What Makes a Woman IMPOSSIBLE to Forget to Serious Men — Transcript

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1. 0:00What makes a woman impossible to forget
2. 0:01to a serious man? Well, the answer to
3. 0:03that is what actually stays in a man
4. 0:05after her impact on him. And with that
5. 0:07complexity of what stays in a man after
6. 0:09impact, that pretty much tells you that
7. 0:11beauty isn't the only answer, the only
8. 0:13factor. Which is one of the most popular
9. 0:15things that people invest in when it
10. 0:17comes to their thinking of what
11. 0:18attraction is and or how to attract. But
12. 0:20it's deeper than that to a serious man.
13. 0:22It's the woman whose presence affected
14. 0:24that man's inner world. The rare woman
15. 0:27is a irreplaceable woman, the woman who
16. 0:29left the mark. Not because she was loud
17. 0:31or trying to be impressive or
18. 0:33unforgettable, but because something
19. 0:35about her spirit, her energy, her way of
20. 0:37thinking landed on him deeply. So, in
21. 0:40this video I'm going to talk about what
22. 0:42makes a woman unforgettable, impossible
23. 0:44to forget to any serious man. Not to men
24. 0:48who are just chasing looks, attention,
25. 0:50or excitement. I'm talking about serious
26. 0:52men, as I always do on this channel. If
27. 0:53you like that, make sure you follow
28. 0:55[music] me, subscribe. Let's get to it.
29. 0:57She brought peace without becoming
30. 0:58passive. One of the biggest things that
31. 1:00makes a woman impossible to forget is
32. 1:03when her presence felt peaceful without
33. 1:05feeling weak. [music] A serious man
34. 1:07never forgets a woman who knew how to
35. 1:08bring calm without becoming a yes woman
36. 1:11or a doormat. She does not make the
37. 1:13connection feel exhausting, [music]
38. 1:15but at the same time she is not
39. 1:17spineless. She says what's on her mind.
40. 1:19She's confidently her. She is not
41. 1:21shapeless. She is not agreeable out of
42. 1:24fear. A woman who has a calm, grounded,
43. 1:27[music] softness. Now, this stays with a
44. 1:29serious man because the world is already
45. 1:31full of pressure, performance,
46. 1:33guardedness, and emotional noise. So,
47. 1:36when a woman carries peace in a way that
48. 1:38feels real, not fake, not performative,
49. 1:41or not overly polished, when she's
50. 1:43actually her real, authentic, genuine
51. 1:46self, the man that is for her is going
52. 1:48to feel that differently. A lot of men
53. 1:50can find excitement. This world is full
54. 1:52of excitement, but what men do not find
55. 1:54every day is peace with authentic
56. 1:57presence. [music] Her energy and her
57. 1:59identity is unshakable. Can't be molded.
58. 2:02That kind of woman is hard to forget.
59. 2:04She is the eye of the storm. I don't
60. 2:06know how many of y'all are Marvel
61. 2:08watchers like, you know, Avengers type
62. 2:10movies, but there's two characters that
63. 2:12are part of the Avengers. One is the
64. 2:14Hulk and the other one is Natasha
65. 2:15Romanoff. And these two have a very
66. 2:17unique relationship because Natasha is
67. 2:20the person that could calm down the
68. 2:22Hulk. And if y'all know about the Hulk,
69. 2:23y'all know the Incredible Hulk is a
70. 2:25raging nuclear reactor on two legs.
71. 2:28[music] He can't be stopped except when
72. 2:30Natasha calms him down and makes the
73. 2:33insane mayhem chaotic Incredible Hulk
74. 2:36revert back to his human regular self as
75. 2:40Bruce Banner. She's the only one that
76. 2:41could do this by using a special
77. 2:43psychological set of words. So, to the
78. 2:45Hulk, Natasha is impossible to forget
79. 2:48because she has a certain influence over
80. 2:51him, a certain impact effect on him.
81. 2:53This same applies [music] serious man
82. 2:55and how he looks at a woman who is
83. 2:57impossible to forget. And that woman is
84. 3:00the eye of his storm. When this world is
85. 3:02being its usual self, raging, chaotic,
86. 3:05troublesome, when that man feels like
87. 3:07the world is against him, societal
88. 3:09pressures, racial tensions, corporate
89. 3:12and political games, when that man is
90. 3:14feeling like he is walking through the
91. 3:15fire and he comes across, encounters a
92. 3:17woman who is the eye to his storm, she
93. 3:20is literally unforgettable. When that
94. 3:22man is able to be in her presence, they
95. 3:25just enjoy each other's company without
96. 3:27pressure, stress, drama. When she's able
97. 3:30to keep his mind off of the things that
98. 3:31he's going through and struggling with,
99. 3:33fighting every day. When she is almost
100. 3:35like a human safe space for him, he
101. 3:37looks forward [music]
102. 3:38to hanging out with her because of this.
103. 3:40She is the eye, that peaceful moment in
104. 3:42that raging storm. And [music] in fact,
105. 3:44when you're in this eye, you can forget
106. 3:46that you're actually still in the storm.
107. 3:48That storm is still around you. It's
108. 3:50It's going anywhere. When I'm in my eye
109. 3:52of the storm, everything is calm.
110. 3:54Everything is peaceful. Better yet, that
111. 3:56eye of the storm gives me hope. It makes
112. 3:58me remember that there's not going to be
113. 4:00storms every day. And for those who
114. 4:01don't know, I am a follower of Jesus
115. 4:03Christ, and that's how I feel in Jesus'
116. 4:05presence. When I read about Jesus, when
117. 4:07I think about all the things he's done
118. 4:09for me, that's how I [music] feel. When
119. 4:10I'm able to see my faith in a woman as a
120. 4:13God-fearing man, she is totally
121. 4:15unforgettable to me. And it doesn't have
122. 4:16to be romantic. When I see God in her, I
123. 4:19know she's special. So, to tie this
124. 4:21point in, where you are at the eye in
125. 4:22his storm, he holds you to a higher
126. 4:24regard than most. She sees him beyond
127. 4:27his performance. A serious man often
128. 4:29remembers the woman who made him feel
129. 4:31seen beyond what he's able to do for
130. 4:33her. A lot of men and most men are used
131. 4:35to being valued by what they can do,
132. 4:37their labor, their performance, [music]
133. 4:38their action, what they achieve, what
134. 4:40they earn, what they fix, what they
135. 4:42carry. You get the gist. But, the woman
136. 4:44who becomes unforgettable is often the
137. 4:46one who sees something real in him
138. 4:48beneath all of that. She notices his
139. 4:51effort, his [music] restraint, his
140. 4:53thoughtfulness, his burdens, his heart,
141. 4:55his character. She made him feel
142. 4:57understood, not just admired. And after
143. 5:00talking to so many men about how we all
144. 5:02think, you will be surprised how many
145. 5:04depressed men there are who smile on the
146. 5:07outside. How many of the men in your
147. 5:08life who do everything for you and the
148. 5:10family and the community have
149. 5:12satisfaction on their face and rooms and
150. 5:15halls of depression
151. 5:17up here. Because the immense [music]
152. 5:18pressure, the awareness of how much it
153. 5:20costs to do all these things for our
154. 5:22families, our loved ones, our friends,
155. 5:23and keeping that all inside. Because we
156. 5:26understand that is an innate [music]
157. 5:27responsibility in us. We're proud of
158. 5:29what we do. In fact, a lot of men like
159. 5:31this won't have it any other way. We
160. 5:33take pride in taking care of what's
161. 5:34ours. But, all of that comes at a cost.
162. 5:37[music] And that is why this type of
163. 5:39woman who sees him deeper for what he
164. 5:40does hits differently, lands on him
165. 5:43permanently. Because understanding is
166. 5:45rare, and sometimes aberration can be
167. 5:48shallow depending on the person and
168. 5:50their motives. A lot of serious men out
169. 5:52here may forget compliments that they're
170. 5:54told about his style, his body, his
171. 5:56money, and even his status, but he often
172. 5:59remembers the woman who said something
173. 6:02true about him. She made him feel more
174. 6:04like himself at his best.
175. 6:06>> [music]
176. 6:06>> A serious man often remembers a woman
177. 6:08who made him feel more clear, more
178. 6:11[music] honest, more grounded, more
179. 6:13present, and more like the man that he
180. 6:15is striving to be. And don't get me
181. 6:16wrong, this is not about ego inflation.
182. 6:18This is about how a special type of
183. 6:20woman is able to bring awareness
184. 6:22>> [music]
185. 6:22>> to that man of himself that he wasn't
186. 6:25aware of. The unforgettable woman often
187. 6:27brings out the higher self in that man.
188. 6:29And for me, I know anytime I'm able to
189. 6:31learn something from somebody, when they
190. 6:33put me on something, show me a side of
191. 6:35myself that I didn't even recognize or
192. 6:37was aware of, they leave an imprint on
193. 6:39me because that's rare. It doesn't
194. 6:40happen a lot. And a woman who makes a
195. 6:42man feel like himself at his best
196. 6:44[music] makes that man feel sharper
197. 6:46around her. Anytime he's around her, he
198. 6:48he straightens up. He tightens [music]
199. 6:49up. He brings his best. He's more
200. 6:51thoughtful around her. He's more
201. 6:52intentional around her.
202. 6:53>> [music]
203. 6:54>> And this is not some type of psychosis
204. 6:56or mind control on her part. She's not
205. 6:58trying to build a man like a
206. 6:59Build-A-Bear, but this effect happens on
207. 7:01this man because her presence
208. 7:03>> [music]
209. 7:03>> makes him want to be better naturally.
210. 7:06That kind of effect is hard to replace.
211. 7:08A serious man never forgets a woman who
212. 7:10makes him more aligned with who he
213. 7:12wanted to become. She valued listening
214. 7:15just as much as her expressing herself.
215. 7:18Listening is deeply underrated, such an
216. 7:21underrated skill. Men often remember the
217. 7:23women who know how to create space
218. 7:25without taking over everything. A woman
219. 7:27who knows how to share, but also make
220. 7:29her presence known at the same time.
221. 7:30They are a combination of effects, two
222. 7:32ways. This isn't just a one-way
223. 7:34mentality. She lets moments breathe. She
224. 7:37does not make every conversation
225. 7:39>> [music]
226. 7:39>> about herself. She does not interrupt
227. 7:41his expression and his internal
228. 7:43processing just because something like
229. 7:45silence making her uncomfortable. Just
230. 7:46because she doesn't agree with what he
231. 7:48says or how he thinks. She does not shut
232. 7:50him down for being different. This type
233. 7:52of unforgettable woman has enough
234. 7:54emotional steadiness, I'll say, to
235. 7:56listen with presence. [music]
236. 7:58She understands that talking is just
237. 7:59half the battle because listening is
238. 8:01what's going to make her understand what
239. 8:03comes out of his mouth and vice versa.
240. 8:05The woman who creates a room and a space
241. 8:07and a platform for expression instead of
242. 8:09just adding pressure becomes deeply
243. 8:11memorable. And also the thing with a
244. 8:13woman who listens is that it's literally
245. 8:15an act of love because you're not going
246. 8:17to listen and take in information on
247. 8:19something that you do not care about,
248. 8:21that you do not like, and especially
249. 8:23love. So, when this woman is taking time
250. 8:25out and putting in effort to understand
251. 8:27a man by listening just as much as she's
252. 8:30talking, that is an act of effort
253. 8:32[music] and love which will make a great
254. 8:34impact on any man with common sense and
255. 8:36seriousness. Being listened to with real
256. 8:39presence is rare and rare things stay.
257. 8:43So, I hope you all enjoyed my video on
258. 8:44what makes a woman unforgettable to a
259. 8:46serious man and understanding how
260. 8:48serious men think. I appreciate y'all
261. 8:50for being here. Until next time. Peace
262. 8:52and blessings. Bye.