"The DEAD Say Heaven is NOT The Only Place..." 30,000+ Afterlife Readings | Matt Fraser — Transcript
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- 0:00What has been the most special
- 0:02undeniable proof
- 0:04that there is life beyond our physical
- 0:06bodies?
- 0:07>> When he showed me that he had been
- 0:09buried
- 0:10with a dog. The mother looked at me and
- 0:12her face just went white. First thing is
- 0:14is that nobody dies alone. Light goes
- 0:16off in heaven.
- 0:17>> What happens with those moments when
- 0:18we're in the life review?
- 0:20>> The life review is not a place of
- 0:21judgment. The life review is a place of
- 0:23understand. You cannot experience the
- 0:25light unless you experience the
- 0:26darkness. So they can remember that they
- 0:28were the light all along. It's not the
- 0:29place, right? It's the state of being.
- 0:32>> So would you say that we could create
- 0:34heaven on earth here?
- 0:35>> I believe we can. A guardian angel has
- 0:37spent their entire existence in heaven
- 0:40in angel form, not in human form. Ask
- 0:42for everything right now and let heaven
- 0:44help you. But we never die. Hands down,
- 0:46we never die.
- 0:47>> And what is the one lesson you believe a
- 0:49soul can only learn
- 0:51by becoming human?
- 1:03>> [sighs]
- 1:08>> Matt Fraser, welcome on Just transition,
- 1:11brother.
- 1:12What are you most excited about right
- 1:15now globally and in your life?
- 1:18>> I got to tell you, I am so excited for
- 1:20my new tour because there are so many
- 1:22people around the United States who are
- 1:24like, "Matt, when you coming to my city?
- 1:25When you coming to my state?" And you
- 1:27know, there's been so
- 1:29so much planning that goes around into
- 1:30touring and it really breaks my heart
- 1:32when I have to write to somebody and say
- 1:33like I'm not coming. I'm not coming, you
- 1:35know, or or you know, you need to wait.
- 1:37And really this year I focused on brand
- 1:39new cities, brand new states, reaching
- 1:41people far and wide because my mission
- 1:43is simple, to get to as many people as
- 1:45possible. And I know the people have
- 1:47been following me for months, for years
- 1:50and they've all wanted the same thing,
- 1:51right? For me to be able to meet them,
- 1:54maybe hear a message from a loved one in
- 1:55spirit and help them on their path. And
- 1:57I'm excited to be doing that this year.
- 1:58They also have a new book that I am
- 2:00writing right now that I'm really
- 2:02excited about and just sharing my life
- 2:05and sharing this wisdom from the
- 2:06afterlife with everybody who comes into
- 2:08my channels. You know, it's an amazing
- 2:10honor and privilege just to be able to
- 2:12be this messenger from heaven.
- 2:14>> Beautiful, man.
- 2:16I can already feel that that that tour
- 2:17is going to be amazing and I'm really
- 2:20curious because for you, as we're
- 2:23talking here about spirits in the
- 2:24afterlife, I'm curious to know for you,
- 2:28what has been the most special
- 2:30undeniable proof
- 2:32that there is life beyond our physical
- 2:35bodies.
- 2:36>> You know, what's amazing is that spirit
- 2:38validates us every day. Not just me as a
- 2:40medium, but to you. You know, the signs
- 2:42are all around us that heaven is real.
- 2:44They send signs like dragonflies,
- 2:45butterflies, repeating numbers like
- 2:4711:11. They come through in dreams, in
- 2:49scents, in smells. There's so many ways
- 2:51that your loved ones in spirit are
- 2:52trying to show you that they're there.
- 2:54But, the hardest thing is is that
- 2:56sometimes grief, sometimes our
- 2:57skepticism, sometimes us just not being
- 3:00open actually acts as a block for our
- 3:03loved ones not to be able to reach us.
- 3:04So, the most undeniable thing happens
- 3:07when I do a reading. I love my live
- 3:10shows because what happens is is that
- 3:12your loved ones in spirit many times are
- 3:14able to break through that barrier and
- 3:17many times it's the skeptics who get a
- 3:19reading. You know, there's a reading
- 3:20that's up on my YouTube channel that is
- 3:22one that I'll never forget. There was
- 3:24this woman who came to my event. She
- 3:25brought her two daughters with her and
- 3:27immediately when I looked out in the
- 3:28audience, I went off stage cuz I saw her
- 3:31husband with her and I got to tell you,
- 3:32she was a skeptic. I don't think she's
- 3:34ever been to a medium before. She saw
- 3:36the saw her on the show and she's like,
- 3:39I just want to see what happens. Well,
- 3:41her husband was coming through and in
- 3:42the beginning they were denying like
- 3:43everything I was saying, you know. I was
- 3:45talking to them and they were like, oh,
- 3:46okay, yeah, yeah. Like information was
- 3:49kind of going over their head and they
- 3:50weren't really validating anything.
- 3:52And then her husband showed me, Matt,
- 3:54you got to show show her this and he
- 3:55showed me this this gravestone and his
- 3:57headstone and he showed me that he had
- 3:59been buried
- 4:01with the dog.
- 4:02And I said to her, you know, your
- 4:04husband is showing me that there was a
- 4:05situation where after he had died, he
- 4:08was buried with this this dog.
- 4:10And she the mother looked at me and her
- 4:12face just went white and it was all
- 4:14captured on video and her daughters were
- 4:15like looking like, Mom, what's he
- 4:17talking about? Like like Dad wasn't
- 4:18buried with the dog. And she started
- 4:20crying and she was like, after my
- 4:22husband died, she was my girls don't
- 4:23know this. She said I went back to the
- 4:25cemetery. She goes, and I dug a hole.
- 4:27She says, and I dug She goes, I buried
- 4:29our dog that passed with my husband. She
- 4:31goes, nobody knows about that. And
- 4:32immediately so the daughters like look
- 4:34over and their Georgia just stopped and
- 4:36you saw the mom just go from, you know,
- 4:38complete skeptic into believer. And not
- 4:41only did she feel it, but what was
- 4:42amazing is that the audience felt it at
- 4:44that moment. Everybody was like,
- 4:46aw.
- 4:47And I think at that moment something
- 4:49profound happens. And the video went
- 4:50viral for a lot of different reasons
- 4:52because I don't think it's it's stayed
- 4:53The energy stayed just in that room.
- 4:56Every single person who watched that
- 4:57video realized, oh my god, there's no
- 5:00way that he could have known this.
- 5:01There's no way that this could have been
- 5:02a guest guest here or something so
- 5:04specific. And it proved to everybody
- 5:06that there is life after death. And
- 5:08those little moments, those little
- 5:09nuggets of information are what
- 5:11mediumship is all about, validating that
- 5:13your loved ones are present, that
- 5:14they're there, and that the afterlife is
- 5:16real.
- 5:19>> Do you feel that when you say that
- 5:20journey from skeptic to believer,
- 5:23what exactly are they believing in? Uh
- 5:26is it beyond just that there is an
- 5:28afterlife? Are they believing more in
- 5:30something greater than themselves? What
- 5:33are they believing in?
- 5:34>> Well, you know, a skeptic is somebody
- 5:35who doesn't believe in a lot of things.
- 5:36They don't believe in life after death.
- 5:38They don't believe in God. They don't
- 5:40believe in a higher power. They don't
- 5:41believe that their loved ones are there
- 5:42and with them. And to me, that's the
- 5:44saddest thing. I would not be able to do
- 5:46what I do. I won't be able to be a happy
- 5:47person, be able to have the family that
- 5:49I do, and enjoy every moment if I didn't
- 5:51think that my own loved ones were here.
- 5:53You know, the thing is that grief traps
- 5:55us. It traps us into that notion of this
- 5:57is it. This is the end. You only have
- 5:58one life. You know, when you lose a
- 6:00loved one, you lose a loved one, they're
- 6:01gone.
- 6:02And the moment that you can break
- 6:04someone out of that, the moment that you
- 6:06can start to open their eyes just a
- 6:07little bit, just enough to show them
- 6:09that there is an afterlife, that there
- 6:11is another side, that there, you know,
- 6:13are ways that your loved ones are
- 6:14reaching out is life-changing. Because
- 6:17immediately, they start to realize,
- 6:19wait,
- 6:20I'm not just here for this one life,
- 6:21right? I get to see my loved ones again.
- 6:23I get to transition onto the other side.
- 6:25And my loved ones are with me every day.
- 6:27And that healing that it brings is
- 6:31something that can heal even the deepest
- 6:33wounds.
- 6:33>> Mhm.
- 6:35Speaking of deep, I I had this question
- 6:38because I I've also spoken to many
- 6:41people who have reported these this
- 6:43phenomena of where a spirit in the
- 6:46spirit form can actually also influence
- 6:49our material reality at some point. You
- 6:51know, just thinking of
- 6:53things such as flights flickering. And
- 6:55as we're approaching, you know, this the
- 6:56Halloween season, I also wanted to touch
- 6:59on that. You know, what have you found
- 7:01is that mechanism by which a spirit can
- 7:04influence
- 7:06this realm of reality that we're in?
- 7:08>> So, it's not like what you think, right?
- 7:10When you see on television or you hear
- 7:13in movies that, you know, someone's
- 7:14haunting the house, the lights start to
- 7:16flicker, and these these energy
- 7:17interferences, that does happen. Spirit
- 7:19does do that, but it's not in the way
- 7:20that you think. They're not actually
- 7:22haunting your house, right? The lights
- 7:24flickering, the the energy changing, is
- 7:26actually your loved ones coming to visit
- 7:28you. And this is actually really
- 7:29interesting. Because if you're getting
- 7:30these type of signs where a loved one
- 7:32passes away, the lights start to
- 7:33flicker, and then all of a sudden the
- 7:35smoke alarms might go off, you know, in
- 7:37the middle of the night, but there's no
- 7:38smoke, your alarm gets tripped, but no
- 7:39one's there, that's actually called a
- 7:42breakthrough sign. And what a
- 7:43breakthrough sign is is when spirit is
- 7:45new to the other side,
- 7:47they're new to their body. Now, think of
- 7:48it this way. When we pass away, we leave
- 7:50our physical body here, but our soul,
- 7:53which is energy, it's completely made of
- 7:54energy, transitions onto the other side.
- 7:57And because it's a new energy, your
- 7:59loved ones aren't really sure how to try
- 8:01how to channel, they're not really sure
- 8:02how to come through. And the first thing
- 8:04that your loved ones do when they get to
- 8:05the other side is they come and visit
- 8:08you. So, a breakthrough side is a sign
- 8:10when your loved one first comes to
- 8:12connect with you. It's a breakthrough
- 8:13from their world into our world, where
- 8:15you'll sense and feel them. It could be
- 8:16that you're in your house and you feel a
- 8:17cold spot. It could be that you're in
- 8:19your house and the alarm goes off when
- 8:21no one's there. It could be that all of
- 8:22a sudden the lights start to flicker.
- 8:24It's not actually them going and
- 8:25flicking the switch back and forth. It's
- 8:27their energy being so pure and so so
- 8:30high at that moment that when they come
- 8:32in to visit you, these electromagnetic
- 8:35uh these electromagnetic things start to
- 8:37start to happen. And one of the things
- 8:38that also happens is they appear in
- 8:40photos. So, there's a such thing known
- 8:42as orbs. And orbs are these little round
- 8:44circles or distortions in the pictures.
- 8:46It could look like somebody walked by.
- 8:48It could look like a floating circle.
- 8:50And that's actually your camera lens
- 8:52picking up on those souls coming to
- 8:54visit.
- 8:55>> Mhm.
- 8:57That's very interesting. You said like
- 8:58when they transition in the beginning to
- 9:00the other side, they're new souls to the
- 9:02other side kind of getting acclimated to
- 9:04things.
- 9:06From all of the information you've
- 9:08gathered,
- 9:09what has been sort of the the normal
- 9:13journey you've seen a soul take as soon
- 9:16as this physical existence ends and
- 9:19they're on to a new path? What what it
- 9:22what usually tends to be that that
- 9:24route? I know you talked about the life
- 9:26review being maybe one of the most
- 9:28emotional journeys a soul will go
- 9:29through. Um what have you seen has been
- 9:32sort of that pathway into the afterlife?
- 10:07>> right? The same way that everyone
- 10:09gathers around when a newborn baby is
- 10:11about to be brought home, that same
- 10:13thing happens when we're transitioning
- 10:14on to the afterlife. So, you immediately
- 10:17start to see your friends, right? People
- 10:19who had passed 10 years ago, 15 years
- 10:21ago, 30 years ago. You see your family
- 10:23members, your mom, your dad, your pets.
- 10:26People that were closest to you are who
- 10:27appear. And then you start your
- 10:29transition to the other side. And when
- 10:31you start your transition to the other
- 10:32side, you start to realize a few things.
- 10:35The other side shows you where you're
- 10:36going. They show you, you know, that
- 10:37you're transitioning on into the
- 10:39afterlife. Your pain starts to leave
- 10:41you, right? Your illness starts to be
- 10:43healed, where people who couldn't walk
- 10:45or couldn't feel their legs suddenly
- 10:47have the emo- have the uh feeling of
- 10:49their legs being back, the emotion of
- 10:50being whole again. You start to look at
- 10:53your life with this life review. You
- 10:55also go through a process of picking
- 10:56signs. You pick signs for the people
- 10:58that you left behind here in this world,
- 11:00and the signs are different for
- 11:01everyone. You might pick a feather for
- 11:03your dad. You might pick a cardinal for
- 11:05your mom. You might pick different signs
- 11:06that you're going to use to reach the
- 11:07people once you transition on. And then
- 11:10you also get a sneak peek. You get a
- 11:12sneak peek of your loved one's life and
- 11:15how you can help. So, for example, maybe
- 11:17you're leaving this world because there
- 11:18are some times where
- 11:20where there's spirit setbacks, where
- 11:21souls don't want to leave us, right?
- 11:23They're afraid to leave this world
- 11:24because, "Oh my god, what if I leave
- 11:26and, you know, my daughter really needs
- 11:28me. What if I leave and, you know, I've
- 11:29been watching my daughter daughter
- 11:30struggle. She's going through a divorce.
- 11:32I need to be there for her." You're
- 11:33shown this preview of their life that
- 11:35they're going to be okay, what's going
- 11:37to happen in their life in the next 5
- 11:39years, and ways that you can help from
- 11:40the other side. I've seen so many souls
- 11:43come back and tell me that they were the
- 11:44ones who were who were responsible. They
- 11:47were the ones who were responsible for
- 11:48getting us to their soulmate. They They
- 11:51were the ones who were responsible for
- 11:52getting us to our new pet, to our new
- 11:54job, to our new house, helping us
- 11:56through the health struggle that we went
- 11:58through, and they continue to be part of
- 12:00your life on the other side. And they
- 12:02also pick jobs. You know, one of the
- 12:04most amazing things is we get when we
- 12:05get to the other side, we learn about
- 12:07our life purpose, what our talents,
- 12:09skills, and abilities were, the people
- 12:11that we helped, the people that we
- 12:13catapulted and we, you know, invested
- 12:15and we moved forward here in life
- 12:17without even realizing. And then we also
- 12:19realize on the other side what our
- 12:21God-given talents and life mission was
- 12:23and how we could complete that mission
- 12:25on the other side. So, for example,
- 12:28maybe there was somebody who was a
- 12:29songwriter here in this life who didn't
- 12:31get to go and use their ability to the
- 12:33fullest, might come back as a spirit
- 12:35guide and help a young girl who's just
- 12:37coming into her own voice or her own
- 12:38gift or her own talent. So, it's really
- 12:40amazing to see this journey and to see
- 12:43how the souls on the other side
- 12:44transition on and then continue to help
- 12:46us here in life.
- 12:50>> Hello, beautiful family. Quick one
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- 13:50Back to the episode.
- 13:54>> I I know how important your your
- 13:56grandmother was in your journey and
- 13:58still is. Uh you know, she passed on
- 14:00when you were 3 years old. I'm curious
- 14:03to know how she's communicated with you
- 14:06and maybe has guided you as that, you
- 14:08know, as that spirit guide that you were
- 14:10mentioning and landing certain
- 14:13opportunities, opening certain doors for
- 14:15you in in this lifetime and how you knew
- 14:18it was her behind it all.
- 14:20>> Oh, you know, that's a really good
- 14:21question. And I've never been asked this
- 14:23question before, so I'm really excited
- 14:24to answer it. You know, what's
- 14:25interesting is when our loved ones come
- 14:27to visit us, they don't come every day,
- 14:28they don't come, you know, every week.
- 14:30They don't come even even every month,
- 14:31they come every so often. When big
- 14:32things are happening within our lives,
- 14:34when small things are happening within
- 14:36our lives, and they just have to show us
- 14:37their presence presence there, that's
- 14:39when they come through. You know, what's
- 14:40amazing is is that
- 14:42my grandmother said to me, well, she
- 14:44didn't she didn't say to me, she said to
- 14:45my mom before she passed away that she
- 14:47was going to send a sign, a sign to let
- 14:49my mom and me know that she was okay.
- 14:51Now, I was only 3 years old when my
- 14:52grandmother passed. But, she had said,
- 14:54you know, anything that wasn't going to
- 14:55be important in my life, she was going
- 14:58to show me that being connected to a
- 15:00specific date in her life. So, for
- 15:02example,
- 15:04the day that was her anniversary, the
- 15:05day that was her birthday, the day that
- 15:06was her death. And, you know, my mom had
- 15:09always told me this within life. Grandma
- 15:10said that, you know, as you go through
- 15:12life, she wants you to know that these
- 15:13dates are going to signify certain ways
- 15:15that she's there and with you. And I'll
- 15:17never forget it that, you know, the day
- 15:18I graduated high school was, you know,
- 15:20the day that she had died. I remember
- 15:22that the day that
- 15:24I had gone and got my first first
- 15:27interview on a national syndicated show
- 15:29was the day of her anniversary, right?
- 15:31Of her death.
- 15:33I'm sorry, the anniversary of her of her
- 15:34marriage. And then,
- 15:36what ends up being her birthday on the
- 15:37day that we got the news that our
- 15:39television show had gotten picked up.
- 15:41So, it was amazing because not only did
- 15:43I feel her, but those dates were
- 15:44confirmation that she was there, she was
- 15:46behind those big moments. And these were
- 15:48spaced out years in between, right? It's
- 15:50not like it happened bing bang boom, or
- 15:52the how I'm saying it. You know, and it
- 15:54wasn't that I realized it right away. It
- 15:56was after, you know, receiving the news,
- 15:58after feeling so good, after all of
- 16:00these moments, you know, I felt my
- 16:01grandmother's presence there being a
- 16:03medium. But then, when I looked at the
- 16:04date, you know, it wasn't until later on
- 16:05that I realized, "Oh my god, that was my
- 16:07grandmother's birthday. Oh my god, that
- 16:08was the day that she died. Oh my god,
- 16:09that was the day of the anniversary."
- 16:11So, what's truly amazing is that she
- 16:13validated in multiple ways. And now, I
- 16:15want to teach people that they can
- 16:17receive that same validation. It might
- 16:19not be through specific numbers, but
- 16:20maybe your loved one is reaching you
- 16:22through a feeling, a sense, a smell, or
- 16:23a dream. And not only do I want to be a
- 16:26medium and help people hear messages,
- 16:28but I really want to be a teacher and
- 16:29teach people that you can receive these
- 16:31signs, too. I'm not just a a chosen one,
- 16:33you know, we all have a way to reach our
- 16:35loved ones.
- 16:36>> Mhm.
- 16:38I know that when we first logged on to
- 16:40this call, you you said you kept hearing
- 16:42grandmother, grandmother, grandmother.
- 16:45And then I confirmed to you, yes, well,
- 16:47my grandmother on the maternal side
- 16:49actually passed
- 16:502 weeks ago.
- 16:52And I was curious to know if anything
- 16:55other messages had come through or are
- 16:58coming through at this time.
- 17:00Uh
- 17:01just to see
- 17:03if there is any guidance, as you were
- 17:05just relaying in your example of your
- 17:07grandmother guiding you, if there is
- 17:09that on on my end of the spectrum here.
- 17:12>> So, what's interesting is that when
- 17:14souls come through, they paint a whole
- 17:15picture. Like, the moment I'm connecting
- 17:16with your grandmother, I know this was a
- 17:17woman who had suffered before her
- 17:19passing here in the physical world.
- 17:20She's showing me that at the end there
- 17:21was issues with mobility with her legs
- 17:23cuz she talks about not being able to
- 17:24move at the end. Is that correct?
- 17:27And then also, when I'm connecting, she
- 17:28also showed me a vision of a fall. So,
- 17:30there was some type of a fall that had
- 17:31happened here in this world.
- 17:34Mhm. How do you connect with that?
- 17:35>> Yeah. I I'm pretty sure she had she had
- 17:38experienced a fall in the shower, you
- 17:40know.
- 17:40>> Right. She tells me that was like the
- 17:42downfall of her health. And then not
- 17:44only did it start affect her physically
- 17:46cuz in the beginning everyone thought,
- 17:47oh, she's going to make it through,
- 17:48she's going to make it through. She
- 17:49shows me this fall had happened, all of
- 17:51these all of these health issues started
- 17:53coming up. And then she's also telling
- 17:54me that started to affect her mind at
- 17:56the end as well, which is starting to
- 17:57get confused, which is starting to get
- 17:58disoriented. And she's saying to me that
- 18:01what she wants you to know is that first
- 18:02of all, she'd never forgotten anybody
- 18:04here in this world. She knew everybody
- 18:06who was there for her.
- 18:08And she also was thankful for everybody
- 18:10who rushed to come to see her before her
- 18:11passing. She's very, very happy about
- 18:13that when I'm connecting with her.
- 18:15She's also bringing up memories of you
- 18:17when you were a little boy because she's
- 18:18talking about this about uh suspended
- 18:20this uh this time with you back when you
- 18:22were younger and those are still the
- 18:23memories that were playing her head back
- 18:25when you were young.
- 18:26And what's also beautiful is when I'm
- 18:28connecting with your grandmother, not
- 18:29only do I sense and feel these visions,
- 18:31but they'll also show me
- 18:33what their life was like. And when I'm
- 18:34connecting with your grandmother, she
- 18:35was a very simple soul here in the
- 18:36physical world. She shows me that when
- 18:39I'm connecting with her
- 18:41one of the things that she loved to do
- 18:42was not only cook, but I keep hearing
- 18:44her like humming and like singing when
- 18:45I'm connecting with her. So, how do you
- 18:47connect with the songs with her?
- 18:49>> She definitely My mom at the at the last
- 18:51last moments was teaching her actually a
- 18:53lot of humming and and using her voice
- 18:56to help heal or or
- 18:59yeah, I I definitely connect with that.
- 19:01>> Perfect. She's coming through cuz all I
- 19:02keep hearing you going to send I
- 19:03translate what I hear. So, if your mom
- 19:05before she died was getting her to hum,
- 19:07all I keep hearing is like humming when
- 19:09I'm connecting and like these little
- 19:10these little songs that she's humming
- 19:11and like singing to letting you know
- 19:13that that's the last thing that she
- 19:14remembers. She's also acknowledging in
- 19:16spirit this
- 19:18that one of the things she so thankful
- 19:20for is how your family was trying to get
- 19:21everybody to come to see her. She's
- 19:23bringing that through when I'm
- 19:23connecting. And she's also bringing
- 19:25through Now, I know she just had passed
- 19:27recently, but she's also telling me that
- 19:29she wants to make sure that you have her
- 19:30ornaments. They were like ornaments and
- 19:32decorations that were kept of hers. So,
- 19:34did your mom just go through those or
- 19:35just find those?
- 19:36>> They they were going through them last
- 19:38week with her siblings.
- 19:40>> Yeah.
- 19:40>> And she's saying to me that she knows
- 19:42that she's going to be placed out cuz I
- 19:43see her still celebrating the holidays
- 19:44with you. So, even though that the
- 19:46holidays are coming up and you feel like
- 19:47she's not going to be there, she's
- 19:48talking about you having these specific
- 19:50items items of her. She's definitely
- 19:52guiding you. She's definitely very very
- 19:54proud of you when I'm connecting. And
- 19:55she wants to let you know that even
- 19:57though there was some distance between
- 19:58you and her at the end like physical
- 20:00distance.
- 20:01So, I don't know if you moved away from
- 20:03her or you didn't get to be um
- 20:04close to her at the end just cuz
- 20:06life took you on different paths. She
- 20:08wants to thank you for the for the phone
- 20:09calls and for always keeping in touch
- 20:11with her.
- 20:12She's telling me that she always like
- 20:14knew through your mom, through you where
- 20:16you were going, what you were doing. And
- 20:17she's saying to me that she's so proud
- 20:18of that when I'm connecting with her.
- 20:21>> Mhm.
- 20:23Thank you, man. What What is she doing
- 20:25now?
- 20:26>> Well, right now, what's interesting is
- 20:28that your grandmother's still in the
- 20:28life review process. So, that takes a
- 20:30little bit of time. So, when souls first
- 20:32pass, you know, it's hard for me to hear
- 20:35her right now. Is she Is she coming
- 20:36through? Absolutely. You know, will she
- 20:37show me little nuggets of you you like?
- 20:39Yes, but it's not as clear as a reading
- 20:40would be as if your grandmother passed
- 20:42and it's been a year. Because souls
- 20:44she's learning how to compute through
- 20:45and connect with me the same way
- 20:48that you're going to start to learn how
- 20:49to connect with her through signs and
- 20:51through symbols and through, you know,
- 20:53different different um
- 20:55uh different I call spirit touch points
- 20:57to show you that she's there.
- 21:00>> Is she able to to mention what that sign
- 21:03is for me specifically?
- 21:05>> She's still bit working on it. It hasn't
- 21:07come through just yet. I'll tell you
- 21:08that right now what she's trying to do
- 21:09is she was sharing about dreams. So, you
- 21:11might get a dream of your of your
- 21:13grandmother and your mom might get a
- 21:14dream of your grandmother cuz she shows
- 21:15me showing every she's showing me
- 21:17visions of seeing everyone at night, but
- 21:18that's like going to be the sign she
- 21:19uses. When you go through your life
- 21:21review, you have to pick certain signs.
- 21:23So, the sign that you're going to get
- 21:24and your mom is going to get is going to
- 21:25be different. But your grandmother
- 21:27hasn't finished the process. She's still
- 21:28a new soul in spirit.
- 21:32>> Thank you, man. I appreciate you for for
- 21:34taking the time to do that.
- 21:36Mhm.
- 21:37Speaking of the life review, um
- 21:40you know, there are
- 21:41you know, when I when I hear that word
- 21:44that phrase of life review, it's the
- 21:45reviewing everything that's happened.
- 21:48And there are moments in our life that
- 21:49are not as beautiful and not as amazing
- 21:53as others. There's some moments that are
- 21:54like crunchier and some moments that we
- 21:56might want to not want to even talk
- 21:58about or look at. What happens with
- 22:01those moments when we're in the life
- 22:02review?
- 22:03>> Well, you know, the thing is that the
- 22:04life review was not a place of judgment.
- 22:07The life review is a place of
- 22:08understanding. Understanding what your
- 22:09role was within life. Understanding the
- 22:11greater meaning to why you were here.
- 22:13Understanding the truth, right? The
- 22:15truth of a situation. Who really loved
- 22:17you? Who was really there for you? Who
- 22:18betrayed you? And, you know, what you
- 22:19did for others as well.
- 22:21Going through the life review
- 22:24is like looking back on a documentary of
- 22:26somebody who's really famous. Like for
- 22:28example, the Michael Jackson the Michael
- 22:30Jackson documentary just came out,
- 22:31right? And there were these amazing
- 22:33moments when when he was first coming
- 22:35into stardom and then there were these
- 22:36moments that were not so great and then
- 22:37these moments that caught the public's
- 22:39eye and I mean everyone knows the story,
- 22:41right? Well, imagine going through and
- 22:43seeing your life just like that, right?
- 22:45The people who loved you, the challenges
- 22:47that you went through, you know, the
- 22:49impacts that your life made, that your
- 22:51gifts and talents did, right? And where
- 22:53you fell short a little bit. Now, it's
- 22:54not there to it's not there where you
- 22:56look back and you're like, "Oh my god, I
- 22:57wish I could go back and change this."
- 22:59When you go through your life review,
- 23:01you actually take that wisdom, what you
- 23:02learned here in life, and you use it.
- 23:04You use it to help other souls here on
- 23:07life that might be going through it a
- 23:08challenge. I can't count how many souls
- 23:11have come through that passed of
- 23:12suicide, right?
- 23:14That had regretted their decision
- 23:17once they realized, "Oh my god, if I
- 23:19just hung on a little bit longer, things
- 23:20would have gotten better. If I just if I
- 23:22just trusted this person or my or
- 23:24listened to my family, it could have
- 23:25changed this and this." But then they
- 23:27realized that their passing taught them
- 23:29something something within themselves,
- 23:30something they can use to save another
- 23:32life. In the same way that we write
- 23:34history here on Earth, the same way that
- 23:36we learn through our mistakes, through
- 23:38failed medications, through failed
- 23:40health techniques, through all of these
- 23:41different things, right? We get greater,
- 23:43we get better, and we can use it to help
- 23:46someone else. We can use it to improve.
- 23:48Well, that same thing happens in the
- 23:49spirit side of life, and they are help
- 23:51helping us here on Earth. And what I
- 23:54want everyone to know is that the life
- 23:55review isn't a scary process. In fact,
- 23:57it's a process that shows you how every
- 23:59failure
- 24:01every failure, every success story,
- 24:03every every shot that you took in the
- 24:05dark, right? Led you to where you are
- 24:07now.
- 24:08And I believe I believe looking back on
- 24:10this that it's the greatest story ever
- 24:12told.
- 24:16>> Only is the human journey and
- 24:20what's very interesting to me is
- 24:22um this notion of heaven. And we were
- 24:25constantly told heaven is this beautiful
- 24:28utopic place where there's no pain.
- 24:31When you connect with these souls that
- 24:33have moved on and maybe access those
- 24:35higher dimensions or realms,
- 24:38do they explain it as some sort of
- 24:40location that they get to? Is it a state
- 24:43that they they enter?
- 24:45What really is in your perspective in
- 24:47the gathering of what these souls have
- 24:50communicated
- 24:51that they finally reach when they go
- 24:54through these life reviews and then
- 24:55they're on the other side fully?
- 24:59>> So, what's beautiful is that the one
- 25:01thing that your loved one showed me is
- 25:02that when they pass on to the other
- 25:04side, not only are they free from pain,
- 25:05but they're free from the human emotions
- 25:07that they dealt with here in life. They
- 25:09are free from anger, they're free from
- 25:11judgment, they're free from jealousy,
- 25:13right? They're free from grudges that
- 25:15they were holding on to. All of those
- 25:17things are lifted. And what's also
- 25:19lifted are some of the things that we're
- 25:20not proud of, the addictions, right? The
- 25:23alcoholism, the substance abuse, the
- 25:26depression, all of those things. We go
- 25:28back to being a pure soul. When you're
- 25:30born here on Earth, you're a pure soul,
- 25:31right? You're born here on Earth, you
- 25:34start as a baby. All a baby knows is
- 25:35love. A baby only knows how to give
- 25:38love, how to smile, right?
- 25:40That's one of the most purest form of a
- 25:42spirit is when we're first born. But
- 25:44then when we experience here in life,
- 25:46right? And we get older, we start to
- 25:48realize right from wrong, good from bad,
- 25:50we start to make our own decisions, some
- 25:52good, some bad, right? We also pick up,
- 25:55you know, different things along the way
- 25:56that aren't so good, the addictions, the
- 25:59the grudges, the I mean, all of the
- 26:02things that we could go on and on.
- 26:04But the thing is is that once we get to
- 26:06the other side, our soul turns back to
- 26:08being that pure version of ourself.
- 26:10Everything that was attached to us that
- 26:12should have never been there is lifted.
- 26:14Like I said, the grudge, the hurt, the
- 26:15[clears throat] anger, the pain, the
- 26:16addictions, all of those things. And for
- 26:18once you finally feel free. And I think
- 26:21that that's really what this, you know,
- 26:23utopic, euphoria that people, you know,
- 26:26describe to us heaven is really just
- 26:28your soul no longer being held down by
- 26:32the negative energies. Just think about
- 26:33those words, jealousy, right? Hurt,
- 26:36betrayal, pain. How heavy those words
- 26:39are.
- 26:40Abuse, right?
- 26:42Addiction. All of those things are
- 26:45lifted. Your soul can finally be free
- 26:47and your soul can finally be happy. It's
- 26:48not the place, right? It's the state of
- 26:50being. And that's what your loved ones
- 26:52are trying to get you back to here and
- 26:54now. Is that heaven is not so so so much
- 26:57the place, it's the state of being, the
- 26:59state of being happy, the state of being
- 27:01free, the state of being calm, the state
- 27:03of releasing.
- 27:06>> So, would you say that we could create
- 27:08heaven on Earth here?
- 27:09>> I believe we can. And I people have
- 27:11already started. I mean, if you can go
- 27:14and I teach this all the time to people,
- 27:15if you can go and let go of control, let
- 27:18go of hurt, let go of pain, go back from
- 27:21your past and you can forgive, as you
- 27:23start to to take off these heavy
- 27:25blankets that have been layered on on
- 27:27you through the years, you start to let
- 27:29go, you start to feel free, you start to
- 27:32really connect with yourself. And
- 27:34listen, we all enter these dark places,
- 27:36right? It's how you get yourself out.
- 27:38That's the challenge. I remember when I
- 27:39was in school, I was so badly bullied,
- 27:41right? That I really lost sight of
- 27:42myself. I was mad. I was mad at the
- 27:44people that were around me. I was mad at
- 27:45the bullies. I was mad at all of these
- 27:46things.
- 27:47And then,
- 27:49once I learned how to forgive them, to
- 27:52move on, to open my next chapter, once I
- 27:54started lifting off these layers that
- 27:56were holding me down layer by layer by
- 27:57layer, I discovered my true self. And I
- 28:00discovered that I didn't need anybody
- 28:02else to allow me to be happy, allow me
- 28:04to feel feel free, allow me to feel
- 28:05peace. And that's what I really want to
- 28:07teach people, right? There's so many
- 28:09layers here within life, so many layers
- 28:12that are left that are holding us back,
- 28:13whether it is that we're feeling guilt
- 28:15after losing a loved one, whether it is
- 28:17that we're feeling pain after a divorce,
- 28:19whether it is that we're feeling
- 28:20betrayal by a spouse or by significant
- 28:22other or by somebody at work, whether it
- 28:24is that you're feeling judged by
- 28:25someone, right? These are all outside
- 28:28influences that are affecting you,
- 28:29that's affecting your health, that's
- 28:31that's your well-being, that's affecting
- 28:33your energy. And if you can let it go,
- 28:35if you can learn to make peace, if you
- 28:36can learn to let to let go of that,
- 28:38right?
- 28:39What's beautiful is you don't forget,
- 28:41but it doesn't bother you.
- 28:45>> Why would a a soul sign up to come feel
- 28:49some of the human emotions that maybe
- 28:52cause us this pain while we're here in
- 28:54this earth realm?
- 28:56>> So that they know who they are.
- 28:59Because you cannot experience the light
- 29:02unless you experience the darkness,
- 29:03right? It's what it is. It's that
- 29:07you know, there's this little book
- 29:08that's the little soul in the sun, where
- 29:10this little soul asks God, you know,
- 29:12"Who am I?" And the And the God says,
- 29:14"Well, you're the light." The soul says,
- 29:16"Well, how do I know that I'm I'm the
- 29:17light?" And God says, "Because you are."
- 29:20And they're like, "Well, how do I know,
- 29:21God? How do I know?"
- 29:23And God says, "Well, that's a good
- 29:25question, right?" And the only way that
- 29:27you can experience and know that you're
- 29:29the light is if you experience darkness
- 29:31and see what darkness is. So the soul
- 29:32decides to come here on earth
- 29:34experience, you know, the trials and the
- 29:36troubles and all these things so they
- 29:37can remember who they are. So they can
- 29:38remember that they were the light all
- 29:40along.
- 29:41And that's really what I want to show
- 29:42people, right? Is that we are the light.
- 29:44We are the light. It's deep within us,
- 29:45that there is a reason why we're here,
- 29:47right? We're going to go through this
- 29:48experience. It's going to be the most
- 29:50amazing experience, good, bad, and and
- 29:52and ugly, but
- 29:54the thing is is that at the ends
- 29:56those sad moments disappear. The moments
- 29:58the dark moments escape us, and we live
- 30:01in the joy of what we're created here on
- 30:03earth. There's going to be let downs,
- 30:05there's going to be times when we think
- 30:06we know it all, and you know, God throws
- 30:08us a a curveball. But at the end at the
- 30:10end of the day, you know, it's about
- 30:12celebrating the journey.
- 30:14>> Mhm.
- 30:15I love that you said, and I'm just
- 30:16writing it down here just to live in the
- 30:18joy of what you've created here.
- 30:21Uh and then I separate that from
- 30:24live in the attachment of what we've
- 30:26created here because
- 30:28um
- 30:28I've heard you say that you said earlier
- 30:31nobody goes to heaven alone, but you've
- 30:33also said nobody goes to heaven kicking
- 30:36and screaming.
- 30:37Um
- 30:38obviously, you know, many of us have
- 30:40created dream lives, lives that we love,
- 30:43egos and personalities that we feel so
- 30:46connected with.
- 30:47At what point um is it difficult for a
- 30:50soul to have to let go of that and move
- 30:53on to the other side?
- 30:55>> You know, that's a really good question.
- 30:56And I'll tell you that one time I did a
- 30:59reading for a priest. It changed my my
- 31:01outlook on things.
- 31:03Did a reading for a priest. And what was
- 31:05amazing is is that the the you know,
- 31:08here when we here what we where we are
- 31:09in Rhode Island is different, you know,
- 31:11um I don't know if they call them
- 31:12different sectors of priests, but our
- 31:13priests here in Rhode Island uh if
- 31:15they're part of the Scalabrini
- 31:17ministry cannot get they have to take a
- 31:19they have to vow a life of poverty, so
- 31:20they can't have any money, right? They
- 31:22can't they can't date, they can't marry,
- 31:24so there's no attachments. And the
- 31:27priest had said to me that he you know,
- 31:28he was dying he was going to the other
- 31:29side and was saying it's very easy for
- 31:30me to pass on because I don't have
- 31:32anything here. I have no family, no
- 31:34kids, no money, no physical beings where
- 31:37he took a vow of poverty. It was very
- 31:39easy for him to go the other side. He
- 31:40didn't fear it. It was there wasn't
- 31:42anything, but you know, he he knew that
- 31:44there was another side. He knew there
- 31:45was another life and he was ready to
- 31:46transition on.
- 31:48And then it also made me think about the
- 31:50souls that I read for that had you know,
- 31:53that had built up a lot of wealth, that
- 31:55built up a lot of material things. The
- 31:57souls that had a hard time struggling in
- 31:59in transitioning on. And that's exactly
- 32:01the reason why, right? Because they
- 32:03became so attached to their objects and
- 32:04to the life that they were living here
- 32:06that it was hard for them to detach and
- 32:08up and leave. And what I mean by that
- 32:10doesn't mean that they were stuck. It
- 32:11doesn't mean that they were, you know,
- 32:13uh pulled back in any means, but it
- 32:15realized that at the end it took a took
- 32:17a turn where they had to realize what
- 32:18truly mattered. And at the end of
- 32:21everyone's day
- 32:22souls realize one thing, that it's not
- 32:24the house or the car or the money that,
- 32:26you know, they made here on Earth. It
- 32:28was the joy of the people, the people in
- 32:30their lives, right? Their children,
- 32:33their spouse, their significant other.
- 32:35And
- 32:36the friendships that they made, the
- 32:37connections that they made, the
- 32:38relationships they had, that's what's
- 32:39truly important. And sometimes souls,
- 32:41you know, pick on that pick up on that
- 32:43as they get into so they're early excuse
- 32:45me, later days in life.
- 32:47Sometimes it takes a while for them to
- 32:48truly you know, understand this thing.
- 32:51They sit in that life review for a
- 32:52little bit of time.
- 32:55>> Random question, but have you seen the
- 32:56movie Soul by Disney Pixar?
- 32:59>> I have. It's one of my favorite movies.
- 33:01>> Let's talk about it cuz I just rewatched
- 33:03it about a week ago and uh
- 33:06I remember that in that movie
- 33:10one of the things that stood out to me
- 33:11and sorry if there's any spoilers is
- 33:14when they're in this in between veil and
- 33:16they're on the other side
- 33:18and they explore the beings that are
- 33:20what they considered lost souls.
- 33:23Do you perceive and it was obviously an
- 33:26exaggerated depiction
- 33:28but have you come across what in that
- 33:31movie they
- 33:32might call a lost soul?
- 33:35>> Absolutely. I mean, a lost soul for me
- 33:38is a soul that unfortunately here on
- 33:40Earth separated from God, separated from
- 33:42faith, separated from, you know, their
- 33:44own self
- 33:46and took a path of destruction. And when
- 33:48I mean a path of destruction, that means
- 33:49that they purposely went out and hurt
- 33:51other people, right? In some way, shape
- 33:53or form.
- 33:54And those are the souls that are lost in
- 33:56the in between, right? Those are the
- 33:57souls that are so angry, so mad, so
- 33:59negative, so
- 34:00upset with life
- 34:02that they're not ready to transition
- 34:03over. Now, it's very it's very rare that
- 34:05this happens. The reason why we go
- 34:07through the processes that we do in
- 34:09going to the other side is to prepare us
- 34:10for the journey on the way home. We go
- 34:12through the life review so we can lift.
- 34:14We can lift away layer by layer the
- 34:16negativity, the pain, the addiction, all
- 34:18of these things that, you know, we don't
- 34:19want to carry. But sometimes souls,
- 34:23right, will go through this life review,
- 34:24will start the transition process and
- 34:26they're so
- 34:27angry, evil, negative, nasty, lost
- 34:29themselves that, you know,
- 34:31unfortunately, they can't make it
- 34:32through the whole process. And that's
- 34:33where we get hauntings from. When you
- 34:35hear about a soul that was evil or
- 34:37malevolent or, you know, a soul that
- 34:39that, you know,
- 34:41haunted to place, that's where those
- 34:43souls are coming from. Those Those souls
- 34:44that never completed that process.
- 34:46>> Mhm.
- 34:48And And I don't know if you're
- 34:49remembering that movie, but they're also
- 34:50saying that a person that might become
- 34:53so obsessed with something here on the
- 34:56physical, even if it's their passion,
- 34:58even if it's their spark, they too can
- 35:01also become a lost soul.
- 35:04Very interesting for me to kind of learn
- 35:06that. I don't know if you see it in a
- 35:07similar way.
- 35:08>> A little bit. I mean, it's a it's
- 35:10definitely definitely definitely
- 35:12a uh
- 35:13it's it's definitely a deep movie. And
- 35:14it's funny cuz I was just having my my
- 35:16kids watch it the other day. I don't
- 35:17know if they really I think that they
- 35:18kind of associated some of it and some
- 35:21of some of it I think kind of went over
- 35:22their head. But it's it's extremely deep
- 35:24when you look at it from as an adult.
- 35:27And yeah, I mean, there are there are
- 35:28people who do that here in life, right?
- 35:30I know a couple of a couple of clients
- 35:32of mine that, you know, unfortunately
- 35:34have forfeited in their life what would
- 35:37have brought them ultimate joy and
- 35:38happiness for their what what they need
- 35:41thought that they needed right now. For
- 35:42example, I had a client of mine
- 35:43who was a doctor, right? And she was so
- 35:46focused on, you know, becoming a doctor
- 35:49and becoming, you know, the world's best
- 35:50plastic surgeon, that literally she
- 35:54pushed away everything. She pushed away
- 35:55finding her soulmate, she pushed away,
- 35:57you know, uh
- 35:58getting married, all of these things
- 35:59because all she wanted was, you know,
- 36:01wealth and this this famous title and
- 36:03all of these things where
- 36:06she pushed away, pushed away, pushed
- 36:07away, pushed away. She got the title,
- 36:09right? Of being this amazing plastic
- 36:11surgeon and being standing up on stages
- 36:13and giving keynotes and all of these
- 36:14things, but there was one thing that was
- 36:16left behind. And that was her soulmate,
- 36:20right? Being able to find her soulmate,
- 36:21being able to have children. And she
- 36:22realized afterwards,
- 36:24"Oh my god, you know, I spent all of
- 36:26this time trying to reach this goal when
- 36:28what I truly wanted was something that
- 36:30was ignoring all along, and that was
- 36:32finding her soulmate and having
- 36:33children." And you know, by the time she
- 36:35had pivoted, by the time she had met her
- 36:37soulmate, it was too late for her to
- 36:38have her own kids. And you know, she
- 36:40became trapped into that, you know,
- 36:42never-ending trying to find that that uh
- 36:46trying trying to chase that dream,
- 36:47right? And she realized that she had the
- 36:49outlook wrong within life. So, the thing
- 36:52that I really want to teach people is
- 36:53that you can have it all. You don't have
- 36:54to wait for a specific moment. Go
- 36:56towards everything. Go towards every
- 36:57single dream. You don't have to
- 36:59accomplish one and then go on to the
- 37:00other. Ask for everything right now and
- 37:02let heaven help you. Let it all come
- 37:04when it's meant to come.
- 37:06>> I love that. Let Let heaven help you. Um
- 37:11And so in that movie, back to that, just
- 37:14for a moment, because it's so deep, as
- 37:16you were saying,
- 37:17there's the afterlife, you know, the
- 37:19other side.
- 37:21But then there's a place where, you
- 37:23know, was before this life. So,
- 37:26pre-life. And it almost seems like we're
- 37:30in that other realm longer than we are
- 37:32here. This is just a blink of an eye.
- 37:35And in that in that movie of um of Soul,
- 37:38before they jump into the Earth realm
- 37:41and the souls are like diving headfirst
- 37:43into into the Earth,
- 37:45they are being shown, or not shown, but
- 37:48they're choosing different sequences of
- 37:51personality traits. And then the final
- 37:53one that they have to complete in order
- 37:55to come to Earth is their spark.
- 37:57I'm curious how that all lands for you
- 37:59and if you've come across similar
- 38:02like philosophies when it comes to souls
- 38:05and what you've learned from the other
- 38:07side.
- 38:08>> Absolutely. I mean, all of that is
- 38:10completely true. I mean, we choose on
- 38:11the other side our we pick our talent,
- 38:14skills, and abilities. And it's that's
- 38:15why we have a guardian angel. A guardian
- 38:16angel isn't there to just protect you
- 38:18from evil things. Your guardian angel is
- 38:20there to help you really realize what
- 38:22your what your talent, skill, and
- 38:24ability is here in life. How you can use
- 38:26it to teach others. How you can use it
- 38:27to help others. How you can use it to
- 38:29change the world. And some of us are
- 38:31afraid to pursue our gifts. Some of us
- 38:32are afraid of that journey, believe it
- 38:34or not.
- 38:35But your guardian angel is actually
- 38:37there to help you.
- 38:38And while you're on the other side, you
- 38:40do you do recognize and understand who
- 38:43your soulmate is. You're shown your soul
- 38:45soulmate. You're so you're shown the
- 38:47different people in your life that are
- 38:48going to be meaningful here in life. And
- 38:50that's why when you have those deja vu
- 38:51moments here in life, you're really
- 38:53thinking back to that time before you
- 38:54came here on Earth and some of those
- 38:56connections that you made.
- 38:59>> What really is the spark that they are
- 39:01referring to in that movie?
- 39:04>> Your talent, skill, or or ability. You
- 39:06know, what's amazing is that when you
- 39:07align with your creative self. And by
- 39:09the way, when I connect with souls on
- 39:10the other side, your aligns back with
- 39:12their creative self. You know, te- uh
- 39:14school teachers who it was their
- 39:15passion, it was their mission teaching
- 39:16children are back on the other side,
- 39:18right? Teaching and being around
- 39:19children in the spirit world. Souls that
- 39:22were amazingly creative here in this
- 39:24world would be singing or dancing or
- 39:25whatever talent or skill that they had
- 39:28are doing on the other side. And it's
- 39:29not just singing and dancing and
- 39:30writing. You know, I've seen architects
- 39:31here in this world who had that spark of
- 39:34being able to build and being able to
- 39:35create, building the most beautiful
- 39:37buildings in heaven. You bring that
- 39:39talent with you. So, your spark is
- 39:42something that drives you. Your spark is
- 39:43something that you can do better than
- 39:45anybody else. It's something that
- 39:47follows you. Whether it is that you're a
- 39:49gifted writer, painter, uh you know,
- 39:51musician, whether it is that you're
- 39:53someone who can build buildings,
- 39:55whatever it is in you
- 39:57that you can do better than anybody
- 39:59else. That's your spark. And when you
- 40:00align with it, when you find your
- 40:02creative and you align with that gift
- 40:04and that talent and that spark, so to
- 40:06speak, you are unstoppable. You live it,
- 40:09you breathe it, it you just become
- 40:11unstoppable. Just like, for example,
- 40:12Dolly Parton, right up to to the day
- 40:13that she died was, you know, had that
- 40:15spark of making music. Right? She would
- 40:17see songs, hear songs, would see it in
- 40:18her minds, hear it in her ears, come and
- 40:21come and create those songs. And she
- 40:22died while making music. It was
- 40:24something that she loved. Now, she could
- 40:25have retired. She didn't need the money,
- 40:27right? She didn't have any kids or
- 40:28anything. She could have retired a long
- 40:30time ago. But the thing was is that it
- 40:32drove her, right? She felt best when she
- 40:34was creating. And what I want people to
- 40:37know is that you can still find that.
- 40:38You can find It doesn't matter what age
- 40:40you are. Martha Stewart Martha Stewart
- 40:42is one who didn't start Martha Stewart
- 40:44living until she was in her 50s.
- 40:46They should do the four- late 40s or 50s
- 40:48when is what it, right? But, when she
- 40:49found it, boom, it exploded. And you're
- 40:51not doing it alone. Heaven will help
- 40:53you, no matter what point you start out.
- 40:58>> In in terms of these, you know, talents,
- 41:00skills, abilities, the spark, someone
- 41:02might say, "Matt, I have a a talent,
- 41:05skill, or ability in this thing.
- 41:09But, there is no way that I'll be able
- 41:11to pay the bills, support my family,
- 41:14raise my children,
- 41:16all these other things, and and maybe
- 41:18um
- 41:19beliefs that our mind generates. What
- 41:23would you say to that perspective?
- 41:25>> Well, it doesn't always follow It
- 41:27doesn't always follow your career,
- 41:28right? I know many people who have this
- 41:30a spark, who have an ability, but, you
- 41:32know, it doesn't pay the bills, right?
- 41:33But, it's still something they create,
- 41:35you know. What's What's beautiful is
- 41:37some of the people who I've met that are
- 41:38have amazing, amazing, you know, uh
- 41:41careers, whether they're, you know, a
- 41:42successful lawyer or just a successful
- 41:45business person, a CEO, still has to
- 41:47find balance, right? And still has to
- 41:48find that spark in life. The spark in
- 41:50life might not be their job. The spark
- 41:52in life might be dancing on the
- 41:54weekends. The spark in life might be
- 41:56uh going and building cars, or whatever
- 41:58it may be, right? It doesn't always
- 42:00overlap. Now, most of the time it does,
- 42:03right? Most of the time your spark, your
- 42:04talent, skill, and ability overlaps with
- 42:07your job and your career. But, to be
- 42:09honest with you,
- 42:10you feel good while doing it. Before I
- 42:12was a famous medium, before any of this,
- 42:15I did readings for $20. I did readings,
- 42:17you know, I wasn't making making any
- 42:20money to pay bills or to support a
- 42:22career. I did it because I loved it. I
- 42:23worked a full-time job on the side. I
- 42:26should say on the side. I did my
- 42:27readings on the side. I worked a
- 42:28full-time job day-to-day, right? I did
- 42:30it before because I loved it. I never
- 42:32expected it to turn into this amazing
- 42:34journey. And now, I'm humbled and just
- 42:37amazed that I'm able to do this every
- 42:38day and, you know, support my family and
- 42:40to support this this uh life that I
- 42:42have. But, it's not always like that,
- 42:44right? It's not always like that. But,
- 42:45you don't stop pursuing your talents and
- 42:47skills because it doesn't pay the bills.
- 42:49You do it because you love it. You do it
- 42:51because it makes you whole.
- 42:53>> It's not a a means to an end. You know,
- 42:56you you just do it. You just tap in
- 42:59because you love it. I love that you
- 43:01said that and
- 43:03I'm curious to know because I heard an
- 43:05example of one of your clients where
- 43:07they were really trying to get a message
- 43:09from, I believe it was like their son or
- 43:13something of that nature, and you just
- 43:15weren't getting any information.
- 43:18And that ended up being because they
- 43:21needed to be protected from something.
- 43:24And so I guess the question is, have you
- 43:26noticed any limits to what a a spirit is
- 43:29able to communicate with you or anything
- 43:31that it might withhold and for what
- 43:33reasons?
- 43:34>> Oh, absolutely. 100%. I mean, the thing
- 43:37is that spirit knows what we need to
- 43:39hear and there's certain things that are
- 43:40off limits to me as a medium. So, for
- 43:42example,
- 43:43you know, there are times when people
- 43:44come to me and their loved ones will
- 43:45withhold information. When I say
- 43:47withhold information, it's because
- 43:48they're protecting you. Maybe it is that
- 43:50your loved one's spirit died of a tragic
- 43:52of a tragic passing. Maybe it was a
- 43:54really graphic suicide. So, they'll
- 43:56actually omit how they had died because
- 43:58maybe the person I'm reading for is
- 43:59trapped in the moment of their loved
- 44:01one's death, trapped in discovering
- 44:02them. They replay those moments again
- 44:03and again and again and bringing up
- 44:05those visions, bringing up those those
- 44:07ways of passing isn't going to help that
- 44:09person heal.
- 44:10Sometimes it's the opposite. Sometimes
- 44:12it's that a loved one, for example,
- 44:14there was a reading that I was doing
- 44:16where this
- 44:17uh brother had lost his brother. His
- 44:19brother was missing. Uh his brother
- 44:20unfortunately passed away and his
- 44:22brother had come through because the
- 44:24people who killed him, he was involved
- 44:25in organized crime and his brother, you
- 44:27know, didn't was withholding information
- 44:30because he did not want his brother
- 44:32to be put into a bad situation of
- 44:34knowing some of the details around his
- 44:37passing.
- 44:38So, they do protect us, you know, just
- 44:40because I have access to the spirit
- 44:41world doesn't mean that spirit is going
- 44:42to tell me everything. Now, when I do a
- 44:44reading, I ask spirit for everything. I
- 44:45say, you know, tell me your name, tell
- 44:47me how you died, tell me, you know, I'll
- 44:48give it I'll ask all these things in my
- 44:50head, but it's up to your loved one to
- 44:51decide what of those details are
- 44:53important, right? For example, I'll tell
- 44:54you that there was a woman who came to
- 44:56me that was really funny. You know,
- 44:58I think she was just bored, to be honest
- 44:59with you. Back in the day when I did
- 45:00private reading, she'd come to me and
- 45:02her father had had come through, and you
- 45:03know, her dad was talking about, you
- 45:05know, about
- 45:07that when she was a little girl and some
- 45:08of the things that they had had bonded
- 45:09over, and her dad's final moments, and
- 45:11she was like, "I just have one question
- 45:12for my dad." She wanted to know what She
- 45:15was going in for a breast augmentation.
- 45:17She wanted to know what size breast she
- 45:19should get. She was like, "Dad, Matt,
- 45:21can you ask my dad if I should get like
- 45:22a C cup, a D cup? I'm in between. I
- 45:24don't know what's going to look good on
- 45:25me." And her father's like, "I'm not
- 45:27answering that." Right? Her dad in
- 45:28spirit was like, "I'm not giving that
- 45:30information. That's not That's not why
- 45:32I'm coming through." Right? So, like
- 45:34it's And listen, it might sound funny to
- 45:36you, but to but to her, she really
- 45:38wanted to hear it, and she didn't
- 45:39understand why her dad wouldn't give her
- 45:40that information. Well, it wasn't
- 45:42something that was going to help her.
- 45:44She was like, "Well, it is going to help
- 45:45me. I need to know this decision,
- 45:46right?" But the thing is is that for
- 45:48your loved ones, they choose what truly
- 45:50is going to be important in your in your
- 45:52spiritual journey here on Earth. What's
- 45:54truly going to bring you happiness. What
- 45:55truly are the answers that you need to
- 45:57know, that not that you want to know.
- 46:00>> Mhm.
- 46:01You mentioned that example of the person
- 46:02that, you know, their passing had
- 46:04involved something around organized
- 46:07crime, and
- 46:08I'm curious to know
- 46:10what are the differences between a
- 46:13soul's experience
- 46:15in passing, whether that is uh
- 46:19like a sudden passing, like very
- 46:21unexpected passing,
- 46:23and more of like a consciously planned,
- 46:25like we knew that this was going to
- 46:27happen.
- 46:28Uh they had been preparing for it, maybe
- 46:30in a a hospice center or something of
- 46:32that nature. Uh what are the differences
- 46:34in those experiences for a soul?
- 46:37>> The only difference is the key time
- 46:38before here on Earth, right? Now, if
- 46:40somebody passes in a tragedy, or
- 46:41somebody passes, you know, uh in a
- 46:44tragedy or an accident, those souls are
- 46:46often times lifted out before the
- 46:48accident even occurs, before that moment
- 46:50of death even happens. And what I can
- 46:52tell you
- 46:53is that when this happens, it's almost
- 46:55like for them, time stands still for a
- 46:56moment. Time stands still, they still
- 46:58get the same greeting, their loved ones
- 47:00are there, their loved ones are there to
- 47:01help them to the other side, and things
- 47:03are explained. There's this moment of
- 47:04stillness that they explain to me when
- 47:06souls come through who passed in a in a
- 47:08horrible accident. This stillness where
- 47:11in that moment, right before they pass
- 47:13on, right their loved ones are appear,
- 47:15they're there at the scene, they're
- 47:16there wherever it is that they're at
- 47:17that they're passing. And the same thing
- 47:19that happens when you're in a in a
- 47:21hospice bed or in a hospital room
- 47:23getting ready to trans transition over
- 47:24to this side, but your loved ones appear
- 47:26and explain what happens to you. That
- 47:27same thing happens at the side of a road
- 47:30or in an accident or in a tragedy. We
- 47:32just don't see that as humans, but as
- 47:34physical beings, but the the souls do.
- 47:37>> Mhm.
- 47:38Who who explains to them all of this
- 47:40that happened?
- 47:41>> Their mom, their dad, whoever was close
- 47:43to them whoever was close to them that
- 47:44passed away. The person that they would
- 47:47feel safest with. That's who you see.
- 47:49So, it's not, you know, a one one tell
- 47:52answer for everyone. You know, it could
- 47:53be that, you know, your brother passed
- 47:55away and that's the person that you're
- 47:56grieving and that's the person that you
- 47:58that you knew within an instant that if
- 47:59you were to see him, that your soul
- 48:02would immediately find peace, right?
- 48:04That's who you're going to see. It's the
- 48:05person that you feel safe with, the
- 48:07person that you feel peace with, the
- 48:08person that you felt immediately
- 48:11immediately connected with. That's the
- 48:13person that you're going to see at the
- 48:14end of your life.
- 48:17>> Have have you noticed that um
- 48:21there are similarities between people
- 48:23that report near-death experiences
- 48:26and then what you actually experience
- 48:29directly from spirits that explain to
- 48:31you what happened to them?
- 48:32>> 100%. I mean, I can't tell you how many
- 48:36readings that I do with people who had
- 48:37near-death experiences where the
- 48:39information overlaps. You know, I see it
- 48:41from the spirit's point of view, but
- 48:42it's amazing to hear people who have had
- 48:44near-death experience explain they've
- 48:46started their life review explaining
- 48:48that they've learned about their
- 48:48talents, skills, and abilities.
- 48:50Explaining that they some of them met
- 48:51their spirit guide, some of them met
- 48:52their spirit their their angels. Some of
- 48:53them got a glimpse into having to
- 48:56uh
- 48:56to you know, depending on how deep they
- 48:58were into passing and dying into that
- 49:00process. But, it's amazing to see how
- 49:03people who have experienced this
- 49:05the phenomena of, you know, near-death
- 49:07experiences, each one of them have made
- 49:09it a different length right into the
- 49:11into the
- 49:12transition process. Some of them have
- 49:14gotten to their life review. Some of
- 49:15them have gotten sent back before their
- 49:17life review. Some of them had met their
- 49:18angel. Some of them had met their spirit
- 49:20guide. Some of them had met somebody who
- 49:22had passed right before them. And and I
- 49:24think it's all validation, you know, all
- 49:26of these
- 49:27all of these, you know, stories that
- 49:28they come back and they share all
- 49:30overlap to what I've witnessed as a
- 49:32medium, so what people have witnessed as
- 49:34as, you know, who had gone through a
- 49:35near-death experience, to what priests
- 49:37and pastors and people of faith have
- 49:39have realized as well. And I think
- 49:41what's so amazing is that it shows us
- 49:43here in life that that's the proof,
- 49:45right? That's the proof that's all
- 49:46around us.
- 49:48>> I know you briefly brought it up, but I
- 49:51I also know you recently started
- 49:53transitioning into doing more of these
- 49:56guardian angel
- 49:58communications and readings. Um however,
- 50:01the the guardian angels are very
- 50:04different from loved ones. So, I'm
- 50:06curious to know what what really are
- 50:09What's the difference between a guardian
- 50:11angel and someone that uh may have just
- 50:14passed in our family
- 50:16and is there supporting us as well?
- 50:18>> You know, this is what This is one of
- 50:19the things that I just was mind-blown,
- 50:21you know,
- 50:22one day during meditation the the angels
- 50:24came to me. I still search my angels all
- 50:25the time. They came to me and they said,
- 50:26"You have to teach people that we're
- 50:27real. You have to teach people, you
- 50:28know, that they have a guardian angel."
- 50:30And I kind of thought it was silly cuz
- 50:31I'm like, "Everybody knows that they
- 50:32have a guardian angel." You know, I've
- 50:33just known that growing up like, you
- 50:35know, I'm not going to be teaching be
- 50:36teaching someone something new. And
- 50:38they're like, "No, you have to teach
- 50:39them what an angel is." And your angel,
- 50:41by the way, is not a family member, not
- 50:42a friend that had passed away. Your
- 50:44angel can't be a family member or friend
- 50:46because they're somebody, a soul, that
- 50:48is completely different than than, you
- 50:50know, human being because they never
- 50:51took human form, right? A guardian angel
- 50:53has spent their entire existence in
- 50:55heaven
- 50:56in angel form, not in human form, right?
- 50:59There are There's There are different
- 51:00levels of of heaven. They're on a higher
- 51:02plane, higher vibration, and your
- 51:03guardian angel is tasked with helping
- 51:05you here on Earth. So, your guardian
- 51:07angel has never had an earthly
- 51:09experience of knowing how to pay bills,
- 51:11what what when taxes become due, right?
- 51:13About your their first heartbreak. They
- 51:15spent their entire existence as pure
- 51:17loving emotional beings, right? In
- 51:19heaven, being sent back to guide and
- 51:20watch over you.
- 51:22And when I first started to explain what
- 51:24guardian angels were, I was like, you
- 51:25know, I went on Facebook and I said,
- 51:27"Hey, does anyone know about guardian
- 51:28angels?" And immediately, I got some
- 51:30comments back saying, "Oh, I know
- 51:31guardian angels. My grandmother's my
- 51:32guardian angel. My brother was is my
- 51:34guardian angel." And then, I realized
- 51:36that people had no idea that they were
- 51:38separate beings. People had no idea that
- 51:40this is a being that's assigned to you
- 51:42by God before you were even born. They
- 51:43thought it was a you know, I want to say
- 51:4580% of my Facebook page and followers
- 51:47thought that they were actually
- 51:50they were actually just uh you know,
- 51:52family members that had passed on. They
- 51:53didn't realize that these were separate
- 51:55separate beings. So, I started doing
- 51:56these guardian angel readings.
- 51:58With a guardian angel it's different. A
- 51:59guardian angel reading is different.
- 52:00When you connect with a mediumship
- 52:01reading, well, people, you know, souls
- 52:03will come through and talk about their
- 52:04story, what they did for work, how they
- 52:06died, how they passed away, messages
- 52:07that they wish that they would have
- 52:08gotten to tell their family members here
- 52:10on Earth.
- 52:11Guardian angel readings are completely
- 52:13different. Guardian angel readings are
- 52:15about you, about your path, why you went
- 52:17through the certain challenges that you
- 52:19did, what you're meant to be doing here
- 52:20on Earth, why you met the certain people
- 52:22that you met within life, right? And
- 52:24what your guardian angel is trying to do
- 52:25is trying to help you see the end of the
- 52:27journey of where you're supposed to take
- 52:29those talents, those skills, those
- 52:30abilities, and really understand what is
- 52:33that you're supposed to be doing with
- 52:34them, and aligning with them.
- 52:37>> Hm. I I know in your readings, the
- 52:39biggest like
- 52:41crunchy moment is when
- 52:44a spirit gives an advice to the person,
- 52:47to the client, to whoever's getting the
- 52:49reading,
- 52:50and you don't know if that person going
- 52:51to choose whether or not to take that
- 52:54advice.
- 52:55Um
- 52:56what happens when we might hear these
- 52:58messages from spirit from our guardian
- 53:01angel, and it's so clear,
- 53:03but because we have free will, we decide
- 53:06to go a different direction.
- 53:08Uh what do you see happening in that
- 53:10circumstance?
- 53:12>> Well, you know what's interesting?
- 53:13Because
- 53:15our angels don't care about us. You
- 53:16know, they don't they don't go and just
- 53:17walk away when we make a bad decision.
- 53:19They redirect us and reroute us. Now,
- 53:20sometimes it takes a while. Sometimes it
- 53:22takes some time to get us back to where
- 53:24it is that we need to be. Maybe it is
- 53:26that, you know, we keep going after the
- 53:27wrong person and missing our soulmate.
- 53:29Maybe it is that we keep self-sabotaging
- 53:31ourselves before we really hit success
- 53:33within our lives. Your guardian angel is
- 53:35there. And your guardian angel is
- 53:37rerouting you, bringing you back to your
- 53:38path, bringing you back to center to get
- 53:41you to where it is that you need to be.
- 53:42Now, that being said, think about it
- 53:44this way. Think about it a bit like
- 53:45being on a road where your GPS turns off
- 53:48or your you go down the wrong way,
- 53:50right? You take the wrong exit.
- 53:52You don't get back to where you
- 53:53eventually get to your destination, but
- 53:55it takes longer to get there. Well,
- 53:57that's what happens with your guardian
- 53:58angels, is that when you miss um when
- 54:00you when you miss a certain pathway, a
- 54:02certain opportunity, your guardian angel
- 54:04doesn't get mad, but your guardian angel
- 54:06reroutes you back. So, sometimes it
- 54:08takes longer to get to your destination.
- 54:10And if you keep taking the wrong
- 54:11left-hand turns or right-hand turns, you
- 54:12might not get there at all there at all.
- 54:13You might run out of gas. You might find
- 54:15yourself on the the side of the road,
- 54:16but your guardian angel is constantly
- 54:18rerouting you, right? Think of them like
- 54:20a GPS. And your spirit guide is the
- 54:21same. Think of them like a GPS sending
- 54:24you these signals, trying to get you to
- 54:25where it is that you need to be. You can
- 54:27listen. Or or you can not pay attention
- 54:30and miss the exit. Or you can think that
- 54:31you know better, which is what I do
- 54:33sometimes, right? And I think, "Oh, no,
- 54:34this way is going to get me there
- 54:35quicker." And then you end up, you know,
- 54:37delaying your journey or delaying where
- 54:39it is that you need to be. But, the
- 54:40messages are always there, and they
- 54:41don't stop. They just reroute you.
- 54:44>> Yeah, it is so interesting because I'm
- 54:46kind of going through that process as
- 54:48well where like I'm I'm involved being
- 54:51involved in a new project and um in the
- 54:54beginning it was just like very pure
- 54:56excitement. And then all of a sudden s-
- 54:59the doors started closing around me in
- 55:02within that project.
- 55:04And I'm curious to know whether those
- 55:06closed doors are inviting me into
- 55:09resilience and persistence
- 55:12or if it is a direct sign of hey
- 55:16brother, this isn't this isn't your
- 55:18path.
- 55:19Um, I'm still kind of you know, playing
- 55:21around in in that, but I'm curious to
- 55:24hear your thoughts on those situations.
- 55:26>> So, I don't think that it means it's not
- 55:27your path, but I do think that it means
- 55:29not now. You know, sometimes doors will
- 55:31start to open and show you what you can
- 55:32have what what is there for you and then
- 55:34they'll start to close right away,
- 55:36right? And when that happens, it's their
- 55:37way of saying not now or opening you up
- 55:39to, you know, an opportunity that will
- 55:42be better for you for the future. You
- 55:43know, I can't tell you how many times
- 55:45think of things have come up in my life,
- 55:46certain opportunities, certain things
- 55:48that have come up that I thought was
- 55:49amazing and great and then as we got
- 55:50into it
- 55:52you know, doors would start to close and
- 55:53then I would hear spirit say not now.
- 55:56This will happen, but not now. For
- 55:57example, the book that I wrote, you
- 55:59know, We Never Die.
- 56:01That was the book that I started
- 56:02actually, it was like 7 years ago. I
- 56:04started it 7 years ago, I had this
- 56:05concept I knew it was going to be
- 56:07amazing
- 56:08and I started writing it, I started
- 56:10getting the a lot of it all together and
- 56:12then as much as I was excited to to
- 56:14write it
- 56:16the
- 56:17the excitement just faded.
- 56:19And I just couldn't get myself back to
- 56:20writing it and I kept hearing, you know,
- 56:22not now, not now, not now. And it's
- 56:24funny cuz I actually went on to write a
- 56:25different book. I went to write When
- 56:27Heaven Calls.
- 56:28I started with that book
- 56:30and then, you know, years later when the
- 56:32pandemic was happening, I found the time
- 56:34and I kept hearing, you know, you just
- 56:35you just revisit this book. You need to
- 56:37revisit this book that, you know,
- 56:39you would started. And I revisited it
- 56:41and I started writing it and it's like
- 56:43the information was just flowing. The
- 56:44information was was there and I got it
- 56:46out so quickly and it all happened so
- 56:48fast that
- 56:50I was like, wow, it's almost like the
- 56:51book wrote itself.
- 56:52And then, you know, the moment that it
- 56:54hit the the shelves, it became an
- 56:56instant New York Times bestseller and
- 56:58I'm going to tell you right now that if
- 56:59it was published any other time than
- 57:01when it was published, it would have not
- 57:03have done the numbers. It would have not
- 57:05have become a New York Times bestseller.
- 57:07It's what the world needed at that
- 57:08moment. So, it's almost like spirit gave
- 57:09me this this instinct of okay,
- 57:12this is the book. This book is going to
- 57:13help people. This people book is going
- 57:14to change lives. This book is going to
- 57:16break the thoughts of life after death
- 57:18and change people into into really
- 57:19becoming believers and feeling peace and
- 57:21feeling hope. And I started and I got
- 57:23all excited and then it's like okay, not
- 57:24now. But remember this. Remember this
- 57:26moment. Remember this book. Remember
- 57:27this concept. And then it wasn't until
- 57:29years later that you know, the pandemic
- 57:31happens and everyone was scared and
- 57:32afraid and everyone was dying and we
- 57:33didn't know what was going to happen
- 57:35next. But I felt the urge to come back
- 57:38to that book and it was published and
- 57:40boom. It's exactly what the world needed
- 57:42at that time. It did exactly what it was
- 57:43supposed to do. So, sometimes when you
- 57:45feel spirits pumps the brakes and you're
- 57:47like what? I thought this is my path. I
- 57:49thought this is my journey. I thought
- 57:50this is what I this was going to change
- 57:51everything for me. It doesn't mean it's
- 57:53not. It just means not now.
- 57:56>> It's it's such an invitation
- 57:59to having perspective in the moment even
- 58:02though we're only seeing this narrow
- 58:05sliver of the present moment. We can't
- 58:07even perceive or maybe we can
- 58:09the future possibility.
- 58:11Uh you know, another opportunity that
- 58:13may be right around the corner, but
- 58:15because our current perception can only
- 58:17witness the present moment, we can't see
- 58:19around that corner.
- 58:21And so, it's so interesting because it's
- 58:23it's an invitation as well just to
- 58:25surrender to the plan that heaven has
- 58:27for us. But there's this big movement um
- 58:31right now around you create your
- 58:33reality. Your thoughts are impacting
- 58:35matter. You can manifest everything.
- 58:38And so, it's it's a very interesting
- 58:41like
- 58:42dichotomy or paradox for me of
- 58:44surrendering to the divine will and
- 58:48learning how to master the human will to
- 58:50make happen that which is in my in my
- 58:53let's say
- 58:55uh internal world to manifest in the
- 58:57external world. Um how do you perceive
- 59:00that those two wills of the of the
- 59:02heaven will or the divine will
- 59:04come together with the human will? What
- 59:07we personally want, what our egos
- 59:09sometimes want in in
- 59:11W-
- 59:12What
- 59:13I guess the question might be
- 59:15how do those two play into each other
- 59:18and how do you perceive it?
- 59:19>> right? Cuz we're not always going to
- 59:20make the right choice. And even for me
- 59:22as a medium, I don't make the right
- 59:23choice and I hear heaven, right? There's
- 59:25sometimes when I want something and I'll
- 59:26go towards something and you know,
- 59:28heaven will be saying not now, it's not
- 59:29going to work, it's not going to happen,
- 59:31but I'll be like but I want it, but I
- 59:33want it, but I want it, but I want it.
- 59:34Sometimes I'll ignore heaven's advice.
- 59:36They'll say to me, it's not going to
- 59:36work and I'll say, well, you know what?
- 59:38I have to see why.
- 59:39And I think that that's important,
- 59:41right? It's all part of our journey. Is
- 59:42that the whole thing is that we're not a
- 59:44puppet on strings, right? We're meant to
- 59:46go through the journey because we're
- 59:47meant to figure out
- 59:49why it didn't work, why it wasn't meant
- 59:51for us, right? Sometimes we see somebody
- 59:53that we think is amazing. We're like, oh
- 59:54my god, I want to marry this person or I
- 59:56want to date this person. This person's
- 59:57hot, this person's sexy, but this person
- 59:59isn't going to give you what your soul
- 1:00:00needs. So, the thing is is that at the
- 1:00:03end of the day, we're meant to make
- 1:00:05those we're meant to listen, right? To
- 1:00:07hear that information and to hear don't
- 1:00:08do this, it's not going to work, it's
- 1:00:10not going to be there for you or it's
- 1:00:11not going to give you what you think.
- 1:00:13But we also we also have to go down that
- 1:00:15path sometimes. We have to see why.
- 1:00:18And that's just part of being human.
- 1:00:20>> Mhm.
- 1:00:21You're dropping truth today, brother.
- 1:00:24Thank you.
- 1:00:25Uh one as we're coming to the end of
- 1:00:27this, I I really didn't want to ask you
- 1:00:30maybe I'm wondering for sure and maybe
- 1:00:33others are wondering
- 1:00:34when it comes to your communion with the
- 1:00:36spirit realm,
- 1:00:37how are you actually perceiving? So, I
- 1:00:40know you've described it as shadows and
- 1:00:42silhouettes. Uh but for people to get a
- 1:00:44glimpse into a psychic's brain, a
- 1:00:47psychic's perception,
- 1:00:49uh medium's perception, what are you
- 1:00:52perceiving when it comes to the other
- 1:00:53side?
- 1:00:54>> all different ways to receive
- 1:00:55information. There's clear hearing,
- 1:00:56which is clear audience, there's clear
- 1:00:58seeing, which is clairvoyance, there's
- 1:01:00uh clear audience, which is uh clear
- 1:01:02clear hearing and clear cognizance,
- 1:01:03which is clear knowing. So, your loved
- 1:01:06ones when they come through to me are
- 1:01:07using my whole body to deliver messages.
- 1:01:09So, if somebody passed of a heart
- 1:01:10attack, I might start to feel my heart
- 1:01:12start to flutter. If somebody passed and
- 1:01:13they had, you know, their legs
- 1:01:15amputated, I might start to feel my legs
- 1:01:16start to go numb. But then I'm also
- 1:01:18starting to see pictures at the same
- 1:01:19time. So, I'll start to see
- 1:01:21pictures and visions of, you know,
- 1:01:23people and by the way, visions is just
- 1:01:25straight daydreams that, you know,
- 1:01:26psychics get that help us to see into a
- 1:01:28person's life. So, I might see, you
- 1:01:30know, a family at a bedside, right?
- 1:01:32Saying goodbye to a loved one and that
- 1:01:34tells me that, okay, you know, this
- 1:01:35family passed with their their family
- 1:01:37with them. It might show me they might
- 1:01:39show me that their spirit was in the
- 1:01:41back of the ambulance, right? Which
- 1:01:42shows me they would die on the way to
- 1:01:43the hospital. They might go and show me
- 1:01:45I mean, there's so many different
- 1:01:46symbols that they'll use as well. For
- 1:01:48example, if I see
- 1:01:50a symbol of an urn, I know that that
- 1:01:51person was cremated. So, they're using
- 1:01:53visions, signs, symbols, feelings. And
- 1:01:56when I'm in an audience and I have to
- 1:01:58know what soul to read, is that they'll
- 1:01:59just appear. I'll look out into the
- 1:02:00audience and I'll see, you know, figure
- 1:02:02standing behind a person. I'll say,
- 1:02:03okay, this man's figure is behind this
- 1:02:05this woman, I know that that must be her
- 1:02:06dad
- 1:02:08or her husband. And when I connect with
- 1:02:09them, they'll start to tell me, oh, I'm
- 1:02:11the father, I'm the husband, I'm the
- 1:02:12brother, I'm, you know, stepbrother,
- 1:02:14whoever it is. And I think that that's
- 1:02:16the cool part. And when I connect with
- 1:02:17that soul,
- 1:02:19then all of these visions start coming
- 1:02:20in. So, it really is this whole
- 1:02:23experience, immersive experience of
- 1:02:25feeling and sensing their soul.
- 1:02:28>> And I know some readings do take a a
- 1:02:30toll on you. I was watching one of the
- 1:02:32episodes from from your your TV show
- 1:02:35and you went back
- 1:02:37to to to the bed with it and and your
- 1:02:39wife was there and you said, I have
- 1:02:40psychic's brain.
- 1:02:42And I found it very interesting cuz it,
- 1:02:45you know,
- 1:02:46these actually do take a lot of energy
- 1:02:48to hold that space, to open that that
- 1:02:51vessel. How do you
- 1:02:53maybe like protect yourself from from
- 1:02:56those energies? Not protect, but maybe
- 1:02:58um
- 1:02:59cleanse or however you want to call it.
- 1:03:01I I I think I'm I'm trying to get my
- 1:03:03point across here, but
- 1:03:05hopefully that question makes sense.
- 1:03:08>> You know, it's really hard because, you
- 1:03:10know, the soul speaks through your body,
- 1:03:12right? So, that's like what one of the
- 1:03:13things I teach through my mediumship
- 1:03:15courses is that you have to make sure
- 1:03:17when you're channeling spirit that
- 1:03:18you're in a good place, that you're in a
- 1:03:19good place with your health, with your
- 1:03:21physical health, with your emotional
- 1:03:22health, that you're not tired, that
- 1:03:24you're not drained, and it will drain
- 1:03:25you, right? Because you're communicating
- 1:03:27with energy. And energy, so for example,
- 1:03:30your loved ones use your own pathways,
- 1:03:31your own brain pathways, to be able to
- 1:03:33speak to you. So, at the ends of the
- 1:03:35readings, there are days, and I always
- 1:03:37know that's a great event or a great
- 1:03:38show, and I leave the room and I am
- 1:03:40drained, just physically drained,
- 1:03:42because I know that spirit's an amazing
- 1:03:44job of coming through. So, yeah, it does
- 1:03:46take its toll. I mean, what people don't
- 1:03:48see is the behind the scenes of me being
- 1:03:49backstage, you know, with diet Coke and
- 1:03:51aspirin, because my head is killing me.
- 1:03:53But, at the end of the day,
- 1:03:55it's amazing, because spirit truly is
- 1:03:56using your body as a vessel to speak
- 1:03:58through you.
- 1:03:59>> I love that.
- 1:04:01Matt, we end every show with a segment
- 1:04:03called the final trio, using questions
- 1:04:05we ask at the very end.
- 1:04:07Um, before getting into that, I'd love
- 1:04:09to give you a space to let everyone know
- 1:04:11where they can connect deeper with you,
- 1:04:12with your work, all the live events that
- 1:04:15you're putting on, and uh anything else
- 1:04:17that's coming up on the horizon.
- 1:04:19>> Absolutely. You can find more about my
- 1:04:20work right on my website,
- 1:04:21meetmattfraser.com.
- 1:04:23It's online readings, there's tour
- 1:04:24dates, there's classes, there's blogs,
- 1:04:26there's videos, there's everything,
- 1:04:27there's everything that you need, and my
- 1:04:28books, so you can be able to start your
- 1:04:30journey into discovering your higher
- 1:04:32self, your inner wisdom, and how to
- 1:04:34connect with your own loved ones in
- 1:04:35spirit.
- 1:04:37>> Thank you. Thank you. We'll link
- 1:04:39everything down in the show notes, where
- 1:04:41people can go directly and find that
- 1:04:43information.
- 1:04:44Um, for the final trio, the first two
- 1:04:46are personalized to each guest, and the
- 1:04:49last one we ask at the end of every
- 1:04:50show.
- 1:04:51Uh, so the first one I had for you today
- 1:04:53is
- 1:04:55of all the regrets you've heard
- 1:04:57expressed through your work, uh from
- 1:05:00spirits on the other side, what is the
- 1:05:02one thing human beings consistently
- 1:05:05realize too late?
- 1:05:08>> You know, I want to say the biggest
- 1:05:10regret really is not being present in
- 1:05:12the moment. There are so many people who
- 1:05:16have worked so hard their whole entire
- 1:05:18life that just, you know, kept working
- 1:05:20for one more year, one year more year,
- 1:05:22you know, they were not present with
- 1:05:23their wife, not present with their kids.
- 1:05:25They pushed it pushed pushed through
- 1:05:27life, you know, to get to that pay raise
- 1:05:29or that bonus or to get to where it is
- 1:05:30that they needed to be. That one more
- 1:05:32year working to have more money in the
- 1:05:33bank and then all of a sudden they
- 1:05:35passed without getting to do the things
- 1:05:37that they really wanted to do. They
- 1:05:38passed without getting to spend time
- 1:05:40with their kids, to spend time with
- 1:05:41their family, go on vacations, take
- 1:05:43breaks, and they realized, "Oh my god, I
- 1:05:45thought I had time. I thought I had
- 1:05:47time. If I knew that I was going to
- 1:05:48pass, I would have lived my life
- 1:05:49differently. I wouldn't have worked so
- 1:05:50hard. I would have spent time with my
- 1:05:52family the weekends. I would have
- 1:05:53retired earlier." And they never got
- 1:05:55that chance. So, really what it is is be
- 1:05:57present in the moment. Spend the time
- 1:05:59doing the things that you love to do,
- 1:06:01that your soul wants you to do, right?
- 1:06:04And don't put things off until tomorrow.
- 1:06:06Take advantage right now.
- 1:06:09>> And what is the one lesson you believe a
- 1:06:11soul can only learn
- 1:06:14by becoming human?
- 1:06:16>> Forgiveness. 100% forgiveness. In
- 1:06:19heaven, there's no one to forgive,
- 1:06:21right? Everybody is just a positive
- 1:06:23uplifting being. Here on Earth, though,
- 1:06:24one of the hardest things the hardest
- 1:06:26things that we go through
- 1:06:28hardest thing to do is forgive.
- 1:06:31>> Mhm.
- 1:06:32That is true. That is true.
- 1:06:35What's
- 1:06:36What's the easiest way to forgive?
- 1:06:38>> The easiest way to forgive
- 1:06:40is to let go. Let go of the other
- 1:06:42person's energy. Let go of that that
- 1:06:45thought in your mind that get keeps
- 1:06:47haunting you every day. That thought in
- 1:06:49your minds that
- 1:06:50you could have changed things. Like
- 1:06:53letting go of the thought of why this
- 1:06:54person did it to you. You'll never find
- 1:06:56the answer. There's sometimes when you
- 1:06:57will never find the answer of why that
- 1:06:58person treated you the way that they
- 1:06:59did, why they why they
- 1:07:01why they lied to you the way that they
- 1:07:03did. And sometimes the biggest piece
- 1:07:05that you can give yourself is the
- 1:07:08closure that you never found to that
- 1:07:09person. Having to give yourself closure.
- 1:07:11I mean, I find that in many readings
- 1:07:13that I do, right? That people will try
- 1:07:15to find the answer. Why did, you know,
- 1:07:17he divorce me? Why did she do this to
- 1:07:19me? Why did she steal my money? You're
- 1:07:21never going to get the answers to those
- 1:07:22things. They did what they did and and
- 1:07:24unfortunately
- 1:07:25it's how it landed. But you have to be
- 1:07:27able to find closure within yourself at
- 1:07:28the end of the day.
- 1:07:30>> Mhm.
- 1:07:30>> Yeah.
- 1:07:32Now, this last question we call the time
- 1:07:34capsule question. I've been asking this
- 1:07:36question across 350 guests. Every time
- 1:07:40it's it's a different answer because
- 1:07:41it's really about your legacy.
- 1:07:44And
- 1:07:45just like the the word time capsule,
- 1:07:48you're you're given the opportunity uh
- 1:07:50to leave behind something for the future
- 1:07:52generations.
- 1:07:54And um let's say when when Matt Fraser
- 1:07:57as you are right now in your physical
- 1:07:59form is no longer with us,
- 1:08:01you have the opportunity to leave behind
- 1:08:03a time capsule for the generations and
- 1:08:06the new future generations that are to
- 1:08:08come on planet Earth and you can include
- 1:08:11anything that you would like inside of
- 1:08:13this time capsule. It could be a
- 1:08:14physical object. It could be a poem, a
- 1:08:17reading, a a piece of text, anything
- 1:08:20that you would like to to leave behind
- 1:08:23uh that would represent what you are
- 1:08:25here to share in this lifetime, your
- 1:08:26soul's mission. Uh what do you believe
- 1:08:29that would be? What would you include in
- 1:08:30the time capsule?
- 1:08:31>> My works and teachings. My works and
- 1:08:33teach 100%. You know, I have a whole
- 1:08:35archive of all of the TV shows, all of
- 1:08:37the readings, all of the all of the
- 1:08:39works that I've done and that's what I
- 1:08:40want to share. And then you know, it's
- 1:08:41the reason why I put my so many of my so
- 1:08:43much of my life and my teachings, my
- 1:08:45readings right here on on YouTube, on
- 1:08:47Facebook, on I share with it in in my
- 1:08:49books because I really want to leave
- 1:08:51this behind for the future generations,
- 1:08:52for anybody here and in the present who
- 1:08:55Excuse me, here in the present and in
- 1:08:56the future that need to know about life
- 1:08:59after death because these are universal
- 1:09:00messages and these are going to you
- 1:09:03know, supersede me in time.
- 1:09:05>> If there is one aspect from your life's
- 1:09:07work and teachings that you could put in
- 1:09:09the time capsule, a message to leave
- 1:09:12behind today, what would that be?
- 1:09:14>> We never die. Hands down, we never die.
- 1:09:17>> Beautiful.
- 1:09:18Thank you for reminding us of that,
- 1:09:20brother. And uh
- 1:09:21just to end, thank you so much for your
- 1:09:24work, everything that you do, the
- 1:09:25commitment that you have to it. And
- 1:09:28also,
- 1:09:29you know, I know a lot of people can
- 1:09:30perceive it, but I'll put it into words,
- 1:09:32the joy that you radiate and the light
- 1:09:35that you are, the smile that you bring
- 1:09:37into very hard concepts.
- 1:09:40I I really admire that and I appreciate
- 1:09:42you. I would love to do this again.
- 1:09:44You're welcome anytime back on this show
- 1:09:46and
- 1:09:47I hope to stay in touch, man, and thank
- 1:09:49you. Thank you for who you are. Thank
- 1:09:51you for for sharing your light with the
- 1:09:53world.
- 1:09:54>> Beautiful. Thank you so much for having
- 1:09:55me.
- 1:09:56>> Of course, man.
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