The Most Dangerous Book Ever Written About the Subconscious Mind — Transcript
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- 0:00More than 80 years ago, a dancer from
- 0:02Barbados began sharing an idea that
- 0:04would ultimately change the way
- 0:05generations of people thought about
- 0:06reality. His claim was that the life you
- 0:09experience is shaped by what you accept
- 0:11as true [music] within yourself. And his
- 0:13name was Neville Goddard. In 1944, he
- 0:15published a little book called Feeling
- 0:17is the Secret that distilled this
- 0:19philosophy into one remarkably simple
- 0:21idea. To experience something different
- 0:22in your life, first you have to
- 0:24experience it within yourself. But that
- 0:25created a question that almost everyone
- 0:27who encounters this teaching eventually
- 0:29runs into. How do you actually feel
- 0:31something you're not currently
- 0:32experiencing in your reality? That's
- 0:34what we're going to explore today. I'm
- 0:35going to break down Neville's
- 0:36philosophy, explain what he actually
- 0:38meant by feeling, and show you how to
- 0:40begin putting it into practice even when
- 0:42your current circumstances [music]
- 0:43seem to contradict everything that you
- 0:45want to believe. So, let's get into it.
- 0:50All right, guys. We're going to unpack
- 0:52Feeling is the Secret by Neville
- 0:53Goddard. In it, Neville presents an
- 0:55explanation of how he believes reality
- 0:57works. So, this book has four short
- 1:00chapters, and the foundation of all four
- 1:01is the relationship between your
- 1:03conscious and your subconscious mind.
- 1:05So, in Neville's model, your conscious
- 1:07mind can consider an idea, entertain a
- 1:10possibility, choose what to focus on.
- 1:12It's your thinker on a day-to-day basis.
- 1:14Your subconscious mind is then what
- 1:17either accepts or rejects the
- 1:18impressions
- 1:20that come from the conscious mind. And
- 1:22the subconscious mind is what actually
- 1:24brings those impressions into expression
- 1:26or material realization. So, your
- 1:28day-to-day thinking can influence your
- 1:30subconscious mind, but it's not your
- 1:31day-to-day thinking that is actually
- 1:33creating your reality. And the way you
- 1:34impress an idea, or the bridge between
- 1:37the conscious and the subconscious mind,
- 1:39is through the mechanism of feeling.
- 1:41Now, this word is important, because
- 1:42when people hear feeling, they often
- 1:45think they need to generate an enormous
- 1:46amount of emotion. So, the idea is like,
- 1:49let me sit here and meditate or
- 1:50visualize and try really, really hard to
- 1:52manufacture the feeling of what I want.
- 1:54And ironically, that's one of the
- 1:56biggest mistakes you can make when
- 1:57trying to apply this principle. So, some
- 2:00people think that they need to get
- 2:02excited enough, grateful enough,
- 2:04inspired enough. Like, if you can just
- 2:06turn up the emotional volume or the
- 2:08frequency, eventually something's going
- 2:09to happen. But, the distinction I want
- 2:10you to understand is the difference
- 2:12between manufacturing an emotion about
- 2:15something that you want versus feeling
- 2:18like you already have it.
- 2:20Okay, those are two completely different
- 2:21things because you can get very excited
- 2:23about the idea of a different life while
- 2:25still feeling underneath that excitement
- 2:27that it's far away or it's going to be
- 2:29difficult to accomplish or that it can
- 2:31happen for other people but not for you,
- 2:33right? The deeper acceptance
- 2:36is the feeling that we're looking for.
- 2:37So, let's talk about what that means,
- 2:39okay?
- 2:40I want you to think about something you
- 2:41already have.
- 2:43Your job, your business, a relationship
- 2:45that you love.
- 2:46So, here's the question.
- 2:48How hard do you have to work to feel
- 2:50like you already have it on a day-to-day
- 2:51basis?
- 2:52Right, the answer is you don't have to
- 2:54work very hard at all. Why?
- 2:57Because you already have it. There's a
- 2:58naturalness to it. There's an acceptance
- 3:00to it. There's a what isness to it. It
- 3:03just is. You just have it. If you have a
- 3:05relationship in your life that you
- 3:07really value, you don't have to sit down
- 3:09for an hour a day and focus on how that
- 3:10relationship feels, but you still feel
- 3:13that you have it
- 3:15because you do. There's a permanency, a
- 3:17residency in your nervous system to it.
- 3:21There aren't any doubtful thoughts or
- 3:22resistance about whether or not you'll
- 3:24ever have it because you do. You accept
- 3:27it and that acceptance is a state of
- 3:29being that you hold. And so, this is the
- 3:32feeling I think we're looking for is the
- 3:34already having of it and that's very
- 3:36different than the person who's trying
- 3:38to manifest it.
- 3:39So, let me share a personal story. There
- 3:41was a time in my life when I didn't have
- 3:43a relationship. I really, really wanted
- 3:45a relationship and for a long time I
- 3:47thought I had to obsess over having one.
- 3:49I remember hearing Napoleon Hill talk
- 3:51about a burning desire. So, I thought I
- 3:53needed to obsess around it, to write
- 3:55about it every morning, to sit down
- 3:57every day and occupy the state of being
- 3:59in a relationship. And so, that's what I
- 4:01did. I tried really, really hard to feel
- 4:03like I was in a relationship, but the
- 4:04truth was that I wasn't.
- 4:06And then I'd get frustrated. I would
- 4:08think to myself, "God, this isn't
- 4:10working at all." And then one day, I
- 4:12sort of gave up on the whole thing.
- 4:14Like, I got tired of trying so hard. Can
- 4:17you guess what happened next?
- 4:20What happened within a week was I met
- 4:22the woman of my dreams. I gave up trying
- 4:24so hard, and then it happened. So, how
- 4:27is that possible? Well, because the
- 4:29person who has a thing doesn't try hard
- 4:32to get it.
- 4:33The person who is inhabiting the
- 4:35identity of someone who has something
- 4:37just has it. You acknowledge it. Of
- 4:40course, you feel it,
- 4:42but you don't try so hard because that
- 4:44wouldn't make any sense if you already
- 4:45have a thing. And that's why trying too
- 4:48hard is one of the primary reasons
- 4:49people aren't successful in
- 4:50materializing what they want. Does that
- 4:52make sense? Yes, you have to feel it,
- 4:55but no, you don't have to try so hard
- 4:57because when you're putting a lot of
- 4:58effort into something, then you're not
- 5:00being the person who has it. And feeling
- 5:03as though you have it already is the
- 5:05key, according to Neville, to opening up
- 5:07the doorway to receiving it. And for
- 5:10years, this was like a puzzle to me, and
- 5:11I see so many people getting tripped up
- 5:13in this sense, especially when they hear
- 5:15Neville talking about how important
- 5:17feeling is. And of course, he's right,
- 5:19but what feeling? Feeling like the
- 5:21person who already has a thing is very
- 5:23different than feeling like the person
- 5:25who's trying to manifest a thing. It
- 5:27seems like a 2-mm distinction, but those
- 5:29feelings are miles apart. Now, Neville
- 5:32also recommends that you embody the
- 5:34feeling, right? Because feeling is the
- 5:36secret. Feeling like the person who
- 5:38already has the thing that you desire as
- 5:40you're drifting off to sleep. He talks a
- 5:42lot about sleep, and there's a lot of
- 5:44support around alpha waves, theta waves,
- 5:46beta waves, and the wave state of
- 5:48manifestation and what type of wave
- 5:50state we're in as we're drifting off to
- 5:51sleep because certain states allow the
- 5:53subconscious mind to be more accessible.
- 5:55And what Neville says is that as you're
- 5:56drifting off into sleep, that's the time
- 5:59to do your embodiment practice, right?
- 6:01His instruction is to use that
- 6:02transition into sleep to experience what
- 6:05he calls the satisfaction of your desire
- 6:08already fulfilled. So, as your body
- 6:10starts to relax and your attention
- 6:12begins to turn away from the room around
- 6:14you, sit in this inquiry. How would I
- 6:17feel if this were already resolved? If
- 6:19the thing I'm worried about had worked
- 6:21out, what would I be experiencing right
- 6:23here, right now? And then allow yourself
- 6:25to rest into that feeling, into that
- 6:27experience. You don't have to solve the
- 6:30situation in bed. You don't have to
- 6:31mentally organize every conversation and
- 6:33every action that would produce the
- 6:34outcome. That's not the point. You're
- 6:35practicing the experience of completion.
- 6:39Now, as I mentioned before, you don't
- 6:40want to make this another chore, right?
- 6:42Cuz it's easy to start thinking, "Okay,
- 6:44I've got to feel it. Am I feeling it
- 6:45enough? Was that the right feeling? What
- 6:47if I fall asleep before I do it
- 6:48properly?"
- 6:50That's all coming from my own personal
- 6:52experience. But suddenly you're back
- 6:54into being who? The person who doesn't
- 6:56have it. And that's why Neville talks
- 6:57about relaxation being the key. And I
- 7:00think this is much more important even
- 7:01than the feeling. Relax around the thing
- 7:03that you want. This is where I would
- 7:05connect it to a formula that we teach
- 7:06called the golden equation.
- 7:08It's really a really simple equation for
- 7:10how manifestation works. And that is
- 7:12desire plus non-resistance equals
- 7:15desired result. So, if you have a desire
- 7:18for something, if you want them
- 7:19something, and you don't have any
- 7:20resistance to that thing, there's no
- 7:22limiting beliefs, there's no urgency,
- 7:25right? Given a little bit of time, 100%
- 7:27of the time, consistently and
- 7:28predictably, you will create that
- 7:29outcome. So, let the practice be gentle.
- 7:33Enjoy relaxing into the receiving of the
- 7:35feeling of already having. And as you do
- 7:37that, you're practicing the identity of
- 7:40the version of you that already has it.
- 7:41This brings us to Neville's third
- 7:44chapter on prayer. So, for Neville,
- 7:46prayer involves entering this inward
- 7:49experience of the answer already
- 7:51received. And this is a very different
- 7:52relationship to desire because so often,
- 7:54even when we're praying, we're actually
- 7:56reinforcing the distance between
- 7:58ourselves and what we want. Might sound
- 7:59something like, "Please help me get
- 8:01there." You know, "Oh God, please let
- 8:03this happen. Please change the
- 8:04situation." And underneath those words,
- 8:07we may still be feeling helpless,
- 8:10separate, uncertain whether what we want
- 8:12is available. And so Neville asks you to
- 8:15assume the inward attitude of someone
- 8:17whose prayer has already been answered.
- 8:20It's a very different kind of prayer,
- 8:21right? That's more like a form of
- 8:23Thanksgiving. So proper prayer,
- 8:25according to Neville, is an
- 8:26acknowledgement that what you want
- 8:28already is. You're just waiting in eager
- 8:31anticipation for its material
- 8:32realization. Now I want to pause here
- 8:34because this is exactly where I think
- 8:36people get stuck. And I want to share
- 8:38with you a distinction that Neville
- 8:39teaches that was a literal game-changer
- 8:42for my capacity to inhabit the feeling
- 8:44of the wish fulfilled. But before I
- 8:45continue, I did want to let you know
- 8:47that I've spent the last 18 months
- 8:48working on a project that is truly going
- 8:50to change personal growth forever. And
- 8:52on December 4th and 5th, I'm going to be
- 8:54doing a live two-day masterclass. It's
- 8:56called the Change Mind Masterclass. To
- 8:58finally reveal what I believe is the
- 9:00missing piece to creating consistent
- 9:01sustainable change. And to celebrate
- 9:03that, I'm doing something I've never
- 9:05done before called Mindset Month. So for
- 9:07the next 30 days, I'm inviting you to do
- 9:08personal growth with me, and it's
- 9:10completely free. For 30 days, I'll be
- 9:12sending you daily tools and practices
- 9:14and AI-powered experiences to help you
- 9:16actually integrate everything we're
- 9:18talking about here into your daily life.
- 9:20And then on December 4th and 5th, you'll
- 9:22join me for the two-day masterclass
- 9:24where I'm going to break down the system
- 9:26that we've put together that we are
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- 9:29a link in the description of this
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- 9:34and we'll be able to do personal growth
- 9:35together for the next 30 days. Okay? So
- 9:38check that out for sure. Now, as I
- 9:41mentioned, a lot of people get stuck at
- 9:43this point. They understand everything
- 9:44we've just talked about. They understand
- 9:46the idea of feeling the wish fulfilled.
- 9:48They understand the bedtime practice.
- 9:50They understand that repeating words
- 9:51while feeling the opposite isn't the
- 9:53same as accepting something as true. But
- 9:55then they look at their circumstances
- 9:57and they say, "David, I'd love to feel
- 9:59that way, but it isn't true. I'm not
- 10:02financially free. I haven't met that
- 10:04person. My business isn't where I want
- 10:06it to be." And so this entire technique,
- 10:09this technology that Neville is
- 10:10recommending, starts to feel like you're
- 10:11trying to trick yourself or like you're
- 10:13pretending.
- 10:14And to me, this is where another part of
- 10:16Neville's teaching becomes so, so
- 10:17powerful. Because underneath that
- 10:19resistance is an assumption. And the
- 10:22assumption is that the reality that
- 10:24you're experiencing is the only reality
- 10:27that exists and the only reality that
- 10:29you can respond to, what you're
- 10:31detecting with your five senses. In
- 10:33other words, if I can see it, if I can
- 10:34touch it, if I can hear it,
- 10:36then I believe it. And whatever it is
- 10:38that I'm experiencing, that's what I'm
- 10:40allowed to feel. But until then, I have
- 10:43to wait. And so, Neville challenges that
- 10:45assumption. In a later book called Out
- 10:46of This World, he explores what he calls
- 10:49thinking fourth-dimensionally. Now, I've
- 10:51done some episodes on this. They're some
- 10:53of my most popular episodes. But Neville
- 10:55says, "Look, there are actually two
- 10:57dimensions existing simultaneously right
- 10:59now. There's the third dimension, which
- 11:01is a material dimension that we detect
- 11:03through our senses, and we usually refer
- 11:05to that as reality. It's the exclusive
- 11:07It's the only reality. But he says
- 11:09existing parallel to the third dimension
- 11:11is a fourth dimension. It's an equally
- 11:13valid reality. It's a kind of fabric of
- 11:16potential that is all around us. It is
- 11:18an invisible energetic reality where all
- 11:20possibilities exist right here, right
- 11:23now. Some people refer to this as the
- 11:24field. In fact, he says something really
- 11:26powerful about the fourth dimension,
- 11:28which is that in the fourth dimension,
- 11:30creation is already finished.
- 11:33What he means by that is
- 11:34everything that ever has and ever will
- 11:36exist actually exists right here, right
- 11:39now in the fourth dimension. So, your
- 11:41dream home, your soulmate relationship,
- 11:43the successful business, the abundant
- 11:45bank account, it all exists right here,
- 11:47right now.
- 11:49And your ability to materialize that
- 11:51reality into your third dimension
- 11:53material physical existence is to align
- 11:56your thoughts, your emotions, and your
- 11:58identity
- 11:59with the thing that you want, to act as
- 12:01if you are the person who already has
- 12:03those things. And then those things must
- 12:05materialize. Now, he's not talking about
- 12:07some sort of instant manifestation where
- 12:09a million-dollar bank account just
- 12:10magically appears on your cell phone.
- 12:11What he's saying
- 12:13is that as you align yourself with the
- 12:15person who already has the thing through
- 12:17thoughts that you have, actions that you
- 12:19take, coincidences that occur, given a
- 12:21short period of time,
- 12:23it will move from the fourth dimension
- 12:25into your third dimensional reality. And
- 12:26I love this idea because for so long I
- 12:28struggled with this idea that I had to
- 12:30feel like I had something when I didn't
- 12:32have it. But when I understood Neville's
- 12:34fourth dimensional philosophy and I
- 12:35bought into it, that what I want does
- 12:38exist right here, right now, then I was
- 12:41able to truly say, "Okay, look, I know I
- 12:43have this thing. I'm just waiting for
- 12:45reality to catch up. I'm waiting for my
- 12:47frequency to calibrate to that reality,
- 12:49and then
- 12:51my circumstances and the space around me
- 12:53must match that which I've been loyal
- 12:55to." And that gave me permission to
- 12:58start feeling as though I had it. And
- 13:01that's exactly the technique that
- 13:02Neville is teaching. So, I think this
- 13:04fourth dimensional concept is really
- 13:06important and really helpful. Sometimes
- 13:08I think about it as almost being like a
- 13:09360° movie screen. And as I change my
- 13:12frequency, as I start to assume the wish
- 13:14fulfilled and change my thoughts and
- 13:15change my emotions and change my
- 13:17identity, then the movie changes around
- 13:20me.
- 13:21And so, this is a really important
- 13:22distinction that unlocks our capacity to
- 13:26live as though the wish were fulfilled.
- 13:29And as Neville pointed out, that feeling
- 13:31is the secret. So, this has been a
- 13:32game-changer for me, for my life. It's
- 13:35how I attracted my wife. It's how I
- 13:36built my business. It's why I give
- 13:37myself permission to think big and dream
- 13:39big and anticipate the having of things
- 13:42that other people would think are
- 13:43impossible because I believe to a great
- 13:46degree I do already have it. It's right
- 13:49here, right now. And that belief, that
- 13:51feeling is what then compels my reality
- 13:53to confirm that as fact. In fact,
- 13:56Neville suggests that when you're
- 13:58imagining something, you're not making
- 13:59it up. You're tuning into the field that
- 14:02is right here, right now. And that the
- 14:04evidence of the fact that what you want
- 14:06is right here, right now is the fact
- 14:08that you can imagine it.
- 14:10In other words, your brain is like a
- 14:11receiver and you're tuning into that
- 14:13part of the field or the fourth
- 14:15dimension, you can see your future. And
- 14:17now the key or the work is to live as
- 14:20though it were already here because it
- 14:22actually is. Like this just makes so
- 14:24much sense to me.
- 14:26And again, some people will say, "Man,
- 14:27you're out there, right? You're just
- 14:28pretending something that isn't real."
- 14:31And I like to say, "Yes, I'm pretending.
- 14:35I'm tending in advance to the reality
- 14:38that I'm creating." Now, if you want to
- 14:40take what we've talked about today and
- 14:41actually start thinking
- 14:42fourth-dimensionally and living
- 14:44fourth-dimensionally. Again, I want to
- 14:45invite you into something that I'm
- 14:46really excited about. Like I mentioned
- 14:47before, for the last 18 months I've been
- 14:49working behind the scenes on the biggest
- 14:51thing I've ever created. What I believe
- 14:52is the missing piece that explains why
- 14:54you can do all this work on yourself and
- 14:56still struggle to make changes stick.
- 14:58I'm finally revealing it at the Change
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