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Twos and Threes - The Heart of Group Life — Transcript

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  1. 0:06Well uh dear saints, we have been on
  2. 0:09this series uh of the vital groups and
  3. 0:13uh according to our record
  4. 0:18um
  5. 0:20well in this series there are I have uh
  6. 0:23I call it the lessons on on on uh not
  7. 0:27the vital groups but small groups.
  8. 0:29Excuse me.
  9. 0:31Um the lessons on the small groups um
  10. 0:34they are all together I believe
  11. 0:38uh nine maybe nine uh outlines or
  12. 0:42lessons
  13. 0:44and uh [clears throat]
  14. 0:47um but those of you who have been
  15. 0:50following this talk uh realize that um
  16. 0:56I have not stuck to uh the outlines uh
  17. 1:00nor even the sequence of these lessons
  18. 1:04uh in my talk but more um speaking in a
  19. 1:09in a more free way uh according to um
  20. 1:14the hinderbird.
  21. 1:16So right now really uh this series is
  22. 1:20kind of a little bit messed up or messy.
  23. 1:24uh even I don't know where we are of of
  24. 1:27course I I have some realization
  25. 1:31um for example
  26. 1:34um last time I was going to
  27. 1:38in I intended to cover lesson three
  28. 1:41uh I think so yes
  29. 1:45um which is on the living needed for a
  30. 1:51group life um And it is a very very good
  31. 1:56um lesson. I can I can tell you that it
  32. 2:00is based on brother Lee's
  33. 2:05uh speaking in Anaheim to
  34. 2:11uh the Chinese speaking saints
  35. 2:14when uh the Chinese speaking work had
  36. 2:19just begun. uh not long before that. I'm
  37. 2:23talking about in the early 1980s
  38. 2:29and um he was burdened for this group
  39. 2:32because that's what he was starting to
  40. 2:35do uh to recover this practice uh there
  41. 2:41in Taiwan. He had just gone back to
  42. 2:44Taiwan and that is was his first primary
  43. 2:49burden in the way of practice. So when
  44. 2:53he came back here uh he spoke on that
  45. 2:57and particularly to the Chinese speaking
  46. 2:59saints and by that time I was helping in
  47. 3:03that work. So I was there and uh almost
  48. 3:08of that series of messages I forgot
  49. 3:12every one of them except this one that
  50. 3:15is on the living needed for a for the
  51. 3:20small groups or in my words for the
  52. 3:23group life or the group
  53. 3:27um living.
  54. 3:30And uh so it is a very marvelous thing.
  55. 3:35It uh does not speak about how to do
  56. 3:39[clears throat] this or that in a small
  57. 3:41group. It talks mainly about we have to
  58. 3:45live a certain kind of life. Um to have
  59. 3:50the prevailing u uh effective effectual
  60. 3:57um um small groups. Um
  61. 4:02and uh that living simply is a living a
  62. 4:07life
  63. 4:08um filled with the spirit.
  64. 4:12um [clears throat]
  65. 4:13walking in the spirit. Um living by the
  66. 4:18spirit. Um a life of calling on the name
  67. 4:23of the Lord. A life of
  68. 4:26um singing, a life of praise,
  69. 4:31um a light life of thanksgiving,
  70. 4:35uh filled with the exercise of the
  71. 4:38spirit.
  72. 4:40um and joy
  73. 4:43um uh an uplifted life
  74. 4:48um
  75. 4:49uh I remember there's a famous spiritual
  76. 4:53book by this lady uh Mrs. I think
  77. 4:57Macdonald
  78. 4:59uh the book name is uh something like
  79. 5:03how to have a happy Christian life. It's
  80. 5:06a very spiritual book. Um
  81. 5:10but clearly we are talking about a vital
  82. 5:14life, a vital living of a believer.
  83. 5:18So when you are this way then when you
  84. 5:23uh join with others in a within the
  85. 5:26groups and you are in a group meeting
  86. 5:30spontaneously
  87. 5:31and he kept using this word you'll be a
  88. 5:34bubbling person you you just bubble you
  89. 5:38just bubble up and I I I cannot forget
  90. 5:41that that word brotherly use
  91. 5:45um you you are you are ex in an
  92. 5:49excitable state. Um um uh somewhere he
  93. 5:55said that
  94. 5:58man our spirit is the most excitable
  95. 6:01part of our whole being.
  96. 6:04uh filled with enthusiasm,
  97. 6:07filled with [snorts] uh life
  98. 6:11uh so living, so um so um uh vital
  99. 6:19um and then uh you will um speak forth
  100. 6:25whatever is uh in your heart uh you
  101. 6:29overflow. Bubble means to overflow.
  102. 6:33what you have within you um of the
  103. 6:37spirit of life uh and of course of the
  104. 6:41word of your enjoyment of Christ etc. Um
  105. 6:46he said that kind of meeting is not
  106. 6:49religious uh it is not programmed it is
  107. 6:52not um
  108. 6:55uh formal but just filled with the
  109. 7:00spirit that kind of meeting uh it's
  110. 7:03attractive
  111. 7:05uh and uh it exhibits Christ and what um
  112. 7:12and and so on. So um
  113. 7:17I came away just suddenly impressed that
  114. 7:21whatever practice in this case the small
  115. 7:24group practice
  116. 7:26um
  117. 7:28and later on some years later when he
  118. 7:31started the
  119. 7:33vital group training same thing same
  120. 7:37thing maybe
  121. 7:39spoken a little differently but in
  122. 7:42principle the same that is he said a
  123. 7:45vital group starts with uh one person
  124. 7:50one person
  125. 7:52uh who is just uh vital right and
  126. 7:58burdened
  127. 7:59for the increase of the church the
  128. 8:04increase of the Lord's recovery
  129. 8:08um [clears throat]
  130. 8:10through his uh this person's
  131. 8:13um confession of sins and dealing with
  132. 8:16the Lord
  133. 8:17um
  134. 8:19and [clears throat]
  135. 8:20uh uh becoming vitalized
  136. 8:24and he would go and vitalize another
  137. 8:26one, right? And then there will be two
  138. 8:30and there will be three something like
  139. 8:32that and so the principle was the same.
  140. 8:38Um yes, brother Lee uh at the same time
  141. 8:43was um have certain suggestions in
  142. 8:46fellowship there in Taiwan and here uh
  143. 8:50on the small group meetings as such
  144. 8:55um
  145. 8:56what content? [clears throat] Well, in
  146. 8:59these in my small group outlines
  147. 9:03uh lessons
  148. 9:05uh
  149. 9:08[clears throat]
  150. 9:09um
  151. 9:12am I correct uh Dustin? Uh uh the two
  152. 9:16backto back outlines on um on on that on
  153. 9:22the content. The content
  154. 9:25uh
  155. 9:27am I am I recalling properly? The
  156. 9:30content is what? Uh
  157. 9:33>> yeah, I think there's two on content.
  158. 9:35>> Yeah. Yeah. But what what what number is
  159. 9:38that? Uh let me see here. I have it
  160. 9:41right here with me. Um actually the
  161. 9:46content uh the content of the small
  162. 9:49group uh living
  163. 9:51>> three and four I think rather
  164. 9:52>> yeah that's right I'm correct three and
  165. 9:55four about uh perfecting one another
  166. 9:58through uh mutual teaching
  167. 10:02um and uh mutual exhortation
  168. 10:06uh very much uh um using Hebrews chapter
  169. 10:1010 of us not um abandoning our own
  170. 10:16meeting, our own meeting, meaning the
  171. 10:18small group meeting um and so on and
  172. 10:22then u uh
  173. 10:27some something like that and uh uh he
  174. 10:32even um uh suggest
  175. 10:36uh no I I think this should be I'm I got
  176. 10:40enough six and seven other on the
  177. 10:43contents of this Mark group meeting.
  178. 10:47Um
  179. 10:49um
  180. 10:51um again underscoring
  181. 10:54that this should be a kind of Christian
  182. 10:58meeting that is full of singing and
  183. 11:01speaking to one another. He always used
  184. 11:04Ephesians 5 uh filled in spirit speaking
  185. 11:08and you know to one another. Um and then
  186. 11:12Colossians 3 the sister verse being um
  187. 11:17inhabited by the word and also u uh
  188. 11:22singing
  189. 11:24u uh with grace and and so forth. So um
  190. 11:31the idea is that we are filled with the
  191. 11:34spirit. We are full of the word and when
  192. 11:38we come together we just practice in the
  193. 11:41group meeting uh to speak just to speak
  194. 11:45by faith. Uh of course he used 2
  195. 11:48Corinthians 4:13.
  196. 11:51I believe therefore I speak [snorts] uh
  197. 11:55by faith. um very much uh encouraging
  198. 12:00our uh speaking. And then uh the other
  199. 12:05uh lesson lesson seven on the contents
  200. 12:10uh he got into the matter of u uh that
  201. 12:13these content has to be the word of God.
  202. 12:18I have my small group meeting in my home
  203. 12:22for for the decades decades and can
  204. 12:27absolutely uh
  205. 12:30um testify to this. When um a meeting is
  206. 12:37without or short of the word that
  207. 12:40meeting is empty that meeting is even
  208. 12:43vain.
  209. 12:45um but uh how to use the word
  210. 12:49skillfully, appropriately and all of
  211. 12:52that is a matter of learning. So he
  212. 12:55suggested
  213. 12:56uh uh using the life study. This is way
  214. 12:59back way back using the life study
  215. 13:03messages uh because it is um so rich and
  216. 13:08so so ready. Um um uh and then later on
  217. 13:15he would uh for a period of time he
  218. 13:19started to prepare these uh truth
  219. 13:22lessons called it's still you can still
  220. 13:25buy that uh to use the truth lessons as
  221. 13:29content. Um the point being that um um
  222. 13:35that um um that there's an abundance of
  223. 13:39material
  224. 13:41uh for us. We have no no shortage at
  225. 13:44all. Um it really depends on the need.
  226. 13:50It depends on how we are skillful to use
  227. 13:53these things um these material to meet
  228. 13:57the need. Um but he always come back uh
  229. 14:02and then the
  230. 14:05he comes back to uh the point that um uh
  231. 14:10in any event our meeting should be uh
  232. 14:14liberated uh from u um formalities
  233. 14:20formality
  234. 14:22from um um religion
  235. 14:26uh from anything traditional know and uh
  236. 14:30and from death
  237. 14:32there's a dead meeting uh of uh of
  238. 14:36believers.
  239. 14:38Um
  240. 14:39uh it should be spontaneous.
  241. 14:42Um it should be led by the spirit. Um it
  242. 14:46should be free. It should give
  243. 14:49[clears throat] much opportunity to
  244. 14:50every saint. Um um to in a mutual way,
  245. 14:57caring for one another way. Um um you
  246. 15:03know uh how we can start with just you
  247. 15:08know caring for one another, shephering
  248. 15:11one another, praying for one another,
  249. 15:14and then we can get into something in
  250. 15:16the word. Um uh uh then there could be
  251. 15:21spont spontaneous prayer um uh and
  252. 15:26someone can share a testimony. No one
  253. 15:28should share too long of um just for a
  254. 15:32couple of minutes. It's almost like a
  255. 15:35prophesying meeting that he later on
  256. 15:39promoted but in a much more relaxed
  257. 15:42setting right in a in a home.
  258. 15:45Um [clears throat]
  259. 15:47he said there's no need for pastor or
  260. 15:50leader, no need, no sermons, no long
  261. 15:54sharings, but you do need some that can
  262. 15:57guide the meeting. Uh you know, like a
  263. 16:01rudder in a in a boat. Um and um um this
  264. 16:07includes really um uh um
  265. 16:13teaching one another. Uh exhorting one
  266. 16:16another, mutuality is is is uh is the
  267. 16:21key. You talk about playing basketball,
  268. 16:24you know, we pass the ball and you know,
  269. 16:27all would in a coordinate way. And we
  270. 16:30all know this uh brothers and uh sisters
  271. 16:35that when in any of our meetings not
  272. 16:38just in our group meeting when there is
  273. 16:40this kind of practice that meeting is
  274. 16:43living
  275. 16:45that meeting it's the mark um
  276. 16:48[clears throat] that meeting leave a
  277. 16:50would leave a a sweet taste um uh in in
  278. 16:56in in our mouth. And so um um so he
  279. 17:02charges um saints if we mean business we
  280. 17:06need to uh ourselves know the word. We
  281. 17:10need to be those who read the Bible. Am
  282. 17:12I right? Um um u uh
  283. 17:18um along with us living a u vital life.
  284. 17:25So, so I mean in a nutshell, uh that's
  285. 17:28it in a nutshell. Um
  286. 17:32uh I am very always very um careful uh
  287. 17:37in not telling people what to you, what
  288. 17:40books to use, what material to use
  289. 17:43because immediately it uh it restricts,
  290. 17:48it constrains
  291. 17:50um um and so different groups do
  292. 17:54different things. marvelous
  293. 17:57uh according to their situation.
  294. 18:00Some with a lot of new ones, right? Some
  295. 18:03are even always full of unbelievers,
  296. 18:07friends. So the gospel, the word of the
  297. 18:11gospel has to be there. Um
  298. 18:14um u some with new believers. So a lot
  299. 18:18of kind of a new believers fellowship is
  300. 18:22needed. Uh some others may be uh uh not
  301. 18:27that way though they can get into
  302. 18:30something more.
  303. 18:32Uh but on that uh uh note uh in these
  304. 18:38days I really really uh
  305. 18:43[snorts] um because of the burden to
  306. 18:46distribute the Bible the the recovery
  307. 18:48version um that uh this recovery version
  308. 18:54that we have which by the way is a um a
  309. 18:58um a brided version if you
  310. 19:02of the life studies. Yeah, the footnotes
  311. 19:05are mostly clean from the live studies.
  312. 19:09This morning I was reading uh Galatians
  313. 19:12uh chapter 3 and my goodness those
  314. 19:16footnotes are so long uh and so rich and
  315. 19:21almost all from the life gleaned from
  316. 19:26uh um curated uh you know from the live
  317. 19:30studies. They are just the the um you
  318. 19:35can say it's a crystallization not
  319. 19:36crystallization it's a condensation huh
  320. 19:39of of the lifesties
  321. 19:43this recovery version
  322. 19:45and uh um it would be quite easy uh to
  323. 19:51just u um either in a book by book way
  324. 19:56or chapter by chapter way or uh in a um
  325. 20:01subject topical way either way. Um in in
  326. 20:06our uh group time
  327. 20:10um um
  328. 20:14um no need to uh you know let's read uh
  329. 20:20[clears throat] page this to page this
  330. 20:22in a life study. Um um I'm not saying
  331. 20:25that's wrong but I am suggesting that we
  332. 20:29could um just have the recovery version
  333. 20:34and use a particular footnote
  334. 20:37uh you know when you I think in I don't
  335. 20:40know today included in the recovery
  336. 20:43version that we freely give to people
  337. 20:46whether there is a topical directory or
  338. 20:49not. We used to have that BFA topical
  339. 20:53direct. So let's say you want to touch
  340. 20:55the matter of the blood of Christ. It's
  341. 20:58there. All the salient footnotes are are
  342. 21:01there or you want to cover
  343. 21:05baptism. It's all there. Uh the best uh
  344. 21:09uh footnotes on on baptism which is a
  345. 21:14big and important subject especially for
  346. 21:17new believers. This is all there. Um I
  347. 21:21just came back from last week uh from uh
  348. 21:25Austin, Texas and um uh was there and of
  349. 21:29course um uh Professor Kent Diller, you
  350. 21:33you probably know that brother pro he's
  351. 21:36retired
  352. 21:38um but wonderfully uh the school allows
  353. 21:42him to teach a course uh um probably
  354. 21:47some kind of elective or something. And
  355. 21:50that course is uh he only used the
  356. 21:55recovery version and you have to get a
  357. 21:58recovery version to study that class.
  358. 22:03And um um and he talks about all kinds
  359. 22:07of things. Basically, it's a bi Bible
  360. 22:10study. And that class is so popular,
  361. 22:14it's noted by the university
  362. 22:16uh as a very uh um recommended uh class.
  363. 22:23And then uh he gave me uh just a just
  364. 22:28something he he worked on himself. Uh uh
  365. 22:32a kind of a topical some of the more um
  366. 22:37uh uh appropriate uh subjects or topics
  367. 22:42uh in that class for these college kids,
  368. 22:45right?
  369. 22:47um with with the the best footnotes that
  370. 22:51he found on on any particular topic. I
  371. 22:55mean, my goodness, I wish I can be such
  372. 22:58a professor. Um I think I can do it. Um
  373. 23:03um even though I don't have a PhD, um um
  374. 23:10I can say I have a PhD in in the Bible.
  375. 23:13I can say that to some some degree uh uh
  376. 23:18of uh of u um accuracy. Um um he did
  377. 23:26that and he was serious about it. You
  378. 23:28know, he's a scientist and um um um he
  379. 23:32he really gets into it. uh marvelous and
  380. 23:35and and so we we I don't mean we all
  381. 23:38have to be like him but uh the love for
  382. 23:42the word and and the the the the trust
  383. 23:46in this recovery version and very
  384. 23:49skillfully
  385. 23:50skillfully using the recovery version in
  386. 23:54his particular situation which is a
  387. 23:57class right uh he did his job and did it
  388. 24:01um an outstanding Hey. Um
  389. 24:06um so any anyway uh we cannot get away
  390. 24:09from the word and um um but how to
  391. 24:15acquire the skill to to do that. Um um I
  392. 24:21would uh here also add one thing about
  393. 24:24the group meetings and that is don't let
  394. 24:28it be long.
  395. 24:30You know, we in the recovery are used to
  396. 24:32length, okay? Everything is long and
  397. 24:37we're so used to it, we can sit in a
  398. 24:39meeting for two hours and not complain.
  399. 24:42Um um and um
  400. 24:47most people are not like that.
  401. 24:50Okay. Um and um new ones are not like
  402. 24:55that. So we need to have this kind of
  403. 24:59time not for a long time and get into
  404. 25:02complicated things and discourse these
  405. 25:05matters. There's another time for that.
  406. 25:07But for this kind of a time uh we don't
  407. 25:10need that. Um um but we can all say
  408. 25:15something rich. We can all say something
  409. 25:18with light. Uh we can all say something
  410. 25:21that bring forth life and truth in a
  411. 25:25simple way. Um in a clear way uh if we
  412. 25:31know the word, if we uh have the burden,
  413. 25:34if we prepare ourselves
  414. 25:37um that would just um um um feed uh that
  415. 25:43would uh nourish, that would enlighten.
  416. 25:46And brotherly even talk very much in the
  417. 25:49situation about using qua
  418. 25:53in a group setting
  419. 25:55and I also practice that and it works.
  420. 25:59Once you pose a question to the group
  421. 26:02everyone start considering and you know
  422. 26:04getting engaged
  423. 26:07and some would provide some
  424. 26:10foolish answer. That's okay. That's
  425. 26:13okay. They're young. they don't know
  426. 26:14what what they're talking. Uh but it
  427. 26:18gets everyone involved when you have
  428. 26:21this mutual Q&A.
  429. 26:24Um
  430. 26:25um so so uh uh right there are these uh
  431. 26:32three three uh outlines
  432. 26:36on on both the living and also the um
  433. 26:40the um content.
  434. 26:43Um but as you can see dear ones uh at
  435. 26:48the end of the day that there's no
  436. 26:51manual for small groups. Uh
  437. 26:56there's no instruction booklet.
  438. 26:59It comes back to how how living we are,
  439. 27:03how vital we are. Um how much we are
  440. 27:08full of the spirit and how much we are a
  441. 27:10bubbling person. uh and also uh that is
  442. 27:14Ephesians 5 and also how much we are a
  443. 27:18person that is uh uh uh in the word
  444. 27:23loves the word and inhabited by the
  445. 27:26word. Um and and out of that infilling
  446. 27:32of the spirit and out of that inhabiting
  447. 27:36uh of the word you overflow, right? you
  448. 27:40overflow
  449. 27:42um um with speaking uh um songs um um
  450. 27:50uh the scriptures
  451. 27:53um and and and so on. Um [clears throat]
  452. 27:57and and through by doing this we
  453. 27:59minister life, we um um
  454. 28:05um uh minister the truth. Um we uh feed
  455. 28:11people uh we enlighten people
  456. 28:16um and
  457. 28:19such is a a
  458. 28:22um good group meeting. So um uh
  459. 28:30um you know there it is. Now uh
  460. 28:36um I I just want to um uh really suggest
  461. 28:42that we learn to use the recovery
  462. 28:45version more.
  463. 28:47I do uh suggest that and particularly
  464. 28:50the
  465. 28:51you know just just use the uh the small
  466. 28:54re uh the new testament you know that
  467. 28:56that's where wherever
  468. 28:59this is it you know the big bible it's a
  469. 29:02little intimidating and not everyone has
  470. 29:04it but this one uh you can you can get
  471. 29:07one free right or a new one can and uh
  472. 29:12why not just just use this uh it's all
  473. 29:15there Um but but but you need to study
  474. 29:20that. Um
  475. 29:22um
  476. 29:25okay. Um there many aspects to the small
  477. 29:28groups and um um
  478. 29:32um that we have not particularly cover.
  479. 29:35Maybe I said something for example about
  480. 29:38the uh small group how small group
  481. 29:41should multiply. I think I cover said
  482. 29:45something about that that a small group
  483. 29:48should not be static. Do you know what I
  484. 29:50mean? There's no such thing as a forever
  485. 29:53small group.
  486. 29:56Okay. Even the church, the local church
  487. 29:59is not static. Uh people move in, people
  488. 30:02move out, conditions
  489. 30:06uh fluctuate and uh environment changes.
  490. 30:10uh [clears throat]
  491. 30:11don't have this idea of this static shot
  492. 30:17of a ideal church or an ideal group.
  493. 30:21Your group would be good today. Tomorrow
  494. 30:23it won't be so good. But that's not the
  495. 30:26end of the group. This is just life.
  496. 30:28This is how things. This is the group is
  497. 30:31something uh that is fluid. The group is
  498. 30:34something that is uh that changes. Even
  499. 30:38a family
  500. 30:40a family um not exactly but you know the
  501. 30:45condition changes and people grow people
  502. 30:47move out of the house and you know uh
  503. 30:51then the then there's a empty nesters
  504. 30:54then then this that so um um
  505. 31:00uh the practice uh
  506. 31:04uh not to um uh have this static
  507. 31:09beautiful group uh for 30 years the same
  508. 31:12people together that that will be I I
  509. 31:15don't think that will happen and if that
  510. 31:18happens I'm not I'm not so sure that
  511. 31:21that group has reached his goal
  512. 31:24um
  513. 31:26you know every year the group or even
  514. 31:29more than uh should evaluate new members
  515. 31:32would come some would move out some
  516. 31:35would start their new group multiply
  517. 31:39um and and um and I don't mean we play
  518. 31:43musical chairs and and do something in a
  519. 31:46according to a calendar but I mean in a
  520. 31:50very very it's an organic thing it's an
  521. 31:53organic thing um um and who will bear
  522. 31:58the main burden um u to coordinate
  523. 32:02um we should always raise up new ones to
  524. 32:06bear the burden in the group. Um you
  525. 32:10know um
  526. 32:13um and that the group should always
  527. 32:17fulfill two things.
  528. 32:20Um
  529. 32:22uh number one it is to bear fruit.
  530. 32:27Bear fruit. Uh a group that does not
  531. 32:30bear fruit is
  532. 32:32static. is a
  533. 32:36stagnated group.
  534. 32:38Uh it's a family without children. No,
  535. 32:42the group should uh should bear fruit.
  536. 32:46Um uh
  537. 32:49uh number two, the the group uh I I mean
  538. 32:53by by that I mean to save sinners. I
  539. 32:56mean to bring people on in the Lord and
  540. 33:00also even to bring people into the
  541. 33:02church life. Right. [snorts] And then um
  542. 33:07a group uh
  543. 33:10actually even before that I should say
  544. 33:12this a group should be a place that
  545. 33:15recovers people re uh restores people. I
  546. 33:19think I talk about that uh restoring the
  547. 33:22backsliden saints the um um um dormant
  548. 33:28ones. Um
  549. 33:31surely there are so many like uh uh
  550. 33:34group is a hospital right? Um
  551. 33:38[clears throat]
  552. 33:38um to um heal to uh uh uphold
  553. 33:45uh even it's a place for some to
  554. 33:50conileles
  555. 33:52to be recovered.
  556. 33:54How how sweet that is. Um and needless
  557. 33:58to say that the the group is a place
  558. 34:01where we uh feed the young
  559. 34:05uh shepherd the young and this is like
  560. 34:11a huge big part um um from new believers
  561. 34:16to even uh more grown believers that
  562. 34:20needs uh shephering and all these are
  563. 34:24done in a very mutual way.
  564. 34:28Um um [snorts] when we have this kind of
  565. 34:33group life in reality as I'm u I'm um
  566. 34:41um saying here brothers that's 80%.
  567. 34:45That's the 80%
  568. 34:47church life. You you can see that can
  569. 34:50you you go to the uh meet big meetings
  570. 34:54of the church um you can we can only do
  571. 34:58that much. It has its important
  572. 35:02purposes.
  573. 35:03Um [clears throat] but all the the
  574. 35:07really really the the bulk of the church
  575. 35:10life really take place in these smaller
  576. 35:13numbers. And of course, just to remind
  577. 35:16you, we're not just talking about the
  578. 35:19group meetings. We're talking about the
  579. 35:22group, the people, the the weekly life
  580. 35:27of a group like a family.
  581. 35:31So, um um
  582. 35:34um
  583. 35:40and and um to to just add this uh um I
  584. 35:46am more and more um convinced
  585. 35:50um that um
  586. 35:57of the importance of the twos and
  587. 35:59threes.
  588. 36:00Um
  589. 36:03um this notion of twos and threes really
  590. 36:07uh uh sprang from brother Lee's
  591. 36:11fellowship on the vital groups. But over
  592. 36:15time I have somewhat myself decided not
  593. 36:19to use that term vital group. It's not
  594. 36:22because it's wrong but it because it
  595. 36:25confuses the saints. The saints say what
  596. 36:28is a vital group? What is a small group?
  597. 36:31I have been in this small group. Is it a
  598. 36:34vital group? Do you have these kind of
  599. 36:36questions? Uh eventually
  600. 36:40um um uh sometimes it even divides u u
  601. 36:46and it confuses.
  602. 36:48So over time uh um u in my study and
  603. 36:54experience
  604. 36:55uh I find that um if you look at the
  605. 36:59church as an organic as an organism
  606. 37:03which is has a lot of complex structure
  607. 37:07to every organism
  608. 37:09um um
  609. 37:12um um
  610. 37:16um can be looked at this way and again I
  611. 37:19have shared this before you know the
  612. 37:22starting with one person
  613. 37:25everything with God always starts with
  614. 37:27one person really one person that is
  615. 37:31vital that is
  616. 37:34living
  617. 37:36um and then the next
  618. 37:40you know the next level if you will and
  619. 37:42I'm not talking about a organized
  620. 37:45hierarchy but life this complex
  621. 37:49organism. You do have hierarchies there
  622. 37:53in that sense in an organic sense not in
  623. 37:56a uh human manufactur sense. Um
  624. 38:04you then uh have two or three
  625. 38:08uh I call it companions.
  626. 38:12two or three companions. You know,
  627. 38:15a husband and wife
  628. 38:18is
  629. 38:20should be vital companions. Am I right?
  630. 38:23Um uh right there. Right there you have
  631. 38:27a automatic
  632. 38:29two twos right there. Um and that's uh
  633. 38:35that's wonderful. It should be that way.
  634. 38:38But for you know those who are single
  635. 38:40particularly you know students and and
  636. 38:43and single ones uh they do well to not
  637. 38:48live a isolated individual independent
  638. 38:53u existence in the church life. They
  639. 38:56should be they should have companions.
  640. 38:58So twos and threes in the brother's
  641. 39:00house in the sister's house in whatever
  642. 39:04uh this should be among the teenagers.
  643. 39:07It should be among our young people. It
  644. 39:10should be among the college and and and
  645. 39:12so on. Uh the twos and threes. That's
  646. 39:16your that's your support group.
  647. 39:19That's your pursuit group.
  648. 39:22Uh that's your vital group. Uh the twos
  649. 39:26and the threes. And I have said talked
  650. 39:28too much about that. [clears throat] Um
  651. 39:31uh according to Matthew 18
  652. 39:34um [clears throat]
  653. 39:36um
  654. 39:39both for our um two or three is for our
  655. 39:44uh uh survival for our um um pursuit of
  656. 39:50the Lord um u for our uh experience uh
  657. 39:56in being built up um And at the same
  658. 40:00time this two or three is for function,
  659. 40:05it's for labor. It's for work.
  660. 40:10Uh don't forget the in Matthew 25 the
  661. 40:14[clears throat] there are two
  662. 40:16uh parables related to the kingdom that
  663. 40:20depicts the two sides. One is the life
  664. 40:23side. The other is the what? The work
  665. 40:25side in the kingdom.
  666. 40:29uh that being um the uh um
  667. 40:34virgins, right? And then the uh slaves.
  668. 40:38And so uh our Christian life, our church
  669. 40:42life is always have these two sides. And
  670. 40:45the twos and threes covers both the life
  671. 40:49side um of two and three um coming
  672. 40:53together. Two and three uh pursuing
  673. 40:56together. Uh reading the life study
  674. 40:59together um studying the word together.
  675. 41:03Just pursuing the pursuing together.
  676. 41:09Um this is this is a necessity.
  677. 41:15Um um
  678. 41:18and um and uh but that's the other side,
  679. 41:21the twos and threes to what? to serve
  680. 41:23together, to um um work together, to um
  681. 41:31uh
  682. 41:33uh contact people together, to um uh
  683. 41:37preach the gospel, to to
  684. 41:40um [snorts]
  685. 41:41shepherd uh new ones together. Um
  686. 41:48and so the these twos and threes uh I
  687. 41:53would say in a proper small group in a
  688. 41:57proper small group there should be at
  689. 42:00least one of these two and three if not
  690. 42:02more.
  691. 42:08Um this way the small group is not just
  692. 42:12see you next Friday.
  693. 42:14Yeah. You bring salad, I bring mashed
  694. 42:18potato type thing.
  695. 42:22But it is a weekly uh and not weekly,
  696. 42:24it's a daily affair
  697. 42:26because these these two are taking care
  698. 42:29of those two new ones and these uh three
  699. 42:32are taking care of that one during the
  700. 42:35week. Uh and they they they they pray
  701. 42:40together on Zoom. Uh they uh you know
  702. 42:43what I'm saying? They they meet together
  703. 42:45in the coffee shop. They [clears throat]
  704. 42:47uh needless to say, the husband and
  705. 42:49wife, they're always coordinating to
  706. 42:52care for certain ones. Um
  707. 42:57um and and
  708. 43:01um so the the the small group seizes to
  709. 43:06be just a weekly meeting. That's not all
  710. 43:10the group living. hits every day, house
  711. 43:14to house, day by day.
  712. 43:17Now, um you you now see that in order
  713. 43:22for this to be carried out, uh in order
  714. 43:25for this not to become just a
  715. 43:28a kind of a
  716. 43:34common and and uh traditional and even a
  717. 43:39religious practice in the church, the
  718. 43:42people who are bearing the more burden
  719. 43:46uh in in in in this kind of group life.
  720. 43:49Uh how they really need to be living
  721. 43:52people, huh? Uh consecrated people,
  722. 43:57u um enthusiastic people,
  723. 44:01um and may I say aggressive people. Um
  724. 44:07um
  725. 44:08if not, a so-called small group will
  726. 44:12degenerate and become just a meeting.
  727. 44:15just a meeting and it doesn't grow. It
  728. 44:18doesn't care for people. It's just we
  729. 44:20just meet each other in somebody's home.
  730. 44:24Uh and that is not that does not uh
  731. 44:28reach God's goal.
  732. 44:31Um
  733. 44:34uh
  734. 44:36there there's there's a lot here, but uh
  735. 44:39I would just um say say this much. Um
  736. 44:47now brothers uh and and sisters uh with
  737. 44:51all this talk um so many talks on this
  738. 44:54matter [snorts]
  739. 44:56um I long to see some results.
  740. 45:01I and I have no visibility to that. I'm
  741. 45:04not with you. Um
  742. 45:08um I long to see the results. Um
  743. 45:13um
  744. 45:16um
  745. 45:18you know you know what comes to mind you
  746. 45:20know down here where I am is a very
  747. 45:23famous mega church um called the uh
  748. 45:27Saddleback mega church where where I my
  749. 45:31neck of the woods down in Lake Forest
  750. 45:33here
  751. 45:35and uh started by this very
  752. 45:39um faint name is Pastor Rick Warren. You
  753. 45:43heard Rick Warren, the purpose-driven
  754. 45:46uh series of books. Uh in
  755. 45:49[clears throat] the heyday, I mean, my
  756. 45:51goodness, he I think Jim he was uh even
  757. 45:56called the I don't know America's pastor
  758. 46:00kind of replacing
  759. 46:03what's his name um
  760. 46:06um
  761. 46:08>> Billy Graham. Billy Graham and he would
  762. 46:12do the invocation, he would be
  763. 46:15off the prayer, you know, at at some of
  764. 46:18the inauguration, huh, of of the
  765. 46:21presidents, etc.
  766. 46:23Um
  767. 46:25and but um tragedy struck uh his son
  768. 46:29died
  769. 46:30>> [snorts]
  770. 46:31>> uh I think through some accident uh some
  771. 46:34years back
  772. 46:36and and that was just kind of affected
  773. 46:40him deeply greatly [snorts] and um
  774. 46:45uh now I actually don't know what's
  775. 46:48really going on but little things I
  776. 46:51heard that he's just not the same man
  777. 46:56and [clears throat] uh and not
  778. 47:01carrying on things in the same way. And
  779. 47:04uh I even heard that that church that
  780. 47:08church is kind of not the same, you
  781. 47:12know. And um
  782. 47:16uh you know that church started with
  783. 47:18small groups.
  784. 47:22that church started with
  785. 47:24uh successful practice of small groups
  786. 47:27in their way and um I don't know um the
  787. 47:33their small groups used to even send
  788. 47:35missionaries in their in a group to
  789. 47:38Africa to different third world
  790. 47:41countries to preach the gospel.
  791. 47:44Um and um
  792. 47:49um
  793. 47:52but um
  794. 47:56um it's almost like sticker clo you know
  795. 47:59these things. Now here we are uh you
  796. 48:02know uh in the recovery. Um how should
  797. 48:06we go on brothers and sisters?
  798. 48:10Um
  799. 48:11we have to be always
  800. 48:15um uh in a state of being renewed
  801. 48:21and um not only personally but I would
  802. 48:25say even our church life, our practice
  803. 48:28of the church life uh renewed and not
  804. 48:32get stuck in a uh something old,
  805. 48:36something traditional,
  806. 48:39something really that is not effectual.
  807. 48:42Um
  808. 48:44um just to keep the status quo
  809. 48:48um [clears throat] the Lord you ask me
  810. 48:52how do we do it you know how do we pass
  811. 48:55practice the small group in our locality
  812. 48:57I cannot tell you because I don't know
  813. 49:00your locality
  814. 49:02I would be presumptuous to tell you what
  815. 49:04to do you know but if you are burdened
  816. 49:08that the leading brothers
  817. 49:11uh to lead the saints to help in this
  818. 49:15renewal process to have a new practice a
  819. 49:19renew practice of the small group and
  820. 49:22more elevated practice of the small
  821. 49:24group to meet the Lord's need today.
  822. 49:27[clears throat]
  823. 49:27You you have to study your situation.
  824. 49:32Um you cannot just leave it to uh cruise
  825. 49:36control. uh you have to labor, you have
  826. 49:40to study, you have to do things. I do
  827. 49:43not mean that you arrange everything,
  828. 49:45you control everything, you you you you
  829. 49:48make everything happen. I don't mean
  830. 49:50that. That is another um uh uh pitfall
  831. 49:55that is the leading brothers being too
  832. 49:57controlling uh and not giving the spirit
  833. 50:02the freedom the saints the liberty to
  834. 50:05follow the spirit to be led by the
  835. 50:07spirit to practice these things.
  836. 50:10But the the leading brothers should lead
  837. 50:15the saints. they should always be ready
  838. 50:18to support. Uh they should promote uh
  839. 50:21they should guide uh they should support
  840. 50:25and help. Um and uh and in in this
  841. 50:30matter I would say I have devoted quite
  842. 50:34a number of years to do that. uh to
  843. 50:38build up a group-based church life, the
  844. 50:43the 80% group based church life. But
  845. 50:46after some years, even what is built up
  846. 50:50needs to be renewed, needs to be
  847. 50:53refreshed, need to be uh evaluated,
  848. 50:57needs to be reconsidered.
  849. 51:00And so I ask the saints who are here
  850. 51:03today in this talk that if you are in a
  851. 51:07old group so to speak, I mean a group
  852. 51:11that have been in existence for some
  853. 51:13time and you're burdened for a renewal,
  854. 51:16you should consider this and fellowship
  855. 51:19amongst yourself about this.
  856. 51:22um in fellowship with the leading
  857. 51:25brothers about this um you know uh the
  858. 51:30age of the saints in that group, the
  859. 51:33composition of the saints in that group
  860. 51:36um the the the condition uh of that
  861. 51:42group uh as uh compared to what we are
  862. 51:47talking about now.
  863. 51:49um um
  864. 51:52and so on. Um
  865. 51:55the
  866. 51:58I I I think I have I have uh um um
  867. 52:04spoken enough.
  868. 52:07Um
  869. 52:09another point is the leadership.
  870. 52:12um we need leadership
  871. 52:15uh in anything right but it's the
  872. 52:19understanding of the leadership
  873. 52:22that is important. Uh most people when
  874. 52:25they think leadership they think it in a
  875. 52:28certain way of some leader leading us in
  876. 52:32what we do and so forth.
  877. 52:35Um um
  878. 52:38um
  879. 52:40um in in Christianity they coined the
  880. 52:43term servant leader. Have you heard of
  881. 52:45that servant leader? Um they now even
  882. 52:49use that in in in the corporate business
  883. 52:52um environment. But my point is um I
  884. 52:57like that word in that uh uh you don't
  885. 53:02uh lead up front, you lead from behind.
  886. 53:07Uh you don't lead from a top down way,
  887. 53:09you lead from a bottom up way. Um you
  888. 53:14don't lead in a overt
  889. 53:16common uh commanding way. you lead in a
  890. 53:22uh hidden
  891. 53:23um um uh
  892. 53:27um
  893. 53:28uh in an intrinsic way. So um so
  894. 53:34um
  895. 53:36there should be in small groups no
  896. 53:39pastor right u and and and that kind of
  897. 53:44a thing. um um
  898. 53:48but yet it is not um disorderly or
  899. 53:51chaotic or just kind of free for all.
  900. 53:55the spirit uh how to uh allow the spirit
  901. 53:59to have freedom in our midst. Yet at the
  902. 54:03same time at the same time um
  903. 54:07um [clears throat] there is some human
  904. 54:10guidance by those who are more mature,
  905. 54:13by those who are more um uh uh
  906. 54:17exercised,
  907. 54:19um um by those who have a little bit
  908. 54:22more capability. And that is that is
  909. 54:26proper. That is proper.
  910. 54:29Um, oh, I'm all over the place here in
  911. 54:33the uh on the back to the twos and
  912. 54:36threes. Um, um, brother Lee did speakh
  913. 54:42about the twos and threes in the way of
  914. 54:45the priesthood.
  915. 54:47He talked about two and three priests
  916. 54:52uh in in our practice. Uh now priests uh
  917. 54:58um are the serving ones. The priests are
  918. 55:00the ministers. The priests are the um um
  919. 55:05um
  920. 55:08uh those who lead the worship and so
  921. 55:09forth in the Old Testament. Today we're
  922. 55:12all priests
  923. 55:14um and we are a priesthood in the church
  924. 55:17life and so um
  925. 55:22um this priesthood uh and I noted that
  926. 55:26because it's so so special that um two
  927. 55:32or three priests he said two or three
  928. 55:35priests
  929. 55:37um would serve together. I I find that
  930. 55:40to be a very very lovely um um way of
  931. 55:45putting things
  932. 55:47and
  933. 55:48and and so we need we that's what we
  934. 55:53need today. If in every group there is
  935. 55:58uh such a two and three or
  936. 56:02um several of such two and three that
  937. 56:06group is wellmaintained. that group can
  938. 56:09go on. Um,
  939. 56:14all right. I I uh
  940. 56:17I told the brothers uh before the
  941. 56:20meeting, I said I don't intend to talk
  942. 56:22on the groups now. I spend the whole
  943. 56:23hour talking about the groups. Um
  944. 56:28um
  945. 56:29maybe this is good good for now. But but
  946. 56:33let me leave you still with this part of
  947. 56:35the fellowship, brothers. I'd like to
  948. 56:38see some results.
  949. 56:40I mean, we talk, we talk, we fellowship.
  950. 56:43You say, "Amen."
  951. 56:45And you even pray about this. But what's
  952. 56:48happening? Uh we've been on this for two
  953. 56:51years now. Um intermittently, this
  954. 56:54fellowship. Uh uh is your church life
  955. 56:59being uh being renewed where you are? Um
  956. 57:03with such a group living, group life or
  957. 57:08is it just kind of
  958. 57:11you know these are good talks and
  959. 57:13inspirational
  960. 57:15but not much is happening.
  961. 57:18[clears throat]
  962. 57:19Um I I hope you would
  963. 57:22um um
  964. 57:25especially with the leading brothers
  965. 57:27would really really take this very very
  966. 57:30seriously.
  967. 57:31Um it's work, it's labor but it's 80% of
  968. 57:35the church life
  969. 57:38if we build this up.
  970. 57:40Um
  971. 57:43um I am having this type of fellowship
  972. 57:46with you here uh with one church, a
  973. 57:49church in the Midwest.
  974. 57:51A church in the Midwest who are very
  975. 57:55burdened about this.

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