Your man is not asking for much — Transcript

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1. 0:00Your man is not asking for much. He's
2. 0:02asking for peace, and a lot of women
3. 0:04don't even know what that means.
4. 0:05>> [music]
5. 0:05>> Peace isn't silence, and it isn't you
6. 0:09shutting up when you're mad. [music]
7. 0:11It's a coming home to a woman who isn't
8. 0:13at war with him. Someone who doesn't
9. 0:15pick fights over the dishes, doesn't
10. 0:17withhold affection as punishment,
11. 0:19doesn't [music] drag his mistakes from 3
12. 0:21years ago back out every time he forgets
13. 0:23to text. [music] Men don't leave because
14. 0:25you gained weight. They [singing] leave
15. 0:27because the house feels like
16. 0:29um a battlefield, and they're tired of
17. 0:32being [music]
18. 0:32cast as the enemy in it. You want to
19. 0:34know why he works late, why he takes the
20. 0:37long way home, [singing] why he seems so
21. 0:39far [music] away? Home stopped being a
22. 0:42his refuge and became the place where he
23. 0:44gets attacked. This is what so many
24. 0:46women miss. When a man feels respected,
25. 0:49desired, and at peace, he will move
26. 0:51mountains for [music] you. He'll
27. 0:53provide, protect, rebuild, stay loyal,
28. 0:56but drain him, criticize every move,
29. 0:58make him feel like nothing he does is
30. 1:00ever enough, and he won't explode. He'll
31. 1:02quietly unplug, and by the time you
32. 1:04notice, he's already gone. You can have
33. 1:07the marriage you want, or you can have
34. 1:08your ego. Pick one tonight. Softness is
35. 1:11not weakness, and my book explains why
36. 1:13it's the strength [music] almost nobody
37. 1:15manages. It's in my bio.