This Is Why God Don't Listen To Your Prayers When You Have Issues With Your Husband #family #isi — Transcript

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1. 0:04Submission is also a weapon of
2. 0:09war. This this is not just
3. 0:12about you know that nice thing or
4. 0:16marriage submitting your husband. No,
5. 0:18this is
6. 0:20warfare. You there are certain spaces
7. 0:23you cannot
8. 0:24command if you don't get your governance
9. 0:27in order.
10. 0:32There are certain spaces you cannot
11. 0:34command if you don't get your governance
12. 0:36in order.
13. 0:38I remember once I was praying I was on
14. 0:40my knees and and I'm like I just felt
15. 0:43like this weight of warfare. So
16. 0:46I'm I command I speak to this I speak to
17. 0:49that. I could feel the path opening and
18. 0:52then we had gotten deep into prayer, you
19. 0:55know, I am the Lord and I'm like and the
20. 0:57next I'm like right now I declared it
21. 0:59and the Lord says stop. And I was like
22. 1:02why? Cuz I'm like Lord I am ready. Let's
23. 1:06tear the devil's Like why? And he
24. 1:08said to me he said because you're out of
25. 1:11order you know. And I said and he said
26. 1:14to me this terrain you're about to enter
27. 1:16is all about order and governance. He
28. 1:19said, "You will be disqualified and
29. 1:21you'll be taken down by Satan if you
30. 1:24enter this way." And I said, "What is
31. 1:26out of order?" He said, "Your
32. 1:28relationship with your
33. 1:30husband." And immediately he played back
34. 1:32to my mind a conversation I'd had with
35. 1:34him the day before. And even though I
36. 1:37had done the, "Oh, welcome, welcome,
37. 1:39okay, your food is on the table, you
38. 1:41know, we are okay." But we weren't
39. 1:43talking. And I hadn't gone back to make
40. 1:46peace, you know. And the Lord said to
41. 1:48me, "That's going to be used against you
42. 1:51here in this terrain you're about to
43. 1:53enter." He said, "So you have to stop
44. 1:56now and go back and settle it before you
45. 1:59can engage." So I literally got up from
46. 2:02the place of prayer. I went beside, he
47. 2:04was sleeping. I knelt down beside him. I
48. 2:07was like, "This is
49. 2:09like I said, please wake up. They want
50. 2:11to kill me. Wake up. Wake up."
51. 2:15that kill
52. 2:18me. I was like, who wants to kill you? I
53. 2:21was like, look, I was praying. It's
54. 2:24like, okay. And I was like, I'm sorry.
55. 2:26So, are you telling me you're sorry
56. 2:27because you're afraid or you're sorry
57. 2:28because you're sorry? I like it doesn't
58. 2:30even matter right now, you know. Um, but
59. 2:34for me, that was a huge lesson. And the
60. 2:37way Satan derails us is that he makes us
61. 2:40as women get super emotional that we
62. 2:42take our eyes off God's governmental
63. 2:45system. You know, we just like to hell
64. 2:48with government. I feel this. I feel
65. 2:50that you can
66. 2:53Yeah.
67. 2:55Do you understand? Like a president of a
68. 2:57country has no time to be all up in his
69. 3:01feelings. Yeah. There are policies to be
70. 3:04made. There are
71. 3:06legislations, there are things to be
72. 3:08done. You don't have time for that, you
73. 3:10know. So on a certain level of spiritual
74. 3:14authority, we we have to understand that
75. 3:17it was a curse that when the Lord said
76. 3:19to the woman, he didn't curse her, but
77. 3:21he was saying this is the consequence of
78. 3:23your disobedience. Now you're going to
79. 3:26be all about he did this, he did that,
80. 3:28he did that, he did this, and you will
81. 3:30no longer have the power to operate in
82. 3:32the office of woman. So that's not a
83. 3:35beautiful thing. It's actually a
84. 3:38brokenness that happened to her in the
85. 3:39garden that her desire shall be for the
86. 3:41man only and he shall rule over you. His
87. 3:44actions will rule over your decisions,
88. 3:46your emotions, your failing, your
89. 3:47conclusions. It's actually part of the
90. 3:50brokenness that Jesus came to resolve.
91. 3:53So by the blood of Jesus, we have the
92. 3:56power, the capacity to put our emotions
93. 3:59in check and to not glorify pain above
94. 4:02purpose,
95. 4:04you know. So I just felt like I needed
96. 4:06to add that real quickly. So this is not
97. 4:08a thing of women chatting and oh the men
98. 4:11could be funny. No, no, no, no. This is
99. 4:14warfare, you know. So um some many times
100. 4:18I have to just like prey myself into
101. 4:22seeing the bigger picture
102. 4:25and to understand that this little
103. 4:27unresolved thing has the capacity to
104. 4:30disqualify me from operating in the
105. 4:33fullness of my calling that will save a
106. 4:36generation.
107. 4:38So you submit not because you feel like
108. 4:43but because you are required to but also
109. 4:46because you are building a kingdom.
110. 4:49Amen. One of the things I love to say to
111. 4:52women that I have taught over the years
112. 4:56is I always say to women that a woman is
113. 5:00not a gender, a woman is an
114. 5:03office. And we have mistaken femininity
115. 5:08um for
116. 5:09womanhood. Um you are
117. 5:12female in terms of your
118. 5:15vessel. But your womanhood is a is an
119. 5:18internal
120. 5:20configuration, a unique configuration
121. 5:23imputed into you by God. It's the way
122. 5:26you see, sense, analyze, and represent
123. 5:31what you have received from the Lord.
124. 5:33the way you represent it to the
125. 5:35world. And it's distinct is different
126. 5:38from the way the man sees, senses,
127. 5:41analyzes, and presents to the
128. 5:45world. It was the woman that Satan had
129. 5:47the conversation with through the
130. 5:50serpent. And there's a reason
131. 5:52why. Um, it wasn't because the woman was
132. 5:56weaker in spirit. It was actually
133. 5:59because the woman was called to be the
134. 6:01esar, to be the helper, to be the
135. 6:05strategist, the warfare
136. 6:07strategist. If you take down a person's
137. 6:10military defense system, you can take
138. 6:12down their
139. 6:13nation. And she was meant to be that for
140. 6:17the man. Um, so it helps you understand
141. 6:21how you are supposed to be configured as
142. 6:23a woman.
143. 6:25When they came out of the garden and
144. 6:28when they sinned, what God said? It
145. 6:31says, "I will place
146. 6:32enmity between you and the serpent and
147. 6:36between your seed and the
148. 6:40serpent. The inner anger you have and
149. 6:45that strength to keep a fight is not
150. 6:49supposed to be with the man. It's
151. 6:51supposed to be against the serpent.
152. 6:55The enimity declared by God wasn't
153. 6:58between the woman and the man. It was
154. 7:00actually God's way of ensuring she
155. 7:03remains an
156. 7:04Ezar. They may have fallen. They may
157. 7:07have sinned. But so that her role is
158. 7:10preserved as the one who fights the
159. 7:14serpent so that the dominion mandates is
160. 7:17maintained and the man can execute his
161. 7:20call.
162. 7:22But we turn it around and we take all of
163. 7:25that emotional
164. 7:28firepower and turn it towards the man.
165. 7:31And then the serpent sleeves and passes
166. 7:34to the barriers, plunders and
167. 7:37destroys while you are
168. 7:40sending your ammunition at the wrong
169. 7:43target.
170. 7:46So as a woman, one of the things you
171. 7:49must learn to master is
172. 7:51clarity. Clarity is not a gift. Clarity
173. 7:55is a
174. 7:57practice. You have to learn to step
175. 8:01back and ask yourself, what exactly is
176. 8:05going on
177. 8:08here? What am I dealing
178. 8:11with? What am I fighting?
179. 8:14who stands to gain and who stands to
180. 8:20lose. I found out that as women many
181. 8:24times we don't know how to do
182. 8:26that. They say women are feelers, men
183. 8:29are thinkers. I think it's a life from
184. 8:31the pit of
185. 8:35hell. I think it's a life from the pit
186. 8:37of hell. Satan didn't even make an
187. 8:38effort with
188. 8:40Adam. Bible says he was not deceived yet
189. 8:43at it.
190. 8:44Who does that?
191. 8:50At least he knew he had to deceive her.
192. 8:53If not, she wasn't going to eat it.
193. 8:58But him, he didn't even need deception.
194. 9:02He just ate it. Even though when you
195. 9:04think about
196. 9:05it, he didn't eat it because, you know,
197. 9:09he just let's just go ahead and disobey
198. 9:12God. God, his bride had
199. 9:16fallen and she was one with him. So
200. 9:20there was a part of Adam that sought to
201. 9:23go redeem her. But the difference
202. 9:26between the first Adam and the second
203. 9:27Adam because the second Adam did
204. 9:29willingly choose to become
205. 9:31sin the same way that the first Adam
206. 9:33did. But the difference was the second
207. 9:35Adam did it with the authority of God
208. 9:37and the backing of heaven. That's why he
209. 9:40didn't fail when he became a sin
210. 9:41sacrifice.
211. 9:43But the first Adam just became seen
212. 9:45hoping that somehow he could maybe pull
213. 9:47her out of it. I don't know what he was
214. 9:50thinking.
215. 9:52Um but for the devil to get her to do
216. 9:55what she did, a dialogue was necessary.
217. 9:59I think women are
218. 10:03thinkers and we have a
219. 10:05capacity to navigate realms in our
220. 10:10thought. And every realm you navigate in
221. 10:13conversation, whether internal or
222. 10:14external conversation, you open up that
223. 10:17realm to your
224. 10:19family. And that was what happened in
225. 10:21the garden.
226. 10:22The moment she engaged that realm of
227. 10:25death with the serpent, it became the
228. 10:28standard of the day and Adam was
229. 10:31fighting a losing
230. 10:34battle. You are a
231. 10:38gatekeeper. You are a door
232. 10:42opener. You are a realm
233. 10:46controller. That's why when a woman is
234. 10:48angry, you enter the house, you can feel
235. 10:49it.
236. 10:51you will know everything locks
237. 10:55up. Even oxygen is hard to
238. 11:01find. That's why God advised the man
239. 11:05carefully. He said, "Be careful how you
240. 11:08treat her. If not, if you like pray from
241. 11:11today to next year, you will not have
242. 11:13answers because she's a gatekeeper. If
243. 11:17she locks it, it is locked.
244. 11:20Be
245. 11:24careful. It says, "Husband, dwell with
246. 11:26your wives in knowledge." The word for
247. 11:29knowledge that was used there is a Greek
248. 11:31word that means knowledge of three
249. 11:33things. Number one, scientific
250. 11:36knowledge. He says, "Dwell with her in
251. 11:40the knowledge of how she is formed and
252. 11:43how she functions scientifically."
253. 11:46what time of the
254. 11:47month is she really crazy or is she just
255. 11:51on her
256. 11:52cycle? Um, how how does she feel when
257. 11:56she wakes up? How does she act when
258. 11:58she's pregnant? Like all of those things
259. 12:00you need scientific knowledge. The
260. 12:03second meaning for that word knowledge
261. 12:05also men do with her with financial
262. 12:10knowledge. Women like money whether you
263. 12:13like it or not.
264. 12:17They like to feel secured and it's not
265. 12:20out of selfishness. A woman naturally
266. 12:23worries for her cub, for her seed, her
267. 12:25future, the home. So dwell with her in
268. 12:30knowledge. Um the things that have to be
269. 12:32taken care of. And the last um meaning
270. 12:35for that word knowledge. Okay, there's
271. 12:37scientific then I think it's spiritual
272. 12:40also. That's the third one. So a man
273. 12:43doesn't
274. 12:45successfully dwell with a woman if he
275. 12:48doesn't have
276. 12:49knowledge. I feel like sometimes as
277. 12:51women we are asking for too much. No, I
278. 12:54rephrase. We are asking for what is not
279. 12:57possible because it has not been given
280. 13:00to the
281. 13:02man. How many men went to the school of
282. 13:05womanhood before they married?
283. 13:09How many men actually truly were trained
284. 13:13by fathers who had knowledge and skill
285. 13:18and
286. 13:19insight? How many of them were told this
287. 13:22is how to dwell with her? And I'm not
288. 13:25talking about traditional
289. 13:28knowledge. Not
290. 13:30many. And then you are expecting that
291. 13:33person to give you what they don't have.
292. 13:37Can we also talk about
293. 13:40adultery? Can we talk about how adultery
294. 13:43locks a man up in
295. 13:45chains? You are expecting a person that
296. 13:48is already incapacitated to become a
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298. 13:51deliverer. Have you considered that he
299. 13:54doesn't even know how to deliver
300. 13:56himself? And you are saying now if we're
301. 13:59going to make this marriage work, he
302. 14:00does he cannot he doesn't know what to
303. 14:02do.
304. 14:04He's just acting like, you know, yeah,
305. 14:06we go. All right. Yeah. But he really
306. 14:11meant So in a case like that, what is
307. 14:14the
308. 14:18solution? When you find yourself at the
309. 14:21crossroads of
310. 14:24pain slash desire for something
311. 14:28different, you get to
312. 14:30choose. Do I back away from this so that
313. 14:33I I can get what I want and what makes
314. 14:36me safe? Or do I face this head on and
315. 14:39see what's possible on the other side of
316. 14:44warfare? Whatever you choose, the Lord
317. 14:46will be with you.