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THIS NEVILLE GODDARD TECHNIQUE WILL MAKE YOU UNSTOPPABLE — Transcript

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  1. 0:00There's a conversation going on in your
  2. 0:01head right now. It started before I said
  3. 0:03that. You didn't choose the subject. You
  4. 0:05didn't choose the tone. And if you
  5. 0:07listen for about 4 seconds, you'll catch
  6. 0:09it still going underneath my voice. That
  7. 0:11conversation built the life you're
  8. 0:13sitting in tonight. Not your [music]
  9. 0:14effort, not your discipline, not what
  10. 0:16you deserved or didn't. That a man named
  11. 0:19Neville Goddard said this 400 times. He
  12. 0:22wasn't a priest and he wasn't a
  13. 0:23professor. He was a dancer. came to New
  14. 0:25York from Barbados with nothing and
  15. 0:27spent 40 years standing in front of
  16. 0:29ordinary people telling them one thing
  17. 0:31over and over until he died. And almost
  18. 0:34nobody who quotes him does it. They do
  19. 0:36the famous parts. Assume the feeling,
  20. 0:38live in the end. Imagination creates
  21. 0:41reality. All real all over the internet.
  22. 0:43And not one of them the thing he kept
  23. 0:45coming back to. Because the famous parts
  24. 0:47are something you do for 10 minutes in
  25. 0:49the morning. This runs all day. It's
  26. 0:51been running for 40 years in some of
  27. 0:53you. And it's been saying the same
  28. 0:54handful of things about And it's been
  29. 0:56saying the same handful of things about
  30. 0:57money and about people about money and
  31. 0:59about people like you since you were a
  32. 1:01child. And you have never once argued
  33. 1:03with it because it doesn't sound like a
  34. 1:05voice. [music] It sounds like you. So
  35. 1:07that's what I'm going to show you. What
  36. 1:08it is, where it got its script, and the
  37. 1:11one thing Neville told people to do
  38. 1:12about it, which takes about 2 minutes,
  39. 1:14happens lying down, and costs nothing.
  40. 1:17Here's how we'll go. Five principles.
  41. 1:20Five things he taught in his own words
  42. 1:22in the order they build on each other.
  43. 1:23[music] The first is the frame, what he
  44. 1:26thought the world actually is. The
  45. 1:28second is where the lever sits. It's two
  46. 1:30words long. You've had hold of it your
  47. 1:32whole life and you've been pulling it
  48. 1:34the wrong way. The third is the
  49. 1:36mechanism. How something inside you
  50. 1:38turns into something that happens on a
  51. 1:40Tuesday. The fourth is why this has
  52. 1:42never worked for you before, including
  53. 1:44the years you tried properly. And the
  54. 1:46fifth is the conversation, the one
  55. 1:48that's running right now. That's where
  56. 1:50the technique comes from. And that's the
  57. 1:52part I want you to stay for because it's
  58. 1:54the only piece on this list that changes
  59. 1:56anything on its own. Then I'll give you
  60. 1:58the technique and you can run it
  61. 1:59tonight. One thing before the first
  62. 2:01principle because it's not how any of us
  63. 2:03were raised. Everything you've ever been
  64. 2:05told about changing your life is about
  65. 2:07changing what you can see. work harder,
  66. 2:10save more, move, lose the weight, leave
  67. 2:12the job, fix what's in front of you, and
  68. 2:15you've done it for decades. You took the
  69. 2:18second job, you got the raise, and 4
  70. 2:20months later, the number was back where
  71. 2:22it started, and you couldn't entirely
  72. 2:23say how. Something came up. Something
  73. 2:26always comes up. The car, the roof, the
  74. 2:29thing with your son, the bill you'd
  75. 2:31honestly forgotten about. And every one
  76. 2:33of those had a perfectly good
  77. 2:34explanation, which is exactly why it
  78. 2:37never occurred to you to look at what
  79. 2:38they all had in common. You've been
  80. 2:40doing that since you were 25. And
  81. 2:42sitting here, you can feel how tired
  82. 2:44that is. Neville spent his whole life
  83. 2:47saying the furniture isn't the room. He
  84. 2:49didn't think the visible world, your
  85. 2:51account, your work, your body, the way
  86. 2:53people talk to you caused anything. He
  87. 2:56thought it was the result, the print
  88. 2:58out, the last step in something that
  89. 3:00happens somewhere you've never been
  90. 3:01shown how to look. Which means what
  91. 3:03you've been doing all these years isn't
  92. 3:05wrong. It's late. You've been correcting
  93. 3:07the output while the input kept running.
  94. 3:10That's the whole argument. And
  95. 3:12everything in the next 20 minutes
  96. 3:13depends on which one of those two is
  97. 3:15true. So what he actually said,
  98. 3:18principle one, his most famous line,
  99. 3:21you've heard it quoted and you've
  100. 3:22probably never been told what it means.
  101. 3:24The world is yourself pushed out. Seven
  102. 3:27words. People put it on coffee mugs. And
  103. 3:30nearly everyone who repeats it hears it
  104. 3:32as encouragement. Think good thoughts.
  105. 3:34Good things come. That is not what he
  106. 3:36was saying. He meant it mechanically.
  107. 3:38His claim was that there's no gap
  108. 3:40between what you are on the inside and
  109. 3:42what shows up on the outside. No delay
  110. 3:44with a reward at the end. No universe
  111. 3:47watching you and deciding what you've
  112. 3:48earned. The outer is the inner already
  113. 3:51arrived. pushed out the way metal gets
  114. 3:53pressed through a mold and comes out the
  115. 3:55shape of whatever pressed it. So, when
  116. 3:57you look at your life and ask why it's
  117. 3:59like this, you're asking the wrong
  118. 4:01thing. You're holding a print out and
  119. 4:03asking the paper why it says what it
  120. 4:04says. And you can test this yourself
  121. 4:06tonight, which is the part I like about
  122. 4:08it. Think of the last time things
  123. 4:10actually got better for a while and then
  124. 4:12quietly came back. Not a disaster, a
  125. 4:15drift. You didn't do anything to cause
  126. 4:17it. The outside came back to meet the
  127. 4:19inside. The way water finds its level in
  128. 4:21a glass no matter how you tilt it,
  129. 4:23that's not bad luck. That's a level.
  130. 4:26Now, here's where it stops being
  131. 4:28philosophy. Picture a man, call him Ray.
  132. 4:31Ray has never had much, but things work
  133. 4:33out for him. He loses a job and
  134. 4:35something turns up inside a month. His
  135. 4:37truck dies and it turns out a neighbor's
  136. 4:39brother does that for a living. You
  137. 4:40know, Aray, you've watched it happen for
  138. 4:42years and quietly decided he was lucky.
  139. 4:45He's not luckier than you. He's carrying
  140. 4:47something different and it's pushing out
  141. 4:49something different. And you know the
  142. 4:51other kind too, the person things keep
  143. 4:53happening to the same misfortune in a
  144. 4:55different costume decade after decade
  145. 4:58until nobody around them is surprised
  146. 5:00anymore. Neville's position was that
  147. 5:02neither of those people is being treated
  148. 5:03differently by the world. They're being
  149. 5:05accurately reflected by it. Now, I know
  150. 5:08exactly how that lands, so let me deal
  151. 5:10with it right here. If the outside is
  152. 5:12the inside pushed out, then everything
  153. 5:14that's gone wrong is your fault. That's
  154. 5:17where most people arrive. That's where
  155. 5:19most people stop. And it's not what he
  156. 5:21said. He never once said you chose it.
  157. 5:23He said it was set. And set mostly
  158. 5:26before you were old enough to have a say
  159. 5:27in it. By the house you grew up in. By
  160. 5:30something you overheard through a wall
  161. 5:31when you were seven. By a hundred small
  162. 5:33conclusions you came to about money and
  163. 5:35about what people like you get and then
  164. 5:37never went back and checked. You didn't
  165. 5:39choose it. you inherited it and you've
  166. 5:41been pushing it out ever since without
  167. 5:43knowing that's what you were doing.
  168. 5:45Which is the good news because a thing
  169. 5:47that was set can be set again. And he
  170. 5:49was extremely specific about where you
  171. 5:51do that. That's principle two. Principle
  172. 5:54two, where the lever is. I said at the
  173. 5:57start, it's two words long. Here they
  174. 5:59are. I am. That's the whole lever. And
  175. 6:02Neville built 40 years of work on top of
  176. 6:04it. Those two words aren't a
  177. 6:06description. They're a handle. Whatever
  178. 6:08you attach to them stops being a report
  179. 6:10and turns into an instruction. Say, "I
  180. 6:12am broke and you haven't stated a fact.
  181. 6:15You've placed an order and you've been
  182. 6:17doing it out loud in your own kitchen
  183. 6:19for 30 years. I am no good with money. I
  184. 6:22am the one who makes do. I am too old
  185. 6:24for all that now." You thought you were
  186. 6:26being realistic. You were being
  187. 6:28instructive. So, the question is what
  188. 6:30you attach to it instead. It's got to be
  189. 6:32something that can't be disputed because
  190. 6:34there's a prosecutor in your head who's
  191. 6:35won every one of these cases so far.
  192. 6:38Four words. But the condition comes
  193. 6:40first because it decides whether they do
  194. 6:42anything at all. You have to say them
  195. 6:44without reaching. Say them while you're
  196. 6:46straining toward a number and nothing
  197. 6:48happens. Not less, nothing. That one
  198. 6:51condition is the whole dividing line.
  199. 6:53Here they are. I am ready to receive.
  200. 6:56Sit with that a second. I am ready to
  201. 6:59receive. Now look at what it's doing
  202. 7:01because every word in there is
  203. 7:03loadbearing. You've already got the
  204. 7:04first two. That's the handle and it's
  205. 7:06attached now. So whatever follows it
  206. 7:08isn't a wish anymore. Ready. Not trying,
  207. 7:12not working on it, not nearly there.
  208. 7:14Ready is the one thing in that sentence
  209. 7:16you can't possibly be wrong about
  210. 7:18because it doesn't lean on a single
  211. 7:20thing outside of you. You can be ready
  212. 7:22standing in a kitchen with $11 in the
  213. 7:24account and there isn't a person or a
  214. 7:26bank or a Tuesday in the world that can
  215. 7:28contradict you. And receive, not get,
  216. 7:31not earn, not deserve. Receiving is the
  217. 7:34only one of those that asks nothing of
  218. 7:36you, which is exactly why it's the
  219. 7:38hardest word in the sentence for people
  220. 7:39your age. Think about it. For 40 years,
  221. 7:42you've been the one who gives. You
  222. 7:44covered it. You went without so somebody
  223. 7:46else didn't have to. You were the one
  224. 7:48everybody came to. and you never once
  225. 7:50went to anybody and you got so good at
  226. 7:52bracing that your body does it now
  227. 7:54without being asked. You can probably
  228. 7:56feel it doing it while I say this.
  229. 7:58Receiving isn't something you've
  230. 7:59refused. It's something you've forgotten
  231. 8:01how to do. And notice what the sentence
  232. 8:03never says. It never names an amount and
  233. 8:06it never names a day. There's nothing in
  234. 8:08those four words for the arguing part of
  235. 8:10you to go and check, which is exactly
  236. 8:12why it gets through when everything else
  237. 8:14bounced off. Now get it out of your head
  238. 8:16and on to something. the comments down
  239. 8:18below this video and I'll tell you why
  240. 8:20there specifically because it isn't the
  241. 8:22reason you're expecting. Something you
  242. 8:24only ever said to yourself can be taken
  243. 8:26back at midnight and nobody's any the
  244. 8:28wiser. Something you typed where
  245. 8:30strangers can read it has a witness.
  246. 8:32You've signed it and you'll know you
  247. 8:34signed it, which is the entire point and
  248. 8:36the arguing part of you hates it, which
  249. 8:38is how you know it's working. So the
  250. 8:41sentence and then the one thing you've
  251. 8:43spent years braced against receiving.
  252. 8:45Not a figure, the thing itself. So it
  253. 8:47reads like this. I am ready to receive.
  254. 8:50Help without having to ask twice. I am
  255. 8:53ready to receive. A year where nothing
  256. 8:55has to be stretched. I am ready to
  257. 8:57receive. Being looked after for once.
  258. 9:00That last one's the hardest to type and
  259. 9:02I know it. If it's the one that's true,
  260. 9:04type it anyway. Nobody down there is
  261. 9:06going to think less of you. Half of them
  262. 9:08are carrying the identical thing and
  263. 9:10haven't said it to a living soul. Go put
  264. 9:12yours down. 20 seconds out of everything
  265. 9:15I'm giving you tonight. That's the one
  266. 9:17piece that works on its own without any
  267. 9:19help from me. And hit subscribe before
  268. 9:21you scroll back up. One reason, then
  269. 9:23I'll leave it be. What you just did
  270. 9:25happens once. The thing I'm going to
  271. 9:27give you at the end of this video
  272. 9:29happens every night. And every night is
  273. 9:31where this either becomes your life or
  274. 9:33becomes a video you half remember
  275. 9:35watching. And what decides it isn't
  276. 9:37willpower, and it isn't how badly you
  277. 9:39want it. It's day 19. Day 19 is when the
  278. 9:42novelty's gone, nothing's visibly moved,
  279. 9:45and that old voice makes a calm and
  280. 9:47perfectly reasonable case that you
  281. 9:48should stop. Day 19 takes almost
  282. 9:51everybody, and it takes them quietly.
  283. 9:53This channel is just a voice that's
  284. 9:55still here on day 19 saying the same
  285. 9:57thing it said on day one. So, if you'd
  286. 10:00rather be running this a month from now
  287. 10:01than vaguely recalling it, subscribe and
  288. 10:04let the next one find you on its own.
  289. 10:06Right back to it. Because knowing where
  290. 10:08the lever is doesn't tell you how it
  291. 10:10works. You can say those four words
  292. 10:12tonight and mean every one of them. And
  293. 10:14tomorrow morning, the world will look
  294. 10:16exactly like it looked today. The
  295. 10:18account won't have moved. Nobody will
  296. 10:20have called. That's not failure. That's
  297. 10:22the mechanism doing precisely what it's
  298. 10:24supposed to do. But nobody ever explains
  299. 10:26that part. So when it happens, people
  300. 10:28draw the only conclusion available to
  301. 10:30them, that it didn't take, that it works
  302. 10:32for other people, that there's something
  303. 10:34different about them, and they put it
  304. 10:36down inside a week, about 4 days before
  305. 10:38the thing they'd set in motion would
  306. 10:40have shown up. So let me show you how it
  307. 10:42actually travels from a sentence in your
  308. 10:44kitchen to something that happens on a
  309. 10:46Tuesday. Principle three, how it
  310. 10:48travels. This is the part that was
  311. 10:50missing every other time you tried
  312. 10:52something like this. And once you've got
  313. 10:54it, you'll stop quitting early because
  314. 10:56you'll know what you're looking at.
  315. 10:57Neville had a phrase for it. He called
  316. 10:59it the bridge of incidents. Here's what
  317. 11:01he meant. When the inside changes, the
  318. 11:04outside doesn't jump. It builds a
  319. 11:06bridge. And the bridge is made out of
  320. 11:07ordinary events. Small ones, dull ones,
  321. 11:10ones that each have a perfectly
  322. 11:12reasonable explanation of their own. So
  323. 11:14nothing lands in your lap. What happens
  324. 11:16instead is that a sequence starts and
  325. 11:19every plank in it looks like nothing
  326. 11:20much. Let me make that concrete because
  327. 11:22it's the whole principle. Say the thing
  328. 11:24you're ready to receive is not having to
  329. 11:26count anymore. The bridge doesn't start
  330. 11:28with money. It starts with you taking a
  331. 11:30different way home and noticing a sign
  332. 11:32in a window or somebody at church
  333. 11:34mentioning their sister's situation and
  334. 11:36you asking one question you wouldn't
  335. 11:38normally have asked or you finally
  336. 11:40opening a letter you'd been leaving on
  337. 11:41the counter for 2 weeks and the number
  338. 11:43inside it being different from the
  339. 11:45number you'd been carrying in your head.
  340. 11:47None of those is a result. Not one of
  341. 11:49them would make it into a story you tell
  342. 11:50anybody. They're planks. And I'll give
  343. 11:53you the other half of it because the
  344. 11:54bridge usually runs through a person. It
  345. 11:56very often does. Somebody remembers you
  346. 11:59at the moment they happen to be standing
  347. 12:00next to the person who needed you. You
  348. 12:02didn't arrange that and you couldn't
  349. 12:04have. You were simply the name that came
  350. 12:06up. And the only thing that changed on
  351. 12:08your end was that you'd stopped carrying
  352. 12:09yourself like somebody whose name
  353. 12:11doesn't come up. And here's why nobody
  354. 12:13recognizes them. Each plank arrives
  355. 12:15looking exactly like an ordinary
  356. 12:17Tuesday. and you've been trained your
  357. 12:19whole life to only count the arrival. So
  358. 12:21the bridge gets built right under you
  359. 12:23and you walk across it saying nothing's
  360. 12:25happening. Now why would an assumption
  361. 12:27produce a bridge at all? Two reasons and
  362. 12:29neither one is mystical. The first is
  363. 12:32that it changes what you can see. Your
  364. 12:34attention has been filtering the world
  365. 12:35for decades according to what you
  366. 12:37believe is available to you. Things that
  367. 12:39don't fit the belief don't get through.
  368. 12:41They're not hidden. They're just not
  369. 12:42flagged. change what you're assuming and
  370. 12:45the filter changes and things that were
  371. 12:47in front of you last week suddenly
  372. 12:48register. The second is that it changes
  373. 12:51what you do without deciding to. You
  374. 12:53answer differently. You stay in a
  375. 12:54conversation 30 seconds longer. You say
  376. 12:57the thing instead of swallowing it. You
  377. 12:59don't talk yourself out of asking.
  378. 13:00Neville said, "Assumption hardens into
  379. 13:03fact." That's the sentence. And the word
  380. 13:05doing the work in it is hardens. not
  381. 13:07appears, not arrives, hardens the way
  382. 13:10concrete does slowly from the inside
  383. 13:13while nothing on the surface appears to
  384. 13:15be going on at all. If you poured a slab
  385. 13:17on Monday and stood over it Tuesday
  386. 13:18morning, you'd swear it hadn't taken.
  387. 13:21You'd be standing on something that was
  388. 13:22already setting. That's the hardening.
  389. 13:24And it happens across the bridge, one
  390. 13:27unremarkable plank at a time over days,
  391. 13:30never in an event. So when tomorrow
  392. 13:32looks like today, that's not nothing
  393. 13:34happening. That's plank one and you're
  394. 13:36standing on it. Principle four. Why this
  395. 13:38has never worked for you, including the
  396. 13:40times you did it properly, especially
  397. 13:43those times because you have done this
  398. 13:44before. You've had the morning where
  399. 13:46something lifted and you thought,
  400. 13:48"Right, I've got it." And by about 4 in
  401. 13:50the afternoon, it was gone and you
  402. 13:52couldn't say where it went. Here's what
  403. 13:53actually happened. And it's got nothing
  404. 13:55to do with discipline and nothing to do
  405. 13:57with how much of it you believed. You
  406. 13:59said it once and then you spent the next
  407. 14:0114 hours taking it back. Not out loud.
  408. 14:03You'd never say it out loud, but you
  409. 14:05went to the store and did the arithmetic
  410. 14:07standing in the aisle. You saw the bill
  411. 14:09and your stomach dropped before you'd
  412. 14:11even opened it. You thought about the
  413. 14:12conversation you've got to have with
  414. 14:14your daughter at the weekend and ran it
  415. 14:15through three times. And in all three
  416. 14:17versions, it went badly. You rehearsed
  417. 14:20the bad one. And here's the part that
  418. 14:21should genuinely annoy you. That
  419. 14:23rehearsal is the same faculty, the
  420. 14:26identical one. Running an argument with
  421. 14:28your daughter three times before it
  422. 14:29happens is assuming. It's just assuming
  423. 14:31something you don't want with total
  424. 14:33conviction in vivid detail and without
  425. 14:36even noticing you've done it. So, you
  426. 14:38were never bad at this. You've been
  427. 14:39doing it expertly every day, aimed
  428. 14:41backwards for 40 years. Add it up. 90
  429. 14:45seconds of the new assumption against 14
  430. 14:47hours of the old one every single day.
  431. 14:49And then people say this stuff doesn't
  432. 14:51work. It worked. It built exactly the
  433. 14:53bridge you were mostly on. Now, I need
  434. 14:55to say something here because this is
  435. 14:57the exact point where people turn it on
  436. 14:59themselves. And that's not where I'm
  437. 15:01going with it. You weren't being weak.
  438. 15:03Nobody taught you that the 14 hours
  439. 15:05counted. Every method you've ever been
  440. 15:07handed is a thing you do for a few
  441. 15:08minutes and then get on with your day,
  442. 15:10which is like turning the heating on and
  443. 15:12leaving every window in the house open.
  444. 15:14So, the real problem was never your
  445. 15:16morning. Your mornings were fine. The
  446. 15:18problem is what runs in the 14 hours.
  447. 15:20And that's the thing I opened this video
  448. 15:22with, the conversation. The one that's
  449. 15:24still going right now underneath my
  450. 15:26voice. That's principle five. That's
  451. 15:28where the technique lives. Before I give
  452. 15:30it to you, one piece of housekeeping,
  453. 15:32and it'll be quick. There's a membership
  454. 15:34on this channel now, and I'll tell you
  455. 15:35straight who it's actually for. It's for
  456. 15:37day 19. Everything I've given you
  457. 15:39tonight is easy for about 2 weeks. Then
  458. 15:42the bridge is still being built. You
  459. 15:44still can't see it, and you're standing
  460. 15:45on a plank that looks exactly like every
  461. 15:47other plank, and you have to hold the
  462. 15:49assumption anyway with nothing coming
  463. 15:51in. Almost nobody does that alone. Not
  464. 15:53because they're weak, because there's
  465. 15:55nobody in the house who knows they're
  466. 15:56doing it. That's what the room is.
  467. 15:58People at the same point counting the
  468. 16:00same days, saying it out loud to each
  469. 16:02other so it stays real. In there, I
  470. 16:04answer you by name. I see your first
  471. 16:06month. If you go quiet, I notice it's a
  472. 16:09few dollars, less than you'd spend on a
  473. 16:11coffee you've already forgotten. And if
  474. 16:13money's tight right now, don't. I mean
  475. 16:15that plainly. You've got the whole
  476. 16:17method in this video for nothing. And it
  477. 16:19works the same either way. But if you've
  478. 16:21already decided, not hoping, decided,
  479. 16:23the link's under this video and I'd like
  480. 16:25to watch this one happen for you. Right,
  481. 16:28principle five. Principle five, the law
  482. 16:30of inner conversation. This is the one
  483. 16:33he said 400 times, and it's the one I
  484. 16:35opened this video with, and we're
  485. 16:37finally at it. Neville's claim was this.
  486. 16:40You are at every moment having a
  487. 16:42conversation with yourself. And that
  488. 16:44conversation, not your words out loud,
  489. 16:46not your actions, not your prayers, is
  490. 16:48what's being made into your life. He
  491. 16:51called it inner talking. And he said,
  492. 16:53"Most people's inner talking is an
  493. 16:55argument with somebody who isn't in the
  494. 16:57room." So, let me ask you something. In
  495. 16:59the last 24 hours, who have you had a
  496. 17:01conversation with in your head that
  497. 17:03never actually happened? There was one,
  498. 17:05probably more than one. Maybe you
  499. 17:07explained yourself to somebody who's
  500. 17:09never going to apologize. Maybe you
  501. 17:11rehearsed telling your son something and
  502. 17:13he said the thing back that he always
  503. 17:14says. Maybe you had a whole exchange
  504. 17:16with a man at a bank. Now, what was the
  505. 17:19tone of it? Not the words, the tone.
  506. 17:22Because that's the part that's building.
  507. 17:24And I'd guess it was defensive. Most
  508. 17:26people's is. You were justifying or you
  509. 17:28were bracing or you were explaining why
  510. 17:30it isn't your fault. And Neville's
  511. 17:32position was that you weren't wasting
  512. 17:33time in there. You were working. You
  513. 17:36were building in detail with real
  514. 17:38feeling a life in which you have to keep
  515. 17:40justifying yourself. Think about what we
  516. 17:43said earlier. Assumption hardens into
  517. 17:45fact. Well, what are you assuming when
  518. 17:47you spend 20 minutes defending yourself
  519. 17:49to somebody who isn't there? You're
  520. 17:51assuming you're the kind of person who
  521. 17:52has to. And you've been running that
  522. 17:54same conversation with small variations
  523. 17:57for how long? 10 years? Longer? There's
  524. 18:00a smaller version of it, too. And it
  525. 18:01runs all day. It's what you say to
  526. 18:03yourself when you drop something in the
  527. 18:05kitchen, when you read a letter, when
  528. 18:07you catch yourself in a window. What do
  529. 18:09you call yourself in those moments?
  530. 18:11Because most people your age have a name
  531. 18:13they use and it isn't a kind one. And
  532. 18:15they've used it so many thousands of
  533. 18:17times that it doesn't register as speech
  534. 18:19anymore. It's just the noise the room
  535. 18:21makes. That's inner talking, too. That's
  536. 18:24the same faculty going off 20 times a
  537. 18:26day unsupervised. Here's the thing that
  538. 18:28should stop you. You already know the
  539. 18:30inner conversation works. You've watched
  540. 18:33it work your whole life. You've just
  541. 18:35only ever seen it work in one direction.
  542. 18:37You know the feeling of dreading a phone
  543. 18:39call, running it through four times, and
  544. 18:41then having it go exactly the way you
  545. 18:43ran it. You've said it out loud
  546. 18:44afterward. I knew it. I knew that's how
  547. 18:47it would go. You didn't know. You
  548. 18:49rehearsed. And when somebody tells you
  549. 18:51that's just pessimism being realistic,
  550. 18:53ask them why the thing you rehearsed
  551. 18:55arrived on time and the thing you hoped
  552. 18:57for didn't. And I know the objection
  553. 18:59because it's the first thing anybody
  554. 19:01says to me about this. Fine. So, I'll
  555. 19:04just think nicer things. People have
  556. 19:06been telling me to stay positive for 30
  557. 19:08years and look where I'm standing.
  558. 19:10That's a fair objection and it's not
  559. 19:11what he taught. Positive thinking is you
  560. 19:14standing outside your life saying things
  561. 19:16about it. Inner conversation is what you
  562. 19:18say inside it when you're not performing
  563. 19:20for anybody, including yourself. You can
  564. 19:23affirm abundance in the mirror at 7 and
  565. 19:25spend the drive to work in a silent
  566. 19:27argument about money and the drive is
  567. 19:29what counts because the drive is what
  568. 19:31you believe. That's the difference and
  569. 19:33it's the whole difference. So the
  570. 19:35question isn't how do I stop the
  571. 19:37conversation. You can't. It's been
  572. 19:39running since you were a child and it
  573. 19:41doesn't have an off switch. The question
  574. 19:43is can you get in there once a day and
  575. 19:45change what it's saying? And that's the
  576. 19:48technique. Here it is and it takes about
  577. 19:502 minutes. You do it tonight lying down
  578. 19:53in that last stretch before sleep takes
  579. 19:55you. Neville had a name for that window.
  580. 19:57He called it the state akin to sleep.
  581. 19:59Here's what he meant. As you drift off,
  582. 20:02the part of your mind that argues, the
  583. 20:04part that's beaten every affirmation
  584. 20:05you've ever tried, clocks off before the
  585. 20:08rest of you does. For a few minutes,
  586. 20:10you're awake enough to direct your
  587. 20:11thoughts and too far gone to object to
  588. 20:13them. Here's what gets me about it. The
  589. 20:16man had no equipment and no laboratory.
  590. 20:18He was describing something sleep
  591. 20:20researchers now study directly. They
  592. 20:22call it hypnogogia. Brainwave recordings
  593. 20:25at sleep onset show the alert rhythms
  594. 20:27dropping away and slower theta activity
  595. 20:29coming up. And in that window, people
  596. 20:31are measurably more open to suggestion
  597. 20:34and more likely to accept an imagined
  598. 20:36scene as something that happened.
  599. 20:37[music] It's also where a
  600. 20:39disproportionate number of people get
  601. 20:40their ideas, which is why so many of us
  602. 20:42have reached for a notepad at midnight.
  603. 20:45He worked that out in 1940s living rooms
  604. 20:47from nothing but paying attention. So,
  605. 20:50here's what you do with it. Don't
  606. 20:51picture a bank balance. Don't picture an
  607. 20:53object. Those don't work and you've
  608. 20:55already tried them. Instead, you
  609. 20:57construct a conversation, a short one,
  610. 21:00the one you'd be having a few days after
  611. 21:01the thing already worked out. And it's
  612. 21:04got to be an afterwards conversation,
  613. 21:06not somebody telling you it's going to
  614. 21:07happen. Somebody responding to the fact
  615. 21:09that it did. So, it might be your
  616. 21:12daughter on the phone saying, "I'm so
  617. 21:14glad, Mom. You sound different." It
  618. 21:16might be a friend saying, "When did that
  619. 21:18come through?" It might be your own
  620. 21:20voice saying, "Thank you to somebody and
  621. 21:22meaning it." Two or three lines. That's
  622. 21:24all it ever needs to be. Short is
  623. 21:27better. A long scene gives you something
  624. 21:29to manage, and managing is being awake.
  625. 21:32Then you loop it. You run those same
  626. 21:34lines again gently, the way a song gets
  627. 21:36stuck. And you let yourself be in the
  628. 21:39conversation rather than watching it. If
  629. 21:41your attention wanders, bring it back.
  630. 21:43If you fall asleep in the middle of it,
  631. 21:45that's not failing. That's the best
  632. 21:47possible outcome, and it's exactly what
  633. 21:49he said to aim for. Two things people
  634. 21:51get wrong, and I'd rather say them now
  635. 21:53than have you write to me about them in
  636. 21:55a week. The first is that it'll feel
  637. 21:57like lying. The first few nights, some
  638. 21:59part of you will be going, "This is not
  639. 22:01true. She didn't say that. None of this
  640. 22:04happened. Let it say so. You're not
  641. 22:06trying to convince it. You're just
  642. 22:07putting the lines through while it's
  643. 22:09half asleep and too tired to litigate.
  644. 22:11Conviction isn't the entry fee here.
  645. 22:14Repetition is. The second is the
  646. 22:16morning. Do not wake up and check. Don't
  647. 22:19look at the account. Don't scan the day
  648. 22:20for a sign. Don't ask yourself whether
  649. 22:22it's working. Checking is the arguing
  650. 22:25part getting back on shift. And it
  651. 22:27undoes the night in about 4 seconds. You
  652. 22:29ran it. It's in. The bridge is being
  653. 22:32built. Go make the coffee. And notice
  654. 22:34what you've done. You've taken the
  655. 22:36faculty you've been using backwards for
  656. 22:3840 years, rehearsing the call that goes
  657. 22:40badly, and you've pointed it at the call
  658. 22:42that goes well. Same machinery, same
  659. 22:45vividness, same conviction, different
  660. 22:47direction, same 2 minutes you were going
  661. 22:50to spend lying there worrying anyway.
  662. 22:52So, let me put the whole thing in one
  663. 22:54place so you can hold it without
  664. 22:55rewinding. One, the world is yourself
  665. 22:58pushed out. your account, your work, the
  666. 23:01way people speak to you. That's the
  667. 23:03print out, not the cause. You've spent
  668. 23:0540 years correcting the printout. Two,
  669. 23:08the lever is I am. Whatever you attach
  670. 23:11to those two words becomes an
  671. 23:13instruction. Yours is I am ready to
  672. 23:16receive. Three, it travels by a bridge
  673. 23:18of incidents. Small, dull, deniable
  674. 23:21events, one plank at a time, each with a
  675. 23:24perfectly ordinary explanation of its
  676. 23:26own. Tomorrow looking exactly like today
  677. 23:28isn't nothing happening. That's plank
  678. 23:30one and you're standing on it. Four,
  679. 23:33Neville's mental diet. 90 good seconds
  680. 23:36against 14 hours of rehearsing the
  681. 23:38opposite is why this has never worked
  682. 23:39for you. Five, the inner conversation is
  683. 23:42the thing. It's running now. It's been
  684. 23:45running for decades and it's the only
  685. 23:47part of this you can actually get your
  686. 23:48hands on. And the technique tonight as
  687. 23:51you go under two or three lines of an
  688. 23:53afterwards conversation on a loop.
  689. 23:56That's all of it. Nothing else to learn,
  690. 23:58nothing to buy. Now, if you wrote your
  691. 24:00sentence earlier, go back down and add
  692. 24:02one line underneath it. Just the first
  693. 24:04line of your afterwards conversation,
  694. 24:06the thing you want somebody to say to
  695. 24:08you once it's already done. And write it
  696. 24:10the way they'd actually say it. Not a
  697. 24:12wish. Their words, their voice, the way
  698. 24:15they'd phrase it on a Tuesday. If you
  699. 24:17can hear it when you read it back,
  700. 24:18you've got the line you're using
  701. 24:20tonight. And read one other person's
  702. 24:22while you're there. Somebody down there
  703. 24:23typed something tonight that they've
  704. 24:25never told a soul and you're the only
  705. 24:27one who's going to see it. Say you hope
  706. 24:29it comes. 10 seconds costs you nothing.
  707. 24:32And it's the only thing in those
  708. 24:33comments that anybody will remember
  709. 24:35tomorrow. And if this one landed,
  710. 24:37subscribe. Not as a favor. You're going
  711. 24:39to run this tonight. Almost everybody
  712. 24:41does. The first night is easy. The
  713. 24:44question is day 19 when nothing's
  714. 24:46visibly moved and stopping would be the
  715. 24:48reasonable thing to do. The people who
  716. 24:50are still going at that point aren't
  717. 24:52tougher than you. Somebody was just
  718. 24:53still saying it to them. Before you go
  719. 24:55though, there's one more, and it's the
  720. 24:57strangest thing he ever taught.
  721. 24:59Everything tonight points forward. You
  722. 25:02set the assumption, and the bridge
  723. 25:03builds out ahead of you. But he also
  724. 25:05said you can go backwards. He said, "The
  725. 25:07event in your past that you think made
  726. 25:09you this way. The thing somebody said to
  727. 25:11you, the year it all came apart, the
  728. 25:13conversation you still hear isn't
  729. 25:16finished." He said, "Memory isn't a
  730. 25:18record. It's a living thing and you can
  731. 25:20go back into it and run it differently
  732. 25:22and that when you do the version of you
  733. 25:24it produced changes too. One last thing
  734. 25:27and this one's bigger than everything I
  735. 25:29just told you. Everything tonight points
  736. 25:31forward. Neville said you can go
  737. 25:33backwards. That thing in your past, the
  738. 25:36words somebody said to you, the year it
  739. 25:38all came apart. He said it isn't
  740. 25:40finished. It's still open. You can go
  741. 25:42back in tonight and run it differently
  742. 25:44and the version of you it made changes
  743. 25:46with it. He called it revision. He did
  744. 25:49it every night of his life. That video
  745. 25:51is on your screen right now. Go and
  746. 25:53watch it before you sleep because
  747. 25:55tonight's technique moves twice as fast
  748. 25:57once that's out of the way. Go on, click
  749. 25:59it.

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