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  1. 0:00There is a version of aging that most
  2. 0:01women are walking into without [music]
  3. 0:03knowing it. Not dramatically, not
  4. 0:05suddenly, quietly one year at a time,
  5. 0:08>> [music]
  6. 0:08>> while their annual blood work comes back
  7. 0:10normal, their doctor says everything
  8. 0:12looks fine,
  9. 0:13>> [music]
  10. 0:13>> and they keep doing what they have
  11. 0:14always done. And then at 62 or 65, they
  12. 0:18notice that getting up from a chair
  13. 0:21takes a beat longer [music] than it used
  14. 0:22to, that they are tired in a way that
  15. 0:24sleep does not fully fix, that something
  16. 0:27in the body has shifted and they cannot
  17. 0:29name it, and nobody told them it was
  18. 0:31coming. [music] I can name it. And
  19. 0:33today, I am going to.
  20. 0:36I have spent years studying the health
  21. 0:38intelligence that circulates privately
  22. 0:40among women who age with exceptional
  23. 0:42vitality. [music]
  24. 0:43Women I have sat across from at dinners,
  25. 0:46women in my network who do not look or
  26. 0:48move or function the way their age
  27. 0:51suggests they should. What I have found
  28. 0:53[music] is not complicated, but it is
  29. 0:56specific, and most women are never given
  30. 0:58the specifics. Today, I am giving you
  31. 1:01seven habits [music] drawn from five
  32. 1:03health principles that are either
  33. 1:04misunderstood, undersold, or never
  34. 1:06discussed at all in the mainstream
  35. 1:08conversation about women's health after
  36. 1:1060.
  37. 1:11>> [music]
  38. 1:11>> Before we go into the details of today's
  39. 1:13video, I have a free gift for you. It's
  40. 1:16something I know you'd [music]
  41. 1:17appreciate. I have read a lot of
  42. 1:19comments from some of you asking for
  43. 1:20this, and I [music] decided to build a
  44. 1:22checklist around it. It is called the
  45. 1:24elegant morning routine checklist, 12
  46. 1:27rituals of women who are timeless,
  47. 1:29healthy, and [music] undeniable after
  48. 1:3140.
  49. 1:32It is the morning architecture that puts
  50. 1:34everything I describe today into daily
  51. 1:36practice. Cortisol protection, [music]
  52. 1:39protein first nutrition, movement,
  53. 1:41silence, grooming standards, and the
  54. 1:43identity rituals [music] that make all
  55. 1:45of it sustainable.
  56. 1:47Every page is a deliberate act of
  57. 1:49self-respect. [music]
  58. 1:50See the first link in the description
  59. 1:52below to grab it right now for free,
  60. 1:53>> [music]
  61. 1:54>> or scan the QR code on your screen if
  62. 1:56you're watching on TV.
  63. 1:58When you do get it, remember to email me
  64. 2:00your feedback about your takeaway from
  65. 2:01it. I love to read those emails.
  66. 2:04>> [music]
  67. 2:04>> Now, let's get into today's video. Let's
  68. 2:06begin. Habit one, the silent crisis in
  69. 2:09your muscle.
  70. 2:10Most women over 60 are managing their
  71. 2:13health by monitoring [music] their
  72. 2:14heart, their weight, and their blood
  73. 2:16work.
  74. 2:17And all of that matters.
  75. 2:19But the health [music] crisis that is
  76. 2:20most likely already underway quietly
  77. 2:23without symptoms is happening in the
  78. 2:25muscle.
  79. 2:26I am going to show you exactly what is
  80. 2:28occurring and what to do [music] about
  81. 2:29it.
  82. 2:30But first, there is something you need
  83. 2:32to understand.
  84. 2:33A physician I know, an [music] internist
  85. 2:36with a practice on the Upper East Side
  86. 2:37who works primarily with women over 50,
  87. 2:40told me something at a private dinner
  88. 2:42that I have not stopped thinking about
  89. 2:43since.
  90. 2:45She [music] said,
  91. 2:46"I can look at a woman's blood work and
  92. 2:48see nothing alarming. And she can still
  93. 2:50be losing muscle mass at a rate [music]
  94. 2:52that will determine whether she is
  95. 2:53independent or dependent at 75.
  96. 2:57The standard panel does not [music] test
  97. 2:58for it."
  98. 3:00She was describing sarcopenia, the
  99. 3:02age-related loss of skeletal muscle mass
  100. 3:04and function. [music]
  101. 3:06Research published in the Journal of the
  102. 3:08American Medical Association found that
  103. 3:10women begin losing muscle [music] mass
  104. 3:12at a rate of 3 to 8% per decade after
  105. 3:1530.
  106. 3:16And that rate accelerates significantly
  107. 3:18after 60,
  108. 3:19particularly in women who are not
  109. 3:21actively countering it.
  110. 3:23Crucially, it is invisible on standard
  111. 3:25blood work. It does not show up until it
  112. 3:27shows up in function, in balance,
  113. 3:29[music]
  114. 3:30in strength, in recovery from illness or
  115. 3:32injury.
  116. 3:33The analogy I use, sarcopenia is like a
  117. 3:36slow [music] leak in a tire. You drive
  118. 3:38on it for months. The car handles a
  119. 3:40little differently, but [music] you
  120. 3:41adjust. And then one day it is flat, and
  121. 3:44you wonder how you didn't notice. Habit
  122. 3:46one is this. Have a conversation with
  123. 3:48your doctor specifically about muscle
  124. 3:50mass, not just weight. Ask about [music]
  125. 3:53a DEXA scan or a grip strength
  126. 3:54assessment. These are the measurements
  127. 3:56that tell you what your scale and your
  128. 3:58blood work cannot. Name the thing.
  129. 4:01Because you cannot address what you have
  130. 4:03not identified.
  131. 4:04But the identification [music] is only
  132. 4:06the beginning.
  133. 4:07Because what you do at the table three
  134. 4:09times a day is [music] either feeding
  135. 4:11your muscle or quietly starving it.
  136. 4:14Habit two,
  137. 4:16protein,
  138. 4:16>> [music]
  139. 4:16>> the right amount. Most women believe
  140. 4:19they eat enough protein. They eat enough
  141. 4:21protein for the wrong body at the wrong
  142. 4:23age.
  143. 4:24I'm going to give you the correct
  144. 4:25standard, but first, there is something
  145. 4:28you need to understand.
  146. 4:30I had a conversation last year [music]
  147. 4:31with a sports nutritionist who consults
  148. 4:33for professional athletes and separately
  149. 4:36for a group of women [music] executives
  150. 4:37over 50 who train seriously. I asked her
  151. 4:40what single change produces the most
  152. 4:42significant shift in body composition
  153. 4:44and energy in women over 60.
  154. 4:46>> [music]
  155. 4:46>> Without pausing, she said,
  156. 4:48"Eating the amount of protein their
  157. 4:50muscle actually [music] requires, which
  158. 4:52is almost always more than they think
  159. 4:54and more than their GP has told them."
  160. 4:57The current RDA for protein is 0.8 g per
  161. 4:59[music] kilogram of body weight.
  162. 5:02That figure was established for
  163. 5:03sedentary adults [music]
  164. 5:05and has not been updated to reflect what
  165. 5:07research now shows about muscle protein
  166. 5:09synthesis in aging [music] women.
  167. 5:12A landmark study from the American
  168. 5:13Journal of Clinical Nutrition [music]
  169. 5:15found that women over 60 require between
  170. 5:171.2 and 1.6 g of protein per kilogram of
  171. 5:21body weight daily [music] to maintain
  172. 5:23muscle mass, nearly double the standard
  173. 5:25recommendation.
  174. 5:27The reason is leucine threshold. As we
  175. 5:29age, muscle becomes less sensitive to
  176. 5:32the [music] anabolic signal of protein,
  177. 5:33requiring a higher dose per meal to
  178. 5:35trigger the same synthesis response that
  179. 5:37a smaller [music] amount would have
  180. 5:39produced at 40.
  181. 5:41Habit two is this.
  182. 5:42Calculate your actual body weight in
  183. 5:44kilograms and multiply by 1.2. That is
  184. 5:47your daily protein floor, [music]
  185. 5:49not your goal.
  186. 5:50Your floor. For most women, this means
  187. 5:53adding one high-quality protein source
  188. 5:55to at least two [music] meals per day.
  189. 5:57Eggs, Greek yogurt, salmon, chicken,
  190. 6:00legumes with complete amino acid
  191. 6:01profiles. Not a protein shake replacing
  192. 6:04a meal. Real food at the right [music]
  193. 6:06quantity consistently.
  194. 6:09Habit three,
  195. 6:10protein, the right distribution. Getting
  196. 6:12the total right is only half the
  197. 6:14correction. The other half is when and
  198. 6:16[music] how that protein is distributed.
  199. 6:18And this is where most women, even those
  200. 6:20who have increased their [music] intake,
  201. 6:22are still leaving muscle on the table. A
  202. 6:24study from the Journal of Nutrition
  203. 6:26[music] found that distributing protein
  204. 6:28evenly across three meals, rather than
  205. 6:31consuming the majority at dinner, which
  206. 6:33is the pattern most women default to,
  207. 6:35produced significantly greater muscle
  208. 6:37protein synthesis over a 24-hour [music]
  209. 6:39period.
  210. 6:40The muscle can only process a certain
  211. 6:42leucine signal at one time.
  212. 6:45A large protein bolus at dinner [music]
  213. 6:47does not compensate for a low protein
  214. 6:49breakfast and lunch. The distribution
  215. 6:52matters as much as the total. Habit
  216. 6:53[music] three is this,
  217. 6:55anchor every meal with protein first.
  218. 6:58Not as a [music] side, not as an
  219. 6:59afterthought, as the structural center
  220. 7:01of the plate.
  221. 7:02Breakfast [music] especially, this is
  222. 7:04where most women are most deficient. 30
  223. 7:07g of protein at breakfast is not [music]
  224. 7:09excessive. It is the correction.
  225. 7:11But protein and muscle are only one
  226. 7:13system. There is a second [music]
  227. 7:15system, one that operates every time you
  228. 7:17sit down, that most women are running
  229. 7:19without realizing it. Habit four,
  230. 7:22breaking sedentary [music] time.
  231. 7:24Most women who exercise regularly
  232. 7:27believe their daily movement is
  233. 7:28sufficient protection. What they do not
  234. 7:30know is that what happens [music]
  235. 7:32between those exercise sessions in the
  236. 7:34hours of sitting is running a separate
  237. 7:36metabolic experiment that their exercise
  238. 7:39does [music] not fully offset.
  239. 7:41I will show you exactly what is
  240. 7:42happening. But first, there [music] is
  241. 7:44something you need to understand.
  242. 7:46I was at a board dinner in Midtown 2
  243. 7:48years ago.
  244. 7:49The woman seated beside [music] me was a
  245. 7:51cardiologist.
  246. 7:52We were talking about preventive health
  247. 7:54in women over 60, and she said something
  248. 7:57that landed with quiet force. [music]
  249. 7:59She said, "I have patients who run three
  250. 8:02times a week and sit for 10 hours a day.
  251. 8:04Their fasting glucose is creeping. Their
  252. 8:07exercise is not canceling the sitting.
  253. 8:09Most of them have no idea."
  254. 8:12She was describing what exercise
  255. 8:13physiologists now call the [music]
  256. 8:15active couch potato effect, a phenomenon
  257. 8:17documented in research from the Diabetes
  258. 8:19Care journal, [music] showing that
  259. 8:21prolonged sitting suppresses a specific
  260. 8:24enzyme called lipoprotein lipase, which
  261. 8:27regulates blood glucose and triglyceride
  262. 8:29clearance.
  263. 8:30This suppression occurs independently of
  264. 8:32whether you exercised [music] earlier in
  265. 8:34the day.
  266. 8:35The metabolic cost of uninterrupted
  267. 8:37sitting accumulates [music] in real
  268. 8:38time.
  269. 8:39Habit four is this: Break every sitting
  270. 8:42period of 30 minutes or more
  271. 8:44>> [music]
  272. 8:44>> with two to five minutes of movement.
  273. 8:46Not a workout, a walk to the kitchen,
  274. 8:49standing and doing 10 slow calf raises,
  275. 8:51a deliberate interruption.
  276. 8:53>> [music]
  277. 8:53>> Research shows that these micro breaks
  278. 8:55restore lipoprotein lipase activity and
  279. 8:58measurably improve postprandial glucose
  280. 9:00clearance over the course of the day.
  281. 9:03Set a timer if you need to.
  282. 9:05The discipline is in the interruption,
  283. 9:07not [music] the intensity. This is
  284. 9:08exactly what the Undeniables system
  285. 9:11covers in detail. Seven complete guides,
  286. 9:13including identity, presence, first
  287. 9:16impressions, social mastery,
  288. 9:18>> [music]
  289. 9:18>> wellness, standards, and your morning
  290. 9:20ritual. Everything the most elegant,
  291. 9:22vital, and undeniable version of you
  292. 9:24needs, [music] built into one system for
  293. 9:27less than a dinner out.
  294. 9:28It's linked in the description below or
  295. 9:30scan the QR [music] code on your screen.
  296. 9:33But metabolic health during the day is
  297. 9:35only one side of this. What happens at
  298. 9:37night, specifically
  299. 9:39>> [music]
  300. 9:39>> which part of your sleep you are losing,
  301. 9:41is the other side. And most women have
  302. 9:43been given completely the wrong advice
  303. 9:45about it.
  304. 9:46Habit five, [music] protecting deep
  305. 9:48sleep.
  306. 9:49Most women over 60 who have sleep
  307. 9:51[music] concerns have been told to focus
  308. 9:53on sleep duration, how many hours they
  309. 9:56are getting. That is the wrong metric.
  310. 9:58The correct [music] question is which
  311. 10:00stage of sleep is being disrupted. I'm
  312. 10:02going to show you why that distinction
  313. 10:04controls more than you know. But first,
  314. 10:07there is something you need to
  315. 10:07understand.
  316. 10:09A [music] woman in my network, a
  317. 10:11functional medicine physician who works
  318. 10:13exclusively with women over 50, [music]
  319. 10:16told me she spends more time on sleep
  320. 10:18architecture than almost any other
  321. 10:19topic.
  322. 10:21She said,
  323. 10:22"Most of my patients are sleeping 7
  324. 10:24hours. [music]
  325. 10:25They are exhausted, and when we look at
  326. 10:27their sleep data, they are getting
  327. 10:29almost no slow [music] wave sleep. That
  328. 10:31is the stage that regulates growth
  329. 10:32hormone, cortisol reset, and cellular
  330. 10:35repair. Without it, [music] the hours
  331. 10:38are not doing the work."
  332. 10:39Slow wave sleep, also called deep sleep
  333. 10:42or stage three NREM, declines naturally
  334. 10:45with age. [music] And research published
  335. 10:47in Current Biology found that
  336. 10:48postmenopausal women experience
  337. 10:50significantly greater slow wave sleep
  338. 10:52[music] suppression than age-matched
  339. 10:53men, linked directly to the loss of
  340. 10:56estrogen's sleep regulatory function.
  341. 10:58>> [music]
  342. 10:58>> This stage is where growth hormone is
  343. 11:00released, where cortisol is reset for
  344. 11:02the following day, and where the
  345. 11:04glymphatic system clears metabolic waste
  346. 11:06from the brain.
  347. 11:07Losing it does not just produce
  348. 11:09tiredness, [music] it accelerates
  349. 11:11hormonal aging independently of every
  350. 11:13other variable.
  351. 11:15Habit five is this,
  352. 11:16protect the conditions that preserve
  353. 11:18slow wave sleep. The room must be
  354. 11:20[music] cool between 16 and 18°C.
  355. 11:24Alcohol, even one glass, [music]
  356. 11:25suppresses slow wave sleep measurably
  357. 11:28and should not be consumed within 3
  358. 11:30hours [music] of bed.
  359. 11:32Magnesium glycinate, 300 to 400 mg taken
  360. 11:3630 minutes before sleep, has clinical
  361. 11:38evidence for improving slow wave
  362. 11:40duration in adults over 50.
  363. 11:43These are not suggestions. They are the
  364. 11:45specific levers that protect the stage
  365. 11:47of sleep that is protecting you.
  366. 11:49Habit six, protecting sleep [music]
  367. 11:51onset.
  368. 11:52The second sleep habit addresses what
  369. 11:54happens before you get into bed, and it
  370. 11:57is the factor most women are unknowingly
  371. 11:59undermining every evening. Cortisol must
  372. 12:01[music] be low for sleep onset to occur.
  373. 12:04The problem is that the modern evening
  374. 12:06is cortisol [music]
  375. 12:06activating by design. Screens, news,
  376. 12:09unresolved mental tasks, [music] bright
  377. 12:11overhead lighting. Research from Harvard
  378. 12:13Medical School's Sleep Division found
  379. 12:15that exposure to blue spectrum light
  380. 12:16after 9:00 p.m. [music]
  381. 12:18suppresses melatonin production by up to
  382. 12:2050% and delays sleep [music] onset by an
  383. 12:23average of 90 minutes in adults over 55.
  384. 12:27Habit [music] six is this, create a
  385. 12:29cortisol descent in the 90 minutes
  386. 12:31before bed.
  387. 12:32Dim or amber lighting only after 9:00
  388. 12:35p.m. [music]
  389. 12:36No screens after 9:30 or blue light
  390. 12:39blocking glasses if screens are
  391. 12:40unavoidable. A defined end to cognitive
  392. 12:43work. Isabel journals for 10 minutes
  393. 12:45before bed, three observations [music]
  394. 12:47from the day, one principle being
  395. 12:49refined, one intention for tomorrow.
  396. 12:51This ritual signals to the nervous
  397. 12:53system [music] that the day is complete.
  398. 12:55The body follows the signal.
  399. 12:58Habit seven, vitamin D, the correct
  400. 13:00threshold. [music]
  401. 13:02The final habit addresses a number that
  402. 13:04is almost certainly on your most recent
  403. 13:05blood panel
  404. 13:06>> [music]
  405. 13:06>> and almost certainly being misread. I
  406. 13:09will show you the correct way to
  407. 13:10interpret it.
  408. 13:11But first, [music] there is something
  409. 13:13you need to understand.
  410. 13:15A rheumatologist I was introduced to
  411. 13:17through a mutual colleague, she treats
  412. 13:19bone density loss in women over 60
  413. 13:22>> [music]
  414. 13:22>> and speaks at medical conferences on the
  415. 13:24subject, told me plainly,
  416. 13:27"The lab's [music] reference range for
  417. 13:28vitamin D sufficiency starts at 20 ng
  418. 13:31per ml.
  419. 13:32I do not consider a patient protected
  420. 13:34below 50."
  421. 13:36Those are two completely different
  422. 13:38lines,
  423. 13:38>> [music]
  424. 13:38>> and most GPs are pointing to the wrong
  425. 13:40one.
  426. 13:42She is describing [music] a gap that
  427. 13:44clinical research has documented
  428. 13:46extensively.
  429. 13:47A meta-analysis published in Nutrients
  430. 13:49[music] found that vitamin D levels
  431. 13:51between 20 and 50 ng per ml,
  432. 13:54which fall within standard lab normal
  433. 13:56ranges, [music] are associated with
  434. 13:58measurably reduced muscle protein
  435. 14:00synthesis, impaired calcium absorption,
  436. 14:02increased inflammatory markers, and
  437. 14:04compromised [music]
  438. 14:05immune function in women over 60.
  439. 14:08The clinically relevant threshold for
  440. 14:09bone protection, muscle function, and
  441. 14:12immune competence is between 50 and 80
  442. 14:14ng [music]
  443. 14:15per ml,
  444. 14:16not 20,
  445. 14:18not 30.
  446. 14:19Habit seven is this.
  447. 14:21Find your most recent vitamin D result
  448. 14:23[music] and look at the number, not just
  449. 14:25whether it is flagged as normal.
  450. 14:27If it is below 50, speak to your doctor
  451. 14:29about a therapeutic supplementation
  452. 14:31protocol. The [music] standard 1,000 IU
  453. 14:33daily supplement is insufficient to
  454. 14:35raise levels meaningfully [music] in
  455. 14:37deficient adults.
  456. 14:39Most functional medicine physicians
  457. 14:41prescribe between [music] 4,000 and
  458. 14:425,000 IU daily under monitored
  459. 14:45conditions.
  460. 14:46Take vitamin D3,
  461. 14:48>> [music]
  462. 14:48>> not D2.
  463. 14:49Take it with K2, which directs calcium
  464. 14:52to bone rather than arterial tissue.
  465. 14:54And take [music] it with a
  466. 14:55fat-containing meal, as it is
  467. 14:57fat-soluble and requires dietary fat for
  468. 15:00absorption. These details matter. The
  469. 15:02supplement without the correct protocol
  470. 15:04is a fraction of the benefit. Here is
  471. 15:07the complete [music] framework.
  472. 15:08Habit one, identify your muscle mass,
  473. 15:11not just your weight. Habit two, [music]
  474. 15:13eat to your corrected protein
  475. 15:14requirement, 1.2 g per kilogram daily as
  476. 15:17your floor. Habit [music] three,
  477. 15:19distribute that protein across all three
  478. 15:21meals, not accumulated at dinner.
  479. 15:24Habit four, [music] break every 30
  480. 15:25minutes of sitting with movement. The
  481. 15:27exercise session does not cancel the
  482. 15:29sitting.
  483. 15:30Habit five,
  484. 15:32protect slow [music] wave sleep with a
  485. 15:33cool room, no alcohol near bedtime, and
  486. 15:36magnesium glycinate.
  487. 15:37>> [music]
  488. 15:38>> Habit six, create a cortisol descent in
  489. 15:40the 90 minutes before bed, light
  490. 15:42screens, [music] and a defined close to
  491. 15:43your day. Habit seven, read your vitamin
  492. 15:46D number, not [music] just your flag.
  493. 15:48Below 50 is not protected. None of this
  494. 15:51is complicated. All [music] of it is
  495. 15:53specific, and almost none of it is in
  496. 15:55the mainstream conversation about
  497. 15:56women's health after 60.
  498. 15:59>> [music]
  499. 15:59>> Now it is in yours, and the Undeniable's
  500. 16:01complete system covers in detail seven
  501. 16:04complete guides, including identity,
  502. 16:06presence, [music] first impressions,
  503. 16:08social mastery, wellness, standards, and
  504. 16:10your morning ritual. Everything the most
  505. 16:12elegant, vital, and undeniable version
  506. 16:15of you needs, built into [music] one
  507. 16:16system for less than a dinner out.
  508. 16:19It's linked in the description below,
  509. 16:21[music] or scan the QR code on your
  510. 16:23screen. You have always deserved this
  511. 16:25information. It simply was not being
  512. 16:27given to you.
  513. 16:29>> [music]
  514. 16:29>> I will see you in the next video.
  515. 16:31Isabelle.

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