THE ART OF SPEAKING: How to Master Your Voice? The Spy Technique To Speak With Confidence — Transcript

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1. 0:00Fast speech is anxiety, desperation, and
2. 0:04insecurity. Slow it down. Take some
3. 0:07poses. When the person sends you the
4. 0:11strong negativity verbally, you can take
5. 0:14this power and send it back to him. If
6. 0:17somebody doesn't like you, it's not your
7. 0:19problem. Do not care about what other
8. 0:22people say. This is the power inside of
9. 0:26you. The tone of voice that makes any
10. 0:29man fall in love with you.
11. 0:33Speak to be remembered. You don't need
12. 0:35to be the most beautiful or to dress
13. 0:39according to the last collection of
14. 0:41fashion brands. All you need to do is to
15. 0:44learn how to speak in the right way with
16. 0:48the right temper of your voice. When you
17. 0:51speak fast and when you speak on a high
18. 0:54note, it looks like a desperation or you
19. 0:58have an anxiety.
20. 1:00Spies never do this. They speak slow
21. 1:05and on the
22. 1:07lower temper of the voice
23. 1:10so you can digest and analyze and
24. 1:13understand every word they say. Fast
25. 1:17speech is anxiety, desperation, and
26. 1:21insecurity.
27. 1:23Women sometimes sound apologetic.
28. 1:27Where spies, they sound like authority.
29. 1:31In the spy school, we were taught how to
30. 1:34speak with our target with the right
31. 1:36tone, with the right timber. The voice
32. 1:40should come not from your lungs, but
33. 1:42from your belly. And I will give you
34. 1:44some techniques here which you can
35. 1:47practice and you will see it yourself.
36. 1:50So here is a quick exercise that you can
37. 1:53do at home where try to be in the place
38. 1:58where nobody will distract you.
39. 2:01Put your hand into your belly and
40. 2:05another hand into your lungs.
41. 2:08Breathe in.
42. 2:10And when you breathe out, say this
43. 2:12voice.
44. 2:15One more time.
45. 2:18Hana.
46. 2:20And one more time.
47. 2:23Hana.
48. 2:25And then you can talk with this voice to
49. 2:28your target. And believe me, they would
50. 2:31definitely like your voice. Do you like
51. 2:33my voice? Now when you don't raise it on
52. 2:36a high tone, you put it down. It's sort
53. 2:39of voice that you just had an orgasm and
54. 2:43you're still in this beautiful
55. 2:47sexual energy where you're just enjoying
56. 2:51yourself and you're just slow and
57. 2:55magnetic and you're just feeling the
58. 2:58great.
59. 3:00Try it. Also, when you talk, don't talk
60. 3:03too fast to your target. take some poses
61. 3:07because when you take some poses first
62. 3:10of all it gives you time to think about
63. 3:12your next sentence
64. 3:15and also it gives you power. So your
65. 3:18target can also estimate
66. 3:22your confident level and also digest
67. 3:25what you're saying especially when you
68. 3:28need to deliver important information of
69. 3:32what he needs to do next. Let me tell
70. 3:35you one great technique
71. 3:39which you can use in a dialogue with
72. 3:42anyone including your target for love,
73. 3:48target for the business, for job, for
74. 3:51anything.
75. 3:54For example, you go to your first job
76. 3:56interview.
77. 3:59Before, of course, you do your research,
78. 4:02you observe everything. But when you
79. 4:05start a conversation with anyone, first
80. 4:07thing you need to do is to listen and
81. 4:11collect these key words which your
82. 4:14target is saying. For example,
83. 4:18your target is usually use words like
84. 4:21amazing, that was awesome,
85. 4:24you know, I love it. What you can do
86. 4:28when you need to talk, you implement
87. 4:30this words exactly this words into your
88. 4:34answer. Yes, it was amazing. Well, but I
89. 4:37don't know. Do you know this? Yeah, you
90. 4:39know how does it work, right? What does
91. 4:42it mean? You mirroring not just the body
92. 4:45language of your target but you're
93. 4:47mirroring also his keywords and we all
94. 4:52have keywords.
95. 4:53Somebody have like swear words and you
96. 4:56can also implement them why not to be at
97. 4:59the same level. So you make yourself on
98. 5:03the same level with your target and you
99. 5:06use exactly the same words in the
100. 5:09conversation if you want to be heard.
101. 5:12It's better to slow down your speech
102. 5:18and the most important look into the
103. 5:20eyes of the person you're speaking with.
104. 5:24Slow it down. Take some poses.
105. 5:28This will bring confidence and strength
106. 5:30into your conversation.
107. 5:33And I would tell you people around you
108. 5:35would listen to even more precisely.
109. 5:38Also, when you don't scream too much to
110. 5:42like to be very loud and you speak a
111. 5:46little bit slower, people will try to
112. 5:49listen to you more and they will come to
113. 5:52you closer, which means that they are
114. 5:55interested. The brain would send the
115. 5:59signal that okay, I would like to listen
116. 6:02this person. I need to come closer. So
117. 6:05it's a confirmation for your brain
118. 6:08target that you are interesting
119. 6:12person and you need to and he needs to
120. 6:14know more.
121. 6:16What to do if somebody tries to put you
122. 6:19down in conversation or gives you
123. 6:22negative comments or just try to put you
124. 6:26into this negative mood? What do you do
125. 6:30or try to provoke you? Would you go
126. 6:34ahead and verbally fight and argue with
127. 6:37this person trying to
128. 6:40be the best or trying to prove yourself?
129. 6:45No, you don't want to do it. Spies would
130. 6:47never do it.
131. 6:49If you hear a negative comment,
132. 6:53behave like a spy.
133. 6:55You can answer either with a joke,
134. 6:58either you can just
135. 7:01become silent
136. 7:03and you can say okay next question
137. 7:07or you can just play with this person.
138. 7:11This uh technique calls iikido. When the
139. 7:14person sends you the strong negativity
140. 7:18verbally,
141. 7:19you can take this power and send it back
142. 7:22to him. For example, he says, "Well,
143. 7:26yeah, you know, you claim that you're a
144. 7:29former spy, but is there any other
145. 7:32evidences? How would you prove it?" If I
146. 7:35would say, "Well, you know, I can give
147. 7:39you my certificates from the spy school
148. 7:41and I can provide here my documentation
149. 7:43about my like, you know, archive
150. 7:45certificates that I was there as an
151. 7:47agent for certain years." And I also can
152. 7:51ask my former colleagues to call you and
153. 7:54prove that I come on nobody like I mean
154. 7:57spies don't do it. I would never do and
155. 7:59try to like you know um try to confirm
156. 8:04it. What I usually say, I usually say,
157. 8:09well, it's your right, believe me or
158. 8:10not. But maybe before you judge me or
159. 8:14judge my story or judge my conversation,
160. 8:17maybe you should go and listen to the
161. 8:18podcast to die for, which is memoir
162. 8:21podcast, and you can make your own
163. 8:24decision. Am I real or not? So do your
164. 8:29own research before you blame me or like
165. 8:32accuse me with anything. Right? So, I
166. 8:36replied very politely
167. 8:38if somebody would tell me this kind of
168. 8:41like negative
169. 8:43questions in order me to fail and try to
170. 8:48prove myself. This works for everything.
171. 8:52Don't try to
172. 8:55Don't try too hard to prove yourself. Be
173. 8:58confident who you are. You're already
174. 9:01this person. You just need to put a
175. 9:05little bit more skills, improve a little
176. 9:08bit yourself, but you're already the
177. 9:09best. You're already enough. If somebody
178. 9:12doesn't like you, it's not your problem.
179. 9:14You know what Choko Chanel said? She
180. 9:17said, "People speak about me or they say
181. 9:20about me something, I don't care because
182. 9:22I don't think about them at all."
183. 9:24Concentrate on your goals. Concentrate
184. 9:27on you. and do not care about what other
185. 9:31people say. This is the power inside of
186. 9:35you.
187. 9:36So, good luck, dear guys. And uh if you
188. 9:40have any questions, please drop the
189. 9:43comment below. Or if you would like to
190. 9:45learn more voice conversation exercises
191. 9:48what we've been taught in the spice
192. 9:50school, you can also DM me or email me
193. 9:54pralosa.com.
194. 9:56And stay tuned because the book is
195. 9:58coming, the documentary is coming and
196. 9:59you can learn a lot of stuff there.