Why Do So Many Myths Say “DON’T LOOK BACK”? — Transcript
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- 0:00Imagine you are given a simple command.
- 0:03Don't look back.
- 0:06Just keep walking forward.
- 0:09Whatever you do.
- 0:11No matter what you hear. No matter what
- 0:12you see.
- 0:14Even if you hear your children calling
- 0:15your name.
- 0:16>> [music]
- 0:17>> Or your loved ones crying out in agony.
- 0:19Just keep walking. And don't turn
- 0:22around.
- 0:24Do you think you could do it?
- 0:26>> [music]
- 0:26>> It might sound simple enough.
- 0:29But time and time again.
- 0:30In stories from ancient Greece, Korea.
- 0:33The Middle East. And countless other
- 0:35places.
- 0:36People fail the simple instruction. Over
- 0:39and over again.
- 0:42Across thousands of years. [music]
- 0:44There have been hundreds of stories from
- 0:45around the world.
- 0:47All with the same warning.
- 0:48>> [music]
- 0:49>> Don't look back.
- 0:52Perhaps more interesting than the
- 0:53prevalence of this command [music] in
- 0:55myths from across the world.
- 0:57Is the fact they almost always fail it.
- 1:00So today.
- 1:02We're going to look at several of these
- 1:03stories. [music]
- 1:04And examine what happens when the
- 1:06characters disobey the seemingly
- 1:08straightforward command.
- 1:10Before asking.
- 1:11Why this particular warning appears so
- 1:13often in stories from cultures separated
- 1:16by thousands of miles.
- 1:18And thousands of years.
- 1:21Because the most intriguing part.
- 1:23Isn't that they are told not to look
- 1:24back.
- 1:26It's the fact they always do.
- 1:38>> [music]
- 1:46[music]
- 1:51[music]
- 1:54>> The most famous story with this command.
- 1:56Is that of Orpheus and Eurydice.
- 1:59One which I'm sure many of you would
- 2:00have heard before.
- 2:02The version I will be using is from
- 2:04Ovid's great work, The Metamorphoses.
- 2:07The main character in the story is of
- 2:08course Orpheus. He was the best musician
- 2:11of all time. Nothing could resist the
- 2:14beautiful melodies that came from his
- 2:15wonderful voice
- 2:17paired with his masterful playing of the
- 2:18lyre.
- 2:20There was one thing that Orpheus loved
- 2:21as much as music
- 2:23and that was his wife, Eurydice.
- 2:25Their wedding day was the happiest day
- 2:27of his life
- 2:28until the god of marriage services,
- 2:30Hymen,
- 2:31who Orpheus had called to bless his
- 2:33marriage, delivered some devastating
- 2:35news.
- 2:36Hymen didn't bless the marriage as he
- 2:38usually would
- 2:39and his torch, which he brought with him
- 2:41to every wedding and would burn bright
- 2:43when the marriage was to prosper, could
- 2:44barely hold a flame
- 2:46instead sputtering out fumes that
- 2:48brought the attendees to tears.
- 2:50Unsurprisingly,
- 2:52this was a very bad omen for Orpheus and
- 2:54Eurydice's marriage
- 2:56and it wouldn't take long for that bad
- 2:58portent to come to fruition.
- 3:01A few days after their marriage,
- 3:03depending on which version you are
- 3:04reading,
- 3:05either Eurydice was walking through the
- 3:07grass with her naiad companions
- 3:09or she was running away from the
- 3:10shepherd Aristaeus, who, enamored by her
- 3:13beauty, was chasing her down to assault
- 3:15her,
- 3:16when, in both stories, she was bitten on
- 3:19the ankle by a snake and very shortly
- 3:21after died.
- 3:24Unsurprisingly, this devastated Orpheus,
- 3:27who, after a period of intense mourning,
- 3:30decided he was going to do the
- 3:31impossible
- 3:32and bring his wife back from the
- 3:33underworld.
- 3:35Making his way past countless ghosts who
- 3:37were wandering aimlessly through the
- 3:38land of the dead, he finally enters the
- 3:41lair of Persephone and Hades.
- 3:44He stood before these great gods of the
- 3:45underworld
- 3:47and he took out his lyre
- 3:49and started to sing.
- 3:50>> [music]
- 3:51>> He sang his story to the gods. He sang
- 3:53about the death of his beloved Eurydice.
- 3:56He sang about the wonder of Amor, the
- 3:57god of love, also known as Cupid,
- 4:01and tried to remind Hades and Persephone
- 4:03about when they themselves were also
- 4:05captivated by Amor,
- 4:07when Hades
- 4:09abducted Persephone in the events that
- 4:11led to her being trapped in the
- 4:12underworld with him.
- 4:14Orpheus begged the king and queen of the
- 4:16underworld to return Eurydice to the
- 4:18land of the living.
- 4:20And if they didn't, they could take his
- 4:22soul as well.
- 4:23He would rather die than leave without
- 4:25her.
- 4:26What happened next is nothing short of
- 4:28legendary.
- 4:30The entire underworld, this pit of
- 4:32darkness and despair, was filled with
- 4:34emotion.
- 4:36Ovid describes how the surrounding
- 4:37ghosts started to weep, and how the
- 4:39various criminals trapped in the fields
- 4:41of punishment did something that was
- 4:42meant to be impossible.
- 4:44They stopped what they were doing.
- 4:47Ixion, who had been sentenced to be
- 4:48chained to a spinning fiery wheel for
- 4:51all eternity, stopped spinning.
- 4:54Tantalus stopped reaching for water,
- 4:56which was cursed to always retreat just
- 4:58out of his reach, leaving him
- 5:00perpetually dying of thirst.
- 5:02Sisyphus stopped pushing his rock and
- 5:05instead sat on top of it and watched,
- 5:07transfixed by Orpheus's melodies.
- 5:10The Furies themselves even felt their
- 5:12face become damp with tears.
- 5:15Hades and Persephone, feeling the effect
- 5:18of Orpheus's lyrics
- 5:20and seeing what it had done to everybody
- 5:22else in the underworld, summoned the
- 5:24ghost of Eurydice.
- 5:26They said that Orpheus could do as he
- 5:28wished and return with Eurydice to the
- 5:30land of the living,
- 5:32except for one simple condition.
- 5:35He must not look back.
- 5:38Unsurprisingly, Orpheus accepted this
- 5:40condition instantly
- 5:42and started to make his way back from
- 5:44the underworld.
- 5:46For this next section, I'll be quoting
- 5:47directly from the original Latin using
- 5:50my own translation.
- 5:51They took the sloping path in absolute
- 5:53silence.
- 5:55It is steep, obscured by dense shadowy
- 5:57fog, and closer to the border to the
- 5:59real world above.
- 6:02It's at this point that doubt starts to
- 6:04creep into the back of Orpheus's mind,
- 6:06teasing him with questions.
- 6:08What if the gods lied to him? Is
- 6:10Eurydice even truly behind him?
- 6:12It is a well-known fact that the Greek
- 6:14gods weren't exactly the most honorable
- 6:15bunch, and they certainly wouldn't be
- 6:17above such a cruel prank.
- 6:20Here, Orpheus makes a mistake that would
- 6:22come to define him.
- 6:25Afraid that Eurydice had faltered
- 6:27[music] and eager to see her, the lover
- 6:29turned his eyes, and instantly Eurydice
- 6:32dropped back, reaching out her arms,
- 6:34struggling to hold and be held.
- 6:36>> [music]
- 6:37>> The unhappy man could snatch at nothing
- 6:39except the vanishing air.
- 6:41And now, dying for the second time,
- 6:44there was no complaint to her husband,
- 6:46for what could she complain of except
- 6:48being loved?
- 6:49And for the last time she said,
- 6:51"Farewell."
- 6:53A cry that could hardly reach his ears,
- 6:55>> [music]
- 6:55>> and returned again to that same place.
- 6:59So goes the story of Orpheus and
- 7:01Eurydice.
- 7:03So, why couldn't Orpheus abide by that
- 7:05simple instruction?
- 7:07He had managed to do the hard part. He
- 7:09had used his superhuman powers of music
- 7:11to convince the king of the underworld
- 7:13himself, and yet he still failed at his
- 7:15task at the final hurdle.
- 7:18Why did he turn around?
- 7:20Although this subject has received a
- 7:22decent amount of scholarly attention,
- 7:24it is still something that I think is
- 7:26criminally under discussed in
- 7:27scholarship.
- 7:29If we take a surface-level look at the
- 7:30story,
- 7:31the reasons for Orpheus's look back is
- 7:33clear.
- 7:35It all stems from that classic human
- 7:36flaw,
- 7:37doubt.
- 7:39Orpheus was worried that Eurydice may
- 7:40have faltered. However, we don't see
- 7:43anything in the text that suggests that
- 7:44she had in fact tripped.
- 7:46Instead, Orpheus was filled with doubt
- 7:49over the words of Hades and Persephone.
- 7:51>> [music]
- 7:52>> He was worried he had been tricked and
- 7:54looked back to verify Eurydice was truly
- 7:56behind him.
- 7:57This could definitely be seen as an
- 7:59allegory for keeping faith in the
- 8:00divine.
- 8:02If Orpheus had just completely trusted
- 8:04the words of the gods, he would have
- 8:06escaped the underworld with Eurydice and
- 8:08lived the rest of their lives together.
- 8:11Instead, [music]
- 8:11by turning around, he went against the
- 8:14orders of the gods and Eurydice paid the
- 8:17ultimate price.
- 8:18This could also be a warning against the
- 8:21problem of loving too hard.
- 8:23As after all, it was because of his love
- 8:25for Eurydice that Orpheus turned around
- 8:27as he was desperate to see her.
- 8:30Here, scholars have linked Orpheus
- 8:32turning around to his status as a poet.
- 8:34As poets have to face their muses and
- 8:36audience and thus Orpheus turned to look
- 8:39at his audience, his muse, Eurydice,
- 8:42[music]
- 8:42and his selfishness caused her to return
- 8:44to the land of the dead.
- 8:47An interesting point to note is that
- 8:49Orpheus had been a known figure in myth
- 8:51since at least the 6th century BC with a
- 8:54fragment from the lyric poet Ibycus
- 8:56which simply lists Orpheus as Orpheus,
- 8:59famous of name.
- 9:01But unfortunately, that is all that
- 9:02survives.
- 9:04However, the concept of Orpheus saving
- 9:07Eurydice and specifically being
- 9:09instructed to not look back is first
- 9:11found in Roman times with Virgil's
- 9:14Georgics and Ovid's Metamorphoses.
- 9:17The latter being the basis for my
- 9:18earlier translation.
- 9:20So, the concept of not looking back in
- 9:22this myth seems to be maybe a Roman
- 9:25invention
- 9:26added to an earlier Greek myth concerned
- 9:28with Orpheus.
- 9:29Anyways, we could spend hours reading
- 9:32into the reasons behind Orpheus's
- 9:33actions.
- 9:35And I'm excited to see what you guys
- 9:36have to say in the comments below.
- 9:39At this point, you might be thinking
- 9:40that the don't look back command is
- 9:42simply an unusual feature of the Orpheus
- 9:44story.
- 9:45>> [music]
- 9:46>> However, if we turn to our next source,
- 9:48we can see this motif appear again.
- 9:51We have another story of somebody
- 9:53fleeing from one world to another.
- 9:55We have another divine command, that
- 9:57same don't look back.
- 9:59And once again,
- 10:01they turn around.
- 10:04Next, we have a famous story from
- 10:05Genesis, the first book of both the
- 10:08Hebrew Bible
- 10:09>> [music]
- 10:09>> and the Old Testament, about the wife of
- 10:11a man called Lot,
- 10:13as part of the wider story of Sodom and
- 10:16Gomorrah.
- 10:17The actual story is only a very small
- 10:19section of the wider narrative.
- 10:21So, at first, let's cover a brief bit of
- 10:23context for people who don't know the
- 10:24story of Sodom and Gomorrah.
- 10:27Sodom and Gomorrah were two cities who
- 10:30were plagued with sin and violence.
- 10:32And perhaps most scandalously,
- 10:34inhospitality. [music]
- 10:35God decided that these two cities
- 10:37deserved to be destroyed for their
- 10:39transgressions against the divine.
- 10:42However, Abraham pleaded on behalf of
- 10:44the cities,
- 10:46as he knew his nephew, named Lot, lived
- 10:48in Sodom.
- 10:49And God agreed that the cities would be
- 10:51spared if there were [music] 10
- 10:53righteous people within them.
- 10:55God sends down two angels, and that is
- 10:57where our story starts.
- 10:59The two angels arrive in the city of
- 11:01Sodom, where they encounter Lot, who
- 11:04invited them into his [music] house and
- 11:06made them some food.
- 11:08Before they went to bed, however, all
- 11:10the men from Sodom, both young and old,
- 11:12[music] had surrounded Lot's house,
- 11:15demanding the angels be brought out so
- 11:17they could have sex with them.
- 11:19Lot refused to let them do something so
- 11:21scandalous, and [music] instead offered
- 11:23to give over his own daughters,
- 11:25which is interesting, I guess.
- 11:28But the mob stayed and kept on demanding
- 11:31for the angels to come out.
- 11:33The angels blinded the men outside and
- 11:36realized that there were not enough
- 11:37righteous people to save the cities.
- 11:38[music]
- 11:39So, they ordered Lot to take his wife
- 11:41and two daughters and flee before God
- 11:44razed the cities to the ground.
- 11:46The angels gave the family a simple
- 11:48instruction.
- 11:50Flee for your lives. Don't look back and
- 11:52don't stop anywhere in the plain.
- 11:55Flee to the mountains or you will all
- 11:57[music] be swept away.
- 11:59Lot instead asks if he can flee to the
- 12:01nearby village of Zoar as he would not
- 12:04be able to reach the mountains in time.
- 12:06And the angels agree.
- 12:08For the next section, I'm going to quote
- 12:10directly from the New [music]
- 12:11International Version of the Bible.
- 12:14By the time Lot reached Zoar,
- 12:16the sun had risen over the land.
- 12:20Then the Lord rained down burning sulfur
- 12:22on Sodom and Gomorrah
- 12:24from the Lord out of the heavens.
- 12:27Thus, he overthrew those cities and the
- 12:29entire plain,
- 12:30destroying all those living in the
- 12:32cities
- 12:33and also the vegetation
- 12:35>> [music]
- 12:35>> in the land.
- 12:37But Lot's wife looked back
- 12:39and she became a pillar of salt.
- 12:43And so goes the slightly anticlimactic
- 12:45story of Lot's wife.
- 12:47Just one small half sentence as she
- 12:49quite [music] casually just turns into a
- 12:51pillar of salt, you know, as you do.
- 12:54Although she is unnamed in the Bible,
- 12:56she's known as Ado or Edith in some
- 12:58Jewish traditions.
- 13:00But why did she look back? And why is
- 13:02she punished?
- 13:04Well, if we look at the original Greek
- 13:06and Hebrew text, we can perhaps get a
- 13:08better idea.
- 13:10In the Greek manuscripts, the verb they
- 13:12use to describe the look from Lot's wife
- 13:15is epiblepai, which can also mean to eye
- 13:17with envy.
- 13:19While the Hebrew verb nabat
- 13:21can also have the implication of
- 13:23regarding with pleasure.
- 13:25With this added context, which we don't
- 13:27get in a new international version
- 13:28translation, we can see that Lot's wife
- 13:31turned back out of longing for her city,
- 13:34perhaps to look one last time at the
- 13:36place where she called home, Sodom,
- 13:38before it was destroyed.
- 13:40Thus, God punished her for two reasons.
- 13:43One, because she dared to go against the
- 13:45order of the angels, and by proxy, the
- 13:47word of God, who commanded her not to
- 13:50look back.
- 13:51The second reason was because even
- 13:53though Sodom was a city filled with sin,
- 13:56she still held some sort of love and
- 13:57desire for it.
- 13:59Even though [music] God was trying to
- 14:00give her a new life, a better life.
- 14:03All he asked was for her to let go of
- 14:05her past home,
- 14:07but she couldn't. She gave [music] in to
- 14:09the temptation of looking back,
- 14:11and thus, she was punished.
- 14:13The choice of punishment may seem
- 14:15bizarre,
- 14:16being turned into a pillar of salt.
- 14:18However, there may be a real-life
- 14:20explanation for this.
- 14:22The real locations of the cities of
- 14:23Sodom and Gomorrah are debated,
- 14:26but if they ever did exist, they
- 14:27certainly were somewhere along the Dead
- 14:29Sea,
- 14:30a place with several different natural
- 14:32salt pillars,
- 14:33many of which have since been named
- 14:35after Lot's wife.
- 14:37Thus, it is [music] likely that this
- 14:39story is an example of a legend
- 14:41explaining a geographic feature.
- 14:44So goes our second story with that
- 14:47dreaded command, "Don't look back."
- 14:50You might be thinking to yourself that
- 14:52two stories might simply be a
- 14:53coincidence.
- 14:55However,
- 14:56there is actually a name for this
- 14:57pattern.
- 14:59In his gargantuan work, the Motif Index
- 15:02of Folk Literature,
- 15:04folklorist Stith Thompson cataloged
- 15:06several thousand motifs found in myths
- 15:09and folklore from around the world
- 15:11across six huge volumes.
- 15:14In this, we can find a whole section
- 15:16titled The Looking Taboo,
- 15:19and more specifically, a motif
- 15:21classified as C331,
- 15:24taboo
- 15:26looking back.
- 15:28We'll touch a little bit more on this
- 15:29later,
- 15:30but for now,
- 15:31let's turn our attention to a story from
- 15:33the other side of the world.
- 15:36The next myth we're going to cover is
- 15:38called the legend of Jangjamok Pond,
- 15:40which is a Korean folk myth of unknown
- 15:43date.
- 15:44In fact, not much at all is known about
- 15:46this myth from what I can understand.
- 15:48It is a result of widespread oral
- 15:50tradition,
- 15:51so I cannot seem to find any one
- 15:52standardized copy of the story,
- 15:55nor much information about the
- 15:56background and origin of the myth
- 15:58itself.
- 15:59So, if there are any Koreans in the
- 16:00comment section that can give more
- 16:02information, that would be amazing.
- 16:04Anyways, the story of Jangjamok Pond
- 16:07goes something like this.
- 16:09Long ago, there was a wealthy landowner
- 16:11who was a Jangja, or rich man.
- 16:14However, despite all of his wealth,
- 16:17he was notorious for being extremely
- 16:18cruel and greedy. And he would always
- 16:20refuse to help the poor or give
- 16:22hospitality to monks or travelers who
- 16:25would come onto his lands.
- 16:27One day, a Buddhist monk came onto his
- 16:30land asking for food.
- 16:32He held out his bowl to the Jangja,
- 16:34hoping for the wealthy man to fill it
- 16:36with food. Instead, the Jangja filled
- 16:38the monk's bowl with cow dung and chased
- 16:40him away.
- 16:42However,
- 16:43the wealthy man's daughter-in-law, who
- 16:45had witnessed her father treat the monk
- 16:46with such disrespect, was horrified and
- 16:49secretly followed the monk and instead
- 16:51filled his bowl with rice,
- 16:53hopefully after cleaning it.
- 16:55The monk thanked the daughter-in-law and
- 16:58told her that a great disaster would
- 17:00soon fall upon her house.
- 17:02And she should bring everything she held
- 17:03precious and follow the monk straight
- 17:05away.
- 17:07Shortly after, when the daughter-in-law
- 17:09rejoined the monk,
- 17:10the man told her to not look back, no
- 17:13matter what.
- 17:14As they were walking down the path away
- 17:16from the house, the earth started to
- 17:18tremble and thunder started to rumble.
- 17:21She heard screams and crashes behind her
- 17:23coming from her house.
- 17:25Startled and fearful of what had
- 17:27happened, the daughter-in-law turned her
- 17:29head and looked behind her.
- 17:31What she saw stunned her.
- 17:34The wealthy man's house had collapsed
- 17:36and a pond was forming in its place
- 17:39with the landowner and all his
- 17:40possessions sinking into the watery
- 17:42depths.
- 17:43As soon as the woman looked back, she
- 17:45turned into stone.
- 17:47Apparently,
- 17:48in different places in Korea, they call
- 17:51certain ponds Jangjamot or rich man's
- 17:54pond
- 17:55named after this tale of the wealthy man
- 17:57who drowned along with the house and
- 17:59riches which he treasured so much.
- 18:01Often, if there was a fitting rock
- 18:03nearby, they would call it, please
- 18:05excuse my mispronunciation,
- 18:07Myeonuri bawi or daughter-in-law rock.
- 18:12The meaning behind one part of this myth
- 18:14seems glaringly obvious, the punishment
- 18:17of greed.
- 18:19The rich man dared to disrespect the
- 18:20Buddhist monk and never gave charity to
- 18:22anyone.
- 18:24And thus he was punished to drown
- 18:25alongside his house and all of his
- 18:27possessions.
- 18:29The reason behind the punishment of the
- 18:30daughter-in-law, however, is less
- 18:32obvious.
- 18:33I mean, she did go against the command
- 18:35of a monk who told her not to look back.
- 18:38But doesn't it seem a little extreme to
- 18:39turn her to stone because of it?
- 18:42Well,
- 18:43clearly the moral failure is not on her,
- 18:45but is instead man.
- 18:47So why was she punished?
- 18:49To answer this, we need to look at the
- 18:51link between all three of the myths we
- 18:53have seen so far.
- 18:54And that link [music] is the concept of
- 18:56boundaries.
- 18:58All of these stories are concerned with
- 19:00the movement of the main character
- 19:01across boundaries.
- 19:03With Orpheus, it is the boundary between
- 19:05the land of the living and the land of
- 19:07the dead.
- 19:08Whereas with both Lot's wife and the a
- 19:10from Jangjamot pond,
- 19:12it is to do with the boundary between
- 19:13the old world and the new world.
- 19:16In the story from Genesis, Lot's wife is
- 19:18leaving behind her old life, her old
- 19:20city, for a new life in a nearby
- 19:22village.
- 19:23Similarly, the daughter-in-law from the
- 19:25Korean tale is leaving behind the old
- 19:27world, her father-in-law's house that's
- 19:29been turned into a pond, for a new,
- 19:32better life by following the monk.
- 19:35In all of these myths, the characters
- 19:37who have been instructed not to look
- 19:38back
- 19:40go against this command when they are in
- 19:41the liminal space between these two
- 19:43worlds.
- 19:45Orpheus was right on the edge of the
- 19:46underworld, mere moments away from the
- 19:49land of the living.
- 19:51Lot's wife looks back after she had left
- 19:53her old life in Sodom, but before she
- 19:56had reached the safety of a new life in
- 19:58the village.
- 20:00The same with the Jangja Mot story. The
- 20:02daughter-in-law turned back before
- 20:03safety had been reached.
- 20:06Clearly, there's a link between all
- 20:07these myths of the main character
- 20:09turning away in the liminal in-between
- 20:11space between their old world and their
- 20:14new, better world.
- 20:16When someone violates a sacred boundary,
- 20:18i.e., a command from the higher divine
- 20:20power,
- 20:21while they are in this in-between space,
- 20:24they become fixed in that place, stuck
- 20:27there forever.
- 20:28For the case of Lot's wife, she is stuck
- 20:30in that liminal space as a pillar of
- 20:32salt.
- 20:33For the daughter-in-law, a stone.
- 20:36For Orpheus, it is not him that receives
- 20:38the punishment, as that would be too
- 20:40kind. He himself said he would give up
- 20:42his life if he could not bring Eurydice
- 20:44back.
- 20:45Instead, it is his beloved that must
- 20:47take on his punishment.
- 20:49And Eurydice is instead [music]
- 20:50sentenced to an eternity in limbo, in
- 20:53the land of the dead.
- 20:55By looking at it with the context of
- 20:57other similar myths, we can see it's not
- 20:59just because the daughter-in-law turned
- 21:01back that she was punished, but instead
- 21:04because she turned back in the sacred
- 21:05liminal space in between the boundaries
- 21:08of a future and past life, that she was
- 21:10cursed to be stuck in that space
- 21:12forever.
- 21:14This idea of not looking back at a
- 21:16boundary also seemed to have made its
- 21:18way into everyday ancient life.
- 21:20Pythagoras, the famous philosopher and
- 21:22polymath in the 6th century BC,
- 21:25supposedly said (I say supposedly
- 21:27[music] because this is only survived in
- 21:29the work of Diogenes Laertius some 700
- 21:31years later, among several other pieces
- 21:34of advice such as don't stir the fire
- 21:36with a knife and always roll your
- 21:38bedclothes up).
- 21:39But anyway, getting back to the point,
- 21:42Pythagoras supposedly said, "When you go
- 21:44abroad, don't turn round at the
- 21:46frontier."
- 21:48Meaning don't turn around and look back
- 21:49into your native country when at the
- 21:51border with a foreign one.
- 21:53This piece of advice can pretty much be
- 21:55applied to the command given to the
- 21:57characters in the myths we have
- 21:58discovered,
- 21:59as they were also told not to look back
- 22:01when at the border between their
- 22:02homeland,
- 22:03the land of the living for Orpheus, the
- 22:05city of Sodom for Lot's wife, and a
- 22:07father-in-law's home for the Korean tale
- 22:09of Jang Hwa and Hong Ryon,
- 22:10and a new or foreign place, the land of
- 22:13the dead for Orpheus, the new village
- 22:16for Lot's wife,
- 22:17and a new life of safety with the monk
- 22:19for the daughter-in-law.
- 22:21However, they all failed [music] this
- 22:23simple instruction
- 22:24and paid the price.
- 22:26The reason why one must not look back
- 22:28during this movement of crossing the
- 22:30border from one place to another is
- 22:32perhaps quite clear. One must not dote
- 22:34on the past. Instead, they must keep
- 22:37their attention on the future,
- 22:39as if you keep on looking behind you, if
- 22:41you keep on obsessing of your past life
- 22:43and your past mistakes,
- 22:45you will be stranded,
- 22:46>> [music]
- 22:46>> unable to reach the safety and salvation
- 22:48of your future life, as you're so
- 22:50worried about your past.
- 22:52So you will become stuck in this
- 22:53in-between space,
- 22:55as if you'd been turned into a pillar of
- 22:57salt, or your skin turned into stone.
- 23:05Moving on from the myths we've covered
- 23:07so far, we have a couple other tales
- 23:09from different peoples from across the
- 23:10world
- 23:11all containing a command of don't look
- 23:13back.
- 23:15I found this next story in a book titled
- 23:17Where Animals Talk, West African
- 23:19Folktales, and supposedly it is a myth
- 23:22from the Fang people, an ethnic group of
- 23:24around 1 million people from countries
- 23:26such as Equatorial Guinea, Gabon, and
- 23:28Cameroon.
- 23:29This myth was transmitted to the author
- 23:31of the book, Robert Nassau,
- 23:33by an elder of a different tribe, the
- 23:35Benaka tribe,
- 23:37who wrote down several myths from the
- 23:38Fang people, which Nassau then
- 23:40translated. Most of the myths are
- 23:43concerned with things such as how
- 23:44certain animals got their unique
- 23:45features,
- 23:47and the myth we're going to cover is no
- 23:49exception.
- 23:50It is titled A Lesson in Evolution,
- 23:53and it goes like this.
- 23:55Shrew and Lima were neighbors [music] in
- 23:57the town of beasts.
- 23:59At that time, the animals did not
- 24:00possess fire. Lima said to Shrew, "Go
- 24:04and take fresh fire from the town of
- 24:06mankind."
- 24:07>> [music]
- 24:08>> Shrew consented, but said,
- 24:10"If I go, do not look while I am gone
- 24:13toward any other place except the path
- 24:15in which I go.
- 24:16Do not even wink.
- 24:18Watch for me."
- 24:19So, Shrew went and came to a town of men
- 24:23and found that the people had all
- 24:24emigrated from that town.
- 24:26Yet, he went on and on seeking for fire
- 24:30and for a long time found none. But, as
- 24:32he continued moving forward from house
- 24:34to house, he at last found a very little
- 24:36fire on a hearth.
- 24:38He began blowing it and kept on blowing
- 24:41and blowing, for the fire did not soon
- 24:43ignite into a flame.
- 24:45He continued so long at this that his
- 24:47mouth extended forward permanently with
- 24:50the blowing.
- 24:51Then he went back and found Lima
- 24:53faithfully watching with his eyes
- 24:55standing very wide open.
- 24:57Shrew asked him,
- 24:58>> [music]
- 24:58>> "What has made your eyes so big?"
- 25:00In return, lemur asked him, "What has so
- 25:03lengthened your mouth to a snout?"
- 25:06Here, although not a direct command of
- 25:08not looking back, we can see that the
- 25:09shrew told the lemur not to look
- 25:11anywhere but straight ahead.
- 25:13And it could be that the lemur must have
- 25:14looked somewhere else, such as behind
- 25:16him, and thus his eyes grew, explaining
- 25:19why lemurs have such big eyes.
- 25:22This is certainly a much less depressing
- 25:23tale than the other ones we've covered
- 25:25today.
- 25:26And it's one of my favorite examples of
- 25:27an etiological myth, or a myth that
- 25:30explains why something is the way they
- 25:31are.
- 25:33Now, another folktale comes from the
- 25:35tribe of the Inuit people in Greenland,
- 25:37and it is titled The Revived Who Came to
- 25:40the Underworld People.
- 25:42This story is centered on a husband and
- 25:44wife and their son,
- 25:45>> [music]
- 25:46>> as well as an old couple who were
- 25:47without children, all living together.
- 25:50The son, unfortunately, dies while
- 25:52they're out fishing, and rather than
- 25:53keeping to the Inuit custom of holding
- 25:55five days of mourning, the parents of
- 25:57the dead child leave before the fifth
- 25:59day is up, not only going against their
- 26:01sacred custom, but also leaving the old
- 26:04couple alone to fend for themselves with
- 26:06nobody to provide food for them.
- 26:09The old couple then dig up the body of
- 26:10the dead child, and after chanting
- 26:12incantations over the body, the boy is
- 26:14brought back to life.
- 26:16The old couple ask the boy to look after
- 26:18them and provide food for them,
- 26:20and the boy goes home with the couple,
- 26:21gets a kayak, and becomes their
- 26:23provider.
- 26:24The father of the revived child later
- 26:27comes back to see what happened to the
- 26:28older couple,
- 26:30who he expected to had long starved to
- 26:31death.
- 26:32But he was surprised to see bits of skin
- 26:34and blubber that had clearly been
- 26:36stripped from the carcass of a seal.
- 26:38So, he asked the old couple who had
- 26:39caught the seal for them.
- 26:41When the couple replied it was the man's
- 26:43own dead son,
- 26:44he threatened to kill them as he thought
- 26:46he was being mocked.
- 26:47However, he soon saw the impossible.
- 26:50His son was back alive again.
- 26:52As he went to touch his son,
- 26:54the old couple screamed out for him to
- 26:56stop. However, they were too late. The
- 26:58father touched his son on the shoulder,
- 27:00and the son instantly dropped down
- 27:02>> [music]
- 27:02>> dead.
- 27:03The old couple went about doing their
- 27:04magic incantations once more,
- 27:07and the son was revived for a second
- 27:08time, and attacked his father.
- 27:11So, his father ran away in shame.
- 27:13Some time later, the revived son was to
- 27:15be married to a woman of a different
- 27:17tribe.
- 27:18And the older couple wanted to come with
- 27:19him, so they wouldn't be left on their
- 27:21own again.
- 27:22The son agreed, and loaded the older
- 27:24couple up on his kayak, with one
- 27:26condition,
- 27:28that when they approached the rock which
- 27:29enclosed the abode of his wife-to-be's
- 27:31tribe, they do not look back.
- 27:34As this will stop all of them, including
- 27:36the son, from being able to find the
- 27:38entrance.
- 27:39The couple agreed, and they set [music]
- 27:40sail. And when they reached the cliff on
- 27:42the son's kayak, the cliff opened,
- 27:45revealing a utopia with many houses and
- 27:47a pebble beach, with large piles of
- 27:49flesh and skin for them to eat. However,
- 27:52when the old couple saw this, in their
- 27:54delight, they forgot the son's warning,
- 27:56and they turned around.
- 27:58Instantly, the beautiful town
- 27:59disappeared, and their boat instead
- 28:01smashed against the side of the cliff,
- 28:03throwing them all down in shock. The son
- 28:06then said that he and the old couple
- 28:08must remain apart forever,
- 28:10and the couple should build their house
- 28:11on a nearby cliff,
- 28:13and the tribe of what was meant to be
- 28:14his wife will provide them with food.
- 28:17The couple did as he said, and they were
- 28:19indeed looked after by the tribe.
- 28:21Meanwhile, the son was left to find a
- 28:23new wife.
- 28:25To me, this story seems to be
- 28:26startlingly similar to that of the myth
- 28:28of Orpheus.
- 28:29Both involve someone being brought back
- 28:31from the dead.
- 28:32Both involve that same command of don't
- 28:33look back.
- 28:35And both, as with every other story,
- 28:37involve the main characters going
- 28:39against that command at the very last
- 28:40hurdle. Right before Eurydice reaches
- 28:43the land of the living in the Orpheus
- 28:44myth, and right before the family
- 28:46reaches the utopia in the Inuit tale,
- 28:49this also fits nicely into the
- 28:51discussion we had earlier about the link
- 28:53between a liminal space between worlds
- 28:55and the don't look back command.
- 28:57As here, very similarly to Orpheus, the
- 29:00Gangnamut story, and Lot's wife, it is
- 29:02as the family about to cross the
- 29:04boundary into the new world, into a new
- 29:06utopia, that they look back
- 29:09and they are forbidden from crossing
- 29:10that frontier.
- 29:12We have covered five different stories
- 29:14where the characters are told not to
- 29:15look behind them.
- 29:17And in every single case, they failed to
- 29:19follow that command.
- 29:21Clearly, there is a lesson behind these
- 29:22myths that is taught in communities from
- 29:25ancient Greece to Korea to Greenland.
- 29:27But what might that lesson be?
- 29:30Picking up on what we were speaking
- 29:31about earlier,
- 29:33one such lesson is that we must not
- 29:34dwell on the past.
- 29:36The physical act of looking back might
- 29:38also reflect the metaphorical act of
- 29:40looking back on the past, which we can
- 29:42often get caught up in and can
- 29:44negatively affect our present. Perhaps
- 29:46the best example of this is in the story
- 29:48of Lot's wife.
- 29:49Not only does she physically look back
- 29:50on her home, the city of Sodom, but she
- 29:53is also reflecting on a time there with
- 29:55a sense of envy, as we discussed earlier
- 29:57when talking about the use of the verb
- 29:58epiblepe. We can also see this allegory
- 30:01in the story of Orpheus.
- 30:03If we look at Virgil's version of the
- 30:04myth in his Georgics, we see him use the
- 30:07Latin verb respicio, which not only
- 30:09means to physically look back, but also
- 30:11to look back in time. So when Orpheus is
- 30:13looking back at Eurydice, he's looking
- 30:15back on his lifetime with her and
- 30:17reflecting on their time together,
- 30:19rather than accepting the fact that she
- 30:21has passed on to the underworld.
- 30:23This is obviously the whole basis for
- 30:25the myth. Orpheus cannot accept that his
- 30:27wife has passed away and instead travels
- 30:29to the underworld to try and rescue her.
- 30:31However,
- 30:32he must accept that she has died and
- 30:34there's nothing anyone, not even
- 30:35Orpheus, who can charm inanimate
- 30:37objects, can do.
- 30:39It's a lesson in grief.
- 30:41It is only when somebody reaches
- 30:42acceptance, that fifth and final stage
- 30:45of grief, that they can truly get over
- 30:47their loved one's passing away.
- 30:49I'm sure there are several other reasons
- 30:51behind the prevalence of the don't look
- 30:53back command in myths and folklore.
- 30:55And I would be interested in hearing
- 30:56yours in the comments below.
- 30:58Unfortunately, it seems to be a rather
- 31:00understudied topic in academia.
- 31:02Obviously, myths such as Orpheus and
- 31:04Lot's wife have been studied vigorously.
- 31:06But it doesn't seem to be really any
- 31:08paper or treatise covering the similar
- 31:10themes in these myths with the tales
- 31:12from Greenland to Korea.
- 31:14Like I mentioned earlier,
- 31:16the Motif Index of Folk Literature
- 31:18characterizes thousands upon thousands
- 31:20of different motifs [music] from
- 31:21folklore from all over the world.
- 31:23Characterized under number C300 to C399
- 31:27is what Thompson calls the looking
- 31:28taboo.
- 31:29And in number C331, we see taboo looking
- 31:33back. Here we can at least put a name to
- 31:35this phenomenon. The motif of the
- 31:37command don't look back is a type of
- 31:39looking taboo, specifically focused on
- 31:41looking behind you.
- 31:43To conclude, all of these myths are
- 31:46different.
- 31:47Each character has different reasoning
- 31:49behind their actions in these myths.
- 31:51However,
- 31:52what is the same in every single one are
- 31:54two things.
- 31:56One is that command of don't look back.
- 32:00The other is the fact that they always
- 32:02do.
- 32:03It's hard to find a specific reason why
- 32:06this is so prevalent in these myths.
- 32:08However,
- 32:09I believe there's something in that
- 32:11liminal space, the in-between world
- 32:13between the old and the new frontier.
- 32:17It seems to be always in this liminal
- 32:19in-between space that the people turn
- 32:21around. And then they are punished.
- 32:24There is something ancient in the idea
- 32:26of not looking behind you at the
- 32:27frontier. As we saw in the quote from
- 32:30Pythagoras,
- 32:31I would also argue that the moral of
- 32:33some of these stories also has to do
- 32:35with the age-old saying of live in the
- 32:37now. All of these people in their myths,
- 32:40by looking behind them, focus too much
- 32:42on their past,
- 32:43sometimes out of grief for their lover
- 32:45or longing for their prior life,
- 32:47instead of focusing on their present.
- 32:50And they paid the price for it.
- 32:51And that's something I think we can all
- 32:53learn from.
- 32:54I hope you've enjoyed this video.
- 32:56Goodbye.
- 33:00>> [music]
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