got to work extremely
  785. 31:59hard to earn more money. So your
  786. 32:01subconscious starts to run the math when
  787. 32:03you hear these things that more money
  788. 32:07must require more suffering. Or you
  789. 32:10might have heard people who make a lot
  790. 32:13of money are greedy, evil, and bad. And
  791. 32:16you're a good person. So why would you
  792. 32:18want to earn more money if you're going
  793. 32:20to be associated with everyone else in
  794. 32:23your life that you are greedy, evil, and
  795. 32:26bad? You don't want that. Your belief
  796. 32:29system, your nervous system does not
  797. 32:31want people around you, your friends,
  798. 32:34your family, the people that make you
  799. 32:35feel safe to say, "Oh,
  800. 32:39now you are unsafe because you're
  801. 32:41earning more money. You must have done
  802. 32:42something bad to get it." And since
  803. 32:46you're already maxed out, more money
  804. 32:48must not be available to you. If you're
  805. 32:51already burning yourself and working
  806. 32:52yourself extremely hard, you're
  807. 32:54thinking, "I can't work any harder, so I
  808. 32:56can't earn anymore." And that's the
  809. 32:57trap. And you notice what it does to
  810. 33:00you. It doesn't make you lazy. It just
  811. 33:02makes you more busy. More busy. More
  812. 33:03busy. More busy. It makes you pick the
  813. 33:06harder path on purpose because the easy
  814. 33:08path feels like you're getting away with
  815. 33:11something. Like you tricked people, like
  816. 33:13it wasn't supposed to be this easy. And
  817. 33:16here's the tell for you. You know this
  818. 33:18belief is running in your mind. When you
  819. 33:20feel guilty taking a Saturday off or a
  820. 33:23Sunday off, you build the complicated
  821. 33:26version when the simple one would also
  822. 33:28sell. If you're a business owner and you
  823. 33:30feel like, oh, I have to do all these
  824. 33:32extra steps and make it so challenging
  825. 33:35to show proof that I worked really hard.
  826. 33:38It's almost like in school they teach
  827. 33:40you to like show the proof constantly of
  828. 33:43how you got to the result instead of
  829. 33:45just here's the answer. I never liked
  830. 33:47that where it's like you had to show
  831. 33:49it's almost you had to work harder to
  832. 33:51show the evidence and the proof of how
  833. 33:54you got the answer to the teachers than
  834. 33:56just saying here's the result. I I just
  835. 33:58learned it. I memorized it. I understood
  836. 34:01it. I read it. Whatever it might be. I
  837. 34:02heard you say it in class. Here's the
  838. 34:04result.
  839. 34:05And we've been conditioned through all
  840. 34:08these different areas of our lives to to
  841. 34:11prove
  842. 34:13the results instead of just no, I got
  843. 34:16you the result. Here's how I did it. And
  844. 34:18so you take the client that you knew on
  845. 34:20the first call would be a nightmare
  846. 34:22because they ask every question. They
  847. 34:25try to ask for every discount. They try
  848. 34:27to make your life so hard. And instead
  849. 34:30of just saying, "Yes, I'm willing to pay
  850. 34:32for the price and here's what I expect
  851. 34:34in return." Awesome. You describe your
  852. 34:37week by how tired you are, when Monday
  853. 34:40starts and you say, "I'm exhausted from
  854. 34:42last week." Um, not by what you actually
  855. 34:46move forward in your life or what you're
  856. 34:47excited about. These are all tells. And
  857. 34:50when something goes well without a lot
  858. 34:52of struggle, you just don't quite quite
  859. 34:54trust it. You're like, "Huh, what's the
  860. 34:56catch?
  861. 34:57Why was this so easy? And this is
  862. 35:00something I lived for for years when I
  863. 35:02started out. I was the guy who was up
  864. 35:04till 2 or 3:00 a.m. every single night,
  865. 35:077 days a week. And it was just like, I
  866. 35:10have to work harder. I have to work
  867. 35:12harder. I have to show people that I'm
  868. 35:14getting little sleep for some reason to
  869. 35:17like prove that I'm doing something. It
  870. 35:19was like prove that I'm working harder
  871. 35:21for getting these results. And I felt
  872. 35:25like I was
  873. 35:27had to prove this in every room that I
  874. 35:29walked into. It's like I had to explain
  875. 35:31it. And this is one of the reasons why I
  876. 35:34was still stuck. Sure, I was earning
  877. 35:35more, but I was getting more and more
  878. 35:37physically tired. I was exhausted and I
  879. 35:41was getting irritable. Like emotionally,
  880. 35:44I was getting more irritable because
  881. 35:47discipline pointed in the wrong
  882. 35:48direction.
  883. 35:50When it's pointed in the wrong
  884. 35:51direction, it just gets you to the wrong
  885. 35:53places faster. That's what happens when
  886. 35:55you are doing the wrong things. So that
  887. 35:59first four or five years, that first
  888. 36:03season of my business experience, I was
  889. 36:06just exhausted trying to and really I
  890. 36:09think I was trying to prove to like
  891. 36:11mentors and thought leaders in the
  892. 36:14industry that I was deserving or worthy
  893. 36:16of kind of being in this world uh and
  894. 36:19being accepted in this kind of space, I
  895. 36:21guess. And instead of just showing like,
  896. 36:25hey, I can get results and I don't have
  897. 36:27to burn myself on every end. And I think
  898. 36:30when I was starting out, it just felt
  899. 36:31like everyone was doing that. So maybe I
  900. 36:33was surrounding myself with other people
  901. 36:35that also had these limiting beliefs and
  902. 36:37they're like, I have to prove this. So
  903. 36:39the rewire is something I want you to do
  904. 36:42this week. This is the action. Money
  905. 36:45doesn't follow effort. Money follows
  906. 36:48value. And when you can imprint that in
  907. 36:52your nervous system and in your mind
  908. 36:53that money doesn't follow effort, money
  909. 36:56follows value, you can start to apply
  910. 37:00this in different ways. And listen, I
  911. 37:03think it doesn't mean you're not going
  912. 37:05to have moments where you're not working
  913. 37:08hard and you're not giving effort. That
  914. 37:10is still true. You're still going to
  915. 37:12need to work hard at different times and
  916. 37:14give effort, but it follows value. And
  917. 37:18sometimes that can be effortless.
  918. 37:21And most people have never once
  919. 37:24checked which one that they're selling.
  920. 37:27So here's the assignment for a few
  921. 37:30minutes.
  922. 37:31It's going to sting a little bit, but I
  923. 37:34want you to think about this. This is
  924. 37:35step one of this assignment. I want you
  925. 37:37to find your real hourly number.
  926. 37:41Take what you earned last month,
  927. 37:44divide it by the hours you actually
  928. 37:46worked in the month, not the contract
  929. 37:49hours, but the real ones. And you know,
  930. 37:52if you were working late at night or if
  931. 37:54you were working all weekends or if you
  932. 37:56were doing calls on Sunday to catch up
  933. 37:59or calls in the car, whatever it was,
  934. 38:01um, most people never do this math. And
  935. 38:05so the number is always a little bit
  936. 38:07lower than people expected. So think
  937. 38:09about the amount you made last month and
  938. 38:10the hours you put in.
  939. 38:13And step two is to split last week into
  940. 38:15two columns. Column one, hours somebody
  941. 38:19would have happily paid for and column
  942. 38:21two is hours you spent because you felt
  943. 38:24like you should be working. And be
  944. 38:26honest because no one's going to read
  945. 38:27this. You don't have to put this in the
  946. 38:28comments below. For most people, column
  947. 38:30two is bigger. And that gap is your
  948. 38:33entire income problem sitting on one
  949. 38:35page. And step three, move one hour from
  950. 38:39column two into column one. One hour
  951. 38:41this week, that's it. That's the whole
  952. 38:44move. Because once you do it and watch
  953. 38:46it work, you'll never again really be
  954. 38:48confused being busy with being valuable.
  955. 38:51And one more thing on this is when
  956. 38:54something comes easy to you, stop
  957. 38:57discounting it. Stop saying like, "Oh,
  958. 38:59this was actually pretty easy for me. I
  959. 39:00just made a phone call and I got the
  960. 39:02result. I just did this thing online and
  961. 39:04boom, it worked pretty quickly. The
  962. 39:06skill you don't even count as a skill
  963. 39:09because it's just how your brain works.
  964. 39:12That's actually the most valuable thing
  965. 39:14that you own. You can't see it because
  966. 39:16it's normal to you and you feel like,
  967. 39:18oh, everyone should be able to do this,
  968. 39:20but the thing that you do best that's so
  969. 39:22effortless, that's the thing to lean
  970. 39:24into. And
  971. 39:27I remember this for me. For me, it was
  972. 39:29like building relationships
  973. 39:32and connecting people. I just felt like
  974. 39:35it was so easy for me to ask questions
  975. 39:38early on in the business world. I would
  976. 39:40get into rooms that I didn't feel like I
  977. 39:42was supposed to be in or other people my
  978. 39:44age weren't in these rooms. I would
  979. 39:46somehow get in these rooms and I would
  980. 39:48just be so excited to be meeting people
  981. 39:50and asking them questions about how they
  982. 39:52succeeded and the challenges they had to
  983. 39:54overcome. And I I just so curious and
  984. 39:57excited that people wanted to share with
  985. 39:59me. And it's like they would just give
  986. 40:01me all the answers on how they became
  987. 40:03successful just because I was curious
  988. 40:05and excited about them. And when I would
  989. 40:07ask them you what's your biggest
  990. 40:09challenge right now that would help you
  991. 40:11accomplish your goals that you're trying
  992. 40:13to accomplish right now? They would tell
  993. 40:15me, you know, I'm looking for someone I
  994. 40:17can hire here. I'm looking for an agency
  995. 40:20that can help me with this. And I'd be
  996. 40:22like, oh, I know the perfect person. And
  997. 40:24I would call them right then and put
  998. 40:27them on the phone with that person and
  999. 40:29say, "Hey, I think you guys could be
  1000. 40:30good for each other. Why don't you tell
  1001. 40:32them what you're struggling with and if
  1002. 40:33this is something you can offer value
  1003. 40:35in, I'm going to follow up with an email
  1004. 40:37and connect you both." And that just
  1005. 40:40became something that was natural to me.
  1006. 40:42And I just assumed everyone was a giver
  1007. 40:45and generous in that way. And everyone
  1008. 40:48had a network like this. And people were
  1009. 40:52just like so thankful that they would
  1010. 40:54say, "How can I help you in return?" And
  1011. 40:56the more I did that, every year I just
  1012. 40:59added goodwill and added value to so
  1013. 41:02many people that business came back to
  1014. 41:04me, opportunities came back to me. So
  1015. 41:07think about those that thing that comes
  1016. 41:09so effortless to you. That is a skill
  1017. 41:12that could be earning you so much more
  1018. 41:14money if you go all in on it. So, end of
  1019. 41:16money belief number two, if it didn't
  1020. 41:19hurt, I didn't earn it. The School of
  1021. 41:22Greatness is brought to you in
  1022. 41:23partnership with Airbnb. One of my
  1023. 41:26favorite parts of travel is when a trip
  1024. 41:28gives you a feeling you can't really
  1025. 41:29plan for. You're walking through a new
  1026. 41:31city in the morning. You're grabbing
  1027. 41:33coffee, you're talking to someone local,
  1028. 41:35and suddenly the place feels a little
  1029. 41:37bit more familiar. These are the moments
  1030. 41:39that stay with me. They're the things
  1031. 41:41that I crave. Not just the photos, but
  1032. 41:44the feeling of being somewhere new and
  1033. 41:46still finding meaningful connection. And
  1034. 41:49that's what I love about Airbnb. When
  1035. 41:51you're away having your own adventure,
  1036. 41:53your home doesn't have to just sit empty
  1037. 41:56either. You can share your space on
  1038. 41:58Airbnb and give another traveler a
  1039. 42:00chance to fall in love with your city
  1040. 42:02the way that you fall in love with the
  1041. 42:04places that you visit. And maybe there's
  1042. 42:06a big game coming up or maybe people are
  1043. 42:08coming in for a once-in-a-lifetime
  1044. 42:10concert. They need a place that feels
  1045. 42:12comfortable and inviting. And the income
  1046. 42:14from sharing your home can help pay for
  1047. 42:17your own trips. Your home might be worth
  1048. 42:20more than you think. Find out how much
  1049. 42:22at airbnb.com/host.
  1050. 42:25Money belief number three. Wanting even
  1051. 42:28more makes me a bad person. Wanting more
  1052. 42:31money makes me a bad person. Why do so
  1053. 42:33many good-hearted people feel guilty the
  1054. 42:37second things start going well?
  1055. 42:41This is a challenge because again when
  1056. 42:45you start doing things better than your
  1057. 42:49friend group or you start earning more
  1058. 42:51than your friend group or maybe one day
  1059. 42:53you start earning more than your parents
  1060. 42:55ever earned.
  1061. 42:57It starts to be a different dynamic.
  1062. 42:59There starts to be a different dynamic
  1063. 43:01in your school, in your friend group, in
  1064. 43:04your community, in your family, and all
  1065. 43:07of a sudden people look at you
  1066. 43:09differently because somewhere along the
  1067. 43:11line you got handed a lie that money and
  1068. 43:15being a good person pull in opposite
  1069. 43:18directions. We've seen this in movies.
  1070. 43:22We've seen this, you know, in your
  1071. 43:24community. You've seen this on the news
  1072. 43:26that anyone with a lot must have had it
  1073. 43:30taken from somewhere else. Like they
  1074. 43:33must have taken it from somebody. They
  1075. 43:35must have stolen it. They must have been
  1076. 43:37fraudulent. Whatever it might be, that
  1077. 43:40wanting more means you're ungrateful for
  1078. 43:42what you have. And you should appreciate
  1079. 43:45what you have and not want more. And if
  1080. 43:47you believe that even a little bit, your
  1081. 43:49mind and your nervous system
  1082. 43:53will never let you become the thing that
  1083. 43:55you judge. This is challenging. So if
  1084. 43:58you've just felt this, if there was just
  1085. 43:59an energy growing up that your parents
  1086. 44:01said these things about other people
  1087. 44:03that weren't them, ah that person
  1088. 44:05probably did this to get there. Oh, that
  1089. 44:07person did this bad thing and they have
  1090. 44:08a lot of money. uh what whatever it
  1091. 44:10might be, it just builds in your your
  1092. 44:12your wiring in your mindset, your wiring
  1093. 44:16in your nervous system. And you don't
  1094. 44:18want to be judged as one of those people
  1095. 44:22who earn more and did it the wrong way
  1096. 44:25and is even associated with that world.
  1097. 44:28It just doesn't feel good because more
  1098. 44:30than what you want, you want to be a
  1099. 44:33good person. Sure, you might want to
  1100. 44:35make more money, but more than that, you
  1101. 44:37want to be a good person. And your mind
  1102. 44:40thinks it has to pick one. You're like,
  1103. 44:42I want to be a good person, so therefore
  1104. 44:44I can't be earning this much more money.
  1105. 44:46So, it picks broke and moral every time
  1106. 44:51or picks, okay, I'm comfortable with
  1107. 44:53this amount of money because this is
  1108. 44:55acceptable within my friend group or
  1109. 44:57within my family or this is what you're
  1110. 44:58supposed to be earning and I'm a good
  1111. 45:01person. You'd rather have that. This is
  1112. 45:03something I I think everyone wants to
  1113. 45:06feel like they're a good person or most
  1114. 45:08people. I want to feel like I'm a good
  1115. 45:11person, right? But I also know I want to
  1116. 45:13earn more so that I can give more.
  1117. 45:15Here's the tell is like one hides better
  1118. 45:18than the other because it looks like
  1119. 45:21humility. You start hiding it because it
  1120. 45:23looks like humility. You start to
  1121. 45:24discount anyone
  1122. 45:26when they ask you to or when they don't
  1123. 45:29ask you to. You start to discount
  1124. 45:30people. You apologize for your own
  1125. 45:32prices. You you you say the thing went
  1126. 45:36fine when it was like incredible. You
  1127. 45:39try to like discount how good something
  1128. 45:41went. When somebody compliments you and
  1129. 45:44you you you hand the credit to timing or
  1130. 45:48I got lucky, right? It wasn't that big
  1131. 45:50of a deal. Whatever it is that you like
  1132. 45:52to say, I was in the right place at the
  1133. 45:55right time. It's not that's not modesty.
  1134. 45:57That's you making yourself smaller so
  1135. 46:00nobody else feels bad. And your bank
  1136. 46:02account is listening. Your your
  1137. 46:04connection to your
  1138. 46:07emotional, psychological, and nervous
  1139. 46:10system is is connected to your bank
  1140. 46:14account in some ways. So, here's the
  1141. 46:16rewire. I want you to try this this
  1142. 46:18week. Here's what I had to learn. It
  1143. 46:19took me a little bit of while. Money
  1144. 46:21doesn't make you anything. It magnifies
  1145. 46:24already what's inside of you. So if
  1146. 46:27you're a generous person with more
  1147. 46:30money, it gives you more to give. A
  1148. 46:32selfish person with more money, that
  1149. 46:35person's going to take more or going to
  1150. 46:37be less generous. The money didn't
  1151. 46:40decide, the person did. Who you are
  1152. 46:43decides. But knowing that doesn't kill
  1153. 46:46the guilt that's inside of you. And you
  1154. 46:48know what kills the guilt? It's giving
  1155. 46:50the money a job before it ever arrives.
  1156. 46:54So, here's the assignment. I want you to
  1157. 46:56pick your percentage today. Not when you
  1158. 46:59start making more money or when I make
  1159. 47:01this then I'll start doing this. I want
  1160. 47:04you to pick it today. And whatever you
  1161. 47:06currently make, 1%, 5%, 10%, whatever
  1162. 47:10the percent is for you, a quarter
  1163. 47:11percent. The number matters less than
  1164. 47:14the decision. Write down who or what it
  1165. 47:17goes to. then automate it so you never
  1166. 47:20have to decide that again. So, here's
  1167. 47:22why this beats any affirmation you could
  1168. 47:25say in the mirror. And I'm all about
  1169. 47:27like being positive and having positive
  1170. 47:29mantras and affirmations, but when you
  1171. 47:31automate things, it sets things up for
  1172. 47:35greater opportunities in the future. So,
  1173. 47:37once a percentage of every dollar is
  1174. 47:40already spoken for, making more stops
  1175. 47:43feeling like taking. It starts feeling
  1176. 47:46like funding. It starts feeling like
  1177. 47:50investing. It starts feeling like
  1178. 47:52generating for someone else or yourself
  1179. 47:55in the future, whatever it might be. And
  1180. 47:57the part nobody warns you about is your
  1181. 47:59ambition actually goes up. It doesn't go
  1182. 48:01down. Because now a bigger year isn't
  1183. 48:04about you. So stop asking whether it's
  1184. 48:07okay to want more. Start asking what you
  1185. 48:10do with that money. And when you start
  1186. 48:14to see clearly that, okay, when I make a
  1187. 48:17certain amount of money every month, I'm
  1188. 48:20going to put a certain amount away for
  1189. 48:22these different things. I don't care if
  1190. 48:24it's for a charity, for a side project,
  1191. 48:26for your future investments, whatever it
  1192. 48:28is, start doing that now. That way when
  1193. 48:32you earn more, it's automatically going
  1194. 48:35into the future of what you want to
  1195. 48:38create instead of, well, I don't know
  1196. 48:41what I want to create with this this
  1197. 48:42money, so I'm just going to hoard it in
  1198. 48:44my bank account and stash it and one day
  1199. 48:48I'll figure this out.
  1200. 48:50Who could you take care of with a little
  1201. 48:52bit more money or putting a little bit
  1202. 48:54of money away every single month? What
  1203. 48:56would you fund that you care about? What
  1204. 48:58is a cause that inspires you? What is a
  1205. 49:01pain that you experienced as a kid, as a
  1206. 49:04teenager, as a young adult that you wish
  1207. 49:07no one ever has to feel this pain ever
  1208. 49:10again? What is the thing you've had to
  1209. 49:12overcome that you want to eliminate?
  1210. 49:16There's got to be a cause. There's got
  1211. 49:18to be something that you could be of
  1212. 49:21service to with just a little bit every
  1213. 49:23month, a small percentage. And when you
  1214. 49:26earn more, just think of the impact that
  1215. 49:28percentage could do every single month
  1216. 49:31in the future. What problem could you
  1217. 49:33solve instead of just feeling bad about
  1218. 49:36instead of just complaining about
  1219. 49:37instead of just talking about or
  1220. 49:38criticizing about online? Instead of
  1221. 49:41judging the government for what they're
  1222. 49:43not doing or what they're doing right
  1223. 49:44and wrong or judging people who have
  1224. 49:47money of what they should be doing with
  1225. 49:48their money or judging your friends or
  1226. 49:51family for wasting my money, whatever it
  1227. 49:52is, what can you take ownership and
  1228. 49:55responsibility of that you're not doing
  1229. 49:58yet that will then empower you to make a
  1230. 50:01difference in that pain for someone
  1231. 50:03else. You're not chasing money at that
  1232. 50:06point. You're building capacity and
  1233. 50:10there's nothing to apologize
  1234. 50:13in that. This is a key. When I started
  1235. 50:16earning more money early on, I remember
  1236. 50:17thinking to myself, okay,
  1237. 50:20I've made a good amount of money. I
  1238. 50:23wasn't like, you know, millions in the
  1239. 50:25bank or something, but I had made a good
  1240. 50:26amount of money where I was like, all
  1241. 50:27right, I'm not on my sister's couch. I
  1242. 50:29can pay for an apartment. I'm going to
  1243. 50:31be if I make no more money for the next
  1244. 50:33two years, I'll be okay and I can
  1245. 50:35survive. And I remember thinking to
  1246. 50:37myself, okay, but now what? Now that I'm
  1247. 50:41out of survival mode,
  1248. 50:44what do I want to do with my life, with
  1249. 50:46my time, with my money? And I went
  1250. 50:49through this process. This was probably
  1251. 50:5015, 16 years ago. And I was really like,
  1252. 50:54you know, I suffered in school. Every
  1253. 50:58day was miserable. I don't think I
  1254. 51:01remember having one good day unless it
  1255. 51:03was like we were on a field trip all day
  1256. 51:05and it wasn't in a classroom. That was
  1257. 51:07maybe the only time I enjoyed school or
  1258. 51:09that one hour a day where we're in gym
  1259. 51:12class. That was like, you know, I just
  1260. 51:15remember being in the back of every
  1261. 51:16class, watching the clock tick every
  1262. 51:20single second for hours every day,
  1263. 51:24waiting for 2:30 or 3:00 or 3:30 or
  1264. 51:26whatever the the the school day ended
  1265. 51:29and just dreading it. Every single day
  1266. 51:32was dread until the clock was like the
  1267. 51:36final bell where I could get out there
  1268. 51:37and play some sports.
  1269. 51:39But as an adult, I remember thinking,
  1270. 51:43"Oh my gosh, the way that I got off my
  1271. 51:45sister's couch was through education,
  1272. 51:48was through wisdom, was through
  1273. 51:50knowledge from mentors that I had access
  1274. 51:52to, essentially teachers of life. And
  1275. 51:56these teachers gave me the information
  1276. 51:58and the challenges to go take action, to
  1277. 52:01develop the skills, to develop the
  1278. 52:03value, to therefore go earn money. And
  1279. 52:06without those individuals, without that
  1280. 52:09school of greatness that I was getting
  1281. 52:12before I launched the school of
  1282. 52:13greatness, I wouldn't be where I was at.
  1283. 52:16And I said, most people in most kids in
  1284. 52:19the world don't even have access to
  1285. 52:20schools. I at least had access. And so
  1286. 52:24early on, I said, let me find a charity
  1287. 52:27or charities that help kids around the
  1288. 52:29world who don't have school, that don't
  1289. 52:31have the ability to even dream because
  1290. 52:33they don't have a place to go to learn.
  1291. 52:35And that's why for the last 14 maybe 15
  1292. 52:38years we've been investing in Pencils of
  1293. 52:40Promise. Myself personally, my company,
  1294. 52:43we invest every year in helping build
  1295. 52:45schools, fund education for kids all
  1296. 52:47over the world. And it's something that
  1297. 52:50excites me to know that some of the
  1298. 52:53money, a percentage of the money is
  1299. 52:54going towards other people who we can
  1300. 52:58really make a difference in their lives.
  1301. 53:00So, the end of money belief number three
  1302. 53:02is wanting more makes me a bad person. I
  1303. 53:06want you to eliminate that, but you
  1304. 53:08eliminate it by making sure you're doing
  1305. 53:10things to help others and serve people
  1306. 53:12with your money as well. Money belief
  1307. 53:15number four. I need people to see that
  1308. 53:17I'm doing okay. I need people to see
  1309. 53:20that I'm doing okay. Spending to prove
  1310. 53:23instead of spending to build.
  1311. 53:26Why do so many people who look rich have
  1312. 53:30almost nothing behind it?
  1313. 53:34Because the spending was never
  1314. 53:36financial. It was emotional. And most
  1315. 53:38people aren't buying things. They're
  1316. 53:40buying a feeling. You know, we've all
  1317. 53:43been We've all done this before. You
  1318. 53:46know, I've bought things in the past
  1319. 53:48because I'm like, "Wow, this is going to
  1320. 53:49feel amazing." And it does feel amazing
  1321. 53:51for a period of time. And maybe those
  1322. 53:54new clothes or those new shoes or
  1323. 53:56whatever, buying a watch or a car makes
  1324. 53:58you feel like, "Yeah, I earned this.
  1325. 54:01Look at me. I feel good. There's an
  1326. 54:03upgrade." All these different things. I
  1327. 54:04don't think there's anything wrong with
  1328. 54:06buying something nice for yourself for a
  1329. 54:08feeling. But most people aren't buying
  1330. 54:11things. They're buying a feeling. The
  1331. 54:13feeling of finally being somebody. The
  1332. 54:16feeling of being taken seriously. The
  1333. 54:18feeling of not being the kid who had
  1334. 54:20less than everyone else. I know that's
  1335. 54:22how I felt. And when the belief running
  1336. 54:25your mind is, I need to prove I'm
  1337. 54:28enough. Then every dollar gets put into
  1338. 54:31that fight before it ever has a chance
  1339. 54:35to become anything. You're thinking,
  1340. 54:38when I make this money, I'm going to go
  1341. 54:40buy this thing. And it's just tied to
  1342. 54:42that belief system. And I've watched the
  1343. 54:44difference up close for years. People
  1344. 54:47who look wealthy buy things that lose
  1345. 54:51value. They're trying to look rich.
  1346. 54:54People who are wealthy buy things that
  1347. 54:58make value. One group buys the car, the
  1348. 55:02other group buys the thing that pays for
  1349. 55:04the car. And the second group is almost
  1350. 55:07always quieter about it. So here's the
  1351. 55:10tell. You'll feel this one in the in the
  1352. 55:13timing. The urge to buy gets strongest
  1353. 55:17right after something makes you feel
  1354. 55:19small.
  1355. 55:20A meeting that didn't go your way. You
  1356. 55:23didn't get the job opportunity. You got
  1357. 55:25rejected by a potential client. An old
  1358. 55:28classmate posting the vacation that they
  1359. 55:30just went on and the trip of the
  1360. 55:32lifetime to Europe. Uh a comment that
  1361. 55:34you can't stop thinking about, a
  1362. 55:36negative review,
  1363. 55:38and then the purchase arrives and the
  1364. 55:40feeling lasts for a few days, right?
  1365. 55:41It's like, okay, this feels good. I feel
  1366. 55:43better about me because I got this thing
  1367. 55:45because I didn't get this thing this
  1368. 55:47feeling in another way. The wild part is
  1369. 55:50the people you're trying to impress
  1370. 55:51aren't really thinking about you that
  1371. 55:52much. Maybe there's a few critics here
  1372. 55:54and there. Maybe there's a few people
  1373. 55:55talking behind your back for a moment,
  1374. 55:58but they're busy most likely trying to
  1375. 56:00impress someone else or trying to look
  1376. 56:02good in front of you or look good in
  1377. 56:04front of others. And it's a whole
  1378. 56:06economy built around a wound, an old
  1379. 56:09wound that holds people back. So, the
  1380. 56:12rewire, the thing that I want you to do
  1381. 56:14this week is I'm not going to tell you
  1382. 56:17to never enjoy your money. I really
  1383. 56:19think that money should be something
  1384. 56:21that you use to enrich your life. If you
  1385. 56:25want to buy anything nice, buy it.
  1386. 56:27That's your right. It's your money. I
  1387. 56:29enjoy mine and that's part of the point
  1388. 56:31of building it because what's the point
  1389. 56:33of working hard, working and adding
  1390. 56:36value to others to to generate an
  1391. 56:38income, saving it all in the bank and
  1392. 56:41never using it to experience life. This
  1393. 56:43is not what this is about. I have nice
  1394. 56:46things. I have, you know, nice trips.
  1395. 56:48Um, but for 15 years, I lived in a
  1396. 56:52two-bedroom apartment, and I was fine
  1397. 56:54with that as well. I didn't need a
  1398. 56:57house. I didn't need a car for many
  1399. 56:59years. I didn't have a car and I walked
  1400. 57:01everywhere. So, I've lived in both
  1401. 57:04scenarios. But you have to know which
  1402. 57:06one you're doing right now. So, put the
  1403. 57:09put two things between you and the next
  1404. 57:12big purchase. One is the 72hour rule.
  1405. 57:17So, if you were like, I really want to
  1406. 57:18buy this purse or these shoes or these
  1407. 57:20glasses or whatever this thing is, this
  1408. 57:21watch, this jewelry, this car, give
  1409. 57:24yourself a 72-hour rule. Anything
  1410. 57:26significant
  1411. 57:28waits three days. No exceptions. None.
  1412. 57:31If you're buying food, that's different.
  1413. 57:33But if you're trying to buy some big
  1414. 57:34purchase, give yourself three days. And
  1415. 57:37in those three days, ask one question.
  1416. 57:39Am I buying this to feel something? Or
  1417. 57:42am I buying this to build something?
  1418. 57:45Again, am I buying this to feel worthy
  1419. 57:47or enough or like I made it? Or am I
  1420. 57:50doing this to build something? The
  1421. 57:52purchases that are really about proving
  1422. 57:55something almost never survive 72 hours
  1423. 57:58if you give yourself a few days. And
  1424. 58:00it's not about willpower. That's the
  1425. 58:02feeling wearing off before you've ever
  1426. 58:05paid for it. Step two is learn to see
  1427. 58:08the second price tag. Now, this is a big
  1428. 58:10one. Every purchase has two prices. What
  1429. 58:14it costs today and what that money could
  1430. 58:18have become. So, here's a rough shortcut
  1431. 58:21you can run in your head. Historically,
  1432. 58:23money invested around 7% has tended to
  1433. 58:27roughly double about every 10 years.
  1434. 58:30That's an average. It's not a promise.
  1435. 58:33No uh no year looks like the average,
  1436. 58:35but it's close enough to think with as
  1437. 58:38this model. So, $1,000 today isn't just
  1438. 58:41$1,000. Over 20 years, it's closer to
  1439. 58:45four. I'm not saying that to make you
  1440. 58:47feel guilty about spending. I'm saying
  1441. 58:49it so you see both prices before you
  1442. 58:52choose on what you buy. Most people only
  1443. 58:55ever see one price. I'm going to buy
  1444. 58:58this thing. Here's how much it costs.
  1445. 59:00And then do one last thing this month.
  1446. 59:03Make a purchase that no one will ever
  1447. 59:05see. An investment of course, a skill, a
  1448. 59:09share of something small, whatever it
  1449. 59:11might be. Make an investment on
  1450. 59:13something that you're going to invest in
  1451. 59:15yourself that will support you.
  1452. 59:17something that will never get a single
  1453. 59:19compliment. What is that thing? It could
  1454. 59:20be an investment in yourself. Again, a
  1455. 59:22training, a course, whatever it might
  1456. 59:23be, uh a share of something, whatever.
  1457. 59:26That's how you'll know that you finally
  1458. 59:28am building for yourself and not for an
  1459. 59:30audience that's even watching. That's
  1460. 59:33end of money belief number four, that I
  1461. 59:35need people to see that I'm doing okay.
  1462. 59:39And money belief number five, you don't
  1463. 59:41talk about money. the silence that keeps
  1464. 59:44every other belief alive. Why do people
  1465. 59:48make real progress with money and then
  1466. 59:51slide all the way back? Because the one
  1467. 59:54belief no one ever says out loud. We
  1468. 59:57don't talk about money. We don't talk
  1469. 1:00:01about Brun. No. Isn't that a song? We
  1470. 1:00:03don't talk about money. That should be a
  1471. 1:00:05new song that most people have. But we
  1472. 1:00:07need to break that belief. It's rude.
  1473. 1:00:11It's private. It's bragging. When I talk
  1474. 1:00:13about money, it makes people
  1475. 1:00:15uncomfortable. So, everyone stays quiet.
  1476. 1:00:16We don't talk about it. We never talked
  1477. 1:00:18about money growing up. My parents
  1478. 1:00:19didn't talk about it. My siblings don't
  1479. 1:00:21talk about how much they make in their
  1480. 1:00:23careers. We don't talk about money. We
  1481. 1:00:25stay quiet. And here's what that silence
  1482. 1:00:27actually is costing you. You have no
  1483. 1:00:30idea what anyone actually makes. You
  1484. 1:00:33have no idea what anything should cost.
  1485. 1:00:36You have no idea how the person ahead of
  1486. 1:00:39you got there because you've never been
  1487. 1:00:41allowed to ask. You've never been able
  1488. 1:00:43to talk about it. It's been taboo. So,
  1489. 1:00:46you learn money the same way that you
  1490. 1:00:48learned it as a kid by guessing, by
  1491. 1:00:51watching, by mimicking, by absorbing
  1492. 1:00:54whatever is in the room, whatever the
  1493. 1:00:55energy is. Okay, I don't want to ruffle
  1494. 1:00:57any feathers. Secrecy is how bad money
  1495. 1:01:01beliefs survive.
  1496. 1:01:04Secrecy is how bad money beliefs
  1497. 1:01:06survive. Nobody challenges them because
  1498. 1:01:09nobody says them out loud. And it starts
  1499. 1:01:12with your own numbers. Most people can't
  1500. 1:01:15tell you what they spent last month.
  1501. 1:01:17They have no clue how much they spent
  1502. 1:01:20last month, how much they've saved, how
  1503. 1:01:22much they're investing, how much debt
  1504. 1:01:24they have. They have no clue because
  1505. 1:01:26they're afraid to look at it. They're
  1506. 1:01:27afraid to talk about it. They're afraid
  1507. 1:01:29that you know about it for judging them
  1508. 1:01:32because you're farther ahead, for
  1509. 1:01:34judging them because you're behind,
  1510. 1:01:36whatever it might be. They can't tell
  1511. 1:01:38you what they owe or what they own. Not
  1512. 1:01:41because they're responsible, because
  1513. 1:01:42looking feels worse than not looking. I
  1514. 1:01:46know this feeling.
  1515. 1:01:48When I was living off three credit
  1516. 1:01:50cards, I didn't want to look at how much
  1517. 1:01:53interest I was paying every single month
  1518. 1:01:55because I felt ashamed. I felt guilty. I
  1519. 1:01:59felt bad. I felt less than. I felt like
  1520. 1:02:02I'm failing every single day, every
  1521. 1:02:04single month. I haven't paid off my
  1522. 1:02:07credit cards. I am failing. And
  1523. 1:02:09therefore, I just wanted to go spend
  1524. 1:02:13money on something to feel better about
  1525. 1:02:15me, to fulfill the hole that I was
  1526. 1:02:18lacking. For me, I never like buying
  1527. 1:02:21things was not like a thing. I didn't
  1528. 1:02:22want to go buy clothes or watches. Like
  1529. 1:02:24I could care less about those things.
  1530. 1:02:25For me, it was like, I want to go buy
  1531. 1:02:27some food. I want to go buy some sugar.
  1532. 1:02:29I want to buy some pizza, some ice cream
  1533. 1:02:31that's got to make me feel good because
  1534. 1:02:33I have this hole inside of me that says
  1535. 1:02:34I'm not enough. That says I'm I'm
  1536. 1:02:37behind. That says I'm lacking. That says
  1537. 1:02:38I'm a loser. And no one wants to feel
  1538. 1:02:42bad or wrong. We don't want to feel that
  1539. 1:02:45way. So, we will do anything we can to
  1540. 1:02:48take that pain away. Think about who you
  1541. 1:02:51talk to about money right now. Do you
  1542. 1:02:54talk to anyone about money? Do you share
  1543. 1:02:56everything? Do you not share everything?
  1544. 1:02:58Do you tell your friends everything? Do
  1545. 1:03:01you not talk to them? Do you tell your
  1546. 1:03:03partner, your girlfriend, your
  1547. 1:03:04boyfriend, your spouse, how much you
  1548. 1:03:07make, how much debt you have, the
  1549. 1:03:10financial mistakes you've made? Are you
  1550. 1:03:12married and do you not know how much
  1551. 1:03:14your spouse makes? Like just and think
  1552. 1:03:17about this for now. It doesn't mean
  1553. 1:03:18there's a right or wrong, good or bad.
  1554. 1:03:20It just means there's a belief and these
  1555. 1:03:22beliefs either serve you or they hold
  1556. 1:03:24you back. For most people, the honest
  1557. 1:03:26answer is nobody. You don't talk about
  1558. 1:03:28money with nobody. We don't talk about
  1559. 1:03:31money. Do and the conversations they do
  1560. 1:03:34have are all kind of like compliments or
  1561. 1:03:36surface level or whatever it might be.
  1562. 1:03:39Or they compliment you on wow that's so
  1563. 1:03:41expensive that you got that. You know
  1564. 1:03:43how the rig how the system might be
  1565. 1:03:45rigged. It's all against you. You know
  1566. 1:03:47the government is rigged. Corporate
  1567. 1:03:48America is rigged. I hate all of this.
  1568. 1:03:51The taxes is rigged. Whatever it might
  1569. 1:03:53be, rich people are rigged. They're
  1570. 1:03:55stealing everything. Whatever it might
  1571. 1:03:56be, whatever the belief is, how we're
  1572. 1:03:59all just trying to get by. You know,
  1573. 1:04:01that's not a money conversation. That's
  1574. 1:04:03a group argument to stay exactly where
  1575. 1:04:07you are. And it's really a group
  1576. 1:04:09agreement to stay exactly where you are,
  1577. 1:04:12arguing about things that you just don't
  1578. 1:04:13like in the world. And here's where you
  1579. 1:04:15got to rewire things. I want you to do
  1580. 1:04:17this this week. There's two assignments.
  1581. 1:04:19One with yourself and one with somebody
  1582. 1:04:21else. First, go learn your four numbers.
  1583. 1:04:25What came in last month? What went out
  1584. 1:04:28last month? How much did you spend? How
  1585. 1:04:29much did you bring in? What you owe? And
  1586. 1:04:32what you own. That's it. Four numbers.
  1587. 1:04:35What came in, what came out last month,
  1588. 1:04:38what you own, and what you owe. Maybe
  1589. 1:04:40you don't own anything right now except
  1590. 1:04:42for some clothes and a little bit of
  1591. 1:04:43jewelry or something or a car. Um, but
  1592. 1:04:47just take inventory of everything you
  1593. 1:04:48own and everything you owe. Do you have
  1594. 1:04:51debt? Do you have loans? Do you have uh
  1595. 1:04:54receipts you still haven't paid to
  1596. 1:04:55friends? Whatever it might be. Four
  1597. 1:04:57numbers. It takes about
  1598. 1:04:5930 minutes to get this information and
  1599. 1:05:02it's done. And I'll tell you what
  1600. 1:05:04happens when you do this. The anxiety
  1601. 1:05:06doesn't go up. It starts to go down.
  1602. 1:05:08It's just because you have the knowledge
  1603. 1:05:12of what you've been spending, what
  1604. 1:05:14you've been bringing in, what you own,
  1605. 1:05:15and what you owe. Just that knowledge.
  1606. 1:05:18Maybe you don't like seeing it right
  1607. 1:05:20away, but at least it gives you clarity
  1608. 1:05:23because vague fear is always bigger than
  1609. 1:05:25a real number. And when you have clarity
  1610. 1:05:28of these numbers, now you can create a
  1611. 1:05:30game plan. And you cannot negotiate with
  1612. 1:05:33a feeling. You can absolutely work with
  1613. 1:05:35a number. It may be challenging to
  1614. 1:05:38overcome, but at least you can start to
  1615. 1:05:40work with it with a real game plan. And
  1616. 1:05:43second is I want you to have a real
  1617. 1:05:45conversation this week with someone.
  1618. 1:05:48Find someone further along than you and
  1619. 1:05:52ask them these three things. What would
  1620. 1:05:55you do if you were me right now? That
  1621. 1:05:57means you got to share where you're at.
  1622. 1:05:59What did that actually cost you?
  1623. 1:06:03And what's the mistake you'd undo if you
  1624. 1:06:05could? So, what would you do if you were
  1625. 1:06:07me right now? What did something that
  1626. 1:06:10they have actually cost you? That car,
  1627. 1:06:12that watch, that nice thing, that home,
  1628. 1:06:14what did that cost you? And what's the
  1629. 1:06:16mistake you could undo if you could
  1630. 1:06:19notice that none of those are what's
  1631. 1:06:23your advice? Right? They're specific
  1632. 1:06:25enough that people answer them honestly.
  1633. 1:06:28And most people will tell you that
  1634. 1:06:31they've just never been asked. You know,
  1635. 1:06:33most people don't ask these things. And
  1636. 1:06:35while you're at it, go find out what
  1637. 1:06:38your
  1638. 1:06:39work pays somewhere else. So, the job
  1639. 1:06:42you're at right now, if you're at a job,
  1640. 1:06:44if you're a business owner, this is
  1641. 1:06:45something different. But if you're at a
  1642. 1:06:46career or work, go ask where this job
  1643. 1:06:49may pay you somewhere else. Like how
  1644. 1:06:51much it pays for the role you're in at
  1645. 1:06:53another company. The same role, the same
  1646. 1:06:55service, but maybe a different market.
  1647. 1:06:58People stay underpaid for years for a
  1648. 1:07:02number of reasons, but one of them is no
  1649. 1:07:03one ever told them the number like
  1650. 1:07:05here's how much you can actually make
  1651. 1:07:07somewhere else or in this space. Now, it
  1652. 1:07:10all depends on the job market. Um, you
  1653. 1:07:13know, what you've created, how many
  1654. 1:07:15years you're in right now, but you can
  1655. 1:07:16ask in other places like, hey, how much
  1656. 1:07:18are you making? Ask your friends who are
  1657. 1:07:20at the same level of career that you're
  1658. 1:07:22at, how much are you making here? just
  1659. 1:07:23to get a better understanding and that
  1660. 1:07:26will give you more knowledge, more
  1661. 1:07:28wisdom and more information to be able
  1662. 1:07:30to hopefully take action on certain
  1663. 1:07:32things in your life right now. And
  1664. 1:07:33that's the end of money belief number
  1665. 1:07:35five. You don't talk about money. For
  1666. 1:07:38me, money is something that I like to
  1667. 1:07:40talk about often. And I almost like to
  1668. 1:07:42make people uncomfortable by asking
  1669. 1:07:44these questions. I don't know why. Maybe
  1670. 1:07:45it's just more my personality, but I
  1671. 1:07:47like to ask people to see like how
  1672. 1:07:48comfortable they are. And maybe because
  1673. 1:07:50I've been an entrepreneur for so long
  1674. 1:07:52and the entrepreneurial community talks
  1675. 1:07:55about numbers more than the non-
  1676. 1:07:57entrepreneurial community. So I invest
  1677. 1:08:00in masterminds, I invest in coaches, I
  1678. 1:08:02go to business conferences and people
  1679. 1:08:05are sharing the numbers in these circles
  1680. 1:08:08and in these spaces. So I've just felt
  1681. 1:08:10more comfortable because it's something
  1682. 1:08:12I've been a part of and invested in
  1683. 1:08:14learning about for a long time. But I
  1684. 1:08:17want to give you a 30-day challenge,
  1685. 1:08:20one number a week. So if you're sitting
  1686. 1:08:22there right now and you're feeling all
  1687. 1:08:24of this, if you're feeling like, "Okay,
  1688. 1:08:26where do I actually start?" Louis, I'm
  1689. 1:08:28not going to give you a list of things
  1690. 1:08:29to feel for the next 30 days. You're
  1691. 1:08:32going to get four numbers, one a week.
  1692. 1:08:35That's the whole challenge. Because
  1693. 1:08:36every belief we talked about today
  1694. 1:08:39survives on you not looking.
  1695. 1:08:43Week one, what you actually keep. So,
  1696. 1:08:47what came in, what went out and what's
  1697. 1:08:50left, what you actually keep. Now, what
  1698. 1:08:53you earn, excuse me, not what you earn,
  1699. 1:08:56but what you keep at the end of the day.
  1700. 1:08:58Because you might earn a certain amount,
  1701. 1:08:59but then you spend so much that you
  1702. 1:09:01actually don't keep any. Those are two
  1703. 1:09:03completely different numbers. And only
  1704. 1:09:05one of them builds anything. So, that's
  1705. 1:09:08week number one. what you actually keep
  1706. 1:09:12after what you bring in and the expenses
  1707. 1:09:15that go out. Week number two, your real
  1708. 1:09:18hourly earnings. So last month's income
  1709. 1:09:21divided by the the hours that you
  1710. 1:09:23actually worked. Then ask whether you're
  1711. 1:09:26being paid for effort or being paid for
  1712. 1:09:28value. And value is the results that you
  1713. 1:09:30get more so than the effort. Week three,
  1714. 1:09:33what you're worth somewhere else. So
  1715. 1:09:36find out what your role or your service
  1716. 1:09:38if you're a business owner pays in
  1717. 1:09:40another market. So if you're at a
  1718. 1:09:42career, you can ask around your friends,
  1719. 1:09:44hey, how much you making? You know,
  1720. 1:09:46maybe that's just an uncomfortable
  1721. 1:09:48conversation that just gets you
  1722. 1:09:49open-minded to exploring that. Now, it
  1723. 1:09:51doesn't mean you're going to go
  1724. 1:09:52necessarily make that right away. Maybe
  1725. 1:09:54another company hires you, maybe not.
  1726. 1:09:56But it's just to see where other people
  1727. 1:09:58are at in your space, at your age range
  1728. 1:10:01or your experience or your value and
  1729. 1:10:03what they're making. If you're a
  1730. 1:10:04business owner in an industry, maybe
  1731. 1:10:06you're in an industry right now that's
  1732. 1:10:08just not paying you well for your
  1733. 1:10:10services. Maybe there's a different
  1734. 1:10:12industry that if you were in sales in
  1735. 1:10:15one industry and it's not paying that
  1736. 1:10:17well, but a different industry, it could
  1737. 1:10:19pay you double if you were a salesperson
  1738. 1:10:22with a higher ticket price offering. You
  1739. 1:10:25might be able to earn more in a
  1740. 1:10:26different industry. Now, jumping from
  1741. 1:10:28one industry to the next, maybe it's
  1742. 1:10:30easy, but maybe you need to learn a
  1743. 1:10:32certain set of skills in order to be
  1744. 1:10:33able to move over there and transfer
  1745. 1:10:35those skills. Maybe you need to develop
  1746. 1:10:36relationships, whatever it might be. But
  1747. 1:10:38it gives you information of what could
  1748. 1:10:40be possible somewhere else. And week
  1749. 1:10:43four, your ceiling, the most you've ever
  1750. 1:10:46let sit in your bank account for 30
  1751. 1:10:49days. What is that number? That's the
  1752. 1:10:51number your mind has been defending this
  1753. 1:10:53whole time. the mind feeling like, "Wow,
  1754. 1:10:56that's so much. I don't know if I could
  1755. 1:10:58ever go beyond that." Now you know what
  1756. 1:11:01you're up what you're actually up
  1757. 1:11:03against. Four numbers, 30 days. And one
  1758. 1:11:07thing running underneath it all
  1759. 1:11:11every week, say one of those numbers out
  1760. 1:11:14loud to another human being. It's the
  1761. 1:11:16fear. It's the insecurity. It's what are
  1762. 1:11:18people going to think of me? That's
  1763. 1:11:20actually the part that breaks the
  1764. 1:11:23programming. You learning to have
  1765. 1:11:26courage to be able to speak up and be
  1766. 1:11:29seen by others about where you currently
  1767. 1:11:33are. This will change the game. When you
  1768. 1:11:36stop feeling guilty and insecure and
  1769. 1:11:38embarrassed and not enough and a loser
  1770. 1:11:40for where you're at, and you start
  1771. 1:11:42feeling comfortable with where you're
  1772. 1:11:44at, maybe you don't enjoy it, but you're
  1773. 1:11:46comfortable to talk about it. That gives
  1774. 1:11:48you a place to grow. You're not hiding
  1775. 1:11:50anymore. You're actually saying, "All
  1776. 1:11:52right, now I can create a game plan to
  1777. 1:11:55allow me to start building from where
  1778. 1:11:57I'm at now." When I was on my sister's
  1779. 1:11:59couch for a year and a half, living off
  1780. 1:12:02three credit cards, I didn't feel
  1781. 1:12:05worthy. I didn't feel enough. I felt
  1782. 1:12:07like a loser every single day. But it at
  1783. 1:12:10least it didn't keep me from putting
  1784. 1:12:13myself out there and asking people who
  1785. 1:12:16were 10 years ahead of me, 20 years
  1786. 1:12:18ahead of me, who had earned and overcome
  1787. 1:12:20those challenges. I asked them
  1788. 1:12:22questions. I shared with them where I'm
  1789. 1:12:24at. I talked about where I was
  1790. 1:12:26struggling financially. I was willing to
  1791. 1:12:29reveal myself. It didn't feel good in
  1792. 1:12:32the beginning, but it gave me a game
  1793. 1:12:34plan. It showed me where I am and where
  1794. 1:12:37others were and where I wanted to be.
  1795. 1:12:40And by getting the wisdom and experience
  1796. 1:12:42and the knowledge from others and having
  1797. 1:12:44the comfort level to communicate these
  1798. 1:12:46things, it didn't make making more
  1799. 1:12:50scarier. It made it something easier.
  1800. 1:12:53And that's what I want for you. And it
  1801. 1:12:55doesn't mean it always happens
  1802. 1:12:56overnight. You know, it took me some
  1803. 1:12:57years to figure these things out and
  1804. 1:12:59start building. I had to overcome
  1805. 1:13:00myself. I had to develop more skills. I
  1806. 1:13:02had to learn how to add way more value.
  1807. 1:13:04and get much bigger results for people.
  1808. 1:13:07I had to learn all these different
  1809. 1:13:08things that took time. When you do this
  1810. 1:13:11day over day, it's going to be able to
  1811. 1:13:13bring more to your life. And you'll be
  1812. 1:13:15making decisions with information
  1813. 1:13:17instead of fear. Because when you don't
  1814. 1:13:20talk about something, it probably means
  1815. 1:13:22you're afraid of it. And when you make
  1816. 1:13:24decisions based on something you're
  1817. 1:13:26afraid of instead of something you have
  1818. 1:13:29knowledge around, you're probably going
  1819. 1:13:31to be living in scarcity much more
  1820. 1:13:33because of that fear. And everything
  1821. 1:13:36downstream of that fear changes. So I
  1822. 1:13:40want to leave you with this. You're not
  1823. 1:13:43behind because you're lazy or not
  1824. 1:13:45motivated.
  1825. 1:13:47And you're not stuck because you aren't
  1826. 1:13:49smart enough. I'm telling you right now,
  1827. 1:13:52I was in the bottom of my class and I
  1828. 1:13:54felt like I was one of the dumbest
  1829. 1:13:56people that I was always around.
  1830. 1:13:58I guarantee you, you watching this right
  1831. 1:14:01now, you're probably way smarter than
  1832. 1:14:04you think. And you can probably beat me
  1833. 1:14:06on every school test that there is. So,
  1834. 1:14:08I know you're smarter than me in a lot
  1835. 1:14:10of ways.
  1836. 1:14:12It's not about being smart. It's about
  1837. 1:14:14having courage to overcome the emotional
  1838. 1:14:16fears that are holding you back. and you
  1839. 1:14:19didn't fail some test uh of wanting it
  1840. 1:14:23badly enough.
  1841. 1:14:25I know you want something bad. You've
  1842. 1:14:28been carrying beliefs that you never
  1843. 1:14:30agreed to. These are just things that
  1844. 1:14:33have been passed down and it's never
  1845. 1:14:35something you wanted. It's just
  1846. 1:14:36something that became a part of your
  1847. 1:14:40emotional nervous system. And the only
  1848. 1:14:42reason that they've held up this long is
  1849. 1:14:44that nobody ever read them back to you.
  1850. 1:14:47Well, now
  1851. 1:14:49hopefully this has hopefully this
  1852. 1:14:51experience, this moment, this
  1853. 1:14:52conversation, I'm reading these things
  1854. 1:14:54back to you. I'm saying these things
  1855. 1:14:56back to you that you've probably
  1856. 1:14:57experienced or felt some of these
  1857. 1:14:59because the people I've met with real
  1858. 1:15:01wealth and with peace in their heart. I
  1859. 1:15:04am telling you right now, they aren't
  1860. 1:15:06necessarily more smarter or more
  1861. 1:15:08talented than you. Some of them are.
  1862. 1:15:10Some of them are actually really smart
  1863. 1:15:12and really talented. But I'm telling
  1864. 1:15:13you, a majority of people that I've met
  1865. 1:15:15who have a lot more wealth. They're not
  1866. 1:15:19smarter or more talented. Again, there's
  1867. 1:15:22a few, but not all of them are like way
  1868. 1:15:24smarter and more talented than you. I
  1869. 1:15:26guarantee I'm not. But I have developed
  1870. 1:15:29a skill set that has allowed me to
  1871. 1:15:31believe I'm capable of earning more. And
  1872. 1:15:35that is the difference. There's people
  1873. 1:15:37who are going to be so much smarter than
  1874. 1:15:39me that could out debate me on
  1875. 1:15:40everything, that could out, you know,
  1876. 1:15:42test me on everything, that could be way
  1877. 1:15:46more talented in a lot of things. But if
  1878. 1:15:48there is an emotional belief that is
  1879. 1:15:50holding them back, that has a ceiling of
  1880. 1:15:52what they believe they're deserving of
  1881. 1:15:54earning, then it just means they're
  1882. 1:15:56going to be limited on what that
  1883. 1:15:57financial ability is. And most of them
  1884. 1:16:01aren't even working harder than you. I
  1885. 1:16:03guarantee you're working your butt off.
  1886. 1:16:05I know you are. They just stopped
  1887. 1:16:08guessing. They know their numbers. They
  1888. 1:16:11say them out loud. They write them down.
  1889. 1:16:13They're clear on what they bring in,
  1890. 1:16:16what's going out, what their goals for
  1891. 1:16:18the future are. They ask the questions
  1892. 1:16:20the rest of us are maybe too polite to
  1893. 1:16:23ask, or they don't want to ruffle any
  1894. 1:16:25feathers with their friends or their
  1895. 1:16:27family or their community. And that's
  1896. 1:16:29something that you can start today. You
  1897. 1:16:31don't have to wait to feel confident to
  1898. 1:16:34ask questions or to learn your numbers.
  1899. 1:16:37Not with a windfall, not with a perfect
  1900. 1:16:39plan. You don't you don't need to have
  1901. 1:16:41everything perfect to start today with
  1902. 1:16:44one number you've been avoiding and one
  1903. 1:16:47belief you finally put down. If you want
  1904. 1:16:49to go deeper on everything we've
  1905. 1:16:51covered, I wrote a book about this
  1906. 1:16:55because this is the book that I wish I
  1907. 1:16:57had when I was in my early 20s when I
  1908. 1:17:00was suffering emotionally and
  1909. 1:17:01psychologically and in my nervous system
  1910. 1:17:03around money. And the book is called
  1911. 1:17:05Make Money Easy. The link is in the
  1912. 1:17:07description right below. And if one of
  1913. 1:17:11these five beliefs hit a little too
  1914. 1:17:14close, then tell me which number in the
  1915. 1:17:16comments, cuz I like reading as many of
  1916. 1:17:18these comments and commenting as well,
  1917. 1:17:21because the moment you can see the
  1918. 1:17:22belief, you are no longer the one being
  1919. 1:17:26run by the belief. And that's where all
  1920. 1:17:29of this starts. Again, the book is
  1921. 1:17:31called Make Money Easy. This is the book
  1922. 1:17:34that I wish I had where it helps you
  1923. 1:17:36identify your money style. It helps you
  1924. 1:17:38develop a powerful money mindset so you
  1925. 1:17:41can earn more. It helps you create a
  1926. 1:17:43money map to reach clear financial
  1927. 1:17:46goals. It helps you appreciate your
  1928. 1:17:48value and discover your hidden skills
  1929. 1:17:51for greater earning potential. And it
  1930. 1:17:53helps you find money mentors
  1931. 1:17:56to support you in believing what's
  1932. 1:18:00possible for the future. So when you
  1933. 1:18:02change your mindset around money, your
  1934. 1:18:04entire life becomes richer. So the link
  1935. 1:18:07is in the description or you can go
  1936. 1:18:09online and get it. Make money easy. It's
  1937. 1:18:11also translated in a lot of different
  1938. 1:18:13languages, Spanish, Portuguese, many
  1939. 1:18:15other languages. Check out the book if
  1940. 1:18:17you feel like this has added value. This
  1941. 1:18:19has supported you. This book goes deeper
  1942. 1:18:22in helping you break down the beliefs
  1943. 1:18:25that are holding you back and setting
  1944. 1:18:27you up for financial freedom. I hope
  1945. 1:18:29you've enjoyed this episode. Let me know
  1946. 1:18:33the belief that has held you back the
  1947. 1:18:35most below.
  1948. 1:18:36Start taking action because you're
  1949. 1:18:39worthy and deserving [music]
  1950. 1:18:40of earning more. What if everything you
  1951. 1:18:42were taught about building wealth was
  1952. 1:18:44designed to keep you broke? The people
  1953. 1:18:47who often talk [music] about money
  1954. 1:18:49around you have never actually built
  1955. 1:18:51wealth themselves. Think about it. Your
  1956. 1:18:54parents taught you what [music] they
  1957. 1:18:55knew. Society taught you to get a job,
  1958. 1:18:58save a little when you can, retire
  1959. 1:18:59someday if you're lucky.

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