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0:00Hello everybody. In today's video, I'm
0:02going to be sharing three Stoic
0:04principles I think every single man
0:06today should start applying in your
0:09life. Not only to attract quality people
0:12to you, but doing it from such an
0:15effortless place that you're going to be
0:17asking yourself why you haven't done
0:19this sooner. And the one key thing to
0:21remember, Stoic men do less yet attract
0:25more. And it's because of an energy they
0:27carry that makes them completely
0:30magnetic and the perfect level of
0:32mysterious that will leave women just
0:34wanting more. So, stay till the end of
0:36today's video so you can learn the three
0:39Stoic principles that will change your
0:40attraction and have women chasing you.
0:43But before we get into it, you guys, I
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0:50men who are willing to do the work, take
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1:02this is the place for you if you are
1:04wanting to invest your energy back into
1:07yourself so you can start seeing new
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1:15will be in the description and let's get
1:17into today's video. Now, to master the
1:19Stoic effect in your life, you need to
1:22be crystal clear on who you are as a
1:25man. One thing that separates Stoic men
1:28from the other men that are out there is
1:31their self-perception is so strong that
1:34another person's opinion of them doesn't
1:38break them, doesn't make them question
1:40who they are. They are so grounded
1:42within themselves that when someone does
1:44have a judgment or a criticism, they can
1:47take it, they can hear it, but it
1:49doesn't alter their perception. And
1:52that's one thing I really think men
1:54today could use more practice with is
1:56not being so affected, is to not allow
1:59the outside world to affect who you are.
2:03If anything, allow the outside world to
2:06give you the tests necessary to become
2:09who you are meant to be. By maybe and
2:12maybe the test I'm speaking about is to
2:15handle rejection, handle any setback
2:18with enough authority over what you're
2:21capable of that you are so determined to
2:24accomplish it. And it's interesting
2:26because stoic men don't always come
2:28across as the most confident people in
2:31the room. They're not the loudest,
2:33they're not the most showy, and they're
2:36not trying to show off the things they
2:38have. And that's something they don't do
2:40because yes, you may feel good showing
2:43off the things you have or talking this
2:45loud talk. But what you may not be aware
2:48of is usually men who do that are
2:50compensating for something that maybe
2:52they don't feel adequate within
2:55themselves. And they're looking for that
2:57external validation. And validation
3:00isn't something they necessarily need in
3:02their life. And the word validation
3:05isn't something they really need in
3:07their life. Because when a man can
3:09validate his own existence, he is proud
3:12of the work he's putting in and he
3:14doesn't need to have people cheering him
3:16on, clapping for him. He keeps his cards
3:19close to his chest and people have to
3:22earn and that's because people don't
3:24earn his trust easily. It's something
3:26he's willing to be patient with and not
3:29overexpose himself to get something in
3:32return. And I like to label this
3:34actually self-admiration,
3:37but it's not something that is
3:39ego-driven. And that's one key thing
3:41that you need to understand. Just
3:43because someone isn't being a show-off,
3:45isn't the loudest in the room, doesn't
3:47mean that they're insecure, doesn't mean
3:49they don't like themselves. And more so,
3:52it could actually just be showing other
3:54people that you're not going to wait in
3:56line to get their acceptance. It's
3:58something that you have gave to
4:00yourself. And the admiration you give to
4:02yourself is coming from actually a
4:05self-sufficient
4:06place. And that's also you being a
4:08self-sufficient man. Your energy is
4:11getting poured back into yourself. So,
4:13every single interaction you show up
4:16for, you're actually giving something
4:18that isn't shallow and that doesn't have
4:20any substance to it. You swim in deep
4:23waters. So, when you interact with
4:25people, you make them feel seen, you
4:27make them feel acknowledged, and you're
4:29not competing for attention. And the
4:31effect that that has on other people, in
4:34particular women, is that you become a
4:37man she equates to being high-value.
4:41You let her speak, you let her be heard.
4:44And when a woman can see a man being
4:46comfortable in himself and comfortable
4:49in silence, it's most likely because he
4:52has a strong relationship to self. That
4:55doesn't make him feel uncomfortable or
4:57awkward in social settings or when there
5:00is tension in the room. He can pierce
5:02through that with self-awareness that
5:04will not deprecate the relationship he
5:06has built to himself, which is why stoic
5:09men sometimes have a very hard time
5:11letting people close. It's not because
5:14they're cold or avoidant, it's because
5:17they're not going to give their best
5:18self to just any single person. And at
5:21the end of the day, they don't have
5:22anything to prove, which can make them
5:24actually appear even more confident
5:26because you're not playing into a
5:28character. If you're genuinely okay with
5:31yourself, your energy is going to be far
5:34different than the man that maybe seems
5:36like he has his life figured out, but at
5:38the end of the day, he is insecure
5:40because he's using the things and other
5:42people to validate something within
5:44himself he has never yet gave to
5:47himself. So, that is where stoic men
5:50have power. They are self-sufficient,
5:52they don't need another person's
5:54validation, and their self-perception is
5:57strong, which makes the admiration they
6:00feel towards themselves draw women in
6:03closer because your energy is
6:05high-value, and that's something that
6:08can't be fake. The second part to the
6:10stoic effect actually resides within a
6:13man's brain. And that's his ability to
6:16put mind over matter. The power this man
6:20possesses is actually in his ability to
6:23master his mind. And when a man doesn't
6:26have control over his urges and his
6:28temptations, then that man is not going
6:31to be showing up to his greatest
6:33potential. If you're allowing your
6:35distractions, maybe it's distractions,
6:39lust, temptations, then you will never
6:42reach your greatness, you will never
6:43reach your potential. And that's
6:45something stoic men would much rather
6:48spend time on is mastering their mind,
6:51so their mind doesn't have power over
6:54them, which means these things right
6:56here don't allow him to make decisions
6:59that are not going to be providing that
7:01man with any good in return. And his
7:04power will show through his ability to
7:07sit in silence, choose peace over chaos,
7:11use his discernment over instant
7:14gratification. And when he can choose
7:17these things over the distractions and
7:20things that are actually lowering his
7:23value, he is increasing that brain
7:25power. For not only that to change his
7:29life because your thoughts change your
7:31life. The things you put your belief
7:34into have a huge effect on your reality,
7:37which is why stoic men are not easily
7:40persuaded by the shiny things in life.
7:43And when a man is so focused on getting
7:45the next shiny thing and the next shiny
7:47thing, you're not actually appreciating
7:49what you have in front of you. And I
7:52think that's a really, really great
7:54trait within men. Especially nowadays,
7:56we live in a world with so much lust, so
7:59much temptation, so much distractions,
8:02all of these things, that it can
8:04actually put a huge divide into the
8:08center of your brain that actually wants
8:10to do hard things. If you're too
8:13comfortable, then you're just going to
8:14get comfortable results. That maybe is
8:17not something you're even wanting right
8:19now in your life, but it's just easy.
8:21Stoic men will never choose the easy
8:24path. They're in it for the long haul,
8:26and they understand that their pain is
8:29actually their greatest motivator.
8:31Without discomfort, pain, challenge, you
8:34won't get the signals that you need to
8:37move things in your life accordingly. To
8:40a place where you actually want to step
8:43up and be the creator of your life. And
8:45stoic men don't do it for the results of
8:48getting, like I said before, validation
8:50from other people. They do it because
8:52when they put their mind to something,
8:54their powerful mind, they are able to
8:57accomplish anything they want. And with
9:00that amount of confidence, that amount
9:03of energy being poured back into them,
9:05they're just a magnet to the outside
9:07world. And when it applies to women
9:10noticing that, she will see it just in
9:12your efforts, in your action, and how
9:15you move in silence, I think shows to a
9:18woman who you truly are as a man. The
9:20things you do that don't give you the
9:22payoffs right away, or don't give you
9:24the quick admiration men are looking
9:26for. You're okay not having that, and
9:29more so making yourself proud. And like
9:32I said, that being the motivator you
9:35need to actually get things done in your
9:37life that is not dependent on other
9:40people seeing you do that. And by a man
9:42mastering his mind, he can master his
9:45attention, he masters his focus, and
9:48that's the type of man women want to be
9:51around. Because when you're a man with
9:52self-control, you're a man that shows
9:55safety. And that is one of the primary
9:58things we as women need for there to
9:59even be long-term attraction. So, if
10:02you're already doing this in your life,
10:04kudos to you, even though you probably
10:06don't need it. But if you're a man doing
10:08things just to get attention from other
10:10people, just to get recognition, just
10:13question why you're doing that. Why do
10:15you need that? And could it just be
10:17putting a wedge in you receiving your
10:19very own self-admiration? That is
10:22self-sufficient, that comes from within,
10:24so you never have to beg for another
10:26person's attention. Now, the third and
10:28final step to the Stoic effect is
10:30understanding less is always more. And
10:35this is important because it showcases
10:38to a man that he can find appreciation,
10:42he can find substance in things he
10:45already has in his life, and he's not on
10:48the rat wheel of always needing more and
10:52more and more. He needs to do more to be
10:55a higher-value man. He needs to buy the
10:58car to get female attention. He needs to
11:00put everyone else before himself to get
11:03that approval. And I'm sure if you've
11:06been there, it is exhausting. And that's
11:09why Stoic men usually keep a small
11:12circle, or they're just to themselves.
11:15They don't need more company, more
11:18friends, more dating partners to feel
11:21complete in life. And having less of
11:23something usually means lacking of
11:26something in your life. But I think if
11:28you use your mind to serve you, then the
11:32less things you need, the more you're
11:34always going to have. And that applies
11:36to you no longer chasing things in your
11:39life. Instead, you use your energy, your
11:42life force energy to create things in
11:45your life no one can take away from you.
11:47And that's character development. Having
11:50less time to focus on yourself will most
11:53likely create more disadvantages that
11:55will keep you in this losing game of
11:58always needing more from other people.
12:01And that's the backwards way of going
12:03about it. Because when a man has
12:05everything, he usually cares less about
12:08what other people are going to give him.
12:11And that's really the theme of today's
12:12video if you haven't noticed. It's you
12:15can give yourself everything you're
12:17desiring. And when you get to that
12:20point, that's when things attract to you
12:23with this positive energy because you're
12:26no longer in this place of need. You're
12:28in this place of allowing. And when you
12:31care less about people or the things you
12:35want, you make more time for yourself
12:38and using action to get you to where you
12:42want to be. You're no longer waiting
12:44around for you to be this perfect man to
12:48then find a partner. You can see your
12:50qualities right now laid out in front of
12:53you. You can see what needs to change,
12:56what you're working towards, and what
12:58you can say you're proud of. And when a
12:59man has energy like that, he emits a
13:02very strong frequency to the outside
13:05world that women notice and honestly
13:08want a part of because you're not a man
13:11that is relying on her to give you
13:14something that you have not yet found
13:16within yourself. And stoic men have
13:18already found the gold, so they're not
13:20needing to waste their time looking for
13:23gold in other places. And that's the sad
13:25part of it. A lot of men are sitting
13:29with a sign begging for people's
13:31attention when the box they're sitting
13:33on has the gold inside and they just
13:36haven't opened the box yet. So, when
13:38this applies to your life, where are you
13:41not seeing clearly the gold already in
13:43your life? And why do you think you need
13:46more of something to make you feel
13:48better or more of a man? Focus on the
13:51simple things. Focus on your health.
13:53Focus on your wealth. Focus on the
13:55relationship you have with yourself and
13:58you will see different results take
13:59place because you're tending to your own
14:02garden and not watering another
14:05person's. When you can validate
14:07yourself, when you can admire yourself,
14:09when you can like yourself, you're not
14:11constantly in an energy of lack.
14:14Instead, you have this positive energy
14:17that is honestly magnetic, that shines,
14:20that radiates off of you, and people
14:24want to figure that out. People want to
14:26be a part of that because you're a man
14:29that quietly inspires others. You don't
14:32need to put another person down to feel
14:34better about yourself. You don't have to
14:36date so many people to make you feel
14:39worthy as a man. You can sit with
14:41yourself, make time for yourself, and
14:44you will gain so much more power in the
14:47world when it applies to your
14:48attraction, when it applies to your
14:50energy, your finances, your purpose
14:53because you're no longer discounting
14:55you. And that's something I think way
14:57more men really need to get a grasp on
15:00is giving yourself the energy that you
15:02so freely give to other people, other
15:05things, and and start getting real with
15:07yourself. Is it giving you the payoff
15:10you're looking for? Because most likely
15:12it's not giving you the payoff that
15:14could come from you prioritizing you and
15:17using what you have right now in your
15:19life to really affirm that less is more
15:23is not a bad thing. Always needing more
15:26is actually giving you less access to
15:29your own desirability. It could be
15:30giving you less energy, less time, less
15:34less resources because you're so focused
15:36on something that maybe if you looked
15:39closer, you already have. So, I really
15:42hope that today's video I could help you
15:44understand the effortless way to start
15:47attracting things into your life that
15:49yes, women for sure notice. It's an
15:52energy you give off that can't be faked.
15:54And the more you start applying these in
15:56your life, you will start feeling better
15:58about yourself as a man and the results
16:01you receive will just showcase the work
16:03you're willing to put back into you. So,
16:05if you guys like today's video, give it
16:07a like, hit the subscribe button and I
16:10will see you in my next one. Bye.

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