Woman explains how women play games with men they aren't attracted to — Transcript
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- 0:00Hey yo, what's going on guys? Your boy
- 0:02Juice Savvy and we back on the camera.
- 0:04So look, in today's video uh we got this
- 0:07woman revealing what women really think,
- 0:09right? The girls that you want, the type
- 0:11of woman that you like, you know, the
- 0:13attractive women with how they think,
- 0:15right? So we going to get right into it,
- 0:17man. I haven't watched the video, but
- 0:20uh I like I think I think she's going to
- 0:22be honest here. So we going to break it
- 0:24down, man. Oh, [ __ ] Here we go again.
- 0:26Let's get right to it.
- 0:27>> This is going to be a condensed version
- 0:29of every one of my top-performing videos
- 0:32so that you can understand why women do
- 0:34the things that they do, and it's going
- 0:36to be very blunt New York style. There's
- 0:38not going to be an explanation to it.
- 0:40Most of them are going to just be short
- 0:41and sweet, but hopefully if you listen
- 0:43to this one video, it clears things up
- 0:45for you. Number one, why do women play a
- 0:48hot and cold game? It's because you are
- 0:50not the one. Yeah. You are on a roster
- 0:52with her and she is focusing elsewhere.
- 0:54She's trying to see if somebody else is
- 0:56going to be better for her while getting
- 0:57attention from you. That's it. Number
- 1:00two,
- 1:00>> Oh boy. I mean, we could start with that
- 1:02one alone. I mean,
- 1:04guys, if your woman's playing hot and
- 1:05cold, man, she does not You're not her
- 1:08first choice. That's something that She
- 1:10may She may find you attractive. She may
- 1:12like your attention, but you're not her
- 1:14first choice. And if you're not her
- 1:16first choice, you're a placeholder.
- 1:18So uh that's that's that's that's
- 1:20important, man. Um you'll you'll feel it
- 1:22because her energy won't be consistent,
- 1:25right? You know, one moment she'll be
- 1:27giving you attention, maybe texting you,
- 1:29uh you'll be hanging out with her.
- 1:31Um and then all of a sudden, maybe you
- 1:34won't hear from her as much. Here and
- 1:36there she'll say, "Oh, I was sorry. I
- 1:37was busy. I'm sorry. I went to bed
- 1:39early. I didn't see your text message."
- 1:42Bro, she saw your message, right? She
- 1:45she She could have hung out with you,
- 1:46bro, but she is trying to
- 1:50You're You're You're on the roster.
- 1:52You're not a priority for her. So, if
- 1:54she's doing that hot and cold stuff,
- 1:56that's what it will look like. Her
- 1:58energy just won't be consistent at all,
- 2:00right?
- 2:02Why does she take a long time to text
- 2:04you back?
- 2:05Well, two reasons. She either is playing
- 2:08a toxic manipulative game where she
- 2:10knows that if she pulls away that you're
- 2:12going to chase her, and women feel as if
- 2:15if men chase, they become more
- 2:18uh infatuated with them. So that's
- 2:20number one, and number two, you're not
- 2:22doing it for her and she's talking to
- 2:24other people. That's it. That is it.
- 2:27Number three, why does a woman say that
- 2:29she wants to go out with you but then
- 2:31never does? It's because she doesn't
- 2:33want to. The end. Yeah. Why would she
- 2:36continue to say yes yes yes yes yes and
- 2:39then never make time to do it? Because
- 2:41she doesn't want to make time to do it.
- 2:43That's it. Yeah. I think that those two
- 2:46points,
- 2:47point two and three, are also part of
- 2:49the hot and cold games that women play.
- 2:51Saying, "Oh yeah, I'll go out with you."
- 2:53But then whenever it comes time to set
- 2:55the date,
- 2:56she flakes or she has an excuse as to
- 2:59why she can't come,
- 3:01right?
- 3:02I'd argue after the first time a girl
- 3:04flakes, you give her one more chance.
- 3:08And then if she flakes again, you move
- 3:10on. Some of you guys probably are like,
- 3:12"She gets one chance."
- 3:15Hey, and I if that's how you if that's
- 3:17the type of guy you are, all more power
- 3:19to you,
- 3:20right? But
- 3:22I'd argue like after the second time,
- 3:25you move on.
- 3:26>> [clears throat]
- 3:26>> Guys, I had a chick, man.
- 3:28I You know, I don't know if this is what
- 3:30it was, but you know, she was giving me
- 3:32attention. We was [clears throat]
- 3:33talking consistently for maybe for a
- 3:35couple weeks. And we had tried to hang
- 3:37out. This is a girl I knew from high
- 3:39school. So it was like we kind of
- 3:41reconnected after, you know,
- 3:43you know, she saw she saw me doing the
- 3:45modeling and you know, the body, you
- 3:47know, I've been I've been on point. I've
- 3:49been looking right. So, um long story
- 3:52short, man, I tried to hang out with her
- 3:55on a couple of occasions, right?
- 3:58The first time she said that her mom
- 4:00called her and she had to uh go help her
- 4:05mom with something. I was like, "Fine.
- 4:07Okay, cool."
- 4:08I didn't think nothing of it because how
- 4:10it kind of worked out was like she she
- 4:13kind of like asked [snorts] me if I
- 4:14wanted to hang out. So it was like,
- 4:17you know, like it was it wasn't like she
- 4:19asked me on a date. No, it was no
- 4:20nothing like that, but it was like a
- 4:21mutual like, "Hey,
- 4:23do you want to hang out?" Like, yeah,
- 4:26kind of like that.
- 4:27So I didn't think nothing of it.
- 4:29>> [snorts]
- 4:29>> Cool. The second time, I actually
- 4:31planned something. Like we were going to
- 4:32go to this ice cream shop. Um
- 4:35yeah, we was going to like just chill
- 4:37out around the city.
- 4:39And she flaked again, right? Like right
- 4:42before the date, you know, and I had
- 4:44planned it.
- 4:45And she I forgot the reason why she
- 4:46said. I don't remember.
- 4:49I think it was the same thing like her
- 4:50mom had called her or something like
- 4:52that.
- 4:53And I'm like, "Yo, all right." So what I
- 4:55did, I fell all the way back. I
- 4:57unfollowed her on social media. I don't
- 5:00text her no more,
- 5:02you know, and it just kind of fizzled
- 5:03out. So, you know, that's kind of how it
- 5:06look, you know, if if you're
- 5:08you try to set one the first date and
- 5:10the second date and she's flaking, she
- 5:12doesn't like you, right? You're not
- 5:13You're not the priority.
- 5:15You know what I mean? Um cuz women women
- 5:17would love to like
- 5:19It's It's funny. Women would love to
- 5:21like
- 5:22text you and "Oh, hey, how you doing?"
- 5:25and and and literally kick it on the
- 5:27phone for for no reason. But when they
- 5:29time when it comes time to actually see
- 5:31you in person, that's when they're like,
- 5:33"Oh my god. Like what do I do?" You
- 5:35know, it's like, "Uh I don't I don't
- 5:36really want to see this guy."
- 5:38Uh
- 5:39You know what I'm saying?
- 5:40They're so in the moment.
- 5:42It's so funny. Like you could have a
- 5:44girl be down to see you um that night.
- 5:46Like say she hits you up like, "Hey, can
- 5:48I see you tonight?" right? And you're
- 5:49like, "Oh, I'm sorry. I'm busy right
- 5:51now."
- 5:51And you say, "Oh, can I Can we see each
- 5:53other tomorrow?" Tomorrow never comes.
- 5:56She doesn't want to see you tomorrow cuz
- 5:57they're so in the moment, right?
- 6:00So when you're trying to plan a date
- 6:01sometimes with girls and they don't
- 6:03really find you that physically
- 6:04attractive or you're not her first
- 6:06option,
- 6:08when it comes time to that date, she's
- 6:10not feeling the same or feeling the same
- 6:12excitement about, "Oh yeah, I want to
- 6:13go." Because she is not really genuinely
- 6:15like attracted to you like that. Or
- 6:17you're not you're not the priority in
- 6:19her mind. This other guy is who's not
- 6:22really giving her attention, right? So
- 6:24I'm kind of yapping, but uh yeah, this
- 6:27is this is uh this is a good video. I
- 6:29like how she's just being honest.
- 6:31>> Number four, why does a woman watch your
- 6:33Instagram stories or stories in general
- 6:35and then do nothing about it? It is
- 6:37because there's two reasons. Either she
- 6:39wants to stay in the front of your mind
- 6:41so that you're thinking about her and
- 6:43questioning why she's doing those things
- 6:44or she wants to make sure that your life
- 6:46is exactly the same as she left it. And
- 6:49if you guys haven't gone on a date or
- 6:51maybe you did one or two one or two
- 6:53times, she's just checking on you, just
- 6:55seeing what's going on, but truly no
- 6:57intention of anything else. I forgot the
- 6:59number I'm on. If a woman comes back to
- 7:02you when you're in a relationship and
- 7:03she pings you a few times, that's only
- 7:05manipulative tendency. She knows that
- 7:07you are happy in another relationship
- 7:09and she wants to get in the front of
- 7:10your mind so that you can lose some type
- 7:14of feeling or disconnect from the person
- 7:16that you're seeing. She has no
- 7:17intentions of getting back with you and
- 7:19she'll probably play with you a few
- 7:20times um and then you let go of the girl
- 7:22that you really like, you get back with
- 7:24her, and then she teases you and drops
- 7:26you. Not going to lie, yeah, that's when
- 7:29women see you like leveling up in their
- 7:32faces,
- 7:34especially after they were the ones that
- 7:36dealt with you, it's hard It's a hard
- 7:38pill for some of them to swallow,
- 7:40especially if you are becoming more
- 7:42attractive, like you're starting to look
- 7:43better. You've been in the gym, which is
- 7:46what I hope a lot of you guys are doing.
- 7:47You know, you're working on your
- 7:48finances.
- 7:50That's when some women will try to come
- 7:51back, you know, and a lot of them don't
- 7:54really may not really want to.
- 7:56It could just be, "Oh, let me see if I
- 7:58can still get this guy. Let me see if I
- 8:00can It's all an attention thing, man.
- 8:02When they see you are
- 8:04when you see when they see you look like
- 8:06the type of guy who doesn't like need
- 8:09validation, that's when they want to
- 8:11come get that validation from you. They
- 8:13want to come get that attention back
- 8:15from you, right?
- 8:16Cuz you're you don't look the same
- 8:18anymore. Now it's like, "Hmm, let me see
- 8:20if I can still do this with this guy."
- 8:22But bro, women love to waste time.
- 8:25They They're on their phones all day.
- 8:28They don't mind texting certain guys,
- 8:31you know, hopping on the FaceTime.
- 8:34So as men, our time has to be valuable,
- 8:38right? You have to be a spot out if
- 8:39she's really feeling you or she's not.
- 8:41Like, am I wasting my time here trying
- 8:43to talk to this girl?
- 8:45Set dates. If she's if she's if she
- 8:48being responsive to me, is she flaking?
- 8:50Is she uh her energy consistent?
- 8:54Is she texting me back within a
- 8:56reasonable time frame? All that 8 hours
- 8:59later BS, that's no, bro. She's She's
- 9:01been on her phone all day.
- 9:03You know, a reasonable time frame,
- 9:05right? I'm not saying like right away.
- 9:09All that stuff
- 9:10it is in line with the woman who wants
- 9:12to be a part of your program,
- 9:14you know?
- 9:17I don't I Letting girls spin back is
- 9:21another thing. I don't want to get into
- 9:22that in this video, but
- 9:25uh let me know y'all thoughts about
- 9:26that. Would have y'all Would y'all let a
- 9:27girl spin back on you if you know she
- 9:30leveled up and
- 9:32you know, thing the things was
- 9:33different? Would you Would you let her
- 9:35spin back? I don't know. Let me know
- 9:36y'all comments on that. Why does a woman
- 9:38come back after you break up and beg for
- 9:40your attention and beg to get back with
- 9:42you, and then once she does, she breaks
- 9:43up with you? It's because she was
- 9:45fantasizing about the good times and not
- 9:47about the bad. So she was thinking about
- 9:50all the things that you guys did
- 9:51together. She was reminiscing. Then she
- 9:53got back with you and she She like,
- 9:55"Nothing has changed. My feelings
- 9:57haven't changed. I just needed that last
- 9:59rodeo to get it out of my system. I
- 10:01recognize Mhm. Woman love this closure
- 10:03thing, man. I said this person's not for
- 10:05me and I need to ditch them. Why does a
- 10:07woman play games? A woman plays games
- 10:09for two reasons. Well, three reasons,
- 10:11but let's go over the top two. Number
- 10:13one, she feels as if she has to connect
- 10:15with you in a toxic way so that you like
- 10:17her because she doesn't like herself.
- 10:20So, she's going to play all these little
- 10:21games with you to get you hooked because
- 10:23she doesn't think that you're really
- 10:24going to like the version of her. That
- 10:26could be a subconscious thing and she
- 10:28might not even be aware of it, but that
- 10:30is what's going on. The other top like
- 10:32number two is because you are not the
- 10:33one and you think that she's playing
- 10:35games, but she's really not. She's just
- 10:37so disinterested that it seems that way
- 10:39and she wants your validation. Why does
- 10:40a woman go out with you? You feel like
- 10:42things are really hot and heavy and then
- 10:44she just pulls away. That happens
- 10:46because she had time to think about the
- 10:48relationship and she did not see you as
- 10:50a long time partner or somebody else
- 10:52caught her eye. That's it.
- 10:54I yeah, you have to think about it like
- 10:56bro, woman got hella hella options or
- 10:59maybe the illusion of options, right?
- 11:01They think they have options, but it
- 11:02really it's just guys that want to sleep
- 11:04with them a lot of times. Going to be
- 11:06honest with y'all. Um I always give
- 11:08y'all the real. So,
- 11:10uh
- 11:13sometimes if a woman
- 11:15there there's a lot of reasons as to why
- 11:18a woman could go on a date with you and
- 11:20then pull back.
- 11:22The main ones I could think of, one, she
- 11:24really just honestly didn't like you
- 11:26from the jump. She just wanted to use
- 11:27you for a free date, maybe free food,
- 11:30depending on where y'all went.
- 11:31Um just to be completely honest with
- 11:33y'all, women do that. I mean, they use
- 11:35guys for free food.
- 11:37Uh it's 2026, you know, wake up.
- 11:40Uh
- 11:40another reason as to why that could have
- 11:43happened or why that could happen is
- 11:45she's playing games. Again, it's a
- 11:48tactic to reel you in more.
- 11:50Um
- 11:51and then obviously what she said, that's
- 11:53that's probably the one of the bigger
- 11:54reasons as to why, you know, she just
- 11:57didn't doesn't like you like that and
- 11:59you're not the guy she thought you were
- 12:02when y'all were on the date and now
- 12:04she's not as interested anymore, right?
- 12:06Maybe something you said,
- 12:08you know, cuz it you know, the your aura
- 12:10and your energy is important, too,
- 12:11right? Along with being attractive.
- 12:14And maybe you're a fit guy,
- 12:17you know, when you speak, you know, how
- 12:19does it sound like?
- 12:20Do you know what you're talking about,
- 12:22you know?
- 12:24I I think what you say matters a lot a
- 12:26little bit less when she finds you
- 12:27attractive, but it still matters, right?
- 12:30How your how your delivery is, right?
- 12:32So,
- 12:34you know, that's just something I that I
- 12:36know for a fact, you know. I think
- 12:38that's important. How can you catch a
- 12:40woman that just wants you for your
- 12:41money? Honestly, you can't. You're going
- 12:43to have to spend time to figure that
- 12:45out. There are major signs which you
- 12:47guys are clear. You get this. I want to
- 12:49go to fancy restaurants, spend the money
- 12:51on me, and here's the Gucci bag that I
- 12:52want. Those types of things, yes. You
- 12:55know that she wants you for your money
- 12:56and she wants to be taken care of, which
- 12:58is totally fine if that's what you're
- 12:59into. Totally fine. Otherwise, you are
- 13:01going to have to spend the time because
- 13:03women are super manipulative and they
- 13:04can get through a lot of these little
- 13:06pathways so that you overlook the
- 13:08toxicity and her true intentions.
- 13:12100% facts.
- 13:13>> [snorts]
- 13:14>> Wow, I almost want to give her a
- 13:16standing ovation. Like
- 13:19not like not even giving pick me vibes,
- 13:21just simply like give me all the truth.
- 13:25Like this is what women will do and they
- 13:28like she said in the end,
- 13:30you know, there will be the obvious
- 13:31signs like, you know, oh, she's just
- 13:33downright asking you for expensive dates
- 13:35and to buy her things and
- 13:39if she's like coming out the gate asking
- 13:40for that, obviously, right? That's an
- 13:42obvious thing.
- 13:43But there's the women are very
- 13:45manipulative. That's the point that she
- 13:47that she
- 13:48left that she that she said, right?
- 13:50Women are very manipulative.
- 13:52So,
- 13:54a lot of times you may not already know
- 13:55what's really going on. She's playing
- 13:56with your emotions. Once a woman knows
- 13:58she has your emotions,
- 14:01I'm not saying she does this
- 14:02consciously, but I feel like some
- 14:04subconsciously
- 14:06she kind of plays with you a little bit
- 14:08because once you're in your emotions as
- 14:09a man, you're kind of in her playing
- 14:12field.
- 14:13I don't know if this is getting too far
- 14:14into the red pill, but this is just kind
- 14:16of how I think and I always give y'all
- 14:18the real. Once you once you
- 14:20play into a woman's emotions and
- 14:23get in that emotional frame with a woman
- 14:26with a woman, right? You can be
- 14:27emotional by yourself and cry as a man
- 14:30and
- 14:31you know, nobody has to know, right? But
- 14:33when you get there with the woman,
- 14:34you're in her playing field. She can toy
- 14:36with you, she can do whatever, right?
- 14:39That's not for men, that's not most of
- 14:41our strong suits, our emotions.
- 14:44So, don't don't go there. Don't When she
- 14:46when she's trying to be manipulative,
- 14:48you have to see through
- 14:50her, right? Because she's going to try
- 14:51to take manipulate your emotions to how
- 14:53you feel about things sometimes,
- 14:55depending on the type of woman she is.
- 14:58So, you got to see her for who she
- 14:59really is.
- 15:00Is she or she really like me for me or
- 15:03she playing with me? Is she Is this a
- 15:05game?
- 15:06Right?
- 15:08So,
- 15:10you know, it's just about, you know,
- 15:11what you having boundaries and what you
- 15:14will and will not tolerate as a man, you
- 15:16know? And I think
- 15:17to be real with y'all, I was able to
- 15:19enforce my boundaries a lot more with
- 15:21women when I actually had value and I
- 15:23actually had proof, social proof. I put
- 15:26in work on my body,
- 15:27uh my health, and now it's like I feel
- 15:29like I I'm demanding of certain things
- 15:32from just baseline level respect from
- 15:35certain women. But you'll be surprised,
- 15:37man, what some girls think they can just
- 15:39get away with and it's like that's baby,
- 15:41that's completely like just
- 15:43disrespectful, you know?
- 15:46My program ain't super strict,
- 15:48you know, I hey, I love me I'm real
- 15:51simple guy,
- 15:52but women just some women just really
- 15:54don't know how to move, bro.
- 15:57So, you guys you got to show them, man.
- 16:00And you got to peep peep the energy,
- 16:01man. That's the the biggest thing.
- 16:03Consistent energy
- 16:05is more consistent energy from a woman
- 16:07is a sign that she really does like you.
- 16:10If she's hot and cold, that's
- 16:11inconsistent. She's not She doesn't like
- 16:13you, all right?
- 16:15So, that was a great ass video, man. I
- 16:18think I'm going to end it here.
- 16:20I hope you got some value from this
- 16:21video, man. I love y'all. It's your boy
- 16:23Too Savvy. We out the camera, man.
- 16:24Peace.
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