The 8 Reasons You Underperform at Poker — Transcript
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- 0:00Why do you constantly under perform at
- 0:02the poker table?
- 0:03Actually, if I eat this, I'll have to
- 0:04chew for like 20 seconds. It'll ruin the
- 0:07start of the video. So, we'll we'll
- 0:09resume the sushi in a minute.
- 0:11You under perform at the poker table for
- 0:13the following eight reasons. Probably
- 0:16all of these
- 0:17or if not all of them, then most of
- 0:19them. So, sit down comfortably
- 0:22and learn
- 0:24what you need to do today
- 0:26to start getting closer
- 0:28to what you know you can achieve in
- 0:30poker, to that level of understanding
- 0:31that you actually have.
- 0:33How do you bring that to the table and
- 0:35stop frustrating yourself and driving
- 0:37yourself crazy by under performing in
- 0:40almost every session that you're
- 0:42playing. Reason number one why you under
- 0:44perform at poker, this is probably like
- 0:4690% of you.
- 0:48You have
- 0:49most points in a poker session, on most
- 0:52days that you play this game,
- 0:53a gambler's mindset.
- 0:56What does that mean? You may be
- 0:57thinking, "No, I don't. I'm not a
- 0:59gambler. I'm a poker player. I play
- 1:02poker because it's not gambling." You
- 1:04know, that could be you.
- 1:06It is gambling, actually.
- 1:09Playing poker is gambling. It's gambling
- 1:11with a skill edge, like sports betting
- 1:13with an edge would be, but it is still
- 1:15gambling.
- 1:16And as a result of that, it does things
- 1:18to your brain that gambling does to your
- 1:20brain. We are living through a massive
- 1:22online gambling epidemic at the moment.
- 1:24Some of that is spilling into online
- 1:27poker.
- 1:28We're seeing people rock up to our
- 1:30starter Discord, that's our free one.
- 1:32It's not as good as the one you get when
- 1:34you get bronze carrot, that's our first
- 1:36paid serious course where we have a pro
- 1:38moderated hand channel, advice channel,
- 1:41all that sort of stuff. Alex Sherpatel
- 1:43lives in there. Don't let him out very
- 1:45often, just let him get sunlight and he
- 1:46just has to reply to all of your your
- 1:48questions and hands. You get that if you
- 1:50get bronze, by the way. I'll talk more
- 1:51about bronze later since I've got this
- 1:52overlay on screen. But, it is very much
- 1:56a gambling thing. And in that starter
- 1:57Discord, we've started to see people
- 2:01pop up and say, "Can I get a tournament
- 2:04ticket, please?"
- 2:05I [snorts] had to remove someone from my
- 2:06server the other day for begging for
- 2:08tournament tickets. I've never had a
- 2:09free
- 2:10server up until this point. I always
- 2:12just ran the
- 2:14silver and more recently bronze
- 2:16paid Discord communities that are lovely
- 2:18places where you don't get any of that.
- 2:19So, serious poker players have invested
- 2:22in their poker education, blah blah
- 2:23blah. But, yeah, like this
- 2:25online gambling epidemic is unfolding
- 2:28before our eyes, is spilling over into
- 2:30poker. And even before that, people who
- 2:32played poker still had
- 2:35gambling related issues. And that might
- 2:37not mean an addiction
- 2:38or bad bankroll management or that it's
- 2:40bad for your life, but what it can mean
- 2:43is that you really want to win your
- 2:45session in the same way that a gambler
- 2:47really wants to win their bets.
- 2:50That you get a high out of winning, that
- 2:52when you make a straight on the turn, a
- 2:53little bit of something lights up in
- 2:55your brain, your dopamine receptors go
- 2:57crazy, and you feel awesome on when the
- 3:00river comes a flush card and your
- 3:01opponent shoves, you feel terrible. And
- 3:03you ride this roller coaster up and down
- 3:06day in day out throughout your session.
- 3:08You lose four blinds, you check your
- 3:10graph, you look at how much you're down,
- 3:11you look at your bankroll, you calculate
- 3:12how many blinds you've got, but not
- 3:14just in a pragmatic way, let's face it,
- 3:16not just to see, but because you're
- 3:18trying to
- 3:20check the damage, assure yourself of
- 3:22what's happened to your lovely graph.
- 3:25It's a reflection on your own
- 3:26self-worth. This is gambling. This is a
- 3:28gambler's mindset. When you feel like
- 3:30it's dramatically better to win than it
- 3:32is to lose
- 3:34that day, and you're checking the
- 3:35monetary result in the cashier or the
- 3:37PT4 graph or whatever it may be, that is
- 3:39a gambler's mindset issue. And it stops
- 3:43you from performing
- 3:44to the best of your ability, because it
- 3:46replaces the goal
- 3:48of curiosity
- 3:50and optimal decision-making that are the
- 3:52evergreen holy grails of poker that you
- 3:55always need to aim up at.
- 3:57It replaces those with the goal of
- 3:59winning that day. And that's the take a
- 4:01goal that is very much within your
- 4:04control, the curiosity
- 4:06and doing the right thing.
- 4:09And to replace it with one that is at
- 4:10the mercy of variance in module five of
- 4:14bronze.
- 4:16We talk about that. We talk about volume
- 4:17and variance, how much volume you need
- 4:18to play to actually start to see
- 4:20patterns in win rate, what variance is
- 4:22going to do to you, what to expect.
- 4:24Nobody ever expects
- 4:26the full clout of what variance is going
- 4:29to do.
- 4:30Variance is going to hit you like Mike
- 4:31Tyson at some point in your poker
- 4:34career, not the one that fought Jake
- 4:36Paul recently, but the one, you know, a
- 4:37couple of decades before that. And
- 4:39you're not going to know what hit you.
- 4:40You're going to be on your ass and
- 4:41you're going to be like, this sucks.
- 4:43And then your gambler mindset's really
- 4:45going to fire up and you're going to
- 4:46realize that you're an emotional wreck
- 4:48and you're at the mercy of variance and
- 4:50what it does to you each day that you
- 4:51play poker. And while you have this
- 4:53mindset, you're screwed. You can't do
- 4:55it. You can't perform at the best of
- 4:56your ability or even close. So, what I
- 4:58want you to do, if this applies to you
- 5:00and it will apply to 90% of you whether
- 5:02you like to admit it or not, is to
- 5:04journal
- 5:05about your gambler's mindset and how
- 5:08much you
- 5:09suffer from it. This is almost like an
- 5:11AA meeting
- 5:12for for poker players, where you know
- 5:15how in like Alcoholics Anonymous and
- 5:17other cult-like treatment programs like
- 5:19that. Sorry for using that word, but it
- 5:21is kind of a cult-like treatment program
- 5:23in my opinion.
- 5:24And it does work for a lot of people,
- 5:25too, by the way, so I'm not knocking it
- 5:28if you've benefited from that or know
- 5:29someone who has, but
- 5:31there are these sort of dogmatic mantras
- 5:33that you have to say like, I am not in
- 5:35control, there's a higher power in
- 5:37control of me, blah blah blah. Take each
- 5:39day as it comes, whatever it may be,
- 5:40right?
- 5:41And I want you to take each day as it
- 5:42comes in poker and understand that
- 5:44you're not in control. I want you to
- 5:45actually apply, after just like mildly
- 5:47mocking it, I want you to apply the AA
- 5:50um doctrines to to your gambler's
- 5:53gambler's mindset, sorry, in poker. I
- 5:55want you to to journal
- 5:57what it felt like each day that you
- 5:58play, how much you wanted to play, and
- 6:00what it felt like to lose, and gradually
- 6:02over time I want you to try to replace
- 6:04the goal of winning on any given day
- 6:06with the goal of being maximally focused
- 6:08and curious on any given day and give
- 6:10yourself a score out of 10
- 6:12for that and take each day as it comes.
- 6:14You wake up in the morning, your goal
- 6:16that day is to do your best job that day
- 6:18that you can and forget about
- 6:21the movement of the graph
- 6:22or the cashier balance if you're
- 6:24checking your cashier balance is a
- 6:25really bad way to be. You're very, very
- 6:27sick and ill if you're checking your
- 6:30cashier balance as a poker player. You
- 6:31are ill and you need urgent treatment.
- 6:34That's what I'd recommend you do.
- 6:35Okay.
- 6:37Let's go. Still not going to eat any
- 6:38sushi. It's going to take too long. It's
- 6:40winking at me.
- 6:41I could eat it.
- 6:43I'm I'm I'm not going to eat it. I'm
- 6:44going to I'm going to go on with number
- 6:46two.
- 6:47Cuz I'm doing minimal editing these days
- 6:49in these videos. You guys seem to like
- 6:50this free-flowing rambly content.
- 6:55We have much more organized content on
- 6:57Carrot Corner, but for YouTube, I really
- 6:59like this, too.
- 7:00The freestyling. So, let's continue.
- 7:03Hope you're still sitting comfortably.
- 7:04The second
- 7:06reason
- 7:07for which you underperform at poker is
- 7:09that you
- 7:10are
- 7:11terrified of your own inadequacy.
- 7:14You have a big lack of confidence.
- 7:16And when I first got into coaching,
- 7:19I've coached over 650 students, blah,
- 7:21blah, blah. I have coached like probably
- 7:23almost a thousand to be honest. I just
- 7:24don't have a
- 7:26a ledger of it.
- 7:27It's easy to dredge up, but in the early
- 7:30days of me coaching one-to-one, when I
- 7:32did that before I made the training
- 7:34program at Carrot Corner and tried to
- 7:35just outsource it all to you in a more
- 7:37economical way, when I was actually
- 7:38coaching
- 7:40at one of the ridiculous hourly rates
- 7:41that poker coaches inevitably charge,
- 7:43right? I was charging people over 200 UK
- 7:45pounds an hour for coaching even when
- 7:47they bought a block and I felt a ton of
- 7:49pressure
- 7:50um from coaching. There were times in my
- 7:52life when my mental health wasn't that
- 7:53good actually when I was coaching 6, 7
- 7:56hours a day
- 7:57of one-to-ones. I wouldn't recommend
- 7:58that. That's intense. It's not good for
- 8:00your mental health. My mental health was
- 8:01bad then anyway. Going back
- 8:03um quite a few years now to about 2020
- 8:06lockdown times. Yeah, lots of demand,
- 8:09not enough energy, not enough mental
- 8:11health, not enough physical health,
- 8:13burnout,
- 8:14anxiety, bad.
- 8:16Bad, bad, bad.
- 8:17But, when I was doing that,
- 8:19I'd frequently get students who were
- 8:21also struggling with
- 8:24their mental game, their mental health
- 8:26at the tables, that kind of thing.
- 8:29And they'd be underperforming so badly
- 8:31because of a lack
- 8:33of
- 8:35confidence and knowledge.
- 8:37And I used to go wrong. I used to treat
- 8:40this very badly. I used to give people
- 8:42the wrong treatment as a coach charging
- 8:44lots of money.
- 8:46Sometimes.
- 8:47Not that everything I did was bad. A lot
- 8:49of my coaching I think was good even
- 8:50when I was struggling mentally with it.
- 8:53But, some of it wasn't good because I
- 8:54prioritized the wrong thing. In many
- 8:56students' case,
- 8:58they were going through like a bad time
- 8:59cuz it was lockdown and everyone was
- 9:01sort of struggling with their mental
- 9:02health. I think at that point most of us
- 9:04were.
- 9:05And a lot of those students were, too.
- 9:07And it wasn't really my job to fix that
- 9:10as a poker coach. And I took on that
- 9:12burden and I tried to treat their mental
- 9:14game issues directly
- 9:17by treating
- 9:18the tell, the emotion, the triggers,
- 9:21what it represented,
- 9:23going into their background, that kind
- 9:25of thing sometimes, like really trying
- 9:26to get to the bottom of it.
- 9:29And
- 9:31you know, I do know a lot about mental
- 9:32game and how to treat mental game issues
- 9:34and how they relate to real life. I've
- 9:35written a book on it. I've coached this
- 9:36game for a long time. It's not that I'm
- 9:38bad at that or that I was trying to do
- 9:40something I couldn't do.
- 9:42It's actually that if they sorted their
- 9:44own mental health issues out in their
- 9:46life, they would have got a lot better
- 9:48at performing at the poker tables.
- 9:50And more importantly and relevant for
- 9:52you guys watching this,
- 9:54if you get better at cards, your mental
- 9:56game issues tend to clear away, not
- 9:58fully, but largely.
- 10:00Because many people's mental game issues
- 10:02and performance issues
- 10:04are a result
- 10:05of
- 10:07not having
- 10:09a confident
- 10:10foundational pyramid poker knowledge to
- 10:12lean upon
- 10:14and feeling lost all the time. And when
- 10:15you feel lost all the time
- 10:17your self-image is one of a helpless
- 10:19flailing poker player
- 10:21stabbing around in the dark rather than
- 10:23actually
- 10:24one of a competent human.
- 10:27And so
- 10:28you lack that conviction, that
- 10:30self-belief that if you just take like a
- 10:31a normal trade, right? You take like a
- 10:33police officer or something. Like a
- 10:35normal profession
- 10:37outside of this weird gambly zone, gray
- 10:39area that we're in.
- 10:41A police officer will generally be
- 10:43pretty confident because they'll get
- 10:44good at being a police officer. They'll
- 10:46go into that mode. They'll adopt the
- 10:48persona of them, the police officer and
- 10:50not them when they're like shouting at
- 10:52the dog in the morning or something like
- 10:54that. Like they're going to be a a
- 10:55professional, authoritative, confident
- 10:59individual who knows how to treat people
- 11:01and what to say and is generally
- 11:03professional at it, right?
- 11:05And the poker player is not held
- 11:06accountable in the same way because
- 11:07poker player is
- 11:09behind their screen. So, I'm going to
- 11:10segue in a second actually, but just to
- 11:12finalize this point on reason number two
- 11:14the you underperform is you don't have
- 11:16enough theory knowledge yet and
- 11:18exploited the pattern knowledge and
- 11:19that's what we do at Card Counter. We
- 11:20teach you that. So, get a poker
- 11:22education, kids. Like make sure you
- 11:24actually
- 11:26before you
- 11:28diagnose yourself as being
- 11:31a ref- irreparably damaged in terms of
- 11:33mental game
- 11:35make sure that you actually build poker
- 11:37knowledge in the first instance because
- 11:39if you don't, no wonder you have this
- 11:42self-image of incompetence.
- 11:44You need to have the self-image of a
- 11:46winner
- 11:47to win. And to do that, you need to be a
- 11:49winner. So, you it's a bit of a
- 11:50catch-22. You need to be the thing
- 11:52you're trying to become.
- 11:53But that's what it is. It's fake it
- 11:55until you make it. So, get knowledge
- 11:57under your belt and then tell yourself
- 11:59that you're good because of that
- 12:00knowledge cuz you are. It's making you
- 12:01better.
- 12:02And then feel proficient and then your
- 12:04performance is going to go up.
- 12:06Okay.
- 12:08I want to segue a little bit now by
- 12:10going back to what I was just talking
- 12:11about.
- 12:13Okay, I admit that I paused the video. I
- 12:15did have a bit of sushi.
- 12:16Hopefully I wasn't too disruptive.
- 12:19So, we talked about the police officer,
- 12:20right? Being out in the public domain,
- 12:22having to be around other humans,
- 12:25having to build a lot of confidence and
- 12:27self-belief to confront and apprehend
- 12:29and battle such humans like actually
- 12:31fight
- 12:32crazy drunk people sometimes and
- 12:34like that, depending on
- 12:36where you are and what your line of work
- 12:38normally involves, but you have to be
- 12:41very, very outwardly competent.
- 12:43And there are always people watching
- 12:45you. You're always concerned with how
- 12:47you're coming across, right? And that
- 12:48becomes part of your identity is how
- 12:50you're seen in the public domain.
- 12:52And live players have that, too. How are
- 12:54they seen at the table?
- 12:56Keep them accountable. Usually keeps
- 12:57them from doing stupid stuff. In fact,
- 12:59live poker players are very, very
- 13:00behaved compared to Sorry, it's a bit of
- 13:03brace stuck in my throat. They're very
- 13:04behaved compared to online ones.
- 13:06So,
- 13:08a live poker player
- 13:10is like a person in a queue at the bank,
- 13:13right? Have you ever heard a person in a
- 13:14queue at a bank shouting and swearing
- 13:18and giving the middle finger to other
- 13:20humans in a queue at the bank? Like
- 13:21sure, sometimes, and that's a really
- 13:23unhinged person
- 13:24or someone that's out their face on
- 13:26alcohol or drugs or something like that,
- 13:28right? It's not a normal person,
- 13:30generally.
- 13:32Now, when you are
- 13:35online, you don't see the opponents
- 13:37across
- 13:38the world from you behind the other
- 13:40screen.
- 13:42But, they are shouting and screaming
- 13:43sometimes or
- 13:45hitting themselves in the face as I once
- 13:46did in 2010 when I made a bad call.
- 13:49That's right. Slapped myself. I punched
- 13:51myself, in fact, really hard in the
- 13:52face. If you don't know that story,
- 13:54happened happened to me.
- 13:56I kind of did it saying it happened to
- 13:58me. It's a bit weird, but yeah, there's
- 13:59people doing that sort of right?
- 14:01Because they're not accountable.
- 14:03No one's watching them. The eye of
- 14:04society is not peering
- 14:07down on them.
- 14:08And it's like when you're behind a a car
- 14:10windscreen. Like how often at another
- 14:12driver or seen another driver screaming
- 14:13at you or seen people having like a road
- 14:16rage argument. That would never happen
- 14:19at the bank in a queue, right? They're
- 14:21in their encased armored vehicles,
- 14:23you're behind the screen, you're no
- 14:25longer accountable, you're safe, you're
- 14:26in your own little tank or bubble. You
- 14:28can do whatever the hell you want when
- 14:29you're in your own tank, and that's not
- 14:31a good thing.
- 14:32There's a reason we have societal
- 14:34structures, tribes have always
- 14:37functioned in this way, is that we need
- 14:38to be held accountable. We only really
- 14:42thrive as a species, in my opinion,
- 14:44when we are part when we're a cog in the
- 14:47machine of a tribe or collective or
- 14:49community or state.
- 14:53And so,
- 14:54the minute you become a human in a box,
- 14:56isolated and divorced from your
- 14:59normal societal identity,
- 15:02you begin behaving like a And in
- 15:04poker, that means pressing all the
- 15:06buttons that you know are wrong,
- 15:08because you're taken out of your natural
- 15:10habitat, which is the tribal habitat.
- 15:12So, in order for you to function well,
- 15:15you have to recreate the environment of
- 15:18the savanna, of the jungle, of the state
- 15:20of nature. You have to become
- 15:23one
- 15:24with the overall
- 15:26poker game ecosystem environment.
- 15:29What does that mean?
- 15:31It means that you need to see
- 15:35yourself, the poker player, as just the
- 15:37one pressing the buttons, but the actual
- 15:39thing of beauty that's unfolding is the
- 15:40game of cards on your screen.
- 15:42And you need to see yourself as part of
- 15:44that dance,
- 15:46as one performer on that stage, and not
- 15:50as the protagonist to a gambling game,
- 15:53because that's what's killing you. It's
- 15:55seeing yourself as a scorekeeping
- 15:57protagonist gambler.
- 15:59You might not do it explicitly, but I
- 16:01bet you do it, and it's killing you.
- 16:03Let's face it.
- 16:05Poker self-help by Pete Clarke. Maybe it
- 16:07should have been called that, that book
- 16:08that you get in Silver Carrot, not Poker
- 16:10Therapy.
- 16:11Okay.
- 16:12So, that's a few things already. That
- 16:14says up to three things. I'm just coming
- 16:16up with this, by the way. I don't even
- 16:17plan these videos. I like them to be
- 16:18very natural off the cuff. I like to
- 16:20draw from the wells of my experience
- 16:23first and foremost. Okay, here's the
- 16:24next thing that that stops you from
- 16:26being um able to apply yourself properly
- 16:29to that causes you to underachieve
- 16:31is that you are the anti-professional
- 16:33when you play poker. This is a bit
- 16:35linked to the the last point about
- 16:37accountability and being in your own box
- 16:39and stuff like that.
- 16:41But, here's the deal. When you sit down
- 16:42and play an online poker session
- 16:45you probably don't
- 16:47put yourself through a warm-up routine.
- 16:49If you're a sports person, you're
- 16:50playing for a team, they're going to
- 16:51make you run around the pitch first,
- 16:52they're going to make you stretch,
- 16:53they're going to make you train, they're
- 16:55going to make you do all of these
- 16:56things. But, poker players are slobs and
- 16:57they sit around and they just play cards
- 16:59and they click the poker client open and
- 17:01before they know it they're playing four
- 17:02tables, they've not warmed up, they've
- 17:04not studied, they've not invested in the
- 17:05poker education, they've not thought
- 17:07properly about what stake to play, what
- 17:08games to select. None of this. They just
- 17:10sit down and play and click buttons and
- 17:11hope to win and think they deserve it
- 17:13and get mad when they don't and it's not
- 17:15going to work, ladies and gentlemen,
- 17:17it's not going to work. So, being a
- 17:19non-athlete
- 17:20is the fourth reason.
- 17:22What can you do about this? You can have
- 17:23a pre-game routine.
- 17:25That could be a little bit study. My
- 17:27favorite thing to recommend these days
- 17:29that's worked the best over the 671
- 17:32people I've taught or whatever I want to
- 17:33say um
- 17:35just making this up, but what's worked
- 17:38best is 30 30 30
- 17:40which is 30 minutes study, making your
- 17:42way through Bronze Carrot if that's your
- 17:43current tier, silver or gold or whatever
- 17:45you're up to in your Carrot Corner
- 17:47poker education pathway or whatever else
- 17:49you study, God forbid. Then, you have 30
- 17:51minutes of play. You're warmed up,
- 17:53there's an idea in your head, you you're
- 17:55curious, you're primed, you're in the
- 17:57right zone, hopefully. Then, there's 30
- 17:59minutes of of review where you look at
- 18:00like the key hands and you go into them
- 18:02in depth, maybe with a solver, maybe
- 18:04with peers, maybe you post one in our
- 18:06Discord group get some feedback from me
- 18:08or another sensei or coach in there.
- 18:11And then the whole cycle repeats again.
- 18:13You just do this over and over again, 30
- 18:1530 30. This means that you only play 33%
- 18:18of the time when you're in one of these
- 18:19phases. But if you're here watching this
- 18:21video,
- 18:22you care somewhat about your poker
- 18:24learning. You care about getting better.
- 18:26You're not just here to click buttons
- 18:27because this video,
- 18:29you know,
- 18:30with me waving bits of sushi about and
- 18:31putting them back in the box, it's
- 18:32probably not going to go make it viral.
- 18:34It's probably not going to reach someone
- 18:35that's just like, "Lol, I like cards. I
- 18:37like to watch the the Hustler
- 18:39livestream. Lol, I like Nick Airball.
- 18:41Lol, like that guy." 19 crying laughing
- 18:43faces. Probably that guy is not
- 18:44watching. If he is, he's in the comments
- 18:46telling me I suck. And he's saying,
- 18:48"Bro."
- 18:49But he's probably not here. And so, if
- 18:50you're watching this, you're probably
- 18:52someone that genuinely wants to get
- 18:55better. So, what's wrong with having a
- 18:56phase where it's two parts learning and
- 18:58one part playing? Why can't you do that?
- 19:00Why can you not do that?
- 19:02Because you're a gambler.
- 19:04You're dopamine addict. You're treating
- 19:06it like a video game or a slot machine.
- 19:08If you can't dedicate a day
- 19:11where you have a two-to-one
- 19:13study-to-play ratio,
- 19:15you're a zombie grinder. And I can't
- 19:17help you.
- 19:19I can't help you with that. You have to
- 19:20change that. You have to figure out what
- 19:21you actually want out of this game. So,
- 19:23yeah, that's that's a big problem. Like
- 19:25not being trained, warmed up, not having
- 19:28the right training study routine. All of
- 19:30that poker athlete stuff
- 19:32is a very
- 19:34very
- 19:35big problem. The fifth reason for which
- 19:36you underperform at cards is that your
- 19:39head
- 19:40is
- 19:41full.
- 19:42It's full
- 19:44of disorganized poker concepts that you
- 19:47cannot access in the right order with
- 19:49the right prioritization,
- 19:51right relevance, sifting at the right
- 19:54time.
- 19:55And therefore, what happens is you sit
- 19:56down to play and you're like, "Range
- 19:57advantage, board coverage, blah blah
- 19:59blah blah blah. I don't know what to do.
- 20:00Click button, wrong button. Oh, no. I
- 20:02suck."
- 20:03God dammit, I'm underperforming again.
- 20:06So,
- 20:07this happens because people are
- 20:09irresponsible with their learning
- 20:11because we live in a world where it's
- 20:13almost impossible to learn responsibly
- 20:15anymore.
- 20:16Why is it almost impossible to learn
- 20:18responsibly these days?
- 20:20Because learning is given to you by an
- 20:23algorithm that's trying to hold your
- 20:24attention and doesn't care how much you
- 20:26actually learn. So, what that algorithm
- 20:29can do is it can take perfectly good
- 20:30educational content and it can make it a
- 20:33disaster for you by throwing it at you
- 20:35at random times when you're not primed
- 20:37for learning, when you're seeking a
- 20:38dopamine spike, when you're in your bed,
- 20:40when you're about to fall asleep, and it
- 20:42will give you the wrong thing to study
- 20:43at the wrong time. It will give you the
- 20:45windows to put on your house before you
- 20:47have even created like the spaces where
- 20:49the windows go. It's basically like
- 20:51being given random objects that you will
- 20:54need at some point in your day, but
- 20:56being given them at the wrong time of
- 20:58day, being given an umbrella to sign a
- 21:00form instead of a pen, and be given a
- 21:03pen when you go outside in the rain.
- 21:05That is what it's like to live in 2026
- 21:08and to learn with an algorithm as you
- 21:10are doing right now because otherwise
- 21:13you wouldn't be watching this video. In
- 21:15the words of Jordan Peterson,
- 21:17ha!
- 21:18Gotcha.
- 21:22So,
- 21:23so yeah.
- 21:25This is a a major issue, right? What do
- 21:28we do about it? Organize. Courses,
- 21:31syllabuses, tuition. There's no
- 21:33centralized body of governance that's
- 21:36making poker content, right? It doesn't
- 21:37exist. Like you get this in other
- 21:39fields. There's physics textbooks,
- 21:40there's universally appraised and
- 21:42accepted mathematics textbooks. There's
- 21:44a a core thing that you take for every
- 21:47subject in university and you're given
- 21:49just the right thing at the right time,
- 21:50the right pages to read, the right
- 21:52seminar topic, the right lecturer
- 21:53running it for you, and hopefully that
- 21:55all makes you get competent at your
- 21:57subjects you can graduate with the
- 21:58knowledge of your crafting go on to get
- 22:00a good job, and that is the classic
- 22:03rat race life that I managed
- 22:06to avoid. Not that it's always terrible.
- 22:08There are great things you can do within
- 22:09the so-called rat race life, but I
- 22:11managed to avoid it and chose this weird
- 22:13game instead. And it just so happens
- 22:14that in this weird game, you've also got
- 22:16to learn in the same way that you do in
- 22:18the normal life, you just don't get any
- 22:20guidance or realings to do it. You have
- 22:22to do that yourself, and that used to be
- 22:24okay because you were forced to get
- 22:26courses and stuff, because you couldn't
- 22:28just click next video on your phone, but
- 22:30now you're screwed because of the
- 22:32algorithm and all of the that
- 22:34exists in 2026. It didn't exist before.
- 22:36It has destroyed your brain, and now
- 22:39you're just full of mush, and you cannot
- 22:41learn. And when I work with someone
- 22:42playing like 50 NL on average, then I'm
- 22:45like, "Okay, this guy's got some idea
- 22:46what he's doing." Someone asked me the
- 22:47other day, by the way, "What chess Elo
- 22:49is a 50 NL player?" And I was like, "I
- 22:50think it's about 1,700 these days,
- 22:52depending on the site." If it's Sam Club
- 22:54WPT Gold, it's probably 209
- 22:58or four.
- 22:59So, yeah.
- 23:01We've reached this sort of apex of mush,
- 23:05right, in the in the modern day, where
- 23:08it's no longer
- 23:10accessible to learn unless you go out of
- 23:12your way to learn in a way that's
- 23:14expensive,
- 23:15because relative to YouTube,
- 23:16everything's expensive, cuz YouTube is
- 23:18free,
- 23:19and not as
- 23:22easy for your brain to do, because your
- 23:23brain likes the deeply dug trenches of
- 23:27familiarity when it comes to neural
- 23:28pathways. It likes to go down the same
- 23:31deep ditches all the time that have nice
- 23:33big steep sides that can just glide down
- 23:36like water, the neurons that is. Don't
- 23:38like to craft new ditches in the mud,
- 23:40right? We don't like to do that. We
- 23:41don't like to do things that are out
- 23:43with our comfort zone that aren't
- 23:44habitual, but that's kind of what I want
- 23:47you to do, cuz I want you to learn poker
- 23:48properly and in a structured way, like
- 23:49it's a university subject. That's what
- 23:50the Carrot Poker School is.
- 23:52The big giant course that's, you know,
- 23:54with our tier structure. The tier
- 23:55structure confuses you, by the way.
- 23:58We have the starter kit. You should
- 23:59check that out for free. It's three
- 24:00videos on finding your biggest leak. It
- 24:01can give you a taste for what we're all
- 24:03about. Then we have a 15-video module
- 24:06called bronze.
- 24:07There's no Carrot Poker School content
- 24:09yet there. It's like a a pre-Carrot
- 24:10Poker School course.
- 24:12And then you have silver. We get into
- 24:14grade one, and then some supplementary
- 24:16courses, cash injection about exploits
- 24:18and tree v, how to combine
- 24:20the theory you learn in grade one with
- 24:21the exploits you learn in cash injection
- 24:22to click the right buttons at the tables
- 24:24in a pragmatic performing well kind of
- 24:26way. And then in gold, you have all our
- 24:28other content. That's how the tier
- 24:29system works at Carrot Corner. You can
- 24:31go between tiers by upgrading anytime
- 24:34and it's all lifetime access. We've
- 24:36built this structure
- 24:38so that people can once more go into the
- 24:41curriculum-based learning that served us
- 24:43so well for centuries and maybe even
- 24:45millennia.
- 24:47And we just have to come to a a point
- 24:49where we accept ultimately
- 24:52that while YouTube is good for learning
- 24:54how to put a certain kind of light bulb
- 24:56in a certain kind of fitting. I'm the
- 24:58kind of guy that needs YouTube videos
- 24:59for that I don't know about you.
- 25:01It's not good for big, dense, difficult
- 25:04subjects like cards.
- 25:06Okay, some cards. It's like Snap and
- 25:08it's good for Snap and Uno, but it's not
- 25:10so good for the game.
- 25:13Six, you underperform because you're
- 25:15entitled.
- 25:17You feel entitled to win even though you
- 25:19don't deserve to win because you've not
- 25:20earned it, you've not learned enough
- 25:21about the game, but you think you should
- 25:23win because you're you and you want you
- 25:25to prosper and survive ahead of all the
- 25:27other rival humans.
- 25:29So, you just expect to win. Maybe not
- 25:31consciously. Maybe when you sit down to
- 25:33play
- 25:34and you have a bad skill set,
- 25:37you don't know much about the game,
- 25:38you've been playing for a while though
- 25:39and you've been just bashing your head
- 25:40off the wall of not getting anywhere,
- 25:42and you sit down to put in a session,
- 25:44maybe if you were really
- 25:46prodded about it and you were you were
- 25:48really asked to say whether you thought
- 25:50you were winning player, you would say
- 25:51no.
- 25:52On a conscious level, once provoked, you
- 25:54would say no.
- 25:56But most people's subconscious outlook
- 25:58is that they're just going to win. Like
- 25:59I'm going to sit down, I'm going to fire
- 26:00up a session, I'm going to try and win.
- 26:03And this entitlement is just like I
- 26:05think it's part of human nature. I don't
- 26:06think it makes you a bad person or makes
- 26:08you like a a particularly narcissistic
- 26:10or delusional person. I think we are a
- 26:12very narcissistic and delusional species
- 26:15just innately.
- 26:17And when we do something,
- 26:19we just want to do it well even though
- 26:21we suck at it. Like I'm like this. I get
- 26:23really mad when I can't do things even
- 26:24if I've never learned how to do them. I
- 26:26can't sit there and be like, "Okay, so
- 26:29let's let's just accept I can't do this
- 26:31cuz I've never tried and I'll try to
- 26:32learn how to do it. I'm like, "Why can't
- 26:34I do it instantly? Why don't I instantly
- 26:36understand how to assemble the
- 26:37wardrobe?" I will never build a wardrobe
- 26:39again in my life, by the way. I'm going
- 26:41to get someone to do that for me. Mostly
- 26:43my wife, but if she doesn't want to I'll
- 26:45pay a guy to come and do it.
- 26:46So, there.
- 26:48That's the
- 26:49That's one of the benefits of um being
- 26:51at a certain point in your life where
- 26:52you can outsource But when I was
- 26:54younger I had to build a ton of
- 26:55wardrobes cuz I was always moving and
- 26:58going into some different stupid rental
- 26:59flat with some girl and building a
- 27:01wardrobe and falling out and going into
- 27:03a different a year later or some other
- 27:05girl that, you know, wasn't yet mad at
- 27:07me for getting raging about building
- 27:09wardrobes. And And the cycle repeats
- 27:11over and over again, right?
- 27:13And we just expect to be able to do
- 27:16things. And with poker it's the
- 27:18There's so many of these natural human
- 27:20traits that just lead to us being
- 27:22completely screwed when it comes to
- 27:23poker. And this is absolutely one of
- 27:25them. Students are delusional. They're
- 27:27like, "I'm winning at 5 NL over 4,000
- 27:30hands."
- 27:31And it's just like, "Why don't you yet
- 27:33know what variance is?" Okay, cuz you're
- 27:35new to the game, but are they if they've
- 27:36been playing for like 3 years? They've
- 27:38just They've just moved to a new site
- 27:40having lost for 2 and 1/2 years, played
- 27:42a few thousand hands, it's gone well,
- 27:44and now they're a winning player. Like,
- 27:46it's so delusional. It's crazy. But it
- 27:48happens all the time. You've got to
- 27:50accept you suck. Like, when I was coming
- 27:52up in the old flop turn river days, that
- 27:54beige and brown forum they always talked
- 27:56so fondly of,
- 27:57you know, it was just like fashionable
- 28:00almost to say, "I suck. I know nothing.
- 28:02Help me." It was almost like like going
- 28:04back to that whole AA dogmatic doctrine
- 28:06It was almost normal to be like,
- 28:09"I am um a fish. I accept my
- 28:10shortcomings. I will take the advice
- 28:12that's given my way by the end bosses,
- 28:14even if they call me an when
- 28:15they give me the advice."
- 28:17And that's kind of how it went. And I'm
- 28:18not saying all of that was great. And
- 28:20I'm not saying we need to go back to
- 28:212010 and live that way now, but maybe we
- 28:25can take the humbleness and the lack of
- 28:28entitlement and the sort of I need to
- 28:30work hard to get somewhere. Like,
- 28:32my generation
- 28:34the millennials
- 28:36I think we always had a kind of
- 28:39I've got to work to get stuff mentality
- 28:42cuz our parents instilled that in us,
- 28:44right? Because they they our parents
- 28:45were like
- 28:47really terrified of like dying because
- 28:49the potatoes didn't work or something
- 28:50like that. So, that all trickles down
- 28:53and my generation are definitely
- 28:56we understand that we have to work. We
- 28:57understand that like we have generally a
- 28:59good work ethic, I would say the
- 29:00millennials. Like we're pretty
- 29:01hard-working generation.
- 29:03And sometimes, you know, not to say that
- 29:05Gen Z is awful or that everyone in Gen Z
- 29:08is lazy. That's definitely not the case.
- 29:10There are loads of really hard-working
- 29:12Gen Z people. Loads of them are really
- 29:13hard-working, but some of them aren't.
- 29:15And it's because the that that
- 29:18you must work for stuff ethos, [snorts]
- 29:20you don't deserve anything inherently,
- 29:22that's been lost somewhat by the time
- 29:24it's trickled down to some of Gen Z. I'm
- 29:26not saying that's everybody, right? So,
- 29:27please don't think I'm accusing the
- 29:29entire generation of that. But, yeah.
- 29:32Um this entitlement is there is there in
- 29:34my generation too. It's a human thing.
- 29:36It's probably worse
- 29:38in younger people
- 29:40on average than older people. And yeah,
- 29:42you're not just going to win cuz you
- 29:43think you should win because you're you.
- 29:46Doesn't make you special. You're not
- 29:48going to win.
- 29:48You have to put the work in. You have to
- 29:50learn about the game. Okay, got two to
- 29:52go. I said I was going to come up with
- 29:53eight of these today, reasons you're
- 29:54under performing. So, let's come up with
- 29:56another two.
- 29:58Reason number seven
- 29:59for which people under perform is that
- 30:00they don't like poker.
- 30:02They like the things it gives them.
- 30:05Most notably, they like winning days.
- 30:07They like the feeling of outplaying
- 30:09someone, winning a hand, putting someone
- 30:10on a hand, and being right.
- 30:12That sort of stuff. Taking a concept
- 30:14they heard in a video, doing it, and it
- 30:15working this time. They like that kind
- 30:17of
- 30:18you know, chasing
- 30:20the instant gratification side of the
- 30:22game or maybe using it as a means to an
- 30:23end. I'm going to play poker because I
- 30:24don't want to get a real job. I'm going
- 30:26to play poker because I don't want to go
- 30:27to university. I'm going to play poker
- 30:29because I want to travel.
- 30:32None of this is good. These are
- 30:35okay
- 30:36supplementary reasons to want to have a
- 30:38career in poker.
- 30:40For me, not wanting to ever have a
- 30:429-to-5 job, cuz I had a load of
- 30:449-to-5 jobs I hated, was a motivating
- 30:47factor.
- 30:48But that was a reason for me to not have
- 30:50a 9-to-5 job. It wasn't a reason for me
- 30:54to be a poker player.
- 30:56The reason for me to be a poker player
- 30:58and later a poker coach and education
- 31:01poker business guy
- 31:03was loving
- 31:04strategy, loving poker, and seeing
- 31:07the beast for itself and not for
- 31:10something it can do. Looking into the
- 31:12heart of the beast that is the game of
- 31:13poker and saying, "You are grizzly and
- 31:16horrible and you do nasty things to me,
- 31:19but you are beautiful and I love you
- 31:22anyway and I want to make you my thing."
- 31:25That sounds very romantic, doesn't it?
- 31:27That's how you have to be with poker.
- 31:28You have to be able to see its essence
- 31:31as a strategy game that is extremely
- 31:34deep and curious and complex.
- 31:36You have to never let go of that and you
- 31:38have to love it for that. Because the
- 31:40minute you try to love poker for being a
- 31:42means to your end, Immanuel Kant style,
- 31:46Kant, the philosopher, if you say that
- 31:48in a London accent, by the way, it gets
- 31:51gets age restricted on YouTube. But um
- 31:53he said that if you
- 31:56What was it called? The categorical
- 31:57imperative or something? If you treat
- 31:59people
- 32:00as means to your own ends and not ends
- 32:03in and of themselves, then you are
- 32:06doing something really egregious, like
- 32:07morally bad, bankrupt moral
- 32:10And I think that that makes sense,
- 32:12right? Cuz in a collective, if you use
- 32:14someone as a means to your end, you're
- 32:15kind of a sociopath, you're
- 32:17you're a manipulator, you are a
- 32:19Machiavellian, you're not a nice person,
- 32:22you're cold, you're callous, it's not
- 32:24good. So you shouldn't use a thing like
- 32:26that either. Okay, maybe like chopsticks
- 32:28you can use that way. That's okay.
- 32:30But poker is
- 32:32almost like a living, breathing thing
- 32:34that has all this complexity and depth
- 32:36and
- 32:37is such a
- 32:38a volatile thing that if you treat it
- 32:40like an inanimate object and just try to
- 32:42use it as a means to your end, it's not
- 32:44going to go well. You kind of have to
- 32:45treat it as a thing of beauty in and of
- 32:47itself and never lose that respect for
- 32:48it. Much like if you were like a lion
- 32:50fighter, is that a thing?
- 32:52Let me know if lion fighters are a
- 32:54thing. No, Pete, lion fighters are not a
- 32:56thing. Lion tamers are a thing. Okay, so
- 32:58if you have a lion tamer,
- 33:00that guy's going to respect the beast,
- 33:02right? He's not going to be like, "Ah,
- 33:03jackass lion." He's not going to be
- 33:05like, "Hey, bro, laughing crying face,
- 33:07bro. You suck." He's not going to do
- 33:09that.
- 33:10Cuz those guys have been eaten.
- 33:12And they're not watching this video.
- 33:13This video is too boring for them.
- 33:15You're watching this video cuz you want
- 33:17to get better at cards. So, no laughing
- 33:18crying faces in the comments, please.
- 33:21So,
- 33:23you have to love the thing.
- 33:24And when you hate it
- 33:26because actually it's annoyed you
- 33:29and you're clicking buttons and just
- 33:31hoping that you win and it's not
- 33:32happening,
- 33:33you will bring a terrible version of
- 33:36yourself
- 33:37in to that game. Much like if you hated
- 33:40your spouse, you would bring a terrible
- 33:42version of yourself to that marriage. If
- 33:43you hate poker, you'll bring a terrible
- 33:46version of a poker player to the game.
- 33:48And ask yourself, is that happening to
- 33:50me? I should have been using these
- 33:52chopsticks the whole time to make a
- 33:54point and point at you guys. That's what
- 33:56I should have been doing. This video
- 33:58would have had so much more impact had I
- 34:00been doing that.
- 34:02It would have been better.
- 34:04Right. One more point to make.
- 34:06Let's have a think about it.
- 34:08Excuse me while I eat a piece of sushi.
- 34:10Pause the video and come up with my
- 34:12eighth and final point.
- 34:16You
- 34:18underperform
- 34:19at poker
- 34:21because your opponent is your enemy.
- 34:24Let's think about that.
- 34:26So,
- 34:27what kind of game is this that we're
- 34:28playing?
- 34:30This is
- 34:32a deep thinking
- 34:34strategy game
- 34:35of really understanding what's going on.
- 34:40The player that can think accurately
- 34:42enough about what's going on and sees
- 34:44reality for what it is
- 34:46is going to win.
- 34:48And the player who gets blinded and
- 34:50derailed by other is going to lose
- 34:52in the long term, all else being equal.
- 34:56So, if you're in a fight or a war
- 34:59or a battle, these things are also true.
- 35:02And the best fighters
- 35:04are generally those who have enough
- 35:06respect for their opponent
- 35:08to
- 35:09take them seriously
- 35:11and think about what they're doing and
- 35:12try to counter it.
- 35:14But also want to destroy them.
- 35:17Right?
- 35:18And that's the sweet spot when it comes
- 35:19to poker, as well, because if you have
- 35:21too much disdain for your opponent, too
- 35:23much hatred, too much sort of blind
- 35:25adversarial reactive scorn for your
- 35:28opponent,
- 35:30what will happen is that you will
- 35:32the red mist will envelop you to such an
- 35:34extent you can't think strategically or
- 35:36logically anymore. So, if your opponent
- 35:37is your enemy in the very real sense
- 35:39that it's personal and you hate them and
- 35:41you you're pissed at them
- 35:44and you see them as this big like
- 35:45threatening bully sort of character
- 35:47trying to take all your assets,
- 35:51then you're just going to lash out.
- 35:53Right? And lashing out is a very bad way
- 35:55to play. So, if it feels to you that
- 35:57your opponents are your enemy,
- 36:00big problem. And it will be Most of you
- 36:01will feel that way at the tables,
- 36:02especially during a bad session when
- 36:05you're not playing your A-game, that
- 36:06kind of thing.
- 36:07You need to see your opponents as just
- 36:09other aspects of the game. Like, implied
- 36:11odds is a part of the game.
- 36:13Did I ever tell you guys about implied
- 36:14odds guy?
- 36:15I'll tell you in a minute.
- 36:17And just as implied odds is a part of
- 36:19the game,
- 36:20so too is your opponent. Like, the
- 36:21button is a part of the game. A big
- 36:23blind is the part of the game.
- 36:25Queen nine three with two clubs is part
- 36:27of the game, so too is your opponent.
- 36:29That's how it has to be. Not Queen nine
- 36:32three is a flop and that's an inanimate
- 36:34thing and my opponent's a horrible,
- 36:36nasty bully, and I'm going to beat
- 36:39the out of him.
- 36:40No, your opponent has to just be part of
- 36:42the game like Queen nine three is.
- 36:43That's it. Okay, implied odds guy. Let's
- 36:45finish with a little anecdote. So, I
- 36:46once taught I think what I'll start
- 36:48doing is bring you guys now that I'm
- 36:50winding up my coaching career is
- 36:52anonymously
- 36:53recount some stories of students I've
- 36:55taught over the years. So, I taught this
- 36:56guy once
- 36:58who had so little understanding of poker
- 37:01that instead of saying like I don't know
- 37:03or like hmm maybe it's this
- 37:07he would just spout out poker terms in
- 37:09answers to every question.
- 37:13So, if I said, "So, what's your thought
- 37:14process like here on the turn? Did you
- 37:16consider barreling this spot?" He might
- 37:18say
- 37:19uh implied odds.
- 37:22And it was usually implied odds, but
- 37:24sometimes he'd go
- 37:25uh fold equity.
- 37:26Like he's literally just heard words and
- 37:29he would just say them. Just reminded me
- 37:30there when I said implied odds. That was
- 37:31a really difficult guy to teach. That
- 37:33That did not go well. Sometimes it just
- 37:35went
- 37:36badly and at times, admittedly, in my
- 37:39681
- 37:41number keeps going up if you notice that
- 37:43throughout this video, student poker
- 37:45coaching career, one-to-one career.
- 37:47It was my fault when it didn't go well.
- 37:49By the way, most times it did go well.
- 37:50I'm just talking about the times it
- 37:51didn't. Sometimes that was my fault.
- 37:54Sometimes the student would just say
- 37:55implied odds to every question. There's
- 37:57not really much you can you can really
- 37:58do with that, but
- 38:00that's a bit like the problem we talked
- 38:01about earlier where you've got all these
- 38:02terms, you've not been shown properly
- 38:05what they mean.
- 38:06What a beautiful segue. And that's why
- 38:07we at Carrot Corner have the bronze
- 38:09carrot. I've left this overlay up today,
- 38:11the bronze one that I'm struggling to
- 38:13point at properly. There we go.
- 38:15Because it's the first step, right? In
- 38:17investing in yourself the poker player.
- 38:20And that's kind of what you've got to do
- 38:21to build confidence to get past this
- 38:23hang up of I don't know what I'm doing.
- 38:25I'm puzzled all the time. I'm lost. I'm
- 38:27confused. I suck.
- 38:28You're always going to play terribly
- 38:29when you're in that zone. You're going
- 38:31to self-destruct when you're in that
- 38:32zone. So, get the knowledge. Bronze is
- 38:33the first step. It's 15 episodes, five
- 38:36modules, mostly technical, a little bit
- 38:38of mental and practical stuff in module
- 38:40five, pre-flop, flop, turn, river, how
- 38:42winning players think.
- 38:44Facing aggression, making aggression,
- 38:46the cornerstones of the game. It's your
- 38:49pre-flop poker school content. Do it
- 38:51first before you dive into our more
- 38:52serious packages, silver and gold. If
- 38:54you're a newer player in in particular,
- 38:56do it first. I hope you've liked this
- 38:57video. I hope that it's shone some light
- 39:00on some of the reasons for which you are
- 39:01underperforming. I do think most of
- 39:03these will apply to most of you. If you
- 39:05can think of any more I've not thought
- 39:06of, let me know in the comments. Click
- 39:08the link, by the way, to check out the
- 39:10bronze syllabus, and I will see you on
- 39:12the next video. Bye for now.
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