SUB)'SpongeMind TV' Jonson 초대석🇰🇷🎙️Korean Podcast for Intermediate — Transcript
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- 0:01Shall we start right away?
- 0:02Yeah, let's do it, let's do it, let's do it.
- 0:03I'm always ready to chat.
- 0:07Great.
- 0:09When I first started this podcast,
- 0:12I never imagined I’d have this guest here.
- 0:18But you gladly accepted the invitation,
- 0:20and I really appreciate it.
- 0:22For those of you who have been following me for a while,
- 0:26most of you—no, probably all of you—
- 0:29would know Jonson from SpongeMind TV.
- 0:33But since I took a break from YouTube for 2-3 years,
- 0:37you all might have forgotten.
- 0:39No way.
- 0:40People are still talking about you a lot.
- 0:44That’s a relief.
- 0:45That just means that even after all these years,
- 0:48your content is still really helpful.
- 0:51Should I take a 10-year break then?
- 0:52Would they still remember me?
- 0:54Oh, come on…
- 0:56Actually, I’ll be starting YouTube again soon.
- 1:00Are you going back to SpongeMind TV?
- 1:03-Yes, continuing on. -That’s great.
- 1:05Sounds good.
- 1:06I just dropped a little hint, but...
- 1:10Jonson, could you introduce yourself briefly?
- 1:14Of course, of course.
- 1:15Hello, I’m a guy.
- 1:18I’m Korean.
- 1:20I used to run SpongeMind TV on YouTube,
- 1:25and now I’m starting it again.
- 1:26But actually, what I’ve been doing even longer
- 1:30is the SpongeMind Podcast.
- 1:32Originally,
- 1:34it was available on regular podcast apps.
- 1:38Like Apple Podcasts or Google Podcasts.
- 1:41Or Spotify.
- 1:42But recently,
- 1:44I found a way to upload my podcast
- 1:47to YouTube automatically.
- 1:49-So... -RSS?
- 1:51Yeah, through RSS.
- 1:54So, it’ll be up automatically in about a week.
- 1:58I’ll be uploading everything in one go,
- 2:01so listen to them and keep studying Korean!
- 2:06Sounds great!
- 2:08How long have you been running the SpongeMind Podcast?
- 2:12I think I started around 2016.
- 2:16That’s a long time!
- 2:17- It's been about 8 years? - Yeah, 8 years.
- 2:20I've been following your content for a long time.
- 2:24I was researching while preparing my own stuff too.
- 2:27And honestly, your content was ahead of its time.
- 2:34Why do you think so?
- 2:37There's a mainstream way of thinking about language learning in Korea.
- 2:43A general trend, you know?
- 2:46But you were clearly trying to go in a different direction.
- 2:51That really stood out.
- 2:52Honestly, I wasn’t deliberately trying to be different
- 2:55when I started YouTube and the podcast. It’s just my personality.
- 3:00I really love learning things.
- 3:03Learning something new.
- 3:04But I don’t like being taught by someone else.
- 3:07Learning and being taught are two different things.
- 3:11At least, that’s how I see it.
- 3:14I grew up in Korea, so I went through the Korean education system.
- 3:19I’m a product of that system.
- 3:21And in Korean schools,
- 3:24you’re taught all the time.
- 3:26In regular classes, in university courses,
- 3:30everywhere.
- 3:31Not just in schools, but culturally as well,
- 3:34there’s a strong focus on the idea of teaching others.
- 3:39But when it comes to language learning,
- 3:42I don't think that works very well.
- 3:44The whole concept of "teaching"…
- 3:45No one actually learns a language
- 3:49just by being taught.
- 3:51Especially not their native language.
- 3:53But for some reason,
- 3:54when it comes to foreign languages,
- 3:56people feel like they need to be taught.
- 4:00I don’t really think that’s necessary.
- 4:04What really matters is input.
- 4:06Getting exposure to things you're interested in.
- 4:09Something fun, or someone you find interesting.
- 4:12Even if the content itself isn't fun,
- 4:14if you're interested in the person behind it,
- 4:15you’ll listen to them speak or read what they write.
- 4:23That kind of input is how people really learn a language.
- 4:27At least, that’s what I believe.
- 4:30Did you come to that conclusion naturally?
- 4:36Yeah, from living in the U.S.
- 4:39When I first moved here,
- 4:41I really struggled with English.
- 4:42It was so hard.
- 4:43I couldn’t believe it.
- 4:46I studied English for so many years in school,
- 4:49but I still couldn’t understand or speak it well.
- 4:53The English we learned in Korean schools
- 4:56was completely different from the English spoken by Americans.
- 5:00A lot of the words and phrases they use every day,
- 5:03I had never even heard of them in school.
- 5:06So I was like, "What’s going on here?"
- 5:09And I started learning English...
- 5:12very, very slowly.
- 5:15In my generation, we started learning English
- 5:18from middle school.
- 5:21That’s when they first taught us English.
- 5:24We started with ABCs back then.
- 5:28That means we studied English for decades.
- 5:30But in all those years, there wasn’t much progress.
- 5:34Look at the popularity of Korean now.
- 5:37There are people who study Korean for five or six years
- 5:40and become fluent.
- 5:42But after learning English for five or six years,
- 5:47where was I?
- 5:50Probably around high school?
- 5:52Yeah, about then.
- 5:54How good was my English in my second or third year of high school?
- 5:57Thinking about it now, it’s terrifying.
- 6:01When I moved to the U.S., I started watching a lot of TV.
- 6:05And I turned on closed captions.
- 6:09You know, the subtitles for the hearing impaired.
- 6:12I watched with those on.
- 6:14And after watching for three or four years, my English improved so fast.
- 6:18I could feel it.
- 6:20That’s when I realized—
- 6:21"Oh, it’s all about input."
- 6:25Did we talk about this last week?
- 6:28Or was it the week before?
- 6:30Two weeks ago.
- 6:31Back then, we planned to talk for 15 minutes and ended up going for an hour and a half.
- 6:37Our way of thinking is so similar.
- 6:40- Right? I thought so too. - So earlier...
- 6:43You said that people can learn,
- 6:46but can they really be taught?
- 6:48That’s exactly what I said
- 6:50a few months ago when talking to another guest.
- 6:54People can learn a foreign language.
- 6:59But can someone really teach it to another person?
- 7:05That thought keeps crossing my mind.
- 7:08I mean, there are things in the world that can be taught.
- 7:11Like tennis, plumbing,
- 7:15or math—technical skills.
- 7:18Those kinds of things can be passed on from one person to another.
- 7:22Things like knowledge or skills.
- 7:26You can transfer those from one person to another.
- 7:31But language is a whole different story.
- 7:34Acting as a teacher,
- 7:37or as an instructor,
- 7:40we assume that teaching is possible.
- 7:44But when it comes to fundamental things,
- 7:46like language or character...
- 7:50Character, right.
- 7:52These things can’t really be taught.
- 7:54They have to be learned, absorbed, by the person.
- 7:58That’s why I also have doubts
- 8:01about the idea of "teaching" Korean.
- 8:04But at the same time, I do a lot of
- 8:06one-on-one Korean lessons.
- 8:10It’s a contradiction, I know.
- 8:12But doing that, I started wondering,
- 8:16"What’s the best role I can play as a teacher?"
- 8:19"What’s the best thing I can do for my students?"
- 8:22And I think it comes down to two things.
- 8:24First, understanding the student better.
- 8:27That way, I can relate to them.
- 8:29And tailor the lessons to their preferences.
- 8:33Making the class fit them.
- 8:34But more importantly,
- 8:37making them want to study Korean more.
- 8:43Motivating them.
- 8:45I think that’s absolutely crucial.
- 8:48No matter how well I explain grammar,
- 8:51or define vocabulary,
- 8:53that’s just instruction.
- 8:55It’s hard to create real, lasting impact that way.
- 8:59But if, for example,
- 9:01they have fun during our lessons,
- 9:03or if I share my own story,
- 9:06like how I studied English,
- 9:08or how I learned German,
- 9:10and that inspires them...
- 9:13if it motivates them...
- 9:15That could be far more valuable
- 9:20than my technical explanations.
- 9:22Because learning a language is an internal process.
- 9:26It happens within the learner.
- 9:30I struggled with this idea too.
- 9:32But I found a way to think about it.
- 9:35In English, they say people "pick up" words.
- 9:38They naturally pick up language.
- 9:44That phrase gave me an idea.
- 9:46It’s like putting kids in a playground.
- 9:50You let them play freely in a fun space.
- 9:55You scatter interesting toys everywhere.
- 9:58And they naturally pick them up.
- 10:03That’s the same approach I take on SpongeMind TV.
- 10:06I once made a video saying the exact same thing.
- 10:09Really?
- 10:11But my analogy was a little different.
- 10:14I didn’t compare it to a playground.
- 10:17I compared it to a garden.
- 10:19So if anyone’s interested,
- 10:21you can check out that video.
- 10:22It’s just a short 4-minute video.
- 10:26It’s called "Words are birds."
- 10:28Words are all like birds.
- 10:31- Isn’t that the video on your channel’s homepage? - Yeah, that’s the one!
- 10:35What I meant was, when we learn a foreign language,
- 10:40we try to memorize words.
- 10:43So we don’t forget them.
- 10:45We catch them and try to hold onto them in our minds.
- 10:48But it doesn’t really work.
- 10:50Not only does it not work, but it can even backfire.
- 10:56It’s like trying to catch birds and keep them in a cage.
- 11:01First of all, you can only catch so many birds.
- 11:04It’s hard to catch them, right?
- 11:08Birds are faster than us.
- 11:10And there are so many of them.
- 11:12Way too many.
- 11:13Plus, a birdcage is a small space.
- 11:15It’s limited in size.
- 11:17So the number of birds you can keep is restricted.
- 11:22In the video, I said something similar to what you said.
- 11:25Almost exactly the same.
- 11:29Just let them be.
- 11:31Think of your brain as a garden.
- 11:34Then, scatter bird food.
- 11:36Seeds, peanuts, things birds love.
- 11:39Let the birds come and go freely.
- 11:45If they come, they come.
- 11:47If they fly away, they fly away.
- 11:49Don’t try to cage them in.
- 11:51But if birds come back once, twice, ten times,
- 11:56some of them will start to feel like it’s their home.
- 12:00They’ll settle down.
- 12:02Their numbers will grow.
- 12:05So there’s no need to force them to stay.
- 12:12That’s exactly how we learned our native language.
- 12:14We never memorized words as babies.
- 12:17We didn’t sit down and study Korean.
- 12:20That’s why your playground analogy is so perfect.
- 12:23Scatter interesting toys everywhere and let them play.
- 12:26Let the words play.
- 12:29Let the language play freely.
- 12:31What you said and what I said are basically the same.
- 12:34Just different metaphors.
- 12:36So there’s no need to struggle.
- 12:38Exactly.
- 12:39You don’t have to work hard.
- 12:42What matters is doing a lot of it, not doing it with great effort.
- 12:46And those are two different things.
- 12:48Working hard vs. doing a lot.
- 12:50I’m not sure if this is a good example, but...
- 12:54A few months ago, when I got COVID,
- 12:58I couldn’t do much, so I played a lot of video games.
- 13:03I started playing Cyberpunk 2077...
- 13:09and got so addicted that I played over 150 hours.
- 13:16Saying that out loud is embarrassing.
- 13:18Anyway, after playing 150 hours...
- 13:21I memorized all the fictional car brands in the game.
- 13:26The names of the models, the gun brands...
- 13:30I remembered them all.
- 13:34And I thought, "If only I learned a foreign language like this..."
- 13:41I totally fell for their marketing.
- 13:44Right.
- 13:45So instead of trying to catch the language...
- 13:47let it catch you.
- 13:51Don’t chase it.
- 13:53Let it pull you in.
- 13:56As a content creator,
- 14:00I started thinking, "How can I make something that pulls people in?"
- 14:05That became my focus.
- 14:07Language acquisition is actually
- 14:09a very passive process.
- 14:13It’s not about achieving something.
- 14:17It’s not about accomplishments.
- 14:20You just spend a long time listening, speaking, reading.
- 14:26And it just soaks into you.
- 14:31Like, think about this.
- 14:33If you leave a book in the sun for 10 years...
- 14:36the pages turn yellow.
- 14:38The paper, which was once white, changes color.
- 14:42But it’s not because the book
- 14:44tried hard to do that.
- 14:46It just happened.
- 14:49It’s a passive process.
- 14:52Language learning is the same.
- 14:53It’s a passive process.
- 14:55I get that it might sound boring.
- 14:58Some people prefer being more active.
- 15:00They like taking action.
- 15:04That’s understandable.
- 15:07But in a way, this is actually comforting.
- 15:10You don’t have to force anything.
- 15:12You don’t have to make anything happen.
- 15:14Just let it come naturally.
- 15:16Even if I try hard, it doesn’t just happen.
- 15:19Instead of focusing on effort,
- 15:22I just enjoy reading, listening, watching YouTube.
- 15:26Talking to interesting people.
- 15:29And as I spend time with Korean, it naturally improves on its own.
- 15:34I don’t need to push myself to improve.
- 15:41Instead, I should focus on spending more time with the language.
- 15:46That’s what really matters.
- 15:48Finding time for it.
- 15:49Not trying to "get better" at Korean.
- 15:52Where you focus your effort makes all the difference.
- 15:55Some things are out of your control.
- 15:58You can’t force certain results.
- 16:00Like vocabulary growth.
- 16:06Or fluency, comprehension.
- 16:08That’s not something you can directly control.
- 16:11It’s like the weather.
- 16:13It just happens.
- 16:15So why waste energy worrying about it?
- 16:18There’s no need to stress over that.
- 16:20Instead, focus on spending more time with Korean.
- 16:24Investing time in it.
- 16:25That’s something you can control.
- 16:28If you used to study for 30 minutes a day,
- 16:32make it an hour.
- 16:34That’s something within your power.
- 16:38And from there, so many new discussions open up.
- 16:40There are so many things we could explore.
- 16:45Maybe in another episode.
- 16:47Or maybe when I join Jonson’s podcast.
- 16:52But the real reason I invited Jonson here today...
- 16:59A few months ago...
- 17:00Back in September, you did something really interesting in Korea.
- 17:05Yeah, it was fun.
- 17:06It really was.
- 17:08Jonson ran a program in Korea.
- 17:14And one of my close foreign friends joined it.
- 17:20Later, they told me, "I joined this program."
- 17:26"You should reach out."
- 17:27"Maybe you could talk to them on your podcast."
- 17:30At first, I replied...
- 17:35"Ah, but that guy is kind of a big deal…"
- 17:40Not a big deal. More like a leech.
- 17:42Once I latch on, I suck everything dry.
- 17:45Oh, really?
- 17:46Yeah, not a big shot. Just a leech.
- 17:49Anyway, I felt too intimidated to reach out.
- 17:51That’s what I told my friend.
- 17:54But they encouraged me to just go for it.
- 17:58So I finally got the courage to send an email.
- 18:02And you kindly accepted, so here we are today.
- 18:05Yeah, I had nothing else to do...
- 18:07You’re way too humble.
- 18:09No, really.
- 18:11So, let’s talk about that program.
- 18:15Actually, when I was running it, I was super busy.
- 18:18I put so much time and effort into preparing it.
- 18:23Even while running it,
- 18:25I put in a huge amount of energy.
- 18:27I really poured my soul into it.
- 18:30It was my first time doing something like that.
- 18:33So, what kind of program was it?
- 18:37It was called the SpongeMind Korean Immersion Program.
- 18:41Korean immersion—basically a language and culture program.
- 18:46A program where you absorb both the language and the culture.
- 18:50So, what was it exactly?
- 18:53Korean learners all came to Korea.
- 18:57We gathered in Seoul, rented a hanok (traditional house),
- 19:01played games, hung out, had fun.
- 19:05But the key was—who we spent time with.
- 19:08Not just among themselves.
- 19:09They weren’t just talking to other learners.
- 19:12They spent time with native Korean speakers.
- 19:15People who actually live in Korea.
- 19:18We played games, did traditional activities like yutnori.
- 19:21We went to jjimjilbang (Korean sauna), had picnics at Han River Park.
- 19:26We went to concerts.
- 19:29Drank tea, ate meals, even had drinks together.
- 19:33Basically, it was a huge 10-day party.
- 19:38But with native Korean speakers.
- 19:45We even went hiking together.
- 19:49For 10 days, like it or not,
- 19:52you had to live with Koreans.
- 19:53But there were no "lessons."
- 19:56No whiteboards.
- 19:59No instructors standing in front teaching.
- 20:01Instead, it was all experiential learning.
- 20:04It happened naturally.
- 20:06And more than anything, what people valued most was...
- 20:10building friendships.
- 20:15That’s what meant the most to them.
- 20:18In just 10 days, they made real Korean friends.
- 20:21And the Korean participants also bonded with the learners.
- 20:25When it ended, nobody wanted to leave.
- 20:30We even have a group chat now.
- 20:32Both the Korean speakers and the learners.
- 20:35They still talk there.
- 20:37I’ll send you some pictures.
- 20:40Maybe you can show them in this video.
- 20:44It’d be nice to share them now.
- 20:49Anyway, we had an amazing time for 10 days.
- 20:54But how did people even find out and sign up?
- 20:57Some were longtime podcast listeners.
- 21:00Well, not just past listeners—current ones too.
- 21:02People who still follow my podcast.
- 21:04And some who used to watch my YouTube videos.
- 21:06I also had email addresses from people
- 21:09who had previously asked me for study materials.
- 21:12I didn’t have everyone’s email, of course.
- 21:16But I had the ones who contacted me before.
- 21:18So I just emailed them saying, "Hey, I’m running this. Want to join?"
- 21:24- So it was like an exclusive early subscriber benefit? - Exactly!
- 21:28That’s nice.
- 21:30So these were people who had been trying to learn Korean for a while?
- 21:36- Mostly? - Yeah.
- 21:38Were they already somewhat fluent?
- 21:42Some were really good. Others were absolute beginners.
- 21:47But since this wasn’t a "class," their level didn’t really matter.
- 21:51It wasn’t about skill.
- 21:52Even if someone didn’t speak much Korean...
- 21:57they could still interact with Koreans.
- 21:59Because most Koreans can speak some English.
- 22:02They learn it in school.
- 22:05So in a way, it was more about enjoying connections.
- 22:10Building relationships in a fun way.
- 22:13That was often more valuable.
- 22:15Especially for beginners.
- 22:17But if someone spoke decent Korean...
- 22:19they could practice even more.
- 22:21So there were no strict "No English" rules?
- 22:29- No, we didn’t enforce that. - No such rule.
- 22:34None at all.
- 22:35But we did have a lot of activities.
- 22:39Some games had a "Korean only" rule.
- 22:41For those games, English wasn’t allowed.
- 22:44That part was specified.
- 22:46I actually spent a lot of time designing those games.
- 22:50I spent months planning them.
- 22:52I wanted them to be accessible...
- 22:55even for people with very little vocabulary.
- 22:59So they could still participate.
- 23:01Even if their grammar wasn’t strong.
- 23:04I designed situations
- 23:07where they had to use Korean naturally.
- 23:11But it wasn’t like, "You must speak only Korean for 10 days."
- 23:15It depended on the activity.
- 23:17During parties, it was totally open.
- 23:21A real party atmosphere.
- 23:23And since some Koreans weren’t great at English...
- 23:27they naturally had to use Korean.
- 23:30There were situations where they had to use Korean.
- 23:32So they’d draw pictures, use gestures.
- 23:35And somehow, communication worked.
- 23:37Oh, really?
- 23:40But I’m really curious about the Koreans who joined.
- 23:45Why did they come?
- 23:47Honestly, before starting this program...
- 23:51I thought they’d all come to practice English.
- 23:55But that was only a small part of their reason.
- 24:00Some Koreans even asked me,
- 24:01"I don’t have to speak English there, right?"
- 24:03Some really wanted to avoid it.
- 24:06That’s even better.
- 24:07For the Korean learners, that’s great.
- 24:10But if it wasn’t mainly about English practice...
- 24:14then what was their main reason? So I asked them.
- 24:18"Why did you join?"
- 24:21And the foreign participants asked me too.
- 24:24"For us, it’s obvious."
- 24:26"We’re here for the culture and language."
- 24:29"We want to improve our Korean."
- 24:32"But why did the Koreans come?"
- 24:34So I asked them directly.
- 24:39"Why are you here?"
- 24:40And they said they wanted the foreign guests
- 24:44to leave Korea with good memories.
- 24:49That was their reason.
- 24:53They wanted to help foreigners
- 24:57have a great experience in Korea.
- 25:01That’s why they joined.
- 25:03I heard that a lot.
- 25:05Among all the reasons I heard...
- 25:08that was the most common one.
- 25:12Another reason was...
- 25:15they wanted to make foreign friends.
- 25:17It’s not easy to meet people from different cultures.
- 25:21Even in Korea.
- 25:22Yes, there are a lot of foreigners in Korea.
- 25:25But usually, Korean and foreign communities...
- 25:27don’t mix much.
- 25:31They tend to stay separate.
- 25:34Foreigners in Korea mostly hang out with other foreigners.
- 25:37Koreans mostly stick with Koreans.
- 25:40Of course, you could travel the world.
- 25:46But in this case, the world came to them.
- 25:49People from the U.S., Japan...
- 25:52Europe—all coming to Korea.
- 25:57And the Koreans asked me...
- 25:59"You’re doing this again next year, right?"
- 26:01Oh, really?
- 26:02Next year, someone even said...
- 26:04They don’t have a full-time job.
- 26:05They mostly do part-time work.
- 26:07And next year, during the event,
- 26:09they want to clear their schedule completely.
- 26:13And participate full-time.
- 26:16That’s how much they loved it.
- 26:18The response from Koreans was amazing.
- 26:20And I was honestly surprised.
- 26:23I didn’t expect Koreans to love it this much.
- 26:26Right?
- 26:27They said it was so much fun. An unforgettable memory.
- 26:31Is Korea really this warm and welcoming to foreigners?
- 26:40Well, not all Koreans are friendly toward foreigners.
- 26:44For example, if a foreigner is walking toward them...
- 26:49some people will avoid them.
- 26:51Because they don’t want to speak English.
- 26:53That happens quite often.
- 26:55I’ve heard that a lot.
- 26:57But the foreigners at this event...
- 27:02were a bit different.
- 27:05They were people who were interested in Korean.
- 27:08They were learning the language.
- 27:11And Koreans seem to love that kind of foreigner.
- 27:16Right? They really do.
- 27:19It also feels less burdensome.
- 27:21Since they’re learning Korean, it’s like...
- 27:24"If things get hard, just speak Korean instead of English."
- 27:28So they don’t feel pressured.
- 27:31That constant need to speak English...
- 27:33is really stressful for some Koreans.
- 27:38Some say there’s nothing more stressful
- 27:41than dealing with foreigners because of that.
- 27:45But in this case, since everyone was learning Korean,
- 27:48there was no need to use English all the time.
- 27:50It felt so natural and free.
- 27:51Like they were just hanging out.
- 27:55I totally get that feeling.
- 27:59I mean, I can communicate in English.
- 28:02So before, whenever I met foreigners...
- 28:07I just naturally spoke English.
- 28:13But after doing YouTube and working in Korean education...
- 28:17I’ve met so many foreigners who speak Korean.
- 28:20And now, whenever I meet a foreigner...
- 28:23I just want to speak Korean.
- 28:24It’s just easier.
- 28:26Right?
- 28:28In a way, I’ve kind of regressed.
- 28:32But still, most people...
- 28:35aren’t fluent in Korean.
- 28:38Learning Korean...
- 28:39and actually speaking it fluently are two different things.
- 28:42So, Tae-woong, if you speak some English...
- 28:47and can have deep conversations in English...
- 28:49you’ll probably make friends faster.
- 28:53That’s true.
- 28:55- Yeah, definitely. - There is an advantage to that.
- 28:59Right.
- 29:00I know a lot of foreigners learning Korean.
- 29:03I have so many friends studying it.
- 29:07But when it comes to deep conversations...
- 29:08I always have to switch to English.
- 29:12There’s no other way.
- 29:13But it’s probably the same for Koreans.
- 29:17Right, the other way around.
- 29:18If a Korean has a foreign friend...
- 29:20Even if their English is pretty good...
- 29:23when it comes to deep, meaningful conversations...
- 29:26or even just funny stories...
- 29:29they’d probably prefer to do that in Korean.
- 29:34Back to the main topic.
- 29:36The Korean Immersion Program.
- 29:40- It’s kind of tempting. - Yeah, but when I first explained it to people...
- 29:43they’d ask...
- 29:45"Wait, is this some kind of group tour?"
- 29:47That’s what some people thought.
- 29:49So, it was actually hard to explain.
- 29:53Is it tourism?
- 29:54Or is it a language class?
- 29:57It’s neither.
- 29:58It has elements of both, but it’s not really either one.
- 30:02It’s not a class. And it’s not just sightseeing.
- 30:05So what is it then?
- 30:07After the event ended, I thought about it.
- 30:10And I realized—it’s not about tourism.
- 30:15It’s about relationships.
- 30:18It became a program about connections.
- 30:22That’s what it naturally turned into.
- 30:26Korean learners and native speakers...
- 30:29ended up becoming really close.
- 30:32And funny enough, even the Koreans got closer to each other.
- 30:37After the event ended...
- 30:40and the foreigners returned home...
- 30:42the Koreans kept meeting up.
- 30:44They had after-parties, and after-after-parties.
- 30:48Meanwhile, the foreign participants...
- 30:50were back in Alabama, Florida, Europe...
- 30:53Norway, Japan...
- 30:56So they couldn’t physically meet up.
- 30:58But based on the feedback they sent me...
- 31:04Even among themselves, they became really close.
- 31:07The Korean learners bonded so much.
- 31:10It was like a sense of camaraderie.
- 31:13Like they were comrades on the same journey.
- 31:15So, seeing all this...
- 31:19I realized this was ultimately a relationship-based program.
- 31:25That’s the conclusion I came to.
- 31:31And another thing.
- 31:33There’s another way to use the word "relationship."
- 31:38The relationship between the learners and the Korean language itself.
- 31:43Over the course of these ten days...
- 31:47as they went through this program...
- 31:50I think their relationship with the language changed.
- 31:55Their connection with Korean.
- 31:57It became, in a way, more intimate.
- 32:01More personal, more familiar.
- 32:06Before, it was just a language they were learning.
- 32:08Just a "target language."
- 32:10But now, it’s something more.
- 32:13They can’t quite call it their native language...
- 32:18but it moved a little closer to that.
- 32:21It became more familiar.
- 32:26Of course, it’s not the same.
- 32:27Right.
- 32:28But for ten days, they were surrounded by Koreans.
- 32:33Listening to Korean nonstop.
- 32:38Some even got mentally exhausted.
- 32:42Just being around so many people constantly...
- 32:46day after day—it’s not easy.
- 32:49On top of that...
- 32:50they were speaking a foreign language.
- 32:53Spending all day with native speakers in a foreign language.
- 32:58Eating lunch, dinner, drinking coffee, having drinks...
- 33:01Makgeolli, going on picnics, visiting museums...
- 33:07Some people's brains just shut down.
- 33:09Some got physically exhausted too.
- 33:12Later on, people started saying, "This schedule is intense."
- 33:18They started asking for more free time.
- 33:23But since they were completely immersed in Korean...
- 33:28it was natural.
- 33:30Their relationship with the language changed.
- 33:33But it’s really hard to explain in words.
- 33:37Maybe saying it became more "intimate" in English?
- 33:41Their relationship with the Korean language...
- 33:45became something more personal.
- 33:49I think that’s the best way to describe it.
- 33:53When I was a kid— they probably still have these now...
- 33:55there were English camps.
- 34:00Honestly, this program...
- 34:01could almost be called a "Korean camp."
- 34:05There were so many Koreans participating.
- 34:08So many.
- 34:09If you see the pictures, you’ll understand.
- 34:12But for the Koreans, it wasn’t a "Korean camp."
- 34:14They weren’t learning Korean.
- 34:16Exactly.
- 34:17For them, it was like traveling the world through language.
- 34:23They were still at home.
- 34:26Traveling isn’t easy, right?
- 34:28Especially traveling abroad.
- 34:29You have to take vacation days.
- 34:31If you have kids, you have to find someone to take care of them.
- 34:34If you have a job, you need time off.
- 34:36It’s not easy.
- 34:38But in this case, they could keep their daily routine...
- 34:43while meeting people from all over the world.
- 34:46For Koreans, that was a huge benefit.
- 34:50Right. That was a great aspect.
- 34:53For the Korean participants.
- 34:54So for them, it was a "global camp."
- 34:57A world tour—without paying for a plane ticket.
- 35:01Exactly.
- 35:02And without needing to speak English.
- 35:06Yeah, I remember one woman.
- 35:09I asked if she could take some guests to a jjimjilbang.
- 35:12Her first question was...
- 35:14"I don’t have to speak English, right?"
- 35:16That was her main concern.
- 35:18I told her, "No need."
- 35:20"Just speak Korean slowly, and don’t let them get lost."
- 35:26So, this event created all sorts of unique relationships.
- 35:34In some groups, where Koreans were fluent in English...
- 35:37the conversations were mostly in English.
- 35:39And deep connections formed.
- 35:41But in other cases, everything was in Korean.
- 35:44Especially when Koreans talked among themselves.
- 35:48And even if a learner wasn’t fluent...
- 35:51just being surrounded by Korean conversation...
- 35:57was incredibly helpful.
- 35:59They could observe how native speakers talked.
- 36:02How two Koreans naturally conversed.
- 36:04Just listening to that was a huge benefit.
- 36:07Even if they couldn’t actively participate.
- 36:10In English, we call that "being a fly on the wall."
- 36:13Just quietly listening.
- 36:16Blending into the background.
- 36:19Focusing entirely on the conversation happening around you.
- 36:21Absorbing every word.
- 36:26Taking in the language like a sponge.
- 36:29Like sipping it through a straw.
- 36:31That kind of experience is really important.
- 36:33Because that’s how babies naturally learn their native language.
- 36:38That’s actually the goal of this podcast.
- 36:40Right, exactly.
- 36:41For a Korean learner...
- 36:44sitting with two native speakers over coffee...
- 36:48and participating as an equal—it’s not easy.
- 36:52Because their Korean skills are often not strong enough.
- 36:56But in this case...
- 36:57they could just listen to Koreans chatting.
- 37:01Just absorbing the conversation.
- 37:05In a way, it’s still participation.
- 37:07But it’s passive participation.
- 37:09There’s no pressure, just listening and taking it in.
- 37:14Like the people watching this video right now.
- 37:18We’re not going to ask them any questions.
- 37:21Being asked questions is stressful.
- 37:24Especially when you don’t fully understand.
- 37:28But here, there’s no pressure.
- 37:29That’s why conversational podcasts...
- 37:32are so helpful.
- 37:35But in my program, it wasn’t just a podcast or video.
- 37:38It was live.
- 37:40Real-life, face-to-face immersion.
- 37:43That brings a totally different energy.
- 37:46- It’s... - Completely different.
- 37:47The absorption level is on another level.
- 37:50I think it’s at the top of the possible learning experiences.
- 37:55It really is.
- 37:56That’s why I didn’t include grammar lessons or lectures.
- 38:00No structured lessons.
- 38:02But despite that...
- 38:05people said they learned so much.
- 38:08Especially when drinking makgeolli.
- 38:11Really?
- 38:11Hanging out with Koreans...
- 38:13and drinking—Koreans drink a lot.
- 38:16Of course, you don’t have to drink to socialize.
- 38:17But among the participants...
- 38:21there were two guys who loved makgeolli.
- 38:24They drank a lot.
- 38:27Those two really enjoyed it.
- 38:31Koreans?
- 38:32No, foreigners.
- 38:34Foreigners?
- 38:34Both of them were American.
- 38:37- They loved makgeolli. - And after a few drinks...
- 38:41doesn’t speaking a foreign language get easier?
- 38:43Of course!
- 38:46That happened to me too at first.
- 38:48But it doesn’t mean you actually get better.
- 38:52It just makes you think you’re speaking better.
- 38:56- Really..? - I mean, I’ve never tested it.
- 38:58But if you record yourself, you’ll know.
- 39:03- If I record myself drunk, speaking a foreign language... - That makes sense.
- 39:06If you listen to the recording...
- 39:08you’ll know if drinking actually...
- 39:12improves your foreign language skills...
- 39:15or just makes you think it does.
- 39:19Are you improving? Or is it just an illusion?
- 39:23You’d find out by recording yourself.
- 39:25But I’d bet 500 won on the illusion.
- 39:31Oh, that could be true.
- 39:33Try recording yourself.
- 39:35Not on this channel, but another one.
- 39:37I actually did a live stream after drinking a few highballs.
- 39:43Oh, really?
- 39:45But that was in Korean, right?
- 39:47No, no.
- 39:47I do game videos in Korean.
- 39:52But when I have deep discussions with viewers...
- 39:56In English?
- 39:57Yeah, I often switch to English.
- 40:00So, how did it sound when you listened back?
- 40:04I don’t have the courage to listen.
- 40:08I never rewatch my live streams.
- 40:10Oh, really?
- 40:12It’s better for your mental health.
- 40:14That makes sense.
- 40:17I don’t like watching my own videos either.
- 40:21- And also... - Yeah, it’s not easy.
- 40:24When I talk to people normally...
- 40:26I usually enunciate clearly.
- 40:29But when I record videos...
- 40:31I focus so much on my thoughts...
- 40:34on what to say next...
- 40:35that I forget to focus on pronunciation.
- 40:36I don’t pay attention to it.
- 40:39Even though Korean is my native language...
- 40:41sometimes my pronunciation gets messy.
- 40:44But since I create Korean learning content...
- 40:49and do 1:1 tutoring...
- 40:52I try to be mindful of my pronunciation.
- 40:54So when it doesn’t come out clearly...
- 40:57it frustrates me.
- 41:00Like, "Why is this happening..?"
- 41:04Even right now, I’m aware of it.
- 41:06If I were just chatting with a friend casually...
- 41:09without recording, it wouldn’t matter.
- 41:12But in this setting, where people are listening and watching...
- 41:18Because I know this is for Korean listening practice.
- 41:22So I want to do better.
- 41:24But it doesn’t always work out.
- 41:25So when my pronunciation is off in a video...
- 41:30whether in English or Korean, it’s disappointing.
- 41:35That’s why I don’t rewatch.
- 41:36Except when editing.
- 41:37But yeah, it’s a bit stressful.
- 41:41It’s just something I have to deal with.
- 41:47Anyway, back to that program.
- 41:49I’ve been thinking.
- 41:50At the start of this podcast, we talked about this.
- 41:54The difference between being "taught" and actually "learning."
- 41:57We discussed that earlier.
- 41:59And whether it’s the SpongeMind program or something else...
- 42:02when you spend time with Koreans...
- 42:04native Korean speakers...
- 42:07for an extended period...
- 42:10the advantage is this:
- 42:13You skip the "teaching" step and go straight to "learning."
- 42:19You don’t even realize you’re learning.
- 42:21You don’t think, "Am I learning something?"
- 42:22You’re not even aware of it.
- 42:26Learning happens naturally, like a phenomenon.
- 42:31That’s the biggest strength of spending time with natives.
- 42:34That’s the most powerful aspect.
- 42:39That’s literally the foundation of my content.
- 42:43Oh, really?
- 42:43Wait, was this called All Things in Korean?
- 42:46At first, yes. But I removed the "in."
- 42:48So, just "All Things Korean."
- 42:49Wouldn’t that work as a live event?
- 42:51Gather some Korean learners...
- 42:54even just a few.
- 42:56With a live audience.
- 42:58Wait, you mean live-live?
- 43:00Not a live stream, but an actual live event?
- 43:03Yeah, exactly.
- 43:04With a real audience.
- 43:06Like stand-up comedy.
- 43:08- Yeah! And take questions live. - Like, real-time interaction?
- 43:13And if someone in the audience...
- 43:14wants to join the conversation...
- 43:16they can come up and talk.
- 43:20Even say a few words.
- 43:22Should we include this in next year’s SpongeMind Immersion?
- 43:28Yeah, let’s try it!
- 43:31I’m always open. Feel free to use me.
- 43:34Got it. You’re invited.
- 43:37Thanks!
- 43:38This is the first time I've met someone...
- 43:43who shares my values.
- 43:45That's great to hear.
- 43:46But honestly, I sometimes wonder...
- 43:49"Do I even have strong values?"
- 43:52Values?
- 43:53Like, ways of thinking?
- 43:54Mindset?
- 43:55But as human beings...
- 43:58we naturally develop those.
- 44:00But in my case, my goal is...
- 44:03to have as few strong opinions as possible.
- 44:06I try to minimize them.
- 44:12Fewer opinions, fewer judgments.
- 44:15I don't want to over-categorize things.
- 44:17Like, "This is important to me."
- 44:19Or, "This isn't important."
- 44:23I try to break down those distinctions.
- 44:26Same with political views, religion, beliefs.
- 44:30I try not to hold onto them too tightly.
- 44:32Right now, that's my personal goal.
- 44:35Because it feels easier.
- 44:39When I don't cling to rigid ideas...
- 44:43- My mind is more open and at ease. - Open-mindedness.
- 44:45And I can experience so much more.
- 44:49But at the end of the day, I'm human.
- 44:51So of course, I have values.
- 44:53There are things I care about.
- 44:55And while talking to you, Tae-woong...
- 44:57I realized something.
- 44:59The values I believe in...
- 45:03are the same as yours.
- 45:07We think alike.
- 45:08That realization makes me really happy.
- 45:13We've been recording for about an hour.
- 45:15Are you getting bored?
- 45:17No, no, not at all.
- 45:19Two weeks ago, I meant to talk for 15 minutes...
- 45:23but ended up talking for 90.
- 45:27So today, I'm focusing on sticking to the planned topics.
- 45:33I'm being extra careful.
- 45:36There were so many moments where I almost went off track.
- 45:42By the way, like I said before...
- 45:44could you invite me to SpongeMind?
- 45:49I'll think about it.
- 45:50Oh... okay.
- 45:52No, no, I'll invite you! For sure.
- 45:54- Please consider it positively. - Of course! No hesitation.
- 45:56There's nothing to think about.
- 45:57Honestly, nobody else is lining up to join.
- 46:00Oh, really?
- 46:01Did you know?
- 46:02Koreans actually dislike appearing on broadcasts.
- 46:05Right.
- 46:07- They don't like it. - But how do you...
- 46:10find so many Koreans...
- 46:12for your podcast and YouTube channel?
- 46:16Do you just invite them?
- 46:18Actually, 9 out of 10 are just my friends.
- 46:24I guess I just have a lot of good friends.
- 46:28But in Korea, many people...
- 46:31feel uncomfortable being on camera, right?
- 46:34Of course, this is just my assumption.
- 46:37But I don't think I'm exactly...
- 46:43a typical Korean either.
- 46:45My experiences, personality, and way of thinking...
- 46:51are not really conventional.
- 46:54You know how people say,
- 46:55"Birds of a feather flock together"?
- 46:58I think I just have many similar people around me.
- 47:02Some of my office worker friends tell me...
- 47:07that everyone in their circle...
- 47:10is just like them.
- 47:12They followed the typical path:
- 47:14graduate high school, go to college,
- 47:17prepare for a job, and become an office worker.
- 47:21That's how their lives go.
- 47:23Not that it's bad or anything.
- 47:25But they don't have many unique people around them.
- 47:28For some reason, I have quite a few.
- 47:32So, you have a lot of "weird" people around you?
- 47:35I do! Lots of unique ones.
- 47:38Interesting people.
- 47:38"Weird" might not be the right word.
- 47:41They're interesting.
- 47:42Right. Unique, fun, special kinds of friends.
- 47:46How should I put it?
- 47:47They're a bit unconventional.
- 47:49You know how people have different kinds of energy?
- 47:52It feels like similar energies attract.
- 47:56Right, and those kinds of friends...
- 48:02tend to be less afraid of being on camera.
- 48:08That makes sense. Also, I’m pretty persuasive.
- 48:12Nobody really watches, anyway.
- 48:13No, you're great at hosting.
- 48:15You lead conversations really well.
- 48:18I don’t do much, though?
- 48:20No, I mean...
- 48:22leading a conversation doesn’t mean talking a lot.
- 48:25It’s about guiding it naturally.
- 48:28Talking a lot or speaking well
- 48:30doesn’t necessarily make a conversation flow smoothly.
- 48:32That’s not really the key.
- 48:35I think there are two important things.
- 48:37First, knowing how to ask
- 48:39good and interesting questions
- 48:41that get the other person talking.
- 48:44Second, knowing when to let them talk
- 48:47and when to step in
- 48:49to subtly change the direction of the conversation.
- 48:52Figuring out that timing is really important.
- 48:56And you’re really good at that, Tae-woong.
- 48:58Really?
- 48:59Thanks.
- 49:00That’s why conversations with you are fun.
- 49:03Honestly, I’m not even learning Korean,
- 49:05but I’ve watched a few of your videos.
- 49:07Really?
- 49:09Which ones?
- 49:10The one with two female guests.
- 49:14But since you talk about so many topics,
- 49:16-it’s hard to remember specific details. -Yeah, I tend to do that.
- 49:19Honestly, talking about just one topic for an hour...
- 49:23that’s really hard to listen to.
- 49:25It’s hard to stay focused.
- 49:28That’s why when I structure my podcast,
- 49:30I always divide it into three different sections.
- 49:34First, "Today’s Korean."
- 49:36We take one Korean word or expression
- 49:39and just talk about that.
- 49:42Second, "Interesting Korean Stories."
- 49:45This could be about Korean culture, society, or history.
- 49:49Like Dangun mythology or Korea’s delivery culture.
- 49:54Things like that.
- 49:57The third section is more philosophical.
- 49:59It’s not directly related to Korean language or culture.
- 50:03But they’re topics that everyone, as humans, can relate to.
- 50:08That’s how we divide it up.
- 50:09Three different sections.
- 50:11So you don’t have to talk about just one thing for an hour.
- 50:15And now, many Korean language podcasts
- 50:20are following this format.
- 50:24You were ahead of your time.
- 50:26Really?
- 50:28Honestly, I don’t consume
- 50:30much online content.
- 50:32I rarely watch YouTube, don’t use Instagram much,
- 50:37and barely touch social media.
- 50:40So sometimes I wonder...
- 50:42"What have I been doing all day?"
- 50:46But anyway, even though I don't browse the internet much,
- 50:49or consume content there, I also don’t watch the news at all.
- 50:52I don’t watch the news, I don’t watch dramas.
- 50:54But somehow, I’m busy all day.
- 50:56And I don’t even know why I’m so busy.
- 50:57I should write it down.
- 50:59To track what I actually do all day.
- 51:01Oh, that’s similar to me.
- 51:03You don’t really watch stuff online, no dramas?
- 51:05I deliberately avoid them.
- 51:07I block certain sites on purpose.
- 51:10I hide the news tab.
- 51:12I deleted social media apps and only use them on my computer when necessary.
- 51:16This could actually be a really long discussion.
- 51:19The way we consume content online...
- 51:25It really affects our thinking, emotions,
- 51:31and even mental health.
- 51:32It has a significant impact, right?
- 51:35Talking about this could be interesting.
- 51:37Yeah, that’d be fun to discuss.
- 51:39Honestly, we could probably talk about this for an hour.
- 51:41Right, right. I totally agree.
- 51:43But today’s main topic is my Korean Immersion Program.
- 51:46And in that program, we actually talk about stuff like this.
- 51:48Of course, we explain Korean words.
- 51:50But more than that, it’s about real conversations.
- 51:53When people meet and interact naturally.
- 51:57When humans just talk to each other.
- 52:01It’s that kind of genuine conversation.
- 52:04The only difference is, the people speaking are Koreans.
- 52:06Of course, language barriers exist.
- 52:09That’s an undeniable fact.
- 52:10Koreans aren’t exactly fluent in English either.
- 52:12Most of them don’t speak it well.
- 52:15Considering the time and effort Koreans spend on English...
- 52:18our English proficiency isn’t as high as it should be.
- 52:22It’s definitely not at the level you’d expect.
- 52:26But even with those language barriers,
- 52:28people became close really easily.
- 52:33I actually asked the Korean participants about this.
- 52:35They got really close with each other.
- 52:37As I mentioned before, they kept meeting up even after the program.
- 52:40They went out for meals together, hung out.
- 52:44So I asked them, "If there were no foreign learners,
- 52:49do you think you would’ve become this close?"
- 52:52And they all said, "No, probably not."
- 52:55So I asked, "Why not?"
- 52:58And they told me that having the foreign learners there...
- 53:01made them feel a sense of responsibility.
- 53:04They wanted to help them have a good experience.
- 53:06Or to help them learn Korean better.
- 53:08They felt a sense of responsibility to do something.
- 53:11Like a shared mission among the Korean participants.
- 53:16It was almost like a common goal.
- 53:20And that goal brought the Koreans together.
- 53:24So they naturally got close through that.
- 53:28But if you just put random people together...
- 53:33without a purpose, mission, goal, or task...
- 53:36and say, "Go make friends"...
- 53:39that’s really difficult.
- 53:41Without a common focus, it’s hard to build relationships.
- 53:44Just putting people together and saying,
- 53:46"Figure it out yourselves" doesn’t work well.
- 53:52Unless they’re kids.
- 53:55Kids just start playing immediately.
- 53:58But adults are different.
- 54:00Earlier, we talked about personal values.
- 54:04"I am this kind of person."
- 54:06"I think this way."
- 54:08"I like this. I dislike that."
- 54:10Our values and opinions shape who we are.
- 54:15They form our identity.
- 54:17A strong, solid sense of self.
- 54:20And while that can be useful in life...
- 54:23it can also create barriers.
- 54:25If you put people together randomly,
- 54:28without a common goal,
- 54:29it’s hard to connect deeply.
- 54:36Our personal beliefs can sometimes block new relationships.
- 54:40Our identities, opinions, and preferences...
- 54:43They all create walls.
- 54:47That’s why kids make friends so easily.
- 54:50Because they don’t have those walls yet.
- 54:53They don’t have strong identities.
- 54:55Right.
- 54:56They don’t have rigid values yet.
- 54:59They haven’t fully developed opinions.
- 55:02They don’t have firm political or social beliefs.
- 55:07But adults do.
- 55:09That’s why this program worked so well.
- 55:11It gave people a shared goal beyond personal differences.
- 55:17And that common goal brought them together.
- 55:20They had fun for 10 days.
- 55:23That was the core of this program.
- 55:26But now I have a question.
- 55:32Did you ever have to step in and mediate conflicts?
- 55:38Of course, conflicts happen.
- 55:41When you have that many people together...
- 55:44Dozens of people.
- 55:45Yeah, naturally.
- 55:46When so many people are together for 10 days,
- 55:49of course, small conflicts and misunderstandings happen.
- 55:53That’s just natural.
- 55:54But surprisingly, it was all very minor.
- 55:58I never had to step in to mediate something serious.
- 56:01The participants handled things themselves.
- 56:04And I think that’s because...
- 56:06everyone was so open-minded and understanding.
- 56:10That was really impressive to see.
- 56:14People from different backgrounds, cultures, and languages...
- 56:17all coming together.
- 56:20And yet, they naturally resolved any small issues.
- 56:24That’s great.
- 56:25I think the key was...
- 56:28everyone entered with the right mindset.
- 56:31They were there to learn, to grow, and to connect.
- 56:35So even if there were small misunderstandings...
- 56:39they worked through them quickly.
- 56:42But there was one situation...
- 56:46where I almost had to step in.
- 56:50What happened?
- 56:52It was a cultural difference thing.
- 56:54One participant...
- 56:56accidentally offended a Korean speaker.
- 57:00But they didn’t mean to.
- 57:02They were just expressing themselves naturally.
- 57:06It was completely unintentional.
- 57:09But the Korean participant felt disrespected.
- 57:13So I checked in with them separately.
- 57:17And I explained that this was just a cultural difference.
- 57:20It wasn’t personal.
- 57:22Once I explained, they understood right away.
- 57:25Oh, that’s good.
- 57:28So it didn’t become a big issue.
- 57:30No, not at all.
- 57:32It was resolved quickly and peacefully.
- 57:36But it showed me how important cultural awareness is.
- 57:41That’s a really interesting point.
- 57:46People don’t always realize when they’re crossing a cultural line.
- 57:50Yeah, it’s never intentional.
- 57:53Most misunderstandings happen innocently.
- 57:56But small things can sometimes mean different things in different cultures.
- 58:00I remember one moment during the program.
- 58:03A foreign participant didn’t realize bowing is important in Korea.
- 58:07They casually greeted someone without bowing.
- 58:09And the Korean person was a bit surprised.
- 58:13But once they explained, "Oh, in Korea, bowing is polite,"
- 58:16the foreign participant immediately adjusted.
- 58:19They weren’t trying to be rude.
- 58:23They just didn’t know.
- 58:08That’s just a fake memory.
- 58:11It’s too artificial, too manufactured.
- 58:14It’s like...
- 58:16plugging my brain into a computer and saying,
- 58:18"Hey, AI, just give me good memories."
- 58:21It’s basically the same thing.
- 58:23I once read somewhere...
- 58:26you know fruit juice? Like juice.
- 58:28Orange juice, apple juice.
- 58:30People think it’s really healthy.
- 58:32And they drink a lot of it.
- 58:34But apparently, it’s not that good for you.
- 58:35I asked why, and they said it's because it’s separated.
- 58:39The pulp—so, the fiber.
- 58:41You need to eat it together with the juice.
- 58:43Even now, we don’t fully understand...
- 58:45what nutrients an orange contains.
- 58:47There’s still way more we don’t know about food...
- 58:51than what we do know.
- 58:54We know it has vitamin C.
- 58:55That’s good.
- 58:56That’s something we understand.
- 58:57But what else is inside this orange?
- 59:00What effect does eating a whole orange have?
- 59:02How does it actually impact our body?
- 59:04We don’t fully understand this yet.
- 59:07We don’t have all the answers.
- 59:10But we do know one thing.
- 59:12Eating an orange is good for you.
- 59:14It’s healthy.
- 59:15Eating an apple is good for you.
- 59:16But just drinking the juice from an orange...
- 59:19or only extracting the sweetness from an apple...
- 59:22can actually have negative effects.
- 59:25You need to eat the whole thing.
- 59:27Chew the apple, feel the texture.
- 59:29The peel isn’t as tasty as the inside.
- 59:31But apparently, the peel has so many nutrients.
- 59:34So, eating the whole fruit—even if it’s a bit dry...
- 59:38even if it’s not as sweet...
- 59:41is still better for you.
- 59:44And I think memories are the same way.
- 59:48You need to take them in as a whole.
- 59:50So, about whether conflicts happened...
- 59:54That was a long answer, huh?
- 59:56But it really makes you think. 1197 00:59:59,260 --> 00:59:01,910 I always feel responsible...
- 59:01for minimizing conflicts as much as possible.
- 59:05But in the end, you just have to let it be.
- 59:07Honestly, I used to have that pressure, too.
- 1:00:09So actually, conflicts in human relationships
- 1:00:13can be really stressful.
- 1:00:15But as someone organizing this event,
- 1:00:17of course, I wanted to minimize people's stress.
- 1:00:21So I thought, "Should I step in?"
- 1:00:25But everyone told me to just stay put.
- 1:00:28They said, "There’s nothing you can do."
- 1:00:30That’s what they told me.
- 1:00:33And honestly, it's not just for big events.
- 1:00:35The same goes for friendships too.
- 1:00:38For example, let’s say you have two friends.
- 1:00:40And those two get into a fight.
- 1:00:42They’re not on good terms anymore.
- 1:00:43They had an argument.
- 1:00:44You can’t take sides.
- 1:00:46Right, you can’t.
- 1:00:48And even if you sit them down together and say,
- 1:00:49"Hey, why are you guys like this?"
- 1:00:51"Just get along, okay?"
- 1:00:53I doubt that would really help.
- 1:00:56Of course, it’d be best if conflicts never happened, right?
- 1:01:01I used to think that way.
- 1:01:01I also really hated conflicts.
- 1:01:04I was someone who avoided them as much as possible.
- 1:01:08Of course, everyone dislikes conflicts.
- 1:01:10But I think I disliked them even more than most people.
- 1:01:14I just couldn't stand having conflicts with others.
- 1:01:17Actually, in my marriage,
- 1:01:20since my wife and I have been together for a long time,
- 1:01:22this became a problem.
- 1:01:25My wife told me,
- 1:01:26"Hey, there are so many married couples in the world, and they all argue sometimes."
- 1:01:33"But why is it that every time we argue,"
- 1:01:37"you act like it’s the end of the world?"
- 1:01:40"That reaction makes me even angrier."
- 1:01:41"And it actually worsens our relationship."
- 1:01:45"If we fight, we fight. That’s it."
- 1:01:47She told me this all the time.
- 1:01:50And now, looking back, I think she was right.
- 1:01:53Now that I reflect on it.
- 1:01:56So instead of thinking, "I must eliminate all conflicts,"
- 1:01:59"Bad things must be avoided,"
- 1:02:01"Everything should always be good and smooth,"
- 1:02:04whether it’s in a marriage, a friendship, or family relationships,
- 1:02:07I used to believe that.
- 1:02:10But now, I think differently.
- 1:02:14Just like how eating a whole apple is better.
- 1:02:18That’s an interesting realization.
- 1:02:19You should try picking a fight with your parents today. Just for fun.
- 1:02:24Oh, really?
- 1:02:25I used to fight a lot when I was younger.
- 1:02:27With your parents?
- 1:02:29Yeah.
- 1:02:31And honestly, even though I said otherwise earlier,
- 1:02:34I think I actually enjoy arguing.
- 1:02:39So whether I was traveling or anywhere else,
- 1:02:43if I felt something was unfair, I would challenge it.
- 1:02:48I’d argue back and question everything.
- 1:02:51With my parents too, I never backed down.
- 1:02:53I would keep arguing until I completely won.
- 1:02:56But after that, my family’s peace was broken.
- 1:03:00Happiness disappeared, and all that was left were scars.
- 1:03:04Still, don’t you think it was better
- 1:03:08to learn that lesson with your parents?
- 1:03:10If that happened later in marriage,
- 1:03:12the scars would be even deeper.
- 1:03:16It’s better to learn that lesson now.
- 1:03:21That’s true.
- 1:03:22It’s like I got early training.
- 1:03:25So as I said earlier, conflict
- 1:03:29isn’t always a bad thing.
- 1:03:32It has positive effects too.
- 1:03:34If I had to sum it up, I’d say it’s about learning.
- 1:03:39-Whenever conflict happens, -You grow.
- 1:03:41There’s always something to learn from it.
- 1:03:43And interestingly,
- 1:03:44nowadays, I don’t try to avoid conflict.
- 1:03:47For example, with my wife—
- 1:03:52I don’t actively try to please her either.
- 1:03:55I don’t go out of my way to do that,
- 1:03:57but we fight way less than before.
- 1:04:00We barely argue now—almost never.
- 1:04:04Before, I treated conflict like an allergy.
- 1:04:06I thought, "No matter what, I must avoid it."
- 1:04:07"Fighting is absolutely bad."
- 1:04:09But ironically, that led to even more fights.
- 1:04:12Now that I don’t overthink it,
- 1:04:14we barely fight at all.
- 1:04:17Honestly, I can’t even remember the last argument.
- 1:04:21It’s interesting—when you cling to something,
- 1:04:25it pushes further away.
- 1:04:28But when you let it go, it comes to you naturally.
- 1:04:32Things like harmony and love—
- 1:04:34they just come on their own.
- 1:04:36And I think it’s the same with language learning.
- 1:04:39If you become obsessed with learning Korean,
- 1:04:43like, "I must improve!"
- 1:04:46"I have to get better!"
- 1:04:48That mindset actually makes it harder to absorb.
- 1:04:51It slows down the learning process.
- 1:04:55But on the other hand, I don’t obsess over whether I’m good at Korean or not.
- 1:04:59It’s not that important to me.
- 1:05:03I just do it because it’s fun.
- 1:05:04And this person, without any pressure,
- 1:05:07spends 2, 3, or even 5 hours a day watching YouTube,
- 1:05:11reading, listening, and practicing.
- 1:05:15If they spend time with Korean in such a friendly way,
- 1:05:17then naturally,
- 1:05:20they’ll improve much faster.
- 1:05:24The moment they let go of the obsession with improving quickly,
- 1:05:29that’s when they truly grow.
- 1:05:31It’s all about relationships—relationships with people,
- 1:05:35and relationships with language.
- 1:05:38For a relationship to grow in a healthy way,
- 1:05:40you first need to let go of obsession.
- 1:05:43It’s similar to what Johnson said earlier about avoiding conflicts.
- 1:05:49Before, you treated conflict like an allergy and avoided it at all costs.
- 1:05:55And I used to be the opposite—addicted to conflict,
- 1:05:59hurting everyone around me.
- 1:06:01So between these two extremes,
- 1:06:05there’s a middle ground that’s more subtle.
- 1:06:09Truth is always somewhere in the middle.
- 1:06:11But it’s hard to pinpoint exactly where that is.
- 1:06:16And it changes slightly depending on different contexts.
- 1:06:22That balance is always shifting little by little.
- 1:06:26But society today demands clear-cut answers.
- 1:06:32People want a single, universal answer that applies to everything.
- 1:06:37A "right answer society."
- 1:06:39-"What’s the correct answer?" -"Exactly."
- 1:06:40"Tell me the right answer."
- 1:06:41-"Whose side are you on?" -"Exactly!"
- 1:06:43"Which side are you on?"
- 1:06:45"What’s your personality type?"
- 1:06:46"Are you introverted or extroverted?"
- 1:06:50"What’s your MBTI type?"
- 1:06:52People keep demanding clear labels.
- 1:06:54Right.
- 1:06:55But that actually creates more internal conflict.
- 1:07:03And even worse,
- 1:07:06it limits the range of experiences we have.
- 1:07:09Like saying,
- 1:07:11"From now on, I’ll only hang out with people who think like me."
- 1:07:13"I’ll only consume information that aligns with my views."
- 1:07:17"I’ll only watch YouTube videos I agree with."
- 1:07:19"I’ll only follow news that supports my beliefs."
- 1:07:22"I’ll only do what suits me."
- 1:07:24"I’ll only eat foods I already like."
- 1:07:27"I’ll just drink juice."
- 1:07:29"I don’t like apple peels."
- 1:07:31But is that really good for us?
- 1:07:34I have a lot of doubts about that.
- 1:07:35Right.
- 1:07:36Just like two weeks ago...
- 1:07:38when a 15-minute conversation turned into an hour and a half.
- 1:07:42Earlier, I thought, “Let’s not talk about vague topics.”
- 1:07:46But then, that topic hit me hard.
- 1:07:49Should we stop here?
- 1:07:50Should we just say goodbye and end it?
- 1:07:52No, no.
- 1:07:54How do you usually end your conversations?
- 1:07:56Usually, when the discussion lands naturally.
- 1:08:00Like when the topic safely "touches down."
- 1:08:02Then, I just say, “See you next week,” and wrap it up.
- 1:08:06I usually invite people back for another time.
- 1:08:09But are you not going to invite me?
- 1:08:10Of course, I will! I want to be invited myself!
- 1:08:14Come anytime!
- 1:08:15Like I mentioned earlier,
- 1:08:17it’s not easy to find Korean guests.
- 1:08:20Koreans are just too busy.
- 1:08:22Compared to Westerners, they have way less free time.
- 1:08:25That’s what I feel.
- 1:08:26Of course, Tae-woong, you’re kind of in a jobless phase.
- 1:08:30-I’m unemployed. -Yep, jobless.
- 1:08:31Not "kind of." I’m just fully unemployed.
- 1:08:33Being jobless is great.
- 1:08:36You’ll be busy working in the future anyway.
- 1:08:39Whether you get a job or start a business,
- 1:08:43you’ll work a lot eventually.
- 1:08:44So why not do what you love while you have the time?
- 1:08:48Right.
- 1:08:49People always say, "You must be productive."
- 1:08:54"You must always be producing something."
- 1:08:58Basically, it means,
- 1:08:59"You must make money."
- 1:09:01But that idea is kind of ridiculous.
- 1:09:04Where did that even come from?
- 1:09:06People think, "If you don’t make money, you have no value."
- 1:09:09But isn’t that a weird concept?
- 1:09:10Right.
- 1:09:12By the way...
- 1:09:13Where do you live?
- 1:09:14You live in Busan, right?
- 1:09:15Yeah, I live in Busan.
- 1:09:17Then next time,
- 1:09:18when I host the SpongeMind Korean Immersion Program,
- 1:09:21you’ll have to come to Seoul.
- 1:09:22I’ll probably only be doing it in Seoul.
- 1:09:25Of course, I’ll go to Seoul.
- 1:09:29Come on over!
- 1:11:45We need to have a proper discussion about this.
- 1:11:48Let’s dig deep into it.
- 1:11:50Yes, that’s right.
- 1:11:53This is what my subscribers have been wanting.
- 1:11:56Honestly, the name of this channel is so good.
- 1:11:58Comprehensible Input Korean.
- 1:12:01It's really great how it's specifically tailored for Korean learners.
- 1:12:05That concept is excellent.
- 1:12:08I think it's a brilliant idea.
- 1:12:10People probably subscribe
- 1:12:12just because of the channel name.
- 1:12:14Exactly, that’s what happens.
- 1:12:16Usually, people decide whether to subscribe
- 1:12:20after watching a few videos.
- 1:12:22They watch some content first.
- 1:12:23Then they make their decision.
- 1:12:25But in your case, I think
- 1:12:27some people just subscribe first
- 1:12:29and then check out the videos later.
- 1:12:33So in the next Comprehensible Input episode,
- 1:12:37we’ll discuss this more, but actually...
- 1:12:41I'm thinking about changing the channel name.
- 1:12:43Why? Why would you change it?
- 1:12:47- Are you changing it to "Incomprehensible Input"? - No, no, nothing like that.
- 1:12:51Should I talk about it now?
- 1:12:52Or save it for the next episode?
- 1:12:53Should I just give you a little hint now?
- 1:12:55Yes, go ahead.
- 1:12:58I think there should be more channels
- 1:13:02creating content based on Comprehensible Input.
- 1:13:07But I feel like I’m making it seem like it belongs to me alone.
- 1:13:12Why does that matter?
- 1:13:14Really? You think so?
- 1:13:16Isn’t life about competing with others?
- 1:13:19Just kidding, I don’t actually believe that.
- 1:13:22I don’t see it that way.
- 1:13:24But anyway...
- 1:13:26Changing a channel name isn’t easy.
- 1:13:29That’s true.
- 1:13:30It’s technically difficult.
- 1:13:31YouTube doesn’t really like it.
- 1:13:34And even subscribers don’t like it much.
- 1:13:37Because on Reddit or other forums...
- 1:13:38people talk about your channel.
- 1:13:40They say, "There’s this YouTube channel."
- 1:13:42"This channel makes these kinds of videos."
- 1:13:45"It’s run by a guy named Tae-woong."
- 1:13:47Then the other person asks, "What’s the channel name?"
- 1:13:50They say, "Comprehensible Input Korean."
- 1:13:52And at that point...
- 1:13:53That would end up giving people the wrong information.
- 1:13:56Right.
- 1:13:57If you change the channel name...
- 1:13:59I don’t think it would be a good idea.
- 1:14:03Of course, I’m not in a position to tell you what to do.
- 1:14:07But if it were me, I wouldn’t change it.
- 1:14:09Yeah, it’s not the best idea.
- 1:14:12Instead of that, you should focus on...
- 1:14:15making the content more comprehensible.
- 1:14:17How can the videos be even more comprehensible?
- 1:14:19I think that’s a better thing to think about.
- 1:14:21In my opinion...
- 1:14:24- That would be fun. - Thanks for the advice.
- 1:14:27There aren’t that many, actually.
- 1:14:29There aren’t that many comprehensible input resources.
- 1:14:32Creating them is really difficult.
- 1:14:34Yeah, it’s tough to make.
- 1:14:36For learners, it’s super helpful and easy to use.
- 1:14:41Exactly.
- 1:14:41But from the perspective of content creators or teachers...
- 1:14:45it’s really hard to make.
- 1:14:46It’s much easier...
- 1:14:48to just teach whatever you want to teach.
- 1:14:50- Let’s continue this in the Comprehensible Input episode. - Yeah, let’s save it for later.
- 1:14:56Should we wrap up for today?
- 1:14:57Yes, let’s end here for now.
- 1:14:58Before we lose control and this conversation stretches on forever...
- 1:15:05let’s conclude here.
- 1:15:07Sounds good.
- 1:15:08Today’s conversation was really special, fun...
- 1:15:12and full of useful information.
- 1:15:16I truly appreciate it.
- 1:15:17Next time, I’ll make it even more interesting.
- 1:15:19Oh, I’m really looking forward to it.
- 1:15:21And next week, I’ll be back with more...
- 1:15:24useful and engaging discussions.
- 1:15:27See you next week!
- 1:15:29See you next week!
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