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  1. 0:00English Leap Podcast
  2. 0:02>> from Speak English with Class.
  3. 0:05Hey English learners, welcome back to
  4. 0:08the English Leap Podcast, your cozy
  5. 0:10place to learn easy English through real
  6. 0:12life conversations. I'm Anna
  7. 0:15>> and I'm Jake. Maybe your day has been
  8. 0:17loud and busy, but right now it's just
  9. 0:20you, your headphones, and our voices.
  10. 0:23However you're listening, we're really
  11. 0:25glad you chose to spend this small piece
  12. 0:27of time on yourself. Okay, before we
  13. 0:30start, how are you today, Jake? Not the
  14. 0:33podcast answer, the real answer.
  15. 0:36>> Ah, the real answer. H I think I'm a
  16. 0:40good mix of grateful and tired. Grateful
  17. 0:43because I love doing this. Tired because
  18. 0:46my week has been a little bit too full.
  19. 0:50>> Too many things in your schedule.
  20. 0:52>> Yeah. work, calls, messages, and somehow
  21. 0:56I still feel like I didn't do enough. My
  22. 0:59body is like, "Please slow down." And my
  23. 1:02brain is like, "No, keep going."
  24. 1:04>> M, that feeling is so familiar. It's
  25. 1:07like your body and your mind are not on
  26. 1:09the same team.
  27. 1:11>> Exactly. And you, how are you doing
  28. 1:13today? Really,
  29. 1:14>> honestly, I feel a bit heavy. Not sad,
  30. 1:18just heavy. My eyes feel tired. of my
  31. 1:22shoulders feel tight and there's this
  32. 1:24little voice saying, "You should have
  33. 1:26slept earlier, Anna."
  34. 1:28>> Yeah, that should voice. It's very good
  35. 1:30at giving comments after everything is
  36. 1:33finished.
  37. 1:34>> True. It never comes before. It always
  38. 1:37comes after with a long report.
  39. 1:40>> Very critical report.
  40. 1:42>> And if you're listening and you feel
  41. 1:44something like this too, tired body,
  42. 1:46busy mind, a lot of should in your head,
  43. 1:50you're not alone. We're right there with
  44. 1:52you.
  45. 1:52>> And that's actually why we chose today's
  46. 1:54topic, not to talk about perfect diets
  47. 1:57or gym routines, but to talk about this
  48. 2:00quiet fight we have with our own body
  49. 2:02and how we can make that relationship
  50. 2:04softer. And we'll talk about it in B1
  51. 2:07level English. calm, simple sentences.
  52. 2:10No heavy medical terms, no big
  53. 2:13psychology words, just things you can
  54. 2:15really feel and use in your own life
  55. 2:17when you wake up tired or when you feel
  56. 2:19guilty for resting,
  57. 2:21>> right? If you don't understand every
  58. 2:23single word, that's okay. Really, just
  59. 2:26relax, listen, and let the ideas sit in
  60. 2:29your mind. You can always listen again
  61. 2:31later, maybe on a walk or before you go
  62. 2:34to sleep.
  63. 2:34>> And near the end, we'll do a small word
  64. 2:37tour. We'll take a few useful words from
  65. 2:39today and explain them slowly with
  66. 2:41examples so they can stay with you and
  67. 2:43you can use them in your own sentences.
  68. 2:46>> And if you enjoy learning English like
  69. 2:48this, calm, real, a little bit personal,
  70. 2:52don't forget to like this episode and
  71. 2:54subscribe to the English Leap podcast.
  72. 2:57It really helps more learners find us
  73. 2:58and feel less alone with their tired
  74. 3:01minds and tired bodies. And later, we'd
  75. 3:04love to hear from you in the comments.
  76. 3:06When you feel really, really tired in
  77. 3:08life, what do you usually do first? Keep
  78. 3:11pushing, lie down, scroll on your phone,
  79. 3:14or try to ignore it? And what is one
  80. 3:16small kind thing you wish you could do
  81. 3:19for your body?
  82. 3:20>> All right, take a deep breath,
  83. 3:22>> let your shoulders drop just a little,
  84. 3:25>> and let's jump in. So Anna, you said
  85. 3:28something before we started recording
  86. 3:30and it really stayed in my mind.
  87. 3:33>> What did I say? I say many strange
  88. 3:35things.
  89. 3:37>> Yeah, that's true. But this one you
  90. 3:39said, I don't feel ugly. I just feel
  91. 3:42tired.
  92. 3:43>> Oh, that one. Yeah.
  93. 3:45>> Can you tell that story slowly? I think
  94. 3:48a lot of people will feel it.
  95. 3:50>> Okay. So, a few months ago, I had one of
  96. 3:54those mornings. You know the type. Yeah,
  97. 3:57those mornings
  98. 3:58>> I slept late again. My phone and I had a
  99. 4:02very long and very unnecessary
  100. 4:05relationship until 2 a.m.
  101. 4:08>> The toxic relationship,
  102. 4:10>> right? So, I woke up already late,
  103. 4:13already annoyed at myself. I went to the
  104. 4:16mirror and I was ready.
  105. 4:18>> Ready for what?
  106. 4:19>> Ready to attack myself. You look bad.
  107. 4:22You look so tired. Why did you eat that
  108. 4:24last night? You should be more
  109. 4:26disciplined.
  110. 4:27>> Yeah, that script.
  111. 4:29>> But this time, something strange
  112. 4:31happened. I looked at my face and I
  113. 4:33didn't feel ugly. I just felt tired.
  114. 4:38Deep tired. Not I need coffee tired,
  115. 4:41more like my whole life is heavy tired.
  116. 4:44>> Like tired in your bones.
  117. 4:47>> Yeah. And in my mind, the word that came
  118. 4:49was frazzled.
  119. 4:51>> Frazzled. Frazzled means tired and
  120. 4:55stressed and messy altogether. Like your
  121. 4:57thoughts are little pieces of hair going
  122. 5:00in every direction.
  123. 5:01>> Yeah. Like when you wake up and your
  124. 5:03hair is doing its own experiment.
  125. 5:06>> Exactly. My brain felt like that. And
  126. 5:09for a second I stopped blaming my face.
  127. 5:12>> Oh.
  128. 5:13>> I looked closer and I thought my body is
  129. 5:16not the problem. My body is just showing
  130. 5:19me the story of how I am living. Hm.
  131. 5:23>> It felt like my body was a small friend
  132. 5:25standing in front of me saying, "Hey, I
  133. 5:28am not okay. I am doing my best, but I
  134. 5:32am tired. Can you please slow down?"
  135. 5:35>> Right. So, it wasn't an attack. It was a
  136. 5:39message.
  137. 5:40>> Yeah. It was like a wakeup call.
  138. 5:42>> H a wakeup call is a moment that shakes
  139. 5:45you and says, "Hey, something needs to
  140. 5:48change."
  141. 5:49>> Yeah. I realized for years I was angry
  142. 5:52at the mirror, but the mirror was
  143. 5:54innocent. It was just reflecting the way
  144. 5:56I treated myself.
  145. 5:58>> That's big.
  146. 6:00>> And maybe if you're listening, you've
  147. 6:02had that moment, too. You look at your
  148. 6:04face and think, "I don't hate how I
  149. 6:07look. I hate how I feel." And you can't
  150. 6:10even find the right words. You just know
  151. 6:12this is not how you want to live.
  152. 6:15>> If that's you, we see you really. And
  153. 6:18you know what makes it worse?
  154. 6:20>> What?
  155. 6:21>> The good girl or good boy mode.
  156. 6:24>> Oh, that mode.
  157. 6:26>> Yeah. When your body is screaming,
  158. 6:28"Please, no more." But your mouth is
  159. 6:30still saying, "Yes, of course. No
  160. 6:33problem.
  161. 6:34>> Sure, I can help. Sure, I can finish
  162. 6:36that. Sure, I can join that meeting.
  163. 6:38Sure, I can come to that dinner."
  164. 6:39>> And inside your body is like a tired
  165. 6:42employee going, "Excuse me, boss. Can we
  166. 6:45sit down?"
  167. 6:46And the brain answers, "No, we have
  168. 6:49standards.
  169. 6:50>> We do not sit. We only excel."
  170. 6:55>> Yeah. And then at night, you lie down
  171. 6:56and think, "Why am I so tired? I didn't
  172. 6:59do that much."
  173. 7:00>> But actually, you did a lot. Not just in
  174. 7:03your schedule, but in your heart. You
  175. 7:05carried everyone.
  176. 7:07>> There's this idiom, carry the weight of
  177. 7:09the world on your shoulders.
  178. 7:11>> Carry the weight of the world on your
  179. 7:14shoulders. It means you feel like you
  180. 7:16have all the problems, all the
  181. 7:18responsibilities, everything is on you.
  182. 7:21>> Yeah. And when you live like that,
  183. 7:23little by little, you become depleted.
  184. 7:26>> Depleted. So, not a little tired, but
  185. 7:29more like empty.
  186. 7:31>> Exactly. Like your phone on 1% battery
  187. 7:34and there's no charger near you. That's
  188. 7:36depleted. When your energy tank is
  189. 7:39almost zero. And if you're always being
  190. 7:41the good girl or good boy, saying yes to
  191. 7:44everything, you don't even notice. You
  192. 7:46just keep adding.
  193. 7:48>> Yeah. You pile on more work, more
  194. 7:51promises, more plans, even when you're
  195. 7:54already tired.
  196. 7:55>> Pile on means keep adding more and more
  197. 7:58on top. Like putting extra bags on
  198. 8:00someone who is already full. And maybe
  199. 8:02your body has been trying to talk to you
  200. 8:04for a long time with headaches or tight
  201. 8:07shoulders or that heavy feeling in your
  202. 8:09chest when you wake up,
  203. 8:11>> but we push it aside.
  204. 8:13>> Push it aside.
  205. 8:14>> That means we ignore it. We say, "Not
  206. 8:17now. I'm busy."
  207. 8:18>> Right? But your body is actually your
  208. 8:20first friend. It has been with you from
  209. 8:23day one and it will be with you to the
  210. 8:25last day.
  211. 8:27>> Maybe it doesn't need a stricter boss.
  212. 8:30It needs a kinder friend.
  213. 8:32>> So, what do we usually do when we
  214. 8:34finally see, "Okay, I'm tired. Something
  215. 8:38is wrong."
  216. 8:39>> Uh, we make the plan.
  217. 8:42>> Yes. Big capital letters. The plan
  218. 8:46>> from Monday. New me. From Monday, I wake
  219. 8:49up at 5:00 a.m., run 10 kilometers, eat
  220. 8:52only perfect food, answer every email,
  221. 8:55meditate, learn three languages, and
  222. 8:58never feel tired again.
  223. 9:00>> Also, clear skin, no sugar, no snacks,
  224. 9:03no fun.
  225. 9:05>> Exactly. And on paper, it looks amazing.
  226. 9:09>> But it's not a plan. It's a fantasy.
  227. 9:13>> Yeah. It's like asking a tired person to
  228. 9:16suddenly become a superhero in one
  229. 9:18night.
  230. 9:19>> And then what happens? Monday morning,
  231. 9:22real life arrives.
  232. 9:23>> Work, kids, boss, emails, traffic, mood,
  233. 9:28hormones, bad Wi-Fi, everything.
  234. 9:32>> And you oversleep or you eat something
  235. 9:34outside your perfect planned or you're
  236. 9:37too tired to exercise
  237. 9:38>> and suddenly your brain says, "Ah, see,
  238. 9:41you failed." Same story. You will never
  239. 9:44change.
  240. 9:45>> And then you give up until the next
  241. 9:47Monday.
  242. 9:48>> It's like you are stuck in a loop.
  243. 9:51>> Stuck in a loop.
  244. 9:52>> That idiom means you are repeating the
  245. 9:55same pattern again and again. Like a
  246. 9:57song that never moves to the next part.
  247. 10:00>> Strict plan. One small mistake. Shame.
  248. 10:03Give up. New strict plan. Repeat.
  249. 10:06>> And every time you do this, you feel a
  250. 10:09little more disappointed in yourself.
  251. 10:12Yeah. You don't just feel tired, you
  252. 10:14start to feel broken.
  253. 10:16>> But actually, you're not broken. The
  254. 10:18plan is broken.
  255. 10:20>> Yes, the plan is too heavy.
  256. 10:23>> It's like putting on five big winter
  257. 10:25coats and then asking, "Why am I so
  258. 10:27hot?" If you're listening and thinking,
  259. 10:31"Yep, that's me." Please hear this. You
  260. 10:34don't need a bigger plan. You probably
  261. 10:36need a lighter one. Yeah, maybe this is
  262. 10:39the year you don't push harder, you
  263. 10:42scale back a little.
  264. 10:43>> Scale back.
  265. 10:45>> That means make things smaller, easier,
  266. 10:47lighter. Not give up, just carry less.
  267. 10:51>> So you can actually walk, not run
  268. 10:53yourself into the ground.
  269. 10:55>> You know what really changed things for
  270. 10:57me?
  271. 10:58>> What?
  272. 10:58>> I realized I was treating my health like
  273. 11:02a 30-day challenge. But my body is not a
  274. 11:06challenge. It's a relationship.
  275. 11:08>> A relationship.
  276. 11:10>> Think about a good friend. You don't
  277. 11:12say, "Okay, for 30 days I will be nice
  278. 11:15to you and after that back to normal."
  279. 11:18>> 30-day good friend challenge,
  280. 11:21>> right? You show up again and again. Some
  281. 11:24days you're full of energy. Some days
  282. 11:26you're quiet. But you don't disappear
  283. 11:28just because one day was not perfect.
  284. 11:31>> That's what a resilient friendship is
  285. 11:33like.
  286. 11:34>> Resilient. Resilient means it can have
  287. 11:38problems but it doesn't break. It can
  288. 11:40come back.
  289. 11:41>> And I thought I want that kind of
  290. 11:43relationship with my body. Resilient,
  291. 11:46not perfect, not dramatic, just steady
  292. 11:50and kind.
  293. 11:51>> But for many of us, our relationship
  294. 11:53with our body is very lopsided.
  295. 11:57>> Lopsided.
  296. 11:58>> Lopsided means not balanced. One side is
  297. 12:01too much. For example, all work, no
  298. 12:04rest. All criticism, no kindness.
  299. 12:07>> Yeah. We expect our body to sit, work,
  300. 12:11answer, smile, carry, and then we are
  301. 12:14surprised when it feels weak.
  302. 12:16>> It's like expecting your phone to work
  303. 12:18for 3 days with no charger. And when it
  304. 12:21dies, you say, "Wow, what a lazy phone.
  305. 12:26>> Poor phone.
  306. 12:27>> Poor body."
  307. 12:28>> Maybe health is not, "How can I fix this
  308. 12:32body?" Maybe it's how can I be more
  309. 12:35nurturing to this body?
  310. 12:37>> Nurturing.
  311. 12:38>> Nurturing means caring in a warm way
  312. 12:41like watering a plant or hugging a child
  313. 12:44or making soup for a sick friend.
  314. 12:47>> And imagine if you used that same energy
  315. 12:50for yourself.
  316. 12:51>> Yeah. If you talk to your body like a
  317. 12:54tired friend, not like a lazy employee.
  318. 12:57>> You don't have to turn your life into a
  319. 12:59boot camp. You can turn it into
  320. 13:01something softer. but still strong.
  321. 13:04>> And that's what we want to do next. We
  322. 13:07want to share three small, gentle habits
  323. 13:10that feel like care, not like
  324. 13:12punishment.
  325. 13:13>> Soft rules, not prison rules.
  326. 13:16>> Yeah, soft rules.
  327. 13:18>> So, let's walk slowly through those
  328. 13:20three habits one by one.
  329. 13:23>> Okay. Habit number one, we call it the
  330. 13:26plate peace rule.
  331. 13:29>> Yeah. Because your plate doesn't need a
  332. 13:31war, it needs peace.
  333. 13:34>> Right? For many years, my health plan
  334. 13:38was just attacking my plate. No bread,
  335. 13:42no rice, no sugar, no fun.
  336. 13:45>> No joy, just lettuce.
  337. 13:48>> Yes. And of course, I could do it for
  338. 13:50maybe two days.
  339. 13:53>> Mhm. And then pizza.
  340. 13:56>> Yeah. And then pizza. And then guilt.
  341. 13:58And then I am the worst.
  342. 14:00>> So what's different with plate piece?
  343. 14:03>> With plate piece, we don't start by
  344. 14:05removing. We start by adding one good
  345. 14:09thing. Just one.
  346. 14:11>> Add. Don't attack.
  347. 14:13>> For example, you have your normal lunch,
  348. 14:16your normal dinner, and you add a
  349. 14:19handful of salad or some vegetables or
  350. 14:22some protein or simply a glass of water.
  351. 14:25So the question is not what can I cut.
  352. 14:28The question is what small thing can I
  353. 14:31add that future me will be happy about.
  354. 14:34>> Yeah. Future Anna loves when I add
  355. 14:36something green or something real not
  356. 14:39from a packet.
  357. 14:40>> Yeah. Future Jake is very grateful when
  358. 14:42present Jake doesn't eat chips for
  359. 14:44dinner.
  360. 14:46>> And this way it becomes more
  361. 14:48sustainable.
  362. 14:49>> Sustainable.
  363. 14:50>> Sustainable means you can continue it
  364. 14:53for a long time. It doesn't feel crazy
  365. 14:56or extreme. It feels normal.
  366. 14:58>> And that's the goal. Not a perfect week,
  367. 15:01but a gentler life.
  368. 15:03>> So maybe tonight you don't change
  369. 15:05everything. You just ask, "What is one
  370. 15:08small kind thing I can add to this
  371. 15:11plate?"
  372. 15:12>> That's it. That's plate piece. Habit
  373. 15:15number two is very simple. We call it
  374. 15:18the water plus walk rule.
  375. 15:21>> It already sounds friendly. Yeah. It's
  376. 15:24like a tiny spell. First, drink one
  377. 15:27glass of water. Then walk for 8 to 10
  378. 15:31minutes.
  379. 15:32>> That's it.
  380. 15:33>> That's it. No 1 hour in the gym. No
  381. 15:3610,000 steps or you were a failure. Just
  382. 15:39water and walk.
  383. 15:41>> I love that. You can walk in your house,
  384. 15:43in your hallway, in front of your
  385. 15:45building, or maybe just around your
  386. 15:47office parking.
  387. 15:48>> Yeah, the office parking walk of peace.
  388. 15:52And the interesting thing is it doesn't
  389. 15:54only help your body, it also helps your
  390. 15:56mind when it feels messy.
  391. 15:59>> Yeah. When I feel overloaded,
  392. 16:01>> overloaded
  393. 16:02>> overloaded means there is too much in
  394. 16:05your head, too many tasks, too many
  395. 16:08thoughts. Like your brain has 27 tabs
  396. 16:11open.
  397. 16:13>> Yes. All playing music at the same time.
  398. 16:16>> Exactly. When I feel like that, a small
  399. 16:19walk is very soothing for me.
  400. 16:22>> Soothing.
  401. 16:23>> Soothing means calming in a soft way,
  402. 16:26like gentle music, a warm bath, or
  403. 16:29someone saying, "It's okay. I'm here."
  404. 16:33>> M I think many listeners need soothing,
  405. 16:35not more go energy.
  406. 16:38>> Yeah. So, here's how you can try it.
  407. 16:41After a meal or after a long work block,
  408. 16:44tell yourself, "Okay, water plus walk.
  409. 16:47One glass, 10 minutes."
  410. 16:49>> You don't need expensive clothes or a
  411. 16:51perfect route. You can walk slowly. You
  412. 16:54can even listen to us while you walk.
  413. 16:56>> Yeah, we can be your walking friends.
  414. 16:58>> And step by step, your body starts to
  415. 17:01feel less like a machine and more like a
  416. 17:03friend you spend time with.
  417. 17:04>> Not to punish it, but to help it feel
  418. 17:07alive again.
  419. 17:09>> Habit number three. This one is very
  420. 17:12tender for me. We call it the sleep
  421. 17:14respect rule.
  422. 17:16>> Yeah, we really need this one
  423. 17:18>> because sleep is not just nice. It's the
  424. 17:21time when your body repairs you. Like a
  425. 17:24secret night team doing quiet work.
  426. 17:27>> The night repair team,
  427. 17:29>> right? But we often treat sleep like
  428. 17:31it's extra, like it's a bonus if we have
  429. 17:33time.
  430. 17:33>> Yeah. We act like sleep is a gift, not a
  431. 17:36basic need.
  432. 17:37>> So our rule is small. very small. Put
  433. 17:41your phone away 15 minutes earlier than
  434. 17:43usual.
  435. 17:44>> Just 15 minutes.
  436. 17:46>> Not 1 hour, not a perfect night routine
  437. 17:49from some influencer. Just 15 minutes.
  438. 17:52>> And in that 15 minutes, you can do
  439. 17:55something that helps you feel more
  440. 17:57anchored.
  441. 17:58>> Anchored.
  442. 17:58>> Anchored means feeling steady and safe,
  443. 18:01like a boat that doesn't move away
  444. 18:03because there is an anchor holding it.
  445. 18:05>> Yeah. For me, being anchored before
  446. 18:07sleep is washing my face slowly, maybe
  447. 18:10putting cream and breathing like 10 deep
  448. 18:13breaths.
  449. 18:14>> For me, it's my grandpa mode.
  450. 18:17>> Grandpa mode.
  451. 18:19>> Yeah. Soft t-shirt, dim light, maybe a
  452. 18:22simple book, no drama, no late night
  453. 18:24news.
  454. 18:25>> I love that.
  455. 18:27>> And when I don't do this, my day just
  456. 18:29drags on.
  457. 18:31>> Drags on.
  458. 18:32>> Drags on means something continues for
  459. 18:34too long. and feels slow and heavy.
  460. 18:37>> Yeah, your day doesn't end. It just
  461. 18:40stretches into the night with Tik Tok
  462. 18:42and emails.
  463. 18:43>> So, if you're listening, maybe tonight
  464. 18:45you can try this. Choose a time and 15
  465. 18:48minutes before that time your phone goes
  466. 18:51away. Another room, another side of the
  467. 18:53room, whatever.
  468. 18:54>> Then just ask yourself, how can I be a
  469. 18:57little kind to my body before I sleep?
  470. 19:00Stretch, breathe, soft music, quiet
  471. 19:03prayer, anything. That's the sleep
  472. 19:05respect rule. Not sleep perfectly, just
  473. 19:08show respect.
  474. 19:10>> Now, we need to talk about something a
  475. 19:13little heavier.
  476. 19:15>> Yeah, the guilt part.
  477. 19:17>> There were so many nights when I lay in
  478. 19:19bed completely tired and my mind was
  479. 19:23still talking. You didn't do enough
  480. 19:26today. You were lazy. You don't deserve
  481. 19:30rest.
  482. 19:30>> M I know that feeling. My body was
  483. 19:35almost at breaking point.
  484. 19:37>> Breaking point.
  485. 19:38>> That means you are very very close to
  486. 19:41not being able to continue. Like a thin
  487. 19:44line that is almost breaking.
  488. 19:47>> Yeah. And instead of giving yourself a
  489. 19:49hug at that moment, you give yourself a
  490. 19:52report card.
  491. 19:53>> Yes. A bad one.
  492. 19:55>> But here is something we really want you
  493. 19:57to remember from this episode. Rest is
  494. 20:00not a reward. Rest is a need.
  495. 20:04>> Rest is not a reward. Rest is a need.
  496. 20:08>> You don't have to finish all tasks to
  497. 20:10deserve to sit down. You don't have to
  498. 20:13be perfect today to deserve sleep.
  499. 20:17>> You are not lazy for needing rest. You
  500. 20:20are alive.
  501. 20:21>> And sometimes you need to cut yourself
  502. 20:24some slack.
  503. 20:25>> Cut yourself some slack.
  504. 20:27>> That idiom means stop being so hard on
  505. 20:30yourself. be a little more forgiving.
  506. 20:32>> Talk to yourself the way you would talk
  507. 20:34to a friend. You would never say to your
  508. 20:36friend, "You don't deserve to rest."
  509. 20:39>> Right? You would say, "Hey, you look
  510. 20:41tired. Go lie down. I'm proud of you."
  511. 20:44>> And maybe you need to hear that today.
  512. 20:47So, let us say it softly for you. You
  513. 20:51did enough. You can rest. You're allowed
  514. 20:55to be tired.
  515. 20:56>> Yeah. You're allowed to be human. Okay,
  516. 21:00before we go to our little word tour, we
  517. 21:02want to end this part with one small
  518. 21:05promise.
  519. 21:06>> Not a big challenge, just a small soft
  520. 21:09promise.
  521. 21:10>> If you can say this with us, today I
  522. 21:15will do one kind thing for my body.
  523. 21:19>> Today I will do one kind thing for my
  524. 21:23body.
  525. 21:24>> That one kind thing can be very small. a
  526. 21:28glass of water,
  527. 21:29>> a 10-minute walk,
  528. 21:31>> leaving your phone a little earlier,
  529. 21:34>> eating a simple real meal instead of
  530. 21:37just snacks,
  531. 21:38>> or even lying down for 10 minutes
  532. 21:41without feeling guilty.
  533. 21:43>> And if tomorrow you forget or you eat
  534. 21:45junk or you scroll late again,
  535. 21:48>> you don't need a new punishment.
  536. 21:50>> Yeah, you just need another small
  537. 21:53promise.
  538. 21:54>> You don't need a perfect body. You need
  539. 21:57a life that feels good
  540. 21:59>> and a relationship with your body that
  541. 22:02feels softer.
  542. 22:03>> All right, let's take a small word tour
  543. 22:06before we finish. Just a few important
  544. 22:09words from today.
  545. 22:10>> Yeah. Walk with us through these words.
  546. 22:13You don't have to remember everything
  547. 22:15perfectly. Just feel them. So, the first
  548. 22:18word is frazzled.
  549. 22:20>> Yeah. Frazzled means you feel very
  550. 22:22tired, very stressed, and your mind is a
  551. 22:25bit messy. It's like your thoughts are
  552. 22:27sticking out in every direction like
  553. 22:29crazy morning hair.
  554. 22:30>> For example, after a long day of
  555. 22:33meetings and messages, I felt completely
  556. 22:35frazzled.
  557. 22:36>> Or when I don't sleep well, my brain
  558. 22:39feels frazzled and I can't think
  559. 22:41clearly. Next word, depleted.
  560. 22:44>> Depleted means your energy is empty.
  561. 22:47Your battery is not 20% or 10%, it's
  562. 22:51almost zero. There is nothing left to
  563. 22:53give.
  564. 22:54>> For example, by Friday evening, my
  565. 22:56energy was depleted and I just wanted to
  566. 22:59lie down.
  567. 23:00>> Or if you never rest, your body becomes
  568. 23:03depleted and even small tasks feel very
  569. 23:05heavy. Another word is nurturing. Yeah,
  570. 23:09nurturing describes a warm, gentle kind
  571. 23:11of care that helps someone grow, like
  572. 23:14watering a plant, making soup for a sick
  573. 23:17friend, or talking kindly to a child.
  574. 23:20>> For example, I want to have a more
  575. 23:22nurturing relationship with my body
  576. 23:24instead of always criticizing it.
  577. 23:27>> Or a nurturing teacher makes students
  578. 23:30feel safe and confident, not scared.
  579. 23:33>> The next word is lopsided. Yeah,
  580. 23:36lopsided means not balanced. One side is
  581. 23:39too big and the other side is too small.
  582. 23:42Like a seessaw in the park where one
  583. 23:44person is very heavy and the other
  584. 23:46person is very light.
  585. 23:48>> For example, my life felt lopsided. I
  586. 23:51was working all the time and never
  587. 23:53resting.
  588. 23:54>> Or if you only give to others and never
  589. 23:57take care of yourself, your life becomes
  590. 23:59lopsided.
  591. 24:00>> Another word we used is anchored.
  592. 24:03Anchored means steady and safe, like a
  593. 24:06boat that doesn't move away because it
  594. 24:08has an anchor in the ground. You feel
  595. 24:10stable, not lost.
  596. 24:12>> For example, a small night routine makes
  597. 24:15me feel anchored before I sleep.
  598. 24:18>> Or when I write my plan for the day, I
  599. 24:20feel more anchored and less confused.
  600. 24:23>> Another word is autopilot. Autopilot is
  601. 24:27when you do things without really
  602. 24:29thinking, just by habit, like a plane
  603. 24:32that flies by itself. You are moving but
  604. 24:35not really choosing.
  605. 24:36>> For example, I was saying yes to
  606. 24:39everything on autopilot and didn't
  607. 24:40notice how tired I was.
  608. 24:42>> Or sometimes we eat on autopilot, not
  609. 24:46because we are hungry, but because we
  610. 24:48feel stressed.
  611. 24:49>> Now, an idiom, carry the weight of the
  612. 24:53world on your shoulders. This means you
  613. 24:56feel like you have all the problems and
  614. 24:58all the responsibility like everything
  615. 25:01is your job.
  616. 25:03>> For example, she felt like she was
  617. 25:05carrying the weight of the world on her
  618. 25:07shoulders. Work, family, money,
  619. 25:10everything.
  620. 25:11>> Or you don't have to carry the weight of
  621. 25:13the world on your shoulders. It's okay
  622. 25:15to ask for help.
  623. 25:17>> Another idiom is run yourself into the
  624. 25:20ground. Run yourself into the ground
  625. 25:23means you push yourself so hard that you
  626. 25:26become extremely tired or even sick. You
  627. 25:29keep going until your body can't do it
  628. 25:31anymore.
  629. 25:33>> For example, he ran himself into the
  630. 25:35ground by working late every night for
  631. 25:37months.
  632. 25:38>> Or if you never rest, you will run
  633. 25:41yourself into the ground and your body
  634. 25:43will stop you.
  635. 25:44>> The next phrase is stuck in a loop. Just
  636. 25:47stuck in a loop means you repeat the
  637. 25:50same pattern again and again. Like a
  638. 25:52song that never moves to the next part.
  639. 25:55>> For example, I felt stuck in a loop.
  640. 25:58Strict plan, one mistake, shame, give
  641. 26:01up, start again.
  642. 26:03>> Or if every Monday is new start day,
  643. 26:06maybe you're stuck in a loop, not really
  644. 26:08changing.
  645. 26:09>> Another useful phrase is cut yourself
  646. 26:12some slack. Cut yourself some slack
  647. 26:14means stop being so hard on yourself.
  648. 26:17Give yourself more kindness and more
  649. 26:19space.
  650. 26:20>> For example, you had a difficult week.
  651. 26:22You can cut yourself some slack and rest
  652. 26:24tonight.
  653. 26:25>> Or instead of calling yourself lazy, cut
  654. 26:28yourself some slack and remember you're
  655. 26:30doing your best.
  656. 26:31>> Now, a phrasal verb, pile on.
  657. 26:34>> Pile on means keep adding more and more
  658. 26:37things on top. More work, more tasks,
  659. 26:40more pressure. For example, even when I
  660. 26:43was tired, I kept piling on extra
  661. 26:45projects.
  662. 26:46>> Or don't pile on more promises when your
  663. 26:49energy is already low.
  664. 26:51>> The next phrasal verb is scale back.
  665. 26:54>> Scale back means make something smaller,
  666. 26:57lighter, or less. You reduce your plan
  667. 27:00so it is easier to do.
  668. 27:02>> For example, I decided to scale back my
  669. 27:04goals and focus on just three important
  670. 27:07tasks. or if your routine feels too
  671. 27:10heavy, you can scale back and keep only
  672. 27:12the basics.
  673. 27:14>> Another phrasal verb is push aside.
  674. 27:17>> Push aside means ignore something or try
  675. 27:20not to think or feel it. You don't deal
  676. 27:23with it. You just move it away in your
  677. 27:25mind.
  678. 27:26>> For example, I kept pushing aside my
  679. 27:29tiredness and telling myself to work
  680. 27:31more. or instead of pushing your
  681. 27:33feelings aside, you can stop and listen
  682. 27:36to them for a moment.
  683. 27:37>> The next one is tune back into.
  684. 27:41>> Tune back into means start paying
  685. 27:43attention again to something like your
  686. 27:45body or your emotions. It's like turning
  687. 27:48the radio to the right station.
  688. 27:50>> For example, this year I want to tune
  689. 27:53back into what my body is trying to tell
  690. 27:55me. or when you slow down, it's easier
  691. 27:59to tune back into your real needs.
  692. 28:01>> And our last phrasal verb is drag on.
  693. 28:05>> Drag on means something continues for
  694. 28:08too long and feels slow and heavy. Time
  695. 28:12feels like it is moving very slowly.
  696. 28:15>> For example, my day dragged on because I
  697. 28:18was exhausted and couldn't focus. or
  698. 28:21when I stay on my phone at night, the
  699. 28:23evening drags on and I don't sleep
  700. 28:25enough.
  701. 28:26>> So, these were some of the words from
  702. 28:29today. Not just for your English, but
  703. 28:31also for your life.
  704. 28:32>> Yeah. And remember, you don't need a
  705. 28:35perfect body, you just need a softer way
  706. 28:38to live in the body you already have.
  707. 28:40>> In the comments, tell us when you feel
  708. 28:43really, really tired, what do you
  709. 28:45usually do first? And what is one small
  710. 28:48kind thing you want to start doing for
  711. 28:50your body?
  712. 28:51>> If this episode made you feel a little
  713. 28:53less alone or helped you learn something
  714. 28:55new, please like this episode and
  715. 28:58subscribe to the English Leap podcast.
  716. 29:00It really helps more learners find us.
  717. 29:03>> Take care of your body like it's your
  718. 29:05friend
  719. 29:05>> because it is.
  720. 29:07>> We're sending you a soft hug wherever
  721. 29:09you are.
  722. 29:10>> And we'll talk to you in the next
  723. 29:12episode.
  724. 29:13>> Right. This is Anna
  725. 29:15>> and this is Jake. and you've been
  726. 29:17listening to the English Leap podcast.
  727. 29:19Bye.
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  729. 29:25continue advancing your English skills,
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