You only need 6 months to change your life — Transcript
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- 0:00Six months ago, you told yourself this
- 0:02is going to be the year. You set the
- 0:03goals, you made the promises, and
- 0:05chances are you probably fell behind.
- 0:07It's happened to the best of us. I've
- 0:08been there, wondering how the heck am I
- 0:10going to catch up on everything I said I
- 0:11would do. But, here's the good news. It
- 0:13only [music] takes six months to change
- 0:15everything. Some of the most successful
- 0:17people alive made their biggest leaps in
- 0:19a single six-month stretch. They just
- 0:20had a plan that made turning their life
- 0:22around feel inevitable. All you need is
- 0:24what I call the four-week edit to set
- 0:26yourself up for the next six months.
- 0:28Because you don't need to burn your
- 0:29whole life down, you just need to edit.
- 0:32I've shared this with thousands of
- 0:33founders I work with, and some [music]
- 0:34finally hit goals they've been
- 0:35struggling with for years, and I really
- 0:38believe you can, too. So, watch till the
- 0:40end because the version of you six
- 0:41months from now will thank you for
- 0:43[music] it. So, let's start with week
- 0:44one, where the focus will be to
- 0:46envision. Where are you actually going?
- 0:49You can't change your life if you don't
- 0:51know what you're changing it into. If
- 0:53you skip this, you'll literally spend
- 0:54the next six months busy, but you'll end
- 0:57up in the exact same spot you're at
- 0:58because you don't know where you're
- 0:59going. So, there's only two things you
- 1:01can do to set your vision, and the first
- 1:03one is to visualize your 10.0 self. Most
- 1:05people, they set goals like this. Let's
- 1:08get healthier. Let's make more money.
- 1:10But, if you can't describe the vision
- 1:11you have for your life with the same
- 1:13specificity as you could your current
- 1:15situation, then that's not a vision.
- 1:17That's just a wish. The 10.0 version of
- 1:19you is looking at all the best moments
- 1:22where you've shown up put together in
- 1:24one day. That is your 10.0 self. You and
- 1:27I [music] got to figure out what that is
- 1:29so that you can aim at it because you'll
- 1:31never hit a target you can't see. So,
- 1:33here's how we do that. Number one, we
- 1:35have to get specific in four key areas.
- 1:38No vague words allowed. The first one is
- 1:40the body. Then we've got your bank,
- 1:42>> [music]
- 1:43>> the money side. Then we have our
- 1:44calendar, our time. Where are we
- 1:47spending it? How are we investing
- 1:48[music]
- 1:49it? And then finally, we've got people.
- 1:52Now, here's the trick. We have to write
- 1:54it like it's already true. I like to go
- 1:56to the end and say like it's December
- 1:5731st and it's already happened. How
- 2:00would I write it down? I'm not just
- 2:01going to write like be healthier. I'm
- 2:03going to say I weigh, I completed a
- 2:05marathon, I completed a 5K, whatever it
- 2:08is. On the bank side, the money side,
- 2:10you say I made and I like profit, I
- 2:14invested, calendar, I spent.
- 2:17I work out.
- 2:19And then the people, now we're talking
- 2:21about I am surrounded and you also put I
- 2:24don't spend time with those people. This
- 2:28is how we set the vision. The trick is
- 2:31to do it in present tense [music] or
- 2:33past tense. What we never want to do is
- 2:35put it as future tense. Now step three
- 2:37is we grab all of this and we turn it
- 2:40into a vision board, visual
- 2:42representation of the life you're
- 2:43creating. And I'm going to give you the
- 2:45prompt that's going to make you generate
- 2:46the vision board based on what we've
- 2:47written down. I want to visualize what
- 2:49my life is going to look like in 6
- 2:50months from
- 2:54me for any gaps that might need to be
- 2:55there for context, then create a
- 2:57hyperrealistic image that puts me inside
- 3:00that life so that I can see myself
- 3:02living it every day. And the model's so
- 3:04good that you can actually feed it an
- 3:05image of yourself, you can actually make
- 3:07it real real. What I want you to do is
- 3:09save it as your desktop wallpaper on
- 3:12your laptop and anytime you open up your
- 3:13phone, you start working on your
- 3:15computer, ask yourself, how am I doing
- 3:17on that? I'm looking at this stuff three
- 3:19times a day meaningfully, like pausing
- 3:21and being there with it because I want
- 3:23to align all my actions to doing that
- 3:25work. Those 10 minutes will literally
- 3:27give you more clarity than you've
- 3:28probably had in the [music] last 10
- 3:30years. Now most people will just stop
- 3:32right here and just run with it, which
- 3:33would be awesome, but that's not what
- 3:35we're going to do. Knowing what you want
- 3:37is only half the job. Now we have to
- 3:39reverse engineer.
- 3:40Most people just do the work and they're
- 3:42like, I hope it gets me where I got to
- 3:44go. Hope is not a plan. And what we're
- 3:46going to do is we're going to flip it.
- 3:48We now have the end goal in sight. Now
- 3:50we got to work backwards from that to
- 3:52build a plan that actually makes sense.
- 3:54You can have all the hope in the world,
- 3:55but if you have the wrong strategy,
- 3:56ain't going to get you anywhere.
- 3:58This is what I call identity-based
- 4:00goals. So, identity-based goals is
- 4:02pretty much have,
- 4:06be,
- 4:07and do. Have is all the stuff we just
- 4:10talked about, the things that we said we
- 4:11want. Vision,
- 4:13things around the money we want, the
- 4:15relationships,
- 4:18the body, the bank, right? Where do we
- 4:20put money? This is the things that you
- 4:22want to have. These are your [music]
- 4:24goals. So, we got to ask ourselves, who
- 4:26do I need to be to have those things?
- 4:28And these are the things, these are the
- 4:29I am statements, right? You want to
- 4:31write down an athlete, if you want to
- 4:34work on your body. I remember that was a
- 4:35big thing I wrote down and then I
- 4:36started doing CrossFit. And the first
- 4:38workout I did, they were like, "Hey
- 4:39athletes, what's up?" And I was like,
- 4:40"Oh crap, I guess I became an athlete.
- 4:42I'm valuable. I am productive." The big
- 4:46one for some of you is, "I am an
- 4:48extrovert." You can be an introvert in
- 4:50moments, but you can also show up as an
- 4:52extrovert. Write it down. This is our
- 4:54identity. This is who I believe that I
- 4:56am, even if today I don't have any proof
- 4:58of it, I need to be there. But now we
- 5:00got to go to the habits, the things that
- 5:02the person that's being, that has those
- 5:05goals, what do they do? I'll tell you,
- 5:06things like, "I don't drink. I eat
- 5:10healthy." Our lives today are a
- 5:13reflection of decisions we made 6 months
- 5:15ago. That's why for me, the identity is
- 5:18a byproduct of our habits. You can have
- 5:21the vision to have a six-pack, but if
- 5:22you keep eating in the kitchen, you
- 5:24will never have abs. Two years ago, I
- 5:27realized that I was an Iron Man, I
- 5:29didn't look the part. I didn't look like
- 5:31I worked out. I didn't look fit. So, I
- 5:33woke up one day and decided, "I'm going
- 5:35to have visible abs." And I went on the
- 5:37journey, and it was hard. Even when I
- 5:39was doing it, I worried that it was
- 5:41never going to happen, but I stayed at
- 5:43it. Two years later, continue to
- 5:44maintain the same body weight because my
- 5:46identity shifted. Things that were
- 5:48habits are no longer habits once you
- 5:50adopt them as identity. So, now we have
- 5:52a vision of what we want to achieve and
- 5:54now we have a plan on how to get there.
- 5:55But, now we got to go to week two where
- 5:57we learn to delete.
- 5:58Here's my question for you. What's
- 6:00quietly holding you back from this
- 6:02stuff? Cuz you can't build a new life on
- 6:05top of the old one. We need to make room
- 6:07for you to be able to install these new
- 6:08things and you have to cut before you
- 6:10build. And there's two things quietly
- 6:13eating away at your time and it's found
- 6:15in your calendar and in your circle. So,
- 6:17the first thing we have to do is we have
- 6:19to avoid the dragon. And these are the
- 6:21things that are pulling you off track
- 6:23that are just so easy to reach. The app
- 6:26that's one tap away, the one glass of
- 6:28wine every night just to take the edge
- 6:30off. All these temptations around you
- 6:32that you can just remove to make them a
- 6:34little harder to reach for. You won't
- 6:36beat those with willpower. Willpower
- 6:38runs out. So, instead of continuing with
- 6:41that, we got to add some friction. We
- 6:43have to make it hard to do the wrong
- 6:45things. It is easier to avoid the dragon
- 6:48than to slay it. So, here's how you can
- 6:50do it for yourself. First thing, we have
- 6:52to log your time for the week. See, most
- 6:54people don't know where their time goes.
- 6:56So, what I like to do is be very precise
- 6:58and log every 15 minutes. Have a timer
- 7:00that goes off and write down, what did
- 7:02you do? What did you work on? And we got
- 7:04to audit our time. And we got to do that
- 7:06for a week. Now, we have a log of
- 7:08everything we did. Step two is to go
- 7:10back through each one and circle in red
- 7:14all the things that are pulling you back
- 7:16away from your goal and your vision. And
- 7:18then circle in green all the things that
- 7:20were pushing you and supporting your
- 7:22vision. If you said yes to joining a
- 7:24call with a bunch of other peers that
- 7:26are like you, that was supportive. If
- 7:28you answered a phone call from a friend
- 7:30that you met in high school that
- 7:32continues to complain all the time and
- 7:33you know they're going to complain, you
- 7:34answer the phone just so you can listen
- 7:35to them complain, that pulls you away.
- 7:37Just be honest with you. Does it support
- 7:40or does it subtract? Now, what we do is
- 7:42we take the list of everything that was
- 7:45pulling you away and we put it in a
- 7:47bucket and we build a plan. First off,
- 7:49we should cut it. Make it hard to
- 7:52access. If we can't, then we want to add
- 7:55some friction. I don't know if you've
- 7:56ever seen these like bricks that are
- 7:58like an NFC tag where you tap your phone
- 8:00and essentially if you tap it, it means
- 8:02you can't go to Instagram or any social
- 8:04media app that you set up until you come
- 8:05back and tap it again. It creates
- 8:07friction to make it hard for you to make
- 8:10decision. And look, I get it's easy to
- 8:12say but it's harder to do in practice.
- 8:14The best way to stay compliant is once
- 8:15you made these decisions, tell your
- 8:17friends, tell your wife, tell everybody,
- 8:19"These are my decisions. If you see me
- 8:20doing it, question me on it." Once you
- 8:22free up your time, the worst thing you
- 8:25do is go and waste it again. So, that's
- 8:26why I built the perfect week template
- 8:28that's made just for busy CEOs that are
- 8:30juggling their team, their family, their
- 8:32travel. So, if you're a CEO that
- 8:33struggles with this, just find me on
- 8:35Instagram and DM me the word YouTube
- 8:37week and I'll send it right over. But,
- 8:38your time is only half the battle. The
- 8:41bigger problem is who you're doing it
- 8:43with. Now, we got to delete some other
- 8:44stuff that are taking our time and those
- 8:46are the people. You want to run a friend
- 8:48inventory. You are the byproduct of who
- 8:51you spend the most time with and they
- 8:52quietly set your ceiling. The ceiling
- 8:54could be so much higher if you
- 8:56surrounded yourself with people that are
- 8:58more positive. We allow ourselves to be
- 9:00around folks that take our energy. They
- 9:02suck our time. I call them energy
- 9:04vampires. And then there's people in
- 9:06your life that you know, when you're
- 9:07around them, they energize you. They
- 9:09drive you. They push you. They support
- 9:11you. Those people are amplifiers. When I
- 9:14was 17, I made a bunch of bad decisions
- 9:19and I ended up in rehab for 11 months.
- 9:21Through that process, I learned a lot
- 9:23about myself but one of the most
- 9:25powerful things they asked us to do at
- 9:26the end was build a transition plan. The
- 9:28decision of who we were going to not see
- 9:31and remove out of our life and who we
- 9:33needed to add and even if we didn't know
- 9:34who those people were, what kind of
- 9:36people they were. And if I didn't do
- 9:38that, I'm telling you today, I wouldn't
- 9:40be here. This for me was life or death.
- 9:43That decision saved me at 17, and
- 9:45honestly, it's what scales founders at
- 9:4740. If your enemy put sugar in your
- 9:50water, that won't hurt as much as your
- 9:52friend accidentally putting poison in
- 9:54it. I call it a friend inventory, and
- 9:56here's how we run it. So, we got the
- 9:58traits, we got vampires, and amplifiers.
- 10:01What I'm going to ask you to do is
- 10:02first, we have to write down the traits
- 10:05of people that are aligned with your
- 10:06goals. The habits, the vibe of that
- 10:09person. First one I'm going to write
- 10:10down is positive. I'm going to write
- 10:12down driven.
- 10:14Financially successful.
- 10:15I'm going to write down kind. I love me
- 10:18a kind, driven person. [music] The
- 10:20second step is we want to list everyone
- 10:22you've spent a lot of time with over the
- 10:24last 60 days and make a list of them,
- 10:26cuz we're going to categorize them into
- 10:28one or two lists. On the left side, we
- 10:29have our vampires. These are energy
- 10:31suckers. These are the people that are
- 10:33always asking you for stuff, or even
- 10:35worse, when you share your wins with
- 10:36them, they make you feel bad about it.
- 10:38On the other side, we have the
- 10:39amplifiers. These are the people that
- 10:41pump you up. These are the ones that
- 10:42teach you things every time you talk to
- 10:44them. They're always introducing new
- 10:45ideas to you. I always want to be in
- 10:47somebody's amplifier side. And that's
- 10:49what I'm doing here for you right now.
- 10:50All the amplifiers will have the traits
- 10:52typically that you need to become, and
- 10:54you put those people on this side,
- 10:56because if you spend the most time with
- 10:58them, then you'll become like them. Then
- 10:59everybody else becomes a vampire. And
- 11:01this is a tough one, because a lot of
- 11:02the people on this list are probably
- 11:04going to be family members. They're
- 11:05going to be friends you've known for 20
- 11:06plus years. But I'm telling you, the
- 11:08decision to create some space and love
- 11:10them from a distance will change your
- 11:12life. And what we got to do is we got to
- 11:14adjust our time to spend less time with
- 11:16the vampires and more time with the
- 11:17amplifiers. And if you don't have
- 11:18anybody in this list, let's go find
- 11:20them. And the pro tip, do the same thing
- 11:22with your social media feed. My rule is
- 11:23this, if I saw the person in the mall,
- 11:25would I pretend not to see them? They're
- 11:27vampires. [laughter]
- 11:28Just do yourself a favor and unfollow
- 11:30them, unfriend them. You don't have to
- 11:31have them in your life because you sat
- 11:33next to them in grade seven. So, now
- 11:34that you've made all this room in your
- 11:35time, here comes the fun part. We got to
- 11:37fill it back up, but this time with the
- 11:39stuff that actually will change your
- 11:41life. Week number three, install.
- 11:44Now that you have a vision and you have
- 11:45a clear junk drawer because you cleaned
- 11:47it all out and only the good stuff is in
- 11:49there, now we got to build the new life.
- 11:50We got to start putting stuff in it that
- 11:52are going to support the dreams. The
- 11:54first thing we have to do is we have to
- 11:55set our thermostat. Every person has a
- 11:58thermostat for things they feel they are
- 12:00allowed to have in their life. And
- 12:02essentially, if it goes up or down, you
- 12:05put on too much weight or your bank
- 12:06account has too much money, you will
- 12:08react. It's kind of crazy because some
- 12:09people are like, "Oh, I'm all into
- 12:11visualization and positive mental
- 12:13attitude." I'm like, if I stuck you in a
- 12:15commercial-grade freezer, I don't care
- 12:16how much positive attitude you're going
- 12:18to have, you're going to feel cold. So,
- 12:19it's all about your environment. Just
- 12:21look at Lewis Hamilton, the F1 driver,
- 12:23seven-time world champion, one of the
- 12:25greatest ever, one of my favorite
- 12:27drivers. And he drove for Mercedes.
- 12:282025, he switches to Ferrari, and
- 12:31suddenly, he can't even win. He can't
- 12:33get a single podium. He called it his
- 12:35nightmare. Same driver, same talent,
- 12:38different environment. Now, he's turned
- 12:40it around since, but that's how much
- 12:42your environment matters. It can make an
- 12:44amazing talent great, or it can hold
- 12:46them back. And your space, your
- 12:48environment, shapes you way more than
- 12:49you think. Last week we talked about
- 12:51making the bad stuff hard to reach. This
- 12:53week we flip it and we make the good
- 12:55stuff easy. So, what we got to do is we
- 12:56got to design your space that does the
- 12:58work for you. Number one, we got to make
- 13:00the good stuff easy stuff, and we got to
- 13:02put it right in the path. So, for
- 13:03example, if you make a commitment, you
- 13:05want to go to the gym the next morning,
- 13:06grab all your stuff, put it right next
- 13:09to your bed so that when you wake up,
- 13:10you literally step into your gym
- 13:11clothes, step into your shoes, and you
- 13:13go to the gym. If you need to drink more
- 13:15water, you can preset your water jug the
- 13:17day before and have it on your desk, and
- 13:19you can make a commitment. You can set
- 13:21an alarm that goes off to remind you.
- 13:22You want to do something today that
- 13:24makes the decision of tomorrow super
- 13:26easy. And next, we have to upgrade our
- 13:28inputs. This goes back to the feed. I
- 13:30love to use my social media to feed my
- 13:32mind. I'm building an AI venture studio
- 13:34to a billion dollars. So, all of my feed
- 13:36is AI people talking about building
- 13:39billion-dollar companies. Anybody who's
- 13:40always complaining about things they
- 13:41can't control, guess what? I either mute
- 13:43them, unfollow them, and they just don't
- 13:45end up into my world. And number three
- 13:46is we have to surround ourselves with
- 13:48people who've already achieved the
- 13:49things we want. That is the ultimate
- 13:51hack. I don't care how rich you are, you
- 13:53get in a bigger room and you're the low
- 13:55person on the totem pole, you will
- 13:57naturally want to rise to the rest of
- 13:59the room. So, that's why you want to
- 14:00install good spaces, inputs, and people
- 14:04into your life. And here's a pro tip. If
- 14:05you're ever trying to get connected to
- 14:07somebody, instead of asking them for the
- 14:09thing, ask past them. Be like, "Hey, do
- 14:11you know anybody who could help me with
- 14:13X, Y, Z?" If they're open to it, they
- 14:15might say, "Well, I could. What do you
- 14:16need?" But if they're not, they'll just
- 14:17say, "Well, no, but I know this person
- 14:19can help." And that works really well.
- 14:21Nine times out of 10, they'll actually
- 14:22reply saying, "I can help. What do you
- 14:24need?" If you get this right, doing the
- 14:26right thing stops becoming hard. It
- 14:28doesn't need discipline, it doesn't need
- 14:29willpower, it just becomes automatic.
- 14:31But the perfect space, that environment
- 14:33without the right daily non-negotiables,
- 14:36will never work. So, we got to lock
- 14:37those in. Lock in your non-negotiables.
- 14:40One of the components of the coaching
- 14:42work I do with people is these five
- 14:44daily non-negotiables. And what I asked
- 14:46myself when I started that program is,
- 14:48"What are the things I could ask my
- 14:49clients to do every day that if they
- 14:51just did, whether they talked to me,
- 14:53showed up, studied, do the things that I
- 14:55was teaching them, would guarantee their
- 14:57success?" You remember those daily
- 14:59habits that we circled back in week one?
- 15:01Now, we need to make sure you stick with
- 15:02them for the long term. Because the one
- 15:03thing about habits, it's either we're
- 15:05doing them and our life is spiraling up,
- 15:07or there's a day where we skip it and we
- 15:09slowly spiral down. That's why I have a
- 15:11rule, I never skip the gym more than two
- 15:12days in a row. For years, I've never
- 15:14gone two days. One day of travel, no
- 15:16problem. Two days in a row, no, no, no.
- 15:19And that's the difference between people
- 15:20who can change and people who don't. If
- 15:22you can't build non-negotiables, then
- 15:24you don't have the foundation to push
- 15:26off of. But, how do you turn them from a
- 15:28habit to what I call a non-negotiable?
- 15:31Here's how we make them stick. First
- 15:33off, we have to pick the
- 15:34non-negotiables. These are one or two
- 15:35habits for each of the like mind, body,
- 15:38or business that we talked about in the
- 15:39do part of the identity-based goals.
- 15:41Two, we have to make sure we start with
- 15:43embarrassingly simple, small, easy wins.
- 15:46I'm talking about writing one page of
- 15:47your book or one short workout or one
- 15:50call to somebody you don't know. So
- 15:51small that you're just going to do it
- 15:53cuz it seems so simple. So, you're
- 15:54trying to build momentum. Number three
- 15:56is we're going to habit stack. We're
- 15:57going to attach each one of those
- 15:59non-negotiables to something you already
- 16:01do. So, for example, if you know you got
- 16:02to take your vitamins and you brush your
- 16:03teeth every day, you put the vitamins
- 16:05next to your toothbrush, so you tie the
- 16:07brushing of your teeth to taking your
- 16:08vitamins. I have a Kindle that's next to
- 16:10my hot tub, so every time I go in the
- 16:12hot tub, I read my Kindle. I make it
- 16:13really easy to do the right thing by
- 16:15making them non-negotiables. I'm
- 16:17installing those things into my life to
- 16:19make them super easy. And number four,
- 16:21one of my favorite things to do is
- 16:22create rewards and stakes for each one
- 16:24of them. As I mentioned, when I did
- 16:26Project Visible Apps, I had stakes on
- 16:29the line. If I didn't hit my goal, which
- 16:30is kind of crazy at the time, 90 days to
- 16:32lose 32 lbs, if I didn't hit it, I made
- 16:35a commitment to everybody that I would
- 16:37enter in a fitness competition as is.
- 16:40I'm talking no tan, [music] no shaving
- 16:42my chest, just straight up on stage in a
- 16:44mankini. Like, did not want to do that.
- 16:47Luckily, my desire to not show up on the
- 16:49internet having those photos exist was
- 16:51more than the pain it took to get
- 16:52visible abs. But, it's got to be
- 16:54something that costs you big time. And
- 16:56then the reward was a new supercar. I'll
- 16:58tell you, I did more to avoid the thing
- 17:00I didn't want than the thing I wanted.
- 17:02And I do this all the time. Even last
- 17:03year in my media company, me, Sam, and
- 17:05Todd, Todd runs it, says I'm a creative
- 17:07director, and myself, we had a goal, get
- 17:09to 8.8 million followers across all
- 17:11platforms on social media. If we don't,
- 17:13we put our Porsches on the line. We
- 17:15literally put our cars. And I will tell
- 17:17you, right up till the last day, it was
- 17:20a question mark if we were going to keep
- 17:22our cars. But it kept everybody aligned.
- 17:24The upside is I bought them some really
- 17:26cool Rolexes, but the downside was
- 17:28losing their car. And I'll tell you, for
- 17:29the three of us, we didn't want to lose
- 17:31our Porsche. So now everything is ready.
- 17:33We got the vision, we got the space, we
- 17:35got the habits, but this is exactly
- 17:37where most people completely fall off.
- 17:39So let's make sure that's not you. Week
- 17:41four, we track.
- 17:43How do you make sure that it actually
- 17:45sticks? You built the whole machine now,
- 17:47but this week is how you keep it running
- 17:48for 6 months. Setting it up is
- 17:51relatively easy. I said it was 3 weeks,
- 17:53but you could probably do it in like 45
- 17:54minutes. Sticking to it, that's where
- 17:56most people fall off. Most of the time
- 17:58it's because we don't track our
- 18:00progress. And if we don't track it, we
- 18:01don't keep score, we don't create
- 18:03momentum, it doesn't feel good. So we
- 18:04have to keep score.
- 18:06Most people don't quit because they
- 18:08fail. They quit because they can't see
- 18:10they're winning. They don't stop to look
- 18:12back at how much elevation they made as
- 18:14they've climbed that mountain or how
- 18:15much money they made in their business.
- 18:16They just see the massive gap between
- 18:18where they're at and where they want to
- 18:19be. So we have to keep score so that we
- 18:21can measure it because we can't manage
- 18:23what we don't measure. What gets
- 18:24measured gets managed. Seeing the proof
- 18:26stack up is what keeps you going and
- 18:28what motivates you. Those little tiny
- 18:30wins, those little daily habits that
- 18:32might feel super small. I'm telling you,
- 18:34if you do them for three, four, five,
- 18:35six days in a row, you'll feel so good
- 18:37about yourself. Do you know that most
- 18:38people have never gone to the gym for 8
- 18:40days in a row? They're like, I got to
- 18:42take a rest day. From what? You're not
- 18:44even sore. Now you're building momentum.
- 18:46Now you're feeling good. Now you're
- 18:47identity building. So here's how we keep
- 18:50score.
- 18:51We have to track.
- 18:53The first thing we have to do is we need
- 18:55a north star [snorts]
- 18:58metric. This is the one number that
- 19:01proves you're moving. This could be
- 19:03weight, this could be revenue, this
- 19:05could be the pages read, this could be
- 19:07the workouts done. But essentially, you
- 19:09log it, you measure it, you have it
- 19:11tracked. Not 20, [music] that one one.
- 19:14It's like the leading indicator of
- 19:16everything else. If you're making
- 19:17progress, everything falls into place.
- 19:19Then, we need a daily scorecard. This is
- 19:23where we can have other data points that
- 19:26we measure that are aligned, that are
- 19:28precursors, that are activities that
- 19:30make this easier. And we want to put it
- 19:32into a spreadsheet, and we want to do it
- 19:34the same time every day, no exceptions.
- 19:37I like to put it in my calendar. At the
- 19:40end of my day, I log in, it's the last
- 19:41thing I do, and I update my scorecard
- 19:43for the activity that I was doing for
- 19:45that day that's aligned with my goals.
- 19:47And then lastly, we have to do a weekly
- 19:51check it. This is where you review and
- 19:53you see if you're making progress, cuz
- 19:55if you're not, this is your opportunity
- 19:57to make feedback. Every Friday, the last
- 19:59thing I do on Friday is to review my
- 20:00week to then adjust my next week based
- 20:02on my calendar, based on my time, based
- 20:04on my energy. What do I need to install
- 20:05that's aligned with tracking? Then I
- 20:07choose the one or two moves for the
- 20:09following week, not 15, and I install
- 20:12them into my week. That process will
- 20:14make it so inevitable. Now, here's a pro
- 20:16tip, cuz I've done this several times in
- 20:18my life. You share this progress
- 20:20publicly. I'm talking 75 Hard, post the
- 20:23photo. Iron Man training, post the
- 20:25photo. Project Visible Abs, post the
- 20:26videos. Make it so that you can't hide.
- 20:29Make it this is non-negotiable, this is
- 20:31what we're doing, this is the strategy,
- 20:33and I'm going to make it public. Cuz
- 20:34guess what? Sunlight sanitizes all
- 20:37things. Sanitizes bad habits, it
- 20:38sanitizes willpower. It will make sure
- 20:41that you got what you need to win this
- 20:42time. If you do this for 6 months and
- 20:44you stack those wins, you will wake up
- 20:47to a completely different life. So,
- 20:49that's the plan. Edit. We have to
- 20:51envision, we have to delete, we have to
- 20:52install, and now we have to track. 4
- 20:54weeks to set you up for the next 6
- 20:56months. But here's the twist that nobody
- 20:58sees coming. The loop. This isn't a
- 21:00one-time thing. It's something that you
- 21:02set up over the next 4 weeks that you
- 21:04live for the next 6 months, and then you
- 21:06run it again. You start from envision.
- 21:08Now, we need to delete. You go to
- 21:10install, and then you find the new
- 21:12track, and you do it over and over and
- 21:15over. But, this time you want to dream
- 21:16even bigger. You want to ask yourself
- 21:18what more you can do. Who do you need to
- 21:19become? A life well-lived is
- 21:21well-examined. And this allows you to
- 21:23examine it so you can get better. Don't
- 21:25wait till New Year's Eve because the
- 21:27calendar was never the point. You just
- 21:29start. 6 months is 6 months. Let's start
- 21:32today and change your life. So, here's
- 21:34my ask. Leave a comment and let me know
- 21:36what's the first thing you're going to
- 21:38delete this week. Write it below in the
- 21:40comments. And remember, if you want my
- 21:42perfect week template, just find me on
- 21:43Instagram and DM me the word YouTube
- 21:45week and I'll send it right over. And if
- 21:47what you want is building a business
- 21:48from absolute scratch, go find my new
- 21:50second channel, Dan Martell Daily,
- 21:52subscribe to it, and watch me post every
- 21:55day so that I can help you build the
- 21:57business of your dreams. Or click this
- 21:58video and I'll see you on the other
- 21:59side.
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