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- 0:00Hey, hey, hey, English learners. Welcome
- 0:02back to the Daily English Podcast. Your
- 0:05favorite place to learn real English,
- 0:08easy English, everyday English, the kind
- 0:11of English you actually use in real
- 0:13life.
- 0:14>> Yes, welcome back everyone. We are so
- 0:17happy you are here with us today. This
- 0:19is the podcast where we talk like real
- 0:21people, share real stories, and help you
- 0:24feel comfortable and confident in
- 0:26English.
- 0:27>> I'm Cory.
- 0:28>> And I'm Oris.
- 0:29>> And together we are your two English
- 0:32friends. Not your teachers with a big
- 0:34stick, just your friends who really want
- 0:36to help you grow.
- 0:37>> Exactly. No boring grammar rules today,
- 0:40just real talk, real English, real life.
- 0:44>> So, Oris, how are you doing today? Did
- 0:46you sleep well?
- 0:47>> Actually, yes. I slept really well. I
- 0:51woke up, opened the window, and the sky
- 0:53was so blue. I just stood there for a
- 0:55minute and smiled.
- 0:57>> Aw, I love that. A simple morning smile.
- 1:01>> Yeah, and that made me think about
- 1:02today's topic.
- 1:04>> Ooh, tell us.
- 1:05>> Today we are talking about the power of
- 1:08positivity.
- 1:09>> I love this topic already.
- 1:11>> Yes, we are going to talk about how our
- 1:14thoughts, our small habits, and our
- 1:16daily choices can make our life feel
- 1:19lighter and brighter.
- 1:20>> And don't worry, we are not going to
- 1:22say, "Just be happy. It's easy." No, we
- 1:26know real life has hard days, too.
- 1:29>> Exactly. We are going to talk about
- 1:31real, practical positivity, not fake
- 1:33smiles, real tools you can use today.
- 1:37>> And of course, we will learn a lot of
- 1:39really useful English phrases and words
- 1:42along the way.
- 1:43>> Listen carefully, repeat when you can,
- 1:45and enjoy the conversation.
- 1:47>> And before we go any further, a small,
- 1:51small favor.
- 1:52>> Yes, if you enjoy this podcast, please
- 1:55click like, please subscribe to Daily
- 1:58English Podcast, and please share this
- 2:00episode with one friend who is learning
- 2:02English.
- 2:03>> Yes, send it to that friend who always
- 2:05says, "I want to learn English, but I
- 2:08don't know where to start." This episode
- 2:10is perfect for them.
- 2:11>> And stay with us until the end today. We
- 2:14have a special announcement, and you are
- 2:16not going to want to miss it.
- 2:17>> Yes, something we think is going to help
- 2:20your English learning so much. So, don't
- 2:22click away. The best part is coming at
- 2:25the end.
- 2:25>> Okay, are you ready?
- 2:27>> Let's go. So, Oris, let's start simple.
- 2:31When we say the power of positivity,
- 2:33what does that really mean?
- 2:35>> Good question. Let's start with the word
- 2:37positivity. P O S I T I V I T Y.
- 2:42Positivity.
- 2:44>> Positivity.
- 2:45Positivity means having a good, hopeful
- 2:48feeling about life. It doesn't mean
- 2:50everything is perfect. It means you
- 2:52choose to see the good side, even when
- 2:55things are hard.
- 2:56>> Say it with us, listeners. Positivity.
- 2:59>> And here's something important.
- 3:01Positivity is not outside you. It's not
- 3:04in your phone, not in your job, not in
- 3:07other people. It starts inside you.
- 3:10>> I really believe that, but I also want
- 3:12to be honest. I have days when my brain
- 3:15feels like a little cloud of rain.
- 3:18>> Same. My brain sometimes wakes up and
- 3:20says, "Good morning. Let's think about
- 3:22everything that's wrong today."
- 3:25>> Yes, that's such a real feeling. You
- 3:27open your eyes, and immediately your
- 3:30brain gives you a list of problems. The
- 3:32bill you have to pay, the message you
- 3:34didn't answer, the mistake from last
- 3:36week.
- 3:37>> That's a great time to learn a new
- 3:39phrase, dwell on something. D W E L L.
- 3:44Dwell.
- 3:45>> When you dwell on something, you keep
- 3:47thinking about it again and again. You
- 3:50stay there. You don't move on.
- 3:52>> For example, I try not to dwell on my
- 3:55mistakes. I just learn and move forward.
- 3:58>> Or, she dwelt on one bad comment and
- 4:02forgot all the nice things people said.
- 4:04>> Good example. And when we dwell on
- 4:07negative thoughts, we start to feel
- 4:09heavier and heavier, like we're carrying
- 4:12a big bag on our back.
- 4:14>> That actually happened to me last month.
- 4:16I woke up and nothing was really wrong,
- 4:19but my outlook was very negative.
- 4:21>> Outlook, that's another great word. O U
- 4:25T L O O K. Outlook.
- 4:28>> Your outlook is the way you look at
- 4:30life, your general view.
- 4:32>> Exactly. Same room, same coffee, same
- 4:35job, but my outlook was everything is
- 4:39difficult. I'm not doing enough.
- 4:41>> I know that voice.
- 4:43>> And I noticed something interesting. I
- 4:45wasn't just listening to that negative
- 4:47voice, I was feeding it.
- 4:49>> I picked up my phone and started reading
- 4:51sad news and negative comments.
- 4:54>> Like your mind is already a little sad,
- 4:57and then you give it more sad food.
- 4:59>> Yes, sad breakfast for the brain.
- 5:02>> So, what did you do?
- 5:04>> At first, nothing. I just stayed in bed
- 5:06and scrolled, and I felt worse and
- 5:09worse. Then I remembered something
- 5:10simple. I can't always change my mood
- 5:13right away, but I can change my next 5
- 5:16minutes.
- 5:17>> I love that. I can't change everything,
- 5:20but I can change my next 5 minutes.
- 5:23That's a powerful sentence for anyone
- 5:25listening today.
- 5:26>> So, I decided to short circuit the
- 5:28negative thoughts.
- 5:29>> Short circuit? That's usually for
- 5:32electricity, right?
- 5:33>> Yes, normally it's an electrical word,
- 5:36but here it means you interrupt a bad
- 5:38pattern. You stop the usual road your
- 5:41thoughts are taking.
- 5:42>> So, instead of letting your mind go
- 5:44deeper into a dark tunnel, you change
- 5:47direction.
- 5:48>> Exactly. I put my phone down, opened the
- 5:51window, and played one happy song. Just
- 5:54one song.
- 5:55>> That's such a small thing.
- 5:57>> It is small, but then I made a simple
- 5:59breakfast and went for a short walk. No
- 6:01big life change, just 10 minutes, but it
- 6:04felt like I pressed a little reset
- 6:06button in my head.
- 6:07>> Good job, Oris. That's a great example
- 6:10for our listeners.
- 6:11>> Thank you. And listeners, this works for
- 6:13you, too. Your problems don't disappear
- 6:15in 10 minutes, but your energy can
- 6:17change a little bit. That's enough to
- 6:20start.
- 6:20>> I really like this idea. It's like your
- 6:23mind is a garden.
- 6:25>> A garden? Tell me more.
- 6:27>> If you don't choose what to plant, weeds
- 6:29grow by themselves. Negative news, old
- 6:32worries, other people's drama, those are
- 6:35like wild weeds.
- 6:37>> But when you plant one small good seed,
- 6:39like gratitude or a kind thought, or a
- 6:42short walk, you are starting a different
- 6:44garden.
- 6:45>> Gratitude. Let's talk about that word. G
- 6:48R A T I T U D E. Gratitude.
- 6:54>> Gratitude means feeling thankful. You
- 6:56notice the good things in your life, big
- 6:58or small.
- 7:00>> For example, every morning I write one
- 7:02thing I feel gratitude for. Today, it
- 7:05was my warm cup of coffee.
- 7:07>> Or practicing gratitude helped me feel
- 7:10calmer during a stressful week.
- 7:12>> That's such a nice habit. And listeners,
- 7:15you don't need a big notebook or a
- 7:17perfect plan. Just one sentence a day
- 7:20works.
- 7:21>> Exactly. And this doesn't mean you must
- 7:23be positive all the time. That's
- 7:25impossible.
- 7:26>> Right. You are human. You can feel
- 7:29tired, you can feel sad, you can even
- 7:31cry. That's normal and it's okay.
- 7:34>> But even on a hard day, you still have a
- 7:36small switch inside you. You can ask
- 7:39yourself, "What is one small thing I can
- 7:42do right now that is kind to myself?
- 7:45>> Maybe that's opening a window and
- 7:47feeling the fresh air. Maybe it's making
- 7:49tea and taking three slow breaths.
- 7:52>> Or listening to a song that gives you
- 7:54hope, or writing one line, "Today I am
- 7:58grateful for and just finishing that
- 8:00sentence."
- 8:01>> You don't change your whole life in that
- 8:03moment. You just change the direction of
- 8:06your thoughts.
- 8:07>> And when you repeat that day after day,
- 8:09your brain slowly learns a new habit, a
- 8:12happiness habit.
- 8:13>> A happiness habit. I love that phrase.
- 8:16>> So, our first big idea today, positivity
- 8:20is not only about what happens to you. A
- 8:23big part is how you respond, and you can
- 8:25build that one small seed at a time.
- 8:29>> Okay, so we talked about small seeds of
- 8:32happiness inside us, but let's be real.
- 8:35Sometimes our thoughts get stuck in
- 8:37worry. Let's talk about that.
- 8:39>> Yes, let's talk about when your brain
- 8:41just won't stop worrying and what you
- 8:44can actually do about it.
- 8:45>> I had a whole season like that. Every
- 8:48night my brain was busy with what if
- 8:51thoughts.
- 8:52>> What if I lose my job? What if I make a
- 8:54mistake? What if people don't like me?
- 8:57>> Exactly. I was trying to sleep, but my
- 9:00mind was wide awake, running in circles.
- 9:03>> And the funny thing is, most of the
- 9:05things we worry about are things we
- 9:07can't actually control.
- 9:09>> So true. My brain loves to worry about
- 9:12the weather, the news, and strangers on
- 9:14the internet.
- 9:16>> The full package.
- 9:18One night I was lying in bed and I
- 9:20thought, "I feel like I'm trying to
- 9:22control the whole world from my pillow."
- 9:25>> [laughter]
- 9:26>> That's such a good picture. You were
- 9:28spiraling a little.
- 9:29>> Spiraling. Let's explain that word. When
- 9:32your thoughts are spiraling, a small
- 9:35worry becomes bigger and bigger in your
- 9:37mind. Your thoughts go down like a
- 9:39spiral staircase and you feel worse and
- 9:42worse.
- 9:43>> For example, I read one scary headline
- 9:47and then my mind started spiraling about
- 9:49everything that could go wrong.
- 9:51>> Or when I'm tired, my thinking can
- 9:54spiral very fast into negative stories.
- 9:57>> I think a lot of our listeners know that
- 9:59feeling.
- 10:00>> So I tried something simple. I took a
- 10:03notebook and drew two circles.
- 10:05>> Two circles. Tell us more.
- 10:07>> In the first circle, I wrote things I
- 10:10can control. In the second circle,
- 10:12things I can't control.
- 10:14>> Nice and clear.
- 10:16>> So can control was things like what I
- 10:20eat, how many hours I sleep, if I put my
- 10:22phone away before bed, what message I
- 10:25send to a friend.
- 10:26>> And can't control, the past, other
- 10:30people's opinions, the news, the
- 10:33weather, other people's choices.
- 10:36>> When you see it written on paper, it
- 10:38becomes so much clearer.
- 10:40>> I bet. What did you notice?
- 10:42>> I noticed that 90% of my worry was in
- 10:45the can't control circle. My brain was
- 10:48working really hard, but it wasn't
- 10:50actually helping me.
- 10:51>> That's like trying to keep your head
- 10:53above water in a sea that doesn't even
- 10:55belong to you.
- 10:57>> Keep your head above water. That's a
- 10:58great phrase. It means you're just
- 11:00trying to survive a hard moment, not
- 11:03relaxed, not happy, just trying not to
- 11:06sink.
- 11:07>> For example, with work and family, she's
- 11:10just trying to keep her head above water
- 11:12this month.
- 11:13>> Or when money's tight, people often feel
- 11:16like they're only keeping their head
- 11:17above water.
- 11:18>> Good examples. So Oris, what did you do
- 11:21after you saw those two circles?
- 11:24>> I made a simple rule for myself. If
- 11:26something is in the can't control
- 11:28circle, I'm allowed to notice it, but
- 11:31I'm not allowed to stay there for an
- 11:33hour.
- 11:33>> I love that rule.
- 11:35>> Instead, I choose one small thing from
- 11:38the can control circle and I do it.
- 11:40Drink some water, send one honest
- 11:43message, go for a walk, breathe slowly.
- 11:46>> It's like moving your brain from a noisy
- 11:48street into a quiet park.
- 11:51>> Exactly. And for me, that quiet park is
- 11:53sometimes just sitting quietly, closing
- 11:56my eyes, and imagining a peaceful beach.
- 11:59The sound of the waves, warm sand,
- 12:02sunshine on my face.
- 12:04>> That sounds so relaxing already.
- 12:07>> I breathe slowly and tell myself, "Right
- 12:09now, I don't have to fix my whole life.
- 12:12I only have to breathe."
- 12:14>> That's beautiful. So, our second big
- 12:17idea, your brain gets tired when it
- 12:20worries about things you can't control.
- 12:22But when you focus on one small thing
- 12:25you can control, your mind can finally
- 12:28rest a little.
- 12:29>> And that small rest, that small calm
- 12:32moment, that's also positivity. It's
- 12:35quiet, but it's powerful.
- 12:37>> Good job, Oris. That's such a helpful
- 12:39tool for our listeners.
- 12:41>> Okay, now let's talk about the words we
- 12:43say to ourselves, self-talk.
- 12:46>> Self-talk means the conversation you
- 12:48have inside your own head, the things
- 12:51you tell yourself all day.
- 12:53>> For example, my self-talk this morning
- 12:55was, "You can do this, one step at a
- 12:57time."
- 12:58>> I think many of us don't even notice our
- 13:01self-talk. It just runs in the
- 13:03background like music we forgot we
- 13:05turned on.
- 13:06>> And often that background music is
- 13:08harsh. "You're so slow. You always mess
- 13:11things up."
- 13:12>> I catch myself doing that sometimes, and
- 13:15I have to stop and ask, "Would I ever
- 13:17say this to a friend?"
- 13:19>> Usually the answer is no. We'd never
- 13:22talk to a friend the way we sometimes
- 13:24talk to ourselves.
- 13:25>> So, try being your own friend. If your
- 13:28friend made a small mistake, you'd
- 13:30probably say, "It's okay. Everyone makes
- 13:33mistakes. Let's fix it together."
- 13:35>> I tried this last week. I made a small
- 13:38mistake at work, and instead of "You're
- 13:40so careless", I said, "It's okay. I'll
- 13:43fix it and learn."
- 13:45>> How did that feel?
- 13:46>> Lighter. I still fixed my mistake, but I
- 13:49didn't carry extra shame with me all
- 13:51day.
- 13:52>> Shame. A heavy feeling that you are bad
- 13:55or wrong deep inside. For example, try
- 13:59not to add shame on top of a simple
- 14:01mistake. A mistake is just information,
- 14:05not a judgment of who you are.
- 14:07>> That's such an important point. Okay,
- 14:09one more simple tool. Reframe.
- 14:13>> To reframe means to look at a situation
- 14:15in a new, more helpful way. Same facts,
- 14:19different picture.
- 14:20>> For example, instead of "I failed this
- 14:22test", reframe it as "I learned exactly
- 14:26what to study next time."
- 14:28>> Reframing doesn't mean lying to
- 14:30yourself. It means choosing the fairest,
- 14:33most helpful way to see things.
- 14:35>> Good example. Try this today. Take one
- 14:38small worry and reframe it into a kinder
- 14:41sentence.
- 14:42>> Now, let's talk about something that
- 14:44scares a lot of people, comparing
- 14:47themselves to others.
- 14:48>> Oh, this is a big one, comparing. C O M
- 14:52P A R I N G.
- 14:54>> When you compare, you look at another
- 14:56person and measure yourself against
- 14:58them. They have this, I don't. They look
- 15:02happier, I don't.
- 15:04>> And social media makes this so much
- 15:06worse. You open an app and you see
- 15:08beautiful photos, perfect vacations,
- 15:10perfect smiles.
- 15:12>> But here's the truth. What people show
- 15:15online is only their highlight reel.
- 15:17>> Highlight reel, that's such a useful
- 15:19phrase. In sports, a highlight reel is a
- 15:22short video of only the best moments.
- 15:25Nobody shows the boring parts or the
- 15:27mistakes.
- 15:28>> So, when you see someone's perfect
- 15:30vacation photo, you don't see the flight
- 15:33delay, the small argument, or the rainy
- 15:35afternoon.
- 15:36>> You only see the best 5 seconds.
- 15:39>> There's a nice idiom for this. The grass
- 15:41isn't always greener.
- 15:43>> The grass isn't always greener. This
- 15:45means other people's lives look better
- 15:47from the outside, but you don't see
- 15:49their real problems.
- 15:51>> For example, she wanted her friend's
- 15:53life, but later she realized the grass
- 15:56wasn't always greener.
- 15:58>> Or social media can make you forget that
- 16:00the grass isn't always greener on the
- 16:02other side.
- 16:03>> I think almost everyone has felt this at
- 16:05some point.
- 16:06>> Definitely. I remember scrolling one
- 16:09evening and feeling like everyone else
- 16:11was doing better than me. Traveling,
- 16:13buying houses, starting businesses.
- 16:16>> That's the classic everyone is doing
- 16:18better than me feeling.
- 16:20>> Exactly. But then I asked myself a
- 16:22simple question. Am I comparing my whole
- 16:25life to someone's highlight reel?
- 16:27>> And the answer was probably yes.
- 16:30>> Yes. And once I saw that clearly, it
- 16:32helped. I started using a new rule.
- 16:35Compare yourself to who you were
- 16:37yesterday, not to who someone else is
- 16:39today.
- 16:41>> Say that again. It's so good.
- 16:43>> Compare yourself to who you were
- 16:45yesterday, not to who someone else is
- 16:47today.
- 16:48>> That's such a healthy way to measure
- 16:50progress. Are you a little better than
- 16:52last week? A little calmer than last
- 16:55month? That's what really matters.
- 16:57>> And for our English learners listening
- 16:59right now, please don't compare your
- 17:00English to a native speaker. Compare
- 17:03yourself to yourself 3 months ago.
- 17:05>> Can you understand more now? Can you say
- 17:07sentences you couldn't say before?
- 17:10>> If yes, that's real progress. Good job
- 17:13everyone listening. You're improving
- 17:15already, even if you don't feel it every
- 17:17day.
- 17:17>> I really believe that. So, our next
- 17:20idea, protect your energy from
- 17:22comparison. Water your own garden
- 17:25instead of watching someone else's.
- 17:27>> Okay, let's talk about small daily
- 17:29habits now, because positivity isn't
- 17:31just a feeling, it's also a set of small
- 17:34actions.
- 17:35>> Yes, let's talk about morning routines.
- 17:38A morning routine is the set of small
- 17:40things you do every morning before your
- 17:42day really starts.
- 17:44>> For example, my morning routine is
- 17:46simple. I drink water, stretch, and
- 17:48write one line in my journal.
- 17:50>> My quick breakfast is a banana and a
- 17:53glass of water. Simple, but it works.
- 17:56>> My morning routine is a short walk with
- 17:58music, then coffee.
- 18:00>> It doesn't have to be complicated. Small
- 18:03repeated actions build up over time.
- 18:05>> There's a nice phrase for that. Small
- 18:07steps add up. When small things add up,
- 18:11they slowly become something big over
- 18:13time.
- 18:14>> For example, 10 minutes of reading every
- 18:17day adds up to many books in a year.
- 18:19>> Or drinking more water each day might
- 18:22feel small, but it adds up to better
- 18:24energy.
- 18:25>> And here's another helpful word,
- 18:27consistency.
- 18:28It means doing something regularly, not
- 18:31just once.
- 18:32>> For example, consistency matters more
- 18:35than perfection. 10 minutes of English
- 18:37every day is better than 2 hours once a
- 18:40month.
- 18:41>> So listeners, think about your own
- 18:43morning. Is there one small habit you
- 18:46could add? Just one.
- 18:48>> Maybe it's opening a window, writing one
- 18:50grateful sentence, or a short walk.
- 18:53>> Whatever it is, start small. You don't
- 18:55need a perfect plan, just one on a step.
- 18:59>> Good job if you're already thinking
- 19:00about your own small step right now.
- 19:02>> Now, let's be honest with our listeners.
- 19:05Sometimes, even with good habits, life
- 19:08still hurts.
- 19:09>> Things go wrong, plans break, people
- 19:12disappoint us.
- 19:13>> Yes, and that's where real positivity is
- 19:16tested. Not when everything is easy, but
- 19:18when things are hard.
- 19:20>> I remember a season a few years ago when
- 19:22I felt very stuck. Work was hard and I
- 19:25didn't know what I wanted next.
- 19:27>> Stuck? Tell us more.
- 19:29>> I felt like I was in a rut. Stuck in a
- 19:31rut means doing the same thing again and
- 19:34again, feeling bored or trapped without
- 19:36a way forward.
- 19:38>> For example, he felt stuck in a rut at
- 19:40his job doing the same tasks every
- 19:43single day.
- 19:44>> Or I knew I was stuck in a rut when
- 19:46every day felt exactly the same as the
- 19:48day before.
- 19:49>> I know that feeling well. So, what
- 19:52helped you move forward?
- 19:53>> Honestly, small goals. I took a piece of
- 19:56paper and wrote three very simple goals.
- 19:59One for my health, one for my work, and
- 20:01one for my heart.
- 20:03>> I like this already.
- 20:04>> Health goal, walk for 20 minutes after
- 20:06dinner. Work goal, spend 20 minutes
- 20:09learning something new. Heart goal, send
- 20:12one kind message to someone I care about
- 20:14every day.
- 20:15>> That's so simple, but so clear.
- 20:17>> Exactly. And when I looked at that
- 20:19paper, I felt lighter because now my
- 20:22brain had a direction.
- 20:24>> It's like driving at night in heavy fog.
- 20:26Without headlights, you feel lost, but
- 20:29small goals are like turning on your
- 20:30headlights. You still can't see the
- 20:32whole road, but you can see the next few
- 20:35meters and that's enough to move
- 20:36forward.
- 20:37>> I love that picture. So, after some
- 20:39weeks, what changed?
- 20:41>> My walks helped my mood. My 20 minutes
- 20:43of learning helped my confidence. My
- 20:45small messages helped my relationships.
- 20:48>> So, your life didn't magically become
- 20:50perfect.
- 20:51>> No, but I started to bounce back.
- 20:54>> Bounce back, great phrase. It means to
- 20:56recover slowly after something
- 20:58difficult, like a ball that hits the
- 21:00ground and comes back up.
- 21:02>> For example, it took time, but he
- 21:04bounced back after a difficult year at
- 21:06work.
- 21:07>> Or you can bounce back from mistakes in
- 21:09English if you keep practicing every
- 21:11day.
- 21:12>> I really believe that, especially for
- 21:14our English learners. Every mistake is
- 21:16just one small bounce on the way back
- 21:19up.
- 21:19>> Good job, everyone. Keep bouncing back.
- 21:22That's real progress.
- 21:23>> And sometimes life gives us real pain,
- 21:26not just stress. Breakups, loss,
- 21:29disappointment.
- 21:30>> Yes, and positivity doesn't mean
- 21:32ignoring that pain. It means learning to
- 21:35carry it and still move forward.
- 21:37>> I think there's a nice picture here.
- 21:39Pain is like a heavy backpack. You do
- 21:42have to carry it for a while.
- 21:44>> But you don't have to sit down on the
- 21:45floor and stop your whole life because
- 21:48of it.
- 21:48>> Exactly. You can walk slowly with it and
- 21:51with time it becomes a little lighter.
- 21:54>> There's a helpful phrase for this. Work
- 21:56through something.
- 21:57>> Work through. It means slowly deal with
- 22:00a difficult feeling or problem
- 22:02step-by-step. You don't run away from
- 22:04it, you process it.
- 22:06>> For example, she needed time to work
- 22:08through her fear of speaking English in
- 22:10public.
- 22:11>> Or it can take months to work through
- 22:13heartache, but small actions really
- 22:15help.
- 22:16>> I like this because it's honest. It
- 22:18doesn't say just be happy. It says keep
- 22:21working through it one small step at a
- 22:23time.
- 22:24>> And that, listeners, is also positivity,
- 22:26not fake smiles, quiet courage.
- 22:29>> Quiet courage. I love that phrase.
- 22:31>> So remember, if you're going through
- 22:33something painful right now, it's okay
- 22:36to feel sad. It's okay to cry. Just try
- 22:39not to live inside the pain for every
- 22:42hour of every day.
- 22:43>> Take one small step, a short walk, a
- 22:46message to a friend, a cup of tea.
- 22:48That's enough for today.
- 22:50>> Before we move to the word tour, let's
- 22:52talk about one more thing, the people
- 22:54around us.
- 22:55>> Oh, this is important. The people we
- 22:57spend time with really shape our mood.
- 23:00>> There's a nice word for this, influence.
- 23:03I N F L U E N C E. When something has
- 23:08influence, it affects you. It shapes the
- 23:10way you think and feel.
- 23:12>> For example, spending time with positive
- 23:14friends has a good influence on my mood.
- 23:17>> Or try to notice the influence certain
- 23:20people have on your energy.
- 23:22>> I had a friend once who always talked
- 23:24about problems. Every conversation was
- 23:26about what was wrong.
- 23:28>> That sounds tiring.
- 23:30>> It was. I tried to help, I listened, but
- 23:32nothing changed. Every talk I felt heavy
- 23:36and tired.
- 23:37>> There's a phrase for that, bring you
- 23:39down.
- 23:40>> Bring you down. When someone brings you
- 23:42down, they make you feel worse about
- 23:44yourself or just drain your energy.
- 23:46>> For example, I stopped spending so much
- 23:49time with people who bring me down.
- 23:51>> And the opposite phrase is lift you up.
- 23:54When someone lifts you up, you feel
- 23:56better, lighter, and more hopeful after
- 23:58talking to them.
- 23:59>> For example, surround yourself with
- 24:01people who lift you up, not people who
- 24:03bring you down.
- 24:04>> Surround, S U R R O U N D. When you
- 24:08surround yourself with something, it is
- 24:11all around you, close to your daily
- 24:13life.
- 24:13>> You don't need to remove everyone who is
- 24:15struggling, that's not kind, but notice
- 24:18the balance in your life.
- 24:20>> If every conversation drains you, notice
- 24:23that. And if you have one person who
- 24:25lifts you up, treasure that friendship.
- 24:27>> Treasure, T R E A S U R E. To treasure
- 24:32something means to value it deeply, to
- 24:35take good care of it because it matters
- 24:37so much to you.
- 24:39>> For example, I treasure my morning phone
- 24:41call with my sister.
- 24:42>> And for our English learners, this
- 24:44matters, too. If you can find even one
- 24:47study partner, that small connection can
- 24:50make a huge difference.
- 24:51>> Someone who celebrates your small wins
- 24:53with you.
- 24:54>> Win, a win is a success, even a small
- 24:58one, and every small win truly matters.
- 25:02>> So, listeners, think for a moment. Who
- 25:05are the people who lift you up? Maybe
- 25:07send them a quick kind message today.
- 25:09>> That small message is never a waste of
- 25:12time. It's an investment in your own
- 25:15positivity and in someone else's day,
- 25:17too.
- 25:18>> Okay, Corey. I think it's time for our
- 25:20word tour. Let's review everything we
- 25:22learned today.
- 25:23>> Yes, word tour time. We'll go through
- 25:26the words and phrases one more time,
- 25:28nice and clear.
- 25:29>> First, positivity, a good, hopeful
- 25:33feeling about life, even when things are
- 25:35hard.
- 25:35>> Practicing positivity every morning
- 25:38helps me start my day with more energy.
- 25:40>> Next, dwell on, to keep thinking about
- 25:43the same thing again and again, usually
- 25:46something negative.
- 25:47>> Try not to dwell on one small mistake
- 25:49all day.
- 25:50>> Next, outlook, the way you look at life,
- 25:53your general view.
- 25:55>> Her outlook became more positive after
- 25:57she started her new morning routine.
- 25:59>> Next, gratitude, feeling thankful for
- 26:02the good things in your life, big or
- 26:04small.
- 26:05>> Writing one line of gratitude every day
- 26:08changed how I see my whole week.
- 26:10>> Next, spiraling, when a small worry
- 26:13becomes bigger and bigger in your mind.
- 26:16>> I saw one scary headline and my thoughts
- 26:18started spiraling.
- 26:20>> Next, keep your head above water, just
- 26:23managing to survive a difficult time.
- 26:26>> With two jobs and a new baby, she's just
- 26:29trying to keep her head above water.
- 26:31>> Next, self-talk, the conversation you
- 26:34have inside your own head.
- 26:36>> My self-talk this morning was kind and
- 26:38encouraging.
- 26:39>> Next, we frame, to look at a situation
- 26:43in a new, more helpful way.
- 26:45>> Instead of saying, "I failed," I
- 26:47reframed it as, "I learned something
- 26:50important."
- 26:51>> Next, highlight reel, only the best
- 26:53moments, not the full real picture.
- 26:56>> Don't compare your normal Tuesday to
- 26:58someone else's highlight reel.
- 27:00>> Next, the grass isn't always greener.
- 27:03Other people's lives look better from
- 27:05the outside, but you don't see their
- 27:07real problems.
- 27:08>> She wanted her friend's life, but the
- 27:10grass isn't always greener.
- 27:12>> Next, stuck in a rut. Doing the same
- 27:15thing again and again, feeling bored or
- 27:18trapped.
- 27:19>> He felt stuck in a rut until he made
- 27:21three small goals.
- 27:23>> Next, bounce back. To recover slowly
- 27:26after something difficult.
- 27:28>> It took time, but she bounced back
- 27:30stronger than before.
- 27:32>> Next, bring you down and lift you up.
- 27:35People who make you feel worse or people
- 27:37who make you feel better.
- 27:38>> Try to surround yourself with people who
- 27:40lift you up, not people who bring you
- 27:42down.
- 27:43>> And last, work through. To slowly deal
- 27:46with a difficult feeling step by step
- 27:49without running away.
- 27:50>> He is still working through a hard year,
- 27:53but small steps are helping.
- 27:55>> Great list. If you caught most of those,
- 27:57good job. And if not, no problem at all.
- 28:00Listen again and you'll catch more of
- 28:02the second time.
- 28:03>> That's how real learning works. Listen,
- 28:05discuss, listen again. Each time your
- 28:08brain catches a little more.
- 28:10>> Okay, let's do a quick recap of today's
- 28:13main ideas before we go.
- 28:14>> Yes. First, positivity starts inside you
- 28:18with small seeds like gratitude and kind
- 28:21self-talk.
- 28:22>> Second, your brain gets tired worrying
- 28:24about things you can't control. Focus on
- 28:27the small things you can control
- 28:29instead.
- 28:30>> Third, protect your energy from
- 28:32comparison. Compare yourself only to who
- 28:35you were yesterday.
- 28:36>> Fourth, small habits add up over time.
- 28:40You don't need one big change, just one
- 28:42small daily step.
- 28:44>> And fifth, even in pain, you can work
- 28:47through it slowly with quiet courage,
- 28:49not fake smiles.
- 28:51>> Beautifully said, Corey.
- 28:53>> And listeners, remember, you don't need
- 28:55to be positive every single second.
- 28:59You're human. You can have hard days,
- 29:01too. That's completely okay.
- 29:03>> The goal isn't perfect happiness. The
- 29:06goal is small, honest steps in a kinder
- 29:09direction.
- 29:10>> I love that. Okay, now it's time for our
- 29:13community question.
- 29:14>> Yes, every episode we ask one fun
- 29:17question, and we really do read your
- 29:19comments.
- 29:20>> Today's question is, what's the first
- 29:23thing you do in the morning?
- 29:24>> Maybe you check your phone. Maybe you
- 29:26drink water. Maybe you open the window
- 29:29like I did today.
- 29:30>> Write it in the comments, in English if
- 29:32you can. Just one simple sentence is
- 29:34perfect. For example, the first thing I
- 29:37do in the morning is drink a glass of
- 29:39water.
- 29:39>> We love reading these. It feels like one
- 29:42big friendly classroom from all around
- 29:44the world.
- 29:45>> It really does. Okay, everyone, that's
- 29:48our episode for today.
- 29:49>> We talked about positivity, gratitude,
- 29:52worry, comparisons, small habits, and
- 29:54working through pain.
- 29:56>> And we learned some really useful
- 29:58phrases: dwell on, outlook, gratitude,
- 30:02spiraling, self-talk, reframe, highlight
- 30:06reel, stuck in a rut, bounce back, and
- 30:09work through.
- 30:10>> Try to use one or two of these phrases
- 30:12this week in your own sentences, in your
- 30:14own life.
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- 30:55listen on your commute or while cooking,
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- 31:00>> And we're also on Facebook now. Come say
- 31:03hi. Join the community and be part of
- 31:05our daily conversations there, too. We'd
- 31:07love to see you.
- 31:09>> Facebook, Spotify, and right here.
- 31:11However you like to learn, we're there
- 31:13for you.
- 31:13>> If this episode helped you feel a little
- 31:16lighter or a little more hopeful, please
- 31:18like this video, subscribe to Daily
- 31:20English Podcast, and share it with
- 31:22someone who needs it today.
- 31:23>> You didn't waste this time. You invested
- 31:26it in your English and in yourself.
- 31:28>> We are proud of you. Seriously. Good job
- 31:31for showing up today.
- 31:33>> This was the Daily English Podcast with
- 31:35Corey.
- 31:36>> And Oris.
- 31:37>> Until next time, be kind to your mind,
- 31:39take small steps, and keep that
- 31:41positivity growing.
- 31:42>> Bye, everyone.
- 31:44>> Bye-bye. Take care of yourselves.
- 31:45>> Your progress doesn't stop here. Click
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