男が離れていく女子の特徴💔 #婚活 #結婚 #失恋 — Transcript

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1. 0:00Traits of women who exhaust men. Men
2. 0:02usually get interested when they find a
3. 0:04girl cute or like her, and they work
4. 0:05hard to date her. Many women probably
5. 0:08wonder, "Why do you leave? You were the
6. 0:10one who came after me." You are still
7. 0:12as cute as you were back then. You’re
8. 0:14still a good person, too. But why do
9. 0:16men drift away? It’s not simply that
10. 0:19the man got bored. When does a man
11. 0:20leave? It’s when he’s so exhausted
12. 0:22it becomes painful. He realizes your
13. 0:24true colors and gets turned off. He’s
14. 0:25tired. This is the "exhaustion" case,
15. 0:27where you break up even though neither
16. 0:28of you did anything wrong, but it just
17. 0:30becomes impossible to continue. Let’s
18. 0:31say someone who lived freely, with no
19. 0:32one like this in their life, suddenly
20. 0:34starts dating someone, even if they
21. 0:35wanted it themselves. Then, honestly
22. 0:36speaking, they start getting messages
23. 0:38like, "What are you doing now?""I’m
24. 0:39worried, call me right away, send me a
25. 0:41photo," or "I’d be so happy if you
26. 0:42sent me one." You get forced to send
27. 0:44those, forced to drive for an hour, or
28. 0:46when you’re just out eating with
29. 0:48friends, you have to apologize and take
30. 0:49photos, and people say, "Man, you’re
31. 0:51super whipped." If that keeps going on,
32. 0:53you’re bound to get exhausted, right?
33. 0:55That’s why there really are women who
34. 0:56drain men. So, let’s look at those
35. 0:58traits.
36. 0:58When the food arrives, they keep taking
37. 1:00photos and you can't eat for a while.
38. 1:01They say they want to go somewhere
39. 1:02trendy. "Oh, that’s fine, it’s fine
40. 1:03.""Let’s go," I say. We go. Then it
41. 1:06arrives. *Snap, snap*, they take tons
42. 1:07of photos. "Hey, take a wide shot with
43. 1:09me in it for my Insta," they make me
44. 1:10take pictures. "Sorry, just a little
45. 1:11more at this angle," they make me take
46. 1:13more. "Just let me eat already!" They
47. 1:14act all full of pride. Self-proclaimed
48. 1:16"free spirits" who just spend money,
49. 1:17acting like they’re enjoying life.
50. 1:18They’re selfish, acting like "this is
51. 1:20just who I am," spending money on
52. 1:21things like Hawaii trips and wearing
53. 1:22expensive accessories, saying, "I
54. 1:23earned this money myself." And even if
55. 1:25it’s not some kind of sugar daddy
56. 1:26situation, it’s still like that. They
57. 1:27keep saying "I’m free, I’m free,"
58. 1:29and while living freely is fine as a
59. 1:31form of self-expression, it just looks
60. 1:32like they’re wasting money, and you
61. 1:34start to think, "So you're a 'free
62. 1:36spirit,' huh?" Accept me just the way I
63. 1:38am. But then you get so many people who
64. 1:40, once accepted, only make moves that
65. 1:42cost money. Like, "Let's go here," or "
66. 1:44Let's head to a tropical island," or "
67. 1:46Let's take a beauty trip to Korea." I
68. 1:49mean, those money-draining suggestions
69. 1:51...they're financially exhausting. I
70. 1:53have to reject those. There's one more
71. 1:55area where getting tired is a bad sign.
72. 1:57Your brain. "Brain fatigue" is when
73. 1:58they never make suggestions or their
74. 2:00messages are super short.
75. 2:01That kind of lazy communication from a
76. 2:03girl is just draining. I guess you’ve
77. 2:05been getting hit on by lots of playboys
78. 2:07with ulterior motives, huh. Wait, even
79. 2:13if you send a proper message, wait, lol
80. 2:15, I'm dying, lol.
81. 2:16Seriously, use your head! The people
82. 2:20who drain a man’s brain are the ones
83. 2:22who dump the entire mental load—like
84. 2:24making suggestions or giving proper
85. 2:26reactions—onto the guy. Use your head
86. 2:30and reply with actual sentences. Wait,
87. 2:32that’s hilarious, I’ve never heard
88. 2:33that before. How about this? If you use
89. 2:35your head, anyone should be able to
90. 2:37write a proper sentence. It's like
91. 2:38starting from scratch. Wait a second.
92. 2:40If you don't laugh, you can't do
93. 2:41anything. If you hand off the role of
94. 2:42thinking to the other person entirely,
95. 2:43it becomes a burden. The other person
96. 2:45will definitely be exhausted; it’s
97. 2:46mentally draining. Yeah.