You Don’t Attract What You Are: The Truth About Toxic People — Transcript

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1. 0:00where you're recognizing that no matter
2. 0:02what you say or how you say it or how
3. 0:05clear
4. 0:06a communicator you are, and you know you
5. 0:08are. You know you're a good
6. 0:10communicator. No matter how good at it
7. 0:14you are, you seem to continuously be
8. 0:17shut down
9. 0:19by people who essentially don't want to
10. 0:21hear you or are deliberately confused or
11. 0:25are just like choosing to shut it down
12. 0:27and negate it, right? Or run off and be
13. 0:30ghosty, whatever whatever tactic it is
14. 0:33that they use, every single time it
15. 0:35happens it feels like a slap in the
16. 0:36face.
17. 0:37And your mother said you're done with
18. 0:39it. Now, I actually wonder if this is
19. 0:40what she's talking about, this building
20. 0:42of almost like
21. 0:44it's a form of rejection.
22. 0:46Okay? In your In your heart
23. 0:48chakra area, okay? And um
24. 0:53just remember who you are, okay?
25. 0:55Remember who you are. Remember that
26. 0:56you're a great communicator. Remember
27. 0:58that that this is a time in your life to
28. 1:00process things, to really get on, you
29. 1:03know, uncomfortable, you know,
30. 1:04comfortable in the discomfort, and to
31. 1:07let things be, to let things happen, and
32. 1:09not to take someone else's behavior as a
33. 1:14reflection of your worth, your value, or
34. 1:17who you are. These people aren't even
35. 1:19reflections of people you should be
36. 1:21dealing with or people that are on your
37. 1:23level, okay? I know a lot of people like
38. 1:25to say, "Oh, well, whoever you attract,
39. 1:27that's what you are."
40. 1:30That's not true, okay? That's not true.
41. 1:32Just look at empaths. Empaths, level
42. 1:34three, four empaths, for example, the
43. 1:36the most amazing healers in the world
44. 1:38attract narcissists and sociopaths more
45. 1:40than any other group of people. There's
46. 1:41no rhyme or reason to that. There's no
47. 1:43proof of that, right? That's that's
48. 1:45spiritual chacha. Like they just like to
49. 1:48say crap, okay? So, it's not Like
50. 1:50basically what your mother is saying is
51. 1:51that the people that you attract, you
52. 1:53should not allow their their bad
53. 1:55behavior to reflect poorly upon you and
54. 1:58who you are or what you deserve, but you
55. 2:00do have to hold yourself accountable.
56. 2:01You do have to take responsibility for
57. 2:03entertaining clowns, okay? Just be
58. 2:04careful there.