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0:00So, you're sitting there, looking around
0:02at your life, looking around at your
0:04reality, and thinking, "When the heck is
0:07anything going to change?" Okay? Why
0:09does my bank account look like this
0:11every single month? Why is it always in
0:13the zeros? Why am I always end up with
0:16the same guy, just in a different font?
0:18Like, this is the same guy in a
0:19different font treating me the exact
0:21same way. Why am I still at this crappy
0:24job, no matter how much I want to leave
0:25it? Why is my life still like this? I
0:27have an amazing, [ __ ] big ass
0:30vision of things I want to accomplish,
0:32and things I want to do for myself, and
0:34things I want to bring into my reality.
0:35So, why is everything always the same?
0:38And no matter how much I try, I always
0:41end up stuck in the same old reality.
0:45What the heck is going on? Well, what if
0:48I told you that none of that is random?
0:50You don't randomly just get zeros in
0:52your bank account every single month.
0:53You don't randomly just manifest or
0:56bring about the same guy every single
0:57time. You don't just randomly bring
0:59about your life every single day. Your
1:01life looking the same way every single
1:03day is not random. It's patterns. It's
1:06an analysis. An analysis of something
1:09called your identity. Okay? Because
1:12identity, unconsciously, is keeping you
1:15stuck in this reality. Why? Because it's
1:18predictable, it's safe, it's reliable,
1:21and it's something your identity and
1:22your brain and your nervous system is
1:25used to. So, it keeps bringing the same
1:28things. And this is backed up by
1:30science. Cuz I went down an entire
1:32rabbit hole. An entire rabbit hole
1:34searching up all of these manifestors,
1:36all of these psychologists, all of these
1:38neurologists. I've studied so many
1:40documentaries on how identity slowly
1:43[ __ ] up your life and keeps you stuck
1:46in the same reality because it is safe,
1:49because it is familiar, and because it
1:50is easier for your brain and your body
1:53to be comfortable and responsive to.
1:55Okay? So, in this video, we're going to
1:57be talking everything identity, how it
1:59influences your reality, how it keep you
2:01stuck in the same reality you're living
2:03right now, and how to completely
2:05dismantle it and break out of it so that
2:07you can actually bring about the life
2:09you truly, truly want. If you're
2:11interested in that, then this is
2:12definitely the video for you to be
2:14watching. So, let's not waste any time
2:16and let's get into it.
2:18>> [music]
2:22[music]
2:25>> Hello, everyone. It's Kutnia. Welcome to
2:27the channel. On the channel, we talk all
2:29about closing the gap between your
2:30current self and your desired self so
2:32that you can manifest the reality you
2:34truly, truly want. Because on this
2:36channel, we are dedicated to manifesting
2:38the reality we truly want. Whether that
2:41is your dream job, whether that is more
2:43confidence, whether that is more money,
2:45whether that is a better life
2:46completely, okay? We are here to
2:49manifest and bring about everything you
2:51want in your life. And I heavily,
2:53heavily emphasize on you learning what
2:56identity is because it is the main
2:59source and the key because it is you.
3:00There's a quote, I'm not sure from what
3:02philosopher or what person I heard this
3:04from, but you can run away from
3:07everything and everyone else, but the
3:09one thing, the one person, the one mind
3:12you will never be able to run away from
3:15or escape is yourself. It is you. It is
3:18your identity. That is what makes it so
3:20important and so influential to your
3:23reality. Now, the research I'm about to
3:25share with you guys in today's video has
3:27come on a long way from so many
3:29different manifestors, so many different
3:31neurologists, so many different
3:33psychologists. It has come on a long way
3:35with so many studies that I want to
3:36break down. Of course, I can't break it
3:38all down, but that's why I've simplified
3:39it for you guys. Now, the video will be
3:41divided into two parts, one being what
3:44identity is, the concept behind
3:46identity, the theory behind identity.
3:48And the second part of the video will be
3:50broken down into how to dismantle your
3:51identity and build one that's actually
3:53going to get you the life you truly
3:56truly want. Let's not waste any time and
3:58let's get into the very first chapter.
4:00Now, chapter number one is the identity
4:02loop, okay? After compiling all of my
4:05research that I have done on basically
4:08everything I could on identity, I have
4:10came down to the loop and I've mentioned
4:12this loop so many times on my channel
4:14before, but that is because of how
4:16important it is and how much it truly
4:18impacts your reality. Now,
4:20gone through the narrative identity
4:22theory. I've gone through the attachment
4:24identity theory. I've gone through the
4:26self-concept. I've gone through so many
4:27things by so many um of these
4:30manifesters and these people that
4:32dedicate their life to understanding how
4:34we as human beings, how our brain
4:35influences our world. I've done so much
4:37research on it and I've compiled it into
4:39one loop called the identity loop that
4:42I've personally created, of course. Now,
4:44the identity loop consists of five steps
4:46that reinforces your identity, okay? So,
4:49let's break this down and put it on a
4:51map real quick, okay? Now, the identity
4:53itself, okay? The identity itself is
4:56you. It is not you, but it's in your
4:59mind. It's all the beliefs you have of
5:01yourself, all the things you have
5:02experienced in your life, all the things
5:04you have gone through, all the things
5:05you have learned and picked up and
5:07inherited on the way. Like the social
5:09identity theory, you inherit so many
5:12beliefs, so many perceptions, you
5:14inherit so many beliefs when you first
5:16grow up. You start to pick up beliefs
5:18about what money is, how you experience
5:20money. You start to pick up beliefs
5:21about what love is. You start to pick up
5:23beliefs about what people are, what the
5:25world is, how you're going to experience
5:27it, what makes you different, what makes
5:29you unique, what makes you you. You That
5:31is your identity, okay? It's broken down
5:33into so many different fragments and
5:35parts. Some of your identity is
5:37inherited by your parents, by your
5:39churches, by your religion, by your
5:41friends. Some of it is you, things you
5:43have experienced in your life, your
5:45first love, your first caregivers, your
5:47parents, whoever they are, what they did
5:49to you, how they were with you. All of
5:51those things. Your identity is always
5:53developing. It's always developing. It's
5:55always adding on and making you perceive
5:58reality in a specific way. Okay?
6:01Now, your identity, this new one thing
6:03that makes you you, okay? That makes you
6:06move. That makes you go. That makes you
6:08actually get up every single day because
6:10you don't just get up. You get up with
6:13reason. Reason coming from your
6:15identity. Whether it is yet you don't
6:16even feel like getting up. Whether it is
6:18you're not in the best mental state.
6:19Whatever the case may be, it's all your
6:22identity. It's all your identity.
6:24Whatever your motives are for life, it's
6:27coming from your identity. Whatever your
6:28perception is on life, it's coming from
6:30your identity. Now, this new one's
6:32in-depth, intricate identity that's been
6:34building on for so many years is very
6:36protective of itself. It wants to keep
6:39itself safe. Why? Because you it's it's
6:42like your brain, your identity, your
6:44body, it's human design, just wants to
6:47stay safe. It wants to stay where it is
6:50familiar. It wants to stay where it is
6:52comfortable. It wants to stay where it
6:54knows and can predict, okay? Because as
6:57human beings, if you go back in time, we
7:00are survival creatures. So, our body and
7:02our responses will naturally always want
7:05to stay safe. So, that is what our brain
7:07does. That is what our identity does.
7:09It's trying to constantly keep us safe.
7:11Keep us safe even if what's comfortable
7:13isn't necessarily good for us. Meaning,
7:15even if you are constantly in bad
7:17relationships, and your bad
7:18relationships might not be good for you,
7:20but your brain knows it is comfortable,
7:22knows it is safe, so it will not try to
7:25get you out of it. In fact, it will try
7:26to keep you there because that's all it
7:28knows, okay? That is how powerful your
7:30identity is. Now, the identity wants to
7:33protect itself. That's why I call this a
7:35loop. And this loop is called a
7:36reinforcement loop. It because your
7:38identity constantly wants to reinforce
7:41itself. It constantly wants to reinforce
7:43itself to stay safe. It's almost like
7:46everything I need to do needs to stay in
7:48the circle so I can stay safe. I know
7:50what the next thing is. I know what the
7:51next thing is. I know what the next
7:52thing is equaling I'm safe. Because when
7:54something is predictable, it's safe,
7:55right? Now, this is the loop in
7:57definition and in explanation. I'm going
7:59to try to explain it the best that I
8:00can. Now, remember and keep in mind your
8:03identity always wants to keep you safe
8:05even if it's not the most healthiest or
8:06the most the best thing for you. Even if
8:10it means that you can have this goal of
8:11wanting to be a business owner, for
8:13example. Let's just take a business
8:15owner cuz I'm a business owner. Let's
8:16say
8:17you want to be a business owner, but you
8:19your whole identity says no. You can't
8:22be a business owner. The best way to go
8:24about it is to get a job cuz maybe you
8:26inherited from your parents that a job
8:28is the most safest thing to get. So, no
8:30matter how much you want to start your
8:32business, your identity will constantly
8:34keep you there without you even knowing
8:37it. And I'm going to explain in the loop
8:39why. Now, the loop goes as follows. At
8:41the top you get your identity because
8:43identity is like the control center.
8:44It's almost like a computer. A computer
8:46can only function based on the coding
8:49and the information that is coded into
8:51its system and into its database. Same
8:53with your brain. It can only ever go off
8:55what your identity tells it to go off.
8:57That is the script. Like the narrative
8:58theory by Dr. McAdams says that your
9:01brain follows a script. It follows a
9:03story and it basically predicts itself
9:06already into the future. Okay? So, that
9:08is what your identity is. It's like it's
9:10like a computer. It's coded, it's wired,
9:12and it's
9:14designed and data based to function in a
9:16specific way. So, that is your identity.
9:18So, who you are, what you believe about
9:20the world, what you believe about
9:21yourself, what you believe about what
9:22you can have, all of those nuanced
9:24things make up your identity. Okay? Now,
9:26identity creates perception. Perception
9:29is important, okay? Perception is
9:31basically the lens, okay? Reality is
9:34neutral. Reality is neutral. Reality is
9:37even. It is objectively is nothing about
9:41reality that makes it any different from
9:42anyone else experiencing it. Reality, I
9:45just want you to think if you take
9:46yourself out of your body, if everyone
9:48just takes themself out of their own
9:49bodies, out of their own minds, and out
9:51of their own identity, reality is
9:53actually just neutral.
9:56Nothing. It's silent. But what makes
9:59reality so nuanced is you, okay? So your
10:04identity creates perception. I want you
10:06to think of a 3D movie. When you watch a
10:093D movie,
10:10it's almost like when you watch a 3D
10:12movie, you can't see the 3D things
10:14without the glasses on. So when you put
10:17the glasses on, that is when you really
10:19see the world. If you take your glasses
10:21off, your identity off, your lens of
10:22your identity, your perception off,
10:24the world is flat. It's nothing. But
10:27when you put on your glasses that's
10:29controlled by your identity, if you put
10:31on this perception glasses, you see your
10:33reality. You see your reality. Just like
10:35everybody else sees their reality, okay?
10:38Just like everybody else sees their
10:40reality, you see yours, okay? And the
10:42way you see yours doesn't come from
10:45anything. It's not random. It comes from
10:47your identity. Your identity created the
10:49lens through which you view reality
10:51through right now, okay?
10:54So what does um perception do?
10:55Perception makes you see things in a
10:57certain way. For example, if your
10:59identity is I always get left alone. I'm
11:02always left alone. Like people leave me.
11:04Like every time I fall in love, people
11:06leave me, okay? Now imagine that is the
11:08case with you, okay? Your identity is
11:11people always leave me. Now when you go
11:13out about life, you only ever going to
11:16notice the signs of abandonment. Even if
11:19they aren't really abandonment.
11:21Sometimes for example, I used to have
11:23that thing about myself in the past. I
11:25used to believe that like people leave
11:28me. Like they leave me because they
11:29realize I'm weird or they realize that
11:30I'm too much to handle. I genuinely
11:32thought I was too much to handle. So,
11:35when I was getting into all these toxic
11:36relationships, this is the minute
11:38someone is busy or someone doesn't
11:40respond to me in time, I would instantly
11:42freak out and be like, "Oh, you see
11:44there? You see You see there? That That
11:46is why Like I said it, I'm always left
11:49alone." So, they know I would behave in
11:51a certain which will get It's in the
11:52loop, okay? So, basically
11:54I'll I'm explaining it in the loop,
11:56okay? So, basically because I've had
11:58this identity rooted in me that like
11:59people leave me due to due to
12:01abandonment and things that I probably
12:02went through in my past. So, I just feel
12:04like people leave me, people always
12:05leave me. And then everything I would
12:07see is like people leave me, people
12:09leave me, they leave me. Even though
12:10that's not necessarily the case. Because
12:13I came to realize that is not it. I need
12:15to calm the [ __ ] down. That is not the
12:17case. But because my identity is so
12:19rooted in that, when I put those When I
12:22look through the world, I only see it
12:24through that perception. People leave
12:26me. And even if people stay, even if
12:29there's people in my life that have been
12:30in my life for the longest time that
12:32contradicts my own identity, I discard
12:35them. I don't even see them. They're not
12:37even a part of my life. Why? Because
12:39your identity creates your perception
12:41and that perception from your identity
12:43makes you discard things that are not
12:44important and make you acknowledge
12:46things that are important on an extreme
12:48level, okay? So, me thinking that people
12:50always leave me, it's going to make me
12:52see it on a infinitely larger level than
12:54what it is. And it's not even going to
12:56show me everyone that is there. Like my
12:58family that love me, like my friends
13:00that love me, like all the people in my
13:02life that love me. No, I'm just focused
13:04on who left me and what makes up for my
13:06identity being so twisted, okay? And
13:09what makes up for me just always being
13:10left alone. So, the second part of the
13:12loop is perception. Now, after
13:14perception, we get emotion, okay? Now,
13:17perception creates emotion. So, now I
13:19see
13:20oh, um
13:21people leave me, people leave me. What
13:23is that going to cause? That is going to
13:24cause my nervous system. The emotions
13:27are your nervous system. It's the way
13:28your body responds, okay? It's the way
13:30your body responds to the world. It's
13:31the way your body responds to everything
13:33around you, okay? So, of course, my
13:34nervous system is now going to act up
13:36cuz if I see someone is busy, I'm
13:38automatically going to say like, "Oh my
13:39gosh, they just leave." You see that
13:41always happens to me. And then my
13:42nervous system, my emotions are going to
13:44be affected by it because like
13:46everything, the identity loop is created
13:48for literally everything you experience
13:50in your life. Everything you have to
13:51tackle on and take on. That is why it so
13:53heavily influences your life. Now, let's
13:56say for example,
13:57I meet a guy, okay? I meet a guy, okay?
14:00I have a boyfriend. I'm in a healthy
14:01relationship right now, but this is just
14:03for context. So, let's say I meet a guy,
14:05okay? And this guy, oh my gosh, this
14:07guy, I like this guy. I already
14:09immediately like this guy. And we start
14:11talking. He's showing all the signs that
14:13he's a good guy and whatever. And we
14:14start talking, okay? Now, based on my
14:17identity, I'm like, "I'm always left
14:18alone. I'm always abandoned. At the end
14:20of the day, people always leave. People
14:21always leave me." Now, I'm with this
14:23person, and this person is um somewhat
14:26busy, okay? He's busy. He's he's not on
14:28his phone. He hasn't been on his phone
14:29in like 4 hours. Now, my perception is
14:31going to be like, "You see, Courtney?
14:33You see, Courtney? They they they leave
14:34you. He's not interested anymore. He he
14:35left because people find you weird,
14:37Courtney. Of course, they're going to
14:38leave you at the end of the day. Of
14:38course, they're going to leave you at
14:39the end of the day." So, basically, that
14:41is what my perception created. And now
14:42my perception created my emotion. Now,
14:44I'm starting to feel my nervous system
14:46act up. Now, I'm starting to feel like,
14:48"Oh my freaking gosh. Oh my freaking
14:50gosh. I need to do something. I'm going
14:51to block him." Cuz that's what I used to
14:52do. I used to block people. Like, the
14:54block button used to be such a big
14:55trigger I would like block anyone under
14:57the sun and then unblock them,
14:59obviously, cuz I wasn't healed, okay?
15:01But anyways, so basically, what I would
15:02do is I would block this guy. I'd say,
15:04"I'm so done with you. I'm so done with
15:05you anyway. Like, you don't need even
15:08need to I'm so done with you anyway."
15:10Boom, block, delete. Because my emotions
15:13I'm actually getting ahead of myself,
15:14foreshadow. But emotions, okay? That is
15:16what my emotions does. It makes me like
15:19on the edge of things because of my
15:20identity, my nervous system is going to
15:22obviously act that way. And then from my
15:25my emotions
15:27creates my behavior. The part where I
15:28said blocking, now emotions
15:30automatically create behavior because
15:32your emotions allows your body to move.
15:34It allows your body to function. It
15:36allows your body to respond and in
15:38respondence you're going to take action.
15:40You're going to behave a certain way.
15:41Even if you can't even if you
15:43unconsciously cannot see you taking
15:45action, you're always taking action.
15:47Choosing to sit down is taking action.
15:48Choosing to do nothing is taking action.
15:50Choosing to move is to take action. So
15:52basically, based on my emotions, I was
15:54feeling like, "Oh, you see that he's
15:56always like people always leave me." So
15:58now, that created my behavior, my
16:00behavior to block this person. I'm going
16:01to block this person because like da da
16:03da da whatever whatever whatever. Then
16:05later afterwards, I unblock him and I
16:07say, "Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry,
16:08sorry." And that leads to result. The
16:11result is a low step in the face and he
16:13tells me, "Courtney, I can't sit up with
16:15this. I can't deal with this. You're
16:16[ __ ] crazy ass [ __ ] you know that.
16:18Bye. You see, they leave me. They all
16:22leave me at the end of the day. I always
16:23get left. I always get left."
16:27The loop reinforces itself. And what was
16:29it? It wasn't even this guy. It was me.
16:32It was me. It wasn't the guy. It was me.
16:36Guys people don't leave me. My love
16:38people in my love life do not leave me.
16:40I believe that they leave me based on a
16:42bad experience or based on my identity,
16:44something that happened that wired
16:46myself to believe that about myself and
16:47it created an unconscious loop that
16:50reaffirmed itself. Now, I didn't pay
16:52attention to my own actions. All I paid
16:54attention to was, "You see, he at the
16:56end of the day he left me." Guys always
16:58leave. They always leave my life. I
17:00always get left. I always get left.
17:02Reinforcing my loop so that it can
17:03repeat itself over and over and over
17:07again. And this loop, okay?
17:09This loop doesn't just apply for like
17:11this situation. It applies for
17:13everything. When I say everything, I
17:15mean everything. And when I say I've
17:16done the research, I've done the
17:17studies, I've done so much research on
17:20this. And also, I included it in my
17:22program, which by the way, guys, if you
17:24are interested in this and you find this
17:26to be like, "Wow, this is amazing
17:28groundbreaking work with me." Like,
17:30"Wow, Courtney, how do I actually rewire
17:32my identity to build a completely new
17:34one?" Then I want to introduce you guys
17:35to the identity record. It is
17:38phenomenal. It is amazing. People are
17:39seeing so much results from it. It
17:41breaks down this whole loop, how to
17:42dismantle it in depth, and how to really
17:44work on it in the next 4 weeks. When you
17:46take it, you can take the next 4 weeks
17:48to really work on your identity so you
17:50can re-root it, rewire it, and manifest
17:52a completely different life. Because at
17:53the end of the day, your identity is
17:55truly truly influencing everything you
17:58do and every move you make and
18:00everything you experience, everything
18:02you allow in, everything you allow out.
18:04Like, your identity is the center of it
18:06all and it's what creates your reality.
18:09And that is why I get to love the life I
18:11love right now. Okay, that is why I get
18:12to do life in this way. It's because of
18:15my identity. And that is why I hold the
18:17identity record so close to my heart.
18:19You guys can go and check it out. It's
18:20in the link down below. Life-changing
18:22process. I would highly recommend it to
18:24anyone. So, basically, now we have kind
18:25of like a breakdown on how the identity
18:28loop works. Now, let's get into chapter
18:30number two or the last part of the
18:32video, rewire and redirect the loop.
18:35Okay? Now, we're going to be talking all
18:37about dismantling this loop, rewiring
18:39it, redirecting it, and building a new
18:42identity loop so that you can have a
18:44different outcome. Cuz if we haven't
18:45already noticed, the identity creates an
18:48outcome, creates a result at the end of
18:49the day. And this result applies for
18:51everything that creates your life. So,
18:54whether that's in career, whether that's
18:55in relationships, whether that's in your
18:57self-love, whether that's in your own
18:58self-development, whatever the case may
19:00be, this identity loop counts for it
19:02all. So, basically, what you're going to
19:04do inside of this loop, is you're first
19:06going to do an audit. Okay? It's
19:07important to do an audit. Okay? You must
19:10do an audit of who you are right now and
19:12how it signals back to the reality
19:14you're living right now. Having an audit
19:16of yourself is so important because it
19:17really tells you the truth about
19:19yourself. Okay? For example, money.
19:22I was try I had a big dry spell in my
19:24business. My business was doing so bad.
19:26It got me to the point where I almost
19:28lost my apartment. I almost lost my
19:29business. Like I said, I had such a
19:31tough time um a few months ago. But
19:33basically, what that did was like I was
19:35seeing like negatives in my bank every
19:37single month and it was consistently
19:39happening every single month. And I knew
19:41I needed to do an identity audit. I
19:43needed to check what the [ __ ] was going
19:44on so that I can know what is wrong and
19:46what needs change. So what I did was,
19:49because like I said, these things are
19:50not random. They show up as patterns.
19:52And when you can have like records of
19:54your patterns, you can pick up on the
19:55behaviors you have and what is going on
19:57in that identity of yours. So basically,
19:59what I did was I pulled up all my bank
20:01statements. I pulled up all my
20:03documents, all my bank statements, all
20:04my money statements that I had, all my
20:06Uber rides, all my online payments, all
20:07my subscriptions, everything that
20:09contributes to money. I pulled that up.
20:11How how much I was getting in, I was
20:13getting out, all of that. I pulled that
20:15up and I checked the patterns. I checked
20:17the analytics. I checked myself. Okay? I
20:20literally checked myself. Okay? And when
20:21I say I checked myself, I really, really
20:23checked myself. Okay? So what I did was
20:25I went through and I saw the patterns. I
20:27saw the patterns. It showed me exactly
20:30what was written in my identity. I'm
20:32inconsistent. I have a really bad work
20:34ethic. Okay? I'm I suck at
20:36follow-through. Okay? And that is stuff
20:38that was like, "Wow, like Courtney, you
20:40you do suck at follow-through." Like
20:42that is what I believed about myself.
20:43You suck at follow-through. You suck at
20:45showing up. You suck at being
20:46consistent. This is why your bank
20:48balance is inconsistent. This is why
20:50these things happen and it's rooted in
20:51your identity. So basically, now I knew
20:54what I needed to change. You're going to
20:55do this with anything that you are
20:57struggling with in your life. Whatever
20:58it may be.
20:59I'm going to make a video very soon
21:01called same minute different fonts where
21:02we talk about how you're constantly
21:04manifesting the same guy just in a
21:05different font. It's coming out really
21:07soon. But basically, whether that's with
21:08a guy, whether that's with a
21:10relationship, whether that's with um
21:12your job, whether that's with people
21:13treating you a certain way, what
21:15whatever, you always get bad friends, no
21:17matter what you do, you're always
21:18getting these awful friends, these fake
21:20friends, whatever the case may be for
21:21you, you're going to get out all your
21:23analytics, all your patterns, you're
21:25going to analyze the patterns, okay? And
21:28if you have nothing on record, go about
21:30your life for 1 week and write down
21:32everything that's happening in your life
21:33so that you can make a pattern
21:35recognizable. And when you do, you'll be
21:37so shocked. You'll be so shocked at the
21:40things you constantly do every single
21:42day, the micro habits, the little things
21:44you do every single day that is creating
21:47the reality right in front of you with
21:49you without you even knowing it. Me not
21:51showing up to my business, me not
21:53showing up for me my videos, me um
21:55procrastinating, me doing this and all
21:56that, that shows why my bank balance is
21:58so low. It's so obvious, but it's in
22:00plain sight, it's unconscionable, it's
22:02unconscious, but it's rooted in your
22:04identity, and it's creating your reality
22:06you're living right now, okay? So
22:09basically, that is the first step. The
22:10second step, what you're going to do is
22:12you're going to write down the reality
22:13you want. Do not skip out on anything,
22:15actually. Just write down the reality
22:17you want in detail or go and pull out
22:18that vision board you have of you um in
22:20your room or wherever, if you have a
22:22vision board, if you're an ambitious
22:23girly like that, write down what reality
22:25you truly want to wake up to every
22:27single day. Now, it's not about this
22:30reality, it's not about these things, it
22:32is about you. So you need to ask
22:34yourself, that person loving that
22:36reality, who are they? Okay, I kind of
22:39wrote these questions down that you need
22:40to ask yourself, okay?
22:42You're going to ask yourself, what is
22:43their perception? Okay, because this is
22:45how you dismantle the the the loop,
22:47remember the loop we were talking about?
22:49This is how you basically dismantle that
22:51loop. You're going to look at your
22:52vision board or you're going to look at
22:53the things you want in your life, and
22:54you're going to ask yourself, what is
22:55their perception? This person that has
22:57this life that I want to live, what is
22:59their perception on life? What is their
23:01perception, not yours, not your current
23:02one. What is their perception on life?
23:04Okay? What are their emotions? What are
23:07their emotions? How are they feeling?
23:09What are How How How What is their
23:10emotions? Okay? Cuz you need to adopt
23:12these emotions later on. Okay? What are
23:14their actions and their behaviors? Cuz
23:16this is equally as important. What are
23:18their actions and their behaviors? So,
23:20you're going to ask yourself, how do
23:21they perceive the world? How How do they
23:23control their emotions? What are their
23:24emotions? How do they act? How do they
23:27behave? Okay? Because those things are
23:29going to What's What's going to make up
23:30for that results that they have in their
23:32reality. What you're going to do next is
23:34you're going to find every possible way
23:37to adapt to that. To adapt to their
23:39perception. So, start seeing the world
23:41in their perception. You're going to
23:43start feeling their emotion. Because
23:45you're going to slowly but surely start
23:46to adapt their identity. So, and you're
23:49going to do this for 28 days. Because
23:51like Richard says, 28 days truly locks
23:54in a habit. Okay? Now, what you're going
23:56to do is you're going to adapt to their
23:57perception, adapt to their emotion,
23:59adapt to their actions and their
24:00behaviors. And you're going to do this
24:02for 28 days straight until you have
24:05literally become this identity and this
24:08version of yourself. And I promise you,
24:10with every piece of bone in my body,
24:12your reality will change if you commit
24:14to this for the next 28 days. I hope
24:17this video helped you. If you want a
24:18little bit more help on this and you
24:20want me to be in the ring with you
24:21helping you dissolve all of this and
24:23come to the proper identity analysis and
24:26really recode your identity, I highly
24:28recommend the identity recode. It's my
24:31number one all-time favorite program
24:33I've created by far to help you manifest
24:36a completely new reality just by
24:38rewiring that unconscious identity loop
24:41keeping you stuck. I hope you enjoyed
24:43this video, guys. Oh my goodness. Okay,
24:46anyways, it was a long one. It was a
24:47long one. It was longer than 10 minutes.
24:49It was 30 minutes. Okay. Okay. Okay, I
24:51get it. I get it. And I'll see you guys
24:53very, very soon in another video.
24:57Mwah.
25:04>> [music]

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