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The Lost Patrice O'Neal Interview: Patrice on women, sex, and love (interviewed by Matt Ruby) — Transcript

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  1. 0:00[Music]
  2. 0:03i've heard you say before that girls
  3. 0:04want to
  4. 0:05want to be tricked into being [ __ ]
  5. 0:07what do you mean by that
  6. 0:09let me say that anything i ever said i
  7. 0:11believe in
  8. 0:12but it's like sometimes you you practice
  9. 0:14how you play right now
  10. 0:16i'm playing probably a different game
  11. 0:18than i played then
  12. 0:19but basically um you learn things from
  13. 0:23repetition
  14. 0:24so when i say um when i say
  15. 0:28general things about women at the time i
  16. 0:30would call it uh
  17. 0:32field research because i was messing
  18. 0:34with a lot of women at the same time
  19. 0:35so when after a while you start to see
  20. 0:37what a lot of women have in common
  21. 0:40and at the time what i meant by that is
  22. 0:43that women don't really take
  23. 0:46responsibility
  24. 0:47for their own evils if you watch tv
  25. 0:50there's always some [ __ ] on about
  26. 0:52you know there's some shows about women
  27. 0:54who kill their husbands and the show's
  28. 0:56called
  29. 0:56snap or the show's called
  30. 1:02drawn into violence it's like it's
  31. 1:04always something
  32. 1:05to help a woman who [ __ ] cuts this
  33. 1:07man's balls off and shoots him in his
  34. 1:08face while she's
  35. 1:09like sleep an excuse to do
  36. 1:13foul [ __ ] so when you catch a girl
  37. 1:16and being a [ __ ] is some foul [ __ ]
  38. 1:20to a girl so they need a good
  39. 1:23story that's what liquor is to them
  40. 1:25liquor is excuse
  41. 1:26juice you know it's it's something
  42. 1:29to make them feel like oh my god it's
  43. 1:32not my
  44. 1:33fault and so if you're the guy you're
  45. 1:36with a girl that's not a drinker
  46. 1:37or not a drug user you you have to
  47. 1:40talk her into somehow uh
  48. 1:44feeling like it's it's it's not their
  49. 1:48fault that they're about to do some
  50. 1:49dirty [ __ ]
  51. 1:50it's your fault you know so you know a
  52. 1:53technique i used to use
  53. 1:54is explained to her that if i'm eating
  54. 1:56your [ __ ]
  55. 1:58i'm i'm being a [ __ ] you're not being a
  56. 2:00[ __ ] you're just
  57. 2:02receiving something i'm giving i i have
  58. 2:04to say well i'm a i'm a [ __ ] just like
  59. 2:06you if i'm down on my knees
  60. 2:08you know licking your vagina or if i'm
  61. 2:11if i'm uh
  62. 2:12uh if i've cajoled you and coerced you
  63. 2:16into some
  64. 2:16kind of sexual act it makes them feel
  65. 2:20like it ain't their fault so when i say
  66. 2:22that
  67. 2:22that it's it's just any technique that
  68. 2:24makes a girl feel
  69. 2:26like it ain't it ain't on them
  70. 2:29because you know girls don't ever take
  71. 2:31responsibility but society doesn't set
  72. 2:33it up where they need to
  73. 2:34either that woman has ever in your
  74. 2:37history of your life you've never heard
  75. 2:38a woman
  76. 2:39actually take full responsibility for
  77. 2:42their actions
  78. 2:42it's not set up that way and i have a
  79. 2:44question
  80. 2:46do you think it's our culture that's
  81. 2:48making girls feel like that is that
  82. 2:49something
  83. 2:50that's just innate to women in general
  84. 2:52or
  85. 2:53where is that i mean you got places man
  86. 2:55where [ __ ]
  87. 2:56look i enjoy our society where
  88. 3:01where you know women have a voice it
  89. 3:03makes it more
  90. 3:04uh satisfying to
  91. 3:09to see a woman be a woman when she's in
  92. 3:11a society
  93. 3:13where women are set up to be the boss
  94. 3:16but they really not the balls there's
  95. 3:18other societies that just straight up
  96. 3:21say [ __ ] women you know what i mean like
  97. 3:23i will will
  98. 3:24if a [ __ ] they'll bury a [ __ ] in the
  99. 3:27in this
  100. 3:28in the dirt up towards up to her neck
  101. 3:30and throw rocks at a [ __ ]
  102. 3:32head so see women here don't deal with
  103. 3:34that kind of [ __ ]
  104. 3:35so i'm not saying they should but i'm
  105. 3:38saying
  106. 3:39we we we live with a bunch of uh
  107. 3:43not even self-made bosses they force you
  108. 3:46to
  109. 3:48to think that they're uh
  110. 3:51i don't want to say the word equal and
  111. 3:53[ __ ] but it's like
  112. 3:54you're going to respect me because
  113. 3:57because you're told to
  114. 3:58but not earn it like women's basketball
  115. 4:01it sucks
  116. 4:02i hear from what nobody says it's a see
  117. 4:04women don't want to be
  118. 4:05sexual objects that's their problem but
  119. 4:08that's what they are to men
  120. 4:09and then they build from there they
  121. 4:11start off as sexual objects
  122. 4:12then they then they ascend to
  123. 4:17something more see men in a woman's life
  124. 4:20we start off as more
  125. 4:21and then ascend to [ __ ] we're trying to
  126. 4:25ascend to [ __ ]
  127. 4:26they're trying to ascend to our life and
  128. 4:29to
  129. 4:29our our our love and our our our
  130. 4:33commitment
  131. 4:34see they we start off like oh man i want
  132. 4:36some [ __ ] and they go well what do you
  133. 4:37do for a living
  134. 4:38and then they start off at what do you
  135. 4:40do for a living oh
  136. 4:41he's a nice guy here's some [ __ ] so
  137. 4:44so let's take women's basketball they
  138. 4:47why would i want to watch
  139. 4:50an exact replica of a man's game
  140. 4:54played at a lower level with
  141. 4:57with no other with no
  142. 5:01other uh contributions or no other
  143. 5:04uh benefits except for i'm watching
  144. 5:06girls play the same way as a man
  145. 5:08no panties no titties out nothing i
  146. 5:10gotta watch
  147. 5:11slower a weaker product
  148. 5:15why why would i want to do that and
  149. 5:17they're not even being
  150. 5:18uh sexual like you got the lingerie bowl
  151. 5:21girls
  152. 5:22who say we're going to play football but
  153. 5:24we're going to do it in our panties and
  154. 5:25our tits
  155. 5:26and that is is a huge success
  156. 5:30as opposed to let me watch women play
  157. 5:33football because they love the game
  158. 5:34i don't give a [ __ ] that's why
  159. 5:36volleyball is a great sport
  160. 5:38you get to see those nice little booties
  161. 5:40and some athletic ability
  162. 5:42but if i want to see full athletic
  163. 5:44ability i watch a man
  164. 5:45but why is that sexist i don't know that
  165. 5:48i
  166. 5:48you know i don't think it's sexist i
  167. 5:50just think it's it's true
  168. 5:52and i think you know i think that you
  169. 5:54know
  170. 5:56it's you know when you say is it
  171. 5:57socially so society
  172. 6:00yeah and and here's the bad thing it's
  173. 6:03it's not
  174. 6:04women it's men it's men policing
  175. 6:07you know this kind of [ __ ] it's like
  176. 6:11you can't even talk [ __ ] about women
  177. 6:12it's like you know what happened to the
  178. 6:14old
  179. 6:14the old saying sticks and stones will
  180. 6:16break my bones the names of the names
  181. 6:18never hurt me
  182. 6:19why can't i discuss
  183. 6:22why can't i say a woman ain't [ __ ]
  184. 6:24without [ __ ]
  185. 6:26being a a troglodyte or or [ __ ] why
  186. 6:29can't i see how i feel
  187. 6:31you know do i feel like any woman can
  188. 6:32kick my ass no i'm sure there is one
  189. 6:34but i always said the best like if i run
  190. 6:38into a [ __ ]
  191. 6:39uh uh uh chris cyborg the
  192. 6:42that [ __ ] mma girl she beat the dog
  193. 6:45[ __ ] out of me but she's not gonna beat
  194. 6:46the dark [ __ ] out of a [ __ ] man mma
  195. 6:49guy
  196. 6:49so it's like the best man is the best
  197. 6:52and i don't understand why
  198. 6:55you got to be a villain to say that [ __ ]
  199. 6:57you know you why do you have to be a
  200. 6:59villain if
  201. 7:00if you [ __ ] say that because there's
  202. 7:02no best
  203. 7:03nothing in the world overall that's a
  204. 7:06chick
  205. 7:06maybe the best porn star but again
  206. 7:08sexually women have it you know that's
  207. 7:10why women porn stars get paid more
  208. 7:12but you you tell me the greatest pianist
  209. 7:15and somebody considers
  210. 7:16the greatest pianist greatest artist the
  211. 7:18greatest
  212. 7:19athlete the greatest thinkers you you
  213. 7:23you know women are there but if you go
  214. 7:24who's the greatest thinker
  215. 7:26you know you would you would think
  216. 7:28nuclear physicists are the greatest
  217. 7:30speakers i don't know any i mean i'm
  218. 7:31sure there's a [ __ ] [ __ ] that
  219. 7:33knows a couple of women
  220. 7:34but the greatest is like meet you kakuwa
  221. 7:37or or the guy in the [ __ ] wheelchair
  222. 7:39there's stephen hawking right all right
  223. 7:41well i have a q
  224. 7:41i have a question about that then do you
  225. 7:43think that's because they don't have the
  226. 7:45the innate abilities or is it because
  227. 7:47they don't have the ambition because
  228. 7:48they do but it's women don't like being
  229. 7:51see
  230. 7:52women well woman doesn't want to be the
  231. 7:54best woman she wants to be the best man
  232. 7:56because she knows best is men
  233. 7:58so she don't want to be just like my
  234. 8:00girl
  235. 8:02we if we watch a movie and she sees a
  236. 8:03cool role for a woman she says
  237. 8:05she see that's cool like okay fair
  238. 8:07enough i go but
  239. 8:08she's cool as a woman see my girl wants
  240. 8:11to be
  241. 8:12as funny as my male friends as cool as
  242. 8:14my male friends
  243. 8:16as that she's just not going to be but
  244. 8:18she her value
  245. 8:20is that she's going to be the cool the
  246. 8:22coolest chick is the is the [ __ ]
  247. 8:24she's the queen see here's the thing
  248. 8:27about the queen that
  249. 8:28that people don't understand if you look
  250. 8:30in if you look at
  251. 8:31uh if you look at the
  252. 8:35uh england okay and you look at the
  253. 8:39how to how to the royal family set up
  254. 8:42okay
  255. 8:43it's like oh the queen
  256. 8:48gets to be the queen it because the king
  257. 8:51is the king
  258. 8:52like so let's let's stay for instance
  259. 8:53remember this is talking about
  260. 8:55the weak position that men are in now
  261. 8:57all right okay
  262. 8:58and in order if if i'm a king
  263. 9:02okay and i marry any woman on the street
  264. 9:05she can be
  265. 9:06a complete bump okay
  266. 9:09if i marry her she is now the queen
  267. 9:12she's the highest level
  268. 9:14of title i think in the world if a
  269. 9:17woman's a queen
  270. 9:18that's the highest female title on the
  271. 9:22planet earth is the queen
  272. 9:24not the prime minister not the secretary
  273. 9:26of state not the president
  274. 9:28the queen any queen is the top
  275. 9:31and and and every woman understands that
  276. 9:34now
  277. 9:35in order to be a queen all you got to do
  278. 9:37is marry a king
  279. 9:38but the queen of england is the queen
  280. 9:40because her father
  281. 9:42didn't have any son so she was anointed
  282. 9:45to the queen
  283. 9:46but still here's the problem everybody's
  284. 9:49waiting for her to die
  285. 9:51so that prince charles can be a king
  286. 9:53because the country wants a king
  287. 9:56because that's the highest level but the
  288. 9:59queen of england right now is married to
  289. 10:01a guy
  290. 10:02but but that guy isn't the king
  291. 10:06so the point being is the natural thing
  292. 10:10is
  293. 10:10a guy comes in at his highest level
  294. 10:14and comes in with a woman and and being
  295. 10:16a queen is
  296. 10:17her highest level but it's not the
  297. 10:19highest level
  298. 10:20and women hate that they feel like they
  299. 10:23can never be at the highest level
  300. 10:25but they can if they [ __ ] be at the
  301. 10:28highest level
  302. 10:29as a woman do what women do
  303. 10:33stop trying to compete with men and it's
  304. 10:36not even a fair competition
  305. 10:38men are being uh uh
  306. 10:41uh what's the word uh when you take your
  307. 10:43balls euphonized
  308. 10:45no that's euthanizing cancer
  309. 10:49castrating yes thank you castrated and
  310. 10:51[ __ ] euthanized really
  311. 10:53our spirit so if your balls are getting
  312. 10:56castrated
  313. 10:57and and then they're forcing you to
  314. 10:59submit to the fact that you're not the
  315. 11:01best
  316. 11:02and then they want the best it's really
  317. 11:04that we're
  318. 11:05we're really advocating our position i
  319. 11:08don't advocate my position
  320. 11:10you have to earn it you have to take it
  321. 11:12i don't [ __ ] say
  322. 11:13i'm not gonna say you're [ __ ] funny
  323. 11:15uh you're smart
  324. 11:16you're you're you're witty you're
  325. 11:18interesting if you're not
  326. 11:20and most funny smart witty interesting
  327. 11:23people
  328. 11:24are dudes how many [ __ ]
  329. 11:27women do you really know that's your
  330. 11:30your
  331. 11:30real tight main [ __ ] shitstain
  332. 11:35friend that you can trust with some
  333. 11:37horrible information
  334. 11:39or some real [ __ ] up knowledge about
  335. 11:42you
  336. 11:42who the [ __ ] do you know that's like
  337. 11:44some girl that's like
  338. 11:46this is my this is this is the person
  339. 11:49that i
  340. 11:49confide in no no
  341. 11:53because they're girls they can't trust
  342. 11:55each other
  343. 11:56they hate each other so and they and
  344. 11:58they not only they hate each other
  345. 12:00they hate the lack of camaraderie and
  346. 12:03the lack of mentorship that they have
  347. 12:05for each other
  348. 12:07they they hate that we have that [ __ ]
  349. 12:10as an older man i'm getting older man i
  350. 12:13mentor a young guy
  351. 12:14that's what i i don't try to compete
  352. 12:16with young soldiers i
  353. 12:17i mentor them what do you teach them
  354. 12:20like like a
  355. 12:21journal i behave like a general or
  356. 12:23lieutenant
  357. 12:24or a [ __ ] captain i behave like when
  358. 12:27i see a young man
  359. 12:28that wants to hear me i i give them
  360. 12:31advice i don't try to bring him down
  361. 12:34and compete with his his young strengths
  362. 12:37and his
  363. 12:38young determination i try to say one day
  364. 12:40you're going to be older
  365. 12:41let me help you be older better what do
  366. 12:44you do
  367. 12:45what do you teach a guy a guy comes to
  368. 12:46you for advice what do you tell them
  369. 12:48it depends on what what he needs if i
  370. 12:51got that knowledge now i couldn't
  371. 12:52i couldn't tell a guy how to keep in
  372. 12:53shape because i'm not in shape but i
  373. 12:55could tell a guy how to
  374. 12:56have a better relationship i could tell
  375. 12:59about how to be
  376. 13:00a better comic i can't tell him how to
  377. 13:02be a rich and famous comic
  378. 13:03i can tell him how to how to be
  379. 13:04respected you know and i'll say
  380. 13:06you know how you be respected you don't
  381. 13:08steal you you you
  382. 13:10you take it in the face um like a man
  383. 13:13you you know you respect the game you
  384. 13:16you know you
  385. 13:17you do it uh you you be righteous
  386. 13:20and i don't mean righteous uh from the
  387. 13:23bible
  388. 13:24i mean righteous you just follow your
  389. 13:27path
  390. 13:28you do the right thing and and you'll
  391. 13:30get what you want you know what i mean
  392. 13:32and you know it depends on what that
  393. 13:35person needs at the time what kind of
  394. 13:37mentorship
  395. 13:38if i if you're a friend of mine or are
  396. 13:40we kicking it and you telling you have
  397. 13:41some kind of problem
  398. 13:42and i've and i've experienced it i can
  399. 13:47share how i got through it you know with
  400. 13:50you
  401. 13:50all right let me let me ask you
  402. 13:52something then like within a
  403. 13:53relationship
  404. 13:54within a relationship you know you've
  405. 13:56got to bend a little bit as you've got
  406. 13:58to compromise you know how much of that
  407. 14:00is
  408. 14:00is giving up why you don't you don't
  409. 14:02compromise at all
  410. 14:05here's the thing compromise means one of
  411. 14:08us is going to be
  412. 14:09unhappy if if your
  413. 14:12girl see i have enough money to where i
  414. 14:16don't have to compromise for certain
  415. 14:17things
  416. 14:18i'm not rich but i have i have four
  417. 14:21televisions
  418. 14:23and i'm just giving an example of
  419. 14:24compromise all right if my girl wants to
  420. 14:26watch the grammy see here's the problem
  421. 14:29compromise for a woman means
  422. 14:32we both have to do something she wants
  423. 14:34to do
  424. 14:36that's what compromises all right so
  425. 14:39if the grammys is on and i don't want to
  426. 14:41watch that horse [ __ ]
  427. 14:42i got four tvs but she wants to watch
  428. 14:45the grammys with me
  429. 14:47she doesn't want to watch the grammys
  430. 14:49alone
  431. 14:51i bought three i bought four tvs so at
  432. 14:54any point you can go watch anything you
  433. 14:56want to watch
  434. 14:57matter of fact you can watch two things
  435. 14:59if you want at the same time
  436. 15:00but i want to watch what i want to watch
  437. 15:03and i don't want to watch it with you
  438. 15:05so you tell her no or i just go i'm not
  439. 15:09going to go watch it
  440. 15:10i'm not watching it so one of us is
  441. 15:11going to be angry because here's the
  442. 15:13thing
  443. 15:13if i don't watch it with her and she's
  444. 15:15angry what's the difference if
  445. 15:17i watch it with her and i'm angry who
  446. 15:19would you rather be upset
  447. 15:20in the situation you or her so you never
  448. 15:23do things that you want
  449. 15:24don't want to do but your girl does want
  450. 15:25to do just because never
  451. 15:28never and do you think that's uh tenable
  452. 15:31for like most other men
  453. 15:32you think they could get away with that
  454. 15:33too well i've been i've been with the
  455. 15:35same [ __ ]
  456. 15:36for she is going on 10 years
  457. 15:40and you think other guys could see what
  458. 15:42happens is what happens is
  459. 15:45here's the thing you're on a you're on a
  460. 15:48say you're on a journey
  461. 15:49with this woman here's the thing about
  462. 15:51men
  463. 15:52men are very and this is this is from
  464. 15:54doing refill research and of course i'm
  465. 15:56generalizing
  466. 15:57you know so the women who get upset
  467. 15:59about this is the ones that should get
  468. 16:01upset the women who don't are the ones
  469. 16:03that
  470. 16:03that have have a sense of themselves and
  471. 16:06a sense of
  472. 16:07of honesty and then they move on from
  473. 16:09there here's the thing
  474. 16:10we're on a journey together and let's
  475. 16:12say our journey is in a car
  476. 16:15our our hypothetical figurative journey
  477. 16:18in life
  478. 16:19if i'm driving okay and
  479. 16:23and i control the wheel as a man
  480. 16:27and i'm driving see let's say
  481. 16:30every gas station we stop at is to
  482. 16:34emotionally fill up our gas tank
  483. 16:37to to fill up our emotional gas tank
  484. 16:40if my girl runs the emotional gas game
  485. 16:44how many times you think was going to
  486. 16:45[ __ ] stop on our journey
  487. 16:47when she's mad at this or she's tired
  488. 16:50or she's on a [ __ ] you know her
  489. 16:52monthly
  490. 16:54and i gotta stop and and ask the guy all
  491. 16:56right give me 10
  492. 16:5712 roses on two all right give me a nice
  493. 17:01meal on three give me a movie and a
  494. 17:04[ __ ] thing give me valentine's day
  495. 17:06on pump four if you're a guy and you're
  496. 17:09and it trickles down from you
  497. 17:11you're gonna only stop at the gas
  498. 17:13station when you truly need to
  499. 17:15so that your journey can be fruitful and
  500. 17:18your journey
  501. 17:18can get the you can get the most out of
  502. 17:21the journey
  503. 17:22as opposed to every single
  504. 17:25second you got to keep filling up her
  505. 17:27emotional gas tank
  506. 17:28now is there anything attractive to you
  507. 17:32if a girl does like stand up and say i'm
  508. 17:34not okay with the way you're treating me
  509. 17:36or here's what i want
  510. 17:37yeah and yep and here's what you could
  511. 17:39do i've done it many times and
  512. 17:41and and i'm telling you frank uh matt
  513. 17:44i'm not [ __ ]
  514. 17:45don't i'm not talking [ __ ] either see
  515. 17:48i i i
  516. 17:51of course i i'm a i'm a very you talk to
  517. 17:54my girl
  518. 17:54you know i sound like an ogre to some
  519. 17:57people who don't know me right
  520. 17:59but my girl is well taken care of man i
  521. 18:01take care of her
  522. 18:03but what i what i don't what i to take
  523. 18:05care of her
  524. 18:06i need to be um i need to have desire
  525. 18:10and i need to have happiness on my own
  526. 18:13so so
  527. 18:14so if she's making me miserable and i
  528. 18:16still have to take care of her
  529. 18:17that's not good but if i'm if i make
  530. 18:20sure that i'm happy
  531. 18:21and then because for real your if you
  532. 18:24got a girlfriend
  533. 18:25she's gonna love you monday and hate you
  534. 18:27tuesday you can't
  535. 18:29function like that so if i have a girl
  536. 18:32that stands up to me i don't have weak
  537. 18:35women i don't attract with women
  538. 18:36i attract strong women i attract um
  539. 18:40abusive women women who will stop on
  540. 18:43your guts if they get a chance
  541. 18:45now you don't think there's any abuse in
  542. 18:46women like not you but people
  543. 18:48like come on there's some abusive women
  544. 18:51ask any woman
  545. 18:52who her favorite guy ever was the love
  546. 18:54of her life was an [ __ ]
  547. 18:58it wasn't the they hate the god the guys
  548. 19:00that they
  549. 19:01should marry they do marry then they
  550. 19:04divorce him because it's like
  551. 19:06he does he doesn't do it for me they
  552. 19:08marry women marry and date
  553. 19:11the the what they think they supposed to
  554. 19:13date
  555. 19:14but let's let's put it in terms of an
  556. 19:16animal um like i said like some women
  557. 19:19uh you know might be a tiger tigers are
  558. 19:22aggressive animals
  559. 19:24so so in order for her to feel like a
  560. 19:25woman she's gonna have to date a male
  561. 19:28tiger she can't date
  562. 19:29outside of her species but a lot of
  563. 19:31women date outside of their species
  564. 19:33because
  565. 19:34that's that they're they're more perfect
  566. 19:36than a tiger
  567. 19:37they they they do anything she says
  568. 19:40they compromise quote unquote they they
  569. 19:42do what they need to do to make her feel
  570. 19:45um comfortable so
  571. 19:49then she doesn't realize why do i hate
  572. 19:51this [ __ ] lane
  573. 19:52because it's not tapping into how she
  574. 19:55wants to feel
  575. 19:56see my girl wants me to say no but again
  576. 19:58like i said they don't take
  577. 19:59responsibility
  578. 20:01so they want me to stand there a woman
  579. 20:03wants you to stand up to him
  580. 20:05and at the same time she's
  581. 20:08mad but she's attracted to you because
  582. 20:11hate is the same thing as love
  583. 20:13so if you get a woman that stands up to
  584. 20:14me it don't it's
  585. 20:16it doesn't matter that's the woman i
  586. 20:18want the woman that goes [ __ ] you
  587. 20:20and i go fine and dandy and then i stay
  588. 20:23logical she stays emotional
  589. 20:25and eventually her emotions are going to
  590. 20:27run out because that's why they have to
  591. 20:29get
  592. 20:30their their gas tank filled up because
  593. 20:32they need emotions to
  594. 20:34to continue to run to run correctly
  595. 20:37i don't need emotions to run correctly i
  596. 20:39need logic and reason
  597. 20:41i reason myself through my emotions
  598. 20:43women emotion their way through logic
  599. 20:46it's not a bad it's not a good it's it's
  600. 20:49not
  601. 20:50the the you know this sounds like men
  602. 20:52from mars women from venus but it is
  603. 20:54it's the fact anything that you can
  604. 20:57think of if you apply
  605. 20:59opposite to a woman of how you behave
  606. 21:03that's how they behave they behave
  607. 21:05opposite that their
  608. 21:06instinct is completely opposite to ours
  609. 21:09so it's a battle of attrition
  610. 21:11it's either your logic and reason gets
  611. 21:13destroyed or their emotions get
  612. 21:16destroyed
  613. 21:17it's [ __ ] to me there's no there's no
  614. 21:19challenge
  615. 21:20there's no absolutely no challenge at
  616. 21:22all i [ __ ]
  617. 21:23my girl's emotions make her crazy makes
  618. 21:26her unreasonable
  619. 21:27makes her nuts and in order for us to
  620. 21:30stay together
  621. 21:31we cannot both be emotional we can
  622. 21:35we it can't be it can't be like she's
  623. 21:37going to be the hulk anytime she
  624. 21:39she decides to be and i'm going to run
  625. 21:41for my life because she's the hope
  626. 21:43and then when she decides she's going to
  627. 21:45be bruce banner again
  628. 21:46or if she's going to be the the you know
  629. 21:49lon chaney
  630. 21:50or the wolf man analogy you know okay
  631. 21:52i'm getting returning to the wolf man
  632. 21:54you've got to lock yourself in the house
  633. 21:55and then you turn back into
  634. 21:56lon chaney and you're like oh i'm sorry
  635. 21:59i didn't mean it
  636. 22:00it's like yeah but you still as the wolf
  637. 22:02man you killed the whole village
  638. 22:03[ __ ]
  639. 22:04so you know what are we going to do now
  640. 22:07that your lawn chaney
  641. 22:09you cut me and scratched me and bit me
  642. 22:11yesterday now today everything's fine
  643. 22:13nah it's that's what i'm saying what do
  644. 22:16you think it but it's a bit but that's
  645. 22:17look it if you look at it man that's why
  646. 22:19women are miserable
  647. 22:20they got no men they don't know how to
  648. 22:22get one they don't know how to have one
  649. 22:23they don't know how to keep one
  650. 22:24but yet and still they want to lead the
  651. 22:26way all the time yeah
  652. 22:28whatever you know no i know what you
  653. 22:29think i know where you're coming from
  654. 22:31i'm curious
  655. 22:31you talked about the animal thing and
  656. 22:33i've heard you talk about before like
  657. 22:34you know
  658. 22:35bears and salmon and and sharks and it
  659. 22:38seems like a lot of your analogies
  660. 22:39you know you you look at the animal
  661. 22:41kingdom and i'm wondering do you think
  662. 22:43you know we've got this
  663. 22:44concept of monogamy and you know one one
  664. 22:46man with one woman for life and you
  665. 22:48look at other animals that almost never
  666. 22:50happens do you think we're denying well
  667. 22:52because
  668. 22:52because they the animals are pure even
  669. 22:54murder for animal is pure
  670. 22:56you know you when you watch a a a you
  671. 22:59know one of those uh
  672. 23:00one of those uh antelope get killed by a
  673. 23:02cheetah you feel bad for the antelope
  674. 23:04but you you can't the cheetah is not a
  675. 23:06villain and the antelope's not a hero
  676. 23:09they just live life and they they live
  677. 23:12according to the rules of nature right
  678. 23:14right now
  679. 23:16but but the reason let's say dear
  680. 23:19and and uh a wildebeest they get killed
  681. 23:22all the time
  682. 23:23because they don't have any natural uh
  683. 23:26order
  684. 23:27they don't have a natural enemy so so
  685. 23:29the whatever the
  686. 23:30the reason that alligators get to eat
  687. 23:33wildebeest all the time is because will
  688. 23:34the beast don't know that alligators are
  689. 23:36out to get them
  690. 23:37they go alligator for alligators so
  691. 23:41so people right here's here's what makes
  692. 23:44us different from animals
  693. 23:45it's the idea of god and the devil it's
  694. 23:48the idea of good and evil it's the idea
  695. 23:50of right and wrong it's the idea of
  696. 23:51karma it's the idea of death
  697. 23:55is what makes us different than animals
  698. 23:58so
  699. 24:00if you think purely as animals like it
  700. 24:02makes you a lesser being
  701. 24:04to be honest but some of the things we
  702. 24:08fight
  703. 24:10are not to be fought because okay if we
  704. 24:14submit
  705. 24:14now if i'm if i'm not homosexual if i'm
  706. 24:16a heterosexual person
  707. 24:18with a heterosexual woman basically
  708. 24:21i have submitted to what
  709. 24:24to something that i believe has been set
  710. 24:27down
  711. 24:28by by the cosmos so
  712. 24:31if i'm attracted to a woman and and a
  713. 24:34woman is attracted to me
  714. 24:35then we have decided to live by a a
  715. 24:38nature's law now i'm not saying being
  716. 24:40homosexual
  717. 24:41is unnatural i'm using i'm using a
  718. 24:44traditional man and woman
  719. 24:46scenario all right uh you know it's that
  720. 24:48that's what i'm using i'm not saying oh
  721. 24:50it's an unnatural thing to be gay
  722. 24:51i'm saying if you're using that you
  723. 24:53submitted and even if you're gay
  724. 24:55and you're sexual as a gay person you're
  725. 24:58submitting
  726. 24:58to the to the um
  727. 25:02uh uh uh the the the trappings of
  728. 25:06of sex so even if you're not
  729. 25:09a heterosexual you're still submitting
  730. 25:12to
  731. 25:13uh your nature's uh amorous
  732. 25:17uh callings man so you're submitting to
  733. 25:20something so if you're gonna submit to
  734. 25:22that
  735. 25:22or you're gonna submit to hunger or
  736. 25:24you're gonna submit to
  737. 25:26sadness then there's some other things
  738. 25:28that we should submit to
  739. 25:30that could possibly make our lives
  740. 25:32better and i'm telling you
  741. 25:34trying to make this woman man thing this
  742. 25:3750 50 [ __ ] is it it makes
  743. 25:41everyone miserable because women are
  744. 25:43trying to obtain
  745. 25:44this this this respect that they're not
  746. 25:47going to get from men
  747. 25:48women are not going to elevate past
  748. 25:50their [ __ ]
  749. 25:52no matter what they do on the front end
  750. 25:55when i see a woman i'm looking at that
  751. 25:57ass
  752. 25:57and them titties and i'm like man i want
  753. 26:00to [ __ ] her
  754. 26:01then it builds from there women are
  755. 26:04looking at
  756. 26:05oh i wonder if he could take care of me
  757. 26:06i wonder if he has the ability to take
  758. 26:08care one of you has the ability to have
  759. 26:09good
  760. 26:10sex with me i want it if he has the
  761. 26:11ability to protect me it's
  762. 26:13nature but we we convoluted with
  763. 26:16the idea that we're so much better than
  764. 26:18animals man
  765. 26:19but the fact being women feel way
  766. 26:23better being a woman my girl feels
  767. 26:26way better when i pay for food she feels
  768. 26:28way better when i drive
  769. 26:30she feels way better when there's a
  770. 26:33problem
  771. 26:33and i handle it she feels way better
  772. 26:37and i feel way better when she looks
  773. 26:39good and she [ __ ] good
  774. 26:41and she smiles good and she's she's
  775. 26:43witty
  776. 26:44and she doesn't cause me problems so
  777. 26:47that i could continue to be the man she
  778. 26:49wants me to be
  779. 26:50then she can spin it it enables her
  780. 26:53to just relax and not try to [ __ ]
  781. 26:56fight
  782. 26:57women are always trying to [ __ ] be a
  783. 27:00dude
  784. 27:01why would you want to [ __ ] fight why
  785. 27:03would you want to arm wrestle
  786. 27:05why would you want to be physically hit
  787. 27:07like what the [ __ ] is wrong with them
  788. 27:09because they know innately that men
  789. 27:13are the [ __ ] we really are so
  790. 27:16we are the [ __ ] so why not have a
  791. 27:18haircut
  792. 27:21why not have a business if i could yeah
  793. 27:24why can't you what the [ __ ] you wouldn't
  794. 27:25have
  795. 27:26no well why can't you what's stopping
  796. 27:28you well what's stopping me is that i
  797. 27:30need to help
  798. 27:32women women have to be involved women
  799. 27:34have to see something
  800. 27:35and go you know what i have to realize
  801. 27:38that
  802. 27:39sharing a man is the is the way to go
  803. 27:42for every woman have a chance to be
  804. 27:44happy because if you look at the census
  805. 27:46i mean i'm pretty sure that women out
  806. 27:49outnumber men
  807. 27:51if you look at the census and and and
  808. 27:54what happens is
  809. 27:55how the [ __ ] are all women going to have
  810. 27:57a chance to be happy that means that
  811. 27:58they're playing some type of lottery
  812. 28:01they're scratching lottery tickets every
  813. 28:03woman who was lucky enough to have
  814. 28:05every woman who has a man right started
  815. 28:07off the same way
  816. 28:08started off a chick they just met
  817. 28:11started off a chick that he was [ __ ]
  818. 28:13started off a chick that he was dating
  819. 28:15started off a chick that he
  820. 28:16saw instead of one time a week two times
  821. 28:20a week then three times a week then
  822. 28:21later moved in
  823. 28:22it's a process man so it it it that
  824. 28:26woman was lucky but she forgets that she
  825. 28:28easily could
  826. 28:30you she used to be and could easily
  827. 28:32still be
  828. 28:33the chick that's sitting around that
  829. 28:36gets a visit at three in the morning
  830. 28:38gets [ __ ] and you know [ __ ] uses a
  831. 28:41good towel
  832. 28:42and then he just leaves you you you only
  833. 28:46one step from that [ __ ]
  834. 28:47but what did you do to obtain your
  835. 28:50husband or attain your
  836. 28:52your your committed relationship you
  837. 28:54didn't do nothing
  838. 28:55you just waited and you got lucky and
  839. 28:57you got caught
  840. 28:59so you should have respect for the women
  841. 29:01who ain't you because
  842. 29:02for real i i i love my girl man i would
  843. 29:05never want to hurt her
  844. 29:06but she knows how the [ __ ] i'm gonna
  845. 29:08look at
  846. 29:09i don't go through i would love to go
  847. 29:11through life and not look at other women
  848. 29:12but it ain't for facts i drive around
  849. 29:15i go walk through the mall i i go in the
  850. 29:17city
  851. 29:18and there's just delicious women walking
  852. 29:20around everywhere
  853. 29:21what am i gonna do say i don't look at
  854. 29:23them because i'm gonna have a
  855. 29:24relationship that's [ __ ] nonsense
  856. 29:27and it's lying it's [ __ ] lying
  857. 29:32because love is there's a there's a
  858. 29:34thousand ways women want to give away
  859. 29:36love man it's harder to get sex than it
  860. 29:37is to get love
  861. 29:38all you gotta do is date a woman for for
  862. 29:40a little while not sleep with her
  863. 29:42say i love you and then she's gonna be
  864. 29:44with you
  865. 29:45it's harder to get sex
  866. 29:49if i want to love tomorrow i can find it
  867. 29:51i can just go oh my god
  868. 29:52look at you i mean here's my number i
  869. 29:55wanna i i i wanna just be with you and
  870. 29:57she'll be enamored with that horseshit
  871. 29:59but if you go damn i just wanna see
  872. 30:01i just wanna look at your panty line
  873. 30:03baby because that's really what i wanna
  874. 30:04do
  875. 30:05i don't wanna [ __ ] be with you the
  876. 30:06rest of my life i want to see your panty
  877. 30:08line i want to see if you got hair on
  878. 30:10your cooch
  879. 30:10i want to see your nipples that [ __ ] is
  880. 30:13that [ __ ] is a
  881. 30:14a against the norm that's horrid
  882. 30:18the women who let you do that they're
  883. 30:20prostitutes well you got to pay for it
  884. 30:23but if if if if it wasn't a market for
  885. 30:25proper duty there wouldn't be none
  886. 30:27right well speaking of just want to look
  887. 30:30at some kitties you know what i'm saying
  888. 30:31yeah well let me ask you if a guy came
  889. 30:34to you and he's like i want to be a pimp
  890. 30:36how do i do it what what advice would
  891. 30:37you give him what what's the difference
  892. 30:39i used to think being a pimp was amazing
  893. 30:42but i realized something about what
  894. 30:43pimping is
  895. 30:44see what i don't want to do is be a pimp
  896. 30:46i i just want
  897. 30:47i want more than one woman and i want to
  898. 30:50love those women i want to
  899. 30:51[ __ ] hug a woman that needs to be
  900. 30:53hugged i want to hug
  901. 30:55four women there's nothing you know to
  902. 30:57see the sex is what confuses it
  903. 31:00if i have four sisters i can love all my
  904. 31:02sisters
  905. 31:03because i'm not [ __ ] them but if i
  906. 31:05have four girlfriends or four wives
  907. 31:07then i'm a creep or i'm a weirdo because
  908. 31:10i want to [ __ ] my four wives
  909. 31:12but i still can love i still
  910. 31:15can love those four women if i was a gay
  911. 31:18guy and have four girlfriends and i love
  912. 31:20those four girlfriends that's acceptable
  913. 31:22but sex is what convolutes it because to
  914. 31:25women
  915. 31:26sex means love and sex means commitment
  916. 31:28you know
  917. 31:29uh it it it fixes the confusing part
  918. 31:34i don't want to be a pimp because temps
  919. 31:37uh i realized what pimps were because
  920. 31:40because because in my mind
  921. 31:41a pimp was the only person that had the
  922. 31:45tools
  923. 31:46to make my idea work
  924. 31:49and that's not true you need the help of
  925. 31:51a woman
  926. 31:52and and pimps have the help of a woman
  927. 31:54it's called his bottom [ __ ]
  928. 31:56it's his number one woman but here's the
  929. 31:58issue
  930. 31:59all women can be pimped and i'm gonna
  931. 32:01tell you why
  932. 32:02and this is why pimping is not
  933. 32:03attractive to me like it was when i was
  934. 32:05younger
  935. 32:06all right see if you have a girl that
  936. 32:07loves you she'll do anything for you
  937. 32:10uh and what a pinch is
  938. 32:13is a guy who abuses he's a charming
  939. 32:16witty
  940. 32:16lovable guy he is temps are amazingly
  941. 32:20charming
  942. 32:21and women fall in love with them and
  943. 32:24they abuse women's love
  944. 32:26because see all the all the things you
  945. 32:29think of pimp is smacking [ __ ] and
  946. 32:31putting [ __ ] on the street and what
  947. 32:33all this [ __ ]
  948. 32:34i you couldn't walk up to a chick
  949. 32:38in the middle of the street and say to
  950. 32:40her hey baby
  951. 32:42sell some [ __ ] right i'm gonna leave
  952. 32:44and when i come back you better
  953. 32:46have all the money that uh you from
  954. 32:49selling [ __ ]
  955. 32:50or just smack a girl in the face bam
  956. 32:53hey [ __ ] you know it don't exist the
  957. 32:56women think about women
  958. 32:57who get hit by their men they [ __ ]
  959. 33:00love them
  960. 33:01it's like how can you let them do that
  961. 33:03oh no i just love
  962. 33:04you or or uh uh
  963. 33:08uh some chick right instead of selling
  964. 33:11[ __ ] right
  965. 33:12she works all day at a job
  966. 33:16nine to five plus overtime and brings
  967. 33:19her money home and buys things and does
  968. 33:21things for a [ __ ] bum
  969. 33:22that's sitting on her couch playing
  970. 33:24playstation because she
  971. 33:26loves him so all it does all it takes to
  972. 33:28be attempt is be willing to abuse the
  973. 33:31love that um
  974. 33:34that that your that your woman has for
  975. 33:36you
  976. 33:37pension holds a love so when you have a
  977. 33:39bottom [ __ ] that loves you
  978. 33:41he you know me and my girl would do
  979. 33:43threesomes sometimes
  980. 33:44and what what would happen is really it
  981. 33:47would be me
  982. 33:48being charming to the other chick and
  983. 33:50then my girl um
  984. 33:52kind of mentors her through the process
  985. 33:56of being with me she goes oh he likes
  986. 33:58this and he likes that
  987. 34:00and this is this this is cool and
  988. 34:03she controls her because it's like
  989. 34:05sisterhood and then we both get together
  990. 34:08and we all get together we have a good
  991. 34:09time but it's based on
  992. 34:11our me and my girl loving each other
  993. 34:15and then that girl loving us and loving
  994. 34:18what we are
  995. 34:19and that's what pimps do they got one
  996. 34:21girl
  997. 34:22who cajoles the rest of these girls is
  998. 34:24doing the right thing
  999. 34:25and it's like here's our man and that
  1000. 34:28girl convinces the other girl
  1001. 34:29that your man is or our man or her man
  1002. 34:33is the coolest [ __ ] that ever
  1003. 34:35lived
  1004. 34:36and if a woman sees a guy that like can
  1005. 34:39convince them
  1006. 34:41to like uh uh like
  1007. 34:44can convince her and then convince
  1008. 34:46another woman to be with her
  1009. 34:48and him that's like it turns them on
  1010. 34:50because it's like
  1011. 34:51my man is making me think
  1012. 34:55completely out the norm it
  1013. 34:58that's why i mean when you ask that
  1014. 35:00first question tricked into being a hoe
  1015. 35:02when you can make a girl go holy [ __ ]
  1016. 35:06this [ __ ] got me so in love that
  1017. 35:08i'm willing
  1018. 35:09to [ __ ] another girl and and be with
  1019. 35:13another one it turns her on
  1020. 35:15then it turns the other girl on that's
  1021. 35:17what it is it's charm
  1022. 35:19it's wittiness but the
  1023. 35:22the thing is to put a girl on the street
  1024. 35:24to sell a [ __ ]
  1025. 35:26the reason i couldn't do that is because
  1026. 35:27i'm a man like meaning
  1027. 35:30i could never feel comfortable um
  1028. 35:33living off my girls [ __ ] i i want to
  1029. 35:35take care of my girl
  1030. 35:36and if i do threesomes really she's
  1031. 35:38taking care of me that's what i
  1032. 35:40i want i don't want her to show [ __ ]
  1033. 35:42because i i i
  1034. 35:44want to take care of her but i do want
  1035. 35:47another woman and i think most men do it
  1036. 35:50ain't a harem
  1037. 35:51but you got one girl you see another you
  1038. 35:54would love to have
  1039. 35:56your girl if your girl's pretty she's
  1040. 35:57gonna have pretty friends so if you have
  1041. 35:59your girl and another pretty girl
  1042. 36:01and they love you come on man that makes
  1043. 36:03you feel better
  1044. 36:04that makes you work harder that makes
  1045. 36:06you live better it makes you
  1046. 36:07walk straighter it does
  1047. 36:10it just it just makes you i you know
  1048. 36:14that's like a having a mutant power man
  1049. 36:16that's that makes you better than the
  1050. 36:18average [ __ ] square bone walking
  1051. 36:21around
  1052. 36:21matter of fact even if i'm not living
  1053. 36:23this
  1054. 36:25talking about it out loud makes me
  1055. 36:28have be be a little more
  1056. 36:31you know powerful than the average squad
  1057. 36:34just even
  1058. 36:34talking about it sure sure well let me
  1059. 36:37ask you like how about
  1060. 36:38then when you're viewing you know your
  1061. 36:40mother or
  1062. 36:41i don't know if you have any sisters or
  1063. 36:43anything like that is it does that color
  1064. 36:45you know when you you're like it's my
  1065. 36:47mother i love my mother right
  1066. 36:49but my mother was somebody else's
  1067. 36:53sometime man it is what it is
  1068. 36:57your mother was your father's [ __ ]
  1069. 36:58sometimes it is what it is
  1070. 37:01you didn't you didn't come here on the
  1071. 37:02store your daddy [ __ ] your mama
  1072. 37:07and at one point she wasn't always your
  1073. 37:09mom she was some [ __ ] at the club
  1074. 37:12or at the bar or waiting for the bus
  1075. 37:16or at the taxi stand or at the donut
  1076. 37:19shop
  1077. 37:20that's what the [ __ ] everybody's mother
  1078. 37:22was
  1079. 37:23and how about the way she raises her son
  1080. 37:26like [ __ ] you know should she teach her
  1081. 37:28son to respect women or should she teach
  1082. 37:30her what you're saying like
  1083. 37:31well she can't teach her she can teach
  1084. 37:33her son that's why it's rough when a
  1085. 37:35woman has to raise
  1086. 37:36a child by herself because she can't
  1087. 37:38teach a a man anything really
  1088. 37:42what can she teach him you love your
  1089. 37:44mother anyway
  1090. 37:45his mother's right that loved loved
  1091. 37:48their kids with with such
  1092. 37:50like painful passion that has nothing to
  1093. 37:53do with respecting women or not
  1094. 37:55she she she uh puts you on that
  1095. 37:58on that on the boob milk then then she's
  1096. 38:01putting you on oatmeal
  1097. 38:02and apple juice she nurses you kids for
  1098. 38:06you
  1099. 38:06fixes your cuts that ain't got nothing
  1100. 38:08to do with respecting women
  1101. 38:10that's your mother that's two different
  1102. 38:12things
  1103. 38:14let me tell you something [ __ ] and your
  1104. 38:16mother are two different things man
  1105. 38:18your father your mother is is an [ __ ]
  1106. 38:22to you she's the woman that that raised
  1107. 38:25you and
  1108. 38:26and cared and loved you uh uh uh
  1109. 38:29you know um you know unconditionally
  1110. 38:34so it has nothing to do with respect for
  1111. 38:37women man
  1112. 38:38getting your dick stuck ain't gonna know
  1113. 38:40do what your mother's lost
  1114. 38:43well no i know he's doing that goofy
  1115. 38:45[ __ ] oh you don't respect your mother
  1116. 38:48she's not a woman to me yeah
  1117. 38:51fairness my mother but i think what i
  1118. 38:54mean
  1119. 38:54she's a woman to somebody else but the
  1120. 38:56way she's taught you to behave around
  1121. 38:58women and and to you know she doesn't
  1122. 39:00taught me [ __ ]
  1123. 39:02she taught me how to respect adults and
  1124. 39:04how to she didn't teach you how to
  1125. 39:05behave in front of women
  1126. 39:07she told me to get your ass in there
  1127. 39:09take a shower [ __ ] get brush
  1128. 39:11your teeth
  1129. 39:11go to school when you get home don't eat
  1130. 39:14this food
  1131. 39:16all right well then no that's fair let's
  1132. 39:19go
  1133. 39:19fun fun don't don't pull a bitch's hair
  1134. 39:23when you're [ __ ] from
  1135. 39:26are you [ __ ] behind about all right
  1136. 39:29fair enough let me ask you this is there
  1137. 39:30anything about women that you don't
  1138. 39:32understand
  1139. 39:35yeah i do this and this is this sounds
  1140. 39:38superficial
  1141. 39:40and i think but this goes to the core of
  1142. 39:43of all the problems if i didn't want to
  1143. 39:46sleep with
  1144. 39:47you know like if a girl uh how old are
  1145. 39:50you
  1146. 39:5137 37 okay
  1147. 39:55so if if a beautiful woman uh
  1148. 39:58[ __ ] you meet a girl on a on a on a
  1149. 40:00friday
  1150. 40:01y'all talk to each other friday night
  1151. 40:03y'all will go on a date saturday and
  1152. 40:05then sunday she goes look
  1153. 40:08can i just give you some heads
  1154. 40:11most you know nine times to the 10 you
  1155. 40:13go
  1156. 40:14why would you even ask like yeah
  1157. 40:17i mean please do um you enjoy that
  1158. 40:21just on a level that you enjoy head and
  1159. 40:23she wants to give it
  1160. 40:24i never could really understand how
  1161. 40:27women
  1162. 40:29get the offer of a favor because most
  1163. 40:31guys a lot of guys will go i just want
  1164. 40:33to eat you [ __ ] or i just want to kiss
  1165. 40:34you and suck your kitties
  1166. 40:36i just want to hold you naked and
  1167. 40:39and he wants to be really enjoyable and
  1168. 40:41really
  1169. 40:42uh uh it's it's it's
  1170. 40:46very very legitimate and very passionate
  1171. 40:48and very
  1172. 40:49genuine and she might be attracted to
  1173. 40:52the guy
  1174. 40:53but women somehow sex
  1175. 40:56they can always be
  1176. 41:00talked out of out of feeling good when
  1177. 41:02it comes to sex
  1178. 41:03i never understood why i assume it's
  1179. 41:06because
  1180. 41:07they attach that to love
  1181. 41:10and maybe it's nature i don't know but i
  1182. 41:12never understood
  1183. 41:14why a woman won't feel good
  1184. 41:17in between husbands and boyfriends they
  1185. 41:21just won't
  1186. 41:22feel good and not expect nothing out of
  1187. 41:25it just feel good like
  1188. 41:26because a guy wants to enjoy this i
  1189. 41:29never
  1190. 41:30the concept is strange to me like and
  1191. 41:33i've never got a woman to truly go
  1192. 41:36here's why it it it's and maybe it's
  1193. 41:39just because
  1194. 41:40everything that they are is
  1195. 41:44is very um
  1196. 41:47attached to sex i guess
  1197. 41:51but if they seem to be very very
  1198. 41:53miserable
  1199. 41:54and then they put it on us because we're
  1200. 41:56very clear
  1201. 41:57sex is on the left and life is on the
  1202. 42:00right
  1203. 42:01and and and and sex and life are two
  1204. 42:04different things for men
  1205. 42:06you know matter of fact maybe sex is
  1206. 42:08life but for women sex ain't life
  1207. 42:10it's life insects man it's sext in life
  1208. 42:14we love like you meet a girl and you and
  1209. 42:16she likes you and you go hey let's mess
  1210. 42:17around
  1211. 42:18and it's like hey we getting along and
  1212. 42:20we get we cool let's just mess around
  1213. 42:22and it's like well i can't because
  1214. 42:26i'm i'm trying to concentrate on my life
  1215. 42:29it's like having no sex makes you
  1216. 42:31concentrate
  1217. 42:33like celibacy makes you a better person
  1218. 42:36like
  1219. 42:37not having sex [ __ ] my concentration
  1220. 42:40like if i'm not having sex for long
  1221. 42:42periods of time i get crazy i don't know
  1222. 42:44what
  1223. 42:44why i don't even know how to do math
  1224. 42:46basic math
  1225. 42:47but a woman goes i can't be i think
  1226. 42:49because if that
  1227. 42:50if they're not if they're having sex
  1228. 42:52with a guy
  1229. 42:54it it makes them lose concentration
  1230. 42:56because they're
  1231. 42:57they're doing what they naturally want
  1232. 42:59to do is let him do his thing
  1233. 43:02and they get to just be a girl they want
  1234. 43:04to be girls
  1235. 43:05it is what it is they want to be girls
  1236. 43:08they need to be girls they hate
  1237. 43:13doing what we do they hate being how we
  1238. 43:17are the way we are we're we're naturally
  1239. 43:21distant when it comes to sex we're
  1240. 43:24actually distant the thing that makes us
  1241. 43:27closer is
  1242. 43:27we get a girl that's so pretty it's like
  1243. 43:29wow she's so out of my league i don't
  1244. 43:31want to lose her
  1245. 43:32then we get attached on a possessive in
  1246. 43:35a possessive way
  1247. 43:36but we don't get to attach like oh my
  1248. 43:39dick has a connection with our retirees
  1249. 43:41it's like we might stick it in something
  1250. 43:43it is what it is it has that balance
  1251. 43:46that sex
  1252. 43:48that sex life balance for you has it
  1253. 43:50changed as you've gotten older has it
  1254. 43:52evolved have you
  1255. 43:53has your your desires shifted at all
  1256. 43:56it's always been the same
  1257. 43:56well yeah so yeah yeah yeah it has
  1258. 43:59because
  1259. 44:00i'm with a woman that you know i
  1260. 44:03i you know she loves me enough because
  1261. 44:05you you start
  1262. 44:06again you start to think of death you
  1263. 44:08start to think of mortality
  1264. 44:09you start to think of a person that you
  1265. 44:11want to make sure is okay when you're
  1266. 44:13not here you start to think of a person
  1267. 44:14that
  1268. 44:15in case you're down and out she's gonna
  1269. 44:17hold down the fort for both of you and
  1270. 44:19she loves you
  1271. 44:20if you go to jail for a couple of years
  1272. 44:22she's gonna be there for you
  1273. 44:23you think of you still start thinking of
  1274. 44:26of love but you think of it more as a
  1275. 44:30a trusted ally you know
  1276. 44:33like if you look when you first meet a
  1277. 44:35woman and and and
  1278. 44:36and there's a it's a [ __ ] pie and
  1279. 44:40and when you first meet a woman the
  1280. 44:41whole pie is made of a [ __ ]
  1281. 44:43you know if it's a pie section the whole
  1282. 44:46pie
  1283. 44:48it's trying to get it and having it is
  1284. 44:50the entire pie
  1285. 44:52then as you move along you get closer to
  1286. 44:54this person sex becomes a
  1287. 44:56way smaller piece of the pie um
  1288. 45:00the the the importance of sex becomes a
  1289. 45:03slice of the pie
  1290. 45:04maybe two slices but there's a lot of
  1291. 45:07other
  1292. 45:08things that make up the pie as you grow
  1293. 45:10together
  1294. 45:11you trust her you you you
  1295. 45:14um are you love how much she loves you
  1296. 45:17you love that she's a good person and
  1297. 45:20you you just you love that she loves
  1298. 45:23love love it's just you're into
  1299. 45:27you're into this this woman as a as
  1300. 45:31a joint partner in your
  1301. 45:34in in how you want to do things man you
  1302. 45:37it's good to trust a woman you know
  1303. 45:40she's what she did for you it's good to
  1304. 45:42be able to get some [ __ ]
  1305. 45:43anytime you want i mean i realize
  1306. 45:45sometimes i go on the road
  1307. 45:47and i don't [ __ ] around with my girl you
  1308. 45:49know and and i'm
  1309. 45:50i'm you know my my conscience is clear
  1310. 45:53my life is clear
  1311. 45:54everything's good and i don't see it for
  1312. 45:56a couple of weeks i get back man that
  1313. 45:58person is brand new man
  1314. 46:00ass is new [ __ ] new titties new
  1315. 46:03i just fought through that didn't jerk
  1316. 46:05off and you go okay this is what it
  1317. 46:07takes
  1318. 46:08cause she's not new anymore but you
  1319. 46:09gotta figure out how to make her new
  1320. 46:11i mean threesome sometimes makes
  1321. 46:12everything new because you get that
  1322. 46:14thing out and then you you you you
  1323. 46:16really are into the fact that
  1324. 46:18you have a girl that'll let you mess
  1325. 46:20with another girl
  1326. 46:21and um and and and you like damn that
  1327. 46:25feels good
  1328. 46:26you know because she knows that i need a
  1329. 46:28little little something
  1330. 46:29and she let that happen without
  1331. 46:32you know without with relative v's and
  1332. 46:35you go man
  1333. 46:36you don't you don't love this other
  1334. 46:38chick you love
  1335. 46:40your girl you go oh thank god
  1336. 46:44she let me do that and what a trooper
  1337. 46:47and then you love her more
  1338. 46:50because of that you know you love her
  1339. 46:54more
  1340. 46:55because she's because she's doing what
  1341. 46:56you need to be happy
  1342. 46:59it's basically she's selling you what
  1343. 47:00you need and and
  1344. 47:02and again all the demands that are
  1345. 47:05set for
  1346. 47:08for us it's a lot more than a set for
  1347. 47:13them
  1348. 47:13so when you set a demand for for for
  1349. 47:17for us you know we got to be happy to
  1350. 47:20give
  1351. 47:20them their demands they they just have a
  1352. 47:23lot of wants and needs
  1353. 47:25and and i got to be on top of my game to
  1354. 47:27get rid of those wants in need so
  1355. 47:29it takes a little bit of happiness and
  1356. 47:31really what what do
  1357. 47:32what do men need though i mean if you
  1358. 47:35look at what men need
  1359. 47:36and then you look at what happens when
  1360. 47:39men
  1361. 47:40[ __ ] up the relationship it's usually
  1362. 47:43be cheated so so all women have to do
  1363. 47:47is is to come off this traditional
  1364. 47:50third world or prehistoric ideas
  1365. 47:54about uh uh monogamy and
  1366. 47:57commitment and look at what we need and
  1367. 48:00look at what we are looking
  1368. 48:01look at look at first of all see
  1369. 48:04cheating has always seemed to be some
  1370. 48:06[ __ ]
  1371. 48:07that pieces of pieces of [ __ ] guys do
  1372. 48:10low-level
  1373. 48:11doggy bums right look who's getting far
  1374. 48:13cheated look
  1375. 48:14who we're going to talk about in the
  1376. 48:15last four years look at the names the
  1377. 48:18list of
  1378. 48:19high level dudes who get caught doing
  1379. 48:22scumbag [ __ ] in an alleyway with a dirty
  1380. 48:26ass waitress and he's a billionaire
  1381. 48:28that tells you something that tells you
  1382. 48:31something interesting
  1383. 48:32and women refuse to to submit
  1384. 48:36to our issues are we always submitting
  1385. 48:40it as
  1386. 48:41you know we don't have periods every
  1387. 48:43month but we [ __ ] have a feeling like
  1388. 48:45we want to we want to
  1389. 48:46get some some some side some side booty
  1390. 48:50and and most men do and they won't
  1391. 48:53submit but we submit to the fact they
  1392. 48:54bleed every month
  1393. 48:55with no problem because it's a it's a
  1394. 48:58visual
  1395. 48:59um uh proof of their issues
  1396. 49:03we don't have no visual proof of our
  1397. 49:05issues isn't it that we do
  1398. 49:07allow it in our society we just lie
  1399. 49:09about it i mean doesn't everyone really
  1400. 49:10know that this is going on because yeah
  1401. 49:12we lie about it we have to
  1402. 49:15but and i think women like lie about it
  1403. 49:17too
  1404. 49:18i'm an [ __ ] when people listen to
  1405. 49:20this [ __ ]
  1406. 49:21i'ma be an [ __ ] to to most people
  1407. 49:26but i'm not saying anything that that's
  1408. 49:29wrong
  1409. 49:30don't you think on some some level most
  1410. 49:32people know it's no there's some element
  1411. 49:33of truth to it though especi especially
  1412. 49:35about the cheating thing i mean it's
  1413. 49:36true
  1414. 49:37yeah the [ __ ] truth hurts look
  1415. 49:40medicine
  1416. 49:41is um you know medicine is interesting
  1417. 49:46if you have a cold there's two kind of
  1418. 49:48medicines you can take you can take
  1419. 49:49cherry flavored real pertussis
  1420. 49:51or you can take buckley's okay and
  1421. 49:54if you've ever had buckley's you would
  1422. 49:56think that buckley's was
  1423. 49:58poison you would think you took
  1424. 50:01a shot of poison it's so horrid
  1425. 50:05but you feel better tomorrow
  1426. 50:09cherry flavored rebel testing might take
  1427. 50:11you three days so you can i could give
  1428. 50:13it to you
  1429. 50:14in cherry flavor rover tusson but if i
  1430. 50:17give it to you
  1431. 50:18in buckley's you'd be fine right after
  1432. 50:20you'll be fine
  1433. 50:21right now you'll start to feel better
  1434. 50:23because you know
  1435. 50:24that here here it is in your face but if
  1436. 50:27i give it to you
  1437. 50:29with a little cherry in it then you're
  1438. 50:30like um
  1439. 50:32okay okay then you can feel better
  1440. 50:35but you really won't get better it'll
  1441. 50:37just taste better
  1442. 50:38so the fact is we know and women know
  1443. 50:42women know they that's that's why
  1444. 50:44they're so mad because they
  1445. 50:45they really hate this they hate the
  1446. 50:47truth
  1447. 50:48the truth is they sit down to pee man
  1448. 50:52that's it
  1449. 50:56[Music]

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