What Elegant Women Know About Staying Healthy That Most Women Are Never Told — Transcript
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- 0:00There is a version of aging that most
- 0:01women are walking into without [music]
- 0:03knowing it. Not dramatically, not
- 0:05suddenly, quietly one year at a time,
- 0:08>> [music]
- 0:08>> while their annual blood work comes back
- 0:10normal, their doctor says everything
- 0:12looks fine,
- 0:13>> [music]
- 0:13>> and they keep doing what they have
- 0:14always done. And then at 62 or 65, they
- 0:18notice that getting up from a chair
- 0:21takes a beat longer [music] than it used
- 0:22to, that they are tired in a way that
- 0:24sleep does not fully fix, that something
- 0:27in the body has shifted and they cannot
- 0:29name it, and nobody told them it was
- 0:31coming. [music] I can name it. And
- 0:33today, I am going to.
- 0:36I have spent years studying the health
- 0:38intelligence that circulates privately
- 0:40among women who age with exceptional
- 0:42vitality. [music]
- 0:43Women I have sat across from at dinners,
- 0:46women in my network who do not look or
- 0:48move or function the way their age
- 0:51suggests they should. What I have found
- 0:53[music] is not complicated, but it is
- 0:56specific, and most women are never given
- 0:58the specifics. Today, I am giving you
- 1:01seven habits [music] drawn from five
- 1:03health principles that are either
- 1:04misunderstood, undersold, or never
- 1:06discussed at all in the mainstream
- 1:08conversation about women's health after
- 1:1060.
- 1:11>> [music]
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- 2:00your feedback about your takeaway from
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- 2:04>> [music]
- 2:04>> Now, let's get into today's video. Let's
- 2:06begin. Habit one, the silent crisis in
- 2:09your muscle.
- 2:10Most women over 60 are managing their
- 2:13health by monitoring [music] their
- 2:14heart, their weight, and their blood
- 2:16work.
- 2:17And all of that matters.
- 2:19But the health [music] crisis that is
- 2:20most likely already underway quietly
- 2:23without symptoms is happening in the
- 2:25muscle.
- 2:26I am going to show you exactly what is
- 2:28occurring and what to do [music] about
- 2:29it.
- 2:30But first, there is something you need
- 2:32to understand.
- 2:33A physician I know, an [music] internist
- 2:36with a practice on the Upper East Side
- 2:37who works primarily with women over 50,
- 2:40told me something at a private dinner
- 2:42that I have not stopped thinking about
- 2:43since.
- 2:45She [music] said,
- 2:46"I can look at a woman's blood work and
- 2:48see nothing alarming. And she can still
- 2:50be losing muscle mass at a rate [music]
- 2:52that will determine whether she is
- 2:53independent or dependent at 75.
- 2:57The standard panel does not [music] test
- 2:58for it."
- 3:00She was describing sarcopenia, the
- 3:02age-related loss of skeletal muscle mass
- 3:04and function. [music]
- 3:06Research published in the Journal of the
- 3:08American Medical Association found that
- 3:10women begin losing muscle [music] mass
- 3:12at a rate of 3 to 8% per decade after
- 3:1530.
- 3:16And that rate accelerates significantly
- 3:18after 60,
- 3:19particularly in women who are not
- 3:21actively countering it.
- 3:23Crucially, it is invisible on standard
- 3:25blood work. It does not show up until it
- 3:27shows up in function, in balance,
- 3:29[music]
- 3:30in strength, in recovery from illness or
- 3:32injury.
- 3:33The analogy I use, sarcopenia is like a
- 3:36slow [music] leak in a tire. You drive
- 3:38on it for months. The car handles a
- 3:40little differently, but [music] you
- 3:41adjust. And then one day it is flat, and
- 3:44you wonder how you didn't notice. Habit
- 3:46one is this. Have a conversation with
- 3:48your doctor specifically about muscle
- 3:50mass, not just weight. Ask about [music]
- 3:53a DEXA scan or a grip strength
- 3:54assessment. These are the measurements
- 3:56that tell you what your scale and your
- 3:58blood work cannot. Name the thing.
- 4:01Because you cannot address what you have
- 4:03not identified.
- 4:04But the identification [music] is only
- 4:06the beginning.
- 4:07Because what you do at the table three
- 4:09times a day is [music] either feeding
- 4:11your muscle or quietly starving it.
- 4:14Habit two,
- 4:16protein,
- 4:16>> [music]
- 4:16>> the right amount. Most women believe
- 4:19they eat enough protein. They eat enough
- 4:21protein for the wrong body at the wrong
- 4:23age.
- 4:24I'm going to give you the correct
- 4:25standard, but first, there is something
- 4:28you need to understand.
- 4:30I had a conversation last year [music]
- 4:31with a sports nutritionist who consults
- 4:33for professional athletes and separately
- 4:36for a group of women [music] executives
- 4:37over 50 who train seriously. I asked her
- 4:40what single change produces the most
- 4:42significant shift in body composition
- 4:44and energy in women over 60.
- 4:46>> [music]
- 4:46>> Without pausing, she said,
- 4:48"Eating the amount of protein their
- 4:50muscle actually [music] requires, which
- 4:52is almost always more than they think
- 4:54and more than their GP has told them."
- 4:57The current RDA for protein is 0.8 g per
- 4:59[music] kilogram of body weight.
- 5:02That figure was established for
- 5:03sedentary adults [music]
- 5:05and has not been updated to reflect what
- 5:07research now shows about muscle protein
- 5:09synthesis in aging [music] women.
- 5:12A landmark study from the American
- 5:13Journal of Clinical Nutrition [music]
- 5:15found that women over 60 require between
- 5:171.2 and 1.6 g of protein per kilogram of
- 5:21body weight daily [music] to maintain
- 5:23muscle mass, nearly double the standard
- 5:25recommendation.
- 5:27The reason is leucine threshold. As we
- 5:29age, muscle becomes less sensitive to
- 5:32the [music] anabolic signal of protein,
- 5:33requiring a higher dose per meal to
- 5:35trigger the same synthesis response that
- 5:37a smaller [music] amount would have
- 5:39produced at 40.
- 5:41Habit two is this.
- 5:42Calculate your actual body weight in
- 5:44kilograms and multiply by 1.2. That is
- 5:47your daily protein floor, [music]
- 5:49not your goal.
- 5:50Your floor. For most women, this means
- 5:53adding one high-quality protein source
- 5:55to at least two [music] meals per day.
- 5:57Eggs, Greek yogurt, salmon, chicken,
- 6:00legumes with complete amino acid
- 6:01profiles. Not a protein shake replacing
- 6:04a meal. Real food at the right [music]
- 6:06quantity consistently.
- 6:09Habit three,
- 6:10protein, the right distribution. Getting
- 6:12the total right is only half the
- 6:14correction. The other half is when and
- 6:16[music] how that protein is distributed.
- 6:18And this is where most women, even those
- 6:20who have increased their [music] intake,
- 6:22are still leaving muscle on the table. A
- 6:24study from the Journal of Nutrition
- 6:26[music] found that distributing protein
- 6:28evenly across three meals, rather than
- 6:31consuming the majority at dinner, which
- 6:33is the pattern most women default to,
- 6:35produced significantly greater muscle
- 6:37protein synthesis over a 24-hour [music]
- 6:39period.
- 6:40The muscle can only process a certain
- 6:42leucine signal at one time.
- 6:45A large protein bolus at dinner [music]
- 6:47does not compensate for a low protein
- 6:49breakfast and lunch. The distribution
- 6:52matters as much as the total. Habit
- 6:53[music] three is this,
- 6:55anchor every meal with protein first.
- 6:58Not as a [music] side, not as an
- 6:59afterthought, as the structural center
- 7:01of the plate.
- 7:02Breakfast [music] especially, this is
- 7:04where most women are most deficient. 30
- 7:07g of protein at breakfast is not [music]
- 7:09excessive. It is the correction.
- 7:11But protein and muscle are only one
- 7:13system. There is a second [music]
- 7:15system, one that operates every time you
- 7:17sit down, that most women are running
- 7:19without realizing it. Habit four,
- 7:22breaking sedentary [music] time.
- 7:24Most women who exercise regularly
- 7:27believe their daily movement is
- 7:28sufficient protection. What they do not
- 7:30know is that what happens [music]
- 7:32between those exercise sessions in the
- 7:34hours of sitting is running a separate
- 7:36metabolic experiment that their exercise
- 7:39does [music] not fully offset.
- 7:41I will show you exactly what is
- 7:42happening. But first, there [music] is
- 7:44something you need to understand.
- 7:46I was at a board dinner in Midtown 2
- 7:48years ago.
- 7:49The woman seated beside [music] me was a
- 7:51cardiologist.
- 7:52We were talking about preventive health
- 7:54in women over 60, and she said something
- 7:57that landed with quiet force. [music]
- 7:59She said, "I have patients who run three
- 8:02times a week and sit for 10 hours a day.
- 8:04Their fasting glucose is creeping. Their
- 8:07exercise is not canceling the sitting.
- 8:09Most of them have no idea."
- 8:12She was describing what exercise
- 8:13physiologists now call the [music]
- 8:15active couch potato effect, a phenomenon
- 8:17documented in research from the Diabetes
- 8:19Care journal, [music] showing that
- 8:21prolonged sitting suppresses a specific
- 8:24enzyme called lipoprotein lipase, which
- 8:27regulates blood glucose and triglyceride
- 8:29clearance.
- 8:30This suppression occurs independently of
- 8:32whether you exercised [music] earlier in
- 8:34the day.
- 8:35The metabolic cost of uninterrupted
- 8:37sitting accumulates [music] in real
- 8:38time.
- 8:39Habit four is this: Break every sitting
- 8:42period of 30 minutes or more
- 8:44>> [music]
- 8:44>> with two to five minutes of movement.
- 8:46Not a workout, a walk to the kitchen,
- 8:49standing and doing 10 slow calf raises,
- 8:51a deliberate interruption.
- 8:53>> [music]
- 8:53>> Research shows that these micro breaks
- 8:55restore lipoprotein lipase activity and
- 8:58measurably improve postprandial glucose
- 9:00clearance over the course of the day.
- 9:03Set a timer if you need to.
- 9:05The discipline is in the interruption,
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- 9:33But metabolic health during the day is
- 9:35only one side of this. What happens at
- 9:37night, specifically
- 9:39>> [music]
- 9:39>> which part of your sleep you are losing,
- 9:41is the other side. And most women have
- 9:43been given completely the wrong advice
- 9:45about it.
- 9:46Habit five, [music] protecting deep
- 9:48sleep.
- 9:49Most women over 60 who have sleep
- 9:51[music] concerns have been told to focus
- 9:53on sleep duration, how many hours they
- 9:56are getting. That is the wrong metric.
- 9:58The correct [music] question is which
- 10:00stage of sleep is being disrupted. I'm
- 10:02going to show you why that distinction
- 10:04controls more than you know. But first,
- 10:07there is something you need to
- 10:07understand.
- 10:09A [music] woman in my network, a
- 10:11functional medicine physician who works
- 10:13exclusively with women over 50, [music]
- 10:16told me she spends more time on sleep
- 10:18architecture than almost any other
- 10:19topic.
- 10:21She said,
- 10:22"Most of my patients are sleeping 7
- 10:24hours. [music]
- 10:25They are exhausted, and when we look at
- 10:27their sleep data, they are getting
- 10:29almost no slow [music] wave sleep. That
- 10:31is the stage that regulates growth
- 10:32hormone, cortisol reset, and cellular
- 10:35repair. Without it, [music] the hours
- 10:38are not doing the work."
- 10:39Slow wave sleep, also called deep sleep
- 10:42or stage three NREM, declines naturally
- 10:45with age. [music] And research published
- 10:47in Current Biology found that
- 10:48postmenopausal women experience
- 10:50significantly greater slow wave sleep
- 10:52[music] suppression than age-matched
- 10:53men, linked directly to the loss of
- 10:56estrogen's sleep regulatory function.
- 10:58>> [music]
- 10:58>> This stage is where growth hormone is
- 11:00released, where cortisol is reset for
- 11:02the following day, and where the
- 11:04glymphatic system clears metabolic waste
- 11:06from the brain.
- 11:07Losing it does not just produce
- 11:09tiredness, [music] it accelerates
- 11:11hormonal aging independently of every
- 11:13other variable.
- 11:15Habit five is this,
- 11:16protect the conditions that preserve
- 11:18slow wave sleep. The room must be
- 11:20[music] cool between 16 and 18°C.
- 11:24Alcohol, even one glass, [music]
- 11:25suppresses slow wave sleep measurably
- 11:28and should not be consumed within 3
- 11:30hours [music] of bed.
- 11:32Magnesium glycinate, 300 to 400 mg taken
- 11:3630 minutes before sleep, has clinical
- 11:38evidence for improving slow wave
- 11:40duration in adults over 50.
- 11:43These are not suggestions. They are the
- 11:45specific levers that protect the stage
- 11:47of sleep that is protecting you.
- 11:49Habit six, protecting sleep [music]
- 11:51onset.
- 11:52The second sleep habit addresses what
- 11:54happens before you get into bed, and it
- 11:57is the factor most women are unknowingly
- 11:59undermining every evening. Cortisol must
- 12:01[music] be low for sleep onset to occur.
- 12:04The problem is that the modern evening
- 12:06is cortisol [music]
- 12:06activating by design. Screens, news,
- 12:09unresolved mental tasks, [music] bright
- 12:11overhead lighting. Research from Harvard
- 12:13Medical School's Sleep Division found
- 12:15that exposure to blue spectrum light
- 12:16after 9:00 p.m. [music]
- 12:18suppresses melatonin production by up to
- 12:2050% and delays sleep [music] onset by an
- 12:23average of 90 minutes in adults over 55.
- 12:27Habit [music] six is this, create a
- 12:29cortisol descent in the 90 minutes
- 12:31before bed.
- 12:32Dim or amber lighting only after 9:00
- 12:35p.m. [music]
- 12:36No screens after 9:30 or blue light
- 12:39blocking glasses if screens are
- 12:40unavoidable. A defined end to cognitive
- 12:43work. Isabel journals for 10 minutes
- 12:45before bed, three observations [music]
- 12:47from the day, one principle being
- 12:49refined, one intention for tomorrow.
- 12:51This ritual signals to the nervous
- 12:53system [music] that the day is complete.
- 12:55The body follows the signal.
- 12:58Habit seven, vitamin D, the correct
- 13:00threshold. [music]
- 13:02The final habit addresses a number that
- 13:04is almost certainly on your most recent
- 13:05blood panel
- 13:06>> [music]
- 13:06>> and almost certainly being misread. I
- 13:09will show you the correct way to
- 13:10interpret it.
- 13:11But first, [music] there is something
- 13:13you need to understand.
- 13:15A rheumatologist I was introduced to
- 13:17through a mutual colleague, she treats
- 13:19bone density loss in women over 60
- 13:22>> [music]
- 13:22>> and speaks at medical conferences on the
- 13:24subject, told me plainly,
- 13:27"The lab's [music] reference range for
- 13:28vitamin D sufficiency starts at 20 ng
- 13:31per ml.
- 13:32I do not consider a patient protected
- 13:34below 50."
- 13:36Those are two completely different
- 13:38lines,
- 13:38>> [music]
- 13:38>> and most GPs are pointing to the wrong
- 13:40one.
- 13:42She is describing [music] a gap that
- 13:44clinical research has documented
- 13:46extensively.
- 13:47A meta-analysis published in Nutrients
- 13:49[music] found that vitamin D levels
- 13:51between 20 and 50 ng per ml,
- 13:54which fall within standard lab normal
- 13:56ranges, [music] are associated with
- 13:58measurably reduced muscle protein
- 14:00synthesis, impaired calcium absorption,
- 14:02increased inflammatory markers, and
- 14:04compromised [music]
- 14:05immune function in women over 60.
- 14:08The clinically relevant threshold for
- 14:09bone protection, muscle function, and
- 14:12immune competence is between 50 and 80
- 14:14ng [music]
- 14:15per ml,
- 14:16not 20,
- 14:18not 30.
- 14:19Habit seven is this.
- 14:21Find your most recent vitamin D result
- 14:23[music] and look at the number, not just
- 14:25whether it is flagged as normal.
- 14:27If it is below 50, speak to your doctor
- 14:29about a therapeutic supplementation
- 14:31protocol. The [music] standard 1,000 IU
- 14:33daily supplement is insufficient to
- 14:35raise levels meaningfully [music] in
- 14:37deficient adults.
- 14:39Most functional medicine physicians
- 14:41prescribe between [music] 4,000 and
- 14:425,000 IU daily under monitored
- 14:45conditions.
- 14:46Take vitamin D3,
- 14:48>> [music]
- 14:48>> not D2.
- 14:49Take it with K2, which directs calcium
- 14:52to bone rather than arterial tissue.
- 14:54And take [music] it with a
- 14:55fat-containing meal, as it is
- 14:57fat-soluble and requires dietary fat for
- 15:00absorption. These details matter. The
- 15:02supplement without the correct protocol
- 15:04is a fraction of the benefit. Here is
- 15:07the complete [music] framework.
- 15:08Habit one, identify your muscle mass,
- 15:11not just your weight. Habit two, [music]
- 15:13eat to your corrected protein
- 15:14requirement, 1.2 g per kilogram daily as
- 15:17your floor. Habit [music] three,
- 15:19distribute that protein across all three
- 15:21meals, not accumulated at dinner.
- 15:24Habit four, [music] break every 30
- 15:25minutes of sitting with movement. The
- 15:27exercise session does not cancel the
- 15:29sitting.
- 15:30Habit five,
- 15:32protect slow [music] wave sleep with a
- 15:33cool room, no alcohol near bedtime, and
- 15:36magnesium glycinate.
- 15:37>> [music]
- 15:38>> Habit six, create a cortisol descent in
- 15:40the 90 minutes before bed, light
- 15:42screens, [music] and a defined close to
- 15:43your day. Habit seven, read your vitamin
- 15:46D number, not [music] just your flag.
- 15:48Below 50 is not protected. None of this
- 15:51is complicated. All [music] of it is
- 15:53specific, and almost none of it is in
- 15:55the mainstream conversation about
- 15:56women's health after 60.
- 15:59>> [music]
- 15:59>> Now it is in yours, and the Undeniable's
- 16:01complete system covers in detail seven
- 16:04complete guides, including identity,
- 16:06presence, [music] first impressions,
- 16:08social mastery, wellness, standards, and
- 16:10your morning ritual. Everything the most
- 16:12elegant, vital, and undeniable version
- 16:15of you needs, built into [music] one
- 16:16system for less than a dinner out.
- 16:19It's linked in the description below,
- 16:21[music] or scan the QR code on your
- 16:23screen. You have always deserved this
- 16:25information. It simply was not being
- 16:27given to you.
- 16:29>> [music]
- 16:29>> I will see you in the next video.
- 16:31Isabelle.
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