Why Your Identity Is Blocking Your Manifestation (Here’s How to Fix It!) — Transcript

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1. 0:00If you've been manifesting for months,
2. 0:03listening to affirmations, [music]
3. 0:05using subliminals, doing everything
4. 0:07right, but nothing is changing [music]
5. 0:10or things change briefly and fall apart,
6. 0:14it's not because manifestation doesn't
7. 0:17work. It's because your
8. 0:19>> [music]
9. 0:19>> identity hasn't caught up to your
10. 0:21desire. And today I'm going to explain
11. 0:23to you exactly how identity blocks
12. 0:27manifestation,
13. 0:28why this happens [music] at a
14. 0:30subconscious and nervous system level,
15. 0:32and most importantly, how to fix [music]
16. 0:34it in a way that actually works.
17. 0:41Most people think
18. 0:42>> [music]
19. 0:42>> identity is what I believe about myself,
20. 0:46but that's far from [music] the truth.
21. 0:48Identity is much deeper than beliefs.
22. 0:52Your identity [music]
23. 0:54is actually your brain's model of who
24. 0:57you are, what feels normal, what feels
25. 1:01safe, [music] and what outcomes feel
26. 1:04allowed, what you subconsciously [music]
27. 1:07expect to happen to you. From a
28. 1:09neuroscience perspective, when your
29. 1:11brain [music] is constantly asking
30. 1:15based on who I believe I am, what should
31. 1:18[music] I expect from reality? So,
32. 1:21manifestation doesn't happen because you
33. 1:24want something. It happens because your
34. 1:28subconscious mind expects it to happen.
35. 1:32So this is why two people could listen
36. 1:35to the [music] same subliminals,
37. 1:38same affirmations,
38. 1:40apply [music] the two techniques and
39. 1:42tools to manifest their desires and
40. 1:45[music] only one person will get their
41. 1:48results.
42. 1:52Here's [music] something that most
43. 1:54manifestation content leaves out. Your
44. 1:57subconscious mind does not prioritize
45. 2:00desire. [music]
46. 2:01It prioritizes safety and consistency.
47. 2:05Psychological [music]
48. 2:06research shows that behavior is more
49. 2:09driven by identity [music] than by goals
50. 2:11or motivation.
51. 2:13If your identity says, "I'm not the type
52. 2:16of person who's chosen. People like me
53. 2:19don't get that success comes [music]
54. 2:21with stress. Being seen is dangerous."
55. 2:25Then your nervous system will quietly
56. 2:27block the desire. And it's not because
57. 2:29you're the problem. It's because your
58. 2:32brain is [music] actually trying to
59. 2:33protect you from what it perceives as
60. 2:36social overwhelm, a threat, [music] or
61. 2:39unfamiliar responsibility or even loss
62. 2:43of control. So, [music] you may
63. 2:44consciously want the manifestation while
64. 2:47subconsciously resisting it. That inner
65. 2:50[music] mismatch is what stalls your
66. 2:52results.
67. 2:56Now, this is incredibly important,
68. 2:59especially if you use [music]
69. 3:01affirmations or subliminals. If you're a
70. 3:04regular on my channel, you are probably
71. 3:06familiar with my subliminal content.
72. 3:09[music] So, this is really, really
73. 3:11important on top of the previous videos
74. 3:13that I have made about using
75. 3:15subliminals. Affirmations and
76. 3:18subliminals
77. 3:19can definitely [music]
78. 3:21support identity change. However, they
79. 3:24do not override [music]
80. 3:26identity on their own. And this is why
81. 3:30if an affirmation [music]
82. 3:32is exaggerated or too extreme, it could
83. 3:37possibly contradict [music] your current
84. 3:39self-concept. For example, if an
85. 3:42affirmation says [music] something like,
86. 3:44"I'm extremely confident when your
87. 3:48perception of self or lived experiences
88. 3:51[music] otherwise." Instead of
89. 3:53reprogramming you, that affirmation
90. 3:55[music] creates cognitive and emotional
91. 3:58dissonance,
92. 4:00and your nervous system could respond
93. 4:02with numbness, overwhelm, anxiety,
94. 4:06frustration, or merely nothing at all.
95. 4:09This is why a lot of people listen to
96. 4:11subliminals for months and see no
97. 4:13change. [music]
98. 4:14This is me responding to a comment I
99. 4:18frequently get [music] on my subliminal
100. 4:20videos that I make. So, I hope this also
101. 4:22answers any questions [music] that you
102. 4:23may have previously asked in my comment
103. 4:26section. So, remember that you can't
104. 4:28[music] force identity either. And
105. 4:31identity updates itself through
106. 4:34emotional safety [music] and repetition,
107. 4:37embodied evidence, and just not applying
108. 4:41the pressure to [music] change.
109. 4:47Here's the core truth of why
110. 4:50manifestation gets blocked. You cannot
111. 4:53manifest an [music] identity that your
112. 4:56body does not feel safe embodying. Many
113. 5:00people actually associate success,
114. 5:03[music] love or abundance with pressure,
115. 5:07loss, abandonment, responsibility, being
116. 5:10judged.
117. 5:11>> [music]
118. 5:12>> So when manifestation starts working,
119. 5:15your body could pull back [music] in
120. 5:18ways such as procrastination,
121. 5:21self- sabotage, [music] loss of
122. 5:23motivation, and randomly facing
123. 5:26obstacles, and suddenly not wanting the
124. 5:30[music] same thing anymore. But what's
125. 5:32really happening is your nervous system
126. 5:35is saying this version of you feels
127. 5:38unfamiliar and unsafe. [music]
128. 5:40Until safety is established, your
129. 5:44identity cannot shift. [music]
130. 5:47And without identity, manifestation
131. 5:50cannot [music] change.
132. 5:56So, let's [music] actually talk about
133. 5:58how we can fix this step by step. I want
134. 6:02you to stop becoming [music] a different
135. 6:05person overnight. Identity shifts do not
136. 6:09come [music] from sudden jumps. They
137. 6:12come from connecting bridges. Instead of
138. 6:14using extreme [music] affirmations such
139. 6:17as I am wildly confident and
140. 6:20unstoppable, [music]
141. 6:22use affirmations that encode safety.
142. 6:26Affirmations of safety and ensuring that
143. 6:30your subconscious mind is safe during
144. 6:32the intake of these affirmations.
145. 6:34[music]
146. 6:34So, for example, instead of saying
147. 6:37you're wildly confident and unstoppable,
148. 6:40you could use something more gentle and
149. 6:42something that your mind might be more
150. 6:44receptive [music] to, such as I am
151. 6:47becoming somebody who feels safer
152. 6:49expressing myself day by day. So, the
153. 6:52takeaway from this is basically
154. 6:55believability. It's a lot more [music]
155. 6:58important than intensity. bonus here. I
156. 7:02think something wonderful that you can
157. 7:04do to start embodying your ideal
158. 7:06identity in order to manifest your
159. 7:09biggest dreams, goals, and desires
160. 7:10[music] is to create an alter ego. I
161. 7:14plan on making a separate video about
162. 7:16this, but I'll scratch the surface for
163. 7:17[music] now. This is something that I
164. 7:19personally did in my self-development
165. 7:21journey [music] and how I shifted my
166. 7:24identity to manifest the life of my
167. 7:26dreams. What you're going to want to do
168. 7:28is you're going to create like an ideal
169. 7:31version of yourself. Like I said, alter
170. 7:33ego. It could have a different name, a
171. 7:35certain persona, certain
172. 7:36characteristics, a certain appearance.
173. 7:38And [music] I want you to romanticize
174. 7:41embodying that alter ego. For example,
175. 7:44maybe your alter ego is a singer or a
176. 7:47dancer [music] on top of being an
177. 7:48entrepreneur. Well, I want you to enjoy
178. 7:51that embodiment towards becoming your al
179. 7:54alter ego or ideal self. It's really fun
180. 7:59and it's really easy to encode that as a
181. 8:03safe way of transforming to your
182. 8:05subconscious mind. It's a wonderful way
183. 8:08to have fun along the identity shift
184. 8:10because I know you can real feel
185. 8:13discouraged along the path to self
186. 8:15transformation and manifestation. So,
187. 8:18this is definitely something to try out.
188. 8:20[music] The next thing you'll want to do
189. 8:22is pair your desired identity with
190. 8:24safety, which I just previously
191. 8:26insinuated. [music]
192. 8:28And this is a step almost no one
193. 8:30teaches. I feel like because when you
194. 8:32visualize, [music]
195. 8:33affirm, or listen to subliminals, your
196. 8:36body should feel calm, neutral, or
197. 8:40grounded. [music]
198. 8:42So, not tense, not desperate, not
199. 8:45forced. Safety is what [music] allows
200. 8:48the subconscious to update. So, if
201. 8:51you're going to listen to affirmations
202. 8:53or subliminals, I think it's a wonderful
203. 8:55time to lay back and relax and let your
204. 8:58nervous [music] system kind of
205. 9:00decompress. Please relax and take care
206. 9:02of yourself while you listen to
207. 9:05affirmations, subliminals, or try any
208. 9:08other method of shifting your identity
209. 9:10[music] to manifest your dreams. Just
210. 9:13take care of your nervous system. I care
211. 9:16about your well-being and you should
212. 9:17too. Next, I want you to use micro
213. 9:20embodiment. [music]
214. 9:21Your brain believes behavior more than
215. 9:25words, believe it or not. So, basically
216. 9:28what I'm saying here is that one small
217. 9:31identity aligned action per day is
218. 9:33[music] enough. And that could look like
219. 9:36something as small as setting a boundary
220. 9:39or one honest expression. Maybe making
221. 9:43an aligned choice with your ideal
222. 9:45identity or alter ego. [music] And maybe
223. 9:48that's even respecting yourself. It
224. 9:51doesn't matter whether it's a small,
225. 9:54medium, or large win. As long as you are
226. 9:57taking aligned action towards embodying
227. 10:01your identity to manifest, that is
228. 10:04enough. Step four is letting your
229. 10:07identity shift first and then getting
230. 10:10the result. Basically, when identity
231. 10:13shifts, effort decreases towards
232. 10:16embodying that identity. Effort
233. 10:19decreases towards trying to manifest
234. 10:22your goals and dreams that are aligned
235. 10:24with that identity. Resistance fades and
236. 10:27it just feels natural instead [music] of
237. 10:29urgent. People who succeed always say
238. 10:34same thing. It stopped feeling like
239. 10:37something I was trying to get and it
240. 10:38just started feeling like me. And that's
241. 10:41when you really know when reality
242. 10:43responds. Everything just feels like
243. 10:46it's working out for a reason.
244. 10:52Finally, let's reframe manifestation.
245. 10:55[music] I want to say that it's not
246. 10:58about forcing reality to change. I think
247. 11:02it's about becoming internally congruent
248. 11:05with the reality that you want [music]
249. 11:07to experience. Like you don't manifest
250. 11:11what you want. [music] You manifest what
251. 11:14your identity is prepared to hold.
252. 11:17[music] What your subconscious expects
253. 11:19of you to do next. What it's predicting
254. 11:23[music] you to do based on your
255. 11:25experiences and your perception of self.
256. 11:28When your identity changes, your
257. 11:30behavior [music] changes, your
258. 11:32expectations change, your choices
259. 11:35change, opportunities align naturally to
260. 11:39you, and most importantly, your reality
261. 11:42follows along. This channel is all about
262. 11:44permanent transformation, not temporary
263. 11:47motivation. So, if you want to keep
264. 11:49learning how to shift your identity,
265. 11:51regulate your nervous system, and
266. 11:52[music] manifest in a way that actually
267. 11:54shifts, subscribe. Thank you guys so
268. 11:56much for tuning into today's video. I'm
269. 11:58so incredibly grateful that I [music]
270. 12:00could sit down and have this
271. 12:02conversation with you guys. And happy
272. 12:04new year since 2026 is coming up super
273. 12:07super soon. [music] I'm incredibly
274. 12:09blessed to be here with you guys. So
275. 12:11until next time, I'll see you.