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0:00When a woman stops chasing him, the
0:02divine masculine doesn't relax. He
0:04doesn't forget. He feels for the first
0:06time what it is to no longer have her
0:09effort sustaining the connection. That's
0:11what happens when the feminine twin
0:13flame awakens Sophia. She doesn't lose
0:16the love, she loses the anxiety, and
0:19that silent change dismantles from the
0:21inside all of his defenses. In this
0:24video, I'm going to show you what he
0:26starts to live through, what changes
0:28forever in the connection, and the
0:30mistake that makes many women ruin
0:32everything.
0:34Stay until the end because the last part
0:36will change what you think you want. I
0:38know that if you're in this phase, you
0:40may have days of a piece that even you
0:42find strange. That urge to check the
0:45phone has diminished. The need to
0:48understand his every move has lost its
0:50force. You still feel and deeply, but
0:53you're no longer dragged by what you
0:55feel. And along with this piece may come
0:58a disturbing doubt. Have I stopped
1:00loving? Have I hardened? Am I fooling
1:03myself and just protecting myself? These
1:06questions are legitimate, and I'm going
1:08to answer all of them throughout this
1:10video. I'll also show you what according
1:12to the spiritual and psychological
1:14reading I bring here usually happens
1:16with the divine masculine when he
1:18realizes that the woman he knew is no
1:21longer the same. I'll explain his seven
1:24most common reactions, what changes
1:26permanently in the connection, the
1:28mistakes that make many women confuse
1:29Sophia with a strategy game, and the
1:32practices that help sustain this state
1:34without getting lost along the way. And
1:36at the end I'll tell you about a
1:38possibility that almost no one mentions
1:40and that is the one that liberates the
1:42most. Before starting I want to leave an
1:45honest warning. Everything I'm going to
1:48tell you here belongs to the field of
1:50symbolic and spiritual reading.
1:53What is called the stages of the
1:55twinflame journey isn't a science. It's
1:57a map that many people use to give
1:59meaning to intense experiences. Maps
2:02help, but they aren't the territory. I
2:05can't promise that he'll come back nor
2:07that the connection will have the ending
2:08you desire because each person has free
2:11will and his free will is his. What I
2:15can show you is what changes in you and
2:17what that change usually provokes in
2:19someone who was used to the previous
2:21version of you. And that in the end is
2:24the only part of the story that's in
2:26your hands. If you've already lived this
2:28change, you'll recognize every detail.
2:31If you're still on the way, you'll
2:32understand why so many people speak of
2:34it with such respect. The Sophia stage
2:37doesn't arrive with fireworks. It
2:40arrives like an ordinary morning when
2:42you wake up and notice that the weight
2:44in your chest has diminished. And it's
2:46precisely this simplicity that makes it
2:49so powerful and so difficult to ignore
2:51for whoever is on the other side of it.
2:55Let's then start from the beginning.
2:57What is after all the Sophia stage? The
3:00word comes from Greek and means wisdom.
3:03In the Gnostic traditions of the first
3:05centuries of Christianity, Sophia is the
3:08figure of divine wisdom, the feminine
3:10principle that exists before the world
3:13and that carries at the same time the
3:15desire to know and the capacity to
3:17understand. There's a very beautiful and
3:20very revealing story there. In it,
3:22Sophia moved by an ardent desire to
3:25reach the source of everything launches
3:27herself outside her dwelling of
3:28fullness. And this anxious search, this
3:31going out of herself, generates
3:33suffering, confusion, and fragmentation.
3:38Only after crossing the pain, after
3:40recognizing what led her to lose
3:42herself, does she return to her
3:44wholeness, no longer as someone chasing
3:46what she lacks, but as someone who
3:48understands. Carl Jung in his later
3:51writings turned his eyes to this figure,
3:54seeing in her the image of a wisdom that
3:56precedes the world and that the human
3:58being can rediscover within themselves.
4:02Notice how this story describes with an
4:04almost frightening precision the path of
4:06the feminine twin flame. First, there's
4:09the desire to find the source again,
4:11which in real life appears as the desire
4:13to find that man who seemed to be the
4:15answer to everything. Then comes the
4:17going out of herself. The woman abandons
4:20her own center, starts living, orbiting
4:22around him, deciphering messages,
4:25waiting for signs, adapting, explaining
4:27herself. This period brings pain,
4:30confusion, and a sensation of being in
4:32pieces. And then at some point, the turn
4:35happens. She realizes that the source
4:38she was looking for outside was all
4:40along inside. That's the instant of
4:43return. And it's what the spiritual
4:45twinflame community usually calls the
4:48Sophia stage. The moment when the
4:50feminine stops pursuing and becomes
4:53wisdom. It's important to understand
4:55what the Sophia stage is not. It isn't
4:58coldness. It isn't indifference. It
5:00isn't wounded pride disguised as
5:02spirituality. Nor is it a tactic to make
5:05the other come back.
5:07The woman in Sophia isn't pretending not
5:10to care. She has truly stopped depending
5:13on his answer to know who she is. The
5:15difference is subtle, but it's
5:17everything. Whoever fakes indifference
5:20still has their center of gravity in the
5:22other person, just disguised. Whoever is
5:25in Sophia has moved their center of
5:27gravity inward. From the outside, the
5:30two things can look alike because both
5:33reduce messages and demands. From the
5:36inside, they're opposite worlds.
5:39In the language of depth psychology, we
5:42could say this stage marks an
5:44integration between the woman and her
5:46own shadow and her owna
5:49or in the case of a woman her inner
5:52figure of wisdom. While she projected
5:55all her light onto him, believing he was
5:57the proof of her worth, her source of
5:59security, the meaning of her life, she
6:01was handing him something that was hers.
6:05When she withdraws that projection, when
6:07she recognizes that the wisdom, the
6:09calm, and the love she saw in him are
6:12qualities of her own, a kind of return
6:14happens. What was projected comes home.
6:18And as in every return, whoever was
6:20receiving feels lighter or emptier,
6:23depending on how used they had become to
6:25it. Now, let's go to the signs. How do
6:28you know you're entering the Sophia
6:29stage? The first sign is that urgency
6:33disappears. That sensation that you need
6:35to resolve that the connection will slip
6:38through your fingers if you don't act
6:40dissolves.
6:41You still desire the union but you've
6:43stopped believing it depends on you
6:45pressing.
6:47The second sign is that you start seeing
6:49the situation with clarity and this
6:51clarity comes without anger. You can see
6:54what he did, what you did, what was left
6:56unresolved and you can look at all of it
6:59like someone looking at a map without
7:01drowning. The third is that your
7:03boundaries become firm and calm. You say
7:06no without needing to overjustify,
7:08without guilt, without that urge to be
7:10understood at any cost. The fourth sign
7:14is that you stop explaining yourself.
7:16Before each silence of his demanded a
7:19two-page mental letter. Now you realize
7:22that whoever needs to understands and
7:25whoever doesn't want to understand won't
7:27understand no matter how hard you try.
7:29The fifth is that you start investing in
7:32what's yours. The body, the work, the
7:35dreams, the home, creativity,
7:38friendships. Life regains its own color.
7:41The sixth is a new kind of compassion.
7:44You can feel tenderness for him without
7:47needing to save him, and you can
7:49recognize his pain without assuming it
7:51as if it were yours. And the seventh is
7:54that you start trusting time, not out of
7:57naivity, but because you've learned that
7:59haste had only served to push away what
8:02you wanted to bring closer. Think, for
8:04example, of a family dinner in the
8:06middle of this phase. Before, you'd be
8:09looking at your phone under the table,
8:11waiting for a sign. Now, you surprise
8:14yourself laughing at an old story told
8:16by your uncle, savoring the dish, truly
8:18listening to the conversation. At some
8:20point in the evening, his name passes
8:23through your head and you receive it
8:24like someone receiving a visitor who
8:26doesn't need to be served. There's no
8:29tension. There's no need to check
8:31anything. You notice with a discreet
8:34smile that something has changed. These
8:37small scenes, seemingly benale, are the
8:40true thermometer of Sophia. It isn't the
8:42big decisions that show the
8:44transformation. It's the moments when
8:46you forget to wait.
8:49These signs don't all appear at once and
8:51they aren't linear either. You may have
8:54a week when you feel completely in sofa
8:57and the next be taken by longing and go
8:59back to checking the phone. That's
9:02normal. It isn't failure. It isn't
9:04regression. It's the nature of this
9:06journey. Spiral, not straight line. What
9:10matters is that with each turn of the
9:12spiral, the starting point is a little
9:14higher and the relapse lasts a little
9:16less. Now, let's go to the point that
9:19interests many people most. What happens
9:22to the divine masculine when he realizes
9:25she has entered Sophia?
9:27I'm going to present seven reactions.
9:30Not every man goes through all of them,
9:32and the order varies, but in general,
9:35these are the movements that the
9:36spiritual reading describes most
9:38frequently.
9:41The first reaction is the loss of the
9:43mirror. During all the time she chased
9:46him, waited for him, or explained
9:48herself, he had, even without realizing
9:50it, a mirror that reflected his
9:53importance. Seeing someone running after
9:55you has a powerful effect on the image
9:57you make of yourself. When she stops
10:00running, the mirror goes dark. And what
10:02many men discover with discomfort is
10:05that a good part of the security they
10:07felt came from that reflection and not
10:09from within. He starts to feel a void he
10:12can't name. Often he attributes the
10:15discomfort to work, to tiredness, to
10:17routine, to anything but the fact that
10:19her attention has changed place.
10:22The second reaction is the strangeness
10:25before the silence. He was used to a
10:27type of contact, tense, charged,
10:30sometimes painful, but constant. Now
10:33contact diminishes, and what remains
10:36isn't hostility, it's serenity.
10:39A hostile silence is easy to deal with
10:42because you respond to the attack or
10:44flee from it. A serene silence is
10:46disconcerting because it offers nothing
10:48to react against. He starts to wonder
10:51what happened, if she's okay, if there's
10:54someone else, if he lost the place he
10:56had. And these questions, notice, are
10:59born inside him. She didn't plant them.
11:02They appear because his ego noticed it
11:04lost control over the narrative. The
11:06third reaction is the confrontation with
11:09his own shadow.
11:11According to the reading that most
11:13repeats in this universe, the divine
11:15masculine tends to be the one who most
11:17resists looking inward.
11:20He may have taken refuge in work, in
11:22distance, in reason, in the avoidance of
11:24any emotion that makes him feel
11:26vulnerable. While she was there in
11:28turbulence, he could blame her or blame
11:31the situation or occupy himself with
11:33managing the chaos. When she stabilizes,
11:37the mess that remains is his. Fears of
11:40abandonment, of not being enough, of
11:43losing freedom, of being swallowed by
11:45love.
11:47Everything he called a problem of the
11:49relationship starts to show itself as
11:51his problem, and that for many is
11:54unbearable at first.
11:56The fourth reaction is the failure of
11:59old strategies. If there was a pattern
12:01of approach and withdrawal in which he
12:04came close when he felt she was pulling
12:05away and pulled away when she came too
12:08close, the pattern stops working.
12:11Affectionate messages after days of
12:13silence no longer produce the same
12:15anxious response. Vague promises are no
12:18longer enough.
12:21Disappearances no longer shake her. He
12:24tries and notices that the button he was
12:26pressing is no longer connected to
12:28anything. This disorients him because he
12:31never needed to be clear. And for
12:33someone who never needed to be clear,
12:35being clear requires an entire learning.
12:38The fifth reaction is the change in the
12:40nature of attraction. Before the
12:43magnetism between the two was made of
12:45intensity, longing, tension, the famous
12:48ups and downs. Now something different
12:51appears which can frighten him. Respect.
12:54He starts to see her as someone whole
12:56with their own value and not as the
12:59woman who loved him too much. For some
13:02men, this respect awakens admiration and
13:04the desire to approach in a more honest
13:06way. For others, it awakens fear because
13:10loving a whole woman requires being
13:12whole, too. And being whole takes work.
13:16The sixth reaction is the fork in the
13:19road. There comes a point when he needs
13:22to choose what to do with all of this.
13:24And the answers usually divide into two
13:26paths. In one, he flees with more force.
13:29He dives into work, into distractions,
13:31into other people, like someone trying
13:33to silence an alarm. In the other, he
13:36accepts, even if with difficulty, that
13:39something needs to change and starts
13:41looking inward. Whoever follows the
13:44twinflame journey knows that the first
13:46path is tempting and that many spend
13:48years on it. But they also know that the
13:51call of the connection tends to return
13:53in ways increasingly difficult to
13:55ignore. Dreams, memories, coincidences,
13:58a song, a place, a phrase said by
14:02someone else. The seventh reaction, and
14:05the most delicate, is the possibility
14:07that he can't.
14:09I need to be honest with you because you
14:11deserve honesty. Not every man is ready
14:14in the time you'd like to do the inner
14:16work this journey asks for. Some need
14:19years, some never move. And when that
14:22happens, it doesn't mean you failed, nor
14:24that Sophia didn't work. It means his
14:27free will took a different direction
14:28than you expected. This is the point
14:31where the Sophia stage shows its
14:33greatest depth. It doesn't exist to
14:35bring him back. It exists so that you
14:38stop depending on him coming back.
14:41Notice how these seven reactions reveal
14:44something important. In none of them is
14:46it you who makes the movement.
14:49Everything that happens with him happens
14:51because of what's inside him. You merely
14:53stopped being the stage where he
14:55performed his fears. That's why many
14:58women say that after awakening Sophia,
15:00the relationship starts to be about him
15:03and no longer about them. When you stop
15:06carrying what isn't yours, what remains
15:08in his hands is exactly what was always
15:11his.
15:12To make this more concrete, imagine a
15:15man who has just arrived home after a
15:17long day. He opens his phone out of
15:19habit, looks for her name, and notices
15:22there's no pending message. No question,
15:24no venting. For the first time, he
15:27doesn't know what to do with the night.
15:29He turns on the TV, doesn't pay
15:31attention, opens the fridge, closes it.
15:34A memory of some Sunday passes through
15:36his head. a conversation that seemed
15:38benile and suddenly it hits him with
15:41unexpected force. He doesn't call it
15:43longing. He calls it tiredness. But the
15:46body knows the difference. It's in these
15:49small intervals in the middle of the
15:51ordinary that her change starts working
15:53in him without noise, without
15:55confrontation, without anyone needing to
15:57prove anything to anyone. Now I want to
16:00show you what for me is the most
16:03beautiful part of this subject. What
16:05changes forever in the connection?
16:08Because even if he takes long, even if
16:10he doesn't come back, there's something
16:12that doesn't go back to being as it was.
16:14The first change is that the connection
16:16stops being a relationship of need and
16:19becomes a relationship of choice. Before
16:23you held on to each other through lack,
16:25through neediness, through the idea that
16:27without the other something would be
16:29incomplete.
16:30From Sophia onward, if there's a bond,
16:33it can only exist if both choose to be
16:35there whole. And a bond of choice is
16:37lighter, more honest, and more lasting
16:40than a bond of need.
16:42The second change is the end of the
16:44pursuit dynamic. Whoever has heard of
16:47runner and chaser knows that this
16:49pattern feeds on two poles, the one who
16:51flees and the one who chases.
16:55When one of the parties stops running,
16:57the pattern loses its meaning. And then
16:59the dynamic needs to transform or undo
17:02itself.
17:04There's no more game. If there's a
17:06reunion, it will need to be made on
17:08other bases. If there isn't, at least
17:10the cycle of suffering has ended for
17:12her. To understand better where this
17:15stage fits, it's worth looking at what
17:17usually comes before it. In general, the
17:20woman goes through a phase of intensity
17:22in which everything revolves around the
17:24discovery of that bond. Then comes the
17:26phase of pain when distance and
17:28uncertainty appear. Then a phase of
17:31search in which she tries to understand,
17:34resolve, bring back. Often this search
17:36is exhausting. And it's precisely the
17:39exhaustion that opens the door to the
17:41next phase. Surrender, not a surrender
17:44of defeat, but of trust.
17:47Sophia is born at this point. She is the
17:50daughter of exhaustion well crossed. And
17:52that's why she can't be forced nor
17:54rushed. Whoever tries to skip the
17:56previous stages usually discovers that
17:59Sophia in that case stays only on the
18:02surface. The third change is that the
18:05connection starts to be felt in another
18:07way. Many women report that before
18:09Sophia the connection with him was felt
18:11as tension, as a pull, as anxiety. After
18:15the same connection starts to be felt as
18:18serene presence, as tranquil memory, as
18:20a warm and silent thread that doesn't
18:22hurt. It's as if the same rope stopped
18:25being a tight knot and became a thread
18:27of light. It's still there, but it no
18:30longer binds.
18:32The fourth change is that the woman
18:34starts to recognize what she deserves.
18:37When you experience from within what it
18:39is to be at peace with yourself, the
18:41idea of settling for crumbs becomes
18:43unsustainable.
18:45You don't need to become rigidly
18:47demanding. You just notice naturally
18:49that certain attitudes no longer fit in
18:51your life. And that goes for him, for
18:53other men, for friendships, for work,
18:56for any relationship.
18:59There is also a fifth change which
19:00usually takes people by surprise.
19:03Synchronicity becomes more discreet and
19:06more precise. Jung used this name to
19:08speak of coincidences charged with
19:10meaning, those in which the inner and
19:12outer world seem to align. Many women
19:15notice that when they're in the Sophia
19:17state, signs stop being an anxious
19:19spectacle and become small silent
19:22reminders. They no longer come to give
19:25hope. They come to confirm the path and
19:27they stop looking for them with the
19:29aidity of before.
19:32Now I need to talk about a delicate
19:34topic because it affects many women. The
19:36most common mistakes of those trying to
19:39live Sophia.
19:41The first and the most frequent is using
19:43Sophia as a strategy. This happens when
19:47the woman discovers that by pulling away
19:49and staying silent, the man sometimes
19:51reacts and then she starts pulling away
19:54with the goal that he reacts. From the
19:57outside, it looks like Sophia. From the
19:59inside, it's the same anxiety dressed as
20:02serenity.
20:04If you catch yourself thinking every
20:06hour whether he's already noticed,
20:08whether he's already felt your absence,
20:10whether the silence is already having an
20:12effect, then your center is still in
20:14him. There's nothing wrong with noticing
20:17this and it's even useful. But you need
20:19to be honest with yourself because
20:21selfdeception delays the process.
20:25The second mistake is spirituality as
20:28escape. Some women use terms like
20:30mission, divine plan, and ascension
20:32process to not look at the pain for
20:35real. They say everything is fine, that
20:38the universe knows that he'll come back
20:40at the right time, while inside their
20:42suffocating longing, anger, and sadness.
20:46Sophia isn't denial of feelings. It's
20:49the capacity to feel them without being
20:51dominated by them. Crying is allowed.
20:54Feeling anger is allowed. Having bad
20:57days is allowed. Wisdom isn't born from
20:59repression. It's born from listening.
21:02The third mistake is coldness as armor.
21:05There are women who, after suffering a
21:07lot, close themselves off completely and
21:09call it maturity. They no longer trust,
21:12no longer open up, no longer allow
21:14themselves to desire. But armor isn't
21:17wisdom. It's fear well-dressed. True.
21:21Sophia keeps the heart open and
21:22discernment firm at the same time. She
21:25can love without losing herself and can
21:27step away without hardening.
21:30The fourth mistake is disguised waiting.
21:34There's a very subtle way of living by
21:36halves. Saying you're following your own
21:38life, but keeping everything on hold
21:41until he appears. Not booking trips, not
21:44accepting invitations, not opening up to
21:46other people, not making plans that
21:48depend on the future. That isn't Sophia.
21:51It's a pause in life in the name of a
21:53hope. True wisdom lives the present as
21:56if it were complete, even if the future
21:58brings or doesn't bring the beloved
22:00person.
22:02The fifth mistake is testing. At some
22:04point, the woman may be tempted to
22:06create small tests. Send a message to
22:08see how he responds. Post something to
22:11see if he reacts. Show up in a place to
22:13see if he notices.
22:16Each test may seem harmless, but it
22:18keeps you trapped in the position of
22:19someone waiting for a verdict. and his
22:22verdict, whatever it is, will never
22:24change your value.
22:27Recognizing these mistakes isn't a
22:29reason to blame yourself. Almost every
22:31woman in transformation goes through
22:33some of them. The question is to notice
22:36without harshness and return to center.
22:39One question helps a lot in these
22:41moments. If I knew with certainty that
22:43he isn't coming back, what would I do
22:46today? The answer to that question shows
22:48what Sophia really is because it
22:50describes the life you would live
22:52without depending on his answer.
22:54There's also a caveat that I consider
22:57essential. Everything I've said so far
22:59presupposes a relationship in which
23:01there's minimal respect. If the
23:03connection with this person involves
23:05aggression, humiliation, control,
23:07threats, constant manipulation, or any
23:10form of violence, this isn't a spiritual
23:12journey. It's a situation that requires
23:14protection. In that case, the wisest
23:17thing is to seek support from trusted
23:19people and professionals and prioritize
23:22your safety. In Brazil, the central
23:25deendimento amer works at 180 and the
23:28centro devaliza vida at 188 at any hour.
23:33Wisdom above all is protecting your own
23:36life.
23:38Let's now go to the practices.
23:41How to sustain the Sophia state in daily
23:44life?
23:46The first practice is to return to the
23:48body. When anxiety rises and you feel
23:51the impulse to grab the phone, stop for
23:53a minute. Place your hand on your chest
23:56and abdomen. Breathe deeply three times
23:59and notice what the body is feeling.
24:01Often the impulse to look for news of
24:03him is in truth a request for welcoming
24:06that the body makes. Fulfilling that
24:09request on your own changes everything.
24:12The second practice is to write without
24:14sending. Write the letters you'd like to
24:16send. Write the hurts, the desires, the
24:19questions. Leave everything there on
24:22paper without filter. After a few days,
24:26reread. You'll notice that part of what
24:28asked for an answer already has an
24:30answer, and that part of what seemed
24:32urgent has lost its urgency.
24:36Writing works like a sieve that
24:38separates what is the pain of the moment
24:40and what is deep truth. The third
24:42practice is to cultivate daily pleasure.
24:45Cooking something beautiful for
24:46yourself. Walking without a destination,
24:49listening to a whole song, caring for
24:51plants, dancing in the living room,
24:53talking with friends, reading. It seems
24:56little, but the feminine in a state of
24:58wisdom is above all a feminine that
25:01knows how to enjoy life. Pleasure isn't
25:04escape. It's nutrition and a nourished
25:07woman doesn't need to beg for attention.
25:09The body also deserves special attention
25:11at this stage. Women in profound
25:14transformation often feel changes in
25:16sleep, appetite, and energy. Respecting
25:20the body's rhythm is part of wisdom.
25:22Sleeping more when tiredness asks,
25:25eating regularly, moving gently, taking
25:27in the sun, drinking water. All of this
25:31sustains emotional balance in a way that
25:33no theory can. If symptoms of anxiety or
25:37sadness become persistent and intense,
25:39seeking a health professional is a
25:42gesture of care, not weakness.
25:45Sophia doesn't dispense with the doctor
25:47nor the therapist. She knows when to ask
25:50for help.
25:52The fourth practice is to establish
25:54rituals of limit. It can be silencing
25:57notifications, stopping following his
25:59social media, putting away objects that
26:01hurt, agreeing with yourself on times to
26:04check the phone. This isn't
26:06childishness, it's care. You don't need
26:08to prove strength by exposing yourself
26:10to unnecessary pain. Wisdom is also
26:13knowing how to avoid what disorganizes
26:15you. The fifth practice is to talk with
26:18those who do you good. Not with those
26:20who feed anxiety, not with those who
26:22repeat that he'll never change, nor with
26:24those who repeat that he'll certainly
26:26come back, but with people who listen to
26:28you without pushing any conclusion.
26:31A good therapist can be an enormous help
26:34because it offers a safe space to look
26:36at the patterns that repeat at your
26:38story at the way you learn to love.
26:42The sixth practice is to ask what inside
26:44you still seeks outside. What part of
26:47you still believes it needs him to be
26:49complete? What old wound did he awaken?
26:52What scene from your childhood repeats
26:54itself in how you behave in love? These
26:57questions aren't an accusation. They're
26:59a map. Each honest answer is a piece of
27:02you coming home. There's also a care
27:04with the words you use with yourself.
27:07Many women, even in a process of growth,
27:10continue treating themselves with a
27:11harshness they would never use with a
27:13friend. If you catch yourself saying
27:15you're weak, that you took too long,
27:18that you should be further ahead, change
27:20that voice.
27:22Sophia speaks with the firmness of
27:24someone who loves, not with the
27:26harshness of someone who demands. Notice
27:29the tone of your inner dialogue
27:31throughout the day, and whenever it
27:33hardens, reframe, "What would I say to
27:35someone I love in this same situation?"
27:38This small change of language repeated
27:40for weeks reconfigures the way you see
27:43yourself. And whoever sees themselves
27:45with tenderness starts to attract and
27:47accept relationships that honor that
27:50tenderness.
27:52The seventh practice is gratitude
27:54without attachment.
27:56Thank what he taught you, what the
27:57connection awakened, what you discovered
28:00about yourself. But do this without
28:02demanding that the gratitude translate
28:04into a reunion. Thinking without
28:07negotiating is one of the purest forms
28:09of freedom. Now let's think about the
28:12possible scenarios. I can't predict
28:14which one will be yours and no one can.
28:17But knowing them helps you prepare. In
28:20the first he approaches sincerely after
28:22a period of real inner work. He appears
28:25differently, more present, clearer, less
28:28defensive. If this happens, Sophia
28:31doesn't mean opening the door
28:32immediately. It means observing, seeing
28:35if actions accompany words, if there's
28:38consistency, if the change is more than
28:40a passing impulse. Wisdom is giving time
28:44to time and asking yourself whether that
28:46version of him matches the woman you've
28:48become. In the second scenario, he comes
28:52back but the same. Same patterns, same
28:55vague promises, same flights. And you
28:58now in another state notice with clarity
29:01that you don't want to repeat. This is a
29:03moment of courage because saying no to
29:06what was once so desired hurts. But it's
29:09also one of the clearest proofs that the
29:11Sophia stage was real.
29:14Imagine now that after months of
29:16silence, a message from him arrives.
29:19What to do? Before responding, breathe.
29:24Notice what happens in your body upon
29:26seeing his name on the screen.
29:28Acceleration, cold in the stomach,
29:30relief, anger. Give these sensations
29:34time to pass. Then ask yourself, what do
29:37I want to respond? And what do I want to
29:39prove? If the answer that is born is an
29:42attempt to cause and effect, wait a
29:44little longer. If the answer is born of
29:47calm, write with simplicity and truth
29:49without justifying yourself and without
29:52hiding. A short and sincere response has
29:55more force than a thousand paragraphs
29:57loaded with emotion. And remember that
30:00you owe nothing to anyone beyond honesty
30:03with yourself.
30:05In the third, he doesn't come back. Life
30:08goes on and the bond transforms into
30:10memory, into learning, sometimes into
30:13silence. For many women, this is the
30:15most feared scenario. And paradoxically,
30:18it's the one that most reveals the
30:20strength they've built. Because arriving
30:23here they discover that life continues
30:25that love hasn't ended that it just
30:28changes address. It stops living in the
30:30other and starts living in them. And
30:33there's a fourth scenario more subtle.
30:36The connection reorganizes itself in
30:38another way. A distant friendship, a
30:41silent respect, a presence that
30:44continues to inspire without demanding.
30:48Not everything needs to end in marriage
30:50or in rupture. Some connections fulfill
30:52their role by transforming the two
30:54people and not by uniting them in a
30:56house. If you've made it this far, maybe
31:00you're wondering how long this stage
31:01lasts. The honest answer is that there's
31:04no deadline. For some women, Sophia
31:07installs herself in a few weeks and
31:09consolidates over months. For others, it
31:12takes years with advances and retreats.
31:15Time isn't a measure of merit. There are
31:18those who grow slowly and deeply and
31:20there are those who grow fast and
31:22superficially.
31:23What matters is the quality of presence
31:26with which you live each day. If today
31:28you manage to breathe before reacting,
31:31choose what to say, care for the body,
31:33and sleep in peace, that is already
31:35Sophia in action. There's no need to
31:38wait for a grand sign nor a confirmation
31:40from the universe. Wisdom manifests in
31:43small choices repeated with care. One
31:46day you'll look back and notice that the
31:48path was made of thousands of gestures
31:50like these, silent and common, and that
31:52each one of them was a brick in the
31:54house where today you live whole.
31:58Have patience with your own rhythm
31:59because it's the only compass that truly
32:01knows your path today and always.
32:05I'd like now to tell you about the
32:07possibility I promised at the beginning.
32:09The one almost no one mentions and that
32:12liberates the most. It's this. The
32:15Sophia stage isn't a phase that serves
32:17to conquer someone. It's the phase in
32:19which you discover that the question was
32:21never whether he'll come back. The
32:24question was always whether you'll come
32:26back to yourself.
32:28And when you return, a curious thing
32:30happens. The desperation to know what
32:33he'll do loses its power. Not because
32:36you stopped caring, but because your
32:38peace stopped being hostage to the
32:40answer.
32:42This is the true freedom of the wise
32:44feminine. She can desire, wait, root,
32:47pray, love. But her stability isn't for
32:51sale. And what would the masculine need
32:53to find this woman in Sophia? According
32:56to the reading we follow here, he'd need
32:59courage for honesty, humility to
33:01recognize patterns, willingness to stay
33:04with discomfort without fleeing, respect
33:06for her rhythm without demanding she go
33:09back to being the woman of before, and
33:11mainly availability to love without
33:14controlling. These aren't impossible
33:16demands, but they aren't small either.
33:19That's why the true approach when it
33:21happens usually comes accompanied by a
33:23new seriousness. Not of haste, not of
33:26grand promises, but of small and
33:29consistent gestures repeated over time
33:32that show that something has in fact
33:34changed. When the woman understands
33:37this, her relationship with time
33:39changes. She notices that there's no
33:42delay. There's the rhythm of each soul.
33:46She doesn't need to rush his awakening
33:48just as she doesn't need to rush her
33:50own. And when she notices that each one
33:52is exactly where they can be, anger
33:55transforms into compassion. And
33:57compassion opens space for a peace that
33:59no message could give.
34:02It's also important to talk about the
34:04feeling of guilt that some women feel
34:06upon entering this state. They think,
34:08"If I stop fighting, am I giving up? If
34:11I calm down, am I betraying the love I
34:13feel? If I move on, am I abandoning the
34:16mission?
34:18And it must be said with much care that
34:21resting isn't giving up. Often the most
34:24courageous thing a heart can do is rest.
34:27A field that is always being plowed
34:29never bears fruit. It needs silence.
34:32Time for the earth to remake itself.
34:36Sophia is theow of the soul. There are
34:39those who also ask whether it's worth
34:41talking with him during this period.
34:44There's no single answer. If there are
34:46children, work, or commitments in
34:48common, practical contact is inevitable
34:51and can be done with cordiality and
34:53objectivity. If there aren't, silence
34:56tends to be a necessary space for both.
34:59The criterion is simple. Does what I say
35:03come from clarity or from neediness? If
35:06it comes from clarity, it can be said
35:08with serenity. If it comes from
35:10neediness, the best gift you can give
35:12yourself is to wait for the wave to
35:15lower. In both cases, the decision is
35:17yours and it deserves to be made calmly
35:20and not under the pressure of the fear
35:22of losing.
35:24Thinking about all of this, I'd like to
35:26leave you with a simple exercise to do
35:28today.
35:30Sit in a calm place, close your eyes,
35:33and imagine the woman you were at the
35:35peak of anxiety. The one who checked the
35:37phone all the time, who overexplained,
35:40who was afraid of losing. Imagine she's
35:42sitting in front of you. Look at her
35:44with tenderness without judgment. Tell
35:47her you did the best you could with what
35:49you knew. Now imagine the woman you're
35:52becoming, the one who breathes deeply,
35:54who trusts, who listens to herself. See
35:57her standing beside the first. Ask her
36:00to extend her hand and imagine the two
36:03embracing until they become one. This
36:06small gesture of integration repeated
36:08with sincerity is worth more than a
36:11thousand strategies. If everything I
36:13said today made sense to you, I want to
36:16share a resource that might bring the
36:17clarity you've been looking for. You've
36:19just learned how to recognize the Sophia
36:22stage, how to sustain it without turning
36:24it into a strategy, and how to prepare
36:26for any outcome without losing your
36:28center. But maybe there's still a
36:30question that lingers. Who is this
36:32person really who keeps crossing your
36:34mind? And how do you recognize with
36:37certainty whether this connection is
36:39genuine or just a pattern repeating
36:41itself? There's a tool that based on
36:44your energy, age, and birth date,
36:46generates a detailed sketch of your twin
36:48flame, revealing physical
36:50characteristics, personality traits, and
36:52recognition signs. This sketch has
36:55already brought relief to many women who
36:57upon seeing the portrait realized they
36:59were holding on to someone who didn't
37:01match or recognized with clarity traits
37:04of someone who had been in their lives
37:06all along. The link to access it is in
37:09the first comment. And if you want to go
37:12deeper into this process of sustaining
37:14inner wholeness and emotional clarity, I
37:17also recommend the two ebooks I
37:19mentioned earlier, 21 days of
37:21transformation and how to manifest your
37:24twin flame. Both available there.
37:27The links to both materials are in the
37:30first pinned comment right below this
37:32video.
37:34And before you go, I'd really like to
37:36know who was here with me truly until
37:38the end. Write in the comments the
37:40phrase, "I awaken Sophia and return to
37:43myself." When you write, you're not just
37:46letting me know you're present. You're
37:48practicing in a concrete way the first
37:50decision this stage asks for, which is
37:52to put your center back inside you. I
37:55leave you with a final image.
37:58Think of an old stone library, silent at
38:00the end of the afternoon. Light enters
38:02through the high windows. The books rest
38:04on the shelves, and a woman walks slowly
38:07among them, without haste, without
38:09looking for anything in particular. She
38:12doesn't need to open every book because
38:14she already knows that the greatest
38:16wisdom that exists there is in her, and
38:19that every page she once sought outside
38:21was already written within. At the door,
38:24someone may arrive or not. She'll
38:27welcome him with an open heart if he
38:29comes with truth. And if he doesn't
38:31come, the library will remain standing,
38:34illuminated, full, because the light
38:37that enters through those windows never
38:39depended on visits.
38:41This is the portrait of Sophia, not the
38:44woman who waits, but the woman who
38:46inhabits.
38:48Thank you for dedicating this time to
38:50such a deep conversation. Thank you for
38:53the courage to look at what's behind the
38:55desire and not just at the desire. And
38:58thank you mainly for trusting that the
39:00love you're looking for begins above all
39:02in the way you decide to treat yourself
39:05starting today. See you in the next

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