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  1. 0:00I mean, the only thing that I know is
  2. 0:02just that
  3. 0:04I mean, I I uh left the house later than
  4. 0:07what I had said.
  5. 0:09Um,
  6. 0:11excuse me. Did you leave the house with
  7. 0:14your brother Cody looking like that?
  8. 0:18Or did you leave the house with your
  9. 0:20father looking like that or your mother?
  10. 0:24Is that how you left your family?
  11. 0:27>> No.
  12. 0:29Who left your family like this? If you
  13. 0:32were the one that's been depressed, you
  14. 0:33were the one that owes money, you were
  15. 0:35the one that got into a confrontation
  16. 0:36with your father, who did this to your
  17. 0:38family?
  18. 0:42>> No, I didn't do any of this.
  19. 0:49>> This is what happens when obsession
  20. 0:52crosses the line into destruction. When
  21. 0:54fantasy becomes more important than
  22. 0:57family, and when one man's delusion
  23. 1:00spirals so far out of control, it ends
  24. 1:03in bloodshed. Day after day and night
  25. 1:06after night, Granamato sat in the dim
  26. 1:09glow of his family's computer screen.
  27. 1:12utterly captivated by a woman thousands
  28. 1:14of miles away. A Bulgarian webcam model
  29. 1:18named Sylvie. She danced, she posed, and
  30. 1:21she told him everything he wanted to
  31. 1:24hear for a price. And well, Grant, he
  32. 1:27paid it. Hundreds of thousands of
  33. 1:30dollars in hours of his own time, his
  34. 1:33career, his dignity, and eventually his
  35. 1:36family. I can't think of like a better
  36. 1:39way to commit those crimes because
  37. 1:42nobody saw me. Nobody knew what was
  38. 1:45about to happen, you know? And I did
  39. 1:47that on purpose because I didn't want
  40. 1:50that final thought to be,
  41. 1:54wow, I can't believe you're about to do
  42. 1:56this. The fact that I had that
  43. 2:00compassion,
  44. 2:02that's the way that I am. You know, it's
  45. 2:05like even even in the process of doing
  46. 2:07something terrible, I'm trying to be as
  47. 2:09compassionate as possible.
  48. 2:11>> The Grand Tomato case is a chilling tale
  49. 2:13of obsession, deception, and familicide
  50. 2:17that unfolded in Chiliota, Florida in
  51. 2:202019. In this quiet suburb of Florida,
  52. 2:24the Amato family seemed to embody the
  53. 2:27American dream. But beneath the surface,
  54. 2:30a dark obsession was festering, leading
  55. 2:32to a tragic unraveling.
  56. 2:34>> A man accused of killing his parents and
  57. 2:36his brother. Tonight, we're learning
  58. 2:38chilling new details about the events
  59. 2:40that may have led up to it.
  60. 2:41>> Right now, Grant Amato is in jail facing
  61. 2:44those murder charges. News Six's Eric
  62. 2:46Sandaval got a hold of court documents
  63. 2:48that are filling in part of this story.
  64. 2:50Eric?
  65. 2:51>> Yeah, guys, we have gone through
  66. 2:52hundreds of pictures, videos, and
  67. 2:54documents over the last few hours. Most
  68. 2:56of it centers around what investigators
  69. 2:58called a relationship with an online
  70. 3:01model. Tonight, for the very first time,
  71. 3:04we see who this woman is and how this
  72. 3:06man's parents tried so hard to get him
  73. 3:08offline.
  74. 3:10This is the woman that Semino County
  75. 3:12prosecutors say Grant Amato had a
  76. 3:14longstanding and expensive affection for
  77. 3:17online. According to new court
  78. 3:19documents, Amato sent the woman known as
  79. 3:21Sylvie clothing, gift cards, and other
  80. 3:24gifts. gifts that investigators say were
  81. 3:26paid for by stealing money from his
  82. 3:28parents. It's a price tag they say
  83. 3:31soared to more than $200,000.
  84. 3:34Grant Amato was born in 1989. He was the
  85. 3:38youngest son of Chad and Margaret Amato
  86. 3:40alongside his brother Cody. Grant
  87. 3:43pursued a career in nursing, aiming to
  88. 3:46follow in his father's footsteps in the
  89. 3:48medical field. After being expelled from
  90. 3:51anesthesiology school and losing his job
  91. 3:54due to misconduct, Grant found Solless
  92. 3:56in the virtual world, he became
  93. 3:59infatuated with the Bulgarian cam model
  94. 4:02named Sylvie, spending over $200,000
  95. 4:06of his family's money in order to
  96. 4:09maintain the illusion of a lavish
  97. 4:12lifestyle.
  98. 4:12>> All right, Sylvia, look at me. I am I'm
  99. 4:16outside
  100. 4:18going to check the mail
  101. 4:20and I'm asking you if you can please
  102. 4:24pretty please
  103. 4:27send me one of your videos.
  104. 4:29I just I I love it so much when you just
  105. 4:32send them to me. Yeah. I I don't like
  106. 4:34buying your stuff. It makes me feel
  107. 4:36weird.
  108. 4:37Could you please send me one though?
  109. 4:47No, you're not. You're not sorry.
  110. 4:50>> We would just have like I think I
  111. 4:53described it as we were acting like a
  112. 4:56couple of high schoolers who had like
  113. 4:58fall in love where he talked on the
  114. 4:59phone all the time. That was something
  115. 5:01that was foreign to me. Like I've always
  116. 5:02said, you know, that was the first time
  117. 5:04I ever went to a site like that. First
  118. 5:06girl I met, I just kind of fell in love
  119. 5:09with her at first sight and I was
  120. 5:10spending four hours on the site. like
  121. 5:13those are things that she made. So the
  122. 5:14hosts were public for everybody who
  123. 5:17hated her,
  124. 5:18>> right?
  125. 5:19>> But all those other photos, like all
  126. 5:21just single shots of her, pretty much
  127. 5:23all the selfies of her. Um those were
  128. 5:27all personal for me. So nobody else had
  129. 5:30those. I think it's because like I would
  130. 5:33just request to see like, you know, what
  131. 5:35what she looks like tonight, you know,
  132. 5:36like you got all the makeup off. I just
  133. 5:38want to see the normal you. and they
  134. 5:40just they seemed personalized. I feel
  135. 5:42like I have really solid grounds for
  136. 5:45appealing the not only the um the whole
  137. 5:48trial phase but just the whole entire
  138. 5:51case all together. I would flat out
  139. 5:53agree that I agree that there was money
  140. 5:55aspect to it. But that's with anybody
  141. 5:59you know if you were married to somebody
  142. 6:01who had a lot of money you would enjoy
  143. 6:03that hurt of that relationship.
  144. 6:06Everybody loves to get paid,
  145. 6:08but she never asked me for money to
  146. 6:12begin with, ever. And she never
  147. 6:16made it a point that that's why she
  148. 6:18wanted to talk with me. Alarmed by his
  149. 6:21behavior, the Amato family intervened,
  150. 6:24sending Grant to a rehabilitation center
  151. 6:26and setting strict conditions upon his
  152. 6:29return, which cost the entire family an
  153. 6:31additional $15,000,
  154. 6:34putting the family once again in a
  155. 6:36financial crunch. Grant's family now
  156. 6:38discovering his financial deceit and
  157. 6:41obsession. And upon Grant's return, his
  158. 6:44father required that there would be no
  159. 6:46contact with Sylvie and a requirement to
  160. 6:49find employment. Shortly thereafter,
  161. 6:52Grant violates these same conditions
  162. 6:54that were placed on him, leading to
  163. 6:56escalating tensions within the Amato
  164. 6:59household. Concerned co-workers report
  165. 7:02Cody's absence to authorities.
  166. 7:04>> Let's start at the beginning with one of
  167. 7:06the first 911 calls for a wellness check
  168. 7:09on Cody Amato. He is one of the victims
  169. 7:11in this triple murder case. That call
  170. 7:14was made by Cody's coworker. Let's
  171. 7:16listen.
  172. 7:22>> Hi, my name is I called a couple hours
  173. 7:24ago to do a welfare check on a friend of
  174. 7:27mine. I haven't heard anything, but one
  175. 7:30of my other friends did and I just
  176. 7:31wanted to follow up on the person.
  177. 7:35>> Okay. So, just from understanding,
  178. 7:38you're called to have our wellbeing
  179. 7:40checked out on someone. You don't have
  180. 7:43to hear back from anyone, but your
  181. 7:44friend heard back from someone.
  182. 7:47>> Yes, we both called and we didn't
  183. 7:49realize that we had both called. So, he
  184. 7:51heard back a little bit ago, but I did
  185. 7:53not.
  186. 7:54>> So, so what did he tell you when he
  187. 7:57heard back?
  188. 7:59We heard that um they went to our
  189. 8:02friend's house and there was no answer
  190. 8:04at the door and he said his car was
  191. 8:07gone.
  192. 8:08Um
  193. 8:11and they said they don't have the
  194. 8:13address.
  195. 8:14>> Okay. Yeah, we still have officers um
  196. 8:18out there. It looks like they haven't
  197. 8:19made contact with the lab yet, but I'll
  198. 8:21have them give you a phone call back
  199. 8:23with the
  200. 8:25>> Okay. I just I learned that um something
  201. 8:29has come upon my
  202. 8:32I know that his brother struggled um
  203. 8:34with depression and um I believe
  204. 8:37suicidal ideation as well. You mentioned
  205. 8:40it to me and
  206. 8:44>> Okay. Yes, ma'am. We we still have the
  207. 8:47phone out there. So, um that's the third
  208. 8:49line.
  209. 8:51Back. What is your name and phone
  210. 8:52number?
  211. 8:53>> Sorry. Excuse me.
  212. 8:55My name is And my phone number is
  213. 8:59Sorry.
  214. 9:01>> Okay. You know, one of the friends.
  215. 9:03>> Yes.
  216. 9:04>> Okay.
  217. 9:06They um clear the home when they leave
  218. 9:09the home.
  219. 9:11>> All right. Thank you.
  220. 9:12>> All right. You're welcome. Thank you.
  221. 9:14>> Thank you. Bye-bye.
  222. 9:16>> Bye-bye.
  223. 9:17>> On January 24th, 2019, the Amato
  224. 9:20family's worst fears materialized. Grant
  225. 9:24violated the agreement by contacting
  226. 9:26Sylvie using his mother's phone.
  227. 9:29Confronted by his father, Chad, he was
  228. 9:31ordered to leave the house.
  229. 9:33Unfortunately, Grant murdered his
  230. 9:35mother, father, and brother in cold
  231. 9:38blood, attempting to stage the scene as
  232. 9:40a murder suicide to divert suspicion.
  233. 9:43Following a swift police welfare check
  234. 9:46of the Amato family home and thorough
  235. 9:48investigation by detectives involved,
  236. 9:51deputies discovered Chad, Margaret, and
  237. 9:54Cody Amato each shot execution style.
  238. 9:57Grantato was nowhere to be found.
  239. 10:09>> Okay. Oh, apparently I turned my video
  240. 10:12camera on already.
  241. 10:15She said, "Yeah, just get a 1038 there
  242. 10:16and clear the house." I was able to pop
  243. 10:18a uh dead a deadbolt lock that wasn't
  244. 10:21secured all the way.
  245. 10:22>> There is a large cabinet of some kind in
  246. 10:25front of the door. When we opened it up,
  247. 10:27we're going to have to move a cabinet to
  248. 10:29get in, but
  249. 10:30>> like like that barricade in there.
  250. 10:32>> No, no, no. The c the door swings this
  251. 10:34way. The um the cabinet is you know this
  252. 10:38what in whatever room that's in. It's
  253. 10:41just sitting. We're just going to have
  254. 10:42to push it aside to go in. And we'll
  255. 10:43just uh do this very smart way. We're
  256. 10:46going to go in slow and steady and
  257. 10:48smart. Yeah. We got to go around back
  258. 10:50this way.
  259. 10:53>> Knocked in every window, every door. Hit
  260. 10:55the air horn.
  261. 10:59Sheriff's office.
  262. 11:04>> There's a shed right here. You want to
  263. 11:05check the shed?
  264. 11:06>> Yeah. Box 16. Just in case somebody
  265. 11:09takes off on us or something, you know.
  266. 11:11>> I'm sorry. The last golf uniform limo
  267. 11:13fox.
  268. 11:15>> Fox 16. Okay. Which brother called you?
  269. 11:18>> Jason.
  270. 11:22>> Okay.
  271. 11:23>> How do you check that?
  272. 11:24>> It's a white Honda four-door there.
  273. 11:27>> A white Honda four-door.
  274. 11:31>> Well, look. No white Honda.
  275. 11:34>> Honda.
  276. 11:35>> A green Honda. gray Lexus and blue
  277. 11:38Toyota
  278. 11:39>> crime scene.
  279. 11:39>> Yeah, she's doing the crime. Well, she's
  280. 11:41doing the log.
  281. 11:43>> LT wants us to check the attic.
  282. 11:45>> Okay,
  283. 11:45>> we've got Debbie running tags on all
  284. 11:48these people to see if there's any
  285. 11:49vehicles outstanding cuz I guess the
  286. 11:50data is still outstanding. Correct.
  287. 11:52>> Yeah.
  288. 11:53>> How much of a fucking mess is this when
  289. 11:54I go walk in here?
  290. 11:55>> Don't Don't go that way.
  291. 11:56>> Yeah. Kitchen sh We can go in through
  292. 11:58the uh back door here and we can
  293. 12:01>> bathroom. No one else is in there from
  294. 12:02us, right?
  295. 12:03>> Right.
  296. 12:03>> Okay. All right. Give us five minutes.
  297. 12:05We haven't checked trunks or anything
  298. 12:07either. So,
  299. 12:08>> I'm going check over the neighbor's
  300. 12:10fence, too, just in case somebody was,
  301. 12:12you know, crawling or whatever trying to
  302. 12:14get help. Last time the Cody was heard
  303. 12:17from was 9
  304. 12:20uh something last night when his buddy
  305. 12:22texted him.
  306. 12:24>> They were texting back and forth at
  307. 12:259:00.
  308. 12:26>> Yeah, 9 something. And Cody said, "See
  309. 12:28you in the morning."
  310. 12:29>> How old were they?
  311. 12:31uh mid 20sish to late 20s. I haven't
  312. 12:35checked in trunks yet, but I did a
  313. 12:37visual check inside of the vehicles.
  314. 12:39>> I was just trying to get information to
  315. 12:40see cuz I didn't want FD coming in. If
  316. 12:42we have a legit homicide, if it's a
  317. 12:44murder suicide, then
  318. 12:45>> yeah, I I just wanted to be 100% sure,
  319. 12:47especially,
  320. 12:48>> but that's what if it was leaning
  321. 12:49towards I didn't want them coming in.
  322. 12:51>> Yeah,
  323. 12:51>> that's why I needed a a call. I knew you
  324. 12:53guys were busy.
  325. 12:54>> Yeah, we were up for our balls and I I
  326. 12:56just told FD just uh whoever's going to
  327. 12:58pronounce that's it. And If it's obvious
  328. 13:01signs, we don't need it pronounced.
  329. 13:02>> Yeah.
  330. 13:04>> Two of them.
  331. 13:06>> It was like probably, but I didn't want
  332. 13:08to be. It wasn't worth the chance. So,
  333. 13:11>> one of them was Yeah. obvious, but
  334. 13:14>> we need to get some people blocking all
  335. 13:15this shit off so that the news media
  336. 13:17doesn't come now.
  337. 13:18>> And family members. I want
  338. 13:20>> I want it farther out than that.
  339. 13:22>> Okay.
  340. 13:22>> Like out there.
  341. 13:24>> That next road.
  342. 13:24>> Yeah. So, if you can get him to start on
  343. 13:26that,
  344. 13:26>> who who is that?
  345. 13:27>> Same thing down here. Down there.
  346. 13:29>> Okay. LT wants it down further to the
  347. 13:32probably the next road. And same thing
  348. 13:34with this other side. Uh quite a ways
  349. 13:36down.
  350. 13:37>> On January 26, 2019, Granamato was
  351. 13:41located at a hotel in Orlando, Florida.
  352. 13:44He had denied any involvement in the
  353. 13:46murders, but all evidence pointed
  354. 13:48directly to him. from recent purchases
  355. 13:51using family credit cards to multiple
  356. 13:53attempts to access his father's bank
  357. 13:55account.
  358. 13:56>> Okay. I've not made an approach on the
  359. 13:58car. I just observed the tag. So, I
  360. 14:01don't know if he's in it or not. So, I
  361. 14:02want to get it shut down quickly. Yeah.
  362. 14:04We need to block everything we can in
  363. 14:07case he's on foot. All right. The car is
  364. 14:08parked on the very east side
  365. 14:13along I want to say it's turbine right
  366. 14:15here. Hey, get out of here. get in the
  367. 14:19car and go.
  368. 14:19>> Yeah, specifically want to shut down the
  369. 14:22uh the vehicle traffic as well. Then
  370. 14:25we'll start working on the hotel as we
  371. 14:26get enough units in here. A lot of foot
  372. 14:28traffic coming in and out of here. So,
  373. 14:30as you guys block these entrances, make
  374. 14:32sure you look in these cars as they're
  375. 14:33coming out.
  376. 14:34>> Charlie 24 is that the red shirt owner.
  377. 14:36Is that our suspect? I can see him in
  378. 14:38the yellow.
  379. 14:40>> Yeah, I think his name is a motto. Kind
  380. 14:43of a receding hairline, Hispanic looking
  381. 14:47guy. There's a lot of families in this
  382. 14:48hotel, guys. So, we need to be really
  383. 14:50careful. Come in. Pull up to where I'm
  384. 14:52at here.
  385. 14:55>> I knew I was going to find this guy.
  386. 14:57Yeah. He may not even be anywhere
  387. 14:58around, but actually, let's use him to
  388. 15:00park this car. All right. Come over
  389. 15:02here, Adam.
  390. 15:05>> All right. Stay right here. You take the
  391. 15:07back.
  392. 15:13>> Clear.
  393. 15:14>> All right. Clear town.
  394. 15:16>> Ready?
  395. 15:18I can't see in the back seat.
  396. 15:21It doesn't look like he's in there.
  397. 15:23Okay. All right. The car is clear is not
  398. 15:25in the car. So, it's locked down in this
  399. 15:27hotel.
  400. 15:29>> Okay. Good job.
  401. 15:31>> I knew I was looking. I've been hitting
  402. 15:33every fucking hotel. I knew that was
  403. 15:34going to be
  404. 15:35>> blocked that entrance.
  405. 15:37>> One of you completely blocked the
  406. 15:38entrance and I knew the other one.
  407. 15:40>> We need to lock everything down.
  408. 15:42>> Yeah. We need to get in this hotel and
  409. 15:43start moving people out.
  410. 15:44>> Yeah. find out and interview these
  411. 15:46people inside. Yeah. Do you want to do
  412. 15:47that part?
  413. 15:48>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'll talk.
  414. 15:49>> There's I pretty positive around this
  415. 15:51corner there's an employee entrance that
  416. 15:53leads to like their convention space.
  417. 15:55>> Why don't you two, if you don't mind, go
  418. 15:57inside, get the front desk, start
  419. 16:00finding out about this guy.
  420. 16:01>> You guys probably can pull it up.
  421. 16:03>> Yeah. Pull it up real quick.
  422. 16:04>> Grab your computer. Take it in there.
  423. 16:05Show them the picture
  424. 16:06>> because again, remember he may not be
  425. 16:08here. He may have
  426. 16:09>> ditched the car.
  427. 16:12Nikki is going to take this part of it
  428. 16:13and go inside,
  429. 16:15>> talk to the staff. Let's see if we can
  430. 16:17get the staff to see if this guy's here
  431. 16:18or not.
  432. 16:19>> Let them know what we're doing. I don't
  433. 16:21want to stir it up too much cuz we don't
  434. 16:23know if he's here or not.
  435. 16:26>> But I don't want him coming down in the
  436. 16:27lobby and seeing us and
  437. 16:30>> not being able to confront him right on
  438. 16:31the spot. Hey, try to refrain from
  439. 16:33spooking the guests with that panic
  440. 16:35male.
  441. 16:36I don't have his age as the uh
  442. 16:39middle-aged guy of the balding. If you
  443. 16:41don't mind, just keep an eye on that
  444. 16:43car. You're supposed to check out at 11.
  445. 16:45So, we need to really get in there and
  446. 16:47secure that room.
  447. 16:48>> Well, we're going to secure the hallway.
  448. 16:51We need to get the shield up before we
  449. 16:52approach the door.
  450. 16:54>> Secure the hallway. So, if someone comes
  451. 16:56out, boom. We got them.
  452. 16:57>> Understand? There's already guys inside.
  453. 16:59We already have two guys inside. Okay. I
  454. 17:01just want to get in there and get We'll
  455. 17:03get that haul done and we'll hold back.
  456. 17:06Yeah. Why don't you come with me and
  457. 17:07then everybody else play out here.
  458. 17:10>> Adam, stand by. We're two of us are
  459. 17:12coming in there. That's all we're going
  460. 17:13to need in here right now.
  461. 17:14>> Thank you.
  462. 17:16>> Main elevators are here. Side elevators
  463. 17:18are down that way.
  464. 17:19>> What floor is it? Are you holding your
  465. 17:20lips?
  466. 17:21>> The third floor. Can you do me a favor?
  467. 17:24>> Call the other rooms, not that room.
  468. 17:27Make sure no one calls that room and
  469. 17:28start saying, "Hey, you need to come out
  470. 17:30of the room and come downstairs."
  471. 17:32>> Yeah.
  472. 17:32>> Everybody's cameras are on.
  473. 17:34>> Yeah. Here's the goal. We shut down the
  474. 17:36hallway. We're waiting for a shield and
  475. 17:39whatever they want.
  476. 18:02>> Good.
  477. 18:06the way the configuration is in the hall
  478. 18:08up here. We have the hall. We have it
  479. 18:10secured. We're going to try and get some
  480. 18:12of these other people out of the rooms
  481. 18:13that are close by, but we're going to
  482. 18:15need to probably take the room. It'll be
  483. 18:17real easy for us just to hold that room
  484. 18:19until you get your other stuff in place
  485. 18:22rather than hold the whole hallway. I I
  486. 18:24really don't want to bunch of people
  487. 18:26coming out in the middle of this hallway
  488. 18:27and get in the middle of everything.
  489. 18:28>> Yes, we do. We have enough people on the
  490. 18:30third floor. We have we have the hallway
  491. 18:35and we can move up to the room so we can
  492. 18:37get these other people out of here
  493. 18:39safely and just contain that room. We
  494. 18:41have plenty of people for that.
  495. 18:54We're calling in now. We're all doing
  496. 18:56all that by phone. If we start making a
  497. 18:57bunch of noise, we're liable to wake him
  498. 18:59up and have a big ruckus. We have five
  499. 19:01people here. We're We're already in
  500. 19:02place. We have the door we have the door
  501. 19:04secured. No one's coming in or going
  502. 19:06out. We We We're in good shape. He's
  503. 19:08He's If he comes out of that room,
  504. 19:10there's no none of our guys are going to
  505. 19:11get hurt. Yeah. Once once we're sure we
  506. 19:14have everyone out of here, all the
  507. 19:15innocents, then we then we'll be able to
  508. 19:18set up decent cover all the way around.
  509. 19:20And then we'll back up and just keep the
  510. 19:22hallway. She'll be coming down in just a
  511. 19:24few minutes cuz there that leaves four
  512. 19:26of us up here.
  513. 19:28>> Okay. All right. All right. Bye.
  514. 19:30>> Okay. Yeah, cuz you're going to have to
  515. 19:32do the diagram or SWAT and all that
  516. 19:34stuff. Stop at the desk first and make
  517. 19:36sure they call these rooms. We need a
  518. 19:38list. Let me know the list of who you've
  519. 19:40been out. Watch the crossfire.
  520. 19:45Sheriff's office, I need you guys to get
  521. 19:46dressed and get out of here right now.
  522. 20:03Stand by.
  523. 20:05Hey, I'm sorry to get you guys out of
  524. 20:07here. It's got a lot of Did you hear any
  525. 20:08noises in the room next door last night?
  526. 20:11>> The room next door? Did you hear any
  527. 20:13noises or anything?
  528. 20:14>> I just heard weird. I thought it was
  529. 20:16like little box or something. First,
  530. 20:22>> Lieutenant, I'm talking about these
  531. 20:24rooms we need to evacuate. Okay, we'll
  532. 20:26just wait until he starts shooting every
  533. 20:28one of you guys are going to have to
  534. 20:30replace the shield. I want this shield
  535. 20:31over here on the hot side of the door
  536. 20:33going the other end of the hallway. But
  537. 20:36if he comes out of this door, because
  538. 20:38we're on the hot side, I want you to
  539. 20:39take cover because we'll engage him. If
  540. 20:42he comes out of that door, it is your
  541. 20:44jobs to engage him. He comes out.
  542. 20:48They're going to get behind cover. Do
  543. 20:50what you have to do.
  544. 20:55You're just going down to the lobby for
  545. 20:57right now.
  546. 20:58>> People next door like that.
  547. 21:02>> And we we haven't gotten any notice from
  548. 21:04them. Is it just you two?
  549. 21:08>> There's a stairway over here.
  550. 21:19Welcome to Florida.
  551. 21:24Okay, perfect.
  552. 21:29Don't come that way.
  553. 21:34Whoever's at the front desk, make sure
  554. 21:35that when they make contact with these
  555. 21:37people in these rooms and tell them to
  556. 21:38be quiet.
  557. 21:41Is there anybody else in here?
  558. 21:54>> Dad st
  559. 22:34They never down there at the front desk
  560. 22:37as these people make their way down
  561. 22:38there. Make sure you interview them. See
  562. 22:40if they have any intel for us.
  563. 22:45>> Let's go. He's not
  564. 22:47shit's ruining. You go right away.
  565. 22:54>> We got to go now.
  566. 22:59You can leave your stuff. You'll be able
  567. 23:01to come back.
  568. 23:04Hold on.
  569. 23:06Anyone
  570. 23:09else in here?
  571. 23:15>> After law enforcement's long and arduous
  572. 23:18task of successfully evacuating the
  573. 23:21hotel, Grantato appears out of his room
  574. 23:24to peak. Sensing something was going on,
  575. 23:26the officers quickly close in on Grant,
  576. 23:29executing a peaceful and rapid arrest.
  577. 23:34How
  578. 23:42about Zoom?
  579. 23:44>> Yeah.
  580. 23:44>> Secondary suite.
  581. 24:00Okay. Steady bodies.
  582. 24:13All right, stay to it.
  583. 24:16>> Where is it? Right here in the corner.
  584. 24:18>> Yeah,
  585. 24:19>> everything's secured. The room's swift.
  586. 24:22We'll unsecure and just have them come
  587. 24:24up. You're being cooperative, sir. We
  588. 24:25appreciate that. Um, some Sim County
  589. 24:27detectives want to talk to you, so we're
  590. 24:29going to get their handcuffs off.
  591. 24:30>> Nothing in your pants, correct?
  592. 24:31>> Yes. Nothing. Yes, sir.
  593. 24:34>> We, you know, it's just a normal
  594. 24:36routine. When we encounter someone that
  595. 24:37we want to make sure you're safe now, we
  596. 24:39know you don't have any weapons. We'll
  597. 24:41we'll get those restraints off.
  598. 24:46>> I mean, I have my my like duffel bag and
  599. 24:48whatnot in there. If you guys want to
  600. 24:49check that,
  601. 24:50>> that'll be up to the detectives that
  602. 24:51talk to you. We're confident you've been
  603. 24:54cooperative. Everything's good. So, we
  604. 24:55appreciate that very much. Goes a long
  605. 24:57ways.
  606. 25:04Upon being apprehended, he agreed to
  607. 25:07speak with investigators, showing little
  608. 25:09emotion and denying involvement. Grant
  609. 25:12was then arrested and charged with three
  610. 25:14counts of firstdegree murder.
  611. 25:19>> She got a lot.
  612. 25:21>> No, no, no. I'll hold it off on that.
  613. 25:23Okay.
  614. 25:23>> Hi, I'm Eva.
  615. 25:24>> Hi.
  616. 25:24>> How are you?
  617. 25:26>> I'm here.
  618. 25:28Hey, we really appreciate you coming up
  619. 25:29here with us and uh if anytime during
  620. 25:32this you need to stop and go to the
  621. 25:34bathroom, want a drink, um
  622. 25:37>> thing, just let me know and we'll be
  623. 25:39happy to get to it. Um
  624. 25:41>> my name is Danny Anderson and uh I'm a
  625. 25:44deputy county sheriff's office.
  626. 25:47>> Um so we just want to talk a little bit
  627. 25:48and we'll get this in and out be on our
  628. 25:51way. Okay.
  629. 25:52>> Um full name. My uh full name is Grant
  630. 25:56Pieran Amato. Uh my cell phone currently
  631. 25:58doesn't have any service with it. So I
  632. 26:01mean it's just
  633. 26:02>> So you don't have you haven't removed
  634. 26:04phone number. Just that one's no longer
  635. 26:05good.
  636. 26:06>> My dad had told me that he that when he
  637. 26:08disconnected my service that he also
  638. 26:09changed my phone number. So I don't know
  639. 26:11what the new phone number is but uh I
  640. 26:13mean it's probably like you can probably
  641. 26:15still see it.
  642. 26:16>> Do you have the phone or
  643. 26:17>> it it was in my data bag.
  644. 26:18>> Oh there gotcha. Education. I have a
  645. 26:21bachelor's of science in nursing from
  646. 26:24UCF back in 2011.
  647. 26:28Uh and that's my highest level.
  648. 26:30>> Okay. What what is there any special uh
  649. 26:32nursing degree what you do or
  650. 26:34>> uh I mean I have like other
  651. 26:36certifications.
  652. 26:37>> Um but uh I mean with that like I
  653. 26:40primarily worked in the hospital for
  654. 26:44I think five years, five or six years
  655. 26:46and then I was pursuing a masterers of
  656. 26:48science in nurse anesthesia. Um that was
  657. 26:51back in 2015 I believe.
  658. 26:54>> Okay.
  659. 26:54>> Um but then I didn't complete that and
  660. 26:56then I just went back to nursing. And
  661. 26:57then when this whole
  662. 27:00like wrongful accusation of the grand
  663. 27:02theft charge that I told you about in
  664. 27:03the car when that happened uh I stopped
  665. 27:07working at the hospital and then that
  666. 27:08took like
  667. 27:08>> I don't think we I don't think we talk
  668. 27:11about that in the car.
  669. 27:11>> Oh. Uh well I had I was accused of grand
  670. 27:14theft of the third degree back in
  671. 27:17June of 2018.
  672. 27:20Um that like went on for 6 months and
  673. 27:24during that time I obviously wasn't
  674. 27:25allowed to work because of it. So when
  675. 27:27that happened obviously I was dismissed
  676. 27:29from that job and then I couldn't get
  677. 27:31another job because now you have an
  678. 27:32outstanding felony charge on your name.
  679. 27:34>> Sure.
  680. 27:34>> Um so then I got the attorney. It it all
  681. 27:36went through and then finally in
  682. 27:38December
  683. 27:39>> they posted on the Orange County Clerk
  684. 27:42courts or whatever website where your
  685. 27:43where your file is that there was no
  686. 27:45evidence ever ever presented. All the
  687. 27:47charges were dropped and now I'm just in
  688. 27:49the process of expuning that from my
  689. 27:51records. But
  690. 27:53>> um
  691. 27:54because you know I can't keep just not
  692. 27:57working forever.
  693. 27:58>> Uh and you know that was that was kind
  694. 28:00of a a topic around the house was you
  695. 28:03know I need to get started here. I've
  696. 28:05been applying for jobs for the last
  697. 28:06couple weeks. I'd gotten a like three or
  698. 28:09four call backs.
  699. 28:10>> Um and then I went on a job interview
  700. 28:12yesterday for a home infusion nurse job.
  701. 28:15>> Where where where was that at?
  702. 28:17>> Um that was with uh God
  703. 28:22a credo.
  704. 28:24>> What time was your interview yesterday?
  705. 28:25>> Uh it was scheduled for 10:00. I got
  706. 28:27there around 9 in the morning.
  707. 28:30>> Uh and then I think we actually had the
  708. 28:31interview at about 9:45.
  709. 28:33>> How' that go? I mean, it was all good.
  710. 28:34Uh, they didn't have anything. They said
  711. 28:36that they'd probably be getting back to
  712. 28:37me by Tuesday or, Thursday, this coming
  713. 28:39week.
  714. 28:40>> Get you back to work.
  715. 28:41>> Yeah. Yeah. Because I mean,
  716. 28:44it's like it's crappy world when you
  717. 28:46know, you don't have any money, you
  718. 28:47can't, you know, do anything. So,
  719. 28:49>> girlfriends,
  720. 28:50>> girlfriends. I had like my high school
  721. 28:53sweetheart uh girlfriend um for about
  722. 28:56five years and then ever since then, no
  723. 28:59like official girlfriends, no flings or
  724. 29:01anything like that. here and there
  725. 29:03>> days occasionally, but I mean not
  726. 29:05really. Kind of focused on like just
  727. 29:07getting through the life the life goals
  728. 29:09that you know I wanted to achieve.
  729. 29:10>> What do you like to do?
  730. 29:12>> What do I like to do? I like to watch
  731. 29:14anime. Um me and my brother kind of
  732. 29:17started doing that back
  733. 29:20five years ago. I'd say he kind of got
  734. 29:21me into it. I've been out of work for 6
  735. 29:23months since June.
  736. 29:24>> How did you pay? That's a lot of money
  737. 29:26for out of work.
  738. 29:27>> My brother Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. My
  739. 29:29brother.
  740. 29:29>> What does he do? He's he's the CRNA.
  741. 29:32>> What?
  742. 29:32>> Sorry. The the certified registered
  743. 29:34nurse and that's what
  744. 29:36>> Okay. What you were what you
  745. 29:37>> what we were both in the program
  746. 29:38together and then he was able to finish
  747. 29:40then I not.
  748. 29:41>> So he was making good money.
  749. 29:42>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
  750. 29:43>> Was he making that 150?
  751. 29:45>> He was working he was working a lot. I
  752. 29:48mean I don't know if he was I think he
  753. 29:49was cing a lot of overtime. Not
  754. 29:51scheduled but like it's just kind of
  755. 29:53what happened.
  756. 29:54>> Mhm.
  757. 29:54>> Um but yeah he was moving along.
  758. 29:56>> What do you think he made his best year?
  759. 29:59>> Yeah. He showed me cuz he was uh he want
  760. 30:03he was complaining about how like his
  761. 30:06taxes alone were like the annual income
  762. 30:08of like a nurse.
  763. 30:10>> And I think when he showed me before
  764. 30:12like it had all ended like the uh before
  765. 30:15his pay year had ended
  766. 30:17>> that he was already up to like 166 but
  767. 30:20that was like after I think the $60,000
  768. 30:23or $40,000 already came out. I can't
  769. 30:26remember.
  770. 30:26>> That was after it.
  771. 30:27>> Yeah, I think so. So he made more than
  772. 30:29160.
  773. 30:30>> That was
  774. 30:31>> Yeah.
  775. 30:31>> Wow.
  776. 30:32>> Hobies. What do you like to do?
  777. 30:34>> Uh okay. So besides the anime, um
  778. 30:37besides that, we would play video games.
  779. 30:40We actually just got uh like a virtual
  780. 30:42reality headset thingy for like the
  781. 30:45computer.
  782. 30:46>> Um that was kind of fun. And and
  783. 30:49actually, yeah, during the time that I
  784. 30:51was um that I wasn't working as a nerd,
  785. 30:54I tried to do the whole Twitch streaming
  786. 30:56thing.
  787. 30:56>> What was that? Um, I'm sorry. No, no,
  788. 30:59no. You have to explain a lot of this to
  789. 31:01us.
  790. 31:02>> With with Twitch, it's you got your mic
  791. 31:04and then you have your face cam and then
  792. 31:06basically people are just watching you
  793. 31:07play whatever game you're going to say
  794. 31:09that you're playing.
  795. 31:09>> Okay.
  796. 31:10>> And then, you know, they can donate,
  797. 31:11they can subscribe to you, which then
  798. 31:13you get like a monthly payment. Um,
  799. 31:16>> have anybody doing that for you?
  800. 31:17>> I had I had like a I think I was up to
  801. 31:19like 30 something subscribers.
  802. 31:20>> And what would what would you charge
  803. 31:21them uh to to
  804. 31:23>> with with subscriptions? There's four
  805. 31:25tiers of it. Uh tier one it's just $5.
  806. 31:28So right when you see that you oh blank
  807. 31:30subscribe to you get $5. Uh
  808. 31:32>> monthly or just total?
  809. 31:34>> Actually it's every Twitch pays you
  810. 31:35every 45 days cuz you're like an
  811. 31:37independent
  812. 31:38>> Mhm.
  813. 31:38>> self-employed.
  814. 31:39>> Same thing with with their account
  815. 31:40though they subscribe to you. Okay. For
  816. 31:42a 30-day period or so every 30 days they
  817. 31:45owe you another five bucks
  818. 31:46>> if they resubscribe. Yeah. So then there
  819. 31:48was that tier 2 was like $10. Tier three
  820. 31:51was 15. Then somebody tier four it was
  821. 31:5424 I And what does that get you for?
  822. 31:57>> All all that the higher tiers do is they
  823. 31:58give you like more emotes, like little
  824. 32:00things you can put in chat so that when
  825. 32:02you're playing, everybody who's in your
  826. 32:04room can chat about, you know, what
  827. 32:05you're doing or, you know, anything
  828. 32:07random. Um, and then donations are just
  829. 32:10can range from 1 cent up to however.
  830. 32:14>> So, what were we making off of Twitch a
  831. 32:15month?
  832. 32:16>> Nothing really significant. It was like
  833. 32:18>> So, you said about 30 people at one time
  834. 32:21subscribed to you. So, a minimum what?
  835. 32:23>> 15 minutes.
  836. 32:24150 bucks and then a few donations. Uh
  837. 32:28but primarily I guess it's keeping
  838. 32:29myself busy.
  839. 32:30>> What other hobby you have
  840. 32:32>> besides that? Um a number of years ago
  841. 32:35like me and my brother were actually uh
  842. 32:37like gun enthusiasts and you know we got
  843. 32:41we did it wrong where we did it all
  844. 32:43during when the the the season was like
  845. 32:46high. So everything cost so much money
  846. 32:48season.
  847. 32:49>> Yeah, I guess so. for unfortunately we
  848. 32:51don't we don't hunt or anything like
  849. 32:52that but um we would go like clay
  850. 32:55shooting but we would do the clay
  851. 32:57shooting and then we were part of the
  852. 32:59blue county gun and shooting club yeah
  853. 33:02whatever
  854. 33:03>> but that was like two years ago. Um the
  855. 33:06only thing that we really kept up with
  856. 33:07was clay shooting. Um but even that I
  857. 33:10don't think we've done that for like
  858. 33:11eight months or something.
  859. 33:12>> What were you what were what was your
  860. 33:14gun for that? What would you like?
  861. 33:15>> Uh me and my brother both got the
  862. 33:18Benelli uh like long
  863. 33:20>> super super magnum super supernova.
  864. 33:24>> Supernova.
  865. 33:25>> Uh we both had those and then during the
  866. 33:29time where like I was struggling like in
  867. 33:30this last 6 months. I mean I sold all of
  868. 33:32my guns.
  869. 33:33>> What did you have?
  870. 33:34>> What did I get a little gun collection
  871. 33:36going?
  872. 33:36>> I did. I had um I had about four ARs. Uh
  873. 33:40they were all just where you would buy
  874. 33:42like the different parts again. I like
  875. 33:44with the PC and then just put them all
  876. 33:45together
  877. 33:45>> because I'm not I'm not going like that.
  878. 33:48Why so many hours?
  879. 33:49>> I mean, again, it was we were just like
  880. 33:51an enthusiast for wanting to build our
  881. 33:53own things and just kind of seeing what
  882. 33:54we had
  883. 33:55>> stuff. You're buying them already made.
  884. 33:57>> We would buy the specific parts and then
  885. 33:59have them sent to the the gun clubs or
  886. 34:01whatever so you could pick them up. Um
  887. 34:03and then Yeah. And then we put them all
  888. 34:04together.
  889. 34:05>> You put you guys build them yourself.
  890. 34:06You didn't have nobody for you?
  891. 34:07>> No. No. No.
  892. 34:08>> So, you had four yards. What do you
  893. 34:09have? What you have? Um, besides that, I
  894. 34:11had a Bale M4
  895. 34:14uh shotgun.
  896. 34:16>> Tactical shotgun.
  897. 34:16>> Tactical shotgun. What was that for?
  898. 34:19>> That was just that was like our that was
  899. 34:21just our gun that like me and my brother
  900. 34:23both had one of those. And that one.
  901. 34:25>> Yeah. And then we had um that had always
  902. 34:28just been our dream gun that we just
  903. 34:30wanted to have with M a tactical M4.
  904. 34:32>> Um and then we had the Supernovas, which
  905. 34:35we just use for clay shooting. And then
  906. 34:38uh pistols wise,
  907. 34:42I had
  908. 34:44I think four or five just pistols.
  909. 34:47>> Yeah.
  910. 34:47>> I had a Glock 17, I believe it was.
  911. 34:52>> Um I had uh
  912. 34:58it's not the Shield.
  913. 35:01It's a Smith and Wesson M9 something. I
  914. 35:04don't remember what it is. Uh, and then
  915. 35:06I had a Taurus,
  916. 35:10which was I think like a 40 cal 45
  917. 35:13caliber.
  918. 35:14>> And then I had uh again it's like the
  919. 35:16dream gun that I that I always wanted
  920. 35:18was the um
  921. 35:20the FN Tactical 45
  922. 35:24with like threaded barrel and all that
  923. 35:26stuff. Um,
  924. 35:27>> still have them all or you said you got
  925. 35:29rid of some of them?
  926. 35:29>> I sold all my guns. Yeah. Yeah. Where'
  927. 35:31you sell them to? Uh
  928. 35:34the Florida Gun Exchange.
  929. 35:36>> The what?
  930. 35:36>> Florida Gun Exchange. It's down in
  931. 35:40>> uh they have one in God. I am just It's
  932. 35:43some Orman Beach.
  933. 35:44>> Orman Beach. That's the one.
  934. 35:45>> You took them over and told them.
  935. 35:47>> Yes.
  936. 35:47>> Told them all at one time or
  937. 35:48>> No, no, no. Just kind cuz I didn't want
  938. 35:50to go in with too many cuz then I felt
  939. 35:52like they were
  940. 35:52>> they look at you like who's this guy
  941. 35:54with all these guns?
  942. 35:54>> Yeah. Or they would they would like cut
  943. 35:57me a lower deal because I was giving
  944. 35:58them like a whole bunch.
  945. 36:00>> What' you get for ARs? ARS unfortunately
  946. 36:02like it wasn't that much. It was only
  947. 36:04like three grand or something like that
  948. 36:06for all of them. Yeah. Just because
  949. 36:08they're
  950. 36:08>> How much you spend on them, do you
  951. 36:09think?
  952. 36:09>> Way more. Like at least double. Hand
  953. 36:11guns was maybe like
  954. 36:14total was like $1,500 or something like
  955. 36:16that.
  956. 36:16>> A lot more though.
  957. 36:17>> And the FN alone was $1,500.
  958. 36:20>> You buy all them all new?
  959. 36:21>> Yeah. All new.
  960. 36:22>> The rifles you put together.
  961. 36:23>> Rifles we put together.
  962. 36:24>> Customize them. Handguns were
  963. 36:26>> handguns were brand new. Shotguns were
  964. 36:28new. We
  965. 36:28>> get shotguns. What' you get for the M4?
  966. 36:30for the M4. That one was like the
  967. 36:32highest one. I think they gave me like
  968. 36:331,100 for it.
  969. 36:35>> What?
  970. 36:35>> About 15,500. That's not too bad.
  971. 36:38>> Um, and then for the uh the Supernova,
  972. 36:42it was only about 700, but that one cost
  973. 36:44about $1,200. No, no, I ended up got rid
  974. 36:47of everything cuz I was just
  975. 36:49>> I was just trying to get some semblance
  976. 36:50of money in.
  977. 36:52>> Um,
  978. 36:52>> keep up with your payments.
  979. 36:53>> Keep up with my payments. But also
  980. 36:55because like the the whole trip was
  981. 36:56coming down the line. Um, you know, my
  982. 36:59brother had to like foot the bill for
  983. 37:02the to get the attorney. Um, so, you
  984. 37:05know, like there was a lot of stuff.
  985. 37:06>> Pay the nothing.
  986. 37:08>> I think it was $8,000 for the holding
  987. 37:10holding the attorney.
  988. 37:12>> Retainer
  989. 37:12>> retainer retainer fee
  990. 37:13>> and and basically she had to do nothing.
  991. 37:15>> She had to do nothing. And um he got
  992. 37:19like annoyed because he like he
  993. 37:22apparently wasn't told that it was
  994. 37:24non-refundable. But I like I know that I
  995. 37:27told him because like I had to send in
  996. 37:29the documents signing it saying that
  997. 37:30it's nonrefundable.
  998. 37:31>> I've known any attorney that takes a
  999. 37:33retainer that ever gives you anything
  1000. 37:34back.
  1001. 37:35>> Yeah. So I didn't hire me. That's what
  1002. 37:37it's going to cost.
  1003. 37:38>> Yeah. I didn't He didn't get anything
  1004. 37:39back from that unfortunately. And she
  1005. 37:41ended up I think only going through
  1006. 37:43about 3,000 of it.
  1007. 37:44>> Mhm.
  1008. 37:45>> So cuz
  1009. 37:47what was it? I think 5,000 was for the
  1010. 37:49criminal case and then 3,000 was for the
  1011. 37:52other case if it had to go to the
  1012. 37:53department of health which that never
  1013. 37:55had to happen. So that 3,000 is just
  1014. 37:57>> your certificate is still good.
  1015. 37:59>> Uh clear and active. It's always been
  1016. 38:01clear and active. It's just the
  1017. 38:03quintessential you go to that background
  1018. 38:04check and then they'll see an
  1019. 38:06outstanding thing even though I have the
  1020. 38:08paperwork now saying everything's been
  1021. 38:11dropped. He's in the process of expuning
  1022. 38:13his records. you know, even when even
  1023. 38:15when it all went down on the day where
  1024. 38:17uh I was accused of that of that felony,
  1025. 38:20you know, the uh the cops came in and
  1026. 38:22then they handcuffed me and they were
  1027. 38:24like, you know, you've been charged with
  1028. 38:26this. We're taking you down to the um I
  1029. 38:29think it was Orange County, the Orange
  1030. 38:31County jail area.
  1031. 38:33>> You know, I had to have the picture
  1032. 38:34taken and stay in the the sitting area
  1033. 38:38where they process you all and
  1034. 38:40everything like that. And you know, I'm
  1035. 38:42using the the phones on the the cord,
  1036. 38:45you know, trying to just bounce around
  1037. 38:46the phone and
  1038. 38:48>> I'm surrounded by all these guys who are
  1039. 38:50talking about, you know,
  1040. 38:51>> a real criminal.
  1041. 38:52>> Yeah.
  1042. 38:53>> And the first person I call is my dad. I
  1043. 38:56mean, my my brother. He was at work at
  1044. 38:58the time, but he answered his phone. And
  1045. 38:59I was just like, "Look,
  1046. 39:02I'm freaking out. Uh, I've been charged
  1047. 39:04with this. I've been told that my bond
  1048. 39:06is this." And then he I guess he tells,
  1049. 39:10you know, whoever was was working that
  1050. 39:12day with him, I got to I got to go. So
  1051. 39:14then he uh he calls my mom, he calls my
  1052. 39:18dad, he smooths things over as best as
  1053. 39:20he can. He's just basically saying, I'm
  1054. 39:22going to to pay this. Um and then I
  1055. 39:26think I was there for like seven hours
  1056. 39:27or something, even though it was paid
  1057. 39:29within like the first hour.
  1058. 39:30>> So that's dismissed. You're out looking
  1059. 39:33for jobs, applying pretty regular.
  1060. 39:35>> Yeah. I mean, I Yeah. Yeah. I'd say
  1061. 39:36pretty regular.
  1062. 39:37>> Anything left in savings?
  1063. 39:38>> Nothing left in savings. I think I had
  1064. 39:40like $300 $400. Uh but
  1065. 39:43>> brother kind of helping you through.
  1066. 39:44>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, brother was helping
  1067. 39:46me. My dad was covering um the rent that
  1068. 39:48he called it, which is just like the
  1069. 39:50monthly payment that to for us to help
  1070. 39:52since we all live at home.
  1071. 39:53>> What was that? What did you think of
  1072. 39:54that?
  1073. 39:54>> $600 a month. Yeah.
  1074. 39:57>> And then um
  1075. 39:58>> it's not a bad deal, is it?
  1076. 39:59>> No. And then I mean he was he was
  1077. 40:01covering like cell phone. We were paying
  1078. 40:03for our own internet.
  1079. 40:04>> Close your brother. Tell about Cody.
  1080. 40:06>> Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Me and Cody.
  1081. 40:08>> He's older. You were now?
  1082. 40:09>> He is. I'm the youngest one. I'm 29.
  1083. 40:10He's 31. My oldest brother Jason is 35
  1084. 40:13or 36 now.
  1085. 40:15>> Um
  1086. 40:16>> who who was at home?
  1087. 40:18>> Oh, all three boys live at home.
  1088. 40:19>> No, no, no. It's just me and Cody and
  1089. 40:21then mom and dad.
  1090. 40:22>> Okay.
  1091. 40:22>> Uh tell me about Tell me about Cody.
  1092. 40:24>> Cody, let's see. Uh me and Cody had the
  1093. 40:27quintessential
  1094. 40:29rough like fighting each other and
  1095. 40:31whatnot when we were younger. love
  1096. 40:34typical siblings.
  1097. 40:35>> But then I would say like my junior year
  1098. 40:37of high school, we were all on the
  1099. 40:39weightlifting team together. Uh that's
  1100. 40:40where I got to know a lot of like his
  1101. 40:42guy friends. Um and you know, we just we
  1102. 40:47stopped like arguing at that point. And
  1103. 40:49then we all, you know, we decided to go
  1104. 40:51to nursing school together. We decided
  1105. 40:53to go to the the nurse anesthesia school
  1106. 40:55together.
  1107. 40:56>> Um
  1108. 40:57>> I mean we did everything together. I
  1109. 40:59mean we were
  1110. 40:59>> the better student.
  1111. 41:00>> He was the better student. and
  1112. 41:03everything up through nursing school and
  1113. 41:05then I was actually the better student
  1114. 41:07in nurse anesthesia school but uh there
  1115. 41:10was like um again kind of like oh
  1116. 41:12>> you guys sorry are you guys at the same
  1117. 41:15time in the same classes
  1118. 41:18>> so you're not not for nursing school not
  1119. 41:20for nursing school
  1120. 41:20>> no I mean for anesthesiology
  1121. 41:22>> yeah we sat right next to each other
  1122. 41:23>> so you're in there doing things together
  1123. 41:25so you got somebody to study with
  1124. 41:27somebody to work to bounce things off of
  1125. 41:28and work with
  1126. 41:29>> yeah and we would do that all the time
  1127. 41:30we're burning the midnight oil,
  1128. 41:32>> but you were better at it.
  1129. 41:33>> Yeah. Uh and that was the one time that
  1130. 41:35he actually admitted that I was uh
  1131. 41:37didactically more confident than him in
  1132. 41:40that field. Um
  1133. 41:43and then
  1134. 41:44>> he was better in weightlifting.
  1135. 41:45>> He was okay.
  1136. 41:46>> He he he broke a number of school
  1137. 41:49records. Uh I think he was like the 129
  1138. 41:52weight class. I was the 119 weight
  1139. 41:53class, but uh he was he was definitely
  1140. 41:56stronger in uh in high school. And then
  1141. 42:00um
  1142. 42:02but yeah uh we were close. I mean I mean
  1143. 42:05like bonded, you know. Uh I don't really
  1144. 42:09know how else to really say it. It was a
  1145. 42:10lot of people thought that it was weird
  1146. 42:12because we did everything together and
  1147. 42:14because we were so close. But
  1148. 42:17>> yeah, I mean
  1149. 42:18>> a lot of people understand the bond of
  1150. 42:19brothers. I mean the true bond if you're
  1151. 42:21close to
  1152. 42:21>> and I mean during like this whole time I
  1153. 42:23mean kind of like with just a few
  1154. 42:24examples I've given you, he was he'd
  1155. 42:27take care of everything.
  1156. 42:28>> Always there for you. Yeah.
  1157. 42:29>> Always there as a fortress.
  1158. 42:30>> Always there. Um
  1159. 42:32>> fight with you one minute but make sure
  1160. 42:33that you were not stuck in jail for some
  1161. 42:35silly words the nice.
  1162. 42:37>> And um
  1163. 42:39yeah I mean he was just he's always been
  1164. 42:42there for me. So
  1165. 42:43>> Cody is definitely one you're way closer
  1166. 42:45with.
  1167. 42:46>> Yeah. Hands down. Hands down.
  1168. 42:48>> Go on vacations. He's helping with
  1169. 42:49bills, helping with with the legal
  1170. 42:51issues,
  1171. 42:52>> right? And I mean
  1172. 42:52>> studied together.
  1173. 42:53>> Studied together. We Yeah. Did
  1174. 42:55everything together. Connected at the
  1175. 42:56hip. Are there ever any issues really
  1176. 42:58with him?
  1177. 42:59>> No. Like I was saying during this last
  1178. 43:01six months, it it had been a very trying
  1179. 43:03time. Um, you know, financially trying
  1180. 43:06to get a job thing going, worrying about
  1181. 43:09this whole what's going to happen with
  1182. 43:10this legal stuff. Mhm.
  1183. 43:12>> Um but like even through it all, I mean
  1184. 43:16he would like have his moments where he
  1185. 43:18would get extremely upset like uh like
  1186. 43:23you know he never gets violent I guess
  1187. 43:25you could say but like at one point he
  1188. 43:27got so upset that he like pushed the
  1189. 43:29cabinet and then it like dented into the
  1190. 43:31wall. Um, and he I mean so he'll like
  1191. 43:33lose his temper kind of my dad. But um
  1192. 43:38yeah, I mean at least with me he's
  1193. 43:40always been
  1194. 43:42like where he's he's there for me like
  1195. 43:45whatever it takes regardless of what's
  1196. 43:48happening I'm going to take care of it
  1197. 43:49for you. Um, and I mean over like the
  1198. 43:53last six months, I mean it it's it's
  1199. 43:57been sad for me because like I see
  1200. 44:00everything that like he's doing and like
  1201. 44:03I can't be like how I've always been
  1202. 44:06with him where, you know, I'm I'm
  1203. 44:08helping out too or I can do something
  1204. 44:10for you,
  1205. 44:11>> you know, where we're kind of on the
  1206. 44:12same playing field.
  1207. 44:14>> I know that you make more money than me
  1208. 44:15and all that kind of stuff, but it's
  1209. 44:17like, you know, we can do the stuff
  1210. 44:19together. you don't have to pay for my
  1211. 44:20dinner, you know, when we go out with
  1212. 44:21the guys, you don't have to pay for the
  1213. 44:23trip, you know, it's just it would, you
  1214. 44:25know, I couldn't help relieve the
  1215. 44:27stress, I guess, as well as I always
  1216. 44:28used to. But then, I mean, I know for
  1217. 44:30me, I had been bummed out just because
  1218. 44:32like I've been out of work. I've, you
  1219. 44:33know, my whole life it's been school,
  1220. 44:36work, school, back to work, and then
  1221. 44:39just I mean that's you know, sacrificed
  1222. 44:42all my 20s and never went tailgating or
  1223. 44:44anything like that. Did you have any
  1224. 44:45issues with depression over all the
  1225. 44:47legal issues and and beyond?
  1226. 44:49>> I would say that I was depressed, but um
  1227. 44:52you know, I'd always put on the put on
  1228. 44:54the happy face for like my brother. Um
  1229. 44:57so I was just trying to rationalize to
  1230. 44:58myself that
  1231. 45:01hopefully this can all get taken care of
  1232. 45:02and then I can get back. I was looking
  1233. 45:04towards the future, you know, like then
  1234. 45:06I can do like what I'm doing now where
  1235. 45:08applying,
  1236. 45:10you know, everybody likes me when they
  1237. 45:12talk to me and they look at my resume
  1238. 45:13and they see all my experience and then
  1239. 45:15just waiting for if I get the call back.
  1240. 45:17No, no, never. I never took any uh like
  1241. 45:20>> medicate.
  1242. 45:20>> No, I never took any like
  1243. 45:21anti-depressants or anything like that.
  1244. 45:23I think um the only thing just because
  1245. 45:25like sleeping was kind of off and on at
  1246. 45:27a time. I would take like um um like
  1247. 45:30benadryil just to like help me go to
  1248. 45:32sleep back at home and then when um I
  1249. 45:36think the only other thing is like sleep
  1250. 45:39aid which is again it's just
  1251. 45:40dyenhydroine
  1252. 45:42>> you know secondary side effect is just
  1253. 45:44drowsiness it's not like its actual
  1254. 45:45purpose and then melatonin just to help
  1255. 45:48with the sleep cycle no anti-depressants
  1256. 45:50no medical history none of that type of
  1257. 45:52stuff
  1258. 45:52>> but you and Cody since you've been
  1259. 45:53adults any any physical fist fight when
  1260. 45:56we were super on. But besides that, no.
  1261. 45:59Yeah.
  1262. 46:00>> So, living at home is who?
  1263. 46:02>> Me, Cody, uh, dad, and mom.
  1264. 46:05>> Tell me about your mom.
  1265. 46:07>> My mom has, uh, she's always been the,
  1266. 46:11uh, it's kind of like Cody. She's always
  1267. 46:13been the one that focused on me.
  1268. 46:16>> And, um,
  1269. 46:19she I mean, she she worked at home. She
  1270. 46:22uh,
  1271. 46:22>> what she did,
  1272. 46:23>> she was God, I I do not like a uh
  1273. 46:28something manager like a client manager
  1274. 46:30for nuance transcription company and I
  1275. 46:33think she was in the stage now where she
  1276. 46:34was kind of branching out to different
  1277. 46:37uh countries. So she had just gotten
  1278. 46:39like this Canada account I think where
  1279. 46:41she had to basically do the same thing
  1280. 46:42but now it's just all
  1281. 46:44>> Oh yeah,
  1282. 46:44>> good paying job it sounds like.
  1283. 46:46>> And yeah, she uh she only
  1284. 46:49>> I think she told me that she completed
  1285. 46:52high school but if she didn't then she
  1286. 46:54didn't have a high school diploma or she
  1287. 46:55did. I honestly can't remember.
  1288. 46:57>> And with that, when she first started
  1289. 47:00doing everything like with my dad, she
  1290. 47:02was just a medical transcriptionist. So,
  1291. 47:03she wasn't she was making like 35,000 a
  1292. 47:05year or something like that. Um, but now
  1293. 47:08she had worked her way all the way up to
  1294. 47:10making about $90,000 a year at this job.
  1295. 47:14Stressful as hell. You know, I work
  1296. 47:17Yeah. I'd hear her complain,
  1297. 47:20>> do all that stuff. She worked at home.
  1298. 47:23>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, you said you
  1299. 47:24worked at
  1300. 47:25>> Oh, no. She works for New On.
  1301. 47:28>> Yeah, she works from home.
  1302. 47:30>> So, it's like it's like where like all
  1303. 47:32of her internet and crap is against like
  1304. 47:34the wall.
  1305. 47:34>> Home office.
  1306. 47:35>> Yeah. Yeah. It was like originally a
  1307. 47:37dining room, but then it was
  1308. 47:38transitioned into like her office.
  1309. 47:40Again, it's like this last six or seven
  1310. 47:41months was just like stressful for
  1311. 47:43everybody. And
  1312. 47:45you know, countless times my dad would
  1313. 47:48like come up to me and he'd make like me
  1314. 47:52feel like he'd try and use things and
  1315. 47:55word things to make me feel guilty so
  1316. 47:57that I would, you know, do everything
  1317. 47:59that I can like get a job
  1318. 48:01>> almost like a motivation,
  1319. 48:02>> right? And he'd he'd tell me time and
  1320. 48:05time again that, you know, you're her
  1321. 48:07favorite. I mean, she would do anything
  1322. 48:08for you.
  1323. 48:10>> And I mean, it's like, yeah, I don't
  1324. 48:12need to hear that. I mean, that's not
  1325. 48:13what would motivate me.
  1326. 48:14>> Sure.
  1327. 48:15>> Um, but no, with mom,
  1328. 48:18I think we yelled at each other a grand
  1329. 48:20total of like three or four times my
  1330. 48:21whole life. Um, I've never like yelled
  1331. 48:25at her
  1332. 48:26for anything cuz I mean, she's never
  1333. 48:28done anything wrong. She's always been
  1334. 48:29the one who's
  1335. 48:30>> stood by you.
  1336. 48:31>> Stood by me, but tried to, you know,
  1337. 48:33even during our early childhood when it
  1338. 48:36was really rough with our dad. Mhm.
  1339. 48:38>> Uh,
  1340. 48:39>> my dad's a Leo type A Italian
  1341. 48:43>> personality man. He's very focused on
  1342. 48:47his future.
  1343. 48:49>> Mhm.
  1344. 48:49>> Um, he's very focused on everything that
  1345. 48:52he's sacrificed in his life for the
  1346. 48:54better betterment of all of us. Um, you
  1347. 48:58know, like he's always dreamed of going
  1348. 49:00hiking up in the mountains. They have a
  1349. 49:01property up in Tennessee that they
  1350. 49:02built. So, like, yeah, I guess back to
  1351. 49:04your original statement with my mom,
  1352. 49:07never any issues. I mean, she it was
  1353. 49:09always like if there was somebody that I
  1354. 49:10could talk to and like Cody wasn't
  1355. 49:11available, I'd always talk to my mom.
  1356. 49:13I'd always let her know what's going on.
  1357. 49:15Um,
  1358. 49:17yeah. I mean, she would help me out
  1359. 49:18through through anything.
  1360. 49:19>> Okay. Tell me about dad.
  1361. 49:21>> Dad, uh, what does he do?
  1362. 49:23>> Dad's a pharmacist. He works for CVS.
  1363. 49:26He's been a pharmacist for I think 35
  1364. 49:29years or so.
  1365. 49:30>> Oh, he's worked for CVS. No, he uh he
  1366. 49:32worked for the hospital
  1367. 49:34actually or I think it was something
  1368. 49:37orange back in the day, but um he worked
  1369. 49:39for OMC
  1370. 49:41for about 15 years and then he worked
  1371. 49:43with Home Infusion with Ambient
  1372. 49:45Healthcare for
  1373. 49:4811 years or 13 years.
  1374. 49:49>> Mhm.
  1375. 49:50>> And then he finally got into this the
  1376. 49:53sales one uh with CVS.
  1377. 49:56>> What do you mean? where he's just he's
  1378. 49:57on he like sits in a cubicle and then
  1379. 49:59he's got the headphone on and then if
  1380. 50:01somebody calls in he just like tells
  1381. 50:03them what they have to do like pharmacy
  1382. 50:05wise
  1383. 50:06>> so retail pharmacy
  1384. 50:07>> retail retail pharmacy so he wouldn't go
  1385. 50:10to like the CVS's on the side of the
  1386. 50:13road he was at like
  1387. 50:14>> Carmark or something like that which is
  1388. 50:16owned by CVS
  1389. 50:17>> it's like 650 employees he tell me about
  1390. 50:19like how it's a
  1391. 50:21>> a bunch of pharmacists doing the same
  1392. 50:23>> basically talking to other pharmacists
  1393. 50:25>> talking to other pharmacist is talking
  1394. 50:26to doctors, talking to patients,
  1395. 50:28patients for like their home health care
  1396. 50:31stuff that they have, and they just call
  1397. 50:33into the 24-hour pharmacists and then uh
  1398. 50:36you know, they help him through with
  1399. 50:37whatever they're whatever they
  1400. 50:38>> think you like that job better than
  1401. 50:39being in a CO thing.
  1402. 50:40>> No, he hated it. He he
  1403. 50:43he c when uh cuz he was fired from Oh,
  1404. 50:47sorry. And then he was uh like IV home
  1405. 50:50infusion with Florida Hospital infusion
  1406. 50:53group for only about two or three years.
  1407. 50:55Um he was fired from that for being
  1408. 51:00like like I guess to not like soft but
  1409. 51:02like an asshole. Uh cuz he was like like
  1410. 51:06his manager or something was this like
  1411. 51:08young woman and then she was giving him
  1412. 51:10crap and then he's like I've been a
  1413. 51:12pharmacist for this many years like I
  1414. 51:14don't and you're younger than it's like
  1415. 51:15I don't have to listen to you you know.
  1416. 51:16So, I guess he blew up one day when he
  1417. 51:18was down at work and then um
  1418. 51:22because of that he ended up getting
  1419. 51:24fired and then he was out of work for
  1420. 51:25about 3 months and then he was trying to
  1421. 51:28get back into the hospital system trying
  1422. 51:30to do home infusion again.
  1423. 51:32>> But because of how old he is and because
  1424. 51:34he has an RPH degree, which was the
  1425. 51:37original pharmacist degree, he doesn't
  1426. 51:38have the new farm D. Um he just wasn't
  1427. 51:42able to get back into the avenue that he
  1428. 51:44wanted to. That's why he was forced
  1429. 51:45basically to go to retail. So, but I
  1430. 51:49mean he would he he'd tell me every day
  1431. 51:51or every week that, you know, he hates
  1432. 51:53it. Uh he's just trying to get to that
  1433. 51:56retirement earmark so that he can stop
  1434. 51:59because when he goes up to Tennessee, he
  1435. 52:01doesn't want to get reertified in
  1436. 52:02Tennessee and even work part-time like
  1437. 52:05what what his dad does.
  1438. 52:07>> Um
  1439. 52:07>> what do you mean? What does his dad do?
  1440. 52:08His dad's also a pharmacist, but he
  1441. 52:11originally lived he lived in Florida and
  1442. 52:13then now he lived in South Carolina and
  1443. 52:16he just works part-time as a pharmacist,
  1444. 52:18but he got the whole reertification so
  1445. 52:20he could keep doing that,
  1446. 52:21>> right?
  1447. 52:21>> Um,
  1448. 52:23>> dad make good money.
  1449. 52:24>> Uh, I think he would tell me that he
  1450. 52:26makes like between 110 and $120,000 a
  1451. 52:29year.
  1452. 52:29>> Not bad money.
  1453. 52:30>> So, yeah, it's not bad. You know, that
  1454. 52:31was what my dad always emphasized when
  1455. 52:33he was when we were younger going
  1456. 52:36through grade school and high school and
  1457. 52:38college.
  1458. 52:39We were heavily restricted, but we were
  1459. 52:41allowed to do some things like it wasn't
  1460. 52:44like Jason's situation where he was just
  1461. 52:46like like the doors locked, you know,
  1462. 52:48you're staying in there type thing. Um,
  1463. 52:50>> and who was that? Who was who was
  1464. 52:53keeping um
  1465. 52:55who was the disciplinary in the family?
  1466. 52:57>> My dad.
  1467. 52:58>> And was he the one inside Jason's? Yes.
  1468. 53:00>> Locked in.
  1469. 53:01>> Yeah.
  1470. 53:01>> What did mom think about that?
  1471. 53:03>> Mom didn't approve of it obviously, but
  1472. 53:06back in that time, my dad was a very
  1473. 53:11like angry, violent type person.
  1474. 53:13>> Overbearing.
  1475. 53:14>> Overbearing. Um, you know, he would he
  1476. 53:17would like push my mom. And like one
  1477. 53:20instance, you know, it was getting to
  1478. 53:22that age where me and Cody were kind of
  1479. 53:24getting old enough to maybe be able to
  1480. 53:25do something if she needed our help. And
  1481. 53:28uh I remember her and my dad were like
  1482. 53:32in their room, which if you go down the
  1483. 53:33stairs, it's right there to the left. Um
  1484. 53:37we heard our mom yell that he's hurting
  1485. 53:39me, he's hurting me. And then me and
  1486. 53:41Cody run downstairs and we go into the
  1487. 53:43room and then we're trying to get our
  1488. 53:45dad off of our mom and then my dad
  1489. 53:47elbows back and that's why my nose is
  1490. 53:49got its little like bridge
  1491. 53:50>> right there.
  1492. 53:52>> Um but I mean that's like how he was
  1493. 53:54like spanking with a 2x4.
  1494. 53:57um you know like baseball practice it'd
  1495. 54:00be like for four or five hours and he's
  1496. 54:02hurling the ball as fast as an adult can
  1497. 54:05and we're like seventh eighth grade
  1498. 54:08trying to catch this stuff. Um
  1499. 54:11yeah, I mean definitely very overbearing
  1500. 54:13but he would always rationalize that
  1501. 54:15he's just trying to like secure our
  1502. 54:17future.
  1503. 54:19>> Violent towards the family,
  1504. 54:20>> violent towards my mom and towards me.
  1505. 54:22Never to and towards Jason. Uh but never
  1506. 54:25to Cody. Why?
  1507. 54:28>> Um I I mean
  1508. 54:30>> his favorite.
  1509. 54:31>> Yeah. I mean three boys.
  1510. 54:32>> Yeah. And with that, I mean, I could
  1511. 54:36kind of see it. But Cody also never
  1512. 54:38really made any mistakes. He he did a
  1513. 54:40few things wrong. He lied a few times.
  1514. 54:42You know, he cost my dad some money a
  1515. 54:44few times, but he was never like a
  1516. 54:46repeat offender, I guess you could say.
  1517. 54:48Whereas me and Jason, you know, we had
  1518. 54:50that difficulty where it's like, okay,
  1519. 54:52we got a C or we got a D on something,
  1520. 54:54and I just don't want to tell dad about
  1521. 54:55it. Sure.
  1522. 54:56>> But then he would find out and then, you
  1523. 54:59know,
  1524. 54:59>> dad would abuse him
  1525. 55:01>> when we were younger. Um,
  1526. 55:02>> how so?
  1527. 55:04>> Spankings with like a 2x4 and then, you
  1528. 55:07know, he he'd used like uh I mean it was
  1529. 55:09like a 2x4 that was fashioned into a
  1530. 55:12paddle called the lightning the
  1531. 55:14lightning rod, I think is what it was
  1532. 55:15called. No, he he broke it on me.
  1533. 55:18>> Yeah. He would um
  1534. 55:21Yeah, he'd do that and then he'd push
  1535. 55:22you around like he wouldn't he wouldn't
  1536. 55:24punch you. He wouldn't bruise you.
  1537. 55:26>> Slap you.
  1538. 55:27>> He never slapped me. But I guess I
  1539. 55:30should say the only place that I ever
  1540. 55:31got bruised was on my butt from from
  1541. 55:33being spang.
  1542. 55:33>> Belittle you.
  1543. 55:35>> He would belittle me when I was younger.
  1544. 55:37But again,
  1545. 55:38>> since you been out of work?
  1546. 55:39>> Um,
  1547. 55:45no. I mean, not really. He would just
  1548. 55:48make me feel bad that
  1549. 55:51like he would make me feel bad that
  1550. 55:53Cody's doing all this stuff to like um
  1551. 55:56>> and you're not
  1552. 55:56>> and I'm not like I'm not contributing.
  1553. 55:58>> You're not as not as
  1554. 56:01valuable maybe.
  1555. 56:02>> I think that's not the right word, but
  1556. 56:03you're you're not you're not
  1557. 56:05contributing enough to what needs to be
  1558. 56:06done.
  1559. 56:06>> And I was just in the point where it's
  1560. 56:08like, you know, I'm hearing, you know,
  1561. 56:10all this stuff from dad. I'm seeing how
  1562. 56:12much Cody's helping me. you know, mom's
  1563. 56:14stressed out with her job and it's like
  1564. 56:17I'm not doing anything. And it's like
  1565. 56:18I'm in that situation where it's like
  1566. 56:20I'm not not doing something because I
  1567. 56:22don't want to. I'm held out because I'm
  1568. 56:24waiting for this whole legal thing to
  1569. 56:26get taken care of and then for jobs.
  1570. 56:28>> When's the last time your dad put his
  1571. 56:30hands on you?
  1572. 56:33Uh, the last time my dad put his hands
  1573. 56:36on me would be
  1574. 56:41I'd say
  1575. 56:45kind of the middle of December of 2018.
  1576. 56:49>> What happened? It's because um you know
  1577. 56:53with all the money that had been getting
  1578. 56:55spent and uh I guess just a mix of
  1579. 56:59everything that I've been saying just
  1580. 57:00kind of boiling up in him um and the
  1581. 57:03fact that I was to him it seemed like I
  1582. 57:06wasn't concerned about it. So and then
  1583. 57:09plus I was you know I wasn't acting like
  1584. 57:11myself with the jovialness and you know
  1585. 57:13all that kind of stuff. Um, my father
  1586. 57:18chose to admit me to like a like an a
  1587. 57:22depression or an addiction clinic or
  1588. 57:24something like that in Fort Lauderdale
  1589. 57:25called Cornerstone.
  1590. 57:27>> When was that?
  1591. 57:28>> That was December 22nd.
  1592. 57:31>> Okay.
  1593. 57:31>> Until I think uh January 4th.
  1594. 57:35>> Did you agree to go?
  1595. 57:36>> I I didn't, but they said that you know
  1596. 57:38this was your only
  1597. 57:40>> Who said?
  1598. 57:41>> My dad.
  1599. 57:41>> Okay.
  1600. 57:42>> And that was in Fort Lauderdale.
  1601. 57:43>> Yes. Yeah. Did your mom agreed to it?
  1602. 57:46>> My mom and my brother both agreed, but
  1603. 57:49it was my dad who was like the iron fist
  1604. 57:51like this is what's going to happen like
  1605. 57:53you know he can't
  1606. 57:54>> Why did he say you needed to go? What
  1607. 57:55was his reason?
  1608. 57:57>> Because uh with the way that I was
  1609. 58:00acting, he just he didn't see that I was
  1610. 58:03doing anything for like the positive. Um
  1611. 58:07you know, and a lot of it just came back
  1612. 58:09to money uh with him.
  1613. 58:12uh he would he would like allow me to to
  1614. 58:16spend money that he had uh like with his
  1615. 58:18credit card or something like that, but
  1616. 58:21it's like then whenever I did it was
  1617. 58:23like a huge problem.
  1618. 58:25>> Okay. So, you had one of his credit
  1619. 58:26cards.
  1620. 58:27>> Yeah.
  1621. 58:27>> And what were you buying with it?
  1622. 58:29>> Uh well, what I was doing is um over the
  1623. 58:33past
  1624. 58:35four months or something like that, I've
  1625. 58:36been I've been talking to this woman
  1626. 58:38online.
  1627. 58:39>> Okay. Uh she's as embarrassing as it is.
  1628. 58:42She's a she's a cam she's a cam model.
  1629. 58:45>> A what?
  1630. 58:45>> A cam model. You guys know that uh just
  1631. 58:49like you have to tell us.
  1632. 58:51>> A cam model. It's like they they
  1633. 58:54it's like a virtual girlfriend, I guess
  1634. 58:56you could say.
  1635. 58:57>> Okay.
  1636. 58:57>> Like that type of situation.
  1637. 58:59>> Mhm.
  1638. 58:59>> So a lot of the money went to her.
  1639. 59:01>> Okay. Where's she at?
  1640. 59:02>> She lives in Bulgaria.
  1641. 59:04>> Where?
  1642. 59:05>> Bulgaria.
  1643. 59:06>> Where's that?
  1644. 59:07>> Over in Europe. It's like outside of
  1645. 59:08Germany. Okay. Something like that.
  1646. 59:10>> You ever been there?
  1647. 59:10>> No.
  1648. 59:11>> Okay.
  1649. 59:12>> It was It wasn't that serious.
  1650. 59:13>> What would you give her money for?
  1651. 59:15>> Um just for like the time online with
  1652. 59:18her. Yeah. So, it was just like that
  1653. 59:19type of thing.
  1654. 59:20>> And what did she charge by the minute?
  1655. 59:22By the hour?
  1656. 59:23>> Minutes.
  1657. 59:24>> Okay. And how much is it per minute?
  1658. 59:25>> Oh god. I think it was like
  1659. 59:28>> It was like 90 tokens a minute. And it's
  1660. 59:32like conversion rate for all of that is
  1661. 59:36like
  1662. 59:38$600 for like a like 5,000 or something
  1663. 59:42tokens or something like that. So, and
  1664. 59:44then it was 4 hours a night. Um, so I
  1665. 59:48mean it's I mean that's basically just
  1666. 59:50where all like the cost went to was you
  1667. 59:52pay real money for the tokens then you
  1668. 59:53use the company's digital currency for
  1669. 59:55for that.
  1670. 59:56>> So you do and when did you meet her? I
  1671. 59:59met her um
  1672. 1:00:04at the beginning of July. Yeah. At the
  1673. 1:00:08very beginning of July.
  1674. 1:00:09>> Okay. And and still talking to her?
  1675. 1:00:12>> Still. Yeah. I mean, more just on uh
  1676. 1:00:14like Twitter, like just through direct
  1677. 1:00:16messaging. Um again, cell phone service
  1678. 1:00:19doesn't work, so it's like I can't use
  1679. 1:00:20the the chatting like that.
  1680. 1:00:22>> How much do you think you spent on this?
  1681. 1:00:24It's kind of pricey.
  1682. 1:00:25>> Yeah.
  1683. 1:00:26>> 90 tokens and and You mean $5,000 for
  1684. 1:00:29for how many pumpkins?
  1685. 1:00:32>> No, no, it's $600 for for 5,000.
  1686. 1:00:35>> For 5,000. Okay. So, how much you think
  1687. 1:00:37you spent?
  1688. 1:00:38>> Um,
  1689. 1:00:40probably
  1690. 1:00:41close to
  1691. 1:00:45like $200,000,
  1692. 1:00:48I'd say.
  1693. 1:00:49>> $200,000.
  1694. 1:00:50>> Yeah.
  1695. 1:00:51>> And where' the money come from?
  1696. 1:00:52>> Money came from me, uh, my brother, and
  1697. 1:00:56then my dad.
  1698. 1:00:58Did they know where the money was going
  1699. 1:00:59to?
  1700. 1:00:59>> They didn't know that it was going to uh
  1701. 1:01:02a cam a cam model. I I was saying that
  1702. 1:01:05it was going towards my Twitch streaming
  1703. 1:01:08uh like like yeah like advertising like
  1704. 1:01:11putting my name out there and that that
  1705. 1:01:13type of thing. So I guess to like bring
  1706. 1:01:14it all back with why I was brought to
  1707. 1:01:16Cornerstone. Uh it was a mix of all of
  1708. 1:01:20those things. It's like he felt like,
  1709. 1:01:23you know, I um
  1710. 1:01:26he felt like
  1711. 1:01:27>> you needed to be grounded.
  1712. 1:01:28>> Yeah. Yeah. And so then I was there, you
  1713. 1:01:32know, I spoke to like the therapist and
  1714. 1:01:34psychiatrist and all that stuff. I
  1715. 1:01:35didn't need any medications for
  1716. 1:01:37anything. They had analyzed it as this
  1717. 1:01:40is an isolated event. You've been out of
  1718. 1:01:42work. You have this PTSD from the whole
  1719. 1:01:45getting arrested thing. And I mean, the
  1720. 1:01:47last thing on my record was, I think, a
  1721. 1:01:49speeding ticket back when I was at UCF.
  1722. 1:01:51>> Mhm.
  1723. 1:01:51>> And then, you know, just having all of
  1724. 1:01:54that stuff going on. Um,
  1725. 1:01:58but then I didn't they had signed me
  1726. 1:02:00they had signed me up, I think, to be
  1727. 1:02:02there for 60 days, but then I was only
  1728. 1:02:05there until January 4th. So,
  1729. 1:02:07>> wait for that.
  1730. 1:02:07>> My brother Cody,
  1731. 1:02:08>> what was the cost of that? Yeah.
  1732. 1:02:10>> 15,000. It was $15,000.
  1733. 1:02:13And then I think uh when I had gotten
  1734. 1:02:16back, we were going through the process
  1735. 1:02:17of calling them and seeing if we could
  1736. 1:02:18get any type of refund. And I think they
  1737. 1:02:20said that he was going to get refunded
  1738. 1:02:22$3,000 from his 15.
  1739. 1:02:23>> Sure.
  1740. 1:02:24>> Um but I don't
  1741. 1:02:25>> there.
  1742. 1:02:26>> Right. Right. But I don't know if that
  1743. 1:02:28transaction had ever gone through yet.
  1744. 1:02:29>> So their final diagnosis of you was
  1745. 1:02:31what?
  1746. 1:02:32>> That I was fine. That
  1747. 1:02:33>> didn't need to be there.
  1748. 1:02:34>> Yeah. That I was I was fine. I told them
  1749. 1:02:37all about like my living situation and
  1750. 1:02:39how it had been stressful and then it
  1751. 1:02:40got better and then now it's just
  1752. 1:02:42stressful again. But they had all just
  1753. 1:02:44said that it was just this isolated
  1754. 1:02:45event
  1755. 1:02:45>> situational PTSD from
  1756. 1:02:47>> Right. Yeah. Like once you
  1757. 1:02:49>> once you can get this legal thing taken
  1758. 1:02:51care of which I I don't know if I
  1759. 1:02:53mentioned but when we looked online and
  1760. 1:02:55we saw that all the charges have been
  1761. 1:02:56dropped that was on like November 30th
  1762. 1:02:58or 31st the day before we were going to
  1763. 1:03:00Japan. So, while that was good and
  1764. 1:03:03everything, um, I still knew that it was
  1765. 1:03:06still going to be like on your record
  1766. 1:03:08until you get it expuned.
  1767. 1:03:10>> So, you know, I was still thinking,
  1768. 1:03:12okay, at least now I can maybe start
  1769. 1:03:14applying when we get back from Japan.
  1770. 1:03:16>> I found out you said you went on the
  1771. 1:03:1822nd of
  1772. 1:03:20>> That's when that's when I went to Yeah,
  1773. 1:03:21it was after Japan. And it was because
  1774. 1:03:23when I had gotten back, my um my mom and
  1775. 1:03:27dad were, you know, dealing with a lot
  1776. 1:03:29of the financial stuff while we were up
  1777. 1:03:31there.
  1778. 1:03:31>> Mhm.
  1779. 1:03:32>> And then um when I got back, that's
  1780. 1:03:35where my dad started to get really kind
  1781. 1:03:37of overbearing. And I mean, rightfully
  1782. 1:03:39so. I know what I did, but it's like
  1783. 1:03:41with him, it was every single day, hours
  1784. 1:03:43a day, excuse me, hours a day, he'd come
  1785. 1:03:46home from work and then he would just
  1786. 1:03:49talk to me just about the same exact
  1787. 1:03:50thing over and over and over and over
  1788. 1:03:52and over again. And
  1789. 1:03:53>> did he get did he get heated?
  1790. 1:03:55>> He would get heated, but he
  1791. 1:03:57>> get heated.
  1792. 1:03:57>> No, I mean, I was, you know, I I was
  1793. 1:04:00always the person in the family where
  1794. 1:04:01like my brother Cody would interrupt my
  1795. 1:04:03dad when he was talking. uh my mom would
  1796. 1:04:06interject and say, "You can't be saying
  1797. 1:04:08that or whatever." But for me, I would
  1798. 1:04:10just sit there and I would just let my
  1799. 1:04:11dad talk so that he could say everything
  1800. 1:04:12that he wanted to say. Um and then if I
  1801. 1:04:15saw that it was something that he wanted
  1802. 1:04:16me to respond to, then I'd respond. But
  1803. 1:04:18I would never be heated to him.
  1804. 1:04:20>> Especially if I felt like I was in the
  1805. 1:04:21wrong,
  1806. 1:04:22>> right?
  1807. 1:04:22>> Spending that amount of money, it's
  1808. 1:04:24idiotic to do that, you know, especially
  1809. 1:04:26when you're not making
  1810. 1:04:27>> 200,000,
  1811. 1:04:28>> right? One of his rules was that I
  1812. 1:04:30wasn't allowed to talk to the woman
  1813. 1:04:31anymore that I had been talking to. Um,
  1814. 1:04:35but I guess you could say behind the
  1815. 1:04:37scenes, my mom would let me talk to her
  1816. 1:04:40through her cell phone using Twitter.
  1817. 1:04:42Um, and you know, she would tell me
  1818. 1:04:46like, "Look, you got to keep it, you
  1819. 1:04:49have to keep it just basic because if
  1820. 1:04:51you say anything or if you entice
  1821. 1:04:53anything or do anything like that, it
  1822. 1:04:55might lead her to
  1823. 1:04:59say something to like my dad or
  1824. 1:05:00something like that because she get
  1825. 1:05:02>> because apparently when I was in
  1826. 1:05:04Cornerstone, my dad told her cuz he had
  1827. 1:05:08like hacked my computer or something
  1828. 1:05:10like that and then he found everything.
  1829. 1:05:12guy like you and your brother,
  1830. 1:05:13>> except he's more of that like hacking
  1831. 1:05:15level, like able to do all that stuff.
  1832. 1:05:18So, he had found, you know, um like just
  1833. 1:05:22the stuff that was related to her. And
  1834. 1:05:24then,
  1835. 1:05:26you know, he like he like erased my
  1836. 1:05:28whole entire computer. He put a password
  1837. 1:05:30on it. So, it's like even when I came
  1838. 1:05:32back up until Thursday, like I wasn't
  1839. 1:05:33able to go onto my own computer to look
  1840. 1:05:36at anything. I
  1841. 1:05:36>> He's treating you like a small child,
  1842. 1:05:38>> right? And rightfully so. I mean,
  1843. 1:05:41spending that amount of I was acting
  1844. 1:05:42childish. I I can kind of get it.
  1845. 1:05:44>> But, um, so yeah, anyways, on Thursday,
  1846. 1:05:48he had apparently found out that I was
  1847. 1:05:51speaking to her again. And when I came
  1848. 1:05:53back on the 4th, me, my mom picked me up
  1849. 1:05:57from the cornerstone place. And then me
  1850. 1:05:59and my mom met my dad at California
  1851. 1:06:02Pizza Grill or Kitchen in Waterford
  1852. 1:06:04Lake. and he had this list front and
  1853. 1:06:08back on a piece of paper of all the
  1854. 1:06:10rules. This is what's going to happen.
  1855. 1:06:12This is why I'm acting the way that I'm
  1856. 1:06:14going to act. I'm not going to be dad
  1857. 1:06:15anymore. I'm going to be Chad. And I
  1858. 1:06:18basically told him that I'm going to be
  1859. 1:06:22I'm going to be present. I'm going to do
  1860. 1:06:24what I can. I'm going to start to try
  1861. 1:06:25and get jobs. Now, I told him what my
  1862. 1:06:27plan was. Um, you know, it wasn't really
  1863. 1:06:31my intention to continue talking to this
  1864. 1:06:33woman, but it just kind of happened. Um,
  1865. 1:06:37and then because there was like that
  1866. 1:06:38emotional connection, I guess you could
  1867. 1:06:40say, uh, between her and me, like I I
  1868. 1:06:43like, you know, it felt like like like a
  1869. 1:06:45relationship, you know, I didn't want to
  1870. 1:06:46just stop cold turkey on it. Um, so he
  1871. 1:06:51had apparently found out and then
  1872. 1:06:53>> happy,
  1873. 1:06:54>> right? And one of the stipulations was
  1874. 1:06:55that he told at the dinner was if you
  1875. 1:06:58speak to this woman again, you're out of
  1876. 1:07:00the house. I'm kicking you out. You can
  1877. 1:07:03pack up your shit and then you're off my
  1878. 1:07:05property. And then because of the way
  1879. 1:07:08that he used to be, he had told me that
  1880. 1:07:12basically if that happens that if I ever
  1881. 1:07:15stepped back onto his property that he
  1882. 1:07:17would kill me. So, you know, on
  1883. 1:07:20Thursday,
  1884. 1:07:22um
  1885. 1:07:24um that all happened and then I was in
  1886. 1:07:26the process. I was getting all my stuff
  1887. 1:07:28together. I was peacemealing it out to
  1888. 1:07:30the car and then uh you know, I had
  1889. 1:07:35interview on Friday. So, I I had to get
  1890. 1:07:37my suit off my car. I was trying to just
  1891. 1:07:38get all of my necessities as best as I
  1892. 1:07:40could from, you know, a lifetime of
  1893. 1:07:43living inside the house. And then um
  1894. 1:07:47um
  1895. 1:07:49my brother was working that night and I
  1896. 1:07:52think he was working like one of his
  1897. 1:07:53long nights but he ended up getting off
  1898. 1:07:55early and then I had met with my brother
  1899. 1:07:58before he came home just like in the
  1900. 1:08:00neighborhood area
  1901. 1:08:02>> and then where
  1902. 1:08:03>> it was just on the uh like the back side
  1903. 1:08:06of the house like along I don't remember
  1904. 1:08:08what that road's called but it's like
  1905. 1:08:09you take the bend where it has those two
  1906. 1:08:11blinking lights
  1907. 1:08:12>> and then it's just down that road
  1908. 1:08:14Well, it was Yeah, it was just it was
  1909. 1:08:16just down that road.
  1910. 1:08:18>> Um, and then I basically brought him up
  1911. 1:08:21to speed and he had told me that he was
  1912. 1:08:24going to do whatever.
  1913. 1:08:25>> What time was anything?
  1914. 1:08:27>> Uh, God, what time was that?
  1915. 1:08:29>> What time did you go to Let me back up a
  1916. 1:08:31second. I apologize. You, mom, and dad
  1917. 1:08:34go to California Pizza Kitchen in
  1918. 1:08:36Waterford at what time?
  1919. 1:08:38>> Oh, that was all the way back on January
  1920. 1:08:394th.
  1921. 1:08:41>> Oh, you said Thursday.
  1922. 1:08:42>> But that wasn't Thursday. No, no, no.
  1923. 1:08:44That was that was when I had come back
  1924. 1:08:45from Cornerstone and he was giving me
  1925. 1:08:47the the rules.
  1926. 1:08:48>> Okay.
  1927. 1:08:49>> So,
  1928. 1:08:49>> due Thursday then that
  1929. 1:08:52Thursday you meet with Cody down the
  1930. 1:08:54street. Is this past Thursday?
  1931. 1:08:55>> Yes.
  1932. 1:08:55>> Okay. Tell me tell me about that.
  1933. 1:08:57>> After you and your dad argue.
  1934. 1:08:58>> After me and my dad had argued and he
  1935. 1:09:00had told me, you know, this is how it's
  1936. 1:09:03going to be and you know all that stuff.
  1937. 1:09:04Then yeah, I spoke with Cody. He told me
  1938. 1:09:07about all that. he had given me his
  1939. 1:09:09debit so that because I mean I don't
  1940. 1:09:12have any money and I don't know where to
  1941. 1:09:13go you know I'd never been out of the
  1942. 1:09:15house on my own. Um and then the last
  1943. 1:09:17thing that I was told was just that you
  1944. 1:09:19know basically once again that he'll
  1945. 1:09:20take care of it because
  1946. 1:09:21>> this is Cody.
  1947. 1:09:22>> This is Cody.
  1948. 1:09:23>> What time what time is this
  1949. 1:09:24approximately?
  1950. 1:09:26>> I'd say a little after
  1951. 1:09:2910 10:30ish at night.
  1952. 1:09:32>> Thursday night.
  1953. 1:09:33>> Thursday night.
  1954. 1:09:34>> Okay. Um,
  1955. 1:09:37and then
  1956. 1:09:39yeah, so then after that I just like
  1957. 1:09:42stayed
  1958. 1:09:44in that air in the vicinity area for a
  1959. 1:09:48number of hours and then I had
  1960. 1:09:50remembered over some of the nights when
  1961. 1:09:52I would work overnight and then I'd be
  1962. 1:09:53able to come like get off early
  1963. 1:09:55>> that I could that the Publix on 50 on
  1964. 1:09:59Colonial,
  1965. 1:10:00>> the one that's by the Tractor Supply
  1966. 1:10:02>> 49. Yeah.
  1967. 1:10:03>> Yeah.
  1968. 1:10:03>> Mhm. that that public that's like their
  1969. 1:10:05guest Wi-Fi is always still active even
  1970. 1:10:07when the store closes down. So I was
  1971. 1:10:08like, "Okay, well I'm going to go there
  1972. 1:10:10cuz I have my Surface. Um, and I can,
  1973. 1:10:12you know, check on my emails." I had to
  1974. 1:10:14pull up the address to my interview
  1975. 1:10:16because I don't have GPS.
  1976. 1:10:18>> Um, so then I would like write all that
  1977. 1:10:20stuff down and then, um, I was basically
  1978. 1:10:24just waiting in that parking lot until I
  1979. 1:10:27had to leave to go to the interview.
  1980. 1:10:30Um,
  1981. 1:10:32and then I mean that was the LA because
  1982. 1:10:33again it's like no cell phone service.
  1983. 1:10:36Uh, I mean email was literally like my
  1984. 1:10:39only form of communication. And then you
  1985. 1:10:42know Yeah. I just I didn't have any I
  1986. 1:10:45didn't you know I was I went to the the
  1987. 1:10:48Double Tree cuz I was like I can't just
  1988. 1:10:49stay in my car again all night,
  1989. 1:10:51>> right? How did you pay for that?
  1990. 1:10:53>> I paid for it with my with my debit
  1991. 1:10:55card.
  1992. 1:10:55>> With your debit card?
  1993. 1:10:56>> Yeah. cuz I think there was like 400
  1994. 1:10:58or$300 and something dollars still left
  1995. 1:11:00on it.
  1996. 1:11:00>> Okay.
  1997. 1:11:01>> Um and then I was just there the whole
  1998. 1:11:03night.
  1999. 1:11:04>> Talk to Cody, talk to mom, talk to
  2000. 1:11:06>> No, I I couldn't talk to anybody cuz I
  2001. 1:11:08didn't have
  2002. 1:11:08>> But you have the phone in the room.
  2003. 1:11:10>> Oh, yeah. I did have the phone in the
  2004. 1:11:12room. But
  2005. 1:11:13>> anybody room?
  2006. 1:11:14>> No, I just I didn't even honestly think
  2007. 1:11:16about it cuz I was I was like,
  2008. 1:11:20>> you know, away from a place where I
  2009. 1:11:22lived for 25 years or something like
  2010. 1:11:24that. I had never, you know, as
  2011. 1:11:26embarrassing as it is, I'd never been on
  2012. 1:11:27my own.
  2013. 1:11:28>> The longest period I ever been away from
  2014. 1:11:30anybody is 2 weeks when we were up in
  2015. 1:11:32Japan. I guess I was waiting to see what
  2016. 1:11:35would happen with his job cuz I was told
  2017. 1:11:37I'd either be told Tuesday or Thursday
  2018. 1:11:39and then maybe I would try an outreach
  2019. 1:11:43or something like that. Or the last
  2020. 1:11:44time, um, you know, when it was like an
  2021. 1:11:48issue where I didn't have my phone, like
  2022. 1:11:49my brother would email me. So, I was
  2023. 1:11:51just thinking, okay, well, I mean, if
  2024. 1:11:53anything, he knows the situation. He'll
  2025. 1:11:55just email me. So, I checked my email a
  2026. 1:11:57few times last night and then I just
  2027. 1:11:58inevitably was able to to go to sleep.
  2028. 1:12:01>> So, so Thursday, you're home all day?
  2029. 1:12:04>> Yes.
  2030. 1:12:04>> With your mom. She works at home,
  2031. 1:12:06>> correct? Yeah.
  2032. 1:12:06>> Your dad's at work. What's his normal
  2033. 1:12:08work hours?
  2034. 1:12:08>> Uh, he worked until
  2035. 1:12:12I think he had to go in early that day.
  2036. 1:12:14Uh, cuz he had to start like doing
  2037. 1:12:15overtime or something like that. And he
  2038. 1:12:18normally works though from like 5 or 6
  2039. 1:12:20in the morning to I think he gets home
  2040. 1:12:23between like 5:30 and 6:00 at night or
  2041. 1:12:25something like that.
  2042. 1:12:26>> What time do you get home that night?
  2043. 1:12:28>> Uh he got home at like 5:30.
  2044. 1:12:30>> 5:30.
  2045. 1:12:31>> 5:30, 5:45. One of those two.
  2046. 1:12:33>> Okay.
  2047. 1:12:34>> Describe your dad normally come in.
  2048. 1:12:36>> Uh when my dad normally comes in, he'll
  2049. 1:12:38come in. He'll look into the uh the
  2050. 1:12:41living room which is like there's the
  2051. 1:12:43kitchen and then there's the living room
  2052. 1:12:44where it's got like the long couch and
  2053. 1:12:46whatnot that's inside and then there's
  2054. 1:12:49the TV right there.
  2055. 1:12:50>> Okay.
  2056. 1:12:50>> So, he'll normally come in through there
  2057. 1:12:52and then he'll talk or he'll ask his
  2058. 1:12:55questions or he'll
  2059. 1:12:56>> Where are you? Where were you at when he
  2060. 1:12:57came in?
  2061. 1:12:57>> I was just in there. I was just watching
  2062. 1:12:59uh
  2063. 1:13:00>> in the virtual reality where where you
  2064. 1:13:01said you had that set up.
  2065. 1:13:02>> Right. Right. Yeah. I was just watching
  2066. 1:13:03>> And that's in what room?
  2067. 1:13:04>> The living room.
  2068. 1:13:05>> The living room.
  2069. 1:13:06>> Yeah. I was just watching YouTube at
  2070. 1:13:08that time just like
  2071. 1:13:09>> can I talk to you?
  2072. 1:13:10>> Yeah.
  2073. 1:13:11>> Okay.
  2074. 1:13:11>> Uh and that's where
  2075. 1:13:14um cuz he had I don't know how he found
  2076. 1:13:18out but he had apparently found out and
  2077. 1:13:20then
  2078. 1:13:20>> found out what
  2079. 1:13:21>> that I was talking to
  2080. 1:13:23>> to the woman. Yeah. And then uh he came
  2081. 1:13:26in and then he asked me in a calmer
  2082. 1:13:29state I guess you could say like
  2083. 1:13:32basically the the leading question of
  2084. 1:13:35you know why do you think we're about to
  2085. 1:13:38have this conversation giving me I guess
  2086. 1:13:41that opportunity to be honest and
  2087. 1:13:42truthful to maybe tone it down a little
  2088. 1:13:45bit. I of course did what I always did
  2089. 1:13:47where I kind of didn't admit to it. Um,
  2090. 1:13:52and then he he came out and he told me
  2091. 1:13:55that I'd been doing that.
  2092. 1:13:56>> He had proof.
  2093. 1:13:57>> Yeah. He had kind of reverted back to
  2094. 1:13:59the way that he was when we were younger
  2095. 1:14:00where, you know, he kind of, you know,
  2096. 1:14:03pulled me up from the couch and then he
  2097. 1:14:05was yelling at me to pack my shit up and
  2098. 1:14:07just get out of the house that he was
  2099. 1:14:09the one who had to be the hammer and
  2100. 1:14:11that, you know, why am I making him have
  2101. 1:14:13to go through this and all this other
  2102. 1:14:15kind of stuff.
  2103. 1:14:16>> Okay.
  2104. 1:14:16>> So, you know, basically I had
  2105. 1:14:19>> he becoming violent.
  2106. 1:14:21like the way you described when you were
  2107. 1:14:23you when you and Cody were kids,
  2108. 1:14:24>> right?
  2109. 1:14:25>> What do you do?
  2110. 1:14:26>> Um, like I said, he pulled me up from
  2111. 1:14:28the couch just by like the shirt that I
  2112. 1:14:30was wearing.
  2113. 1:14:31>> And then, you know, after that, he was
  2114. 1:14:33basically just having that yelling where
  2115. 1:14:36it was kind of kind of like cracking,
  2116. 1:14:38you know, like his voice would either
  2117. 1:14:40crack or he would just he was basically
  2118. 1:14:42just yelling at that point and
  2119. 1:14:43monitoring.
  2120. 1:14:44>> Where's your mom?
  2121. 1:14:45>> My mom was in her office.
  2122. 1:14:47>> The argument with dad is at what time?
  2123. 1:14:49The argument with dad is like
  2124. 1:14:51600 6:30 or so.
  2125. 1:14:53>> Yeah.
  2126. 1:14:54>> Okay. Um,
  2127. 1:14:57you have your argument. Can you pack
  2128. 1:14:59your stuff?
  2129. 1:14:59>> I have my argument and then I'm packing
  2130. 1:15:01my stuff. I'm, you know, taking it out
  2131. 1:15:03to the car. It took me like a couple
  2132. 1:15:04hours to get as much as I could. Just
  2133. 1:15:06kind of out into there. Um, and then
  2134. 1:15:10yeah, it's like mom's kind of just
  2135. 1:15:12staying out of it to a certain degree
  2136. 1:15:14because she knows like how dad can be.
  2137. 1:15:18And then uh yeah, I mean,
  2138. 1:15:23you know, I was and that's just pretty
  2139. 1:15:25much where I was just kind of like
  2140. 1:15:26waiting.
  2141. 1:15:26>> So you wait outside. Did anybody call
  2142. 1:15:29Cody and tell him what's going on?
  2143. 1:15:30>> No, not I mean not that I know of.
  2144. 1:15:32>> Okay. How do you not meet Cody down the
  2145. 1:15:34street? It's because uh my mom had
  2146. 1:15:37actually come and told me that you know
  2147. 1:15:41she again she was trying to bridge the
  2148. 1:15:42gap and then before I actually
  2149. 1:15:45physically left I had told my mom that
  2150. 1:15:48you know I'm going to be close I'm going
  2151. 1:15:50to be local I'm just going to be like
  2152. 1:15:51down the street
  2153. 1:15:52>> and then so you left
  2154. 1:15:54>> so I left um like Cody had called the
  2155. 1:15:56house and then my mom picked up and then
  2156. 1:16:00he was just letting like how we would
  2157. 1:16:02normally do where like I got off early
  2158. 1:16:04supposed to work till like 11:00 or
  2159. 1:16:05something like that.
  2160. 1:16:06>> But he came home early
  2161. 1:16:07>> and then yeah, he was able to
  2162. 1:16:08>> come home early because of the party.
  2163. 1:16:10You think?
  2164. 1:16:11>> I don't I don't I don't know honestly.
  2165. 1:16:13But uh he had I mean like that week even
  2166. 1:16:16on the days that he was working until
  2167. 1:16:183:00. He would come home at like noon or
  2168. 1:16:201:00 or something that week. So maybe it
  2169. 1:16:21was just a slow week. But apparently
  2170. 1:16:24that had happened and then my mom was
  2171. 1:16:26able to to
  2172. 1:16:28>> tell him,
  2173. 1:16:29>> right? And then she told me what else
  2174. 1:16:31happened. Uh then after after
  2175. 1:16:35I met with Cody then that's where you
  2176. 1:16:37know I was again just kind of staying
  2177. 1:16:39around that area and then I just went to
  2178. 1:16:42to the Publix and then to my knowledge I
  2179. 1:16:44mean that was like that was the last
  2180. 1:16:45interaction that I had with my the three
  2181. 1:16:48members of my family was was that
  2182. 1:16:50>> so when Cody called the house you said
  2183. 1:16:52your mom told him about the argument
  2184. 1:16:54right how and you told when you left you
  2185. 1:16:56said you told your mom you were going to
  2186. 1:16:57be in the area
  2187. 1:16:59>> how then does Cody now know where to
  2188. 1:17:02meet you or is he going to meet you?
  2189. 1:17:04>> Yeah, it's because that's that's when my
  2190. 1:17:06mom had come out to where I said that I
  2191. 1:17:08was going to be on that road somewhere
  2192. 1:17:10and then she was able to do that and
  2193. 1:17:12then I guess that's how she knew like
  2194. 1:17:15where to I don't know if she talked to
  2195. 1:17:16Cody again or if she was able to do that
  2196. 1:17:18but then she was able to like pinpoint
  2197. 1:17:19that area. You leave, go on your way,
  2198. 1:17:22Cody goes home, right?
  2199. 1:17:23>> And you have no contact with anybody
  2200. 1:17:24since then,
  2201. 1:17:25>> right?
  2202. 1:17:25>> So, you and Cody meet,
  2203. 1:17:27>> right?
  2204. 1:17:28>> And it's approximately what time, I know
  2205. 1:17:30it's I'm not going to the exact What
  2206. 1:17:32time do you think you met at?
  2207. 1:17:33>> Like
  2208. 1:17:3610:30 or something like that.
  2209. 1:17:37>> How long did you approximate for?
  2210. 1:17:39>> Only about 10 minutes or so.
  2211. 1:17:40>> And what was your conversation?
  2212. 1:17:42>> Conversation was basically that he was
  2213. 1:17:44brought up to speed, you know, and that
  2214. 1:17:47he would take care of it.
  2215. 1:17:48>> He was brought up speed by what? He was
  2216. 1:17:50brought up to speed on like why I'm why
  2217. 1:17:53I'm out here.
  2218. 1:17:54>> Who brought him up to speed?
  2219. 1:17:55>> My mom.
  2220. 1:17:56>> Oh, so he talked to us.
  2221. 1:17:57>> Yeah.
  2222. 1:17:57>> He told you that mom had talked to us,
  2223. 1:17:59>> right? I just I
  2224. 1:18:00>> since the argument or when
  2225. 1:18:02>> since I had left it was after it was
  2226. 1:18:05after 9:00 p.m. But I just don't
  2227. 1:18:07remember.
  2228. 1:18:07>> So between 9 and approximately 10:30,
  2229. 1:18:10right,
  2230. 1:18:10>> you leave,
  2231. 1:18:11>> right?
  2232. 1:18:11>> Go down to on uh Fort
  2233. 1:18:16>> Cody comes and talks to you about 10
  2234. 1:18:17minutes. At some point, your mom has
  2235. 1:18:19spoken to Cody based on what the
  2236. 1:18:21conversation you have with him. Correct.
  2237. 1:18:22>> Correct. Yeah.
  2238. 1:18:23>> And she told him what had happened
  2239. 1:18:25between you and your dad,
  2240. 1:18:26>> right?
  2241. 1:18:26>> Okay.
  2242. 1:18:27>> Do you think that's why Cody left work?
  2243. 1:18:30>> I mean, I I left work.
  2244. 1:18:34>> No, he never said why he left work. But
  2245. 1:18:36in my mind, I was just thinking, oh, he
  2246. 1:18:38had been let off work early like three
  2247. 1:18:40three times already this week. So, I was
  2248. 1:18:42like
  2249. 1:18:42>> 10 15 minutes you talk to Toby,
  2250. 1:18:44>> right? um you have a conversation and he
  2251. 1:18:47leaves to go home,
  2252. 1:18:48>> right?
  2253. 1:18:49>> And you leave to go where?
  2254. 1:18:50>> And then I stay in that general area
  2255. 1:18:53just so that if anything happened,
  2256. 1:18:55somebody like knows where I am.
  2257. 1:18:57>> So you went and had an interview with
  2258. 1:18:59>> um I had an interview with the two
  2259. 1:19:01managers, uh Erica and Terry.
  2260. 1:19:04>> Erica and Terry. Females or males?
  2261. 1:19:06>> Females.
  2262. 1:19:07>> Okay. What did you wear? Where did you
  2263. 1:19:08wear the interview?
  2264. 1:19:09>> I wore my uh suit. Uh it's just like a
  2265. 1:19:13men's warehouse. gray suit. Sure.
  2266. 1:19:15>> Like uh brown shoes.
  2267. 1:19:18>> Okay. So, you had the interview and it
  2268. 1:19:19started approximately what time?
  2269. 1:19:21>> Like 9:40.
  2270. 1:19:22>> 9:40. Went till about when?
  2271. 1:19:24>> Uh I think it was about an hour. So,
  2272. 1:19:27like 10:30, 10:40 or so.
  2273. 1:19:29>> They didn't offer you a job. I said they
  2274. 1:19:30may have something coming for
  2275. 1:19:32>> it's it seemed like promising, but then
  2276. 1:19:34they said that they had one more person
  2277. 1:19:35interview on Tuesday or Wednesday of
  2278. 1:19:38this coming week. So, but they said that
  2279. 1:19:40I would hear something from them
  2280. 1:19:42regardless like Tuesday or Thursday. I
  2281. 1:19:43want to jump back just a second. When
  2282. 1:19:44you left the house,
  2283. 1:19:46>> right,
  2284. 1:19:46>> what were you wearing?
  2285. 1:19:48>> Uh, when I left the house, I was just
  2286. 1:19:50wearing
  2287. 1:19:51um
  2288. 1:19:53like my uh like black pants and then
  2289. 1:19:57just uh
  2290. 1:19:58>> just like just like workout pants kind
  2291. 1:19:59of going.
  2292. 1:20:00>> No, just Yeah, just like just like
  2293. 1:20:02workout pants.
  2294. 1:20:02>> Workout pants. Okay. And then I um I
  2295. 1:20:06just had a black shirt on and then uh
  2296. 1:20:10was wearing a jacket and I think just
  2297. 1:20:12like one of my sweaters or jackets or
  2298. 1:20:14something.
  2299. 1:20:15>> Where'd you go from there?
  2300. 1:20:16>> From there um I pretty much just drove
  2301. 1:20:19around. I was thinking of like passing
  2302. 1:20:23by the house, but I I inevitably decided
  2303. 1:20:26against it. And then I was I thought
  2304. 1:20:29that I had to do like a skills check off
  2305. 1:20:32for the same exact thing. Then I had
  2306. 1:20:34switched into into just like scrubs.
  2307. 1:20:36>> Okay.
  2308. 1:20:36>> Um but then that didn't end up needing
  2309. 1:20:39to be done today or um on the same dayh
  2310. 1:20:42>> and then I was pretty much just driving
  2311. 1:20:44around. And I ended up going to
  2312. 1:20:47Waterford or I I had gone back to the
  2313. 1:20:49Publix area at one point.
  2314. 1:20:51>> Mhm.
  2315. 1:20:52>> Um because I wanted to see if I could
  2316. 1:20:56um get my phone service back.
  2317. 1:20:59>> Um but then I was told that I'm not like
  2318. 1:21:01a registered user.
  2319. 1:21:02>> Did you go to a phone store somewhere?
  2320. 1:21:04>> Yeah.
  2321. 1:21:04>> Which one?
  2322. 1:21:04>> The Verizon. So
  2323. 1:21:06>> talk to somebody.
  2324. 1:21:07>> Yeah. I tried to get my phone service
  2325. 1:21:09back and then
  2326. 1:21:09>> Guy or girl?
  2327. 1:21:10>> It was a guy.
  2328. 1:21:11>> What did he look like? Um, he was a
  2329. 1:21:14young guy, like maybe in his early 20s.
  2330. 1:21:17He had black hair. I think he had like a
  2331. 1:21:19goatee.
  2332. 1:21:20>> Okay. Put me in the phone because why?
  2333. 1:21:22>> Because I was told that I wasn't a
  2334. 1:21:24registered user cuz it was under my
  2335. 1:21:26dad's name and everything. And then um I
  2336. 1:21:30was told I was a registered user and
  2337. 1:21:31then that basically they can't do
  2338. 1:21:34anything unless he gives the sign off.
  2339. 1:21:37Right.
  2340. 1:21:38>> The account holder has to approve of it.
  2341. 1:21:39>> Right. Right.
  2342. 1:21:40>> Didn't work.
  2343. 1:21:41>> It didn't work. And then you went where?
  2344. 1:21:42>> And then after that, I went back uh and
  2345. 1:21:46then I think I just sat in my car for a
  2346. 1:21:48little while cuz I was just thinking,
  2347. 1:21:49okay, well, how am I going to do this
  2348. 1:21:50with everything that just happened? And
  2349. 1:21:53um
  2350. 1:21:55from there, that's where I think I
  2351. 1:21:58decided that I was going to maybe drive
  2352. 1:22:00by the house.
  2353. 1:22:01>> Did you go drive by?
  2354. 1:22:03>> Did I? I didn't drive by the house. I
  2355. 1:22:06like was starting to go there down that
  2356. 1:22:08fourth Christmas road and then I was
  2357. 1:22:09just like I'm just I'm not I'm not going
  2358. 1:22:12to do it cuz as far as I know it's like
  2359. 1:22:15you know dad's probably at work. I don't
  2360. 1:22:18know if Cody works again today and you
  2361. 1:22:20know just like with everything that had
  2362. 1:22:22been happen drove down there.
  2363. 1:22:23>> Yeah.
  2364. 1:22:23>> Anything strange?
  2365. 1:22:24>> No. I I had seen um I had just seen like
  2366. 1:22:28a couple of cars like pass by me but
  2367. 1:22:30>> cars
  2368. 1:22:31>> like just standard like just a little
  2369. 1:22:33bit of traffic. Then I stop off and I
  2370. 1:22:36just I see if if there was like any
  2371. 1:22:39email updates or anything like that and
  2372. 1:22:41then
  2373. 1:22:41>> your email. Yeah.
  2374. 1:22:42>> Nothing.
  2375. 1:22:42>> And then there was nothing. So then I
  2376. 1:22:44was like, "Oh crap, it's not like
  2377. 1:22:45today."
  2378. 1:22:46>> But you've got to pay for things. You've
  2379. 1:22:48got some money,
  2380. 1:22:48>> right,
  2381. 1:22:49>> in your account,
  2382. 1:22:50>> right?
  2383. 1:22:50>> You had Cody's card, right? You still
  2384. 1:22:52have your dad's card?
  2385. 1:22:53>> Yes.
  2386. 1:22:54>> Okay. So I had that.
  2387. 1:22:55>> Okay. Do you use any of them?
  2388. 1:22:56>> I had used Cody's card to pay for one of
  2389. 1:22:59my bills that was outstanding. Uh, it
  2390. 1:23:02was just one of those from that site. It
  2391. 1:23:04was just like a a bill that had backed
  2392. 1:23:06up there. $599.99.
  2393. 1:23:09>> Okay.
  2394. 1:23:10>> Um,
  2395. 1:23:10>> Cody, you know, you were doing that?
  2396. 1:23:11>> Yeah.
  2397. 1:23:12>> He said it okay to do that.
  2398. 1:23:13>> He said to use this to like survive
  2399. 1:23:16until things can get figured out because
  2400. 1:23:19he knows that I only have, you know, a
  2401. 1:23:20few hundred in my name.
  2402. 1:23:22>> He told you that that night that you
  2403. 1:23:24could use his card and pay off what
  2404. 1:23:26needed to be paid off.
  2405. 1:23:27>> Yeah. He he said to use it for like
  2406. 1:23:30necessity. Did he give it to you?
  2407. 1:23:31>> Yeah,
  2408. 1:23:32>> he gave it. He said, "Here, take this
  2409. 1:23:33in, do whatever." But that was normal
  2410. 1:23:34for him though. He
  2411. 1:23:35>> had always he was putting most of your
  2412. 1:23:37bills right the time.
  2413. 1:23:38>> Okay.
  2414. 1:23:39>> And then at Waterford,
  2415. 1:23:41>> did you stop anywhere over there?
  2416. 1:23:42>> I come to Panera cuz I think that I'm
  2417. 1:23:44going to get something to eat.
  2418. 1:23:45>> What time?
  2419. 1:23:46>> Um this was like right before I went to
  2420. 1:23:49the to the hotel. So it was like 1:30,
  2421. 1:23:522:00 in the afternoon, maybe.
  2422. 1:23:54>> Okay. Um,
  2423. 1:23:57and then in there, you know, I I think
  2424. 1:23:59about getting something to eat, but then
  2425. 1:24:01I don't really want to use like the
  2426. 1:24:03other cards to pay for something, and
  2427. 1:24:05then I know that I only have a little
  2428. 1:24:06bit, but then I'm going to have to like
  2429. 1:24:08sleep somewhere. And again, I'm trying
  2430. 1:24:09to use like my money for that type of
  2431. 1:24:11stuff.
  2432. 1:24:12>> So then, yeah. So, I'm only in Panera
  2433. 1:24:14for like 10 minutes or something like
  2434. 1:24:15that. And then I end up leaving from
  2435. 1:24:17there. And then that's where I go to the
  2436. 1:24:19Double Tree. And then that's where I
  2437. 1:24:20checked in. And then I was at the Double
  2438. 1:24:22Tree all night. slept there last night,
  2439. 1:24:25talked to anybody.
  2440. 1:24:26>> Uh, I guess I messaged the girl that I'd
  2441. 1:24:29been talking to on Twitter
  2442. 1:24:30>> on Twitter. So, you have to pay for it.
  2443. 1:24:32>> Right. Right.
  2444. 1:24:33>> Back to you.
  2445. 1:24:33>> Uh, I think once like one or two
  2446. 1:24:36respond.
  2447. 1:24:37>> What's What's your Twitter address? I'm
  2448. 1:24:39sorry. I'm not person.
  2449. 1:24:40>> No, it's just it's just Grant. A
  2450. 1:24:42>> So, you stay there,
  2451. 1:24:45>> right,
  2452. 1:24:45>> and wake up this morning,
  2453. 1:24:47>> right?
  2454. 1:24:47>> Nobody else in the room.
  2455. 1:24:48>> Nobody else in the room.
  2456. 1:24:49>> Granted in your name.
  2457. 1:24:50>> Rand in my name.
  2458. 1:24:51>> Okay. You come out and do what? You
  2459. 1:24:53probably go where you going?
  2460. 1:24:55>> I was going to go down because I I had
  2461. 1:24:57like one more bottle of water in my car
  2462. 1:24:59and I had just finished eating like just
  2463. 1:25:01a little granola bar thing. So I was
  2464. 1:25:03like I'm just going to go down and get
  2465. 1:25:04my bottle of water.
  2466. 1:25:05>> Then you found what you go outside.
  2467. 1:25:07>> All the police officers.
  2468. 1:25:09>> And then when you left Cody, what did he
  2469. 1:25:13say he was going to go do?
  2470. 1:25:15>> Cody said that he will take care of it.
  2471. 1:25:17>> Take care of what? just the situation
  2472. 1:25:19that was at hand with whatever he had
  2473. 1:25:22been updated with from my mom.
  2474. 1:25:24>> Did he tell you what he was updated?
  2475. 1:25:26>> He had told me that he had told me the
  2476. 1:25:28reason why like I'd been kicked out. Um,
  2477. 1:25:31but he really didn't give me that much
  2478. 1:25:33dialogue like about that situation. You
  2479. 1:25:36know, he was he was miffed a little bit
  2480. 1:25:39because, you know, he had just gotten
  2481. 1:25:41off work and now we have to go deal with
  2482. 1:25:42this. And then after that, I mean, it
  2483. 1:25:45was just he gave me the debit card to
  2484. 1:25:47say, you know, to use this in case of
  2485. 1:25:49emergencies. And then uh I mean, that
  2486. 1:25:52was pretty much it because I don't know
  2487. 1:25:53if like he had already said that he was
  2488. 1:25:56on his way home or if there were
  2489. 1:25:57expectations like for a time with him
  2490. 1:26:00for making it home.
  2491. 1:26:01>> But what was your demeanor like? What
  2492. 1:26:02did Cody see you as? Like were you
  2493. 1:26:04>> like scared? Yeah. I was scared because
  2494. 1:26:07I mean, like I said, it's the first time
  2495. 1:26:08that I had been out of the house, you
  2496. 1:26:10know?
  2497. 1:26:11>> You were scared of what? being on your
  2498. 1:26:13own or did your father say or do
  2499. 1:26:15anything to scare you?
  2500. 1:26:16>> He had threatened me that if I stepped
  2501. 1:26:18foot back on his property, not the
  2502. 1:26:20house, but if I stepped foot back on his
  2503. 1:26:21property that he would kill me and like
  2504. 1:26:23he had
  2505. 1:26:24>> he said those specific words. Yes.
  2506. 1:26:25>> Did you tell that to Cody that your
  2507. 1:26:27father told you that?
  2508. 1:26:28>> No, I didn't.
  2509. 1:26:30>> So, you're afraid of him?
  2510. 1:26:31>> Oh, yeah.
  2511. 1:26:32>> You are actually afraid that he could
  2512. 1:26:35kill you.
  2513. 1:26:35>> Yeah. And it's also because like in the
  2514. 1:26:38past
  2515. 1:26:40like two weeks before I got kicked out,
  2516. 1:26:43my dad was going through like a lot of
  2517. 1:26:46episodes where he was losing his temper
  2518. 1:26:48a lot, yelling a lot, especially when me
  2519. 1:26:50and Cody weren't at the house and um
  2520. 1:26:53>> Who's he yelling at?
  2521. 1:26:53>> My mom.
  2522. 1:26:54>> So, was he being violent to your mom?
  2523. 1:26:56>> Yeah, like I think
  2524. 1:26:57>> physically or just emotionally?
  2525. 1:26:59>> Both.
  2526. 1:27:00>> Put his hands on her.
  2527. 1:27:01>> He had bruised her left arm by grabbing
  2528. 1:27:04it. Um, and then apparently she had said
  2529. 1:27:07that on one of the nights that um, they
  2530. 1:27:10were in the kitchen together and then he
  2531. 1:27:12was like throwing food at her and then
  2532. 1:27:14banged her head against the wall a
  2533. 1:27:15couple times.
  2534. 1:27:16>> So, and I'm not, let me speak of your
  2535. 1:27:19dad, but he's kind of a violent guy.
  2536. 1:27:21>> Yeah. I mean,
  2537. 1:27:21>> you have a reason to be afraid of him.
  2538. 1:27:23And then the thing that I was getting to
  2539. 1:27:25was that apparently my mom was so scared
  2540. 1:27:27at one point cuz it had been a while
  2541. 1:27:29since she had been like this that she
  2542. 1:27:31had taken like
  2543. 1:27:34a couple or a number of voice memos on
  2544. 1:27:36her phone whenever he would like come in
  2545. 1:27:39and then start like she knew that you
  2546. 1:27:40know some like he was going to start to
  2547. 1:27:42get upset and that on multiple occasions
  2548. 1:27:46um he had told her that if you or he had
  2549. 1:27:50told her that basically if I fuck up
  2550. 1:27:52sorry for language, but that if I if I
  2551. 1:27:54screw up,
  2552. 1:27:56>> he's going to kill me and then he's
  2553. 1:27:58going to kill her.
  2554. 1:27:59>> He said that specifically
  2555. 1:28:00>> because he blames everything that
  2556. 1:28:02happens negatively with me and with
  2557. 1:28:05Jason, not with Cody, but with me and
  2558. 1:28:06Jason on her because we're her favorite.
  2559. 1:28:10>> So, you have a reasonable belief in your
  2560. 1:28:14mind that your dad could could hurt you?
  2561. 1:28:16>> Yes.
  2562. 1:28:16>> He could hurt your mom.
  2563. 1:28:17>> Yes.
  2564. 1:28:18>> He could maybe hurt Jason.
  2565. 1:28:20>> Yes.
  2566. 1:28:21>> He's a violent guy. I'm sorry. I've been
  2567. 1:28:23this a long time. He sounds like a
  2568. 1:28:24violent guy.
  2569. 1:28:25>> Yeah.
  2570. 1:28:25>> Quick to lose his temper with him over
  2571. 1:28:27minuscule stuff.
  2572. 1:28:28>> Minuscule stuff.
  2573. 1:28:29>> I get the point. He's upset about the
  2574. 1:28:30amount of money. I get that.
  2575. 1:28:32>> But physically, he's abusive.
  2576. 1:28:35>> Yes.
  2577. 1:28:36>> It's kind of embarrassing as you're an
  2578. 1:28:37adult male right now. He's been abusive
  2579. 1:28:39you for years, has he not?
  2580. 1:28:41>> Yeah. I mean, more more mentally over
  2581. 1:28:44the
  2582. 1:28:45>> But it has been to the point where you
  2583. 1:28:48as a 29y old male, right? I got to point
  2584. 1:28:50out
  2585. 1:28:51>> that you're afraid that your father
  2586. 1:28:52could kill you.
  2587. 1:28:53>> Yeah.
  2588. 1:28:53>> Why do you think we're having this
  2589. 1:28:54conversation?
  2590. 1:28:56>> I honestly don't know, but I'm
  2591. 1:28:59pretty freaked out at this point because
  2592. 1:29:03you know it's uh I mean I know like how
  2593. 1:29:06the situation was when I left and
  2594. 1:29:10you know I thought that it was weird to
  2595. 1:29:12begin with that I hadn't gotten any
  2596. 1:29:15communication whatsoever. I mean like I
  2597. 1:29:17like I had told you my brother Cody the
  2598. 1:29:19last time um when I was away from the
  2599. 1:29:22house that he was the one who outreached
  2600. 1:29:23to me via email because again I didn't
  2601. 1:29:25have my phone or anything like that.
  2602. 1:29:27>> As a as a child we're told the truth
  2603. 1:29:30always is the best thing to do. Correct.
  2604. 1:29:32Correct. You agreement?
  2605. 1:29:33>> Yeah.
  2606. 1:29:33>> And accidents happen and things in the
  2607. 1:29:35heat of the moment things happen that we
  2608. 1:29:38wish hadn't happened but we make I I do
  2609. 1:29:41it myself sometimes. my kids would make
  2610. 1:29:42me so aggravated. I'll snap at them and
  2611. 1:29:44then walk away and say, "Wow, I wish I
  2612. 1:29:46would not have done that. That was not
  2613. 1:29:47very adult of me to to snap at my child
  2614. 1:29:50or something." Yes, they're wrong, but I
  2615. 1:29:53should be the adult and not snap at
  2616. 1:29:54them.
  2617. 1:29:54>> Right.
  2618. 1:29:58Tell me what you think because I I can
  2619. 1:29:59tell by I've done this for a long long
  2620. 1:30:01time and I read people the way they act
  2621. 1:30:03and the way they they talk to me and the
  2622. 1:30:05way they answer questions.
  2623. 1:30:07There's something you want to tell us. I
  2624. 1:30:09can see it in your eyes. cuz I can see
  2625. 1:30:11it in your body language and just your
  2626. 1:30:14the way you act.
  2627. 1:30:16Now's the time. Now's the time. If
  2628. 1:30:18there's something you want to get off
  2629. 1:30:19your chest and give us an explanation of
  2630. 1:30:21what's bothering you, now is the exact
  2631. 1:30:24time to do it. And I I I'm I'm giving
  2632. 1:30:26that opportunity
  2633. 1:30:28um right now to tell me some something
  2634. 1:30:31you want to get off your chest. It's
  2635. 1:30:32there. I can see it in your face. I can
  2636. 1:30:34see your eyes.
  2637. 1:30:34>> Out about that night.
  2638. 1:30:35>> You're upset about You're upset about
  2639. 1:30:36you've been that since we've talked to
  2640. 1:30:38you. I can see there's something been
  2641. 1:30:39bothering you. Even though I don't know
  2642. 1:30:41you from Adam's house cat, you see
  2643. 1:30:42things in people that something's really
  2644. 1:30:44bothering this guy. It's not that, you
  2645. 1:30:46know, I spent a bunch of money I
  2646. 1:30:47shouldn't have on this girl. So be it.
  2647. 1:30:49You did. It's over with. Money can be
  2648. 1:30:51made back. Something's bothering you.
  2649. 1:30:54>> I'm just worried about what is all
  2650. 1:30:57transpiring from this. I
  2651. 1:30:59>> I think at this point right now, to be
  2652. 1:31:01honest with you, Grant, you know what it
  2653. 1:31:02is. Um it's in your eyes. your your eyes
  2654. 1:31:07is is the view to your soul is it's in
  2655. 1:31:10your eyes
  2656. 1:31:10>> and we usually know answers before we
  2657. 1:31:12ask it.
  2658. 1:31:13>> I and we me and Eva knew everything
  2659. 1:31:16before before um we ask your questions.
  2660. 1:31:22Now's the time to to come to Jesus. Be
  2661. 1:31:24honest cuz you're holding something
  2662. 1:31:25back. I can see it in your eyes.
  2663. 1:31:28People don't believe that the police
  2664. 1:31:29will help you, but we are actually here
  2665. 1:31:31to help you with issues you may have.
  2666. 1:31:34Um, I think something happened and
  2667. 1:31:38you don't want to tell us, but right now
  2668. 1:31:40is the time to get it off your chest.
  2669. 1:31:42And I really wish you would because it
  2670. 1:31:44will make you feel better in the end.
  2671. 1:31:47>> I I genuinely don't have anything else
  2672. 1:31:49that I can say about the night or you
  2673. 1:31:53know the the periods of time afterwards.
  2674. 1:31:55>> Something that something that happened
  2675. 1:31:58that caused you to defend yourself. No,
  2676. 1:32:00because again it's like I didn't have I
  2677. 1:32:03didn't have any means to defend myself.
  2678. 1:32:05I mean I didn't Well,
  2679. 1:32:08we know from talking to there's there's
  2680. 1:32:11weapons in the house,
  2681. 1:32:12>> right?
  2682. 1:32:13>> We know that to be to be to be a fact.
  2683. 1:32:16Something happened that caused you to
  2684. 1:32:20defend yourself. Whether you had
  2685. 1:32:22anything or not, you found something to
  2686. 1:32:24defend yourself with.
  2687. 1:32:26I can't tell you everything. I'm not
  2688. 1:32:28going to tell you everything.
  2689. 1:32:30But something happened. Whether your dad
  2690. 1:32:33blew up on you,
  2691. 1:32:36threatened you, physically harmed you,
  2692. 1:32:38or hurt you,
  2693. 1:32:40something happened that caused an
  2694. 1:32:43altercation.
  2695. 1:32:44>> And I I didn't do anything at the house
  2696. 1:32:47besides get my stuff together and take
  2697. 1:32:50it out to my car.
  2698. 1:32:53>> There there is. And you're you're you're
  2699. 1:32:55a better electronic. I am. I'm going to
  2700. 1:32:56go into that. There's a digital
  2701. 1:32:58footprint. And there's ways to see
  2702. 1:33:00things that we know that don't make
  2703. 1:33:03sense. Even though your phone may not
  2704. 1:33:05have service, there's still
  2705. 1:33:09issues with the phone,
  2706. 1:33:10>> right?
  2707. 1:33:10>> And it was on you the entire time. Yeah.
  2708. 1:33:12>> And you left the house until you were in
  2709. 1:33:15touch with law enforcement.
  2710. 1:33:16>> I can track places you've been. And I
  2711. 1:33:19know where you have been and I know what
  2712. 1:33:20time you've been there. And what
  2713. 1:33:24everything you're telling me isn't just
  2714. 1:33:26pathetic and doesn't add up because
  2715. 1:33:28because there's what I think, what you
  2716. 1:33:30think, what she thinks, and there's
  2717. 1:33:32things that are hard fact you can't
  2718. 1:33:33manipulate. You know what I'm saying? I
  2719. 1:33:36think something happened at the house
  2720. 1:33:37based on my knowledge right now. And
  2721. 1:33:40you're afraid to say it. You're afraid
  2722. 1:33:42to to come back and say that I was a
  2723. 1:33:45victim. I was hurt. I had something that
  2724. 1:33:48happened there that I don't want you to
  2725. 1:33:50tell me because it's something maybe
  2726. 1:33:52embarrassing or not good, but
  2727. 1:33:55I know a lot more than than I can let on
  2728. 1:33:58right now.
  2729. 1:33:58>> When I had come back that other time, I
  2730. 1:34:00crossed in front of the the red the
  2731. 1:34:05deuce fence, the red blinking light
  2732. 1:34:07ones. Um,
  2733. 1:34:08>> what time was that?
  2734. 1:34:09>> I can't I can't remember.
  2735. 1:34:10>> That was that was Friday during the day
  2736. 1:34:12when you said you were going to come
  2737. 1:34:12back,
  2738. 1:34:13>> right? Yeah.
  2739. 1:34:14>> Okay. But it was after you did your
  2740. 1:34:16interview,
  2741. 1:34:17>> correct?
  2742. 1:34:17>> Okay.
  2743. 1:34:18>> If you did that, you would have seen
  2744. 1:34:20something and there would be something
  2745. 1:34:21out of the ordinary that you would have
  2746. 1:34:22seen. If you passed that, you passed
  2747. 1:34:25something out of the ordinary. What was
  2748. 1:34:26it?
  2749. 1:34:27>> I saw like a news van and then uh
  2750. 1:34:33I don't think there there might have
  2751. 1:34:34been like a cop car there. There was
  2752. 1:34:36like traffic being human nature. Human
  2753. 1:34:39nature. What do people do when I go back
  2754. 1:34:42to my old neighborhood? And I've lived a
  2755. 1:34:44couple places in Central Florida in the
  2756. 1:34:4623 years I've been here. I see something
  2757. 1:34:48major going on. I get on my phone or I
  2758. 1:34:50get on my computer some look what I
  2759. 1:34:51wonder what was happen by my
  2760. 1:34:52neighborhood and look
  2761. 1:34:55>> does that spark your attention.
  2762. 1:34:57>> I was digital footprint of of what where
  2763. 1:35:02I went on my phone. It's right here
  2764. 1:35:04phone. They can tell me I looked I
  2765. 1:35:07looked at these maps on my phone because
  2766. 1:35:09it's on there. The memory is there. You
  2767. 1:35:11can't delete it. You can't
  2768. 1:35:14You came back to the neighborhood. You
  2769. 1:35:16saw some things that are really out of
  2770. 1:35:18the ordinary
  2771. 1:35:19>> and I don't believe for a second that
  2772. 1:35:21you thought that I'm not going to look
  2773. 1:35:23what's going on. What happened to my
  2774. 1:35:24neighborhood?
  2775. 1:35:24>> I I I mean I didn't search it up on
  2776. 1:35:28anything on any of the devices that I
  2777. 1:35:30have.
  2778. 1:35:30>> Did you search it somewhere else
  2779. 1:35:32>> at uh remember like I said, I know
  2780. 1:35:36things that you don't know and honesty
  2781. 1:35:38will get you all the the things I could
  2782. 1:35:41do for you. be honest. I can't deal with
  2783. 1:35:43someone who lies to me.
  2784. 1:35:45>> But I'll deal with someone and help them
  2785. 1:35:47till the end. No matter what, believe it
  2786. 1:35:49or not, that's just me. And she'll tell
  2787. 1:35:51you, I'm very it's it's what it is. I'm
  2788. 1:35:54going to be honest with you. I'm going
  2789. 1:35:56to say if I can do something that can
  2790. 1:35:58help you, I'm going to help you because
  2791. 1:35:59every one of us make mistakes and do
  2792. 1:36:01things we shouldn't have done in the
  2793. 1:36:03heat of the moment to protect ourselves
  2794. 1:36:05or to protect somebody else. It happens.
  2795. 1:36:10I know you've searched for something. I
  2796. 1:36:12know something. I can't tell you
  2797. 1:36:14exactly,
  2798. 1:36:15but you said you won't you tell me. I'll
  2799. 1:36:17tell you if you're being what you search
  2800. 1:36:19>> on. Uh when I had gone to the Panera, I
  2801. 1:36:23searched for like top stories
  2802. 1:36:27ovito or Julio or something like that.
  2803. 1:36:29>> You found what? And then I saw that
  2804. 1:36:31there was uh it was like just the
  2805. 1:36:35initial
  2806. 1:36:37like it had like a video, but I didn't I
  2807. 1:36:39didn't listen to the video, but it had
  2808. 1:36:40just an initial thing of that there was
  2809. 1:36:44shootings in Salt and Circle, but it
  2810. 1:36:46didn't say like the address or who was
  2811. 1:36:48involved. It was just like the this is
  2812. 1:36:50the preliminary
  2813. 1:36:51>> one of the news stations.
  2814. 1:36:53>> Um
  2815. 1:36:54>> what what was what was what was the site
  2816. 1:36:56you searched?
  2817. 1:36:57>> I can't I honestly can't remember. I
  2818. 1:36:59think it was one of the wishes but
  2819. 1:37:00>> and you saw the story cuz we've seen the
  2820. 1:37:02same stories. You seen the story because
  2821. 1:37:04there's a thing that will tell me how
  2822. 1:37:06long of the of the time you spent on it,
  2823. 1:37:09right?
  2824. 1:37:09>> You saw what happened.
  2825. 1:37:11>> Yeah. I was on there for like 20
  2826. 1:37:13seconds.
  2827. 1:37:13>> Yeah. What was your thoughts when you
  2828. 1:37:14reviewed that story?
  2829. 1:37:16>> I was freaking out and I like I didn't I
  2830. 1:37:20was just like blank. I didn't know what
  2831. 1:37:22to do.
  2832. 1:37:23>> So, what do you think happened all this?
  2833. 1:37:27I think that there was something that
  2834. 1:37:29obviously happened at the house.
  2835. 1:37:31>> Tell me what happened.
  2836. 1:37:32>> I don't know what happened.
  2837. 1:37:35>> I know better. Listen to me. I know
  2838. 1:37:38better. I can help you, Grant. With
  2839. 1:37:40honesty. I can help you with honesty. We
  2840. 1:37:44think something else happened before you
  2841. 1:37:45left the home that you're either afraid
  2842. 1:37:48of or embarrassed to talk about,
  2843. 1:37:52but we need to know exactly what
  2844. 1:37:54happened cuz like Danny said, we can
  2845. 1:37:55place you there at certain times. And so
  2846. 1:37:58we need to know what happened before you
  2847. 1:38:00left that house because you didn't leave
  2848. 1:38:03with everything being okay.
  2849. 1:38:05>> I I honestly I don't I don't have
  2850. 1:38:08anything else that I can really say. I
  2851. 1:38:10mean, I don't I don't know. Do you even
  2852. 1:38:12know why law enforcement got involved?
  2853. 1:38:17>> Like what what brought us to that home?
  2854. 1:38:20>> No. Okay.
  2855. 1:38:22You just said it. You know something bad
  2856. 1:38:24happened there out of your voice. Not
  2857. 1:38:26mine. I didn't I have not told you
  2858. 1:38:27anything what's happened there.
  2859. 1:38:29Something bad happened. You're here with
  2860. 1:38:32us for a couple hours. you you admit
  2861. 1:38:34that you've looked at at a site and seen
  2862. 1:38:37something bad happen because the video
  2863. 1:38:40is not of just a general area. It's of a
  2864. 1:38:42specific location. You've been here with
  2865. 1:38:44us. You think something bad has happened
  2866. 1:38:47at your house and today so long you
  2867. 1:38:50haven't asked us about anybody.
  2868. 1:38:53>> Well, that's because for the like the
  2869. 1:38:55last time that I was arrested, I mean
  2870. 1:38:57like nobody would tell me anything. I'm
  2871. 1:39:00once you start telling me something
  2872. 1:39:01that's truthful that I know,
  2873. 1:39:05then we're going to have a conversation
  2874. 1:39:06of exactly what happened.
  2875. 1:39:08>> I mean, you're a smart guy. You know
  2876. 1:39:10something's happened at your home. You
  2877. 1:39:12have law enforcement here. You haven't
  2878. 1:39:14heard or gotten any
  2879. 1:39:16>> I mean, I'm just scared as to what the
  2880. 1:39:19answer is.
  2881. 1:39:20>> Did anything more happen with you and
  2882. 1:39:22your father besides him grabbing you up
  2883. 1:39:23from the couch and yelling at you and
  2884. 1:39:27kicking you out? Anything
  2885. 1:39:30that at all? Did he
  2886. 1:39:33pull? Did he harm you? Hit you?
  2887. 1:39:36>> No.
  2888. 1:39:37>> Throw any weapons on you?
  2889. 1:39:38>> No, he didn't do anything like that.
  2890. 1:39:43I mean, he was just yelling.
  2891. 1:39:45>> A wise man told me one time, once a a
  2892. 1:39:48bomb goes off, you can't diffuse it. You
  2893. 1:39:51can't. It's already out there. Now is
  2894. 1:39:54the point say, "How do I put band-aids
  2895. 1:39:55on myself to minimize the the injuries I
  2896. 1:39:59have?" And we're giving you that
  2897. 1:40:00opportunity. I think you're going
  2898. 1:40:02through a very stressful and emotional
  2899. 1:40:03time right now with being out of work
  2900. 1:40:05and just dealing with all the problems
  2901. 1:40:06with with the arrest. You're probably
  2902. 1:40:09not used to depending on somebody to pay
  2903. 1:40:10all your bills. You now having to do mom
  2904. 1:40:12and dad or have to have to give you
  2905. 1:40:13money. Cody's having to give you money.
  2906. 1:40:16And there's a significant debt to
  2907. 1:40:18people. $200,000. I don't know what I'd
  2908. 1:40:20do. I mean, mortgage, yeah, I get it. or
  2909. 1:40:22something like that or or a medical bill
  2910. 1:40:24for my child. Yeah, I get it. But
  2911. 1:40:26talking to some girl, you know, in
  2912. 1:40:28Bulgaria, you know, you you you hit it
  2913. 1:40:30right. You were embarrassed about it.
  2914. 1:40:31And you have nothing to be embarrassed
  2915. 1:40:32about about.
  2916. 1:40:33>> And you said you had a connection with
  2917. 1:40:34her.
  2918. 1:40:35>> Yeah. I mean, I must I just I don't It's
  2919. 1:40:38like it's words that like I can't think
  2920. 1:40:40of to even say, but I'm assuming that,
  2921. 1:40:47you know, when you see that there is a
  2922. 1:40:48shooting somewhere that and it's around
  2923. 1:40:51and it's
  2924. 1:40:53that it's it has to do with my family.
  2925. 1:40:56Like I I just I don't know how to even
  2926. 1:40:58say the words.
  2927. 1:41:00>> Well, what what give me around about
  2928. 1:41:02what you're thinking?
  2929. 1:41:04>> That somebody in my family's dead.
  2930. 1:41:11And how does that make you feel if you
  2931. 1:41:12think if you're thinking that
  2932. 1:41:14>> I have absolutely no
  2933. 1:41:20ability to to comprehend the words cuz
  2934. 1:41:23like I said I've been there for my whole
  2935. 1:41:26entire life and even though there's been
  2936. 1:41:28struggles and everything like that there
  2937. 1:41:30hasn't ever been any issues.
  2938. 1:41:32>> But we need to know what happened.
  2939. 1:41:35I mean, I know I can tell that you guys
  2940. 1:41:37are like leading me into a certain way
  2941. 1:41:40of what
  2942. 1:41:42>> the only thing we're leading you to is
  2943. 1:41:43want to get the truth from you. Not
  2944. 1:41:45trying to make you say something that's
  2945. 1:41:46not true, that's not accurate. The
  2946. 1:41:49truth. The end. That's it. That's all we
  2947. 1:41:52want is the absolute truth. Do we know
  2948. 1:41:55what happened? Yeah, we we we already
  2949. 1:41:57know what happened. But it has to still
  2950. 1:42:00come from you with the truth because the
  2951. 1:42:02parties involved.
  2952. 1:42:04That's in all cases you want the truth
  2953. 1:42:06from. I don't want somebody to say
  2954. 1:42:07something that's not true. Absolutely
  2955. 1:42:08not. I want them to say this is what
  2956. 1:42:12happened and here's why it happened.
  2957. 1:42:14>> I mean, apart from the times maybe being
  2958. 1:42:16wrong, I don't
  2959. 1:42:19I genuinely don't have anything else
  2960. 1:42:20that I can say about what transpired the
  2961. 1:42:24during the night time.
  2962. 1:42:28You left your house,
  2963. 1:42:31>> everybody was fine.
  2964. 1:42:32>> Yeah.
  2965. 1:42:32>> And when you left Cody,
  2966. 1:42:34>> everything was fine.
  2967. 1:42:39>> Well, we got called to the house because
  2968. 1:42:41Cody didn't show up to work.
  2969. 1:42:44>> So, law enforcement goes over there. And
  2970. 1:42:48can you tell us what we found?
  2971. 1:42:59What do you think we found when law
  2972. 1:43:01enforcement arrived at your home?
  2973. 1:43:03I mean, you guys are talking about guns
  2974. 1:43:05and you're talking about other things
  2975. 1:43:08that
  2976. 1:43:16uh
  2977. 1:43:20and then the uh the website and
  2978. 1:43:22everything that something happened to
  2979. 1:43:25him.
  2980. 1:43:26>> Who's him? Cody,
  2981. 1:43:33>> did you do anything to Cody?
  2982. 1:43:35>> No.
  2983. 1:43:36>> Did you do anything to your mother?
  2984. 1:43:37>> No.
  2985. 1:43:38>> Did you do anything to your father?
  2986. 1:43:40>> No. No. The only thing that I was told
  2987. 1:43:42was that Cody would take care of it for
  2988. 1:43:44me.
  2989. 1:43:46That's all that I know.
  2990. 1:43:47>> But you didn't tell Cody what your
  2991. 1:43:48father said to you. Correct.
  2992. 1:43:50>> Correct.
  2993. 1:43:51>> So, when Cody made those comments to
  2994. 1:43:53you, what do you believe he meant by
  2995. 1:43:55that? Have you guys ever talked about
  2996. 1:43:59>> that? He was going to
  2997. 1:44:01I thought he was just going to do what
  2998. 1:44:03he always does, which is where he just
  2999. 1:44:05talks about it and he figures out
  3000. 1:44:08whatever strategy he needs to.
  3001. 1:44:10>> So if anything happened in the home to
  3002. 1:44:12bring law enforcement there, what would
  3003. 1:44:14you think happened?
  3004. 1:44:18>> That there was a shooting
  3005. 1:44:22>> between whom?
  3006. 1:44:24>> I don't know.
  3007. 1:44:27between Cody and and my dad.
  3008. 1:44:33>> And why would you think that?
  3009. 1:44:37>> To protect me or to help me or to do
  3010. 1:44:39something with me.
  3011. 1:44:44>> So, you're telling me you did not shoot
  3012. 1:44:45Cody, your father, or your mother?
  3013. 1:44:48>> No.
  3014. 1:44:53I mean, I don't know like what more I
  3015. 1:44:55can say.
  3016. 1:44:56>> Well, when law enforcement arrives,
  3017. 1:44:58that's what they found.
  3018. 1:45:04So, you're the only outstanding child.
  3019. 1:45:07You're the one that's been having
  3020. 1:45:08problems with your dad. You're the one
  3021. 1:45:10that we haven't been able to find for
  3022. 1:45:12two days. Do you understand now? Why
  3023. 1:45:14would we would be questioning you about
  3024. 1:45:16this?
  3025. 1:45:17>> Yeah, but I mean, I wouldn't
  3026. 1:45:20Like I mean I wouldn't be saying like
  3027. 1:45:23all like I don't know the way to I I I
  3028. 1:45:27don't I don't I don't know like what to
  3029. 1:45:29even say.
  3030. 1:45:30>> So if anything happened in the home, you
  3031. 1:45:32believe it would be Cody and him?
  3032. 1:45:34>> Yes.
  3033. 1:45:35Cuz I was I mean I don't I
  3034. 1:45:39I I don't have
  3035. 1:45:41you access to anything.
  3036. 1:45:43>> Well, I can tell you from what we know
  3037. 1:45:45right now because you know what the news
  3038. 1:45:46has said, correct? Do you know what the
  3039. 1:45:48news has said?
  3040. 1:45:49>> I I only know that first story that I
  3041. 1:45:52saw and then I didn't look again.
  3042. 1:45:54>> And what what's the first story say?
  3043. 1:45:56>> That there was a shooting in the Sultan
  3044. 1:45:59Circle area and the investigation is
  3045. 1:46:02ongoing.
  3046. 1:46:03>> Okay. And what do they say? They say the
  3047. 1:46:04status of the people inside the house.
  3048. 1:46:06What they say cuz all the news have
  3049. 1:46:07reported the same thing. Every one of
  3050. 1:46:09the sheriff has held a press conference.
  3051. 1:46:11the sheriff has provided information to
  3052. 1:46:12the media
  3053. 1:46:14>> and it's all it's known
  3054. 1:46:16>> all that
  3055. 1:46:16>> what has happened in the home
  3056. 1:46:17>> all that I had all that I saw was
  3057. 1:46:20literally like the paragraph and then
  3058. 1:46:22the last sentence was there's an
  3059. 1:46:23investigation ongoing and then I
  3060. 1:46:25>> you saw more because at Panera when you
  3061. 1:46:28said you pulled it up
  3062. 1:46:32they they um
  3063. 1:46:35they um had more information they had
  3064. 1:46:39more information just and his funeral.
  3065. 1:46:41There's a lot more information was
  3066. 1:46:42given. It was all over the news by by
  3067. 1:46:44that time. The new news report exactly
  3068. 1:46:47what had happened. We know
  3069. 1:46:51that
  3070. 1:46:53Cody
  3071. 1:46:55didn't shoot your dad. We know Cody
  3072. 1:46:57didn't shoot your mom. We know Cody
  3073. 1:47:00didn't shoot himself. There's something.
  3074. 1:47:02>> You still haven't asked us the position
  3075. 1:47:04of them or anything. That's because I'm
  3076. 1:47:06I'm I mean I don't know what the normal
  3077. 1:47:09proceedings are, but I don't I mean I
  3078. 1:47:11>> the normal proceedings are for you to be
  3079. 1:47:12honest about what happened
  3080. 1:47:14>> and then we help you understand
  3081. 1:47:15everything that's go that's going to
  3082. 1:47:16going on from here on on out of what our
  3083. 1:47:19responsibilities are
  3084. 1:47:20>> and we don't believe you're being
  3085. 1:47:21honest. We feel that you are leaving
  3086. 1:47:23something out about what happened in
  3087. 1:47:24that home
  3088. 1:47:26and the evidence tells us what happened
  3089. 1:47:28in the home but you need to fill in the
  3090. 1:47:30blanks and again your cell phone's going
  3091. 1:47:32to put you in the areas
  3092. 1:47:35You know, we're going to check exactly
  3093. 1:47:37where you were throughout the entire
  3094. 1:47:39time you started this conversation.
  3095. 1:47:42>> No,
  3096. 1:47:42>> you went back to the house and did
  3097. 1:47:44something or how long you were there.
  3098. 1:47:45We're going to know.
  3099. 1:47:47>> No, I mean I never did anything like
  3100. 1:47:49that.
  3101. 1:47:50>> Just things like look, remember I told
  3102. 1:47:51digital footprint?
  3103. 1:47:52>> Yeah.
  3104. 1:47:52>> EP pass tells me where you went. We have
  3105. 1:47:54a thing called they're called Elgar's
  3106. 1:47:56license plate readers at different
  3107. 1:47:57places all over everywhere. And every
  3108. 1:48:00time your car passes or any car I look
  3109. 1:48:01at I have somebody one of our intel
  3110. 1:48:03girls put in or guys put in thing. Hey
  3111. 1:48:05this tag went by there. Yep. Has it been
  3112. 1:48:07in a certain place? Yep. It tells me
  3113. 1:48:09exactly where you at. Here's your
  3114. 1:48:11brother. The guy who's always looked out
  3115. 1:48:13for you. Correct. Pay for your trip to
  3116. 1:48:14China or Japan. I'm sorry. Paid bills.
  3117. 1:48:18Your dad and your brother have paid
  3118. 1:48:20$200,000 of this video chat whatever
  3119. 1:48:23with the virtual not the virtual grow
  3120. 1:48:25Bulgaria.
  3121. 1:48:28Dad's pissed about the the cost. I'm
  3122. 1:48:30sure I' I'd be upset, too. $200,000.
  3123. 1:48:32Think of a car you could have for
  3124. 1:48:33$200,000 or paid off college debt or
  3125. 1:48:36whatever. Some girl in Bulgaria got
  3126. 1:48:38basically your college debt. Now, I'm
  3127. 1:48:40sure your brother and dad may have been
  3128. 1:48:41as happy if you take that 100 grand,
  3129. 1:48:43paid off that that that program, but
  3130. 1:48:46there's a lot of pressure on you. I get
  3131. 1:48:47it. I need you to step over, man. Right
  3132. 1:48:50there. You're right there at the end,
  3133. 1:48:51ready to go. We're ready to to to to
  3134. 1:48:54take the information from you and and
  3135. 1:48:56move forward. We're there. I just need
  3136. 1:48:58to I just need you to take that last
  3137. 1:49:00step over and say, "All right, let me
  3138. 1:49:01tell you what else." Now, seeing
  3139. 1:49:03>> So, what is it you need to tell us
  3140. 1:49:05>> that we're missing?
  3141. 1:49:06>> Step over.
  3142. 1:49:08>> I mean, the only thing that I know is
  3143. 1:49:10just that
  3144. 1:49:12I mean, I I uh left the house later than
  3145. 1:49:15what I had said.
  3146. 1:49:17Um,
  3147. 1:49:20>> did you leave the house with your
  3148. 1:49:22brother Cody looking like that
  3149. 1:49:26or did you leave the house with your
  3150. 1:49:28father looking like that or your mother?
  3151. 1:49:32Is that how you left your family?
  3152. 1:49:35>> No.
  3153. 1:49:38>> Nobody. Nobody else went into that
  3154. 1:49:40house.
  3155. 1:49:41>> Who left your family like this? If you
  3156. 1:49:43were the one that's been depressed, you
  3157. 1:49:45were the one that owes money, you were
  3158. 1:49:46the one that got into a confrontation
  3159. 1:49:47with your father, who did this to your
  3160. 1:49:49family,
  3161. 1:49:53if you were trying to defend yourself or
  3162. 1:49:56something else happened, we need to know
  3163. 1:49:57now to help you.
  3164. 1:50:02So tell us what happened, Grant.
  3165. 1:50:07We're here to listen to you. Need
  3166. 1:50:08>> the truth. We're we're here to make this
  3167. 1:50:11right.
  3168. 1:50:13You got to tell the truth. It's on the
  3169. 1:50:15tip of your tongue, my man. I get that.
  3170. 1:50:17>> Did your father go after you and you try
  3171. 1:50:19to protect yourself?
  3172. 1:50:20>> No, I didn't do any of this.
  3173. 1:50:29>> The evidence tells us what happened. You
  3174. 1:50:31have to fill in the blanks. They can't
  3175. 1:50:33tell me what happened.
  3176. 1:50:35>> Fact. I know. She She never She never
  3177. 1:50:38held a gun. She didn't have a gun that
  3178. 1:50:40night. Fact. He never fired a gun. Fact.
  3179. 1:50:44He never fired a gun. Never did. This is
  3180. 1:50:47the person right here. Mom, who always
  3181. 1:50:51stuck up for you. Something happened so
  3182. 1:50:53bad that caused her death, your dad's
  3183. 1:50:57death, and Cody. And I I I'll tell you
  3184. 1:50:59just about how it happened. One, two,
  3185. 1:51:01three. Based on evidence. Based on
  3186. 1:51:04evidence. I know he did not shoot your
  3187. 1:51:07mom. I know he didn't shoot your dad. I
  3188. 1:51:09know he didn't shoot himself.
  3189. 1:51:12Listen to me. Hey, I know video
  3190. 1:51:15surveillance tells me everything that
  3191. 1:51:17happened this night. I'm telling you of
  3192. 1:51:19people that that you'd be surprised who
  3193. 1:51:22in your neighborhood has video. And I
  3194. 1:51:24know that nobody There's only four
  3195. 1:51:26people at this house during this time.
  3196. 1:51:29One, two, three, four. Tell me. You got
  3197. 1:51:32to tell me, man. You got to tell me. Get
  3198. 1:51:35over that over that hoop. The video is
  3199. 1:51:37the video. If you're sitting there
  3200. 1:51:39saying no, no, no, no, no. And video
  3201. 1:51:41shows something else, guess what? Big
  3202. 1:51:43problem.
  3203. 1:51:44>> I mean, there's just there's just
  3204. 1:51:46nothing else that I can say.
  3205. 1:51:50>> There's nothing else that happened in
  3206. 1:51:51that home while you were there that
  3207. 1:51:53would lead up to this.
  3208. 1:51:54>> No.
  3209. 1:51:55>> Your father didn't point a gun at you?
  3210. 1:51:58>> There was nothing else more than what I
  3211. 1:52:00had done.
  3212. 1:52:02>> Then who do you think did this?
  3213. 1:52:04>> I don't know.
  3214. 1:52:07I don't I don't have the answer.
  3215. 1:52:22As you can see, at this point in the
  3216. 1:52:24interrogation, Grant completely shuts
  3217. 1:52:27down. The evidence is overwhelming. In
  3218. 1:52:30July 2019, Grant Amato stood trial. The
  3219. 1:52:34prosecutors detailed his obsession and
  3220. 1:52:36financial deceit. They presented digital
  3221. 1:52:39evidence and testimonies highlighting
  3222. 1:52:42Grant's obsession and financial
  3223. 1:52:44escapades. Prosecutors argue his
  3224. 1:52:47obsession with Sylvie, the webcam girl,
  3225. 1:52:50led to the murders of his mom, dad, and
  3226. 1:52:53brother. And on July 31st, he was found
  3227. 1:52:56guilty on all counts. He was sentenced
  3228. 1:52:59to three consecutive life terms without
  3229. 1:53:01the possibility of parole. Dated August
  3230. 1:53:0412th, 2019. Grant's story serves as a
  3231. 1:53:07chilling reminder of how digital
  3232. 1:53:09obsessions can spiral into realworld
  3233. 1:53:13consequences. As a matter of fact, his
  3234. 1:53:15case continues to captivate and caution
  3235. 1:53:18audiences worldwide because in the
  3236. 1:53:21digital age, the lines between virtual
  3237. 1:53:24and reality are blurred. And
  3238. 1:53:26unfortunately for the Amato family, this
  3239. 1:53:29blur proved fatal. The story of Grant
  3240. 1:53:32Amato serves as a harrowing reminder of
  3241. 1:53:36how unchecked obsession and deceit can
  3242. 1:53:39lead to unimaginable tragedy. This
  3243. 1:53:42particular case captivated the nation,
  3244. 1:53:44culminating in a docu series that delved
  3245. 1:53:48into the psychological aspects of
  3246. 1:53:51Grant's obsession. And where's Grant
  3247. 1:53:53today? Well, in a shocking twist, Grant
  3248. 1:53:56Amato was later implicated in a murder
  3249. 1:53:59for hire plot from prison, further
  3250. 1:54:01tarnishing his evil legacy.
  3251. 1:54:04>> I'm told that you all have reached a
  3252. 1:54:06verdict.
  3253. 1:54:08>> All right. If you could please hand the
  3254. 1:54:09deputy the verdict forms, please.
  3255. 1:54:12>> Madame clerk, if you could please
  3256. 1:54:13publish the verdicts.
  3257. 1:54:17If
  3258. 1:54:17>> you could please stand, Mr. Amato.
  3259. 1:54:20In the circuit court of the 18th
  3260. 1:54:22judicial circuit, N4 seminal county,
  3261. 1:54:24Florida, state of Florida versus Grant
  3262. 1:54:26Amato. Case number 1933
  3263. 1:54:30CFA. Verdict count one, Margaret Amato.
  3264. 1:54:34We the jury find the defendant guilty of
  3265. 1:54:36firstdegree premeditated murder. Verdict
  3266. 1:54:38count two, Chad Amato. We the jury find
  3267. 1:54:41the defendant guilty of first-degree
  3268. 1:54:43premeditated murder. Verdict count
  3269. 1:54:45three, Cody Amato. We the jury find the
  3270. 1:54:48defendant guilty of first-degree
  3271. 1:54:49premeditated murder. Members of the
  3272. 1:54:51jury, when asked if this is your
  3273. 1:54:53verdict, please respond yes or no. Juror
  3274. 1:54:5625642,
  3275. 1:54:58>> yes.
  3276. 1:54:59>> Juror 2550662,
  3277. 1:55:02>> yes.
  3278. 1:55:03>> Juror 159388.
  3279. 1:55:06>> Yes.
  3280. 1:55:07>> Juror 259237.
  3281. 1:55:10>> Yes.
  3282. 1:55:11>> Juror 75165.
  3283. 1:55:14>> Yes. Juror 256469.
  3284. 1:55:17>> Yes.
  3285. 1:55:18>> Juror 228925.
  3286. 1:55:21>> Yes.
  3287. 1:55:22>> Juror 253508.
  3288. 1:55:24>> Yes.
  3289. 1:55:26>> Juror 1 95914.
  3290. 1:55:28>> Yes.
  3291. 1:55:29>> Juror 266822.
  3292. 1:55:32>> Yes.
  3293. 1:55:33>> Juror 200019.
  3294. 1:55:36>> Yes.
  3295. 1:55:38>> Juror 96142.
  3296. 1:55:40>> Yes.
  3297. 1:55:41>> Thank you.
  3298. 1:55:43>> Hi. Hey, my precious little kitty. I
  3299. 1:55:46just wanted to let you know that I'm
  3300. 1:55:47thinking about you and that I miss you
  3301. 1:55:49very much. And I can't wait to hear you
  3302. 1:55:51soon. And everything about you just
  3303. 1:55:54makes me so happy. And I just love you
  3304. 1:55:56with all my heart, baby. You make me
  3305. 1:55:58very desperate, too, for you. And I just
  3306. 1:56:00want you with everything that I am. And
  3307. 1:56:02I'll protect you always. And I love you
  3308. 1:56:04ever. So, just know that I'm always
  3309. 1:56:06thinking of you and that I always desire
  3310. 1:56:08you with everything that I am. I love
  3311. 1:56:10you. you haven't realized. I'm always
  3312. 1:56:13thinking of you, sweetheart. You're
  3313. 1:56:15always on my mind. You're the most
  3314. 1:56:17important thing on my mind. I just can't
  3315. 1:56:20wait to hear you and I can't wait to see
  3316. 1:56:21you again. I want so many more pictures
  3317. 1:56:24and videos. And this is just amazing
  3318. 1:56:27that I get to see you like this. Those
  3319. 1:56:29beautiful little nipples that I just
  3320. 1:56:30want to suck and bite on. I can't wait,
  3321. 1:56:33baby. I can't wait to feel you. I miss
  3322. 1:56:36you and I love you.
  3323. 1:56:40Oh, poor baby. I'm so sorry.

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