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Why Men and Women Pick Friends Differently | Jungian Sexuality | CS Joseph — Transcript

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  1. 0:00I gave you all alone
  2. 0:04[Music]
  3. 0:13what's up Eagle hackers welcome to the
  4. 0:17C.S Joseph podcast
  5. 0:21today's episode
  6. 0:23we're gonna be discussing uh
  7. 0:28how
  8. 0:29masculine on masculine versus feminine
  9. 0:33on feminine relationships basically
  10. 0:35friendships
  11. 0:36how they seem to work from a Pareto
  12. 0:38Principle uh perspective
  13. 0:42because we noticed that there is a bit
  14. 0:45of a pattern psychologically when it
  15. 0:47comes to how men and women organize
  16. 0:50their relationships from a compatibility
  17. 0:52versus a camaraderie points of view
  18. 0:55among the 16 types which is completely
  19. 0:58fascinating
  20. 1:00also
  21. 1:01potentially supports a very
  22. 1:04controversial Viewpoint that I have in
  23. 1:07regards to relationships and uh nice dog
  24. 1:14so
  25. 1:16from that perspective
  26. 1:19it just lands into what we've been
  27. 1:20saying in like a previous video talking
  28. 1:22about how
  29. 1:23you know
  30. 1:24our genes our Evolution as human beings
  31. 1:27ends up having like some protections uh
  32. 1:29put into place based on some of our
  33. 1:32Natures which then lends itself to
  34. 1:35specific uh behaviors and I ultimately
  35. 1:38find this utterly fascinating
  36. 1:41quite fascinating
  37. 1:45so we're going to be doing a little Deep
  38. 1:47dive on that
  39. 1:48but uh oh there goes the ash I had a I
  40. 1:51had a pretty good one there but uh
  41. 1:52finally uh killed over
  42. 1:55so
  43. 1:56anyway the point is uh
  44. 1:59camaraderie and compatibility end up
  45. 2:02becoming uh something that
  46. 2:05is a shadow of a phenomenon that's
  47. 2:08happening between people and their
  48. 2:11friendships
  49. 2:13when men are friends with other men for
  50. 2:16example
  51. 2:17they behave in a very affiliative Manner
  52. 2:19and this is this is regardless of their
  53. 2:21alpha or beta or whatever interpretation
  54. 2:24of the red pill you may have Sigma male
  55. 2:27who cares it doesn't matter men or men
  56. 2:30are men and the way of man is ultimately
  57. 2:31the same when you put a bunch of men
  58. 2:33together in the same place and guess
  59. 2:36what well women have a similar approach
  60. 2:38as well when it comes to having other
  61. 2:40women in their lives women that they
  62. 2:41have close relationships with
  63. 2:44and the reality of the situation is is
  64. 2:47that
  65. 2:48men being basically affiliative with
  66. 2:51their relationships how that actually
  67. 2:53manifests like some examples it's like
  68. 2:55you know hey man don't break the bro
  69. 2:57code you know the bro code the Bromance
  70. 2:59the bro ham you know growing out you
  71. 3:01know that whole the whole dichotomy that
  72. 3:04whole way of uh behavior that men have
  73. 3:06when they come together as a collective
  74. 3:09towards a common goal the red pill
  75. 3:11writers call this you know women talk
  76. 3:13but men do right they do things together
  77. 3:16they take action together
  78. 3:22and that's that's important that's very
  79. 3:23uh
  80. 3:24necessary to understand because at the
  81. 3:27end of the day they're all about doing
  82. 3:29the right thing to each other or for
  83. 3:31each other
  84. 3:33so one of the reasons why uh you know
  85. 3:35the the Ten Commandment uh out of the
  86. 3:38Ten Commandments is Thou shalt not covet
  87. 3:40thy neighbor's wife
  88. 3:41it's because the number one unspoken
  89. 3:44rule of the bro ham the bro code or the
  90. 3:46bromances never screw another man's
  91. 3:49woman without his permission basically
  92. 3:51you know and that's in a very
  93. 3:53affiliative concept men who do not
  94. 3:56follow that rule I mean
  95. 3:58in ancient times they were exiled
  96. 4:00they're executed they were murdered you
  97. 4:02know like like when men cheat not very
  98. 4:04much happens but when women cheat uh
  99. 4:07Cities Burn basically because you know
  100. 4:11uh there's an aspect of Vengeance when
  101. 4:14it comes uh you know from from a male
  102. 4:16point of view due to their masculine
  103. 4:17idealism
  104. 4:22and they often take their uh
  105. 4:25masculine idealism with them when it
  106. 4:27comes to relationships with other men as
  107. 4:30much as they take their masculine
  108. 4:31idealism with them anywhere they go
  109. 4:32because men together are very
  110. 4:34affiliative
  111. 4:36and they're always it's ultimately how
  112. 4:39teamwork regardless if they're pragmatic
  113. 4:41or affiliative you know individually but
  114. 4:43collectively they're ultimately
  115. 4:45affiliative this is why you can have a
  116. 4:47group of 300 dudes stand against a 20
  117. 4:49000 man army and basically win or hold
  118. 4:53them back for long enough for all of the
  119. 4:56other Allied city-states of Greece to
  120. 4:58come together and fight at the uh you
  121. 5:01know fighting
  122. 5:02fight the enemy and unite and push back
  123. 5:04the Persians and repel the Invaders from
  124. 5:06the lands
  125. 5:08all because 300 Spartans were
  126. 5:10affiliative one day willing to sacrifice
  127. 5:12their lives and quote do the right thing
  128. 5:15for not only their own Nation but the
  129. 5:17other uh nation states uh within uh
  130. 5:21within Greece essentially
  131. 5:23and they were ultimately successful
  132. 5:26which is a really big deal but it was it
  133. 5:28was made possible because of how
  134. 5:31affiliative men are women are a lot
  135. 5:34different women however come from the
  136. 5:36perspective that uh
  137. 5:39you know they're very they're very
  138. 5:40pragmatic this is one of the reasons why
  139. 5:42like you know when men look at life they
  140. 5:44see life as this big pie and they're
  141. 5:46just trying to get their own slice
  142. 5:47they'll even help their brothers get
  143. 5:49their slice out of life that's a very
  144. 5:51affiliative point of view but when women
  145. 5:52look at life and they see it as this big
  146. 5:54pie and they each get their slice they
  147. 5:56look at each other it's like well why do
  148. 5:58you get that slice why is your slice
  149. 5:59better be your slice has a pot has more
  150. 6:01fruit in it or it it has a a frosted
  151. 6:04flour on it why didn't I get a frosted
  152. 6:06flour you know that kind of what makes
  153. 6:07you so special
  154. 6:08women are inherently pragmatic they're
  155. 6:12very pragmatic towards one another and
  156. 6:15their relationships with each other are
  157. 6:16based ultimately on pragmatism they have
  158. 6:19this unique Independence about them
  159. 6:21that's why women suffer from things like
  160. 6:23competition anxiety they're very afraid
  161. 6:25that other women would basically take
  162. 6:27what they have and they should be afraid
  163. 6:29because due to the pragmatism that women
  164. 6:31have collectively women oftentimes are
  165. 6:34unscrupulous about uh poaching
  166. 6:38the men from their fellow female friends
  167. 6:41it happens all the time it's actually a
  168. 6:43very common phenomenon and that's an
  169. 6:46example of how pragmatism ends up
  170. 6:49working or working for women when they
  171. 6:51come together collectively this is one
  172. 6:53of the reasons why women choose or an
  173. 6:55elect to talk instead of do because when
  174. 6:58women are doing and doing things
  175. 7:00together they can't really decide on who
  176. 7:03should be the leader because in the
  177. 7:06affiliative area of male space male
  178. 7:09space can easily understand what the
  179. 7:11hierarchy is who is the alpha who's not
  180. 7:14who's the strongest who should be in
  181. 7:15charge and it's just very instantly
  182. 7:18known who's running the show as a result
  183. 7:21but from a female perspective in female
  184. 7:23space they don't know this is why when
  185. 7:26women come together they often elect to
  186. 7:28talk that's why they have something
  187. 7:29called Stitch and basically
  188. 7:31instead of doing because in order to do
  189. 7:34something there would have to be some
  190. 7:36kind of hierarchy
  191. 7:38uh they they would have to decide you
  192. 7:41know who's going to have the torch and
  193. 7:42women have a hard time when they're
  194. 7:43together to you know deciding who the
  195. 7:46leader is and oftentimes they pass the
  196. 7:49torch of leadership amongst one another
  197. 7:51whereas men
  198. 7:52the established leader is established
  199. 7:54and that's it that's it and it's because
  200. 7:57women are pragmatic they're very
  201. 7:59independent when they are together
  202. 8:01whereas men are very interdependent when
  203. 8:04they are together and it's always
  204. 8:06fascinating uh you know to see this work
  205. 8:08out this is one of the reasons why like
  206. 8:10one of the biggest regrets of my life
  207. 8:12even though it's technically not mine to
  208. 8:14regret per se but it is ultimately an
  209. 8:17area of my life that I feel has been
  210. 8:20lacking I never had the opportunity to
  211. 8:24have a brother
  212. 8:25and I wish I really really wish I did
  213. 8:28have that opportunity
  214. 8:30it'd be really nice to have that
  215. 8:32opportunity you know to like go back in
  216. 8:34time to my childhood and you know grow
  217. 8:37up with what it would have been like to
  218. 8:38have a brother or brothers to have some
  219. 8:41of that you know affiliative mail space
  220. 8:44among my brothers and even take that you
  221. 8:46know into my adulthood you could say
  222. 8:49that I'm definitely envious of Andrew
  223. 8:51Tate's relationship that he has with his
  224. 8:53brother Tristan that's something I've
  225. 8:55always wanted my whole life and I've
  226. 8:58never really actually been able to have
  227. 8:59that level of uh connection or male
  228. 9:03space affiliative within you know blood
  229. 9:06relatives it just hasn't happened with
  230. 9:08maybe the exception of my male cousins
  231. 9:10uh Mike and Nick
  232. 9:12probably
  233. 9:14you know if there is anyone in the world
  234. 9:16that I really consider my brother who is
  235. 9:18a blood relative that would definitely
  236. 9:20be uh my cousin Mike
  237. 9:23he's always treated me like a brother
  238. 9:25and he's always been there for me and
  239. 9:27that's why I go out of my way to be
  240. 9:28there for him today if he calls me I
  241. 9:30answer the phone that's just how it is
  242. 9:32you know because he was there for me in
  243. 9:34my time of need he also helped Mentor me
  244. 9:36in a lot of areas and he made me better
  245. 9:38as a result a lot of the reasons why I'm
  246. 9:40even able to actually be here today
  247. 9:42talking to you folks and doing uh this
  248. 9:45Channel and whatnot is literally because
  249. 9:47of my cousin Mike for example so at
  250. 9:51least he was able to take on that figure
  251. 9:53of being a brother to me
  252. 9:55and you know what maybe I wouldn't have
  253. 9:57ended up as a uduf octogram you know
  254. 9:59from that perspective uh had I actually
  255. 10:02had a brother you know like that's
  256. 10:05certainly a possibility you know but uh
  257. 10:09but yeah like that that's just something
  258. 10:10I wish I had you know and Men deep down
  259. 10:13crave this affiliative uh perspective
  260. 10:16when it comes to you know male space the
  261. 10:19problem is is that Society has gone out
  262. 10:21of its way to make sure that male space
  263. 10:23is not allowed to exist
  264. 10:25and
  265. 10:27the reason why is because where male
  266. 10:29space exists masculinity will grow and
  267. 10:31where masculinity grows then masculinity
  268. 10:33will ultimately challenge the system and
  269. 10:35it could eventually lead to Revolution
  270. 10:37men will start to realize one of two
  271. 10:39things that they have nothing to lose
  272. 10:40and then they're willing to fight and
  273. 10:42put their lives down to change the
  274. 10:43system or they'll realize they have
  275. 10:45everything to lose and they'll be
  276. 10:47willing to lay down their lives and
  277. 10:49Revolt and change the system basically
  278. 10:51but the elite or in those who control
  279. 10:54the world would never allow that to
  280. 10:56happen like Ever So based on that they
  281. 10:59have to uh
  282. 11:03you know they have to result to other
  283. 11:04means like for example in Washington
  284. 11:06state it's illegal to smoke tobacco
  285. 11:09inside right that is a direct assault on
  286. 11:12male space and that is one way with
  287. 11:14which masculinity can be reduced
  288. 11:17just on that alone I'm very thankful
  289. 11:18that the state that I live in smoking
  290. 11:20tobacco inside is actually legal so you
  291. 11:23know so it just ends up you know being
  292. 11:25up to the bar owners where the owners
  293. 11:27the bar is like yeah you can smoke or no
  294. 11:29no smoking Etc it leaves that up to the
  295. 11:31decision of the owners of the bars to
  296. 11:33make that decision it's nice you know I
  297. 11:35right after I filmed this actually I'm
  298. 11:37gonna be going to my favorite Speak Easy
  299. 11:39where I sometimes film as well and going
  300. 11:42to be enjoying myself at that bar and I
  301. 11:44will be smoking cigars with my friends
  302. 11:46you know with our mail space at that bar
  303. 11:49it's gonna be it's gonna be great so
  304. 11:52uh but that's again that's just that's
  305. 11:54just one example ultimately but men
  306. 11:56ultimately crave that that male space
  307. 11:58because that affiliate of nature because
  308. 12:00it all it all goes down to like you know
  309. 12:02the family you choose versus the family
  310. 12:05you inherit and a lot of men out there
  311. 12:08you know they end up creating a
  312. 12:10Brotherhood and that Brotherhood becomes
  313. 12:12a family ultimately a masculine family
  314. 12:15and it's that masculine family that can
  315. 12:16challenge the system it can win Wars it
  316. 12:19can survive in the trenches when one of
  317. 12:22them is down you know the other guy can
  318. 12:24pick them up you know in a triple
  319. 12:26braided court is not easily broken
  320. 12:27according to King Solomon as he was
  321. 12:29describing you know ultimately the
  322. 12:32benefits of male space uh in that
  323. 12:34passage I think it's Ecclesiastes
  324. 12:36chapter seven or Ecclesiastes chapter
  325. 12:38nine if I remember correctly
  326. 12:40I could be wrong I could be misquoting
  327. 12:43the uh citation there
  328. 12:45um but it is in some of his writings in
  329. 12:48the Old Testament
  330. 12:50so
  331. 12:51from that point of view
  332. 12:53we have to understand you know these
  333. 12:56these male differences these female
  334. 12:58differences when it comes to how they
  335. 13:00manage their friends
  336. 13:01so pragmatism rules uh female space and
  337. 13:05the affiliative rules mail space
  338. 13:08ultimately so understanding these two
  339. 13:10concepts is very necessary because then
  340. 13:12you're able to actually look at another
  341. 13:15phenomenon that's happening because male
  342. 13:18space is affiliative because female
  343. 13:19space is pragmatic and that is
  344. 13:22ultimately how men and women are
  345. 13:24different when it comes to choosing
  346. 13:26friends
  347. 13:27now I was I was reading a book by
  348. 13:29Matthew Hussey recently and a lot of
  349. 13:32people in the manosphere in the red pill
  350. 13:34uh groups absolutely hate Matthew Hussey
  351. 13:37Matthew Hussey is an infj he wrote the
  352. 13:39book get the guy I just finished reading
  353. 13:41it uh hadees in the Discord Community
  354. 13:44highly recommended it to me so I decided
  355. 13:47I'd read it and so I did and uh I found
  356. 13:49it I found it ultimately fascinating but
  357. 13:51one of the things that he said in his
  358. 13:54book was that if you give like 10 women
  359. 13:56to a man uh he'll play but if you give
  360. 13:5910 men to women she will choose you know
  361. 14:02and this is extremely extremely
  362. 14:06important because what I realized as a
  363. 14:08result of reading this book is that that
  364. 14:11directly applies also to male on male
  365. 14:14friendships and female on female
  366. 14:16friendships right because if you notice
  367. 14:19something a huge difference between men
  368. 14:21and women and it's this when men choose
  369. 14:24their friends they value compatibility
  370. 14:26ability with their friends
  371. 14:29more so than they value camaraderie but
  372. 14:32with women being that they're pragmatic
  373. 14:35you know they actually end up valuing
  374. 14:39camaraderie higher than they value
  375. 14:42compatibility the reason why and I
  376. 14:45suspect this is the reason why and I
  377. 14:48believe this is true but probably gonna
  378. 14:52need a little bit more time in the field
  379. 14:53to verify but I played in plenty of time
  380. 14:55in the field already to verify but I
  381. 14:58mean the jury could still be out so I'm
  382. 15:00just admitting it right now but I don't
  383. 15:01think so I really don't think so I think
  384. 15:03I think this is the truth
  385. 15:06um
  386. 15:06that women you know like from a Pareto
  387. 15:10Principle perspective 80 of their
  388. 15:12friends are typically girlfriends who
  389. 15:14are high camaraderie with them with 20
  390. 15:16of them being compatible whereas it's
  391. 15:18the other way around with men eighty
  392. 15:21percent of their friends are compatible
  393. 15:22with them and only 20 of them have
  394. 15:24camaraderie which is very very
  395. 15:27fascinating if you think about it you
  396. 15:30know like you know one could argue like
  397. 15:32you know from a new testament
  398. 15:33perspective where you know the Apostle
  399. 15:36Peter basically claims that you know
  400. 15:37women are the quote weaker sex Etc
  401. 15:41well it would make sense under that
  402. 15:43context because they have all these
  403. 15:45camaraderie based uh relationships with
  404. 15:49fellow women and camaraderie exists
  405. 15:51ultimately to serve as sources of
  406. 15:54personal growth so it gives women the
  407. 15:56opportunity to personally grow and as
  408. 15:59and help facilitate their pragmatism
  409. 16:02when they are with each other between
  410. 16:03their girlfriends they're very very
  411. 16:05pragmatic oftentimes to the point of
  412. 16:07being so pragmatic they're actually
  413. 16:08willing to poach each other's men off
  414. 16:10each other sometimes even in secret or
  415. 16:13in covertly and even sometimes on a rare
  416. 16:16basis overtly you know from time to time
  417. 16:19and that can be that could be a major
  418. 16:22issue but ultimately the camaraderie is
  419. 16:25there to help improve you know to help
  420. 16:28improve women you know whereas the
  421. 16:30affiliative is bringing about compatible
  422. 16:33relationships with men
  423. 16:34why is this happening it's because men
  424. 16:37do not have their emotional needs met
  425. 16:39and having compatibility amongst their
  426. 16:41male friends allows men to actually have
  427. 16:43an opportunity to experience
  428. 16:45unconditional love within the
  429. 16:48Brotherhood within this life because men
  430. 16:51don't experience unconditional love from
  431. 16:53women they just don't they really don't
  432. 16:56it's not about unconditional love with
  433. 16:59women they don't they don't experience
  434. 17:00it the one woman in their whole life
  435. 17:03that they could and they have the
  436. 17:04highest opportunity of experiencing
  437. 17:06unconditional love is between their
  438. 17:09their mother and themselves but the
  439. 17:11thing is is that that's not entirely
  440. 17:12true either because even to this day you
  441. 17:15know most women out there have abortions
  442. 17:17so that's not exactly an example of
  443. 17:22unconditional love towards their
  444. 17:23children basically so you know and also
  445. 17:27you know collectively as women enable
  446. 17:30each other they enable each other to be
  447. 17:31more pragmatic and enable them to be
  448. 17:33empowered women and you know fem
  449. 17:36empowerment and the women's movement and
  450. 17:39those types of things right feminism
  451. 17:40ultimately also known you know from a
  452. 17:42Biblical perspective as the spirit of
  453. 17:45Jezebel the spirit of Jezebel that the
  454. 17:47Prophet Elijah basically annihilated
  455. 17:49um so it was kind of interesting because
  456. 17:51Elijah's ultimate purpose according to
  457. 17:54the prophet Malachi is to turn the
  458. 17:57hearts of Sons of their fathers the
  459. 17:58hearts and fathers to their sons so the
  460. 18:01Prophet Elijah is the most anti-feminist
  461. 18:03prophet of the Old Testament basically
  462. 18:05uh you know from that perspective and
  463. 18:08you can actually even see an example of
  464. 18:10that playing out within the first and
  465. 18:11second chapter of the Book of Esther
  466. 18:14where the advisors to King Xerxes who
  467. 18:17actually lost uh to King Leonidas and uh
  468. 18:21well he killed Leonidas technically but
  469. 18:23uh lost to the to the to the Greeks and
  470. 18:26then ended up uh you know running away
  471. 18:28like a little uh back to uh his
  472. 18:32Citadel and Sousa in Persia basically
  473. 18:34when he failed his invasion and then
  474. 18:36just basically was with his Harem for
  475. 18:38the rest of his life feeling empty and
  476. 18:40whatnot but uh
  477. 18:43from that perspective
  478. 18:45um you know you can see how these men
  479. 18:48are you know complaining about feminism
  480. 18:50and complaining about the dangers of the
  481. 18:52spirit of Jezebel ultimately which is
  482. 18:54what Elijah was sent to ultimately
  483. 18:55destroy
  484. 18:57um which is fascinating and also Elijah
  485. 18:59is only one of two people in the Bible
  486. 19:01that was actually spared from death
  487. 19:05which is also fascinating if you think
  488. 19:07about it completely preserved right you
  489. 19:11know I mean even Jesus died but Elijah
  490. 19:13didn't you know Enoch didn't you know so
  491. 19:16so like from from that perspective like
  492. 19:19a lot of people just don't even
  493. 19:20understand you know what ultimately that
  494. 19:22purpose was and Elijah's purpose was to
  495. 19:24destroy feminism that's really what it
  496. 19:26was you know call me crazy for saying
  497. 19:28that but that's just reality you know
  498. 19:30proven in first and second Kings it's
  499. 19:33also proven in Malachi as to ultimately
  500. 19:35what his purpose was because of how he
  501. 19:37was involved in the Jezebel incident and
  502. 19:40also turning the hearts of sunset
  503. 19:41fathers and hearts of fathers of the
  504. 19:43sons I'm being repetitive so forgive me
  505. 19:45so
  506. 19:46from that perspective we can move on and
  507. 19:48move forward from that
  508. 19:52the affiliative nature of men basically
  509. 19:55allows them to have causes them to
  510. 19:57desire compatible men in their life
  511. 19:59because through the Brotherhood of the
  512. 20:01affiliative nature of the mature
  513. 20:03masculine and ultimately male space
  514. 20:05gives man the opportunity to experience
  515. 20:09unconditional love through their
  516. 20:11relationships with each other
  517. 20:13unconditional love is not really
  518. 20:15available to them with women and at most
  519. 20:18it could be there between their mothers
  520. 20:20but even then that's a crap shoot
  521. 20:22technically speaking uh you know it's
  522. 20:25not it's not a guaranteed outcome but it
  523. 20:26can be a guaranteed outcome uh a more
  524. 20:29than likely outcome uh when it comes to
  525. 20:32you know participating in the
  526. 20:33Brotherhood women have a different
  527. 20:35perspective women it's just not that way
  528. 20:37you know they're not really exactly
  529. 20:38loyal to each other they're all very
  530. 20:40pragmatic to each other they're all very
  531. 20:42independent uh and
  532. 20:44this is all and if you notice like they
  533. 20:47don't really allow very many pragmatic
  534. 20:50relationships uh or very many compatible
  535. 20:54relationships with people in their lives
  536. 20:56and what what ends up happening is that
  537. 20:58you notice that women end up saving
  538. 21:01their most compatible relationship
  539. 21:04ultimately as you know between them and
  540. 21:08their man you know them and their lover
  541. 21:10them and their husband them and the
  542. 21:12father of their children basically
  543. 21:13because just as Matthew Hussey said his
  544. 21:15book get the guy he said uh quote you
  545. 21:18know give 10 women to a man and he'll
  546. 21:21play but give 10 men to women and she
  547. 21:24will choose right because women
  548. 21:26ultimately due to the fact that their
  549. 21:29beauty and their fertility ends up
  550. 21:31expiring over time and decaying over
  551. 21:34time and they have to work really hard
  552. 21:36to preserve their beauty as long as they
  553. 21:38can throughout their life they really
  554. 21:40only have time to really invest into
  555. 21:43really just one man at a time because if
  556. 21:46they try to have multiple men then you
  557. 21:48know technically their value goes down
  558. 21:49and that can be a problem you know
  559. 21:51ultimately because high value men are
  560. 21:54not going to commit to a woman with such
  561. 21:55a high body count as we've discussed
  562. 21:57before on this channel so
  563. 22:00that is that ends up being interesting
  564. 22:02they they they do seek compatible
  565. 22:04relationships but it's really only in in
  566. 22:07a deep sexual relationship that women
  567. 22:10are seeking this now that's not to say
  568. 22:11that they don't have compatible female
  569. 22:13friends
  570. 22:14but when you actually look at their
  571. 22:16friends in large and they're not
  572. 22:18mistyping themselves they're not
  573. 22:19mistyping their friends all of a sudden
  574. 22:22they'll realize wow I actually do prefer
  575. 22:25camaraderie amongst my girlfriends and
  576. 22:28save compatibility for that one deep uh
  577. 22:31committed relationship that I have with
  578. 22:33a man ultimately right whereas it's kind
  579. 22:37of uh interesting when it comes to men
  580. 22:39men seek out camaraderie or
  581. 22:42compatibility from each other with not
  582. 22:44as much camaraderie and then also uh
  583. 22:48seek out
  584. 22:51they also they they end up seeking out
  585. 22:53you know also compatibility with a woman
  586. 22:56you know men men can't get enough
  587. 22:58compatibility basically now I've I've
  588. 23:01heard some women you know within the
  589. 23:04community talk about how well that's
  590. 23:05just men enabling men Etc and you know
  591. 23:09while that can necessarily be the case
  592. 23:10you have to understand is that without
  593. 23:12men enabling men without the mature
  594. 23:14masking without male space society would
  595. 23:17have never even existed without
  596. 23:19mailspace mailspace is is everything
  597. 23:23male space is entirely important and the
  598. 23:25society is against male space because
  599. 23:27everyone just assumes male space exists
  600. 23:30to destroy female space but if you
  601. 23:32actually end up watching or
  602. 23:34participating in female space you'll see
  603. 23:36that it's pure chaos because
  604. 23:38every one of these women are trying to
  605. 23:40like be the queen of her own little Hill
  606. 23:44and it's like having too many chefs in a
  607. 23:46kitchen basically whereas with men
  608. 23:49that's not necessarily the case there's
  609. 23:50eventually always going to be an
  610. 23:51established hierarchy and established a
  611. 23:54pecking order when it comes to uh when
  612. 23:57it comes to things you know because even
  613. 23:59women understand that just because
  614. 24:01you're the queen bee today doesn't mean
  615. 24:02you're going to be the queen bee
  616. 24:03tomorrow right but with man it's
  617. 24:05different it's a that established
  618. 24:07pecking order can last a very long time
  619. 24:10and they're completely okay with it
  620. 24:11because at least they're getting their
  621. 24:13own potential unconditional love needs
  622. 24:17or emotional needs being met by their
  623. 24:18fellow men because those emotional needs
  624. 24:21are not necessarily being met by the
  625. 24:22women in their life no matter how
  626. 24:24compatible they are right uh with those
  627. 24:27women it just so it's just it's just a
  628. 24:30fascinating phenomenon if you think
  629. 24:31about it it's a really really
  630. 24:32fascinating phenomenon women prefer to
  631. 24:35have more camaraderie amongst fellow uh
  632. 24:40female friends and men prefer to have
  633. 24:43more compatible relationships and
  634. 24:45friendships with men and it's it's it's
  635. 24:48unbelievable if you just see how life is
  636. 24:51structured this way
  637. 24:52now here's the kicker here's where it
  638. 24:55gets super controversial
  639. 24:57why why does this happen what is what is
  640. 25:01happening from an evolutionary point of
  641. 25:03view what is happening uh you know to
  642. 25:07help facilitate the the pro generation
  643. 25:10as well as the procreation of humanity
  644. 25:14as a species why is this phenomenon
  645. 25:17happening and I would state that the
  646. 25:19actual reason is is ultimately for
  647. 25:21reproduction and for protecting the
  648. 25:24future and the longevity of the race
  649. 25:25itself
  650. 25:27because if you think about it with men
  651. 25:30being preferring compatible
  652. 25:31relationships they enable each other
  653. 25:33which means because of that enablement
  654. 25:36that they put among each other as
  655. 25:37they're seeking that higher level of
  656. 25:41um
  657. 25:42um uh potentially unconditional love and
  658. 25:45deep-rooted uh Brotherhood relationships
  659. 25:48the family you choose not the family you
  660. 25:49inherit when it comes to fellow men the
  661. 25:51risk is is that because they're enabling
  662. 25:54each other
  663. 25:55those men may not actually challenge
  664. 25:57each other to grow which means high
  665. 26:00value men are an even more scarce
  666. 26:03resource by default because of the
  667. 26:07enabling nature of male space
  668. 26:11male space does not produce as many high
  669. 26:14value
  670. 26:15men as potentially
  671. 26:18female space could potentially create
  672. 26:21high value women that's what the mature
  673. 26:22feminine was for even though the mature
  674. 26:24feminine doesn't exist anymore because
  675. 26:26the mature masculine barely exists
  676. 26:28nowadays uh and that's and that's a fact
  677. 26:31that's a fact
  678. 26:32so what does a man to do
  679. 26:35So based on that we know that production
  680. 26:39of high value men is much lower and I
  681. 26:42guess that would make sense because you
  682. 26:43know there's only you know according to
  683. 26:45Rolo tomasi in his book rational mail
  684. 26:47Volume 5 the player's handbook within
  685. 26:49that book he States as as very uh crazy
  686. 26:52statistic that women will only initiate
  687. 26:56with only four and a half percent of men
  688. 26:58out there they might be a you know that
  689. 27:01whereas with 20 of men they're just like
  690. 27:04not just by default unattracted to those
  691. 27:06men but then only there's four and a
  692. 27:09half percent of the men out there that a
  693. 27:11woman would actually be willing to
  694. 27:13initiate with them herself right they
  695. 27:15find them that attractive that they'd be
  696. 27:17willing to initiate with on their own
  697. 27:19right that's that's that's a very small
  698. 27:21number for high value man out there four
  699. 27:24and a half percent that's extremely
  700. 27:25small
  701. 27:26so less than one out of every 20 men out
  702. 27:29there is potentially a high value men
  703. 27:32that's that's
  704. 27:34that's really low that's extremely low
  705. 27:36but I think one of the reasons for that
  706. 27:37is because mail space uh because men
  707. 27:40have this affiliative point of view
  708. 27:42they're not really mail space does not
  709. 27:45necessarily actually produce uh high
  710. 27:49value men so it's really a high value
  711. 27:52meant like because you know as iron and
  712. 27:53sharp is iron so is one man to another
  713. 27:55so when you bring a lot of men together
  714. 27:57into like one place as it were you know
  715. 28:02they'll ultimately become you know the
  716. 28:04average of the men that they are around
  717. 28:06so that's why a hot bunch of high value
  718. 28:08men need to like screen other men
  719. 28:10joining their group so that those men
  720. 28:13can actually you know grow with each
  721. 28:15other and not allow any lower value men
  722. 28:18in their group to kind of like cramp
  723. 28:20their style that's where the whole
  724. 28:21saying hey he's cramping my style
  725. 28:23actually comes from that's where it
  726. 28:25comes from
  727. 28:26so
  728. 28:28so that ends up becoming an issue but
  729. 28:30why why is this matter why is this
  730. 28:33happening what is the con the very
  731. 28:35controversial point of view
  732. 28:38that I've been able to extract as a
  733. 28:41result of knowing these Dynamics when it
  734. 28:44comes to how women choose and structure
  735. 28:47their female friends versus how men's
  736. 28:49shoes and structure their male friends
  737. 28:51men preferring compatibility among their
  738. 28:53male friends and women uh preferring
  739. 28:56camaraderie among their female friends
  740. 28:58why does that matter well again
  741. 29:00reproduction
  742. 29:02because
  743. 29:04100 men and one woman could not
  744. 29:07repopulate the Earth it can't happen but
  745. 29:11a hundred women and one man can
  746. 29:13repopulate the Earth okay this is why so
  747. 29:18the concept of Sister Wives in a
  748. 29:20polygenous situation in an in poligenous
  749. 29:22relationships or there's one man with
  750. 29:24multiple who has multiple sexual
  751. 29:26relationships with multiple women and
  752. 29:29those women only have sexual
  753. 29:31relationships with just that one man the
  754. 29:34fact that that man is able to have
  755. 29:37sexual compatibility with a bunch of
  756. 29:40women at the same time and even if those
  757. 29:42women are aware of each other or know
  758. 29:43each other those women who are
  759. 29:45potentially Sister Wives would
  760. 29:47necessarily be evolutionary Lee okay
  761. 29:49with it because they already organized
  762. 29:52their female friends from a camaraderie
  763. 29:54point of view because if you think about
  764. 29:57it if a man is sexually compatible with
  765. 29:59for example eight women
  766. 30:01affectionate an affection woman a
  767. 30:03companion woman a natural woman an
  768. 30:06Intrigue woman a respect woman a
  769. 30:08trustwoman a refinement woman a kindred
  770. 30:11woman if he has relationships with all
  771. 30:14eight sexual compatibilities with eight
  772. 30:15different women for example they're
  773. 30:17going to have high camaraderie with
  774. 30:20those functions but women already
  775. 30:23organized their life when it comes to
  776. 30:25having girlfriends in general with
  777. 30:27having camaraderie which means women are
  778. 30:30already pre-programmed to facilitate
  779. 30:33poligenous relationships
  780. 30:35based on how our evolutionary psychology
  781. 30:39actually works from a collective point
  782. 30:41of view there are already pre-programmed
  783. 30:44psychologically to allow for this with a
  784. 30:48high value man basically
  785. 30:51and as that high value man increases his
  786. 30:53affiliatives with other high-value men
  787. 30:55and he ends up growing and growing them
  788. 30:57and they grow grow with each other
  789. 30:59within their Bromance their Broham their
  790. 31:00Brotherhood he gets to enjoy a bunch of
  791. 31:04women who are potentially Sister Wives
  792. 31:05but they don't mind so much and there's
  793. 31:07not very much conflict because women
  794. 31:09already are used to
  795. 31:12choosing their girlfriends and
  796. 31:14potentially their Sister Wives based on
  797. 31:16camaraderie to begin with and it's
  798. 31:18already there it's already there it's
  799. 31:21already built in
  800. 31:22fascinating perspective if you think
  801. 31:24about it
  802. 31:25it just goes to show that Evolution
  803. 31:27backs up my point of view when it comes
  804. 31:30to
  805. 31:31poligenous relationships you know it
  806. 31:34doesn't it doesn't serve the feminist
  807. 31:36perspective of monogamy and don't get me
  808. 31:38wrong folks
  809. 31:40monogamy is feminist it is monogamy is
  810. 31:44feminist and the reason why that is the
  811. 31:47case is because ultimately the elite
  812. 31:48does not want us making babies because
  813. 31:50the elite is oh crap if man all of a
  814. 31:52sudden realized that they could be
  815. 31:53having poligenous relationships then the
  816. 31:56population would be out of control and
  817. 31:58then that would be really bad because if
  818. 32:00there's one thing the elite does not
  819. 32:02want they do not want people creating
  820. 32:04Bloodlines and having Bloodlines if
  821. 32:06they're willing to fight and die for in
  822. 32:08wars that could potentially take power
  823. 32:09away from the elite themselves that's
  824. 32:11literally why everything in our society
  825. 32:15in Western Society is as toxic as it is
  826. 32:17it's why we have fluoride in our water
  827. 32:18it's why
  828. 32:20um it's why uh you know pharmaceutical
  829. 32:23companies are not here to cure you
  830. 32:24they're here to give you a Band-Aid and
  831. 32:26send you on your way they're here to
  832. 32:27ease your pain hence why they push
  833. 32:29painkillers so much instead of actual
  834. 32:31cures that's literally how it works
  835. 32:33that's why you can't trust the white
  836. 32:34coats you really can't you have to do
  837. 32:36your own research you're better off
  838. 32:37looking at PubMed and trying to come up
  839. 32:39to their own conclusion or hiring people
  840. 32:40like John brison for example or Dr
  841. 32:42Barbara Mack out of Seattle uh or maybe
  842. 32:46Dr Tammy moralia instead of like you
  843. 32:48know you just you just really can't
  844. 32:50trust the general uh white coats out
  845. 32:53there you just can't you know because
  846. 32:55they don't even realize it but
  847. 32:57everyone's kind of been brainwashed by
  848. 33:00the elite brainwashed by The Matrix and
  849. 33:03to defend the Matrix because their ego
  850. 33:04Investments are all based on the Matrix
  851. 33:07you know and if you guys want to read in
  852. 33:09fantastic book about it although it's
  853. 33:10very Christian uh Frank Viola's book uh
  854. 33:14Insurgent or insurgents
  855. 33:17um is uh is a fantastic read because it
  856. 33:20talks about how people's ego Investments
  857. 33:22often align with Society because Society
  858. 33:25has conditioned to them to be this way
  859. 33:27it is the Matrix okay so yeah you know
  860. 33:30if the elite had its way they would
  861. 33:32never ever ever allow masculinity to
  862. 33:35take full form because if masculinity
  863. 33:37took full form Not only would there be a
  864. 33:40lot more babies because with the mature
  865. 33:41masculine returning all of a sudden one
  866. 33:44man to multiple women relationships will
  867. 33:45be happening entire Bloodlines would be
  868. 33:48exploding out of nowhere and those
  869. 33:49Bloodlines would eventually become
  870. 33:51strong enough to challenge their power
  871. 33:52oh sucks really sucks so they go out of
  872. 33:56our way to institutionalize monogamy and
  873. 33:59condition everyone in terms of monogamy
  874. 34:01in order to keep the population low so
  875. 34:03that there is no bloodline that would be
  876. 34:05big enough out there to actually
  877. 34:06challenge theirs and challenge their
  878. 34:08power so welcome to how the world really
  879. 34:12actually works so yeah
  880. 34:14anyway folks thanks for watching and
  881. 34:16listening hopefully you enjoyed this
  882. 34:18interesting perspective I'll see you
  883. 34:21guys tonight on the Discord
  884. 34:23[Music]
  885. 34:30[Applause]
  886. 34:30[Music]

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