Why Men and Women Pick Friends Differently | Jungian Sexuality | CS Joseph — Transcript
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- 0:00I gave you all alone
- 0:04[Music]
- 0:13what's up Eagle hackers welcome to the
- 0:17C.S Joseph podcast
- 0:21today's episode
- 0:23we're gonna be discussing uh
- 0:28how
- 0:29masculine on masculine versus feminine
- 0:33on feminine relationships basically
- 0:35friendships
- 0:36how they seem to work from a Pareto
- 0:38Principle uh perspective
- 0:42because we noticed that there is a bit
- 0:45of a pattern psychologically when it
- 0:47comes to how men and women organize
- 0:50their relationships from a compatibility
- 0:52versus a camaraderie points of view
- 0:55among the 16 types which is completely
- 0:58fascinating
- 1:00also
- 1:01potentially supports a very
- 1:04controversial Viewpoint that I have in
- 1:07regards to relationships and uh nice dog
- 1:14so
- 1:16from that perspective
- 1:19it just lands into what we've been
- 1:20saying in like a previous video talking
- 1:22about how
- 1:23you know
- 1:24our genes our Evolution as human beings
- 1:27ends up having like some protections uh
- 1:29put into place based on some of our
- 1:32Natures which then lends itself to
- 1:35specific uh behaviors and I ultimately
- 1:38find this utterly fascinating
- 1:41quite fascinating
- 1:45so we're going to be doing a little Deep
- 1:47dive on that
- 1:48but uh oh there goes the ash I had a I
- 1:51had a pretty good one there but uh
- 1:52finally uh killed over
- 1:55so
- 1:56anyway the point is uh
- 1:59camaraderie and compatibility end up
- 2:02becoming uh something that
- 2:05is a shadow of a phenomenon that's
- 2:08happening between people and their
- 2:11friendships
- 2:13when men are friends with other men for
- 2:16example
- 2:17they behave in a very affiliative Manner
- 2:19and this is this is regardless of their
- 2:21alpha or beta or whatever interpretation
- 2:24of the red pill you may have Sigma male
- 2:27who cares it doesn't matter men or men
- 2:30are men and the way of man is ultimately
- 2:31the same when you put a bunch of men
- 2:33together in the same place and guess
- 2:36what well women have a similar approach
- 2:38as well when it comes to having other
- 2:40women in their lives women that they
- 2:41have close relationships with
- 2:44and the reality of the situation is is
- 2:47that
- 2:48men being basically affiliative with
- 2:51their relationships how that actually
- 2:53manifests like some examples it's like
- 2:55you know hey man don't break the bro
- 2:57code you know the bro code the Bromance
- 2:59the bro ham you know growing out you
- 3:01know that whole the whole dichotomy that
- 3:04whole way of uh behavior that men have
- 3:06when they come together as a collective
- 3:09towards a common goal the red pill
- 3:11writers call this you know women talk
- 3:13but men do right they do things together
- 3:16they take action together
- 3:22and that's that's important that's very
- 3:23uh
- 3:24necessary to understand because at the
- 3:27end of the day they're all about doing
- 3:29the right thing to each other or for
- 3:31each other
- 3:33so one of the reasons why uh you know
- 3:35the the Ten Commandment uh out of the
- 3:38Ten Commandments is Thou shalt not covet
- 3:40thy neighbor's wife
- 3:41it's because the number one unspoken
- 3:44rule of the bro ham the bro code or the
- 3:46bromances never screw another man's
- 3:49woman without his permission basically
- 3:51you know and that's in a very
- 3:53affiliative concept men who do not
- 3:56follow that rule I mean
- 3:58in ancient times they were exiled
- 4:00they're executed they were murdered you
- 4:02know like like when men cheat not very
- 4:04much happens but when women cheat uh
- 4:07Cities Burn basically because you know
- 4:11uh there's an aspect of Vengeance when
- 4:14it comes uh you know from from a male
- 4:16point of view due to their masculine
- 4:17idealism
- 4:22and they often take their uh
- 4:25masculine idealism with them when it
- 4:27comes to relationships with other men as
- 4:30much as they take their masculine
- 4:31idealism with them anywhere they go
- 4:32because men together are very
- 4:34affiliative
- 4:36and they're always it's ultimately how
- 4:39teamwork regardless if they're pragmatic
- 4:41or affiliative you know individually but
- 4:43collectively they're ultimately
- 4:45affiliative this is why you can have a
- 4:47group of 300 dudes stand against a 20
- 4:49000 man army and basically win or hold
- 4:53them back for long enough for all of the
- 4:56other Allied city-states of Greece to
- 4:58come together and fight at the uh you
- 5:01know fighting
- 5:02fight the enemy and unite and push back
- 5:04the Persians and repel the Invaders from
- 5:06the lands
- 5:08all because 300 Spartans were
- 5:10affiliative one day willing to sacrifice
- 5:12their lives and quote do the right thing
- 5:15for not only their own Nation but the
- 5:17other uh nation states uh within uh
- 5:21within Greece essentially
- 5:23and they were ultimately successful
- 5:26which is a really big deal but it was it
- 5:28was made possible because of how
- 5:31affiliative men are women are a lot
- 5:34different women however come from the
- 5:36perspective that uh
- 5:39you know they're very they're very
- 5:40pragmatic this is one of the reasons why
- 5:42like you know when men look at life they
- 5:44see life as this big pie and they're
- 5:46just trying to get their own slice
- 5:47they'll even help their brothers get
- 5:49their slice out of life that's a very
- 5:51affiliative point of view but when women
- 5:52look at life and they see it as this big
- 5:54pie and they each get their slice they
- 5:56look at each other it's like well why do
- 5:58you get that slice why is your slice
- 5:59better be your slice has a pot has more
- 6:01fruit in it or it it has a a frosted
- 6:04flour on it why didn't I get a frosted
- 6:06flour you know that kind of what makes
- 6:07you so special
- 6:08women are inherently pragmatic they're
- 6:12very pragmatic towards one another and
- 6:15their relationships with each other are
- 6:16based ultimately on pragmatism they have
- 6:19this unique Independence about them
- 6:21that's why women suffer from things like
- 6:23competition anxiety they're very afraid
- 6:25that other women would basically take
- 6:27what they have and they should be afraid
- 6:29because due to the pragmatism that women
- 6:31have collectively women oftentimes are
- 6:34unscrupulous about uh poaching
- 6:38the men from their fellow female friends
- 6:41it happens all the time it's actually a
- 6:43very common phenomenon and that's an
- 6:46example of how pragmatism ends up
- 6:49working or working for women when they
- 6:51come together collectively this is one
- 6:53of the reasons why women choose or an
- 6:55elect to talk instead of do because when
- 6:58women are doing and doing things
- 7:00together they can't really decide on who
- 7:03should be the leader because in the
- 7:06affiliative area of male space male
- 7:09space can easily understand what the
- 7:11hierarchy is who is the alpha who's not
- 7:14who's the strongest who should be in
- 7:15charge and it's just very instantly
- 7:18known who's running the show as a result
- 7:21but from a female perspective in female
- 7:23space they don't know this is why when
- 7:26women come together they often elect to
- 7:28talk that's why they have something
- 7:29called Stitch and basically
- 7:31instead of doing because in order to do
- 7:34something there would have to be some
- 7:36kind of hierarchy
- 7:38uh they they would have to decide you
- 7:41know who's going to have the torch and
- 7:42women have a hard time when they're
- 7:43together to you know deciding who the
- 7:46leader is and oftentimes they pass the
- 7:49torch of leadership amongst one another
- 7:51whereas men
- 7:52the established leader is established
- 7:54and that's it that's it and it's because
- 7:57women are pragmatic they're very
- 7:59independent when they are together
- 8:01whereas men are very interdependent when
- 8:04they are together and it's always
- 8:06fascinating uh you know to see this work
- 8:08out this is one of the reasons why like
- 8:10one of the biggest regrets of my life
- 8:12even though it's technically not mine to
- 8:14regret per se but it is ultimately an
- 8:17area of my life that I feel has been
- 8:20lacking I never had the opportunity to
- 8:24have a brother
- 8:25and I wish I really really wish I did
- 8:28have that opportunity
- 8:30it'd be really nice to have that
- 8:32opportunity you know to like go back in
- 8:34time to my childhood and you know grow
- 8:37up with what it would have been like to
- 8:38have a brother or brothers to have some
- 8:41of that you know affiliative mail space
- 8:44among my brothers and even take that you
- 8:46know into my adulthood you could say
- 8:49that I'm definitely envious of Andrew
- 8:51Tate's relationship that he has with his
- 8:53brother Tristan that's something I've
- 8:55always wanted my whole life and I've
- 8:58never really actually been able to have
- 8:59that level of uh connection or male
- 9:03space affiliative within you know blood
- 9:06relatives it just hasn't happened with
- 9:08maybe the exception of my male cousins
- 9:10uh Mike and Nick
- 9:12probably
- 9:14you know if there is anyone in the world
- 9:16that I really consider my brother who is
- 9:18a blood relative that would definitely
- 9:20be uh my cousin Mike
- 9:23he's always treated me like a brother
- 9:25and he's always been there for me and
- 9:27that's why I go out of my way to be
- 9:28there for him today if he calls me I
- 9:30answer the phone that's just how it is
- 9:32you know because he was there for me in
- 9:34my time of need he also helped Mentor me
- 9:36in a lot of areas and he made me better
- 9:38as a result a lot of the reasons why I'm
- 9:40even able to actually be here today
- 9:42talking to you folks and doing uh this
- 9:45Channel and whatnot is literally because
- 9:47of my cousin Mike for example so at
- 9:51least he was able to take on that figure
- 9:53of being a brother to me
- 9:55and you know what maybe I wouldn't have
- 9:57ended up as a uduf octogram you know
- 9:59from that perspective uh had I actually
- 10:02had a brother you know like that's
- 10:05certainly a possibility you know but uh
- 10:09but yeah like that that's just something
- 10:10I wish I had you know and Men deep down
- 10:13crave this affiliative uh perspective
- 10:16when it comes to you know male space the
- 10:19problem is is that Society has gone out
- 10:21of its way to make sure that male space
- 10:23is not allowed to exist
- 10:25and
- 10:27the reason why is because where male
- 10:29space exists masculinity will grow and
- 10:31where masculinity grows then masculinity
- 10:33will ultimately challenge the system and
- 10:35it could eventually lead to Revolution
- 10:37men will start to realize one of two
- 10:39things that they have nothing to lose
- 10:40and then they're willing to fight and
- 10:42put their lives down to change the
- 10:43system or they'll realize they have
- 10:45everything to lose and they'll be
- 10:47willing to lay down their lives and
- 10:49Revolt and change the system basically
- 10:51but the elite or in those who control
- 10:54the world would never allow that to
- 10:56happen like Ever So based on that they
- 10:59have to uh
- 11:03you know they have to result to other
- 11:04means like for example in Washington
- 11:06state it's illegal to smoke tobacco
- 11:09inside right that is a direct assault on
- 11:12male space and that is one way with
- 11:14which masculinity can be reduced
- 11:17just on that alone I'm very thankful
- 11:18that the state that I live in smoking
- 11:20tobacco inside is actually legal so you
- 11:23know so it just ends up you know being
- 11:25up to the bar owners where the owners
- 11:27the bar is like yeah you can smoke or no
- 11:29no smoking Etc it leaves that up to the
- 11:31decision of the owners of the bars to
- 11:33make that decision it's nice you know I
- 11:35right after I filmed this actually I'm
- 11:37gonna be going to my favorite Speak Easy
- 11:39where I sometimes film as well and going
- 11:42to be enjoying myself at that bar and I
- 11:44will be smoking cigars with my friends
- 11:46you know with our mail space at that bar
- 11:49it's gonna be it's gonna be great so
- 11:52uh but that's again that's just that's
- 11:54just one example ultimately but men
- 11:56ultimately crave that that male space
- 11:58because that affiliate of nature because
- 12:00it all it all goes down to like you know
- 12:02the family you choose versus the family
- 12:05you inherit and a lot of men out there
- 12:08you know they end up creating a
- 12:10Brotherhood and that Brotherhood becomes
- 12:12a family ultimately a masculine family
- 12:15and it's that masculine family that can
- 12:16challenge the system it can win Wars it
- 12:19can survive in the trenches when one of
- 12:22them is down you know the other guy can
- 12:24pick them up you know in a triple
- 12:26braided court is not easily broken
- 12:27according to King Solomon as he was
- 12:29describing you know ultimately the
- 12:32benefits of male space uh in that
- 12:34passage I think it's Ecclesiastes
- 12:36chapter seven or Ecclesiastes chapter
- 12:38nine if I remember correctly
- 12:40I could be wrong I could be misquoting
- 12:43the uh citation there
- 12:45um but it is in some of his writings in
- 12:48the Old Testament
- 12:50so
- 12:51from that point of view
- 12:53we have to understand you know these
- 12:56these male differences these female
- 12:58differences when it comes to how they
- 13:00manage their friends
- 13:01so pragmatism rules uh female space and
- 13:05the affiliative rules mail space
- 13:08ultimately so understanding these two
- 13:10concepts is very necessary because then
- 13:12you're able to actually look at another
- 13:15phenomenon that's happening because male
- 13:18space is affiliative because female
- 13:19space is pragmatic and that is
- 13:22ultimately how men and women are
- 13:24different when it comes to choosing
- 13:26friends
- 13:27now I was I was reading a book by
- 13:29Matthew Hussey recently and a lot of
- 13:32people in the manosphere in the red pill
- 13:34uh groups absolutely hate Matthew Hussey
- 13:37Matthew Hussey is an infj he wrote the
- 13:39book get the guy I just finished reading
- 13:41it uh hadees in the Discord Community
- 13:44highly recommended it to me so I decided
- 13:47I'd read it and so I did and uh I found
- 13:49it I found it ultimately fascinating but
- 13:51one of the things that he said in his
- 13:54book was that if you give like 10 women
- 13:56to a man uh he'll play but if you give
- 13:5910 men to women she will choose you know
- 14:02and this is extremely extremely
- 14:06important because what I realized as a
- 14:08result of reading this book is that that
- 14:11directly applies also to male on male
- 14:14friendships and female on female
- 14:16friendships right because if you notice
- 14:19something a huge difference between men
- 14:21and women and it's this when men choose
- 14:24their friends they value compatibility
- 14:26ability with their friends
- 14:29more so than they value camaraderie but
- 14:32with women being that they're pragmatic
- 14:35you know they actually end up valuing
- 14:39camaraderie higher than they value
- 14:42compatibility the reason why and I
- 14:45suspect this is the reason why and I
- 14:48believe this is true but probably gonna
- 14:52need a little bit more time in the field
- 14:53to verify but I played in plenty of time
- 14:55in the field already to verify but I
- 14:58mean the jury could still be out so I'm
- 15:00just admitting it right now but I don't
- 15:01think so I really don't think so I think
- 15:03I think this is the truth
- 15:06um
- 15:06that women you know like from a Pareto
- 15:10Principle perspective 80 of their
- 15:12friends are typically girlfriends who
- 15:14are high camaraderie with them with 20
- 15:16of them being compatible whereas it's
- 15:18the other way around with men eighty
- 15:21percent of their friends are compatible
- 15:22with them and only 20 of them have
- 15:24camaraderie which is very very
- 15:27fascinating if you think about it you
- 15:30know like you know one could argue like
- 15:32you know from a new testament
- 15:33perspective where you know the Apostle
- 15:36Peter basically claims that you know
- 15:37women are the quote weaker sex Etc
- 15:41well it would make sense under that
- 15:43context because they have all these
- 15:45camaraderie based uh relationships with
- 15:49fellow women and camaraderie exists
- 15:51ultimately to serve as sources of
- 15:54personal growth so it gives women the
- 15:56opportunity to personally grow and as
- 15:59and help facilitate their pragmatism
- 16:02when they are with each other between
- 16:03their girlfriends they're very very
- 16:05pragmatic oftentimes to the point of
- 16:07being so pragmatic they're actually
- 16:08willing to poach each other's men off
- 16:10each other sometimes even in secret or
- 16:13in covertly and even sometimes on a rare
- 16:16basis overtly you know from time to time
- 16:19and that can be that could be a major
- 16:22issue but ultimately the camaraderie is
- 16:25there to help improve you know to help
- 16:28improve women you know whereas the
- 16:30affiliative is bringing about compatible
- 16:33relationships with men
- 16:34why is this happening it's because men
- 16:37do not have their emotional needs met
- 16:39and having compatibility amongst their
- 16:41male friends allows men to actually have
- 16:43an opportunity to experience
- 16:45unconditional love within the
- 16:48Brotherhood within this life because men
- 16:51don't experience unconditional love from
- 16:53women they just don't they really don't
- 16:56it's not about unconditional love with
- 16:59women they don't they don't experience
- 17:00it the one woman in their whole life
- 17:03that they could and they have the
- 17:04highest opportunity of experiencing
- 17:06unconditional love is between their
- 17:09their mother and themselves but the
- 17:11thing is is that that's not entirely
- 17:12true either because even to this day you
- 17:15know most women out there have abortions
- 17:17so that's not exactly an example of
- 17:22unconditional love towards their
- 17:23children basically so you know and also
- 17:27you know collectively as women enable
- 17:30each other they enable each other to be
- 17:31more pragmatic and enable them to be
- 17:33empowered women and you know fem
- 17:36empowerment and the women's movement and
- 17:39those types of things right feminism
- 17:40ultimately also known you know from a
- 17:42Biblical perspective as the spirit of
- 17:45Jezebel the spirit of Jezebel that the
- 17:47Prophet Elijah basically annihilated
- 17:49um so it was kind of interesting because
- 17:51Elijah's ultimate purpose according to
- 17:54the prophet Malachi is to turn the
- 17:57hearts of Sons of their fathers the
- 17:58hearts and fathers to their sons so the
- 18:01Prophet Elijah is the most anti-feminist
- 18:03prophet of the Old Testament basically
- 18:05uh you know from that perspective and
- 18:08you can actually even see an example of
- 18:10that playing out within the first and
- 18:11second chapter of the Book of Esther
- 18:14where the advisors to King Xerxes who
- 18:17actually lost uh to King Leonidas and uh
- 18:21well he killed Leonidas technically but
- 18:23uh lost to the to the to the Greeks and
- 18:26then ended up uh you know running away
- 18:28like a little uh back to uh his
- 18:32Citadel and Sousa in Persia basically
- 18:34when he failed his invasion and then
- 18:36just basically was with his Harem for
- 18:38the rest of his life feeling empty and
- 18:40whatnot but uh
- 18:43from that perspective
- 18:45um you know you can see how these men
- 18:48are you know complaining about feminism
- 18:50and complaining about the dangers of the
- 18:52spirit of Jezebel ultimately which is
- 18:54what Elijah was sent to ultimately
- 18:55destroy
- 18:57um which is fascinating and also Elijah
- 18:59is only one of two people in the Bible
- 19:01that was actually spared from death
- 19:05which is also fascinating if you think
- 19:07about it completely preserved right you
- 19:11know I mean even Jesus died but Elijah
- 19:13didn't you know Enoch didn't you know so
- 19:16so like from from that perspective like
- 19:19a lot of people just don't even
- 19:20understand you know what ultimately that
- 19:22purpose was and Elijah's purpose was to
- 19:24destroy feminism that's really what it
- 19:26was you know call me crazy for saying
- 19:28that but that's just reality you know
- 19:30proven in first and second Kings it's
- 19:33also proven in Malachi as to ultimately
- 19:35what his purpose was because of how he
- 19:37was involved in the Jezebel incident and
- 19:40also turning the hearts of sunset
- 19:41fathers and hearts of fathers of the
- 19:43sons I'm being repetitive so forgive me
- 19:45so
- 19:46from that perspective we can move on and
- 19:48move forward from that
- 19:52the affiliative nature of men basically
- 19:55allows them to have causes them to
- 19:57desire compatible men in their life
- 19:59because through the Brotherhood of the
- 20:01affiliative nature of the mature
- 20:03masculine and ultimately male space
- 20:05gives man the opportunity to experience
- 20:09unconditional love through their
- 20:11relationships with each other
- 20:13unconditional love is not really
- 20:15available to them with women and at most
- 20:18it could be there between their mothers
- 20:20but even then that's a crap shoot
- 20:22technically speaking uh you know it's
- 20:25not it's not a guaranteed outcome but it
- 20:26can be a guaranteed outcome uh a more
- 20:29than likely outcome uh when it comes to
- 20:32you know participating in the
- 20:33Brotherhood women have a different
- 20:35perspective women it's just not that way
- 20:37you know they're not really exactly
- 20:38loyal to each other they're all very
- 20:40pragmatic to each other they're all very
- 20:42independent uh and
- 20:44this is all and if you notice like they
- 20:47don't really allow very many pragmatic
- 20:50relationships uh or very many compatible
- 20:54relationships with people in their lives
- 20:56and what what ends up happening is that
- 20:58you notice that women end up saving
- 21:01their most compatible relationship
- 21:04ultimately as you know between them and
- 21:08their man you know them and their lover
- 21:10them and their husband them and the
- 21:12father of their children basically
- 21:13because just as Matthew Hussey said his
- 21:15book get the guy he said uh quote you
- 21:18know give 10 women to a man and he'll
- 21:21play but give 10 men to women and she
- 21:24will choose right because women
- 21:26ultimately due to the fact that their
- 21:29beauty and their fertility ends up
- 21:31expiring over time and decaying over
- 21:34time and they have to work really hard
- 21:36to preserve their beauty as long as they
- 21:38can throughout their life they really
- 21:40only have time to really invest into
- 21:43really just one man at a time because if
- 21:46they try to have multiple men then you
- 21:48know technically their value goes down
- 21:49and that can be a problem you know
- 21:51ultimately because high value men are
- 21:54not going to commit to a woman with such
- 21:55a high body count as we've discussed
- 21:57before on this channel so
- 22:00that is that ends up being interesting
- 22:02they they they do seek compatible
- 22:04relationships but it's really only in in
- 22:07a deep sexual relationship that women
- 22:10are seeking this now that's not to say
- 22:11that they don't have compatible female
- 22:13friends
- 22:14but when you actually look at their
- 22:16friends in large and they're not
- 22:18mistyping themselves they're not
- 22:19mistyping their friends all of a sudden
- 22:22they'll realize wow I actually do prefer
- 22:25camaraderie amongst my girlfriends and
- 22:28save compatibility for that one deep uh
- 22:31committed relationship that I have with
- 22:33a man ultimately right whereas it's kind
- 22:37of uh interesting when it comes to men
- 22:39men seek out camaraderie or
- 22:42compatibility from each other with not
- 22:44as much camaraderie and then also uh
- 22:48seek out
- 22:51they also they they end up seeking out
- 22:53you know also compatibility with a woman
- 22:56you know men men can't get enough
- 22:58compatibility basically now I've I've
- 23:01heard some women you know within the
- 23:04community talk about how well that's
- 23:05just men enabling men Etc and you know
- 23:09while that can necessarily be the case
- 23:10you have to understand is that without
- 23:12men enabling men without the mature
- 23:14masking without male space society would
- 23:17have never even existed without
- 23:19mailspace mailspace is is everything
- 23:23male space is entirely important and the
- 23:25society is against male space because
- 23:27everyone just assumes male space exists
- 23:30to destroy female space but if you
- 23:32actually end up watching or
- 23:34participating in female space you'll see
- 23:36that it's pure chaos because
- 23:38every one of these women are trying to
- 23:40like be the queen of her own little Hill
- 23:44and it's like having too many chefs in a
- 23:46kitchen basically whereas with men
- 23:49that's not necessarily the case there's
- 23:50eventually always going to be an
- 23:51established hierarchy and established a
- 23:54pecking order when it comes to uh when
- 23:57it comes to things you know because even
- 23:59women understand that just because
- 24:01you're the queen bee today doesn't mean
- 24:02you're going to be the queen bee
- 24:03tomorrow right but with man it's
- 24:05different it's a that established
- 24:07pecking order can last a very long time
- 24:10and they're completely okay with it
- 24:11because at least they're getting their
- 24:13own potential unconditional love needs
- 24:17or emotional needs being met by their
- 24:18fellow men because those emotional needs
- 24:21are not necessarily being met by the
- 24:22women in their life no matter how
- 24:24compatible they are right uh with those
- 24:27women it just so it's just it's just a
- 24:30fascinating phenomenon if you think
- 24:31about it it's a really really
- 24:32fascinating phenomenon women prefer to
- 24:35have more camaraderie amongst fellow uh
- 24:40female friends and men prefer to have
- 24:43more compatible relationships and
- 24:45friendships with men and it's it's it's
- 24:48unbelievable if you just see how life is
- 24:51structured this way
- 24:52now here's the kicker here's where it
- 24:55gets super controversial
- 24:57why why does this happen what is what is
- 25:01happening from an evolutionary point of
- 25:03view what is happening uh you know to
- 25:07help facilitate the the pro generation
- 25:10as well as the procreation of humanity
- 25:14as a species why is this phenomenon
- 25:17happening and I would state that the
- 25:19actual reason is is ultimately for
- 25:21reproduction and for protecting the
- 25:24future and the longevity of the race
- 25:25itself
- 25:27because if you think about it with men
- 25:30being preferring compatible
- 25:31relationships they enable each other
- 25:33which means because of that enablement
- 25:36that they put among each other as
- 25:37they're seeking that higher level of
- 25:41um
- 25:42um uh potentially unconditional love and
- 25:45deep-rooted uh Brotherhood relationships
- 25:48the family you choose not the family you
- 25:49inherit when it comes to fellow men the
- 25:51risk is is that because they're enabling
- 25:54each other
- 25:55those men may not actually challenge
- 25:57each other to grow which means high
- 26:00value men are an even more scarce
- 26:03resource by default because of the
- 26:07enabling nature of male space
- 26:11male space does not produce as many high
- 26:14value
- 26:15men as potentially
- 26:18female space could potentially create
- 26:21high value women that's what the mature
- 26:22feminine was for even though the mature
- 26:24feminine doesn't exist anymore because
- 26:26the mature masculine barely exists
- 26:28nowadays uh and that's and that's a fact
- 26:31that's a fact
- 26:32so what does a man to do
- 26:35So based on that we know that production
- 26:39of high value men is much lower and I
- 26:42guess that would make sense because you
- 26:43know there's only you know according to
- 26:45Rolo tomasi in his book rational mail
- 26:47Volume 5 the player's handbook within
- 26:49that book he States as as very uh crazy
- 26:52statistic that women will only initiate
- 26:56with only four and a half percent of men
- 26:58out there they might be a you know that
- 27:01whereas with 20 of men they're just like
- 27:04not just by default unattracted to those
- 27:06men but then only there's four and a
- 27:09half percent of the men out there that a
- 27:11woman would actually be willing to
- 27:13initiate with them herself right they
- 27:15find them that attractive that they'd be
- 27:17willing to initiate with on their own
- 27:19right that's that's that's a very small
- 27:21number for high value man out there four
- 27:24and a half percent that's extremely
- 27:25small
- 27:26so less than one out of every 20 men out
- 27:29there is potentially a high value men
- 27:32that's that's
- 27:34that's really low that's extremely low
- 27:36but I think one of the reasons for that
- 27:37is because mail space uh because men
- 27:40have this affiliative point of view
- 27:42they're not really mail space does not
- 27:45necessarily actually produce uh high
- 27:49value men so it's really a high value
- 27:52meant like because you know as iron and
- 27:53sharp is iron so is one man to another
- 27:55so when you bring a lot of men together
- 27:57into like one place as it were you know
- 28:02they'll ultimately become you know the
- 28:04average of the men that they are around
- 28:06so that's why a hot bunch of high value
- 28:08men need to like screen other men
- 28:10joining their group so that those men
- 28:13can actually you know grow with each
- 28:15other and not allow any lower value men
- 28:18in their group to kind of like cramp
- 28:20their style that's where the whole
- 28:21saying hey he's cramping my style
- 28:23actually comes from that's where it
- 28:25comes from
- 28:26so
- 28:28so that ends up becoming an issue but
- 28:30why why is this matter why is this
- 28:33happening what is the con the very
- 28:35controversial point of view
- 28:38that I've been able to extract as a
- 28:41result of knowing these Dynamics when it
- 28:44comes to how women choose and structure
- 28:47their female friends versus how men's
- 28:49shoes and structure their male friends
- 28:51men preferring compatibility among their
- 28:53male friends and women uh preferring
- 28:56camaraderie among their female friends
- 28:58why does that matter well again
- 29:00reproduction
- 29:02because
- 29:04100 men and one woman could not
- 29:07repopulate the Earth it can't happen but
- 29:11a hundred women and one man can
- 29:13repopulate the Earth okay this is why so
- 29:18the concept of Sister Wives in a
- 29:20polygenous situation in an in poligenous
- 29:22relationships or there's one man with
- 29:24multiple who has multiple sexual
- 29:26relationships with multiple women and
- 29:29those women only have sexual
- 29:31relationships with just that one man the
- 29:34fact that that man is able to have
- 29:37sexual compatibility with a bunch of
- 29:40women at the same time and even if those
- 29:42women are aware of each other or know
- 29:43each other those women who are
- 29:45potentially Sister Wives would
- 29:47necessarily be evolutionary Lee okay
- 29:49with it because they already organized
- 29:52their female friends from a camaraderie
- 29:54point of view because if you think about
- 29:57it if a man is sexually compatible with
- 29:59for example eight women
- 30:01affectionate an affection woman a
- 30:03companion woman a natural woman an
- 30:06Intrigue woman a respect woman a
- 30:08trustwoman a refinement woman a kindred
- 30:11woman if he has relationships with all
- 30:14eight sexual compatibilities with eight
- 30:15different women for example they're
- 30:17going to have high camaraderie with
- 30:20those functions but women already
- 30:23organized their life when it comes to
- 30:25having girlfriends in general with
- 30:27having camaraderie which means women are
- 30:30already pre-programmed to facilitate
- 30:33poligenous relationships
- 30:35based on how our evolutionary psychology
- 30:39actually works from a collective point
- 30:41of view there are already pre-programmed
- 30:44psychologically to allow for this with a
- 30:48high value man basically
- 30:51and as that high value man increases his
- 30:53affiliatives with other high-value men
- 30:55and he ends up growing and growing them
- 30:57and they grow grow with each other
- 30:59within their Bromance their Broham their
- 31:00Brotherhood he gets to enjoy a bunch of
- 31:04women who are potentially Sister Wives
- 31:05but they don't mind so much and there's
- 31:07not very much conflict because women
- 31:09already are used to
- 31:12choosing their girlfriends and
- 31:14potentially their Sister Wives based on
- 31:16camaraderie to begin with and it's
- 31:18already there it's already there it's
- 31:21already built in
- 31:22fascinating perspective if you think
- 31:24about it
- 31:25it just goes to show that Evolution
- 31:27backs up my point of view when it comes
- 31:30to
- 31:31poligenous relationships you know it
- 31:34doesn't it doesn't serve the feminist
- 31:36perspective of monogamy and don't get me
- 31:38wrong folks
- 31:40monogamy is feminist it is monogamy is
- 31:44feminist and the reason why that is the
- 31:47case is because ultimately the elite
- 31:48does not want us making babies because
- 31:50the elite is oh crap if man all of a
- 31:52sudden realized that they could be
- 31:53having poligenous relationships then the
- 31:56population would be out of control and
- 31:58then that would be really bad because if
- 32:00there's one thing the elite does not
- 32:02want they do not want people creating
- 32:04Bloodlines and having Bloodlines if
- 32:06they're willing to fight and die for in
- 32:08wars that could potentially take power
- 32:09away from the elite themselves that's
- 32:11literally why everything in our society
- 32:15in Western Society is as toxic as it is
- 32:17it's why we have fluoride in our water
- 32:18it's why
- 32:20um it's why uh you know pharmaceutical
- 32:23companies are not here to cure you
- 32:24they're here to give you a Band-Aid and
- 32:26send you on your way they're here to
- 32:27ease your pain hence why they push
- 32:29painkillers so much instead of actual
- 32:31cures that's literally how it works
- 32:33that's why you can't trust the white
- 32:34coats you really can't you have to do
- 32:36your own research you're better off
- 32:37looking at PubMed and trying to come up
- 32:39to their own conclusion or hiring people
- 32:40like John brison for example or Dr
- 32:42Barbara Mack out of Seattle uh or maybe
- 32:46Dr Tammy moralia instead of like you
- 32:48know you just you just really can't
- 32:50trust the general uh white coats out
- 32:53there you just can't you know because
- 32:55they don't even realize it but
- 32:57everyone's kind of been brainwashed by
- 33:00the elite brainwashed by The Matrix and
- 33:03to defend the Matrix because their ego
- 33:04Investments are all based on the Matrix
- 33:07you know and if you guys want to read in
- 33:09fantastic book about it although it's
- 33:10very Christian uh Frank Viola's book uh
- 33:14Insurgent or insurgents
- 33:17um is uh is a fantastic read because it
- 33:20talks about how people's ego Investments
- 33:22often align with Society because Society
- 33:25has conditioned to them to be this way
- 33:27it is the Matrix okay so yeah you know
- 33:30if the elite had its way they would
- 33:32never ever ever allow masculinity to
- 33:35take full form because if masculinity
- 33:37took full form Not only would there be a
- 33:40lot more babies because with the mature
- 33:41masculine returning all of a sudden one
- 33:44man to multiple women relationships will
- 33:45be happening entire Bloodlines would be
- 33:48exploding out of nowhere and those
- 33:49Bloodlines would eventually become
- 33:51strong enough to challenge their power
- 33:52oh sucks really sucks so they go out of
- 33:56our way to institutionalize monogamy and
- 33:59condition everyone in terms of monogamy
- 34:01in order to keep the population low so
- 34:03that there is no bloodline that would be
- 34:05big enough out there to actually
- 34:06challenge theirs and challenge their
- 34:08power so welcome to how the world really
- 34:12actually works so yeah
- 34:14anyway folks thanks for watching and
- 34:16listening hopefully you enjoyed this
- 34:18interesting perspective I'll see you
- 34:21guys tonight on the Discord
- 34:23[Music]
- 34:30[Applause]
- 34:30[Music]
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