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- 0:00Right team, I have one question for you
- 0:02and that is what are your laws? What are
- 0:06the laws in which you are building your
- 0:08business? These are mine. These are my
- 0:10laws. And in today's video, we're going
- 0:12to talk about why I have them. We're
- 0:13going to talk about why I think you
- 0:15should have them. And we're also going
- 0:16to talk about why if you don't currently
- 0:18have laws, this could be the single
- 0:21reason why you're not growing. So, let's
- 0:25get into it. My name's Tom, by the If
- 0:28you're new here, hey, I run Scale 20. We
- 0:30are a consulting and advisory firm. We
- 0:32help sixf figureure online experts,
- 0:34business coaches, and mentors scale to
- 0:36seven figures per year. It's the journey
- 0:38that I've been on over the past few
- 0:39years. Uh, if you want to know how I do
- 0:42things, there is a link down below in
- 0:44the description box. It'll take you to
- 0:45my free email miniourse called Six to
- 0:47Seven Figures in 7 Days. It is
- 0:49everything that I've done into your
- 0:51inbox in just a simple threeinut daily
- 0:53read. It's probably the best value
- 0:56exchange I could ever come up with. So,
- 0:59let's get into this. Like I said, these
- 1:01are my laws. Let's see if you could
- 1:02maybe if the the camera can Who knows if
- 1:06it can? Who knows? I don't know. We'll
- 1:08find out in post-production. Okay,
- 1:09that's the fun part of this stuff.
- 1:12The laws. Why do I have laws? Why do I
- 1:15think you should have laws? And what are
- 1:17mine and how to create yours?
- 1:21So these laws are the framework from
- 1:25within which I am building my business.
- 1:27One of the most common mistakes that
- 1:29I've seen helping hundreds of multi6 and
- 1:33seven figure online experts over the
- 1:34past few years is that they end up
- 1:38trying to copy someone else's business.
- 1:41And what they end up doing is they end
- 1:43up building a prison because they
- 1:46haven't built it based on the things
- 1:48that they actually value. So what this
- 1:51is, this is a list of six rules that I
- 1:53have which are essentially linked to my
- 1:56core values as a human. And what that
- 1:58means is that the business that I am
- 2:00currently building ends up being
- 2:02something that is aligned with my core
- 2:05values. Hopefully this kind of makes
- 2:07sense and is like a little bit logical.
- 2:08But the problem is, this is the catch 22
- 2:11with things like mentorship and
- 2:13consulting, business coaching, is that
- 2:16we're looking for help. We're looking
- 2:17for support and guidance, but then what
- 2:19ends up happening is that we end up just
- 2:22trying to copy or end up just
- 2:24inadvertently copying someone else's
- 2:27version of a business. I see this all
- 2:29the time. So, this has happened a bunch
- 2:31over the last couple years with clients
- 2:33that I've helped is that they've gone
- 2:35and they've worked with a mentor. They
- 2:37followed their model to a tea. They've
- 2:39built the thing that they thought they
- 2:41needed to build, but what ends up
- 2:44happening is they've ended up building
- 2:46something that feels like [ __ ] I'll
- 2:47give you an example of this. So, a
- 2:50couple of my clients, uh, Annie and Ben.
- 2:53So, these are folks who have been around
- 2:55for a while. They're no, they're not
- 2:58newbies. They have built businesses
- 3:00before. Annie had built a business up to
- 3:01$200,000 a month. She ended up having a
- 3:05team of like 15 people, like something
- 3:09crazy, like 10 plus coaches. And she had
- 3:12a sales team. She had all of these
- 3:14things. And when she built this thing,
- 3:19she realized it was an absolute headache
- 3:21to manage. She was having to churn
- 3:23through team members all the time,
- 3:25having to replace them all the time. Her
- 3:27clients weren't getting the best results
- 3:29that they could have got. and it just
- 3:33became this like giant slowmoving beast
- 3:36that was like low profit and it wasn't
- 3:38it just wasn't the thing that she
- 3:40wanted. So for the last like nine months
- 3:43I've helped her transition to a business
- 3:45which is lean, fun, extremely
- 3:49profitable. She doesn't have a big team
- 3:51anymore. She has now finally validated
- 3:54her model where she did her first month
- 3:57without a single sales call which is
- 3:59insane.
- 4:01and she's now making less money, but
- 4:04she's now making more profit. And the
- 4:06most important thing is she now loves
- 4:09her business. Now, when she started
- 4:11working with me, instead of me telling
- 4:14her, "Hey, Annie, you want to do what
- 4:17I'm doing," which is ba basically all of
- 4:19those things. Instead of me saying,
- 4:21"Just copy what I'm doing," and telling
- 4:24her, "Hey, here's all of the stuff that
- 4:26we're going to implement together.
- 4:28Go and implement them." I said to her, I
- 4:31said, "This business has to be built
- 4:35under your laws." Okay, my job is to
- 4:40provide guard rails. So, I give the
- 4:43always give the analogy during
- 4:44onboarding of when we'd go and do like
- 4:4710 pin bowling as a kid, right? You
- 4:49know, you'd get a big heavy ball, you'd
- 4:50bowl it down the alley, and when we were
- 4:52kids, we were [ __ ] And so we would have
- 4:56the rails so the boarding go in the
- 4:59gutters, right? Like hopefully you've
- 5:01experienced this. And I say to all of my
- 5:04members who join me in scale 20 when
- 5:05they start in the onboarding workshop, I
- 5:07say to them, "Hey, my job is to provide
- 5:10the guard rails.
- 5:12Your job is to [ __ ] around and find out
- 5:17what works for you within those
- 5:20guardrails." And so I don't tell them to
- 5:23copy everything that I do. I tell tell
- 5:26them to take inspiration from the things
- 5:28and the projects that I help them
- 5:30implement, but then ultimately choose
- 5:32which are the ones they are going to
- 5:34implement into their business based on
- 5:36their preferences and their core values.
- 5:39So that's one example of why it's
- 5:43important not to follow someone else's
- 5:45laws and to create your own. So, let's
- 5:49talk about mine and we'll talk about
- 5:51actually where people go wrong with
- 5:53starting to to create their laws.
- 5:56You won't be able to see it. You might
- 5:57be able to see it. Let's see if I can
- 5:58get my eyes out the way so this focuses.
- 6:00But the laws start with a goal, with an
- 6:03outcome. Like I said at the beginning of
- 6:05this, I think a lot of people feel like
- 6:09things are really hard for them and that
- 6:13for whatever reason, all of these things
- 6:14that they try, these projects they
- 6:16implement, all of this stuff, these
- 6:18tactics, these tools, these coaches that
- 6:20they work with, nothing ends up working
- 6:21or everything feels really hard. And
- 6:25when I ask people like, "Okay, great.
- 6:27What's the goal here?" They don't have a
- 6:30[ __ ] clue. They are not able to like
- 6:35that give it to me like on a plate in a
- 6:39single line what they are actually
- 6:41trying to achieve. They're like they go
- 6:45in this kind of like mind cycle of like
- 6:46you can see their eyes moving around
- 6:48like flicking from side to side trying
- 6:49to like think of something. So we keep
- 6:52it really simple. What are you trying to
- 6:54build? What's the outcome? For me my
- 6:56goal is really clear. A couple of years
- 6:58ago, I watched a video with Sam Ovenson
- 7:01and he was talking about how the most
- 7:03fun that he had in business was when he
- 7:05had a lean team of five and they were
- 7:08doing 500 grand a month in
- 7:10consulting.com.
- 7:11And so for me, my goal right now where
- 7:15the next goal for me with my business is
- 7:18to get to that milestone of 500 grand a
- 7:22month
- 7:24every single month. And as you will see
- 7:26down here, maybe you'll be able to see
- 7:27it, maybe you can't. It says with a team
- 7:29of five max.
- 7:32So I have set the law of my business.
- 7:35The constraint is that we are going to
- 7:38get to this outcome but with the
- 7:41constraint of only having five full-time
- 7:44employees.
- 7:46Having constraints and giving yourself
- 7:48constraints is the best forcing function
- 7:51to make sure that you are making the
- 7:53right moves. and specifically the right
- 7:55moves for you. So for me, guess what? I
- 8:00don't want a team of 10, 15, 20, 30, 40.
- 8:04Unlike Sam, I don't have that thing in
- 8:07my side my head that is pulling me
- 8:09towards being a billionaire. For me, I
- 8:12want to have a business that is
- 8:15fulfilling, has flexibility and freedom,
- 8:18which means I can go work wherever I
- 8:19want, whenever I want.
- 8:22And fundamentally it has to be fun as
- 8:24[ __ ] So when he's there saying like his
- 8:28favorite
- 8:29the most fun he had in business was 500
- 8:32grand a month despite him you know he at
- 8:34the time he was would talk about how he
- 8:36wanted to be a billionaire and he had
- 8:38aspirations for that. But for me I'm
- 8:42optimizing for fun. If I was optimizing
- 8:44for a billion
- 8:46I couldn't do that with a team of five.
- 8:48There are some people that would make
- 8:49the claim now that with AI you could do
- 8:51that. Uh I think uh
- 8:56yeah I I I don't think we've seen actual
- 8:59evidence of that. There will be some
- 9:00people who say there are some some
- 9:02examples where we've got where we've
- 9:04either had that or we've got close. Um
- 9:08yeah there are many pe many businesses
- 9:09on the S&P 500 that are uh have a
- 9:13valuation over a billion and have a team
- 9:15of five or less. So for me team of five
- 9:18goal 500 grand a month. So what are my
- 9:20laws? My laws are then based around some
- 9:24of the values that I hold as a human.
- 9:29One of my values, my core driving values
- 9:32of building my business is based around
- 9:35my distinct lack of
- 9:42let's not call it distinct lag.
- 9:46I'm trying to I'm trying to come up with
- 9:47a better way of saying my hatred for
- 9:49authority, but I can't. So, let's just
- 9:51say my hate my hatred for authority.
- 9:54I used to be a dentist. If you if you
- 9:56you may or may not know this, but 10 it
- 9:58was 12 years ago, I used to be a
- 10:00dentist. Qualified as a dentist. I did
- 10:01seven years of university. In my first
- 10:04year of being a dentist, I told my boss
- 10:06to [ __ ] off after she asked me to do
- 10:09something unethical. She asked me to
- 10:11overtreat patients and I literally saw
- 10:14red and I told her to [ __ ] off and I
- 10:16nearly got basically struck off as a
- 10:18dentist in my first year because she had
- 10:21authority over me and she it was her
- 10:24word against mine and so I was there
- 10:26saying to like the university and or
- 10:28whoever I was in
- 10:31the people who did all the the
- 10:32rulemakings around there and and they
- 10:34were like Tom like it's her word versus
- 10:36yours and I was like I realized I was
- 10:38[ __ ] So I fortunately I managed I
- 10:41apologized I managed to get through that
- 10:43year and then I decided I was like nah
- 10:45okay I'm not being a dentist anymore.
- 10:47But this has been a theme across my
- 10:49entire life is that bosses have
- 10:51typically been told to [ __ ] off by me at
- 10:54some point. That wasn't the only one.
- 10:56And so what for whatever reason I have a
- 11:02disliking towards being told what to do.
- 11:04I don't like being told what to do. So
- 11:07for me the the thing that I am
- 11:10optimizing for in my business is a blank
- 11:14canvas is an empty calendar is a
- 11:17completely clear diary. That is the
- 11:19thing that I am most aligned with from
- 11:23my like core values. My core values is
- 11:25like I want to have a free diary. So
- 11:28there are a number of laws that I have
- 11:31which are based around that.
- 11:34The first is that
- 11:38I am not going to do any sales calls.
- 11:41So, I'm very fortunate in the for the
- 11:43past two years, we are now coming up to
- 11:45a week away from my 2-year anniversary
- 11:48for my final ever sales call. And it's
- 11:50mad to think I've made like nearly just
- 11:53just shy of $2 million since then
- 11:55without sales calls, which is nuts. And
- 12:00that was the big rule that I set, my
- 12:02law, the law that I set for myself two
- 12:04years ago was that I'm not going to do a
- 12:05sales call again. I occasionally get
- 12:07people who are like, "Oh, Tommy, you
- 12:08cool for you just hop on a quick call?"
- 12:10And I'm like, "No,
- 12:13I'm not cool with that." And so I say no
- 12:16all the time to people who want to jump
- 12:18on calls with me. The third rule that I
- 12:22have here is related to this. So it's
- 12:24six hours of Zoom calls max per week.
- 12:27So there's no getting away from it. Like
- 12:30as a digital business owner, the way I
- 12:33converse with people and communicate
- 12:35with people is through Zoom. It
- 12:37typically whether it's with clients,
- 12:39whether it's um with my team, it's going
- 12:42to be through Zoom. So I have a remote
- 12:43team and my clients are are all over the
- 12:46world. I think we're over in like 33
- 12:48different countries now. We just signed
- 12:50our first Korean South Korean uh member.
- 12:54So YJ Park who joined uh is a uh Pilates
- 12:59studio business coach which is super
- 13:01super cool. So we are really now a very
- 13:04very global business and so I I can only
- 13:07communicate people with people through
- 13:09Zoom. But something that I realized a
- 13:11few years ago like two three years ago
- 13:13when I was doing like
- 13:1515 20 sales calls a week was that Zoom
- 13:19calls would absolutely kill my energy.
- 13:22they would soak my battery down to zero
- 13:25really fast. And what that meant is that
- 13:28the quality of my work elsewhere
- 13:30suffered. So I very quickly realized I
- 13:32was like there's only a certain amount
- 13:34of time I can spend on Zoom calls. Now
- 13:38let me give you an example of where this
- 13:41is my rule. But I have a client called
- 13:43David, David Jacob who recently started
- 13:45working with me. He is the opposite to
- 13:48me. Zoom calls give him energy. So, we
- 13:52just like spoke about this the other
- 13:54day. We were on our master class called
- 13:56scale 20 and he was talking about how he
- 13:58is launching his new offer and he's
- 14:01going to have 20 one-on-one clients,
- 14:04which means that he's going to have 10
- 14:05hours per week of one-on-one calls,
- 14:08which for me is like a bit of a
- 14:11nightmare, but for him, he loves it. So,
- 14:13for him, Zoom calls aren't work. They
- 14:16give him energy. He loves having
- 14:17conversations with people. That's his
- 14:19that's his zone of genius.
- 14:22So despite me and him working together
- 14:25because I'm helping him grow his
- 14:26business, the rules in which he is
- 14:28building his business h are completely
- 14:30different to mine. They're completely
- 14:32different. So it's another example of
- 14:35like where I'm helping him implement
- 14:38certain systems into his business but
- 14:41fundamentally there has to be a
- 14:43different way in which he is managing
- 14:46his time because he has a different
- 14:48preference into how he wants to manage
- 14:50the relationships with his clients. So
- 14:53for me my rules are to minimize Zoom
- 14:56calls, no sales calls and minimum of
- 14:59maximum of six hours of Zoom calls per
- 15:02week.
- 15:03And so those are my kind of like two
- 15:05rules around keeping the diary free. Now
- 15:08the third rule around keeping the diary
- 15:09free is around optimizing for the [ __ ]
- 15:11that I love doing. So number five, the
- 15:14rule number five is Fridays are for the
- 15:16golf. You may have heard of this, you
- 15:18know, Fridays are for the Saturdays are
- 15:20for the boys. Well, for me, Fridays are
- 15:22for the golf. So, Friday Fridays are for
- 15:24me a day where I've gotten to the end of
- 15:26the week, and typically by that point,
- 15:28I've done a lot of work. I kind of want
- 15:30to spend some time outside with some
- 15:33friends. I got to do that yesterday. So,
- 15:35I went and played golf on Friday with my
- 15:38brother, my cousin, and Max. And had an
- 15:42awesome day out. Full day out on the
- 15:44golf course. Luckily, the weather was
- 15:46great for us, even though it's supposed
- 15:47to be raining. And had a great day out.
- 15:49Now, here's the thing.
- 15:51I'm currently not nailing that rule. So
- 15:54yesterday, Fridays are for the golf.
- 15:56I've been managing to do
- 15:59uh like 70% of Fridays this summer. I've
- 16:02managed to get out on the golf course,
- 16:04but it's not 100%. So this is something
- 16:06that I'm aiming towards. These laws
- 16:08don't have to be just like something
- 16:09that is happening right now. These can
- 16:11be laws that you can build towards. So,
- 16:14another example of this is number four
- 16:17is no work past 6 p.m. So, this week was
- 16:24the second week or was the first week of
- 16:26the quarter. So, first week of Q4. And
- 16:29the reality is I did a really poor job
- 16:31of finishing up the projects, the main
- 16:33projects that I was working on in Q3.
- 16:36So, this week I came in to this week and
- 16:38I was like, I'm just going to get these
- 16:40[ __ ] projects done. I had chipped
- 16:41away at a couple of them over the course
- 16:44of Q3, but I hadn't completed them. So,
- 16:46on Monday, I worked until 1000 p.m. And
- 16:50that broke one of my laws. One of my
- 16:53laws is not working past 6 p.m., which I
- 16:55I'd actually
- 16:58generally do really, really well. So,
- 17:02this is where it's like these laws are
- 17:05can there's they're not designed, you
- 17:07know, you're not going to go to jail for
- 17:08breaking your laws, right? But the
- 17:10problem is is if you break these laws
- 17:12consistently, that's when things start
- 17:15to fall apart. So I'm absolutely happy
- 17:18to break a law once every, you know,
- 17:20once in a while to get, you know, to be
- 17:24flexible. I think that's the thing with
- 17:26these is that like these laws are there
- 17:28to provide the guard rails. They're not
- 17:31there to basically put you in jail.
- 17:34Okay? You don't want to be in like a
- 17:36life jail. You want to actually have fun
- 17:37with your life. So, these are about
- 17:38being flexible. So, my no work, no work
- 17:41past 6 p.m., I failed on Monday this
- 17:45week. I worked till 10 p.m. to try and
- 17:46get what our main project or one of our
- 17:49main projects, project glass box. I
- 17:52worked till 10 p.m. on Monday and
- 17:55but I woke up on Tuesday and I was
- 17:58stoked because I had completed that
- 18:00project and it was a huge thing that I
- 18:01needed to complete. I also completed I
- 18:04worked over on Tuesday and Wednesday.
- 18:06Didn't work past 6 p.m. on Tuesdays when
- 18:08Wednesday and Thursday and I got the
- 18:12rest of these projects complete this
- 18:14week. A lot of work, a lot of deep work
- 18:16needed to get these projects done, but I
- 18:18got them done. But I broke I broke a
- 18:21law.
- 18:23So these are my laws. The goal 500 grand
- 18:26per month,
- 18:28no sales calls, dream clients only. This
- 18:31is the final piece that I haven't spoken
- 18:33about yet. Six hours on Zoom calls. Six
- 18:36hours on Zoom max. No work past 6 PM.
- 18:41Fridays are for the golf and a team of
- 18:43five max. So let's talk about the final
- 18:46one. So dream clients only. I'm very
- 18:47fortunate that by following these rules,
- 18:51what has happened is number two, which
- 18:53is dream clients only, has just
- 18:56has just happened. I don't have to worry
- 18:58about this anymore. So by having the
- 19:01rule of no sales calls,
- 19:05what it has forced me to do, it has been
- 19:07a forcing function to change the way I
- 19:10acquire clients. And so instead of
- 19:13getting on calls with people who maybe
- 19:14don't know who I am, who don't
- 19:16understand how I do things, who aren't
- 19:19familiar with everything that we do in
- 19:21scale 20, aren't familiar with the
- 19:22people that we help, what makes a great
- 19:25member or client to work with me. What
- 19:27I've done is I have built
- 19:30a bank of assets on YouTube across these
- 19:35two channels that I have that do all of
- 19:38the selling for me. So what happens is
- 19:42not only are the people who are
- 19:44interested in working with me completely
- 19:47aligned with everything that I stand for
- 19:49because they've consumed so much of my
- 19:50content that they're like they fully
- 19:52understand and trust who I am and they
- 19:55understand what are like what working
- 19:57with me entails. They understand that
- 19:59I'm going to drop a few fbombs. They
- 20:02understand that I have extremely high
- 20:04standards. They understand that my model
- 20:07isn't about building a big big team, low
- 20:11profits, stressful
- 20:13type of business. They understand
- 20:15through all of the assets that I've put
- 20:17out onto my long form channels, they
- 20:20understand what I'm about. So, what
- 20:22happens is instead of me having to
- 20:24convince people to try and work with me,
- 20:28my audience end up being presold on the
- 20:32value of working with me. And what that
- 20:34does is that that means my laws of dream
- 20:37clients only
- 20:39takes care of itself. Now, the reason
- 20:41it's still there as a law and it's not
- 20:43just like a goal or an outcome is that
- 20:48dream clients only doesn't have to be
- 20:50your law. So, it may sound like like
- 20:56counterintuitive, but there are
- 20:58definitely some people out there who
- 21:00they don't give a [ __ ] about whether
- 21:03they work with dream clients or not.
- 21:05This is absolutely the case for me. It's
- 21:08the number one along with how to get
- 21:10them. It's the number one biggest thing.
- 21:11Dream clients only. But there are people
- 21:13out there where the money matters more
- 21:17than the people who they work with and
- 21:19the quality of people who they work
- 21:20with. And frankly, the online kind of
- 21:23education space is full of people like
- 21:25that. Full of people who just frankly
- 21:26they don't give a they don't give a [ __ ]
- 21:28about other people. They just care about
- 21:30money hitting their bank account. Now,
- 21:33the truth is I'm not there to judge
- 21:36that.
- 21:37I have no problem with
- 21:40as long as they're getting clients
- 21:42results, I'm cool with that. But for me,
- 21:44it's not just about getting clients
- 21:46results. It's about working with the
- 21:47right people. Because if I work with the
- 21:49wrong people, it negatively impacts my
- 21:51mental energy and my mental state, which
- 21:53then negatively impacts the way I can
- 21:54help the right people. So for me, dream
- 21:57clients only is about making sure that
- 22:00my energy is protected so that my
- 22:02clients get the best version of me at
- 22:04all times. So these are my laws and my
- 22:09recommendation to you is to have yours,
- 22:13to build yours. So here's my little
- 22:15challenge to you. Go get a card, piece
- 22:17of paper, get your notebook, get a pen,
- 22:20and you need to spend five, 10 minutes
- 22:23writing down what your laws are. Now,
- 22:25once you've done that, tell me about it.
- 22:28Just go literally just drop them in the
- 22:30comments. These are like five lines.
- 22:31Please drop them in the comments. I'd
- 22:33love to see genuinely, this is not me
- 22:35trying to do engagement bait. That kind
- 22:37of [ __ ] doesn't [ __ ] do anything, by
- 22:39the way. I genuinely just want to know
- 22:41what are the things that are driving
- 22:43you. I would love to know what your laws
- 22:46are. So, please go drop that below. If
- 22:49you haven't subscribed already,
- 22:50subscribe. Why the hell not? And um
- 22:54yeah, I spoke about this more when I did
- 22:56my Q3 business review and Q3 life
- 22:59review. It was an hourong video where I
- 23:01literally
- 23:03tore apart my business, showed you all
- 23:05of the numbers of how my business is
- 23:06running, growing, all the projects that
- 23:08I'm working on. And I think it's cool
- 23:11cuz I haven't seen anyone do it like
- 23:13that. Um, if you want to go watch that
- 23:14video, I'm going to send you up to that
- 23:16video next. Right, that was sick. Go get
- 23:18your laws in and I will see you in the
- 23:20next one.
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