The Intuition Expert: Red Light Green Light Intuition, The Barking Dog, Self-Love As The Only Exit — Transcript
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- 0:00She went, uprooted her life, left her
- 0:02job in Chicago, did everything, and
- 0:04within 36 days, the company collapsed.
- 0:08She lost everything.
- 0:09>> I suddenly want a partner.
- 0:11>> I didn't believe you at all. Look at my
- 0:13eyes. Am I here?
- 0:14>> No.
- 0:15>> You weren't here. Look in your eyes now
- 0:17and feel the smile. That's the spirit.
- 0:19>> That is insane.
- 0:21>> No, the energies are not aligned. Let's
- 0:23align them, and then [clears throat] we
- 0:25flow.
- 0:25>> My googly spun when you said that.
- 0:27>> You have angels for all things because
- 0:29angels serve God, and God wants you to
- 0:31find your way back to the divine. I can
- 0:34guarantee you what isn't working now
- 0:36won't work in the future.
- 0:37>> What would you say is the biggest
- 0:38blocker for me?
- 0:40>> You're a brilliant, bright soul that has
- 0:43a little bit too much of your ego making
- 0:46the choices still, and you know it.
- 0:49>> New York Times bestselling author,
- 0:51author to over 30 books, spiritual
- 0:54teacher with over 40 years as an
- 0:55intuitive guide, a PhD in metaphysics,
- 0:59and the 22 laws and soul mastery was
- 1:01taught to you by your spiritual
- 1:02teachers.
- 1:03So, you're coming here today to
- 1:05basically bless us with incredible
- 1:06wisdom, and I'm so excited for this
- 1:08conversation. Can you just tell us
- 1:11how would you explain intuition to
- 1:12someone who's just trying to figure it
- 1:15out for the first time? So, they are
- 1:17someone who has been conditioned so much
- 1:19by society to just think in their head
- 1:21all the time. What is intuition?
- 1:23>> I like to start with saying that the
- 1:25word itself intuition actually means
- 1:28inner teacher.
- 1:30So, first of all, it is
- 1:32your
- 1:34core inner
- 1:36frequency, your true nature. You are not
- 1:40thoughts, you are not a body, you are
- 1:42not emotions. You're navigating through
- 1:44these
- 1:45tools of expression in the third
- 1:47dimension, but your essence
- 1:50is spirit.
- 1:51>> Mhm.
- 1:52>> And we have inner senses that correspond
- 1:55to the outer senses.
- 1:57Intuition communicates
- 2:00through the senses. The communication
- 2:02itself is intuition. It is the broadcast
- 2:07from your spirit.
- 2:09True authentic self that is alerting you
- 2:12energetically
- 2:14to where you are aligned and coherent
- 2:18and in flow with your true divine nature
- 2:21and where you drift.
- 2:23So, intuition is the broadcast, the
- 2:26energetic broadcast that comes in gut
- 2:30feeling or agitation in the heart or
- 2:33hairs on the back of your neck because
- 2:35it's a real energy. It is not a
- 2:38metaphor. It is a energetic
- 2:41communication
- 2:43like red alert or go for it or hold on.
- 2:47And I've actually simplified it that the
- 2:49communication
- 2:52the intuition is communicating your true
- 2:54self.
- 2:56Your divine nature, your authentic self,
- 2:59your divine nature,
- 3:01your coherent aligned being.
- 3:04So, intuition is the conversation that
- 3:08is constantly energetically guiding you
- 3:11through life, through your choices,
- 3:13through your environment, all the
- 3:16opportunities you meet to grow
- 3:17emotionally and ambition wise and
- 3:20familial. The earth is school and your
- 3:23intuition is the constant broadcast
- 3:27to keep you true to yourself.
- 3:29Keep you intact and empowered and
- 3:31connected to your source energy.
- 3:34Throughout history, people have not
- 3:36wanted us to be that empowered.
- 3:38>> Mhm.
- 3:38>> So, it was maligned. It was It was
- 3:41dismissed. It was We were told that we
- 3:44don't have the authority
- 3:46>> Yeah.
- 3:47>> to be that empowered.
- 3:48>> Yeah.
- 3:49>> That has reached a peak now where to
- 3:52give our authority away
- 3:55is collapsing.
- 3:57It isn't working. We can no longer trust
- 3:59the external authority figures. Our Our
- 4:02confidence in churches is collapsing.
- 4:05Our confidence in political leaders is
- 4:07collapsing. Our lives with our jobs are
- 4:09collapsing
- 4:10>> Yeah.
- 4:11>> because the world is in such a
- 4:12tremendous flux. Nothing We can't turn
- 4:16our authority over to external leaders
- 4:19and guides and say, "Okay, I'm just
- 4:21going to follow you."
- 4:22>> Yep.
- 4:22>> So, intuition
- 4:24is finally being revisited.
- 4:27It's being reconsidered, but we do have
- 4:29to plow through all of that negativity
- 4:31and and all that that messaging that
- 4:35this is weird, this is woo-woo, this is
- 4:37nonsense, this is
- 4:39religiously in insulting, this is Satan.
- 4:43I mean, believe me, I've been in the
- 4:45field for
- 4:46my whole life
- 4:48taking so much flak for being the
- 4:51messenger saying, "No, this is who we
- 4:53are."
- 4:53>> Mhm.
- 4:54>> So, it's not something
- 4:56you have, it's the communication of who
- 4:59you authentically are getting your
- 5:01attention.
- 5:03And it's not one size fits all.
- 5:05Nor is it consistent in how it gets your
- 5:08attention. You might get a gut feeling.
- 5:10Now, the first level of attention is
- 5:13going to be warnings. I call that red
- 5:16light intuition, and this is what most
- 5:18people will recognize as intuition, but
- 5:22it's also what makes them uncomfortable
- 5:24because it's the warning. Oh, that's
- 5:26bad. That's the bad vibe because your
- 5:29first line of inner guidance from your
- 5:31true self is, "You're putting yourself
- 5:33in danger."
- 5:34>> Mhm.
- 5:35>> I'm [clears throat] going to let you
- 5:35know and help you revisit that choice or
- 5:38those decisions that are drifting this
- 5:41way.
- 5:42That's what I call red light intuition.
- 5:45Gut feeling intuition, protective.
- 5:47That's the first the first broadcast.
- 5:50>> This is like when you see when like
- 5:53you can feel a narcissist, for example.
- 5:54>> Yes, like you're walking down the street
- 5:56and all of a sudden you have a a
- 5:58genuinely bad feeling.
- 6:01>> Right.
- 6:01>> Now, we have to look at the word feeling
- 6:03because it's a word that's confusing.
- 6:06It's a word most people understand as
- 6:08emotion.
- 6:09But it's actually sensation.
- 6:12>> Mhm.
- 6:12>> I am energetically sensing
- 6:16an intention or a situation that is not
- 6:20aligned with my well-being. Someone's
- 6:23walking behind me vibing that I'm going
- 6:26to rob you, I'm going to pick that up.
- 6:29I'm going to sense it.
- 6:30>> Mhm.
- 6:31>> Our conditioning, and especially for
- 6:33women,
- 6:33>> Yeah.
- 6:34>> is oh, be nice.
- 6:35Ignore that, you know, that's you're
- 6:38you're you're too sensitive. And then
- 6:39they get
- 6:41>> Yeah.
- 6:41>> They get um they become victims.
- 6:43>> Yeah.
- 6:44>> So that's the first line of
- 6:45communication. The second line of
- 6:47communication from the self is to alert
- 6:50you where something is totally aligned.
- 6:53Go for this. This is a good idea. And
- 6:56it's important because this often will
- 6:58fly in the face of external influences,
- 7:01conditioning, authority that says you
- 7:04should do this and this is the right
- 7:05path and you want to be the doctor or
- 7:08the lawyer because the family wants
- 7:09that, but your inner self says no.
- 7:13>> Mhm.
- 7:13>> I'm an artist. Like in your case, I'm a
- 7:15dancer. I'm a creator.
- 7:17I'm not a follower.
- 7:18>> Yeah.
- 7:19>> So that is green-lighted intuition,
- 7:21which is just as important cuz it keeps
- 7:23you
- 7:24faithful to who you are.
- 7:27And it it gives you the energy
- 7:31physically, the sensation
- 7:33of relaxation and expansion.
- 7:37Red-light
- 7:39communication is contract, protect.
- 7:42>> Yeah.
- 7:43>> Pay attention. Be present.
- 7:46Get out of wherever your head is. Green
- 7:48light is
- 7:49open up, lean in. Let's go for it. Let's
- 7:53do this. Even and it gets strong because
- 7:55you're
- 7:56likely
- 7:58to meet resistance and rejection.
- 8:02You know, very few people say that their
- 8:05their peer group or their family of
- 8:07origin or their close personal intimates
- 8:09are going to say you go for it. You do
- 8:11that. You trust that that desire.
- 8:14They'll say oh be careful that you're
- 8:15going to fail because
- 8:17it's a great deal of inner authority.
- 8:20It's your spirit saying this is who you
- 8:24are.
- 8:26We're going to help you. You are
- 8:27connected to a universal force that
- 8:29wants you
- 8:31to express your best self.
- 8:33And so that green light comes and that's
- 8:35when you you just like I can't this is
- 8:38where people say I can't explain it
- 8:40because you cannot. It is not logically
- 8:43driven.
- 8:45But I have to do this.
- 8:47Something tells me and that something is
- 8:49your core self, your true nature, your
- 8:51spirit.
- 8:53And then we have pause. I call that
- 8:55pause which is that
- 8:56your the energies are always moving.
- 9:00And sometimes you just have to wait
- 9:02while the external energies are
- 9:04settling. Okay. So I don't know why I
- 9:08didn't sign that contract today. But I
- 9:11know it's the path to go but maybe in
- 9:13this moment something's preventing me
- 9:15from
- 9:17doing it today. So it it creates in the
- 9:20mind ambivalence when in fact there's
- 9:22nothing ambivalent. It's just not the
- 9:24right time. Yeah. I had a client
- 9:27that I worked with. This is in the first
- 9:31surge cuz I've been around a long time
- 9:33in the first surge of technology. In the
- 9:35first dot com. It was the first surge
- 9:37and I had a client who wanted to move to
- 9:40San Francisco and join a startup and
- 9:42they were going gangbusters. I mean it
- 9:45was really quite quite like AI right
- 9:47now. Just insane
- 9:49exponential growth in in weeks and
- 9:53she came and said I don't I don't know I
- 9:56don't know why. It's everything I want I
- 9:58want to leave Chicago where she was at
- 10:01the time. I want to go.
- 10:03My body won't let me go because again it
- 10:05is an energy. Her spirit was not
- 10:09aligning with what appeared to be her
- 10:11opportunity.
- 10:12>> Wow.
- 10:13>> So, she ignored it.
- 10:15She went.
- 10:16Her Everybody said, "You got to go.
- 10:18Seize the day. Do whatever." We had
- 10:20several conversations. She said, "You
- 10:21know what? I think it's just fear. I'm
- 10:22going to go."
- 10:24>> [snorts]
- 10:24>> She went, uprooted her life, left her
- 10:27job in Chicago, did everything, and
- 10:29within 36 days,
- 10:32the company collapsed. The dot-com
- 10:34collapsed. She lost everything.
- 10:37>> But she wrote over wrote it.
- 10:39And it took an effort.
- 10:42It took an effort to override it. And
- 10:44this is what I want people to think that
- 10:46to pay attention to is that
- 10:48intuition rises. It is our conditioning.
- 10:52Every single baby in the room can read
- 10:55the energy.
- 10:56>> Mhm.
- 10:57>> Uh we come in with our inner senses
- 10:59turned on. We are connected
- 11:02>> Yeah.
- 11:02>> to not [snorts] only who we are, but
- 11:04where we come from, and all the forces
- 11:07of support.
- 11:08>> Right.
- 11:09>> But we just have been gaslit.
- 11:12>> Interesting. Yeah.
- 11:13>> And it's ending. That's what's exciting
- 11:15is it's ending. So, I first say
- 11:17intuition is a felt physical sense.
- 11:22However, it is it's subtle.
- 11:26And it's it runs the same channels as
- 11:29your emotions because it runs through
- 11:31your nervous system.
- 11:33So, people get confused. How is it my
- 11:35emotion? Is it my emotion? I thought it
- 11:37was my intuition. So, here's where you
- 11:39have to start
- 11:41getting quiet
- 11:43enough,
- 11:45going inward, and starting to use
- 11:47discernment.
- 11:49Discernment means pay attention to the
- 11:51subtle.
- 11:52Because intuition
- 11:54doesn't feel at all like emotion.
- 11:57Emotion is like a bouncing ball.
- 11:59Emotion is energetically
- 12:02um
- 12:03very active.
- 12:05It's very intense. It either expands, it
- 12:08collapses, it surges, it pulls back.
- 12:12Intuition is consistent.
- 12:14It doesn't jump around. Your emotions
- 12:17say, "This is right, but I'm afraid.
- 12:19What if I make a mess?"
- 12:21And your intuition will say,
- 12:22"Nevertheless,
- 12:24nevertheless,
- 12:25do this."
- 12:27And
- 12:27we have a language problem again because
- 12:30we we use the word say
- 12:33>> Mhm.
- 12:34>> because it's communicating.
- 12:36But
- 12:37it's not necessarily communicating in
- 12:39words.
- 12:40It's com- I say intuition communicates
- 12:43like music.
- 12:44You can hear a piece piece of music with
- 12:46no words and get a whole story.
- 12:48>> Yeah.
- 12:49>> That's the same as intuition. It is
- 12:51conveying
- 12:53a whole
- 12:55message to you.
- 12:56>> Mhm.
- 12:57>> That is either go for it or pull back or
- 12:59hold on or not right or pay attention or
- 13:03something's off and it's very subtle.
- 13:07But it's very consistent because it's
- 13:09you.
- 13:10>> I really want to unpack this because I'm
- 13:11just thinking there's people listening
- 13:14who aren't used to understanding
- 13:17the bridge between the spiritual world
- 13:18and the material world.
- 13:19>> Mhm.
- 13:20>> And so, on a practical level, say for
- 13:22example, you have person A and
- 13:25they've just met someone. And they're
- 13:27wondering whether this person is the
- 13:28right person for them.
- 13:29>> Right.
- 13:30>> And so, they can't decide whether it's
- 13:32their intuition or if their fear holding
- 13:34them back. Cuz they're like, "Well, I
- 13:36want to be with this person, but then
- 13:38I'm not sure. Am I seeing red flags? Is
- 13:40it my intuition picking up the red
- 13:41flags? Is it just me being in my head?"
- 13:43>> Right.
- 13:43>> How do you distinguish that?
- 13:44>> Well, the first thing I say is pump the
- 13:46brakes.
- 13:47>> Mhm.
- 13:48>> Go back to your breath.
- 13:49Get back to your body.
- 13:51Because you have to be centered in
- 13:53yourself to be able to tune into
- 13:56accurate accurate information versus
- 13:58emotional surge.
- 14:01Secondly,
- 14:03acknowledge what you want from the
- 14:04situation.
- 14:06Do I just want a partner?
- 14:08Did I really enjoy that person? And it
- 14:12it requires a self
- 14:14a a self-inventory of honesty.
- 14:17Did I really like that person? Do I
- 14:19really Did I find him attractive or her
- 14:21attractive? Was Were we Did we laugh?
- 14:23Did we have fun? What about it? Or do I
- 14:25just not want to be alone? What do I
- 14:27want apart from that person?
- 14:30Because your own motivations can
- 14:32override your own ambition can override
- 14:35your intuition.
- 14:36>> Mhm.
- 14:37>> If you're not checking it, you can have
- 14:39what you want, but you have to be honest
- 14:40about it.
- 14:41>> Right.
- 14:42>> And then the second way to really get
- 14:45very quickly
- 14:46to your intuition
- 14:48is to have do a tool I call empty the
- 14:50garbage.
- 14:51And empty the garbage is your fears.
- 14:53>> Mhm.
- 14:54>> And you can't do it mentally.
- 14:56You have to do it verbally. So,
- 14:58is there anything you intuitively want
- 15:00to know
- 15:01and you're not clear? We'll do it right
- 15:03now.
- 15:03>> Yes, actually. Yeah.
- 15:05>> Okay, let's go.
- 15:06>> Okay.
- 15:06>> I'll give you a caveat. It has to be a
- 15:08genuinely You have to be genuinely
- 15:10available for guidance. You want You
- 15:13have to be genuinely available to check
- 15:16in with what your intuition, your true
- 15:19self says.
- 15:20And
- 15:22you don't have to listen to it.
- 15:24>> Okay.
- 15:24>> But you might want to consider it. So, I
- 15:26always say, just get the get the insight
- 15:28and then you can choose.
- 15:30What are you genuinely interested in
- 15:32exploring?
- 15:33>> I have someone in my life who I'm
- 15:35deciding whether
- 15:37I should commit to long term.
- 15:40>> Okay, perfect. That's perfect cuz it's
- 15:42real.
- 15:43>> Okay.
- 15:44>> Okay, so apart from that person,
- 15:47what do you want right now in your life?
- 15:51Do you want a partner? Do you not want a
- 15:53partner? Do you want someone on standby?
- 15:55What's the truth?
- 15:58In the moment, it can change tomorrow.
- 16:01>> I certainly want a partner, yeah.
- 16:03>> Okay, now I am energetically, and so are
- 16:06you, feeling all kinds of ambivalence in
- 16:09that statement. That was about as clear
- 16:11as a
- 16:12sack of you know, a bunch of stones on
- 16:15the ground.
- 16:16I didn't believe you at all. Did you?
- 16:19>> I yeah, I I
- 16:20>> [laughter]
- 16:20>> See?
- 16:22It's energy. The energy is
- 16:25So, no, you certainly don't You
- 16:27certainly don't yet fully
- 16:30that statement doesn't resonate as true
- 16:32right now.
- 16:33>> Mhm.
- 16:36>> It has nothing to do with this person.
- 16:38>> Yeah.
- 16:38>> It has to do with
- 16:40what that involves of you.
- 16:42>> Um
- 16:43>> So, what's the truth?
- 16:44>> I'm
- 16:45transitioning between the avoidant
- 16:47attachment style to the secure. So
- 16:49>> Okay, that's very intellectual. So, we
- 16:50know that intellectually. So, you have
- 16:52your whole argument for this, and I can
- 16:54respect that, but let's go back to what
- 16:56is the truth?
- 16:57>> Uh the truth is I want a partner under
- 17:01the circumstance that I can still be me
- 17:04and pursue what I want to pursue in the
- 17:06way that I want to pursue it.
- 17:07>> Okay, so that sounds very unavailable to
- 17:10true partnership.
- 17:11>> Mhm.
- 17:11>> Cuz if you were going into business,
- 17:13would you say that to a business
- 17:15partner? I want you to be here. I want
- 17:17you to invest in me, but I want to do
- 17:19everything myself. Can you feel the
- 17:21dissonance in this?
- 17:23>> Mhm.
- 17:23>> There's dissonance. Can you feel it
- 17:25yourself? I can say it, but what will
- 17:27make a difference is can you feel where
- 17:30you lose energy?
- 17:32It just
- 17:33>> Yep.
- 17:34>> Yeah, see, intuition is truth serum.
- 17:38Okay.
- 17:39So, I want a partner,
- 17:41but I fear. So, let's go to my second
- 17:43tool. What are you afraid of?
- 17:45We're going to empty the garbage. Just
- 17:46fill in the blank. Real fast.
- 17:48I'm afraid of
- 17:50>> I'm afraid of picking the wrong partner.
- 17:51>> I'm afraid of
- 17:53>> losing myself.
- 17:54>> I'm afraid of
- 17:55>> them holding me back in what I want to
- 17:57do.
- 17:57>> But I would say
- 17:59as you're getting way ahead of yourself.
- 18:01I would say you've met someone you're
- 18:02very enthusiastic about,
- 18:05but you have no good model and no good
- 18:07experience of relationships, so you're
- 18:09colliding.
- 18:10>> Interesting.
- 18:11>> So, get the real problem. The problem is
- 18:14you're wonderful, but my [clears throat]
- 18:15model of relationship
- 18:18really stinks.
- 18:19>> Mhm.
- 18:19>> want that.
- 18:21I don't want that. I don't want what I
- 18:23feel a relationship implies.
- 18:26Which really is more of some sort of
- 18:29loss of freedom. Somehow loss of genuine
- 18:33So, I would say
- 18:35it's not about long-term partnership.
- 18:36It's about getting clear about what kind
- 18:39of
- 18:40partnership speaks to you that doesn't
- 18:42feel threatening.
- 18:43>> Yep.
- 18:44>> Is everything you are in no way
- 18:46available. You just want her on standby
- 18:49or him or whomever on standby.
- 18:51>> Mhm.
- 18:51>> You stay there
- 18:53and [snorts] you just be nice and steady
- 18:55and convince me it's safe. But, no
- 18:57partner who would do that would keep
- 18:59your interest long-term.
- 19:01>> Mhm.
- 19:02>> That would keep your interest.
- 19:04You need more from a person than
- 19:06somebody who's just going to hold space
- 19:08for you to be all that. This is kind of
- 19:11what I do with a reading. It's like,
- 19:12"No, no. The energies are not aligned.
- 19:15Let's align them
- 19:16>> Yep.
- 19:17>> and then we flow."
- 19:19So, I would say two things. I really
- 19:21like you.
- 19:22I don't really have any sense of what a
- 19:25partnership that would work for me
- 19:27looks like. So, I got to work out all my
- 19:30obstacles because you're kind of
- 19:31sabotaged.
- 19:33I'm not available.
- 19:36And you're too important to me to
- 19:38sabotage you.
- 19:39>> Yep.
- 19:39>> So, let's just hang out and keep
- 19:40building a friendship and have some good
- 19:42times, but let's
- 19:44I got some clearing to do.
- 19:46>> So, the interest of read is that
- 19:49>> that you want that you're cake and eat
- 19:50it, too.
- 19:52>> Because I there are things that I still
- 19:53need to work on
- 19:55in order to be able to be with this
- 19:56person.
- 19:57>> So, let me ask you this. Does any of
- 19:59that resonate as true for you?
- 20:01>> Yeah, there's definitely dissonance. I
- 20:03have past traumas from relationships
- 20:06>> Mhm.
- 20:07>> where I've been held back
- 20:09or I've been cheated on
- 20:10>> Right.
- 20:11>> or I've just not been the happiest.
- 20:14>> Right.
- 20:15>> And it's been very toxic.
- 20:17>> All of that and slugging through all of
- 20:19that could take years.
- 20:20>> Mhm.
- 20:21>> I think you know that cuz I think you've
- 20:22been focused on that to some degree.
- 20:25>> Yeah.
- 20:25>> But now I'm going to speak directly to
- 20:27your soul.
- 20:28>> Mhm.
- 20:28>> Which is the source of your intuition,
- 20:30your spirit.
- 20:32Do you really feel threatened
- 20:34by that soul?
- 20:36>> That person?
- 20:37>> Mhm.
- 20:38>> No.
- 20:38>> Okay. Well, that's what you know to be
- 20:40true and just keep that there.
- 20:42>> Yeah.
- 20:42>> Cuz what is causing all your stuff is
- 20:45not that person.
- 20:46>> No, it's not.
- 20:47>> No, that is your direct experience is
- 20:49not at all that. So, you're just
- 20:50bringing all this laundry.
- 20:54I got to do all this laundry and maybe
- 20:55you want to do it. I'll come back.
- 20:58But the truth is and see how I look in
- 21:00your eyes now and feel the smile. That's
- 21:02the spirit. You can't hold it back and
- 21:05you feel it your whole body just
- 21:06changed.
- 21:07>> Yeah.
- 21:07>> And that's the truth and that's what I
- 21:09do. That's what intuition does. Gets
- 21:12beyond that pile and pile and pile of
- 21:15human drama
- 21:17and says, "What's the truth?" And see
- 21:18how your vibes open, the energy in your
- 21:21body's excited, your spirit can't help
- 21:23but smile. The light is back in your
- 21:26eyes
- 21:28and that's [snorts] what you can trust.
- 21:30See how it changed you?
- 21:31>> Yeah, that is wild.
- 21:32>> Yeah, and it's visible.
- 21:34Isn't it?
- 21:35>> That is insane.
- 21:36>> turning the lights back on.
- 21:38>> Wow.
- 21:39>> So, you can just go there.
- 21:41>> How can someone go there if they weren't
- 21:43sitting with you right now?
- 21:44Like you took me there.
- 21:45>> Same tools.
- 21:46The tools I Now, you got my
- 21:47transmission, cuz I was definitely
- 21:50transmitting a strong reflection back to
- 21:52you of don't tolerate all this mental
- 21:54chaos. It's just toxic to you.
- 21:57>> Yeah.
- 21:58>> Your story, your history, what human
- 22:00hasn't had that ping-pong ball machine?
- 22:03That's just life.
- 22:05>> Yeah.
- 22:05>> But underneath all that, you have access
- 22:08to your true self, which can identify
- 22:12what's truly aligned or not.
- 22:15>> Mhm.
- 22:15>> And it has nothing to do with your
- 22:17history. It has to do with being
- 22:19present.
- 22:20So, what do I really want?
- 22:23What are my objections and fears? And
- 22:25then all Okay, empty the garbage.
- 22:30Now, let's get back to what's important.
- 22:32What's the truth? Do you truly feel?
- 22:36Never ask if it's right. That just goes
- 22:38right into the garbage.
- 22:40I asked you, what's the truth?
- 22:42>> Oh, yes.
- 22:44>> Boom.
- 22:45>> [clears throat]
- 22:45>> That's the truth.
- 22:46>> it right there.
- 22:47>> Yeah.
- 22:48>> Right and wrong is going to put you in
- 22:50the nightmare
- 22:51>> Yeah.
- 22:52>> of logic and emotion and protection and
- 22:54drama.
- 22:56Yeah, I got to work on that, but the
- 22:58truth is this person.
- 23:00It's good. I can't stop that.
- 23:03>> Mhm.
- 23:04>> Same with the job or same with anything.
- 23:06The ego always wants you to be safe and
- 23:09in control.
- 23:10>> Yeah.
- 23:11>> So, it's going to give you the whole
- 23:14set of things that have to be in place
- 23:16before you are, and it's all a lie.
- 23:19>> Wow.
- 23:20>> So, this is what I teach. Intuition
- 23:23isn't How can you be safe and in control
- 23:25and avoid trouble? It's like, no. How
- 23:27can you be you and live unencumbered
- 23:32with all that sabotage?
- 23:35>> Mhm.
- 23:36>> Your spirit is not vulnerable.
- 23:40Your spirit is not fragile. Your spirit
- 23:44is divine, exponentially
- 23:47powerful, and divinely supported. It's
- 23:50your ego
- 23:52that has all that trouble.
- 23:53>> Yeah.
- 23:54>> And we all have one. Einstein said it
- 23:57first. He said that human spirit is your
- 23:58gift.
- 24:00And the [snorts] rational mind is the
- 24:01faithful servant.
- 24:03>> Mhm. I love that.
- 24:04>> Sadly, we've thrown away the gift. See,
- 24:06I just reconnected you back to the gift.
- 24:08>> Yes.
- 24:09>> And we've become enslaved to the
- 24:11servant. Well, I'm judgment avoidant,
- 24:15and I've had this and that. That's the
- 24:16servant. That's the So, my teacher said,
- 24:19cuz it comes from the tarot, which is an
- 24:22image that is the book of spirit is the
- 24:25fool.
- 24:26The fool is the spirit. It The name of
- 24:28the fool in that card is aleph. It means
- 24:31breath.
- 24:32The spirit.
- 24:34And in the image, cuz images
- 24:36[clears throat]
- 24:37reveal to us who we are.
- 24:38>> Mhm.
- 24:40>> The fool is about to step into life.
- 24:42He's about ready to step into the human
- 24:44experience. He's right into step off the
- 24:46cliff.
- 24:47And he has a rose in his hand. That's
- 24:49your desire. That's the desire to
- 24:51create.
- 24:52>> Yep.
- 24:53>> [snorts]
- 24:53>> And he has a uh satchel on a stick on
- 24:56his shoulder. That's your talents and
- 24:58tools, what you're going to use to
- 24:59create.
- 25:01And at his feet he has a little white
- 25:02dog, and that is your ego.
- 25:05>> What?
- 25:05>> Companion.
- 25:07To help you.
- 25:08>> Yeah.
- 25:08>> Your intellect, your ego.
- 25:10But he's a companion. So I say your
- 25:12ego's your barking dog.
- 25:14So don't let your barking dog
- 25:16>> Right.
- 25:16>> drive the bus of your life.
- 25:19Are you going to just go around and
- 25:20around and around in noisy circles?
- 25:23Go back to the spirit.
- 25:25You know.
- 25:27It resonates and it's not no.
- 25:31>> Right.
- 25:31>> But what happened with you is what
- 25:33happens when you reconnect. You turned
- 25:35on like a Christmas tree.
- 25:36>> Mhm.
- 25:37>> It's a surge of energy of your spirit.
- 25:40It's powerful. Did you in that moment
- 25:42feel any fear at all?
- 25:44>> No.
- 25:44>> Yeah, it's nice, isn't it?
- 25:46>> That was what was crazy. Like the
- 25:47experience I was feeling was like a It
- 25:49was a peaceful feeling, but also like a
- 25:52a strong knowing and like clarity at the
- 25:54same time. It was just
- 25:55>> Alignment.
- 25:56>> Yeah.
- 25:56>> Connection. That's what we need to learn
- 26:00again.
- 26:00>> Mhm.
- 26:01>> That's what I teach. If it's too noisy,
- 26:04it's too complicated, the story's too
- 26:07long, barking dog.
- 26:09>> Right.
- 26:10>> So you don't shoot the dog.
- 26:12>> Mhm.
- 26:12>> You train the dog.
- 26:13>> Mhm.
- 26:14>> And just empty the garbage.
- 26:16Identify the agenda.
- 26:19And then ask yourself what's the truth?
- 26:22Because your intuition isn't a needle in
- 26:24a haystack.
- 26:26It's right there.
- 26:27Your guidance, your soul is
- 26:29communicating all the time.
- 26:32>> Mhm.
- 26:33>> You just have to be honest and you have
- 26:34to want it.
- 26:37>> Yeah.
- 26:38>> want that truth.
- 26:39A lot of people don't want it.
- 26:42That's changing, but a lot of people
- 26:44don't want it.
- 26:45>> You speak about intuition as though it's
- 26:47something so much bigger than just this
- 26:48what we're experiencing in this body.
- 26:50>> It's a connection to your spirit and to
- 26:53your source and to your divine support
- 26:56system.
- 26:57>> Can you expand that?
- 26:58For a while there.
- 26:59>> We are spirit.
- 27:00>> Mhm.
- 27:01>> We are energy. Now, finally quantum
- 27:03physics caught up and said as starting
- 27:05to say this. Every neuroscientist who's
- 27:07who's coming online now by the dozens is
- 27:09like, "Guess what? We're spirits." I'm
- 27:12like, "Well, yeah. It's been around for
- 27:14a thousand years. Glad you caught up.
- 27:16Really glad you caught up cuz you've
- 27:18been causing the problem.
- 27:20So, we're going to sort that out. But,
- 27:22the truth is we are energetic beings
- 27:24that are that are that are unlimited.
- 27:27And we are divinely connected. We are
- 27:30divine energy.
- 27:32And as divine energy, we come from
- 27:35divine energy and we are connected
- 27:38to divine energy.
- 27:39>> Mhm.
- 27:39>> That means that we're not alone.
- 27:42Not alone.
- 27:43The ego is always alone.
- 27:45>> Mhm.
- 27:46>> The ego is defended. It's me against
- 27:48you. It's the others. Anytime you're
- 27:51othered, you're in ego.
- 27:53>> Well, yeah.
- 27:53>> When you're in spirit, we're all
- 27:55connected and then you start realizing
- 27:57we're really connected.
- 28:00We have so much to benevolent loving
- 28:02help available to us consciousness that
- 28:05wants us
- 28:07to flourish and be our best self.
- 28:10And school the Earth is school. So,
- 28:13we're going to go, you know, up and
- 28:15down. We're going to be barking dog
- 28:17expanded spirit. But, I have a tool that
- 28:19helps you make that transition fast.
- 28:23So,
- 28:25first of all, name your barking dog. And
- 28:26what kind of barking dog do you have?
- 28:28>> I probably have a German Shepherd.
- 28:31>> Yeah. Patrolling the borders as well as
- 28:33>> Yeah.
- 28:34>> alpha dog. So, what's your alpha dog's
- 28:36name?
- 28:37>> Rocky.
- 28:37>> Good one.
- 28:39>> Yeah.
- 28:39>> You love him. He's trying to protect
- 28:41you.
- 28:41>> Yeah.
- 28:42>> But, he's not your genius. He's not your
- 28:45spirit. So,
- 28:46tell me about your spirit.
- 28:48>> Much lighter,
- 28:49>> Mhm.
- 28:49>> more reliable, peaceful, more grounded,
- 28:52more service driven.
- 28:53>> Yeah, and what else about your spirit?
- 28:56That That's the you that loves
- 28:58fearlessly, that creates fearlessly.
- 29:01>> Yes.
- 29:02>> Tell me more about your spirit.
- 29:04>> If I was going to describe its actions,
- 29:05it's like spreading light as much as
- 29:07possible as far as and wide as it can
- 29:09go.
- 29:10>> So, let's just shift the words a little
- 29:11bit instead of it to I.
- 29:14>> To I, yeah.
- 29:15>> There's the light again.
- 29:17That's me.
- 29:18>> Mhm.
- 29:18>> That is the true me.
- 29:20>> Yeah.
- 29:20>> So, what can you name the spirit of you?
- 29:24I have the name bright light.
- 29:26In my spirit, I'm I'm a bright light.
- 29:28>> Mhm.
- 29:29>> That is my spirit. It puts light on
- 29:31everything.
- 29:32When I'm in my bright light,
- 29:34and my barking dog is Fifi the poodle.
- 29:37>> Mhm.
- 29:37>> She likes to shop. She's kind of fussy,
- 29:39can be very irritable,
- 29:41thinks she's special. I know when I'm in
- 29:44that energy, but it's not me.
- 29:46>> Mhm.
- 29:46>> So, what's your spirit?
- 29:48What name would you give your beautiful
- 29:50expansive spirit?
- 29:53>> I feel like the name Om comes to mind.
- 29:54>> Take it.
- 29:55>> Mhm.
- 29:56>> Feel it.
- 29:56>> Mhm.
- 29:57>> Does that feel true?
- 29:58>> Yeah. It does.
- 30:00>> And it doesn't have to be a catatonic
- 30:02Om, knock myself out. It be the sound of
- 30:05God.
- 30:05>> Yeah.
- 30:06That's how I see it. It's like a high
- 30:07vibe.
- 30:08>> of God.
- 30:09>> I'm here.
- 30:10>> Mhm.
- 30:10>> I'm here.
- 30:12And I'm fearless and can create. So,
- 30:14when you want to connect with your
- 30:16>> [snorts]
- 30:16>> intuition, intuition is the
- 30:18communication from Om. It is the
- 30:20expression
- 30:22from Om.
- 30:22>> Mhm.
- 30:24>> Can you feel that? So,
- 30:26let's go back to your question. I want
- 30:28to ask Rocky this time.
- 30:29>> Yeah.
- 30:30>> I want to ask
- 30:31Om,
- 30:33what is your question?
- 30:35Or do you even have one anymore?
- 30:37>> The question was should I commit to this
- 30:39person long term? And so I'm asking on.
- 30:42>> Yeah.
- 30:43You'll always get the light in the
- 30:44smile.
- 30:45>> [snorts]
- 30:45>> I don't care if you even speak the same
- 30:47language. That's the signature of the
- 30:49spirit.
- 30:52And a surge of excitement and no
- 30:54control.
- 30:55>> Yeah.
- 30:56>> Yeah, see? Can't even stop smiling. That
- 30:59could just be your answer for now.
- 31:01>> Yeah.
- 31:02>> Just leave it at that.
- 31:03>> Yeah.
- 31:04>> I think that's the way we leave it.
- 31:06>> Wow.
- 31:06>> Cuz the spirit doesn't need language.
- 31:09>> And so anyone can apply this like
- 31:11>> Anyone can apply to see I have a spent
- 31:1450 years teaching in the worst
- 31:17conditions, hostile conditions, being
- 31:20dismissed, laughed at, diminished, told
- 31:24science doesn't believe in you. And
- 31:27that's all changed now.
- 31:28>> Mhm.
- 31:29>> Who we are is can no longer be
- 31:32contained.
- 31:33>> Mhm.
- 31:35>> Who we are and how we live is
- 31:37multi-dimensional which means not just
- 31:39physical, not just ego.
- 31:41>> Yep.
- 31:42>> I'm a spirit and I am all of a sudden
- 31:44becoming really aware of it, but I have
- 31:46no context to how to
- 31:48how to express or ground this. And on
- 31:50top of that, just to make the leap, all
- 31:54of a sudden I actually feel I have help.
- 31:57>> Yeah.
- 31:57>> What a concept.
- 31:59It's not me against the world proving my
- 32:01rocky self to the world.
- 32:03>> Yeah.
- 32:04>> I have help.
- 32:05>> You have this divine support system.
- 32:06>> I have I feel it.
- 32:08>> Are these angels? Are these spirit
- 32:10guides?
- 32:10>> There's so many um levels of help. It's
- 32:12as much help as you have friends in this
- 32:14planet.
- 32:16It's not one helper. You have a guardian
- 32:19angel that came in with you whose
- 32:21primary focus is to keep you as much on
- 32:24your path
- 32:25>> Wow.
- 32:25>> with your free will navigating to keep
- 32:27you safe. And that guardian angel will
- 32:30show up if you're really drifting.
- 32:32>> I got goosebumps when you said that.
- 32:33>> Yeah.
- 32:34>> Wow.
- 32:34>> So then we have you have
- 32:37angels for all things because angels
- 32:39serve God and God wants you, the divine,
- 32:42wants you to find your way back to the
- 32:44divine.
- 32:45>> Mhm.
- 32:45>> So, you have so many angels that just
- 32:47are here to keep saying, "Hey, hey, you
- 32:50know, come back to the frequency
- 32:53and the vibration of your true peaceful
- 32:56self." That one that turns the light on
- 32:59in your eyes and and makes you smile and
- 33:01you can't stop it.
- 33:02>> Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
- 33:03>> Cuz it's expanded.
- 33:05We have We have like
- 33:08groups of of helpers. We have helpers on
- 33:11projects. Say your your project is to
- 33:14start a company. All of a sudden, you're
- 33:16going to get help, ideas drop in, um
- 33:19connections
- 33:20lead you to right place at right time
- 33:23that come directed specifically to in
- 33:26response to that goal. We have healers.
- 33:30>> Mhm.
- 33:30>> Healers will pop in and either point you
- 33:32to a book, a conversation,
- 33:35uh an awareness of like, I really should
- 33:37stop drinking. I I just can't do it
- 33:39today. That's a a healer guide or
- 33:42or, you know, all this baggage you have,
- 33:44really
- 33:45stop for a minute and clear some of it,
- 33:47you know. That's a healer guide.
- 33:50Some of them will show up. You will use
- 33:52humans to be in your face and and give
- 33:54you the message. You're so wired to be
- 33:58supported.
- 33:59>> Yeah.
- 33:59>> It's almost comical.
- 34:01>> Wow.
- 34:02>> But you do have free will
- 34:04and you do have to come into a conscious
- 34:06reception and be available.
- 34:09Barking dog isn't available to a whole
- 34:11lot.
- 34:12Barking dog likes to be in control and
- 34:14isn't listening to much.
- 34:16>> Yep.
- 34:16>> But your spirit
- 34:18is completely available. You know, I say
- 34:20one of my master teachers was Jesus and
- 34:22the first thing he did was pick 33
- 34:24helpers. I mean, the spirit is looking
- 34:27for help. If you're going to be the
- 34:28king, you get the court. Or the queen,
- 34:30you pick the court. You you change the
- 34:32paradigm.
- 34:33>> Mhm.
- 34:33>> The Lone Ranger by myself
- 34:36>> Wow.
- 34:37>> is over.
- 34:38It's so isolating. It's caused all the
- 34:41problems.
- 34:43The new model is no, I am an incredibly
- 34:47empowered divine loved spirit with
- 34:50an infinite support system to help me
- 34:53bring my goodness to the world.
- 34:56I don't have to prove anything to
- 34:58anybody. Just have to be
- 35:00>> Yeah.
- 35:00>> aligned, honest,
- 35:03available,
- 35:04listen,
- 35:06and lean in.
- 35:08>> This is such a beautiful feeling to to
- 35:10hear this cuz loneliness is such a big
- 35:13>> It's epidemic and it's barking dogs
- 35:15growling at each other everywhere.
- 35:17>> Exactly. And to hear that you're not
- 35:19alone, you have angels around you, you
- 35:21have healers around you, you have you
- 35:23have spirit guides around you, you have
- 35:24an entire system.
- 35:26>> You don't have to believe me. Just think
- 35:28of your last success and even the most
- 35:31minute level.
- 35:32>> Yeah.
- 35:33>> I did get the taxi in the rain. I did
- 35:37get the parking spot. I did get the
- 35:39apartment. I did connect with that
- 35:41person. And ask yourself, did you feel
- 35:44at any level that there was some force
- 35:47>> Yes.
- 35:48>> working with you?
- 35:50It's like wow.
- 35:52That worked out.
- 35:53>> Yeah.
- 35:53>> How did that just happen?
- 35:55And your guides are going, well, they
- 35:57landed finally.
- 35:59>> You spoke about conscious reception, so
- 36:00the ability to basically listen and
- 36:02receive.
- 36:03>> Yeah.
- 36:04>> It does that come down to like just
- 36:06silencing the dogs or you know,
- 36:08meditating, being very
- 36:10>> two.
- 36:10>> Okay.
- 36:11>> Step one is
- 36:13acknowledging I'm a spirit.
- 36:15>> Mhm.
- 36:15>> A beautiful spirit and
- 36:18one of the things my teachers taught me
- 36:20is you don't improve your spirit.
- 36:22You can't improve upon your spirit.
- 36:24That's just your divine nature, but you
- 36:26can improve upon your awareness.
- 36:28>> Mhm.
- 36:29>> And you're you're identifying with
- 36:31spirit.
- 36:32>> Yes.
- 36:32>> As long as you're identifying with your
- 36:34ego, you're going to have a lot you're
- 36:35going to have a very barking dog,
- 36:38exhausting,
- 36:40a dramatic,
- 36:41>> Yeah.
- 36:42>> lonely life.
- 36:43You are.
- 36:45Barking dogs
- 36:47are not good leaders.
- 36:49>> So true.
- 36:50>> They're good helpers.
- 36:52Give them the job of doing your laundry.
- 36:54>> Mhm.
- 36:54>> Give them the job of, you know,
- 36:56balancing the the checkbook and paying
- 36:58the bills, but don't give them the job
- 36:59of
- 37:00directing your life.
- 37:01>> Yeah.
- 37:03>> Or your heart. Because a barking dog
- 37:05slams a heart shut.
- 37:07Your ego's fearful. So, step one,
- 37:10connect your nature, name your spirit,
- 37:12talk about all the things and identify
- 37:14and acknowledge
- 37:15my spirit. My spirit is expansive, it's
- 37:18creative, it's exciting, it wants to it
- 37:21[snorts] wants to uplift, it wants to
- 37:23try new things, it doesn't want to be
- 37:24just one thing. I want to be I want to
- 37:26be like the Leonardo da Vinci. I want to
- 37:29be 20 things.
- 37:31>> Yeah.
- 37:31>> And I want to have those experiences and
- 37:33bring the good and have the joy.
- 37:36So, start connecting with your spirit
- 37:38instead of your pathology.
- 37:40>> Mhm.
- 37:41>> Don't Don't connect to your pathology.
- 37:44It's dueling pathology these days.
- 37:46You're the avoidant, you're the
- 37:47narcissist, you're the abandoned one.
- 37:50It's
- 37:50It becomes very competitive of whose
- 37:53pathology is bigger than whose. And
- 37:55>> Yeah.
- 37:56>> it's endless.
- 37:57>> Mhm.
- 37:57>> It's endless.
- 37:59We have to address it.
- 38:01But it's like your barking dog needs to
- 38:03see the vet. Like, okay, let's let's try
- 38:05to get the the service part of you
- 38:09clear enough to support your spirit
- 38:11instead of try to be your spirit.
- 38:13>> Mhm.
- 38:14Yes.
- 38:14>> Step one. And I say name your spirit and
- 38:17identify the things you love as the
- 38:20expression of your spirit.
- 38:22>> Yeah. Like the love one's too.
- 38:24>> click.
- 38:24>> Yeah.
- 38:25>> You just come home.
- 38:26>> Wow.
- 38:27>> And then
- 38:28you start recognizing my barking dog is
- 38:31really wounded. So, I probably should
- 38:33quit kicking the dog, but certainly quit
- 38:35letting my dog make decisions.
- 38:38You know, I have to do some healing
- 38:40work, but I have to also recognize my
- 38:43ego's wounded, but my spirit's good.
- 38:47My ego is just the wear and tear of
- 38:49being in the human experience.
- 38:50>> Mhm.
- 38:51>> And okay, have some compassion.
- 38:55Get clear.
- 38:57We all get really charged in the ego
- 38:58because we're here to learn to overcome
- 39:00and heal that. So, don't get
- 39:01indifferent. Don't bypass it.
- 39:04But always remember to come back to the
- 39:06spirit cuz that's where you get the
- 39:07help.
- 39:08>> Mhm.
- 39:10>> You connect to your source. You connect
- 39:11to your guides.
- 39:13And then you just have to ask yourself,
- 39:17"Do I really want
- 39:19my life to be good and can I allow that?
- 39:22I may have to undo a lot of learning. I
- 39:25may have to
- 39:26take the risk of being disappointed.
- 39:29But if I'm available,
- 39:32the spirit and the guidance in you and
- 39:34the helpers in you are on standby right
- 39:36now.
- 39:37You don't have to earn it.
- 39:39In the third dimension, leaving all of
- 39:41our all of our benefit to other people
- 39:44thinking we're good enough to receive
- 39:45it.
- 39:46>> Mhm.
- 39:46>> You get the good grades, then we're
- 39:48going to say you're okay. Are you you do
- 39:50what we want and then we're going to
- 39:51tell you you're loved. It's all very
- 39:53transactional, very conditional.
- 39:55>> Yeah.
- 39:56>> But if you can just say, "Well, look,
- 39:57I'm going to have a direct relationship
- 39:59with my creator.
- 40:01And I'm going to get rid of the
- 40:02middleman."
- 40:04It involves responsibility.
- 40:06It involves like, "Okay, I am
- 40:08responsible for my life.
- 40:10I don't have to be And by the way, I
- 40:13will address this. It's a lot to
- 40:14address, but this goal of being perfect
- 40:18>> Mhm.
- 40:19>> is really entrenched
- 40:21in our culture that that's what's
- 40:22required to feel loved and safe and to
- 40:25succeed.
- 40:27But if you're going to read the
- 40:28spiritual texts of master teachers,
- 40:31where that got skewed out and it really
- 40:35kind of went into the Bible, I had it is
- 40:37that
- 40:38the the translation, we'll go back to
- 40:40the teacher the the teacher of Jesus.
- 40:44He was translated as saying be perfect.
- 40:49>> Mhm.
- 40:49>> But his language is what's Aramaic and
- 40:51it the it isn't be perfect. It was
- 40:54be true.
- 40:55>> Wow.
- 40:56>> And that even in the Bible today and in
- 40:57many of the Christian versions it keeps
- 41:00going back to be perfect as your father
- 41:03in heaven is perfect and it's not the
- 41:05right translation.
- 41:06>> Wow.
- 41:07>> It's be true. I asked you what feels
- 41:09true
- 41:11for you
- 41:12>> Yep.
- 41:13>> right now.
- 41:14>> Yep.
- 41:15>> And you still have to get through all
- 41:16the baggage to have the relationship you
- 41:18want but you know what's true is you've
- 41:20been given a gift.
- 41:21>> Mhm.
- 41:22>> Now, am I going to get rid of my
- 41:24laundry? Am I going to have put Rocky
- 41:26in, you know, stand back mode and
- 41:28actually have some a loving experience?
- 41:31That's your free will.
- 41:33>> Right.
- 41:33>> But you know what's true. This is an
- 41:35opportunity that really could be good.
- 41:38>> Mhm.
- 41:39>> That's what's true.
- 41:41So you have to get all the
- 41:43fear out of the way but you know what's
- 41:44true. No, not know here.
- 41:47>> Mhm.
- 41:48>> No.
- 41:50No, in your beingness.
- 41:53>> Yep.
- 41:54>> And you know in your being do you feel
- 41:56ever supported? Have you ever felt
- 41:59that there's forces on this that are
- 42:01transcend your clever logic and your
- 42:03clever ego and your clever strategizing?
- 42:05There're just some good things
- 42:07happening.
- 42:08>> Yes, like
- 42:09if I think of every pivotal moment in my
- 42:11life is because I listened to my gut, my
- 42:13intuition.
- 42:14>> You listened to your soul, your spirit,
- 42:16yourself.
- 42:17>> I dropped out of uni even though
- 42:19everyone said like I was an A star
- 42:21student. I was good at working I was
- 42:23studying at a top university, studying
- 42:25engineering like
- 42:26I pretty much had my entire corporate
- 42:28life laid out.
- 42:29>> Yeah.
- 42:29>> And I was like, "No, I don't want to do
- 42:30this."
- 42:31>> You should see the light in your eyes.
- 42:33Honestly, because it didn't align.
- 42:37>> Yeah.
- 42:37>> It would no way give you the life that
- 42:41your soul wants for you.
- 42:42>> Yeah.
- 42:43>> No way and that took courage.
- 42:45>> Mhm.
- 42:46>> So here's something to know.
- 42:48Courage comes from the French word cœur
- 42:51which means heart.
- 42:53To live with courage is to live with
- 42:55this as your heart as your heart being
- 42:57your guide, which is where your spirit
- 42:59lives.
- 42:59>> Mhm.
- 43:00>> Your logic brain was not making that
- 43:03choice.
- 43:04>> Yeah.
- 43:05>> Your heart Your essence, your soul was
- 43:07making that choice.
- 43:08>> Yes.
- 43:09>> And it gave you the the power.
- 43:11>> Yeah. And a lot of You mentioned this
- 43:13earlier on the podcast. You said
- 43:15sometimes like society will go against
- 43:18you. People will say People around you
- 43:19will say this isn't a good idea or
- 43:20something.
- 43:21>> most of the time.
- 43:22>> Yeah, so I'm curious to know like
- 43:24>> What are the signs we can actually look
- 43:26for in the material world to be like,
- 43:28"Oh, this actually could be
- 43:29something that my soul is asking me to
- 43:31do." Like
- 43:32>> It will It will stay with you. I'm sure
- 43:34you didn't make that decision to leave
- 43:35uni in a in a minute.
- 43:38It was a knowing that just sat there.
- 43:40>> Mhm.
- 43:41>> And [snorts] no matter what you were
- 43:42doing every day, it wasn't lining up. It
- 43:44wasn't landing. It wasn't resonating. It
- 43:46was friction.
- 43:47>> Yeah.
- 43:48>> It was dissonant.
- 43:49>> Yeah.
- 43:50>> And so that voice kept saying,
- 43:52"Nevertheless, you don't belong here.
- 43:54Yeah, you're doing great. Yeah, it's all
- 43:55laid out. You don't belong here." It
- 43:58didn't say, "Get out now." It just said,
- 44:01"You don't belong here."
- 44:02>> Yeah.
- 44:02>> It's very quiet, but consistent.
- 44:06So you have to be honest.
- 44:09Yeah, this is not easy. That was not an
- 44:11easy choice.
- 44:13But it was easier to stay aligned than
- 44:15to abandon yourself.
- 44:16>> Mhm.
- 44:18>> That was very brave of you. 90% of the
- 44:21the people I work with, either
- 44:23mentoring, coaching, guiding, made the
- 44:26choice to go with the external force.
- 44:29>> Yeah.
- 44:30>> And it'll never If there's a Chinese
- 44:32saying from the Book of Changes, if the
- 44:34beginning is wrong, the ending is wrong.
- 44:36>> Oh, I love that.
- 44:37>> It's so true.
- 44:38>> Yeah.
- 44:39>> So here I am at the beginning, and it's
- 44:41not going to work.
- 44:43>> Mhm.
- 44:44>> But people will override that. My
- 44:47experience of people with their
- 44:48intuition is it's not elusive.
- 44:51You feel it.
- 44:53It's as much your heartbeat as anything,
- 44:55but you're choosing
- 44:57>> Yeah.
- 44:57>> to override it.
- 44:59>> Yeah.
- 45:01>> You want other people to guarantee your
- 45:02success. You want guarantees. How do I
- 45:05know? How can I be sure?
- 45:07I say, "Well, you can't ask for
- 45:09guarantees from your intuition, but I
- 45:10can guarantee you what isn't working now
- 45:12won't work in the future."
- 45:14>> Mhm.
- 45:15>> That I can guarantee. If it's not
- 45:17resonating now,
- 45:18it's not going to resonate.
- 45:19>> Wow.
- 45:20>> That you can guarantee.
- 45:22>> I love that's a message to everyone in
- 45:24like a toxic relationship.
- 45:27>> and you are abandoning yourself and
- 45:30you're coming up with all your
- 45:32>> [snorts]
- 45:32>> your your pathological diagnoses cuz we
- 45:35all have them.
- 45:36>> Yeah.
- 45:36>> Okay, have fun with that.
- 45:39But that's all you get.
- 45:40>> Yeah.
- 45:41>> That's all you get is the story.
- 45:43>> Mhm.
- 45:44>> You don't get the alignment and the
- 45:47to come back to self and the freedom.
- 45:49>> Mhm.
- 45:50>> Did you notice how your mind got quiet?
- 45:53>> Yeah.
- 45:54>> Your barking dog gets quiet. That's your
- 45:57barking dog. And when you come back to
- 45:59your your inner guidance, which is a
- 46:01frequency,
- 46:03it is a vibration. It is a clear
- 46:06communication.
- 46:08Energetic and your inner senses are
- 46:10opening up.
- 46:12That's what you call the chakras.
- 46:14It's your inner senses.
- 46:16First chakra is the senses for our for
- 46:18ground and that's foundation. Do I
- 46:20belong here?
- 46:22Do I resonate here? Am I supported here?
- 46:23Am I safe here?
- 46:25Whether it's here or with my own choices
- 46:28because it goes both ways.
- 46:30Is my choice
- 46:32safe? Is my place where I'm choosing to
- 46:34be
- 46:35safe in that I can grow and thrive here?
- 46:39Second chakra.
- 46:41Does this bring out my creativity?
- 46:43Everybody says it's your sexuality, it's
- 46:46your your art, your expression, but
- 46:48really our goal as spirits coming into
- 46:51the body are to create.
- 46:53>> Mhm.
- 46:54>> To create.
- 46:55>> Yeah.
- 46:56>> That's your divine self.
- 46:57>> Yep.
- 46:58>> So, second chakra, am I creating or am I
- 47:00existing? It's between the tailbone and
- 47:03the and the belly button, right here.
- 47:05>> Yep.
- 47:07>> It's where you're born.
- 47:08>> Mhm.
- 47:09>> It's where you incubate.
- 47:10>> Yep.
- 47:11>> Am I creative? Am I creating anything or
- 47:13am I just creating drama?
- 47:15>> Mhm.
- 47:16>> If I'm creating drama, my barking dog's
- 47:17running my my nervous system and my
- 47:19consciousness and I'm not going to be a
- 47:21very satisfied person or satisfying to
- 47:24no person.
- 47:26>> So true, yeah.
- 47:27>> You're I'm [clears throat] a dragon. I'm
- 47:28a drag for other people.
- 47:30>> Yep.
- 47:30>> Because it's all dissonant.
- 47:32>> Yep.
- 47:32>> How can anyone relax around me?
- 47:35>> Mhm.
- 47:35>> Third chakra.
- 47:37Solar plexus, power center.
- 47:40This is where
- 47:41who's making your choices in life?
- 47:44Your spirit or your ego? Is it rocky or
- 47:47mhm?
- 47:48>> Mhm.
- 47:49>> tell instantly.
- 47:51Instantly.
- 47:53Because one is contracted, ego and
- 47:55emotion is
- 47:57noisy,
- 47:59defensive, breathless,
- 48:01takes your breath away.
- 48:02It's contracted,
- 48:04no humor,
- 48:06no light,
- 48:07>> Mhm.
- 48:07>> no smile,
- 48:09never.
- 48:10>> Well, yeah.
- 48:11>> Never.
- 48:12>> Mhm.
- 48:13>> Lights out.
- 48:14>> Yeah.
- 48:14>> It's like unplugged, just pull all the
- 48:16air out of the balloon. It's like
- 48:17>> Yeah. You can always spot your ego
- 48:19taking over in these moments, right?
- 48:22Just like
- 48:22>> I can tell instantly when I'm talking to
- 48:24someone if I'm talking to your barking
- 48:25dog
- 48:26>> Mhm.
- 48:27>> or your spirit. And what I will do is I
- 48:29will start talking to your spirit.
- 48:32I'll ignore your barking dog.
- 48:34>> Mhm.
- 48:34>> The spirit is so happy to be seen, it
- 48:37can't help it sit up.
- 48:39>> Right.
- 48:39>> Woah, I'm seen. And when you meet
- 48:42someone
- 48:43that you really like and it's not just
- 48:45I'm lonely and you distract me in the
- 48:47moment or flatter my ego, but really
- 48:50they see you.
- 48:52And that's all you want.
- 48:53>> Yeah.
- 48:54Yeah.
- 48:55>> Whoever sees you can support and really
- 48:58champion who you are.
- 49:00>> Yeah.
- 49:00>> [snorts]
- 49:01>> That's those are your people.
- 49:02>> Mhm.
- 49:04>> They're your vibration.
- 49:05And it's not elusive. Just slow down and
- 49:09what's true?
- 49:10>> Yeah.
- 49:11Mhm.
- 49:12>> You can feel it. It's not believe me.
- 49:14You had your own experience.
- 49:16>> Yes, 100%.
- 49:17>> And it's a good one.
- 49:20That's why I say true teachers set you
- 49:22free.
- 49:23>> Yeah.
- 49:24Yeah, so true.
- 49:25>> Not follow me.
- 49:27>> Mhm.
- 49:27>> It's like no.
- 49:29Go back to you.
- 49:31>> Yeah.
- 49:32>> And let's meet your barking dog and
- 49:33we're not going to shoot your barking
- 49:35dog, but hush puppy.
- 49:37Take your barking It's like someone
- 49:38said, "How do I quiet my barking dog?"
- 49:40It's like first go for a run.
- 49:44Move that energy.
- 49:45>> Mhm.
- 49:46>> Do something physical. Go in the garden,
- 49:48go for a run, go build a cabinet, give
- 49:51it direct it, and then you can quit
- 49:54thinking.
- 49:55>> That's so true, yeah. I got to the gym,
- 49:57yeah.
- 49:57>> But don't wrestle it cuz you're going to
- 49:58get chewed up.
- 50:00That's when you're up in your head.
- 50:02You're going to just get chewed up.
- 50:03>> Yeah. Yeah.
- 50:05>> Don't wrestle your barking dog by trying
- 50:06to figure it out. It'll win. It'll never
- 50:09give up. It'll never stop being
- 50:10defensive. It'll never stop giving you
- 50:12another problem. Go for a walk, go for a
- 50:15run, go bake a cake, go organize your
- 50:16closet.
- 50:17>> This is so I want to continue on the
- 50:19track, Chris, but I'm just
- 50:21having such a surreal experience right
- 50:22now because I am someone who thinks a
- 50:25lot and I will overthink and I will
- 50:26overanalyze and I will be the most
- 50:28calculated I can be and it will come
- 50:31from a place of I'm trying to protect,
- 50:33I'm trying to
- 50:34>> rocky.
- 50:35>> Yeah.
- 50:35>> And you know it's limited. You know.
- 50:38>> Yeah.
- 50:39>> You know it's a game and you're going to
- 50:41exhaust yourself and you might think
- 50:43you're making other people believe you,
- 50:45but
- 50:45the vibe is there.
- 50:47>> Yeah.
- 50:47>> They might believe you to a point.
- 50:50But there's a dissonance.
- 50:51>> Yeah.
- 50:52>> And it's not who you really are. You
- 50:53just have that habit.
- 50:55That's not who you are. When you are
- 50:56being yourself, you're dancing, you're
- 50:58singing, you're creating, you're
- 51:00brainstorming.
- 51:01That's you.
- 51:03>> Mhm.
- 51:03>> This rascal is just your conditioned
- 51:05self that
- 51:06has told that's been trained well that
- 51:10if you're not alpha dog in charge
- 51:12controlling everybody, you're in danger
- 51:14and not wanted.
- 51:15And that's just a big lie.
- 51:18And it's probably generational.
- 51:20But exhausting.
- 51:21>> Wow.
- 51:23>> Yeah, see? Isn't it fun to come out of
- 51:25the the the matrix for a minute?
- 51:28>> This is insane to just hear this, yeah.
- 51:30Wow.
- 51:31>> So, you give yourself an out. It's like,
- 51:33you know, I always say when I get into
- 51:34that, it's like, "Hush, Feefee."
- 51:36Feefee's my barking dog. It's like, "Be
- 51:38quiet."
- 51:39>> Yeah. Jumping to the learning, yeah.
- 51:41>> Yeah, that's the the This is and you can
- 51:44train your ego. I've trained my ego well
- 51:46to serve me.
- 51:48>> Okay.
- 51:49>> If my If I'm around a situation or with
- 51:52people that are not resonating, I've
- 51:54trained my ego to give me full
- 51:55permission to leave without any
- 51:57explanation or fawning or caretaking. I
- 52:00just say my spirit left, I got to go.
- 52:02>> Wow.
- 52:03>> I've done that a lot. It's like, "Yeah,
- 52:05it's a great party, but
- 52:07I'm not connected here. I don't belong
- 52:09here. So, sorry, my spirit left, I got
- 52:11to follow."
- 52:12>> [laughter]
- 52:12>> You know, that's how my ego helps me.
- 52:15It's not my enemy.
- 52:16>> Yeah.
- 52:17>> It's your servant.
- 52:19>> Mhm.
- 52:20>> Carl Jung called it the sacred marriage
- 52:22they had in the heart.
- 52:24They're partners, but the heart is the
- 52:26leader.
- 52:27And the head says, "I'll help."
- 52:29>> Yeah.
- 52:29>> And that what are you doing? And that's
- 52:31how your intuition takes over, so it's
- 52:33not one weird event. It's an endless
- 52:36stream of guidance.
- 52:37>> Yeah.
- 52:39>> So, you're not thinking at all.
- 52:40>> This resonates so much because I read
- 52:42the Bhagavad Gita and it changed my
- 52:43life. And it speaks about dharma, which
- 52:46is basically becoming your highest, most
- 52:47authentic self and connecting to your
- 52:49highest purpose.
- 52:50>> Yeah.
- 52:50>> And what I love about this conversation
- 52:51is you're basically explaining how to
- 52:54just reconnect with that.
- 52:56>> Literally.
- 52:57>> And recognize if you fall into
- 53:01barking dog consciousness,
- 53:04have humor.
- 53:06Hush puppy. All right, Rocky. All right,
- 53:09you're trying to protect me. You're
- 53:10scared. I know. What what's dangerous
- 53:13here? What am I really afraid of?
- 53:15>> Mhm.
- 53:16>> Being real?
- 53:17Am I really that afraid? I'd be more
- 53:19afraid not being real, but you have you
- 53:21have verbal conversations. And it quiets
- 53:24down.
- 53:25>> Yeah.
- 53:26I like that.
- 53:26>> Humor is one of the languages of spirit.
- 53:30When you can laugh and really laugh, you
- 53:32are right in your spirit because the
- 53:34spirit is never in danger.
- 53:36>> What are the other languages? I also
- 53:37want to continue on the chakras, but
- 53:39what are the other languages?
- 53:40>> Well, the first is it's all it's not
- 53:42it's not audible words. It's the light
- 53:45in your eyes. It's the laughter. It's
- 53:47the buzz. It's that you feel silly all
- 53:49of a sudden. It's detachment without
- 53:51numbness. People confuse the two.
- 53:54Numbness is I'm just shutting down.
- 53:56Detachment is
- 53:58it is what it is, but I'm okay.
- 54:01And whatever presents itself, I'll find
- 54:03my way. This is an opportunity for
- 54:06growth. This is not an ambush.
- 54:08>> Right. Yeah.
- 54:09>> This is an invitation.
- 54:11Okay, so you turn life instead of a
- 54:13threat to a sport.
- 54:15>> Yeah.
- 54:16>> And the sport is how authentic can I be?
- 54:18Bring it on.
- 54:20Bring on more challenge.
- 54:22And I'm ready. And I'll just know that
- 54:24the way forward is to
- 54:26not let my ego make decisions, but know
- 54:28my ego is trying to protect me. It's
- 54:30just not qualified.
- 54:32>> Right.
- 54:32>> Okay? It's just protecting the
- 54:34isolation.
- 54:35>> Mhm.
- 54:35>> Name what you're afraid of.
- 54:37Always name what you're afraid of. Then
- 54:40you take a breath. Name it, but you have
- 54:42to come out of your head. You have to
- 54:44say there's the light, there's the
- 54:46water, here's my my shoes.
- 54:48>> Mhm.
- 54:49>> Brings you back into the moment, and
- 54:51then you ask, "And what's the truth?"
- 54:53And the truth is this is all a habit.
- 54:57I'm not really scared. I'm just in the
- 54:59habit of feeling scared.
- 55:01>> Mhm.
- 55:01>> My barking dog is scared, but my spirit
- 55:03isn't scared.
- 55:05>> I love this.
- 55:06>> So, then we come to the heart.
- 55:08>> Yeah.
- 55:08>> The heart chakra is the the s- like Gary
- 55:10Zukav said it's a seat of the soul. It's
- 55:12where your spirit lives.
- 55:14It where it enters the body on your
- 55:16breath.
- 55:17When you breathe, you animate
- 55:21this physical entity, which is quite
- 55:23miraculous. That breath when it leaves,
- 55:28you're gone.
- 55:29So this [snorts] is where science can't
- 55:31even explain why the heart beats.
- 55:33They don't have an explanation.
- 55:35It's where the spirit comes in.
- 55:37>> Mhm.
- 55:38>> It's the force of the spirit
- 55:39communicating outwardly.
- 55:42And the the heart of you, it has you
- 55:45have four aspects of heart. You have the
- 55:48inner child heart, the creative, the
- 55:50curious, the exploration. Then you have
- 55:52the adult heart, which is I'm
- 55:54responsible. I decide.
- 55:56I'm going to make some choices and yeah,
- 55:58I'll leave you in here. I'll start this
- 55:59company and it's okay if I fail. I need
- 56:01the experience.
- 56:03>> [snorts]
- 56:03>> Then you have the wise heart, which is
- 56:06look, everybody's doing the best they
- 56:08can. So I'm not going to be constantly
- 56:10wounded by how everyone is just so
- 56:11messed up and hurts me.
- 56:13They're not they're just functioning in
- 56:15the dark. So whatever, it's just like
- 56:18being at when you're on the the the
- 56:21arcade where you all getting those
- 56:22bumper cars and everyone's crashing into
- 56:24one another and don't even have all
- 56:26they're just survival. I never mind, I
- 56:28just gave you whiplash. I'm just trying
- 56:30to get out [laughter] of here.
- 56:31So you take a a long view. You just you
- 56:34can be super pissed off.
- 56:36>> Yeah.
- 56:37>> That hurt.
- 56:38Screw you,
- 56:40but I'm not going to dwell on that
- 56:42because we're in bumper cars together.
- 56:44It's just the nature of the beast,
- 56:46right?
- 56:46>> Mhm.
- 56:47>> So you have the you have the wise heart,
- 56:49which is I forgive everybody,
- 56:50everything, every time, when you're
- 56:52ready.
- 56:53But that's the that gives you freedom.
- 56:56And then you have the courageous heart.
- 56:58>> Mhm.
- 56:58>> And the courageous heart is I am going
- 57:00to I am going to follow my guidance.
- 57:03I am going to follow my spirit. I am
- 57:06going to be true to myself.
- 57:08>> Mhm.
- 57:08>> And no, it's not easy. The world isn't
- 57:11set up for that.
- 57:12>> Yeah.
- 57:13>> The world is set up for anything but
- 57:15that.
- 57:15>> Right.
- 57:17>> You know, my great most miserable
- 57:19clients are the people who have followed
- 57:20all the
- 57:22external rules and are extremely
- 57:24wealthy.
- 57:25>> [snorts]
- 57:26>> And so far away from who they are.
- 57:30Now, I have very wealthy clients who are
- 57:32very successful and happy and joyful.
- 57:35But it's the ones who traded off.
- 57:38>> Right.
- 57:38>> Because they're trapped. They feel like
- 57:40I will lose everything. And I point out
- 57:42you already have.
- 57:44You've lost yourself. You still have
- 57:45your talents. You can recreate an
- 57:47authentic life that's productive.
- 57:50But the idea that you can only live
- 57:52physically, financially safely
- 57:55through self-abandonment.
- 57:58That's no courageous heart. That's And
- 58:00we have four chambers of the heart, so
- 58:02they resonate to the four chambers, the
- 58:04four chakras, the four aspects of the
- 58:06heart.
- 58:07It's quite complex.
- 58:08>> Didn't know that.
- 58:09>> Yeah.
- 58:11And there we have energetic layers. So
- 58:13when they have the barking dog, it shuts
- 58:15the heart chakra. You can You have a
- 58:17closed heart. There's positions of the
- 58:19heart as well. One,
- 58:22the open heart.
- 58:23I'm open, I'm loving, I'm happy. That's
- 58:25the spirit.
- 58:27Then there's the closed heart.
- 58:30That's the cold heart.
- 58:31>> Yeah.
- 58:31>> And when we're around people with a cold
- 58:33heart,
- 58:34we are physically drained and cannot be
- 58:37around them for very long without being
- 58:40deeply affected.
- 58:41>> Mhm.
- 58:41>> Because it blocks life force.
- 58:44>> Yeah.
- 58:45>> That's the deeply wounded person.
- 58:47>> Mhm.
- 58:48>> Then there is the heart that's open to
- 58:50give but closed to receive. That's your
- 58:52your
- 58:53quintessential codependent who's going
- 58:55to give you everything and love you and
- 58:57be with you, but when you want to give
- 58:58back, no.
- 59:00Although you do have to take care of me,
- 59:01so that's And then there's the other
- 59:03heart, which is that I'll take
- 59:05everything, but don't ask me for
- 59:07anything.
- 59:09That's the the vacuum heart that I call
- 59:10you come in
- 59:12>> [snorts]
- 59:12>> I'll take all the gifts.
- 59:14>> But I'm not going to give anything
- 59:14>> But I'm not going to give anything back.
- 59:17Then you see it as a game.
- 59:19It's like, well, these are all just
- 59:20different positions in the game of life,
- 59:22and
- 59:23the one I like is when the heart is open
- 59:25to give and receive equally.
- 59:27>> Yeah.
- 59:29>> That's the good one.
- 59:30>> Yeah.
- 59:31>> That's the heart chakra.
- 59:33But we do have to talk about the most
- 59:35important chakra right now
- 59:37in the evolution of the planet.
- 59:40The throat chakra.
- 59:42>> Mhm.
- 59:42>> A lot of people think it's just the
- 59:43speak my truth chakra.
- 59:46But it's it's far more than that.
- 59:48Because this is the the chimney of the
- 59:51heart, so this is where our intuition
- 59:54is operating.
- 59:56It's reading the field.
- 59:58It's tuning into the energy of others.
- 1:00:01It's listening to your heart coming
- 1:00:03through. It's like a big intersection.
- 1:00:05>> Right.
- 1:00:06>> It's [snorts] also connected to the
- 1:00:07second chakra. So, if you have the
- 1:00:09greatest creativity, greatest ideas, it
- 1:00:12has to come through here and expressed.
- 1:00:15Any company you've ever created,
- 1:00:17anything you've ever done, has to go
- 1:00:19from second to fifth and out.
- 1:00:21>> Yes.
- 1:00:22>> And it's not just words, expression.
- 1:00:25>> Mhm.
- 1:00:26>> It's also the the chakra that is
- 1:00:28listening
- 1:00:30for truth.
- 1:00:32And communicating and recognizing that
- 1:00:35if the if you're aligned here, it's
- 1:00:38power.
- 1:00:39People believe
- 1:00:40>> Yes.
- 1:00:41>> So, when you're aligned and you're
- 1:00:43you're you're you're connected to
- 1:00:44yourself and speaking what really is the
- 1:00:47true alignment of you, and you put it
- 1:00:49out, people believe you.
- 1:00:50>> Mhm.
- 1:00:51>> I'm sure you've had that experience.
- 1:00:53>> 100% yeah.
- 1:00:54>> And that's where you gain support.
- 1:00:55>> Yeah.
- 1:00:56>> And it's also the chakra that helps you
- 1:00:59recognize how your spirit communicates.
- 1:01:03Maybe it comes through visions. Maybe it
- 1:01:05comes through
- 1:01:07It's like when you hear music that has
- 1:01:09no words, but you can explain it.
- 1:01:12>> Mhm.
- 1:01:12>> That's how you get the the words of
- 1:01:14intuition. You're explaining that energy
- 1:01:17to yourself.
- 1:01:18>> Right.
- 1:01:18>> You have a bad vibe. You're explaining
- 1:01:21the nature of what you're tuning into.
- 1:01:24It's dissonant. It's It's incongruent to
- 1:01:26me. It could hurt me.
- 1:01:28>> Mhm.
- 1:01:28>> It could collide.
- 1:01:30Or I have a great vibe.
- 1:01:32I have a good vibe on that. I have a It
- 1:01:33cuz it's actually a vibration.
- 1:01:36Tuning in, it's this chakra.
- 1:01:39The throat. This is also the chakra that
- 1:01:41picks up the frequencies of guides and
- 1:01:44angels and helpers.
- 1:01:45>> Oh, wow.
- 1:01:46>> Because it opens up to the what we call
- 1:01:49the subtle realms, higher octaves. It's
- 1:01:51like
- 1:01:52It's like this also connects to the
- 1:01:54ears. So, it's like your your dog ears,
- 1:01:56you know, you can start picking up
- 1:01:58higher octaves of consciousness.
- 1:02:01You just sense something's I got to
- 1:02:03I something's Somebody help me.
- 1:02:05Something's helping me.
- 1:02:06Or and we by nature for the most part,
- 1:02:09no matter how
- 1:02:10analytical and
- 1:02:12atheistic certain people can be, when
- 1:02:14you're in trouble, you might say help.
- 1:02:16>> Yeah.
- 1:02:17>> What are you talking to?
- 1:02:19>> True.
- 1:02:19>> Except you're intrinsically wired into a
- 1:02:22system that helps you.
- 1:02:23>> Mhm.
- 1:02:24>> So, you revert to your natural instinct.
- 1:02:27>> Is this why mantras are also so
- 1:02:28powerful?
- 1:02:28>> Yeah.
- 1:02:29Because it's also energy, frequency, and
- 1:02:31vibration.
- 1:02:32>> Mhm.
- 1:02:33>> Mantras and prayers and words, if
- 1:02:36they're coming from an aligned place,
- 1:02:38command
- 1:02:40>> Yeah.
- 1:02:41>> response and respect. You really really
- 1:02:45need help.
- 1:02:47>> Mhm.
- 1:02:48>> And it doesn't have to be some
- 1:02:51life, you know, we don't [snorts] have
- 1:02:53to
- 1:02:53we don't have to justify that it's a
- 1:02:55it's a something that's warranted help.
- 1:02:58You can just need Help me find a parking
- 1:03:00space right now. I'm going to be late.
- 1:03:02>> Yeah.
- 1:03:03>> Help me get a taxi. I broke my shoe and
- 1:03:06my heel's broken. I can't walk barefoot.
- 1:03:09>> Yeah.
- 1:03:09>> It doesn't matter.
- 1:03:11There's so much benevolent love
- 1:03:13that help comes
- 1:03:15in any way that your beautiful divine
- 1:03:17spirit needs help.
- 1:03:19So, rather than
- 1:03:21only ask of like, "Fine, I'm going to
- 1:03:23ask."
- 1:03:24Rocky's like, "Fine, go for it."
- 1:03:27Ask for everything.
- 1:03:29All time. Ask a thousand times a day for
- 1:03:32help.
- 1:03:33On my way over here, I was in the taxi
- 1:03:35and I said, "I want my angels and guides
- 1:03:38to go with me.
- 1:03:39I don't know where I'm going.
- 1:03:41This taxi driver isn't very nice. He's
- 1:03:44having a bad day. I don't want his
- 1:03:45energy. I want to have a good
- 1:03:46experience. So, you guys help me have a
- 1:03:49good experience."
- 1:03:51And he changed.
- 1:03:52>> Wow.
- 1:03:53>> He started getting nice. I don't He's
- 1:03:54like, "I'm going to help you find this
- 1:03:56place." And he didn't even say hello
- 1:03:57when I got in.
- 1:03:59You You be I say be the good fairy.
- 1:04:02>> Mhm.
- 1:04:03>> Ask for the helpers, ask for the angels,
- 1:04:05the guides, the teachers, the joy
- 1:04:07guides, the nature spirits.
- 1:04:09Don't need to know.
- 1:04:11Just know.
- 1:04:11>> Yeah.
- 1:04:12>> You don't need to identify them.
- 1:04:15>> You just ask for the help.
- 1:04:16>> Just say, "I need Whatever can help me,
- 1:04:18help me."
- 1:04:20I'm up for the I'm up for miracles
- 1:04:22today.
- 1:04:22>> Mhm.
- 1:04:23>> My teachers taught me very early, "How
- 1:04:25good can you stand it?
- 1:04:28How good can your barking dog stand it?
- 1:04:29How good can you let your life be? Or do
- 1:04:32you want drama instead?"
- 1:04:34>> Oof. How good can you let your life be?
- 1:04:37>> Yeah, how good are you willing cuz the
- 1:04:38alternative is how much drama are you
- 1:04:40addicted to?
- 1:04:41>> Mhm.
- 1:04:42>> It's not popular to have a good life.
- 1:04:45>> So true.
- 1:04:46>> It's not. You have to have courage cuz a
- 1:04:48good life can invite a lot of resentment
- 1:04:50from a lot of barking dogs. You have to
- 1:04:53be immune.
- 1:04:53>> Mhm.
- 1:04:55>> You have to either live true or seek
- 1:04:58approval. It's one or the other. That's
- 1:05:01what this chakra is about. Express
- 1:05:03what's true, not opinion, not you're
- 1:05:05going to
- 1:05:06have an opinion on everybody. What's
- 1:05:08true for me for now? And you have full
- 1:05:10right to change it 5 minutes from now.
- 1:05:13>> So, the act of asking what's true for me
- 1:05:15for now, is that's what's opening this
- 1:05:17chakra?
- 1:05:17>> Yeah.
- 1:05:17>> Mhm.
- 1:05:18>> And aligning you to your inner senses
- 1:05:20and your power source.
- 1:05:22>> Mhm.
- 1:05:23>> What's the most genuinely
- 1:05:25you really would love some guidance on
- 1:05:27this question?
- 1:05:30>> So, I have a media company.
- 1:05:31>> Okay.
- 1:05:32>> And then I've got the podcast.
- 1:05:34>> Okay.
- 1:05:35>> And I've got some other ventures that
- 1:05:36I'm thinking about exploring.
- 1:05:38>> Okay.
- 1:05:39>> I've got courses, the book, there's a
- 1:05:40few things. My bandwidth is limited in
- 1:05:42terms of like time and capacity. And so,
- 1:05:44I'm thinking well, like I need to kind
- 1:05:45of
- 1:05:46stop stepping into what I want to do and
- 1:05:49how I want to serve. And the media
- 1:05:50company is a vehicle to do that, but I
- 1:05:52don't think it's the ultimate vehicle
- 1:05:53for me to do that.
- 1:05:54>> And I'll correct some language for you
- 1:05:56cuz it'll help you.
- 1:05:57>> Yeah.
- 1:05:58>> It's not a think.
- 1:06:01It's an energetic read.
- 1:06:02>> Mhm.
- 1:06:03>> I have a media company, but my energy is
- 1:06:05not fully flowing there.
- 1:06:07>> Mhm.
- 1:06:07>> It serves a purpose,
- 1:06:09>> Yeah.
- 1:06:09>> but it isn't what lights me up the most.
- 1:06:11>> Yes.
- 1:06:12>> Okay. So, read it energetically instead
- 1:06:15of mentally.
- 1:06:16>> Okay.
- 1:06:17>> Okay. So, that's true.
- 1:06:18>> Yeah.
- 1:06:19>> That's just a That's just what is so
- 1:06:20right now.
- 1:06:22What else?
- 1:06:22>> What lights me up is speaking.
- 1:06:25>> Mhm.
- 1:06:26>> It's being in front of the camera. It's
- 1:06:28teaching. It's sharing authentic wisdom.
- 1:06:31>> Mhm.
- 1:06:32>> It's learning. Being able to be a vessel
- 1:06:34to serve through how I am and how I
- 1:06:37operate. So, like
- 1:06:38>> clear about who you are.
- 1:06:40>> Yeah.
- 1:06:41>> That's pretty clear.
- 1:06:42>> Mhm.
- 1:06:42>> What's the question around that?
- 1:06:45>> The question is basically
- 1:06:47what do I do
- 1:06:49in this situation because courses,
- 1:06:52books, there's multiple ventures and I
- 1:06:53don't know what to do first and I don't
- 1:06:55know
- 1:06:56>> Maybe your model is wrong.
- 1:06:58Still alpha doc me alone. Maybe the
- 1:07:00model needs to go back to like look at
- 1:07:02Jesus. He picked 12 helpers when he
- 1:07:04started.
- 1:07:05>> Mhm.
- 1:07:05>> Maybe you ought to start thinking of
- 1:07:08building the community who helps you
- 1:07:10express in multiple ways.
- 1:07:13>> Mhm.
- 1:07:13>> Instead of you having to control all of
- 1:07:15it.
- 1:07:15>> That's true. Like partnerships.
- 1:07:17>> Yeah, your model's wrong. You can't be
- 1:07:20mastering all You like to go for
- 1:07:22mastery.
- 1:07:23>> Yeah.
- 1:07:24>> And you know,
- 1:07:26I can't give all of this masterful
- 1:07:28attention.
- 1:07:30I really want to speak. Vibrationally,
- 1:07:32that's what's true. There's no
- 1:07:34resistance, but I don't want to let go
- 1:07:36of these things.
- 1:07:37>> Yeah, that's exactly it.
- 1:07:39>> So, you're a good king. Build a court.
- 1:07:42Which means you have to develop trust.
- 1:07:44>> Yes.
- 1:07:46>> Back to that relationship stuff. Because
- 1:07:49how we relate in love is how we relate
- 1:07:51knowledge relationships. How we relate
- 1:07:53is how we relate.
- 1:07:56So, this brings you back to well, I'm
- 1:07:57really going to speak and I'm really
- 1:07:59going to be a good
- 1:08:01life-changing
- 1:08:03messenger.
- 1:08:05Then I got to look at this relationship
- 1:08:07stuff because it's interfering
- 1:08:10>> Yeah.
- 1:08:10>> with me being able to speak
- 1:08:13really
- 1:08:14>> Mhm.
- 1:08:14>> from the fullness of myself.
- 1:08:17So, for me to grow, how clever my soul
- 1:08:19was. It set up all these things and then
- 1:08:21it said, you got to overcome this
- 1:08:22nonsense and develop great relationships
- 1:08:25across the board
- 1:08:27and take that to the world.
- 1:08:28>> That's so true.
- 1:08:30>> That's a reading. That's what I do in a
- 1:08:32reading.
- 1:08:33>> Yeah.
- 1:08:34>> See the problem.
- 1:08:35>> You just get straight to the point.
- 1:08:36Yeah, cuz I do have trust issues in
- 1:08:38general.
- 1:08:38>> Yeah, and you can't grow. You cannot do
- 1:08:41what you want to do
- 1:08:43with having your barking dog saying,
- 1:08:44well, I'm wounded, so you'll have to
- 1:08:46work around this.
- 1:08:48My teachers taught me, by the way, if
- 1:08:50you have trust issues,
- 1:08:52before you point a finger at anyone
- 1:08:53else, you're the one untrustworthy.
- 1:08:57You're the one not communicating
- 1:08:58correctly. You're setting up the
- 1:09:00expectations.
- 1:09:02>> Mhm.
- 1:09:02>> And you're the one that's
- 1:09:04setting it up for the fall.
- 1:09:07Something to think about.
- 1:09:09>> Wow.
- 1:09:10>> I know, it's a lot, right? But how fun
- 1:09:12cuz then I can actually do something
- 1:09:13about it.
- 1:09:14>> Yeah.
- 1:09:15>> It's not like, oh my god, I don't know
- 1:09:16who to trust. It's like, well, first of
- 1:09:18all, it's all a vibrational match. So,
- 1:09:20if you're not transparent, clear, and
- 1:09:23and communicating your expectations,
- 1:09:25you're going to you're going to get the
- 1:09:26sketchy mirror right back.
- 1:09:28>> Yeah.
- 1:09:29>> The limiting
- 1:09:30effort that you want is all you want it
- 1:09:33all.
- 1:09:34>> Yes.
- 1:09:35>> And you want to delegate to everyone
- 1:09:36else what they get, but I would change
- 1:09:38the model that we can all have it all.
- 1:09:42>> Right.
- 1:09:42>> I'd be I'd create a more generous
- 1:09:45possibility.
- 1:09:47That I'm going to create an empire where
- 1:09:49everybody gets it all. And if I want
- 1:09:51more of it all, fine, but it's all.
- 1:09:52There's not a limit. See, the mirror is
- 1:09:55it's a limited pot.
- 1:09:56>> Mhm.
- 1:09:57>> So, I want help and I want people to
- 1:09:59help me, but I don't want them to have
- 1:10:01too much power cuz I want it all.
- 1:10:03And that's a model you inherited.
- 1:10:07It's not your spirit.
- 1:10:09>> Something I inherited
- 1:10:10>> Mhm.
- 1:10:11>> from ancestors.
- 1:10:12>> Yeah, models, ancestors, school,
- 1:10:15probably a million and one things, but I
- 1:10:16would look at the model.
- 1:10:18>> Interesting.
- 1:10:19>> Why don't I trust? Because I'd have to
- 1:10:20let people have a lot of power. Well,
- 1:10:22then then I'm not the alpha dog.
- 1:10:25According to your model.
- 1:10:26>> I've been screwed over by business
- 1:10:27partners before.
- 1:10:28>> Because you chose people
- 1:10:31that you did you wanted them to give you
- 1:10:34their all, but you weren't going to give
- 1:10:35them your all, and then finally it got a
- 1:10:37collision cuz they were going for it
- 1:10:39all, too.
- 1:10:40This is where I get into coaching is
- 1:10:41like, wait a minute. This has got to be
- 1:10:43a vibrational read, not an emotional
- 1:10:46one. Where where did this go wrong
- 1:10:48vibrationally? So, if you really want to
- 1:10:50be empowered, go to go to ohm and tell
- 1:10:53me
- 1:10:54what happened that you got screwed.
- 1:10:58>> In that business partnership?
- 1:11:00>> Yeah, why did that happen? Just not
- 1:11:02Rocky. Rocky's got a story that'll never
- 1:11:04stop, but what about the truth?
- 1:11:08If the beginning is wrong, the ending is
- 1:11:10wrong.
- 1:11:11What happened?
- 1:11:12>> I made him the CEO when I should have
- 1:11:13been the CEO.
- 1:11:14>> Didn't you gave him something that
- 1:11:16didn't feel aligned with you.
- 1:11:17>> Yes. I gave him the reins to run the
- 1:11:19company when it should have It was my
- 1:11:20idea. It was my company. And
- 1:11:22>> Right.
- 1:11:23That was not a good choice, and that's
- 1:11:24donk.
- 1:11:25>> Yep.
- 1:11:26>> I knew.
- 1:11:27Oh, well. I overrode it.
- 1:11:29>> Yes.
- 1:11:30>> Next time I won't do that, so I don't
- 1:11:32have to be afraid.
- 1:11:34>> Mhm.
- 1:11:36Yeah.
- 1:11:36>> Versus, "Oh my god, you get the best
- 1:11:38people and then they"
- 1:11:40You know, it's just you got to go about
- 1:11:42this differently.
- 1:11:44>> Yeah.
- 1:11:45>> You can't go through Rocky.
- 1:11:47You can't go through the ego or the
- 1:11:49emotions, or you'll never be safe.
- 1:11:53I gave him
- 1:11:56responsibilities that he didn't earn.
- 1:12:00And I didn't really want to give him
- 1:12:01that, but I didn't I wanted him to do as
- 1:12:03much as he could, and it was a bad
- 1:12:05choice. He didn't earn it. He didn't
- 1:12:06possess the skills.
- 1:12:08I didn't want to be that generous. I
- 1:12:10wasn't ready, so bad choice.
- 1:12:13>> Mhm.
- 1:12:14>> Can that feel any better than I got
- 1:12:17screwed. That happened to me.
- 1:12:19>> Yeah.
- 1:12:20>> It's like
- 1:12:21I was overly generous for my own
- 1:12:24ambitions.
- 1:12:26And my own impatience.
- 1:12:27>> Yeah.
- 1:12:27>> And it backfired.
- 1:12:28>> Wow.
- 1:12:30>> End of story. Won't do that again.
- 1:12:33>> And so your intuitive read plus also
- 1:12:35helping me intuitively connect
- 1:12:37>> Yeah, always my read is going to pull
- 1:12:39you back to you, not to me.
- 1:12:41>> Yeah. Okay, yeah, so you're not
- 1:12:42intuitively You're basically
- 1:12:44>> you really clear, but my goal is to plug
- 1:12:46you back in.
- 1:12:47>> So that I make that
- 1:12:48>> into me.
- 1:12:49>> Right.
- 1:12:50>> I don't want that energy. I want you to
- 1:12:53be empowered by looking at how the way
- 1:12:56to move forward is to look at everything
- 1:12:58neutrally,
- 1:12:58>> Mhm.
- 1:12:59>> energetically
- 1:13:01what was true.
- 1:13:03I made a choice in the beginning, and I
- 1:13:05was well aware, but ambitious,
- 1:13:08impatient,
- 1:13:10enthusiastic,
- 1:13:11and didn't really think that it was
- 1:13:13going to have that much of a negative
- 1:13:14consequence if I'd any. It was
- 1:13:16dissonant, but I lived with it.
- 1:13:18>> Yeah.
- 1:13:19>> Bam.
- 1:13:20>> Yes.
- 1:13:21>> Okay. Well, that was
- 1:13:23naivete. It was beginning. I learned. I
- 1:13:27needed that experience. It served me
- 1:13:29well, but don't be paranoid.
- 1:13:32Just don't ignore your intuition.
- 1:13:34>> Mhm.
- 1:13:35Would you say apply the same thinking
- 1:13:38>> Everything.
- 1:13:39>> to everything. Yeah, like I got cheated
- 1:13:40on in the past.
- 1:13:41>> Let's do that one.
- 1:13:42>> Yeah.
- 1:13:43>> You picked someone and at what point did
- 1:13:45you know this is not aligned?
- 1:13:48>> Honestly, from the beginning.
- 1:13:49>> Exactly.
- 1:13:51Come There you're smiling again.
- 1:13:54>> Yeah.
- 1:13:55>> I knew from the beginning, but I wanted
- 1:13:57the experience.
- 1:13:58>> Yeah.
- 1:13:59>> I wanted it. I was gunning for it.
- 1:14:03You know?
- 1:14:04And okay, well, that was that.
- 1:14:06>> Yeah.
- 1:14:07>> But I didn't You didn't get tricked.
- 1:14:10>> No.
- 1:14:11>> You knew.
- 1:14:11>> I knew. Yeah.
- 1:14:12>> So, now we're out of it. I'm not going
- 1:14:14to get involved with someone that I know
- 1:14:16from the beginning doesn't have the
- 1:14:17capacity and maturity to show up. And
- 1:14:20neither did I, so I picked someone who
- 1:14:22couldn't show up and then I could say,
- 1:14:23"God, I gave it my all." But
- 1:14:25>> Mhm.
- 1:14:26>> in fact, I wasn't ready either. I just
- 1:14:27wanted a good romance. And that you got.
- 1:14:30>> Yeah.
- 1:14:32Yeah.
- 1:14:32>> Not a good relationship.
- 1:14:34>> Mhm.
- 1:14:35>> Exciting, no ground.
- 1:14:37>> Right.
- 1:14:38>> You knew.
- 1:14:39>> Yeah.
- 1:14:39>> See, my read on you is that you're
- 1:14:41extraordinarily intuitive, but you have
- 1:14:43an exceptionally
- 1:14:45intelligent barking dog who wants to run
- 1:14:48the show and says, "Leave it to me."
- 1:14:49>> Yes.
- 1:14:50>> Just leave it to me.
- 1:14:51>> it.
- 1:14:52>> And it only goes so far at best and it
- 1:14:54goes really south.
- 1:14:57>> Yeah.
- 1:14:58>> And the more more important to your
- 1:15:00heart things.
- 1:15:01>> Mhm.
- 1:15:03Yeah.
- 1:15:04>> And so, what you need is paradigm shift.
- 1:15:07A paradigm shift is when you change your
- 1:15:09beliefs.
- 1:15:10And the belief that my my really
- 1:15:13intelligent smart brain is my asset, my
- 1:15:17brilliant clear spirit and my intuition
- 1:15:20are my asset and I got to train that
- 1:15:22brain
- 1:15:23to cooperate.
- 1:15:25>> Mhm.
- 1:15:27>> If I have a vibe about something, I will
- 1:15:29pull the plug instantly.
- 1:15:31>> Mhm.
- 1:15:31>> And do not have to have any explanation.
- 1:15:34It's off.
- 1:15:35>> Yep.
- 1:15:35>> Have an expression.
- 1:15:37You know, if you're cooking, say you're
- 1:15:39going to cook chicken. You have chicken
- 1:15:40in the refrigerator, you get it out,
- 1:15:42sits there, you you pick it up, you're
- 1:15:44going to cook it, and just something
- 1:15:46>> [snorts]
- 1:15:46>> something. Like this chicken's off.
- 1:15:49The chicken's off. Are you going to cook
- 1:15:51it and eat it?
- 1:15:54No. [laughter]
- 1:15:55And you will regret it if you do, but
- 1:15:56you go through this whole thing because
- 1:15:58you know that's
- 1:16:00potentially poison.
- 1:16:02Well, to me, any vibe that's off is as
- 1:16:05powerful as the chicken being off. It
- 1:16:07eventually is poison for me.
- 1:16:10It is eventually going to come back and
- 1:16:12haunt me.
- 1:16:13>> Yeah.
- 1:16:14>> It will never be benign.
- 1:16:16>> I think it's just with people
- 1:16:18like I have that with people, right? So,
- 1:16:20if I don't feel great around someone,
- 1:16:22I'll I'll just keep to myself and stay
- 1:16:23away.
- 1:16:24But I think I will also doubt myself
- 1:16:26sometimes cuz I think people in general
- 1:16:28will will will get into this state of
- 1:16:29like
- 1:16:31I feel the vibes off, but could it be my
- 1:16:32mind? Like could it just be me playing
- 1:16:34tricks on myself?
- 1:16:34>> here's the deal.
- 1:16:36It could be that you're in a bad mood or
- 1:16:38funky or whatever and suspicious and
- 1:16:41that person reminds me of the kid in
- 1:16:43seventh grade that I didn't like, so
- 1:16:45it's projection.
- 1:16:47But if it's a true intuition,
- 1:16:51the next time you run into that person,
- 1:16:53you won't feel all that. Yeah, if it's
- 1:16:56true intuition, you will feel I don't
- 1:16:58like you.
- 1:16:58>> Right.
- 1:16:59>> But here's my feeling.
- 1:17:01It's something.
- 1:17:03So, take a step away and sort it out.
- 1:17:06What is my something?
- 1:17:08Why don't I like that person? Do I feel
- 1:17:10like they're too good-looking and I'm
- 1:17:11feeling insecure and my barking dog is
- 1:17:13feeling like you're taller and
- 1:17:15better-looking and younger and whatever.
- 1:17:17Okay, I don't like you because you're
- 1:17:20triggering my insecurities and you're
- 1:17:22not
- 1:17:23taking care of me in the moment. So,
- 1:17:25okay. Still, we probably aren't going to
- 1:17:27be good friends cuz my insecurities
- 1:17:29don't want to be in that energy right
- 1:17:31now. Maybe I'll meet you in 5 years and
- 1:17:33we'll be different or next month or
- 1:17:35whatever.
- 1:17:36So, my feeling is no matter whether it's
- 1:17:38your ego or your barking dog if it's
- 1:17:40off,
- 1:17:42something's off.
- 1:17:44Give yourself some space and work
- 1:17:46through it. Don't override it.
- 1:17:47>> Mhm.
- 1:17:49>> Be curious.
- 1:17:51Always name your fears first and what I
- 1:17:53want.
- 1:17:54>> Yep.
- 1:17:55>> And then go back to your heart. What's
- 1:17:56true? Do I really like that person? No.
- 1:17:59Do I have a reason? No.
- 1:18:02It's just a vibe.
- 1:18:02>> Yeah.
- 1:18:03>> We don't It's We We're not a match.
- 1:18:05>> Mhm.
- 1:18:08>> You can live that way.
- 1:18:09>> Yeah.
- 1:18:10>> It's reliable.
- 1:18:12You're not going to make some
- 1:18:13catastrophic mistake. If someone really
- 1:18:16triggers you big time,
- 1:18:18that's a teacher.
- 1:18:20Not intentionally, but that behavior is
- 1:18:22a teacher for me.
- 1:18:24That behavior
- 1:18:26is a teacher for me. It's either going
- 1:18:28to teach me to notice something I'm
- 1:18:30hiding
- 1:18:31or some approval I'm seeking
- 1:18:33>> Right.
- 1:18:34>> or some some core value that they're
- 1:18:39they're not honoring.
- 1:18:41>> Right.
- 1:18:42>> There's some lesson here, but I don't
- 1:18:44need to stay in the mix. Let me pull out
- 1:18:47and ask myself,
- 1:18:51"Hm, what's the lesson?
- 1:18:53And am I available to it?
- 1:18:55I don't have to go back into the
- 1:18:57uncomfortable experience.
- 1:18:58>> Mhm.
- 1:18:59>> I can get a lesson from the teacher and
- 1:19:00move on."
- 1:19:02>> Is that how you would define a karmic
- 1:19:04relationship or is that different?
- 1:19:05>> relationship is when you don't You have
- 1:19:08an appointment to stay in it.
- 1:19:11And it's makes no logical sense, but we
- 1:19:14have things to teach each other.
- 1:19:17>> Yep.
- 1:19:18>> And we are going to box it out, but we
- 1:19:20are never going to come to a happy
- 1:19:22ending.
- 1:19:23We're just going to come to acceptance
- 1:19:25and let go.
- 1:19:27>> Mhm.
- 1:19:28Yeah.
- 1:19:29>> Those kinds of relationships you can
- 1:19:31hold on to your entire lifetime and
- 1:19:33you'll pick it up in the next one or
- 1:19:34you'll let go 10 years in or 3 months
- 1:19:36in.
- 1:19:37There's no happy ending.
- 1:19:39There's no resolution. There's only
- 1:19:41internal resolution that this person
- 1:19:44doesn't see or get me.
- 1:19:46And no matter what I do,
- 1:19:49they don't see me or get me, and I feel
- 1:19:52invalidated as a result.
- 1:19:54>> Mhm.
- 1:19:55>> And I need to learn that they don't see
- 1:19:57and get me because of where their
- 1:19:58consciousness is.
- 1:19:59>> Yep.
- 1:19:59>> So, why am I asking the person who's
- 1:20:02deaf and blind what they think of my
- 1:20:04movie?
- 1:20:06You know, they're not they they're not
- 1:20:07registering it.
- 1:20:08>> Yeah.
- 1:20:09>> They're in their own experience.
- 1:20:11>> Right.
- 1:20:11>> Having probably the same frustration
- 1:20:14with you.
- 1:20:16So, you accept we're different, but
- 1:20:19we've learned what What karmic
- 1:20:21relationships do is teach you self-love
- 1:20:23is the only exit.
- 1:20:25>> Yep.
- 1:20:26Yeah, for sure.
- 1:20:27>> only exit.
- 1:20:28>> Why would
- 1:20:29a spirit guide or an angel or any of
- 1:20:32your divine support system let you or
- 1:20:34guide you towards being in a karmic
- 1:20:35relationship?
- 1:20:36>> Cuz we're here to learn.
- 1:20:37>> Mhm.
- 1:20:38>> You're not going to learn by
- 1:20:40flattering yourself all day long to love
- 1:20:42yourself.
- 1:20:42>> Yep.
- 1:20:43>> So, walk into this experience and see
- 1:20:46what it will do. Your guides aren't here
- 1:20:48to prevent you from discomfort.
- 1:20:50>> Yeah.
- 1:20:51>> to help you grow.
- 1:20:53>> Right. Okay, this is a very important
- 1:20:55point.
- 1:20:56>> you own your power, own your choices,
- 1:21:00own your authenticity, and grow and
- 1:21:03create and contribute.
- 1:21:04>> Mhm.
- 1:21:05>> I've had many people say, "Well, my
- 1:21:06guides If I had guides, I wouldn't have
- 1:21:09been in this horrible relationship."
- 1:21:10It's like, "No, your guides were holding
- 1:21:12standby. You have first free will."
- 1:21:14>> Yep.
- 1:21:15>> You entered that. They didn't put you in
- 1:21:17there.
- 1:21:18They've been on standby all along saying
- 1:21:20you could love yourself and get out of
- 1:21:21this.
- 1:21:23But, this is your classroom. Enjoy. And
- 1:21:25you know, when you get out of a karmic
- 1:21:27relationship and you get far enough down
- 1:21:29the road to look in the rearview mirror
- 1:21:31with more neutrality, you will always
- 1:21:33say,
- 1:21:35"That stunk,
- 1:21:37but I'm glad it happened."
- 1:21:38>> Yeah, 100%.
- 1:21:39>> 100%. Like, your girlfriend or cheated
- 1:21:42on you or whatever.
- 1:21:43Aren't you glad that happened?
- 1:21:44>> hands down. Best thing that could have
- 1:21:46happened.
- 1:21:46>> Yeah, you you grew.
- 1:21:48You mature, you got over romantic love
- 1:21:51and decided wait a minute, relationships
- 1:21:53are the the substance of our meaning in
- 1:21:55life.
- 1:21:56>> Yes.
- 1:21:56>> I have got to deepen up myself.
- 1:21:59>> Yes, that's exactly what happened, yeah.
- 1:22:00>> Yeah, exactly. I have two daughters,
- 1:22:03they're grown now, but I was with my one
- 1:22:05daughter when she was
- 1:22:07five-ish teaching her to read, she was
- 1:22:09reading.
- 1:22:10And she got to a page in the book where
- 1:22:12she struggled and struggled and
- 1:22:13struggled.
- 1:22:15And I gave her the word.
- 1:22:17And she looked at the book and she
- 1:22:18looked at me and she looked at the word
- 1:22:20and she looked out.
- 1:22:22Went on for another couple words and
- 1:22:24again I gave her the word.
- 1:22:28I was I wanted to get get on with it.
- 1:22:30She looked at me and she looked out and
- 1:22:32looked at me and then I did it a third
- 1:22:33time and she got up and threw the book
- 1:22:35at me.
- 1:22:36And she said, "Stop it. You don't think
- 1:22:39I can do it, do you?"
- 1:22:41>> Well.
- 1:22:42>> And I said, "You're right, I'm so
- 1:22:44sorry."
- 1:22:46That your guides aren't going to keep
- 1:22:47giving you
- 1:22:48>> Yeah.
- 1:22:49>> That's ego. I was impatient. I didn't
- 1:22:52want to have feel her struggle.
- 1:22:55And she called me out.
- 1:22:57>> Yeah.
- 1:22:58>> I never did it again. That's your
- 1:23:00guides, they're holding space, but
- 1:23:02they're not saying, "Oh, you're having a
- 1:23:03bad day." They will give you the parking
- 1:23:05space, they will give you the break in
- 1:23:07the dark night of the soul, but they
- 1:23:08will never take away your opportunity to
- 1:23:10grow.
- 1:23:11>> Mhm.
- 1:23:12>> Cuz that's the gold of life.
- 1:23:14They will help you. It's like a coach.
- 1:23:17Would you love your coach if you played
- 1:23:19basketball and he said, "Look, I can see
- 1:23:21you're struggling, why don't you sit
- 1:23:22down and I'll play the game for you?"
- 1:23:23>> yeah.
- 1:23:24>> It's like, "Are you serious?"
- 1:23:26It's my game.
- 1:23:27>> Yeah.
- 1:23:28>> So don't think your guides are going to
- 1:23:30play the game for you.
- 1:23:31>> Right, they'll just assist you where you
- 1:23:33need.
- 1:23:33>> assist you and they're right there. And
- 1:23:35when you're really stuck
- 1:23:37they will get you out of trouble and
- 1:23:39back on track.
- 1:23:41>> So it's literally just as simple as just
- 1:23:42calling out for help. That's it.
- 1:23:44>> and meaning it.
- 1:23:45>> And meaning it.
- 1:23:46>> Mhm. Mhm. How do you manifest? Like
- 1:23:49thoughts.
- 1:23:49>> Same thing. Manifest is the same print
- 1:23:52These are not separate things. It's be
- 1:23:54aligned, be intentional,
- 1:23:57call in what you want, be willing to
- 1:23:59show up for it.
- 1:24:01Like the media company, you know the
- 1:24:02manifestation there's a bit wonky.
- 1:24:04>> Mhm.
- 1:24:05>> You're not showing up 100%. It's
- 1:24:07holding,
- 1:24:09but it's not surging.
- 1:24:10>> Mhm.
- 1:24:11>> And you don't know if you want it to cuz
- 1:24:12it'll pull you off of the other thing.
- 1:24:14>> Yep.
- 1:24:15>> So you look at how I'm directing my
- 1:24:17energy and I manifest where there's no
- 1:24:19interruption.
- 1:24:20>> Mhm.
- 1:24:21>> I can manifest to a point,
- 1:24:24but if I want it to keep growing, I've
- 1:24:26got to look at the energy,
- 1:24:28check the interruption, own it, and make
- 1:24:30a choice.
- 1:24:32They're the same.
- 1:24:33Align the chakras is to align with who
- 1:24:35you are,
- 1:24:37be authentic, means listen to what's
- 1:24:39true, admit where it went wonky. You
- 1:24:42made a wonky choice, but you knew.
- 1:24:44>> Mhm.
- 1:24:44>> You felt it. Don't judge, don't indict,
- 1:24:47learn, adjust.
- 1:24:49Get back in the game.
- 1:24:51>> Mhm.
- 1:24:52>> Slow down.
- 1:24:53>> Slow down.
- 1:24:54>> My read for you is slow down.
- 1:24:55>> Oh, really?
- 1:24:56>> Just a few breaths. Going so fast
- 1:24:58doesn't even give you a chance to really
- 1:25:00check in with what
- 1:25:02your guidance is suggesting.
- 1:25:04>> Wow.
- 1:25:05>> Just slow down enough to check.
- 1:25:08>> To check what's true to me.
- 1:25:09>> true. Does this feel true?
- 1:25:12And then be like a detective and what
- 1:25:13can we
- 1:25:15investigate further?
- 1:25:16>> Mhm.
- 1:25:17>> Media company. I love it. It's a good
- 1:25:19idea and I actually can see where it can
- 1:25:20go, but I don't want to be full-time
- 1:25:22personally overseeing it all.
- 1:25:24>> Yeah.
- 1:25:24>> But I had a I hired a CEO and he blew it
- 1:25:27so he could steal it from me. It's like,
- 1:25:28wait a minute.
- 1:25:30I don't hire a CEO. I tell someone,
- 1:25:33"This is my thing. I'm the head. You
- 1:25:35work for me, but you get all the credit
- 1:25:38and we work together and we will grow it
- 1:25:41together and it's not any assumed
- 1:25:43agreements, no implied agreements. We
- 1:25:45will work it out.
- 1:25:47>> Mhm.
- 1:25:48>> And if it feels like it's when aligned
- 1:25:50for true for both of us,
- 1:25:52we'll try it for 6 months. That's
- 1:25:54another way.
- 1:25:55>> What would you say is the biggest
- 1:25:56blocker for me
- 1:25:59as a in terms of my spiritual growth
- 1:26:01right now?
- 1:26:01>> You see it in conflict with your your
- 1:26:05ambition.
- 1:26:06>> I see spiritual growth as conflict with
- 1:26:08my
- 1:26:08>> There's a conflict in your mind.
- 1:26:09>> Mhm.
- 1:26:10>> Whereas you need to see I'm the new
- 1:26:12model of spirituality.
- 1:26:14It's not a renunciate model.
- 1:26:16>> Yeah.
- 1:26:18>> It's an a model that says we can live in
- 1:26:21an experience a beautiful world without
- 1:26:23a loss of integrity or a loss of soul.
- 1:26:26>> Mhm.
- 1:26:27>> And I'm learning it. See, I would talk
- 1:26:29about that.
- 1:26:30>> Yeah.
- 1:26:30>> I'm learning this.
- 1:26:32I've had these two, you know, two
- 1:26:34different models of the spirituality is
- 1:26:37the renunciate I have nothing.
- 1:26:39>> Mhm.
- 1:26:39>> Or I have everything but I've lost my
- 1:26:41soul. And you've come to bridge those
- 1:26:44two because that's just that's just a
- 1:26:46construct that was made up to control.
- 1:26:48>> Mhm. Yes.
- 1:26:50>> So that was Be My said that's your path.
- 1:26:52That's what you're here for to show and
- 1:26:55demonstrate and live energetically a new
- 1:26:59model that people can feel the vibration
- 1:27:02and not just listen to your words.
- 1:27:03>> Mhm.
- 1:27:04>> Because they're reading you, too.
- 1:27:06>> Yeah.
- 1:27:07>> So if you're aligned and it doesn't mean
- 1:27:09you have to get it all together. Just
- 1:27:10tell the truth on the process.
- 1:27:12>> Yeah.
- 1:27:12>> I'm learning this. I'm learning this. I
- 1:27:14messed up here.
- 1:27:15Be transparent.
- 1:27:17>> Yeah.
- 1:27:17>> And you'll be empowered. The first
- 1:27:19commandment
- 1:27:20is not to have false gods.
- 1:27:23And I think that's the one that
- 1:27:24everyone's breaking right now.
- 1:27:26>> The first commandment is not to have
- 1:27:27false gods.
- 1:27:28>> and that is approval of others.
- 1:27:30>> Right.
- 1:27:31Yeah.
- 1:27:32>> You have that you have a false god.
- 1:27:34>> Mhm.
- 1:27:35>> lost your power.
- 1:27:37>> So true. This podcast is called Relearn.
- 1:27:39>> Mhm.
- 1:27:40>> So what's the biggest thing that you
- 1:27:43just wish
- 1:27:45everyone could relearn in life
- 1:27:47against societal conditioning that we
- 1:27:49already have.
- 1:27:50>> Who you are is not your ego, not your
- 1:27:52condition, not your history. You are a
- 1:27:54divine spirit who is set up in this life
- 1:27:56for tremendous success, and this is not
- 1:27:58an easy obstacle course of a school.
- 1:28:01So, you need to stay true, and you need
- 1:28:03to call in your helpers, and you need to
- 1:28:05be honest.
- 1:28:07And you're never alone.
- 1:28:09You learn that, and the rest will fall
- 1:28:10into place.
- 1:28:11>> I love that. I love that so much. Thank
- 1:28:13you so much, Sonia.
- 1:28:14>> My pleasure.
- 1:28:15>> Where can people find out more?
- 1:28:16>> Well, they can find out more. I have my
- 1:28:18own YouTube channel.
- 1:28:20And I have a website, my name Sonia
- 1:28:23Choquette. It's dot net.
- 1:28:25And if you really want to learn this, I
- 1:28:28am teaching people to to coach this. I'm
- 1:28:31teaching people how to guide people back
- 1:28:33to authentic vibration, so they can
- 1:28:35check out my certification. I do it once
- 1:28:37a year. And it's a deep training on how
- 1:28:40to live aligned.
- 1:28:42>> Perfect.
- 1:28:42>> Like that.
- 1:28:43>> Amazing.
- 1:28:44>> So, those are the things that I am here
- 1:28:46to share.
- 1:28:47And you can find me on those places,
- 1:28:49even Instagram, but lessons, YouTube.
- 1:28:52>> Perfect. Thank you so much.
- 1:28:54>> my love.
- 1:28:54>> Thanks so much, Sonia.
- 1:28:55>> It was a pleasure.
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