The truth about ADHD TikTok (and why it's going viral) | Top Comment Podcast — Transcript
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- 0:00Matt, I've had several messages from
- 0:01people getting in touch about how lots
- 0:03of content relating to ADHD or um other
- 0:08neurodivergent conditions have been
- 0:10popping up on their social media feed.
- 0:12So much so that they kind of feel like,
- 0:13"Oh, wait a sec. Like, am I experiencing
- 0:16this? Have I got ADHD? Have I got
- 0:18autism?" Lots of kind of pseudo
- 0:20psychology. I think that's the issue,
- 0:22the kind of pseudo bit.
- 0:23>> Exactly. And and it's it's really
- 0:25interesting to try and parse this out
- 0:27from the genuine rise in ADHD diagnoses
- 0:31um versus, you know, how much of this is
- 0:34just people who think they might have
- 0:35ADHD because they've seen something on
- 0:36social media. The NHS modern data shows
- 0:38that the number of um people waiting for
- 0:40an ADHD assessment rose from 21,000
- 0:44in April 2019 to around 270,000
- 0:48by December 2025. So, it's a huge rise.
- 0:51>> And that's kind of the reason we're
- 0:52talking about it because there is a lot
- 0:54of content about this, and it can be
- 0:55quite tricky actually to figure out like
- 0:57what's true and helpful and what's
- 0:59misleading.
- 1:00>> Here's how to tell if a girl has ADHD in
- 1:02under 1 minute. These signs are going to
- 1:04be weirdly specific and probably creep
- 1:07you out a little bit.
- 1:08>> it's like inside the mind of someone
- 1:10with inattentive ADHD like me.
- 1:25>> In 2017, I just got prescribed ADHD
- 1:27medication, so I wanted to talk about
- 1:28some of the symptoms that made me
- 1:29realize I need to see a psychiatrist.
- 1:31>> There's been a fair bit of research done
- 1:33done into this in recent months and
- 1:35years. There was this study that came
- 1:36out last year about how there are 28
- 1:39billion views on the hashtag ADHD. So,
- 1:41we're talking about like a
- 1:43a a huge section of content, and you can
- 1:45see how easily misinformation and
- 1:47inaccuracies can be baked into that,
- 1:49which is something that quite a few
- 1:51experts, clinicians have have warned
- 1:53about. I'm sure there are people booking
- 1:55in for ADHD assessments who very much
- 1:58have it, there also could be a lot of
- 2:00people who don't have it but have
- 2:01convinced themselves they have.
- 2:02>> Yeah, I mean that it's such an
- 2:04interesting topic because
- 2:07on the whole, increased awareness around
- 2:10mental health issues is a good thing. Um
- 2:12you know, for example, the the the rise
- 2:15is in ADHD diagnoses
- 2:18and people seeking a diagnosis, but the
- 2:20population prevalence of ADHD has been
- 2:22constant. So, there's always been around
- 2:255% of children, 3 or 4% of of young
- 2:27people and adults in this country have
- 2:29had ADHD. But uh the number of people
- 2:32who are actually getting diagnosed with
- 2:33it has increased. So, the administrative
- 2:34awareness, people who are actually
- 2:36getting the the the help and the
- 2:37>> Who is actually questioning whether they
- 2:39>> Yeah, it has has increased. But
- 2:40obviously, that jump from 21,000 to
- 2:42270,000 is huge. So, clearly, you know,
- 2:46a lot of social media self-diagnosis is
- 2:48going on. And that comes because it
- 2:50comes from a lot of these uh creators
- 2:52are basically saying things like, "If
- 2:53you don't clean your room and like if
- 2:55you do your homework late, then like you
- 2:57have ADHD."
- 2:58>> [clears throat]
- 2:58>> And you actually do have ADHD, don't
- 2:59you?
- 3:00>> I yeah, I so I do have ADHD. I got an
- 3:02official diagnosis of ADHD.
- 3:06Um
- 3:06and to be fair, I I do think that like
- 3:09social media played a role in that
- 3:10actually because it happened when I was
- 3:12writing my last book. Um and it was just
- 3:14so difficult. Like I've always had
- 3:16things, right? Like I wrote my
- 3:18dissertation
- 3:19in
- 3:21like basically one 24-hour period. And
- 3:23this is like a history dissertation at
- 3:25uni. That's like zero to complete in 24
- 3:28hours. It's not like you're enjoying
- 3:30your life more cuz you're not working.
- 3:31You're more distracted and you're you're
- 3:33more stressed out because you're not
- 3:35working and you just don't have the
- 3:36executive function to actually like
- 3:39do what you know needs to be done, which
- 3:40is like sit down and actually do the
- 3:41thing. And it's also affected my life in
- 3:43like lots of other ways, too. Like there
- 3:44was the Have I ever told
- 3:45>> [laughter]
- 3:46>> Have I ever told you about like um
- 3:48the the foxes incident?
- 3:52>> No. [clears throat]
- 3:52>> I mean, I don't know if how much I can
- 3:53go into
- 3:54>> I would definitely remember if something
- 3:55called the foxes incident came to
- 3:57discuss.
- 3:57>> think this is ADHD. I I came home from
- 4:00holiday and like
- 4:02foxes had been living inside my house
- 4:04basically. And like I remember my
- 4:05girlfriend's reaction we walked through
- 4:06the door. I was like, "Do we just don't
- 4:08come in. Don't come in." And she was
- 4:10like, "What, Matt? What?" And then like
- 4:12I I like the first thing I noticed there
- 4:14was like
- 4:15>> AI fruit?
- 4:15>> My
- 4:16Yeah, basically she is. So I walked
- 4:18through the door and the first thing I
- 4:19noticed is like slightly colder than
- 4:20normal. And my Doc Martens are like
- 4:22scattered across the floor. Like that's
- 4:24weird. I pick one up. I tip it over and
- 4:25like a bunch of basically piss comes
- 4:28out. And I'm like, "What is going" I
- 4:30look into the living room and it is just
- 4:32a ni- it's a nightmare scenario. Like
- 4:35Like there's like fox like everywhere.
- 4:38They They were like sleeping in our bed.
- 4:40Like even to this day my girlfriend's
- 4:42like, "I can't so imagine them shrieking
- 4:44in the bed." Like And And they they
- 4:47they went into the pantry. They The one
- 4:48thing they decided to eat was my like
- 4:51hot chocolate powder, which they could
- 4:53have just eaten there on the floor. But
- 4:54they took it over to the white sofa, the
- 4:56most expensive item I own. And they ate
- 4:58it there.
- 4:59And And then they discovered that
- 5:01chocolate is poisonous to foxes. So they
- 5:03like threw and threw up and diarrhe- the
- 5:05the chocolate all over my white sofa. So
- 5:07it was bad for them and for me.
- 5:09And like I'm seeing all of this and I'm
- 5:11like, "Oh my god, she's going to be" And
- 5:12she was pregnant by the way. She's
- 5:14[laughter] like I was like, "Please
- 5:16don't come any further." She's like,
- 5:17"What, Matt? What?" And basically I had
- 5:19left the back door like fully open,
- 5:21which is just like a small example
- 5:24>> [laughter]
- 5:25>> how ADHD can like ruin your
- 5:26relationships.
- 5:28Um
- 5:29>> [laughter]
- 5:29>> But like it was the [snorts] book thing
- 5:31that really did it for me. I was like,
- 5:33"This is This is too hard. This is too
- 5:35hard."
- 5:36>> The foxes, that wasn't the last straw.
- 5:39>> I got to replace everything. I got one
- 5:41of those guys on social media. You know
- 5:42the guys who like clean sofas. And it's
- 5:44like before and after. So okay, so then
- 5:45I did the diagnosis. So then like
- 5:47>> How How easy was the diagnosis process?
- 5:49>> it's really hard to get a diagnosis in
- 5:50the UK. The waiting list is huge. I like
- 5:52managed to kind of like hack it by like
- 5:55doing this kind of private NHS combo
- 5:58uh situation. Um and uh
- 6:01they like they
- 6:03they they they they do things like they
- 6:04make you sit down. You have to like do
- 6:05this really boring task for like 30
- 6:07minutes. That was like so difficult for
- 6:08me. And then they like film you while
- 6:09you're doing it. Um they do lots of
- 6:11questionnaires about how it affects your
- 6:12life. Um
- 6:14One of the things they try to establish
- 6:15is whether you had the symptoms in
- 6:16childhood rather than just in adulthood
- 6:19cuz that's cuz it's a developmental
- 6:21disorder, so it's always there, right?
- 6:23So, that's what If someone If you think
- 6:25that ADHD is on the rise because like we
- 6:28are spending too much time on our
- 6:28phones, more distracted, whatever, ADHD
- 6:30couldn't be on the rise because it's a
- 6:31developmental disorder.
- 6:32>> So, you have to have always
- 6:34>> Yeah, exactly.
- 6:35>> Um but like then then they were like
- 6:37they gave the medications and I I tried
- 6:39taking them for a bit, but you can take
- 6:41it and then you can stop. But then when
- 6:42you stop taking it, say in the evening
- 6:44or whatever, like you you you just feel
- 6:46terrible. So, yeah, basically I haven't
- 6:47taken the medication since. So,
- 6:49if you listen to Top Comment, you are
- 6:50getting raw, unmedicated
- 6:53>> [laughter]
- 6:53>> Matt Chisholm's ADHD brain directly into
- 6:56your ears.
- 6:57>> With or without foxes.
- 6:58>> Yeah.
- 6:58>> I've gone down the ADHD rabbit hole on
- 7:00my social media feed before, where you
- 7:02get someone pops up and they say
- 7:03something to you like, you know, do you
- 7:05do these five things?
- 7:07>> Mhm.
- 7:07>> And then you're going through and you're
- 7:08like, "Mhm. Oh, well, maybe I do do that
- 7:10or I do do this." Um and
- 7:13and then you find yourself being uh
- 7:15increasingly targeted with that kind of
- 7:16content and and other kind of adjacent
- 7:20type content as well, like about other
- 7:22forms of neuro divergence, etc. Um and
- 7:26so much of it will kind of speak in
- 7:28language that sounds quite scientific.
- 7:31Like you'll have influencers or
- 7:32infographics where they're saying things
- 7:34that that sound kind of legit. You're
- 7:36like, "Oh, this is like describing a
- 7:37particular sort of attribute or
- 7:40particular sort of psychological
- 7:42phenomenon and therefore it makes it
- 7:44more credible. But actually when you
- 7:45look at So there's this this data that's
- 7:47been collated by the NHS. 52% So that's
- 7:50like half of
- 7:52ADHD related videos on TikTok are
- 7:54inaccurate.
- 7:55>> Wow.
- 7:55>> And only 21% of popular ADHD videos are
- 7:59described as useful in terms of clinical
- 8:01standards. So that's useful for people
- 8:02actually understanding more about ADHD
- 8:04and perhaps whether they have it.
- 8:06>> But how do these people who
- 8:07self-diagnose with ADHD who don't
- 8:09actually have it ADHD? What does that
- 8:11diagnosis do for them, right? Because it
- 8:12can't get them the medication.
- 8:14>> Well, I presume actually what what is
- 8:15more likely to happen is that you have
- 8:17this um
- 8:18influx of people who
- 8:20want to be tested for ADHD, but then
- 8:22when they're tested for ADHD, they don't
- 8:24actually have it.
- 8:24>> clogging up the system.
- 8:26>> I mean, that's the worry really. And and
- 8:28so I I chatted to
- 8:30a woman called Melissa Basolu. She's the
- 8:31social psychologist who works at
- 8:33Cambridge University.
- 8:34And it was one of the things she
- 8:35highlighted straight away. Actually, the
- 8:38harm here is that you're clogging up a
- 8:40system where loads of people then think,
- 8:42oh maybe I do have this. Some of them
- 8:43will, but quite a lot of them won't. And
- 8:45then that means people who actually
- 8:46would massively benefit from having
- 8:49an ADHD diagnosis and being on
- 8:50medication or at least being able to
- 8:52recognize that they have ADHD
- 8:54aren't able to get that assistance as
- 8:56quickly as they otherwise would be able
- 8:58to.
- 8:59And one of the things that she
- 9:00highlighted when I chatted to her was
- 9:03about Essentially, what a lot of the
- 9:04content will do is hook you in by
- 9:06describing things that lots of people
- 9:08do.
- 9:09>> Yes.
- 9:10>> People with ADHD possibly do do them
- 9:11perhaps perhaps more so than people who
- 9:13don't have ADHD, but things that like
- 9:15losing your keys or leaving your
- 9:16straighteners on or whatever it is. Um
- 9:19and then you find yourself going down
- 9:21that kind of like BuzzFeed-esque quiz.
- 9:23Like, "Ooh, do I have
- 9:25>> Cuz everyone loves a quiz.
- 9:26>> Everyone loves a quiz and they love a
- 9:27quiz about themselves.
- 9:28>> Content I find can almost be
- 9:30horoscope-like
- 9:32in the sense that it resonates with all
- 9:33of us. And I I there's something really
- 9:35interesting happening psychologically in
- 9:37that once we are primed, we tend to look
- 9:40for and notice instances that fit that
- 9:42belief. If we are beginning to wonder
- 9:45whether we have some undiagnosed mental
- 9:47health condition, our brain starts
- 9:50hunting for cues that confirm it. And
- 9:52repeated exposure to content telling us
- 9:55why we might be underdiagnosed doesn't
- 9:57just nudge us towards the belief. It can
- 10:00actually make the belief feel more true
- 10:02because the repeated exposure itself
- 10:05creates an ease with which we process
- 10:07something familiar, and that often gets
- 10:09misread as accuracy.
- 10:11>> If you're a man, you're I guarantee if
- 10:13you're a man, you're getting this. Like
- 10:14what metabolism are you? Are you the
- 10:15wolf, the dolphin, or like the lion? And
- 10:18it's like
- 10:18>> Yeah, but I I always get like what
- 10:20attachment style are you? Like are you
- 10:21avoidant? Are you anxious? Are you
- 10:23disorganized? And a lot of it, I think,
- 10:25is a really understandable like innate
- 10:26human thing, which is we want to better
- 10:28understand ourselves. You just described
- 10:31how the process isn't straightforward
- 10:32and it's something that can often happen
- 10:34later in life. It doesn't necessarily
- 10:35happen when you're a kid. One of the
- 10:36things that Melissa describes is how
- 10:39specific groups of people, um
- 10:40particularly women, for example,
- 10:43are historically more likely not to have
- 10:45been diagnosed with ADHD, or how ADHD
- 10:47presents in those groups of people isn't
- 10:49as well known. And that contributes to
- 10:51then those groups of people seeking out
- 10:55that sort of content and engaging with
- 10:56it because actually they feel like they
- 10:57haven't been listened to or understood
- 10:59by medics and other people who could
- 11:02have diagnosed them.
- 11:02>> Many of these conditions, and in
- 11:05particular ADHD, is often underdiagnosed
- 11:08and misdiagnosed. There's a gendered
- 11:10aspects to it, but also for people of
- 11:12color, there's a real element where the
- 11:14usual source of information care carry
- 11:18access barriers for exactly those
- 11:20groups, and content on social media
- 11:22feels more accessible and more
- 11:24relatable.
- 11:25There are of course financial and
- 11:27logistical barriers to all of that. And
- 11:29so, getting an appointment or finding
- 11:32someone who understands you and your
- 11:34lived experience, especially if you hold
- 11:37marginalized or stigmatized identities,
- 11:40are huge gaps that we still need to
- 11:42address and that social media is for
- 11:45many people the first time their
- 11:47experience is reflected back to them.
- 11:50>> And one of the other reasons this seems
- 11:51to be happening is because of this
- 11:52in-out group thing, which we've talked
- 11:54about on Top Comment before and is
- 11:57essentially how algorithms
- 11:59recommendation systems sort us into into
- 12:02groups and that's really powerful
- 12:03because you find a community and an
- 12:04identity and there's a lot of kind of
- 12:07engagement and confirmation bias that
- 12:09exists in that in that world you become
- 12:12a part of.
- 12:13>> Belonging is one of our most intrinsic
- 12:15needs as human beings
- 12:17and yet in a world of extreme
- 12:19connectedness, we're also seeing record
- 12:21levels of loneliness and social
- 12:23isolation. And when we see people we
- 12:26like and trust, whether that's our
- 12:28actual friends and family and
- 12:30acquaintances online or influencers and
- 12:33public figures we've formed parasocial
- 12:35relationships with, we're very likely to
- 12:37trust what they tell us. Identifying
- 12:39with a diagnosis can become a genuine
- 12:42source of belonging.
- 12:44Suddenly, there's a community that
- 12:45recognizes you, a shared language, an
- 12:48explanation that finally fits. That's
- 12:51often a really good thing, but it also
- 12:54means questioning the content can start
- 12:56to feel like questioning the community
- 12:58or even questioning yourself. And once a
- 13:01belief is bound up with belonging, it's
- 13:03much harder to hold up to scrutiny, I
- 13:05think, because now there's a real social
- 13:08cost to doubting it.
- 13:09>> I've seen this
- 13:10more around autism than ADHD, but this
- 13:14idea of like really enjoying
- 13:17identifying as as autistic when you
- 13:19don't have an official diagnosis, but
- 13:20you self-diagnose. Like there's a whole
- 13:22like self-diagnosed autism community
- 13:25online and
- 13:27yeah, it has it to some people has
- 13:28become a kind of in group cool factor
- 13:31and identity for them. The whole idea of
- 13:33the word neurodivergent it's like
- 13:35instead of marginalizing people, it's
- 13:38saying like you're diff you know, you
- 13:39may be different.
- 13:40>> And that can be a positive thing.
- 13:41>> And can be a positive thing.
- 13:42>> Also being normal is something we
- 13:43chatted about on the last episode of top
- 13:45comment it when we're talking about the
- 13:47max of space and like maxing like on
- 13:50social media in particular but that's
- 13:51bled out into the real world. No one
- 13:53wants to just be like average.
- 13:55>> Yeah, yeah.
- 13:56>> They want to be like something and they
- 13:58want to like max it out. It feels like
- 14:00it's kind of part of that. It's like I
- 14:02don't want to just be like the average
- 14:03person.
- 14:04>> Yeah, absolutely.
- 14:06And also the term neuro spicy now which
- 14:08is now how a lot of kind of
- 14:10neurodivergent people are identifying
- 14:11themselves. I think fundamentally it's
- 14:12like you shouldn't be posting about
- 14:15being autistic if you don't have an
- 14:17official diagnosis necessarily because
- 14:20you may not be autistic, right? So you
- 14:22are claiming identity that you may not
- 14:23have but also
- 14:24>> and sharing a list of kind of attributes
- 14:26that people may resonate with but then
- 14:28it turns out that perhaps you didn't
- 14:29have that diagnosis and neither do they.
- 14:31>> Exactly and this ties into this kind of
- 14:33online mistrust of of the established
- 14:34medical society. It's like you know,
- 14:36this idea as you mentioned sorry, the
- 14:38idea as you mentioned of certain groups
- 14:39being under diagnosed women especially
- 14:41with autism as well as ADHD
- 14:44then saying well therefore we don't
- 14:45trust the medical establishment so we're
- 14:47going to diagnose ourselves and that's
- 14:49now become our identities which is also
- 14:50now a political identity. It's an
- 14:51identity that rejects Western medicine
- 14:54that rejects the patriarchy and and then
- 14:56they further entrenched themselves into
- 14:58a position where they're never going to
- 14:59get the diagnosis and the help that they
- 15:00need. That I think is problematic. On
- 15:03the other hand, the reason I sought a
- 15:04diagnosis of ADHD was because there were
- 15:07people online who were writing about the
- 15:08experiences I was having and the people
- 15:10responding were like you should look
- 15:12into whether you have ADHD. So like I do
- 15:14think that the online experience is
- 15:17is helpful for people and also a lot of
- 15:19the most famous people on the internet
- 15:21are autistic. I mean there's Elon Musk,
- 15:23there are people who self-identify as
- 15:24autistic like Clavicular. There's even
- 15:26Curtis Yarvin, he calls himself an
- 15:28autist, which is like the online term
- 15:30for autistic. It's now become in some
- 15:32online subcultures a kind of mark badge
- 15:35of honor to be autistic.
- 15:37>> I think this all fits into this wider
- 15:39landscape of medical misinformation,
- 15:40which we've chatted about on top
- 15:41comment, and is essentially about the
- 15:45way that lots of influencers and
- 15:48creators self-style as experts in areas
- 15:52where they don't necessarily have the
- 15:53relevant expertise. And obviously
- 15:55personal experience to some extent is an
- 15:57expertise, but here we're also talking
- 15:58about people who have possibly
- 15:59misdiagnosed themselves. I think it's
- 16:02just brought us to this place where
- 16:04people turn to social media because they
- 16:07they like the tone, they like the way
- 16:09that influencers explain things, they
- 16:10like that personalization. That's not
- 16:12going to be the same as when you're
- 16:13sitting in front of a doctor or a nurse
- 16:15or whoever it is, a psychologist who
- 16:17you're getting advice from. When I speak
- 16:19to doctors and nurses and psychologists,
- 16:22they say it's really difficult for them
- 16:23because they'll often have people come
- 16:25in and sit in front of them, and they
- 16:26start citing all sorts of things from
- 16:28social media, and they're like, "Hang on
- 16:29a second, where did this come from?" And
- 16:31ultimately, as ever, I think for me this
- 16:32comes back to again the social media
- 16:34companies and how their algorithmic
- 16:35systems work and what they prioritize,
- 16:37because a lot of this content which is
- 16:39hyper personal, often quite kind of
- 16:41gamified, like you can tick off what
- 16:43symptoms you've got or not got, is
- 16:45favored and promoted over
- 16:48legitimate commentary and analysis from
- 16:51uh doctors, clinicians, psychologists
- 16:54who do understand these conditions and
- 16:56do know what you can look for. And like
- 16:57that does exist, and people can seek it
- 16:58out, but it's it doesn't speak in
- 17:00absolute certainty, and it doesn't
- 17:02gamify it, and it doesn't get you to do
- 17:03a quiz. And in fact, anything that gets
- 17:04you to basically do a quiz diagnosing
- 17:06yourself in that way is probably not
- 17:08going to be
- 17:09accurate or reliable in the way that you
- 17:12would want and need it to. And until the
- 17:14companies figure out how to well, or
- 17:18rather decide that they want to
- 17:20recalibrate that balance, I think you're
- 17:22going to keep seeing this happen
- 17:23particularly for when it comes to mental
- 17:24health.
- 17:25>> And and the the damages don't just come
- 17:27in the kind of self-diagnosis, it's in
- 17:29the solutions these influencers are
- 17:30offering. I'm always getting like, this
- 17:32is how I cured my ADHD and it's like
- 17:35um like I have a box of candy and I give
- 17:37like myself a candy every time I do a
- 17:38task and it'll be like covering your
- 17:40house in post-it notes or
- 17:41>> It's like talking to your friend and
- 17:42they're like, oh I do this and it's kind
- 17:43of helpful and they're like
- 17:44>> Or the ever-present cold cold immersion.
- 17:46It's like, oh with ADHD I was like, I
- 17:48don't know if that's going to help. No,
- 17:49same, but like the way it's touted as a
- 17:51solution to like literally any like
- 17:53issue from cancer to depression to ADHD
- 17:55is is it's it's getting too much.
- 17:56>> It's unhelpful, yeah.
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