Women Are Shocked By The Reality Of Dating For Men — Transcript

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1. 0:00Here we go.
2. 0:01>> Man, are you okay? No, I'm I'm
3. 0:03Are you okay? What is going on? Like,
4. 0:05I've been seeing this firsthand. I've
5. 0:06been kicking it with people like Cookie
6. 0:07King and going to the E squad house and
7. 0:09like, dude, like what is going on with
8. 0:11y'all? Like, this is happening. Why is
9. 0:14this happening to you guys? Like, what
10. 0:16is going on? And the scary thing is it
11. 0:18appears to be getting worse. So, I'm
12. 0:20just genuinely asking you guys, what is
13. 0:22going on? Are you okay?
14. 0:23>> Half of men are dating.
15. 0:24>> Half of men are dating.
16. 0:25>> What What statistic was that from?
17. 0:27>> Dating. That's what she
18. 0:28>> So, so for those of you who don't know,
19. 0:29men under 30, 63% of men under 30 are
20. 0:32single. On dating apps, women get 16 one
21. 0:35six 16 times as many matches as men do.
22. 0:38On Tinder, there are nine times as many
23. 0:40men as women. Nasty.
24. 0:41>> Yeah, there's nine times as many men on
25. 0:43women. So, yeah, about half of men
26. 0:44aren't dating. I would agree with that.
27. 0:45What do you guys think about See, cuz
28. 0:47when you keep saying that men have the
29. 0:49upper hand, I you're just discounting so
30. 0:51many men. I
31. 0:53>> agree. Right. BUT THAT'S THE PURPOSE
32. 0:54[laughter] AGAIN. I'M SORRY. All right,
33. 0:56guys. Stop interrupting each other,
34. 0:58please. Let's go one at a time. Astron
35. 1:00>> as [snorts] a girl with a dating app.
36. 1:04>> Which one? [laughter]
37. 1:05>> Hinge. I tried Tinder. Dude, it was the
38. 1:08grossest thing ever. Within like 5
39. 1:09minutes, some guys is like, "You want to
40. 1:11smash or not?" And I'm like, "Uh, I'm
41. 1:12out. I'm out. I'm out." Uh,
42. 1:14>> shout out to all the mode one guys who
43. 1:16we had a debate with last week.
44. 1:17[laughter]
45. 1:17>> Oh boy.
46. 1:18>> Um,
47. 1:20it's I don't know. I mean, I will tell
48. 1:22you, you know how do you seen those
49. 1:24memes? like uh when you order something
50. 1:27online like expectation versus reality.
51. 1:30It's certainly like that.
52. 1:31>> Yeah,
53. 1:31>> I will tell you that.
54. 1:32>> That's what people say about me when
55. 1:33they come to my podcast. [laughter]
56. 1:34>> Yeah.
57. 1:35>> Yeah. Well, I thought he was going to be
58. 1:36funny, but whatever.
59. 1:39>> So, it's it's something that it's
60. 1:42concerning, but I I have seen it because
61. 1:43I also have like my guy friends. I
62. 1:45created a profile for one of my guys.
63. 1:46>> Here we go. Tell me about this.
64. 1:48>> And
65. 1:50here's the thing. I have very bad
66. 1:51memory. Yeah.
67. 1:52>> I ended up matching with his baby mama.
68. 1:54>> Okay.
69. 1:55>> Oh my god. You created the profile.
70. 1:58>> I did. I did. I'm not good with faces
71. 2:01>> and I have severe ADHD. So talk to my
72. 2:04doctor, not me. Um and the matches that
73. 2:09he would get. It was like I'm like I
74. 2:10don't understand. Like why does your why
75. 2:12does your app does that and mine doesn't
76. 2:15do that? Like
77. 2:16>> so we've gone over this before. So women
78. 2:17will like women match with about 10% of
79. 2:20the people they try to match with. Men
80. 2:22match with six out of every 1,000.
81. 2:25>> What?
82. 2:25>> That's about how it is for the average
83. 2:26man.
84. 2:27>> Wow.
85. 2:27>> Men in the men in the top 10% actually
86. 2:30match with women. So the the men in the
87. 2:32top 10% will will match with 10% of
88. 2:35women, but the but the average man
89. 2:37matches with six out of every 1,000
90. 2:40white swipes.
91. 2:40>> Like whenever I did a swipe, right, that
92. 2:42I liked the guy and it was like
93. 2:44automatically match. Yeah. Well,
94. 2:46whenever I did a swipe with my guy
95. 2:47friends, it was like,
96. 2:50>> you want you want to know the absolute
97. 2:52>> What's going on with your broken?
98. 2:54>> The absolute worst statistic when it
99. 2:56comes to dating apps. You ready to know
100. 2:57what it is, guys? Look this up.
101. 2:59>> 68% of men report getting friend-zoned
102. 3:02from a dating app. 68% of men report
103. 3:06going out with meeting a girl,
104. 3:07[laughter] matching. But what I'm
105. 3:09telling you guys is they match with a
106. 3:10girl, they match with a girl, they go
107. 3:12out with them, and then they get
108. 3:13friend-zoned. I cannot think of anything
109. 3:15worse. I would rather get spit in the
110. 3:17face than go on a date with a girl and
111. 3:20get friend-zoned. Dating apps are trash
112. 3:22for [snorts] me.
113. 3:22>> You guys are better as friends.
114. 3:24>> Oh my god.
115. 3:24>> All right. THE NEXT GIRL, THE NEXT GUY
116. 3:27ON A DATE WITH THEM, friend zone him,
117. 3:28please. [laughter]
118. 3:29>> With with my friends profile, I learned
119. 3:31that there's a limit of swipes.
120. 3:33>> All right.
121. 3:33>> Wait, wait, wait, wait. Let's go around
122. 3:34the horn. Have you ever friend-zoned a
123. 3:36guy?
124. 3:36>> Always.
125. 3:37>> Have you ever friend zone a guy? Friend
126. 3:39zoned a guy?
127. 3:40>> Friend [laughter] zone?
128. 3:41>> No. Okay, Tori, have you friend-zoned a
129. 3:44guy? [clears throat]
130. 3:45>> Have you friend zone guys?
131. 3:46>> Have you? All you guys have Okay, so
132. 3:48everybody friend zone. I've even had sex
133. 3:50with him in the friend zone.
134. 3:51>> Yes. All I do is friend zone girls.
135. 3:52That's all. They are They're all
136. 3:53friends. All of them are friends.
137. 3:54>> They're all friends. You got to work to
138. 3:56go out with me. Like I'm not You're all
139. 3:58getting friend zone. Sorry. Of those.
140. 4:00>> He's too much work. See, he'd be too
141. 4:01much work for me.
142. 4:02>> Of those guys. [laughter] I just hit him
143. 4:03with I just hit him with those guys. Of
144. 4:05those guys
145. 4:07>> of those guys,
146. 4:09>> how many of those guys that you
147. 4:10friend-zoned would have made like a good
148. 4:13match for you later on?
149. 4:14>> Okay. I only friend zone if they're not
150. 4:16a match. And I will tell them exactly
151. 4:18why. And I'm like, "Look, I don't think
152. 4:20we're a good match because of X, Y, and
153. 4:22Z." And most of the time they agree.
154. 4:24>> That's very Russian of you to be that
155. 4:25direct that. [laughter]
156. 4:27>> It's very Russian of you. Yeah.
157. 4:29>> Most people aren't like that though.
158. 4:30Most girls are not like that. It's not
159. 4:33you, it's me. I'm just not in a I'm just
160. 4:35not in a place right now where I want to
161. 4:37be in a committed relationship right
162. 4:38now. [laughter] I just want to let you
163. 4:40know it's not you.
164. 4:42>> I want you to feel good about yourself.
165. 4:43You're going to make someone's very
166. 4:44happy in the future. I just want you to
167. 4:46know that you're going to make someone
168. 4:47very happy.
169. 4:47>> Thank you so much. [laughter]
170. 4:50>> Too many.
171. 4:50>> Too many. Oh, we all have.
172. 4:52>> It is script. What do you mean?
173. 4:54[laughter]
174. 4:54>> We can still I mean we can still have
175. 4:55sex, but like you're going to make
176. 4:56someone else very happy.
177. 4:58>> GPT right there. Like give something to
178. 5:00someone.
179. 5:01>> Oh no. Like I will literally be like
180. 5:03look this view and this view we don't
181. 5:04match. And it's like when it's such a
182. 5:06big view like how are we going to go
183. 5:08through life? How are we going to like
184. 5:09decide on what our kids are going to do?
185. 5:11Blah blah blah. If we can't agree on
186. 5:12this topic we're going to argue. We're
187. 5:14going to fight. That's a divorce. Why on
188. 5:16earth would I get into this
189. 5:17relationship? Why would I go in this
190. 5:18deep? Why would I give you access to my
191. 5:19body if this I already know if this this
192. 5:21isn't going to work out and I'm going to
193. 5:22waste my time.
194. 5:24>> Agreed. It's important to have the that
195. 5:25set of non-negotiables. And um yeah,
196. 5:29>> look at me as a single mom with only one
197. 5:32kid. Thankfully,
198. 5:33>> if there's one piece of advice you can
199. 5:35take from me, swallow.
200. 5:37>> Oh, amen.
201. 5:39>> That
202. 5:39>> There's a clip. There's a clip. And we
203. 5:42are cancelled. [laughter]
204. 5:44>> Hey, do you want to swallow that pill?
205. 5:46Is that red pill or blue pill? I found
206. 5:52a white pill.