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  1. 0:00I had this great piece of advice from a
  2. 0:01mentor who told me I said yeah you know
  3. 0:02had a couple good days and she said I'm
  4. 0:04pretty sure the secret to life has dream
  5. 0:05as many days in a row like that as you
  6. 0:06can and it was one of those very
  7. 0:07tactical pieces of advice that I've
  8. 0:08actually taken with me forever which was
  9. 0:10so when I looked back on my whole year I
  10. 0:11was like okay what were the top 10 days
  11. 0:13of this year and I I started thinking
  12. 0:15through them and I would say that like
  13. 0:16if you think of a day as a microcosm of
  14. 0:18your life it's like I would like to end
  15. 0:20end this life being like I gave I left
  16. 0:22it alone ironically then people look at
  17. 0:24you and think guys so skilled as an
  18. 0:26entrepreneur or what a great speech
  19. 0:27maker or but it's actually happened
  20. 0:29through emptying the tank all these
  21. 0:31days. I also don't want to fall into
  22. 0:33this I get you call it like bro culture
  23. 0:35hustle culture notion of like the funny
  24. 0:38clip of me saying I work a million hours
  25. 0:40a day and I can change time.
  26. 0:43However, what what I don't want to sound
  27. 0:45like is like that that's that there's no
  28. 0:48meaning in other things. It's [snorts]
  29. 0:50about maximizing output of unit of time
  30. 0:52total. But if I only had 24 hours, then
  31. 0:55yeah, take as many stimulus as you can
  32. 0:56because you only have 24 hours to work.
  33. 0:57But that's not how the world works. You
  34. 0:59have and for the the games that we're
  35. 1:01trying to play decade plus, it's like
  36. 1:04not only that, you actually have to be
  37. 1:05alive from a meeting purpose
  38. 1:06perspective. That's a really good point.
  39. 1:08Maybe one of the best points I've heard
  40. 1:09on a podcast in probably 10 years.
  41. 1:18>> Welcome back to the show everybody. So
  42. 1:19here's who I have with me today.
  43. 1:20Somebody that I admire a great deal. I
  44. 1:22wish I spent more time with um I think
  45. 1:25he's one of the great American
  46. 1:26entrepreneurs actually worldwide
  47. 1:27entrepreneurs. He's um I told him this
  48. 1:29privately on a conversation I don't know
  49. 1:31about six, eight weeks ago. I think he's
  50. 1:33the best in the world at teaching people
  51. 1:34how to be better business people and
  52. 1:36better marketers. I think he's number
  53. 1:37one in the world and I say that as
  54. 1:39somebody who does it myself and so I
  55. 1:40have a great deal of admiration for him.
  56. 1:43Um most importantly his brain is huge
  57. 1:45but his heart is bigger. That's the one
  58. 1:46thing I think most people online would
  59. 1:48not know about this young man. He's got
  60. 1:50a heart of gold. He's a kind person.
  61. 1:52He's a humble person. And he still is
  62. 1:55curious and still wants to learn. He
  63. 1:57still actually asks for advice from time
  64. 1:58to time. And so, um, you're going to get
  65. 2:00his advice today on the Ed Mlet Show
  66. 2:02with the great Alex Hermosi. Welcome
  67. 2:04back.
  68. 2:05>> Thank you for having me. And my only
  69. 2:07goal in this podcast is live up to that
  70. 2:09introduction. [laughter]
  71. 2:10Oh,
  72. 2:10>> you you'll do great. So, uh, you got a
  73. 2:13lot going on in your life.
  74. 2:14Congratulations on the potential the the
  75. 2:17sooncoming fatherhood for you. How has
  76. 2:19it changed you at all? like just the
  77. 2:20thought of it, just knowing it's coming.
  78. 2:22>> I'd say the thought has changed my life
  79. 2:25maybe in two ways. One is that I'm
  80. 2:26actively really um trying to get ahead
  81. 2:28on education for my son and thinking
  82. 2:30like what inroads do I need to do so
  83. 2:32that I can set
  84. 2:33>> him up education wise because I don't
  85. 2:34like the system obviously.
  86. 2:36>> Um I'd say that's one. I would say two
  87. 2:38is that I feel like I've had a little
  88. 2:39bit of a shift in terms of up to this
  89. 2:41point I've just only had I would say I
  90. 2:44have had reverence for the game and that
  91. 2:46is why I continue to play it. Um, but
  92. 2:48I've had a weird shift where I was like,
  93. 2:50oh, I guess I am going to leave this to
  94. 2:52someone because until this point it was
  95. 2:54just I'm going to write it to charity in
  96. 2:56one check and let it go to like the
  97. 2:57Acumen Fund or some of these really good
  98. 2:59institutions that know how to deploy
  99. 3:00capital in a charitable way because I
  100. 3:01was just like this was just chips to
  101. 3:03play the game.
  102. 3:04>> Um,
  103. 3:05>> but so that's I would say those are the
  104. 3:06two things that have changed about in
  105. 3:08terms of like what has what new weights
  106. 3:10are waiting my decision-m those are
  107. 3:12those two. um I'm more I'm more likely
  108. 3:14to respond to a a student outreach, you
  109. 3:16know, like something student related.
  110. 3:18>> Um but beyond that, in terms of my like
  111. 3:20>> internal stuff, um I'm here to support
  112. 3:22Ila.
  113. 3:23>> Um and I expect the emotionality of
  114. 3:25it'll probably come when he's
  115. 3:26>> born. Yeah. But I know you and I have
  116. 3:29had enough conversations. I think it's
  117. 3:30more than that with you. I think it's
  118. 3:32changed your overall look on everything.
  119. 3:35I mean, you've asked me a few questions
  120. 3:37in different ways, but but
  121. 3:39>> I you appear to, at least to me, it
  122. 3:42seems to have almost I don't know
  123. 3:45broadened your perspective, made it
  124. 3:47bigger. Uh,
  125. 3:48>> totally.
  126. 3:48>> In what way? Like if if we're using my
  127. 3:50terminology because I think it's
  128. 3:52important. You have a lot of young
  129. 3:53people that follow your content. You
  130. 3:54have a lot of people that follow your
  131. 3:56content, but a lot of them are guys like
  132. 3:57me when I was coming up, guys like you
  133. 3:59when you're coming up, and they're not
  134. 4:00at this stage of their life yet. I
  135. 4:02wonder knowing what you know now about
  136. 4:04you're going to be a dad, would it have
  137. 4:05changed anything you were doing or
  138. 4:07thinking prior?
  139. 4:08>> Leila and I got really serious about
  140. 4:10having kids when I was 28
  141. 4:12>> and we [clears throat] were like really
  142. 4:13going to do it and then we were like you
  143. 4:15know what let's not. But there was like
  144. 4:17you know a few month period we're like
  145. 4:18let's do this. Um and I think that we
  146. 4:21could have like again I can't replay
  147. 4:23life but like I think me doing it at
  148. 4:24that point I was 28 and she was 25
  149. 4:28>> might have been like that would have
  150. 4:29been good. I probably would have been
  151. 4:30easier to have more kids.
  152. 4:32>> Um because I think Leila and I are very
  153. 4:34all like all or nothing. Um and so as
  154. 4:37soon as we found out that she was
  155. 4:38pregnant with um our son,
  156. 4:41>> um we're like, well, I guess we're going
  157. 4:42to have a lot more than one or at least
  158. 4:44that's the goal. So it's either like
  159. 4:46none or have a soccer team, you know,
  160. 4:48that's kind of [laughter] like
  161. 4:49>> and we have settled on Edward. That is
  162. 4:51his name, right?
  163. 4:52>> One of the great names of that.
  164. 4:53>> Yeah, he's going to be Edward. I got to
  165. 4:55tell you, when he told me about the the
  166. 4:57the blessing, I I think you would agree.
  167. 5:01I was almost as excited as if my own
  168. 5:03son.
  169. 5:04>> And the reason is I just want to tell
  170. 5:05you and then we'll get into content that
  171. 5:07everybody wants. I've long thought you'd
  172. 5:09be a great father.
  173. 5:11>> And I've told you that. I told you that
  174. 5:12before this happened. So, I'm just
  175. 5:13really happy for you. I just want you to
  176. 5:15know that. I'm really
  177. 5:16>> say that for people I mean, everyone who
  178. 5:18listens to this already knows you, but
  179. 5:19like Ed's even better in private than he
  180. 5:21is on these podcasts. And um
  181. 5:24>> thank you.
  182. 5:24>> It's one of the one of the rare gifts. I
  183. 5:26think I had someone ask me like, "Hey,
  184. 5:27what are the people of all the people
  185. 5:29that you've met
  186. 5:30>> um that were, you know, different in
  187. 5:32person versus their content?" And I was
  188. 5:34like, "Ed, for sure." And they were
  189. 5:36like,
  190. 5:36>> "Oh." And I was like, "No, he's just way
  191. 5:38better."
  192. 5:39>> Oh, thank you.
  193. 5:40>> And um and yeah, it's just like there
  194. 5:42are very few people that I that I like
  195. 5:44if I was like having something that was
  196. 5:45kind of complex. like you have this very
  197. 5:47great depth of understanding from both
  198. 5:48like you have the business acumen but
  199. 5:50you have this great balance of of
  200. 5:52humility without having any judgment and
  201. 5:54I think that's super rare.
  202. 5:55>> Thank you. So do you by the way it's
  203. 5:56what I admire about you. We both at our
  204. 5:58stage are important people to know we're
  205. 6:00both still curious. We still both want
  206. 6:01to learn. You're the smartest guy in the
  207. 6:03room most of the time but you don't ever
  208. 6:05act like it. And that's one of the
  209. 6:06things that I really love about you. You
  210. 6:08made me think about my own content. So I
  211. 6:09want to go into some stuff. I want to
  212. 6:10ask you about some stuff. You've
  213. 6:12challenged my own thinking. So, I was
  214. 6:14probably one of the early on way back in
  215. 6:16the day morning routine, evening routine
  216. 6:20guys.
  217. 6:21>> Creating structure.
  218. 6:22>> I probably made it sound as if I was a
  219. 6:25little bit more dialed in than I really
  220. 6:26was on any given day. You know how
  221. 6:27content can come across that way.
  222. 6:29>> But you've sort of taken a different
  223. 6:30perspective on it. And frankly, you've
  224. 6:32persuaded me, you're probably more right
  225. 6:34than I was. And so, I've actually not
  226. 6:37really gone back to the old way that I
  227. 6:38teach this stuff. Meaning I think
  228. 6:40there's a lot of things that are
  229. 6:41ritualistic we do
  230. 6:42>> that are just time fillers now that are
  231. 6:44wasting time. So share with the audience
  232. 6:46kind of your view on morning routines
  233. 6:49and what is what really matters to get a
  234. 6:52day started in a business going.
  235. 6:54>> I I I basically see the time that you
  236. 6:57wake up after any period of sleep even
  237. 6:59if you take a nap right afterwards is
  238. 7:01where your your processing power is
  239. 7:02going to be the best. And so the morning
  240. 7:04typically is where you're going to have
  241. 7:05the the best thinking if you can use the
  242. 7:07morning ideally. Some people can't get
  243. 7:09the time, fine. You can do late at
  244. 7:10night. It's okay. Um, but because of
  245. 7:12that, my goal is to compress the time
  246. 7:14from when I wake up to when I begin
  247. 7:15working as fast as to as little as
  248. 7:17possible. And so for me, it's basically
  249. 7:19>> wake up, uh, stimulate, meaning
  250. 7:22caffeine, nicotine 8, proteinate, you
  251. 7:24know, creatine 8, do all my stuff, my
  252. 7:26stuff, and then just basically go right
  253. 7:27into it. Um, I think some people having
  254. 7:29like maybe a 10-minute meditation or
  255. 7:31something like that because it calms
  256. 7:32their, you know, emotionality, attack
  257. 7:33the thing, that's fine. I think
  258. 7:35anything, you know, much longer than
  259. 7:37that, like for example, I love training.
  260. 7:39Um, but when I'm trying to be my most
  261. 7:41productive, I train at the end of the
  262. 7:42day.
  263. 7:43>> You do?
  264. 7:43>> Yeah. Okay.
  265. 7:44>> Because my brain is exhausted, but my
  266. 7:46body is still fresh.
  267. 7:47>> Um, but if I use if I train the way I
  268. 7:49want to train, which is two hours, I'm
  269. 7:51using the first two hours of my day on
  270. 7:52train, which if I don't if I'm not in a
  271. 7:54go- go season, which happens plenty, um,
  272. 7:56I'll train first. Um, because I'll use
  273. 7:58all my juice there. But I'm definitely
  274. 8:00more fatigued because I train pretty
  275. 8:01hard.
  276. 8:01>> Yeah. I'm interesting. I I've had a
  277. 8:03Let's talk about this for a minute. I
  278. 8:04think it's a little bit of and debate
  279. 8:06this with me a little bit. One, my
  280. 8:07routines were too long. You're right. It
  281. 8:09was
  282. 8:10>> two hour an hour and a half or two hours
  283. 8:12of stuff to just get going. Yeah.
  284. 8:14>> And frankly, as I step away from it,
  285. 8:16>> I don't even believe any of that in real
  286. 8:17life. You don't have to be perfectly
  287. 8:19prepared to do anything. In fact, you're
  288. 8:20never going to be.
  289. 8:21>> Some people is it not? You don't think
  290. 8:23it's more like know thyself? Like the
  291. 8:24most successful high performers I know
  292. 8:26know their peak cognitive time of the
  293. 8:28day.
  294. 8:29>> So, are you saying that you think for
  295. 8:30everybody it's their morning? Cuz for
  296. 8:31me,
  297. 8:32>> I'm with you. I'm probably best like not
  298. 8:35not 5:00 a.m. morning, but I'm probably
  299. 8:37best my best meeting should be taken
  300. 8:38hardest meeting should be taken between
  301. 8:409:00 and noon for me.
  302. 8:41>> The basis 10 a.m. meeting.
  303. 8:42>> Yeah, that but do you think that it's
  304. 8:44more if you're giving advice to
  305. 8:45somebody, it's it's become self-aware of
  306. 8:47when your cognitive peak is.
  307. 8:49>> Yeah, I think there's the um the like
  308. 8:51population versus n equals 1. And so I
  309. 8:54think population wise most people when
  310. 8:56they're the freshest is like after they
  311. 8:58wake up. Now I'm not saying like you get
  312. 9:00shook out of bed now write an essay.
  313. 9:01That's not what I'm saying. But 30 an
  314. 9:03hour once your cortisol comes up and
  315. 9:05you're like alert um usually at that
  316. 9:07point you're you're freshest now n
  317. 9:09equals 1 everyone's different and so if
  318. 9:11you had a scatter plot of humans it's
  319. 9:13like in general that is where it is
  320. 9:15going to be if you don't know where to
  321. 9:16start where you're going to be more
  322. 9:16productive start in the morning if you
  323. 9:18have if you're like I for sure I'm a
  324. 9:20night owl then be a night out like I I
  325. 9:22think both like I have no dog in this
  326. 9:24fight whatever you want
  327. 9:25>> right agreed
  328. 9:26>> I think the only thing that I I would
  329. 9:27say that I am adamant about that I would
  330. 9:28you know what sword would I would
  331. 9:30actually fall on is that I would never
  332. 9:32want my routine to become a crutch in
  333. 9:36that if it if I didn't have it, it would
  334. 9:38make me less capable.
  335. 9:40>> And so it has to be something that I can
  336. 9:42win
  337. 9:43>> without it, but if it's there, it's
  338. 9:45additive. So it's a preference, not a
  339. 9:46requirement.
  340. 9:47>> And so I think um one of my favorite
  341. 9:49lines in Invictus, which is like this
  342. 9:50weird movie with Morgan Freeman,
  343. 9:52>> he's talking to uh Matt Demon, who's the
  344. 9:55lead South African player. they have
  345. 9:58some exchange and he says, you know, I
  346. 10:00um I wish we could have played better
  347. 10:02this year, but you know, we we weren't
  348. 10:03100%. And Morgan Freeman, who's supposed
  349. 10:05to be Nelson Mandela, says no one's ever
  350. 10:07100%.
  351. 10:08>> And I it was this really great exchange
  352. 10:10that um I've always thought a lot about,
  353. 10:12which is like a lot of like champions
  354. 10:14and winners win despite imperfect
  355. 10:16conditions.
  356. 10:16>> Amen.
  357. 10:17>> Not in the s pursuit or effort of
  358. 10:20creating perfect condition.
  359. 10:21>> I want to talk about that. By the way,
  360. 10:22in about something ironic, my drive over
  361. 10:23here with my Uber guy, I can't say why,
  362. 10:26but but I have a recent engagement with
  363. 10:29Morgan Freeman. I spent the last 40
  364. 10:31minutes driving over here talking about
  365. 10:32Morgan Freeman of all human beings. And
  366. 10:33now you bring up that name in the
  367. 10:34interview. I want talk about effort and
  368. 10:36conditions. Here's the thing I think
  369. 10:38that you have.
  370. 10:39>> I want you to discuss this with
  371. 10:40everybody. I think for most people,
  372. 10:42effort
  373. 10:43>> is conditional. Like when I'm working
  374. 10:46with athletes, you know, I'll go to
  375. 10:47these college football teams or these,
  376. 10:49you know, professional teams and if the
  377. 10:51guy's starting and he's first string and
  378. 10:54it's, you know, 10 to seven in the
  379. 10:56fourth quarter, you're getting 100% max
  380. 10:58effort from that person. But if he's
  381. 10:59second or third string in practice on
  382. 11:01Thursday, he knows he's not going to
  383. 11:02play in the game or it's 21 to nothing.
  384. 11:04Effort changes for most people based on
  385. 11:07conditions.
  386. 11:08>> And I think someone like yourself who's
  387. 11:10had long-term success, you've made
  388. 11:12effort unconditional. Meaning regardless
  389. 11:14of the conditions, winning, losing,
  390. 11:16pregnant, not pregnant, an exit, a deal
  391. 11:19that falls apart, effort is not based on
  392. 11:21conditions or even how the people around
  393. 11:23you are behaving.
  394. 11:24>> Do you believe that that's a key?
  395. 11:26>> A thousand%.
  396. 11:27>> Yeah.
  397. 11:27>> For for two reasons and I think the
  398. 11:28second you'll appreciate more. So I'll
  399. 11:30actually start with that one.
  400. 11:31>> If you are somebody who starts to win,
  401. 11:34right? So this is maybe only talking to
  402. 11:35the 10% or 5% of people who are
  403. 11:37listening to this. You can't you can't
  404. 11:40make your effort conditional on winning
  405. 11:42anymore because winning the bar is too
  406. 11:44low
  407. 11:45>> because starting to outco compete other
  408. 11:47people who aren't as prepared who didn't
  409. 11:48realize how much effort you're going to
  410. 11:49put in ahead of time like you actually
  411. 11:51end up sacrificing your potential
  412. 11:54>> um in just trying to beat them
  413. 11:57>> rather than saying like and this is why
  414. 11:59I love Andy's uh Andy Fcella's 100 to
  415. 12:02zero that that like leave no doubt. Y
  416. 12:05>> um so it's like we have to only be
  417. 12:08playing against ourselves especially
  418. 12:10once you get past a certain level.
  419. 12:11>> What a great point.
  420. 12:12>> Um and so I'll say that it's like thing
  421. 12:14one. I would say the second part is that
  422. 12:16I think I had a year off when we sold
  423. 12:18the company and going through that whole
  424. 12:20process and it was one of the most
  425. 12:22miserable of my life. Um and I derived
  426. 12:25from that period uh this concept or this
  427. 12:27mantra of work is the goal. And it was
  428. 12:30the idea that a lot of times even we
  429. 12:33hear the coaches say, "Hey, you know,
  430. 12:34work super hard, the score takes care of
  431. 12:35itself." But even adding on the the
  432. 12:38score takes care of itself. Still makes
  433. 12:40the score the objective or the goal.
  434. 12:43>> If we could just say work as hard as you
  435. 12:45can, period. And I will judge you by how
  436. 12:48hard you worked relative to how hard you
  437. 12:50could work.
  438. 12:51>> And what's difficult about that
  439. 12:53>> is that the only person who actually
  440. 12:55knows how hard you can work is you.
  441. 12:56>> Wow. And so that is both uh gratifying
  442. 12:59and also terrifying because
  443. 13:02>> you can win and in [snorts] the world's
  444. 13:05eyes and still lose in your own if you
  445. 13:06use that as your as your metric.
  446. 13:09>> Yes.
  447. 13:09>> And so
  448. 13:10>> Wow. Very good.
  449. 13:11>> What was what was interesting about the
  450. 13:13So we did this book launch in August of
  451. 13:16last year and we
  452. 13:16>> I heard you made a little money on that.
  453. 13:18>> It worked out.
  454. 13:18>> Yeah. [laughter]
  455. 13:19>> Um so
  456. 13:20>> he made a hundred million bucks. So the
  457. 13:22whole the whole idea was, you know, the
  458. 13:25record was Prince Harry's record, which
  459. 13:26was uh 1.4 million copies sold in 24
  460. 13:29hours, which is roughly like $43 million
  461. 13:32in 24 hours.
  462. 13:34>> And so we we ended up breaking the
  463. 13:36record within the first like 3 hours or
  464. 13:38something like that.
  465. 13:39>> That's crazy.
  466. 13:40>> And but we still had we still had 21
  467. 13:42more hours.
  468. 13:44>> And so this was the 100 to zero concept
  469. 13:46of like, well, let's we're not going to
  470. 13:48stop now. Like let's let's run up the
  471. 13:50score. And I think my team was even
  472. 13:52surprised when I like took a water break
  473. 13:547 8 hours in
  474. 13:56>> and they were like, "Okay, so you know,
  475. 13:57what are we going to do now?" I was
  476. 13:58like, "We're going to keep going."
  477. 14:00>> And like I had almost no celebration.
  478. 14:02Um, yes. But part of it was cuz I was
  479. 14:03like, "I'm not going to waste this."
  480. 14:05Like we put all of this time, we
  481. 14:07gathered all of this attention and we're
  482. 14:09going to deliver as much value as we
  483. 14:10possibly can during this period of time
  484. 14:12and then we're going to go for 100. So
  485. 14:13it wasn't even like don't don't beat it.
  486. 14:15Yes.
  487. 14:16>> Like put a whole new marker for what you
  488. 14:18think is possible. And we had done the
  489. 14:20math or I had done the math prior to
  490. 14:22which is why the hundred million dollar
  491. 14:23launch was the idea. But it was like I
  492. 14:25think we can do this. And so that
  493. 14:27becomes the standard rather than the
  494. 14:28world standard of just winning.
  495. 14:30>> You know, first off, this is why I love
  496. 14:32talking to you because you make me think
  497. 14:33and but I I want to stay on this just
  498. 14:36for a second. First off, we've unpacked
  499. 14:37two gigantic lessons. One is how to
  500. 14:39prepare for your day and when to take
  501. 14:41your best meetings and to be self-aware.
  502. 14:42The second one is this idea of
  503. 14:43unconditional effort. But when you're
  504. 14:45saying something, are you like this too?
  505. 14:48I have actually not really celebrated
  506. 14:51nor have I enjoyed what I think the
  507. 14:54world would think are really normal big
  508. 14:56like life events like the day of an exit
  509. 14:58or like the day you had the $100 million
  510. 15:00day. Yet on the other hand, I've I've
  511. 15:04had massive personal celebrations on
  512. 15:06days where I have, no pun intended, but
  513. 15:07like maxed out my potential possible
  514. 15:10effort in a given day. Meaning almost
  515. 15:12this is this is really counterintuitive
  516. 15:14for most people but so important because
  517. 15:16this isn't on social media. It's not on
  518. 15:17most podcasts. I don't think I've
  519. 15:19mentally the last year played like a
  520. 15:21results game even though I am outcome
  521. 15:23focused.
  522. 15:24>> I am much more process andor effort
  523. 15:28focused. And I celebrate to the extent
  524. 15:31that I'm capable of doing that. The max
  525. 15:33effort days, not the the actual result
  526. 15:36day. And by the way, my celebrations are
  527. 15:37pretty weak and suck too.
  528. 15:38>> We both have had this.
  529. 15:39>> We both have this time privately, right?
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  559. 16:42subscription. Um, when I looked back on
  560. 16:46that year where I was like, "What are
  561. 16:47the what are the the happiest days of my
  562. 16:48life?" Because when you have you have
  563. 16:50your your monetary itch scratched,
  564. 16:52you're like, "Okay, well, what what am I
  565. 16:53doing the what the rest of my innings
  566. 16:54for?"
  567. 16:55>> Um, I had this great piece of advice
  568. 16:57from mentor who told me um after I had
  569. 16:59this particularly good weekend and I was
  570. 17:00in a good mood and um uh she said,
  571. 17:02"You're a good mood." And uh I said,
  572. 17:04"Yeah, you know, had a couple good
  573. 17:05days." And she said, "I'm pretty sure
  574. 17:06the secret to life is string me as many
  575. 17:07days in a row like that as you can." And
  576. 17:09it was one of those very tactical pieces
  577. 17:11of advice that I've actually taken with
  578. 17:12me forever, which is so when I looked
  579. 17:14back on my whole year, I was like,
  580. 17:15"Okay, what were the top 10 days of this
  581. 17:17year?" And I I started thinking through
  582. 17:19them and I have this written on my wall,
  583. 17:22which is so there's like two things
  584. 17:23written on my wall, three um that are my
  585. 17:25my constant reminders. One is focus is
  586. 17:27subtraction. The second is my good day
  587. 17:30formula, which is um
  588. 17:33>> work out with people you like,
  589. 17:35>> eat with people you like, and write
  590. 17:36something.
  591. 17:37>> I've heard this is good. And so if I can
  592. 17:38do those things, because when I looked
  593. 17:40back at my days,
  594. 17:41>> when I did those three things, those are
  595. 17:43my best days.
  596. 17:44>> And so I was like, how can I do that as
  597. 17:45much as I possibly can and organize my
  598. 17:46day to do that?
  599. 17:47>> But that last one, which I would say is
  600. 17:49not on that list, but is kind of like
  601. 17:51the result of the list is to have
  602. 17:52nothing in the tank.
  603. 17:53>> Yeah. It's like when I when I've earned
  604. 17:55my shower, when I feel like I have
  605. 17:56nothing left to give. And I would say
  606. 17:58that like if you think of a day as a
  607. 17:59microcosm of your life, it's like I
  608. 18:02would like to end end this life being
  609. 18:05like I gave I left it all on the field.
  610. 18:07>> Emptied the tank completely.
  611. 18:08>> I left it all on the field. There was no
  612. 18:09one who's like he could have done more.
  613. 18:10It's like [ __ ] just squeezed
  614. 18:12from places we didn't know existed.
  615. 18:14>> That's what I would like every day to
  616. 18:15be. And of course, it's an ideal. It's
  617. 18:17not something I hit every day, but I
  618. 18:18strive to.
  619. 18:18>> So do I. It's funny because you reach
  620. 18:20levels of capacity and talent or what
  621. 18:23people think are skill, at least me,
  622. 18:26through doing that. So, ironically, then
  623. 18:27people look at you and think, man, this
  624. 18:29guy's so skilled as an entrepreneur or
  625. 18:30what a great speech maker or but it's
  626. 18:33actually happened through emptying the
  627. 18:34tank all of these days. How do you
  628. 18:36navigate? Because you if we're not
  629. 18:38careful, you and I fall into this trap
  630. 18:40of the people that you also hear on
  631. 18:41social media that you and I privately
  632. 18:44discuss sometimes too. Like I can't
  633. 18:46believe with no offense why someone's
  634. 18:48listening to this person if they've
  635. 18:49actually never produced anything. But
  636. 18:51I've also I I also don't want to fall
  637. 18:54into this I get you'd call it like bro
  638. 18:57culture hustle culture notion of like
  639. 19:00the funny clip of me saying I work a
  640. 19:02million hours a day and I can change
  641. 19:03time and caveman lived a million years
  642. 19:05ago or whatever was a little uh
  643. 19:08misspeaking there. However, what what I
  644. 19:10don't want to sound like is like that
  645. 19:12that's that that there's no meaning in
  646. 19:15other things and that rest is not also
  647. 19:18okay. So I just want to give you a forum
  648. 19:20so that people don't think that of you
  649. 19:21also like what are your philosophies
  650. 19:24about rest or recuperation or reflection
  651. 19:28because for me a lot of times these big
  652. 19:29efforts I make a lot of the the growth
  653. 19:32actually happens in reflecting on what
  654. 19:33took place and what I learned from it
  655. 19:35and you do do that more than most people
  656. 19:36know.
  657. 19:37>> Totally. So if you so uh so tactically
  658. 19:40if you were to look at my calendar my
  659. 19:41five days out of seven have almost
  660. 19:43nothing on it. I do one day I do a half
  661. 19:45day of meetings on one day and then I do
  662. 19:47one one filming day a week. So today was
  663. 19:49my filming day. Um and then if you
  664. 19:51include the weekends those two days I
  665. 19:53have three during the week and then two
  666. 19:55two weekend days that are almost always
  667. 19:56completely empty.
  668. 19:57>> Interesting.
  669. 19:58>> Um okay.
  670. 19:58>> And so that is that is how I work most
  671. 20:00effectively. And it's because I think
  672. 20:02that two weeks ago I could not know what
  673. 20:04was going to be most important today
  674. 20:06>> but today I will be able to do that. And
  675. 20:08so I I have faith that I can pull things
  676. 20:10together. Like I I put together this
  677. 20:12deal on a Sunday once after like Yeah,
  678. 20:14I'm sure you had one of these days where
  679. 20:15somebody calls you and you're like, "Oh,
  680. 20:16I think I can put this together."
  681. 20:18>> And it was six straight hours of calls
  682. 20:20and we ended up putting like almost a
  683. 20:21$400 million stock deal together.
  684. 20:22>> Oh my goodness.
  685. 20:23>> But it was just like just but if I had
  686. 20:26had appointments all day, I would have
  687. 20:28missed that and that wouldn't have
  688. 20:29happened. And so there's just huge value
  689. 20:31to that. So that's like thing one in
  690. 20:32terms of organizing time and trying to
  691. 20:34create space and that's just how I
  692. 20:35function. The second um is I think it's
  693. 20:40it's extending the time horizon in terms
  694. 20:42of what we're thinking about output. So
  695. 20:44if you if whenever you shrink the time
  696. 20:46horizon then it always creates a false
  697. 20:49narrative of extremism. And so for
  698. 20:51example, if I said if you're going to
  699. 20:52die tomorrow, you change your behavior a
  700. 20:54lot today. But if I say you're going to
  701. 20:56die in a week, you change it for sure a
  702. 20:58lot, but it would be slightly different.
  703. 21:00If I said you're going to die in a
  704. 21:01month, it would still be different. Die
  705. 21:02in a year, it's for sure going to be
  706. 21:03different. And then beyond that it's too
  707. 21:05far for human consciousness real in
  708. 21:07reality. And so as a result it's like we
  709. 21:10have to think how do I maximize my
  710. 21:11output over a year or two years or 5
  711. 21:14years or 10 years. And so if we take
  712. 21:16let's say even a 10 year horizon
  713. 21:18>> then for sure we need to rest
  714. 21:21>> because like
  715. 21:22>> it's like if I worked out every hour
  716. 21:24every day you're not going to get
  717. 21:25stronger. You're just going to break
  718. 21:26down your muscles too much and you're
  719. 21:27just going to look terrible and be
  720. 21:28exhausted and overtrained, right? And so
  721. 21:30like there obviously has to be some
  722. 21:32recuperation that that exists. And so
  723. 21:34it's about maximizing output of unit of
  724. 21:37time total.
  725. 21:39>> But if I only had 24 hours then yeah
  726. 21:40take as many stimulants as you can
  727. 21:42because you only have 24 hours work.
  728. 21:43That's not how the world works. You have
  729. 21:45and for the the games that we're trying
  730. 21:47to play decade plus it's like not only
  731. 21:49that you actually have to be aligned
  732. 21:51from a meaning and purpose perspective
  733. 21:52because we assume that we're going to
  734. 21:53win to a certain degree. So it's like we
  735. 21:55have to find ways to make it worth it
  736. 21:57and also not sacrifice the other
  737. 21:58reinforcers we have in our life like
  738. 22:00family, wife, kids, whatever.
  739. 22:02>> And so I think it's it's it's navigating
  740. 22:05how do I have the highest output over
  741. 22:06the longest period of time which allows
  742. 22:08for a much more I'll call it
  743. 22:11>> balance with quotes approach but it
  744. 22:14still comes into seasons and I think
  745. 22:15again when we think in this longer term
  746. 22:17when how you work in your 20s is going
  747. 22:19to look very different than how you work
  748. 22:20in your 40s.
  749. 22:20>> I agree. So would you say that that
  750. 22:22schedule you're running now with those
  751. 22:23open days, you more almost had to adjust
  752. 22:25to your current circumstances, but if it
  753. 22:27was startup Alex or Mosy in the gym,
  754. 22:29>> you're probably
  755. 22:30>> Oh, all day. Yeah. My the my startup
  756. 22:32schedule, I'll tell you what it was cuz
  757. 22:33I I still remember it. So basically, I
  758. 22:35take my I did Hold on.
  759. 22:37>> But I I did split it into thirds, kind
  760. 22:38of like you. And so I I I bake it into I
  761. 22:41would do all my um my innovation stuff
  762. 22:43first because that's when I was
  763. 22:44freshest. So I would work until like
  764. 22:46from 4 to 10ish, so I got sixish hours.
  765. 22:48And then at that point I'd have
  766. 22:50customers and the fires of the day would
  767. 22:52happen. Um I would spend the middle of
  768. 22:54the day on uh promotion and sales. So I
  769. 22:57basically do marketing and meeting with
  770. 22:58sales you know
  771. 23:00>> customers to try and sell them our
  772. 23:01stuff.
  773. 23:02>> And then the back end of the day was all
  774. 23:03the admin stuff. So that was billing and
  775. 23:06finance and you know fixing broken
  776. 23:08equipment and all that stuff. But I
  777. 23:09slept at the gym. But it was basically
  778. 23:10if you think about it from a pure big
  779. 23:12big perspective, you got you know
  780. 23:14attraction, you've got conversion,
  781. 23:15you've got delivery. That's kind of like
  782. 23:16how you're you're breaking down the
  783. 23:17business. Mhm.
  784. 23:18>> Um, and I just would say that that has
  785. 23:20to happen throughout the day, but you
  786. 23:21have to take some block every day, at
  787. 23:23least for me, that's working on it
  788. 23:24rather than in it. How do I build the
  789. 23:26assets that can rep, you know, replicate
  790. 23:28a trainer, replicate uh the front desk
  791. 23:30girl, replicate the sales process,
  792. 23:31whatever.
  793. 23:32>> Um,
  794. 23:33>> but yeah, that was that was that was 12
  795. 23:34hours a day, 6 days a week. I've been
  796. 23:36able to do uh 12 hours a day, six days a
  797. 23:39week, taking one day off as like I can
  798. 23:41do that for a very very long time. I'm
  799. 23:42also not saying that's right for
  800. 23:43everyone. I can do that. But I have to
  801. 23:45say, and by the way, I'm not saying
  802. 23:46that's right for everyone either, but
  803. 23:47that's exactly what I did. That's
  804. 23:48exactly what Andy did. What the three of
  805. 23:50us have in common. You slept in the gym,
  806. 23:52he slept in the in the store, and I
  807. 23:54slept in the office. I'm not saying you
  808. 23:55got to sleep in your building either.
  809. 23:56>> But and the idea of this time thing,
  810. 23:59poorly chosen words in some of these
  811. 24:00clips, but you're really compressing
  812. 24:02time, meaning you're trying to do things
  813. 24:03that most people think take two hours in
  814. 24:0630 minutes if you can. Not all meetings
  815. 24:08need to be an hour, and that's why
  816. 24:10having a day broken up matters. Now my
  817. 24:12hardest thing at the highest level of
  818. 24:14entrepreneurship like when I'm talking
  819. 24:17with people that you know that have done
  820. 24:18something really significant there's
  821. 24:21this really interesting dance you have
  822. 24:22to have as an entrepreneur I want you to
  823. 24:24help me understand your view on it okay
  824. 24:27and it's this I think most entrepreneurs
  825. 24:29I am as a human I have become a control
  826. 24:32freak meaning I try to control about
  827. 24:34you're better at this than me of giving
  828. 24:36um of separating from tasks and trusting
  829. 24:39people you have to handle things I'm
  830. 24:40still not great at that. I think I'd be
  831. 24:42>> because you're so good.
  832. 24:43>> Well, thank you. I think though I think
  833. 24:45potentially I'd have been a wealthier
  834. 24:46man had I given a little bit more
  835. 24:47autonomy to people. I think I squeezed
  836. 24:49them a little bit when I was younger.
  837. 24:51>> But because I am a control freak. So
  838. 24:53it's this interesting dance I've had my
  839. 24:54entire career and even to this day of
  840. 24:57I'm a control freak yet I know the key
  841. 25:00to my progression, my growth, my
  842. 25:02expansion as a person and as an
  843. 25:04entrepreneur is my capacity to deal with
  844. 25:06uncertainty simultaneously. So, how do
  845. 25:08you navigate that? Wanting to control an
  846. 25:10outcome,
  847. 25:11>> yet we I want you to discuss the concept
  848. 25:14of your ability to be out of control
  849. 25:17theoretically and deal with this mass a
  850. 25:19massive amount of uncertainty more than
  851. 25:21most people think they can handle.
  852. 25:23>> So, I think there's two parts to this at
  853. 25:24least that I that I think of
  854. 25:25immediately. So, the first is one of my
  855. 25:27favorite and I think underrated quotes
  856. 25:28as an entrepreneur from Jack Dorsey. He
  857. 25:31said um perfect all the details, limit
  858. 25:34the number of details.
  859. 25:35>> [laughter]
  860. 25:36>> And so I think that is like in a
  861. 25:38sentence so elegant for like I think
  862. 25:40it's like I absolutely am a control
  863. 25:41freak
  864. 25:43>> at the thing that I think has the
  865. 25:44absolute greatest point of leverage in
  866. 25:47the business.
  867. 25:48>> And so I keep that flexibility in my
  868. 25:49schedule so that I can go fool in an
  869. 25:51attack three levels down, seven levels
  870. 25:53down in the company and be like, okay,
  871. 25:54what are we doing here?
  872. 25:55>> What are like what show me the texts
  873. 25:57that we're sending for this very
  874. 25:58particular campaign and then I can scoop
  875. 26:00back out and then go somewhere else. Um,
  876. 26:02so I would say that from the the the
  877. 26:03maniacal control, I think Elon's been an
  878. 26:05example of like he kind of has he's
  879. 26:07delegated everything and also nothing.
  880. 26:08But I think his his perspective is uh
  881. 26:11he's always attacking the rate limiter.
  882. 26:13That's the the verbage he uses. I use
  883. 26:14constraint, but whatever. It's the same
  884. 26:15idea. Like there's a bottleneck
  885. 26:16somewhere. There always is one. And I
  886. 26:18think your ability to identify where the
  887. 26:19bottleneck is is in some way predicated
  888. 26:21on your ability to recognize patterns
  889. 26:23and your skill as an entrepreneur. M
  890. 26:25>> but if we think about entrepreneurship
  891. 26:26in general as our we are allocators of
  892. 26:29resources and so we have limited
  893. 26:31resource extremely limited when you
  894. 26:32compare them to the resources of the
  895. 26:33world
  896. 26:34>> time money energy the limited uh
  897. 26:36attention to the team we have this tiny
  898. 26:38little reservoir of resources and all we
  899. 26:41have to do is we have to just continue
  900. 26:43to get higher returns than everyone else
  901. 26:44does on this tiny bit of resources which
  902. 26:47is for the most part why the second
  903. 26:48thing on my wall is focus subtraction is
  904. 26:50how do I how do I subtract what can I
  905. 26:52cut away what can I prune from this tree
  906. 26:54in order to keep it growing. Um because
  907. 26:57left unchecked, everything becomes
  908. 26:58weeds. Everything becomes cancerous.
  909. 27:00Everything overgrows because people want
  910. 27:01to take on more stuff. And I think that
  911. 27:03successes entrepreneurship has three
  912. 27:04traits that are completely antihuman.
  913. 27:06It's something I've been thinking a lot
  914. 27:07about recently, which is one, we like
  915. 27:10new [ __ ] Sorry, you don't here.
  916. 27:12>> We like we like new stuff.
  917. 27:13>> Mhm.
  918. 27:14>> Number two, we like um we like stuff
  919. 27:17now.
  920. 27:18>> Um and number three, uh we want things
  921. 27:21easy
  922. 27:22>> and low low energy. Mhm.
  923. 27:24>> And it is the exact opposite of what it
  924. 27:26takes to be successful as an
  925. 27:27entrepreneur because instead of wanting
  926. 27:28new stuff, you have to uh be willing to
  927. 27:30do the old stuff for a long time
  928. 27:32>> over and over and over.
  929. 27:34>> And instead of uh so it's basically
  930. 27:36focus, one thing, patience for a long
  931. 27:39time, and then frustration tolerance,
  932. 27:41which is that if if at first you don't
  933. 27:43succeed, you try again. And if you at
  934. 27:45first you don't succeed 100 times, you
  935. 27:46try again. Which is why I love the one
  936. 27:48mantra.
  937. 27:49>> Thank you. Um, and so if you have those
  938. 27:50three things together, if I were to say,
  939. 27:51I have this entrepreneur in front of me,
  940. 27:53he's actually a dum dum. But once he
  941. 27:56starts a task, he has a really hard time
  942. 27:57abandoning it. And he has an unlimited
  943. 28:00time horizon in terms of how he's
  944. 28:02thinking about doing this. And he wants
  945. 28:03to do this for the rest of his life.
  946. 28:04He's keeping all of his assets in there.
  947. 28:06He's never going to sell it. And we knew
  948. 28:07that to be true.
  949. 28:09>> And [ __ ] cannot fail because
  950. 28:13every time he does, he just gets better.
  951. 28:15>> Yeah.
  952. 28:16>> It's hard to beat that guy. I those are
  953. 28:18the guys I bet on, the people I bet on.
  954. 28:20>> And and what's interesting, and you've
  955. 28:21seen this too, is that like almost all
  956. 28:23of those things have to do with behavior
  957. 28:25patterns and very little to do with
  958. 28:26intelligence.
  959. 28:27>> Yes.
  960. 28:28>> And so when I think about that, like
  961. 28:30your business isn't scaling off for lack
  962. 28:31of information, for lack of character.
  963. 28:34>> And I think when you when you think
  964. 28:35about it that way, it's like, wow, when
  965. 28:36I'm presented in these conditions, I
  966. 28:38make the wrong decisions because I've
  967. 28:39I've I've been reinforced for doing new
  968. 28:41things too much.
  969. 28:42>> Gosh. And so when I when I try to adapt
  970. 28:45that for my own uh to to answer the to
  971. 28:48loop back to the original question of uh
  972. 28:51the maniacal control um I think a lot of
  973. 28:54the control is actually in trying to get
  974. 28:56the team to do less and do fewer rather.
  975. 29:00>> Um and I think that's where a lot of my
  976. 29:02call it exertion they I they should feel
  977. 29:04better when I come in because I can tell
  978. 29:05them what not to do.
  979. 29:06>> Right. I know exactly what you mean.
  980. 29:07>> That's a terrible idea. We should not do
  981. 29:08that.
  982. 29:09>> Yeah. I do you think the uh this idea
  983. 29:11that you said you said it twice and I'm
  984. 29:13>> it's what I do when I coach people.
  985. 29:15>> So I'm wondering what you I want you to
  986. 29:16elaborate on it. I think great
  987. 29:18entrepreneurs have pattern recognition.
  988. 29:21>> Um even people we've already discussed
  989. 29:23here today that are mutual friends of
  990. 29:24ours. They're really good at seeing
  991. 29:25patterns. I'm pretty good at seeing
  992. 29:26human behavioral patterns. Right. But
  993. 29:29just step away from that. How important
  994. 29:31do you think if you were coaching an
  995. 29:32entrepreneur is it to to to get them to
  996. 29:35see both patterns in the business world,
  997. 29:37patterns in the economy? um trends.
  998. 29:40That's a pattern recognition to me. And
  999. 29:42also human behavioral patterns at the
  1000. 29:44same time.
  1001. 29:46>> If I had to if I had to have them pick
  1002. 29:48one, I would rather have them be amazing
  1003. 29:50at human behavior patterns because if
  1004. 29:52you can do that, you can pretty I think
  1005. 29:53I think humans are how you unlock
  1006. 29:55everything despite the world of AI and
  1007. 29:56all the things that we talk about. Um
  1008. 29:58because humans unlock everything like so
  1009. 30:01you might find this I think you might
  1010. 30:02actually I was I was really excited to
  1011. 30:04talk to you about this specific. So this
  1012. 30:05is perfect. Um,
  1013. 30:08>> I I'm going to guess, and I don't want
  1014. 30:10to go out on a limb here, but I'm going
  1015. 30:11to guess you're not spending 12 hours a
  1016. 30:12day vibe coding.
  1017. 30:13>> I [laughter] am not.
  1018. 30:15>> And what's really interesting is that
  1019. 30:16you probably made more money than the
  1020. 30:17vast majority of people by a very large
  1021. 30:19margin last year.
  1022. 30:21>> Just to just to put it out there,
  1023. 30:22>> right?
  1024. 30:23>> And so when I was think I was thinking
  1025. 30:24about you specifically and I was like,
  1026. 30:26how do I reconcile this apparent uh
  1027. 30:29contradiction with
  1028. 30:31>> uh we're so cooked AI is we're etc. with
  1029. 30:35the fact that a lot of the people that I
  1030. 30:37know that are extremely wealthy
  1031. 30:39>> um are not necessarily AI maxing
  1032. 30:41themselves.
  1033. 30:42>> And so it got me thinking around the
  1034. 30:44concept of leverage, which is one of my
  1035. 30:46two favorite topics in the world, supply
  1036. 30:47and demand and leverage. That's what the
  1037. 30:49logo is built on. Okay.
  1038. 30:50>> Um
  1039. 30:51>> and so I think one of the big
  1040. 30:52misconceptions that entrepreneurs are
  1041. 30:54having right now is that
  1042. 30:55>> AI is somehow the only form of leverage.
  1043. 30:59>> But it does not erase the other forms of
  1044. 31:01leverage that are also multiplicative.
  1045. 31:02So for example, if I make a decision
  1046. 31:04that we say we're not going to do this
  1047. 31:06gigantic initiative, the amount of time
  1048. 31:07that I get back from my company is
  1049. 31:09larger than us trying to AI max that
  1050. 31:10initiative that was incorrect.
  1051. 31:11>> What a good point.
  1052. 31:12>> Right? If we think about it from a
  1053. 31:15boiling it down to brass tax
  1054. 31:16perspective.
  1055. 31:16>> Wow.
  1056. 31:17>> We're going there's so many
  1057. 31:18entrepreneurs right now that are using
  1058. 31:19AI to do dumb things very fast
  1059. 31:21>> because they have more capacity. They
  1060. 31:23are choosing to take on more and as a
  1061. 31:25result are less focused than they were
  1062. 31:27before. And if we look at the output of
  1063. 31:28their business, they are not making more
  1064. 31:30money. They're only spending more money
  1065. 31:31on tokens. Wow.
  1066. 31:32>> And so when I
  1067. 31:33>> Very good, Alex.
  1068. 31:35>> Very good.
  1069. 31:36>> And so when we think about the different
  1070. 31:38the different types of leverage, it's
  1071. 31:39like this is leverage. We can record
  1072. 31:41this one conversation. Millions of
  1073. 31:42people can watch it. Uh you know,
  1074. 31:43obviously software has, you know,
  1075. 31:44different types of leverage, but um
  1076. 31:46picking one good person has tremendous
  1077. 31:49leverage. So to the idea of like, okay,
  1078. 31:51well, Ed's not AI maxing,
  1079. 31:53>> but do we think that AI that Ed can find
  1080. 31:56somebody AIAX?
  1081. 31:57>> Correct.
  1082. 31:58>> Probably. And do we think that Ed has
  1083. 32:02leverage in other ways that would
  1084. 32:04attract or incentivize that person to
  1085. 32:06want to do their special gift within
  1086. 32:08this larger business because it was
  1087. 32:09designed well earlier on?
  1088. 32:12>> Yes.
  1089. 32:13>> And so these technologies come, but the
  1090. 32:16game has remained unchanged. It's just
  1091. 32:18another tool of leverage that exists.
  1092. 32:19Now, to be clear, it's it's an amazing
  1093. 32:21tool and we use the hell out of it at
  1094. 32:22ACQ, but it's understanding where it
  1095. 32:25fits in the toy box
  1096. 32:26>> because we still have to make the right
  1097. 32:28call. And as of right now, AI still
  1098. 32:29sucks at making decisions, at least from
  1099. 32:31the ones that I look at, because you can
  1100. 32:33pretty much make it say yes or no based
  1101. 32:35on how you prompt it.
  1102. 32:36>> Um, and so that is something that I've
  1103. 32:38given a lot of.
  1104. 32:38>> That's a really good point. Maybe one of
  1105. 32:40the best points I've heard on a podcast
  1106. 32:41in probably 10 years. It's a really good
  1107. 32:43point because that's exactly what's
  1108. 32:44happening. It's actually become almost
  1109. 32:46burdensome for people that are doing
  1110. 32:47nominal tasks, adding more to their
  1111. 32:49plate. It's really, really good. In
  1112. 32:51fact, that's one of the clips I'm going
  1113. 32:52to use from the show. I don't hear you
  1114. 32:55talk a lot and maybe I've just missed
  1115. 32:56it, but you know, I'm a huge fan and
  1116. 32:58follower and friend.
  1117. 33:00>> I don't hear you talk about in terms of
  1118. 33:02yourself as a leader.
  1119. 33:03>> In other words, I almost feel like
  1120. 33:05sometimes you look at business as an
  1121. 33:07operator and and correct me if I'm
  1122. 33:09wrong, okay? But what are you like as a
  1123. 33:11leader of a company? Like that's not a
  1124. 33:13lot of the content that I've seen you
  1125. 33:14discuss. So, how do you view like
  1126. 33:17leadership? Because it's a it's a
  1127. 33:19overcooked concept and topic, right?
  1128. 33:21Yeah. But you're very technical,
  1129. 33:24very strategic, very tactical.
  1130. 33:27>> But if I worked for you or with you and
  1131. 33:29someone asked me his philosophies on
  1132. 33:32leadership or what type of a leader he
  1133. 33:34is, would he even does he see himself as
  1134. 33:37a quote unquote leader and what is what
  1135. 33:39does that mean to you?
  1136. 33:40>> Um,
  1137. 33:42so a couple things. So one, Leila had
  1138. 33:45just finished her book on leadership and
  1139. 33:47you know, I got to edit and you know,
  1140. 33:49and help out. Um, and so I have a ton of
  1141. 33:51concepts from that book, but I think
  1142. 33:53I've I've deferred to Ila for for most
  1143. 33:56things and you know Ila well and Ila
  1144. 33:58will never get the credit that she
  1145. 33:58deserves for the for the able to build.
  1146. 34:02>> Um, but Ila is the internal leader of
  1147. 34:04the business and I would say that I am
  1148. 34:05the external leader of the business and
  1149. 34:06that is more or less how we've managed
  1150. 34:08our our working relationship. I have
  1151. 34:11>> one direct report which is my
  1152. 34:12father-in-law. So virtually I have no
  1153. 34:13direct reports in the business which
  1154. 34:15allows me to have um the schedule that I
  1155. 34:17do and we've just found that that has
  1156. 34:19worked really well for us. I would say
  1157. 34:21um
  1158. 34:22>> I would say to if there are if there are
  1159. 34:2412 core activities of leadership
  1160. 34:27>> um the first one um which the others are
  1161. 34:31all predicated on is that we have to
  1162. 34:33define what good looks like.
  1163. 34:35>> Okay,
  1164. 34:35>> in behavioral and observable terms. And
  1165. 34:37so the second step of leadership and I
  1166. 34:40won't go through all of them. I'll let
  1167. 34:42do her thing. But the second one is that
  1168. 34:44we have to model what good looks like.
  1169. 34:46>> And so there's a famous story of Gandhi
  1170. 34:48where um a mother comes to him and says,
  1171. 34:50"Hey, can you get my kid to stop eating
  1172. 34:51sugar?" And he says, "Uh, yes, but come
  1173. 34:53back in 30 days." And so she comes back
  1174. 34:55in 30 days. Um she brings the kid to him
  1175. 34:57and he says, "Stop eating sugar." And
  1176. 34:59she's like, "Why did that take 30 days?"
  1177. 35:00And he was like, "Well, I was eating
  1178. 35:01sugar when you asked me the first time."
  1179. 35:03[snorts]
  1180. 35:03And so he had to quit sugar for the 30
  1181. 35:05days to make it. And so it's it's a
  1182. 35:07great little a great little story, but I
  1183. 35:09think that's like leadership is caught
  1184. 35:10not taught,
  1185. 35:11>> right? And it is of course taught, but
  1186. 35:13it's taught through modeling and it's
  1187. 35:14taught through red flag, right? And so
  1188. 35:16um where I fit in this leadership
  1189. 35:18paradigm is that I believe that I number
  1190. 35:20one, I hold the standard.
  1191. 35:22>> Yeah.
  1192. 35:23>> Um
  1193. 35:24>> one of the things that I get feedback
  1194. 35:25from from the team because I see the
  1195. 35:26surveys of the people who at least work
  1196. 35:28in my vicinity more so than work
  1197. 35:29directly for me is that they're like,
  1198. 35:32you know, I've watched the content. I've
  1199. 35:33been, you know, I've been seeing
  1200. 35:34everything for all these years, but like
  1201. 35:35it was only when I came when I came to
  1202. 35:38the office and realized that Alex was
  1203. 35:39literally always here at 4:30 in the
  1204. 35:41morning every single day, six days a
  1205. 35:44week.
  1206. 35:45>> Um,
  1207. 35:46>> that I was basically very difficult to
  1208. 35:49witness consistency unless you are also
  1209. 35:51consistent.
  1210. 35:52>> Jeez. Yeah.
  1211. 35:53>> Like you cannot witness consistency,
  1212. 35:56right?
  1213. 35:57>> It's good. And so um I would say that
  1214. 36:00that I say holding defining the standard
  1215. 36:02and then modeling the standard is where
  1216. 36:03where the majority of my my work from a
  1217. 36:05leadership perspective is. I think the
  1218. 36:07rest of the leaders in the company do a
  1219. 36:08lot of the other stuff.
  1220. 36:10>> Um and then I'd say that I am more of a
  1221. 36:14strategic decision maker um than than
  1222. 36:19true true operator because I think it
  1223. 36:20would it would um it would take away
  1224. 36:22credit from the people who are actually
  1225. 36:23doing the stuff. Is there a void of any
  1226. 36:25type of um emotional leadership in your
  1227. 36:28businesses?
  1228. 36:29>> No, that's Leila. Okay. Like Leila
  1229. 36:31[snorts] is she provides it.
  1230. 36:32>> And I think and this is something that I
  1231. 36:33would say like what is what's taking up
  1232. 36:34my time right now is
  1233. 36:36>> managing the transition of her becoming
  1234. 36:38a mother and completely stepping away
  1235. 36:40from the business, which is our
  1236. 36:41intention. Um
  1237. 36:42>> Okay.
  1238. 36:43>> Yeah. So she's she's completely going to
  1239. 36:45going to check out
  1240. 36:46>> um for an extended period. And so I'm
  1241. 36:49I'm reoriented because
  1242. 36:51>> the business works with the the
  1243. 36:53dichotomy, you know, between the yin and
  1244. 36:55the
  1245. 36:55>> Yes. Yes.
  1246. 36:56>> And when she's not there, I'm softer.
  1247. 37:00>> And uh and when I'm not there, she's a
  1248. 37:02little tougher.
  1249. 37:03>> And it's and we've had this dance that's
  1250. 37:05worked really well. And I'm going to
  1251. 37:06have to relearn that and I'm going to
  1252. 37:07probably crack some shells and mess up a
  1253. 37:09little bit. Um I'm sure.
  1254. 37:10>> Uh but that's something that I'm I'm
  1255. 37:12really paying attention.
  1256. 37:12>> I'm really watching you. You know how
  1257. 37:13much I've always appreciated you and
  1258. 37:16admired you. You've grown a lot the last
  1259. 37:18few years.
  1260. 37:19>> We talk on the phone, but we haven't
  1261. 37:20done this. And uh you're at a different
  1262. 37:22level. You're at a different level. And
  1263. 37:24one of the reasons is is you're you're
  1264. 37:26willing to take on more and more risks
  1265. 37:28still. And I want you to talk about
  1266. 37:29this. I've never heard this before. Only
  1267. 37:31you.
  1268. 37:32>> And I'm like, gosh darn it, he's right.
  1269. 37:33I wish he wasn't right, but it's just
  1270. 37:35sort of like the law of the universe.
  1271. 37:37People look at me or you, but I'll just
  1272. 37:40speak from my own perspective and I'll
  1273. 37:41let you comment on yours. And they do
  1274. 37:43sort of go like we're recording this now
  1275. 37:45in the middle of I've been giving
  1276. 37:46speeches and doing business meetings
  1277. 37:48here today and I've got another one
  1278. 37:49tomorrow which is a Saturday and you're
  1279. 37:50cranking you'll be in here and I'm blah
  1280. 37:51blah blah and they're like the old
  1281. 37:54when's enough's enough and all that
  1282. 37:55other stuff. And I'm like, I really
  1283. 37:56don't feel like I'm working. But having
  1284. 37:58said that, my capacity
  1285. 38:01has expanded over the years to the
  1286. 38:03extent where I feel like I have to take
  1287. 38:05on more almost in order to remain
  1288. 38:07challenged, but also to live up to the
  1289. 38:09blessings and and honor the
  1290. 38:13>> perspective, nuances, wisdom, and skills
  1291. 38:16I've developed theoretically. Right. So,
  1292. 38:18this thing you discussed lately about
  1293. 38:20risk and capacity and ability and the
  1294. 38:23correlation between the two, do you know
  1295. 38:24what I'm talking about? No. Okay. I
  1296. 38:26heard you say something recently where
  1297. 38:28you said, "My ability to take on risk is
  1298. 38:31almost connected to the fact that I'm
  1299. 38:32better and better, and in order to
  1300. 38:34continue to grow and expand, I have to
  1301. 38:35take on more risk."
  1302. 38:36>> That for sure.
  1303. 38:36>> So, I never even heard this before.
  1304. 38:39>> So, um,
  1305. 38:41well, what So, I've I don't read it, so
  1306. 38:44I don't want to pretend like I read all
  1307. 38:45day or something like that, but there
  1308. 38:47are moments where I do punctuated
  1309. 38:48reading. And I think my favorite type of
  1310. 38:50reading is autobiographies of ultra rich
  1311. 38:52people because usually, especially at
  1312. 38:53the end of their career, they don't care
  1313. 38:55at all about being politically correct
  1314. 38:56and they actually tell you what they
  1315. 38:58finally tell you. They finally and so
  1316. 39:00was really interesting that I found
  1317. 39:01between Paul Getty
  1318. 39:03>> um who was the richest man in the world
  1319. 39:04for like 30 years. Uh Rockefeller and
  1320. 39:07Elon Musk um and just take these guys
  1321. 39:09objectively. Don't don't
  1322. 39:10>> whether you like their whatever
  1323. 39:12>> you can you can appreciate that they are
  1324. 39:13wealthy [laughter] fact. Um,
  1325. 39:16>> right.
  1326. 39:17>> What I found is this very recurring
  1327. 39:19theme is that they had multiple moments
  1328. 39:22of call it like local maximums where
  1329. 39:25they then looked around and said, "I'm
  1330. 39:27pushing all my chips back into the
  1331. 39:28middle of the table again."
  1332. 39:29>> Yeah.
  1333. 39:30>> And so I I kind of see it like and in
  1334. 39:32some ways as much like it is necessary
  1335. 39:35for the to take a bigger swing to get a
  1336. 39:37bigger payoff, but it's almost more
  1337. 39:40necessary to keep the game interesting.
  1338. 39:42>> Yes. And so like if and we're in Vegas
  1339. 39:44so I'll just make it a Vegas theme.
  1340. 39:45>> If you're playing $10 hands and let's
  1341. 39:48say at some point you get good enough
  1342. 39:49that you have this gigantic stack of
  1343. 39:50chips at some point you have to up the
  1344. 39:52ante otherwise you just don't care
  1345. 39:54anymore.
  1346. 39:54>> Yes.
  1347. 39:55>> And so a billionaire playing $10 hands
  1348. 39:56it's like he literally loses money
  1349. 39:59playing a $10 hand.
  1350. 40:00>> Oh so good. And so um one of the things
  1351. 40:04that I think is a little bit of a
  1352. 40:05mindset shift which I don't like using
  1353. 40:07the term but like we behave differently
  1354. 40:08in different scenario is that your risk
  1355. 40:12tolerance has to concurrently increase
  1356. 40:14with the size of opportunity that you
  1357. 40:16want to pursue. And it's of course in
  1358. 40:19the beginning you don't need to take a
  1359. 40:20there's lots of risk and also no risk
  1360. 40:21because you don't need to put money
  1361. 40:22down. You can start a business for for
  1362. 40:23almost nothing. But
  1363. 40:25>> if you want to start SpaceX you need to
  1364. 40:28put money [laughter] in on the table.
  1365. 40:29You know what I Like there are some like
  1366. 40:31there and and the thing is is capital in
  1367. 40:32some ways becomes a gigantic moat
  1368. 40:34because other people are not willing to
  1369. 40:36risk it. And so you start to develop
  1370. 40:37more sophisticated frameworks for
  1371. 40:39understanding risk and reward which is
  1372. 40:41that like not only will I take my
  1373. 40:42expertise and my track record and my
  1374. 40:43network but I'll also take $100 million
  1375. 40:46and put that on the line because that's
  1376. 40:48how I can get to 10 billion.
  1377. 40:49>> Okay. I want to just jump in here. I
  1378. 40:51don't even think you know how big this
  1379. 40:54could be a book you do. Okay. Even
  1380. 40:55though I know it's not the but how big
  1381. 40:57this is. And by the way, listening to
  1382. 40:59you on this,
  1383. 41:01>> how many people do you and I meet that
  1384. 41:03have gone from zero to a little bit and
  1385. 41:06then they're stuck and they're so
  1386. 41:08frustrated. They're like, I just I can't
  1387. 41:10get past 400 grand a year. I'm at a
  1388. 41:12million a year or whatever it is.
  1389. 41:13>> And what what's interesting is what
  1390. 41:16happens when you have nothing and then
  1391. 41:17you get a little bit. you become very
  1392. 41:19risk adverse and you don't know that
  1393. 41:22potentially the key for you to become
  1394. 41:24unstuck is actually to take on more risk
  1395. 41:28and that's the stimulus to go to the
  1396. 41:29next level. Do you know how big of a
  1397. 41:31deal this is what you're talking about?
  1398. 41:32Cuz it's the thing most people stall at
  1399. 41:34100 or 250 gooseies right when they
  1400. 41:37stall it's because you're still in the
  1401. 41:39same risk tolerance category you were
  1402. 41:41before and you've mastered your domain
  1403. 41:43to some extent.
  1404. 41:45>> Okay. So I have given a huge amount of
  1405. 41:47thought to this. So there's this bull
  1406. 41:48because we see entrepreneurs every
  1407. 41:49single week that come through. There's a
  1408. 41:50bullet of entrepreneurs between$1 and $3
  1409. 41:52million and for whatever reason there's
  1410. 41:53this swamp there and I think there's a
  1411. 41:55couple of factors. So number one is that
  1412. 41:56usually between$1 and $3 million of
  1413. 41:57revenue, you've actually made enough
  1414. 41:59money to satisfy personal needs. You can
  1415. 42:00pretty much go to every dinner, go to
  1416. 42:02every hotel, take the vacations and like
  1417. 42:03you're good to go. And to be fair,
  1418. 42:04nothing wrong with that. However, if you
  1419. 42:06want more,
  1420. 42:07>> right, if you do,
  1421. 42:08>> then you have to change the way you
  1422. 42:10play. And so what's very interesting is
  1423. 42:11that we call this the swamp at
  1424. 42:13acquisition.com. It's 1 to three, maybe
  1425. 42:141 to 5 million. It's right there. And
  1426. 42:16the reason it's the swamp is that it
  1427. 42:18takes more risk to get out of the swamp
  1428. 42:20than to get into it.
  1429. 42:21>> Oh boy. So true.
  1430. 42:22>> And so you take some risk to quit the
  1431. 42:24job to whatever. But when you start your
  1432. 42:26first zero to a million for most
  1433. 42:28business, especially service, which is
  1434. 42:2980% of the US, it's you and maybe some
  1435. 42:32helpers, but it's almost all margin
  1436. 42:34because it's just you working really
  1437. 42:35hard.
  1438. 42:37>> In that one to three, maybe one to five
  1439. 42:39range. You have to make some decisions
  1440. 42:41of like, okay, I can't service any more
  1441. 42:42customers. My time is becoming my
  1442. 42:44biggest constraint. And then there's the
  1443. 42:46question of am I going to bring help on?
  1444. 42:48Am I going to in am I going to get a
  1445. 42:49vendor that's going to be a legit vendor
  1446. 42:51that's going to cost real money? And I
  1447. 42:52think there's one there's the emotions
  1448. 42:54of like well I'm already comfortable. So
  1449. 42:55we're sacrificing something that I know
  1450. 42:57I I need to achieve all my personal
  1451. 42:59goals to get money that I don't need in
  1452. 43:02the future which is a big it's a big
  1453. 43:03like it doesn't necessarily mean it's
  1454. 43:05rational to do this to be really clear
  1455. 43:06like it's in some ways
  1456. 43:08>> right?
  1457. 43:08>> But if you decide yes I want to do this.
  1458. 43:11Here's the math behind the second layer
  1459. 43:12of difficulty, which is, let's say it's
  1460. 43:13a $2 million business, 20 20% margins.
  1461. 43:17If you have 20% margins in the business
  1462. 43:18at this point, you got $400,000 to play
  1463. 43:20with. All right? Now, you're going to
  1464. 43:21leave maybe 100 grand in the account
  1465. 43:22because you want to like have some
  1466. 43:23safety net. So, maybe 300 grand. If you,
  1467. 43:25let's say, need somebody who's going to
  1468. 43:26run client success or be, let's say,
  1469. 43:29your first real leader in the business,
  1470. 43:31a director level, not just a manager,
  1471. 43:33you're probably looking at high ones,
  1472. 43:35maybe mid twos, you know, as a small
  1473. 43:38business owner. So that means that on
  1474. 43:39this one hire or maybe a vendor, you're
  1475. 43:41going to risk half or more of your
  1476. 43:44profit on one bet.
  1477. 43:46>> And because most people are unwilling to
  1478. 43:48do this, and arguably logically,
  1479. 43:50>> um, they stay stuck. And so there's
  1480. 43:52these points where you have to increase
  1481. 43:54your bet size. You have to be able to go
  1482. 43:55from spending $1,000 a day on ads to
  1483. 43:57$10,000 a day on ads. You have to be
  1484. 43:58willing to spend go from like I'm only
  1485. 44:00going to spend $1,000 on Indeed to
  1486. 44:01recruit these people to say I'm going to
  1487. 44:02pay a head hunter $35,000 because I
  1488. 44:04think I really need this role and it's
  1489. 44:06specialized, but if I have it, it
  1490. 44:07unlocks a huge amount of capacity.
  1491. 44:09>> And so one of the I'll give you a couple
  1492. 44:11tactical things for the audience.
  1493. 44:12There's a couple tricks to um getting a
  1494. 44:15business through that without using as
  1495. 44:17much to get them into that like 5 to 10
  1496. 44:20range million a year
  1497. 44:21>> so that then they have more cash flow so
  1498. 44:23they feel more comfortable in the bet.
  1499. 44:24So I can only resolve one of the two
  1500. 44:25risks but it's still there which is that
  1501. 44:27You have to increase the leverage on one
  1502. 44:30or multiple of the three elements of the
  1503. 44:32business. So we have to increase
  1504. 44:33leverage of demand. So it's like how can
  1505. 44:35we uh create some sort of content wheel
  1506. 44:37within the business so that when
  1507. 44:38customers come in they make us content
  1508. 44:40that we can then use to get more
  1509. 44:41customers and you service customers
  1510. 44:43every single day and then boom we have
  1511. 44:44more leverage demand. The second kind of
  1512. 44:46wheel of this is the leverage
  1513. 44:48conversion. And so whether you're
  1514. 44:50selling like basically there's three
  1515. 44:51ways to scale the sales. either you have
  1516. 44:52a big big sales team uh you sell one to
  1517. 44:55many or what I prefer which is you
  1518. 44:57create order takers and so my
  1519. 44:59combination of solution is how do I sell
  1520. 45:01one to many and preload the customers
  1521. 45:02with as much information as humanly
  1522. 45:04possible so that my sales people only
  1523. 45:05have to make six in putts
  1524. 45:06>> right rather than drive and chip and
  1525. 45:08then wedge and then go all the way right
  1526. 45:10and so by doing that it's much easier to
  1527. 45:11attract to to to recruit somebody and
  1528. 45:14just say I just need you to make drop
  1529. 45:15the ball six inches from the hole and
  1530. 45:16make this you can train that person up
  1531. 45:18in a week whereas if they have to be a
  1532. 45:20coach a therapist a product expert
  1533. 45:22uh a teacher to a customer and then also
  1534. 45:25a relationship manager. It's like it's
  1535. 45:27so hard to find them and if they already
  1536. 45:28do come preloaded with all those skills,
  1537. 45:29they're way too expensive, right? And so
  1538. 45:32we have to have leveraged uh leverage
  1539. 45:34conversion, right? And then the third
  1540. 45:36process is leverage delivery. Now, one
  1541. 45:38of the thing I think one of the big
  1542. 45:39misconceptions on delivery for service
  1543. 45:41businesses is that whatever way you
  1544. 45:43started that got you to one or three
  1545. 45:44million in terms of your service
  1546. 45:45delivery, you say, "Well, this has
  1547. 45:47worked so far." And I am a big advocate
  1548. 45:48of doing more of a work, don't get me
  1549. 45:49wrong, but there are some tweaks that
  1550. 45:51you can make in your um agreements of
  1551. 45:53what you plan to deliver to a customer
  1552. 45:55that dramatically expand the leverage
  1553. 45:57that you have in the business to deliver
  1554. 45:59without in any way really changing how
  1555. 46:02likely they are to buy. And so, for
  1556. 46:04example, if we said, you know, we have
  1557. 46:05support that is via phone call at any
  1558. 46:07time, you could say, we're going to do
  1559. 46:09email, we're going to do chat. Um, and
  1560. 46:11all of a sudden that increases leverage
  1561. 46:13on the supply side. Mhm.
  1562. 46:14>> We could say, "Hey, instead of having
  1563. 46:16scheduled calls, we're going to do it
  1564. 46:17asynchronously." And then that allows
  1565. 46:18you to batch all the work together. You
  1566. 46:20can review all of the accounts. Let's
  1567. 46:21say you're a marketing uh you know,
  1568. 46:22agency, you could do them all at once
  1569. 46:24and you can do them in 11 minutes rather
  1570. 46:26than having a 30 minute call and wasting
  1571. 46:27it. So it's like great, that might
  1572. 46:28triple the leverage. We can change
  1573. 46:30whether components of the service are
  1574. 46:32done live or done recorded. We can
  1575. 46:34change whether it's in person or it's
  1576. 46:35done remotely. Um we can change the
  1577. 46:37delivery ratio so that it's instead of
  1578. 46:39one-on-one, it's one on small group or
  1579. 46:40one-on-one to many. Um, and so there's a
  1580. 46:43number of these levers that we can do on
  1581. 46:44the delivery side that if we at each of
  1582. 46:47these points, if we expand a little bit
  1583. 46:49of leverage on the demand, expand a
  1584. 46:50little bit of leverage on the
  1585. 46:51conversion, so we give people a couple
  1586. 46:52videos with some proof before they talk
  1587. 46:54to a salesperson, all of a sudden the
  1588. 46:55sales take less time, and there's fewer
  1589. 46:58of them. And so all of a sudden, my
  1590. 46:59sales, my utilization per sales rep
  1591. 47:01doubles or triples. And so I don't need
  1592. 47:03to hire the extra rep. I can still
  1593. 47:04double or triple the business if that's
  1594. 47:06the constraint. And so in each of those
  1595. 47:08situations, usually one, two, or all
  1596. 47:09three of those things, depending on
  1597. 47:10where you're at, is where you need to
  1598. 47:11employ. Notice none of them were AI
  1599. 47:13because you can still make good
  1600. 47:14decisions and increase leverage of the
  1601. 47:16business, not necessarily using A. And
  1602. 47:17to be fair, I'm a big AI advocate, but
  1603. 47:18I'm also an even more common sense
  1604. 47:20advocate.
  1605. 47:20>> It's Alex, this is so good. I when I
  1606. 47:23coach and even when I've watched your
  1607. 47:24content, it is funny though because by
  1608. 47:26the way, those of you that feel stuck or
  1609. 47:28know someone that's stuck, send them the
  1610. 47:29podcast today because this is probably
  1611. 47:31why you're stuck. It's the risk
  1612. 47:33adversion. You don't you're looking at
  1613. 47:35all these other mechanisms. It's the
  1614. 47:37risk aversion. But what's really funny
  1615. 47:38about it is I'll even watch it on your
  1616. 47:39stuff and when I coach you, I'm like,
  1617. 47:40"Well, no, you're going to have to hire
  1618. 47:42that 250 person or you're going to have
  1619. 47:44to triple your ad spend." And you watch
  1620. 47:45their face when you say it
  1621. 47:47>> and they're immedi
  1622. 47:49they're immediately in their mind trying
  1623. 47:51to process, is there any other way I can
  1624. 47:53get out of doing this? Now, you've given
  1625. 47:54a couple great hooks here that mitigate
  1626. 47:57some of that risk, but you watch the the
  1627. 47:59the reason this is so important is the
  1628. 48:01tendency at this stage, even when given
  1629. 48:03the counsel, is to try to find a way out
  1630. 48:05of that room and not have to take it.
  1631. 48:07And if you're going to get to that next
  1632. 48:08level, you're going to feel unstuck. And
  1633. 48:10here I am, an older guy, 55 years old.
  1634. 48:13And it is, I think, the key as to why
  1635. 48:15I'm still pretty fresh and in the hunt
  1636. 48:17and going and excited and not stuck. Is
  1637. 48:20I've And by the way, I think you would
  1638. 48:22agree, it's a muscle you also build over
  1639. 48:24time. Your first risk you take to start
  1640. 48:27a business does not require the muscle
  1641. 48:28because you're moving from nothing. It
  1642. 48:30requires a muscle over time to continue
  1643. 48:32to throw. Like you said, Musk earlier,
  1644. 48:34whatever you think of the guy, are you
  1645. 48:35kidding me? The amount of risk this
  1646. 48:36dude's willing to take on over and over
  1647. 48:38and over again. been compensated more
  1648. 48:40than anyone.
  1649. 48:40>> That's right. He's he's adequately
  1650. 48:42compensated for the risk he's willing to
  1651. 48:44take.
  1652. 48:45>> What about We don't have much more time,
  1653. 48:46by the way. So good. Like we need to
  1654. 48:48agree we're going to do this at least
  1655. 48:49once a year.
  1656. 48:50>> And I need to expand the format of the
  1657. 48:51show when you're on to like two hours.
  1658. 48:53>> We can roll late and then we can do a
  1659. 48:55second a second half.
  1660. 48:56>> Oh, that would be really good. It would
  1661. 48:57be really good. I uh
  1662. 49:00there's a lot holding someone back and
  1663. 49:02I'll visit on my channel if you want.
  1664. 49:04>> Okay, I love that. Whatever you want. I
  1665. 49:05I there's a lot holding someone back
  1666. 49:07from this risk adversion at any stage
  1667. 49:10>> and I don't know that I've been very
  1668. 49:12good at getting somebody to sort of deal
  1669. 49:14with it. Now what I used to say and then
  1670. 49:15I want to have your version of it
  1671. 49:17because like yours is frankly I think
  1672. 49:18better. I used to go, you know, this
  1673. 49:20like boogeyman when I was a little kid,
  1674. 49:21I thought there was a boogeyman. And my
  1675. 49:23dad when he would come back from his
  1676. 49:24drinking binges, I'd be up. But I
  1677. 49:26created this boogeyman and my dad would
  1678. 49:28literally have to come in my room when I
  1679. 49:29was a little boy and open the closet and
  1680. 49:31go, "Eddie, look in here. The there's no
  1681. 49:32boogeyman in the closet." But I had this
  1682. 49:34great book. If he would open it and show
  1683. 49:36me, all of a sudden, a lot of my fear
  1684. 49:39was reduced. And as an entrepreneur, a
  1685. 49:41lot of these fears you have, they're
  1686. 49:42real things. But even if you lost that
  1687. 49:45investment you made, even if the
  1688. 49:47business crumbled, the boogeyman's
  1689. 49:49probably not quite as bad as you think
  1690. 49:50it is, you can come back, right? You
  1691. 49:53teach people that have fears to actually
  1692. 49:55put it down, right? Can you talk about
  1693. 49:57this because I think this is a great
  1694. 49:59tactic to get above or be self-aware of
  1695. 50:02your fears or or their limitations.
  1696. 50:04>> So, it's my it's my position that um
  1697. 50:06emotions exist in the vague, not the
  1698. 50:08specific. um meaning fear exists in the
  1699. 50:12vague like because basically we abstract
  1700. 50:14things to death because we're
  1701. 50:15evolutionary beings and like we don't
  1702. 50:17want to die okay but we think if if this
  1703. 50:19does not work uh I will fail I will go
  1704. 50:21bankrupt my wife will leave me and I
  1705. 50:23will die and I will die right
  1706. 50:25>> but when you actually define out no like
  1707. 50:27let's re let's sit in it because we're
  1708. 50:29so afraid to look at what would happen
  1709. 50:31that even the fear of looking gets
  1710. 50:33people to not
  1711. 50:34>> crystallize it and it's like listen
  1712. 50:35first thing you can do is prepare for
  1713. 50:37failure at least
  1714. 50:38>> but in preparing for failure you
  1715. 50:39decrease the likelihood that it happens
  1716. 50:41because you actually know what's what
  1717. 50:42what happens next. And so I remember
  1718. 50:44when I when I started the gym, I had to
  1719. 50:46write down my plan B, which for me was
  1720. 50:48um well, I didn't have any real skills.
  1721. 50:50I was in shape uh and I had time. And so
  1722. 50:53I said, I'll drive Uber and I'll strip.
  1723. 50:56Um and that way if I fail, I'll drive
  1724. 50:58Uber 12 hours a day and I'll strip at
  1725. 50:59night and I'll be able to like in a year
  1726. 51:00probably make $250,000 and I'll and I'll
  1727. 51:02do it again. You know, like I'll start
  1728. 51:03back. But the goal was to get back into
  1729. 51:05it again. And so one is like when you
  1730. 51:07really play out your failure story,
  1731. 51:09maybe you're sleeping on a on like you
  1732. 51:11will only lose status in the eyes of
  1733. 51:14people around you who are not taking the
  1734. 51:16risk that you're taking,
  1735. 51:17>> right?
  1736. 51:18>> And
  1737. 51:19>> so true
  1738. 51:19>> and you don't want their lives. So why
  1739. 51:21would I care about their opinions? And
  1740. 51:23we just have to expand the time horizon
  1741. 51:25because like not to sound tright here,
  1742. 51:29but like failure and success are on the
  1743. 51:31exact same road. It's just that failure
  1744. 51:33is an earlier exit. M
  1745. 51:35>> and so one is a requisite for the other.
  1746. 51:37But the thing is is that thinking about
  1747. 51:39success leads you to failure.
  1748. 51:42Failure
  1749. 51:44>> leads you to success.
  1750. 51:45>> Yeah.
  1751. 51:45>> And so it so failure is closer to
  1752. 51:48success than thinking about successes.
  1753. 51:50>> Wow.
  1754. 51:51>> Which is ironic.
  1755. 51:52>> Ironic.
  1756. 51:52>> And so the idea is like like one of my
  1757. 51:54favorite things to tell sales guys
  1758. 51:55especially especially in the cold
  1759. 51:56calling outbound side is like let's get
  1760. 51:57some nos today. Right? If we can make
  1761. 51:59the failure a success a mile mark. How
  1762. 52:01many nos we collect today? Right? It
  1763. 52:03stops having this emotional charge
  1764. 52:05because we're saying, "Wait, we're not
  1765. 52:06making no mean something.
  1766. 52:08>> We're saying we're making no mean
  1767. 52:09something good."
  1768. 52:10>> And so, if we know that um
  1769. 52:13>> wow,
  1770. 52:13>> the the failure that we're going to have
  1771. 52:15is going to teach us something like the
  1772. 52:17$250,000 pet that we're talking about
  1773. 52:19with this operator, right? We this
  1774. 52:20person who's incredibly in fear, how do
  1775. 52:21we get them out of that out of that
  1776. 52:23fear? is that if you don't see another
  1777. 52:26way and maybe that maybe you pulled all
  1778. 52:28the levers that we just talked about and
  1779. 52:29and still there's no other way. You have
  1780. 52:31to take the risk
  1781. 52:32>> then you take the risk.
  1782. 52:34>> Yeah.
  1783. 52:34>> And and you know and you do that
  1784. 52:36knowingly because what you are building
  1785. 52:37is the thing that we were talking about
  1786. 52:38earlier which is pattern recognition.
  1787. 52:40So, let me tell you the story of how
  1788. 52:41entrepreneurship really works, which is
  1789. 52:43if you've ever played a video game, you
  1790. 52:45played and the first time you play the
  1791. 52:46game, you get to a level, it's hard, you
  1792. 52:47got to beat the boss, you got to figure
  1793. 52:48it all out, you find out there's a sword
  1794. 52:49under the stone, whatever, right? And
  1795. 52:51then you get to the next level and you
  1796. 52:52trial and error, trial and error, you
  1797. 52:53get it. Now, if you go back and play
  1798. 52:55that game again, it's a straight line.
  1799. 52:58How fast? Now, the character itself
  1800. 52:59can't play faster because it's it's
  1801. 53:01controlled by the same algorithm, the
  1802. 53:02video game. But how does it take you a
  1803. 53:04tenth of the time to get three, four,
  1804. 53:06five levels deep? Because you know
  1805. 53:07exactly what to do. Why? because you
  1806. 53:08recognize the patterns.
  1807. 53:10>> And so if you've ever had multiple
  1808. 53:12businesses, which a lot of people are
  1809. 53:13entrepreneurs, like by the way, you
  1810. 53:14know, spoiler alert, you're going to
  1811. 53:15have more than one business. You're
  1812. 53:16getting into it and you have this fear
  1813. 53:17that this will be the perfect one. Um
  1814. 53:20>> the second business you start almost
  1815. 53:22always grows faster than the first
  1816. 53:24business you start because you you go
  1817. 53:26you blow through all the bosses you had
  1818. 53:27on the first one and then you get stuck
  1819. 53:29at the same point and then you move as
  1820. 53:30slow as you can which is trial and error
  1821. 53:32again. It's you get into the slog again.
  1822. 53:34And so the the failure that you're
  1823. 53:35experiencing is is create is the
  1824. 53:37creation of pattern recognition. And so
  1825. 53:39I remember for me just to give an
  1826. 53:41analogy that might make sense for people
  1827. 53:43>> the first time you hire a sales manager
  1828. 53:45or even the first time you hire a
  1829. 53:46saleserson right
  1830. 53:48>> you go through you hire one person and
  1831. 53:50the most expensive hire is a sales
  1832. 53:51person your first salesperson because
  1833. 53:52you're losing that person doesn't close
  1834. 53:54you lose all the business. I mean it's
  1835. 53:56horrible right? But you have to make the
  1836. 53:57bet at some point and so you hire them
  1837. 54:00and maybe that person doesn't work out.
  1838. 54:02Okay so we hire another one. maybe that
  1839. 54:03person doesn't work out. Now, eventually
  1840. 54:05you will hire one and it won't work out.
  1841. 54:06And then at that point, you're like,
  1842. 54:08"Oh, I know what this looks like now."
  1843. 54:10>> Pattern recognition. And so, when the
  1844. 54:11next ones, you're like, "I need to get
  1845. 54:12them to look as similar to this as I
  1846. 54:14possibly can." And then all of a sudden,
  1847. 54:15your failure rate starts dropping and
  1848. 54:16going down and down and down. Then,
  1849. 54:17you're like, "What if I train harder?"
  1850. 54:18And then all of a sudden, you start
  1851. 54:19increasing your percentages. But the
  1852. 54:21same thing happens when you're like,
  1853. 54:22"Now I need a sales manager." And you
  1854. 54:23repeat that process. And so I think a
  1855. 54:24lot of what the call it the the better
  1856. 54:26entrepreneurs in the world versus the
  1857. 54:27the non the the lower entrepreneurs is
  1858. 54:30that it's just every single role in the
  1859. 54:32business. You have to know what good
  1860. 54:34looks like and you have to fail at each
  1861. 54:36one of them until eventually you find
  1862. 54:37the one that works and then that forever
  1863. 54:39becomes your pattern of this is
  1864. 54:40>> and to be clear there's different ways
  1865. 54:42to run sales teams but I know this way
  1866. 54:44works and I know this type of person
  1867. 54:45works for the way I like to run sales.
  1868. 54:47And so that then when you when you
  1869. 54:49create the next business and this is I
  1870. 54:51use different verbiage for it which is
  1871. 54:52at a certain point you don't build
  1872. 54:54businesses anymore. You assemble them.
  1873. 54:56>> Wow. You're so right.
  1874. 54:58>> You're so right.
  1875. 54:58>> I had to change my language because I
  1876. 55:00was like I'm not really building this
  1877. 55:01business. I'm just putting the we're
  1878. 55:02just assembling. We're putting all the
  1879. 55:03piece I know this is going to work. And
  1880. 55:05also, which one of the advantages that
  1881. 55:06you don't that we don't talk about as
  1882. 55:08much because it's only applies to a
  1883. 55:09small percentage of people is that the
  1884. 55:10longer you do business and if you if you
  1885. 55:12do business well and you do right by
  1886. 55:13people, you develop this network, this
  1887. 55:15rolodex. And if I'm going to start a new
  1888. 55:17thing or Ed's going to start a new
  1889. 55:18thing, it's like I got 10 people I can
  1890. 55:20call who are like, "Oh, you're doing
  1891. 55:22something. I'm in, man. Let's go."
  1892. 55:23>> And failure was one of the reasons
  1893. 55:25you've actually built all of these
  1894. 55:26relationships, this in this uh human
  1895. 55:28capital that you've actually developed.
  1896. 55:30>> And then you can deploy that capital.
  1897. 55:31Now, I wonder if that has more leverage.
  1898. 55:32>> Mhm. That's what you said earlier about
  1899. 55:34AI and me not having to do that. I've
  1900. 55:36actually got so many other resources at
  1901. 55:37this stage of my life that I can deploy
  1902. 55:40AI or get access to it without having to
  1903. 55:42fiddle with it myself because of these
  1904. 55:43relationships.
  1905. 55:44>> You have the benefits of AI.
  1906. 55:45>> You're I have the benefits of it. This
  1907. 55:47is so good. I want to do want to finish
  1908. 55:48on one thought and by the way, I'm just
  1909. 55:50going to finish in the middle because
  1910. 55:51there's so many things we could cover.
  1911. 55:53But this idea of pattern recognition,
  1912. 55:54it's not talked a lot about and the
  1913. 55:56video game analogy is perfect. So, it's
  1914. 55:58going to give you a a little runway to
  1915. 56:00answer two things at once. Okay. What
  1916. 56:02pattern recognition's given me, if we're
  1917. 56:04giving the video game analogy and the
  1918. 56:05reps that I've had in business, some of
  1919. 56:07them were successes, some of them were
  1920. 56:08failures. But what's happened is about
  1921. 56:10this idea of assembling a business is
  1922. 56:12the absolute truest thing you'll ever
  1923. 56:13hear. By the way, at some point once you
  1924. 56:15kind of understand the mechanics and the
  1925. 56:18mechanisms of putting these things
  1926. 56:19together, it's an assemblance rather
  1927. 56:20than is of a building. He's completely
  1928. 56:22right. He and I have actually talked
  1929. 56:23privately about doing a a type of
  1930. 56:25business together. And I I just know
  1931. 56:27that if we did it together, it would be
  1932. 56:28successful because between the two of us
  1933. 56:30on that human rolodex and what we know,
  1934. 56:31we would just assemble the parts. Here's
  1935. 56:33the thing that pattern recognition has
  1936. 56:34given me over time that a new
  1937. 56:36entrepreneur gives them needs to give
  1938. 56:38themselves some grace to develop. And
  1939. 56:40that is that I now as I'm building
  1940. 56:42businesses, there are days where I
  1941. 56:44react. There certainly are. They're just
  1942. 56:45things that happen. I spend some of my
  1943. 56:48time reacting. When I was a young
  1944. 56:50entrepreneur, I spent most of my time
  1945. 56:51reacting. Now that I have pattern
  1946. 56:53recognition, human pattern recognition
  1947. 56:55and also just trends, I anticipate more
  1948. 56:58often than I respond and react. So I
  1949. 57:01want you to talk about anticipation as a
  1950. 57:03skill
  1951. 57:04>> as a skill like the thing you and I have
  1952. 57:05talked about with banking. Let's just be
  1953. 57:06honest, right? Like okay, so the
  1954. 57:08anticipation aspect and then inside the
  1955. 57:11answer to that final question, what do
  1956. 57:13you anticipate about the world of
  1957. 57:14business the next two to five years with
  1958. 57:17AI as a factor in it? So why is
  1959. 57:19anticipation matter and what do you
  1960. 57:21anticipate?
  1961. 57:23>> Man, that's a really hard question.
  1962. 57:25>> Um,
  1963. 57:30so I think I think anticipation matters
  1964. 57:32a lot from an entrepreneur perspective
  1965. 57:34because it it it reverts back to the
  1966. 57:36people who get the best returns on their
  1967. 57:38resources. So why like why would
  1968. 57:40anticipation even be important? Well, it
  1969. 57:42means that if I allocate resources to a
  1970. 57:45new thing, let's say it's a new platform
  1971. 57:47emerges for social media and I'm one of
  1972. 57:49the first people on it because I
  1973. 57:50anticipate that it's going to grow
  1974. 57:51because it has all the stuff that looks
  1975. 57:52right. If I'm a first mover in that
  1976. 57:55situation, then the minimal amount of
  1977. 57:56resources that I deploy towards that,
  1978. 57:58I'm going to get a way higher return.
  1979. 57:59And then when people are lagards or
  1980. 58:01later, they're going to have to deploy
  1981. 58:02more resources to get even less out. And
  1982. 58:04so anticipation is another form of
  1983. 58:06leverage. And if we just define
  1984. 58:08leverage, I know we're late on defining
  1985. 58:09it. But it's just getting more for what
  1986. 58:10you put in. High leverage at least. Low
  1987. 58:11leverage would be the opposite.
  1988. 58:13>> And so if we're trying to deploy as much
  1989. 58:15leverage as we can, getting the call
  1990. 58:17right
  1991. 58:18>> allows us to get more for what we put
  1992. 58:19in. And so the anticipation I think is
  1993. 58:22>> a lot of it is uh call it macro pattern
  1994. 58:25recognition, right? So I'll tell you
  1995. 58:26I'll tell you something that I heard
  1996. 58:29>> I want to say 12 years ago or something.
  1997. 58:31I had a Gary Vee clip
  1998. 58:33>> and he said one of the biggest regrets
  1999. 58:34he had was that when he was printing
  2000. 58:36money on Google PPC or Adwords uh for
  2001. 58:39the wine business that he didn't spend
  2002. 58:40more talk about the risk thing at that
  2003. 58:43point now he's a way better bigger
  2004. 58:44entrepreneur now and he has way higher
  2005. 58:46risk tolerance but at that point
  2006. 58:47spending 10,000 20,000 50,000 a day
  2007. 58:49whatever it was was a lot of money
  2008. 58:52>> and I remember hearing that clip right
  2009. 58:56um in the early gym launch days
  2010. 58:58>> really
  2011. 58:58>> and we were printing on on Facebook and
  2012. 59:01meta ads and these were new newish ads.
  2013. 59:03Um, and I was like, well, I don't want
  2014. 59:05to make that mistake. And so we're like,
  2015. 59:06how do we spend more? And so that became
  2016. 59:08the question is what would it take for
  2017. 59:09us to spend more rather than
  2018. 59:11>> I sure if I want to spend more, right?
  2019. 59:14What would it take? Which is one of my
  2020. 59:15favorite questions in the world to ask.
  2021. 59:16It assumes the success then you work
  2022. 59:18backwards.
  2023. 59:18>> The second thing was um what is, you
  2024. 59:20know, what is it going to look like uh
  2025. 59:22in an age of AI? Um I will give an
  2026. 59:25unsexy but
  2027. 59:28accurate answer of what I'm actually
  2028. 59:30doing. Um, I like basis's frame a lot on
  2029. 59:34this, which is
  2030. 59:37the future is very uncertain and one
  2031. 59:39thing that is true is that we are
  2032. 59:40notoriously bad at predicting it.
  2033. 59:43>> And so he prefers to ask himself, what
  2034. 59:45things do I knew know will not change.
  2035. 59:47And so he's made all of those gigantic
  2036. 59:50bets in the business based on the few
  2037. 59:51things that he knows will not change.
  2038. 59:53And so he says, I believe in the future
  2039. 59:55people will want cheaper prices still. I
  2040. 59:57believe in the future customers prefer
  2041. 59:59more selection to less selection. I
  2042. 1:00:01believe that customers will in the
  2043. 1:00:02future prefer things to get them faster
  2044. 1:00:04rather than slower. And so there are
  2045. 1:00:06bets that you can make in the business
  2046. 1:00:07based on human behavior that we know
  2047. 1:00:09will be true.
  2048. 1:00:10>> Do I think that in the future humans
  2049. 1:00:11will eat food? Yes. Do I think that they
  2050. 1:00:13will need shelter? Yes. And so
  2051. 1:00:14[clears throat]
  2052. 1:00:15>> the bets that we're making in the
  2053. 1:00:16business um I would say and this this
  2054. 1:00:19one thing about risk which I think is
  2055. 1:00:20important is entirely personal because I
  2056. 1:00:22get the question a lot and I'm sure you
  2057. 1:00:23do too. one, when do I push and when do
  2058. 1:00:26I pivot,
  2059. 1:00:27>> right?
  2060. 1:00:27>> And the second question is, how much
  2061. 1:00:28should I take out of the business to
  2062. 1:00:30save for a rainy day versus double down?
  2063. 1:00:32And both of those are unanswerable
  2064. 1:00:33questions because they're entirely
  2065. 1:00:34personal. Ask Elon, he'll say, "Put it
  2066. 1:00:35all on the line." If you have a wife and
  2067. 1:00:37kids and you don't want to do that,
  2068. 1:00:38which I respect,
  2069. 1:00:39>> don't do that.
  2070. 1:00:40>> And so those are dials for you. Um, but
  2071. 1:00:44back back to the point, I'll just share
  2072. 1:00:46what I'm doing is that
  2073. 1:00:48>> I take chips off the table and put them
  2074. 1:00:51into these places that I think are
  2075. 1:00:52boring that will still be here. So we
  2076. 1:00:54have lots of real estate and things like
  2077. 1:00:55that, but the big investments that I
  2078. 1:00:59make in the business on call it big
  2079. 1:01:00swings I think have been predicated for
  2080. 1:01:02at least me on making sure that my
  2081. 1:01:04oxygen mask on is there for me and my
  2082. 1:01:06family. People are different. Elon
  2083. 1:01:07doesn't need that. I maybe he does he's
  2084. 1:01:10already so rich. He knows enough friends
  2085. 1:01:11that he's never actually going to
  2086. 1:01:12starve. Um, but I think that
  2087. 1:01:16what has served me very well was that I
  2088. 1:01:18very aggressively lived cheap when I was
  2089. 1:01:20younger so that I could save what I
  2090. 1:01:22believed to be a nest egg. And that nest
  2091. 1:01:24egg has changed in terms of what the
  2092. 1:01:26size of it has been.
  2093. 1:01:27>> But always having one allowed me to take
  2094. 1:01:30gigantic swings and do things like the
  2095. 1:01:32school deal or do things like the book
  2096. 1:01:34launch or do things like some of the
  2097. 1:01:35other things that we're talking about
  2098. 1:01:37and be okay because the worst case
  2099. 1:01:39scenario is that my my life doesn't
  2100. 1:01:41change at all. Me too. Identical exact
  2101. 1:01:44same thing. This is my favorite
  2102. 1:01:46interview we've done. My favorite
  2103. 1:01:48interview. Um
  2104. 1:01:49>> can I do one more little bit
  2105. 1:01:50>> please?
  2106. 1:01:51>> So one thing in terms of the specificity
  2107. 1:01:53of risk. So we talked about um like what
  2108. 1:01:56would it actually look like?
  2109. 1:01:57>> Yeah.
  2110. 1:01:58>> One of the things that's been even more
  2111. 1:02:00micro for me is what changes about my
  2112. 1:02:03day.
  2113. 1:02:04>> And so this is both upside and downside.
  2114. 1:02:06So, if I'm considering like, hey, should
  2115. 1:02:07I take on this investment or should I do
  2116. 1:02:09this anything? The question that I ask
  2117. 1:02:12is like, what will this change about my
  2118. 1:02:13day?
  2119. 1:02:14>> Do I have to now do something that I
  2120. 1:02:16don't want to do? Do I have to do I have
  2121. 1:02:18to stop doing stuff that I do want to
  2122. 1:02:19do? And most decisions um don't actually
  2123. 1:02:23affect my day, which then means that
  2124. 1:02:26it's actually not there's no real stakes
  2125. 1:02:28here. It's all made up. It's literally
  2126. 1:02:29just it's it's in the air. Now, every
  2127. 1:02:31once in a while, there are some things
  2128. 1:02:33that when I actually run it through that
  2129. 1:02:35that filter. For example, if your wife's
  2130. 1:02:36pissed at you,
  2131. 1:02:37>> that is going to change my day
  2132. 1:02:40>> or week or month more than just about
  2133. 1:02:43any negative business consequence will.
  2134. 1:02:45Honestly, just about more.
  2135. 1:02:46>> And so, it actually has helped me truly
  2136. 1:02:49redefine priorities.
  2137. 1:02:50>> Wow.
  2138. 1:02:51>> In a way that's actually much more
  2139. 1:02:52tactically relevant to how I experience
  2140. 1:02:54life.
  2141. 1:02:55>> Wow.
  2142. 1:02:56I'm glad you added that. That's probably
  2143. 1:02:57best for me of the entire conversation.
  2144. 1:03:00No, because a lot of the risk that I
  2145. 1:03:02have in my mind is made up. Yet, the
  2146. 1:03:04risk I most fear is that it would alter
  2147. 1:03:06my day and then I would have to do
  2148. 1:03:08things I don't want to do anymore or
  2149. 1:03:09actually stop doing the things that I do
  2150. 1:03:11want to do. What a great formula.
  2151. 1:03:13>> Turns out you're pretty smart.
  2152. 1:03:15>> Turns out you're pretty smart. Um I'm
  2153. 1:03:18real proud of you. Thanks, man.
  2154. 1:03:19>> You know what I mean? And I'm grateful
  2155. 1:03:20that you're in my life and uh I'll
  2156. 1:03:22always be here for you. And um I love
  2157. 1:03:26Leila, too. And uh you're really
  2158. 1:03:27important in the world. I just want you
  2159. 1:03:29to know. No, I meant what I said in the
  2160. 1:03:30beginning. There's a lot of people that
  2161. 1:03:31are really good at this business stuff.
  2162. 1:03:34You're you're on a level that is yours.
  2163. 1:03:37So, continue to expand because your
  2164. 1:03:38capacity is even greater than this.
  2165. 1:03:40Proud of you. Great job today.
  2166. 1:03:41>> Appreciate it.
  2167. 1:03:42>> All right, everybody. I don't have to
  2168. 1:03:43tell you to do this one. Share this
  2169. 1:03:44episode. You know where to find Alex.
  2170. 1:03:45He's everywhere. And max out your life.
  2171. 1:03:47God bless you.

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