the rarest type of person. — Transcript

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1. 0:04Hello.
2. 0:05Who is the rarest type of person in the
3. 0:07world?
4. 0:09Well, it's someone whose happiness isn't
5. 0:11tied to material goods
6. 0:14because those things eventually fade.
7. 0:16But it's the way that they make other
8. 0:17people feel. And people remember how you
9. 0:20make them feel because those feelings
10. 0:22last forever.
11. 0:23You find joy not in the things people
12. 0:26give you, but seeing a smile on their
13. 0:28faces
14. 0:29because of you.
15. 0:31You give because you genuinely care
16. 0:32about the person and not because you
17. 0:34expect something in return. You notice
18. 0:36when someone needs help and [music]
19. 0:38without a second thought
20. 0:40and without waiting to be asked, you
21. 0:42make the effort to make the other person
22. 0:45feel supported.
23. 0:47Uh, even through the smallest of
24. 0:49gestures. You're humble and hardworking
25. 0:52and you know how to speak up for your
26. 0:54own needs. And you make the world a
27. 0:56better place.
28. 0:58You understand that
29. 1:00just by doing the right thing isn't
30. 1:02always the same as doing what everyone
31. 1:04expects of you.
32. 1:06Just because something is legal doesn't
33. 1:08always make it moral and just because
34. 1:10you can do something doesn't always mean
35. 1:12you should. But that's a separate topic
36. 1:14for another time.
37. 1:16You can also understand that being
38. 1:18selfless doesn't does not mean treating
39. 1:21yourself as worthless. You can be kind
40. 1:23without being a people [music] pleaser,
41. 1:26generous without giving everything you
42. 1:28have, and forgiving without allowing
43. 1:30someone to disrespect you repeatedly.
44. 1:34When someone hurts you, you're willing
45. 1:36to ask why
46. 1:37>> [music]
47. 1:37>> and try to understand their intentions,
48. 1:39but when the disrespect continues, you
49. 1:42know when it's time to walk away. You
50. 1:45understand
51. 1:46>> [music]
52. 1:46>> that you have a good heart without
53. 1:48allowing everyone to access it.
54. 1:50If you're this kind of person, remember
55. 1:53that
56. 1:54>> [music]
57. 1:54>> your kindness is a gift. And if you have
58. 1:57someone like this in your life, cherish
59. 2:00those people, appreciate them, and don't
60. 2:03turn their generosity into your
61. 2:05entitlement. [music]
62. 2:05And don't assume that just because
63. 2:08they're willing to give, you don't need
64. 2:11to give anything back in return.
65. 2:13Sometimes the people who do the most for
66. 2:15others are the ones who who need someone
67. 2:18to look out for them, too. A parting
68. 2:20note is that the most meaningful gifts
69. 2:23are not always the things you can hold
70. 2:25in your hands, but the feelings you
71. 2:27leave in someone else's heart.
72. 2:30Again, material things eventually fade,
73. 2:33but the way you make them feel can stay
74. 2:36with them
75. 2:37after the moment has passed. So, please
76. 2:40remember that.