Want to improve your speaking vocabulary? STOP LEARNING NEW WORDS✋ — Transcript
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- 0:00hey it's Hadar thank you for joining me
- 0:02and in this episode I'm going to talk
- 0:04about why if you want to improve your
- 0:07vocabulary and stop getting stuck in
- 0:10English you have to stop memorizing and
- 0:13learning new words here's the thing as a
- 0:16speaker of English as a second language
- 0:18you may have found yourself in the past
- 0:21or in the present speaking English and
- 0:24then you got stuck right you were
- 0:27looking for a specific word and that
- 0:29word was nowhere to be found
- 0:34word where are you worried word and then
- 0:41you ended up using a different word that
- 0:43didn't quite convey the message as you
- 0:46wanted it to convey the message or you
- 0:48just got stuck and you started getting
- 0:50all anxious and nervous and then you get
- 0:52stuck even more and started making
- 0:53stupid mistakes and then afterwards you
- 0:57felt like crap you thought oh my elissa
- 1:01so terrible I don't know words in
- 1:04English and then you say to yourself hey
- 1:06you know I just need to improve my
- 1:08vocabulary that is the problem I get
- 1:10stuck because I don't know enough words
- 1:13you compare to yourself to your
- 1:15abilities in your native Italian and
- 1:17your native tongue your words are just
- 1:19like laying there waiting for you to
- 1:21grab them right and in English it's just
- 1:25like you have to search for them with a
- 1:27flashlight now first of all stop
- 1:31comparing yourself to who you are in
- 1:33your native tongue because it's not
- 1:34productive it's only going to make you
- 1:37feel bad about yourself and it's just
- 1:40not fair these are two different
- 1:42circumstances it's kind of you're
- 1:43comparing apples and oranges you don't
- 1:46want to do that second you have to
- 1:48understand that the problem here is not
- 1:50your poor vocabulary is what you are
- 1:54doing with the words that you already
- 1:57know and to explain that even more I'm
- 2:00gonna have to take you to my whiteboard
- 2:01but before I want to share with you a
- 2:03quick story
- 2:04when I first started out teaching it was
- 2:07after a long period where I wouldn't
- 2:10speak
- 2:11English at all so just a quick reminder
- 2:13I moved to New York in 2000 and moved
- 2:17back to Israel in 2004 or five so I was
- 2:23there for almost five years and then for
- 2:26for two years here I haven't talked in
- 2:29English I haven't read anything in
- 2:31English I had no connection maybe I
- 2:33listen to TV shows but that's about it
- 2:37so when I first started teaching I
- 2:39wasn't very confident about my English
- 2:41abilities especially my fluency so I was
- 2:45pretty good with pronunciation still but
- 2:47my ability to communicate and the the
- 2:51the words that my knowledge of English
- 2:53was fairly limited especially comparison
- 2:57comparison to where I am right now and I
- 3:01remember the situation where I I was
- 3:04teaching this executive he was in my
- 3:07house back then I didn't have an office
- 3:10I was teaching in my apartment and he
- 3:12wanted to practice reading articles and
- 3:15I was just like okay sure so let's open
- 3:16the New York Times I wanted to sound
- 3:18sophisticated and read an article so he
- 3:21started reading an article and I was I
- 3:24my eyes went black because we started
- 3:27reading it and I was just like you know
- 3:29trying to show him how to pronounce
- 3:32every word and it was really great and
- 3:35then we came across a word that I have
- 3:38no idea what it meant like I could
- 3:41figure out how to say it but then he
- 3:43asked me what does that mean I'm like
- 3:46and then I would try to understand from
- 3:50the context what this word is and then I
- 3:52would make up something and then mind
- 3:55you it was like almost like it was ten
- 3:57years ago I was young and naive and kind
- 4:01of my ego was a lot bigger than what it
- 4:04is today and then I and then we came
- 4:09across another word and I had no idea
- 4:12what it meant and then another word and
- 4:15another
- 4:16and at some point I was just like okay
- 4:17let's go back to the beginning and read
- 4:19it again so I don't come across as
- 4:21completely stupid not knowing all of
- 4:25these words right and then I really felt
- 4:29horrible I was just like how is that
- 4:31even possible
- 4:33you know the imposter syndrome started
- 4:35rising up
- 4:36it's just how is it possible that you're
- 4:38a teacher and you don't know all of
- 4:40these words and this is ridiculous you
- 4:43shouldn't be even teaching he thinks
- 4:45that you are stupid and not intelligent
- 4:48and bla bla bla bla bla bla bla
- 4:50of course he loved the lesson and then
- 4:52he texted me oh it was such a great
- 4:53lesson thank you so much I learned so
- 4:55much but that doesn't matter right all
- 4:57everything that I thought to myself and
- 4:59then I got obsessed with learning all
- 5:02these fancy where it's from the New York
- 5:03Times so I invested a lot of time
- 5:05learning a lot of words that I came
- 5:08across in all of these academic articles
- 5:12and and business articles and as I
- 5:17started teaching I noticed that I'm not
- 5:20using these words I'm not using these
- 5:23words and all of a sudden I started
- 5:26forgetting about all these words right
- 5:28so I spent all this time learning these
- 5:30fancy words I never had a chance to use
- 5:34these words and then I started exploring
- 5:36it and I started talking to my students
- 5:38seeing what they are focusing on when
- 5:41they're learning new words and they were
- 5:43pretty much doing what I was doing
- 5:44learning all these fancy words but they
- 5:47never had a real opportunity to use them
- 5:50maybe I used them in my room
- 5:52academic writing because at the time I
- 5:54was also learning English literature at
- 5:56the university so yeah every now and
- 5:59then I used this one of those fancy
- 6:00words but in speaking in my lessons when
- 6:03I was talking to friends I I was never
- 6:07using them and then I started thinking
- 6:10about how we go about learning words and
- 6:13is the investment that we're making in
- 6:16learning all of these new fancy
- 6:19nice-to-haves words is really
- 6:22dancing us and where we want to be which
- 6:24is pretty much speaking fluently and
- 6:27being able to convey our message clearly
- 6:29with the right words with the right flow
- 6:31and of course with the right
- 6:33pronunciation and intonation I want you
- 6:40to imagine your vocabulary as a circle
- 6:43[Music]
- 6:45as a sort of a circle so it was never
- 6:53great at drawing okay
- 6:56anyway you get the point that's your
- 6:58vocabulary I'll even write it here now
- 7:05this is your overall vocabulary that
- 7:08means that these are words that you
- 7:10understand that you know that if you
- 7:13were to read them in a book or hear them
- 7:15when someone speaks you'd be like I know
- 7:17exactly what it means you wouldn't need
- 7:19to go to check them in the dictionary
- 7:21okay so here's the problem the words
- 7:26that you use in regular conversation are
- 7:31here it's a much more limited circle
- 7:37okay so these are that you use easily
- 7:41right these are the words that are
- 7:44retrieved easily where it's like house
- 7:46and on and chicken and and soup and
- 7:49ladies and gentlemen and maybe other
- 7:52words that you use on a regular basis
- 7:54may be words related to technology
- 7:56because you use them at work all of the
- 7:58time however there's still a gap here
- 8:03between the words that you know in the
- 8:06words that you actually use now the
- 8:08problem is that a lot of people don't
- 8:11even think about these words as a
- 8:12challenge they don't think they need to
- 8:15do anything with these words because
- 8:16they know these words so they go ahead
- 8:18and spend a lot of time expanding and
- 8:21extending the circle now since it's the
- 8:24outer circle it'll take a lot more
- 8:27energy and work to expend it and you'll
- 8:30do a lot of
- 8:31hard work to extend it just a bit right
- 8:35and here's the problem when you extend
- 8:39the outer circle it doesn't do much to
- 8:42the inner circle right so these words
- 8:45usually stay unaccessible I mean you may
- 8:49understand them better when you read so
- 8:51it definitely helps your comprehension
- 8:53and your listening skills but the
- 8:56question is is that helpful for your
- 9:00fluency and does it prevent you from
- 9:03getting stuck I don't think so
- 9:06so what I'm saying is that instead of
- 9:09investing in the outer circle and
- 9:11extending the outer circle focus on this
- 9:15inner circle I'm using gonna use a
- 9:17different color for it so you know that
- 9:19these are the words that you use easily
- 9:22start putting your focus on the words
- 9:25that you already know but you never use
- 9:29these are the words that are not
- 9:31available these are the words that get
- 9:33you frustrated because your subconscious
- 9:36mind knows that you know these words and
- 9:39you're like I know this word how come
- 9:41it's not available how come I can't use
- 9:44it and then you remember it right an
- 9:46hour later you're like oh that was the
- 9:49word I was looking for or when someone
- 9:51helps you you're like yes yes that's it
- 9:53right whether it's like words or phrases
- 9:55whatever but you know this and you are
- 10:00just limiting yourself or you haven't
- 10:03done something to make these words to
- 10:07turn them into active words right now
- 10:08they're only passive and passive doesn't
- 10:11help us with anything especially not
- 10:14with our fluency so as I'm suggesting
- 10:18instead of expanding your vocabulary
- 10:20with all these fancy words that are
- 10:22important don't get me wrong I mean it's
- 10:25great to know more words it really it
- 10:27really is helpful especially if you need
- 10:29to write academic articles and if you
- 10:32want to write books and if you want to
- 10:35understand better what it is that you're
- 10:36reading
- 10:37so of course invest more time in it I'm
- 10:39just saying don't expect it to be
- 10:42available right away without doing
- 10:44something if
- 10:45and what I'm also saying is these words
- 10:49or words that you hear around you all
- 10:50the time so maybe in the hierarchy of
- 10:54words in terms of what words are more
- 10:57important than others probably these
- 10:59words are more important because you
- 11:01constantly hear them you know them right
- 11:03that means that they're very very
- 11:05present in the language it's just that
- 11:07you don't use them and that's the
- 11:09problem okay so I'm gonna take you back
- 11:14to the table and there I'm going to
- 11:17share with you the steps that will help
- 11:19you start implementing those words into
- 11:23your day-to-day speech so the first
- 11:25thing I want you to have is a memo on
- 11:29your phone so you can use the Notes app
- 11:31you can use Evernote I'm gonna put a
- 11:34link to it below that's a really great
- 11:36app to keep track of your notes and
- 11:39there you're going to make a list of
- 11:42words now this list of words it needs to
- 11:46be super accessible where every time you
- 11:49come across a word that you know but you
- 11:52say to yourself I never use this word so
- 11:55you need to have this inquisitive
- 11:56listening where you constantly listen to
- 11:59words but you're also asking yourself is
- 12:01this is this a word I use okay
- 12:05especially words that you need and again
- 12:06remember these are not words that you
- 12:09need to go to the dictionary to look
- 12:11them up these are words that you know
- 12:14but you find yourself from never using
- 12:17them and then I want you to put it on
- 12:19that list now every now and then you'll
- 12:22come across a word that you don't know
- 12:24but you feel people are using it all of
- 12:27the time and you may think to yourself
- 12:29hey maybe I need to know that word you
- 12:31can put it on the list as well but
- 12:34remember the purpose the first stage is
- 12:36to get you to start using all the words
- 12:39that you already know it'll be a lot
- 12:43faster and a lot more effective and then
- 12:46you are going to start adding those
- 12:49words as you are listening to English so
- 12:52don't think about it and try to remember
- 12:54it
- 12:54because you'll forget the moment it
- 12:56happens the moment you come across that
- 12:58word you put it on your list and then
- 13:02once a day or once every other day I
- 13:06want you to go to that list and pull one
- 13:08of those words out the best way to make
- 13:12this word more available and more
- 13:14accessible is to first of all develop
- 13:16the muscle memory of the pronunciation
- 13:18let me tell you a secret a lot of times
- 13:20your subconscious mind know the word but
- 13:23will avoid using it because you are
- 13:25uncertain about its pronunciation there
- 13:28is this fear year that is preventing you
- 13:30from using that word even though you
- 13:32know when you need to use it so it keeps
- 13:35shoving it down until it's no longer
- 13:38available so for example let's say that
- 13:41on your list you have the word
- 13:42regurgitate now this is a word that I
- 13:45know but I never use and I know that I
- 13:47can use it more often so let's say that
- 13:50that's my word and I'm going to probably
- 13:54say it 20 30 times just like this
- 13:57regurgitate regurgitate regurgitate
- 13:59regurgitate regurgitate regurgitate then
- 14:03I might want to use another resource to
- 14:06help you me get it into my system so
- 14:09there then you can use our friend Google
- 14:11to Google for sentences with the word
- 14:14regurgitate and then I would probably
- 14:17say these words out loud a few times
- 14:21then I would want to invent some
- 14:24sentences with the word regurgitate so
- 14:28for example now I need to think about it
- 14:31the students regurgitate the materials
- 14:34they learned from their teachers okay so
- 14:38maybe at first I'll get stuck no wait is
- 14:41there a better way for me to say it the
- 14:42students keep regurgitating
- 14:45the material they learn from their
- 14:48teachers and then I say it again and
- 14:50I'll try to refine it and do it again
- 14:52and again and again until it comes out
- 14:55naturally with flow that's how I'm
- 14:59starting to connect all the dots
- 15:01together all the senses hearing it
- 15:05seeing it cuz it's written in my
- 15:06notebook you might want to write it
- 15:08phonetically feeling it in your mouth
- 15:11getting the muscles to work around this
- 15:13this sound reading it out loud using
- 15:17resources that someone else created and
- 15:19then creating my own sentences right and
- 15:23connecting all the dots there the word
- 15:25with context that's how you start
- 15:28remembering words now don't overwhelm
- 15:32yourself you don't need to do ten of
- 15:35those a day one word a day is enough
- 15:38expanding your vocabulary by 20 words
- 15:41within 20 days or 30 days one month is
- 15:45incredible it's more than what you've
- 15:48had before right so the other
- 15:51alternatives they don't work as well
- 15:53so start enhancing the words that you
- 15:56already know you will see that it's a
- 15:59skill it's an acquired skill the easier
- 16:01is start retrieving words that you know
- 16:03the easier it will be for you to store
- 16:06new words or to start using words that
- 16:10you actually don't know so what we're
- 16:12doing here will expand your vocabulary
- 16:14will help you feel more expressive but
- 16:18most importantly it'll give you the
- 16:20skill to know how to retrieve words
- 16:22easily and to integrate words into your
- 16:24day-to-day speech fast and effectively
- 16:28remember that understanding something
- 16:31gaining clarity without taking action
- 16:33right away is meaningless it's as if you
- 16:36haven't done anything so what I want you
- 16:40to do right now is take a piece of paper
- 16:41and a pen and write down ten words so
- 16:45you you'll need to do some mind
- 16:47searching right now brain searching and
- 16:49you'll need I want you to come up with a
- 16:51list of ten words that you know but you
- 16:55never use you find yourself never using
- 16:58because you're not sure how to say those
- 17:01words or maybe it's just they're not
- 17:03available
- 17:04and if you can't think of something then
- 17:06start a list of five words maybe words
- 17:09that you heard in
- 17:11this video may be the words that you
- 17:14have recently come across if not make a
- 17:17point that you'll get that list done by
- 17:19the end of today and then I want you to
- 17:23post those 10 words in the comments
- 17:25below because I really want you to
- 17:27commit to yourself to take action and
- 17:30also your words are going to be someone
- 17:32else's resource so this is a win-win
- 17:36situation ok that's it thank you so much
- 17:38for watching if you like this video I
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- 17:59colleagues so they can all enjoy the
- 18:02knowledge of new and old words have a
- 18:05beautiful week and I'll see you next
- 18:06week in the next video bye
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