The Sleep Doctor: The 4 Hormones Wrecking Your Sleep & What to Do About It — Transcript
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- 1:06>> Do you think there's a lot more people
- 1:07walking around with sleep apnea than
- 1:09they even know at this point?
- 1:11>> 100%. In midlife, up to 50% of women
- 1:14will [music] have sleep apnea. Nine out
- 1:16of 10, 90% of them do not know that they
- 1:19have it.
- 1:19>> What is happening when we wake [music]
- 1:21up at 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning wide
- 1:24awake and can't get back to sleep? Do
- 1:25you suggest they right away go talk to a
- 1:27sleep [music] specialist or can you
- 1:29start with your general practitioner or
- 1:30OB/GYN?
- 1:33So should we be all taking melatonin?
- 1:35What about those Hatch alarm clocks?
- 1:36[music] Getting outside first thing in
- 1:38the morning, do you think that's
- 1:38important? Dr. Andrea Matsumura is a
- 1:41board-certified sleep medicine physician
- 1:43who's going to tell you exactly why you
- 1:45can't [music] fall asleep or stay asleep
- 1:47and what to do about it.
- 1:50If you're in perimenopause or menopause,
- 1:52I would say it's safe to assume your
- 1:54sleep has probably become something you
- 1:56think about all the time. Falling
- 1:58asleep, staying asleep, waking up
- 2:00feeling exhausted, constantly waking up
- 2:03to pee, waking up anxious if you fell
- 2:05asleep, and the nights can feel endless.
- 2:08And I I totally get it. I have been
- 2:10there. The other night I actually woke
- 2:11up at like 3:00 in the morning and
- 2:13stared at the ceiling for a while.
- 2:14The worst part though is that sleep is a
- 2:16foundation of everything. So, when your
- 2:18sleep goes, it starts to really unravel
- 2:21the rest of your life. And that's why I
- 2:23have invited a Dr. Andrea Nat Samara on
- 2:26the Tamson show. She is a
- 2:27board-certified sleep medicine
- 2:29physician, menopause expert, and creator
- 2:32of the Dream Sleep Method. And today
- 2:34she's going to teach us exactly what is
- 2:36happening in our bodies and uh maybe
- 2:38give you the tools so maybe starting
- 2:40tonight you can get a better night's
- 2:41sleep. If you haven't yet, please hit
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- 2:46the best ways to help this show grow,
- 2:48and I really love reading each and every
- 2:50one of your comments. So, let's go ahead
- 2:53and get started. Dr. Andrea, welcome to
- 2:55the show.
- 2:56>> Thank you for having me.
- 2:57>> It's good to see you. We were together a
- 2:58few months ago, and I was I guess I was
- 3:00just so impressed with how you broke
- 3:02everything down and made me feel like it
- 3:04was all going to be okay that night.
- 3:06>> Well, you know, we live with a lot of
- 3:09anxiety around getting to sleep and
- 3:11staying asleep, and then that just
- 3:12builds on itself. So, anything I can do
- 3:15to help women break that down and feel
- 3:18like sleep isn't a luxury, it's
- 3:19something that we all need.
- 3:21That's if we don't have sleep, nothing
- 3:23else works as well.
- 3:25>> I do think we consider it a luxury like
- 3:27we were lucky enough to do that instead
- 3:29of hey, I really need to do this for my
- 3:31health. So, what led you to become a
- 3:34sleep expert and really dig into and
- 3:37look at women's health and the health of
- 3:40their sleep in perimenopause and
- 3:41menopause?
- 3:42>> Well, I was practicing as a primary care
- 3:44doctor, and at the end of every
- 3:47appointment, people would say,
- 3:50"Oh, I'm having trouble sleeping. Can I
- 3:51get something for that?
- 3:52>> As like an after thought?
- 3:53>> Yeah, you know, as I'm walking out. And
- 3:57I was being a
- 3:59you know, a good primary care doctor and
- 4:00saying, "Yeah, certainly I can help you
- 4:02with that. Let me give you a little
- 4:03sleep aid." And the more I got to learn
- 4:06about sleep and realized gosh, everybody
- 4:09is having trouble sleeping and
- 4:11everybody's having trouble taking care
- 4:13of all their other chronic medical
- 4:14conditions, I started focus more on
- 4:16sleep, realized that there was a
- 4:18fellowship, went to school to study
- 4:20sleep medicine. When I got out of my
- 4:23sleep medicine fellowship, I was in
- 4:25perimenopause and didn't even know it.
- 4:27So, I started seeing a lot of women and
- 4:31I was working in an all male practice
- 4:34and everybody right away said, "Oh, can
- 4:37you see the ladies for us?"
- 4:40>> All the women that were going through
- 4:41perimenopause and menopause?
- 4:42>> Can you see all the ladies for us? We we
- 4:45really think that you they'd be better
- 4:47served.
- 4:47>> Yeah.
- 4:47>> And so, I started to see all of these
- 4:50patterns and then I realized it kind of
- 4:52hit me in the face,
- 4:54these patterns are the same that I'm
- 4:56experiencing and you know,
- 4:59I quickly became the women's expert for
- 5:02sleep. And then I started to dive into
- 5:04perimenopause and menopause, had my own
- 5:07menopause story where I went to four
- 5:09different physicians before I finally
- 5:11was started on menopause hormone
- 5:13therapy.
- 5:14>> That sounds familiar.
- 5:15>> Yeah. [laughter] So,
- 5:17>> [gasps]
- 5:17>> unbelievable, right?
- 5:18>> Even the experts. And I I do have to say
- 5:20though, every time I have a doctor come
- 5:22in here and say that they went through
- 5:24the same thing, I think it makes all of
- 5:25us feel a little bit better. Whether
- 5:26it's about sleep or hormone therapy or
- 5:28menopause or whatever it is.
- 5:30So, let me ask you this. For women who
- 5:32feel like their sleep has suddenly like
- 5:34fallen off the charts and they're not
- 5:35able to do it anymore once they hit
- 5:37perimenopause, what do you say to them?
- 5:39What's happening to our bodies during
- 5:40that time?
- 5:41>> You know, so the changes between
- 5:43estrogen, progesterone, testosterone and
- 5:46melatonin, they really
- 5:48they completely destroy the circadian
- 5:52rhythm of our sleep.
- 5:53>> So, what does that mean?
- 5:54>> And the [clears throat] circadian rhythm
- 5:55is really your pacemaker for sleep. So,
- 5:58we have clock genes in our brain that is
- 6:01what controls the circadian rhythm of
- 6:03every person, whether or not you're an
- 6:05early bird or a night owl. And then we
- 6:08also then in the hypothalamus, that is
- 6:11that is where they're housed, but then
- 6:13the pineal gland also houses melatonin.
- 6:16Then you have estrogen feeding receptors
- 6:19in the brain. You also then have
- 6:21progesterone that prepares us for sleep,
- 6:24testosterone which really helps us with
- 6:26deep sleep. And when all of those levels
- 6:28start to change, it it really just
- 6:31changes how we fall asleep, how we stay
- 6:34asleep, how deep of a sleep we can get
- 6:37into, and that's when we start having
- 6:39those middle of the night awakenings.
- 6:40>> Yeah, I feel like you I checked the box
- 6:42for every one of those things,
- 6:43especially when I went into
- 6:44perimenopause unbeknownst to me. I
- 6:47didn't know what was going on, and the
- 6:48harder I tried, the worse it got. I
- 6:50mean, I really I really felt that cycle
- 6:51back and forth. Um so, beyond being
- 6:53tired
- 6:55and feeling crappy the next day, what
- 6:58happens when we don't get enough sleep?
- 7:00>> So, you can't clean the waste products
- 7:03out of the brain. That's really the long
- 7:05and the short of it. And we do that
- 7:07during slow wave sleep or our
- 7:10the deep sleep. And that's kind of like
- 7:12a dishwasher for all of the brain cells.
- 7:15And if you are not able to get enough of
- 7:17that sleep, then you wake up with the
- 7:18brain fog. You feel like you're slogging
- 7:21through the day.
- 7:21>> Mhm.
- 7:22Um what are the waste products? What
- 7:24what does that mean?
- 7:25>> So, all the chemical reactions that are
- 7:26happening in the brain, that's the
- 7:28easiest way to say it. We everything
- 7:31that we're doing, every process that we
- 7:33do, every movement that we do, every
- 7:35thought, those are all chemical
- 7:38reactions in the brain that are
- 7:39happening. And then we have these waste
- 7:40products that develop throughout the
- 7:42day, and we need to clean the brain out.
- 7:44And if we're not getting into the right
- 7:45stages of sleep, then we're kind of
- 7:48there's this dysregulation.
- 7:50>> And we we certainly see that. Um so
- 7:53I guess I think about this like, you
- 7:55know,
- 7:56not being able to fall asleep is one
- 7:57thing and that's like completely
- 7:58annoying and I don't know if you you I
- 8:00know you have advice for what to do when
- 8:02you can't do that. Waking up in the
- 8:03middle of the night, I don't know if
- 8:05that's worse or not, but somehow I feel
- 8:07like it's worse. Because I feel like I
- 8:09can't I know that that moment that that
- 8:11happens, I don't know that I'm going
- 8:12back to sleep at all and it's
- 8:14always 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. What
- 8:16is happening when we wake up at 2:00 or
- 8:183:00 in the morning wide awake
- 8:21and can't get back to sleep?
- 8:22>> So for many of us, especially in
- 8:24midlife, that's when we have those
- 8:26fluctuations in estrogen and that
- 8:28affects then our cortisol. So for a lot
- 8:32of women, cortisol starts to spike
- 8:34earlier and then you have these
- 8:36middle-of-the-night awakenings. And then
- 8:38we we start we tend to catastrophize
- 8:41sleep, you know, so or wakefulness
- 8:43rather. So then you get up in the middle
- 8:45of the night and you're thinking, "Oh my
- 8:46gosh, I'm going to have a terrible day.
- 8:48I've got a big day tomorrow. I have a
- 8:49presentation or whatever it is that you
- 8:51have to be doing." And I like to give
- 8:54women a plan. So when you wake up, say,
- 8:58"Okay, I'm going to do A, I'm going to
- 8:59do B, I'm going to do C to help myself
- 9:02get back to sleep." So that you don't
- 9:04wake up and you start to panic.
- 9:07>> What do you do as a I always want the
- 9:08doctors to tell me what they do. What is
- 9:09your What do you do when you wake up? Or
- 9:11do you? Maybe you don't. Maybe you sleep
- 9:12soundly.
- 9:13>> I I get to.
- 9:14>> Okay, what do you do when you wake up at
- 9:162:00 in the morning? What is your go-to?
- 9:18>> First, uh you know, well, it doesn't
- 9:20happen all that often, but I remember
- 9:22when it started happening to me because
- 9:25I was known as a person who could sleep
- 9:27anytime, anyplace, anywhere. And then it
- 9:31started happen to happening to me and I
- 9:33would say, "Why is this happening to
- 9:35me?" And I would get so
- 9:37But then I I immediately put on
- 9:39something calming, like some sort of
- 9:41meditation. I get out of bed. So, you do
- 9:44not want to stay in bed. If you are in
- 9:46bed, and you know, okay, I'm having
- 9:49trouble getting back to sleep. I know
- 9:50I'm not going to get back to sleep. You
- 9:52have to get out of bed because you your
- 9:55brain needs to associate the bed with
- 9:57sleep or intimacy only.
- 10:00>> It feels counterproductive though to get
- 10:01out of bed because you think, I'm just
- 10:02going to lay here 5 minutes more. Maybe
- 10:05I'll be able to fall back to sleep.
- 10:07>> It feels painful to actually get
- 10:09[laughter] out of bed. It doesn't feel
- 10:11good.
- 10:12>> painful.
- 10:12>> And then you also feel like I'm going to
- 10:14wake myself up even more.
- 10:16But that really doesn't happen. I I
- 10:17usually tell women, you know, pick an
- 10:20insomnia chair or a couch or someplace
- 10:24that you know that you can get to. We
- 10:26don't want people cooking, cleaning,
- 10:28working, exercising, and then either
- 10:31read a really boring book, maybe write a
- 10:33list of the thoughts that are racing
- 10:35through your mind,
- 10:37do some meditation, and when you feel
- 10:39sleepy enough, then you can get back
- 10:41into bed. And again, also give yourself
- 10:44some grace. Like maybe you're not going
- 10:46to be firing on all cylinders tomorrow,
- 10:48but you're still going to make it
- 10:49through the day.
- 10:50>> Yeah, cuz that brings me to all those
- 10:51other questions, like what happens when
- 10:52you don't get enough sleep. So, you wake
- 10:54up in the middle of the night, find a
- 10:55know where you're going to go, right?
- 10:57Find a chair, a sofa, a blanket,
- 10:58whatever it is. Get a book and read it.
- 11:00Don't try to do any Don't try to be you
- 11:02know, declutter the closet right that
- 11:04night. Okay? All right, that's good
- 11:06advice. Um a lot of people that you
- 11:08know, we've we've done sleep episodes
- 11:10before, and and it is the top topic.
- 11:13Like people want to talk about sleep,
- 11:14which is why I was so excited that you
- 11:16said yes to come on here. A lot of
- 11:18people complaining about they have to
- 11:19get up in the middle of the night and
- 11:20pee, which is is different than just
- 11:22waking up at 2:00 in the morning, and
- 11:24then they can't go back to sleep.
- 11:25>> Yes.
- 11:26>> What do we do there?
- 11:27>> Well, so the first question I ask people
- 11:30is, are you getting up and going to the
- 11:33bathroom because you're waking up to go
- 11:36to because your body's saying oh I have
- 11:38to go to the bathroom are you awake and
- 11:40then you say well
- 11:42I think I have to pee so I might as well
- 11:44just get up.
- 11:45>> Two different things.
- 11:45>> different things but for for people who
- 11:48are actually waking up and having to go
- 11:50to the bathroom repeatedly especially
- 11:52for women it may be a sign of sleep
- 11:55apnea.
- 11:56That might be a symptom. You could also
- 11:59have genitourinary syndrome of
- 12:01menopause. There are all of these
- 12:03factors that suddenly play a role into
- 12:07why you might be waking up in the middle
- 12:08of the night and having to go to the
- 12:09bathroom.
- 12:10>> So if someone's listening to this right
- 12:11now and says okay I'm in my early 40s
- 12:14late 30s early 40s yes I have a
- 12:16stressful job I get that. I don't know
- 12:18if [clears throat] I'm in perimenopause
- 12:19or not or maybe I am but sleep is just
- 12:21not working for me. What do you suggest
- 12:24they do do you suggest they right away
- 12:26go talk to a sleep specialist or can you
- 12:28start with your general practitioner or
- 12:30OBGYN where do you begin?
- 12:32>> I think any one of those. So anybody who
- 12:36has some idea about sleep is where you
- 12:39need to start and that's hard. Sometimes
- 12:41general practitioners don't know
- 12:43sometimes OBGYNs don't know and
- 12:46sometimes sleep clinicians they only
- 12:49focus on sleep apnea and that's it. So
- 12:52you know I jokingly say that I carry
- 12:54around a box of tissues when I see my
- 12:56patients because
- 12:58they've already been to see another
- 13:00sleep specialist most of them and
- 13:02they finally are getting some answers
- 13:04after like 7 to 10 years of not getting
- 13:07enough sleep but you know women do not
- 13:10present the same way that men do when it
- 13:13comes to sleep apnea and many many women
- 13:16they're not overweight they're doing all
- 13:19the right things and they have sleep
- 13:22apnea.
- 13:23>> Do you think there's a lot more people
- 13:24walking around with sleep apnea than we
- 13:26than they even know at this point.
- 13:28>> 100% so there in midlife up to 50% of
- 13:33women will have sleep apnea. Nine out of
- 13:3610, 90% of them do not know that they
- 13:39have it.
- 13:39>> How dangerous is sleep apnea?
- 13:42>> So it can be pretty dangerous. If you've
- 13:43got moderate or severe obstructive sleep
- 13:46apnea, you have up to a 25% increased
- 13:49risk of having a heart attack or a
- 13:50stroke.
- 13:51>> In your sleep?
- 13:52>> Uh just generally speaking, it increases
- 13:55your overall cardiovascular and
- 13:57neurocognitive risk. So brain health and
- 14:00heart health basically is at risk.
- 14:03>> Can you explain sleep apnea and what it
- 14:04is?
- 14:04>> Sure. So sleep apnea is really an oxygen
- 14:07deprivation state. So for the most part
- 14:11people will have obstructive sleep apnea
- 14:13and there's central sleep apnea but
- 14:15that's a whole different thing. So
- 14:17obstruction is happening at the back of
- 14:19the throat so the soft tissues collapse
- 14:21too much and then you have an oxygen
- 14:23deprivation state. So it's pretty
- 14:25technical when I interpret a sleep
- 14:27study.
- 14:28Uh you know, so many seconds you have to
- 14:31have below your baseline of oxygen
- 14:33level, you have to have respiratory
- 14:35depression, you may have an arousal.
- 14:37There's all of these components to a
- 14:39sleep study.
- 14:40But we then quantify all of that and if
- 14:43you have five or more abnormal breathing
- 14:45events an hour, that is sleep apnea.
- 14:49>> If 90% of the women that are in
- 14:50perimenopause or menopause have sleep
- 14:52apnea and don't don't really know it or
- 14:54don't know what's going on. If someone's
- 14:56listening right now, how can they
- 14:57decipher whether or not nah, I don't
- 15:00have great sleep or oh my gosh, I need
- 15:02to be really concerned that that's a
- 15:04possibility.
- 15:05>> Yeah, that's a great question and it's
- 15:06not easy because all of the screening
- 15:09tools are really gender biased. They are
- 15:12all focusing on men's symptoms more than
- 15:16women's symptoms. So there's one that I
- 15:19that's notorious for me at least is
- 15:21called the STOP-BANG And the G at the
- 15:23end of this screening tool stands for
- 15:26your gender. So, already
- 15:28>> STOP-BANG?
- 15:29>> STOP-BANG. So, already, if you are a
- 15:32woman, you don't get that point.
- 15:35And And so, and women do not have loud
- 15:38snoring, they don't have witnessed
- 15:40apneas, they typically will have
- 15:42insomnia.
- 15:44They kind of just have general they
- 15:47malaise, they don't feel well. They
- 15:49might have more migraine headaches, they
- 15:51might have more depression.
- 15:53That's the symptoms.
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- 17:07>> Migraines have been coming up a lot
- 17:09lately for for me, just in conversation,
- 17:12and a lot of women saying it's happening
- 17:14during this perimenopause and menopause
- 17:15stage, and I know it's one of the
- 17:17symptoms. Is it because of sleep apnea?
- 17:20>> You know, it's hard to say if it's only
- 17:22because of sleep apnea, but I I'm We do
- 17:25know that there's a hormonal component
- 17:27to migraine headaches. But, if you're
- 17:30having them and you've already kind of
- 17:32started on some sort of hormone therapy
- 17:34and you've you're continuing to have
- 17:37middle of the night awakenings, because
- 17:39starting on hormone therapy doesn't cure
- 17:41everybody's sleep.
- 17:42>> Mhm.
- 17:43>> They're still up to 50% of those women
- 17:46who will continue to have problems with
- 17:48sleep.
- 17:49>> All right. So, if somebody's listening
- 17:50and says like maybe that's me, what is
- 17:52the first step that a woman should do if
- 17:55she thinks she might have sleep apnea?
- 17:57>> Yeah.
- 17:58>> You know, start having a conversation
- 18:00with your doctor or your your provider.
- 18:02Really, that's the first step is start
- 18:05asking questions. Have a have a road
- 18:07map, because like I said, the awareness
- 18:10of sleep apnea or sleep disorders like
- 18:13restless leg syndrome, chronic insomnia,
- 18:15which I I feel as a as a complex medical
- 18:19condition.
- 18:20That's not at the at the forefront of
- 18:23your primary care provider's mind most
- 18:26of the time. So, go in there with, you
- 18:29know, a set a list of symptoms that
- 18:32you're having. Hey, I'm going to bed at
- 18:33this time, but I'm not falling asleep
- 18:35until this time. So, that's one of the
- 18:38questions I will ask. How many hours are
- 18:40you actually sleeping? Because you might
- 18:42be in bed for 9 hours, but you're only
- 18:45getting five
- 18:47>> And is that a signal that
- 18:48>> That's huge.
- 18:48>> Okay.
- 18:49>> A huge red red flag. If you're
- 18:51consistently waking up in the middle of
- 18:53the night, if you're waking up and you
- 18:55feel unrefreshed.
- 18:57So, some people will wake up and say, I
- 18:59feel worse
- 19:01>> Right? I'm more tired after I sleep.
- 19:03>> tired than I did when I was going to
- 19:06bed.
- 19:07>> But, all those are signs to you that you
- 19:09need to go and see somebody. And do you
- 19:11recommend a sleep specialist then right
- 19:12away?
- 19:13>> You know, for the most part I do because
- 19:15you have to tease out all the nuances.
- 19:18It's not that simple and a lot of women
- 19:21will have a home sleep study performed,
- 19:24but there's a pretty high rate
- 19:26anecdotally, at least in my experience,
- 19:28that women will have negative home sleep
- 19:31studies, but if you do a different type
- 19:34of sleep study, which is either in a
- 19:36sleep lab or what we call a type two
- 19:38home sleep study, you tend to catch more
- 19:42mild obstructive sleep apnea. And what
- 19:44we know about mild obstructive sleep
- 19:46apnea is that maybe the cardiovascular
- 19:48risk isn't there as it's not as
- 19:51prominent. However, if you're having
- 19:54trouble sleeping because you have mild
- 19:56obstructive sleep apnea, then that
- 19:58chronic sleep deprivation holds the same
- 20:01risk.
- 20:02>> I mean, when you go night after night
- 20:04and week after week, we've heard you 8
- 20:07hours is how you how long you should
- 20:08sleep, but how how long should be you be
- 20:10sleeping and how long should that be, I
- 20:13guess, deep sleep?
- 20:14>> Yeah. So, you know, the the American
- 20:17Academy of Sleep Medicine recommends 7
- 20:19to 9 hours of sleep. What I tell women
- 20:23and everybody is really focus on
- 20:26quality, not quantity, because if you're
- 20:29in bed for 10 hours, but the quality is
- 20:31poor,
- 20:32that's that's not helpful. What you want
- 20:34to focus on is the quality of sleep. So,
- 20:37I don't want people thinking, "Oh my
- 20:39gosh, I'm only getting 6 hours. I'm
- 20:41destined for dementia." Right? That's
- 20:44that's not what I want women to walk
- 20:46away with. I want people to know that
- 20:48there's
- 20:49always something you can do for your
- 20:51sleep and that every 15 minutes counts.
- 20:54>> You bring up dementia. Let's talk a
- 20:55little bit about that. Are those some of
- 20:57the things that you see if somebody's
- 20:59not sleeping or do you see that as
- 21:01something that could be a problematic
- 21:03down the line?
- 21:04>> So, the good news is that you could have
- 21:07trouble sleeping for decades, but if we
- 21:09can help you get higher quality sleep,
- 21:13then you're more likely than not able to
- 21:16to kind of
- 21:17not have to make you won't have there's
- 21:19no guarantee that oh my gosh, you're
- 21:21destined for a dementia. I really think
- 21:23that it's multifactorial. I think that
- 21:26women carry a huge mental load that is
- 21:29not really factored in quite yet. Then
- 21:32we have all of these hormonal changes.
- 21:35Then we may have a delayed diagnosis if
- 21:37we have obstructive sleep apnea or
- 21:39restless leg syndrome or treatment for
- 21:41chronic insomnia.
- 21:42>> Does a lack of sleep cause dementia? Is
- 21:44that one of the causes of it?
- 21:45>> Well, if you're chronically sleep
- 21:47deprived, then you're not able to get
- 21:49into all the right stages of sleep. You
- 21:50asked about the percentages and it's
- 21:53really about your total sleep time. So
- 21:56based on your total sleep time, you
- 21:58should have certain percentages of each
- 22:01stage of sleep. And fun fact, really
- 22:03your staying in stage two sleep. There's
- 22:06four stages of sleep
- 22:08the most time. So trackers I've got a
- 22:10tracker on.
- 22:12They're not all they're cracked up to be
- 22:14and there are way more advanced ways of
- 22:18identifying stages of sleep. These are
- 22:21surrogates and and they prime people. So
- 22:24I feel like a lot of people really worry
- 22:26about their stages of sleep when it it's
- 22:28really still just an estimate and we
- 22:30can't focus too much on this when it's
- 22:34not diagnostic.
- 22:36>> I guess it just makes me happy when it
- 22:37tells me to go to bed or start winding.
- 22:39Tamsin, you've got to start winding up
- 22:41for sleep. All right, I know you're big
- 22:43on solutions. So I want to talk about
- 22:45some of these solutions. When it comes
- 22:46to sleep, first let's talk about where
- 22:48hormone therapy fits in and what types
- 22:50of hormone therapy that we're talking
- 22:52about.
- 22:52>> So you know, first of all, if somebody
- 22:55is in perimenopause or menopause and
- 22:57they really are having a lot of trouble
- 23:00with sleep. That is one of the many
- 23:02symptoms around perimenopause or
- 23:05menopause. And it may be worthwhile if
- 23:08you meet criteria and it's not There's
- 23:10no contraindication to start on hormone
- 23:13therapy. Now, for a lot of women, it
- 23:16helps their sleep. Estrogen,
- 23:18progesterone Uh progesterone is really
- 23:21that hormone that helps us relax, get
- 23:24ready for sleep. Estrogen really helps
- 23:27with sustaining sleep.
- 23:28>> Okay.
- 23:29>> And then testosterone really helps with
- 23:31deep sleep.
- 23:32>> It's interesting though, most of the
- 23:33time if you ask you think progesterone
- 23:36is the magic pill, but it really is the
- 23:38estrogen and progesterone. And then
- 23:40you're saying also added testosterone.
- 23:42>> Yes, for some women.
- 23:43>> Okay.
- 23:43>> So So not everybody needs testosterone,
- 23:46but we're also not reaching for it as an
- 23:48option as often as we should. So for
- 23:52everyone, you really should start on
- 23:54estrogen and progesterone if you can.
- 23:56And then reassess. And then you may
- 23:58consider starting on testosterone. I
- 24:00have a lot of women who will say, "That
- 24:02was the missing link for me."
- 24:05>> Mhm.
- 24:05>> But then even after most women will
- 24:08start on that, there's still up to 50%
- 24:11of those women who will continue to have
- 24:13problems with sleep.
- 24:14>> I had to increase my dosage. It went up
- 24:16a bit by bit, but I'm at 200 mg right
- 24:19now, which I I'm like, "Oh my gosh, how
- 24:20much bigger can the pill be?" But But
- 24:22I'm sleeping most of the time.
- 24:24>> Yeah.
- 24:25>> Talk about the role alcohol plays
- 24:27because I think my life since 2020
- 24:31I [snorts] mean, 2018 I thought I was
- 24:32still kind of cool and I could have
- 24:34drinks before I go to bed or go out for
- 24:36margaritas. Then 2020, COVID hit. Then
- 24:402021 I was still kind of like, "Okay."
- 24:42And then 2023, 4, 5
- 24:45Mhm. Nothing.
- 24:46>> Mhm.
- 24:47>> A glass of wine
- 24:48>> Yeah.
- 24:48>> I can't go to sleep or I wake up. It's
- 24:50just It's really remarkably
- 24:52different for me. Is that perimenopause?
- 24:56Is that age? Is that
- 24:58What is it? But it really does impact
- 25:00sleep.
- 25:00>> It does, and I'm sad too
- 25:03>> [laughter]
- 25:03>> I'm sad with you. Maybe we just have a
- 25:06drink during the podcast and not wait
- 25:09until bed. I don't know. I don't know.
- 25:11I'll think about that.
- 25:12>> I mean, we have we change the way when
- 25:15we metabolize alcohol. So, we're just
- 25:17not as good at metabolizing it. And then
- 25:19it really affects your REM sleep.
- 25:21>> Okay. And what what stage is REM sleep?
- 25:24>> So, REM sleep is when you're dreaming.
- 25:26And you tend to have your dream sleep in
- 25:28the second half of your night. So,
- 25:30stereotypically, that is when a person
- 25:32starts to cycle through REM. And you
- 25:35know, textbook says that you should have
- 25:37three to four REM cycles and with each
- 25:39cycle it's supposed to get a little bit
- 25:40longer.
- 25:41>> Mhm.
- 25:42>> So, if alcohol is disrupting your REM
- 25:44sleep, then you really don't That's
- 25:46where you're doing all of your emotional
- 25:48processing, some memory consolidation.
- 25:51That's where the emotional regulation
- 25:53happens. So, you feel like crap when you
- 25:57wake up in the morning if you've had a
- 25:59little too much to drink. And you
- 26:01basically are just you feel like a
- 26:03zombie. And then when you go to bed the
- 26:06next night, typically your body does
- 26:08what we call REM rebound. So, it makes
- 26:11up for losing the night before. And it
- 26:15gives you more opportunity to capture
- 26:17REM sleep the next night.
- 26:19>> So, if you have a drink the second night
- 26:21you're better maybe? [laughter] I don't
- 26:23know. Is it Is it that you've had too
- 26:25much of I mean, I think even a glass of
- 26:27wine right now impacts me.
- 26:29>> Right, because we we do not metabolize
- 26:32it as well. And when we don't metabolize
- 26:34it as well, then it's half-life is right
- 26:36around the time if we drink it really
- 26:39close to bedtime, right around the time
- 26:41that you should be getting into REM
- 26:44sleep. So, that half-life. And And
- 26:47really what we're doing is we're just
- 26:48medicating ourselves to kind of pass
- 26:51ourselves out, but it really doesn't
- 26:53allow us to get into those stages of
- 26:55sleep that we need.
- 26:56>> So, if you're going to have a drink or a
- 26:58glass of wine,
- 26:59>> [laughter]
- 27:00>> Dr. Andrea, you know I'm trying.
- 27:02If you If you're Just know Should you do
- 27:04it over
- 27:05I don't know. Treat it like caffeine.
- 27:07What do you do? Do you do it earlier in
- 27:08the day?
- 27:09>> it you Everybody knows themselves. Like
- 27:12I I think if you can get away with one
- 27:15drink, great, but for most people they
- 27:17usually start to complain if they have
- 27:18two or more.
- 27:20If you know that it's even one drink,
- 27:22then you have it earlier during the day.
- 27:24I mean, there is this big business of
- 27:26mocktails nowadays, right?
- 27:29>> Still haven't found a non-alcoholic wine
- 27:31I like, but you know.
- 27:32>> Okay. All right. Well, we'll we'll work
- 27:33on it. My dad has something he used at
- 27:35over Thanksgiving and it's like um
- 27:38It's like a filter and he mixes it
- 27:40around in the drink. It's like it You
- 27:42know, it's like a little filter and it
- 27:43takes us the sulfites out of it, I
- 27:45guess, of the wines. I don't Is that
- 27:46helpful? Does that help the wine? I'm
- 27:48trying here for anybody who Anybody who
- 27:50is going to say, like, "Why didn't you
- 27:52ask this?"
- 27:52>> I mean, it's worth It's worth a try.
- 27:54>> Okay.
- 27:54>> Okay. It's worth a try. I actually saw
- 27:56that and it piqued my interest, so then
- 27:58I looked it up online and
- 28:00>> you some. He was so funny. We were We
- 28:02were at the table and everyone's like,
- 28:04"What is he doing?" And I go, "I don't
- 28:05know. My dad is like he's a trans- He's
- 28:07the king of Yeah, DIY hacks."
- 28:09>> [gasps]
- 28:10>> So, you created something called the
- 28:12DREAM method. And when I interviewed you
- 28:13back in October, we had an event
- 28:16together here in New York. We talked
- 28:18about it. And it's a method to help
- 28:20women understand why they're not
- 28:22sleeping so well and then what to
- 28:24[clears throat] do about it. So, can you
- 28:25walk us through the DREAM method that
- 28:26you have in terms of real life?
- 28:29>> Yeah, definitely. So,
- 28:31I developed the DREAM sleep method
- 28:32because
- 28:33women were coming to me saying, "Hey, I
- 28:35got told I didn't have sleep apnea, but
- 28:37I still can't sleep." And what I found
- 28:40is that there's so many different
- 28:42components to helping you get to sleep.
- 28:45And if we're only touching on one, we're
- 28:47only going to get halfway.
- 28:49>> Okay.
- 28:49>> So, the D stands for daily habits. What
- 28:52are we doing during the day that could
- 28:54be contributing to our inability to get
- 28:56to sleep or stay asleep? So, are we
- 28:58feeding ourselves correctly, you know,
- 29:00providing ourselves with the right
- 29:01nutrition, right hydration, down time,
- 29:04are we totally stressed out all day? So,
- 29:07all of those pieces actually play a role
- 29:09in getting ourselves to sleep. R is for
- 29:12your resting environment. So, I mean, if
- 29:15you've got a bad bed, you got to change
- 29:17it. If your pillow doesn't feel good,
- 29:19change it. If it's too hot, too cold,
- 29:22you know, you have to make your
- 29:23environment ideal.
- 29:25>> What's an ideal temperature to sleep in?
- 29:27This is for my husband, I'm just asking.
- 29:29>> Well, so, you know, it's different for
- 29:31everybody. I I I typically don't like to
- 29:34say, "Oh, it should be, you know, 65°
- 29:36or whatever." I tell folks because
- 29:39typically with partners, one is cold and
- 29:41one is hot.
- 29:42>> Yes.
- 29:42>> Right? So, then there's a whole market
- 29:44for beds beds and blankets to
- 29:47individualized temperature control.
- 29:49But, generally, you want your room dark,
- 29:51cool, and quiet.
- 29:52>> So, cool is
- 29:53>> Cool is better.
- 29:54>> What's cool?
- 29:55>> better.
- 29:5665.
- 29:57>> Oh, I love you. All right, I like that.
- 29:59Thank [laughter] you. I just wanted
- 30:00evidence of it to take back to Ira.
- 30:03Okay, what's the E stand for?
- 30:04>> So, the E stands for emotions. We all
- 30:06know that anxiety, depression can
- 30:09certainly rear its ugly head in the
- 30:11bedroom when you're not distracted by
- 30:13anything else. And we need to address
- 30:15those. Those are real issues and
- 30:17someone's ability to get to sleep.
- 30:19>> Mhm.
- 30:19>> And then the A is archetype. It's really
- 30:22it's my way of describing your circadian
- 30:25rhythm. Are you an early bird? Are you a
- 30:27night owl? Are you somewhere in between?
- 30:29Because if you don't know and you're
- 30:31fighting against your circadian rhythm,
- 30:33then that's going to be really difficult
- 30:35to get you into all of the right stages
- 30:37of sleep.
- 30:38>> Does that mean what time you go to bed
- 30:39and And time you wake up?
- 30:40>> Yeah. So, if you're an early bird,
- 30:42typically those folks they like to go to
- 30:45bed at 8:00, wake up at 4:00, go to bed
- 30:47at 9:00, wake up at 5:00. Someone who's
- 30:50a night owl, by definition, it's 12:00
- 30:52a.m. Waking up at 8:00.
- 30:54>> Oh, yeah.
- 30:54>> 1:00 a.m. Waking up at 9:00.
- 30:57>> Is there an ideal if you're not Well,
- 30:58like I worked a night shift and I worked
- 31:00an early morning shift, so I've kind of
- 31:01been all over the
- 31:03uh I've been all over the board with
- 31:04that. I did 2:00 in the morning, I did
- 31:062:00, you know, I did I've done all of
- 31:07it. Is there an ideal kind of, you know,
- 31:10wind it down that you think would be as
- 31:12good as getting up? I mean, do you have
- 31:14rules like that? I don't know.
- 31:15>> You know, I I think that if you can
- 31:18follow your circadian rhythm
- 31:20>> Yeah.
- 31:20>> because again, we have clock genes that
- 31:22we're born with. They're like eye color.
- 31:24We can't really change them. We can fake
- 31:26them out. We can
- 31:28we can adjust a person's circadian
- 31:31rhythm with melatonin.
- 31:32But
- 31:34you know, I I always cringe when I see
- 31:37uh one of the major papers talk about
- 31:39being an early bird because up to 20% of
- 31:42the population globally is a night owl.
- 31:45And there are
- 31:46>> Interesting.
- 31:46>> there are
- 31:47you know, different countries who work
- 31:49later. Like if you go to Spain and try
- 31:51to go to dinner at 7:00, they think
- 31:53you're silly.
- 31:54>> Yes.
- 31:54>> Right?
- 31:55So, I think if you can follow your
- 31:57natural circadian rhythm, you're better
- 31:59off.
- 31:59>> Okay.
- 32:00>> But, you know
- 32:01that you you do need to figure out what
- 32:03your what your circadian rhythm is.
- 32:05>> Your best time of going to sleep, your
- 32:06best time of waking up, and trying to be
- 32:08consistent.
- 32:09>> Right.
- 32:09>> Okay.
- 32:09>> Consistency. And then, yeah.
- 32:11>> What is the uh Keep going. What was the
- 32:13other one?
- 32:13>> Oh, M.
- 32:13>> Oh, M. Yeah, what's the M for?
- 32:15>> Yeah. So, that's medical conditions. So,
- 32:18perimenopause, menopause, sleep apnea,
- 32:20restless leg syndrome, any sort of
- 32:22neurological condition, any type of
- 32:25rheumatologic condition. So, you know,
- 32:27if you've got an autoimmune disorder,
- 32:29these are all things that can affect
- 32:30your sleep. And we need to be able to
- 32:34evaluate and figure out how it's
- 32:37affecting your sleep because if we
- 32:38ignore that, then again, we're only
- 32:40getting halfway.
- 32:41>> So, I think I had restless leg syndrome
- 32:44for a while, but I didn't have a word
- 32:45for it, but I found magnesium spray. Is
- 32:49that Am I just my father's daughter like
- 32:51finding solutions for things or is it or
- 32:54you know, restless leg syndrome is real?
- 32:56>> Restless leg syndrome is real. It can
- 32:58affect up to 30% of women in midlife.
- 33:01That's a lot of people and that has to
- 33:04do with our iron stores. And so, there's
- 33:07all this talk right now around iron
- 33:10stores in women and the changes that
- 33:13we're making in terms of the normal iron
- 33:16levels and that marker is ferritin. So,
- 33:19ferritin is
- 33:20what we call an acute phase reactant. It
- 33:22gets complex, but the point is that the
- 33:25normal ranges were really low and now
- 33:28there's all this new data coming out
- 33:30that they should be higher, but if you
- 33:31have restless leg syndrome,
- 33:33your ferritin level should be above 70
- 33:36and really closer to 100. That's huge.
- 33:39>> Does that mean your iron is low? Is that
- 33:41what that means?
- 33:42>> It means the iron stores are low. So,
- 33:44you might have a normal blood count, but
- 33:46your ferritin level is going to be low.
- 33:49>> I've never heard of ferritin level.
- 33:50>> Yeah.
- 33:50>> Where do you get tested for that? Is
- 33:52that
- 33:53>> just a blood draw.
- 33:54>> A blood draw? Okay.
- 33:55>> It you know, like you're getting your
- 33:57electrolytes, your kidney function, your
- 33:59blood count, you get a ferritin level.
- 34:02>> And then you can find out if that's
- 34:03what's going on and it could be causing
- 34:05that restless leg syndrome.
- 34:06>> Right. That's the first thing is to give
- 34:09somebody iron supplement. Okay. And then
- 34:12if that it you still have symptoms, then
- 34:15let's discuss prescription medications.
- 34:17>> Okay. Let's go to supplements because I
- 34:19think there's a lot of question about
- 34:20that. There's there are a lot of things
- 34:22out there and and I want to go through
- 34:24them and I know that you're a fan of
- 34:25certain supplements and have one. Um can
- 34:28you go into supplements and let's talk
- 34:29about that and what you think uh
- 34:31research says about supplements for
- 34:33sleep and I guess there's magnesium,
- 34:35there's my spray magnesium, there's
- 34:37melatonin. Can you talk a little bit
- 34:38about that?
- 34:39>> Yeah. So,
- 34:41supplements are really big market,
- 34:42there's no doubt about that. I tend to
- 34:45be pretty judicious around supplements.
- 34:48>> Okay.
- 34:48>> So, I try to use as little as possible
- 34:52because a lot of supplements out there
- 34:55are a combination of too many things in
- 34:58my mind and so then you don't know
- 35:00what's really working for you.
- 35:02>> And for the most part
- 35:04they don't they're not sleep aids. So,
- 35:08supplements are in my mind I define
- 35:12those as things that are already going
- 35:14to that are going to support the good
- 35:16sleep that you already have. They are
- 35:18not going to fill a hole. They're not
- 35:22going to cure something. So, a
- 35:25supplement for sleep is not going to fix
- 35:28chronic insomnia.
- 35:30A supplement's not going to fix sleep
- 35:32apnea.
- 35:34You know, when I talk about a supplement
- 35:36for restless legs syndrome, that's
- 35:37really iron replacement.
- 35:39>> So, what will a supplement do? Will it
- 35:41help you go into a deeper sleep?
- 35:43>> Well, it [snorts] just depends on what
- 35:44it is, right? There's a whole market,
- 35:46there's valerian, there's lemon balm,
- 35:48there's hops, there's melatonin, there's
- 35:51magnesium, there's L-theanine. They all
- 35:53have a specific mechanism of action, if
- 35:57you will, and so that's why I'm not a
- 35:58fan of things that have like 10 or 12
- 36:01things in them because you don't really
- 36:02know what's what's working and what's
- 36:05not working.
- 36:06>> Ideally, um I know melatonin confuses a
- 36:08lot of people, right? And then I I
- 36:10didn't even realize that there was a
- 36:12you know, level that you should be
- 36:13taking or not taking or how long. Can
- 36:15you explain melatonin?
- 36:16>> Sure. So, melatonin is made in the
- 36:18pineal gland of the brain. It does a lot
- 36:21of different things, but it's really our
- 36:23marker for starting the cascade of
- 36:25sleep. So, first and foremost, melatonin
- 36:29is a hormone.
- 36:31It is not a sleep aid. It is a clock
- 36:33starter. So, it starts the cascade of
- 36:37sleep. So, taking it right at bedtime is
- 36:41not typically recommended.
- 36:43And we really don't need a whole lot if
- 36:46we're going to use it for what I call
- 36:48circadian support. So, again, circadian
- 36:52is basically Circadian rhythm is the
- 36:56mechanism that allows you to get to
- 36:58sleep, stay asleep, get into the stages
- 37:01of sleep that you need to get into.
- 37:04What I didn't even learn in my
- 37:05fellowship is that we lose melatonin
- 37:07production as we age and that we lose up
- 37:10to 50% by age 50.
- 37:13>> So, should we be all taking melatonin?
- 37:15>> You know, there's no there's no
- 37:16published data that says absolutely.
- 37:18There's a few studies out there that say
- 37:20that taking melatonin isn't problematic
- 37:24for the replacement. There are studies
- 37:27out there that say long-term dose
- 37:28long-term use of melatonin is safe.
- 37:31There's actually studies out there that
- 37:32say that it may be cardioprotective
- 37:35because it it's it works against
- 37:37oxidative stress, free scavenger,
- 37:41free radicals.
- 37:43It supports immune system. I mean, it's
- 37:45a hormone.
- 37:45>> Yeah.
- 37:46>> So, in my mind, I think that we don't
- 37:49have enough data out there quite yet to
- 37:51say that everybody should be on it, but
- 37:53it just might be the next vitamin D.
- 37:56>> Mhm.
- 37:56>> And we just don't know enough about it
- 37:59like we do now about vitamin D. I
- 38:01remember when vitamin D came out and
- 38:02everybody said, "Wait, why do we have to
- 38:03take this? It's a hormone." One of the
- 38:06other pieces is that melatonin, if you
- 38:08take it long-term, you're not going to
- 38:10ruin the production in your body. So, a
- 38:13lot of people think, "Oh, if I take it
- 38:15for too long, then I'm going to stop
- 38:17producing my own melatonin." That has
- 38:20been debunked. So, lots of studies say
- 38:23that that is not true.
- 38:24>> Should you take the lowest amount?
- 38:25>> The lowest amount. So, you know, when
- 38:28we're and there's different reasons why
- 38:30we prescribe melatonin in a sleep
- 38:32medicine practice for our patients. So,
- 38:35if you're using it for jet lag, you take
- 38:38a a low dose.
- 38:40>> 1 mg?
- 38:41>> Wait, what do you take it for in jet
- 38:42lag?
- 38:43>> So, you want to adjust your circadian
- 38:45rhythm so that you you prevent having
- 38:47jet lag.
- 38:48>> Oh.
- 38:48>> So, typically every
- 38:51every hour of of of change that you're
- 38:55going into, so let's say seven, it might
- 38:57take you up to seven days. So, for every
- 39:00hour that you're shifting is a day that
- 39:04you have to recover. So, of course,
- 39:06there's a big business in adjusting your
- 39:08circadian rhythm. So, yeah.
- 39:11>> There's no quick fixes for sleep,
- 39:12though.
- 39:13>> No.
- 39:13>> [laughter]
- 39:13>> No. No. No. No.
- 39:15>> That's hard for people because when
- 39:16people they want to know like what can I
- 39:18do tonight?
- 39:19>> Yeah.
- 39:19>> Is there something if there's a a woman
- 39:22or a man listening that says, "What can
- 39:24I do tonight
- 39:25>> Yeah.
- 39:25>> to start figuring this out?"
- 39:27>> I know. It You're right. It's largely
- 39:29behavioral when we're thinking about
- 39:32insomnia, getting to sleep, staying
- 39:33asleep.
- 39:35So, the first thing that I tell folks
- 39:37all the time is you want to get to bed
- 39:39at the same time and you want to wake up
- 39:42at the same time. And a lot of people
- 39:44literally I'll get some side eyes, hard
- 39:47eye rolls like, "I already do that." And
- 39:49yes, but do you? Do you really do that?
- 39:53>> Mhm.
- 39:53>> Because if you start to to write down
- 39:55when you're getting into bed,
- 39:58people are surprised. It's it's the same
- 40:00thing My my analogy is is when you're
- 40:02trying to lose weight
- 40:04and you think, "I I I don't
- 40:06>> Oh, I ate perfectly today.
- 40:08>> [laughter]
- 40:08>> And then you start writing everything
- 40:09down and you realize, "Oh, yeah. I had a
- 40:12piece of pizza or [laughter]
- 40:14I had, you know, a cookie or, you know,
- 40:17all of those things count. So,
- 40:20trying to get to bed at the same time
- 40:22and waking up at the same time is
- 40:23really, really important. Our brains
- 40:25like routine.
- 40:27>> That's good to know. I mean, I think
- 40:28that it's really important. I I did that
- 40:31for a while and I'm trying to do it
- 40:32again. I think when I there's the time
- 40:34change, my body gets very confused. It's
- 40:37dark out, it's light out. It's so dark
- 40:39starting at like 4:30. I, you know, New
- 40:41York City. And so, you know, I feel I
- 40:43feel like I'm tired earlier.
- 40:45>> Yeah.
- 40:46>> Okay. So, we we covered that there's no
- 40:48quick fixes, but I do know that diet and
- 40:51exercise are always a part of
- 40:52everything. No matter what we do, we
- 40:53always kind of drill back and say you
- 40:55got to go to the root. How important are
- 40:57diet and exercise when it comes to your
- 40:58sleep?
- 40:59>> They're really important. So, there is
- 41:02lots of data out there that shows that
- 41:04exercise really helps people get to
- 41:06sleep, stay asleep, promotes deep sleep.
- 41:10So, you really want to move your body.
- 41:12It doesn't really matter what you're
- 41:13doing as long as you're increasing that
- 41:15heart rate, and you're giving yourself
- 41:18enough bursts of that increased heart
- 41:20rate throughout the day. So, again,
- 41:22there's studies that show that, you
- 41:24know, you don't have to go a whole hour
- 41:25at once. If all you can do is fit in 5
- 41:28minutes here, 10 minutes there, but
- 41:30you're increasing your heart rate,
- 41:32you're moving your body, that's going to
- 41:33be beneficial for sleep.
- 41:35Then the other piece is with nutrition
- 41:37and food intake. You really want to
- 41:40avoid eating a very heavy meal right
- 41:42before bed. That will affect your
- 41:44ability to get to sleep and and to stay
- 41:47asleep as well. So, you want to try to
- 41:50eat your heavy meal of the day a little
- 41:53bit earlier. So, you know, I usually
- 41:55tell people 3 hours is a good window.
- 41:58Like, try not to eat too late right
- 42:01before bed.
- 42:02>> And caffeine, I didn't mention caffeine
- 42:04cuz I was already upset about the
- 42:05alcohol part. What about caffeine?
- 42:07What's the What's the drop dead time?
- 42:09>> You know, you really shouldn't have any
- 42:10caffeine 6 hours before you go to bed.
- 42:13>> 6 hours? Because
- 42:15>> Because again it all has alerting and
- 42:18stimulating effects in the brain. And it
- 42:21has a half-life and it will keep your
- 42:24brain awake for about 30 The studies
- 42:27show that you're losing about 30 minutes
- 42:30of sleep if you drink caffeine too late.
- 42:32So when people say, "I can drink a whole
- 42:34cup of coffee and go right to bed." I
- 42:36usually tell them, "You're just proving
- 42:38to me that you're chronically sleep
- 42:39deprived."
- 42:41Because
- 42:42>> for a long time.
- 42:44>> this other
- 42:45chemical in the brain called adenosine.
- 42:47Adenosine is what builds up all day long
- 42:50and makes us sleepy. So it is fighting
- 42:53for that same receptor. So that's why
- 42:56when we wake up in the morning
- 42:58honestly we we probably should wait a
- 43:00couple of hours to drink our coffee
- 43:02because that's when
- 43:03>> You're killing me.
- 43:04>> adenosine [laughter] is is building up
- 43:06just a little bit.
- 43:07>> Right.
- 43:07>> But you know, it's also a ritual. Like I
- 43:10myself love having a cup of coffee.
- 43:12>> I'm going to just say Dr. Andrea does it
- 43:14and I'm allowed.
- 43:15Uh getting outside first thing in the
- 43:17morning. Do you think that's important?
- 43:18>> I do. I do think it's important and if
- 43:21it's dark where you're living and you're
- 43:24and you can't get sunlight, that's why
- 43:27it's important because sun is what fires
- 43:29off your circadian wake. So there's
- 43:32there's this whole homeostasis in the
- 43:34brain. When you wake up and the sun hits
- 43:38your eyes because we've got these nerve
- 43:40cells in the eye that connect directly
- 43:42to our wake center in the brain that
- 43:43fires off our wake cycle.
- 43:46That's that is hard when you're living
- 43:49somewhere and it's dark. So then I
- 43:51usually tell folks, "Use one of those
- 43:53bright lights."
- 43:54>> Mhm.
- 43:55>> And it's 10,000 lux. That's what all the
- 43:57studies were were done on. 10,000 lux is
- 44:00the intensity of the light that you
- 44:02should use.
- 44:03>> And so if you're turning that on,
- 44:05putting that on first thing in the
- 44:06morning.
- 44:06>> First thing first hour. If you do it too
- 44:08late, you're just going to move your
- 44:10bedtime later because that homeostasis
- 44:12is sleep pressure is really low and wake
- 44:16cycle is really high. And then they kind
- 44:18of crisscross over the day so that your
- 44:20sleep pressure is really high when you
- 44:22go to bed and your wake cycle, your
- 44:24circadian wake is really low when you go
- 44:27to bed.
- 44:27>> What about those hatch alarm clocks?
- 44:30>> [sighs and gasps]
- 44:30>> Yeah. There's a
- 44:32>> [laughter]
- 44:32>> People probably ask you about everything
- 44:34I know, right?
- 44:35>> I know, right? I mean, you know, so
- 44:36here's the thing. I think that it gets
- 44:40There's too many gadgets and and simple
- 44:43is better, right? So, if you need bright
- 44:47light, I have a I have a light for
- 44:48myself. I live in the Northwest and it's
- 44:50dark when I wake up and it's dark when
- 44:52I'm going home for the day.
- 44:54>> put it turn it on when you
- 44:56>> So, yeah, so I tell people like if
- 44:57you're looking at your computer screen,
- 44:59if it's off to the left or to the right
- 45:00of your computer screen, that's probably
- 45:02a good distance. Okay. So, it's about 12
- 45:04in away from your face. You don't want
- 45:06to look directly into it because it's
- 45:08very bright. So, it's off to the side
- 45:11and it's within the first hour of waking
- 45:13for, you know, anywhere between 10 and
- 45:1520 minutes.
- 45:16>> Okay.
- 45:17All right.
- 45:18Now, if there's anybody listening that
- 45:20feels very defeated about their sleep,
- 45:22what do you want them to know?
- 45:25>> One, it's not your fault.
- 45:27There are There's a lot of physiology at
- 45:29play here.
- 45:30>> Mhm.
- 45:31>> Two, there's always help. There's always
- 45:34something we can do. It's not always
- 45:36comfortable, but there are solutions.
- 45:39And three, 15 minutes, every 15 minutes
- 45:43counts because let's say you're only
- 45:44getting 5 hours of sleep and you do all
- 45:47the things and you say, "I'm only
- 45:48getting like 5 hours and 15 minutes."
- 45:50But, you multiply that by seven, by 30,
- 45:5431 days, 12 months, that's a lot more
- 45:57sleep.
- 45:57>> It's a lot more sleep. And when you're
- 45:59sleep deprived, you'll you'll take
- 46:00you'll take 15 minutes. It feels like
- 46:02gold.
- 46:03>> Is there one practical thing people who
- 46:06are listening can do tonight to at least
- 46:08get started in the process of getting a
- 46:10better night's sleep?
- 46:11>> Make sure that you've got a routine. So,
- 46:14again, one of my analogies is when we're
- 46:17hungry, we don't just open the
- 46:18refrigerator door and start shoveling
- 46:20food in our mouth.
- 46:21We owe it to ourselves to have a routine
- 46:24for sleep, whether or not that's I like
- 46:26to put on my favorite pajamas or not. I
- 46:29like to brush my teeth, wash my face. If
- 46:33you have some sort of spray that you
- 46:35love,
- 46:36uh you know, white noise machine, eye
- 46:38mask, ear plugs, whatever it takes,
- 46:41develop something and stick to it. I
- 46:43always tell parents we're so dedicated
- 46:46to our children's sleep cycle or if you
- 46:49don't have children, you always know
- 46:51somebody you know, that you're visiting
- 46:53with and is oh, we have to get, you
- 46:54know, our kid to bed. Well, we owe that
- 46:57to ourselves. Why do we lose that when
- 46:59we're adults?
- 47:00>> I don't know. It's a it's a whole
- 47:01learning curve.
- 47:02>> need it.
- 47:03>> We matter.
- 47:03>> Yeah.
- 47:05>> Dr. Andrea, thank you so much. It's It's
- 47:07so good to see you again. I I felt like
- 47:09the last time that we talked, I sat
- 47:10there and I went, "Wait a minute." I
- 47:12think we had 20 minutes and I could go
- 47:13on with you for, you know, hours and
- 47:15hours cuz I really do think if you're
- 47:17not getting a good night's sleep, what
- 47:19do you how are you even going to eat
- 47:20right or work out right or all the other
- 47:22things we talk about? So, I certainly
- 47:24appreciate it.
- 47:25>> Well, thanks for having me.
- 47:26>> Yeah, and thank you all for listening.
- 47:28If you have not left a review yet,
- 47:29please take a moment wherever you're
- 47:31listening from. It truly helps the
- 47:33podcast grow and I read every single one
- 47:35of your comments. You can find more from
- 47:38Dr. Andrea across her social media and
- 47:40her website and be sure to check the
- 47:42show notes for all the links. I'll see
- 47:44you for the next episode.
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