When You Stop Texting, This Is What She Thinks — Transcript

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1. 0:00hi everyone let's dive into a question
2. 0:02that's been on the minds of many what
3. 0:04happens when you stop texting her what
4. 0:06is she really thinking to get us started
5. 0:09let's consider a real life situation
6. 0:12picture a guy named Ryan he's been
7. 0:14texting Emma a woman he's deeply
8. 0:16interested in at first things seemed to
9. 0:18flow but then Emma started pulling back
10. 0:21fewer replies more delays and that spark
11. 0:24seemed to dim sound familiar Ryan is now
12. 0:27wondering should I keep texting her or
13. 0:29just stop today we'll explore what goes
14. 0:32through a woman's mind when the texting
15. 0:34stops you'll not only learn why stepping
16. 0:36back can shift the dynamic but also how
17. 0:39this decision can sometimes be a turning
18. 0:41point in how she views you so stay with
19. 0:44me because each point will connect to
20. 0:46the next painting a bigger picture of
21. 0:48how attraction and psychology intertwine
22. 0:51point one women and the power of
23. 0:54attention let's start with something
24. 0:56fundamental women like everyone enjoy
25. 0:59attention for many women especially
26. 1:01those who are used to receiving
27. 1:03attention from men it's a natural part
28. 1:05of their social experience when you're
29. 1:07texting her consistently she may see you
30. 1:10as part of her attention Circle think
31. 1:12about it if she's attractive and has
32. 1:14multiple people vying for her time your
33. 1:17attention might not stand out she knows
34. 1:19how you feel but she may not feel the
35. 1:21same urgency to respond now when you
36. 1:23suddenly stop texting it can create a
37. 1:26void for a woman who thrives on
38. 1:28attention this shift is is jarring it's
39. 1:31like a song suddenly stopping mid playay
40. 1:33she's left wondering what changed did he
41. 1:36lose interest is he talking to someone
42. 1:38else that shift in Dynamics can spark
43. 1:41curiosity and even frustration imagine
44. 1:44you're used to your favorite Cafe
45. 1:45knowing your coffee order every morning
46. 1:48one day you show up and they don't greet
47. 1:50you the same way it feels off right
48. 1:53that's the same feeling she gets when
49. 1:55your attention is no longer there point
50. 1:57two why you should stop texting her
51. 2:00let's start with the first question why
52. 2:02should you stop texting her in the first
53. 2:05place here's the thing if you've made it
54. 2:07clear how you feel about her whether
55. 2:09you've told her directly or she's picked
56. 2:11up on it and she's not reciprocating
57. 2:14then continuing to text her is like
58. 2:16trying to keep water in your hands
59. 2:18you're giving her all the control and
60. 2:20it's clear she's not as invested as you
61. 2:22are Imagine chasing after a butterfly
62. 2:25the more you run after it the more it
63. 2:27flutters away but if you sit still it
64. 2:30might just land on your shoulder by
65. 2:31stopping your text you're reclaiming
66. 2:34your power and breaking the dynamic
67. 2:36where you're the one chasing here's the
68. 2:38twist stopping communication isn't just
69. 2:41for her to notice your absence it's also
70. 2:43for you to step back reassess and build
71. 2:46the confidence to focus on someone who
72. 2:48values your time and Attention Point
73. 2:51three women who love attention now let's
74. 2:54get into the mindset of a woman who
75. 2:56thrives on attention some women
76. 2:59especially those used to being the
77. 3:00center of attention see validation from
78. 3:03others as their comfort zone they're
79. 3:05accustomed to a lineup of admirers and
80. 3:07even when they're not interested they
81. 3:09enjoy the chase for them your attention
82. 3:13whether or not they want a relationship
83. 3:15is like applause in a theater so what
84. 3:17happens when you stop texting her it's
85. 3:19like the Applause suddenly stops mid
86. 3:21performance at first she might feel
87. 3:23confused why isn't he texting me doesn't
88. 3:25he like me anymore then that confusion
89. 3:28might turn into curiosity and if she was
90. 3:30even a little bit interested this could
91. 3:32reignite her attraction to you here's a
92. 3:35real life example think about social
93. 3:37media ever notice how people obsess over
94. 3:40likes and comments it's not always about
95. 3:42the content but the attention similarly
96. 3:45when you stop texting a woman who loves
97. 3:47attention it's like she's posted
98. 3:49something and gotten no likes it forces
99. 3:51her to question herself and you point
100. 3:54four women who don't want attention but
101. 3:57not all women are the same some women
102. 3:59even the incredibly beautiful ones
103. 4:01dislike unnecessary attention if she's
104. 4:04made it clear she's not interested maybe
105. 4:06by ghosting you friend zoning you or
106. 4:09outright rejecting you then stopping
107. 4:11your texts might actually bring her
108. 4:13relief think about it like this imagine
109. 4:16someone trying to sell you something
110. 4:18you've repeatedly said you don't want
111. 4:20annoying right but once they stop you
112. 4:23feel a sense of freedom for some women
113. 4:25that's exactly what happens when you
114. 4:27walk away and here's the kicker if she
115. 4:30ever changes her mind later she'll
116. 4:32remember your graceful exit the takeaway
117. 4:35knowing when to walk away is as much
118. 4:37about respecting her boundaries as it is
119. 4:39about respecting yourself point five
120. 4:42breaking the fantasy trap now let's talk
121. 4:45about you because walking away is easier
122. 4:48said than done when you're into someone
123. 4:50it's natural to fantasize about the
124. 4:52perfect relationship you imagine the
125. 4:54dates the late night talks the future
126. 4:57family but here's the danger the more
127. 4:59you live in this fantasy the harder it
128. 5:01is to let go you're not just attached to
129. 5:03her you're attached to the idea of her
130. 5:06what's the solution ground yourself in
131. 5:08reality start focusing on what is rather
132. 5:11than what could be ask yourself is she
133. 5:14showing the same level of interest and
134. 5:16investment if not it's time to shift
135. 5:18that energy back to yourself point six
136. 5:21balancing emotion and logic this brings
137. 5:24us to the Golden Rule don't let your
138. 5:26emotions override your logic when you're
139. 5:29overly emotional about someone you risk
140. 5:31overp pursuing which can come across as
141. 5:34needy neediness as you've probably
142. 5:36guessed is a major attraction killer
143. 5:38instead match her level of investment if
144. 5:41she's texting you twice a day don't
145. 5:43bombard her with 10 messages if she's
146. 5:46showing moderate interest mirror that
147. 5:48energy here's a fun analogy think of
148. 5:51dating like a tennis match if one player
149. 5:53is serving ball after ball without
150. 5:55getting any returns it's not a game it's
151. 5:58a workout keep the rally going and
152. 6:00you'll both enjoy the game more point
153. 6:02seven the long game relationships or
154. 6:05maintenance now what if you're already
155. 6:07in a relationship the same principles
156. 6:10apply even in long-term relationships
157. 6:12people can take each other for granted
158. 6:14the initial spark Fades if you don't
159. 6:16work to keep it alive this doesn't mean
160. 6:19grand gestures every day it means
161. 6:21continuing to date each other
162. 6:23communicate effectively and show
163. 6:25affection think of it like maintaining a
164. 6:28car you don't just drive and forget
165. 6:30about it you fuel it clean it and get
166. 6:32regular checkups relationships work the
167. 6:35same way if you've stuck with me this
168. 6:37far you're already on your way to
169. 6:39mastering not just how women think but
170. 6:41also how to Value yourself in the
171. 6:43process remember dating is about Mutual
172. 6:47effort if she's not giving you the green
173. 6:49light don't waste time idling at a red
174. 6:51light focus on the road ahead and trust
175. 6:54me the right person will meet you there
176. 6:56let me know in the comments have you
177. 6:58ever stopped texting someone and how did
178. 7:00it play out I'd love to hear your
179. 7:02thoughts and stories thanks for watching
180. 7:04and until next time remember to value
181. 7:06your time your energy and the people who
182. 7:09truly value you