TIME to go ALL IN on your GREATEST COMEBACK in 2027 - rebrand in 90 days — Transcript

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1. 0:00We have 90 days left to go all in and
2. 0:02lock in. Today is the day you wake up
3. 0:04and decide this life is not it and
4. 0:06you're going to completely rebrand your
5. 0:07life. One of the best parts about
6. 0:09getting older is realizing you can
7. 0:11literally just change your mind anytime.
8. 0:14You can just go, "Yeah, I had enough. I
9. 0:16don't want this anymore." Now we get to
10. 0:18build something else. Listen, you're not
11. 0:20stuck because you're lazy, but maybe
12. 0:21you're stuck because every morning you
13. 0:23decide to wake up and keep continuing as
14. 0:25you are. So that's what you get. Until
15. 0:27something changes, nothing changes.
16. 0:29Almost 2 years ago I made a video on how
17. 0:30to rebrand your life in 90 days. Over a
18. 0:32million of you have watched it and I
19. 0:34took my own advice. Now my life has
20. 0:36changed so much since. You can see it in
21. 0:38my face. I also gained 400 subscribers.
22. 0:39I moved to a new city. I made three
23. 0:41times what I used to make back then. So
24. 0:42my rebrand is a success and now we're
25. 0:45doing it again. My subscribers, my
26. 0:46angels, may have noticed that I already
27. 0:48have new branding and everything. If you
28. 0:50don't know me, I have degrees in
29. 0:51psychology and design. So of course I'm
30. 0:53obsessed with designing lives. I'm also
31. 0:55a professionally trained life coach, but
32. 0:57what really started everything was I hit
33. 0:58my rock bottom and that was the best
34. 1:00reset button I've ever had on my life.
35. 1:02The truth is I've reinvented my life
36. 1:04many times and since then I went from a
37. 1:06timid girl who felt like a loser
38. 1:08wherever she went to someone who can
39. 1:10pick anything up on a whim. I built
40. 1:12confidence from nothing. I lost over 50
41. 1:14lb and I had a glow up of my life. Now I
42. 1:16spend my days doing what I want,
43. 1:18studying, researching, and building my
44. 1:20next great leap, but the old me, I
45. 1:22always send her my love because I am
46. 1:24nothing without her. She was the one who
47. 1:25decided this wasn't it. So here's my
48. 1:27promise. No matter who you are, you're
49. 1:30all walking away from this video with
50. 1:31something. At the very least your next
51. 1:32year will be planned. So grab a
52. 1:34notebook. By the end of this you will
53. 1:35have a whole program outline for the
54. 1:36coming year in your hands and it will
55. 1:38take you less time to work on than this
56. 1:39video. I made you a free PDF guide with
57. 1:42a whole worksheet plus bonus exercises
58. 1:44not included in this video and it's link
59. 1:45in the description. So go and download
60. 1:47it right now. Honestly though, no matter
61. 1:49when you're seeing this, you can start
62. 1:50whenever you want. The calendar doesn't
63. 1:52care, but the best time to start is now
64. 1:55because now is the only time you
65. 1:56actually control. If you're new here,
66. 1:58hi, I'm Aime. Welcome to Stoic Angels.
67. 2:00We're here to build our brains, our
68. 2:01beauty, and our next level. We level up
69. 2:03together. If you're someone who refuses
70. 2:05to live the same year twice, subscribe
71. 2:07because you are one of us. Here's the
72. 2:09thing about a rebrand, it's really about
73. 2:11our focus. Whatever we're giving our
74. 2:13attention to for the next 90 days is who
75. 2:15you become. So, my mornings start with
76. 2:17me protecting my focus. Before we get
77. 2:19into it, I've recently been chilling
78. 2:21somewhere in the Florida Keys. I almost
79. 2:23want to gatekeep because it's paradise.
80. 2:25But if you know, you know. And one of
81. 2:26the best parts about being down there,
82. 2:28besides obviously the water and the
83. 2:29vibes, is that I still get access to
84. 2:31Publix. So, naturally, I grab my usual
85. 2:33Pub sub for the beach and restock on
86. 2:35RISE while I'm there. If you don't know,
87. 2:37RISE mushroom coffee just launched at
88. 2:39Publix and they have three options now.
89. 2:40The dark roast sticks, medium roast
90. 2:42sticks, and the vanilla latte. The
91. 2:44medium roast and the vanilla latte are
92. 2:46my faves. Even though it's instant, it's
93. 2:47like the coffee you buy at a coffee
94. 2:49shop, and I think I like this better
95. 2:50than what I typically make at home. But
96. 2:52what makes it different than your
97. 2:53regular cup of coffee is that every
98. 2:55stick has their super six mushroom
99. 2:57blend. That's 2,000 mg of functional
100. 2:59mushrooms like lion's mane for focus,
101. 3:01cordyceps for sustained energy, turkey
102. 3:03tail for digestive support. So, instead
103. 3:05of buying six different supplements,
104. 3:06it's all in one cup. Zero sugar,
105. 3:09dairy-free, gluten-free, and you can
106. 3:10make it however you want. Hot, iced, or
107. 3:13coconut milk, whatever fits your ritual.
108. 3:15The fact that I can just grab it on my
109. 3:16regular grocery run at Publix now
110. 3:18instead of ordering online is a
111. 3:19game-changer. The next time you're
112. 3:20there, check the coffee aisle, try
113. 3:22whichever blend sounds good to you, and
114. 3:23let me know in the comments which one
115. 3:25you went with. Now, notebooks out, we're
116. 3:27working on the five Rs of a comeback.
117. 3:29Number one is read the side. At the top
118. 3:30of your page, write this ain't it.
119. 3:32Underneath that, list three things
120. 3:34you're done with. Whatever you don't
121. 3:35want anymore, and be specific. Then,
122. 3:37next to each one, write what you're
123. 3:39deciding to do instead. Deciding takes 1
124. 3:42second. It's sticking with the decision,
125. 3:43though, is the part that we're going to
126. 3:44work on. But if you're here, honestly,
127. 3:46you're already halfway there. When I
128. 3:47crawled out of my wake-up call era where
129. 3:49I lost everything, I didn't wake up
130. 3:51transformed the next day, but I had
131. 3:53decided that was the day. And then I had
132. 3:55to decide again the next day and the day
133. 3:57after that. That's why it's called
134. 3:58re-decide. We don't just decide once,
135. 4:01but every morning we wake up and choose
136. 4:03no, we're not going back before your old
137. 4:06comfort seeking self stepped into the
138. 4:07picture. And if part of your list is
139. 4:09walking away from something you work
140. 4:10really hard on like a career path, a
141. 4:12plan, a dream that you told everyone
142. 4:14about, hear me out. Changing direction
143. 4:17doesn't mean you failed. Sometimes it
144. 4:19just means you finally know yourself
145. 4:20well enough to admit this is bad, so I
146. 4:23want something different. This is coming
147. 4:25from someone who spent four years
148. 4:27studying for something that I didn't end
149. 4:28up professionally getting into because
150. 4:29the industry chewed me up and spit me
151. 4:32out. It was just really abusive. Then I
152. 4:33spent five years working on my so-called
153. 4:36angle dream job, no such thing by the
154. 4:37way, working in music until it turned
155. 4:40into a complete nightmare and destroyed
156. 4:42my passion for it. There were also
157. 4:43projects that I was really excited about
158. 4:45and I told everyone about it and it just
159. 4:47didn't end up materializing. But the
160. 4:48sunk cost fallacy is real. We have to
161. 4:51remember that it's a fallacy. The paths
162. 4:54that have failed us are not our paths.
163. 4:56So if we keep going down that road and
164. 4:58we keep forcing ourselves to then we
165. 4:59will truly waste our lives. But if you
166. 5:01have the courage to decide, I am so done
167. 5:04with that, then there will be no moment
168. 5:06in your life that will ever be wasted.
169. 5:07Everything is a learning opportunity. So
170. 5:09let's flip that script around and say
171. 5:11no, if I decide I had enough then
172. 5:13nothing goes to waste. It was all worth
173. 5:15it anyway. Number two, redefine. Next
174. 5:17page, write three words you want people
175. 5:19to use to describe you when you're not
176. 5:21there. Then under those three words,
177. 5:23what you're known for, what you no
178. 5:24longer want to put up with, what your
179. 5:26typical day looks like. And let me be
180. 5:27clear about something, when I say we're
181. 5:28rebranding, I'm using it to get a point
182. 5:31across. I know we're people, we're not
183. 5:33products, but a product doesn't get to
184. 5:34choose what it becomes, you do. Not
185. 5:36everything is black and white, but you
186. 5:38have the power to choose yourself and be
187. 5:40whoever you want. Personal branding
188. 5:42gives you something concrete and solid
189. 5:44to stand on for who you want to be next.
190. 5:46So that's all it is. Life is a game if
191. 5:49you choose to see it that way. So,
192. 5:50choose your avatar. Apple sold
193. 5:52computers, then phones, then watches,
194. 5:54but they're still Apple. And likewise,
195. 5:55you started off as a brain cell, and now
196. 5:57you're a whole person, and you're
197. 5:58building a universe of you, and that's
198. 6:00really exciting. Your life is a
199. 6:01projection of what you believe in
200. 6:02yourself. So, if there's something that
201. 6:03you're criticizing about yourself, then
202. 6:05finish the sentence differently. For
203. 6:07example, I'm aggressively
204. 6:09straightforward, but I'm easy to talk
205. 6:10to. I'm shy, but I observe everything.
206. 6:13So, think about your own version of what
207. 6:15that looks like. The third R is reset,
208. 6:16and this one might feel a little bit
209. 6:18uncomfortable, but you have to stop the
210. 6:19self-deprecating jokes today, especially
211. 6:23if you're a woman. Every time you make
212. 6:24fun of yourself for not knowing
213. 6:26something, you're training everyone to
214. 6:28see you as incompetent. And I'll say one
215. 6:30more thing, you're training yourself,
216. 6:32too. There's an actual study that found
217. 6:34when men use humor at work, they were
218. 6:35given higher status, but when women use
219. 6:38humor, they were rated as less capable
220. 6:40leaders and given lower performance
221. 6:41evaluations. That study was about
222. 6:43telling jokes in general, but now
223. 6:45imagine the joke is about you. I hate
224. 6:47that so much. I'm not telling you to
225. 6:49stop being funny, but I'm telling you to
226. 6:50stop making yourself the joke. I
227. 6:52suffered the direct consequences of
228. 6:54that, by the way. Every single thing I
229. 6:56talk about is from personal experience.
230. 6:58I literally lost a job being that way.
231. 7:01So, replace the roast with two phrases:
232. 7:03good question and I'll look into that.
233. 7:06That's it. No, oh my god, I'm so stupid.
234. 7:08No. Before you do or say anything, pause
235. 7:11and ask, does what you're going to say
236. 7:13match your future self? Then you know
237. 7:15what? Reset everything else in your life
238. 7:17if you have to. And if you think you
239. 7:19should, you probably should. When I
240. 7:20wanted to change myself, I was literally
241. 7:23like, new me, new fragrances, new
242. 7:25shampoo and body wash, new laundry
243. 7:27detergent, because yeah, your old life
244. 7:29has a scent, too. It has a smell. And if
245. 7:32you change even these sensorial signals
246. 7:34alone, there's less to pull you
247. 7:37backward, both consciously and
248. 7:39subconsciously speaking. Things like, if
249. 7:41you want to wear a new outfit, wear that
250. 7:42new outfit. Become even embarrassingly
251. 7:45obsessed with your own life again,
252. 7:47because I am and I have been since then
253. 7:50and it is a constant blessing. I'm so
254. 7:52sorry, baby. Some of you guys do not
255. 7:54love yourselves enough. The truth is, if
256. 7:56you don't care, nobody cares. You have
257. 7:58to teach everyone around you how to
258. 8:00respect you and how to treat you. You
259. 8:03have to show them so that if they try
260. 8:05anything, they are going to find out.
261. 8:08You don't need to shrink yourself to
262. 8:09make other people more comfortable. So,
263. 8:10if you have to do that, then that's your
264. 8:12sign to go to a different place. Stop
265. 8:15wasting your time there, because they
266. 8:17don't respect you. Number four, retreat.
267. 8:20Don't announce your rebrand or tell
268. 8:22anyone. Just do it. It's like a New
269. 8:25Year's resolution. If you announce it on
270. 8:26January 1st, everybody's just like,
271. 8:28"Yeah, okay.
272. 8:29We'll see about that." Nobody talks
273. 8:31about this, but that's actually us
274. 8:33opening ourselves up to evil eye, so to
275. 8:35speak. And if you don't believe in evil
276. 8:36eye, that's fair. But, it's basically
277. 8:38public scrutiny. I want you guys to come
278. 8:41out blazing like an action movie. Then,
279. 8:44everyone else can watch you glow up and
280. 8:46be shocked. In the meantime, work in
281. 8:48silence. Let your results do the
282. 8:50talking. Let them wonder what you're up
283. 8:52to and let them talk. The only thing you
284. 8:54control is how you react, what you say
285. 8:57and what you do. Every ounce of energy
286. 8:59that you spend explaining yourself is
287. 9:02energy that you're not spending working
288. 9:04on your success. And stop waiting until
289. 9:05you feel like it. Your timing doesn't
290. 9:08have to be perfect and it never is, but
291. 9:09you do need to start. Do what you say
292. 9:11you would do when you say you'd do it.
293. 9:13That's how you build self-trust. And
294. 9:15switch your language from I have to to I
295. 9:17get to. I get to go to the gym. I get to
296. 9:19work on myself. I get to live my dreams.
297. 9:21Isn't that exciting? Guys, seriously,
298. 9:23like I have a headache and a stomach
299. 9:24ache right now and I'm still here and
300. 9:26I'm so excited. I'm not using that as an
301. 9:27excuse or anything. Even in that first
302. 9:29rebrand video I made, a lot of people
303. 9:32mentioned that I had red eyes. I looked
304. 9:33like I was crying. Well, yeah, because
305. 9:35there's never a perfect time, guys. And
306. 9:37what I try my best to do is I always try
307. 9:39to keep my word, no matter what. So, if
308. 9:41there's something that you want to
309. 9:42track, track this. Every night, ask
310. 9:44yourself three questions. Did I learn
311. 9:46something? Did I help someone? Did I
312. 9:48push myself? Then, you can mark the day
313. 9:50green or red depending on how it went.
314. 9:52It only takes 1 minute. The rebrand is
315. 9:54that grand mountain, right? And it may
316. 9:56seem like we're climbing a grand
317. 9:57mountain right now, but the steps are
318. 9:59tiny little 1-minute entries like these,
319. 10:01and tiny steps compound over time. 90
320. 10:03days, you're going to be like, "Wow, I'm
321. 10:05already there." Number five, return.
322. 10:07This is the last one. Decide it's going
323. 10:09to work before you have any proof. Say
324. 10:12this with me. I'm a delusional optimist
325. 10:14and I will win. This is not toxic
326. 10:17positivity. Delusional optimism without
327. 10:19making moves is just delusion. You need
328. 10:22both. So, if you claim delusional
329. 10:25then have the belief and discipline to
330. 10:27prove yourself right. Confidence is like
331. 10:29the most underrated skill there is on
332. 10:32the planet. And like all skills, you can
333. 10:34build it from zero. I think I was in the
334. 10:36negatives when I started, honestly. But,
335. 10:38the more you trust yourself, the faster
336. 10:40you act, the more opportunities you get.
337. 10:42And if you trust yourself, people also
338. 10:44trust you more. And it's free to build
339. 10:47confidence. You're going to have to
340. 10:49climb the cringe mountain, babes. You
341. 10:51got to do something insane to get insane
342. 10:54results. And if you slip at some point,
343. 10:56let's say you have a red day, maybe even
344. 10:58a red week, that's not the end of your
345. 10:59rebrand. Self-reinvention is a skill,
346. 11:03and some chapters require a whole new
347. 11:05version of you to be able to do what it
348. 11:07takes. You may have to reinvent yourself
349. 11:10over and over again, like I did. And
350. 11:12listen, people love to be like, "May,
351. 11:14wait till you're old and nobody cares
352. 11:16about your glow up." Listen, I have no
353. 11:18prime. I will keep evolving until I die,
354. 11:21and then my soul will transcend into the
355. 11:22clouds, and from there I will keep
356. 11:24evolving. So, please take your life so
357. 11:27seriously that people will start to
358. 11:28wonder what the hell happened to you.
359. 11:29Like, this came out of nowhere. Where
360. 11:31did you get this audacity from? So, 90
361. 11:33days, decide for yourself, retreat, work
362. 11:36in silence, and then return and become
363. 11:38completely unrecognizable. Comment your
364. 11:40three words below. I'm going to read
365. 11:42them, and in 90 days, come back to this
366. 11:44exact video and tell me if you are
367. 11:46successful or not. And if you haven't
368. 11:48grabbed the free guide yet, it's in the
369. 11:49description. It has all the pages that
370. 11:51we talked about, plus the bonus
371. 11:53exercises. And I have to tell you, the
372. 11:55newest thing that I cannot stop thinking
373. 11:56about. My life is consumed by it. It's
374. 11:59my personal development membership,
375. 12:00Stoic Angels, and I'm launching it in a
376. 12:02matter of weeks. This is completely
377. 12:04separate from YouTube and Patreon
378. 12:06memberships, and it's launching so soon.
379. 12:08Honestly, I'm nervous. I've been
380. 12:10building the infrastructure behind this
381. 12:11membership for almost a year now. I've
382. 12:13been working on it for that long. But
383. 12:14the method itself, I have been
384. 12:16practicing it in my own life for years.
385. 12:18It's literally what got me here today.
386. 12:20And the reason why I share it now is
387. 12:22because it's almost done. We're
388. 12:24launching with over 150 pieces of
389. 12:26content, so the value that my members
390. 12:28are getting is insane. There are lessons
391. 12:31in there that I want to teach that
392. 12:32deserve more depth, more contacts, and
393. 12:34more room to practice than YouTube
394. 12:36allows, because I don't always want to
395. 12:37be appeasing the algorithm gods. But
396. 12:39basically, we're doing what we did
397. 12:41today, but this video is only a small,
398. 12:43tiny fraction of what we are about to do
399. 12:45in this membership. You can watch a
400. 12:47video and feel good about yourself, but
401. 12:48in the membership, we're doing the
402. 12:49practice. Research-informed lessons in
403. 12:51psychology and neuroscience, nervous
404. 12:53system tools and support, somatic
405. 12:55practices, guided meditations, and
406. 12:57subliminals, and practical glow-up
407. 12:58techniques. There are practices in there
408. 13:00that we can all do together daily to
409. 13:02become a new dream version of you, and
410. 13:04we can reinforce that every day. I
411. 13:06sleep, breathe, and eat this platform
412. 13:0824/7. I am so excited I literally have
413. 13:11to use my own meditations and
414. 13:12subliminals to fall asleep. It's not
415. 13:14even here yet at the time that I'm
416. 13:16filming this, and it already feels like
417. 13:17a huge win. If you peek at my natal
418. 13:19chart, you're going to be like, "Yep,
419. 13:20this is exactly what she's built to do."
420. 13:22I found my calling. Helping support you
421. 13:24is my North Star, and I'm already
422. 13:25rewarded by seeing it come to life. This
423. 13:28is going to be a space for you to
424. 13:29understand your patterns, practice new
425. 13:31responses, and become someone you can
426. 13:33trust. If you're ready to make space for
427. 13:35the person you want to become, join my
428. 13:36waitlist at mayuko.eo.page.
429. 13:39It's linked below as well. If you sign
430. 13:41up for that, you're going to be the
431. 13:41first person to know when it launches.
432. 13:44But, if you're at rock bottom right now,
433. 13:46trust me, I've been there. I promise
434. 13:48you, you can turn it into your greatest
435. 13:49opportunity. This is your great comeback
436. 13:51moment. So, get ready, okay? Don't be
437. 13:53afraid to go all in. But, also let me
438. 13:55know how it goes. I love you, angels,
439. 13:57and I will see you in the next video.
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