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1. 0:00Appa, I love him.
2. 0:02We both want to get married.
3. 0:04Please give us your blessings.
4. 0:07>> What does he do?
5. 0:09>> Uncle, I work at a mobile shop. My
6. 0:11salary isn't much,
7. 0:13but we love each other very much.
8. 0:16>> And you think love alone will be enough
9. 0:18to run a family?
10. 0:19>> We don't need a luxurious life, Appa.
11. 0:22We'll work hard and build our life
12. 0:24together.
13. 0:25>> You're saying that because you're in
14. 0:27love today.
15. 0:28But I know how I've brought you up.
16. 0:31You've never had to worry about money
17. 0:32that much.
18. 0:34Do you really think you can suddenly
19. 0:36live without all that?
20. 0:39>> I understand, Uncle.
21. 0:41I may not have much money now,
22. 0:43but I'll take care of her.
23. 0:45>> That's what worries me.
24. 0:46You don't match us in financial
25. 0:48background. You don't match us in
26. 0:50education, either.
27. 0:52And more importantly, our family has
28. 0:54been brought up differently.
29. 0:57>> What do you mean, Appa?
30. 0:59>> In our family, a man doesn't come home
31. 1:01shouting at his wife, abusing her with
32. 1:03words, fighting aggressively, or raising
33. 1:05his hand on her.
34. 1:08When life becomes difficult, how you
35. 1:10behave with the person beside you
36. 1:11matters more than how much you say you
37. 1:13love her.
38. 1:14So, tell me honestly,
39. 1:16what is your plan for your future?
40. 1:18>> We will somehow manage the rest of the
41. 1:19things.
42. 1:20>> Somehow?
43. 1:22That's your plan?
44. 1:24>> Yes, Uncle. We'll figure everything out
45. 1:26together.
46. 1:27Please, Uncle.
47. 1:29>> No.
48. 1:30This will never happen.
49. 1:32>> Maybe this society will never understand
50. 1:34true love.
51. 1:36And I'll never leave you.
52. 1:38>> Whatever happens, I'll stay with you.
53. 1:45>> If you're both ready to leave your fate
54. 1:47to God,
55. 1:50I agree to this marriage.
56. 1:52But under three conditions.
57. 1:54>> Three conditions?
58. 1:56>> What conditions, Appa?
59. 1:58>> First,
60. 1:59you will live as tenants in the house
61. 2:01next to ours.
62. 2:03You will pay the rent properly every
63. 2:05month.
64. 2:06Second, from this day forward, you will
65. 2:08not ask either of your parents for
66. 2:10financial help.
67. 2:14Whatever problem comes into your life,
68. 2:16you must face it yourselves and find
69. 2:18your own solution.
70. 2:20And third,
71. 2:21whatever happens in life, you will never
72. 2:23choose a bad or illegal way to earn
73. 2:25money.
74. 2:27>> We agree, Uncle.
75. 2:29>> Yes, Appa. We agree.
76. 2:32We understand, Appa. We'll handle
77. 2:34everything ourselves.
78. 2:37>> You have my blessing.
79. 2:40>> Thank you, Appa.
80. 2:48Look at this hall. Shall we book this
81. 2:51one? And they have a 15-item menu with
82. 2:53three different sweets.
83. 2:57>> Our daughter doesn't need a luxurious
84. 2:58life, right? Then why does she need a
85. 3:00luxurious wedding?
86. 3:06>> [bell]
87. 3:18>> Papa,
88. 3:27please forgive them and help them a
89. 3:29little.
90. 3:36>> Her decision to marry for love was never
91. 3:37my problem. Her choice of the person
92. 3:39was.
93. 3:45This generation doesn't always learn
94. 3:46from advice.
95. 3:48They learn from [music] experience.
96. 3:51>> Mhm.
97. 3:55>> So, let them experience it.
98. 3:59Only then will they understand what we
99. 4:00were trying to teach them.
100. 4:09What happened?
101. 4:09>> This bed is so rough. Let me use the
102. 4:11bathroom.
103. 4:17Huh?
104. 4:18>> [screaming]
105. 4:19>> Vijay!
106. 4:22This bathroom is so dirty. Vijay, we
107. 4:25always had a maid at home. I've never
108. 4:27had to do any of this before.
109. 4:29How am I supposed to use this?
110. 4:32>> I'll do it. I'll do it. Don't worry.
111. 4:46Bye.
112. 4:47>> Bye.
113. 4:58Vijay, my college friends called me for
114. 5:01dinner tomorrow. They want me to join
115. 5:03them.
116. 5:04>> Anu, my entire salary is going toward
117. 5:06the rent, electricity, and water bills.
118. 5:08They don't usually go to ordinary
119. 5:09restaurants.
120. 5:11And I really can't afford it right now.
121. 5:15>> Okay, I won't go.
122. 5:23>> Your marks aren't consistent.
123. 5:26>> Why did you discontinue your degree last
124. 5:28year?
125. 5:31>> You had backlogs.
126. 5:32Why didn't you clear them?
127. 5:35And now you're married? After dropping
128. 5:37out of college?
129. 5:41We'll get back to you.
130. 6:03>> [laughter]
131. 6:10>> Vijay, did you get your salary? Please,
132. 6:12can we buy a soft bed first? I'm not
133. 6:14sleeping properly.
134. 6:15>> Anu, I just came home and the first
135. 6:18thing you're asking about is spending
136. 6:19money.
137. 6:21>> Vijay, I'm not used to all this.
138. 6:22Dusting, mopping, washing utensils. I
139. 6:24can't sleep properly and I don't even
140. 6:25know how to cook. We don't even have a
141. 6:27sofa or study table.
142. 6:28>> Enough, Anu. You knew I was poor. You
143. 6:31said you were ready to adjust.
144. 6:33>> I thought I could manage, Vijay, but
145. 6:35this is too difficult. Can't we buy
146. 6:36these things on EMI?
147. 6:38>> EMI? I'm the only one earning. What
148. 6:41happened to your interviews?
149. 6:42>> They rejected me. I need to clear my
150. 6:45backlogs first.
151. 6:47>> Then how am I supposed to pay all these
152. 6:48EMIs with my salary alone?
153. 6:50>> Why are you shouting at me?
154. 6:52You're already tired of me after just 1
155. 6:55month?
156. 6:57>> I can't change everything [music] in 1
157. 6:58month. Even your father took years to
158. 7:00build his house and business.
159. 7:03>> Then why did you marry me if you knew
160. 7:05you couldn't give me even a basic life?
161. 7:09>> So, this is what you think of me? You
162. 7:11girls are always after money and
163. 7:13comfort.
164. 7:14>> I'm after money? If I wanted money, I
165. 7:17would have married the rich man my
166. 7:18father chose for me, not a beggar like
167. 7:21you.
168. 7:26>> I'm sorry. I'm so sorry, Anu.
169. 7:29In our family, a man doesn't come home
170. 7:32shouting at his wife, abusing her with
171. 7:34words, fighting aggressively, or raising
172. 7:36his hand on her.
173. 7:38>> My father was right. He was right.
174. 7:42He said you and I could never match.
175. 7:45Our culture,
176. 7:47our values, our standards.
177. 7:52>> Anu, please stop.
178. 8:01>> Papa,
179. 8:03I'm sorry.
180. 8:05I made a mistake. I should have listened
181. 8:07to you.
182. 8:10>> Anu, it's too late to realize that now.
183. 8:14Uncle,
184. 8:15your decision didn't ruin only your
185. 8:17life, Anu.
186. 8:19You put the same burden on him.
187. 8:21Now he is struggling to carry everything
188. 8:23[music] everything alone.
189. 8:25>> Papa
190. 8:27>> I could have stopped this marriage
191. 8:28[music] that day,
192. 8:30but I thought you needed to learn about
193. 8:32family,
194. 8:33values, and responsibility for yourself.
195. 8:38I made my mistake by agreeing to this
196. 8:39marriage.
197. 8:41Now you have made your choice. Whether
198. 8:42you like it or not, you must face its
199. 8:44consequences.
200. 8:45Go back, Anu.
201. 8:46Face what you chose. Learn from it and
202. 8:49build your life again.
203. 8:55>> I'm sorry, Vijay.
204. 8:59>> We truly love each other, Anu. So,
205. 9:01whatever comes, we'll face it together.
206. 9:15>> [music]
207. 9:25[gasps]
208. 9:29[laughter]
209. 9:31[music]
210. 9:50[laughter]
211. 9:54>> VJ,
212. 9:54>> [music]
213. 9:54>> I got first class.
214. 9:57>> I believe my skills match your needs.
215. 10:00>> You are selected.
216. 10:02This living area is quite spacious.
217. 10:04Let's look at the kitchen.
218. 10:21I'm sorry, Anu. I was hard on you.
219. 10:24>> If you had helped us, Appa,
220. 10:26we would never have learned to work this
221. 10:27hard.
222. 10:29Thank you for teaching us this life
223. 10:30lesson.
224. 10:32Thank you.
225. 10:48Papa,
226. 10:51Papa, this is Karthik.
227. 10:53We love each other
228. 10:55and we want to be together.
229. 11:00>> What did you study, Karthik? What do you
230. 11:02do for a living?
231. 11:04>> I studied till plus two, uncle.
232. 11:06I'm an auto driver.
233. 11:16>> I don't want my daughter to suffer like
234. 11:17we did.
235. 11:20So,
236. 11:21no.