The Psychology of Building a Personal Brand People Beg To Buy From — Transcript
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- 0:00If you want [music] to build a personal
- 0:01brand that gets millions of followers
- 0:03and makes you real money, you need to
- 0:05master the psychology of creating
- 0:07content. [music] Look, I'm a millionaire
- 0:08copywriter. I have directly coached
- 0:10personalities behind brands, [music] and
- 0:12I've learned that the top 1% of personal
- 0:15brands all follow a few key principles
- 0:18that make them impossible to ignore. So,
- 0:20[music] these are the six principles
- 0:21that'll help you build a personal brand
- 0:23so strong and stand out in any industry.
- 0:26First, we're starting with why most
- 0:28people stay invisible even when they say
- 0:31they want views. Their fear of being
- 0:34seen. Here's why most people stay broke
- 0:37with their personal brands. They're
- 0:39pretending they want to be visible while
- 0:42actively making up reasons to hide. They
- 0:45believe in stuff like, "I don't look
- 0:46right for the camera. The market's too
- 0:48crowded." Or as one subscriber recently
- 0:51said to me, "Joe, I don't have charisma,
- 0:54so I can't build a personal brand." But
- 0:56here's the thing, none of it is real.
- 0:58None of it matters because the most
- 0:59famous people don't think they're good
- 1:01enough either, but they do it anyway.
- 1:04For example, Beyoncé, she's told us she
- 1:06doesn't walk on stage as herself,
- 1:08[music]
- 1:08she becomes Sasha Fierce. Most people
- 1:11think that means she's naturally
- 1:12confident and you're not, but here's the
- 1:15truth. She created a character she could
- 1:17step into because performing as herself
- 1:20just felt too exposed. Seeing yourself
- 1:22as someone who doesn't possess the
- 1:24traits necessary to succeed is honestly
- 1:27just a comfortable lie that you are
- 1:28telling yourself. That's the fundamental
- 1:31attribution error at work. Explaining
- 1:33your struggles as permanent character
- 1:36traits instead of recognizing you just
- 1:38haven't practiced enough. Your brain is
- 1:40constantly weaving stories trying to
- 1:42make sense of everything, [music] but it
- 1:44is also lazy and prone to making
- 1:48terrible judgments. Like your
- 1:49grandmother looking at your career
- 1:51success and saying, [music]
- 1:52"Well, of course you're successful. You
- 1:54were able to read at an eighth grade
- 1:55level when you were four." What does
- 1:57early reading have to do with becoming a
- 1:58successful lawyer now? Nothing,
- 2:01actually, but her brain connected the
- 2:03dots. Find your version of Sasha Fierce.
- 2:06Create an alter ego that you step into
- 2:09when you're on camera or when you're on
- 2:11stage. I mean, it doesn't need a name. A
- 2:13name just gives you permission to show
- 2:15up a little bit differently. Then,
- 2:17[music] join communities where people
- 2:19are already visible. Listen to their
- 2:21stories. Let [music] your brain weave a
- 2:23new narrative where being seen is
- 2:26normal, it's not terrifying. That shift
- 2:29in the story breaks the hiding cycle.
- 2:31To uplevel your game, next up, number
- 2:34two, find your superpower. The mistake
- 2:36[music]
- 2:37that keeps personal brands generic is
- 2:39trying to be about everything instead of
- 2:41owning
- 2:42>> [music]
- 2:42>> one specific thing. Cody Sanchez didn't
- 2:45build a brand on investing, she built it
- 2:47by buying boring businesses to get rich
- 2:51the boring way. That's a red thread.
- 2:52That's a superpower. [music] But most
- 2:54people insist on trying to hit every
- 2:57person at once. [music] Now, as a
- 2:58result, they build a brand that doesn't
- 3:00have any cohesion. Worst of all, they
- 3:03build a brand that doesn't sell. Having
- 3:05a superpower is the only way to sell.
- 3:09Cody can [music] build coaching programs
- 3:11around that one concept, events around
- 3:14it, and even her book, Main Street
- 3:15Millionaire, around it. But remember, a
- 3:17superpower has to be something specific
- 3:20and unique. [music] A lot of people
- 3:21might have, you know, rags-to-riches
- 3:23story, that doesn't mean you can build
- 3:26personal brand
- 3:26>> [music]
- 3:27>> on that. This same idea applies to where
- 3:29you choose to show up online. So, great
- 3:31personal brands don't actually try to be
- 3:32everywhere. They choose one [music] or
- 3:35two channels and become unmissable
- 3:38there. If you're unclear about what
- 3:40you're doing on YouTube, but you know
- 3:42what you're doing on LinkedIn, focus on
- 3:44LinkedIn. When you know your value
- 3:46proposition for your message in a
- 3:48channel, you belong there and you can
- 3:50provide real value there. Now, the best
- 3:53framework to identify your superpower is
- 3:55[music] to basically position your
- 3:57spider bite, that is your method or your
- 4:00thinking. For example, your spider bite
- 4:02is how you got your superpower, like Ali
- 4:05Abdaal going from med student at Oxford
- 4:06[music]
- 4:07to productivity influencer. Your method
- 4:10is how you produce your work, like
- 4:12getting up at 3:00 a.m. every single
- 4:14day. Your thinking is your unique
- 4:16approach to [music] systems or
- 4:17frameworks. Then, name it. Dan Martell
- 4:20has the Martell Method. I have the Weeb
- 4:22Way. Give it a [music] name and people
- 4:24can finally refer to what you do
- 4:26specifically. That's when your personal
- 4:28brand becomes sticky and memorable. This
- 4:30brings us to principle three, build a
- 4:33tribe through shared language. Here's
- 4:35what everyone misses. People are so
- 4:37hungry for belonging that they will
- 4:39study your rituals to become more like
- 4:42you. I was at an Alex Hormozi event a
- 4:44couple years back, and there was this
- 4:46dude walking around that wasn't Alex
- 4:48Hormozi. He was walking around with a
- 4:50Breathe Right strip on his nose, and I
- 4:52was like, "Oh my gosh, you are
- 4:54completely costuming yourself like this
- 4:57person you look up to. Alex Hormozi is
- 4:59the template [music] for who you want to
- 5:01be, and now you're studying him to
- 5:03become more like him. Completely
- 5:05normal." And it's also not an isolated
- 5:07case. There was a study in 1987 study
- 5:10found tribes [music] form around what's
- 5:12basically a prototype leader. So, these
- 5:15are people who seem like ideal members
- 5:17of the group. The prototype is basically
- 5:18[music] a template for how everybody
- 5:21else should behave. That's why so many
- 5:23people have day in the life videos right
- 5:25now, to set the template. [music]
- 5:27So, if anyone follows this person and
- 5:28they want to be like them, have the
- 5:30success they have, now they know exactly
- 5:32what to do in the day. If you have a
- 5:33personal brand, you are the prototype.
- 5:36That means people are looking to you for
- 5:39how to behave like you,
- 5:40>> [music]
- 5:40>> what to value, and even how to structure
- 5:42their days. This is where shared
- 5:44language becomes really, really
- 5:46powerful. When you use specific terms
- 5:49like [music] stuck in the gap, you're
- 5:50creating ally signals. People who get it
- 5:53recognize [music] each other and feel
- 5:55part of something bigger than
- 5:56themselves. So, develop shared identity
- 5:59markers. Create specific language that
- 6:01your tribe [music]
- 6:03uses, like values they connect with,
- 6:05rituals you demonstrate that your
- 6:07followers can tap into, and then start
- 6:09doing those as well. Share your rituals,
- 6:11whether it's getting up at 3:00 a.m. or
- 6:139:00 a.m., or how you structure your
- 6:15work sessions. People are interested in
- 6:18being part of a tribe and having
- 6:19somebody they can follow. [music] And
- 6:21these details give them a really
- 6:23tangible template. Now, the next
- 6:26principle completely changed my content
- 6:29strategy, move from trade school to
- 6:32church. Gary Vaynerchuk was, in my
- 6:34opinion, slightly boring when he gave
- 6:36wine facts. I mean,
- 6:38who cared about Gary V and wine? But he
- 6:41became massive when he shifted to
- 6:43stories and parables about what he and
- 6:46his audience go through and how they
- 6:47think. Most people think how-to [music]
- 6:50content builds audiences, but here's the
- 6:51truth. People can get how-to content
- 6:54anywhere. What they can't get is help
- 6:56interpreting their world. That's the
- 6:58difference between trade schools and
- 7:00churches. Trade schools teach you how to
- 7:03do something, that's work. Churches
- 7:06teach you [music] how to think, that's
- 7:07transformation. You learn processes at
- 7:10trade school, you learn interpretation
- 7:12at church. Stories, parables,
- 7:14frameworks, not instruction manuals.
- 7:18This is why [music] the best way to make
- 7:19people follow you is to position
- 7:21yourself as basically a translator of
- 7:24hidden truths. So, Andrew Huberman does
- 7:27this brilliantly. He translates [music]
- 7:29what PhDs know into what everyone can
- 7:32know. He's taking the human brain and
- 7:34how our bodies work and making it
- 7:36accessible to us. When you help [music]
- 7:38people interpret their world, instead of
- 7:40just like teaching them processes,
- 7:41you're building something much deeper.
- 7:43You're not just giving them information,
- 7:45you're giving them a framework for
- 7:46understanding every single thing that
- 7:48they encounter. Now, if this is
- 7:49something you find [music] interesting,
- 7:51you might be a really great fit for
- 7:52Authority Figures, where creators and
- 7:54entrepreneurs become a top 1% authority
- 7:57in their category. [music] There's a
- 7:58link in the description. Finish watching
- 8:00this video and then check it out. Tell
- 8:02stories rather than sharing [music]
- 8:04facts. Stop doing how-to content
- 8:07exclusively. Yes, part of what you
- 8:09[music] offer might be, here's how to
- 8:11sit down and prepare appropriately, but
- 8:14a bigger part should be to help me
- 8:16understand and interpret this world.
- 8:17[music]
- 8:18Share failures as you go, too. People
- 8:21love stories of success, but [music]
- 8:24they also then love failure. There's
- 8:26this old saying, people like [music] to
- 8:28create kings not to worship them, but to
- 8:30watch them fall. So, share your
- 8:32struggles along the way, it makes you
- 8:35relatable and harder to knock down
- 8:37later. Now, on to principle number five,
- 8:39negativity gets clicks, but purpose gets
- 8:42cash. If you want to understand human
- 8:44motivation, you need to take a look at
- 8:46this study. It identifies six core
- 8:48motivation systems, seeking, fear, rage,
- 8:51care, play, and sadness. Cool, here's
- 8:54the twist. These motivators are not all
- 8:57equal. While negative feelings like
- 8:59fear, rage, and sadness can get people
- 9:02to click on all sorts of videos, when it
- 9:04comes to taking action, people are
- 9:06actually more likely [music] to open
- 9:08their wallets when they're in a positive
- 9:10state. That's why the best advertisers
- 9:12on media outlets that prioritize rage
- 9:14bait are selling $20 pillows and cheap
- 9:17things, [music] not expensive things.
- 9:19When your audience sits stewing
- 9:22>> [music]
- 9:22>> in a state of fear or rage, they don't
- 9:24want to buy. But when you inspire people
- 9:27to feel things like curiosity or
- 9:29playfulness, positive emotions, they
- 9:31invest more. So, the lesson here is to
- 9:33inspire people to feel something [music]
- 9:36good. We want to be able to reinforce
- 9:38our values, the values that we have in
- 9:41our messaging, in our personal [music]
- 9:42brand, to the point that it feels like
- 9:44you're basically tapping into a deeper
- 9:47purpose in your followers. When I work
- 9:49with brands, one of the early things
- 9:51that I do is ask who they're an advocate
- 9:53[music] for, and that can give the whole
- 9:55brand a deeper purpose. For example, if
- 9:58Wistia is an advocate for independent
- 10:00filmmakers or video content creators,
- 10:03then they're tapping into a much deeper
- 10:05purpose as a [music] brand. So, stop
- 10:07watering down your message. Say things
- 10:09that make people feel [music] something
- 10:12real. Reinforce your values until it
- 10:14feels like you're tapping into a deeper
- 10:16purpose. Ask yourself, "Who am I an
- 10:19advocate for?" And answer that clearly.
- 10:21[music] Your brand will gain a deeper
- 10:23purpose that goes beyond features,
- 10:26credentials, or results. You become
- 10:28someone worth following into the dark.
- 10:30And lastly, number six, packaging isn't
- 10:34just decoration.
- 10:35>> [music]
- 10:35>> It's actually clarity. Think about
- 10:37tomato soup. If you put tomato soup in a
- 10:40plain tin can with a yellow label in the
- 10:43no-name area of the store, you're
- 10:45dealing with a 59 cent product. If you
- 10:48put the same soup in a small cardboard
- 10:50box with like a French name on it, now
- 10:52it's a bisque. Put it in a mason jar
- 10:55with craft [music] paper and like a
- 10:56hand-drawn label of someone's grandma on
- 10:59the front, and now it's handcrafted
- 11:01tomato soup. Packaging is the signal of
- 11:03what to expect from a product, what it's
- 11:06worth, and it's an identifier. [music]
- 11:08So, every time I go back to the store, I
- 11:10don't even have to know the name
- 11:11necessarily. I can just say,
- 11:13>> [music]
- 11:13>> "Get the French tomato bisque. It's in
- 11:15this cardboard box. You'll see it.
- 11:16You'll know it." A lot of people think
- 11:18their personal brand packaging is just
- 11:20like, "Whatever. Whatever I wear.
- 11:22However I look." But it's not optional.
- 11:23You don't want to accidentally [music]
- 11:25find yourself thinking you're a bisque
- 11:28and ending up in a yellow-labeled 59
- 11:31cent can of tomato soup. This is about
- 11:34signal clarity. [music]
- 11:35Packaging helps people feel grounded,
- 11:38like they know and they trust [music]
- 11:40and they like you. It tells the audience
- 11:42what to expect from your product and
- 11:44what it's worth and how to bucket you,
- 11:46how to categorize you. Do I take you
- 11:48seriously or is this like a light and
- 11:50easy thing? That's determined by your
- 11:52packaging. [music] What do you wear? Do
- 11:54you wear glasses? What style? Have you
- 11:56been intentional about those? Do you
- 11:58have a distinctive hairstyle? Is there
- 12:00something about the industry you're in
- 12:02that you could really make your own? So,
- 12:05be intentional with your like physical
- 12:07identifiers. [music] Your style of
- 12:09glasses, your hair, a red blazer like I
- 12:12wear in videos, even something like a
- 12:14bright blue apron if [music] you're
- 12:15gardening. These signals help people
- 12:18recognize and trust you pretty
- 12:19instantly. And this becomes part of that
- 12:22[music] prototype template we talked
- 12:23about earlier. When people see your
- 12:25packaging, they could put that on and
- 12:28feel like you. It creates [music]
- 12:30belonging and recognition, and that's
- 12:32what separates memorable brands from
- 12:35forgettable ones. Now you know the six
- 12:37principles that separate personal brands
- 12:39that make money from personal brands
- 12:41that just [music] make noise. But none
- 12:43of them work unless you master the exact
- 12:45words that make people listen, trust
- 12:46you, and say yes. So, click the next
- 12:48video and I'll show you the five
- 12:50techniques the top 1% use to articulate
- 12:53their words with power, respect, and
- 12:55leverage.
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