The Man Who Knows He Can Lose You But Doesn't Care.#RelationshipTruth #Silent #EmotionalNeglect — Transcript

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1. 0:00Number three.
2. 0:01An apology without behavioral change is
3. 0:04an unfinished apology. Anybody can say,
4. 0:06I'm sorry. I promise it won't happen
5. 0:08again. But what happens after the
6. 0:10apology? Do they communicate better? Do
7. 0:12they take responsibility? Do they make
8. 0:15conscious efforts not to repeat the same
9. 0:17behavior?
10. 0:19Don't measure change by how emotional
11. 0:21someone's apology sounds.
12. 0:23Measure it by what becomes different
13. 0:25afterwards.
14. 0:28Number four.
15. 0:29Walking away is sometimes the only way
16. 0:31to stop participating in a painful
17. 0:33cycle.
18. 0:34You cannot force somebody to
19. 0:36communicate.
20. 0:37You cannot love somebody into becoming
21. 0:39emotionally available.
22. 0:41At some point, you have to stop
23. 0:43negotiating for the basic consideration
24. 0:45you deserve.
25. 0:47Walking away isn't always about
26. 0:49punishing someone.
27. 0:50Sometimes it's about refusing to keep
28. 0:52abandoning yourself just to keep a
29. 0:54relationship alive.
30. 0:57Sometimes you are so busy trying not to
31. 0:59lose someone
32. 1:01that you don't realize how much of
33. 1:02yourself you're losing in the process.
34. 1:06You keep waiting for the person they
35. 1:08were at the beginning.
36. 1:10You keep holding on to their promises.
37. 1:12You keep making excuses for their
38. 1:14absence
39. 1:16because you remember how beautiful their
40. 1:18presence once felt.
41. 1:20But you cannot build a future around
42. 1:22someone's occasional appearance.
43. 1:26Love should not leave you permanently
44. 1:28confused about where you stand.
45. 1:31And please remember,
46. 1:32you don't have to make someone afraid of
47. 1:34losing you.
48. 1:36You simply have to stop being afraid of
49. 1:38choosing yourself.