Why the Divine Masculine’s Return Is Always Awkward After Collapse? — Transcript
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- 0:00[Music]
- 0:00Hello beautiful souls. Welcome back to
- 0:03my channel. So this topic again was
- 0:07something requested by one of you all
- 0:09like what happens
- 0:11during the phase when our divine
- 0:14masculine collapses you know like when
- 0:17the karmic illusion breaks. So, so I
- 0:20wanted to, you know, delve right into
- 0:22topic and um before I went into before I
- 0:26delve into topic, um I hope you guys are
- 0:29having a good blood moon eclipse today.
- 0:32The energies are very very strong. So,
- 0:35just connect to the energies and
- 0:36remember all the power resides within
- 0:40you. Power is within you. External
- 0:44teachers like us are meant to awaken
- 0:47your inner teacher. So always trust your
- 0:50inner teacher, your higher self and God.
- 0:52All right. So let me delve right into
- 0:54topic.
- 0:55Collapse doesn't mean our divine
- 0:58masculine suddenly wakes up one morning,
- 1:02leaves the karmic or snaps out of its
- 1:06silent initiate phase and runs towards
- 1:09us. Collapse is
- 1:13subtle, slow and deep. It's when the
- 1:16weight of of living a double life
- 1:215D union with you on a soul level and 3D
- 1:24mask for the category one karmic detours
- 1:28create 3D mask with another in body
- 1:31becomes too heavy to sustain
- 1:35and our divine masculine's nervous
- 1:37system can only carry the split
- 1:41for a while you know for so long right
- 1:44so eventually Literally pretending
- 1:48to be joyous with the karmic takes a
- 1:51toll on the divine masculine. It totally
- 1:54drains him. You know, his mask slips,
- 1:57the moment of of emptiness multiplies,
- 2:00and this is the beginning of the
- 2:03collapse.
- 2:05So many of you guys u divine feminines
- 2:08ask me, you know, how do I know if he's
- 2:10collapsing? The signs are rarely public.
- 2:14Collapse
- 2:17happens behind closed doors. But but
- 2:20look for these patterns. All right?
- 2:22Restlessness and mood swings. So usually
- 2:25in a manatic twinflame uh situation, we
- 2:28can feel our divine masculine's energy,
- 2:30right? So restlessness and mood swings
- 2:32especially especially it can also be
- 2:34visible online or subtle shifts in tone
- 2:38increase withdrawal. You will start
- 2:40posting less, engaging less and you will
- 2:43start avoiding eye contact
- 2:49with the karmic. You know, you will just
- 2:52feel like the relationship is breaking.
- 2:54Another thing uh another thing is
- 2:56strange contradictions
- 2:59saying one thing, doing another because
- 3:02his inner truth is breaking through.
- 3:07So you will see a lot of
- 3:09unpredictability, you know, lesser
- 3:12um
- 3:13he won't be going out as much with the
- 3:16other party. He might suddenly call on
- 3:19for a divorce if he's married. He might
- 3:21suddenly break up, suddenly disappear.
- 3:24Because with category one
- 3:27divine masculines, they they tend to
- 3:30leave some kind of like a social media
- 3:32footprint. It's category two where it's
- 3:35totally silent. You know, it's in fact
- 3:36it's the opposite when when when when
- 3:39our DM posts um all of a sudden it's
- 3:42often like a message to the DF, hey, I'm
- 3:45alive kind of thing. But but there are
- 3:47many layers to it. But for category one,
- 3:50often you can feel the withdrawal. And
- 3:53this is exactly when you would start
- 3:55thinking and feeling more and more about
- 3:58your divine masculine. You know, that's
- 3:59why you'll feel strange contradictions.
- 4:02He'll be saying one thing and doing
- 4:04another because his inner truth is
- 4:06breaking through the as the veil burner.
- 4:09You are like burning his veil.
- 4:12Silent longing. You may feel him more
- 4:15strongly in the 5D during this collapse
- 4:20because when his mask falls, his soul
- 4:24reaches for you more openly.
- 4:29So this is a question that many of you
- 4:31guys ask right like why does the
- 4:34collapse why does the collapse get
- 4:36triggered by the karmic ironically the
- 4:39karmic doesn't protect him from you
- 4:42she
- 4:44pushes him towards collapse and you may
- 4:46ask me why because the karmic can never
- 4:51embody the soul recognition
- 4:54your divine masculine feels with you.
- 4:58The more he tries to offer the karmic
- 5:01what was meant for you, the more hollow
- 5:04it feels. That's when the divine ma
- 5:06masculine starts asking himself,
- 5:10"Why am I giving so much but still
- 5:13feeling empty?" See, collapse is the
- 5:16karmic's real role. not to steal him but
- 5:20to dreaming drain him
- 5:23out of every ounce of avoidance until he
- 5:27has no choice but to face himself and
- 5:31therefore face you.
- 5:35So the divine masculine's inner dialogue
- 5:38during during the collapse is often
- 5:40something to be to to to think about.
- 5:44All right. Because this is the stage
- 5:46where his thoughts becomes conflicted.
- 5:48Like literally
- 5:51he would be thinking that
- 5:54this would make him happy
- 5:56but he still thinks about you and he
- 6:00would be thinking like why does he feel
- 6:02so alive when he's with you his divine
- 6:05feminine but so flat when he's with the
- 6:07cup.
- 6:10And he'll be thinking like if you his
- 6:13divine feminine loved him that deeply
- 6:16why did he push you away? Like all these
- 6:19conflicting thoughts will come in. This
- 6:21is not weakness. This is initiation.
- 6:23Collapse strips
- 6:26him
- 6:28strips his ego layer by layer until all
- 6:31that is left is truth. And what is our
- 6:35role as the divine feminine during his
- 6:38collapse? Here's where many divine
- 6:41feminines sabotage themselves. You know,
- 6:44you sense his collapse and rush to save
- 6:47him. You want to message, you want to
- 6:50proof your presence, you want to remind
- 6:53him of love, but that interrupts the
- 6:55process. It's like the whole man cave
- 6:57analogy. You know, he's inside the man
- 6:59cave trying to make a decision on what
- 7:01he wants to do and you are waiting right
- 7:03outside.
- 7:06So remember our role as the divine
- 7:09feminine is not to rescue our divine
- 7:12masculine. Our role is to hold frequency
- 7:16steadily while he breaks apart and that
- 7:20collapse must feel unbearable
- 7:25to him so that he cannot avoid the truth
- 7:28anymore. If you soothe it too soon, he
- 7:31rebuilds the mask. If you let him
- 7:34collapse, he rebuilds into union. All
- 7:37right? So that's why collapse is the
- 7:40gateway to union. Understand this.
- 7:43Collapse is not failure. It's progress.
- 7:46You know, our divine masculine's
- 7:48collapse is his soul finally
- 7:51overpowering his ego. His karmic mask
- 7:54shatters.
- 7:56And though he may resist, though he may
- 7:58lash out, though he may retreat, he
- 8:00cannot unknow what he feels with you.
- 8:03And this collapse is the necessary death
- 8:07of his old identity.
- 8:12And only from here he can step into his
- 8:16divine masculine energy, ready to meet
- 8:19you
- 8:20as the divine feminine, not from ego but
- 8:23from soul.
- 8:26So
- 8:29when you feel his collapse, when you
- 8:31sense his restlessness,
- 8:36when the karmic projection looks less
- 8:38convincing,
- 8:41when you hear his voice in 5D more
- 8:45desperately, don't panic.
- 8:49Don't intervene. Don't doubt yourself.
- 8:52Trust the breakdown.
- 8:55Trust the collapse because what looks
- 8:58like him falling apart is actually him
- 9:00falling back into the only place he was
- 9:03meant to be with you in union in truth.
- 9:16So this is a big question that many of
- 9:19you guys ask me, right? How does our how
- 9:24how do divine masculines rebuild after
- 9:26collapse?
- 9:29So see it this way. All right.
- 9:32It's often a silent reconstruction.
- 9:36Collapse doesn't end with him rushing
- 9:38back to you immediately. Collapse ends
- 9:40in silence. After his world crumbles,
- 9:44the karmic illusions, the ego masks, the
- 9:47false commitments, he withdraws. He goes
- 9:50quiet. Not because he doesn't feel you,
- 9:52but because he doesn't know how to
- 9:54approach you in his new state. And this
- 9:57silence is not rejection. It is
- 9:59re-calibration.
- 10:01His soul is relearning how to function
- 10:04without the ego armor he wore for so
- 10:08long. So during this phase, the DM feels
- 10:11fragile. He has admitted to himself,
- 10:15even if only subconsciously, that the
- 10:18karmic template doesn't work. He knows
- 10:20he can't replicate union elsewhere, but
- 10:24he also fears being unworthy of you. So,
- 10:28he begins rebuilding himself in small
- 10:31ways, focusing on career, refining his
- 10:36appearance, testing new habits. So, to
- 10:39the outside world, these changes look
- 10:42superficial, but internally he's
- 10:44whispering, "Maybe I can be enough for
- 10:47her one day.
- 10:49So many divine feminines ask me this,
- 10:52you know, if he knows now, why would he
- 10:54just reach out? Because reconstruction
- 10:57requires solitude.
- 11:01Imagine breaking a bone and setting it
- 11:04again. The cast must stay in place until
- 11:06it heals, right? If he comes to you too
- 11:09soon while still fragile, the union
- 11:12frequency can't hold. He distances
- 11:15himself not out of rejection but out of
- 11:18fear but out of fear that he will
- 11:21collapse again in front of you. Silence
- 11:23becomes his shield until he feels strong
- 11:28enough to stand before you without
- 11:31breaking. And one of the hardest things
- 11:34for the divine feminine collective, for
- 11:37the divine feminine, as the divine
- 11:39feminine to watch is when our DM is
- 11:42testing himself with others,
- 11:46jobs, social settings, sometimes even
- 11:50lingering karmic ties. This isn't about
- 11:52love. It's about proving to himself that
- 11:55he can stand on his own two feet. He
- 11:59must test his new foundation in the
- 12:02ordinary world before he can bring
- 12:05himself into sacred union with you. So
- 12:08don't mistake these tests for betrayal.
- 12:11They are rehearsals and rehearsals
- 12:13always fall flat until he chooses the
- 12:17true performance with you and of course
- 12:19transcending the performance. Right? So
- 12:23our role as the divine feminine is this.
- 12:28Our divine masculine doesn't need our
- 12:30advice, reminders or rescues.
- 12:33What he needs is the steady hum of our
- 12:36field.
- 12:38The knowledge that when he's ready, you
- 12:41are still anchored in truth in
- 12:43integrity. So that's why neutrality, I
- 12:46always talk about neutrality. go into
- 12:48the state of neutrality because
- 12:50neutrality is our greatest gift here.
- 12:53Our ability to hold the 5D frequency
- 12:56without clinging to the 3D timeline
- 12:58gives our divine masculine the safety to
- 13:02rebuild his own face. So throughout this
- 13:06phase, one question would haunt him. Am
- 13:09I enough for her? It's the question
- 13:12behind his silence, his testing, his
- 13:15hesitation. And this applies for both
- 13:17categories. Category one and category
- 13:19category two. And ironically, the only
- 13:21way he can answer is by standing in
- 13:24front of you one day and realizing you
- 13:26never needed him to be perfect, only
- 13:29real.
- 13:31So understand this. Reconstruction is
- 13:34the quiet before the return. It's the
- 13:38silent face where he gathers himself not
- 13:41himself not to run further but to come
- 13:44back stronger.
- 13:46If collapse was his death,
- 13:50reconstruction is his resurrection.
- 13:53And when he finally steps out of the
- 13:55silence, you will see not a fractured
- 13:58man who hid behind masks. But the
- 14:02beginning of the divine awakening divine
- 14:04masculine ready to meet you in union.
- 14:08So I know this part is what you guys
- 14:10probably are waiting for. How does our
- 14:13divine masculine approach us his divine
- 14:16feminine you know after the
- 14:17reconstruction?
- 14:19So most of us divine feminines imagine
- 14:22our divine masculine's return as a
- 14:24dramatic scene. Apologies, confessions,
- 14:27a sudden rush into union. But real
- 14:30returns are rarely cinematic. And I'm
- 14:33speaking from my own experience. They
- 14:35actually very very awkward, very
- 14:37hesitant because there's this stage that
- 14:40happens, you know, from my own
- 14:41experience. There'll be a stage whereby
- 14:43you're total in you're in complete
- 14:45neutrality you know in total surrender
- 14:47state and you are like you're fully
- 14:50focused on your mission and then when
- 14:52our DM comes back the the initial coming
- 14:55back can feel very awkward to us the
- 14:57divine feminine you know and and awkward
- 15:00to our divine masculine too that's why
- 15:02awkward is a big theme in our twinflame
- 15:05connection you know the word awkward
- 15:07awkward you know sometimes you'll be
- 15:09like why must our DM keep saying awkward
- 15:11awkward because he's really awkward. His
- 15:14nervous system is collapsing before you
- 15:17and your nervous system is also
- 15:19collapsing before him. Right? So it is
- 15:22awkward, hesitant, full of half steps.
- 15:25Why? Because after the collapse and
- 15:27reconstruction, our divine masculine is
- 15:31very raw and reverent. He knows what you
- 15:34mean to him, but he's terrified of
- 15:36disappointing. That's what my divi
- 15:38divine masculine was feeling. You know,
- 15:40he was terrified of feeling me again.
- 15:43You know, it's terrified of feeling you
- 15:45again. So, the return often starts
- 15:48subtly,
- 15:50a message out of nowhere, you know,
- 15:52slowly testing the field and often. So,
- 15:55this time around when he messages, at
- 15:56least for me, you know, you don't go all
- 15:58like, ah, he has messaged you finally,
- 16:00you're actually responding from a very
- 16:03calm state. So when the message comes
- 16:07out of nowhere where he's testing the
- 16:08field, the question that seems trivial,
- 16:11you know, it will often be like a
- 16:13question that seems utterly trivial, but
- 16:16it's actually an opening, you know, or
- 16:18it could be bumming into each other,
- 16:20like a physical encounter that feels
- 16:22accidental.
- 16:24What he's doing here is testing the
- 16:26waters. He's saying, "Can I approach my
- 16:30divine feminine? Will she burn me or
- 16:32will she still see me?" you know, so
- 16:33it's kind of testing the field. Is she
- 16:35still angry with me? Is she still
- 16:36raging? Is she still disappointed? Is
- 16:38she still un energetically, you know, is
- 16:42she still um stabilizing the field? So
- 16:44the first signs are small because they
- 16:47are not about proving himself to you.
- 16:50They about proving to himself he can
- 16:52stand in your field without collapsing.
- 16:56So many of us divine feminines are
- 16:58shocked at how unpolished the return
- 17:01feels. So even though as a psychic I
- 17:04knew how my DM was going to come to me
- 17:06and I knew exactly how but when I was
- 17:09experiencing it the feeling was so
- 17:11surreal you know so so so an example
- 17:15right he may fumble his words avoid eye
- 17:19contact
- 17:20or in some cases he might act defensive
- 17:23but clumsiness is not disinterest
- 17:26remember you know so that's why it may
- 17:28look clumsy his written may look clumsy
- 17:30but that is not his interest. It's
- 17:33actually reverence. He feels like he's
- 17:35standing in front of the only person
- 17:38who ever truly saw him and that level of
- 17:42exposure makes him feel like a beginner
- 17:45again. So instead of demanding
- 17:47perfection,
- 17:48see the sacredness in his clumsiness.
- 17:51You know, it took a lot. So this is how
- 17:52I saw when my DM came back. You know,
- 17:55it's like it took a lot for him to like
- 17:57come back after the silence, after the
- 18:00separation, after the period of no
- 18:02contact. So, this is proof that you're
- 18:04not just another person to him. You are
- 18:06the one who disarms him. So, let's talk
- 18:10about the hidden reverence beneath his
- 18:14hesitation. Beneath his hesitation is
- 18:16reverence. He remembers your tears, your
- 18:19love, your patience. We often think our
- 18:21DM doesn't feel anything. He doesn't
- 18:23know anything. But really, when I speak
- 18:25with my DM, it's far from the truth. He
- 18:28feels he always felt more than what I
- 18:30felt. He felt my emotions more than I
- 18:33would have felt my own emotions or
- 18:35feelings. So that's why, you know, you
- 18:38know what I mean. So he knows, our
- 18:41divine masculine knows, even if he never
- 18:43says it, that you waited in ways no one
- 18:46will will ever no one else ever would,
- 18:50you know, and that reverence makes him
- 18:52cautious. He doesn't want to rush and
- 18:55break what is sacred. He doesn't want to
- 18:57offer you a halfformed version of
- 18:59himself. So his hesitation is not
- 19:01avoidance. It's actually honor. All
- 19:04right? So that's why our role as the
- 19:06divine feminine during the return. Our
- 19:08role here is discernment. Not rushing to
- 19:11embrace every breadcrumb as reunion, but
- 19:14also not shutting down the small
- 19:16openings. So think of yourself as the
- 19:19empowered divine feminine. Steady enough
- 19:22to allow his clumsiness,
- 19:25clumsy steps to land, but strong enough
- 19:28not to accept less than the truth. Not
- 19:31clumsy but more awkward.
- 19:34So you don't need to chase, fix or
- 19:36prove.
- 19:40Your presence itself is the invitation.
- 19:44When you remain anchored, his small
- 19:48steps eventually grow into full
- 19:50approach.
- 19:52That's why the return is not a process
- 19:54nor a moment. It's beyond that. It is
- 19:58it's it's a journey on itself, you know.
- 20:01So, this is the key. The return is not
- 20:03one dramatic moment. It's a series of
- 20:07openings, retreats, and reopenings. He
- 20:10steps forward, tests your energy, pulls
- 20:12back. And a lot of divine feminines when
- 20:15he tests the field tend to scare him
- 20:17away. All right? Sometimes it's like
- 20:21you're like 3 years later he messages
- 20:23you, you just want to be passive
- 20:25aggressive on him, you know. But again,
- 20:26honor that if you're feeling that way,
- 20:28it just means that you have not
- 20:30recalibrated yet. But he will come back
- 20:33again. That's the thing, you know. So he
- 20:34steps forward, tests your energy, pulls
- 20:36back, recalibrates, then comes closer
- 20:38again. This rhythm is how he builds
- 20:40trust in himself, in the bond, in the
- 20:43connection, in the reality of union. The
- 20:45return is not an event. It's it's it's
- 20:48like I said, it's not exactly a process.
- 20:51It's more than a process of unfolding.
- 20:53And each step is sacred.
- 20:58So that's why So that's why
- 21:01when our divine masculine returns, it's
- 21:04not about fireworks. It's about truth.
- 21:07It's the quiet
- 21:09courage to face you after collapse to
- 21:12risk rejection.
- 21:14There's a there's a big chance that we
- 21:16could reject, right? Because we're
- 21:18talking about time lapse here. Years
- 21:20he's returning after years. What if you
- 21:22have someone else? What if you have
- 21:23moved on? What if you're committed? He
- 21:25doesn't have any kind of anchor. So,
- 21:28it's a huge risk. He's taking a risk
- 21:31rejection. But think about how much he
- 21:33loves you. and to finally stand in the
- 21:35union field without masks. So it may
- 21:38look awkward, it may feel hesitant, but
- 21:41we did all the reference for you for the
- 21:45journey for the sacred brown bond that
- 21:49no karmic projection or misdirection
- 21:55or avoidance or silence could ever
- 21:57replace. So when he returns you will
- 21:59realize you will realize it wasn't about
- 22:02the speed of his arrival it was about
- 22:04the depth of his becoming.
- 22:08So that's why guys I want you to take a
- 22:11moment you know to to reflect
- 22:16even though as divine feminines the
- 22:19collapse we go through and the collapse
- 22:22our divine masculine goes through might
- 22:24be different but we both collapse before
- 22:29union. All right, it's 22 two two in
- 22:32terms of time. So, I'll close it here.
- 22:34And I hope you guys have enjoyed this
- 22:35discourse. And uh if you guys want to
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- 23:08directly from cosmic consciousness. All
- 23:10right, with that see you all again.
- 23:11Bye-bye.
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