The Most Valuable 64 Minutes You'll Spend This Year (Hormozi x Mylett) — Transcript
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- 0:00I had this great piece of advice from a
- 0:01mentor who told me I said yeah you know
- 0:02had a couple good days and she said I'm
- 0:04pretty sure the secret to life has dream
- 0:05as many days in a row like that as you
- 0:06can and it was one of those very
- 0:07tactical pieces of advice that I've
- 0:08actually taken with me forever which was
- 0:10so when I looked back on my whole year I
- 0:11was like okay what were the top 10 days
- 0:13of this year and I I started thinking
- 0:15through them and I would say that like
- 0:16if you think of a day as a microcosm of
- 0:18your life it's like I would like to end
- 0:20end this life being like I gave I left
- 0:22it alone ironically then people look at
- 0:24you and think guys so skilled as an
- 0:26entrepreneur or what a great speech
- 0:27maker or but it's actually happened
- 0:29through emptying the tank all these
- 0:31days. I also don't want to fall into
- 0:33this I get you call it like bro culture
- 0:35hustle culture notion of like the funny
- 0:38clip of me saying I work a million hours
- 0:40a day and I can change time.
- 0:43However, what what I don't want to sound
- 0:45like is like that that's that there's no
- 0:48meaning in other things. It's [snorts]
- 0:50about maximizing output of unit of time
- 0:52total. But if I only had 24 hours, then
- 0:55yeah, take as many stimulus as you can
- 0:56because you only have 24 hours to work.
- 0:57But that's not how the world works. You
- 0:59have and for the the games that we're
- 1:01trying to play decade plus, it's like
- 1:04not only that, you actually have to be
- 1:05alive from a meeting purpose
- 1:06perspective. That's a really good point.
- 1:08Maybe one of the best points I've heard
- 1:09on a podcast in probably 10 years.
- 1:18>> Welcome back to the show everybody. So
- 1:19here's who I have with me today.
- 1:20Somebody that I admire a great deal. I
- 1:22wish I spent more time with um I think
- 1:25he's one of the great American
- 1:26entrepreneurs actually worldwide
- 1:27entrepreneurs. He's um I told him this
- 1:29privately on a conversation I don't know
- 1:31about six, eight weeks ago. I think he's
- 1:33the best in the world at teaching people
- 1:34how to be better business people and
- 1:36better marketers. I think he's number
- 1:37one in the world and I say that as
- 1:39somebody who does it myself and so I
- 1:40have a great deal of admiration for him.
- 1:43Um most importantly his brain is huge
- 1:45but his heart is bigger. That's the one
- 1:46thing I think most people online would
- 1:48not know about this young man. He's got
- 1:50a heart of gold. He's a kind person.
- 1:52He's a humble person. And he still is
- 1:55curious and still wants to learn. He
- 1:57still actually asks for advice from time
- 1:58to time. And so, um, you're going to get
- 2:00his advice today on the Ed Mlet Show
- 2:02with the great Alex Hermosi. Welcome
- 2:04back.
- 2:05>> Thank you for having me. And my only
- 2:07goal in this podcast is live up to that
- 2:09introduction. [laughter]
- 2:10Oh,
- 2:10>> you you'll do great. So, uh, you got a
- 2:13lot going on in your life.
- 2:14Congratulations on the potential the the
- 2:17sooncoming fatherhood for you. How has
- 2:19it changed you at all? like just the
- 2:20thought of it, just knowing it's coming.
- 2:22>> I'd say the thought has changed my life
- 2:25maybe in two ways. One is that I'm
- 2:26actively really um trying to get ahead
- 2:28on education for my son and thinking
- 2:30like what inroads do I need to do so
- 2:32that I can set
- 2:33>> him up education wise because I don't
- 2:34like the system obviously.
- 2:36>> Um I'd say that's one. I would say two
- 2:38is that I feel like I've had a little
- 2:39bit of a shift in terms of up to this
- 2:41point I've just only had I would say I
- 2:44have had reverence for the game and that
- 2:46is why I continue to play it. Um, but
- 2:48I've had a weird shift where I was like,
- 2:50oh, I guess I am going to leave this to
- 2:52someone because until this point it was
- 2:54just I'm going to write it to charity in
- 2:56one check and let it go to like the
- 2:57Acumen Fund or some of these really good
- 2:59institutions that know how to deploy
- 3:00capital in a charitable way because I
- 3:01was just like this was just chips to
- 3:03play the game.
- 3:04>> Um,
- 3:05>> but so that's I would say those are the
- 3:06two things that have changed about in
- 3:08terms of like what has what new weights
- 3:10are waiting my decision-m those are
- 3:12those two. um I'm more I'm more likely
- 3:14to respond to a a student outreach, you
- 3:16know, like something student related.
- 3:18>> Um but beyond that, in terms of my like
- 3:20>> internal stuff, um I'm here to support
- 3:22Ila.
- 3:23>> Um and I expect the emotionality of
- 3:25it'll probably come when he's
- 3:26>> born. Yeah. But I know you and I have
- 3:29had enough conversations. I think it's
- 3:30more than that with you. I think it's
- 3:32changed your overall look on everything.
- 3:35I mean, you've asked me a few questions
- 3:37in different ways, but but
- 3:39>> I you appear to, at least to me, it
- 3:42seems to have almost I don't know
- 3:45broadened your perspective, made it
- 3:47bigger. Uh,
- 3:48>> totally.
- 3:48>> In what way? Like if if we're using my
- 3:50terminology because I think it's
- 3:52important. You have a lot of young
- 3:53people that follow your content. You
- 3:54have a lot of people that follow your
- 3:56content, but a lot of them are guys like
- 3:57me when I was coming up, guys like you
- 3:59when you're coming up, and they're not
- 4:00at this stage of their life yet. I
- 4:02wonder knowing what you know now about
- 4:04you're going to be a dad, would it have
- 4:05changed anything you were doing or
- 4:07thinking prior?
- 4:08>> Leila and I got really serious about
- 4:10having kids when I was 28
- 4:12>> and we [clears throat] were like really
- 4:13going to do it and then we were like you
- 4:15know what let's not. But there was like
- 4:17you know a few month period we're like
- 4:18let's do this. Um and I think that we
- 4:21could have like again I can't replay
- 4:23life but like I think me doing it at
- 4:24that point I was 28 and she was 25
- 4:28>> might have been like that would have
- 4:29been good. I probably would have been
- 4:30easier to have more kids.
- 4:32>> Um because I think Leila and I are very
- 4:34all like all or nothing. Um and so as
- 4:37soon as we found out that she was
- 4:38pregnant with um our son,
- 4:41>> um we're like, well, I guess we're going
- 4:42to have a lot more than one or at least
- 4:44that's the goal. So it's either like
- 4:46none or have a soccer team, you know,
- 4:48that's kind of [laughter] like
- 4:49>> and we have settled on Edward. That is
- 4:51his name, right?
- 4:52>> One of the great names of that.
- 4:53>> Yeah, he's going to be Edward. I got to
- 4:55tell you, when he told me about the the
- 4:57the blessing, I I think you would agree.
- 5:01I was almost as excited as if my own
- 5:03son.
- 5:04>> And the reason is I just want to tell
- 5:05you and then we'll get into content that
- 5:07everybody wants. I've long thought you'd
- 5:09be a great father.
- 5:11>> And I've told you that. I told you that
- 5:12before this happened. So, I'm just
- 5:13really happy for you. I just want you to
- 5:15know that. I'm really
- 5:16>> say that for people I mean, everyone who
- 5:18listens to this already knows you, but
- 5:19like Ed's even better in private than he
- 5:21is on these podcasts. And um
- 5:24>> thank you.
- 5:24>> It's one of the one of the rare gifts. I
- 5:26think I had someone ask me like, "Hey,
- 5:27what are the people of all the people
- 5:29that you've met
- 5:30>> um that were, you know, different in
- 5:32person versus their content?" And I was
- 5:34like, "Ed, for sure." And they were
- 5:36like,
- 5:36>> "Oh." And I was like, "No, he's just way
- 5:38better."
- 5:39>> Oh, thank you.
- 5:40>> And um and yeah, it's just like there
- 5:42are very few people that I that I like
- 5:44if I was like having something that was
- 5:45kind of complex. like you have this very
- 5:47great depth of understanding from both
- 5:48like you have the business acumen but
- 5:50you have this great balance of of
- 5:52humility without having any judgment and
- 5:54I think that's super rare.
- 5:55>> Thank you. So do you by the way it's
- 5:56what I admire about you. We both at our
- 5:58stage are important people to know we're
- 6:00both still curious. We still both want
- 6:01to learn. You're the smartest guy in the
- 6:03room most of the time but you don't ever
- 6:05act like it. And that's one of the
- 6:06things that I really love about you. You
- 6:08made me think about my own content. So I
- 6:09want to go into some stuff. I want to
- 6:10ask you about some stuff. You've
- 6:12challenged my own thinking. So, I was
- 6:14probably one of the early on way back in
- 6:16the day morning routine, evening routine
- 6:20guys.
- 6:21>> Creating structure.
- 6:22>> I probably made it sound as if I was a
- 6:25little bit more dialed in than I really
- 6:26was on any given day. You know how
- 6:27content can come across that way.
- 6:29>> But you've sort of taken a different
- 6:30perspective on it. And frankly, you've
- 6:32persuaded me, you're probably more right
- 6:34than I was. And so, I've actually not
- 6:37really gone back to the old way that I
- 6:38teach this stuff. Meaning I think
- 6:40there's a lot of things that are
- 6:41ritualistic we do
- 6:42>> that are just time fillers now that are
- 6:44wasting time. So share with the audience
- 6:46kind of your view on morning routines
- 6:49and what is what really matters to get a
- 6:52day started in a business going.
- 6:54>> I I I basically see the time that you
- 6:57wake up after any period of sleep even
- 6:59if you take a nap right afterwards is
- 7:01where your your processing power is
- 7:02going to be the best. And so the morning
- 7:04typically is where you're going to have
- 7:05the the best thinking if you can use the
- 7:07morning ideally. Some people can't get
- 7:09the time, fine. You can do late at
- 7:10night. It's okay. Um, but because of
- 7:12that, my goal is to compress the time
- 7:14from when I wake up to when I begin
- 7:15working as fast as to as little as
- 7:17possible. And so for me, it's basically
- 7:19>> wake up, uh, stimulate, meaning
- 7:22caffeine, nicotine 8, proteinate, you
- 7:24know, creatine 8, do all my stuff, my
- 7:26stuff, and then just basically go right
- 7:27into it. Um, I think some people having
- 7:29like maybe a 10-minute meditation or
- 7:31something like that because it calms
- 7:32their, you know, emotionality, attack
- 7:33the thing, that's fine. I think
- 7:35anything, you know, much longer than
- 7:37that, like for example, I love training.
- 7:39Um, but when I'm trying to be my most
- 7:41productive, I train at the end of the
- 7:42day.
- 7:43>> You do?
- 7:43>> Yeah. Okay.
- 7:44>> Because my brain is exhausted, but my
- 7:46body is still fresh.
- 7:47>> Um, but if I use if I train the way I
- 7:49want to train, which is two hours, I'm
- 7:51using the first two hours of my day on
- 7:52train, which if I don't if I'm not in a
- 7:54go- go season, which happens plenty, um,
- 7:56I'll train first. Um, because I'll use
- 7:58all my juice there. But I'm definitely
- 8:00more fatigued because I train pretty
- 8:01hard.
- 8:01>> Yeah. I'm interesting. I I've had a
- 8:03Let's talk about this for a minute. I
- 8:04think it's a little bit of and debate
- 8:06this with me a little bit. One, my
- 8:07routines were too long. You're right. It
- 8:09was
- 8:10>> two hour an hour and a half or two hours
- 8:12of stuff to just get going. Yeah.
- 8:14>> And frankly, as I step away from it,
- 8:16>> I don't even believe any of that in real
- 8:17life. You don't have to be perfectly
- 8:19prepared to do anything. In fact, you're
- 8:20never going to be.
- 8:21>> Some people is it not? You don't think
- 8:23it's more like know thyself? Like the
- 8:24most successful high performers I know
- 8:26know their peak cognitive time of the
- 8:28day.
- 8:29>> So, are you saying that you think for
- 8:30everybody it's their morning? Cuz for
- 8:31me,
- 8:32>> I'm with you. I'm probably best like not
- 8:35not 5:00 a.m. morning, but I'm probably
- 8:37best my best meeting should be taken
- 8:38hardest meeting should be taken between
- 8:409:00 and noon for me.
- 8:41>> The basis 10 a.m. meeting.
- 8:42>> Yeah, that but do you think that it's
- 8:44more if you're giving advice to
- 8:45somebody, it's it's become self-aware of
- 8:47when your cognitive peak is.
- 8:49>> Yeah, I think there's the um the like
- 8:51population versus n equals 1. And so I
- 8:54think population wise most people when
- 8:56they're the freshest is like after they
- 8:58wake up. Now I'm not saying like you get
- 9:00shook out of bed now write an essay.
- 9:01That's not what I'm saying. But 30 an
- 9:03hour once your cortisol comes up and
- 9:05you're like alert um usually at that
- 9:07point you're you're freshest now n
- 9:09equals 1 everyone's different and so if
- 9:11you had a scatter plot of humans it's
- 9:13like in general that is where it is
- 9:15going to be if you don't know where to
- 9:16start where you're going to be more
- 9:16productive start in the morning if you
- 9:18have if you're like I for sure I'm a
- 9:20night owl then be a night out like I I
- 9:22think both like I have no dog in this
- 9:24fight whatever you want
- 9:25>> right agreed
- 9:26>> I think the only thing that I I would
- 9:27say that I am adamant about that I would
- 9:28you know what sword would I would
- 9:30actually fall on is that I would never
- 9:32want my routine to become a crutch in
- 9:36that if it if I didn't have it, it would
- 9:38make me less capable.
- 9:40>> And so it has to be something that I can
- 9:42win
- 9:43>> without it, but if it's there, it's
- 9:45additive. So it's a preference, not a
- 9:46requirement.
- 9:47>> And so I think um one of my favorite
- 9:49lines in Invictus, which is like this
- 9:50weird movie with Morgan Freeman,
- 9:52>> he's talking to uh Matt Demon, who's the
- 9:55lead South African player. they have
- 9:58some exchange and he says, you know, I
- 10:00um I wish we could have played better
- 10:02this year, but you know, we we weren't
- 10:03100%. And Morgan Freeman, who's supposed
- 10:05to be Nelson Mandela, says no one's ever
- 10:07100%.
- 10:08>> And I it was this really great exchange
- 10:10that um I've always thought a lot about,
- 10:12which is like a lot of like champions
- 10:14and winners win despite imperfect
- 10:16conditions.
- 10:16>> Amen.
- 10:17>> Not in the s pursuit or effort of
- 10:20creating perfect condition.
- 10:21>> I want to talk about that. By the way,
- 10:22in about something ironic, my drive over
- 10:23here with my Uber guy, I can't say why,
- 10:26but but I have a recent engagement with
- 10:29Morgan Freeman. I spent the last 40
- 10:31minutes driving over here talking about
- 10:32Morgan Freeman of all human beings. And
- 10:33now you bring up that name in the
- 10:34interview. I want talk about effort and
- 10:36conditions. Here's the thing I think
- 10:38that you have.
- 10:39>> I want you to discuss this with
- 10:40everybody. I think for most people,
- 10:42effort
- 10:43>> is conditional. Like when I'm working
- 10:46with athletes, you know, I'll go to
- 10:47these college football teams or these,
- 10:49you know, professional teams and if the
- 10:51guy's starting and he's first string and
- 10:54it's, you know, 10 to seven in the
- 10:56fourth quarter, you're getting 100% max
- 10:58effort from that person. But if he's
- 10:59second or third string in practice on
- 11:01Thursday, he knows he's not going to
- 11:02play in the game or it's 21 to nothing.
- 11:04Effort changes for most people based on
- 11:07conditions.
- 11:08>> And I think someone like yourself who's
- 11:10had long-term success, you've made
- 11:12effort unconditional. Meaning regardless
- 11:14of the conditions, winning, losing,
- 11:16pregnant, not pregnant, an exit, a deal
- 11:19that falls apart, effort is not based on
- 11:21conditions or even how the people around
- 11:23you are behaving.
- 11:24>> Do you believe that that's a key?
- 11:26>> A thousand%.
- 11:27>> Yeah.
- 11:27>> For for two reasons and I think the
- 11:28second you'll appreciate more. So I'll
- 11:30actually start with that one.
- 11:31>> If you are somebody who starts to win,
- 11:34right? So this is maybe only talking to
- 11:35the 10% or 5% of people who are
- 11:37listening to this. You can't you can't
- 11:40make your effort conditional on winning
- 11:42anymore because winning the bar is too
- 11:44low
- 11:45>> because starting to outco compete other
- 11:47people who aren't as prepared who didn't
- 11:48realize how much effort you're going to
- 11:49put in ahead of time like you actually
- 11:51end up sacrificing your potential
- 11:54>> um in just trying to beat them
- 11:57>> rather than saying like and this is why
- 11:59I love Andy's uh Andy Fcella's 100 to
- 12:02zero that that like leave no doubt. Y
- 12:05>> um so it's like we have to only be
- 12:08playing against ourselves especially
- 12:10once you get past a certain level.
- 12:11>> What a great point.
- 12:12>> Um and so I'll say that it's like thing
- 12:14one. I would say the second part is that
- 12:16I think I had a year off when we sold
- 12:18the company and going through that whole
- 12:20process and it was one of the most
- 12:22miserable of my life. Um and I derived
- 12:25from that period uh this concept or this
- 12:27mantra of work is the goal. And it was
- 12:30the idea that a lot of times even we
- 12:33hear the coaches say, "Hey, you know,
- 12:34work super hard, the score takes care of
- 12:35itself." But even adding on the the
- 12:38score takes care of itself. Still makes
- 12:40the score the objective or the goal.
- 12:43>> If we could just say work as hard as you
- 12:45can, period. And I will judge you by how
- 12:48hard you worked relative to how hard you
- 12:50could work.
- 12:51>> And what's difficult about that
- 12:53>> is that the only person who actually
- 12:55knows how hard you can work is you.
- 12:56>> Wow. And so that is both uh gratifying
- 12:59and also terrifying because
- 13:02>> you can win and in [snorts] the world's
- 13:05eyes and still lose in your own if you
- 13:06use that as your as your metric.
- 13:09>> Yes.
- 13:09>> And so
- 13:10>> Wow. Very good.
- 13:11>> What was what was interesting about the
- 13:13So we did this book launch in August of
- 13:16last year and we
- 13:16>> I heard you made a little money on that.
- 13:18>> It worked out.
- 13:18>> Yeah. [laughter]
- 13:19>> Um so
- 13:20>> he made a hundred million bucks. So the
- 13:22whole the whole idea was, you know, the
- 13:25record was Prince Harry's record, which
- 13:26was uh 1.4 million copies sold in 24
- 13:29hours, which is roughly like $43 million
- 13:32in 24 hours.
- 13:34>> And so we we ended up breaking the
- 13:36record within the first like 3 hours or
- 13:38something like that.
- 13:39>> That's crazy.
- 13:40>> And but we still had we still had 21
- 13:42more hours.
- 13:44>> And so this was the 100 to zero concept
- 13:46of like, well, let's we're not going to
- 13:48stop now. Like let's let's run up the
- 13:50score. And I think my team was even
- 13:52surprised when I like took a water break
- 13:547 8 hours in
- 13:56>> and they were like, "Okay, so you know,
- 13:57what are we going to do now?" I was
- 13:58like, "We're going to keep going."
- 14:00>> And like I had almost no celebration.
- 14:02Um, yes. But part of it was cuz I was
- 14:03like, "I'm not going to waste this."
- 14:05Like we put all of this time, we
- 14:07gathered all of this attention and we're
- 14:09going to deliver as much value as we
- 14:10possibly can during this period of time
- 14:12and then we're going to go for 100. So
- 14:13it wasn't even like don't don't beat it.
- 14:15Yes.
- 14:16>> Like put a whole new marker for what you
- 14:18think is possible. And we had done the
- 14:20math or I had done the math prior to
- 14:22which is why the hundred million dollar
- 14:23launch was the idea. But it was like I
- 14:25think we can do this. And so that
- 14:27becomes the standard rather than the
- 14:28world standard of just winning.
- 14:30>> You know, first off, this is why I love
- 14:32talking to you because you make me think
- 14:33and but I I want to stay on this just
- 14:36for a second. First off, we've unpacked
- 14:37two gigantic lessons. One is how to
- 14:39prepare for your day and when to take
- 14:41your best meetings and to be self-aware.
- 14:42The second one is this idea of
- 14:43unconditional effort. But when you're
- 14:45saying something, are you like this too?
- 14:48I have actually not really celebrated
- 14:51nor have I enjoyed what I think the
- 14:54world would think are really normal big
- 14:56like life events like the day of an exit
- 14:58or like the day you had the $100 million
- 15:00day. Yet on the other hand, I've I've
- 15:04had massive personal celebrations on
- 15:06days where I have, no pun intended, but
- 15:07like maxed out my potential possible
- 15:10effort in a given day. Meaning almost
- 15:12this is this is really counterintuitive
- 15:14for most people but so important because
- 15:16this isn't on social media. It's not on
- 15:17most podcasts. I don't think I've
- 15:19mentally the last year played like a
- 15:21results game even though I am outcome
- 15:23focused.
- 15:24>> I am much more process andor effort
- 15:28focused. And I celebrate to the extent
- 15:31that I'm capable of doing that. The max
- 15:33effort days, not the the actual result
- 15:36day. And by the way, my celebrations are
- 15:37pretty weak and suck too.
- 15:38>> We both have had this.
- 15:39>> We both have this time privately, right?
- 15:41But share your thoughts on that.
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- 16:47the what are the the happiest days of my
- 16:48life?" Because when you have you have
- 16:50your your monetary itch scratched,
- 16:52you're like, "Okay, well, what what am I
- 16:53doing the what the rest of my innings
- 16:54for?"
- 16:55>> Um, I had this great piece of advice
- 16:57from mentor who told me um after I had
- 16:59this particularly good weekend and I was
- 17:00in a good mood and um uh she said,
- 17:02"You're a good mood." And uh I said,
- 17:04"Yeah, you know, had a couple good
- 17:05days." And she said, "I'm pretty sure
- 17:06the secret to life is string me as many
- 17:07days in a row like that as you can." And
- 17:09it was one of those very tactical pieces
- 17:11of advice that I've actually taken with
- 17:12me forever, which is so when I looked
- 17:14back on my whole year, I was like,
- 17:15"Okay, what were the top 10 days of this
- 17:17year?" And I I started thinking through
- 17:19them and I have this written on my wall,
- 17:22which is so there's like two things
- 17:23written on my wall, three um that are my
- 17:25my constant reminders. One is focus is
- 17:27subtraction. The second is my good day
- 17:30formula, which is um
- 17:33>> work out with people you like,
- 17:35>> eat with people you like, and write
- 17:36something.
- 17:37>> I've heard this is good. And so if I can
- 17:38do those things, because when I looked
- 17:40back at my days,
- 17:41>> when I did those three things, those are
- 17:43my best days.
- 17:44>> And so I was like, how can I do that as
- 17:45much as I possibly can and organize my
- 17:46day to do that?
- 17:47>> But that last one, which I would say is
- 17:49not on that list, but is kind of like
- 17:51the result of the list is to have
- 17:52nothing in the tank.
- 17:53>> Yeah. It's like when I when I've earned
- 17:55my shower, when I feel like I have
- 17:56nothing left to give. And I would say
- 17:58that like if you think of a day as a
- 17:59microcosm of your life, it's like I
- 18:02would like to end end this life being
- 18:05like I gave I left it all on the field.
- 18:07>> Emptied the tank completely.
- 18:08>> I left it all on the field. There was no
- 18:09one who's like he could have done more.
- 18:10It's like [ __ ] just squeezed
- 18:12from places we didn't know existed.
- 18:14>> That's what I would like every day to
- 18:15be. And of course, it's an ideal. It's
- 18:17not something I hit every day, but I
- 18:18strive to.
- 18:18>> So do I. It's funny because you reach
- 18:20levels of capacity and talent or what
- 18:23people think are skill, at least me,
- 18:26through doing that. So, ironically, then
- 18:27people look at you and think, man, this
- 18:29guy's so skilled as an entrepreneur or
- 18:30what a great speech maker or but it's
- 18:33actually happened through emptying the
- 18:34tank all of these days. How do you
- 18:36navigate? Because you if we're not
- 18:38careful, you and I fall into this trap
- 18:40of the people that you also hear on
- 18:41social media that you and I privately
- 18:44discuss sometimes too. Like I can't
- 18:46believe with no offense why someone's
- 18:48listening to this person if they've
- 18:49actually never produced anything. But
- 18:51I've also I I also don't want to fall
- 18:54into this I get you'd call it like bro
- 18:57culture hustle culture notion of like
- 19:00the funny clip of me saying I work a
- 19:02million hours a day and I can change
- 19:03time and caveman lived a million years
- 19:05ago or whatever was a little uh
- 19:08misspeaking there. However, what what I
- 19:10don't want to sound like is like that
- 19:12that's that that there's no meaning in
- 19:15other things and that rest is not also
- 19:18okay. So I just want to give you a forum
- 19:20so that people don't think that of you
- 19:21also like what are your philosophies
- 19:24about rest or recuperation or reflection
- 19:28because for me a lot of times these big
- 19:29efforts I make a lot of the the growth
- 19:32actually happens in reflecting on what
- 19:33took place and what I learned from it
- 19:35and you do do that more than most people
- 19:36know.
- 19:37>> Totally. So if you so uh so tactically
- 19:40if you were to look at my calendar my
- 19:41five days out of seven have almost
- 19:43nothing on it. I do one day I do a half
- 19:45day of meetings on one day and then I do
- 19:47one one filming day a week. So today was
- 19:49my filming day. Um and then if you
- 19:51include the weekends those two days I
- 19:53have three during the week and then two
- 19:55two weekend days that are almost always
- 19:56completely empty.
- 19:57>> Interesting.
- 19:58>> Um okay.
- 19:58>> And so that is that is how I work most
- 20:00effectively. And it's because I think
- 20:02that two weeks ago I could not know what
- 20:04was going to be most important today
- 20:06>> but today I will be able to do that. And
- 20:08so I I have faith that I can pull things
- 20:10together. Like I I put together this
- 20:12deal on a Sunday once after like Yeah,
- 20:14I'm sure you had one of these days where
- 20:15somebody calls you and you're like, "Oh,
- 20:16I think I can put this together."
- 20:18>> And it was six straight hours of calls
- 20:20and we ended up putting like almost a
- 20:21$400 million stock deal together.
- 20:22>> Oh my goodness.
- 20:23>> But it was just like just but if I had
- 20:26had appointments all day, I would have
- 20:28missed that and that wouldn't have
- 20:29happened. And so there's just huge value
- 20:31to that. So that's like thing one in
- 20:32terms of organizing time and trying to
- 20:34create space and that's just how I
- 20:35function. The second um is I think it's
- 20:40it's extending the time horizon in terms
- 20:42of what we're thinking about output. So
- 20:44if you if whenever you shrink the time
- 20:46horizon then it always creates a false
- 20:49narrative of extremism. And so for
- 20:51example, if I said if you're going to
- 20:52die tomorrow, you change your behavior a
- 20:54lot today. But if I say you're going to
- 20:56die in a week, you change it for sure a
- 20:58lot, but it would be slightly different.
- 21:00If I said you're going to die in a
- 21:01month, it would still be different. Die
- 21:02in a year, it's for sure going to be
- 21:03different. And then beyond that it's too
- 21:05far for human consciousness real in
- 21:07reality. And so as a result it's like we
- 21:10have to think how do I maximize my
- 21:11output over a year or two years or 5
- 21:14years or 10 years. And so if we take
- 21:16let's say even a 10 year horizon
- 21:18>> then for sure we need to rest
- 21:21>> because like
- 21:22>> it's like if I worked out every hour
- 21:24every day you're not going to get
- 21:25stronger. You're just going to break
- 21:26down your muscles too much and you're
- 21:27just going to look terrible and be
- 21:28exhausted and overtrained, right? And so
- 21:30like there obviously has to be some
- 21:32recuperation that that exists. And so
- 21:34it's about maximizing output of unit of
- 21:37time total.
- 21:39>> But if I only had 24 hours then yeah
- 21:40take as many stimulants as you can
- 21:42because you only have 24 hours work.
- 21:43That's not how the world works. You have
- 21:45and for the the games that we're trying
- 21:47to play decade plus it's like not only
- 21:49that you actually have to be aligned
- 21:51from a meaning and purpose perspective
- 21:52because we assume that we're going to
- 21:53win to a certain degree. So it's like we
- 21:55have to find ways to make it worth it
- 21:57and also not sacrifice the other
- 21:58reinforcers we have in our life like
- 22:00family, wife, kids, whatever.
- 22:02>> And so I think it's it's it's navigating
- 22:05how do I have the highest output over
- 22:06the longest period of time which allows
- 22:08for a much more I'll call it
- 22:11>> balance with quotes approach but it
- 22:14still comes into seasons and I think
- 22:15again when we think in this longer term
- 22:17when how you work in your 20s is going
- 22:19to look very different than how you work
- 22:20in your 40s.
- 22:20>> I agree. So would you say that that
- 22:22schedule you're running now with those
- 22:23open days, you more almost had to adjust
- 22:25to your current circumstances, but if it
- 22:27was startup Alex or Mosy in the gym,
- 22:29>> you're probably
- 22:30>> Oh, all day. Yeah. My the my startup
- 22:32schedule, I'll tell you what it was cuz
- 22:33I I still remember it. So basically, I
- 22:35take my I did Hold on.
- 22:37>> But I I did split it into thirds, kind
- 22:38of like you. And so I I I bake it into I
- 22:41would do all my um my innovation stuff
- 22:43first because that's when I was
- 22:44freshest. So I would work until like
- 22:46from 4 to 10ish, so I got sixish hours.
- 22:48And then at that point I'd have
- 22:50customers and the fires of the day would
- 22:52happen. Um I would spend the middle of
- 22:54the day on uh promotion and sales. So I
- 22:57basically do marketing and meeting with
- 22:58sales you know
- 23:00>> customers to try and sell them our
- 23:01stuff.
- 23:02>> And then the back end of the day was all
- 23:03the admin stuff. So that was billing and
- 23:06finance and you know fixing broken
- 23:08equipment and all that stuff. But I
- 23:09slept at the gym. But it was basically
- 23:10if you think about it from a pure big
- 23:12big perspective, you got you know
- 23:14attraction, you've got conversion,
- 23:15you've got delivery. That's kind of like
- 23:16how you're you're breaking down the
- 23:17business. Mhm.
- 23:18>> Um, and I just would say that that has
- 23:20to happen throughout the day, but you
- 23:21have to take some block every day, at
- 23:23least for me, that's working on it
- 23:24rather than in it. How do I build the
- 23:26assets that can rep, you know, replicate
- 23:28a trainer, replicate uh the front desk
- 23:30girl, replicate the sales process,
- 23:31whatever.
- 23:32>> Um,
- 23:33>> but yeah, that was that was that was 12
- 23:34hours a day, 6 days a week. I've been
- 23:36able to do uh 12 hours a day, six days a
- 23:39week, taking one day off as like I can
- 23:41do that for a very very long time. I'm
- 23:42also not saying that's right for
- 23:43everyone. I can do that. But I have to
- 23:45say, and by the way, I'm not saying
- 23:46that's right for everyone either, but
- 23:47that's exactly what I did. That's
- 23:48exactly what Andy did. What the three of
- 23:50us have in common. You slept in the gym,
- 23:52he slept in the in the store, and I
- 23:54slept in the office. I'm not saying you
- 23:55got to sleep in your building either.
- 23:56>> But and the idea of this time thing,
- 23:59poorly chosen words in some of these
- 24:00clips, but you're really compressing
- 24:02time, meaning you're trying to do things
- 24:03that most people think take two hours in
- 24:0630 minutes if you can. Not all meetings
- 24:08need to be an hour, and that's why
- 24:10having a day broken up matters. Now my
- 24:12hardest thing at the highest level of
- 24:14entrepreneurship like when I'm talking
- 24:17with people that you know that have done
- 24:18something really significant there's
- 24:21this really interesting dance you have
- 24:22to have as an entrepreneur I want you to
- 24:24help me understand your view on it okay
- 24:27and it's this I think most entrepreneurs
- 24:29I am as a human I have become a control
- 24:32freak meaning I try to control about
- 24:34you're better at this than me of giving
- 24:36um of separating from tasks and trusting
- 24:39people you have to handle things I'm
- 24:40still not great at that. I think I'd be
- 24:42>> because you're so good.
- 24:43>> Well, thank you. I think though I think
- 24:45potentially I'd have been a wealthier
- 24:46man had I given a little bit more
- 24:47autonomy to people. I think I squeezed
- 24:49them a little bit when I was younger.
- 24:51>> But because I am a control freak. So
- 24:53it's this interesting dance I've had my
- 24:54entire career and even to this day of
- 24:57I'm a control freak yet I know the key
- 25:00to my progression, my growth, my
- 25:02expansion as a person and as an
- 25:04entrepreneur is my capacity to deal with
- 25:06uncertainty simultaneously. So, how do
- 25:08you navigate that? Wanting to control an
- 25:10outcome,
- 25:11>> yet we I want you to discuss the concept
- 25:14of your ability to be out of control
- 25:17theoretically and deal with this mass a
- 25:19massive amount of uncertainty more than
- 25:21most people think they can handle.
- 25:23>> So, I think there's two parts to this at
- 25:24least that I that I think of
- 25:25immediately. So, the first is one of my
- 25:27favorite and I think underrated quotes
- 25:28as an entrepreneur from Jack Dorsey. He
- 25:31said um perfect all the details, limit
- 25:34the number of details.
- 25:35>> [laughter]
- 25:36>> And so I think that is like in a
- 25:38sentence so elegant for like I think
- 25:40it's like I absolutely am a control
- 25:41freak
- 25:43>> at the thing that I think has the
- 25:44absolute greatest point of leverage in
- 25:47the business.
- 25:48>> And so I keep that flexibility in my
- 25:49schedule so that I can go fool in an
- 25:51attack three levels down, seven levels
- 25:53down in the company and be like, okay,
- 25:54what are we doing here?
- 25:55>> What are like what show me the texts
- 25:57that we're sending for this very
- 25:58particular campaign and then I can scoop
- 26:00back out and then go somewhere else. Um,
- 26:02so I would say that from the the the
- 26:03maniacal control, I think Elon's been an
- 26:05example of like he kind of has he's
- 26:07delegated everything and also nothing.
- 26:08But I think his his perspective is uh
- 26:11he's always attacking the rate limiter.
- 26:13That's the the verbage he uses. I use
- 26:14constraint, but whatever. It's the same
- 26:15idea. Like there's a bottleneck
- 26:16somewhere. There always is one. And I
- 26:18think your ability to identify where the
- 26:19bottleneck is is in some way predicated
- 26:21on your ability to recognize patterns
- 26:23and your skill as an entrepreneur. M
- 26:25>> but if we think about entrepreneurship
- 26:26in general as our we are allocators of
- 26:29resources and so we have limited
- 26:31resource extremely limited when you
- 26:32compare them to the resources of the
- 26:33world
- 26:34>> time money energy the limited uh
- 26:36attention to the team we have this tiny
- 26:38little reservoir of resources and all we
- 26:41have to do is we have to just continue
- 26:43to get higher returns than everyone else
- 26:44does on this tiny bit of resources which
- 26:47is for the most part why the second
- 26:48thing on my wall is focus subtraction is
- 26:50how do I how do I subtract what can I
- 26:52cut away what can I prune from this tree
- 26:54in order to keep it growing. Um because
- 26:57left unchecked, everything becomes
- 26:58weeds. Everything becomes cancerous.
- 27:00Everything overgrows because people want
- 27:01to take on more stuff. And I think that
- 27:03successes entrepreneurship has three
- 27:04traits that are completely antihuman.
- 27:06It's something I've been thinking a lot
- 27:07about recently, which is one, we like
- 27:10new [ __ ] Sorry, you don't here.
- 27:12>> We like we like new stuff.
- 27:13>> Mhm.
- 27:14>> Number two, we like um we like stuff
- 27:17now.
- 27:18>> Um and number three, uh we want things
- 27:21easy
- 27:22>> and low low energy. Mhm.
- 27:24>> And it is the exact opposite of what it
- 27:26takes to be successful as an
- 27:27entrepreneur because instead of wanting
- 27:28new stuff, you have to uh be willing to
- 27:30do the old stuff for a long time
- 27:32>> over and over and over.
- 27:34>> And instead of uh so it's basically
- 27:36focus, one thing, patience for a long
- 27:39time, and then frustration tolerance,
- 27:41which is that if if at first you don't
- 27:43succeed, you try again. And if you at
- 27:45first you don't succeed 100 times, you
- 27:46try again. Which is why I love the one
- 27:48mantra.
- 27:49>> Thank you. Um, and so if you have those
- 27:50three things together, if I were to say,
- 27:51I have this entrepreneur in front of me,
- 27:53he's actually a dum dum. But once he
- 27:56starts a task, he has a really hard time
- 27:57abandoning it. And he has an unlimited
- 28:00time horizon in terms of how he's
- 28:02thinking about doing this. And he wants
- 28:03to do this for the rest of his life.
- 28:04He's keeping all of his assets in there.
- 28:06He's never going to sell it. And we knew
- 28:07that to be true.
- 28:09>> And [ __ ] cannot fail because
- 28:13every time he does, he just gets better.
- 28:15>> Yeah.
- 28:16>> It's hard to beat that guy. I those are
- 28:18the guys I bet on, the people I bet on.
- 28:20>> And and what's interesting, and you've
- 28:21seen this too, is that like almost all
- 28:23of those things have to do with behavior
- 28:25patterns and very little to do with
- 28:26intelligence.
- 28:27>> Yes.
- 28:28>> And so when I think about that, like
- 28:30your business isn't scaling off for lack
- 28:31of information, for lack of character.
- 28:34>> And I think when you when you think
- 28:35about it that way, it's like, wow, when
- 28:36I'm presented in these conditions, I
- 28:38make the wrong decisions because I've
- 28:39I've I've been reinforced for doing new
- 28:41things too much.
- 28:42>> Gosh. And so when I when I try to adapt
- 28:45that for my own uh to to answer the to
- 28:48loop back to the original question of uh
- 28:51the maniacal control um I think a lot of
- 28:54the control is actually in trying to get
- 28:56the team to do less and do fewer rather.
- 29:00>> Um and I think that's where a lot of my
- 29:02call it exertion they I they should feel
- 29:04better when I come in because I can tell
- 29:05them what not to do.
- 29:06>> Right. I know exactly what you mean.
- 29:07>> That's a terrible idea. We should not do
- 29:08that.
- 29:09>> Yeah. I do you think the uh this idea
- 29:11that you said you said it twice and I'm
- 29:13>> it's what I do when I coach people.
- 29:15>> So I'm wondering what you I want you to
- 29:16elaborate on it. I think great
- 29:18entrepreneurs have pattern recognition.
- 29:21>> Um even people we've already discussed
- 29:23here today that are mutual friends of
- 29:24ours. They're really good at seeing
- 29:25patterns. I'm pretty good at seeing
- 29:26human behavioral patterns. Right. But
- 29:29just step away from that. How important
- 29:31do you think if you were coaching an
- 29:32entrepreneur is it to to to get them to
- 29:35see both patterns in the business world,
- 29:37patterns in the economy? um trends.
- 29:40That's a pattern recognition to me. And
- 29:42also human behavioral patterns at the
- 29:44same time.
- 29:46>> If I had to if I had to have them pick
- 29:48one, I would rather have them be amazing
- 29:50at human behavior patterns because if
- 29:52you can do that, you can pretty I think
- 29:53I think humans are how you unlock
- 29:55everything despite the world of AI and
- 29:56all the things that we talk about. Um
- 29:58because humans unlock everything like so
- 30:01you might find this I think you might
- 30:02actually I was I was really excited to
- 30:04talk to you about this specific. So this
- 30:05is perfect. Um,
- 30:08>> I I'm going to guess, and I don't want
- 30:10to go out on a limb here, but I'm going
- 30:11to guess you're not spending 12 hours a
- 30:12day vibe coding.
- 30:13>> I [laughter] am not.
- 30:15>> And what's really interesting is that
- 30:16you probably made more money than the
- 30:17vast majority of people by a very large
- 30:19margin last year.
- 30:21>> Just to just to put it out there,
- 30:22>> right?
- 30:23>> And so when I was think I was thinking
- 30:24about you specifically and I was like,
- 30:26how do I reconcile this apparent uh
- 30:29contradiction with
- 30:31>> uh we're so cooked AI is we're etc. with
- 30:35the fact that a lot of the people that I
- 30:37know that are extremely wealthy
- 30:39>> um are not necessarily AI maxing
- 30:41themselves.
- 30:42>> And so it got me thinking around the
- 30:44concept of leverage, which is one of my
- 30:46two favorite topics in the world, supply
- 30:47and demand and leverage. That's what the
- 30:49logo is built on. Okay.
- 30:50>> Um
- 30:51>> and so I think one of the big
- 30:52misconceptions that entrepreneurs are
- 30:54having right now is that
- 30:55>> AI is somehow the only form of leverage.
- 30:59>> But it does not erase the other forms of
- 31:01leverage that are also multiplicative.
- 31:02So for example, if I make a decision
- 31:04that we say we're not going to do this
- 31:06gigantic initiative, the amount of time
- 31:07that I get back from my company is
- 31:09larger than us trying to AI max that
- 31:10initiative that was incorrect.
- 31:11>> What a good point.
- 31:12>> Right? If we think about it from a
- 31:15boiling it down to brass tax
- 31:16perspective.
- 31:16>> Wow.
- 31:17>> We're going there's so many
- 31:18entrepreneurs right now that are using
- 31:19AI to do dumb things very fast
- 31:21>> because they have more capacity. They
- 31:23are choosing to take on more and as a
- 31:25result are less focused than they were
- 31:27before. And if we look at the output of
- 31:28their business, they are not making more
- 31:30money. They're only spending more money
- 31:31on tokens. Wow.
- 31:32>> And so when I
- 31:33>> Very good, Alex.
- 31:35>> Very good.
- 31:36>> And so when we think about the different
- 31:38the different types of leverage, it's
- 31:39like this is leverage. We can record
- 31:41this one conversation. Millions of
- 31:42people can watch it. Uh you know,
- 31:43obviously software has, you know,
- 31:44different types of leverage, but um
- 31:46picking one good person has tremendous
- 31:49leverage. So to the idea of like, okay,
- 31:51well, Ed's not AI maxing,
- 31:53>> but do we think that AI that Ed can find
- 31:56somebody AIAX?
- 31:57>> Correct.
- 31:58>> Probably. And do we think that Ed has
- 32:02leverage in other ways that would
- 32:04attract or incentivize that person to
- 32:06want to do their special gift within
- 32:08this larger business because it was
- 32:09designed well earlier on?
- 32:12>> Yes.
- 32:13>> And so these technologies come, but the
- 32:16game has remained unchanged. It's just
- 32:18another tool of leverage that exists.
- 32:19Now, to be clear, it's it's an amazing
- 32:21tool and we use the hell out of it at
- 32:22ACQ, but it's understanding where it
- 32:25fits in the toy box
- 32:26>> because we still have to make the right
- 32:28call. And as of right now, AI still
- 32:29sucks at making decisions, at least from
- 32:31the ones that I look at, because you can
- 32:33pretty much make it say yes or no based
- 32:35on how you prompt it.
- 32:36>> Um, and so that is something that I've
- 32:38given a lot of.
- 32:38>> That's a really good point. Maybe one of
- 32:40the best points I've heard on a podcast
- 32:41in probably 10 years. It's a really good
- 32:43point because that's exactly what's
- 32:44happening. It's actually become almost
- 32:46burdensome for people that are doing
- 32:47nominal tasks, adding more to their
- 32:49plate. It's really, really good. In
- 32:51fact, that's one of the clips I'm going
- 32:52to use from the show. I don't hear you
- 32:55talk a lot and maybe I've just missed
- 32:56it, but you know, I'm a huge fan and
- 32:58follower and friend.
- 33:00>> I don't hear you talk about in terms of
- 33:02yourself as a leader.
- 33:03>> In other words, I almost feel like
- 33:05sometimes you look at business as an
- 33:07operator and and correct me if I'm
- 33:09wrong, okay? But what are you like as a
- 33:11leader of a company? Like that's not a
- 33:13lot of the content that I've seen you
- 33:14discuss. So, how do you view like
- 33:17leadership? Because it's a it's a
- 33:19overcooked concept and topic, right?
- 33:21Yeah. But you're very technical,
- 33:24very strategic, very tactical.
- 33:27>> But if I worked for you or with you and
- 33:29someone asked me his philosophies on
- 33:32leadership or what type of a leader he
- 33:34is, would he even does he see himself as
- 33:37a quote unquote leader and what is what
- 33:39does that mean to you?
- 33:40>> Um,
- 33:42so a couple things. So one, Leila had
- 33:45just finished her book on leadership and
- 33:47you know, I got to edit and you know,
- 33:49and help out. Um, and so I have a ton of
- 33:51concepts from that book, but I think
- 33:53I've I've deferred to Ila for for most
- 33:56things and you know Ila well and Ila
- 33:58will never get the credit that she
- 33:58deserves for the for the able to build.
- 34:02>> Um, but Ila is the internal leader of
- 34:04the business and I would say that I am
- 34:05the external leader of the business and
- 34:06that is more or less how we've managed
- 34:08our our working relationship. I have
- 34:11>> one direct report which is my
- 34:12father-in-law. So virtually I have no
- 34:13direct reports in the business which
- 34:15allows me to have um the schedule that I
- 34:17do and we've just found that that has
- 34:19worked really well for us. I would say
- 34:21um
- 34:22>> I would say to if there are if there are
- 34:2412 core activities of leadership
- 34:27>> um the first one um which the others are
- 34:31all predicated on is that we have to
- 34:33define what good looks like.
- 34:35>> Okay,
- 34:35>> in behavioral and observable terms. And
- 34:37so the second step of leadership and I
- 34:40won't go through all of them. I'll let
- 34:42do her thing. But the second one is that
- 34:44we have to model what good looks like.
- 34:46>> And so there's a famous story of Gandhi
- 34:48where um a mother comes to him and says,
- 34:50"Hey, can you get my kid to stop eating
- 34:51sugar?" And he says, "Uh, yes, but come
- 34:53back in 30 days." And so she comes back
- 34:55in 30 days. Um she brings the kid to him
- 34:57and he says, "Stop eating sugar." And
- 34:59she's like, "Why did that take 30 days?"
- 35:00And he was like, "Well, I was eating
- 35:01sugar when you asked me the first time."
- 35:03[snorts]
- 35:03And so he had to quit sugar for the 30
- 35:05days to make it. And so it's it's a
- 35:07great little a great little story, but I
- 35:09think that's like leadership is caught
- 35:10not taught,
- 35:11>> right? And it is of course taught, but
- 35:13it's taught through modeling and it's
- 35:14taught through red flag, right? And so
- 35:16um where I fit in this leadership
- 35:18paradigm is that I believe that I number
- 35:20one, I hold the standard.
- 35:22>> Yeah.
- 35:23>> Um
- 35:24>> one of the things that I get feedback
- 35:25from from the team because I see the
- 35:26surveys of the people who at least work
- 35:28in my vicinity more so than work
- 35:29directly for me is that they're like,
- 35:32you know, I've watched the content. I've
- 35:33been, you know, I've been seeing
- 35:34everything for all these years, but like
- 35:35it was only when I came when I came to
- 35:38the office and realized that Alex was
- 35:39literally always here at 4:30 in the
- 35:41morning every single day, six days a
- 35:44week.
- 35:45>> Um,
- 35:46>> that I was basically very difficult to
- 35:49witness consistency unless you are also
- 35:51consistent.
- 35:52>> Jeez. Yeah.
- 35:53>> Like you cannot witness consistency,
- 35:56right?
- 35:57>> It's good. And so um I would say that
- 36:00that I say holding defining the standard
- 36:02and then modeling the standard is where
- 36:03where the majority of my my work from a
- 36:05leadership perspective is. I think the
- 36:07rest of the leaders in the company do a
- 36:08lot of the other stuff.
- 36:10>> Um and then I'd say that I am more of a
- 36:14strategic decision maker um than than
- 36:19true true operator because I think it
- 36:20would it would um it would take away
- 36:22credit from the people who are actually
- 36:23doing the stuff. Is there a void of any
- 36:25type of um emotional leadership in your
- 36:28businesses?
- 36:29>> No, that's Leila. Okay. Like Leila
- 36:31[snorts] is she provides it.
- 36:32>> And I think and this is something that I
- 36:33would say like what is what's taking up
- 36:34my time right now is
- 36:36>> managing the transition of her becoming
- 36:38a mother and completely stepping away
- 36:40from the business, which is our
- 36:41intention. Um
- 36:42>> Okay.
- 36:43>> Yeah. So she's she's completely going to
- 36:45going to check out
- 36:46>> um for an extended period. And so I'm
- 36:49I'm reoriented because
- 36:51>> the business works with the the
- 36:53dichotomy, you know, between the yin and
- 36:55the
- 36:55>> Yes. Yes.
- 36:56>> And when she's not there, I'm softer.
- 37:00>> And uh and when I'm not there, she's a
- 37:02little tougher.
- 37:03>> And it's and we've had this dance that's
- 37:05worked really well. And I'm going to
- 37:06have to relearn that and I'm going to
- 37:07probably crack some shells and mess up a
- 37:09little bit. Um I'm sure.
- 37:10>> Uh but that's something that I'm I'm
- 37:12really paying attention.
- 37:12>> I'm really watching you. You know how
- 37:13much I've always appreciated you and
- 37:16admired you. You've grown a lot the last
- 37:18few years.
- 37:19>> We talk on the phone, but we haven't
- 37:20done this. And uh you're at a different
- 37:22level. You're at a different level. And
- 37:24one of the reasons is is you're you're
- 37:26willing to take on more and more risks
- 37:28still. And I want you to talk about
- 37:29this. I've never heard this before. Only
- 37:31you.
- 37:32>> And I'm like, gosh darn it, he's right.
- 37:33I wish he wasn't right, but it's just
- 37:35sort of like the law of the universe.
- 37:37People look at me or you, but I'll just
- 37:40speak from my own perspective and I'll
- 37:41let you comment on yours. And they do
- 37:43sort of go like we're recording this now
- 37:45in the middle of I've been giving
- 37:46speeches and doing business meetings
- 37:48here today and I've got another one
- 37:49tomorrow which is a Saturday and you're
- 37:50cranking you'll be in here and I'm blah
- 37:51blah blah and they're like the old
- 37:54when's enough's enough and all that
- 37:55other stuff. And I'm like, I really
- 37:56don't feel like I'm working. But having
- 37:58said that, my capacity
- 38:01has expanded over the years to the
- 38:03extent where I feel like I have to take
- 38:05on more almost in order to remain
- 38:07challenged, but also to live up to the
- 38:09blessings and and honor the
- 38:13>> perspective, nuances, wisdom, and skills
- 38:16I've developed theoretically. Right. So,
- 38:18this thing you discussed lately about
- 38:20risk and capacity and ability and the
- 38:23correlation between the two, do you know
- 38:24what I'm talking about? No. Okay. I
- 38:26heard you say something recently where
- 38:28you said, "My ability to take on risk is
- 38:31almost connected to the fact that I'm
- 38:32better and better, and in order to
- 38:34continue to grow and expand, I have to
- 38:35take on more risk."
- 38:36>> That for sure.
- 38:36>> So, I never even heard this before.
- 38:39>> So, um,
- 38:41well, what So, I've I don't read it, so
- 38:44I don't want to pretend like I read all
- 38:45day or something like that, but there
- 38:47are moments where I do punctuated
- 38:48reading. And I think my favorite type of
- 38:50reading is autobiographies of ultra rich
- 38:52people because usually, especially at
- 38:53the end of their career, they don't care
- 38:55at all about being politically correct
- 38:56and they actually tell you what they
- 38:58finally tell you. They finally and so
- 39:00was really interesting that I found
- 39:01between Paul Getty
- 39:03>> um who was the richest man in the world
- 39:04for like 30 years. Uh Rockefeller and
- 39:07Elon Musk um and just take these guys
- 39:09objectively. Don't don't
- 39:10>> whether you like their whatever
- 39:12>> you can you can appreciate that they are
- 39:13wealthy [laughter] fact. Um,
- 39:16>> right.
- 39:17>> What I found is this very recurring
- 39:19theme is that they had multiple moments
- 39:22of call it like local maximums where
- 39:25they then looked around and said, "I'm
- 39:27pushing all my chips back into the
- 39:28middle of the table again."
- 39:29>> Yeah.
- 39:30>> And so I I kind of see it like and in
- 39:32some ways as much like it is necessary
- 39:35for the to take a bigger swing to get a
- 39:37bigger payoff, but it's almost more
- 39:40necessary to keep the game interesting.
- 39:42>> Yes. And so like if and we're in Vegas
- 39:44so I'll just make it a Vegas theme.
- 39:45>> If you're playing $10 hands and let's
- 39:48say at some point you get good enough
- 39:49that you have this gigantic stack of
- 39:50chips at some point you have to up the
- 39:52ante otherwise you just don't care
- 39:54anymore.
- 39:54>> Yes.
- 39:55>> And so a billionaire playing $10 hands
- 39:56it's like he literally loses money
- 39:59playing a $10 hand.
- 40:00>> Oh so good. And so um one of the things
- 40:04that I think is a little bit of a
- 40:05mindset shift which I don't like using
- 40:07the term but like we behave differently
- 40:08in different scenario is that your risk
- 40:12tolerance has to concurrently increase
- 40:14with the size of opportunity that you
- 40:16want to pursue. And it's of course in
- 40:19the beginning you don't need to take a
- 40:20there's lots of risk and also no risk
- 40:21because you don't need to put money
- 40:22down. You can start a business for for
- 40:23almost nothing. But
- 40:25>> if you want to start SpaceX you need to
- 40:28put money [laughter] in on the table.
- 40:29You know what I Like there are some like
- 40:31there and and the thing is is capital in
- 40:32some ways becomes a gigantic moat
- 40:34because other people are not willing to
- 40:36risk it. And so you start to develop
- 40:37more sophisticated frameworks for
- 40:39understanding risk and reward which is
- 40:41that like not only will I take my
- 40:42expertise and my track record and my
- 40:43network but I'll also take $100 million
- 40:46and put that on the line because that's
- 40:48how I can get to 10 billion.
- 40:49>> Okay. I want to just jump in here. I
- 40:51don't even think you know how big this
- 40:54could be a book you do. Okay. Even
- 40:55though I know it's not the but how big
- 40:57this is. And by the way, listening to
- 40:59you on this,
- 41:01>> how many people do you and I meet that
- 41:03have gone from zero to a little bit and
- 41:06then they're stuck and they're so
- 41:08frustrated. They're like, I just I can't
- 41:10get past 400 grand a year. I'm at a
- 41:12million a year or whatever it is.
- 41:13>> And what what's interesting is what
- 41:16happens when you have nothing and then
- 41:17you get a little bit. you become very
- 41:19risk adverse and you don't know that
- 41:22potentially the key for you to become
- 41:24unstuck is actually to take on more risk
- 41:28and that's the stimulus to go to the
- 41:29next level. Do you know how big of a
- 41:31deal this is what you're talking about?
- 41:32Cuz it's the thing most people stall at
- 41:34100 or 250 gooseies right when they
- 41:37stall it's because you're still in the
- 41:39same risk tolerance category you were
- 41:41before and you've mastered your domain
- 41:43to some extent.
- 41:45>> Okay. So I have given a huge amount of
- 41:47thought to this. So there's this bull
- 41:48because we see entrepreneurs every
- 41:49single week that come through. There's a
- 41:50bullet of entrepreneurs between$1 and $3
- 41:52million and for whatever reason there's
- 41:53this swamp there and I think there's a
- 41:55couple of factors. So number one is that
- 41:56usually between$1 and $3 million of
- 41:57revenue, you've actually made enough
- 41:59money to satisfy personal needs. You can
- 42:00pretty much go to every dinner, go to
- 42:02every hotel, take the vacations and like
- 42:03you're good to go. And to be fair,
- 42:04nothing wrong with that. However, if you
- 42:06want more,
- 42:07>> right, if you do,
- 42:08>> then you have to change the way you
- 42:10play. And so what's very interesting is
- 42:11that we call this the swamp at
- 42:13acquisition.com. It's 1 to three, maybe
- 42:141 to 5 million. It's right there. And
- 42:16the reason it's the swamp is that it
- 42:18takes more risk to get out of the swamp
- 42:20than to get into it.
- 42:21>> Oh boy. So true.
- 42:22>> And so you take some risk to quit the
- 42:24job to whatever. But when you start your
- 42:26first zero to a million for most
- 42:28business, especially service, which is
- 42:2980% of the US, it's you and maybe some
- 42:32helpers, but it's almost all margin
- 42:34because it's just you working really
- 42:35hard.
- 42:37>> In that one to three, maybe one to five
- 42:39range. You have to make some decisions
- 42:41of like, okay, I can't service any more
- 42:42customers. My time is becoming my
- 42:44biggest constraint. And then there's the
- 42:46question of am I going to bring help on?
- 42:48Am I going to in am I going to get a
- 42:49vendor that's going to be a legit vendor
- 42:51that's going to cost real money? And I
- 42:52think there's one there's the emotions
- 42:54of like well I'm already comfortable. So
- 42:55we're sacrificing something that I know
- 42:57I I need to achieve all my personal
- 42:59goals to get money that I don't need in
- 43:02the future which is a big it's a big
- 43:03like it doesn't necessarily mean it's
- 43:05rational to do this to be really clear
- 43:06like it's in some ways
- 43:08>> right?
- 43:08>> But if you decide yes I want to do this.
- 43:11Here's the math behind the second layer
- 43:12of difficulty, which is, let's say it's
- 43:13a $2 million business, 20 20% margins.
- 43:17If you have 20% margins in the business
- 43:18at this point, you got $400,000 to play
- 43:20with. All right? Now, you're going to
- 43:21leave maybe 100 grand in the account
- 43:22because you want to like have some
- 43:23safety net. So, maybe 300 grand. If you,
- 43:25let's say, need somebody who's going to
- 43:26run client success or be, let's say,
- 43:29your first real leader in the business,
- 43:31a director level, not just a manager,
- 43:33you're probably looking at high ones,
- 43:35maybe mid twos, you know, as a small
- 43:38business owner. So that means that on
- 43:39this one hire or maybe a vendor, you're
- 43:41going to risk half or more of your
- 43:44profit on one bet.
- 43:46>> And because most people are unwilling to
- 43:48do this, and arguably logically,
- 43:50>> um, they stay stuck. And so there's
- 43:52these points where you have to increase
- 43:54your bet size. You have to be able to go
- 43:55from spending $1,000 a day on ads to
- 43:57$10,000 a day on ads. You have to be
- 43:58willing to spend go from like I'm only
- 44:00going to spend $1,000 on Indeed to
- 44:01recruit these people to say I'm going to
- 44:02pay a head hunter $35,000 because I
- 44:04think I really need this role and it's
- 44:06specialized, but if I have it, it
- 44:07unlocks a huge amount of capacity.
- 44:09>> And so one of the I'll give you a couple
- 44:11tactical things for the audience.
- 44:12There's a couple tricks to um getting a
- 44:15business through that without using as
- 44:17much to get them into that like 5 to 10
- 44:20range million a year
- 44:21>> so that then they have more cash flow so
- 44:23they feel more comfortable in the bet.
- 44:24So I can only resolve one of the two
- 44:25risks but it's still there which is that
- 44:27You have to increase the leverage on one
- 44:30or multiple of the three elements of the
- 44:32business. So we have to increase
- 44:33leverage of demand. So it's like how can
- 44:35we uh create some sort of content wheel
- 44:37within the business so that when
- 44:38customers come in they make us content
- 44:40that we can then use to get more
- 44:41customers and you service customers
- 44:43every single day and then boom we have
- 44:44more leverage demand. The second kind of
- 44:46wheel of this is the leverage
- 44:48conversion. And so whether you're
- 44:50selling like basically there's three
- 44:51ways to scale the sales. either you have
- 44:52a big big sales team uh you sell one to
- 44:55many or what I prefer which is you
- 44:57create order takers and so my
- 44:59combination of solution is how do I sell
- 45:01one to many and preload the customers
- 45:02with as much information as humanly
- 45:04possible so that my sales people only
- 45:05have to make six in putts
- 45:06>> right rather than drive and chip and
- 45:08then wedge and then go all the way right
- 45:10and so by doing that it's much easier to
- 45:11attract to to to recruit somebody and
- 45:14just say I just need you to make drop
- 45:15the ball six inches from the hole and
- 45:16make this you can train that person up
- 45:18in a week whereas if they have to be a
- 45:20coach a therapist a product expert
- 45:22uh a teacher to a customer and then also
- 45:25a relationship manager. It's like it's
- 45:27so hard to find them and if they already
- 45:28do come preloaded with all those skills,
- 45:29they're way too expensive, right? And so
- 45:32we have to have leveraged uh leverage
- 45:34conversion, right? And then the third
- 45:36process is leverage delivery. Now, one
- 45:38of the thing I think one of the big
- 45:39misconceptions on delivery for service
- 45:41businesses is that whatever way you
- 45:43started that got you to one or three
- 45:44million in terms of your service
- 45:45delivery, you say, "Well, this has
- 45:47worked so far." And I am a big advocate
- 45:48of doing more of a work, don't get me
- 45:49wrong, but there are some tweaks that
- 45:51you can make in your um agreements of
- 45:53what you plan to deliver to a customer
- 45:55that dramatically expand the leverage
- 45:57that you have in the business to deliver
- 45:59without in any way really changing how
- 46:02likely they are to buy. And so, for
- 46:04example, if we said, you know, we have
- 46:05support that is via phone call at any
- 46:07time, you could say, we're going to do
- 46:09email, we're going to do chat. Um, and
- 46:11all of a sudden that increases leverage
- 46:13on the supply side. Mhm.
- 46:14>> We could say, "Hey, instead of having
- 46:16scheduled calls, we're going to do it
- 46:17asynchronously." And then that allows
- 46:18you to batch all the work together. You
- 46:20can review all of the accounts. Let's
- 46:21say you're a marketing uh you know,
- 46:22agency, you could do them all at once
- 46:24and you can do them in 11 minutes rather
- 46:26than having a 30 minute call and wasting
- 46:27it. So it's like great, that might
- 46:28triple the leverage. We can change
- 46:30whether components of the service are
- 46:32done live or done recorded. We can
- 46:34change whether it's in person or it's
- 46:35done remotely. Um we can change the
- 46:37delivery ratio so that it's instead of
- 46:39one-on-one, it's one on small group or
- 46:40one-on-one to many. Um, and so there's a
- 46:43number of these levers that we can do on
- 46:44the delivery side that if we at each of
- 46:47these points, if we expand a little bit
- 46:49of leverage on the demand, expand a
- 46:50little bit of leverage on the
- 46:51conversion, so we give people a couple
- 46:52videos with some proof before they talk
- 46:54to a salesperson, all of a sudden the
- 46:55sales take less time, and there's fewer
- 46:58of them. And so all of a sudden, my
- 46:59sales, my utilization per sales rep
- 47:01doubles or triples. And so I don't need
- 47:03to hire the extra rep. I can still
- 47:04double or triple the business if that's
- 47:06the constraint. And so in each of those
- 47:08situations, usually one, two, or all
- 47:09three of those things, depending on
- 47:10where you're at, is where you need to
- 47:11employ. Notice none of them were AI
- 47:13because you can still make good
- 47:14decisions and increase leverage of the
- 47:16business, not necessarily using A. And
- 47:17to be fair, I'm a big AI advocate, but
- 47:18I'm also an even more common sense
- 47:20advocate.
- 47:20>> It's Alex, this is so good. I when I
- 47:23coach and even when I've watched your
- 47:24content, it is funny though because by
- 47:26the way, those of you that feel stuck or
- 47:28know someone that's stuck, send them the
- 47:29podcast today because this is probably
- 47:31why you're stuck. It's the risk
- 47:33adversion. You don't you're looking at
- 47:35all these other mechanisms. It's the
- 47:37risk aversion. But what's really funny
- 47:38about it is I'll even watch it on your
- 47:39stuff and when I coach you, I'm like,
- 47:40"Well, no, you're going to have to hire
- 47:42that 250 person or you're going to have
- 47:44to triple your ad spend." And you watch
- 47:45their face when you say it
- 47:47>> and they're immedi
- 47:49they're immediately in their mind trying
- 47:51to process, is there any other way I can
- 47:53get out of doing this? Now, you've given
- 47:54a couple great hooks here that mitigate
- 47:57some of that risk, but you watch the the
- 47:59the reason this is so important is the
- 48:01tendency at this stage, even when given
- 48:03the counsel, is to try to find a way out
- 48:05of that room and not have to take it.
- 48:07And if you're going to get to that next
- 48:08level, you're going to feel unstuck. And
- 48:10here I am, an older guy, 55 years old.
- 48:13And it is, I think, the key as to why
- 48:15I'm still pretty fresh and in the hunt
- 48:17and going and excited and not stuck. Is
- 48:20I've And by the way, I think you would
- 48:22agree, it's a muscle you also build over
- 48:24time. Your first risk you take to start
- 48:27a business does not require the muscle
- 48:28because you're moving from nothing. It
- 48:30requires a muscle over time to continue
- 48:32to throw. Like you said, Musk earlier,
- 48:34whatever you think of the guy, are you
- 48:35kidding me? The amount of risk this
- 48:36dude's willing to take on over and over
- 48:38and over again. been compensated more
- 48:40than anyone.
- 48:40>> That's right. He's he's adequately
- 48:42compensated for the risk he's willing to
- 48:44take.
- 48:45>> What about We don't have much more time,
- 48:46by the way. So good. Like we need to
- 48:48agree we're going to do this at least
- 48:49once a year.
- 48:50>> And I need to expand the format of the
- 48:51show when you're on to like two hours.
- 48:53>> We can roll late and then we can do a
- 48:55second a second half.
- 48:56>> Oh, that would be really good. It would
- 48:57be really good. I uh
- 49:00there's a lot holding someone back and
- 49:02I'll visit on my channel if you want.
- 49:04>> Okay, I love that. Whatever you want. I
- 49:05I there's a lot holding someone back
- 49:07from this risk adversion at any stage
- 49:10>> and I don't know that I've been very
- 49:12good at getting somebody to sort of deal
- 49:14with it. Now what I used to say and then
- 49:15I want to have your version of it
- 49:17because like yours is frankly I think
- 49:18better. I used to go, you know, this
- 49:20like boogeyman when I was a little kid,
- 49:21I thought there was a boogeyman. And my
- 49:23dad when he would come back from his
- 49:24drinking binges, I'd be up. But I
- 49:26created this boogeyman and my dad would
- 49:28literally have to come in my room when I
- 49:29was a little boy and open the closet and
- 49:31go, "Eddie, look in here. The there's no
- 49:32boogeyman in the closet." But I had this
- 49:34great book. If he would open it and show
- 49:36me, all of a sudden, a lot of my fear
- 49:39was reduced. And as an entrepreneur, a
- 49:41lot of these fears you have, they're
- 49:42real things. But even if you lost that
- 49:45investment you made, even if the
- 49:47business crumbled, the boogeyman's
- 49:49probably not quite as bad as you think
- 49:50it is, you can come back, right? You
- 49:53teach people that have fears to actually
- 49:55put it down, right? Can you talk about
- 49:57this because I think this is a great
- 49:59tactic to get above or be self-aware of
- 50:02your fears or or their limitations.
- 50:04>> So, it's my it's my position that um
- 50:06emotions exist in the vague, not the
- 50:08specific. um meaning fear exists in the
- 50:12vague like because basically we abstract
- 50:14things to death because we're
- 50:15evolutionary beings and like we don't
- 50:17want to die okay but we think if if this
- 50:19does not work uh I will fail I will go
- 50:21bankrupt my wife will leave me and I
- 50:23will die and I will die right
- 50:25>> but when you actually define out no like
- 50:27let's re let's sit in it because we're
- 50:29so afraid to look at what would happen
- 50:31that even the fear of looking gets
- 50:33people to not
- 50:34>> crystallize it and it's like listen
- 50:35first thing you can do is prepare for
- 50:37failure at least
- 50:38>> but in preparing for failure you
- 50:39decrease the likelihood that it happens
- 50:41because you actually know what's what
- 50:42what happens next. And so I remember
- 50:44when I when I started the gym, I had to
- 50:46write down my plan B, which for me was
- 50:48um well, I didn't have any real skills.
- 50:50I was in shape uh and I had time. And so
- 50:53I said, I'll drive Uber and I'll strip.
- 50:56Um and that way if I fail, I'll drive
- 50:58Uber 12 hours a day and I'll strip at
- 50:59night and I'll be able to like in a year
- 51:00probably make $250,000 and I'll and I'll
- 51:02do it again. You know, like I'll start
- 51:03back. But the goal was to get back into
- 51:05it again. And so one is like when you
- 51:07really play out your failure story,
- 51:09maybe you're sleeping on a on like you
- 51:11will only lose status in the eyes of
- 51:14people around you who are not taking the
- 51:16risk that you're taking,
- 51:17>> right?
- 51:18>> And
- 51:19>> so true
- 51:19>> and you don't want their lives. So why
- 51:21would I care about their opinions? And
- 51:23we just have to expand the time horizon
- 51:25because like not to sound tright here,
- 51:29but like failure and success are on the
- 51:31exact same road. It's just that failure
- 51:33is an earlier exit. M
- 51:35>> and so one is a requisite for the other.
- 51:37But the thing is is that thinking about
- 51:39success leads you to failure.
- 51:42Failure
- 51:44>> leads you to success.
- 51:45>> Yeah.
- 51:45>> And so it so failure is closer to
- 51:48success than thinking about successes.
- 51:50>> Wow.
- 51:51>> Which is ironic.
- 51:52>> Ironic.
- 51:52>> And so the idea is like like one of my
- 51:54favorite things to tell sales guys
- 51:55especially especially in the cold
- 51:56calling outbound side is like let's get
- 51:57some nos today. Right? If we can make
- 51:59the failure a success a mile mark. How
- 52:01many nos we collect today? Right? It
- 52:03stops having this emotional charge
- 52:05because we're saying, "Wait, we're not
- 52:06making no mean something.
- 52:08>> We're saying we're making no mean
- 52:09something good."
- 52:10>> And so, if we know that um
- 52:13>> wow,
- 52:13>> the the failure that we're going to have
- 52:15is going to teach us something like the
- 52:17$250,000 pet that we're talking about
- 52:19with this operator, right? We this
- 52:20person who's incredibly in fear, how do
- 52:21we get them out of that out of that
- 52:23fear? is that if you don't see another
- 52:26way and maybe that maybe you pulled all
- 52:28the levers that we just talked about and
- 52:29and still there's no other way. You have
- 52:31to take the risk
- 52:32>> then you take the risk.
- 52:34>> Yeah.
- 52:34>> And and you know and you do that
- 52:36knowingly because what you are building
- 52:37is the thing that we were talking about
- 52:38earlier which is pattern recognition.
- 52:40So, let me tell you the story of how
- 52:41entrepreneurship really works, which is
- 52:43if you've ever played a video game, you
- 52:45played and the first time you play the
- 52:46game, you get to a level, it's hard, you
- 52:47got to beat the boss, you got to figure
- 52:48it all out, you find out there's a sword
- 52:49under the stone, whatever, right? And
- 52:51then you get to the next level and you
- 52:52trial and error, trial and error, you
- 52:53get it. Now, if you go back and play
- 52:55that game again, it's a straight line.
- 52:58How fast? Now, the character itself
- 52:59can't play faster because it's it's
- 53:01controlled by the same algorithm, the
- 53:02video game. But how does it take you a
- 53:04tenth of the time to get three, four,
- 53:06five levels deep? Because you know
- 53:07exactly what to do. Why? because you
- 53:08recognize the patterns.
- 53:10>> And so if you've ever had multiple
- 53:12businesses, which a lot of people are
- 53:13entrepreneurs, like by the way, you
- 53:14know, spoiler alert, you're going to
- 53:15have more than one business. You're
- 53:16getting into it and you have this fear
- 53:17that this will be the perfect one. Um
- 53:20>> the second business you start almost
- 53:22always grows faster than the first
- 53:24business you start because you you go
- 53:26you blow through all the bosses you had
- 53:27on the first one and then you get stuck
- 53:29at the same point and then you move as
- 53:30slow as you can which is trial and error
- 53:32again. It's you get into the slog again.
- 53:34And so the the failure that you're
- 53:35experiencing is is create is the
- 53:37creation of pattern recognition. And so
- 53:39I remember for me just to give an
- 53:41analogy that might make sense for people
- 53:43>> the first time you hire a sales manager
- 53:45or even the first time you hire a
- 53:46saleserson right
- 53:48>> you go through you hire one person and
- 53:50the most expensive hire is a sales
- 53:51person your first salesperson because
- 53:52you're losing that person doesn't close
- 53:54you lose all the business. I mean it's
- 53:56horrible right? But you have to make the
- 53:57bet at some point and so you hire them
- 54:00and maybe that person doesn't work out.
- 54:02Okay so we hire another one. maybe that
- 54:03person doesn't work out. Now, eventually
- 54:05you will hire one and it won't work out.
- 54:06And then at that point, you're like,
- 54:08"Oh, I know what this looks like now."
- 54:10>> Pattern recognition. And so, when the
- 54:11next ones, you're like, "I need to get
- 54:12them to look as similar to this as I
- 54:14possibly can." And then all of a sudden,
- 54:15your failure rate starts dropping and
- 54:16going down and down and down. Then,
- 54:17you're like, "What if I train harder?"
- 54:18And then all of a sudden, you start
- 54:19increasing your percentages. But the
- 54:21same thing happens when you're like,
- 54:22"Now I need a sales manager." And you
- 54:23repeat that process. And so I think a
- 54:24lot of what the call it the the better
- 54:26entrepreneurs in the world versus the
- 54:27the non the the lower entrepreneurs is
- 54:30that it's just every single role in the
- 54:32business. You have to know what good
- 54:34looks like and you have to fail at each
- 54:36one of them until eventually you find
- 54:37the one that works and then that forever
- 54:39becomes your pattern of this is
- 54:40>> and to be clear there's different ways
- 54:42to run sales teams but I know this way
- 54:44works and I know this type of person
- 54:45works for the way I like to run sales.
- 54:47And so that then when you when you
- 54:49create the next business and this is I
- 54:51use different verbiage for it which is
- 54:52at a certain point you don't build
- 54:54businesses anymore. You assemble them.
- 54:56>> Wow. You're so right.
- 54:58>> You're so right.
- 54:58>> I had to change my language because I
- 55:00was like I'm not really building this
- 55:01business. I'm just putting the we're
- 55:02just assembling. We're putting all the
- 55:03piece I know this is going to work. And
- 55:05also, which one of the advantages that
- 55:06you don't that we don't talk about as
- 55:08much because it's only applies to a
- 55:09small percentage of people is that the
- 55:10longer you do business and if you if you
- 55:12do business well and you do right by
- 55:13people, you develop this network, this
- 55:15rolodex. And if I'm going to start a new
- 55:17thing or Ed's going to start a new
- 55:18thing, it's like I got 10 people I can
- 55:20call who are like, "Oh, you're doing
- 55:22something. I'm in, man. Let's go."
- 55:23>> And failure was one of the reasons
- 55:25you've actually built all of these
- 55:26relationships, this in this uh human
- 55:28capital that you've actually developed.
- 55:30>> And then you can deploy that capital.
- 55:31Now, I wonder if that has more leverage.
- 55:32>> Mhm. That's what you said earlier about
- 55:34AI and me not having to do that. I've
- 55:36actually got so many other resources at
- 55:37this stage of my life that I can deploy
- 55:40AI or get access to it without having to
- 55:42fiddle with it myself because of these
- 55:43relationships.
- 55:44>> You have the benefits of AI.
- 55:45>> You're I have the benefits of it. This
- 55:47is so good. I want to do want to finish
- 55:48on one thought and by the way, I'm just
- 55:50going to finish in the middle because
- 55:51there's so many things we could cover.
- 55:53But this idea of pattern recognition,
- 55:54it's not talked a lot about and the
- 55:56video game analogy is perfect. So, it's
- 55:58going to give you a a little runway to
- 56:00answer two things at once. Okay. What
- 56:02pattern recognition's given me, if we're
- 56:04giving the video game analogy and the
- 56:05reps that I've had in business, some of
- 56:07them were successes, some of them were
- 56:08failures. But what's happened is about
- 56:10this idea of assembling a business is
- 56:12the absolute truest thing you'll ever
- 56:13hear. By the way, at some point once you
- 56:15kind of understand the mechanics and the
- 56:18mechanisms of putting these things
- 56:19together, it's an assemblance rather
- 56:20than is of a building. He's completely
- 56:22right. He and I have actually talked
- 56:23privately about doing a a type of
- 56:25business together. And I I just know
- 56:27that if we did it together, it would be
- 56:28successful because between the two of us
- 56:30on that human rolodex and what we know,
- 56:31we would just assemble the parts. Here's
- 56:33the thing that pattern recognition has
- 56:34given me over time that a new
- 56:36entrepreneur gives them needs to give
- 56:38themselves some grace to develop. And
- 56:40that is that I now as I'm building
- 56:42businesses, there are days where I
- 56:44react. There certainly are. They're just
- 56:45things that happen. I spend some of my
- 56:48time reacting. When I was a young
- 56:50entrepreneur, I spent most of my time
- 56:51reacting. Now that I have pattern
- 56:53recognition, human pattern recognition
- 56:55and also just trends, I anticipate more
- 56:58often than I respond and react. So I
- 57:01want you to talk about anticipation as a
- 57:03skill
- 57:04>> as a skill like the thing you and I have
- 57:05talked about with banking. Let's just be
- 57:06honest, right? Like okay, so the
- 57:08anticipation aspect and then inside the
- 57:11answer to that final question, what do
- 57:13you anticipate about the world of
- 57:14business the next two to five years with
- 57:17AI as a factor in it? So why is
- 57:19anticipation matter and what do you
- 57:21anticipate?
- 57:23>> Man, that's a really hard question.
- 57:25>> Um,
- 57:30so I think I think anticipation matters
- 57:32a lot from an entrepreneur perspective
- 57:34because it it it reverts back to the
- 57:36people who get the best returns on their
- 57:38resources. So why like why would
- 57:40anticipation even be important? Well, it
- 57:42means that if I allocate resources to a
- 57:45new thing, let's say it's a new platform
- 57:47emerges for social media and I'm one of
- 57:49the first people on it because I
- 57:50anticipate that it's going to grow
- 57:51because it has all the stuff that looks
- 57:52right. If I'm a first mover in that
- 57:55situation, then the minimal amount of
- 57:56resources that I deploy towards that,
- 57:58I'm going to get a way higher return.
- 57:59And then when people are lagards or
- 58:01later, they're going to have to deploy
- 58:02more resources to get even less out. And
- 58:04so anticipation is another form of
- 58:06leverage. And if we just define
- 58:08leverage, I know we're late on defining
- 58:09it. But it's just getting more for what
- 58:10you put in. High leverage at least. Low
- 58:11leverage would be the opposite.
- 58:13>> And so if we're trying to deploy as much
- 58:15leverage as we can, getting the call
- 58:17right
- 58:18>> allows us to get more for what we put
- 58:19in. And so the anticipation I think is
- 58:22>> a lot of it is uh call it macro pattern
- 58:25recognition, right? So I'll tell you
- 58:26I'll tell you something that I heard
- 58:29>> I want to say 12 years ago or something.
- 58:31I had a Gary Vee clip
- 58:33>> and he said one of the biggest regrets
- 58:34he had was that when he was printing
- 58:36money on Google PPC or Adwords uh for
- 58:39the wine business that he didn't spend
- 58:40more talk about the risk thing at that
- 58:43point now he's a way better bigger
- 58:44entrepreneur now and he has way higher
- 58:46risk tolerance but at that point
- 58:47spending 10,000 20,000 50,000 a day
- 58:49whatever it was was a lot of money
- 58:52>> and I remember hearing that clip right
- 58:56um in the early gym launch days
- 58:58>> really
- 58:58>> and we were printing on on Facebook and
- 59:01meta ads and these were new newish ads.
- 59:03Um, and I was like, well, I don't want
- 59:05to make that mistake. And so we're like,
- 59:06how do we spend more? And so that became
- 59:08the question is what would it take for
- 59:09us to spend more rather than
- 59:11>> I sure if I want to spend more, right?
- 59:14What would it take? Which is one of my
- 59:15favorite questions in the world to ask.
- 59:16It assumes the success then you work
- 59:18backwards.
- 59:18>> The second thing was um what is, you
- 59:20know, what is it going to look like uh
- 59:22in an age of AI? Um I will give an
- 59:25unsexy but
- 59:28accurate answer of what I'm actually
- 59:30doing. Um, I like basis's frame a lot on
- 59:34this, which is
- 59:37the future is very uncertain and one
- 59:39thing that is true is that we are
- 59:40notoriously bad at predicting it.
- 59:43>> And so he prefers to ask himself, what
- 59:45things do I knew know will not change.
- 59:47And so he's made all of those gigantic
- 59:50bets in the business based on the few
- 59:51things that he knows will not change.
- 59:53And so he says, I believe in the future
- 59:55people will want cheaper prices still. I
- 59:57believe in the future customers prefer
- 59:59more selection to less selection. I
- 1:00:01believe that customers will in the
- 1:00:02future prefer things to get them faster
- 1:00:04rather than slower. And so there are
- 1:00:06bets that you can make in the business
- 1:00:07based on human behavior that we know
- 1:00:09will be true.
- 1:00:10>> Do I think that in the future humans
- 1:00:11will eat food? Yes. Do I think that they
- 1:00:13will need shelter? Yes. And so
- 1:00:14[clears throat]
- 1:00:15>> the bets that we're making in the
- 1:00:16business um I would say and this this
- 1:00:19one thing about risk which I think is
- 1:00:20important is entirely personal because I
- 1:00:22get the question a lot and I'm sure you
- 1:00:23do too. one, when do I push and when do
- 1:00:26I pivot,
- 1:00:27>> right?
- 1:00:27>> And the second question is, how much
- 1:00:28should I take out of the business to
- 1:00:30save for a rainy day versus double down?
- 1:00:32And both of those are unanswerable
- 1:00:33questions because they're entirely
- 1:00:34personal. Ask Elon, he'll say, "Put it
- 1:00:35all on the line." If you have a wife and
- 1:00:37kids and you don't want to do that,
- 1:00:38which I respect,
- 1:00:39>> don't do that.
- 1:00:40>> And so those are dials for you. Um, but
- 1:00:44back back to the point, I'll just share
- 1:00:46what I'm doing is that
- 1:00:48>> I take chips off the table and put them
- 1:00:51into these places that I think are
- 1:00:52boring that will still be here. So we
- 1:00:54have lots of real estate and things like
- 1:00:55that, but the big investments that I
- 1:00:59make in the business on call it big
- 1:01:00swings I think have been predicated for
- 1:01:02at least me on making sure that my
- 1:01:04oxygen mask on is there for me and my
- 1:01:06family. People are different. Elon
- 1:01:07doesn't need that. I maybe he does he's
- 1:01:10already so rich. He knows enough friends
- 1:01:11that he's never actually going to
- 1:01:12starve. Um, but I think that
- 1:01:16what has served me very well was that I
- 1:01:18very aggressively lived cheap when I was
- 1:01:20younger so that I could save what I
- 1:01:22believed to be a nest egg. And that nest
- 1:01:24egg has changed in terms of what the
- 1:01:26size of it has been.
- 1:01:27>> But always having one allowed me to take
- 1:01:30gigantic swings and do things like the
- 1:01:32school deal or do things like the book
- 1:01:34launch or do things like some of the
- 1:01:35other things that we're talking about
- 1:01:37and be okay because the worst case
- 1:01:39scenario is that my my life doesn't
- 1:01:41change at all. Me too. Identical exact
- 1:01:44same thing. This is my favorite
- 1:01:46interview we've done. My favorite
- 1:01:48interview. Um
- 1:01:49>> can I do one more little bit
- 1:01:50>> please?
- 1:01:51>> So one thing in terms of the specificity
- 1:01:53of risk. So we talked about um like what
- 1:01:56would it actually look like?
- 1:01:57>> Yeah.
- 1:01:58>> One of the things that's been even more
- 1:02:00micro for me is what changes about my
- 1:02:03day.
- 1:02:04>> And so this is both upside and downside.
- 1:02:06So, if I'm considering like, hey, should
- 1:02:07I take on this investment or should I do
- 1:02:09this anything? The question that I ask
- 1:02:12is like, what will this change about my
- 1:02:13day?
- 1:02:14>> Do I have to now do something that I
- 1:02:16don't want to do? Do I have to do I have
- 1:02:18to stop doing stuff that I do want to
- 1:02:19do? And most decisions um don't actually
- 1:02:23affect my day, which then means that
- 1:02:26it's actually not there's no real stakes
- 1:02:28here. It's all made up. It's literally
- 1:02:29just it's it's in the air. Now, every
- 1:02:31once in a while, there are some things
- 1:02:33that when I actually run it through that
- 1:02:35that filter. For example, if your wife's
- 1:02:36pissed at you,
- 1:02:37>> that is going to change my day
- 1:02:40>> or week or month more than just about
- 1:02:43any negative business consequence will.
- 1:02:45Honestly, just about more.
- 1:02:46>> And so, it actually has helped me truly
- 1:02:49redefine priorities.
- 1:02:50>> Wow.
- 1:02:51>> In a way that's actually much more
- 1:02:52tactically relevant to how I experience
- 1:02:54life.
- 1:02:55>> Wow.
- 1:02:56I'm glad you added that. That's probably
- 1:02:57best for me of the entire conversation.
- 1:03:00No, because a lot of the risk that I
- 1:03:02have in my mind is made up. Yet, the
- 1:03:04risk I most fear is that it would alter
- 1:03:06my day and then I would have to do
- 1:03:08things I don't want to do anymore or
- 1:03:09actually stop doing the things that I do
- 1:03:11want to do. What a great formula.
- 1:03:13>> Turns out you're pretty smart.
- 1:03:15>> Turns out you're pretty smart. Um I'm
- 1:03:18real proud of you. Thanks, man.
- 1:03:19>> You know what I mean? And I'm grateful
- 1:03:20that you're in my life and uh I'll
- 1:03:22always be here for you. And um I love
- 1:03:26Leila, too. And uh you're really
- 1:03:27important in the world. I just want you
- 1:03:29to know. No, I meant what I said in the
- 1:03:30beginning. There's a lot of people that
- 1:03:31are really good at this business stuff.
- 1:03:34You're you're on a level that is yours.
- 1:03:37So, continue to expand because your
- 1:03:38capacity is even greater than this.
- 1:03:40Proud of you. Great job today.
- 1:03:41>> Appreciate it.
- 1:03:42>> All right, everybody. I don't have to
- 1:03:43tell you to do this one. Share this
- 1:03:44episode. You know where to find Alex.
- 1:03:45He's everywhere. And max out your life.
- 1:03:47God bless you.
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