YouTube2Text

The Intuition Expert: Red Light Green Light Intuition, The Barking Dog, Self-Love As The Only Exit — Transcript

by Relearn · 15,462 words · 2,916 segments · language en · Watch on YouTube

Full transcript

  1. 0:00She went, uprooted her life, left her
  2. 0:02job in Chicago, did everything, and
  3. 0:04within 36 days, the company collapsed.
  4. 0:08She lost everything.
  5. 0:09>> I suddenly want a partner.
  6. 0:11>> I didn't believe you at all. Look at my
  7. 0:13eyes. Am I here?
  8. 0:14>> No.
  9. 0:15>> You weren't here. Look in your eyes now
  10. 0:17and feel the smile. That's the spirit.
  11. 0:19>> That is insane.
  12. 0:21>> No, the energies are not aligned. Let's
  13. 0:23align them, and then [clears throat] we
  14. 0:25flow.
  15. 0:25>> My googly spun when you said that.
  16. 0:27>> You have angels for all things because
  17. 0:29angels serve God, and God wants you to
  18. 0:31find your way back to the divine. I can
  19. 0:34guarantee you what isn't working now
  20. 0:36won't work in the future.
  21. 0:37>> What would you say is the biggest
  22. 0:38blocker for me?
  23. 0:40>> You're a brilliant, bright soul that has
  24. 0:43a little bit too much of your ego making
  25. 0:46the choices still, and you know it.
  26. 0:49>> New York Times bestselling author,
  27. 0:51author to over 30 books, spiritual
  28. 0:54teacher with over 40 years as an
  29. 0:55intuitive guide, a PhD in metaphysics,
  30. 0:59and the 22 laws and soul mastery was
  31. 1:01taught to you by your spiritual
  32. 1:02teachers.
  33. 1:03So, you're coming here today to
  34. 1:05basically bless us with incredible
  35. 1:06wisdom, and I'm so excited for this
  36. 1:08conversation. Can you just tell us
  37. 1:11how would you explain intuition to
  38. 1:12someone who's just trying to figure it
  39. 1:15out for the first time? So, they are
  40. 1:17someone who has been conditioned so much
  41. 1:19by society to just think in their head
  42. 1:21all the time. What is intuition?
  43. 1:23>> I like to start with saying that the
  44. 1:25word itself intuition actually means
  45. 1:28inner teacher.
  46. 1:30So, first of all, it is
  47. 1:32your
  48. 1:34core inner
  49. 1:36frequency, your true nature. You are not
  50. 1:40thoughts, you are not a body, you are
  51. 1:42not emotions. You're navigating through
  52. 1:44these
  53. 1:45tools of expression in the third
  54. 1:47dimension, but your essence
  55. 1:50is spirit.
  56. 1:51>> Mhm.
  57. 1:52>> And we have inner senses that correspond
  58. 1:55to the outer senses.
  59. 1:57Intuition communicates
  60. 2:00through the senses. The communication
  61. 2:02itself is intuition. It is the broadcast
  62. 2:07from your spirit.
  63. 2:09True authentic self that is alerting you
  64. 2:12energetically
  65. 2:14to where you are aligned and coherent
  66. 2:18and in flow with your true divine nature
  67. 2:21and where you drift.
  68. 2:23So, intuition is the broadcast, the
  69. 2:26energetic broadcast that comes in gut
  70. 2:30feeling or agitation in the heart or
  71. 2:33hairs on the back of your neck because
  72. 2:35it's a real energy. It is not a
  73. 2:38metaphor. It is a energetic
  74. 2:41communication
  75. 2:43like red alert or go for it or hold on.
  76. 2:47And I've actually simplified it that the
  77. 2:49communication
  78. 2:52the intuition is communicating your true
  79. 2:54self.
  80. 2:56Your divine nature, your authentic self,
  81. 2:59your divine nature,
  82. 3:01your coherent aligned being.
  83. 3:04So, intuition is the conversation that
  84. 3:08is constantly energetically guiding you
  85. 3:11through life, through your choices,
  86. 3:13through your environment, all the
  87. 3:16opportunities you meet to grow
  88. 3:17emotionally and ambition wise and
  89. 3:20familial. The earth is school and your
  90. 3:23intuition is the constant broadcast
  91. 3:27to keep you true to yourself.
  92. 3:29Keep you intact and empowered and
  93. 3:31connected to your source energy.
  94. 3:34Throughout history, people have not
  95. 3:36wanted us to be that empowered.
  96. 3:38>> Mhm.
  97. 3:38>> So, it was maligned. It was It was
  98. 3:41dismissed. It was We were told that we
  99. 3:44don't have the authority
  100. 3:46>> Yeah.
  101. 3:47>> to be that empowered.
  102. 3:48>> Yeah.
  103. 3:49>> That has reached a peak now where to
  104. 3:52give our authority away
  105. 3:55is collapsing.
  106. 3:57It isn't working. We can no longer trust
  107. 3:59the external authority figures. Our Our
  108. 4:02confidence in churches is collapsing.
  109. 4:05Our confidence in political leaders is
  110. 4:07collapsing. Our lives with our jobs are
  111. 4:09collapsing
  112. 4:10>> Yeah.
  113. 4:11>> because the world is in such a
  114. 4:12tremendous flux. Nothing We can't turn
  115. 4:16our authority over to external leaders
  116. 4:19and guides and say, "Okay, I'm just
  117. 4:21going to follow you."
  118. 4:22>> Yep.
  119. 4:22>> So, intuition
  120. 4:24is finally being revisited.
  121. 4:27It's being reconsidered, but we do have
  122. 4:29to plow through all of that negativity
  123. 4:31and and all that that messaging that
  124. 4:35this is weird, this is woo-woo, this is
  125. 4:37nonsense, this is
  126. 4:39religiously in insulting, this is Satan.
  127. 4:43I mean, believe me, I've been in the
  128. 4:45field for
  129. 4:46my whole life
  130. 4:48taking so much flak for being the
  131. 4:51messenger saying, "No, this is who we
  132. 4:53are."
  133. 4:53>> Mhm.
  134. 4:54>> So, it's not something
  135. 4:56you have, it's the communication of who
  136. 4:59you authentically are getting your
  137. 5:01attention.
  138. 5:03And it's not one size fits all.
  139. 5:05Nor is it consistent in how it gets your
  140. 5:08attention. You might get a gut feeling.
  141. 5:10Now, the first level of attention is
  142. 5:13going to be warnings. I call that red
  143. 5:16light intuition, and this is what most
  144. 5:18people will recognize as intuition, but
  145. 5:22it's also what makes them uncomfortable
  146. 5:24because it's the warning. Oh, that's
  147. 5:26bad. That's the bad vibe because your
  148. 5:29first line of inner guidance from your
  149. 5:31true self is, "You're putting yourself
  150. 5:33in danger."
  151. 5:34>> Mhm.
  152. 5:35>> I'm [clears throat] going to let you
  153. 5:35know and help you revisit that choice or
  154. 5:38those decisions that are drifting this
  155. 5:41way.
  156. 5:42That's what I call red light intuition.
  157. 5:45Gut feeling intuition, protective.
  158. 5:47That's the first the first broadcast.
  159. 5:50>> This is like when you see when like
  160. 5:53you can feel a narcissist, for example.
  161. 5:54>> Yes, like you're walking down the street
  162. 5:56and all of a sudden you have a a
  163. 5:58genuinely bad feeling.
  164. 6:01>> Right.
  165. 6:01>> Now, we have to look at the word feeling
  166. 6:03because it's a word that's confusing.
  167. 6:06It's a word most people understand as
  168. 6:08emotion.
  169. 6:09But it's actually sensation.
  170. 6:12>> Mhm.
  171. 6:12>> I am energetically sensing
  172. 6:16an intention or a situation that is not
  173. 6:20aligned with my well-being. Someone's
  174. 6:23walking behind me vibing that I'm going
  175. 6:26to rob you, I'm going to pick that up.
  176. 6:29I'm going to sense it.
  177. 6:30>> Mhm.
  178. 6:31>> Our conditioning, and especially for
  179. 6:33women,
  180. 6:33>> Yeah.
  181. 6:34>> is oh, be nice.
  182. 6:35Ignore that, you know, that's you're
  183. 6:38you're you're too sensitive. And then
  184. 6:39they get
  185. 6:41>> Yeah.
  186. 6:41>> They get um they become victims.
  187. 6:43>> Yeah.
  188. 6:44>> So that's the first line of
  189. 6:45communication. The second line of
  190. 6:47communication from the self is to alert
  191. 6:50you where something is totally aligned.
  192. 6:53Go for this. This is a good idea. And
  193. 6:56it's important because this often will
  194. 6:58fly in the face of external influences,
  195. 7:01conditioning, authority that says you
  196. 7:04should do this and this is the right
  197. 7:05path and you want to be the doctor or
  198. 7:08the lawyer because the family wants
  199. 7:09that, but your inner self says no.
  200. 7:13>> Mhm.
  201. 7:13>> I'm an artist. Like in your case, I'm a
  202. 7:15dancer. I'm a creator.
  203. 7:17I'm not a follower.
  204. 7:18>> Yeah.
  205. 7:19>> So that is green-lighted intuition,
  206. 7:21which is just as important cuz it keeps
  207. 7:23you
  208. 7:24faithful to who you are.
  209. 7:27And it it gives you the energy
  210. 7:31physically, the sensation
  211. 7:33of relaxation and expansion.
  212. 7:37Red-light
  213. 7:39communication is contract, protect.
  214. 7:42>> Yeah.
  215. 7:43>> Pay attention. Be present.
  216. 7:46Get out of wherever your head is. Green
  217. 7:48light is
  218. 7:49open up, lean in. Let's go for it. Let's
  219. 7:53do this. Even and it gets strong because
  220. 7:55you're
  221. 7:56likely
  222. 7:58to meet resistance and rejection.
  223. 8:02You know, very few people say that their
  224. 8:05their peer group or their family of
  225. 8:07origin or their close personal intimates
  226. 8:09are going to say you go for it. You do
  227. 8:11that. You trust that that desire.
  228. 8:14They'll say oh be careful that you're
  229. 8:15going to fail because
  230. 8:17it's a great deal of inner authority.
  231. 8:20It's your spirit saying this is who you
  232. 8:24are.
  233. 8:26We're going to help you. You are
  234. 8:27connected to a universal force that
  235. 8:29wants you
  236. 8:31to express your best self.
  237. 8:33And so that green light comes and that's
  238. 8:35when you you just like I can't this is
  239. 8:38where people say I can't explain it
  240. 8:40because you cannot. It is not logically
  241. 8:43driven.
  242. 8:45But I have to do this.
  243. 8:47Something tells me and that something is
  244. 8:49your core self, your true nature, your
  245. 8:51spirit.
  246. 8:53And then we have pause. I call that
  247. 8:55pause which is that
  248. 8:56your the energies are always moving.
  249. 9:00And sometimes you just have to wait
  250. 9:02while the external energies are
  251. 9:04settling. Okay. So I don't know why I
  252. 9:08didn't sign that contract today. But I
  253. 9:11know it's the path to go but maybe in
  254. 9:13this moment something's preventing me
  255. 9:15from
  256. 9:17doing it today. So it it creates in the
  257. 9:20mind ambivalence when in fact there's
  258. 9:22nothing ambivalent. It's just not the
  259. 9:24right time. Yeah. I had a client
  260. 9:27that I worked with. This is in the first
  261. 9:31surge cuz I've been around a long time
  262. 9:33in the first surge of technology. In the
  263. 9:35first dot com. It was the first surge
  264. 9:37and I had a client who wanted to move to
  265. 9:40San Francisco and join a startup and
  266. 9:42they were going gangbusters. I mean it
  267. 9:45was really quite quite like AI right
  268. 9:47now. Just insane
  269. 9:49exponential growth in in weeks and
  270. 9:53she came and said I don't I don't know I
  271. 9:56don't know why. It's everything I want I
  272. 9:58want to leave Chicago where she was at
  273. 10:01the time. I want to go.
  274. 10:03My body won't let me go because again it
  275. 10:05is an energy. Her spirit was not
  276. 10:09aligning with what appeared to be her
  277. 10:11opportunity.
  278. 10:12>> Wow.
  279. 10:13>> So, she ignored it.
  280. 10:15She went.
  281. 10:16Her Everybody said, "You got to go.
  282. 10:18Seize the day. Do whatever." We had
  283. 10:20several conversations. She said, "You
  284. 10:21know what? I think it's just fear. I'm
  285. 10:22going to go."
  286. 10:24>> [snorts]
  287. 10:24>> She went, uprooted her life, left her
  288. 10:27job in Chicago, did everything, and
  289. 10:29within 36 days,
  290. 10:32the company collapsed. The dot-com
  291. 10:34collapsed. She lost everything.
  292. 10:37>> But she wrote over wrote it.
  293. 10:39And it took an effort.
  294. 10:42It took an effort to override it. And
  295. 10:44this is what I want people to think that
  296. 10:46to pay attention to is that
  297. 10:48intuition rises. It is our conditioning.
  298. 10:52Every single baby in the room can read
  299. 10:55the energy.
  300. 10:56>> Mhm.
  301. 10:57>> Uh we come in with our inner senses
  302. 10:59turned on. We are connected
  303. 11:02>> Yeah.
  304. 11:02>> to not [snorts] only who we are, but
  305. 11:04where we come from, and all the forces
  306. 11:07of support.
  307. 11:08>> Right.
  308. 11:09>> But we just have been gaslit.
  309. 11:12>> Interesting. Yeah.
  310. 11:13>> And it's ending. That's what's exciting
  311. 11:15is it's ending. So, I first say
  312. 11:17intuition is a felt physical sense.
  313. 11:22However, it is it's subtle.
  314. 11:26And it's it runs the same channels as
  315. 11:29your emotions because it runs through
  316. 11:31your nervous system.
  317. 11:33So, people get confused. How is it my
  318. 11:35emotion? Is it my emotion? I thought it
  319. 11:37was my intuition. So, here's where you
  320. 11:39have to start
  321. 11:41getting quiet
  322. 11:43enough,
  323. 11:45going inward, and starting to use
  324. 11:47discernment.
  325. 11:49Discernment means pay attention to the
  326. 11:51subtle.
  327. 11:52Because intuition
  328. 11:54doesn't feel at all like emotion.
  329. 11:57Emotion is like a bouncing ball.
  330. 11:59Emotion is energetically
  331. 12:02um
  332. 12:03very active.
  333. 12:05It's very intense. It either expands, it
  334. 12:08collapses, it surges, it pulls back.
  335. 12:12Intuition is consistent.
  336. 12:14It doesn't jump around. Your emotions
  337. 12:17say, "This is right, but I'm afraid.
  338. 12:19What if I make a mess?"
  339. 12:21And your intuition will say,
  340. 12:22"Nevertheless,
  341. 12:24nevertheless,
  342. 12:25do this."
  343. 12:27And
  344. 12:27we have a language problem again because
  345. 12:30we we use the word say
  346. 12:33>> Mhm.
  347. 12:34>> because it's communicating.
  348. 12:36But
  349. 12:37it's not necessarily communicating in
  350. 12:39words.
  351. 12:40It's com- I say intuition communicates
  352. 12:43like music.
  353. 12:44You can hear a piece piece of music with
  354. 12:46no words and get a whole story.
  355. 12:48>> Yeah.
  356. 12:49>> That's the same as intuition. It is
  357. 12:51conveying
  358. 12:53a whole
  359. 12:55message to you.
  360. 12:56>> Mhm.
  361. 12:57>> That is either go for it or pull back or
  362. 12:59hold on or not right or pay attention or
  363. 13:03something's off and it's very subtle.
  364. 13:07But it's very consistent because it's
  365. 13:09you.
  366. 13:10>> I really want to unpack this because I'm
  367. 13:11just thinking there's people listening
  368. 13:14who aren't used to understanding
  369. 13:17the bridge between the spiritual world
  370. 13:18and the material world.
  371. 13:19>> Mhm.
  372. 13:20>> And so, on a practical level, say for
  373. 13:22example, you have person A and
  374. 13:25they've just met someone. And they're
  375. 13:27wondering whether this person is the
  376. 13:28right person for them.
  377. 13:29>> Right.
  378. 13:30>> And so, they can't decide whether it's
  379. 13:32their intuition or if their fear holding
  380. 13:34them back. Cuz they're like, "Well, I
  381. 13:36want to be with this person, but then
  382. 13:38I'm not sure. Am I seeing red flags? Is
  383. 13:40it my intuition picking up the red
  384. 13:41flags? Is it just me being in my head?"
  385. 13:43>> Right.
  386. 13:43>> How do you distinguish that?
  387. 13:44>> Well, the first thing I say is pump the
  388. 13:46brakes.
  389. 13:47>> Mhm.
  390. 13:48>> Go back to your breath.
  391. 13:49Get back to your body.
  392. 13:51Because you have to be centered in
  393. 13:53yourself to be able to tune into
  394. 13:56accurate accurate information versus
  395. 13:58emotional surge.
  396. 14:01Secondly,
  397. 14:03acknowledge what you want from the
  398. 14:04situation.
  399. 14:06Do I just want a partner?
  400. 14:08Did I really enjoy that person? And it
  401. 14:12it requires a self
  402. 14:14a a self-inventory of honesty.
  403. 14:17Did I really like that person? Do I
  404. 14:19really Did I find him attractive or her
  405. 14:21attractive? Was Were we Did we laugh?
  406. 14:23Did we have fun? What about it? Or do I
  407. 14:25just not want to be alone? What do I
  408. 14:27want apart from that person?
  409. 14:30Because your own motivations can
  410. 14:32override your own ambition can override
  411. 14:35your intuition.
  412. 14:36>> Mhm.
  413. 14:37>> If you're not checking it, you can have
  414. 14:39what you want, but you have to be honest
  415. 14:40about it.
  416. 14:41>> Right.
  417. 14:42>> And then the second way to really get
  418. 14:45very quickly
  419. 14:46to your intuition
  420. 14:48is to have do a tool I call empty the
  421. 14:50garbage.
  422. 14:51And empty the garbage is your fears.
  423. 14:53>> Mhm.
  424. 14:54>> And you can't do it mentally.
  425. 14:56You have to do it verbally. So,
  426. 14:58is there anything you intuitively want
  427. 15:00to know
  428. 15:01and you're not clear? We'll do it right
  429. 15:03now.
  430. 15:03>> Yes, actually. Yeah.
  431. 15:05>> Okay, let's go.
  432. 15:06>> Okay.
  433. 15:06>> I'll give you a caveat. It has to be a
  434. 15:08genuinely You have to be genuinely
  435. 15:10available for guidance. You want You
  436. 15:13have to be genuinely available to check
  437. 15:16in with what your intuition, your true
  438. 15:19self says.
  439. 15:20And
  440. 15:22you don't have to listen to it.
  441. 15:24>> Okay.
  442. 15:24>> But you might want to consider it. So, I
  443. 15:26always say, just get the get the insight
  444. 15:28and then you can choose.
  445. 15:30What are you genuinely interested in
  446. 15:32exploring?
  447. 15:33>> I have someone in my life who I'm
  448. 15:35deciding whether
  449. 15:37I should commit to long term.
  450. 15:40>> Okay, perfect. That's perfect cuz it's
  451. 15:42real.
  452. 15:43>> Okay.
  453. 15:44>> Okay, so apart from that person,
  454. 15:47what do you want right now in your life?
  455. 15:51Do you want a partner? Do you not want a
  456. 15:53partner? Do you want someone on standby?
  457. 15:55What's the truth?
  458. 15:58In the moment, it can change tomorrow.
  459. 16:01>> I certainly want a partner, yeah.
  460. 16:03>> Okay, now I am energetically, and so are
  461. 16:06you, feeling all kinds of ambivalence in
  462. 16:09that statement. That was about as clear
  463. 16:11as a
  464. 16:12sack of you know, a bunch of stones on
  465. 16:15the ground.
  466. 16:16I didn't believe you at all. Did you?
  467. 16:19>> I yeah, I I
  468. 16:20>> [laughter]
  469. 16:20>> See?
  470. 16:22It's energy. The energy is
  471. 16:25So, no, you certainly don't You
  472. 16:27certainly don't yet fully
  473. 16:30that statement doesn't resonate as true
  474. 16:32right now.
  475. 16:33>> Mhm.
  476. 16:36>> It has nothing to do with this person.
  477. 16:38>> Yeah.
  478. 16:38>> It has to do with
  479. 16:40what that involves of you.
  480. 16:42>> Um
  481. 16:43>> So, what's the truth?
  482. 16:44>> I'm
  483. 16:45transitioning between the avoidant
  484. 16:47attachment style to the secure. So
  485. 16:49>> Okay, that's very intellectual. So, we
  486. 16:50know that intellectually. So, you have
  487. 16:52your whole argument for this, and I can
  488. 16:54respect that, but let's go back to what
  489. 16:56is the truth?
  490. 16:57>> Uh the truth is I want a partner under
  491. 17:01the circumstance that I can still be me
  492. 17:04and pursue what I want to pursue in the
  493. 17:06way that I want to pursue it.
  494. 17:07>> Okay, so that sounds very unavailable to
  495. 17:10true partnership.
  496. 17:11>> Mhm.
  497. 17:11>> Cuz if you were going into business,
  498. 17:13would you say that to a business
  499. 17:15partner? I want you to be here. I want
  500. 17:17you to invest in me, but I want to do
  501. 17:19everything myself. Can you feel the
  502. 17:21dissonance in this?
  503. 17:23>> Mhm.
  504. 17:23>> There's dissonance. Can you feel it
  505. 17:25yourself? I can say it, but what will
  506. 17:27make a difference is can you feel where
  507. 17:30you lose energy?
  508. 17:32It just
  509. 17:33>> Yep.
  510. 17:34>> Yeah, see, intuition is truth serum.
  511. 17:38Okay.
  512. 17:39So, I want a partner,
  513. 17:41but I fear. So, let's go to my second
  514. 17:43tool. What are you afraid of?
  515. 17:45We're going to empty the garbage. Just
  516. 17:46fill in the blank. Real fast.
  517. 17:48I'm afraid of
  518. 17:50>> I'm afraid of picking the wrong partner.
  519. 17:51>> I'm afraid of
  520. 17:53>> losing myself.
  521. 17:54>> I'm afraid of
  522. 17:55>> them holding me back in what I want to
  523. 17:57do.
  524. 17:57>> But I would say
  525. 17:59as you're getting way ahead of yourself.
  526. 18:01I would say you've met someone you're
  527. 18:02very enthusiastic about,
  528. 18:05but you have no good model and no good
  529. 18:07experience of relationships, so you're
  530. 18:09colliding.
  531. 18:10>> Interesting.
  532. 18:11>> So, get the real problem. The problem is
  533. 18:14you're wonderful, but my [clears throat]
  534. 18:15model of relationship
  535. 18:18really stinks.
  536. 18:19>> Mhm.
  537. 18:19>> want that.
  538. 18:21I don't want that. I don't want what I
  539. 18:23feel a relationship implies.
  540. 18:26Which really is more of some sort of
  541. 18:29loss of freedom. Somehow loss of genuine
  542. 18:33So, I would say
  543. 18:35it's not about long-term partnership.
  544. 18:36It's about getting clear about what kind
  545. 18:39of
  546. 18:40partnership speaks to you that doesn't
  547. 18:42feel threatening.
  548. 18:43>> Yep.
  549. 18:44>> Is everything you are in no way
  550. 18:46available. You just want her on standby
  551. 18:49or him or whomever on standby.
  552. 18:51>> Mhm.
  553. 18:51>> You stay there
  554. 18:53and [snorts] you just be nice and steady
  555. 18:55and convince me it's safe. But, no
  556. 18:57partner who would do that would keep
  557. 18:59your interest long-term.
  558. 19:01>> Mhm.
  559. 19:02>> That would keep your interest.
  560. 19:04You need more from a person than
  561. 19:06somebody who's just going to hold space
  562. 19:08for you to be all that. This is kind of
  563. 19:11what I do with a reading. It's like,
  564. 19:12"No, no. The energies are not aligned.
  565. 19:15Let's align them
  566. 19:16>> Yep.
  567. 19:17>> and then we flow."
  568. 19:19So, I would say two things. I really
  569. 19:21like you.
  570. 19:22I don't really have any sense of what a
  571. 19:25partnership that would work for me
  572. 19:27looks like. So, I got to work out all my
  573. 19:30obstacles because you're kind of
  574. 19:31sabotaged.
  575. 19:33I'm not available.
  576. 19:36And you're too important to me to
  577. 19:38sabotage you.
  578. 19:39>> Yep.
  579. 19:39>> So, let's just hang out and keep
  580. 19:40building a friendship and have some good
  581. 19:42times, but let's
  582. 19:44I got some clearing to do.
  583. 19:46>> So, the interest of read is that
  584. 19:49>> that you want that you're cake and eat
  585. 19:50it, too.
  586. 19:52>> Because I there are things that I still
  587. 19:53need to work on
  588. 19:55in order to be able to be with this
  589. 19:56person.
  590. 19:57>> So, let me ask you this. Does any of
  591. 19:59that resonate as true for you?
  592. 20:01>> Yeah, there's definitely dissonance. I
  593. 20:03have past traumas from relationships
  594. 20:06>> Mhm.
  595. 20:07>> where I've been held back
  596. 20:09or I've been cheated on
  597. 20:10>> Right.
  598. 20:11>> or I've just not been the happiest.
  599. 20:14>> Right.
  600. 20:15>> And it's been very toxic.
  601. 20:17>> All of that and slugging through all of
  602. 20:19that could take years.
  603. 20:20>> Mhm.
  604. 20:21>> I think you know that cuz I think you've
  605. 20:22been focused on that to some degree.
  606. 20:25>> Yeah.
  607. 20:25>> But now I'm going to speak directly to
  608. 20:27your soul.
  609. 20:28>> Mhm.
  610. 20:28>> Which is the source of your intuition,
  611. 20:30your spirit.
  612. 20:32Do you really feel threatened
  613. 20:34by that soul?
  614. 20:36>> That person?
  615. 20:37>> Mhm.
  616. 20:38>> No.
  617. 20:38>> Okay. Well, that's what you know to be
  618. 20:40true and just keep that there.
  619. 20:42>> Yeah.
  620. 20:42>> Cuz what is causing all your stuff is
  621. 20:45not that person.
  622. 20:46>> No, it's not.
  623. 20:47>> No, that is your direct experience is
  624. 20:49not at all that. So, you're just
  625. 20:50bringing all this laundry.
  626. 20:54I got to do all this laundry and maybe
  627. 20:55you want to do it. I'll come back.
  628. 20:58But the truth is and see how I look in
  629. 21:00your eyes now and feel the smile. That's
  630. 21:02the spirit. You can't hold it back and
  631. 21:05you feel it your whole body just
  632. 21:06changed.
  633. 21:07>> Yeah.
  634. 21:07>> And that's the truth and that's what I
  635. 21:09do. That's what intuition does. Gets
  636. 21:12beyond that pile and pile and pile of
  637. 21:15human drama
  638. 21:17and says, "What's the truth?" And see
  639. 21:18how your vibes open, the energy in your
  640. 21:21body's excited, your spirit can't help
  641. 21:23but smile. The light is back in your
  642. 21:26eyes
  643. 21:28and that's [snorts] what you can trust.
  644. 21:30See how it changed you?
  645. 21:31>> Yeah, that is wild.
  646. 21:32>> Yeah, and it's visible.
  647. 21:34Isn't it?
  648. 21:35>> That is insane.
  649. 21:36>> turning the lights back on.
  650. 21:38>> Wow.
  651. 21:39>> So, you can just go there.
  652. 21:41>> How can someone go there if they weren't
  653. 21:43sitting with you right now?
  654. 21:44Like you took me there.
  655. 21:45>> Same tools.
  656. 21:46The tools I Now, you got my
  657. 21:47transmission, cuz I was definitely
  658. 21:50transmitting a strong reflection back to
  659. 21:52you of don't tolerate all this mental
  660. 21:54chaos. It's just toxic to you.
  661. 21:57>> Yeah.
  662. 21:58>> Your story, your history, what human
  663. 22:00hasn't had that ping-pong ball machine?
  664. 22:03That's just life.
  665. 22:05>> Yeah.
  666. 22:05>> But underneath all that, you have access
  667. 22:08to your true self, which can identify
  668. 22:12what's truly aligned or not.
  669. 22:15>> Mhm.
  670. 22:15>> And it has nothing to do with your
  671. 22:17history. It has to do with being
  672. 22:19present.
  673. 22:20So, what do I really want?
  674. 22:23What are my objections and fears? And
  675. 22:25then all Okay, empty the garbage.
  676. 22:30Now, let's get back to what's important.
  677. 22:32What's the truth? Do you truly feel?
  678. 22:36Never ask if it's right. That just goes
  679. 22:38right into the garbage.
  680. 22:40I asked you, what's the truth?
  681. 22:42>> Oh, yes.
  682. 22:44>> Boom.
  683. 22:45>> [clears throat]
  684. 22:45>> That's the truth.
  685. 22:46>> it right there.
  686. 22:47>> Yeah.
  687. 22:48>> Right and wrong is going to put you in
  688. 22:50the nightmare
  689. 22:51>> Yeah.
  690. 22:52>> of logic and emotion and protection and
  691. 22:54drama.
  692. 22:56Yeah, I got to work on that, but the
  693. 22:58truth is this person.
  694. 23:00It's good. I can't stop that.
  695. 23:03>> Mhm.
  696. 23:04>> Same with the job or same with anything.
  697. 23:06The ego always wants you to be safe and
  698. 23:09in control.
  699. 23:10>> Yeah.
  700. 23:11>> So, it's going to give you the whole
  701. 23:14set of things that have to be in place
  702. 23:16before you are, and it's all a lie.
  703. 23:19>> Wow.
  704. 23:20>> So, this is what I teach. Intuition
  705. 23:23isn't How can you be safe and in control
  706. 23:25and avoid trouble? It's like, no. How
  707. 23:27can you be you and live unencumbered
  708. 23:32with all that sabotage?
  709. 23:35>> Mhm.
  710. 23:36>> Your spirit is not vulnerable.
  711. 23:40Your spirit is not fragile. Your spirit
  712. 23:44is divine, exponentially
  713. 23:47powerful, and divinely supported. It's
  714. 23:50your ego
  715. 23:52that has all that trouble.
  716. 23:53>> Yeah.
  717. 23:54>> And we all have one. Einstein said it
  718. 23:57first. He said that human spirit is your
  719. 23:58gift.
  720. 24:00And the [snorts] rational mind is the
  721. 24:01faithful servant.
  722. 24:03>> Mhm. I love that.
  723. 24:04>> Sadly, we've thrown away the gift. See,
  724. 24:06I just reconnected you back to the gift.
  725. 24:08>> Yes.
  726. 24:09>> And we've become enslaved to the
  727. 24:11servant. Well, I'm judgment avoidant,
  728. 24:15and I've had this and that. That's the
  729. 24:16servant. That's the So, my teacher said,
  730. 24:19cuz it comes from the tarot, which is an
  731. 24:22image that is the book of spirit is the
  732. 24:25fool.
  733. 24:26The fool is the spirit. It The name of
  734. 24:28the fool in that card is aleph. It means
  735. 24:31breath.
  736. 24:32The spirit.
  737. 24:34And in the image, cuz images
  738. 24:36[clears throat]
  739. 24:37reveal to us who we are.
  740. 24:38>> Mhm.
  741. 24:40>> The fool is about to step into life.
  742. 24:42He's about ready to step into the human
  743. 24:44experience. He's right into step off the
  744. 24:46cliff.
  745. 24:47And he has a rose in his hand. That's
  746. 24:49your desire. That's the desire to
  747. 24:51create.
  748. 24:52>> Yep.
  749. 24:53>> [snorts]
  750. 24:53>> And he has a uh satchel on a stick on
  751. 24:56his shoulder. That's your talents and
  752. 24:58tools, what you're going to use to
  753. 24:59create.
  754. 25:01And at his feet he has a little white
  755. 25:02dog, and that is your ego.
  756. 25:05>> What?
  757. 25:05>> Companion.
  758. 25:07To help you.
  759. 25:08>> Yeah.
  760. 25:08>> Your intellect, your ego.
  761. 25:10But he's a companion. So I say your
  762. 25:12ego's your barking dog.
  763. 25:14So don't let your barking dog
  764. 25:16>> Right.
  765. 25:16>> drive the bus of your life.
  766. 25:19Are you going to just go around and
  767. 25:20around and around in noisy circles?
  768. 25:23Go back to the spirit.
  769. 25:25You know.
  770. 25:27It resonates and it's not no.
  771. 25:31>> Right.
  772. 25:31>> But what happened with you is what
  773. 25:33happens when you reconnect. You turned
  774. 25:35on like a Christmas tree.
  775. 25:36>> Mhm.
  776. 25:37>> It's a surge of energy of your spirit.
  777. 25:40It's powerful. Did you in that moment
  778. 25:42feel any fear at all?
  779. 25:44>> No.
  780. 25:44>> Yeah, it's nice, isn't it?
  781. 25:46>> That was what was crazy. Like the
  782. 25:47experience I was feeling was like a It
  783. 25:49was a peaceful feeling, but also like a
  784. 25:52a strong knowing and like clarity at the
  785. 25:54same time. It was just
  786. 25:55>> Alignment.
  787. 25:56>> Yeah.
  788. 25:56>> Connection. That's what we need to learn
  789. 26:00again.
  790. 26:00>> Mhm.
  791. 26:01>> That's what I teach. If it's too noisy,
  792. 26:04it's too complicated, the story's too
  793. 26:07long, barking dog.
  794. 26:09>> Right.
  795. 26:10>> So you don't shoot the dog.
  796. 26:12>> Mhm.
  797. 26:12>> You train the dog.
  798. 26:13>> Mhm.
  799. 26:14>> And just empty the garbage.
  800. 26:16Identify the agenda.
  801. 26:19And then ask yourself what's the truth?
  802. 26:22Because your intuition isn't a needle in
  803. 26:24a haystack.
  804. 26:26It's right there.
  805. 26:27Your guidance, your soul is
  806. 26:29communicating all the time.
  807. 26:32>> Mhm.
  808. 26:33>> You just have to be honest and you have
  809. 26:34to want it.
  810. 26:37>> Yeah.
  811. 26:38>> want that truth.
  812. 26:39A lot of people don't want it.
  813. 26:42That's changing, but a lot of people
  814. 26:44don't want it.
  815. 26:45>> You speak about intuition as though it's
  816. 26:47something so much bigger than just this
  817. 26:48what we're experiencing in this body.
  818. 26:50>> It's a connection to your spirit and to
  819. 26:53your source and to your divine support
  820. 26:56system.
  821. 26:57>> Can you expand that?
  822. 26:58For a while there.
  823. 26:59>> We are spirit.
  824. 27:00>> Mhm.
  825. 27:01>> We are energy. Now, finally quantum
  826. 27:03physics caught up and said as starting
  827. 27:05to say this. Every neuroscientist who's
  828. 27:07who's coming online now by the dozens is
  829. 27:09like, "Guess what? We're spirits." I'm
  830. 27:12like, "Well, yeah. It's been around for
  831. 27:14a thousand years. Glad you caught up.
  832. 27:16Really glad you caught up cuz you've
  833. 27:18been causing the problem.
  834. 27:20So, we're going to sort that out. But,
  835. 27:22the truth is we are energetic beings
  836. 27:24that are that are that are unlimited.
  837. 27:27And we are divinely connected. We are
  838. 27:30divine energy.
  839. 27:32And as divine energy, we come from
  840. 27:35divine energy and we are connected
  841. 27:38to divine energy.
  842. 27:39>> Mhm.
  843. 27:39>> That means that we're not alone.
  844. 27:42Not alone.
  845. 27:43The ego is always alone.
  846. 27:45>> Mhm.
  847. 27:46>> The ego is defended. It's me against
  848. 27:48you. It's the others. Anytime you're
  849. 27:51othered, you're in ego.
  850. 27:53>> Well, yeah.
  851. 27:53>> When you're in spirit, we're all
  852. 27:55connected and then you start realizing
  853. 27:57we're really connected.
  854. 28:00We have so much to benevolent loving
  855. 28:02help available to us consciousness that
  856. 28:05wants us
  857. 28:07to flourish and be our best self.
  858. 28:10And school the Earth is school. So,
  859. 28:13we're going to go, you know, up and
  860. 28:15down. We're going to be barking dog
  861. 28:17expanded spirit. But, I have a tool that
  862. 28:19helps you make that transition fast.
  863. 28:23So,
  864. 28:25first of all, name your barking dog. And
  865. 28:26what kind of barking dog do you have?
  866. 28:28>> I probably have a German Shepherd.
  867. 28:31>> Yeah. Patrolling the borders as well as
  868. 28:33>> Yeah.
  869. 28:34>> alpha dog. So, what's your alpha dog's
  870. 28:36name?
  871. 28:37>> Rocky.
  872. 28:37>> Good one.
  873. 28:39>> Yeah.
  874. 28:39>> You love him. He's trying to protect
  875. 28:41you.
  876. 28:41>> Yeah.
  877. 28:42>> But, he's not your genius. He's not your
  878. 28:45spirit. So,
  879. 28:46tell me about your spirit.
  880. 28:48>> Much lighter,
  881. 28:49>> Mhm.
  882. 28:49>> more reliable, peaceful, more grounded,
  883. 28:52more service driven.
  884. 28:53>> Yeah, and what else about your spirit?
  885. 28:56That That's the you that loves
  886. 28:58fearlessly, that creates fearlessly.
  887. 29:01>> Yes.
  888. 29:02>> Tell me more about your spirit.
  889. 29:04>> If I was going to describe its actions,
  890. 29:05it's like spreading light as much as
  891. 29:07possible as far as and wide as it can
  892. 29:09go.
  893. 29:10>> So, let's just shift the words a little
  894. 29:11bit instead of it to I.
  895. 29:14>> To I, yeah.
  896. 29:15>> There's the light again.
  897. 29:17That's me.
  898. 29:18>> Mhm.
  899. 29:18>> That is the true me.
  900. 29:20>> Yeah.
  901. 29:20>> So, what can you name the spirit of you?
  902. 29:24I have the name bright light.
  903. 29:26In my spirit, I'm I'm a bright light.
  904. 29:28>> Mhm.
  905. 29:29>> That is my spirit. It puts light on
  906. 29:31everything.
  907. 29:32When I'm in my bright light,
  908. 29:34and my barking dog is Fifi the poodle.
  909. 29:37>> Mhm.
  910. 29:37>> She likes to shop. She's kind of fussy,
  911. 29:39can be very irritable,
  912. 29:41thinks she's special. I know when I'm in
  913. 29:44that energy, but it's not me.
  914. 29:46>> Mhm.
  915. 29:46>> So, what's your spirit?
  916. 29:48What name would you give your beautiful
  917. 29:50expansive spirit?
  918. 29:53>> I feel like the name Om comes to mind.
  919. 29:54>> Take it.
  920. 29:55>> Mhm.
  921. 29:56>> Feel it.
  922. 29:56>> Mhm.
  923. 29:57>> Does that feel true?
  924. 29:58>> Yeah. It does.
  925. 30:00>> And it doesn't have to be a catatonic
  926. 30:02Om, knock myself out. It be the sound of
  927. 30:05God.
  928. 30:05>> Yeah.
  929. 30:06That's how I see it. It's like a high
  930. 30:07vibe.
  931. 30:08>> of God.
  932. 30:09>> I'm here.
  933. 30:10>> Mhm.
  934. 30:10>> I'm here.
  935. 30:12And I'm fearless and can create. So,
  936. 30:14when you want to connect with your
  937. 30:16>> [snorts]
  938. 30:16>> intuition, intuition is the
  939. 30:18communication from Om. It is the
  940. 30:20expression
  941. 30:22from Om.
  942. 30:22>> Mhm.
  943. 30:24>> Can you feel that? So,
  944. 30:26let's go back to your question. I want
  945. 30:28to ask Rocky this time.
  946. 30:29>> Yeah.
  947. 30:30>> I want to ask
  948. 30:31Om,
  949. 30:33what is your question?
  950. 30:35Or do you even have one anymore?
  951. 30:37>> The question was should I commit to this
  952. 30:39person long term? And so I'm asking on.
  953. 30:42>> Yeah.
  954. 30:43You'll always get the light in the
  955. 30:44smile.
  956. 30:45>> [snorts]
  957. 30:45>> I don't care if you even speak the same
  958. 30:47language. That's the signature of the
  959. 30:49spirit.
  960. 30:52And a surge of excitement and no
  961. 30:54control.
  962. 30:55>> Yeah.
  963. 30:56>> Yeah, see? Can't even stop smiling. That
  964. 30:59could just be your answer for now.
  965. 31:01>> Yeah.
  966. 31:02>> Just leave it at that.
  967. 31:03>> Yeah.
  968. 31:04>> I think that's the way we leave it.
  969. 31:06>> Wow.
  970. 31:06>> Cuz the spirit doesn't need language.
  971. 31:09>> And so anyone can apply this like
  972. 31:11>> Anyone can apply to see I have a spent
  973. 31:1450 years teaching in the worst
  974. 31:17conditions, hostile conditions, being
  975. 31:20dismissed, laughed at, diminished, told
  976. 31:24science doesn't believe in you. And
  977. 31:27that's all changed now.
  978. 31:28>> Mhm.
  979. 31:29>> Who we are is can no longer be
  980. 31:32contained.
  981. 31:33>> Mhm.
  982. 31:35>> Who we are and how we live is
  983. 31:37multi-dimensional which means not just
  984. 31:39physical, not just ego.
  985. 31:41>> Yep.
  986. 31:42>> I'm a spirit and I am all of a sudden
  987. 31:44becoming really aware of it, but I have
  988. 31:46no context to how to
  989. 31:48how to express or ground this. And on
  990. 31:50top of that, just to make the leap, all
  991. 31:54of a sudden I actually feel I have help.
  992. 31:57>> Yeah.
  993. 31:57>> What a concept.
  994. 31:59It's not me against the world proving my
  995. 32:01rocky self to the world.
  996. 32:03>> Yeah.
  997. 32:04>> I have help.
  998. 32:05>> You have this divine support system.
  999. 32:06>> I have I feel it.
  1000. 32:08>> Are these angels? Are these spirit
  1001. 32:10guides?
  1002. 32:10>> There's so many um levels of help. It's
  1003. 32:12as much help as you have friends in this
  1004. 32:14planet.
  1005. 32:16It's not one helper. You have a guardian
  1006. 32:19angel that came in with you whose
  1007. 32:21primary focus is to keep you as much on
  1008. 32:24your path
  1009. 32:25>> Wow.
  1010. 32:25>> with your free will navigating to keep
  1011. 32:27you safe. And that guardian angel will
  1012. 32:30show up if you're really drifting.
  1013. 32:32>> I got goosebumps when you said that.
  1014. 32:33>> Yeah.
  1015. 32:34>> Wow.
  1016. 32:34>> So then we have you have
  1017. 32:37angels for all things because angels
  1018. 32:39serve God and God wants you, the divine,
  1019. 32:42wants you to find your way back to the
  1020. 32:44divine.
  1021. 32:45>> Mhm.
  1022. 32:45>> So, you have so many angels that just
  1023. 32:47are here to keep saying, "Hey, hey, you
  1024. 32:50know, come back to the frequency
  1025. 32:53and the vibration of your true peaceful
  1026. 32:56self." That one that turns the light on
  1027. 32:59in your eyes and and makes you smile and
  1028. 33:01you can't stop it.
  1029. 33:02>> Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
  1030. 33:03>> Cuz it's expanded.
  1031. 33:05We have We have like
  1032. 33:08groups of of helpers. We have helpers on
  1033. 33:11projects. Say your your project is to
  1034. 33:14start a company. All of a sudden, you're
  1035. 33:16going to get help, ideas drop in, um
  1036. 33:19connections
  1037. 33:20lead you to right place at right time
  1038. 33:23that come directed specifically to in
  1039. 33:26response to that goal. We have healers.
  1040. 33:30>> Mhm.
  1041. 33:30>> Healers will pop in and either point you
  1042. 33:32to a book, a conversation,
  1043. 33:35uh an awareness of like, I really should
  1044. 33:37stop drinking. I I just can't do it
  1045. 33:39today. That's a a healer guide or
  1046. 33:42or, you know, all this baggage you have,
  1047. 33:44really
  1048. 33:45stop for a minute and clear some of it,
  1049. 33:47you know. That's a healer guide.
  1050. 33:50Some of them will show up. You will use
  1051. 33:52humans to be in your face and and give
  1052. 33:54you the message. You're so wired to be
  1053. 33:58supported.
  1054. 33:59>> Yeah.
  1055. 33:59>> It's almost comical.
  1056. 34:01>> Wow.
  1057. 34:02>> But you do have free will
  1058. 34:04and you do have to come into a conscious
  1059. 34:06reception and be available.
  1060. 34:09Barking dog isn't available to a whole
  1061. 34:11lot.
  1062. 34:12Barking dog likes to be in control and
  1063. 34:14isn't listening to much.
  1064. 34:16>> Yep.
  1065. 34:16>> But your spirit
  1066. 34:18is completely available. You know, I say
  1067. 34:20one of my master teachers was Jesus and
  1068. 34:22the first thing he did was pick 33
  1069. 34:24helpers. I mean, the spirit is looking
  1070. 34:27for help. If you're going to be the
  1071. 34:28king, you get the court. Or the queen,
  1072. 34:30you pick the court. You you change the
  1073. 34:32paradigm.
  1074. 34:33>> Mhm.
  1075. 34:33>> The Lone Ranger by myself
  1076. 34:36>> Wow.
  1077. 34:37>> is over.
  1078. 34:38It's so isolating. It's caused all the
  1079. 34:41problems.
  1080. 34:43The new model is no, I am an incredibly
  1081. 34:47empowered divine loved spirit with
  1082. 34:50an infinite support system to help me
  1083. 34:53bring my goodness to the world.
  1084. 34:56I don't have to prove anything to
  1085. 34:58anybody. Just have to be
  1086. 35:00>> Yeah.
  1087. 35:00>> aligned, honest,
  1088. 35:03available,
  1089. 35:04listen,
  1090. 35:06and lean in.
  1091. 35:08>> This is such a beautiful feeling to to
  1092. 35:10hear this cuz loneliness is such a big
  1093. 35:13>> It's epidemic and it's barking dogs
  1094. 35:15growling at each other everywhere.
  1095. 35:17>> Exactly. And to hear that you're not
  1096. 35:19alone, you have angels around you, you
  1097. 35:21have healers around you, you have you
  1098. 35:23have spirit guides around you, you have
  1099. 35:24an entire system.
  1100. 35:26>> You don't have to believe me. Just think
  1101. 35:28of your last success and even the most
  1102. 35:31minute level.
  1103. 35:32>> Yeah.
  1104. 35:33>> I did get the taxi in the rain. I did
  1105. 35:37get the parking spot. I did get the
  1106. 35:39apartment. I did connect with that
  1107. 35:41person. And ask yourself, did you feel
  1108. 35:44at any level that there was some force
  1109. 35:47>> Yes.
  1110. 35:48>> working with you?
  1111. 35:50It's like wow.
  1112. 35:52That worked out.
  1113. 35:53>> Yeah.
  1114. 35:53>> How did that just happen?
  1115. 35:55And your guides are going, well, they
  1116. 35:57landed finally.
  1117. 35:59>> You spoke about conscious reception, so
  1118. 36:00the ability to basically listen and
  1119. 36:02receive.
  1120. 36:03>> Yeah.
  1121. 36:04>> It does that come down to like just
  1122. 36:06silencing the dogs or you know,
  1123. 36:08meditating, being very
  1124. 36:10>> two.
  1125. 36:10>> Okay.
  1126. 36:11>> Step one is
  1127. 36:13acknowledging I'm a spirit.
  1128. 36:15>> Mhm.
  1129. 36:15>> A beautiful spirit and
  1130. 36:18one of the things my teachers taught me
  1131. 36:20is you don't improve your spirit.
  1132. 36:22You can't improve upon your spirit.
  1133. 36:24That's just your divine nature, but you
  1134. 36:26can improve upon your awareness.
  1135. 36:28>> Mhm.
  1136. 36:29>> And you're you're identifying with
  1137. 36:31spirit.
  1138. 36:32>> Yes.
  1139. 36:32>> As long as you're identifying with your
  1140. 36:34ego, you're going to have a lot you're
  1141. 36:35going to have a very barking dog,
  1142. 36:38exhausting,
  1143. 36:40a dramatic,
  1144. 36:41>> Yeah.
  1145. 36:42>> lonely life.
  1146. 36:43You are.
  1147. 36:45Barking dogs
  1148. 36:47are not good leaders.
  1149. 36:49>> So true.
  1150. 36:50>> They're good helpers.
  1151. 36:52Give them the job of doing your laundry.
  1152. 36:54>> Mhm.
  1153. 36:54>> Give them the job of, you know,
  1154. 36:56balancing the the checkbook and paying
  1155. 36:58the bills, but don't give them the job
  1156. 36:59of
  1157. 37:00directing your life.
  1158. 37:01>> Yeah.
  1159. 37:03>> Or your heart. Because a barking dog
  1160. 37:05slams a heart shut.
  1161. 37:07Your ego's fearful. So, step one,
  1162. 37:10connect your nature, name your spirit,
  1163. 37:12talk about all the things and identify
  1164. 37:14and acknowledge
  1165. 37:15my spirit. My spirit is expansive, it's
  1166. 37:18creative, it's exciting, it wants to it
  1167. 37:21[snorts] wants to uplift, it wants to
  1168. 37:23try new things, it doesn't want to be
  1169. 37:24just one thing. I want to be I want to
  1170. 37:26be like the Leonardo da Vinci. I want to
  1171. 37:29be 20 things.
  1172. 37:31>> Yeah.
  1173. 37:31>> And I want to have those experiences and
  1174. 37:33bring the good and have the joy.
  1175. 37:36So, start connecting with your spirit
  1176. 37:38instead of your pathology.
  1177. 37:40>> Mhm.
  1178. 37:41>> Don't Don't connect to your pathology.
  1179. 37:44It's dueling pathology these days.
  1180. 37:46You're the avoidant, you're the
  1181. 37:47narcissist, you're the abandoned one.
  1182. 37:50It's
  1183. 37:50It becomes very competitive of whose
  1184. 37:53pathology is bigger than whose. And
  1185. 37:55>> Yeah.
  1186. 37:56>> it's endless.
  1187. 37:57>> Mhm.
  1188. 37:57>> It's endless.
  1189. 37:59We have to address it.
  1190. 38:01But it's like your barking dog needs to
  1191. 38:03see the vet. Like, okay, let's let's try
  1192. 38:05to get the the service part of you
  1193. 38:09clear enough to support your spirit
  1194. 38:11instead of try to be your spirit.
  1195. 38:13>> Mhm.
  1196. 38:14Yes.
  1197. 38:14>> Step one. And I say name your spirit and
  1198. 38:17identify the things you love as the
  1199. 38:20expression of your spirit.
  1200. 38:22>> Yeah. Like the love one's too.
  1201. 38:24>> click.
  1202. 38:24>> Yeah.
  1203. 38:25>> You just come home.
  1204. 38:26>> Wow.
  1205. 38:27>> And then
  1206. 38:28you start recognizing my barking dog is
  1207. 38:31really wounded. So, I probably should
  1208. 38:33quit kicking the dog, but certainly quit
  1209. 38:35letting my dog make decisions.
  1210. 38:38You know, I have to do some healing
  1211. 38:40work, but I have to also recognize my
  1212. 38:43ego's wounded, but my spirit's good.
  1213. 38:47My ego is just the wear and tear of
  1214. 38:49being in the human experience.
  1215. 38:50>> Mhm.
  1216. 38:51>> And okay, have some compassion.
  1217. 38:55Get clear.
  1218. 38:57We all get really charged in the ego
  1219. 38:58because we're here to learn to overcome
  1220. 39:00and heal that. So, don't get
  1221. 39:01indifferent. Don't bypass it.
  1222. 39:04But always remember to come back to the
  1223. 39:06spirit cuz that's where you get the
  1224. 39:07help.
  1225. 39:08>> Mhm.
  1226. 39:10>> You connect to your source. You connect
  1227. 39:11to your guides.
  1228. 39:13And then you just have to ask yourself,
  1229. 39:17"Do I really want
  1230. 39:19my life to be good and can I allow that?
  1231. 39:22I may have to undo a lot of learning. I
  1232. 39:25may have to
  1233. 39:26take the risk of being disappointed.
  1234. 39:29But if I'm available,
  1235. 39:32the spirit and the guidance in you and
  1236. 39:34the helpers in you are on standby right
  1237. 39:36now.
  1238. 39:37You don't have to earn it.
  1239. 39:39In the third dimension, leaving all of
  1240. 39:41our all of our benefit to other people
  1241. 39:44thinking we're good enough to receive
  1242. 39:45it.
  1243. 39:46>> Mhm.
  1244. 39:46>> You get the good grades, then we're
  1245. 39:48going to say you're okay. Are you you do
  1246. 39:50what we want and then we're going to
  1247. 39:51tell you you're loved. It's all very
  1248. 39:53transactional, very conditional.
  1249. 39:55>> Yeah.
  1250. 39:56>> But if you can just say, "Well, look,
  1251. 39:57I'm going to have a direct relationship
  1252. 39:59with my creator.
  1253. 40:01And I'm going to get rid of the
  1254. 40:02middleman."
  1255. 40:04It involves responsibility.
  1256. 40:06It involves like, "Okay, I am
  1257. 40:08responsible for my life.
  1258. 40:10I don't have to be And by the way, I
  1259. 40:13will address this. It's a lot to
  1260. 40:14address, but this goal of being perfect
  1261. 40:18>> Mhm.
  1262. 40:19>> is really entrenched
  1263. 40:21in our culture that that's what's
  1264. 40:22required to feel loved and safe and to
  1265. 40:25succeed.
  1266. 40:27But if you're going to read the
  1267. 40:28spiritual texts of master teachers,
  1268. 40:31where that got skewed out and it really
  1269. 40:35kind of went into the Bible, I had it is
  1270. 40:37that
  1271. 40:38the the translation, we'll go back to
  1272. 40:40the teacher the the teacher of Jesus.
  1273. 40:44He was translated as saying be perfect.
  1274. 40:49>> Mhm.
  1275. 40:49>> But his language is what's Aramaic and
  1276. 40:51it the it isn't be perfect. It was
  1277. 40:54be true.
  1278. 40:55>> Wow.
  1279. 40:56>> And that even in the Bible today and in
  1280. 40:57many of the Christian versions it keeps
  1281. 41:00going back to be perfect as your father
  1282. 41:03in heaven is perfect and it's not the
  1283. 41:05right translation.
  1284. 41:06>> Wow.
  1285. 41:07>> It's be true. I asked you what feels
  1286. 41:09true
  1287. 41:11for you
  1288. 41:12>> Yep.
  1289. 41:13>> right now.
  1290. 41:14>> Yep.
  1291. 41:15>> And you still have to get through all
  1292. 41:16the baggage to have the relationship you
  1293. 41:18want but you know what's true is you've
  1294. 41:20been given a gift.
  1295. 41:21>> Mhm.
  1296. 41:22>> Now, am I going to get rid of my
  1297. 41:24laundry? Am I going to have put Rocky
  1298. 41:26in, you know, stand back mode and
  1299. 41:28actually have some a loving experience?
  1300. 41:31That's your free will.
  1301. 41:33>> Right.
  1302. 41:33>> But you know what's true. This is an
  1303. 41:35opportunity that really could be good.
  1304. 41:38>> Mhm.
  1305. 41:39>> That's what's true.
  1306. 41:41So you have to get all the
  1307. 41:43fear out of the way but you know what's
  1308. 41:44true. No, not know here.
  1309. 41:47>> Mhm.
  1310. 41:48>> No.
  1311. 41:50No, in your beingness.
  1312. 41:53>> Yep.
  1313. 41:54>> And you know in your being do you feel
  1314. 41:56ever supported? Have you ever felt
  1315. 41:59that there's forces on this that are
  1316. 42:01transcend your clever logic and your
  1317. 42:03clever ego and your clever strategizing?
  1318. 42:05There're just some good things
  1319. 42:07happening.
  1320. 42:08>> Yes, like
  1321. 42:09if I think of every pivotal moment in my
  1322. 42:11life is because I listened to my gut, my
  1323. 42:13intuition.
  1324. 42:14>> You listened to your soul, your spirit,
  1325. 42:16yourself.
  1326. 42:17>> I dropped out of uni even though
  1327. 42:19everyone said like I was an A star
  1328. 42:21student. I was good at working I was
  1329. 42:23studying at a top university, studying
  1330. 42:25engineering like
  1331. 42:26I pretty much had my entire corporate
  1332. 42:28life laid out.
  1333. 42:29>> Yeah.
  1334. 42:29>> And I was like, "No, I don't want to do
  1335. 42:30this."
  1336. 42:31>> You should see the light in your eyes.
  1337. 42:33Honestly, because it didn't align.
  1338. 42:37>> Yeah.
  1339. 42:37>> It would no way give you the life that
  1340. 42:41your soul wants for you.
  1341. 42:42>> Yeah.
  1342. 42:43>> No way and that took courage.
  1343. 42:45>> Mhm.
  1344. 42:46>> So here's something to know.
  1345. 42:48Courage comes from the French word cœur
  1346. 42:51which means heart.
  1347. 42:53To live with courage is to live with
  1348. 42:55this as your heart as your heart being
  1349. 42:57your guide, which is where your spirit
  1350. 42:59lives.
  1351. 42:59>> Mhm.
  1352. 43:00>> Your logic brain was not making that
  1353. 43:03choice.
  1354. 43:04>> Yeah.
  1355. 43:05>> Your heart Your essence, your soul was
  1356. 43:07making that choice.
  1357. 43:08>> Yes.
  1358. 43:09>> And it gave you the the power.
  1359. 43:11>> Yeah. And a lot of You mentioned this
  1360. 43:13earlier on the podcast. You said
  1361. 43:15sometimes like society will go against
  1362. 43:18you. People will say People around you
  1363. 43:19will say this isn't a good idea or
  1364. 43:20something.
  1365. 43:21>> most of the time.
  1366. 43:22>> Yeah, so I'm curious to know like
  1367. 43:24>> What are the signs we can actually look
  1368. 43:26for in the material world to be like,
  1369. 43:28"Oh, this actually could be
  1370. 43:29something that my soul is asking me to
  1371. 43:31do." Like
  1372. 43:32>> It will It will stay with you. I'm sure
  1373. 43:34you didn't make that decision to leave
  1374. 43:35uni in a in a minute.
  1375. 43:38It was a knowing that just sat there.
  1376. 43:40>> Mhm.
  1377. 43:41>> And [snorts] no matter what you were
  1378. 43:42doing every day, it wasn't lining up. It
  1379. 43:44wasn't landing. It wasn't resonating. It
  1380. 43:46was friction.
  1381. 43:47>> Yeah.
  1382. 43:48>> It was dissonant.
  1383. 43:49>> Yeah.
  1384. 43:50>> And so that voice kept saying,
  1385. 43:52"Nevertheless, you don't belong here.
  1386. 43:54Yeah, you're doing great. Yeah, it's all
  1387. 43:55laid out. You don't belong here." It
  1388. 43:58didn't say, "Get out now." It just said,
  1389. 44:01"You don't belong here."
  1390. 44:02>> Yeah.
  1391. 44:02>> It's very quiet, but consistent.
  1392. 44:06So you have to be honest.
  1393. 44:09Yeah, this is not easy. That was not an
  1394. 44:11easy choice.
  1395. 44:13But it was easier to stay aligned than
  1396. 44:15to abandon yourself.
  1397. 44:16>> Mhm.
  1398. 44:18>> That was very brave of you. 90% of the
  1399. 44:21the people I work with, either
  1400. 44:23mentoring, coaching, guiding, made the
  1401. 44:26choice to go with the external force.
  1402. 44:29>> Yeah.
  1403. 44:30>> And it'll never If there's a Chinese
  1404. 44:32saying from the Book of Changes, if the
  1405. 44:34beginning is wrong, the ending is wrong.
  1406. 44:36>> Oh, I love that.
  1407. 44:37>> It's so true.
  1408. 44:38>> Yeah.
  1409. 44:39>> So here I am at the beginning, and it's
  1410. 44:41not going to work.
  1411. 44:43>> Mhm.
  1412. 44:44>> But people will override that. My
  1413. 44:47experience of people with their
  1414. 44:48intuition is it's not elusive.
  1415. 44:51You feel it.
  1416. 44:53It's as much your heartbeat as anything,
  1417. 44:55but you're choosing
  1418. 44:57>> Yeah.
  1419. 44:57>> to override it.
  1420. 44:59>> Yeah.
  1421. 45:01>> You want other people to guarantee your
  1422. 45:02success. You want guarantees. How do I
  1423. 45:05know? How can I be sure?
  1424. 45:07I say, "Well, you can't ask for
  1425. 45:09guarantees from your intuition, but I
  1426. 45:10can guarantee you what isn't working now
  1427. 45:12won't work in the future."
  1428. 45:14>> Mhm.
  1429. 45:15>> That I can guarantee. If it's not
  1430. 45:17resonating now,
  1431. 45:18it's not going to resonate.
  1432. 45:19>> Wow.
  1433. 45:20>> That you can guarantee.
  1434. 45:22>> I love that's a message to everyone in
  1435. 45:24like a toxic relationship.
  1436. 45:27>> and you are abandoning yourself and
  1437. 45:30you're coming up with all your
  1438. 45:32>> [snorts]
  1439. 45:32>> your your pathological diagnoses cuz we
  1440. 45:35all have them.
  1441. 45:36>> Yeah.
  1442. 45:36>> Okay, have fun with that.
  1443. 45:39But that's all you get.
  1444. 45:40>> Yeah.
  1445. 45:41>> That's all you get is the story.
  1446. 45:43>> Mhm.
  1447. 45:44>> You don't get the alignment and the
  1448. 45:47to come back to self and the freedom.
  1449. 45:49>> Mhm.
  1450. 45:50>> Did you notice how your mind got quiet?
  1451. 45:53>> Yeah.
  1452. 45:54>> Your barking dog gets quiet. That's your
  1453. 45:57barking dog. And when you come back to
  1454. 45:59your your inner guidance, which is a
  1455. 46:01frequency,
  1456. 46:03it is a vibration. It is a clear
  1457. 46:06communication.
  1458. 46:08Energetic and your inner senses are
  1459. 46:10opening up.
  1460. 46:12That's what you call the chakras.
  1461. 46:14It's your inner senses.
  1462. 46:16First chakra is the senses for our for
  1463. 46:18ground and that's foundation. Do I
  1464. 46:20belong here?
  1465. 46:22Do I resonate here? Am I supported here?
  1466. 46:23Am I safe here?
  1467. 46:25Whether it's here or with my own choices
  1468. 46:28because it goes both ways.
  1469. 46:30Is my choice
  1470. 46:32safe? Is my place where I'm choosing to
  1471. 46:34be
  1472. 46:35safe in that I can grow and thrive here?
  1473. 46:39Second chakra.
  1474. 46:41Does this bring out my creativity?
  1475. 46:43Everybody says it's your sexuality, it's
  1476. 46:46your your art, your expression, but
  1477. 46:48really our goal as spirits coming into
  1478. 46:51the body are to create.
  1479. 46:53>> Mhm.
  1480. 46:54>> To create.
  1481. 46:55>> Yeah.
  1482. 46:56>> That's your divine self.
  1483. 46:57>> Yep.
  1484. 46:58>> So, second chakra, am I creating or am I
  1485. 47:00existing? It's between the tailbone and
  1486. 47:03the and the belly button, right here.
  1487. 47:05>> Yep.
  1488. 47:07>> It's where you're born.
  1489. 47:08>> Mhm.
  1490. 47:09>> It's where you incubate.
  1491. 47:10>> Yep.
  1492. 47:11>> Am I creative? Am I creating anything or
  1493. 47:13am I just creating drama?
  1494. 47:15>> Mhm.
  1495. 47:16>> If I'm creating drama, my barking dog's
  1496. 47:17running my my nervous system and my
  1497. 47:19consciousness and I'm not going to be a
  1498. 47:21very satisfied person or satisfying to
  1499. 47:24no person.
  1500. 47:26>> So true, yeah.
  1501. 47:27>> You're I'm [clears throat] a dragon. I'm
  1502. 47:28a drag for other people.
  1503. 47:30>> Yep.
  1504. 47:30>> Because it's all dissonant.
  1505. 47:32>> Yep.
  1506. 47:32>> How can anyone relax around me?
  1507. 47:35>> Mhm.
  1508. 47:35>> Third chakra.
  1509. 47:37Solar plexus, power center.
  1510. 47:40This is where
  1511. 47:41who's making your choices in life?
  1512. 47:44Your spirit or your ego? Is it rocky or
  1513. 47:47mhm?
  1514. 47:48>> Mhm.
  1515. 47:49>> tell instantly.
  1516. 47:51Instantly.
  1517. 47:53Because one is contracted, ego and
  1518. 47:55emotion is
  1519. 47:57noisy,
  1520. 47:59defensive, breathless,
  1521. 48:01takes your breath away.
  1522. 48:02It's contracted,
  1523. 48:04no humor,
  1524. 48:06no light,
  1525. 48:07>> Mhm.
  1526. 48:07>> no smile,
  1527. 48:09never.
  1528. 48:10>> Well, yeah.
  1529. 48:11>> Never.
  1530. 48:12>> Mhm.
  1531. 48:13>> Lights out.
  1532. 48:14>> Yeah.
  1533. 48:14>> It's like unplugged, just pull all the
  1534. 48:16air out of the balloon. It's like
  1535. 48:17>> Yeah. You can always spot your ego
  1536. 48:19taking over in these moments, right?
  1537. 48:22Just like
  1538. 48:22>> I can tell instantly when I'm talking to
  1539. 48:24someone if I'm talking to your barking
  1540. 48:25dog
  1541. 48:26>> Mhm.
  1542. 48:27>> or your spirit. And what I will do is I
  1543. 48:29will start talking to your spirit.
  1544. 48:32I'll ignore your barking dog.
  1545. 48:34>> Mhm.
  1546. 48:34>> The spirit is so happy to be seen, it
  1547. 48:37can't help it sit up.
  1548. 48:39>> Right.
  1549. 48:39>> Woah, I'm seen. And when you meet
  1550. 48:42someone
  1551. 48:43that you really like and it's not just
  1552. 48:45I'm lonely and you distract me in the
  1553. 48:47moment or flatter my ego, but really
  1554. 48:50they see you.
  1555. 48:52And that's all you want.
  1556. 48:53>> Yeah.
  1557. 48:54Yeah.
  1558. 48:55>> Whoever sees you can support and really
  1559. 48:58champion who you are.
  1560. 49:00>> Yeah.
  1561. 49:00>> [snorts]
  1562. 49:01>> That's those are your people.
  1563. 49:02>> Mhm.
  1564. 49:04>> They're your vibration.
  1565. 49:05And it's not elusive. Just slow down and
  1566. 49:09what's true?
  1567. 49:10>> Yeah.
  1568. 49:11Mhm.
  1569. 49:12>> You can feel it. It's not believe me.
  1570. 49:14You had your own experience.
  1571. 49:16>> Yes, 100%.
  1572. 49:17>> And it's a good one.
  1573. 49:20That's why I say true teachers set you
  1574. 49:22free.
  1575. 49:23>> Yeah.
  1576. 49:24Yeah, so true.
  1577. 49:25>> Not follow me.
  1578. 49:27>> Mhm.
  1579. 49:27>> It's like no.
  1580. 49:29Go back to you.
  1581. 49:31>> Yeah.
  1582. 49:32>> And let's meet your barking dog and
  1583. 49:33we're not going to shoot your barking
  1584. 49:35dog, but hush puppy.
  1585. 49:37Take your barking It's like someone
  1586. 49:38said, "How do I quiet my barking dog?"
  1587. 49:40It's like first go for a run.
  1588. 49:44Move that energy.
  1589. 49:45>> Mhm.
  1590. 49:46>> Do something physical. Go in the garden,
  1591. 49:48go for a run, go build a cabinet, give
  1592. 49:51it direct it, and then you can quit
  1593. 49:54thinking.
  1594. 49:55>> That's so true, yeah. I got to the gym,
  1595. 49:57yeah.
  1596. 49:57>> But don't wrestle it cuz you're going to
  1597. 49:58get chewed up.
  1598. 50:00That's when you're up in your head.
  1599. 50:02You're going to just get chewed up.
  1600. 50:03>> Yeah. Yeah.
  1601. 50:05>> Don't wrestle your barking dog by trying
  1602. 50:06to figure it out. It'll win. It'll never
  1603. 50:09give up. It'll never stop being
  1604. 50:10defensive. It'll never stop giving you
  1605. 50:12another problem. Go for a walk, go for a
  1606. 50:15run, go bake a cake, go organize your
  1607. 50:16closet.
  1608. 50:17>> This is so I want to continue on the
  1609. 50:19track, Chris, but I'm just
  1610. 50:21having such a surreal experience right
  1611. 50:22now because I am someone who thinks a
  1612. 50:25lot and I will overthink and I will
  1613. 50:26overanalyze and I will be the most
  1614. 50:28calculated I can be and it will come
  1615. 50:31from a place of I'm trying to protect,
  1616. 50:33I'm trying to
  1617. 50:34>> rocky.
  1618. 50:35>> Yeah.
  1619. 50:35>> And you know it's limited. You know.
  1620. 50:38>> Yeah.
  1621. 50:39>> You know it's a game and you're going to
  1622. 50:41exhaust yourself and you might think
  1623. 50:43you're making other people believe you,
  1624. 50:45but
  1625. 50:45the vibe is there.
  1626. 50:47>> Yeah.
  1627. 50:47>> They might believe you to a point.
  1628. 50:50But there's a dissonance.
  1629. 50:51>> Yeah.
  1630. 50:52>> And it's not who you really are. You
  1631. 50:53just have that habit.
  1632. 50:55That's not who you are. When you are
  1633. 50:56being yourself, you're dancing, you're
  1634. 50:58singing, you're creating, you're
  1635. 51:00brainstorming.
  1636. 51:01That's you.
  1637. 51:03>> Mhm.
  1638. 51:03>> This rascal is just your conditioned
  1639. 51:05self that
  1640. 51:06has told that's been trained well that
  1641. 51:10if you're not alpha dog in charge
  1642. 51:12controlling everybody, you're in danger
  1643. 51:14and not wanted.
  1644. 51:15And that's just a big lie.
  1645. 51:18And it's probably generational.
  1646. 51:20But exhausting.
  1647. 51:21>> Wow.
  1648. 51:23>> Yeah, see? Isn't it fun to come out of
  1649. 51:25the the the matrix for a minute?
  1650. 51:28>> This is insane to just hear this, yeah.
  1651. 51:30Wow.
  1652. 51:31>> So, you give yourself an out. It's like,
  1653. 51:33you know, I always say when I get into
  1654. 51:34that, it's like, "Hush, Feefee."
  1655. 51:36Feefee's my barking dog. It's like, "Be
  1656. 51:38quiet."
  1657. 51:39>> Yeah. Jumping to the learning, yeah.
  1658. 51:41>> Yeah, that's the the This is and you can
  1659. 51:44train your ego. I've trained my ego well
  1660. 51:46to serve me.
  1661. 51:48>> Okay.
  1662. 51:49>> If my If I'm around a situation or with
  1663. 51:52people that are not resonating, I've
  1664. 51:54trained my ego to give me full
  1665. 51:55permission to leave without any
  1666. 51:57explanation or fawning or caretaking. I
  1667. 52:00just say my spirit left, I got to go.
  1668. 52:02>> Wow.
  1669. 52:03>> I've done that a lot. It's like, "Yeah,
  1670. 52:05it's a great party, but
  1671. 52:07I'm not connected here. I don't belong
  1672. 52:09here. So, sorry, my spirit left, I got
  1673. 52:11to follow."
  1674. 52:12>> [laughter]
  1675. 52:12>> You know, that's how my ego helps me.
  1676. 52:15It's not my enemy.
  1677. 52:16>> Yeah.
  1678. 52:17>> It's your servant.
  1679. 52:19>> Mhm.
  1680. 52:20>> Carl Jung called it the sacred marriage
  1681. 52:22they had in the heart.
  1682. 52:24They're partners, but the heart is the
  1683. 52:26leader.
  1684. 52:27And the head says, "I'll help."
  1685. 52:29>> Yeah.
  1686. 52:29>> And that what are you doing? And that's
  1687. 52:31how your intuition takes over, so it's
  1688. 52:33not one weird event. It's an endless
  1689. 52:36stream of guidance.
  1690. 52:37>> Yeah.
  1691. 52:39>> So, you're not thinking at all.
  1692. 52:40>> This resonates so much because I read
  1693. 52:42the Bhagavad Gita and it changed my
  1694. 52:43life. And it speaks about dharma, which
  1695. 52:46is basically becoming your highest, most
  1696. 52:47authentic self and connecting to your
  1697. 52:49highest purpose.
  1698. 52:50>> Yeah.
  1699. 52:50>> And what I love about this conversation
  1700. 52:51is you're basically explaining how to
  1701. 52:54just reconnect with that.
  1702. 52:56>> Literally.
  1703. 52:57>> And recognize if you fall into
  1704. 53:01barking dog consciousness,
  1705. 53:04have humor.
  1706. 53:06Hush puppy. All right, Rocky. All right,
  1707. 53:09you're trying to protect me. You're
  1708. 53:10scared. I know. What what's dangerous
  1709. 53:13here? What am I really afraid of?
  1710. 53:15>> Mhm.
  1711. 53:16>> Being real?
  1712. 53:17Am I really that afraid? I'd be more
  1713. 53:19afraid not being real, but you have you
  1714. 53:21have verbal conversations. And it quiets
  1715. 53:24down.
  1716. 53:25>> Yeah.
  1717. 53:26I like that.
  1718. 53:26>> Humor is one of the languages of spirit.
  1719. 53:30When you can laugh and really laugh, you
  1720. 53:32are right in your spirit because the
  1721. 53:34spirit is never in danger.
  1722. 53:36>> What are the other languages? I also
  1723. 53:37want to continue on the chakras, but
  1724. 53:39what are the other languages?
  1725. 53:40>> Well, the first is it's all it's not
  1726. 53:42it's not audible words. It's the light
  1727. 53:45in your eyes. It's the laughter. It's
  1728. 53:47the buzz. It's that you feel silly all
  1729. 53:49of a sudden. It's detachment without
  1730. 53:51numbness. People confuse the two.
  1731. 53:54Numbness is I'm just shutting down.
  1732. 53:56Detachment is
  1733. 53:58it is what it is, but I'm okay.
  1734. 54:01And whatever presents itself, I'll find
  1735. 54:03my way. This is an opportunity for
  1736. 54:06growth. This is not an ambush.
  1737. 54:08>> Right. Yeah.
  1738. 54:09>> This is an invitation.
  1739. 54:11Okay, so you turn life instead of a
  1740. 54:13threat to a sport.
  1741. 54:15>> Yeah.
  1742. 54:16>> And the sport is how authentic can I be?
  1743. 54:18Bring it on.
  1744. 54:20Bring on more challenge.
  1745. 54:22And I'm ready. And I'll just know that
  1746. 54:24the way forward is to
  1747. 54:26not let my ego make decisions, but know
  1748. 54:28my ego is trying to protect me. It's
  1749. 54:30just not qualified.
  1750. 54:32>> Right.
  1751. 54:32>> Okay? It's just protecting the
  1752. 54:34isolation.
  1753. 54:35>> Mhm.
  1754. 54:35>> Name what you're afraid of.
  1755. 54:37Always name what you're afraid of. Then
  1756. 54:40you take a breath. Name it, but you have
  1757. 54:42to come out of your head. You have to
  1758. 54:44say there's the light, there's the
  1759. 54:46water, here's my my shoes.
  1760. 54:48>> Mhm.
  1761. 54:49>> Brings you back into the moment, and
  1762. 54:51then you ask, "And what's the truth?"
  1763. 54:53And the truth is this is all a habit.
  1764. 54:57I'm not really scared. I'm just in the
  1765. 54:59habit of feeling scared.
  1766. 55:01>> Mhm.
  1767. 55:01>> My barking dog is scared, but my spirit
  1768. 55:03isn't scared.
  1769. 55:05>> I love this.
  1770. 55:06>> So, then we come to the heart.
  1771. 55:08>> Yeah.
  1772. 55:08>> The heart chakra is the the s- like Gary
  1773. 55:10Zukav said it's a seat of the soul. It's
  1774. 55:12where your spirit lives.
  1775. 55:14It where it enters the body on your
  1776. 55:16breath.
  1777. 55:17When you breathe, you animate
  1778. 55:21this physical entity, which is quite
  1779. 55:23miraculous. That breath when it leaves,
  1780. 55:28you're gone.
  1781. 55:29So this [snorts] is where science can't
  1782. 55:31even explain why the heart beats.
  1783. 55:33They don't have an explanation.
  1784. 55:35It's where the spirit comes in.
  1785. 55:37>> Mhm.
  1786. 55:38>> It's the force of the spirit
  1787. 55:39communicating outwardly.
  1788. 55:42And the the heart of you, it has you
  1789. 55:45have four aspects of heart. You have the
  1790. 55:48inner child heart, the creative, the
  1791. 55:50curious, the exploration. Then you have
  1792. 55:52the adult heart, which is I'm
  1793. 55:54responsible. I decide.
  1794. 55:56I'm going to make some choices and yeah,
  1795. 55:58I'll leave you in here. I'll start this
  1796. 55:59company and it's okay if I fail. I need
  1797. 56:01the experience.
  1798. 56:03>> [snorts]
  1799. 56:03>> Then you have the wise heart, which is
  1800. 56:06look, everybody's doing the best they
  1801. 56:08can. So I'm not going to be constantly
  1802. 56:10wounded by how everyone is just so
  1803. 56:11messed up and hurts me.
  1804. 56:13They're not they're just functioning in
  1805. 56:15the dark. So whatever, it's just like
  1806. 56:18being at when you're on the the the
  1807. 56:21arcade where you all getting those
  1808. 56:22bumper cars and everyone's crashing into
  1809. 56:24one another and don't even have all
  1810. 56:26they're just survival. I never mind, I
  1811. 56:28just gave you whiplash. I'm just trying
  1812. 56:30to get out [laughter] of here.
  1813. 56:31So you take a a long view. You just you
  1814. 56:34can be super pissed off.
  1815. 56:36>> Yeah.
  1816. 56:37>> That hurt.
  1817. 56:38Screw you,
  1818. 56:40but I'm not going to dwell on that
  1819. 56:42because we're in bumper cars together.
  1820. 56:44It's just the nature of the beast,
  1821. 56:46right?
  1822. 56:46>> Mhm.
  1823. 56:47>> So you have the you have the wise heart,
  1824. 56:49which is I forgive everybody,
  1825. 56:50everything, every time, when you're
  1826. 56:52ready.
  1827. 56:53But that's the that gives you freedom.
  1828. 56:56And then you have the courageous heart.
  1829. 56:58>> Mhm.
  1830. 56:58>> And the courageous heart is I am going
  1831. 57:00to I am going to follow my guidance.
  1832. 57:03I am going to follow my spirit. I am
  1833. 57:06going to be true to myself.
  1834. 57:08>> Mhm.
  1835. 57:08>> And no, it's not easy. The world isn't
  1836. 57:11set up for that.
  1837. 57:12>> Yeah.
  1838. 57:13>> The world is set up for anything but
  1839. 57:15that.
  1840. 57:15>> Right.
  1841. 57:17>> You know, my great most miserable
  1842. 57:19clients are the people who have followed
  1843. 57:20all the
  1844. 57:22external rules and are extremely
  1845. 57:24wealthy.
  1846. 57:25>> [snorts]
  1847. 57:26>> And so far away from who they are.
  1848. 57:30Now, I have very wealthy clients who are
  1849. 57:32very successful and happy and joyful.
  1850. 57:35But it's the ones who traded off.
  1851. 57:38>> Right.
  1852. 57:38>> Because they're trapped. They feel like
  1853. 57:40I will lose everything. And I point out
  1854. 57:42you already have.
  1855. 57:44You've lost yourself. You still have
  1856. 57:45your talents. You can recreate an
  1857. 57:47authentic life that's productive.
  1858. 57:50But the idea that you can only live
  1859. 57:52physically, financially safely
  1860. 57:55through self-abandonment.
  1861. 57:58That's no courageous heart. That's And
  1862. 58:00we have four chambers of the heart, so
  1863. 58:02they resonate to the four chambers, the
  1864. 58:04four chakras, the four aspects of the
  1865. 58:06heart.
  1866. 58:07It's quite complex.
  1867. 58:08>> Didn't know that.
  1868. 58:09>> Yeah.
  1869. 58:11And there we have energetic layers. So
  1870. 58:13when they have the barking dog, it shuts
  1871. 58:15the heart chakra. You can You have a
  1872. 58:17closed heart. There's positions of the
  1873. 58:19heart as well. One,
  1874. 58:22the open heart.
  1875. 58:23I'm open, I'm loving, I'm happy. That's
  1876. 58:25the spirit.
  1877. 58:27Then there's the closed heart.
  1878. 58:30That's the cold heart.
  1879. 58:31>> Yeah.
  1880. 58:31>> And when we're around people with a cold
  1881. 58:33heart,
  1882. 58:34we are physically drained and cannot be
  1883. 58:37around them for very long without being
  1884. 58:40deeply affected.
  1885. 58:41>> Mhm.
  1886. 58:41>> Because it blocks life force.
  1887. 58:44>> Yeah.
  1888. 58:45>> That's the deeply wounded person.
  1889. 58:47>> Mhm.
  1890. 58:48>> Then there is the heart that's open to
  1891. 58:50give but closed to receive. That's your
  1892. 58:52your
  1893. 58:53quintessential codependent who's going
  1894. 58:55to give you everything and love you and
  1895. 58:57be with you, but when you want to give
  1896. 58:58back, no.
  1897. 59:00Although you do have to take care of me,
  1898. 59:01so that's And then there's the other
  1899. 59:03heart, which is that I'll take
  1900. 59:05everything, but don't ask me for
  1901. 59:07anything.
  1902. 59:09That's the the vacuum heart that I call
  1903. 59:10you come in
  1904. 59:12>> [snorts]
  1905. 59:12>> I'll take all the gifts.
  1906. 59:14>> But I'm not going to give anything
  1907. 59:14>> But I'm not going to give anything back.
  1908. 59:17Then you see it as a game.
  1909. 59:19It's like, well, these are all just
  1910. 59:20different positions in the game of life,
  1911. 59:22and
  1912. 59:23the one I like is when the heart is open
  1913. 59:25to give and receive equally.
  1914. 59:27>> Yeah.
  1915. 59:29>> That's the good one.
  1916. 59:30>> Yeah.
  1917. 59:31>> That's the heart chakra.
  1918. 59:33But we do have to talk about the most
  1919. 59:35important chakra right now
  1920. 59:37in the evolution of the planet.
  1921. 59:40The throat chakra.
  1922. 59:42>> Mhm.
  1923. 59:42>> A lot of people think it's just the
  1924. 59:43speak my truth chakra.
  1925. 59:46But it's it's far more than that.
  1926. 59:48Because this is the the chimney of the
  1927. 59:51heart, so this is where our intuition
  1928. 59:54is operating.
  1929. 59:56It's reading the field.
  1930. 59:58It's tuning into the energy of others.
  1931. 1:00:01It's listening to your heart coming
  1932. 1:00:03through. It's like a big intersection.
  1933. 1:00:05>> Right.
  1934. 1:00:06>> It's [snorts] also connected to the
  1935. 1:00:07second chakra. So, if you have the
  1936. 1:00:09greatest creativity, greatest ideas, it
  1937. 1:00:12has to come through here and expressed.
  1938. 1:00:15Any company you've ever created,
  1939. 1:00:17anything you've ever done, has to go
  1940. 1:00:19from second to fifth and out.
  1941. 1:00:21>> Yes.
  1942. 1:00:22>> And it's not just words, expression.
  1943. 1:00:25>> Mhm.
  1944. 1:00:26>> It's also the the chakra that is
  1945. 1:00:28listening
  1946. 1:00:30for truth.
  1947. 1:00:32And communicating and recognizing that
  1948. 1:00:35if the if you're aligned here, it's
  1949. 1:00:38power.
  1950. 1:00:39People believe
  1951. 1:00:40>> Yes.
  1952. 1:00:41>> So, when you're aligned and you're
  1953. 1:00:43you're you're you're connected to
  1954. 1:00:44yourself and speaking what really is the
  1955. 1:00:47true alignment of you, and you put it
  1956. 1:00:49out, people believe you.
  1957. 1:00:50>> Mhm.
  1958. 1:00:51>> I'm sure you've had that experience.
  1959. 1:00:53>> 100% yeah.
  1960. 1:00:54>> And that's where you gain support.
  1961. 1:00:55>> Yeah.
  1962. 1:00:56>> And it's also the chakra that helps you
  1963. 1:00:59recognize how your spirit communicates.
  1964. 1:01:03Maybe it comes through visions. Maybe it
  1965. 1:01:05comes through
  1966. 1:01:07It's like when you hear music that has
  1967. 1:01:09no words, but you can explain it.
  1968. 1:01:12>> Mhm.
  1969. 1:01:12>> That's how you get the the words of
  1970. 1:01:14intuition. You're explaining that energy
  1971. 1:01:17to yourself.
  1972. 1:01:18>> Right.
  1973. 1:01:18>> You have a bad vibe. You're explaining
  1974. 1:01:21the nature of what you're tuning into.
  1975. 1:01:24It's dissonant. It's It's incongruent to
  1976. 1:01:26me. It could hurt me.
  1977. 1:01:28>> Mhm.
  1978. 1:01:28>> It could collide.
  1979. 1:01:30Or I have a great vibe.
  1980. 1:01:32I have a good vibe on that. I have a It
  1981. 1:01:33cuz it's actually a vibration.
  1982. 1:01:36Tuning in, it's this chakra.
  1983. 1:01:39The throat. This is also the chakra that
  1984. 1:01:41picks up the frequencies of guides and
  1985. 1:01:44angels and helpers.
  1986. 1:01:45>> Oh, wow.
  1987. 1:01:46>> Because it opens up to the what we call
  1988. 1:01:49the subtle realms, higher octaves. It's
  1989. 1:01:51like
  1990. 1:01:52It's like this also connects to the
  1991. 1:01:54ears. So, it's like your your dog ears,
  1992. 1:01:56you know, you can start picking up
  1993. 1:01:58higher octaves of consciousness.
  1994. 1:02:01You just sense something's I got to
  1995. 1:02:03I something's Somebody help me.
  1996. 1:02:05Something's helping me.
  1997. 1:02:06Or and we by nature for the most part,
  1998. 1:02:09no matter how
  1999. 1:02:10analytical and
  2000. 1:02:12atheistic certain people can be, when
  2001. 1:02:14you're in trouble, you might say help.
  2002. 1:02:16>> Yeah.
  2003. 1:02:17>> What are you talking to?
  2004. 1:02:19>> True.
  2005. 1:02:19>> Except you're intrinsically wired into a
  2006. 1:02:22system that helps you.
  2007. 1:02:23>> Mhm.
  2008. 1:02:24>> So, you revert to your natural instinct.
  2009. 1:02:27>> Is this why mantras are also so
  2010. 1:02:28powerful?
  2011. 1:02:28>> Yeah.
  2012. 1:02:29Because it's also energy, frequency, and
  2013. 1:02:31vibration.
  2014. 1:02:32>> Mhm.
  2015. 1:02:33>> Mantras and prayers and words, if
  2016. 1:02:36they're coming from an aligned place,
  2017. 1:02:38command
  2018. 1:02:40>> Yeah.
  2019. 1:02:41>> response and respect. You really really
  2020. 1:02:45need help.
  2021. 1:02:47>> Mhm.
  2022. 1:02:48>> And it doesn't have to be some
  2023. 1:02:51life, you know, we don't [snorts] have
  2024. 1:02:53to
  2025. 1:02:53we don't have to justify that it's a
  2026. 1:02:55it's a something that's warranted help.
  2027. 1:02:58You can just need Help me find a parking
  2028. 1:03:00space right now. I'm going to be late.
  2029. 1:03:02>> Yeah.
  2030. 1:03:03>> Help me get a taxi. I broke my shoe and
  2031. 1:03:06my heel's broken. I can't walk barefoot.
  2032. 1:03:09>> Yeah.
  2033. 1:03:09>> It doesn't matter.
  2034. 1:03:11There's so much benevolent love
  2035. 1:03:13that help comes
  2036. 1:03:15in any way that your beautiful divine
  2037. 1:03:17spirit needs help.
  2038. 1:03:19So, rather than
  2039. 1:03:21only ask of like, "Fine, I'm going to
  2040. 1:03:23ask."
  2041. 1:03:24Rocky's like, "Fine, go for it."
  2042. 1:03:27Ask for everything.
  2043. 1:03:29All time. Ask a thousand times a day for
  2044. 1:03:32help.
  2045. 1:03:33On my way over here, I was in the taxi
  2046. 1:03:35and I said, "I want my angels and guides
  2047. 1:03:38to go with me.
  2048. 1:03:39I don't know where I'm going.
  2049. 1:03:41This taxi driver isn't very nice. He's
  2050. 1:03:44having a bad day. I don't want his
  2051. 1:03:45energy. I want to have a good
  2052. 1:03:46experience. So, you guys help me have a
  2053. 1:03:49good experience."
  2054. 1:03:51And he changed.
  2055. 1:03:52>> Wow.
  2056. 1:03:53>> He started getting nice. I don't He's
  2057. 1:03:54like, "I'm going to help you find this
  2058. 1:03:56place." And he didn't even say hello
  2059. 1:03:57when I got in.
  2060. 1:03:59You You be I say be the good fairy.
  2061. 1:04:02>> Mhm.
  2062. 1:04:03>> Ask for the helpers, ask for the angels,
  2063. 1:04:05the guides, the teachers, the joy
  2064. 1:04:07guides, the nature spirits.
  2065. 1:04:09Don't need to know.
  2066. 1:04:11Just know.
  2067. 1:04:11>> Yeah.
  2068. 1:04:12>> You don't need to identify them.
  2069. 1:04:15>> You just ask for the help.
  2070. 1:04:16>> Just say, "I need Whatever can help me,
  2071. 1:04:18help me."
  2072. 1:04:20I'm up for the I'm up for miracles
  2073. 1:04:22today.
  2074. 1:04:22>> Mhm.
  2075. 1:04:23>> My teachers taught me very early, "How
  2076. 1:04:25good can you stand it?
  2077. 1:04:28How good can your barking dog stand it?
  2078. 1:04:29How good can you let your life be? Or do
  2079. 1:04:32you want drama instead?"
  2080. 1:04:34>> Oof. How good can you let your life be?
  2081. 1:04:37>> Yeah, how good are you willing cuz the
  2082. 1:04:38alternative is how much drama are you
  2083. 1:04:40addicted to?
  2084. 1:04:41>> Mhm.
  2085. 1:04:42>> It's not popular to have a good life.
  2086. 1:04:45>> So true.
  2087. 1:04:46>> It's not. You have to have courage cuz a
  2088. 1:04:48good life can invite a lot of resentment
  2089. 1:04:50from a lot of barking dogs. You have to
  2090. 1:04:53be immune.
  2091. 1:04:53>> Mhm.
  2092. 1:04:55>> You have to either live true or seek
  2093. 1:04:58approval. It's one or the other. That's
  2094. 1:05:01what this chakra is about. Express
  2095. 1:05:03what's true, not opinion, not you're
  2096. 1:05:05going to
  2097. 1:05:06have an opinion on everybody. What's
  2098. 1:05:08true for me for now? And you have full
  2099. 1:05:10right to change it 5 minutes from now.
  2100. 1:05:13>> So, the act of asking what's true for me
  2101. 1:05:15for now, is that's what's opening this
  2102. 1:05:17chakra?
  2103. 1:05:17>> Yeah.
  2104. 1:05:17>> Mhm.
  2105. 1:05:18>> And aligning you to your inner senses
  2106. 1:05:20and your power source.
  2107. 1:05:22>> Mhm.
  2108. 1:05:23>> What's the most genuinely
  2109. 1:05:25you really would love some guidance on
  2110. 1:05:27this question?
  2111. 1:05:30>> So, I have a media company.
  2112. 1:05:31>> Okay.
  2113. 1:05:32>> And then I've got the podcast.
  2114. 1:05:34>> Okay.
  2115. 1:05:35>> And I've got some other ventures that
  2116. 1:05:36I'm thinking about exploring.
  2117. 1:05:38>> Okay.
  2118. 1:05:39>> I've got courses, the book, there's a
  2119. 1:05:40few things. My bandwidth is limited in
  2120. 1:05:42terms of like time and capacity. And so,
  2121. 1:05:44I'm thinking well, like I need to kind
  2122. 1:05:45of
  2123. 1:05:46stop stepping into what I want to do and
  2124. 1:05:49how I want to serve. And the media
  2125. 1:05:50company is a vehicle to do that, but I
  2126. 1:05:52don't think it's the ultimate vehicle
  2127. 1:05:53for me to do that.
  2128. 1:05:54>> And I'll correct some language for you
  2129. 1:05:56cuz it'll help you.
  2130. 1:05:57>> Yeah.
  2131. 1:05:58>> It's not a think.
  2132. 1:06:01It's an energetic read.
  2133. 1:06:02>> Mhm.
  2134. 1:06:03>> I have a media company, but my energy is
  2135. 1:06:05not fully flowing there.
  2136. 1:06:07>> Mhm.
  2137. 1:06:07>> It serves a purpose,
  2138. 1:06:09>> Yeah.
  2139. 1:06:09>> but it isn't what lights me up the most.
  2140. 1:06:11>> Yes.
  2141. 1:06:12>> Okay. So, read it energetically instead
  2142. 1:06:15of mentally.
  2143. 1:06:16>> Okay.
  2144. 1:06:17>> Okay. So, that's true.
  2145. 1:06:18>> Yeah.
  2146. 1:06:19>> That's just a That's just what is so
  2147. 1:06:20right now.
  2148. 1:06:22What else?
  2149. 1:06:22>> What lights me up is speaking.
  2150. 1:06:25>> Mhm.
  2151. 1:06:26>> It's being in front of the camera. It's
  2152. 1:06:28teaching. It's sharing authentic wisdom.
  2153. 1:06:31>> Mhm.
  2154. 1:06:32>> It's learning. Being able to be a vessel
  2155. 1:06:34to serve through how I am and how I
  2156. 1:06:37operate. So, like
  2157. 1:06:38>> clear about who you are.
  2158. 1:06:40>> Yeah.
  2159. 1:06:41>> That's pretty clear.
  2160. 1:06:42>> Mhm.
  2161. 1:06:42>> What's the question around that?
  2162. 1:06:45>> The question is basically
  2163. 1:06:47what do I do
  2164. 1:06:49in this situation because courses,
  2165. 1:06:52books, there's multiple ventures and I
  2166. 1:06:53don't know what to do first and I don't
  2167. 1:06:55know
  2168. 1:06:56>> Maybe your model is wrong.
  2169. 1:06:58Still alpha doc me alone. Maybe the
  2170. 1:07:00model needs to go back to like look at
  2171. 1:07:02Jesus. He picked 12 helpers when he
  2172. 1:07:04started.
  2173. 1:07:05>> Mhm.
  2174. 1:07:05>> Maybe you ought to start thinking of
  2175. 1:07:08building the community who helps you
  2176. 1:07:10express in multiple ways.
  2177. 1:07:13>> Mhm.
  2178. 1:07:13>> Instead of you having to control all of
  2179. 1:07:15it.
  2180. 1:07:15>> That's true. Like partnerships.
  2181. 1:07:17>> Yeah, your model's wrong. You can't be
  2182. 1:07:20mastering all You like to go for
  2183. 1:07:22mastery.
  2184. 1:07:23>> Yeah.
  2185. 1:07:24>> And you know,
  2186. 1:07:26I can't give all of this masterful
  2187. 1:07:28attention.
  2188. 1:07:30I really want to speak. Vibrationally,
  2189. 1:07:32that's what's true. There's no
  2190. 1:07:34resistance, but I don't want to let go
  2191. 1:07:36of these things.
  2192. 1:07:37>> Yeah, that's exactly it.
  2193. 1:07:39>> So, you're a good king. Build a court.
  2194. 1:07:42Which means you have to develop trust.
  2195. 1:07:44>> Yes.
  2196. 1:07:46>> Back to that relationship stuff. Because
  2197. 1:07:49how we relate in love is how we relate
  2198. 1:07:51knowledge relationships. How we relate
  2199. 1:07:53is how we relate.
  2200. 1:07:56So, this brings you back to well, I'm
  2201. 1:07:57really going to speak and I'm really
  2202. 1:07:59going to be a good
  2203. 1:08:01life-changing
  2204. 1:08:03messenger.
  2205. 1:08:05Then I got to look at this relationship
  2206. 1:08:07stuff because it's interfering
  2207. 1:08:10>> Yeah.
  2208. 1:08:10>> with me being able to speak
  2209. 1:08:13really
  2210. 1:08:14>> Mhm.
  2211. 1:08:14>> from the fullness of myself.
  2212. 1:08:17So, for me to grow, how clever my soul
  2213. 1:08:19was. It set up all these things and then
  2214. 1:08:21it said, you got to overcome this
  2215. 1:08:22nonsense and develop great relationships
  2216. 1:08:25across the board
  2217. 1:08:27and take that to the world.
  2218. 1:08:28>> That's so true.
  2219. 1:08:30>> That's a reading. That's what I do in a
  2220. 1:08:32reading.
  2221. 1:08:33>> Yeah.
  2222. 1:08:34>> See the problem.
  2223. 1:08:35>> You just get straight to the point.
  2224. 1:08:36Yeah, cuz I do have trust issues in
  2225. 1:08:38general.
  2226. 1:08:38>> Yeah, and you can't grow. You cannot do
  2227. 1:08:41what you want to do
  2228. 1:08:43with having your barking dog saying,
  2229. 1:08:44well, I'm wounded, so you'll have to
  2230. 1:08:46work around this.
  2231. 1:08:48My teachers taught me, by the way, if
  2232. 1:08:50you have trust issues,
  2233. 1:08:52before you point a finger at anyone
  2234. 1:08:53else, you're the one untrustworthy.
  2235. 1:08:57You're the one not communicating
  2236. 1:08:58correctly. You're setting up the
  2237. 1:09:00expectations.
  2238. 1:09:02>> Mhm.
  2239. 1:09:02>> And you're the one that's
  2240. 1:09:04setting it up for the fall.
  2241. 1:09:07Something to think about.
  2242. 1:09:09>> Wow.
  2243. 1:09:10>> I know, it's a lot, right? But how fun
  2244. 1:09:12cuz then I can actually do something
  2245. 1:09:13about it.
  2246. 1:09:14>> Yeah.
  2247. 1:09:15>> It's not like, oh my god, I don't know
  2248. 1:09:16who to trust. It's like, well, first of
  2249. 1:09:18all, it's all a vibrational match. So,
  2250. 1:09:20if you're not transparent, clear, and
  2251. 1:09:23and communicating your expectations,
  2252. 1:09:25you're going to you're going to get the
  2253. 1:09:26sketchy mirror right back.
  2254. 1:09:28>> Yeah.
  2255. 1:09:29>> The limiting
  2256. 1:09:30effort that you want is all you want it
  2257. 1:09:33all.
  2258. 1:09:34>> Yes.
  2259. 1:09:35>> And you want to delegate to everyone
  2260. 1:09:36else what they get, but I would change
  2261. 1:09:38the model that we can all have it all.
  2262. 1:09:42>> Right.
  2263. 1:09:42>> I'd be I'd create a more generous
  2264. 1:09:45possibility.
  2265. 1:09:47That I'm going to create an empire where
  2266. 1:09:49everybody gets it all. And if I want
  2267. 1:09:51more of it all, fine, but it's all.
  2268. 1:09:52There's not a limit. See, the mirror is
  2269. 1:09:55it's a limited pot.
  2270. 1:09:56>> Mhm.
  2271. 1:09:57>> So, I want help and I want people to
  2272. 1:09:59help me, but I don't want them to have
  2273. 1:10:01too much power cuz I want it all.
  2274. 1:10:03And that's a model you inherited.
  2275. 1:10:07It's not your spirit.
  2276. 1:10:09>> Something I inherited
  2277. 1:10:10>> Mhm.
  2278. 1:10:11>> from ancestors.
  2279. 1:10:12>> Yeah, models, ancestors, school,
  2280. 1:10:15probably a million and one things, but I
  2281. 1:10:16would look at the model.
  2282. 1:10:18>> Interesting.
  2283. 1:10:19>> Why don't I trust? Because I'd have to
  2284. 1:10:20let people have a lot of power. Well,
  2285. 1:10:22then then I'm not the alpha dog.
  2286. 1:10:25According to your model.
  2287. 1:10:26>> I've been screwed over by business
  2288. 1:10:27partners before.
  2289. 1:10:28>> Because you chose people
  2290. 1:10:31that you did you wanted them to give you
  2291. 1:10:34their all, but you weren't going to give
  2292. 1:10:35them your all, and then finally it got a
  2293. 1:10:37collision cuz they were going for it
  2294. 1:10:39all, too.
  2295. 1:10:40This is where I get into coaching is
  2296. 1:10:41like, wait a minute. This has got to be
  2297. 1:10:43a vibrational read, not an emotional
  2298. 1:10:46one. Where where did this go wrong
  2299. 1:10:48vibrationally? So, if you really want to
  2300. 1:10:50be empowered, go to go to ohm and tell
  2301. 1:10:53me
  2302. 1:10:54what happened that you got screwed.
  2303. 1:10:58>> In that business partnership?
  2304. 1:11:00>> Yeah, why did that happen? Just not
  2305. 1:11:02Rocky. Rocky's got a story that'll never
  2306. 1:11:04stop, but what about the truth?
  2307. 1:11:08If the beginning is wrong, the ending is
  2308. 1:11:10wrong.
  2309. 1:11:11What happened?
  2310. 1:11:12>> I made him the CEO when I should have
  2311. 1:11:13been the CEO.
  2312. 1:11:14>> Didn't you gave him something that
  2313. 1:11:16didn't feel aligned with you.
  2314. 1:11:17>> Yes. I gave him the reins to run the
  2315. 1:11:19company when it should have It was my
  2316. 1:11:20idea. It was my company. And
  2317. 1:11:22>> Right.
  2318. 1:11:23That was not a good choice, and that's
  2319. 1:11:24donk.
  2320. 1:11:25>> Yep.
  2321. 1:11:26>> I knew.
  2322. 1:11:27Oh, well. I overrode it.
  2323. 1:11:29>> Yes.
  2324. 1:11:30>> Next time I won't do that, so I don't
  2325. 1:11:32have to be afraid.
  2326. 1:11:34>> Mhm.
  2327. 1:11:36Yeah.
  2328. 1:11:36>> Versus, "Oh my god, you get the best
  2329. 1:11:38people and then they"
  2330. 1:11:40You know, it's just you got to go about
  2331. 1:11:42this differently.
  2332. 1:11:44>> Yeah.
  2333. 1:11:45>> You can't go through Rocky.
  2334. 1:11:47You can't go through the ego or the
  2335. 1:11:49emotions, or you'll never be safe.
  2336. 1:11:53I gave him
  2337. 1:11:56responsibilities that he didn't earn.
  2338. 1:12:00And I didn't really want to give him
  2339. 1:12:01that, but I didn't I wanted him to do as
  2340. 1:12:03much as he could, and it was a bad
  2341. 1:12:05choice. He didn't earn it. He didn't
  2342. 1:12:06possess the skills.
  2343. 1:12:08I didn't want to be that generous. I
  2344. 1:12:10wasn't ready, so bad choice.
  2345. 1:12:13>> Mhm.
  2346. 1:12:14>> Can that feel any better than I got
  2347. 1:12:17screwed. That happened to me.
  2348. 1:12:19>> Yeah.
  2349. 1:12:20>> It's like
  2350. 1:12:21I was overly generous for my own
  2351. 1:12:24ambitions.
  2352. 1:12:26And my own impatience.
  2353. 1:12:27>> Yeah.
  2354. 1:12:27>> And it backfired.
  2355. 1:12:28>> Wow.
  2356. 1:12:30>> End of story. Won't do that again.
  2357. 1:12:33>> And so your intuitive read plus also
  2358. 1:12:35helping me intuitively connect
  2359. 1:12:37>> Yeah, always my read is going to pull
  2360. 1:12:39you back to you, not to me.
  2361. 1:12:41>> Yeah. Okay, yeah, so you're not
  2362. 1:12:42intuitively You're basically
  2363. 1:12:44>> you really clear, but my goal is to plug
  2364. 1:12:46you back in.
  2365. 1:12:47>> So that I make that
  2366. 1:12:48>> into me.
  2367. 1:12:49>> Right.
  2368. 1:12:50>> I don't want that energy. I want you to
  2369. 1:12:53be empowered by looking at how the way
  2370. 1:12:56to move forward is to look at everything
  2371. 1:12:58neutrally,
  2372. 1:12:58>> Mhm.
  2373. 1:12:59>> energetically
  2374. 1:13:01what was true.
  2375. 1:13:03I made a choice in the beginning, and I
  2376. 1:13:05was well aware, but ambitious,
  2377. 1:13:08impatient,
  2378. 1:13:10enthusiastic,
  2379. 1:13:11and didn't really think that it was
  2380. 1:13:13going to have that much of a negative
  2381. 1:13:14consequence if I'd any. It was
  2382. 1:13:16dissonant, but I lived with it.
  2383. 1:13:18>> Yeah.
  2384. 1:13:19>> Bam.
  2385. 1:13:20>> Yes.
  2386. 1:13:21>> Okay. Well, that was
  2387. 1:13:23naivete. It was beginning. I learned. I
  2388. 1:13:27needed that experience. It served me
  2389. 1:13:29well, but don't be paranoid.
  2390. 1:13:32Just don't ignore your intuition.
  2391. 1:13:34>> Mhm.
  2392. 1:13:35Would you say apply the same thinking
  2393. 1:13:38>> Everything.
  2394. 1:13:39>> to everything. Yeah, like I got cheated
  2395. 1:13:40on in the past.
  2396. 1:13:41>> Let's do that one.
  2397. 1:13:42>> Yeah.
  2398. 1:13:43>> You picked someone and at what point did
  2399. 1:13:45you know this is not aligned?
  2400. 1:13:48>> Honestly, from the beginning.
  2401. 1:13:49>> Exactly.
  2402. 1:13:51Come There you're smiling again.
  2403. 1:13:54>> Yeah.
  2404. 1:13:55>> I knew from the beginning, but I wanted
  2405. 1:13:57the experience.
  2406. 1:13:58>> Yeah.
  2407. 1:13:59>> I wanted it. I was gunning for it.
  2408. 1:14:03You know?
  2409. 1:14:04And okay, well, that was that.
  2410. 1:14:06>> Yeah.
  2411. 1:14:07>> But I didn't You didn't get tricked.
  2412. 1:14:10>> No.
  2413. 1:14:11>> You knew.
  2414. 1:14:11>> I knew. Yeah.
  2415. 1:14:12>> So, now we're out of it. I'm not going
  2416. 1:14:14to get involved with someone that I know
  2417. 1:14:16from the beginning doesn't have the
  2418. 1:14:17capacity and maturity to show up. And
  2419. 1:14:20neither did I, so I picked someone who
  2420. 1:14:22couldn't show up and then I could say,
  2421. 1:14:23"God, I gave it my all." But
  2422. 1:14:25>> Mhm.
  2423. 1:14:26>> in fact, I wasn't ready either. I just
  2424. 1:14:27wanted a good romance. And that you got.
  2425. 1:14:30>> Yeah.
  2426. 1:14:32Yeah.
  2427. 1:14:32>> Not a good relationship.
  2428. 1:14:34>> Mhm.
  2429. 1:14:35>> Exciting, no ground.
  2430. 1:14:37>> Right.
  2431. 1:14:38>> You knew.
  2432. 1:14:39>> Yeah.
  2433. 1:14:39>> See, my read on you is that you're
  2434. 1:14:41extraordinarily intuitive, but you have
  2435. 1:14:43an exceptionally
  2436. 1:14:45intelligent barking dog who wants to run
  2437. 1:14:48the show and says, "Leave it to me."
  2438. 1:14:49>> Yes.
  2439. 1:14:50>> Just leave it to me.
  2440. 1:14:51>> it.
  2441. 1:14:52>> And it only goes so far at best and it
  2442. 1:14:54goes really south.
  2443. 1:14:57>> Yeah.
  2444. 1:14:58>> And the more more important to your
  2445. 1:15:00heart things.
  2446. 1:15:01>> Mhm.
  2447. 1:15:03Yeah.
  2448. 1:15:04>> And so, what you need is paradigm shift.
  2449. 1:15:07A paradigm shift is when you change your
  2450. 1:15:09beliefs.
  2451. 1:15:10And the belief that my my really
  2452. 1:15:13intelligent smart brain is my asset, my
  2453. 1:15:17brilliant clear spirit and my intuition
  2454. 1:15:20are my asset and I got to train that
  2455. 1:15:22brain
  2456. 1:15:23to cooperate.
  2457. 1:15:25>> Mhm.
  2458. 1:15:27>> If I have a vibe about something, I will
  2459. 1:15:29pull the plug instantly.
  2460. 1:15:31>> Mhm.
  2461. 1:15:31>> And do not have to have any explanation.
  2462. 1:15:34It's off.
  2463. 1:15:35>> Yep.
  2464. 1:15:35>> Have an expression.
  2465. 1:15:37You know, if you're cooking, say you're
  2466. 1:15:39going to cook chicken. You have chicken
  2467. 1:15:40in the refrigerator, you get it out,
  2468. 1:15:42sits there, you you pick it up, you're
  2469. 1:15:44going to cook it, and just something
  2470. 1:15:46>> [snorts]
  2471. 1:15:46>> something. Like this chicken's off.
  2472. 1:15:49The chicken's off. Are you going to cook
  2473. 1:15:51it and eat it?
  2474. 1:15:54No. [laughter]
  2475. 1:15:55And you will regret it if you do, but
  2476. 1:15:56you go through this whole thing because
  2477. 1:15:58you know that's
  2478. 1:16:00potentially poison.
  2479. 1:16:02Well, to me, any vibe that's off is as
  2480. 1:16:05powerful as the chicken being off. It
  2481. 1:16:07eventually is poison for me.
  2482. 1:16:10It is eventually going to come back and
  2483. 1:16:12haunt me.
  2484. 1:16:13>> Yeah.
  2485. 1:16:14>> It will never be benign.
  2486. 1:16:16>> I think it's just with people
  2487. 1:16:18like I have that with people, right? So,
  2488. 1:16:20if I don't feel great around someone,
  2489. 1:16:22I'll I'll just keep to myself and stay
  2490. 1:16:23away.
  2491. 1:16:24But I think I will also doubt myself
  2492. 1:16:26sometimes cuz I think people in general
  2493. 1:16:28will will will get into this state of
  2494. 1:16:29like
  2495. 1:16:31I feel the vibes off, but could it be my
  2496. 1:16:32mind? Like could it just be me playing
  2497. 1:16:34tricks on myself?
  2498. 1:16:34>> here's the deal.
  2499. 1:16:36It could be that you're in a bad mood or
  2500. 1:16:38funky or whatever and suspicious and
  2501. 1:16:41that person reminds me of the kid in
  2502. 1:16:43seventh grade that I didn't like, so
  2503. 1:16:45it's projection.
  2504. 1:16:47But if it's a true intuition,
  2505. 1:16:51the next time you run into that person,
  2506. 1:16:53you won't feel all that. Yeah, if it's
  2507. 1:16:56true intuition, you will feel I don't
  2508. 1:16:58like you.
  2509. 1:16:58>> Right.
  2510. 1:16:59>> But here's my feeling.
  2511. 1:17:01It's something.
  2512. 1:17:03So, take a step away and sort it out.
  2513. 1:17:06What is my something?
  2514. 1:17:08Why don't I like that person? Do I feel
  2515. 1:17:10like they're too good-looking and I'm
  2516. 1:17:11feeling insecure and my barking dog is
  2517. 1:17:13feeling like you're taller and
  2518. 1:17:15better-looking and younger and whatever.
  2519. 1:17:17Okay, I don't like you because you're
  2520. 1:17:20triggering my insecurities and you're
  2521. 1:17:22not
  2522. 1:17:23taking care of me in the moment. So,
  2523. 1:17:25okay. Still, we probably aren't going to
  2524. 1:17:27be good friends cuz my insecurities
  2525. 1:17:29don't want to be in that energy right
  2526. 1:17:31now. Maybe I'll meet you in 5 years and
  2527. 1:17:33we'll be different or next month or
  2528. 1:17:35whatever.
  2529. 1:17:36So, my feeling is no matter whether it's
  2530. 1:17:38your ego or your barking dog if it's
  2531. 1:17:40off,
  2532. 1:17:42something's off.
  2533. 1:17:44Give yourself some space and work
  2534. 1:17:46through it. Don't override it.
  2535. 1:17:47>> Mhm.
  2536. 1:17:49>> Be curious.
  2537. 1:17:51Always name your fears first and what I
  2538. 1:17:53want.
  2539. 1:17:54>> Yep.
  2540. 1:17:55>> And then go back to your heart. What's
  2541. 1:17:56true? Do I really like that person? No.
  2542. 1:17:59Do I have a reason? No.
  2543. 1:18:02It's just a vibe.
  2544. 1:18:02>> Yeah.
  2545. 1:18:03>> We don't It's We We're not a match.
  2546. 1:18:05>> Mhm.
  2547. 1:18:08>> You can live that way.
  2548. 1:18:09>> Yeah.
  2549. 1:18:10>> It's reliable.
  2550. 1:18:12You're not going to make some
  2551. 1:18:13catastrophic mistake. If someone really
  2552. 1:18:16triggers you big time,
  2553. 1:18:18that's a teacher.
  2554. 1:18:20Not intentionally, but that behavior is
  2555. 1:18:22a teacher for me.
  2556. 1:18:24That behavior
  2557. 1:18:26is a teacher for me. It's either going
  2558. 1:18:28to teach me to notice something I'm
  2559. 1:18:30hiding
  2560. 1:18:31or some approval I'm seeking
  2561. 1:18:33>> Right.
  2562. 1:18:34>> or some some core value that they're
  2563. 1:18:39they're not honoring.
  2564. 1:18:41>> Right.
  2565. 1:18:42>> There's some lesson here, but I don't
  2566. 1:18:44need to stay in the mix. Let me pull out
  2567. 1:18:47and ask myself,
  2568. 1:18:51"Hm, what's the lesson?
  2569. 1:18:53And am I available to it?
  2570. 1:18:55I don't have to go back into the
  2571. 1:18:57uncomfortable experience.
  2572. 1:18:58>> Mhm.
  2573. 1:18:59>> I can get a lesson from the teacher and
  2574. 1:19:00move on."
  2575. 1:19:02>> Is that how you would define a karmic
  2576. 1:19:04relationship or is that different?
  2577. 1:19:05>> relationship is when you don't You have
  2578. 1:19:08an appointment to stay in it.
  2579. 1:19:11And it's makes no logical sense, but we
  2580. 1:19:14have things to teach each other.
  2581. 1:19:17>> Yep.
  2582. 1:19:18>> And we are going to box it out, but we
  2583. 1:19:20are never going to come to a happy
  2584. 1:19:22ending.
  2585. 1:19:23We're just going to come to acceptance
  2586. 1:19:25and let go.
  2587. 1:19:27>> Mhm.
  2588. 1:19:28Yeah.
  2589. 1:19:29>> Those kinds of relationships you can
  2590. 1:19:31hold on to your entire lifetime and
  2591. 1:19:33you'll pick it up in the next one or
  2592. 1:19:34you'll let go 10 years in or 3 months
  2593. 1:19:36in.
  2594. 1:19:37There's no happy ending.
  2595. 1:19:39There's no resolution. There's only
  2596. 1:19:41internal resolution that this person
  2597. 1:19:44doesn't see or get me.
  2598. 1:19:46And no matter what I do,
  2599. 1:19:49they don't see me or get me, and I feel
  2600. 1:19:52invalidated as a result.
  2601. 1:19:54>> Mhm.
  2602. 1:19:55>> And I need to learn that they don't see
  2603. 1:19:57and get me because of where their
  2604. 1:19:58consciousness is.
  2605. 1:19:59>> Yep.
  2606. 1:19:59>> So, why am I asking the person who's
  2607. 1:20:02deaf and blind what they think of my
  2608. 1:20:04movie?
  2609. 1:20:06You know, they're not they they're not
  2610. 1:20:07registering it.
  2611. 1:20:08>> Yeah.
  2612. 1:20:09>> They're in their own experience.
  2613. 1:20:11>> Right.
  2614. 1:20:11>> Having probably the same frustration
  2615. 1:20:14with you.
  2616. 1:20:16So, you accept we're different, but
  2617. 1:20:19we've learned what What karmic
  2618. 1:20:21relationships do is teach you self-love
  2619. 1:20:23is the only exit.
  2620. 1:20:25>> Yep.
  2621. 1:20:26Yeah, for sure.
  2622. 1:20:27>> only exit.
  2623. 1:20:28>> Why would
  2624. 1:20:29a spirit guide or an angel or any of
  2625. 1:20:32your divine support system let you or
  2626. 1:20:34guide you towards being in a karmic
  2627. 1:20:35relationship?
  2628. 1:20:36>> Cuz we're here to learn.
  2629. 1:20:37>> Mhm.
  2630. 1:20:38>> You're not going to learn by
  2631. 1:20:40flattering yourself all day long to love
  2632. 1:20:42yourself.
  2633. 1:20:42>> Yep.
  2634. 1:20:43>> So, walk into this experience and see
  2635. 1:20:46what it will do. Your guides aren't here
  2636. 1:20:48to prevent you from discomfort.
  2637. 1:20:50>> Yeah.
  2638. 1:20:51>> to help you grow.
  2639. 1:20:53>> Right. Okay, this is a very important
  2640. 1:20:55point.
  2641. 1:20:56>> you own your power, own your choices,
  2642. 1:21:00own your authenticity, and grow and
  2643. 1:21:03create and contribute.
  2644. 1:21:04>> Mhm.
  2645. 1:21:05>> I've had many people say, "Well, my
  2646. 1:21:06guides If I had guides, I wouldn't have
  2647. 1:21:09been in this horrible relationship."
  2648. 1:21:10It's like, "No, your guides were holding
  2649. 1:21:12standby. You have first free will."
  2650. 1:21:14>> Yep.
  2651. 1:21:15>> You entered that. They didn't put you in
  2652. 1:21:17there.
  2653. 1:21:18They've been on standby all along saying
  2654. 1:21:20you could love yourself and get out of
  2655. 1:21:21this.
  2656. 1:21:23But, this is your classroom. Enjoy. And
  2657. 1:21:25you know, when you get out of a karmic
  2658. 1:21:27relationship and you get far enough down
  2659. 1:21:29the road to look in the rearview mirror
  2660. 1:21:31with more neutrality, you will always
  2661. 1:21:33say,
  2662. 1:21:35"That stunk,
  2663. 1:21:37but I'm glad it happened."
  2664. 1:21:38>> Yeah, 100%.
  2665. 1:21:39>> 100%. Like, your girlfriend or cheated
  2666. 1:21:42on you or whatever.
  2667. 1:21:43Aren't you glad that happened?
  2668. 1:21:44>> hands down. Best thing that could have
  2669. 1:21:46happened.
  2670. 1:21:46>> Yeah, you you grew.
  2671. 1:21:48You mature, you got over romantic love
  2672. 1:21:51and decided wait a minute, relationships
  2673. 1:21:53are the the substance of our meaning in
  2674. 1:21:55life.
  2675. 1:21:56>> Yes.
  2676. 1:21:56>> I have got to deepen up myself.
  2677. 1:21:59>> Yes, that's exactly what happened, yeah.
  2678. 1:22:00>> Yeah, exactly. I have two daughters,
  2679. 1:22:03they're grown now, but I was with my one
  2680. 1:22:05daughter when she was
  2681. 1:22:07five-ish teaching her to read, she was
  2682. 1:22:09reading.
  2683. 1:22:10And she got to a page in the book where
  2684. 1:22:12she struggled and struggled and
  2685. 1:22:13struggled.
  2686. 1:22:15And I gave her the word.
  2687. 1:22:17And she looked at the book and she
  2688. 1:22:18looked at me and she looked at the word
  2689. 1:22:20and she looked out.
  2690. 1:22:22Went on for another couple words and
  2691. 1:22:24again I gave her the word.
  2692. 1:22:28I was I wanted to get get on with it.
  2693. 1:22:30She looked at me and she looked out and
  2694. 1:22:32looked at me and then I did it a third
  2695. 1:22:33time and she got up and threw the book
  2696. 1:22:35at me.
  2697. 1:22:36And she said, "Stop it. You don't think
  2698. 1:22:39I can do it, do you?"
  2699. 1:22:41>> Well.
  2700. 1:22:42>> And I said, "You're right, I'm so
  2701. 1:22:44sorry."
  2702. 1:22:46That your guides aren't going to keep
  2703. 1:22:47giving you
  2704. 1:22:48>> Yeah.
  2705. 1:22:49>> That's ego. I was impatient. I didn't
  2706. 1:22:52want to have feel her struggle.
  2707. 1:22:55And she called me out.
  2708. 1:22:57>> Yeah.
  2709. 1:22:58>> I never did it again. That's your
  2710. 1:23:00guides, they're holding space, but
  2711. 1:23:02they're not saying, "Oh, you're having a
  2712. 1:23:03bad day." They will give you the parking
  2713. 1:23:05space, they will give you the break in
  2714. 1:23:07the dark night of the soul, but they
  2715. 1:23:08will never take away your opportunity to
  2716. 1:23:10grow.
  2717. 1:23:11>> Mhm.
  2718. 1:23:12>> Cuz that's the gold of life.
  2719. 1:23:14They will help you. It's like a coach.
  2720. 1:23:17Would you love your coach if you played
  2721. 1:23:19basketball and he said, "Look, I can see
  2722. 1:23:21you're struggling, why don't you sit
  2723. 1:23:22down and I'll play the game for you?"
  2724. 1:23:23>> yeah.
  2725. 1:23:24>> It's like, "Are you serious?"
  2726. 1:23:26It's my game.
  2727. 1:23:27>> Yeah.
  2728. 1:23:28>> So don't think your guides are going to
  2729. 1:23:30play the game for you.
  2730. 1:23:31>> Right, they'll just assist you where you
  2731. 1:23:33need.
  2732. 1:23:33>> assist you and they're right there. And
  2733. 1:23:35when you're really stuck
  2734. 1:23:37they will get you out of trouble and
  2735. 1:23:39back on track.
  2736. 1:23:41>> So it's literally just as simple as just
  2737. 1:23:42calling out for help. That's it.
  2738. 1:23:44>> and meaning it.
  2739. 1:23:45>> And meaning it.
  2740. 1:23:46>> Mhm. Mhm. How do you manifest? Like
  2741. 1:23:49thoughts.
  2742. 1:23:49>> Same thing. Manifest is the same print
  2743. 1:23:52These are not separate things. It's be
  2744. 1:23:54aligned, be intentional,
  2745. 1:23:57call in what you want, be willing to
  2746. 1:23:59show up for it.
  2747. 1:24:01Like the media company, you know the
  2748. 1:24:02manifestation there's a bit wonky.
  2749. 1:24:04>> Mhm.
  2750. 1:24:05>> You're not showing up 100%. It's
  2751. 1:24:07holding,
  2752. 1:24:09but it's not surging.
  2753. 1:24:10>> Mhm.
  2754. 1:24:11>> And you don't know if you want it to cuz
  2755. 1:24:12it'll pull you off of the other thing.
  2756. 1:24:14>> Yep.
  2757. 1:24:15>> So you look at how I'm directing my
  2758. 1:24:17energy and I manifest where there's no
  2759. 1:24:19interruption.
  2760. 1:24:20>> Mhm.
  2761. 1:24:21>> I can manifest to a point,
  2762. 1:24:24but if I want it to keep growing, I've
  2763. 1:24:26got to look at the energy,
  2764. 1:24:28check the interruption, own it, and make
  2765. 1:24:30a choice.
  2766. 1:24:32They're the same.
  2767. 1:24:33Align the chakras is to align with who
  2768. 1:24:35you are,
  2769. 1:24:37be authentic, means listen to what's
  2770. 1:24:39true, admit where it went wonky. You
  2771. 1:24:42made a wonky choice, but you knew.
  2772. 1:24:44>> Mhm.
  2773. 1:24:44>> You felt it. Don't judge, don't indict,
  2774. 1:24:47learn, adjust.
  2775. 1:24:49Get back in the game.
  2776. 1:24:51>> Mhm.
  2777. 1:24:52>> Slow down.
  2778. 1:24:53>> Slow down.
  2779. 1:24:54>> My read for you is slow down.
  2780. 1:24:55>> Oh, really?
  2781. 1:24:56>> Just a few breaths. Going so fast
  2782. 1:24:58doesn't even give you a chance to really
  2783. 1:25:00check in with what
  2784. 1:25:02your guidance is suggesting.
  2785. 1:25:04>> Wow.
  2786. 1:25:05>> Just slow down enough to check.
  2787. 1:25:08>> To check what's true to me.
  2788. 1:25:09>> true. Does this feel true?
  2789. 1:25:12And then be like a detective and what
  2790. 1:25:13can we
  2791. 1:25:15investigate further?
  2792. 1:25:16>> Mhm.
  2793. 1:25:17>> Media company. I love it. It's a good
  2794. 1:25:19idea and I actually can see where it can
  2795. 1:25:20go, but I don't want to be full-time
  2796. 1:25:22personally overseeing it all.
  2797. 1:25:24>> Yeah.
  2798. 1:25:24>> But I had a I hired a CEO and he blew it
  2799. 1:25:27so he could steal it from me. It's like,
  2800. 1:25:28wait a minute.
  2801. 1:25:30I don't hire a CEO. I tell someone,
  2802. 1:25:33"This is my thing. I'm the head. You
  2803. 1:25:35work for me, but you get all the credit
  2804. 1:25:38and we work together and we will grow it
  2805. 1:25:41together and it's not any assumed
  2806. 1:25:43agreements, no implied agreements. We
  2807. 1:25:45will work it out.
  2808. 1:25:47>> Mhm.
  2809. 1:25:48>> And if it feels like it's when aligned
  2810. 1:25:50for true for both of us,
  2811. 1:25:52we'll try it for 6 months. That's
  2812. 1:25:54another way.
  2813. 1:25:55>> What would you say is the biggest
  2814. 1:25:56blocker for me
  2815. 1:25:59as a in terms of my spiritual growth
  2816. 1:26:01right now?
  2817. 1:26:01>> You see it in conflict with your your
  2818. 1:26:05ambition.
  2819. 1:26:06>> I see spiritual growth as conflict with
  2820. 1:26:08my
  2821. 1:26:08>> There's a conflict in your mind.
  2822. 1:26:09>> Mhm.
  2823. 1:26:10>> Whereas you need to see I'm the new
  2824. 1:26:12model of spirituality.
  2825. 1:26:14It's not a renunciate model.
  2826. 1:26:16>> Yeah.
  2827. 1:26:18>> It's an a model that says we can live in
  2828. 1:26:21an experience a beautiful world without
  2829. 1:26:23a loss of integrity or a loss of soul.
  2830. 1:26:26>> Mhm.
  2831. 1:26:27>> And I'm learning it. See, I would talk
  2832. 1:26:29about that.
  2833. 1:26:30>> Yeah.
  2834. 1:26:30>> I'm learning this.
  2835. 1:26:32I've had these two, you know, two
  2836. 1:26:34different models of the spirituality is
  2837. 1:26:37the renunciate I have nothing.
  2838. 1:26:39>> Mhm.
  2839. 1:26:39>> Or I have everything but I've lost my
  2840. 1:26:41soul. And you've come to bridge those
  2841. 1:26:44two because that's just that's just a
  2842. 1:26:46construct that was made up to control.
  2843. 1:26:48>> Mhm. Yes.
  2844. 1:26:50>> So that was Be My said that's your path.
  2845. 1:26:52That's what you're here for to show and
  2846. 1:26:55demonstrate and live energetically a new
  2847. 1:26:59model that people can feel the vibration
  2848. 1:27:02and not just listen to your words.
  2849. 1:27:03>> Mhm.
  2850. 1:27:04>> Because they're reading you, too.
  2851. 1:27:06>> Yeah.
  2852. 1:27:07>> So if you're aligned and it doesn't mean
  2853. 1:27:09you have to get it all together. Just
  2854. 1:27:10tell the truth on the process.
  2855. 1:27:12>> Yeah.
  2856. 1:27:12>> I'm learning this. I'm learning this. I
  2857. 1:27:14messed up here.
  2858. 1:27:15Be transparent.
  2859. 1:27:17>> Yeah.
  2860. 1:27:17>> And you'll be empowered. The first
  2861. 1:27:19commandment
  2862. 1:27:20is not to have false gods.
  2863. 1:27:23And I think that's the one that
  2864. 1:27:24everyone's breaking right now.
  2865. 1:27:26>> The first commandment is not to have
  2866. 1:27:27false gods.
  2867. 1:27:28>> and that is approval of others.
  2868. 1:27:30>> Right.
  2869. 1:27:31Yeah.
  2870. 1:27:32>> You have that you have a false god.
  2871. 1:27:34>> Mhm.
  2872. 1:27:35>> lost your power.
  2873. 1:27:37>> So true. This podcast is called Relearn.
  2874. 1:27:39>> Mhm.
  2875. 1:27:40>> So what's the biggest thing that you
  2876. 1:27:43just wish
  2877. 1:27:45everyone could relearn in life
  2878. 1:27:47against societal conditioning that we
  2879. 1:27:49already have.
  2880. 1:27:50>> Who you are is not your ego, not your
  2881. 1:27:52condition, not your history. You are a
  2882. 1:27:54divine spirit who is set up in this life
  2883. 1:27:56for tremendous success, and this is not
  2884. 1:27:58an easy obstacle course of a school.
  2885. 1:28:01So, you need to stay true, and you need
  2886. 1:28:03to call in your helpers, and you need to
  2887. 1:28:05be honest.
  2888. 1:28:07And you're never alone.
  2889. 1:28:09You learn that, and the rest will fall
  2890. 1:28:10into place.
  2891. 1:28:11>> I love that. I love that so much. Thank
  2892. 1:28:13you so much, Sonia.
  2893. 1:28:14>> My pleasure.
  2894. 1:28:15>> Where can people find out more?
  2895. 1:28:16>> Well, they can find out more. I have my
  2896. 1:28:18own YouTube channel.
  2897. 1:28:20And I have a website, my name Sonia
  2898. 1:28:23Choquette. It's dot net.
  2899. 1:28:25And if you really want to learn this, I
  2900. 1:28:28am teaching people to to coach this. I'm
  2901. 1:28:31teaching people how to guide people back
  2902. 1:28:33to authentic vibration, so they can
  2903. 1:28:35check out my certification. I do it once
  2904. 1:28:37a year. And it's a deep training on how
  2905. 1:28:40to live aligned.
  2906. 1:28:42>> Perfect.
  2907. 1:28:42>> Like that.
  2908. 1:28:43>> Amazing.
  2909. 1:28:44>> So, those are the things that I am here
  2910. 1:28:46to share.
  2911. 1:28:47And you can find me on those places,
  2912. 1:28:49even Instagram, but lessons, YouTube.
  2913. 1:28:52>> Perfect. Thank you so much.
  2914. 1:28:54>> my love.
  2915. 1:28:54>> Thanks so much, Sonia.
  2916. 1:28:55>> It was a pleasure.

About this transcript

This page contains the full transcript of The Intuition Expert: Red Light Green Light Intuition, The Barking Dog, Self-Love As The Only Exit by Relearn, generated from the public captions YouTube serves with the video. The transcript has 15,462 words across 2,916 segments, with the original timestamps preserved so you can click any line to jump to that moment in the embedded player.

What you can do with it

Use the transcript to take notes, quote the speaker, build a study guide, generate a summary with ChatGPT or Claude via the YouTube Summary tool, or export it as a timed subtitle file with YouTube to SRT. You can also re-open it in the transcriber to translate the transcript into 100+ languages.

Free YouTube transcript tool

YouTube2Text is a free YouTube transcript generator — no signup, no daily limit. Paste any YouTube link and get the full transcript instantly, with timestamps, click-to-jump, translation to 100+ languages, AI prompts for ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini, and exports to TXT, SRT, VTT, or Markdown.