Your Best Defense Against Brain Rot — Transcript
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- 0:00Let me ask you a question. When was the
- 0:02last time that you did something purely
- 0:05because you enjoyed it? Not because it
- 0:07made money, not because it was
- 0:09productive, not because it helped you
- 0:11build your career, not because it was
- 0:14something that you had to do, but just
- 0:16because it was something that made you
- 0:18feel like you're alive. Because there's
- 0:21something really fascinating and kind of
- 0:23sad about adulthood. Most adults don't
- 0:26lose their hobbies because they're busy.
- 0:28they lose them because their identity
- 0:31slowly collapses into basically one
- 0:33dimension which is work or their job.
- 0:38That's it. And then when that happens,
- 0:40something really subtle starts happening
- 0:42to the brain. It starts to go into
- 0:44mental stagnation. And the scary part is
- 0:47that most people think that's just
- 0:49basically what adulthood is supposed to
- 0:51feel like. So today I want to talk to
- 0:53you about how to reverse that. and I
- 0:55want to talk to you about how to bring
- 0:56more joy and creativity in your life and
- 0:59how to actually improve your brain while
- 1:02we're at it. Okay, so let's dive in. One
- 1:04of the the biggest psychological shifts
- 1:07that happens in adulthood is what I call
- 1:10identity compression. You know, when
- 1:12you're a kid, your identity is wide.
- 1:14like you're an athlete and you're an
- 1:17artist and you're a builder and you're a
- 1:19a gamer and you're a a musician and
- 1:22you're, you know, a curiosity like a
- 1:25curious explorer. But when adulthood
- 1:28happens, it's like all of that just
- 1:30compresses into just this little tiny
- 1:33bit of who you are. [snorts] You know,
- 1:34like slowly it feels like your identity
- 1:36just compresses into just like one thing
- 1:38and that's like what you do for work.
- 1:41And maybe if you're lucky it's like two
- 1:43things. what you do for work and that
- 1:45you are a parent. That's basically what
- 1:48a lot of people's lives come down to.
- 1:50And your brain kind of stops exploring
- 1:54all of these new places in your brain,
- 1:56these new ideas and these new things
- 1:57that you're curious about and it starts
- 1:59optimizing.
- 2:00And optimizing is useful in most cases,
- 2:04but when it comes to your brain, that
- 2:05comes with a cost. Because the brain
- 2:07doesn't thrive on optimization. The
- 2:10brain thrives on novelty, on new things,
- 2:13on exploration, on creativity, on new
- 2:16ideas. And when your exploration
- 2:19disappears, your brain starts running
- 2:21the same neural loops over and over and
- 2:24over and over again. And then you have
- 2:26the same problems and you have the same
- 2:28routines and you have the same thoughts
- 2:30day in and day out. You know, 95% of
- 2:32your thoughts are the same as they were
- 2:34yesterday. In psychology, that's most
- 2:36people. 95% of your thoughts are going
- 2:38to be the same as they were yesterday.
- 2:40And that's the beginning of what people
- 2:42call mental stagnation. But neurology,
- 2:45when you look at it and what's happening
- 2:47in your brain, it's more closer to
- 2:49cognitive atrophy. And so this is where
- 2:52all of it kind of gets really
- 2:53interesting. When you look at hobbies,
- 2:56sure, hobbies are fun and hobbies can be
- 2:58entertaining, but hobbies are also
- 3:01really good for your brain. And hobbies
- 3:03are also a nervous system regulator.
- 3:07Most people try to regulate their
- 3:08nervous system. nowadays by numbing
- 3:10themselves. Things like alcohol or drugs
- 3:13or scrolling or eating food or binge
- 3:17watching Netflix or whatever other
- 3:20numbing behaviors they come up with. So
- 3:21when their nervous system gets all out
- 3:23of whack, they go to numbing. Let me
- 3:25just stop feeling everything altogether.
- 3:28And the reason why they go to those
- 3:29things cuz those things basically sedate
- 3:31your brain. And we will be right back.
- 3:34Hey, I'm running a free live workshop on
- 3:37March 25th called Identity Upgrade. And
- 3:39let me tell you why you want to be
- 3:41there. In the 20 years that I've been
- 3:42studying and teaching self-development,
- 3:44I've watched thousands of people try to
- 3:46change your life by changing their
- 3:48habits and changing their actions and
- 3:49changing their routines. But the truth
- 3:51is, nothing will stick long term if you
- 3:54don't change your identity. Because long
- 3:56term, your behavior will always fall
- 3:59back to who you think you are. So if you
- 4:01see yourself as someone who has the same
- 4:03fears and the same limiting beliefs, you
- 4:06will stay the same. So in this workshop,
- 4:08I'm going to show you stepbystep how to
- 4:10upgrade your identity so that you can
- 4:12finally change the course of your life.
- 4:14So if you're ready to become the next
- 4:16version of yourself, you can go to
- 4:172026upgrade.com
- 4:19or you can click the QR code on this
- 4:21video and save your seat. And now back
- 4:24to the show. Hobbies though, they do
- 4:26something completely different than than
- 4:29numbing. They engage the brain and they
- 4:32also calm your nervous system. So when
- 4:34you have an activity like painting or
- 4:36woodworking or martial arts or playing
- 4:39music or going out and even just
- 4:41gardening, all of those have measurable
- 4:44measurable effects on lowering your
- 4:46cortisol which improves your mood and it
- 4:49also regulates your dopamine as well.
- 4:51And so what's good about a hobby is is
- 4:53when you engage in a hobby, you're
- 4:56activating a neurological state that's
- 4:58called directed attention restoration.
- 5:01And this is the brain recovering from
- 5:04the exhaustion of life and work and
- 5:09constant decision making and trying to
- 5:11be productive and pushing and pushing
- 5:13and pushing. And what's happening is the
- 5:16good thing about having a hobby is that
- 5:19it calms your nervous system and you're
- 5:22working on something that is meaningful
- 5:24and not just numbing your way out of it.
- 5:27So you're creating then in some sort of
- 5:30way versus just consuming or numbing
- 5:33which is really really good for your
- 5:34nervous system. And instead of just
- 5:36scrolling, you might have actually
- 5:38created something, a beautiful song or
- 5:40your garden might be better and you
- 5:41might have some food or you might have
- 5:42made a beautiful painting. And so the
- 5:44beautiful part about hobbies is that
- 5:46you're able to actually calm the nervous
- 5:48system in a productive way and you might
- 5:51get some fruits or you might get some
- 5:54paintings or you might get a beautiful
- 5:55piece of music that you've made from
- 5:57doing it as well. [snorts] Here's
- 5:59another part that most people don't
- 6:00realize when you look at it. When you're
- 6:03trying to create, you're in a little bit
- 6:05of a mode of play. And play is not a
- 6:08childish behavior. Like when we think of
- 6:10playing, we think like that's what kids
- 6:11do. I'm an adult. I'm not supposed to
- 6:13play anymore. Play is actually a core
- 6:15cognitive mode inside of your brain. And
- 6:18when adults stop playing, three things
- 6:20start happening neurologically. Number
- 6:22one, your creativity is going to start
- 6:25to decline. Number two is your cognitive
- 6:29flexibility drops, which is like you
- 6:31being open to new ideas and new things.
- 6:33And number three, your problem solving
- 6:36actually gets worse. In neuroscience,
- 6:38they actually call this functional
- 6:40fixedness. So your brain becomes really
- 6:43good at doing things the exact same way
- 6:45that it's always done, which is good for
- 6:48routine, but it's terrible for
- 6:50creativity. It's terrible for
- 6:52innovation. It's terrible for new ideas.
- 6:54It's terrible for expanding of the
- 6:57brain. And so hobbies reintroduce the
- 7:00play circuits into your brain. And this
- 7:03is where, you know, this play is where
- 7:05creativity lives. It's where your
- 7:06curiosity lives. It's where new ideas
- 7:08and insights come from. Which is why
- 7:11some of the greatest breakthroughs in
- 7:14human history came from people who were
- 7:16just playing with new ideas. They
- 7:19weren't like grinding away at their
- 7:20computer to try to figure out how to
- 7:22solve a problem. No, they were in the
- 7:23middle of play and just creativity. And
- 7:25because their brain was making these new
- 7:27neural connections, they came up with
- 7:29new ideas. They were playing, they were
- 7:31being creative, they were just sitting
- 7:32around and they were thinking to
- 7:34themselves different ways than they've
- 7:35ever thought to themselves. And the
- 7:37beautiful thing about hobbies is that it
- 7:39also expands your identity. Like a a
- 7:42deeper layer that most people never
- 7:44really think about and and I really
- 7:46think about a lot when I think of
- 7:47hobbies is that a hobby, it isn't just
- 7:49good for you. It doesn't just regulate
- 7:51your brain. It also protects your
- 7:53identity as well because if your
- 7:55identity only exists in your place of
- 7:58work like it does for most people, then
- 8:01every failure at work becomes like an
- 8:04existential crisis. It's an identity
- 8:07crisis. It's a shot at your ego and it
- 8:11feels like the world is crumbling. But
- 8:13when you don't just go to work and
- 8:15you're not just a parent, those are two
- 8:17very important things, don't get me
- 8:18wrong, but you do a lot of other things,
- 8:20then you're expanding your identity of
- 8:22who you actually are. Like you're a
- 8:24leader, you're a father or a mother,
- 8:26you're a musician, you're a runner,
- 8:29you're a writer, you're a builder,
- 8:32you're a student of something.
- 8:35Now your identity has multiple pillars
- 8:37versus just like one or two pillars. So
- 8:41if one of the pillars collapses, your
- 8:43whole life doesn't collapse with it. And
- 8:45this is one of the hidden psychological
- 8:47advantages of hobbies is they basically
- 8:50diversify your identity portfolio. Just
- 8:53like a a a smart investor diversifies
- 8:56their money. Smart humans diversify
- 8:58their sense of self. You're not just a
- 9:01person that goes to work and has a job.
- 9:04Like you're much much more than that.
- 9:06And I know a lot of people listening to
- 9:09this right now have forgotten who they
- 9:11actually are. You've forgotten what you
- 9:14love to do. You've forgotten what
- 9:16excites you because you've just been
- 9:17stuck in the same mundane routine for
- 9:21the past 5 years or 10 years or 20
- 9:24years. And so you've gotten so locked
- 9:26into an old routine, you've forgotten
- 9:27who you are. You've forgotten all of the
- 9:29things that make you excited. It's time
- 9:31to break out of that routine and expand
- 9:33who you actually are. And this brings us
- 9:36to something really important as well.
- 9:37Like many people believe that they can
- 9:41just figure out their purpose by sitting
- 9:43on their couch and thinking about it.
- 9:44They think like their purpose comes
- 9:46first and then they start taking action.
- 9:48But in reality, what I have found is
- 9:50that purpose is usually discovered
- 9:52through curiosity, through doing
- 9:54something new. And that curiosity
- 9:57usually starts as some form of a hobby.
- 9:59Like think about it. Almost every
- 10:01meaningful pursuit in life started as
- 10:03something that somebody did just because
- 10:06it was interesting. Not because they
- 10:07were trying to make money or because it
- 10:09was profitable. It was interesting.
- 10:11Somebody was excited about something.
- 10:14They pursued it. They fell in love with
- 10:16it. They mastered it. And it became part
- 10:18of their purpose and their meaning and
- 10:20why they feel like they're alive on this
- 10:22planet. Your brain's constantly giving
- 10:24you signals of curiosity,
- 10:27like little tiny whispers of interest,
- 10:30but most adults ignore them because they
- 10:33think like, "Oh, well, that's not
- 10:35productive." Like, I just need to focus
- 10:37on being productive. And I tell me, I'll
- 10:40tell you this, like focusing on just
- 10:41being productive all the time will kill
- 10:44your fun in life. Like trust me, I've
- 10:46gone down that route for years where
- 10:48I've just gone, I'm going to be
- 10:49productive and I'm going to go hardcore
- 10:50at work and I'm going to throw all my
- 10:52hobbies away.
- 10:54That's not the way to go. You know, like
- 10:56what if those curiosities and those
- 10:58little thoughts of like, hey, this
- 10:59sounds fun. Maybe I should try this
- 11:01thing. You know what? Maybe on Sunday I
- 11:02should go try some take a pottery class
- 11:04or something like that. What if those
- 11:06like little curiosities or ideas are
- 11:08actually breadcrumbs that you're trying
- 11:10to the universe or God or whatever it is
- 11:12is trying to lead you in a direction of
- 11:14something? What if the hobby that you
- 11:16feel drawn towards is actually your
- 11:18brain saying, "Hey, there's something
- 11:20meaningful here. Like maybe we should
- 11:21explore this." You know, some hobbies
- 11:23stay hobbies and that's completely fine.
- 11:25That's amazing if you can find a hobby
- 11:27that actually fills your cup. But
- 11:29others, they slowly evolve into
- 11:32passions, like missions and careers and
- 11:35creative outlets and like the ways that
- 11:37you want to actually impact the world.
- 11:40Like purpose rarely arrives as like a
- 11:42lightning bolt. Like I don't know
- 11:44anybody's just been sitting on their
- 11:45couch and like, "Oh my god, I found my
- 11:47purpose in life." Like more often it
- 11:49starts as something that you're curious
- 11:51enough to just try. Like I always tell
- 11:53people if they want to find their
- 11:54purpose and their passion here on this
- 11:56earth in this life that you have like
- 11:58just continue to ask yourself like what
- 12:00am I really interested in learning or
- 12:02getting better at? There's usually
- 12:04something that that lives in there. So
- 12:08now when you look at it the the
- 12:10something that's that's I would say is
- 12:11one of the most important things that
- 12:13people don't realize about the brain is
- 12:14that your brain is built to adapt. It's
- 12:17built to grow. It's built to be
- 12:19constantly having new challenges and new
- 12:21ideas.
- 12:22But it only does that when it's
- 12:24challenged and when it has novelty and
- 12:26it's doing something different. When you
- 12:28repeat the same routines over and over
- 12:30again, you have the same problems that
- 12:32you're solving and you're in the same
- 12:33environments every single day. The brain
- 12:36starts to conserve energy because it's
- 12:39smart and it does this by running the
- 12:41same neural pathways over and over and
- 12:43over again. In neuroscience, this is
- 12:45called neuroefficiency. And so, you
- 12:48know, the brain becomes very good at
- 12:50doing the same things the same way over
- 12:52and over and over again. That's a good
- 12:54thing when you're trying to create good
- 12:55habits in your life. But there's a
- 12:57downside to it. You know, when you stop
- 12:59learning, when you stop exploring, when
- 13:01you start, you know, you stop trying to
- 13:03create in some sort of way, the brain
- 13:05starts to reduce the growth in new
- 13:08neural connections inside of your brain.
- 13:10And over time, that can lead to what's
- 13:12called cognitive rigidity. And that's
- 13:14where thinking becomes less flexible and
- 13:18creativity declines. Like you see this a
- 13:20lot like with older people, right? Where
- 13:22they've been doing the same thing over
- 13:23and over and over and over and over
- 13:24again and you try to give them a new
- 13:25idea and there's no flexibility to the
- 13:28idea. You start talking about we should
- 13:29do something different, no flexibility.
- 13:31You start talking about something that's
- 13:32progressive in the world, they don't
- 13:33want anything to do with it. You see it
- 13:36a lot with older people. you know, they
- 13:37become less flexible in their thinking
- 13:39and their creativity declines and they
- 13:41do the same things over and over and
- 13:43over again and they get so set in their
- 13:45ways there's literally basically no more
- 13:48cognitive flexibility. And I don't know
- 13:50about you guys that scares the out
- 13:51of me. Like I don't want to become
- 13:53somebody like like that. I want to
- 13:54become someone who's always open to
- 13:55ideas and trying to be creative. And
- 13:57when you have hobbies and creative
- 14:00activities, they do the opposite for
- 14:02your brain. When you learn a new skill
- 14:04or you challenge yourself to become
- 14:06better at a skill like painting or
- 14:08building something or playing music or
- 14:10playing tennis or just trying something
- 14:11that's just new for you, the brain
- 14:14changes and activates neuroplasticity
- 14:16which is just the process where neurons
- 14:18in your brain form new connections and
- 14:21strengthen existing ones. And so when
- 14:23you have a creative hobby, you also
- 14:25increase the the the activity in your
- 14:28brain and a part of your brain that's
- 14:29called the default mode network, which
- 14:31is a part of your brain that's
- 14:32associated with imagination, with
- 14:34insight, with uh creative problem
- 14:37solving. And this is why people often
- 14:39have their best ideas when they're doing
- 14:42something creative, when they're doing
- 14:43something they love, when they're doing
- 14:44something that's playful. You know, some
- 14:46hobbies are just for fun, but some
- 14:49hobbies actually improve the brain when
- 14:51you do them over and over again. When
- 14:53you try to keep improving, when you
- 14:55challenge yourself, they keep your
- 14:57neural networks flexible, and they
- 14:59stimulate dopamine pathways associated
- 15:02with with motivation, with drive, with
- 15:04curiosity, and they literally help your
- 15:06brain stay younger and more adaptable
- 15:09over time. So in other words, when life
- 15:12becomes nothing but routine and work,
- 15:14your brain slowly starts to decline and
- 15:16slowly starts to narrow. But when you do
- 15:19something new and you challenge
- 15:20yourself, you explore and you create and
- 15:23you play, your brain actually expands
- 15:26and gets stronger. And so if you feel
- 15:29like you've been stuck for a while and
- 15:31you feel like your brain's been stuck
- 15:32lately, if life started to feel like
- 15:34it's way too repetitive and you feel
- 15:36like mentally dull, don't ask yourself
- 15:38what's wrong with me. Like just try ask
- 15:40yourself a different question. When was
- 15:42the last time that I let myself do
- 15:45something fun or I let myself explore
- 15:48just because it seemed interesting and I
- 15:50just wanted to do something different?
- 15:52Because hobbies, I used to think of
- 15:54hobbies as like distractions or just
- 15:56something that I would do to have some
- 15:57more fun. But hobbies are expansions of
- 16:00your humanity. Like they regulate your
- 16:02nervous system. They protect your
- 16:04identity. And sometimes if you follow
- 16:06them long enough and get passionate
- 16:08about about them enough, they can
- 16:10actually lead you to your purpose as
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