"Why Can't I Ever Sleep Through the Night?" — Transcript
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- 0:00I cannot tell you how incredibly
- 0:01valuable this is. What would it take to
- 0:02insert the thing you want rather than
- 0:04can you or could we insert the thing?
- 0:08Uh actually good advice number 15. Uh if
- 0:11it's your first time on stage, opt for a
- 0:14lapel mic. Where is it? There you go.
- 0:15Opt for a lapel mic or a headset. My
- 0:17preference is headset I'll explain why
- 0:18in a second. Because if you use your
- 0:20hands to talk, uh a handheld mic will
- 0:23either feel make you feel handcuffed cuz
- 0:24you're like, "Oh shoot, I can't I have
- 0:25to use this like one hand over here if
- 0:27you're used to using both hands. Um but
- 0:30also if you do use your hand, now the
- 0:32mic's getting further away from you and
- 0:33it's just one of those things that if
- 0:34you've never really spoken on stage or
- 0:36you don't do it that often, it could
- 0:37just be unnecessarily distracting for no
- 0:39reason. And so I would say my favorite
- 0:41is the headset because then when you
- 0:42talk and you move your head, your sound
- 0:44will you'll sound the same. If you have
- 0:46it on one side with a lapel, sometimes
- 0:47when you talk this way,
- 0:49the the sound volume goes down. So my
- 0:50preference is headset first, underneath
- 0:52of that is lapel, underneath of that
- 0:53would be handheld. So just a little pro
- 0:55tip.
- 0:56Um actually good advice number 16. If
- 0:59you are very poor
- 1:00or very rich
- 1:02or anywhere in between,
- 1:04a one-page letter of heartfelt
- 1:05appreciation will do more than a gift
- 1:08that sparkles or shines to a loved one.
- 1:11Um if you can afford to do both, even
- 1:13better. Uh but sparkles without a note
- 1:16does not hit nearly as hard as a note
- 1:18without sparkles.
- 1:20So just something that I have learned as
- 1:21somebody who has means to give things.
- 1:23Um the thing that the people that I care
- 1:25the most about want the most from me is
- 1:27my time and attention. And so me
- 1:29actually taking the time to write a
- 1:30one-page and I actually type and I think
- 1:32people have been fine with that. I
- 1:33actually just type out um my letters um
- 1:36to people that I care about like Layla
- 1:38and she has kept every letter that I've
- 1:41written her over the years for
- 1:42birthdays, anniversaries, whatever. Um
- 1:45and it's funny because like I've given
- 1:47her plenty of gifts that I'm sure she
- 1:48has thrown away, but she has kept every
- 1:50one of those letters. So I think to me
- 1:52that's like you don't need to have money
- 1:54to give an amazing gift.
- 1:56Um
- 1:57actually good advice number, I think,
- 1:5917.
- 2:00Uh if you want to be less emotionally
- 2:01stressed, clean your physical
- 2:03environment. All right, so that means
- 2:05your room, your car, your desk, your
- 2:08desktop, your inbox, your your phone
- 2:11inbox, like for texts. Literally clean
- 2:14everything around you. What's crazy
- 2:15about is that like your actual mental
- 2:17noise will go down. So, like if you were
- 2:20ever emotionally stressed, clean.
- 2:23Including, this is crazy, shower.
- 2:25Because grooming is actually a
- 2:26cross-species
- 2:28decreasing activity for cortisol. So,
- 2:30like animals, they groom themselves when
- 2:32they're stressed, right? That's why when
- 2:34an animal is really stressed out it like
- 2:35starts picking at itself and then tell
- 2:36them that they have nothing. Like it's
- 2:38hyper like going overboard there. But
- 2:39the idea is that like we as humans and
- 2:42mammals at least, when we groom, we
- 2:44de-stress. And a version of that is
- 2:45cleaning your environment. So, just a
- 2:47fun one I found out.
- 2:48Uh actually good advice number 18. If
- 2:50you have shoulder pain while sitting at
- 2:51a desk, which I know firsthand a lot
- 2:53about,
- 2:54um
- 2:54lower your desk to your lap. So, look at
- 2:57this. So, if I'm writing, we just move
- 2:59this up, but I want this to be right on
- 3:02my lap. As low as here as I possibly
- 3:04can. And you want to have a sideways
- 3:07mouse, recommend, and you want your
- 3:10thing to be at eye level. I spent
- 3:12probably $20,000 on PT and a bunch of
- 3:16crazy stuff, and this solved all my
- 3:19shoulder pain, and I could sit for way
- 3:21longer in like a week. And so, I like
- 3:24this was probably it's like a hundred
- 3:25dollar you know, a few hundred bucks for
- 3:26setup. It cost It cost less than a
- 3:28package of of of physical therapy, I'll
- 3:30say that. Um highly recommend. So, lower
- 3:34the desk, get a sideways mouse, and have
- 3:36something that you can see eye level for
- 3:37your screen. Cannot recommend it enough.
- 3:39Um
- 3:40Actually good advice number 19. Learn to
- 3:43sleep with earplugs, for the love of
- 3:44God. It takes three to five days for
- 3:46your ears to like get desensitized, cuz
- 3:48sometimes your ears will be kind of sore
- 3:49when you do it. I know cuz that's what
- 3:50it was for me when I started. Um, but as
- 3:52soon as you can do that, you can
- 3:54literally sleep anywhere. So, if I go
- 3:56with Leila and Leila doesn't sleep with
- 3:57ear plugs, um, and we're like at a hotel
- 3:59at a different city and it's like
- 4:00downtown for some reason and there's
- 4:02just like the bars that are open until
- 4:032:00 a.m. Um, that could be really
- 4:05annoying. I can't hear So, I pass
- 4:08out in seconds. And so, it is one of
- 4:10those things like if you can just get
- 4:11through the first 3 to 5 days, you
- 4:14instantly give yourself perma-improved
- 4:16sleep for the rest of your life. Like,
- 4:17if you think about sleep is one of the
- 4:18biggest uh,
- 4:20levers on longevity and health and
- 4:22everything,
- 4:23if you have one habit that costs you
- 4:25basically nothing to learn how to do in
- 4:263 to 5 days, like, I can't imagine a
- 4:29higher ROI thing to do.
- 4:31Um,
- 4:32actually good advice, number 20.
- 4:35If you can't breathe while sleeping, as
- 4:37someone, you know, who deals with that,
- 4:39uh, you can actually fall asleep on your
- 4:41hand. I learned this in eighth grade.
- 4:42Like this.
- 4:44And you don't actually have to actively
- 4:45open up your, like, you can fall asleep
- 4:48on your hand. And so, when you do it
- 4:50like that, you don't have to actively
- 4:51keep anything open, but it actually
- 4:53stays open the whole time. And that was
- 4:55actually what I did before I even had,
- 4:57you know, nose strips or anything like
- 4:58that. And I did that for years. And so,
- 5:00if you are one of those people, it it's
- 5:01basically, it'll open up more than
- 5:02anything you've got. Um, it's just a
- 5:04habit that you can learn how to do, and
- 5:06that's how I was able to learn how to
- 5:07sleep. Um, I've had like two nose
- 5:09surgeries and it's been really hard for
- 5:10me to breathe. So, pro tip. Um,
- 5:13actually good advice, I think number 21.
- 5:15If you can't, uh, sorry. Uh,
- 5:18when you're looking for a sales leader
- 5:19on a team, prioritize the person who is
- 5:21the best human rather than the best
- 5:24salesperson. So, if you take the person
- 5:27who's the best at the job, some And this
- 5:29goes for any role. Sometimes you'll lose
- 5:31their production. Um, and so,
- 5:34on the flip side, if there's somebody
- 5:36who's just a great human, you'll get a
- 5:37good leader. Now, if there's somebody
- 5:38who's on your team who's already an
- 5:39amazing leader or a great human and also
- 5:41good at the job, you probably aren't
- 5:42struggling with this cuz you probably
- 5:43already made them a leader. All right?
- 5:45But, if you have to pick between, uh,
- 5:46should I pick upgrade the person who's
- 5:48good at the job or the person who's the
- 5:49best human, pick the best human. It's
- 5:51just something that I've learned after
- 5:53like I will I will I'll die on that
- 5:55hill. Like super effective.
- 5:57Um
- 5:58Actually good advice number 22.
- 6:00If you're picking between two paths, the
- 6:02hard path and the easy path, pick the
- 6:04hard path because if the easy path were
- 6:06the right path, you wouldn't be
- 6:08debating. You would have already chosen
- 6:09it. It's you already know that the hard
- 6:11path is the right path. It's just
- 6:12because you're hesitating cuz you know
- 6:13it's going to suck.
- 6:15But you're still considering it cuz you
- 6:16know it's the right thing to do.
- 6:18Um Actually good advice number 24.
- 6:21Read the first chapter of a book to
- 6:23decide whether it's worth reading. So I
- 6:24used to guilt myself into trying to
- 6:26continue to finish books cuz I was like,
- 6:27I'm a finisher. Like I finish what I
- 6:29start. But I then had to think, oh, not
- 6:31all content is worth consuming. Like we
- 6:33happily abandon a YouTube video, but we
- 6:35won't happily abandon a book or we feel
- 6:36guilty like it's this half of a thing.
- 6:38Read the first chapter. If someone can't
- 6:40crush the first chapter, the first
- 6:41chapter of a book is always the most
- 6:43edited, most thought-through chapter.
- 6:45It's where people start. And any good
- 6:47writer knows that the intro is what
- 6:48matters most. And so if they don't
- 6:49already know that, then the rest of the
- 6:50book's only going to go downhill from
- 6:51there. And
- 6:53Yeah. So actually good advice. Do that.
- 6:56Um
- 6:56Related, actually good advice number 25.
- 7:00Um
- 7:00Read and listen to books at the same
- 7:03time because the information stores in
- 7:06multiple places in your brain so you
- 7:07remember more. Number two, you stay
- 7:09focused longer because if you're
- 7:11anything like me, sometimes I get
- 7:12distracted, my mind wanders. It's hard
- 7:13to have your mind wander when you're
- 7:14literally getting the words pounded into
- 7:16your into your ears
- 7:17from, you know, the the audio.
- 7:20And so you can read faster, you remember
- 7:22more, and you stay focused longer. So
- 7:23it's like read faster, read longer,
- 7:24remember more. It's an ultimate hack.
- 7:26It's worth the 10 bucks extra for like
- 7:28the audio version of every book.
- 7:29Anything that's worth reading, that's
- 7:30how I read it.
- 7:31Um
- 7:33Actually good advice number 26.
- 7:35When making a big life decision, like
- 7:37what, you know, what job should I take
- 7:38or what career should I pursue, who
- 7:40should I marry, what what should I major
- 7:42in, what business should I start? Um
- 7:45it's much easier to start with all the
- 7:46things that you do not want, rather than
- 7:48trying to pick the perfect thing.
- 7:50Because it's almost like saying,
- 7:52"What is your favorite flavor of jam?"
- 7:54And here's a hundred of them. It's
- 7:56incredibly hard to pick. But if you
- 7:58said, "Well, I I you know, I don't like
- 7:59berries. I don't like, you know,
- 8:01cantaloupes." I don't know whatever. I
- 8:02don't jams probably I don't know enough
- 8:04about fruit jam, but the idea is there's
- 8:06enough filters. I could say like for a
- 8:08business, it's like, "Do I want to be in
- 8:09person or do I want to be remote? Do I
- 8:10want to be the person selling or do I
- 8:11want to check out page? Uh do I want to
- 8:13sell physical products or do I want to
- 8:14sell services?" Right? Like very quickly
- 8:15you can just see the world just chunk
- 8:17chunk down. And so most people try to
- 8:18boil the ocean, it's an impossible task.
- 8:20And so what ends up happening is that
- 8:22you never actually make the decision
- 8:23because there's too many decisions to
- 8:23make. And so you basically want to limit
- 8:25the amount of decisions you make by just
- 8:27basically adding filters. It's just like
- 8:28you going to a web page and having 1,200
- 8:30products. The first thing you're they're
- 8:31going to give you is a filter, right?
- 8:32And so you have to filter decisions the
- 8:33same way.
- 8:35Um
- 8:37yeah, otherwise you'll just be too
- 8:38paralyzed and never actually choose.
- 8:40Um
- 8:41actually good advice number 28. Uh if
- 8:43you have to tell someone bad news,
- 8:45get them to brace first. So, tell them
- 8:47that it's going to suck.
- 8:49Or that this is not going to be a fun
- 8:51conversation. Um it helps them
- 8:52emotionally brace before you deliver the
- 8:54news, and it'll decrease the pain
- 8:56literally that they experience and the
- 8:58potential wild reaction that you likely
- 8:59would like to avoid. Um and this goes
- 9:02double for firing, breakups, or anything
- 9:04where you're the bearer of bad news.
- 9:05Like they teach physicians who have to
- 9:07deliver bad news how to get the family
- 9:09to like brace for the bad news before
- 9:10they deliver it. And so, you know, as
- 9:12somebody who's, you know, unfortunately
- 9:13had to let people go over over the
- 9:15years, um
- 9:16to have empathy for the person, it's
- 9:18like, "How can I set them up so that
- 9:20they can have the the least minimum
- 9:21negative impact for this and brace
- 9:23themselves for this news?" And so I just
- 9:25like to start by saying like, "This is
- 9:26not going to be a fun conversation, and
- 9:28this isn't one that I'm looking forward
- 9:29to, but we got to do it." Right? All of
- 9:30a sudden they're like, "Okay, something
- 9:32serious is happening." And then I can
- 9:33start going into the thing. So, just
- 9:35something that's helped me. Also,
- 9:36sometimes when you have the nerves, just
- 9:38kind of getting that out, kind of like I
- 9:40for me it kind of like nullifies my own
- 9:42nerves about the conversation, and so
- 9:43then I can actually get into it. Um
- 9:46Actually good advice number 29.
- 9:48If you're choosing a spouse,
- 9:50find one who pushes you to be the best
- 9:52version of you rather than the than the
- 9:55the most comfortable version of you.
- 9:57Right? There's a version of you that's
- 9:58the minimum amount of change from your
- 10:00current state. Um obviously you can do
- 10:02whatever the hell you want. My
- 10:03recommendation, um I think that if you
- 10:05find someone who pushes you to be
- 10:06better, at the end of your life you
- 10:07won't regret it.
- 10:08So, those were uh just a handful of
- 10:11actually good pieces of advice that uh
- 10:13served me well.
- 10:15Uh and so hopefully they serve you well
- 10:16as they have served me, and I hope you
- 10:18enjoyed that.
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