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  1. 0:00If you want to learn how to tell better
  2. 0:01stories, all you have to do is
  3. 0:03understand one core concept, addiction.
  4. 0:06Specifically, how the brain is
  5. 0:07chemically wired to get addicted to
  6. 0:10certain narratives. I call this the
  7. 0:12neuroscience of addictive storytelling.
  8. 0:14Because the truth is, even though great
  9. 0:16storytelling feels like black magic,
  10. 0:18it's actually one of the most
  11. 0:19predictable and programmable formulas in
  12. 0:22the world, if you know what you're
  13. 0:23doing. So, in this video, I'm going to
  14. 0:25break down the four-step loop that is
  15. 0:27the DNA behind all of the most addictive
  16. 0:30stories you've ever heard. And once you
  17. 0:31learn this, you can use it to make
  18. 0:33better content, land more clients, give
  19. 0:35better presentations, or even just tell
  20. 0:37more compelling stories around the fire.
  21. 0:39Now, I know this works because content
  22. 0:41and storytelling is all I do all day
  23. 0:43long. I have a million followers, I've
  24. 0:45done billions of views, and I've gone
  25. 0:47about as far down the storytelling
  26. 0:49rabbit hole as one could possibly go.
  27. 0:51So, I guarantee once you watch this, you
  28. 0:53will never think about storytelling
  29. 0:54quite the same way again. All right,
  30. 0:56let's dive in. Now, the key to all this
  31. 0:58is understanding how your brain's reward
  32. 1:01center actually works. Cuz once you know
  33. 1:03the neuroscience, the storytelling part
  34. 1:05becomes pretty easy. Most people think
  35. 1:07dopamine is the pleasure chemical. You
  36. 1:09eat good food, you get some dopamine.
  37. 1:11You win some game, you get some
  38. 1:13dopamine. But, that's not actually how
  39. 1:14it works. Dopamine is not the pleasure
  40. 1:16chemical, it's the prediction chemical.
  41. 1:19Dopamine fires in your brain when you're
  42. 1:21trying to predict what might happen
  43. 1:23next. Not when you're getting a reward,
  44. 1:24but when you're anticipating getting it.
  45. 1:27And that distinction is super important.
  46. 1:29Think about it like this. Imagine you're
  47. 1:30at a casino and you're sitting at a
  48. 1:32blackjack table. You've got chips in
  49. 1:33front of you, fingers on the felt, and
  50. 1:35the dealer flips over one card face up.
  51. 1:38Immediately, your brain starts running.
  52. 1:40Should I hit? Should I stay? What's the
  53. 1:41dealer hiding? That feeling right there,
  54. 1:44that tension, that pull of anticipation,
  55. 1:46that's dopamine. Not the moment you win,
  56. 1:48not even the moment you lose, the moment
  57. 1:49you're waiting to figure out what's
  58. 1:51going to happen next. This is why nobody
  59. 1:53feels happy the second after they
  60. 1:55accomplish a goal. The anticipation is
  61. 1:57the high. And that one takeaway is the
  62. 1:59key to understanding why certain things
  63. 2:01become addictive and certain things
  64. 2:03don't. For example, a vending machine is
  65. 2:05not addictive. You put a dollar in, you
  66. 2:07get a snack out, it works the same way
  67. 2:09every single time. But a slot machine is
  68. 2:11very addictive. As soon as you pull that
  69. 2:13lever, you have no idea what's going to
  70. 2:14happen next. Your brain is running
  71. 2:16predictions the entire time those reels
  72. 2:19are spinning. It's the same general
  73. 2:21action, but a completely different
  74. 2:22neurological response. And the only
  75. 2:25difference is uncertainty. It turns out
  76. 2:27the science behind addicting stories
  77. 2:29uses the exact same brain chemistry that
  78. 2:31a casino uses to keep you gambling. And
  79. 2:34it all breaks down to a super simple
  80. 2:35four-step addiction loop. Step one is
  81. 2:38called the stakes. Stakes are what turn
  82. 2:40your brain's prediction machine on in
  83. 2:42the first place. Without the stakes,
  84. 2:44without a real reason for you to care,
  85. 2:46the brain doesn't start predicting
  86. 2:48anything. No predictions, no dopamine.
  87. 2:50No dopamine, no addiction. So think of
  88. 2:52stakes as the setting, the context, the
  89. 2:55housing of the story. In my casino
  90. 2:56analogy, it's the casino itself. The
  91. 2:58lighting, the energy, the sounds of
  92. 3:01winning, your specific money on the
  93. 3:03table at risk. It's the context that
  94. 3:05makes everything inside it matter to
  95. 3:07you. Now, step two is where the
  96. 3:09addiction loop really begins. And this
  97. 3:11is called the big question. Now that
  98. 3:13your brain is activated from the stakes,
  99. 3:15you need something to pay attention to.
  100. 3:17So the dealer flips one of their cards
  101. 3:19face up. You can see your cards and one
  102. 3:21of the dealer's cards. And now your
  103. 3:22brain can't help itself. It just starts
  104. 3:24guessing what might happen. I've got 16,
  105. 3:27the dealer's showing a 10. I should
  106. 3:28probably hit, but what if I bust? That
  107. 3:30internal calculating, that's the big
  108. 3:32question. Essentially, you've loaded in
  109. 3:34a question that your brain wants to
  110. 3:36solve and you're running predictions to
  111. 3:38figure out what the answer might be.
  112. 3:39Now, here's what's going on chemically
  113. 3:41when this happens. Your brain is
  114. 3:42releasing a sustained low-grade stream
  115. 3:45of dopamine. Not a spike, a steady drip.
  116. 3:48And this is the part of gambling that
  117. 3:49people get addicted to. It's not the
  118. 3:51winning that they get addicted from,
  119. 3:52it's the anticipation between placing
  120. 3:55the bet and finding out what happens.
  121. 3:57The big question is this first hit of
  122. 3:59dopamine. All right, let's keep going.
  123. 4:00Step three in the loop is called the
  124. 4:02head fake. And this is where things get
  125. 4:04really interesting. You're sitting on a
  126. 4:0516. You're pretty sure that if you hit,
  127. 4:07you're going to bust. But you hit
  128. 4:09anyway, and boom, you pull a five, 21.
  129. 4:12Winner, winner, chicken dinner. Or the
  130. 4:14reverse. You're sitting on an 18 feeling
  131. 4:16really good, and then the dealer flips a
  132. 4:1821, and you lose. Backdoor on a
  133. 4:20heartbreaker. Either way, crazy win or
  134. 4:23crazy loss, the outcome that happened
  135. 4:25broke your prediction. Neuroscience has
  136. 4:27a name for this, it's called prediction
  137. 4:29error. And prediction error triggers the
  138. 4:31single largest spike of dopamine you're
  139. 4:33capable of producing. This time it's not
  140. 4:35a drip, it's a full burst. And the size
  141. 4:38of that burst is proportional to how
  142. 4:40crazy the outcome actually was. A small
  143. 4:43surprise is a small spike of dopamine. A
  144. 4:45large surprise is a large spike of
  145. 4:47dopamine. No surprise, no spike. This is
  146. 4:50why gambling is so much more addicting
  147. 4:52than a vending machine. The vending
  148. 4:53machine gives you exactly what you'd
  149. 4:55expect every single time. There's no
  150. 4:57surprise, so there's no dopamine. But
  151. 4:59every once in a while, the slot machine
  152. 5:01gives you something you didn't expect, a
  153. 5:04jackpot. And your brain treats those two
  154. 5:06outcomes, vending versus slot, as
  155. 5:08completely different experiences
  156. 5:10chemically. Now, the final step in the
  157. 5:11loop, step four, is the re-hook. And
  158. 5:13this one is super simple, but it's the
  159. 5:14reason why people cannot get up from the
  160. 5:16table in a casino. You just saw the
  161. 5:18result of your hand. Your prediction was
  162. 5:20wrong. Your brain is still reeling and
  163. 5:22trying to figure out what happened. And
  164. 5:24before you'd even finish thinking about
  165. 5:25it, a new hand is dealt, and the loop
  166. 5:28restarts. The new hand comes, there's a
  167. 5:30new set of unknowns, a new big question
  168. 5:32gets released. And your brain
  169. 5:34automatically starts jumping into
  170. 5:35predictions for the next round. The
  171. 5:37re-hook is the moment where one loop
  172. 5:39closes and another loop opens at the
  173. 5:41same time. There should never be a gap.
  174. 5:43There should never be a moment where the
  175. 5:44listener or the viewer thinks, "Okay,
  176. 5:46I'm done." This is why one of the most
  177. 5:48important metrics a casino tracks is
  178. 5:51time per hand. Their only goal is to
  179. 5:53decrease the distance between dopamine
  180. 5:55hits. And that's why people sit at
  181. 5:57blackjack tables for 6 hours straight.
  182. 5:59Not because they're winning, not because
  183. 6:00they're having fun, because their brain
  184. 6:02has been hijacked to always have an
  185. 6:04unresolved prediction going. So, those
  186. 6:06are the four steps in the addiction
  187. 6:08loop. The stakes, the big question, the
  188. 6:10head fake, and the re-hook. Over and
  189. 6:12over and over it goes. And here's the
  190. 6:14thing that will tie all this together
  191. 6:16for you. Every great story you've ever
  192. 6:17been told has been running this exact
  193. 6:19same loop on you. Every movie you
  194. 6:21couldn't pause, every book you stayed up
  195. 6:24till 3:00 a.m. reading, every video you
  196. 6:26watched all the way through even though
  197. 6:27you had somewhere else to be. It wasn't
  198. 6:29because the storyteller was so gifted,
  199. 6:31it wasn't black magic, it was this
  200. 6:33addiction loop running on repeat,
  201. 6:35hacking your prediction system so
  202. 6:37effectively that you had no choice but
  203. 6:39to keep watching. And the best part is
  204. 6:41for you, once you know this system and
  205. 6:43how it works, you can't un-know it. So,
  206. 6:45next, let's walk through the tactical
  207. 6:47process for how you can apply this
  208. 6:48four-step loop to every story you write
  209. 6:50moving forward. By the way, before I
  210. 6:52explain this, you could tell I
  211. 6:53absolutely love storytelling. To help
  212. 6:55you improve your storytelling in your
  213. 6:57content, I actually put this doc
  214. 6:59together breaking down all the best
  215. 7:01storytelling structures that tend to
  216. 7:03work based on the research we've done on
  217. 7:05social media. Each one of these is built
  218. 7:07out as a plug-and-play template, so you
  219. 7:08can just take it and fill in the blanks
  220. 7:10or feed this document into Claude or
  221. 7:13ChatGPT, save it as a skill, and it
  222. 7:15would just automatically improve your
  223. 7:16storytelling. It's completely free, my
  224. 7:18gift to you. I've got it linked below if
  225. 7:20you want it. All right, so now you
  226. 7:21understand the science. You know how
  227. 7:22addiction works in the casino. But
  228. 7:24obviously, you're not running a casino,
  229. 7:26you're telling stories. So, let me show
  230. 7:28you how this exact same loop works when
  231. 7:29you apply it to a narrative, and how you
  232. 7:31can use it to tell better stories. The
  233. 7:33easiest way is to hear the same general
  234. 7:35story told two different ways. So,
  235. 7:37first, I'm going to tell you the full
  236. 7:38story with no addiction loop, and then
  237. 7:40I'm going to retell it with the
  238. 7:42addiction loop, but I'm going to explain
  239. 7:43each step as we go. And you'll feel the
  240. 7:45difference immediately. All right, here
  241. 7:46we go. This is the flat version. A
  242. 7:48prince's kingdom is in trouble, but he
  243. 7:50learns there's a valuable resource
  244. 7:52locked at the top of a tower that's
  245. 7:54being guarded by a dragon. He realizes
  246. 7:56he must go. So, he rides to the tower,
  247. 7:59he confronts the dragon, he acquires the
  248. 8:01resource, he comes home, and the kingdom
  249. 8:03is saved. The end. Now, that was quick,
  250. 8:05but do you care about that story at all?
  251. 8:07Obviously not. You probably didn't even
  252. 8:09have enough time to get curious. You
  253. 8:10really weren't anticipating anything.
  254. 8:12You had no reason to buy in. And it's
  255. 8:13not because the core bones of that story
  256. 8:15are bad, it's because there was no loop
  257. 8:18running to hijack the chemicals in your
  258. 8:20brain to want to care. No stakes, no big
  259. 8:22question, no head fake, no re-hook,
  260. 8:24nothing. That was a vending machine
  261. 8:26story. Now, let me tell you the exact
  262. 8:27same story with a little more sauce, and
  263. 8:29I'm going to turn the addiction loop on.
  264. 8:31And I will call out each step in the
  265. 8:33flow as we do it. All right, here we go.
  266. 8:35Once upon a time, there was a prince,
  267. 8:37and his kingdom was dying. A plague had
  268. 8:39been spreading for months across the
  269. 8:41country, and it had almost reached the
  270. 8:43town where his castle and his family
  271. 8:45were staying. The only cure for this
  272. 8:47plague is a flower that grows at the top
  273. 8:49of an ancient tower, buried away deep,
  274. 8:52deep in the mountains. But, the tower is
  275. 8:53guarded by a dragon that hasn't been
  276. 8:56defeated in thousands of years. Every
  277. 8:58knight that has gone to try to defeat
  278. 9:00this dragon and get this flower has
  279. 9:02never come back. But, the prince has to
  280. 9:04go. His father, the king, is begging him
  281. 9:05to do so. If he doesn't, everyone he
  282. 9:07loves will be dead by the end of the
  283. 9:09week. Now, that was the stakes. And even
  284. 9:11though I already told you what was going
  285. 9:12to happen in the story the first time,
  286. 9:14you still kind of care. Not because I
  287. 9:16told you to care, but because I gave you
  288. 9:18a character with something to lose, a
  289. 9:20ticking clock, and a consequence if he
  290. 9:22failed. And by doing this, the brain
  291. 9:24just naturally turns on and locks in.
  292. 9:27It's been activated, and now the
  293. 9:28predictions are starting to run in your
  294. 9:30head for what might happen next. Okay,
  295. 9:32let's keep going in the story. The
  296. 9:33prince arrives at the base of the tower,
  297. 9:36and the dragon is massive, way bigger
  298. 9:38than anything he's ever seen, 10 times
  299. 9:40the size of what he thought. He has one
  300. 9:42sword, no armor, and no backup. How is
  301. 9:45he possibly going to get past this
  302. 9:47thing? All right, that is the big
  303. 9:48question. Now, I put that question in
  304. 9:51your head explicitly. I said the
  305. 9:52question, but either way, your
  306. 9:53prediction mechanism is now firing and
  307. 9:56you're wondering what's going to happen.
  308. 9:57Maybe you think he finds a weak spot in
  309. 9:59the dragon's belly. Maybe you think he's
  310. 10:01going to outsmart the dragon somehow.
  311. 10:03Maybe you think he actually might lose.
  312. 10:05It's a dark story. He's going to die and
  313. 10:06he'll never come back. Whatever you
  314. 10:08predicted, you're now locked in until
  315. 10:10you figure out what the answer is.
  316. 10:11Because your brain has loaded in a
  317. 10:13question that it wants to resolve. That
  318. 10:16is the sustained dopamine drip, that
  319. 10:18anticipation, the wanting to know the
  320. 10:20answer. Okay, let's keep going back to
  321. 10:21the story. The prince draws his sword
  322. 10:23and starts approaching the dragon. But
  323. 10:25as he gets closer, he notices something.
  324. 10:27The dragon isn't attacking him. It's
  325. 10:29pulling away. It's scared. And then he
  326. 10:31sees it. There's a massive chain around
  327. 10:34the dragon's neck and it's bolted to the
  328. 10:36base of a metal plate. The dragon isn't
  329. 10:38guarding the tower, it's a prisoner of
  330. 10:41the tower. So he puts his sword down, he
  331. 10:43walks up to the chain, and he breaks it.
  332. 10:44The dragon looks back at him, stretches
  333. 10:46its wings for what feels like the first
  334. 10:48time in centuries, and flies away. The
  335. 10:50path to the tower to get to the flower
  336. 10:52is now wide [music] open. That right
  337. 10:54there is the head fake. You probably
  338. 10:56predicted a fight or at least some way
  339. 10:58around the dragon. But instead, you got
  340. 11:00a rescue, something you weren't
  341. 11:01expecting. And notice, you didn't just
  342. 11:03feel confused, that clicked when I said
  343. 11:06it. Because it makes sense. There were
  344. 11:07clues. He was pulling away. He was
  345. 11:09scared. It's possible for that to have
  346. 11:11happened. That's what separates a great
  347. 11:13head fake from a cheap one. A cheap
  348. 11:15surprise is just random. It comes out of
  349. 11:17nowhere. It doesn't have anything to do
  350. 11:18with the lead up, and it just doesn't
  351. 11:19make any sense. A great head fake is one
  352. 11:22that you would never have expected, but
  353. 11:23as soon as you hear it, you immediately
  354. 11:25understand why it's true. That
  355. 11:27prediction error, the head fake between
  356. 11:29thinking he'll fight and actually
  357. 11:31rescuing, that triggered the biggest
  358. 11:33dopamine spike you could possibly get.
  359. 11:35Now your brain is paying more attention
  360. 11:36to the story than it was before cuz you
  361. 11:38don't want to get caught flat-footed
  362. 11:40making a mistake again. All right, let's
  363. 11:41keep going and finish the story. Now
  364. 11:43that the path is cleared, the prince
  365. 11:44starts walking towards the tower and he
  366. 11:46starts climbing the stairs. He reaches
  367. 11:48the top floor and the magical flower is
  368. 11:50just sitting there in the middle of the
  369. 11:52room. But standing next to it is the
  370. 11:53king, his father, the one who sent him
  371. 11:56on this mission in the first place. Now
  372. 11:58suddenly a new question just hit you.
  373. 12:00Wait, why was the king there? What does
  374. 12:01the king have to do with this? Did the
  375. 12:02dragon actually bring the king? How did
  376. 12:04he get there so fast? That's the
  377. 12:06re-hook. Before your brain even finished
  378. 12:08the head fake that the dragon was a
  379. 12:09prisoner and not a guard, immediately we
  380. 12:11reopen a new loop by posing a new
  381. 12:14question you didn't see coming. One loop
  382. 12:16closed, the next loop opened at the same
  383. 12:18time. And now you're more invested than
  384. 12:20you were at the start. That is the
  385. 12:22addiction story loop. Stakes, the big
  386. 12:24question, the head fake, and the re-hook
  387. 12:26on repeat over and over. And notice what
  388. 12:28just happened to you. I told you the
  389. 12:30first version, the flat version, the
  390. 12:31dragon, the prince, the castle, the
  391. 12:33flower, pretty basic. And you felt
  392. 12:34nothing. Your brain was on autopilot,
  393. 12:36complete vending machine story. But when
  394. 12:38I told the loop version, you probably
  395. 12:40leaned in. You made predictions for what
  396. 12:42would happen. You got surprised when it
  397. 12:43didn't. You got re-hooked with a new
  398. 12:45question. Same characters, same setting,
  399. 12:47but a completely different neurological
  400. 12:49experience. And here's the thing, it
  401. 12:50doesn't matter whether the story's about
  402. 12:52a prince and a dragon or the path for
  403. 12:54your business to get to a million
  404. 12:55dollars or some client story that went
  405. 12:57awry, this same loop works for every
  406. 13:00scenario. All you need are the stakes to
  407. 13:03make the person's brain care in the
  408. 13:05first place, a big question to force an
  409. 13:07initial prediction, a head fake reveal
  410. 13:10that breaks the initial expectation, and
  411. 13:12a re-hook to start the next cycle again
  412. 13:15before the previous one ends. As long as
  413. 13:17that loop is happening, the person
  414. 13:19listening to the story chemically cannot
  415. 13:21disengage because there's always an
  416. 13:23unresolved prediction that's consuming
  417. 13:25their attention. Now the million-dollar
  418. 13:27question is, how do you tactically use
  419. 13:29this in your own stories? Not a fairy
  420. 13:31tale, not a casino, but when you write
  421. 13:33your stories, what are the tactics that
  422. 13:35must be true to make those four pieces
  423. 13:37of the loop come alive? We're going to
  424. 13:39break that down right now. And by the
  425. 13:41way, if you like how I'm systematically
  426. 13:42walking this through, first theory with
  427. 13:44the casino, then a real example, then
  428. 13:46the tactics, I actually put together my
  429. 13:48full short-form content system in the
  430. 13:50same way. It covers how I come up with
  431. 13:52ideas, how I research them, how I write
  432. 13:55hooks, but most importantly, the actual
  433. 13:57monetization funnel that I use to turn
  434. 13:59views into dollars. And I explain it
  435. 14:02very clearly using this type of logic.
  436. 14:04If you want to get that full system,
  437. 14:06it's also completely free. You can get
  438. 14:07it shortformsystem.co
  439. 14:09or at the link below. It'll make your
  440. 14:11content system way better. All right, so
  441. 14:13now you know the science and you've seen
  442. 14:15the loop in action for some fairy tale
  443. 14:18type story. This last part is going to
  444. 14:19be way more tactical and less
  445. 14:21theoretical. I'm going to walk through
  446. 14:22each of the four steps in the loop and
  447. 14:23give you the tactical playbook for how
  448. 14:25you can use this in your content.
  449. 14:27Whether you're making YouTube videos,
  450. 14:28shorts, writing emails, tweets, or even
  451. 14:30talking to a customer on a sales call,
  452. 14:32these tactics work every time. [music]
  453. 14:34All right, let's start with the stakes.
  454. 14:35Now, stakes is the simplest step in the
  455. 14:37loop, but it's the one people mess up
  456. 14:39the most. And they mess it up by
  457. 14:41skipping it entirely. You only need
  458. 14:43three things to make the stakes matter
  459. 14:45for anyone in any story. One, a
  460. 14:48character someone can root for. Two,
  461. 14:50something at risk. And three, urgency.
  462. 14:53Now, character doesn't have to mean a
  463. 14:54fictional person. It could be you. It
  464. 14:56could be your client. It could be I was
  465. 14:58talking to some creator the other day.
  466. 15:00As long as the viewer can picture a real
  467. 15:01human in a real situation, you've got
  468. 15:03your character. Something at risk means
  469. 15:05there's a consequence if things go
  470. 15:07wrong. I was about to lose my biggest
  471. 15:09client or the whole launch was on the
  472. 15:11line. Because the brain needs to know
  473. 15:13what failure looks like so it can start
  474. 15:15predicting if something will succeed or
  475. 15:17not. Now, urgency, the third piece, is
  476. 15:19the multiplier. Saying within a week
  477. 15:21hits harder than saying eventually.
  478. 15:23Saying the call was in 2 hours hits
  479. 15:26harder than saying the call was later in
  480. 15:28the day. If you add a ticking clock and
  481. 15:30some urgency, it compresses the stakes
  482. 15:32and makes the brain predict faster. Now,
  483. 15:34here's the thing most people don't
  484. 15:35realize. You don't need to be dramatic
  485. 15:37about setting the scene to build the
  486. 15:39stakes. Stakes don't mean life or death,
  487. 15:41they just mean personally relevant for
  488. 15:44your ideal viewer. For example, I had 48
  489. 15:46hours to figure out why our paid budget
  490. 15:48wasn't working or I was going to blow
  491. 15:50through the whole thing. That's an
  492. 15:51example of stakes. Nobody's dying, but
  493. 15:53if you're a business owner and you care
  494. 15:54about paid spend, well, that taps into a
  495. 15:57real scenario with a real character,
  496. 15:58real stakes, and real urgency that
  497. 16:00you've experienced. So, the tactic is
  498. 16:02very simple. Before you start your
  499. 16:03story, the viewer has to know what is at
  500. 16:05risk, who it's happening to, and why it
  501. 16:08matters right now. If the answer to any
  502. 16:10of those is confusing or not apparent
  503. 16:12before you start the story, you need to
  504. 16:13establish those to build better stakes.
  505. 16:16All right, the second step in the loop
  506. 16:17is the big question. And the big
  507. 16:18question is where content goes from
  508. 16:20decent to really addictive. The mistake
  509. 16:22people most often make here is they're
  510. 16:23being way too vague. They say,
  511. 16:25"Something crazy happened." or "You're
  512. 16:27not going to believe it." or "Things
  513. 16:29were about to change." Those kind of
  514. 16:31statements don't prompt big questions.
  515. 16:33They're kind of empty teasers. The
  516. 16:35viewer's brain won't be able to predict
  517. 16:36what happens cuz you haven't given them
  518. 16:38enough specific information for them to
  519. 16:40make a guess. And remember, if they
  520. 16:41don't predict what's going to happen,
  521. 16:43well, then the head fake won't hit
  522. 16:44because it has nothing to contrast
  523. 16:46against. The setup for a great big
  524. 16:47question gives the viewer just enough
  525. 16:49information to make a prediction, but
  526. 16:51not too much to overwhelm them. That's
  527. 16:53the sweet spot you're going for. Here's
  528. 16:54an example of this in practice. So, I
  529. 16:56get on the call with my client and
  530. 16:57within 30 minutes, she tells me
  531. 16:59something that completely changes my
  532. 17:01strategy for the next 6 months. Now, as
  533. 17:03a listener or a viewer, your brain is
  534. 17:05running. What did she say? Was it a
  535. 17:06complaint? Was it some new trend that
  536. 17:08nobody knows about? You start asking
  537. 17:10yourself those questions and
  538. 17:11subconsciously forming the prediction,
  539. 17:13and now you're locked in. If If compare
  540. 17:15that with something like, "I had a call
  541. 17:16with the client and it went well. Well,
  542. 17:18there's nothing to predict there, so the
  543. 17:19question never happens and there's
  544. 17:21nothing to head fake against. So, the
  545. 17:22tactic is this. Whenever you're about to
  546. 17:24reveal something important in your
  547. 17:26content, stop, back up, and before the
  548. 17:29reveal, give the viewer more context so
  549. 17:31they can make a prediction before you
  550. 17:34give that answer. This will pop a
  551. 17:36question that your answer will then head
  552. 17:37fake against. Not every moment in the
  553. 17:39story needs one of these big questions,
  554. 17:41but every great story has a massive big
  555. 17:43question towards the beginning that
  556. 17:45viewers will chew on. And the earlier
  557. 17:47you load it in, the longer that dopamine
  558. 17:49can drip in before the answer is
  559. 17:51revealed. All right, step three is the
  560. 17:53head fake and this one is the hardest to
  561. 17:55get right of the four. Because like I
  562. 17:56said earlier, there's a big difference
  563. 17:58between a surprise that's addictive and
  564. 18:00a surprise that's just confusing. A bad
  565. 18:02head fake comes out of nowhere with no
  566. 18:04setup or connection to everything else.
  567. 18:07It might be shocking, but it just
  568. 18:08doesn't make sense based on what you've
  569. 18:10already shared. When it doesn't click,
  570. 18:12the viewer won't get that dopamine spike
  571. 18:13cuz they don't feel the aha. They just
  572. 18:15get frustrated and confused. So, the
  573. 18:17great rule of thumb for a head fake is
  574. 18:18this. Figure out what a normal viewer
  575. 18:21should believe, what they should be
  576. 18:22predicting based on what you've already
  577. 18:24said, and then contrast against it.
  578. 18:26Think about how a magician works. They
  579. 18:28don't just pull the rabbit out of the
  580. 18:29hat in the first minute. They show you
  581. 18:31the hat, they show that it's empty, they
  582. 18:32tell you look over here, and then boom,
  583. 18:34they pull the rabbit out of the hat over
  584. 18:36here. When the rabbit appears, you're
  585. 18:37surprised, but the logic checks out and
  586. 18:40you know you missed something that was
  587. 18:41clearly there. That is what a good head
  588. 18:44fake looks like. So, here's the
  589. 18:45practical framework for building head
  590. 18:47fakes. Step one, figure out what the
  591. 18:49viewer will naturally predict based on
  592. 18:50the context. Step two, deliver an answer
  593. 18:53or reveal that contrast what they
  594. 18:55believe, but is clearly logical in a way
  595. 18:57that they can accept to be true right
  596. 18:59away. All right, the last step, number
  597. 19:01four, is the re-hook. And the re-hook is
  598. 19:03the simplest tactic in the loop, but
  599. 19:05it's the thing that separates the good
  600. 19:07storytellers from the great ones.
  601. 19:08Because the re-hook isn't just not what
  602. 19:10you say, it's when you say it. Remember
  603. 19:12the casino metric, time per hand is
  604. 19:15everything. The casino's entire goal is
  605. 19:17to decrease the time between dopamine
  606. 19:19hits. Your goal as a storyteller is the
  607. 19:21exact same thing. So, the moment the
  608. 19:23head fake lands and the viewer is trying
  609. 19:25to figure out what happened, that's when
  610. 19:26you open a new question with a re-hook.
  611. 19:29And here's what this sounds like in
  612. 19:30practice. And that's when she told me
  613. 19:31she was doubling her budget, which would
  614. 19:33have been amazing if I hadn't just
  615. 19:34signed an exclusivity agreement with her
  616. 19:36competitor the night before. That's a
  617. 19:38re-hook. The head fake, she's doubling
  618. 19:39her budget, is resolved, but then a new
  619. 19:42loop, I just signed an exclusivity
  620. 19:43agreement with her competitor, opens on
  621. 19:45the other side. Compare that with
  622. 19:46something like this. She doubled her
  623. 19:47budget, and that was a great call.
  624. 19:49Anyways, now I'm on to See how much dead
  625. 19:51air there is between closing that and
  626. 19:53then transitioning into the next. You
  627. 19:55want it to be much faster. Phrases that
  628. 19:56make re-hooks work and feel like
  629. 19:58connective tissue are things like this,
  630. 20:00which would have been great except, but
  631. 20:02here's the problem with that, and that's
  632. 20:03when I realized, which is exactly why
  633. 20:06{dot} {dot} {dot} Each of these phrases
  634. 20:08closes a loop and opens another one in
  635. 20:10the same breath. So, the tactic really
  636. 20:11is this. Go to the points in your story
  637. 20:14where you feel like you close down a
  638. 20:15loop and you're going to begin a new
  639. 20:17section. Those are the danger zones for
  640. 20:19dropping attention. Right at that
  641. 20:21moment, you need some re-hook, some new
  642. 20:22question, some new complication, some
  643. 20:24new implication, something new to
  644. 20:26re-trigger attention. Think of it like a
  645. 20:28relay race. The baton has to transition
  646. 20:30between runners when they're both
  647. 20:31moving. If runner one comes to runner
  648. 20:33two and they were at a dead stop, it
  649. 20:35would lose all momentum. Storytelling
  650. 20:37works in the exact same way. All right,
  651. 20:38guys, that's all I've got for this
  652. 20:40video. As a recap, we broke down the
  653. 20:41four-step addiction loop, the
  654. 20:43neurochemical process that really powers
  655. 20:46all the most addictive stories you've
  656. 20:47ever heard. And the best part is none of
  657. 20:49what I walked through requires you to be
  658. 20:51a super gifted storyteller. It's not
  659. 20:53really a talent, it's just a formula.
  660. 20:55Four steps running on repeat backed by
  661. 20:57the exact same neuroscience that casinos
  662. 20:59use to get billions a year from addicted
  663. 21:02gamblers. As always, guys, I'm just
  664. 21:03trying to give you the most useful,
  665. 21:05non-obvious, outside-the-box stuff that
  666. 21:07will help you improve your content. My
  667. 21:09goal is to help 1 million people make 1
  668. 21:11million dollars from content. That's 1
  669. 21:13trillion dollars in market value, and I
  670. 21:15really want you to be one of the next
  671. 21:16ones that does it. If you're a business
  672. 21:17owner and you're trying to use content
  673. 21:19to grow your business, to monetize and
  674. 21:21grow something, this will be one of the
  675. 21:23best channels you could possibly watch
  676. 21:24on YouTube. So, if you found this video
  677. 21:26valuable or you just enjoyed it,
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  681. 21:32giving the sauce away when it comes to
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  684. 21:37on storytelling that breaks down
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  690. 21:47Peace.

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