What I Refuse To Do In My 20s #selfimprovement #healthyhabits #shorts #god #jesus — Transcript

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1. 0:00You need to watch this.
2. 0:02>> I got married at 21 years old.
3. 0:04I had two kids by 25.
4. 0:07And a third on the way by 27.
5. 0:10I've never tried alcohol, never touched
6. 0:12drugs. [music]
7. 0:14I don't go to parties.
8. 0:16I've only slept with one woman, my
9. 0:17beautiful wife.
10. 0:20I stay [music] away from pornography and
11. 0:21I'm very conscious of what I put in my
12. 0:23body. And some people would say
13. 0:26that I'm missing out on my 20s.
14. 0:29But the thing [music] is
15. 0:31when I was young enough people that I
16. 0:33looked up to
17. 0:34people whose lives
18. 0:36I wanted [snorts] to mold my life after
19. 0:37[music]
20. 0:39were all saying the same things.
21. 0:42That what mattered most to them
22. 0:45was never the money.
23. 0:46>> [music]
24. 0:47>> Was never the business.
25. 0:49Was never the six-pack.
26. 0:52It was the relationships
27. 0:54that they'd built
28. 0:55>> [music]
29. 0:56>> with their loving wives
30. 0:58or husbands.
31. 1:00The amazing families they were building
32. 1:02with their kids.
33. 1:04So [music] I decided to just jump that
34. 1:06phase of life
35. 1:08where everyone's focused on
36. 1:10having fun
37. 1:13looking out [music] for only themselves
38. 1:15making money
39. 1:17sleeping around
40. 1:19>> [music]
41. 1:19>> just wandering without a purpose.
42. 1:22And the thing is if you want to have a
43. 1:24life
44. 1:25in your 40s and 50s
45. 1:27that's full of purpose.
46. 1:30If you see yourself eventually
47. 1:32focusing on building a family
48. 1:35and becoming a good partner
49. 1:38>> [music]
50. 1:38>> why wait?
51. 1:40Why would you waste any time
52. 1:43not working on yourself?
53. 1:46So that you can become [music] the type
54. 1:47of person who would make a good partner.
55. 1:50So you can become the type of person
56. 1:52that another little kid will look up to
57. 1:55and think I want to be [music] like
58. 1:56them.
59. 1:58So you can become a role model
60. 2:01to your future kids.
61. 2:03>> [music]
62. 2:03>> If you see yourself like that
63. 2:05in your 40s, in your 50s,
64. 2:07>> [music]
65. 2:08>> why are you not starting in your 20s?
66. 2:11Don't fall into the [music] traps of the
67. 2:12world.
68. 2:14Just because you're young
69. 2:16>> [music]
70. 2:17>> doesn't mean you can't start
71. 2:19building out habits
72. 2:21>> [music]
73. 2:21>> that make a truly successful life.
74. 2:24Just listen to anyone
75. 2:26who has found real success
76. 2:29and they'll tell you
77. 2:31it's not in the things that people
78. 2:32typically focus on in their 20s.
79. 2:35So if you want to be someone eventually,
80. 2:38why aren't you starting now?