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  1. 0:00Hey, hey, hey, English learners. Welcome
  2. 0:02back to the Daily English Podcast. Your
  3. 0:05favorite place to learn real English,
  4. 0:08easy English, everyday English, the kind
  5. 0:11of English you actually use in real
  6. 0:13life.
  7. 0:14>> Yes, welcome back everyone. We are so
  8. 0:17happy you are here with us today. This
  9. 0:19is the podcast where we talk like real
  10. 0:21people, share real stories, and help you
  11. 0:24feel comfortable and confident in
  12. 0:26English.
  13. 0:27>> I'm Cory.
  14. 0:28>> And I'm Oris.
  15. 0:29>> And together we are your two English
  16. 0:32friends. Not your teachers with a big
  17. 0:34stick, just your friends who really want
  18. 0:36to help you grow.
  19. 0:37>> Exactly. No boring grammar rules today,
  20. 0:40just real talk, real English, real life.
  21. 0:44>> So, Oris, how are you doing today? Did
  22. 0:46you sleep well?
  23. 0:47>> Actually, yes. I slept really well. I
  24. 0:51woke up, opened the window, and the sky
  25. 0:53was so blue. I just stood there for a
  26. 0:55minute and smiled.
  27. 0:57>> Aw, I love that. A simple morning smile.
  28. 1:01>> Yeah, and that made me think about
  29. 1:02today's topic.
  30. 1:04>> Ooh, tell us.
  31. 1:05>> Today we are talking about the power of
  32. 1:08positivity.
  33. 1:09>> I love this topic already.
  34. 1:11>> Yes, we are going to talk about how our
  35. 1:14thoughts, our small habits, and our
  36. 1:16daily choices can make our life feel
  37. 1:19lighter and brighter.
  38. 1:20>> And don't worry, we are not going to
  39. 1:22say, "Just be happy. It's easy." No, we
  40. 1:26know real life has hard days, too.
  41. 1:29>> Exactly. We are going to talk about
  42. 1:31real, practical positivity, not fake
  43. 1:33smiles, real tools you can use today.
  44. 1:37>> And of course, we will learn a lot of
  45. 1:39really useful English phrases and words
  46. 1:42along the way.
  47. 1:43>> Listen carefully, repeat when you can,
  48. 1:45and enjoy the conversation.
  49. 1:47>> And before we go any further, a small,
  50. 1:51small favor.
  51. 1:52>> Yes, if you enjoy this podcast, please
  52. 1:55click like, please subscribe to Daily
  53. 1:58English Podcast, and please share this
  54. 2:00episode with one friend who is learning
  55. 2:02English.
  56. 2:03>> Yes, send it to that friend who always
  57. 2:05says, "I want to learn English, but I
  58. 2:08don't know where to start." This episode
  59. 2:10is perfect for them.
  60. 2:11>> And stay with us until the end today. We
  61. 2:14have a special announcement, and you are
  62. 2:16not going to want to miss it.
  63. 2:17>> Yes, something we think is going to help
  64. 2:20your English learning so much. So, don't
  65. 2:22click away. The best part is coming at
  66. 2:25the end.
  67. 2:25>> Okay, are you ready?
  68. 2:27>> Let's go. So, Oris, let's start simple.
  69. 2:31When we say the power of positivity,
  70. 2:33what does that really mean?
  71. 2:35>> Good question. Let's start with the word
  72. 2:37positivity. P O S I T I V I T Y.
  73. 2:42Positivity.
  74. 2:44>> Positivity.
  75. 2:45Positivity means having a good, hopeful
  76. 2:48feeling about life. It doesn't mean
  77. 2:50everything is perfect. It means you
  78. 2:52choose to see the good side, even when
  79. 2:55things are hard.
  80. 2:56>> Say it with us, listeners. Positivity.
  81. 2:59>> And here's something important.
  82. 3:01Positivity is not outside you. It's not
  83. 3:04in your phone, not in your job, not in
  84. 3:07other people. It starts inside you.
  85. 3:10>> I really believe that, but I also want
  86. 3:12to be honest. I have days when my brain
  87. 3:15feels like a little cloud of rain.
  88. 3:18>> Same. My brain sometimes wakes up and
  89. 3:20says, "Good morning. Let's think about
  90. 3:22everything that's wrong today."
  91. 3:25>> Yes, that's such a real feeling. You
  92. 3:27open your eyes, and immediately your
  93. 3:30brain gives you a list of problems. The
  94. 3:32bill you have to pay, the message you
  95. 3:34didn't answer, the mistake from last
  96. 3:36week.
  97. 3:37>> That's a great time to learn a new
  98. 3:39phrase, dwell on something. D W E L L.
  99. 3:44Dwell.
  100. 3:45>> When you dwell on something, you keep
  101. 3:47thinking about it again and again. You
  102. 3:50stay there. You don't move on.
  103. 3:52>> For example, I try not to dwell on my
  104. 3:55mistakes. I just learn and move forward.
  105. 3:58>> Or, she dwelt on one bad comment and
  106. 4:02forgot all the nice things people said.
  107. 4:04>> Good example. And when we dwell on
  108. 4:07negative thoughts, we start to feel
  109. 4:09heavier and heavier, like we're carrying
  110. 4:12a big bag on our back.
  111. 4:14>> That actually happened to me last month.
  112. 4:16I woke up and nothing was really wrong,
  113. 4:19but my outlook was very negative.
  114. 4:21>> Outlook, that's another great word. O U
  115. 4:25T L O O K. Outlook.
  116. 4:28>> Your outlook is the way you look at
  117. 4:30life, your general view.
  118. 4:32>> Exactly. Same room, same coffee, same
  119. 4:35job, but my outlook was everything is
  120. 4:39difficult. I'm not doing enough.
  121. 4:41>> I know that voice.
  122. 4:43>> And I noticed something interesting. I
  123. 4:45wasn't just listening to that negative
  124. 4:47voice, I was feeding it.
  125. 4:49>> I picked up my phone and started reading
  126. 4:51sad news and negative comments.
  127. 4:54>> Like your mind is already a little sad,
  128. 4:57and then you give it more sad food.
  129. 4:59>> Yes, sad breakfast for the brain.
  130. 5:02>> So, what did you do?
  131. 5:04>> At first, nothing. I just stayed in bed
  132. 5:06and scrolled, and I felt worse and
  133. 5:09worse. Then I remembered something
  134. 5:10simple. I can't always change my mood
  135. 5:13right away, but I can change my next 5
  136. 5:16minutes.
  137. 5:17>> I love that. I can't change everything,
  138. 5:20but I can change my next 5 minutes.
  139. 5:23That's a powerful sentence for anyone
  140. 5:25listening today.
  141. 5:26>> So, I decided to short circuit the
  142. 5:28negative thoughts.
  143. 5:29>> Short circuit? That's usually for
  144. 5:32electricity, right?
  145. 5:33>> Yes, normally it's an electrical word,
  146. 5:36but here it means you interrupt a bad
  147. 5:38pattern. You stop the usual road your
  148. 5:41thoughts are taking.
  149. 5:42>> So, instead of letting your mind go
  150. 5:44deeper into a dark tunnel, you change
  151. 5:47direction.
  152. 5:48>> Exactly. I put my phone down, opened the
  153. 5:51window, and played one happy song. Just
  154. 5:54one song.
  155. 5:55>> That's such a small thing.
  156. 5:57>> It is small, but then I made a simple
  157. 5:59breakfast and went for a short walk. No
  158. 6:01big life change, just 10 minutes, but it
  159. 6:04felt like I pressed a little reset
  160. 6:06button in my head.
  161. 6:07>> Good job, Oris. That's a great example
  162. 6:10for our listeners.
  163. 6:11>> Thank you. And listeners, this works for
  164. 6:13you, too. Your problems don't disappear
  165. 6:15in 10 minutes, but your energy can
  166. 6:17change a little bit. That's enough to
  167. 6:20start.
  168. 6:20>> I really like this idea. It's like your
  169. 6:23mind is a garden.
  170. 6:25>> A garden? Tell me more.
  171. 6:27>> If you don't choose what to plant, weeds
  172. 6:29grow by themselves. Negative news, old
  173. 6:32worries, other people's drama, those are
  174. 6:35like wild weeds.
  175. 6:37>> But when you plant one small good seed,
  176. 6:39like gratitude or a kind thought, or a
  177. 6:42short walk, you are starting a different
  178. 6:44garden.
  179. 6:45>> Gratitude. Let's talk about that word. G
  180. 6:48R A T I T U D E. Gratitude.
  181. 6:54>> Gratitude means feeling thankful. You
  182. 6:56notice the good things in your life, big
  183. 6:58or small.
  184. 7:00>> For example, every morning I write one
  185. 7:02thing I feel gratitude for. Today, it
  186. 7:05was my warm cup of coffee.
  187. 7:07>> Or practicing gratitude helped me feel
  188. 7:10calmer during a stressful week.
  189. 7:12>> That's such a nice habit. And listeners,
  190. 7:15you don't need a big notebook or a
  191. 7:17perfect plan. Just one sentence a day
  192. 7:20works.
  193. 7:21>> Exactly. And this doesn't mean you must
  194. 7:23be positive all the time. That's
  195. 7:25impossible.
  196. 7:26>> Right. You are human. You can feel
  197. 7:29tired, you can feel sad, you can even
  198. 7:31cry. That's normal and it's okay.
  199. 7:34>> But even on a hard day, you still have a
  200. 7:36small switch inside you. You can ask
  201. 7:39yourself, "What is one small thing I can
  202. 7:42do right now that is kind to myself?
  203. 7:45>> Maybe that's opening a window and
  204. 7:47feeling the fresh air. Maybe it's making
  205. 7:49tea and taking three slow breaths.
  206. 7:52>> Or listening to a song that gives you
  207. 7:54hope, or writing one line, "Today I am
  208. 7:58grateful for and just finishing that
  209. 8:00sentence."
  210. 8:01>> You don't change your whole life in that
  211. 8:03moment. You just change the direction of
  212. 8:06your thoughts.
  213. 8:07>> And when you repeat that day after day,
  214. 8:09your brain slowly learns a new habit, a
  215. 8:12happiness habit.
  216. 8:13>> A happiness habit. I love that phrase.
  217. 8:16>> So, our first big idea today, positivity
  218. 8:20is not only about what happens to you. A
  219. 8:23big part is how you respond, and you can
  220. 8:25build that one small seed at a time.
  221. 8:29>> Okay, so we talked about small seeds of
  222. 8:32happiness inside us, but let's be real.
  223. 8:35Sometimes our thoughts get stuck in
  224. 8:37worry. Let's talk about that.
  225. 8:39>> Yes, let's talk about when your brain
  226. 8:41just won't stop worrying and what you
  227. 8:44can actually do about it.
  228. 8:45>> I had a whole season like that. Every
  229. 8:48night my brain was busy with what if
  230. 8:51thoughts.
  231. 8:52>> What if I lose my job? What if I make a
  232. 8:54mistake? What if people don't like me?
  233. 8:57>> Exactly. I was trying to sleep, but my
  234. 9:00mind was wide awake, running in circles.
  235. 9:03>> And the funny thing is, most of the
  236. 9:05things we worry about are things we
  237. 9:07can't actually control.
  238. 9:09>> So true. My brain loves to worry about
  239. 9:12the weather, the news, and strangers on
  240. 9:14the internet.
  241. 9:16>> The full package.
  242. 9:18One night I was lying in bed and I
  243. 9:20thought, "I feel like I'm trying to
  244. 9:22control the whole world from my pillow."
  245. 9:25>> [laughter]
  246. 9:26>> That's such a good picture. You were
  247. 9:28spiraling a little.
  248. 9:29>> Spiraling. Let's explain that word. When
  249. 9:32your thoughts are spiraling, a small
  250. 9:35worry becomes bigger and bigger in your
  251. 9:37mind. Your thoughts go down like a
  252. 9:39spiral staircase and you feel worse and
  253. 9:42worse.
  254. 9:43>> For example, I read one scary headline
  255. 9:47and then my mind started spiraling about
  256. 9:49everything that could go wrong.
  257. 9:51>> Or when I'm tired, my thinking can
  258. 9:54spiral very fast into negative stories.
  259. 9:57>> I think a lot of our listeners know that
  260. 9:59feeling.
  261. 10:00>> So I tried something simple. I took a
  262. 10:03notebook and drew two circles.
  263. 10:05>> Two circles. Tell us more.
  264. 10:07>> In the first circle, I wrote things I
  265. 10:10can control. In the second circle,
  266. 10:12things I can't control.
  267. 10:14>> Nice and clear.
  268. 10:16>> So can control was things like what I
  269. 10:20eat, how many hours I sleep, if I put my
  270. 10:22phone away before bed, what message I
  271. 10:25send to a friend.
  272. 10:26>> And can't control, the past, other
  273. 10:30people's opinions, the news, the
  274. 10:33weather, other people's choices.
  275. 10:36>> When you see it written on paper, it
  276. 10:38becomes so much clearer.
  277. 10:40>> I bet. What did you notice?
  278. 10:42>> I noticed that 90% of my worry was in
  279. 10:45the can't control circle. My brain was
  280. 10:48working really hard, but it wasn't
  281. 10:50actually helping me.
  282. 10:51>> That's like trying to keep your head
  283. 10:53above water in a sea that doesn't even
  284. 10:55belong to you.
  285. 10:57>> Keep your head above water. That's a
  286. 10:58great phrase. It means you're just
  287. 11:00trying to survive a hard moment, not
  288. 11:03relaxed, not happy, just trying not to
  289. 11:06sink.
  290. 11:07>> For example, with work and family, she's
  291. 11:10just trying to keep her head above water
  292. 11:12this month.
  293. 11:13>> Or when money's tight, people often feel
  294. 11:16like they're only keeping their head
  295. 11:17above water.
  296. 11:18>> Good examples. So Oris, what did you do
  297. 11:21after you saw those two circles?
  298. 11:24>> I made a simple rule for myself. If
  299. 11:26something is in the can't control
  300. 11:28circle, I'm allowed to notice it, but
  301. 11:31I'm not allowed to stay there for an
  302. 11:33hour.
  303. 11:33>> I love that rule.
  304. 11:35>> Instead, I choose one small thing from
  305. 11:38the can control circle and I do it.
  306. 11:40Drink some water, send one honest
  307. 11:43message, go for a walk, breathe slowly.
  308. 11:46>> It's like moving your brain from a noisy
  309. 11:48street into a quiet park.
  310. 11:51>> Exactly. And for me, that quiet park is
  311. 11:53sometimes just sitting quietly, closing
  312. 11:56my eyes, and imagining a peaceful beach.
  313. 11:59The sound of the waves, warm sand,
  314. 12:02sunshine on my face.
  315. 12:04>> That sounds so relaxing already.
  316. 12:07>> I breathe slowly and tell myself, "Right
  317. 12:09now, I don't have to fix my whole life.
  318. 12:12I only have to breathe."
  319. 12:14>> That's beautiful. So, our second big
  320. 12:17idea, your brain gets tired when it
  321. 12:20worries about things you can't control.
  322. 12:22But when you focus on one small thing
  323. 12:25you can control, your mind can finally
  324. 12:28rest a little.
  325. 12:29>> And that small rest, that small calm
  326. 12:32moment, that's also positivity. It's
  327. 12:35quiet, but it's powerful.
  328. 12:37>> Good job, Oris. That's such a helpful
  329. 12:39tool for our listeners.
  330. 12:41>> Okay, now let's talk about the words we
  331. 12:43say to ourselves, self-talk.
  332. 12:46>> Self-talk means the conversation you
  333. 12:48have inside your own head, the things
  334. 12:51you tell yourself all day.
  335. 12:53>> For example, my self-talk this morning
  336. 12:55was, "You can do this, one step at a
  337. 12:57time."
  338. 12:58>> I think many of us don't even notice our
  339. 13:01self-talk. It just runs in the
  340. 13:03background like music we forgot we
  341. 13:05turned on.
  342. 13:06>> And often that background music is
  343. 13:08harsh. "You're so slow. You always mess
  344. 13:11things up."
  345. 13:12>> I catch myself doing that sometimes, and
  346. 13:15I have to stop and ask, "Would I ever
  347. 13:17say this to a friend?"
  348. 13:19>> Usually the answer is no. We'd never
  349. 13:22talk to a friend the way we sometimes
  350. 13:24talk to ourselves.
  351. 13:25>> So, try being your own friend. If your
  352. 13:28friend made a small mistake, you'd
  353. 13:30probably say, "It's okay. Everyone makes
  354. 13:33mistakes. Let's fix it together."
  355. 13:35>> I tried this last week. I made a small
  356. 13:38mistake at work, and instead of "You're
  357. 13:40so careless", I said, "It's okay. I'll
  358. 13:43fix it and learn."
  359. 13:45>> How did that feel?
  360. 13:46>> Lighter. I still fixed my mistake, but I
  361. 13:49didn't carry extra shame with me all
  362. 13:51day.
  363. 13:52>> Shame. A heavy feeling that you are bad
  364. 13:55or wrong deep inside. For example, try
  365. 13:59not to add shame on top of a simple
  366. 14:01mistake. A mistake is just information,
  367. 14:05not a judgment of who you are.
  368. 14:07>> That's such an important point. Okay,
  369. 14:09one more simple tool. Reframe.
  370. 14:13>> To reframe means to look at a situation
  371. 14:15in a new, more helpful way. Same facts,
  372. 14:19different picture.
  373. 14:20>> For example, instead of "I failed this
  374. 14:22test", reframe it as "I learned exactly
  375. 14:26what to study next time."
  376. 14:28>> Reframing doesn't mean lying to
  377. 14:30yourself. It means choosing the fairest,
  378. 14:33most helpful way to see things.
  379. 14:35>> Good example. Try this today. Take one
  380. 14:38small worry and reframe it into a kinder
  381. 14:41sentence.
  382. 14:42>> Now, let's talk about something that
  383. 14:44scares a lot of people, comparing
  384. 14:47themselves to others.
  385. 14:48>> Oh, this is a big one, comparing. C O M
  386. 14:52P A R I N G.
  387. 14:54>> When you compare, you look at another
  388. 14:56person and measure yourself against
  389. 14:58them. They have this, I don't. They look
  390. 15:02happier, I don't.
  391. 15:04>> And social media makes this so much
  392. 15:06worse. You open an app and you see
  393. 15:08beautiful photos, perfect vacations,
  394. 15:10perfect smiles.
  395. 15:12>> But here's the truth. What people show
  396. 15:15online is only their highlight reel.
  397. 15:17>> Highlight reel, that's such a useful
  398. 15:19phrase. In sports, a highlight reel is a
  399. 15:22short video of only the best moments.
  400. 15:25Nobody shows the boring parts or the
  401. 15:27mistakes.
  402. 15:28>> So, when you see someone's perfect
  403. 15:30vacation photo, you don't see the flight
  404. 15:33delay, the small argument, or the rainy
  405. 15:35afternoon.
  406. 15:36>> You only see the best 5 seconds.
  407. 15:39>> There's a nice idiom for this. The grass
  408. 15:41isn't always greener.
  409. 15:43>> The grass isn't always greener. This
  410. 15:45means other people's lives look better
  411. 15:47from the outside, but you don't see
  412. 15:49their real problems.
  413. 15:51>> For example, she wanted her friend's
  414. 15:53life, but later she realized the grass
  415. 15:56wasn't always greener.
  416. 15:58>> Or social media can make you forget that
  417. 16:00the grass isn't always greener on the
  418. 16:02other side.
  419. 16:03>> I think almost everyone has felt this at
  420. 16:05some point.
  421. 16:06>> Definitely. I remember scrolling one
  422. 16:09evening and feeling like everyone else
  423. 16:11was doing better than me. Traveling,
  424. 16:13buying houses, starting businesses.
  425. 16:16>> That's the classic everyone is doing
  426. 16:18better than me feeling.
  427. 16:20>> Exactly. But then I asked myself a
  428. 16:22simple question. Am I comparing my whole
  429. 16:25life to someone's highlight reel?
  430. 16:27>> And the answer was probably yes.
  431. 16:30>> Yes. And once I saw that clearly, it
  432. 16:32helped. I started using a new rule.
  433. 16:35Compare yourself to who you were
  434. 16:37yesterday, not to who someone else is
  435. 16:39today.
  436. 16:41>> Say that again. It's so good.
  437. 16:43>> Compare yourself to who you were
  438. 16:45yesterday, not to who someone else is
  439. 16:47today.
  440. 16:48>> That's such a healthy way to measure
  441. 16:50progress. Are you a little better than
  442. 16:52last week? A little calmer than last
  443. 16:55month? That's what really matters.
  444. 16:57>> And for our English learners listening
  445. 16:59right now, please don't compare your
  446. 17:00English to a native speaker. Compare
  447. 17:03yourself to yourself 3 months ago.
  448. 17:05>> Can you understand more now? Can you say
  449. 17:07sentences you couldn't say before?
  450. 17:10>> If yes, that's real progress. Good job
  451. 17:13everyone listening. You're improving
  452. 17:15already, even if you don't feel it every
  453. 17:17day.
  454. 17:17>> I really believe that. So, our next
  455. 17:20idea, protect your energy from
  456. 17:22comparison. Water your own garden
  457. 17:25instead of watching someone else's.
  458. 17:27>> Okay, let's talk about small daily
  459. 17:29habits now, because positivity isn't
  460. 17:31just a feeling, it's also a set of small
  461. 17:34actions.
  462. 17:35>> Yes, let's talk about morning routines.
  463. 17:38A morning routine is the set of small
  464. 17:40things you do every morning before your
  465. 17:42day really starts.
  466. 17:44>> For example, my morning routine is
  467. 17:46simple. I drink water, stretch, and
  468. 17:48write one line in my journal.
  469. 17:50>> My quick breakfast is a banana and a
  470. 17:53glass of water. Simple, but it works.
  471. 17:56>> My morning routine is a short walk with
  472. 17:58music, then coffee.
  473. 18:00>> It doesn't have to be complicated. Small
  474. 18:03repeated actions build up over time.
  475. 18:05>> There's a nice phrase for that. Small
  476. 18:07steps add up. When small things add up,
  477. 18:11they slowly become something big over
  478. 18:13time.
  479. 18:14>> For example, 10 minutes of reading every
  480. 18:17day adds up to many books in a year.
  481. 18:19>> Or drinking more water each day might
  482. 18:22feel small, but it adds up to better
  483. 18:24energy.
  484. 18:25>> And here's another helpful word,
  485. 18:27consistency.
  486. 18:28It means doing something regularly, not
  487. 18:31just once.
  488. 18:32>> For example, consistency matters more
  489. 18:35than perfection. 10 minutes of English
  490. 18:37every day is better than 2 hours once a
  491. 18:40month.
  492. 18:41>> So listeners, think about your own
  493. 18:43morning. Is there one small habit you
  494. 18:46could add? Just one.
  495. 18:48>> Maybe it's opening a window, writing one
  496. 18:50grateful sentence, or a short walk.
  497. 18:53>> Whatever it is, start small. You don't
  498. 18:55need a perfect plan, just one on a step.
  499. 18:59>> Good job if you're already thinking
  500. 19:00about your own small step right now.
  501. 19:02>> Now, let's be honest with our listeners.
  502. 19:05Sometimes, even with good habits, life
  503. 19:08still hurts.
  504. 19:09>> Things go wrong, plans break, people
  505. 19:12disappoint us.
  506. 19:13>> Yes, and that's where real positivity is
  507. 19:16tested. Not when everything is easy, but
  508. 19:18when things are hard.
  509. 19:20>> I remember a season a few years ago when
  510. 19:22I felt very stuck. Work was hard and I
  511. 19:25didn't know what I wanted next.
  512. 19:27>> Stuck? Tell us more.
  513. 19:29>> I felt like I was in a rut. Stuck in a
  514. 19:31rut means doing the same thing again and
  515. 19:34again, feeling bored or trapped without
  516. 19:36a way forward.
  517. 19:38>> For example, he felt stuck in a rut at
  518. 19:40his job doing the same tasks every
  519. 19:43single day.
  520. 19:44>> Or I knew I was stuck in a rut when
  521. 19:46every day felt exactly the same as the
  522. 19:48day before.
  523. 19:49>> I know that feeling well. So, what
  524. 19:52helped you move forward?
  525. 19:53>> Honestly, small goals. I took a piece of
  526. 19:56paper and wrote three very simple goals.
  527. 19:59One for my health, one for my work, and
  528. 20:01one for my heart.
  529. 20:03>> I like this already.
  530. 20:04>> Health goal, walk for 20 minutes after
  531. 20:06dinner. Work goal, spend 20 minutes
  532. 20:09learning something new. Heart goal, send
  533. 20:12one kind message to someone I care about
  534. 20:14every day.
  535. 20:15>> That's so simple, but so clear.
  536. 20:17>> Exactly. And when I looked at that
  537. 20:19paper, I felt lighter because now my
  538. 20:22brain had a direction.
  539. 20:24>> It's like driving at night in heavy fog.
  540. 20:26Without headlights, you feel lost, but
  541. 20:29small goals are like turning on your
  542. 20:30headlights. You still can't see the
  543. 20:32whole road, but you can see the next few
  544. 20:35meters and that's enough to move
  545. 20:36forward.
  546. 20:37>> I love that picture. So, after some
  547. 20:39weeks, what changed?
  548. 20:41>> My walks helped my mood. My 20 minutes
  549. 20:43of learning helped my confidence. My
  550. 20:45small messages helped my relationships.
  551. 20:48>> So, your life didn't magically become
  552. 20:50perfect.
  553. 20:51>> No, but I started to bounce back.
  554. 20:54>> Bounce back, great phrase. It means to
  555. 20:56recover slowly after something
  556. 20:58difficult, like a ball that hits the
  557. 21:00ground and comes back up.
  558. 21:02>> For example, it took time, but he
  559. 21:04bounced back after a difficult year at
  560. 21:06work.
  561. 21:07>> Or you can bounce back from mistakes in
  562. 21:09English if you keep practicing every
  563. 21:11day.
  564. 21:12>> I really believe that, especially for
  565. 21:14our English learners. Every mistake is
  566. 21:16just one small bounce on the way back
  567. 21:19up.
  568. 21:19>> Good job, everyone. Keep bouncing back.
  569. 21:22That's real progress.
  570. 21:23>> And sometimes life gives us real pain,
  571. 21:26not just stress. Breakups, loss,
  572. 21:29disappointment.
  573. 21:30>> Yes, and positivity doesn't mean
  574. 21:32ignoring that pain. It means learning to
  575. 21:35carry it and still move forward.
  576. 21:37>> I think there's a nice picture here.
  577. 21:39Pain is like a heavy backpack. You do
  578. 21:42have to carry it for a while.
  579. 21:44>> But you don't have to sit down on the
  580. 21:45floor and stop your whole life because
  581. 21:48of it.
  582. 21:48>> Exactly. You can walk slowly with it and
  583. 21:51with time it becomes a little lighter.
  584. 21:54>> There's a helpful phrase for this. Work
  585. 21:56through something.
  586. 21:57>> Work through. It means slowly deal with
  587. 22:00a difficult feeling or problem
  588. 22:02step-by-step. You don't run away from
  589. 22:04it, you process it.
  590. 22:06>> For example, she needed time to work
  591. 22:08through her fear of speaking English in
  592. 22:10public.
  593. 22:11>> Or it can take months to work through
  594. 22:13heartache, but small actions really
  595. 22:15help.
  596. 22:16>> I like this because it's honest. It
  597. 22:18doesn't say just be happy. It says keep
  598. 22:21working through it one small step at a
  599. 22:23time.
  600. 22:24>> And that, listeners, is also positivity,
  601. 22:26not fake smiles, quiet courage.
  602. 22:29>> Quiet courage. I love that phrase.
  603. 22:31>> So remember, if you're going through
  604. 22:33something painful right now, it's okay
  605. 22:36to feel sad. It's okay to cry. Just try
  606. 22:39not to live inside the pain for every
  607. 22:42hour of every day.
  608. 22:43>> Take one small step, a short walk, a
  609. 22:46message to a friend, a cup of tea.
  610. 22:48That's enough for today.
  611. 22:50>> Before we move to the word tour, let's
  612. 22:52talk about one more thing, the people
  613. 22:54around us.
  614. 22:55>> Oh, this is important. The people we
  615. 22:57spend time with really shape our mood.
  616. 23:00>> There's a nice word for this, influence.
  617. 23:03I N F L U E N C E. When something has
  618. 23:08influence, it affects you. It shapes the
  619. 23:10way you think and feel.
  620. 23:12>> For example, spending time with positive
  621. 23:14friends has a good influence on my mood.
  622. 23:17>> Or try to notice the influence certain
  623. 23:20people have on your energy.
  624. 23:22>> I had a friend once who always talked
  625. 23:24about problems. Every conversation was
  626. 23:26about what was wrong.
  627. 23:28>> That sounds tiring.
  628. 23:30>> It was. I tried to help, I listened, but
  629. 23:32nothing changed. Every talk I felt heavy
  630. 23:36and tired.
  631. 23:37>> There's a phrase for that, bring you
  632. 23:39down.
  633. 23:40>> Bring you down. When someone brings you
  634. 23:42down, they make you feel worse about
  635. 23:44yourself or just drain your energy.
  636. 23:46>> For example, I stopped spending so much
  637. 23:49time with people who bring me down.
  638. 23:51>> And the opposite phrase is lift you up.
  639. 23:54When someone lifts you up, you feel
  640. 23:56better, lighter, and more hopeful after
  641. 23:58talking to them.
  642. 23:59>> For example, surround yourself with
  643. 24:01people who lift you up, not people who
  644. 24:03bring you down.
  645. 24:04>> Surround, S U R R O U N D. When you
  646. 24:08surround yourself with something, it is
  647. 24:11all around you, close to your daily
  648. 24:13life.
  649. 24:13>> You don't need to remove everyone who is
  650. 24:15struggling, that's not kind, but notice
  651. 24:18the balance in your life.
  652. 24:20>> If every conversation drains you, notice
  653. 24:23that. And if you have one person who
  654. 24:25lifts you up, treasure that friendship.
  655. 24:27>> Treasure, T R E A S U R E. To treasure
  656. 24:32something means to value it deeply, to
  657. 24:35take good care of it because it matters
  658. 24:37so much to you.
  659. 24:39>> For example, I treasure my morning phone
  660. 24:41call with my sister.
  661. 24:42>> And for our English learners, this
  662. 24:44matters, too. If you can find even one
  663. 24:47study partner, that small connection can
  664. 24:50make a huge difference.
  665. 24:51>> Someone who celebrates your small wins
  666. 24:53with you.
  667. 24:54>> Win, a win is a success, even a small
  668. 24:58one, and every small win truly matters.
  669. 25:02>> So, listeners, think for a moment. Who
  670. 25:05are the people who lift you up? Maybe
  671. 25:07send them a quick kind message today.
  672. 25:09>> That small message is never a waste of
  673. 25:12time. It's an investment in your own
  674. 25:15positivity and in someone else's day,
  675. 25:17too.
  676. 25:18>> Okay, Corey. I think it's time for our
  677. 25:20word tour. Let's review everything we
  678. 25:22learned today.
  679. 25:23>> Yes, word tour time. We'll go through
  680. 25:26the words and phrases one more time,
  681. 25:28nice and clear.
  682. 25:29>> First, positivity, a good, hopeful
  683. 25:33feeling about life, even when things are
  684. 25:35hard.
  685. 25:35>> Practicing positivity every morning
  686. 25:38helps me start my day with more energy.
  687. 25:40>> Next, dwell on, to keep thinking about
  688. 25:43the same thing again and again, usually
  689. 25:46something negative.
  690. 25:47>> Try not to dwell on one small mistake
  691. 25:49all day.
  692. 25:50>> Next, outlook, the way you look at life,
  693. 25:53your general view.
  694. 25:55>> Her outlook became more positive after
  695. 25:57she started her new morning routine.
  696. 25:59>> Next, gratitude, feeling thankful for
  697. 26:02the good things in your life, big or
  698. 26:04small.
  699. 26:05>> Writing one line of gratitude every day
  700. 26:08changed how I see my whole week.
  701. 26:10>> Next, spiraling, when a small worry
  702. 26:13becomes bigger and bigger in your mind.
  703. 26:16>> I saw one scary headline and my thoughts
  704. 26:18started spiraling.
  705. 26:20>> Next, keep your head above water, just
  706. 26:23managing to survive a difficult time.
  707. 26:26>> With two jobs and a new baby, she's just
  708. 26:29trying to keep her head above water.
  709. 26:31>> Next, self-talk, the conversation you
  710. 26:34have inside your own head.
  711. 26:36>> My self-talk this morning was kind and
  712. 26:38encouraging.
  713. 26:39>> Next, we frame, to look at a situation
  714. 26:43in a new, more helpful way.
  715. 26:45>> Instead of saying, "I failed," I
  716. 26:47reframed it as, "I learned something
  717. 26:50important."
  718. 26:51>> Next, highlight reel, only the best
  719. 26:53moments, not the full real picture.
  720. 26:56>> Don't compare your normal Tuesday to
  721. 26:58someone else's highlight reel.
  722. 27:00>> Next, the grass isn't always greener.
  723. 27:03Other people's lives look better from
  724. 27:05the outside, but you don't see their
  725. 27:07real problems.
  726. 27:08>> She wanted her friend's life, but the
  727. 27:10grass isn't always greener.
  728. 27:12>> Next, stuck in a rut. Doing the same
  729. 27:15thing again and again, feeling bored or
  730. 27:18trapped.
  731. 27:19>> He felt stuck in a rut until he made
  732. 27:21three small goals.
  733. 27:23>> Next, bounce back. To recover slowly
  734. 27:26after something difficult.
  735. 27:28>> It took time, but she bounced back
  736. 27:30stronger than before.
  737. 27:32>> Next, bring you down and lift you up.
  738. 27:35People who make you feel worse or people
  739. 27:37who make you feel better.
  740. 27:38>> Try to surround yourself with people who
  741. 27:40lift you up, not people who bring you
  742. 27:42down.
  743. 27:43>> And last, work through. To slowly deal
  744. 27:46with a difficult feeling step by step
  745. 27:49without running away.
  746. 27:50>> He is still working through a hard year,
  747. 27:53but small steps are helping.
  748. 27:55>> Great list. If you caught most of those,
  749. 27:57good job. And if not, no problem at all.
  750. 28:00Listen again and you'll catch more of
  751. 28:02the second time.
  752. 28:03>> That's how real learning works. Listen,
  753. 28:05discuss, listen again. Each time your
  754. 28:08brain catches a little more.
  755. 28:10>> Okay, let's do a quick recap of today's
  756. 28:13main ideas before we go.
  757. 28:14>> Yes. First, positivity starts inside you
  758. 28:18with small seeds like gratitude and kind
  759. 28:21self-talk.
  760. 28:22>> Second, your brain gets tired worrying
  761. 28:24about things you can't control. Focus on
  762. 28:27the small things you can control
  763. 28:29instead.
  764. 28:30>> Third, protect your energy from
  765. 28:32comparison. Compare yourself only to who
  766. 28:35you were yesterday.
  767. 28:36>> Fourth, small habits add up over time.
  768. 28:40You don't need one big change, just one
  769. 28:42small daily step.
  770. 28:44>> And fifth, even in pain, you can work
  771. 28:47through it slowly with quiet courage,
  772. 28:49not fake smiles.
  773. 28:51>> Beautifully said, Corey.
  774. 28:53>> And listeners, remember, you don't need
  775. 28:55to be positive every single second.
  776. 28:59You're human. You can have hard days,
  777. 29:01too. That's completely okay.
  778. 29:03>> The goal isn't perfect happiness. The
  779. 29:06goal is small, honest steps in a kinder
  780. 29:09direction.
  781. 29:10>> I love that. Okay, now it's time for our
  782. 29:13community question.
  783. 29:14>> Yes, every episode we ask one fun
  784. 29:17question, and we really do read your
  785. 29:19comments.
  786. 29:20>> Today's question is, what's the first
  787. 29:23thing you do in the morning?
  788. 29:24>> Maybe you check your phone. Maybe you
  789. 29:26drink water. Maybe you open the window
  790. 29:29like I did today.
  791. 29:30>> Write it in the comments, in English if
  792. 29:32you can. Just one simple sentence is
  793. 29:34perfect. For example, the first thing I
  794. 29:37do in the morning is drink a glass of
  795. 29:39water.
  796. 29:39>> We love reading these. It feels like one
  797. 29:42big friendly classroom from all around
  798. 29:44the world.
  799. 29:45>> It really does. Okay, everyone, that's
  800. 29:48our episode for today.
  801. 29:49>> We talked about positivity, gratitude,
  802. 29:52worry, comparisons, small habits, and
  803. 29:54working through pain.
  804. 29:56>> And we learned some really useful
  805. 29:58phrases: dwell on, outlook, gratitude,
  806. 30:02spiraling, self-talk, reframe, highlight
  807. 30:06reel, stuck in a rut, bounce back, and
  808. 30:09work through.
  809. 30:10>> Try to use one or two of these phrases
  810. 30:12this week in your own sentences, in your
  811. 30:14own life.
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  836. 31:11However you like to learn, we're there
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  838. 31:13>> If this episode helped you feel a little
  839. 31:16lighter or a little more hopeful, please
  840. 31:18like this video, subscribe to Daily
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  842. 31:22someone who needs it today.
  843. 31:23>> You didn't waste this time. You invested
  844. 31:26it in your English and in yourself.
  845. 31:28>> We are proud of you. Seriously. Good job
  846. 31:31for showing up today.
  847. 31:33>> This was the Daily English Podcast with
  848. 31:35Corey.
  849. 31:36>> And Oris.
  850. 31:37>> Until next time, be kind to your mind,
  851. 31:39take small steps, and keep that
  852. 31:41positivity growing.
  853. 31:42>> Bye, everyone.
  854. 31:44>> Bye-bye. Take care of yourselves.
  855. 31:45>> Your progress doesn't stop here. Click
  856. 31:48the next video. We have more real
  857. 31:49conversations, more useful phrases, and
  858. 31:52more English waiting for you right now.

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