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The Sleep Doctor: The 4 Hormones Wrecking Your Sleep & What to Do About It — Transcript

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  32. 1:06>> Do you think there's a lot more people
  33. 1:07walking around with sleep apnea than
  34. 1:09they even know at this point?
  35. 1:11>> 100%. In midlife, up to 50% of women
  36. 1:14will [music] have sleep apnea. Nine out
  37. 1:16of 10, 90% of them do not know that they
  38. 1:19have it.
  39. 1:19>> What is happening when we wake [music]
  40. 1:21up at 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning wide
  41. 1:24awake and can't get back to sleep? Do
  42. 1:25you suggest they right away go talk to a
  43. 1:27sleep [music] specialist or can you
  44. 1:29start with your general practitioner or
  45. 1:30OB/GYN?
  46. 1:33So should we be all taking melatonin?
  47. 1:35What about those Hatch alarm clocks?
  48. 1:36[music] Getting outside first thing in
  49. 1:38the morning, do you think that's
  50. 1:38important? Dr. Andrea Matsumura is a
  51. 1:41board-certified sleep medicine physician
  52. 1:43who's going to tell you exactly why you
  53. 1:45can't [music] fall asleep or stay asleep
  54. 1:47and what to do about it.
  55. 1:50If you're in perimenopause or menopause,
  56. 1:52I would say it's safe to assume your
  57. 1:54sleep has probably become something you
  58. 1:56think about all the time. Falling
  59. 1:58asleep, staying asleep, waking up
  60. 2:00feeling exhausted, constantly waking up
  61. 2:03to pee, waking up anxious if you fell
  62. 2:05asleep, and the nights can feel endless.
  63. 2:08And I I totally get it. I have been
  64. 2:10there. The other night I actually woke
  65. 2:11up at like 3:00 in the morning and
  66. 2:13stared at the ceiling for a while.
  67. 2:14The worst part though is that sleep is a
  68. 2:16foundation of everything. So, when your
  69. 2:18sleep goes, it starts to really unravel
  70. 2:21the rest of your life. And that's why I
  71. 2:23have invited a Dr. Andrea Nat Samara on
  72. 2:26the Tamson show. She is a
  73. 2:27board-certified sleep medicine
  74. 2:29physician, menopause expert, and creator
  75. 2:32of the Dream Sleep Method. And today
  76. 2:34she's going to teach us exactly what is
  77. 2:36happening in our bodies and uh maybe
  78. 2:38give you the tools so maybe starting
  79. 2:40tonight you can get a better night's
  80. 2:41sleep. If you haven't yet, please hit
  81. 2:44follow, leave us a review. It is one of
  82. 2:46the best ways to help this show grow,
  83. 2:48and I really love reading each and every
  84. 2:50one of your comments. So, let's go ahead
  85. 2:53and get started. Dr. Andrea, welcome to
  86. 2:55the show.
  87. 2:56>> Thank you for having me.
  88. 2:57>> It's good to see you. We were together a
  89. 2:58few months ago, and I was I guess I was
  90. 3:00just so impressed with how you broke
  91. 3:02everything down and made me feel like it
  92. 3:04was all going to be okay that night.
  93. 3:06>> Well, you know, we live with a lot of
  94. 3:09anxiety around getting to sleep and
  95. 3:11staying asleep, and then that just
  96. 3:12builds on itself. So, anything I can do
  97. 3:15to help women break that down and feel
  98. 3:18like sleep isn't a luxury, it's
  99. 3:19something that we all need.
  100. 3:21That's if we don't have sleep, nothing
  101. 3:23else works as well.
  102. 3:25>> I do think we consider it a luxury like
  103. 3:27we were lucky enough to do that instead
  104. 3:29of hey, I really need to do this for my
  105. 3:31health. So, what led you to become a
  106. 3:34sleep expert and really dig into and
  107. 3:37look at women's health and the health of
  108. 3:40their sleep in perimenopause and
  109. 3:41menopause?
  110. 3:42>> Well, I was practicing as a primary care
  111. 3:44doctor, and at the end of every
  112. 3:47appointment, people would say,
  113. 3:50"Oh, I'm having trouble sleeping. Can I
  114. 3:51get something for that?
  115. 3:52>> As like an after thought?
  116. 3:53>> Yeah, you know, as I'm walking out. And
  117. 3:57I was being a
  118. 3:59you know, a good primary care doctor and
  119. 4:00saying, "Yeah, certainly I can help you
  120. 4:02with that. Let me give you a little
  121. 4:03sleep aid." And the more I got to learn
  122. 4:06about sleep and realized gosh, everybody
  123. 4:09is having trouble sleeping and
  124. 4:11everybody's having trouble taking care
  125. 4:13of all their other chronic medical
  126. 4:14conditions, I started focus more on
  127. 4:16sleep, realized that there was a
  128. 4:18fellowship, went to school to study
  129. 4:20sleep medicine. When I got out of my
  130. 4:23sleep medicine fellowship, I was in
  131. 4:25perimenopause and didn't even know it.
  132. 4:27So, I started seeing a lot of women and
  133. 4:31I was working in an all male practice
  134. 4:34and everybody right away said, "Oh, can
  135. 4:37you see the ladies for us?"
  136. 4:40>> All the women that were going through
  137. 4:41perimenopause and menopause?
  138. 4:42>> Can you see all the ladies for us? We we
  139. 4:45really think that you they'd be better
  140. 4:47served.
  141. 4:47>> Yeah.
  142. 4:47>> And so, I started to see all of these
  143. 4:50patterns and then I realized it kind of
  144. 4:52hit me in the face,
  145. 4:54these patterns are the same that I'm
  146. 4:56experiencing and you know,
  147. 4:59I quickly became the women's expert for
  148. 5:02sleep. And then I started to dive into
  149. 5:04perimenopause and menopause, had my own
  150. 5:07menopause story where I went to four
  151. 5:09different physicians before I finally
  152. 5:11was started on menopause hormone
  153. 5:13therapy.
  154. 5:14>> That sounds familiar.
  155. 5:15>> Yeah. [laughter] So,
  156. 5:17>> [gasps]
  157. 5:17>> unbelievable, right?
  158. 5:18>> Even the experts. And I I do have to say
  159. 5:20though, every time I have a doctor come
  160. 5:22in here and say that they went through
  161. 5:24the same thing, I think it makes all of
  162. 5:25us feel a little bit better. Whether
  163. 5:26it's about sleep or hormone therapy or
  164. 5:28menopause or whatever it is.
  165. 5:30So, let me ask you this. For women who
  166. 5:32feel like their sleep has suddenly like
  167. 5:34fallen off the charts and they're not
  168. 5:35able to do it anymore once they hit
  169. 5:37perimenopause, what do you say to them?
  170. 5:39What's happening to our bodies during
  171. 5:40that time?
  172. 5:41>> You know, so the changes between
  173. 5:43estrogen, progesterone, testosterone and
  174. 5:46melatonin, they really
  175. 5:48they completely destroy the circadian
  176. 5:52rhythm of our sleep.
  177. 5:53>> So, what does that mean?
  178. 5:54>> And the [clears throat] circadian rhythm
  179. 5:55is really your pacemaker for sleep. So,
  180. 5:58we have clock genes in our brain that is
  181. 6:01what controls the circadian rhythm of
  182. 6:03every person, whether or not you're an
  183. 6:05early bird or a night owl. And then we
  184. 6:08also then in the hypothalamus, that is
  185. 6:11that is where they're housed, but then
  186. 6:13the pineal gland also houses melatonin.
  187. 6:16Then you have estrogen feeding receptors
  188. 6:19in the brain. You also then have
  189. 6:21progesterone that prepares us for sleep,
  190. 6:24testosterone which really helps us with
  191. 6:26deep sleep. And when all of those levels
  192. 6:28start to change, it it really just
  193. 6:31changes how we fall asleep, how we stay
  194. 6:34asleep, how deep of a sleep we can get
  195. 6:37into, and that's when we start having
  196. 6:39those middle of the night awakenings.
  197. 6:40>> Yeah, I feel like you I checked the box
  198. 6:42for every one of those things,
  199. 6:43especially when I went into
  200. 6:44perimenopause unbeknownst to me. I
  201. 6:47didn't know what was going on, and the
  202. 6:48harder I tried, the worse it got. I
  203. 6:50mean, I really I really felt that cycle
  204. 6:51back and forth. Um so, beyond being
  205. 6:53tired
  206. 6:55and feeling crappy the next day, what
  207. 6:58happens when we don't get enough sleep?
  208. 7:00>> So, you can't clean the waste products
  209. 7:03out of the brain. That's really the long
  210. 7:05and the short of it. And we do that
  211. 7:07during slow wave sleep or our
  212. 7:10the deep sleep. And that's kind of like
  213. 7:12a dishwasher for all of the brain cells.
  214. 7:15And if you are not able to get enough of
  215. 7:17that sleep, then you wake up with the
  216. 7:18brain fog. You feel like you're slogging
  217. 7:21through the day.
  218. 7:21>> Mhm.
  219. 7:22Um what are the waste products? What
  220. 7:24what does that mean?
  221. 7:25>> So, all the chemical reactions that are
  222. 7:26happening in the brain, that's the
  223. 7:28easiest way to say it. We everything
  224. 7:31that we're doing, every process that we
  225. 7:33do, every movement that we do, every
  226. 7:35thought, those are all chemical
  227. 7:38reactions in the brain that are
  228. 7:39happening. And then we have these waste
  229. 7:40products that develop throughout the
  230. 7:42day, and we need to clean the brain out.
  231. 7:44And if we're not getting into the right
  232. 7:45stages of sleep, then we're kind of
  233. 7:48there's this dysregulation.
  234. 7:50>> And we we certainly see that. Um so
  235. 7:53I guess I think about this like, you
  236. 7:55know,
  237. 7:56not being able to fall asleep is one
  238. 7:57thing and that's like completely
  239. 7:58annoying and I don't know if you you I
  240. 8:00know you have advice for what to do when
  241. 8:02you can't do that. Waking up in the
  242. 8:03middle of the night, I don't know if
  243. 8:05that's worse or not, but somehow I feel
  244. 8:07like it's worse. Because I feel like I
  245. 8:09can't I know that that moment that that
  246. 8:11happens, I don't know that I'm going
  247. 8:12back to sleep at all and it's
  248. 8:14always 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. What
  249. 8:16is happening when we wake up at 2:00 or
  250. 8:183:00 in the morning wide awake
  251. 8:21and can't get back to sleep?
  252. 8:22>> So for many of us, especially in
  253. 8:24midlife, that's when we have those
  254. 8:26fluctuations in estrogen and that
  255. 8:28affects then our cortisol. So for a lot
  256. 8:32of women, cortisol starts to spike
  257. 8:34earlier and then you have these
  258. 8:36middle-of-the-night awakenings. And then
  259. 8:38we we start we tend to catastrophize
  260. 8:41sleep, you know, so or wakefulness
  261. 8:43rather. So then you get up in the middle
  262. 8:45of the night and you're thinking, "Oh my
  263. 8:46gosh, I'm going to have a terrible day.
  264. 8:48I've got a big day tomorrow. I have a
  265. 8:49presentation or whatever it is that you
  266. 8:51have to be doing." And I like to give
  267. 8:54women a plan. So when you wake up, say,
  268. 8:58"Okay, I'm going to do A, I'm going to
  269. 8:59do B, I'm going to do C to help myself
  270. 9:02get back to sleep." So that you don't
  271. 9:04wake up and you start to panic.
  272. 9:07>> What do you do as a I always want the
  273. 9:08doctors to tell me what they do. What is
  274. 9:09your What do you do when you wake up? Or
  275. 9:11do you? Maybe you don't. Maybe you sleep
  276. 9:12soundly.
  277. 9:13>> I I get to.
  278. 9:14>> Okay, what do you do when you wake up at
  279. 9:162:00 in the morning? What is your go-to?
  280. 9:18>> First, uh you know, well, it doesn't
  281. 9:20happen all that often, but I remember
  282. 9:22when it started happening to me because
  283. 9:25I was known as a person who could sleep
  284. 9:27anytime, anyplace, anywhere. And then it
  285. 9:31started happen to happening to me and I
  286. 9:33would say, "Why is this happening to
  287. 9:35me?" And I would get so
  288. 9:37But then I I immediately put on
  289. 9:39something calming, like some sort of
  290. 9:41meditation. I get out of bed. So, you do
  291. 9:44not want to stay in bed. If you are in
  292. 9:46bed, and you know, okay, I'm having
  293. 9:49trouble getting back to sleep. I know
  294. 9:50I'm not going to get back to sleep. You
  295. 9:52have to get out of bed because you your
  296. 9:55brain needs to associate the bed with
  297. 9:57sleep or intimacy only.
  298. 10:00>> It feels counterproductive though to get
  299. 10:01out of bed because you think, I'm just
  300. 10:02going to lay here 5 minutes more. Maybe
  301. 10:05I'll be able to fall back to sleep.
  302. 10:07>> It feels painful to actually get
  303. 10:09[laughter] out of bed. It doesn't feel
  304. 10:11good.
  305. 10:12>> painful.
  306. 10:12>> And then you also feel like I'm going to
  307. 10:14wake myself up even more.
  308. 10:16But that really doesn't happen. I I
  309. 10:17usually tell women, you know, pick an
  310. 10:20insomnia chair or a couch or someplace
  311. 10:24that you know that you can get to. We
  312. 10:26don't want people cooking, cleaning,
  313. 10:28working, exercising, and then either
  314. 10:31read a really boring book, maybe write a
  315. 10:33list of the thoughts that are racing
  316. 10:35through your mind,
  317. 10:37do some meditation, and when you feel
  318. 10:39sleepy enough, then you can get back
  319. 10:41into bed. And again, also give yourself
  320. 10:44some grace. Like maybe you're not going
  321. 10:46to be firing on all cylinders tomorrow,
  322. 10:48but you're still going to make it
  323. 10:49through the day.
  324. 10:50>> Yeah, cuz that brings me to all those
  325. 10:51other questions, like what happens when
  326. 10:52you don't get enough sleep. So, you wake
  327. 10:54up in the middle of the night, find a
  328. 10:55know where you're going to go, right?
  329. 10:57Find a chair, a sofa, a blanket,
  330. 10:58whatever it is. Get a book and read it.
  331. 11:00Don't try to do any Don't try to be you
  332. 11:02know, declutter the closet right that
  333. 11:04night. Okay? All right, that's good
  334. 11:06advice. Um a lot of people that you
  335. 11:08know, we've we've done sleep episodes
  336. 11:10before, and and it is the top topic.
  337. 11:13Like people want to talk about sleep,
  338. 11:14which is why I was so excited that you
  339. 11:16said yes to come on here. A lot of
  340. 11:18people complaining about they have to
  341. 11:19get up in the middle of the night and
  342. 11:20pee, which is is different than just
  343. 11:22waking up at 2:00 in the morning, and
  344. 11:24then they can't go back to sleep.
  345. 11:25>> Yes.
  346. 11:26>> What do we do there?
  347. 11:27>> Well, so the first question I ask people
  348. 11:30is, are you getting up and going to the
  349. 11:33bathroom because you're waking up to go
  350. 11:36to because your body's saying oh I have
  351. 11:38to go to the bathroom are you awake and
  352. 11:40then you say well
  353. 11:42I think I have to pee so I might as well
  354. 11:44just get up.
  355. 11:45>> Two different things.
  356. 11:45>> different things but for for people who
  357. 11:48are actually waking up and having to go
  358. 11:50to the bathroom repeatedly especially
  359. 11:52for women it may be a sign of sleep
  360. 11:55apnea.
  361. 11:56That might be a symptom. You could also
  362. 11:59have genitourinary syndrome of
  363. 12:01menopause. There are all of these
  364. 12:03factors that suddenly play a role into
  365. 12:07why you might be waking up in the middle
  366. 12:08of the night and having to go to the
  367. 12:09bathroom.
  368. 12:10>> So if someone's listening to this right
  369. 12:11now and says okay I'm in my early 40s
  370. 12:14late 30s early 40s yes I have a
  371. 12:16stressful job I get that. I don't know
  372. 12:18if [clears throat] I'm in perimenopause
  373. 12:19or not or maybe I am but sleep is just
  374. 12:21not working for me. What do you suggest
  375. 12:24they do do you suggest they right away
  376. 12:26go talk to a sleep specialist or can you
  377. 12:28start with your general practitioner or
  378. 12:30OBGYN where do you begin?
  379. 12:32>> I think any one of those. So anybody who
  380. 12:36has some idea about sleep is where you
  381. 12:39need to start and that's hard. Sometimes
  382. 12:41general practitioners don't know
  383. 12:43sometimes OBGYNs don't know and
  384. 12:46sometimes sleep clinicians they only
  385. 12:49focus on sleep apnea and that's it. So
  386. 12:52you know I jokingly say that I carry
  387. 12:54around a box of tissues when I see my
  388. 12:56patients because
  389. 12:58they've already been to see another
  390. 13:00sleep specialist most of them and
  391. 13:02they finally are getting some answers
  392. 13:04after like 7 to 10 years of not getting
  393. 13:07enough sleep but you know women do not
  394. 13:10present the same way that men do when it
  395. 13:13comes to sleep apnea and many many women
  396. 13:16they're not overweight they're doing all
  397. 13:19the right things and they have sleep
  398. 13:22apnea.
  399. 13:23>> Do you think there's a lot more people
  400. 13:24walking around with sleep apnea than we
  401. 13:26than they even know at this point.
  402. 13:28>> 100% so there in midlife up to 50% of
  403. 13:33women will have sleep apnea. Nine out of
  404. 13:3610, 90% of them do not know that they
  405. 13:39have it.
  406. 13:39>> How dangerous is sleep apnea?
  407. 13:42>> So it can be pretty dangerous. If you've
  408. 13:43got moderate or severe obstructive sleep
  409. 13:46apnea, you have up to a 25% increased
  410. 13:49risk of having a heart attack or a
  411. 13:50stroke.
  412. 13:51>> In your sleep?
  413. 13:52>> Uh just generally speaking, it increases
  414. 13:55your overall cardiovascular and
  415. 13:57neurocognitive risk. So brain health and
  416. 14:00heart health basically is at risk.
  417. 14:03>> Can you explain sleep apnea and what it
  418. 14:04is?
  419. 14:04>> Sure. So sleep apnea is really an oxygen
  420. 14:07deprivation state. So for the most part
  421. 14:11people will have obstructive sleep apnea
  422. 14:13and there's central sleep apnea but
  423. 14:15that's a whole different thing. So
  424. 14:17obstruction is happening at the back of
  425. 14:19the throat so the soft tissues collapse
  426. 14:21too much and then you have an oxygen
  427. 14:23deprivation state. So it's pretty
  428. 14:25technical when I interpret a sleep
  429. 14:27study.
  430. 14:28Uh you know, so many seconds you have to
  431. 14:31have below your baseline of oxygen
  432. 14:33level, you have to have respiratory
  433. 14:35depression, you may have an arousal.
  434. 14:37There's all of these components to a
  435. 14:39sleep study.
  436. 14:40But we then quantify all of that and if
  437. 14:43you have five or more abnormal breathing
  438. 14:45events an hour, that is sleep apnea.
  439. 14:49>> If 90% of the women that are in
  440. 14:50perimenopause or menopause have sleep
  441. 14:52apnea and don't don't really know it or
  442. 14:54don't know what's going on. If someone's
  443. 14:56listening right now, how can they
  444. 14:57decipher whether or not nah, I don't
  445. 15:00have great sleep or oh my gosh, I need
  446. 15:02to be really concerned that that's a
  447. 15:04possibility.
  448. 15:05>> Yeah, that's a great question and it's
  449. 15:06not easy because all of the screening
  450. 15:09tools are really gender biased. They are
  451. 15:12all focusing on men's symptoms more than
  452. 15:16women's symptoms. So there's one that I
  453. 15:19that's notorious for me at least is
  454. 15:21called the STOP-BANG And the G at the
  455. 15:23end of this screening tool stands for
  456. 15:26your gender. So, already
  457. 15:28>> STOP-BANG?
  458. 15:29>> STOP-BANG. So, already, if you are a
  459. 15:32woman, you don't get that point.
  460. 15:35And And so, and women do not have loud
  461. 15:38snoring, they don't have witnessed
  462. 15:40apneas, they typically will have
  463. 15:42insomnia.
  464. 15:44They kind of just have general they
  465. 15:47malaise, they don't feel well. They
  466. 15:49might have more migraine headaches, they
  467. 15:51might have more depression.
  468. 15:53That's the symptoms.
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  500. 17:07>> Migraines have been coming up a lot
  501. 17:09lately for for me, just in conversation,
  502. 17:12and a lot of women saying it's happening
  503. 17:14during this perimenopause and menopause
  504. 17:15stage, and I know it's one of the
  505. 17:17symptoms. Is it because of sleep apnea?
  506. 17:20>> You know, it's hard to say if it's only
  507. 17:22because of sleep apnea, but I I'm We do
  508. 17:25know that there's a hormonal component
  509. 17:27to migraine headaches. But, if you're
  510. 17:30having them and you've already kind of
  511. 17:32started on some sort of hormone therapy
  512. 17:34and you've you're continuing to have
  513. 17:37middle of the night awakenings, because
  514. 17:39starting on hormone therapy doesn't cure
  515. 17:41everybody's sleep.
  516. 17:42>> Mhm.
  517. 17:43>> They're still up to 50% of those women
  518. 17:46who will continue to have problems with
  519. 17:48sleep.
  520. 17:49>> All right. So, if somebody's listening
  521. 17:50and says like maybe that's me, what is
  522. 17:52the first step that a woman should do if
  523. 17:55she thinks she might have sleep apnea?
  524. 17:57>> Yeah.
  525. 17:58>> You know, start having a conversation
  526. 18:00with your doctor or your your provider.
  527. 18:02Really, that's the first step is start
  528. 18:05asking questions. Have a have a road
  529. 18:07map, because like I said, the awareness
  530. 18:10of sleep apnea or sleep disorders like
  531. 18:13restless leg syndrome, chronic insomnia,
  532. 18:15which I I feel as a as a complex medical
  533. 18:19condition.
  534. 18:20That's not at the at the forefront of
  535. 18:23your primary care provider's mind most
  536. 18:26of the time. So, go in there with, you
  537. 18:29know, a set a list of symptoms that
  538. 18:32you're having. Hey, I'm going to bed at
  539. 18:33this time, but I'm not falling asleep
  540. 18:35until this time. So, that's one of the
  541. 18:38questions I will ask. How many hours are
  542. 18:40you actually sleeping? Because you might
  543. 18:42be in bed for 9 hours, but you're only
  544. 18:45getting five
  545. 18:47>> And is that a signal that
  546. 18:48>> That's huge.
  547. 18:48>> Okay.
  548. 18:49>> A huge red red flag. If you're
  549. 18:51consistently waking up in the middle of
  550. 18:53the night, if you're waking up and you
  551. 18:55feel unrefreshed.
  552. 18:57So, some people will wake up and say, I
  553. 18:59feel worse
  554. 19:01>> Right? I'm more tired after I sleep.
  555. 19:03>> tired than I did when I was going to
  556. 19:06bed.
  557. 19:07>> But, all those are signs to you that you
  558. 19:09need to go and see somebody. And do you
  559. 19:11recommend a sleep specialist then right
  560. 19:12away?
  561. 19:13>> You know, for the most part I do because
  562. 19:15you have to tease out all the nuances.
  563. 19:18It's not that simple and a lot of women
  564. 19:21will have a home sleep study performed,
  565. 19:24but there's a pretty high rate
  566. 19:26anecdotally, at least in my experience,
  567. 19:28that women will have negative home sleep
  568. 19:31studies, but if you do a different type
  569. 19:34of sleep study, which is either in a
  570. 19:36sleep lab or what we call a type two
  571. 19:38home sleep study, you tend to catch more
  572. 19:42mild obstructive sleep apnea. And what
  573. 19:44we know about mild obstructive sleep
  574. 19:46apnea is that maybe the cardiovascular
  575. 19:48risk isn't there as it's not as
  576. 19:51prominent. However, if you're having
  577. 19:54trouble sleeping because you have mild
  578. 19:56obstructive sleep apnea, then that
  579. 19:58chronic sleep deprivation holds the same
  580. 20:01risk.
  581. 20:02>> I mean, when you go night after night
  582. 20:04and week after week, we've heard you 8
  583. 20:07hours is how you how long you should
  584. 20:08sleep, but how how long should be you be
  585. 20:10sleeping and how long should that be, I
  586. 20:13guess, deep sleep?
  587. 20:14>> Yeah. So, you know, the the American
  588. 20:17Academy of Sleep Medicine recommends 7
  589. 20:19to 9 hours of sleep. What I tell women
  590. 20:23and everybody is really focus on
  591. 20:26quality, not quantity, because if you're
  592. 20:29in bed for 10 hours, but the quality is
  593. 20:31poor,
  594. 20:32that's that's not helpful. What you want
  595. 20:34to focus on is the quality of sleep. So,
  596. 20:37I don't want people thinking, "Oh my
  597. 20:39gosh, I'm only getting 6 hours. I'm
  598. 20:41destined for dementia." Right? That's
  599. 20:44that's not what I want women to walk
  600. 20:46away with. I want people to know that
  601. 20:48there's
  602. 20:49always something you can do for your
  603. 20:51sleep and that every 15 minutes counts.
  604. 20:54>> You bring up dementia. Let's talk a
  605. 20:55little bit about that. Are those some of
  606. 20:57the things that you see if somebody's
  607. 20:59not sleeping or do you see that as
  608. 21:01something that could be a problematic
  609. 21:03down the line?
  610. 21:04>> So, the good news is that you could have
  611. 21:07trouble sleeping for decades, but if we
  612. 21:09can help you get higher quality sleep,
  613. 21:13then you're more likely than not able to
  614. 21:16to kind of
  615. 21:17not have to make you won't have there's
  616. 21:19no guarantee that oh my gosh, you're
  617. 21:21destined for a dementia. I really think
  618. 21:23that it's multifactorial. I think that
  619. 21:26women carry a huge mental load that is
  620. 21:29not really factored in quite yet. Then
  621. 21:32we have all of these hormonal changes.
  622. 21:35Then we may have a delayed diagnosis if
  623. 21:37we have obstructive sleep apnea or
  624. 21:39restless leg syndrome or treatment for
  625. 21:41chronic insomnia.
  626. 21:42>> Does a lack of sleep cause dementia? Is
  627. 21:44that one of the causes of it?
  628. 21:45>> Well, if you're chronically sleep
  629. 21:47deprived, then you're not able to get
  630. 21:49into all the right stages of sleep. You
  631. 21:50asked about the percentages and it's
  632. 21:53really about your total sleep time. So
  633. 21:56based on your total sleep time, you
  634. 21:58should have certain percentages of each
  635. 22:01stage of sleep. And fun fact, really
  636. 22:03your staying in stage two sleep. There's
  637. 22:06four stages of sleep
  638. 22:08the most time. So trackers I've got a
  639. 22:10tracker on.
  640. 22:12They're not all they're cracked up to be
  641. 22:14and there are way more advanced ways of
  642. 22:18identifying stages of sleep. These are
  643. 22:21surrogates and and they prime people. So
  644. 22:24I feel like a lot of people really worry
  645. 22:26about their stages of sleep when it it's
  646. 22:28really still just an estimate and we
  647. 22:30can't focus too much on this when it's
  648. 22:34not diagnostic.
  649. 22:36>> I guess it just makes me happy when it
  650. 22:37tells me to go to bed or start winding.
  651. 22:39Tamsin, you've got to start winding up
  652. 22:41for sleep. All right, I know you're big
  653. 22:43on solutions. So I want to talk about
  654. 22:45some of these solutions. When it comes
  655. 22:46to sleep, first let's talk about where
  656. 22:48hormone therapy fits in and what types
  657. 22:50of hormone therapy that we're talking
  658. 22:52about.
  659. 22:52>> So you know, first of all, if somebody
  660. 22:55is in perimenopause or menopause and
  661. 22:57they really are having a lot of trouble
  662. 23:00with sleep. That is one of the many
  663. 23:02symptoms around perimenopause or
  664. 23:05menopause. And it may be worthwhile if
  665. 23:08you meet criteria and it's not There's
  666. 23:10no contraindication to start on hormone
  667. 23:13therapy. Now, for a lot of women, it
  668. 23:16helps their sleep. Estrogen,
  669. 23:18progesterone Uh progesterone is really
  670. 23:21that hormone that helps us relax, get
  671. 23:24ready for sleep. Estrogen really helps
  672. 23:27with sustaining sleep.
  673. 23:28>> Okay.
  674. 23:29>> And then testosterone really helps with
  675. 23:31deep sleep.
  676. 23:32>> It's interesting though, most of the
  677. 23:33time if you ask you think progesterone
  678. 23:36is the magic pill, but it really is the
  679. 23:38estrogen and progesterone. And then
  680. 23:40you're saying also added testosterone.
  681. 23:42>> Yes, for some women.
  682. 23:43>> Okay.
  683. 23:43>> So So not everybody needs testosterone,
  684. 23:46but we're also not reaching for it as an
  685. 23:48option as often as we should. So for
  686. 23:52everyone, you really should start on
  687. 23:54estrogen and progesterone if you can.
  688. 23:56And then reassess. And then you may
  689. 23:58consider starting on testosterone. I
  690. 24:00have a lot of women who will say, "That
  691. 24:02was the missing link for me."
  692. 24:05>> Mhm.
  693. 24:05>> But then even after most women will
  694. 24:08start on that, there's still up to 50%
  695. 24:11of those women who will continue to have
  696. 24:13problems with sleep.
  697. 24:14>> I had to increase my dosage. It went up
  698. 24:16a bit by bit, but I'm at 200 mg right
  699. 24:19now, which I I'm like, "Oh my gosh, how
  700. 24:20much bigger can the pill be?" But But
  701. 24:22I'm sleeping most of the time.
  702. 24:24>> Yeah.
  703. 24:25>> Talk about the role alcohol plays
  704. 24:27because I think my life since 2020
  705. 24:31I [snorts] mean, 2018 I thought I was
  706. 24:32still kind of cool and I could have
  707. 24:34drinks before I go to bed or go out for
  708. 24:36margaritas. Then 2020, COVID hit. Then
  709. 24:402021 I was still kind of like, "Okay."
  710. 24:42And then 2023, 4, 5
  711. 24:45Mhm. Nothing.
  712. 24:46>> Mhm.
  713. 24:47>> A glass of wine
  714. 24:48>> Yeah.
  715. 24:48>> I can't go to sleep or I wake up. It's
  716. 24:50just It's really remarkably
  717. 24:52different for me. Is that perimenopause?
  718. 24:56Is that age? Is that
  719. 24:58What is it? But it really does impact
  720. 25:00sleep.
  721. 25:00>> It does, and I'm sad too
  722. 25:03>> [laughter]
  723. 25:03>> I'm sad with you. Maybe we just have a
  724. 25:06drink during the podcast and not wait
  725. 25:09until bed. I don't know. I don't know.
  726. 25:11I'll think about that.
  727. 25:12>> I mean, we have we change the way when
  728. 25:15we metabolize alcohol. So, we're just
  729. 25:17not as good at metabolizing it. And then
  730. 25:19it really affects your REM sleep.
  731. 25:21>> Okay. And what what stage is REM sleep?
  732. 25:24>> So, REM sleep is when you're dreaming.
  733. 25:26And you tend to have your dream sleep in
  734. 25:28the second half of your night. So,
  735. 25:30stereotypically, that is when a person
  736. 25:32starts to cycle through REM. And you
  737. 25:35know, textbook says that you should have
  738. 25:37three to four REM cycles and with each
  739. 25:39cycle it's supposed to get a little bit
  740. 25:40longer.
  741. 25:41>> Mhm.
  742. 25:42>> So, if alcohol is disrupting your REM
  743. 25:44sleep, then you really don't That's
  744. 25:46where you're doing all of your emotional
  745. 25:48processing, some memory consolidation.
  746. 25:51That's where the emotional regulation
  747. 25:53happens. So, you feel like crap when you
  748. 25:57wake up in the morning if you've had a
  749. 25:59little too much to drink. And you
  750. 26:01basically are just you feel like a
  751. 26:03zombie. And then when you go to bed the
  752. 26:06next night, typically your body does
  753. 26:08what we call REM rebound. So, it makes
  754. 26:11up for losing the night before. And it
  755. 26:15gives you more opportunity to capture
  756. 26:17REM sleep the next night.
  757. 26:19>> So, if you have a drink the second night
  758. 26:21you're better maybe? [laughter] I don't
  759. 26:23know. Is it Is it that you've had too
  760. 26:25much of I mean, I think even a glass of
  761. 26:27wine right now impacts me.
  762. 26:29>> Right, because we we do not metabolize
  763. 26:32it as well. And when we don't metabolize
  764. 26:34it as well, then it's half-life is right
  765. 26:36around the time if we drink it really
  766. 26:39close to bedtime, right around the time
  767. 26:41that you should be getting into REM
  768. 26:44sleep. So, that half-life. And And
  769. 26:47really what we're doing is we're just
  770. 26:48medicating ourselves to kind of pass
  771. 26:51ourselves out, but it really doesn't
  772. 26:53allow us to get into those stages of
  773. 26:55sleep that we need.
  774. 26:56>> So, if you're going to have a drink or a
  775. 26:58glass of wine,
  776. 26:59>> [laughter]
  777. 27:00>> Dr. Andrea, you know I'm trying.
  778. 27:02If you If you're Just know Should you do
  779. 27:04it over
  780. 27:05I don't know. Treat it like caffeine.
  781. 27:07What do you do? Do you do it earlier in
  782. 27:08the day?
  783. 27:09>> it you Everybody knows themselves. Like
  784. 27:12I I think if you can get away with one
  785. 27:15drink, great, but for most people they
  786. 27:17usually start to complain if they have
  787. 27:18two or more.
  788. 27:20If you know that it's even one drink,
  789. 27:22then you have it earlier during the day.
  790. 27:24I mean, there is this big business of
  791. 27:26mocktails nowadays, right?
  792. 27:29>> Still haven't found a non-alcoholic wine
  793. 27:31I like, but you know.
  794. 27:32>> Okay. All right. Well, we'll we'll work
  795. 27:33on it. My dad has something he used at
  796. 27:35over Thanksgiving and it's like um
  797. 27:38It's like a filter and he mixes it
  798. 27:40around in the drink. It's like it You
  799. 27:42know, it's like a little filter and it
  800. 27:43takes us the sulfites out of it, I
  801. 27:45guess, of the wines. I don't Is that
  802. 27:46helpful? Does that help the wine? I'm
  803. 27:48trying here for anybody who Anybody who
  804. 27:50is going to say, like, "Why didn't you
  805. 27:52ask this?"
  806. 27:52>> I mean, it's worth It's worth a try.
  807. 27:54>> Okay.
  808. 27:54>> Okay. It's worth a try. I actually saw
  809. 27:56that and it piqued my interest, so then
  810. 27:58I looked it up online and
  811. 28:00>> you some. He was so funny. We were We
  812. 28:02were at the table and everyone's like,
  813. 28:04"What is he doing?" And I go, "I don't
  814. 28:05know. My dad is like he's a trans- He's
  815. 28:07the king of Yeah, DIY hacks."
  816. 28:09>> [gasps]
  817. 28:10>> So, you created something called the
  818. 28:12DREAM method. And when I interviewed you
  819. 28:13back in October, we had an event
  820. 28:16together here in New York. We talked
  821. 28:18about it. And it's a method to help
  822. 28:20women understand why they're not
  823. 28:22sleeping so well and then what to
  824. 28:24[clears throat] do about it. So, can you
  825. 28:25walk us through the DREAM method that
  826. 28:26you have in terms of real life?
  827. 28:29>> Yeah, definitely. So,
  828. 28:31I developed the DREAM sleep method
  829. 28:32because
  830. 28:33women were coming to me saying, "Hey, I
  831. 28:35got told I didn't have sleep apnea, but
  832. 28:37I still can't sleep." And what I found
  833. 28:40is that there's so many different
  834. 28:42components to helping you get to sleep.
  835. 28:45And if we're only touching on one, we're
  836. 28:47only going to get halfway.
  837. 28:49>> Okay.
  838. 28:49>> So, the D stands for daily habits. What
  839. 28:52are we doing during the day that could
  840. 28:54be contributing to our inability to get
  841. 28:56to sleep or stay asleep? So, are we
  842. 28:58feeding ourselves correctly, you know,
  843. 29:00providing ourselves with the right
  844. 29:01nutrition, right hydration, down time,
  845. 29:04are we totally stressed out all day? So,
  846. 29:07all of those pieces actually play a role
  847. 29:09in getting ourselves to sleep. R is for
  848. 29:12your resting environment. So, I mean, if
  849. 29:15you've got a bad bed, you got to change
  850. 29:17it. If your pillow doesn't feel good,
  851. 29:19change it. If it's too hot, too cold,
  852. 29:22you know, you have to make your
  853. 29:23environment ideal.
  854. 29:25>> What's an ideal temperature to sleep in?
  855. 29:27This is for my husband, I'm just asking.
  856. 29:29>> Well, so, you know, it's different for
  857. 29:31everybody. I I I typically don't like to
  858. 29:34say, "Oh, it should be, you know, 65°
  859. 29:36or whatever." I tell folks because
  860. 29:39typically with partners, one is cold and
  861. 29:41one is hot.
  862. 29:42>> Yes.
  863. 29:42>> Right? So, then there's a whole market
  864. 29:44for beds beds and blankets to
  865. 29:47individualized temperature control.
  866. 29:49But, generally, you want your room dark,
  867. 29:51cool, and quiet.
  868. 29:52>> So, cool is
  869. 29:53>> Cool is better.
  870. 29:54>> What's cool?
  871. 29:55>> better.
  872. 29:5665.
  873. 29:57>> Oh, I love you. All right, I like that.
  874. 29:59Thank [laughter] you. I just wanted
  875. 30:00evidence of it to take back to Ira.
  876. 30:03Okay, what's the E stand for?
  877. 30:04>> So, the E stands for emotions. We all
  878. 30:06know that anxiety, depression can
  879. 30:09certainly rear its ugly head in the
  880. 30:11bedroom when you're not distracted by
  881. 30:13anything else. And we need to address
  882. 30:15those. Those are real issues and
  883. 30:17someone's ability to get to sleep.
  884. 30:19>> Mhm.
  885. 30:19>> And then the A is archetype. It's really
  886. 30:22it's my way of describing your circadian
  887. 30:25rhythm. Are you an early bird? Are you a
  888. 30:27night owl? Are you somewhere in between?
  889. 30:29Because if you don't know and you're
  890. 30:31fighting against your circadian rhythm,
  891. 30:33then that's going to be really difficult
  892. 30:35to get you into all of the right stages
  893. 30:37of sleep.
  894. 30:38>> Does that mean what time you go to bed
  895. 30:39and And time you wake up?
  896. 30:40>> Yeah. So, if you're an early bird,
  897. 30:42typically those folks they like to go to
  898. 30:45bed at 8:00, wake up at 4:00, go to bed
  899. 30:47at 9:00, wake up at 5:00. Someone who's
  900. 30:50a night owl, by definition, it's 12:00
  901. 30:52a.m. Waking up at 8:00.
  902. 30:54>> Oh, yeah.
  903. 30:54>> 1:00 a.m. Waking up at 9:00.
  904. 30:57>> Is there an ideal if you're not Well,
  905. 30:58like I worked a night shift and I worked
  906. 31:00an early morning shift, so I've kind of
  907. 31:01been all over the
  908. 31:03uh I've been all over the board with
  909. 31:04that. I did 2:00 in the morning, I did
  910. 31:062:00, you know, I did I've done all of
  911. 31:07it. Is there an ideal kind of, you know,
  912. 31:10wind it down that you think would be as
  913. 31:12good as getting up? I mean, do you have
  914. 31:14rules like that? I don't know.
  915. 31:15>> You know, I I think that if you can
  916. 31:18follow your circadian rhythm
  917. 31:20>> Yeah.
  918. 31:20>> because again, we have clock genes that
  919. 31:22we're born with. They're like eye color.
  920. 31:24We can't really change them. We can fake
  921. 31:26them out. We can
  922. 31:28we can adjust a person's circadian
  923. 31:31rhythm with melatonin.
  924. 31:32But
  925. 31:34you know, I I always cringe when I see
  926. 31:37uh one of the major papers talk about
  927. 31:39being an early bird because up to 20% of
  928. 31:42the population globally is a night owl.
  929. 31:45And there are
  930. 31:46>> Interesting.
  931. 31:46>> there are
  932. 31:47you know, different countries who work
  933. 31:49later. Like if you go to Spain and try
  934. 31:51to go to dinner at 7:00, they think
  935. 31:53you're silly.
  936. 31:54>> Yes.
  937. 31:54>> Right?
  938. 31:55So, I think if you can follow your
  939. 31:57natural circadian rhythm, you're better
  940. 31:59off.
  941. 31:59>> Okay.
  942. 32:00>> But, you know
  943. 32:01that you you do need to figure out what
  944. 32:03your what your circadian rhythm is.
  945. 32:05>> Your best time of going to sleep, your
  946. 32:06best time of waking up, and trying to be
  947. 32:08consistent.
  948. 32:09>> Right.
  949. 32:09>> Okay.
  950. 32:09>> Consistency. And then, yeah.
  951. 32:11>> What is the uh Keep going. What was the
  952. 32:13other one?
  953. 32:13>> Oh, M.
  954. 32:13>> Oh, M. Yeah, what's the M for?
  955. 32:15>> Yeah. So, that's medical conditions. So,
  956. 32:18perimenopause, menopause, sleep apnea,
  957. 32:20restless leg syndrome, any sort of
  958. 32:22neurological condition, any type of
  959. 32:25rheumatologic condition. So, you know,
  960. 32:27if you've got an autoimmune disorder,
  961. 32:29these are all things that can affect
  962. 32:30your sleep. And we need to be able to
  963. 32:34evaluate and figure out how it's
  964. 32:37affecting your sleep because if we
  965. 32:38ignore that, then again, we're only
  966. 32:40getting halfway.
  967. 32:41>> So, I think I had restless leg syndrome
  968. 32:44for a while, but I didn't have a word
  969. 32:45for it, but I found magnesium spray. Is
  970. 32:49that Am I just my father's daughter like
  971. 32:51finding solutions for things or is it or
  972. 32:54you know, restless leg syndrome is real?
  973. 32:56>> Restless leg syndrome is real. It can
  974. 32:58affect up to 30% of women in midlife.
  975. 33:01That's a lot of people and that has to
  976. 33:04do with our iron stores. And so, there's
  977. 33:07all this talk right now around iron
  978. 33:10stores in women and the changes that
  979. 33:13we're making in terms of the normal iron
  980. 33:16levels and that marker is ferritin. So,
  981. 33:19ferritin is
  982. 33:20what we call an acute phase reactant. It
  983. 33:22gets complex, but the point is that the
  984. 33:25normal ranges were really low and now
  985. 33:28there's all this new data coming out
  986. 33:30that they should be higher, but if you
  987. 33:31have restless leg syndrome,
  988. 33:33your ferritin level should be above 70
  989. 33:36and really closer to 100. That's huge.
  990. 33:39>> Does that mean your iron is low? Is that
  991. 33:41what that means?
  992. 33:42>> It means the iron stores are low. So,
  993. 33:44you might have a normal blood count, but
  994. 33:46your ferritin level is going to be low.
  995. 33:49>> I've never heard of ferritin level.
  996. 33:50>> Yeah.
  997. 33:50>> Where do you get tested for that? Is
  998. 33:52that
  999. 33:53>> just a blood draw.
  1000. 33:54>> A blood draw? Okay.
  1001. 33:55>> It you know, like you're getting your
  1002. 33:57electrolytes, your kidney function, your
  1003. 33:59blood count, you get a ferritin level.
  1004. 34:02>> And then you can find out if that's
  1005. 34:03what's going on and it could be causing
  1006. 34:05that restless leg syndrome.
  1007. 34:06>> Right. That's the first thing is to give
  1008. 34:09somebody iron supplement. Okay. And then
  1009. 34:12if that it you still have symptoms, then
  1010. 34:15let's discuss prescription medications.
  1011. 34:17>> Okay. Let's go to supplements because I
  1012. 34:19think there's a lot of question about
  1013. 34:20that. There's there are a lot of things
  1014. 34:22out there and and I want to go through
  1015. 34:24them and I know that you're a fan of
  1016. 34:25certain supplements and have one. Um can
  1017. 34:28you go into supplements and let's talk
  1018. 34:29about that and what you think uh
  1019. 34:31research says about supplements for
  1020. 34:33sleep and I guess there's magnesium,
  1021. 34:35there's my spray magnesium, there's
  1022. 34:37melatonin. Can you talk a little bit
  1023. 34:38about that?
  1024. 34:39>> Yeah. So,
  1025. 34:41supplements are really big market,
  1026. 34:42there's no doubt about that. I tend to
  1027. 34:45be pretty judicious around supplements.
  1028. 34:48>> Okay.
  1029. 34:48>> So, I try to use as little as possible
  1030. 34:52because a lot of supplements out there
  1031. 34:55are a combination of too many things in
  1032. 34:58my mind and so then you don't know
  1033. 35:00what's really working for you.
  1034. 35:02>> And for the most part
  1035. 35:04they don't they're not sleep aids. So,
  1036. 35:08supplements are in my mind I define
  1037. 35:12those as things that are already going
  1038. 35:14to that are going to support the good
  1039. 35:16sleep that you already have. They are
  1040. 35:18not going to fill a hole. They're not
  1041. 35:22going to cure something. So, a
  1042. 35:25supplement for sleep is not going to fix
  1043. 35:28chronic insomnia.
  1044. 35:30A supplement's not going to fix sleep
  1045. 35:32apnea.
  1046. 35:34You know, when I talk about a supplement
  1047. 35:36for restless legs syndrome, that's
  1048. 35:37really iron replacement.
  1049. 35:39>> So, what will a supplement do? Will it
  1050. 35:41help you go into a deeper sleep?
  1051. 35:43>> Well, it [snorts] just depends on what
  1052. 35:44it is, right? There's a whole market,
  1053. 35:46there's valerian, there's lemon balm,
  1054. 35:48there's hops, there's melatonin, there's
  1055. 35:51magnesium, there's L-theanine. They all
  1056. 35:53have a specific mechanism of action, if
  1057. 35:57you will, and so that's why I'm not a
  1058. 35:58fan of things that have like 10 or 12
  1059. 36:01things in them because you don't really
  1060. 36:02know what's what's working and what's
  1061. 36:05not working.
  1062. 36:06>> Ideally, um I know melatonin confuses a
  1063. 36:08lot of people, right? And then I I
  1064. 36:10didn't even realize that there was a
  1065. 36:12you know, level that you should be
  1066. 36:13taking or not taking or how long. Can
  1067. 36:15you explain melatonin?
  1068. 36:16>> Sure. So, melatonin is made in the
  1069. 36:18pineal gland of the brain. It does a lot
  1070. 36:21of different things, but it's really our
  1071. 36:23marker for starting the cascade of
  1072. 36:25sleep. So, first and foremost, melatonin
  1073. 36:29is a hormone.
  1074. 36:31It is not a sleep aid. It is a clock
  1075. 36:33starter. So, it starts the cascade of
  1076. 36:37sleep. So, taking it right at bedtime is
  1077. 36:41not typically recommended.
  1078. 36:43And we really don't need a whole lot if
  1079. 36:46we're going to use it for what I call
  1080. 36:48circadian support. So, again, circadian
  1081. 36:52is basically Circadian rhythm is the
  1082. 36:56mechanism that allows you to get to
  1083. 36:58sleep, stay asleep, get into the stages
  1084. 37:01of sleep that you need to get into.
  1085. 37:04What I didn't even learn in my
  1086. 37:05fellowship is that we lose melatonin
  1087. 37:07production as we age and that we lose up
  1088. 37:10to 50% by age 50.
  1089. 37:13>> So, should we be all taking melatonin?
  1090. 37:15>> You know, there's no there's no
  1091. 37:16published data that says absolutely.
  1092. 37:18There's a few studies out there that say
  1093. 37:20that taking melatonin isn't problematic
  1094. 37:24for the replacement. There are studies
  1095. 37:27out there that say long-term dose
  1096. 37:28long-term use of melatonin is safe.
  1097. 37:31There's actually studies out there that
  1098. 37:32say that it may be cardioprotective
  1099. 37:35because it it's it works against
  1100. 37:37oxidative stress, free scavenger,
  1101. 37:41free radicals.
  1102. 37:43It supports immune system. I mean, it's
  1103. 37:45a hormone.
  1104. 37:45>> Yeah.
  1105. 37:46>> So, in my mind, I think that we don't
  1106. 37:49have enough data out there quite yet to
  1107. 37:51say that everybody should be on it, but
  1108. 37:53it just might be the next vitamin D.
  1109. 37:56>> Mhm.
  1110. 37:56>> And we just don't know enough about it
  1111. 37:59like we do now about vitamin D. I
  1112. 38:01remember when vitamin D came out and
  1113. 38:02everybody said, "Wait, why do we have to
  1114. 38:03take this? It's a hormone." One of the
  1115. 38:06other pieces is that melatonin, if you
  1116. 38:08take it long-term, you're not going to
  1117. 38:10ruin the production in your body. So, a
  1118. 38:13lot of people think, "Oh, if I take it
  1119. 38:15for too long, then I'm going to stop
  1120. 38:17producing my own melatonin." That has
  1121. 38:20been debunked. So, lots of studies say
  1122. 38:23that that is not true.
  1123. 38:24>> Should you take the lowest amount?
  1124. 38:25>> The lowest amount. So, you know, when
  1125. 38:28we're and there's different reasons why
  1126. 38:30we prescribe melatonin in a sleep
  1127. 38:32medicine practice for our patients. So,
  1128. 38:35if you're using it for jet lag, you take
  1129. 38:38a a low dose.
  1130. 38:40>> 1 mg?
  1131. 38:41>> Wait, what do you take it for in jet
  1132. 38:42lag?
  1133. 38:43>> So, you want to adjust your circadian
  1134. 38:45rhythm so that you you prevent having
  1135. 38:47jet lag.
  1136. 38:48>> Oh.
  1137. 38:48>> So, typically every
  1138. 38:51every hour of of of change that you're
  1139. 38:55going into, so let's say seven, it might
  1140. 38:57take you up to seven days. So, for every
  1141. 39:00hour that you're shifting is a day that
  1142. 39:04you have to recover. So, of course,
  1143. 39:06there's a big business in adjusting your
  1144. 39:08circadian rhythm. So, yeah.
  1145. 39:11>> There's no quick fixes for sleep,
  1146. 39:12though.
  1147. 39:13>> No.
  1148. 39:13>> [laughter]
  1149. 39:13>> No. No. No. No.
  1150. 39:15>> That's hard for people because when
  1151. 39:16people they want to know like what can I
  1152. 39:18do tonight?
  1153. 39:19>> Yeah.
  1154. 39:19>> Is there something if there's a a woman
  1155. 39:22or a man listening that says, "What can
  1156. 39:24I do tonight
  1157. 39:25>> Yeah.
  1158. 39:25>> to start figuring this out?"
  1159. 39:27>> I know. It You're right. It's largely
  1160. 39:29behavioral when we're thinking about
  1161. 39:32insomnia, getting to sleep, staying
  1162. 39:33asleep.
  1163. 39:35So, the first thing that I tell folks
  1164. 39:37all the time is you want to get to bed
  1165. 39:39at the same time and you want to wake up
  1166. 39:42at the same time. And a lot of people
  1167. 39:44literally I'll get some side eyes, hard
  1168. 39:47eye rolls like, "I already do that." And
  1169. 39:49yes, but do you? Do you really do that?
  1170. 39:53>> Mhm.
  1171. 39:53>> Because if you start to to write down
  1172. 39:55when you're getting into bed,
  1173. 39:58people are surprised. It's it's the same
  1174. 40:00thing My my analogy is is when you're
  1175. 40:02trying to lose weight
  1176. 40:04and you think, "I I I don't
  1177. 40:06>> Oh, I ate perfectly today.
  1178. 40:08>> [laughter]
  1179. 40:08>> And then you start writing everything
  1180. 40:09down and you realize, "Oh, yeah. I had a
  1181. 40:12piece of pizza or [laughter]
  1182. 40:14I had, you know, a cookie or, you know,
  1183. 40:17all of those things count. So,
  1184. 40:20trying to get to bed at the same time
  1185. 40:22and waking up at the same time is
  1186. 40:23really, really important. Our brains
  1187. 40:25like routine.
  1188. 40:27>> That's good to know. I mean, I think
  1189. 40:28that it's really important. I I did that
  1190. 40:31for a while and I'm trying to do it
  1191. 40:32again. I think when I there's the time
  1192. 40:34change, my body gets very confused. It's
  1193. 40:37dark out, it's light out. It's so dark
  1194. 40:39starting at like 4:30. I, you know, New
  1195. 40:41York City. And so, you know, I feel I
  1196. 40:43feel like I'm tired earlier.
  1197. 40:45>> Yeah.
  1198. 40:46>> Okay. So, we we covered that there's no
  1199. 40:48quick fixes, but I do know that diet and
  1200. 40:51exercise are always a part of
  1201. 40:52everything. No matter what we do, we
  1202. 40:53always kind of drill back and say you
  1203. 40:55got to go to the root. How important are
  1204. 40:57diet and exercise when it comes to your
  1205. 40:58sleep?
  1206. 40:59>> They're really important. So, there is
  1207. 41:02lots of data out there that shows that
  1208. 41:04exercise really helps people get to
  1209. 41:06sleep, stay asleep, promotes deep sleep.
  1210. 41:10So, you really want to move your body.
  1211. 41:12It doesn't really matter what you're
  1212. 41:13doing as long as you're increasing that
  1213. 41:15heart rate, and you're giving yourself
  1214. 41:18enough bursts of that increased heart
  1215. 41:20rate throughout the day. So, again,
  1216. 41:22there's studies that show that, you
  1217. 41:24know, you don't have to go a whole hour
  1218. 41:25at once. If all you can do is fit in 5
  1219. 41:28minutes here, 10 minutes there, but
  1220. 41:30you're increasing your heart rate,
  1221. 41:32you're moving your body, that's going to
  1222. 41:33be beneficial for sleep.
  1223. 41:35Then the other piece is with nutrition
  1224. 41:37and food intake. You really want to
  1225. 41:40avoid eating a very heavy meal right
  1226. 41:42before bed. That will affect your
  1227. 41:44ability to get to sleep and and to stay
  1228. 41:47asleep as well. So, you want to try to
  1229. 41:50eat your heavy meal of the day a little
  1230. 41:53bit earlier. So, you know, I usually
  1231. 41:55tell people 3 hours is a good window.
  1232. 41:58Like, try not to eat too late right
  1233. 42:01before bed.
  1234. 42:02>> And caffeine, I didn't mention caffeine
  1235. 42:04cuz I was already upset about the
  1236. 42:05alcohol part. What about caffeine?
  1237. 42:07What's the What's the drop dead time?
  1238. 42:09>> You know, you really shouldn't have any
  1239. 42:10caffeine 6 hours before you go to bed.
  1240. 42:13>> 6 hours? Because
  1241. 42:15>> Because again it all has alerting and
  1242. 42:18stimulating effects in the brain. And it
  1243. 42:21has a half-life and it will keep your
  1244. 42:24brain awake for about 30 The studies
  1245. 42:27show that you're losing about 30 minutes
  1246. 42:30of sleep if you drink caffeine too late.
  1247. 42:32So when people say, "I can drink a whole
  1248. 42:34cup of coffee and go right to bed." I
  1249. 42:36usually tell them, "You're just proving
  1250. 42:38to me that you're chronically sleep
  1251. 42:39deprived."
  1252. 42:41Because
  1253. 42:42>> for a long time.
  1254. 42:44>> this other
  1255. 42:45chemical in the brain called adenosine.
  1256. 42:47Adenosine is what builds up all day long
  1257. 42:50and makes us sleepy. So it is fighting
  1258. 42:53for that same receptor. So that's why
  1259. 42:56when we wake up in the morning
  1260. 42:58honestly we we probably should wait a
  1261. 43:00couple of hours to drink our coffee
  1262. 43:02because that's when
  1263. 43:03>> You're killing me.
  1264. 43:04>> adenosine [laughter] is is building up
  1265. 43:06just a little bit.
  1266. 43:07>> Right.
  1267. 43:07>> But you know, it's also a ritual. Like I
  1268. 43:10myself love having a cup of coffee.
  1269. 43:12>> I'm going to just say Dr. Andrea does it
  1270. 43:14and I'm allowed.
  1271. 43:15Uh getting outside first thing in the
  1272. 43:17morning. Do you think that's important?
  1273. 43:18>> I do. I do think it's important and if
  1274. 43:21it's dark where you're living and you're
  1275. 43:24and you can't get sunlight, that's why
  1276. 43:27it's important because sun is what fires
  1277. 43:29off your circadian wake. So there's
  1278. 43:32there's this whole homeostasis in the
  1279. 43:34brain. When you wake up and the sun hits
  1280. 43:38your eyes because we've got these nerve
  1281. 43:40cells in the eye that connect directly
  1282. 43:42to our wake center in the brain that
  1283. 43:43fires off our wake cycle.
  1284. 43:46That's that is hard when you're living
  1285. 43:49somewhere and it's dark. So then I
  1286. 43:51usually tell folks, "Use one of those
  1287. 43:53bright lights."
  1288. 43:54>> Mhm.
  1289. 43:55>> And it's 10,000 lux. That's what all the
  1290. 43:57studies were were done on. 10,000 lux is
  1291. 44:00the intensity of the light that you
  1292. 44:02should use.
  1293. 44:03>> And so if you're turning that on,
  1294. 44:05putting that on first thing in the
  1295. 44:06morning.
  1296. 44:06>> First thing first hour. If you do it too
  1297. 44:08late, you're just going to move your
  1298. 44:10bedtime later because that homeostasis
  1299. 44:12is sleep pressure is really low and wake
  1300. 44:16cycle is really high. And then they kind
  1301. 44:18of crisscross over the day so that your
  1302. 44:20sleep pressure is really high when you
  1303. 44:22go to bed and your wake cycle, your
  1304. 44:24circadian wake is really low when you go
  1305. 44:27to bed.
  1306. 44:27>> What about those hatch alarm clocks?
  1307. 44:30>> [sighs and gasps]
  1308. 44:30>> Yeah. There's a
  1309. 44:32>> [laughter]
  1310. 44:32>> People probably ask you about everything
  1311. 44:34I know, right?
  1312. 44:35>> I know, right? I mean, you know, so
  1313. 44:36here's the thing. I think that it gets
  1314. 44:40There's too many gadgets and and simple
  1315. 44:43is better, right? So, if you need bright
  1316. 44:47light, I have a I have a light for
  1317. 44:48myself. I live in the Northwest and it's
  1318. 44:50dark when I wake up and it's dark when
  1319. 44:52I'm going home for the day.
  1320. 44:54>> put it turn it on when you
  1321. 44:56>> So, yeah, so I tell people like if
  1322. 44:57you're looking at your computer screen,
  1323. 44:59if it's off to the left or to the right
  1324. 45:00of your computer screen, that's probably
  1325. 45:02a good distance. Okay. So, it's about 12
  1326. 45:04in away from your face. You don't want
  1327. 45:06to look directly into it because it's
  1328. 45:08very bright. So, it's off to the side
  1329. 45:11and it's within the first hour of waking
  1330. 45:13for, you know, anywhere between 10 and
  1331. 45:1520 minutes.
  1332. 45:16>> Okay.
  1333. 45:17All right.
  1334. 45:18Now, if there's anybody listening that
  1335. 45:20feels very defeated about their sleep,
  1336. 45:22what do you want them to know?
  1337. 45:25>> One, it's not your fault.
  1338. 45:27There are There's a lot of physiology at
  1339. 45:29play here.
  1340. 45:30>> Mhm.
  1341. 45:31>> Two, there's always help. There's always
  1342. 45:34something we can do. It's not always
  1343. 45:36comfortable, but there are solutions.
  1344. 45:39And three, 15 minutes, every 15 minutes
  1345. 45:43counts because let's say you're only
  1346. 45:44getting 5 hours of sleep and you do all
  1347. 45:47the things and you say, "I'm only
  1348. 45:48getting like 5 hours and 15 minutes."
  1349. 45:50But, you multiply that by seven, by 30,
  1350. 45:5431 days, 12 months, that's a lot more
  1351. 45:57sleep.
  1352. 45:57>> It's a lot more sleep. And when you're
  1353. 45:59sleep deprived, you'll you'll take
  1354. 46:00you'll take 15 minutes. It feels like
  1355. 46:02gold.
  1356. 46:03>> Is there one practical thing people who
  1357. 46:06are listening can do tonight to at least
  1358. 46:08get started in the process of getting a
  1359. 46:10better night's sleep?
  1360. 46:11>> Make sure that you've got a routine. So,
  1361. 46:14again, one of my analogies is when we're
  1362. 46:17hungry, we don't just open the
  1363. 46:18refrigerator door and start shoveling
  1364. 46:20food in our mouth.
  1365. 46:21We owe it to ourselves to have a routine
  1366. 46:24for sleep, whether or not that's I like
  1367. 46:26to put on my favorite pajamas or not. I
  1368. 46:29like to brush my teeth, wash my face. If
  1369. 46:33you have some sort of spray that you
  1370. 46:35love,
  1371. 46:36uh you know, white noise machine, eye
  1372. 46:38mask, ear plugs, whatever it takes,
  1373. 46:41develop something and stick to it. I
  1374. 46:43always tell parents we're so dedicated
  1375. 46:46to our children's sleep cycle or if you
  1376. 46:49don't have children, you always know
  1377. 46:51somebody you know, that you're visiting
  1378. 46:53with and is oh, we have to get, you
  1379. 46:54know, our kid to bed. Well, we owe that
  1380. 46:57to ourselves. Why do we lose that when
  1381. 46:59we're adults?
  1382. 47:00>> I don't know. It's a it's a whole
  1383. 47:01learning curve.
  1384. 47:02>> need it.
  1385. 47:03>> We matter.
  1386. 47:03>> Yeah.
  1387. 47:05>> Dr. Andrea, thank you so much. It's It's
  1388. 47:07so good to see you again. I I felt like
  1389. 47:09the last time that we talked, I sat
  1390. 47:10there and I went, "Wait a minute." I
  1391. 47:12think we had 20 minutes and I could go
  1392. 47:13on with you for, you know, hours and
  1393. 47:15hours cuz I really do think if you're
  1394. 47:17not getting a good night's sleep, what
  1395. 47:19do you how are you even going to eat
  1396. 47:20right or work out right or all the other
  1397. 47:22things we talk about? So, I certainly
  1398. 47:24appreciate it.
  1399. 47:25>> Well, thanks for having me.
  1400. 47:26>> Yeah, and thank you all for listening.
  1401. 47:28If you have not left a review yet,
  1402. 47:29please take a moment wherever you're
  1403. 47:31listening from. It truly helps the
  1404. 47:33podcast grow and I read every single one
  1405. 47:35of your comments. You can find more from
  1406. 47:38Dr. Andrea across her social media and
  1407. 47:40her website and be sure to check the
  1408. 47:42show notes for all the links. I'll see
  1409. 47:44you for the next episode.

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