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0:10Hello my successful, serene, sassy,
0:15scrumptious,
0:18sexy, smart
0:21uh I'm trying to think of another sword.
0:25Super superb ses.
0:29It is I, Janelle. Welcome to the sesh.
0:33We have an exciting guest here because
0:35Kendall is not here for this recording.
0:38Kendall is
0:41struggling majorly. Okay. When it comes
0:43to third trimester, I'm sure you can
0:44imagine. She's getting ready to give
0:47birth here in uh I don't know what, like
0:50two months. And uh things are rough.
0:53She's just not feeling well. She wasn't
0:55doing well last week. Um, so she's not
0:59here for this week's recording, but
1:02I didn't leave that seat empty. Okay, we
1:05have our hilarious, happy, healthy,
1:11hygienic.
1:12>> Wow. Uh, uh,
1:16hypewoman Haley here. Thank you. Thank
1:19you. Hi, guys.
1:22Wow. Very good. Hi, guys.
1:25I I started I was I was I was trying to
1:28say hi. I was trying to brainstorm all
1:31of the words I could say with Janelle,
1:33but I'm drawing a blank. Jew jubilee.
1:38Joyous.
1:39>> Joyous.
1:41Jack of all trades.
1:42>> Our joyous jack of all trades.
1:46>> Jubilee. Jubilation. I don't know why.
1:49Juicy ass.
1:50>> Juiciest ass.
1:51>> Because Haley and I put in the gym.
1:53We've been hitting the gym hard. Gym in.
1:55It's glute day today, baby.
1:57>> It's glute day today. We'll be doing
1:59Juicy Janelle. Ju Juicy Janelle. Juicy.
2:02>> Juicy ass Janelle day.
2:05>> Uh yeah, it's not for the week. Okay.
2:07I'm trying to get a dumpy here. And
2:10Haley is constantly adding weights to
2:13our weight machines that I don't approve
2:15of. And she's like, "Oh, you did it."
2:18So, anyways, we're here. We're uh
2:21thriving, surviving, and I have sushi on
2:25my lap because Sydney had what is it?
2:30Tokyo Joe's. I keep calling it Trader
2:33Joe's. Tokyo Joe's for lunch and she
2:35gave me some of her sushi and I am far
2:38too lazy to eat it anywhere else. So,
2:39I'm eating it on our Lola blanket here,
2:42which I really hope I don't spill on.
2:43I'm trying to be very careful. I have a
2:46little baby dog in my lap. I have an
2:49assortment of drinks. I've got an Alani,
2:51a chocolate milk, and a water.
2:53>> Nice.
2:53>> Wow.
2:54>> Um, and yeah, we are here to provide
2:57some laughs and uh some Am I the
3:01[ __ ] which Haley has never
3:03participated in, but she is obsessed
3:05with Am I the [ __ ] Huge fan. I'm a
3:08huge fan. It is the It is my favorite
3:10content to partake in. I
3:15love Am I the [ __ ] Am I
3:18overreacting? Ask a manager if yall are
3:21real deep in Reddit.
3:23>> Um it's a um
3:26>> it's a thread.
3:27>> Thread is it's not thread. It's a it's a
3:30um
3:31>> subreddit.
3:31>> Yes. Thank you. It's a subreddit where
3:34you ask like workbased questions and
3:36like the people like managers respond.
3:40>> Huh. Interesting.
3:41>> Yeah. There's one that's an option. I
3:42don't know if we'll I don't know if if
3:45we'll be selected today, but I think you
3:48would love it.
3:49>> Okay.
3:49>> As our jack of all trades, Janelle.
3:51>> Jack of all trades, Janelle. That's
3:53right. That's right. Um Yeah. So, we got
3:55some Am by the [ __ ] We also want to
3:58talk about Traitors because that is all
4:00the rage right now. Uh and I've got some
4:04thoughts. These two are obsessed with
4:06the show.
4:07>> Yeah.
4:08>> Uh you guys were binging it all weekend,
4:11>> correct? Um, and I actually watched
4:14several episodes last night. Um, as well
4:17as an episode today. So, that's going to
4:20be a discussion. And yeah, we're just
4:21going to kind of have a chill, laidback,
4:24go with the flow, see where this episode
4:26takes us, uh, episode because that's
4:29what I wanted this week. Okay. I wanted
4:32to just hang out, kick back, and chat.
4:35Sometimes those are the best episodes to
4:38have.
4:40So yeah. Um, ladies, did you do anything
4:43fun this weekend? Anything to report?
4:45I locked in on traders. I love a Who
4:48done It? It's like if you took um Dude,
4:52if my brain doesn't turn on right now,
4:54>> Among Us.
4:55>> It's like if you took Among Us and mixed
4:57it with Clue and turned it into a show.
5:00I I don't watch TV. I can't really.
5:03She's I She's too good.
5:05>> No. Nobody cares. You don't get an award
5:07cuz you didn't watch TV. You know what
5:10this is from, right?
5:11>> Yeah. Yeah. You don't get a What is it?
5:12>> You don't get in I think it's like you
5:14don't get an award because you don't
5:15watch TV. Is that the actual quote? I
5:18thought it
5:18>> from Khloe Kardashian.
5:19>> I was mixing it up with the Wi-Fi one.
5:21Yeah.
5:22>> Don't watch TV. Like no one cares. You
5:25don't get an award cuz you watch less
5:27TV.
5:28>> She's like go out with a good selfie.
5:30We're all going to die anyways. It's not
5:32about the
5:35radiation.
5:36>> It's about the radiation.
5:42Oh, the radiation.
5:44>> No, but anyways, I don't I don't watch
5:45TV. Um, not because I'm too good for it,
5:48just because my raging ADHD does not
5:51have the attention span for it. Um,
5:53unless it is like absolutely like will
5:57draw me in. So, I watch Tell Me Lies.
6:00Any Tommy Lives fans, let us know in the
6:02comments cuz Sydney and I
6:03>> oh my god,
6:04>> we we had to make a group chat with my
6:06other friend just to discuss it cuz we
6:08are so obsessed with it. I would love
6:09for you to watch it. Unfortunately,
6:11there are two sad deaths in it.
6:13>> Is it reality TV?
6:15>> No, it is the most dramatic.
6:18Is it like soap opery?
6:20>> No, it's like
6:21>> like the modern day soap opera like less
6:23cheesy.
6:23>> Yeah. And like I don't know. It has a
6:25good story. I think you could watch it
6:27because
6:27>> No, no, guys.
6:28>> Oh, yeah. You're right. Okay. No, the
6:30second one. Yeah. No, no, we can't.
6:31>> Yeah. I won't get into spoilers, but if
6:34you've watched and you know Janelle's
6:36death phobia.
6:37>> Yes, that's would be bad.
6:38>> It's bad.
6:39>> If you know, you know, there's one
6:40that's not that bad, and that's the one
6:42where you're like, you can get past it.
6:44The second one is devastating.
6:46>> Oh, well, yeah. I won't be I won't be
6:48tuning in, unfortunately.
6:49>> Oh, no.
6:51>> But we traders has got me
6:54>> locked in. Locked and loaded.
6:56>> Actually, it's pretty good. Yeah. I had
6:58never watched it. Kendall watched last
7:00Did you watch last season?
7:01>> Yeah, last season was really good. I
7:04liked it a lot.
7:05>> It was with um what's uh Gabby?
7:07>> Gabby Wendy. Gabby Wendy.
7:09>> Derek Labasser.
7:10>> Tom Sandival. The iconic scene of him
7:13singing the lullabi backwards into the
7:15phone. Like
7:16>> Tom that just sounds like Okay. Tom
7:18Sandal is cuz I've watched Vanner Puff
7:21Rules. That guy is so [ __ ] unhinged.
7:23He pisses me off but it's like a train
7:25wreck you can't look away from.
7:26>> Yeah. So, I feel like I need to watch.
7:29And then Gabby Wendy is just like funny
7:31and she hated him. Of course.
7:33>> Of course she did. He
7:34>> So like them beefing.
7:35>> Of course she did.
7:36>> Amazing.
7:37>> He sucks.
7:38>> He's like also withdrawing and so he's
7:40like sweating through his shirts like
7:43that.
7:43>> God. Yeah.
7:44>> He's withdrawing.
7:45>> That's what everyone said. Okay. All
7:46right. All right. Allegedly.
7:48>> I didn't know.
7:48>> Everyone said he was like withdrawing
7:49from Coke the whole time or something.
7:51>> Oh wow.
7:52>> Wish him well on that. Um,
7:56yeah, Traitors is is a good show, but
7:59there's some [ __ ] tea because they
8:01decided to put a cast member on there
8:03who has a horrible
8:06past of
8:09terrible ar harassment, stalking. Um,
8:14very very scary. And in my opinion, he's
8:16getting the good guy at it. And I'm not
8:20happy about it. Yeah. Well,
8:24I have a lot of opinions on that, man. I
8:26do. Um, so here here's the thing.
8:30Obviously, so
8:31>> we're talking about Colton, by the way.
8:32>> We're talking about Colton Underwood.
8:33>> Underwood.
8:34>> So, for those who haven't watched
8:35Traitors, they bring on cast members um
8:39into a house from all sorts of different
8:43shows. So, we have Love Islanders, we
8:46have Real Housewives, Real Housewives.
8:48Obviously, we have RuPaul's RuPaul's
8:50Drag Race,
8:51>> Vanderpump, Big Brother,
8:53>> all walks of life. Um,
8:55>> all walks of TV life,
8:57>> comedians, singer, songwriters, uh,
9:00athletes, we've got Olympic, uh,
9:03skaters. And so obviously like last
9:07season they people were already a little
9:09annoyed that they brought Tom Sandival
9:12on cuz they're like why are you giving
9:13this guy a platform?
9:15>> But it's a different kind of thing where
9:16people were annoyed like don't give him
9:17a platform cuz he's a bad person. Not
9:21>> whereas this they really took it to a
9:22next level of giving a bad person a
9:24platform. So I guess we kind of should
9:27have seen it coming but still bad on
9:29them for doing this. Um,
9:32>> also I was going to say is I kind of get
9:34what you're saying with the good guy
9:35edit. I also feel like he's just one of
9:38the main characters they're focusing on.
9:41>> Yeah. He all of a sudden just really
9:43ramped himself up into um like the main
9:50topics of discussion because he just
9:51decided to insert himself into
9:54>> everything. Um yeah, that's definitely
9:57the vibe I'm getting. Like I said, I
9:59haven't watched all of the cuz there's
10:01seven episodes out right now, I think.
10:04>> Um, and then they're releasing more. Do
10:06we know when we're the quests are coming
10:08out?
10:08>> I think they come out on Thursdays.
10:10>> Is it just one at a time?
10:13>> I don't know exactly
10:14>> because Oh, it might be actually.
10:15>> That's annoying.
10:16>> I think it is.
10:17>> Well, anyways. Um, yeah. So, the not all
10:20the episodes are out right now. So, um,
10:23you guys are all caught up. I'm not
10:25fully caught up, but I watched episode
10:27one, two, three,
10:29and five. Oh, five. I skipped to five
10:32because that's when a lot of like the
10:33Colton drama goes down.
10:35>> Yeah.
10:35>> Um but
10:37>> Oh, so they kind of did an interesting
10:40>> Oh, it looks like weird.
10:42>> So now after Yeah. After 6, they are
10:46each I think that's each week. But they
10:48did like one, two, three at on January
10:508th.
10:51>> Oh.
10:52>> And then four, five on the 15th. Okay.
10:55>> So,
10:55>> interesting.
10:55>> So, yeah, the next one comes out on the
10:575th. Episode.
11:00Yeah.
11:01>> Yeah.
11:01>> Episode 8 comes out on the on February
11:045th.
11:05>> This Thursday.
11:06>> Um,
11:08>> tomorrow when this goes up.
11:10>> Mhm. We'll have to tune in for sure.
11:13>> But, um, do you want to like kind of
11:15give a little bit of a general
11:16preparator
11:20as like the general gist of like what
11:22the show is? Um and then we'll jump into
11:25who Colton like is and why this is
11:30diabolical
11:31problem.
11:32>> So basically um can you look up what the
11:35exact number is that they start with?
11:37>> Yeah, for US version specifically
11:39seasons 3 and four typically starts with
11:4023 contestants.
11:41>> 23 contestants. Okay. So it's this huge
11:45mystery castle in Scotland. They bring
11:48in 23, at least this season, contestants
11:51from all different TV shows. Um, and
11:56they're basically doing a who done it,
11:58murder mystery type of game show. Um, so
12:03in that cast, there are a select few who
12:08will be secretly chosen as the traitors.
12:10The traitor's goal is to quote unquote
12:14murder um faithfuls and the the
12:18faithfuls are everyone else in the
12:20group. They have no idea who the
12:21traitors are. And their goal is to
12:24figure out who the traders are and get
12:25them eliminated because at the end of
12:27the game um they will have racked up
12:29money and if any traders are left in the
12:32group undiscovered um they will leave
12:35with all the money and if there are no
12:37traitors left in the group by the end of
12:39the show the faithfuls get all the
12:41money. So
12:44basically the faith it's just a big
12:46murder mystery. The faithfuls are trying
12:48to figure out the traitors. Every day
12:49there's a round table. the roundts will
12:52kind of get to that cuz they're heated.
12:54Which honestly
12:56I could like skip the entire thing and
12:58just watch the round table then you're
13:00not invested.
13:02>> The round table I like the round table
13:05because
13:06>> you want the
13:06>> usually like but usually in reality TV
13:09especially when it comes to like
13:11competition shows everyone just talks
13:12behind each other's backs obviously
13:14because they don't want to like put
13:16>> like get blood on their hands or like
13:17put a target on their back. Whereas
13:19this, they all literally sit at this
13:21table and just like point fingers at
13:23each other and that's why I love
13:25everyone of being a traitor or lying or
13:28whatever and it gets heated. I love it
13:31because I love that kind of style. I
13:32love the direct to your face
13:35>> lying commiserating.
13:37>> I love it. So every day they have
13:40missions. The missions are where the
13:42whole group goes out and they're doing
13:44these different challenges to rack up
13:46money for that prize pot for the end of
13:48the game. Um, and then they come back
13:51and drama's happening cuz they're all
13:53living together. They're all doing the
13:54challenges blah blah blah. And they come
13:56back at the end of the day they're doing
13:57a round table. This is where the whole
13:59group. I think for actually at the end
14:01of the day they sometimes they come back
14:02and they kind of all chat and I think
14:05it's like
14:06>> because that you know like when they're
14:07all having drinks and they're walking
14:08around the house and they're kind of
14:09getting feelers of like
14:10>> who did this or talking you know what I
14:12mean like when they're chatting and then
14:13they think they do the round table right
14:15>> yeah there's definitely time in between
14:17um but the general layout of the day
14:20yeah they do a mission they socialize
14:22end of the day there's a round table and
14:25um they basically discuss who they want
14:28to vote out as who they think is a
14:32traitor that day. And when you vote
14:34someone out, they reveal if they're a
14:36traitor or faithful. It's very dramatic,
14:39but people have so many different
14:41opinions. There's lies, yelling.
14:44>> The show is ridiculously dread.
14:47>> Oh.
14:47>> Oh.
14:50>> Like the editing is ridiculous. It's
14:53like it is so
14:55>> it's like medieval cuz obviously they're
14:57in this old castle.
14:59>> So it's Yeah, the editing is absolutely
15:02absurd.
15:03>> Iconic,
15:06>> amazing.
15:07>> And then every night the traitor
15:10secretly meets and quote unquote kill a
15:15faithful.
15:16>> Yeah.
15:17>> And that's it. Every day it's just a
15:19cycle of that. In the morning, they come
15:20to breakfast and they find out who the
15:22traitor's killed because that person
15:23does not show up to breakfast. That is
15:25the gist. And among those like they like
15:28>> meet at this breakfast table and they
15:30they like put in a handful of people at
15:32once so you can't tell exactly who's not
15:34coming and all of them like
15:36>> and I love that. Like how even thought
15:38of that to only release them in batches
15:40so it's like suspenseful. So good.
15:42>> But their reactions are so dramatic.
15:44They're like they're like
15:46>> and they bang on the door. They're like
15:50And then the host who I can't stand.
15:52What is his [ __ ] name again?
15:53>> I love him. He was the leader of the
15:55thumbs in Spy Kids.
15:58>> I can't believe you remembered him from
15:59that. I was
16:00>> I didn't I didn't. Janelle looked him up
16:02and I said, "Oh my god, of course."
16:04>> Alan [ __ ]
16:05>> Oh yeah.
16:05>> He's just like plays it up obviously,
16:09but he's a little annoying to me, but
16:10whatever. Is his
16:11>> You don't think he's actually like that?
16:13All like he's acting.
16:15>> Yeah, he's acting. I'm just kidding.
16:17Can anyone find out if that's a real
16:19accent? Cuz it's giving fake and I'm
16:20just wondering why he's doing a fake
16:22accent.
16:23>> Uh he was he's a Scottish character,
16:26director, producer, writer, no. He's
16:28>> Oh, it's real. Yeah.
16:29>> Okay. I sincerely apologize.
16:31>> He's from Scotland. He was born there.
16:34>> Oh my god.
16:35>> He I think he lives in the UK.
16:37>> I am so sorry. I've been doubting him.
16:39I've been literally hating his accent
16:40this whole time cuz I thought it was
16:41fake.
16:42>> I'm sure he plays it up a little bit,
16:44you know, for the show. Anyways, so
16:46imagine being stuck in a house with all
16:49these reality TV people. You trust the
16:51casting to make sure you're safe living
16:54in this house and you find out
16:57you've got Colton Underwood under your
16:59nose.
17:00>> A stalker.
17:02>> Mhm. A a crazy unhinged [ __ ] honestly.
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19:27Okay, so here's some background if you
19:30don't know who he is. So before he went
19:32on reality TV, before he was on
19:34Bachelor, he played briefly for the NFL
19:38and he spent time with the San Diego
19:40Chargers, the Eagles,
19:42and the Raiders. Side note, that's my
19:44team. [ __ ] the Eagles and [ __ ] the
19:47Patriots. I hate them both and I hate to
19:50say this.
19:53Um, but I think I'm going to have to
19:55root for the Seahawks
19:57this Super Bowl. That was so random
19:58because I hate the Patriots so much.
19:59>> I love their colors though.
20:01>> What? Patriots? No,
20:02>> the Seahawks. Oh, the Seahawks. Yeah,
20:04they're so iconic.
20:05>> Yeah. Anyways, okay. So,
20:08um, he he was a squad player, so he was
20:10on like the practice squad, so he never
20:12actually like played during a regular
20:14season game, but regardless, he was an
20:15NFL player, blah blah blah. And
20:20I I will say,
20:23keep that in mind going forward because
20:26as we talked about last week with Heated
20:29Rivalry, my beloved show that I love so
20:31much, which Haley said isn't that good,
20:33which broke my heart to believe. No, you
20:35said it was a little boring. And I'm in
20:37respecting I respect your opinion.
20:38>> Don't throw me under the heat.
20:40>> Wrong opinion. Heated.
20:44>> You're a rivalry.
20:45>> And we're having a rivalry.
20:46>> And we're having
20:47>> And we're having a rivalry.
20:50>> Absolutely.
20:51>> She just said she needs more from
20:52Michelle. I said, "What else do you
20:54want?"
20:54>> Like I just said, it it it can't be like
20:56It's so sweet.
20:58>> What more do you want?
20:58>> It's so It's such amazing
21:00representation. It's so well made. It's
21:03like phenomenal casting. Like I'm not
21:05doubting any of that. Yeah. I'm just
21:07bored. It's too wholesome.
21:08>> Yeah. It's too wholesome. She said,
21:10>> which like I can't really All I want is
21:12wholesome in my life. But maybe that's
21:13why you watch Tell Me Lies and I watch
21:15Heated Rivalry as long and as well as
21:18every show that I've watched a million
21:20times. Mhm. Anyways, um but as we had
21:23spoken last week, which this is kind of
21:26obvious, but in professional sports or
21:29really just sports in general, um there
21:31is of course a stigma around players of
21:34the LGBTQ community. And many of them
21:37are closeted and do not feel comfortable
21:40um coming out to their um teammates for
21:44fear of retaliation or um you know being
21:48treated differently or seen as not as
21:51you know strong of an athlete. So keep
21:54that in mind. Now after the NFL he
21:58entered the Bachelor Nation on the
22:00Bachelorette during Becca uh Kufrin. I
22:04never watched this season, but um he did
22:08make it to uh the final four in season
22:1014. That's a pretty big deal because
22:13there's like 20ome people I think that
22:16started off.
22:17>> It it some of those older seasons were
22:18like closer to 30.
22:21>> Yeah, true.
22:23Um but yeah, even then there were
22:25already some side eyes around Colton
22:27because during episode two it came out
22:29that Colton had a prior connection with
22:30Tia Booth, who's Becca's close friend.
22:33Actually, now that I'm thinking about
22:34it, yeah, I know who Becca is. Yeah.
22:36Yeah. Um
22:38>> I'm sure you've seen some of them on
22:39like in Paradise cuz that's
22:41>> she was in Paradise and she ended up
22:43marrying Thomas.
22:46>> Uh is that his name?
22:48>> But she Yeah, she's with him now from
22:50Paradise. I I wasn't sure about her in
22:53Paradise and I love them now because
22:55>> her now husband got the villain edit
22:58>> and now is like such a wholesome guy.
23:00>> Oh yeah. Thomas Jacobs.
23:02>> Mhm. Yeah, love Paradise.
23:04>> Oh, yeah. I remember. Yeah, I So, that's
23:06how I knew her because Yeah, I watched
23:08that season of Paradise.
23:10>> Um, and Tia is so hot.
23:12>> Okay. Then did you see um I know Colton
23:14was on Paradise at some point. Um I
23:17believe too. So, wondering if maybe that
23:20or I mean they go on multiple seasons so
23:22>> probably. But
23:24>> I can't remember though.
23:24>> Yeah. But anyways, yeah, it came out
23:27that he had a prior connection a
23:29connection to Becca's close friend who
23:31again her name is Tia Booth. Um, which
23:33made people question obviously, "What
23:35are your real intentions?" Which is the
23:37the the favorite line in the Bachelor
23:39franchise. What are your intentions? Do
23:41you have good intentions? I'm just not
23:42sure of their intentions. I don't think
23:44they have the best intentions. I don't
23:45think their intentions are pure. And
23:48people were like, I don't think Colton's
23:49intentions are pure. So, he eventually
23:53made his way back into the Bachelor
23:55Nation and was cast as the Bachelor for
23:58season 23 and 2019.
24:01And this season had a very messy and
24:04very dramatic ending. Okay, so Cassie
24:06Randolph, who was clearly his front
24:08runner, decided to leave the show
24:10because she said she felt overwhelmed
24:12and um wasn't able to like commit to an
24:15engagement and realized that she was not
24:18in love with him enough to continue on.
24:21So she bails and after she leaves,
24:24Colton then quits the show. He's like,
24:25"Okay, well, I'm out." He literally
24:27jumps a [ __ ] fence.
24:28>> This is such an iconic moment. So like
24:31even if you didn't wa I I didn't watch
24:34Bachelor yet at this time and it was
24:36everywhere like the actual like I'm sure
24:39you'll insert the clip or the picture.
24:42>> Probably. Yeah, we'll insert the
24:42picture.
24:43>> Just a picture. So funny.
24:44>> It is. It's iconic. He literally jumps a
24:47[ __ ] like 6ft fence.
24:49>> And then
24:50>> he's 65, by the way.
24:51>> And then Chris Harrison goes, "Oh." And
24:53then he he jumped the fence.
24:58>> You can't make this [ __ ] up. Oh, you
25:00need some gloss.
25:01>> He's very emotional. He's like a like
25:03>> What's his sign?
25:04>> Oh,
25:05>> um I don't know. Let's look. So anyways,
25:08he hops the fence
25:11and then he breaks it off with two
25:13finalists and ultimately left because
25:16he's in love with Cassie and Cassie
25:18bailed on his ass, but he's like, "I
25:19don't care. I'm coming for you, baby. I
25:21love you. I have to be with you." He's
25:22an Aquarius. Oh my god.
25:26I You know what? Everyone who knows, you
25:30know, so most women have been terrorized
25:32by an Aquarius man.
25:33>> Have they?
25:34>> I don't know.
25:34>> I've been All right. I do it to myself,
25:36but I've been terrorized by four Aquar
25:41Hotel Motel.
25:43>> Hotel Motel was an Aquarius. Um Arch
25:46Nemesis recently was an Aquarius.
25:48>> Um and
25:51um my abusive exquis.
25:54And the hottest high school boyfriend I
25:57had was an Aquarius.
25:59>> What was I sign?
26:01>> Scorpio sun and moon.
26:02>> Right. But you guys know about Ick. If
26:04you don't know about it, go back. Well,
26:06>> guys, oh my god, we're almost at the
26:07oney year anniversary of that.
26:09>> We are almost at the one Valentine's
26:10Day.
26:12>> Oh god, that's crazy. You know, um,
26:15>> would you ever want to talk about like
26:20your crazy dating like date
26:22>> Oh, absolutely. date stories. If you
26:23guys ever want to hear some funny ass
26:26dating [ __ ] I can't I I All right. So,
26:29I love and hate that I don't really
26:32attract normal people.
26:35>> And it's because I don't like very I
26:38don't like normal people. I just like
26:39I'm a very eccentric personality and if
26:41they can't keep up, it doesn't like I
26:43don't feel the chemistry. That leads to
26:46some ridiculous
26:48experiences. I just had a man take my
26:50sock off while I was talking to him at
26:52his house.
26:53for no reason.
26:54>> What? I didn't hear
26:56>> socks. You didn't hear this? He peeled
26:58my sock off in the middle of me talking
27:00to him.
27:01>> Why?
27:02>> I wasn't allowed to wear socks in his
27:03house
27:03>> and Haley was like, "Hello." And he's
27:05like, "Oh." Anyways, let us know if you
27:08ever want to hear that,
27:09>> you guys. Her story.
27:10>> We could do a dating in Denver segment.
27:12>> So funny. Or like the
27:15>> What? I I never know where you're going
27:16when you
27:17>> profile guy with the pictures that was
27:18like um I like when women cry or
27:21something.
27:21>> Oh. My god.
27:24>> Was like the scariest hinge picture I've
27:26ever seen in my entire life.
27:28>> Oh, he was like I think I remember that.
27:29>> He was like begging for forgiveness,
27:32preferably crying or something. I was
27:33like,
27:35>> it's it's it's wild. The [ __ ] that Haley
27:37tells us is like so funny. Yeah. The
27:39fact that you have someone named Hotel
27:41Motel.
27:42>> Hotel Motel. That one.
27:43>> We We naturally have nicknames for
27:44everybody.
27:45>> Yeah.
27:47>> Anyway, how do we get on this? Oh, the
27:49signs.
27:50>> Yes. an Aquarius man terrorizing Cassie.
27:52>> Yes. Yes.
27:53>> Not surprising.
27:54>> Okay, so the show ends and they actually
27:56start dating. They date for about a year
27:58and a half after the show, but things
27:59did not end up working out. Both of them
28:01post on social media announcing that the
28:03breakup had happened and they said that
28:06they were going to remain friends, but
28:07that was absolutely not the case because
28:10he ends up going [ __ ] whack on her.
28:13Okay. In September of 2020, she ends up
28:16filing a temporary restraining order
28:18against Colton for stalking her. And you
28:20guys,
28:24what he did was so diabolical that I
28:28This is what makes me like, how the [ __ ]
28:30did they decide to put his ass on a
28:32show? So, according to the restraining
28:35order, Colton stalked Cassie for months.
28:38Um, he allegedly put a device tracker on
28:41her car, sent her harassing text
28:44messages to her, her family, and her
28:46friends. And, uh, let's go ahead and
28:50read some of these alleged texts Colton
28:51sent to Cassy's brother specifically.
28:55So,
28:57he says, "She went on The Bachelor, the
28:59same show that caused me anxiety and
29:02depression for nearly a year. She knew
29:04that show [ __ ] with me in ways no one
29:06else knew. It messed with her, too. We
29:09agreed to not talk about the breakup,
29:11and the first place she took it was the
29:13same people who harassed and abused me
29:15for a year. I know, you know, Cassie,
29:17and so do I. She is a kind-hearted
29:20person who wants to be loved. She just
29:22did it at my expense at the time. I have
29:25no one else in my life to talk to about
29:27this. This is to her brother. I moved to
29:29California to be closer to her and feel
29:31a part of your family. I don't have that
29:34anymore. I have no support system out
29:36here. and that one person who gets me
29:38doesn't want to be with me. I know I had
29:40plenty of issues or flags for your fam
29:42to deal with, but I'm not used to this
29:44either. I needed the same grace Cassie
29:47got, and instead I took the blame for
29:49most of it. This is hard and confusing
29:52and lonely as [ __ ] And then Cassy's
29:55brother responds and says, "To be
29:56completely honest, man, this isn't a
29:58conversation that I feel like I could
29:59totally have right now. Not really sure
30:01I can talk too much on this topic slash
30:03talk for her. It's just something you
30:05guys will have to talk and figure out.
30:07But as far as being lonely in regards to
30:09talking to someone about this, I'm
30:10sorry, man. That's a hard place to be,
30:12and I'm here if you need a call. But I'm
30:14not going to sit here and text back and
30:15forth about this. Just not my place.
30:17Let's read some texts from Colton to
30:20Cassie's friends. He says, quote, "I am
30:23sober. I also live the toxic path for
30:25nearly 2 years. I know you see the best
30:28in people, as do I. I've tried for too
30:30long. She is a lost soul." Reflecting
30:32back on all the red flags I ignored
30:34throughout our relationship is what's
30:36killing me. I promise I'm not crazy like
30:38Kayn. I'm just more aware and not afraid
30:40to say anything. I've held my tongue on
30:42a lot of stuff and saved her multiple
30:44times. I've always put her first in
30:46everything I did. Want to know what I
30:48got in return? Her seeing Landon, a guy
30:50who [ __ ] her in her own home against
30:53her parents' wishes. I won't be
30:55embarrassed anymore. She can go on
30:57national TV and talk about something I
30:59begged her not to do, but this will be
31:01her last. She's an abuser. In fact, her
31:03parents should know all this since they
31:05help her make the decisions with half
31:07the answers and half truth. Now, here's
31:10some alleged text from Colton sent to
31:12Cassie herself. He says, quote, "I'm not
31:16like your ex. I'm not going to sit
31:18around and let you you let you use and
31:20abuse me. This playbook is all too
31:22familiar. I'm praying for you and hoping
31:24you have a deep dive within yourself and
31:26your motives with the people in your
31:28life. You have a good heart and good
31:29people in it. I hope you don't drive
31:31them away. It's crazy to think we used
31:32to be in a position of love. I ask
31:34myself all the time how someone who I
31:36loved and loved me could do these things
31:38they do and say these things they say.
31:41And then she says, "What caused this?
31:43Why are you so angry? Can't deal." And
31:45he says, "You would ditch Linda in a
31:47second if a new opportunity came up." Do
31:49you know who Linda is?
31:50>> Her friend.
31:51>> Oh, right. Yeah. Yeah. Her. She says,
31:52"Fuck off. [ __ ] you for saying that.
31:54[ __ ] off. Linda is my friend." He says,
31:56"Because you're a selfish person who
31:58isn't ready to be loved. I spent two
31:59years loving you the best I could, and
32:02now I'm sitting here feeling like a
32:03fool. You've hurt me beyond words. I've
32:05always done nothing but be there for
32:07you, and you still disrespect me all the
32:09time. It's embarrassing. I'm over it."
32:10And she goes, "What did I even do?" And
32:13then he says, "You hid things from me
32:15and been so shady." And then he follows
32:18up with, "I apologize for some of the
32:20things I said last night. I'm lost right
32:21now. I'm drowning. And And this part is
32:24kind of confusing. I wanted to say is so
32:27it's kind of hard to see, but these it
32:29looks like these are the texts that he
32:31sent to um her friend up here. Like she
32:33was like her friend screenshotted them
32:35and sent them to Cassie to Cassie.
32:37>> And it looks like Cassie sent them to
32:40>> to be like, "Why are you saying this
32:41[ __ ]
32:42>> about me to my friend?"
32:44>> So it's the screenshots that I just
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34:47And here are some other ones he
34:48allegedly sent to Cassy's friends.
34:52To Linda to Yeah, to Linda specifically.
34:55He says, "You think you know Cassie? You
34:57do know she's just in it for the fame.
34:59We heard her mom set this all up. Can I
35:02just say reading this
35:05I like it's not only neurotic
35:10but it's kind of giving like
35:15I'm going to say something crazy. It's
35:17kind of it's giving abusive. This is
35:19verbal abuse and he's to her he's
35:23manipulating her friends. It's giving
35:25like when you upset an abuser how the
35:30way they lash out.
35:32>> Yeah.
35:32>> And honestly, it's I I saw people
35:35bringing it up and we'll get into it
35:37later with his behavior, but like
35:39stalking directly is a relation to
35:42domestic violence. And he he did not hit
35:44her. He claimed it. She claimed it. But
35:46I'm just saying that there's a lot of
35:48mental abuse that goes into these kinds
35:51of things sometimes. And I I this is
35:54very scary behavior to see.
35:57>> I think that he's gaslighting the [ __ ]
35:59out of her
36:00>> and calling her an abuser for texting an
36:02ex and talking to her friends
36:04>> and like trying to confuse her and make
36:06her potentially think like, "Oh,
36:08>> am I in the wrong in this situation and
36:11like questioning her reality or what
36:13really happened and controlling he wants
36:15to control the way the people closest to
36:18her see her. That is so he's that's
36:20isolating. He's trying to isolate her
36:22from her closest people.
36:23>> Yeah. Yeah.
36:26So, during one of the alleged stalking
36:27incidents, Cassie said that when she
36:29went to visit her parents in Huntington
36:31Beach, her brother saw Colton lurking in
36:33their alleyway at around 2:00 a.m. at
36:36her parents' house.
36:39That is so creepy. Um, she also received
36:43these texts from Colton when she was at
36:45home. He says, "You like playing games,
36:48huh? Let's play some games then. Let's
36:51just say we used to be family friends.
36:53Be young. Have your good time. You'll
36:55have nothing but regrets later with how
36:57you treat people. Smiley face. Smiley
36:59face. Totally seems like you're growing
37:01up. LOL's
37:03[ __ ] God. How big is your wiener? An
37:05inch long. Uh, living at home still. Wo.
37:10So, is that when he was texting acting
37:12like it wasn't him from those burner
37:14phones and stuff?
37:16I'm not exactly sure if that's like the
37:18alias, but there was just a lot of that
37:21where he Yeah. was texting from
37:23different aliases and whatnot. It looks
37:25like um in the messages that we just
37:28read.
37:28>> Yeah. Yeah. Up there it's him.
37:30>> Yeah. This one is from a court doc
37:32>> because he literally got a burner phone,
37:36you guys.
37:36>> Multiple.
37:37>> Multiple. and was texting her from the
37:41burner phone and texting himself from
37:46said burner phone to make it look like,
37:47"Oh my god, I'm being harassed too by
37:50this rando."
37:52So [ __ ] creepy. Um, another incident
37:55was when Cassy's friend Kayn visited her
37:57at her apartment and Colton somehow knew
38:00and was obsessively calling and texting
38:02her about it. Cassie says she was
38:03startled Colton knew who was coming in
38:05and out of her apartment and felt like
38:08she was being watched.
38:09>> Dude, imagine that. Imagine like having
38:11a friend over and your psychotic ex
38:13texts you, "Why is Janelle in your
38:16house?
38:16>> I see her coming in and out."
38:18>> Um, that's so creepy. I'd be like,
38:21"Wait, do you have like cameras here?"
38:23That's insane.
38:24>> Why are you sitting outside of my
38:25[ __ ] house?
38:28Yeah, cuz she doesn't. He's either
38:29sitting outside, he's got cameras, there
38:31could be a device like what if he tapped
38:33her phone? You don't know.
38:34>> Yeah, that's so scary.
38:36>> He also allegedly created multiple
38:38Reddit accounts trash talkinging Cassie
38:40to make himself look better during and
38:42after the relationship. What the [ __ ] is
38:44wrong with you?
38:45>> Giving 13-year-old in a middle school
38:47like relationship.
38:49>> That is insane. And
38:52other people do this. Like other people
38:55create Reddit accounts. Reddit is the
38:57most
38:58>> Reddit is diabolical.
38:59>> Reddit is actually the wild wild west.
39:02>> Yeah.
39:02>> The [ __ ] that people say on Reddit is
39:05[ __ ] insane.
39:07>> The
39:08completely made up like allegations,
39:11stories, rumors that people say on
39:12Reddit is wild. I don't like
39:16>> a part of me is like Reddit should just
39:18shut down. No,
39:20>> no,
39:20>> no. I'm just kidding. Like obviously
39:23there is a lot of good to Reddit. Am I
39:25the [ __ ] on Reddit? But we can't get
39:26rid of that for Haley.
39:27>> We cannot get rid of that. Also,
39:29sometimes people see things like there's
39:32been many times where I've seen people
39:34find an Am I the [ __ ] story that is
39:36about them and be like, "Actually,
39:38here's what really happened." It's
39:40crazy. Yeah, that's wild.
39:43So, Coen later admitted that he was the
39:45one sending the anonymous messages and
39:47that he did in fact put the tracking
39:49device on Cassy's car, which we have
39:51some pictures of this alleged tracking
39:53device here. and Cassie eventually
39:56requested to have the restraining order
39:58dismissed in November of 2020 after the
40:01two allegedly reached a private
40:02agreement. And after all of that, in
40:05April 2021, Colton publicly came out as
40:07gay. During an interview with Good
40:10Morning America, which that's fine, we
40:14love the LGBTQ plus community. Hope he's
40:18doing well after coming out. However,
40:22during the interview, Colton tied his
40:24behavior during the stalking incident to
40:27his mental health and being closeted.
40:29Essentially being like, "Listen y'all, I
40:32was doing well on like I was mentally
40:35unwell. I was in a really dark space."
40:37He described being in what he called a
40:40suicidal spiral and fame and framed what
40:44happened with Cassie as him hitting rock
40:46bottom while hiding his sexuality. So
40:49basically saying like, "Yeah, the reason
40:51I had this [ __ ] unhinged scary
40:53behavior is because I was closeted and
40:56my mental health was bad." That is the
40:58most garbage ass excuse I've ever heard
41:01in my life. And it pisses me off
41:04especially because
41:08there are thousands, millions of people
41:11who are
41:13gay, trans, whatever it may be, who are
41:16closeted and come out and don't [ __ ]
41:18harass people. Like don't try and tie
41:20those two together. That's so unfair to
41:23that community. That does like that.
41:27While that is very difficult, that is
41:29not a cause for violent behavior. You
41:32still have self-control as a human to
41:36not be a horrible person. So, obviously,
41:40we do have to address the fact that like
41:42>> there's, you know, a there's no like
41:46perfect there's no perfect victim.
41:48There's no perfect perpetrator. Like a
41:50lot of perpetrators do what they do
41:51because of trauma. However,
41:54>> that doesn't excuse it. that still does
41:56not make you not a bad person because
41:59there were a lot of people that have
42:00trauma and the way you take it and
42:02handle it is ultimately up to you. And
42:06so using that and like coming online and
42:09just completely discrediting it is so
42:11unfair. And also um part of like the
42:16public agreement apparently that they
42:18reach is that like they're not supposed
42:20to really talk about the stalking
42:22incident. That's beneficial to you
42:25because you get to be like and now I'm
42:28getting to speak my truth and that gets
42:31to be written off but she can't talk
42:33about it and she is the victim
42:35>> 100%.
42:36>> Yeah. Yeah. He did apologize to her
42:39during the interview. He said, "I would
42:40like to say sorry for how things ended.
42:42I messed up. I made a lot of bad
42:43choices. No shit." And a lot of people
42:45are split on his explanation. Some
42:47people feel bad for him. Some people are
42:49supporting him coming out. Others felt
42:51uncomfortable with the timing when this
42:52came out. and some people saw it as
42:53strategic, you know, PR stunts. I
42:56personally am like two things could be
42:58true at once. Um, it's unfortunate and
43:01sad that you had mental health
43:02struggles. I'm not saying that he
43:04didn't. I'm sure he did. Um, and also
43:07that doesn't excuse the fact that you
43:09harassed the [ __ ] out of a woman for
43:11months and months and her family and
43:14friends and made her feel unsafe, put a
43:16tracking device in her car, harassed her
43:19from anonymous phone numbers claiming it
43:22wasn't you, harassed your own self,
43:24quote unquote, with this anonymous phone
43:27number. Like,
43:30that doesn't just go away
43:33if you're like, "Oh, sorry. It's because
43:34I wasn't doing well mentally.
43:38So,
43:39well, and so the thing about people
43:43saying it's strategic PR move. He there
43:46were claims that he was being
43:48blackmailed to come out. Yeah. But then
43:53this next thing, then he announces that
43:56he's coming out with a docu series
43:57called Coming Out Colton on Netflix.
44:01So convenient. Yeah,
44:03>> that's crazy timing that they would
44:05blackmail you and then you would get
44:07this docu series by Netflix lined up
44:10because that takes a long time to line
44:12up.
44:12>> Yes.
44:14>> Yes. That's all I'm saying.
44:15>> So, was he like, I don't want to be
44:16blackmailed before my series comes out
44:19or was the blackmail
44:23another um victim mindset lie? I'm not
44:28I'm not calling him a liar. I'm saying
44:30we should discuss the optics of it
44:33>> because that is a big part of discussing
44:36this situation,
44:37>> right?
44:38>> Yeah.
44:39>> So, yeah, this series on Netflix
44:40followed Cole as we publicly came out,
44:42explored dating men for the first time,
44:44and talked extensively about mental
44:46health. And while the situation with
44:48Cassie was acknowledged, it was not the
44:50focus of the documentary, which centered
44:52primarily around his personal journey.
44:54Now, there were accusations that the
44:56whole coming out movement was a
44:58commercialized rebrand of basically
45:00like, listen,
45:02listen, listen. I know I did some
45:04terrible things, but now I'm coming out
45:06new new sexuality, new me, and the old
45:11me is gone. This is the new me. I've
45:14rebranded myself, and now I'm Colton the
45:17gay man, not Colton the harasser. Okay.
45:21Um,
45:23which is so frustrating for like like
45:26that's got to be really frustrating for
45:28the community, the LGBTQ community. Like
45:31it's it's amazing to have a docu series
45:34following a journey of coming out,
45:36especially for a former athlete.
45:38>> I love that idea. However, why is it
45:42>> someone that has
45:45terrorized a woman?
45:47>> Exactly. that that doesn't seem like
45:49someone that we should be platforming or
45:51using as this example of the community.
45:53I also feel like it's a bad
45:56representation for people who are
45:58homophobic
46:00because there's a lot unfortunately a
46:02lot of people who are homophobic have
46:04this horrible idea in their head of
46:06like, oh, they're scary, they're creepy,
46:08they harass people, they're unsafe,
46:09they're dangerous people. And it's like
46:12>> they very well could be like, see, this
46:13is what I'm talking about. he was like a
46:15dangerous person and oh, turns out he's
46:17gay.
46:18>> Yeah. They try to drive this violent
46:19narrative and that's where you get these
46:21like gay panic defenses and stuff that
46:23are just so unprecedented and it's like
46:25why are we feeding into that narrative?
46:28>> Yeah. Yeah. I completely agree.
46:31>> So anyways, after the documentary,
46:33Colton continued appearing on reality
46:35TV. He uh competed on the survival
46:38competition show Beyond the Edge, making
46:40it clear that he was still actively
46:42participating in unscripted TV rather
46:44than stepping away from the spotlight,
46:45which that's what I think he should have
46:46done.
46:47>> I think it's like, all right, you have
46:49your word, you say your piece, it's time
46:51to move on, do something different, like
46:53get off get off of TV, take time to
46:56heal,
46:56>> right?
46:57>> If it was so traumatic, I said nothing
46:59about a therapy journey.
47:04Make a reality TV show of your therapy
47:08sessions. Okay. Sign a release form and
47:10put that [ __ ] online. Just kidding.
47:12>> Send Aquarius men to therapy.
47:15>> Men won't really do anything but
47:17>> anything but therapy.
47:18>> Therapy. Last weekend we had a man
47:20climbing a goddamn building. You know
47:22what? You could have done
47:23>> therapy. Therapy.
47:25>> Anything but therapy.
47:27>> Just kidding. Anyways, um, so why is
47:31this all being brought up again?
47:34That's when The Traitors comes into
47:37place, okay? Because the cast of the
47:39show, which the show came out on January
47:428th after the cast was released, people
47:44were like, "Uh, WTF, why is he even
47:46being considered for the show with all
47:48of his ugly past? What are you doing,
47:50dude?" Um, go ahead.
47:55And what I think is interesting is if
47:58you watch the show, you might have
48:00clocked this. It seems like a lot of the
48:02cast, you know, to be fair, they're all
48:04TV personalities. They are completely
48:06tied in their own TV sphere. A lot of
48:10them didn't seem to be aware of Cole's
48:12past,
48:12>> which is concerning to me. I just feel
48:14like they should at least be made aware
48:16because his past was harassing and
48:18stalking other people. But then if they
48:21make them aware, people are going to
48:22ask, "Why is he coming into the house?"
48:25>> Exactly. So, don't put him on the show.
48:27>> Yes. Yes. But then you'd have to think
48:29through it.
48:31>> Yeah. Or they know that bringing him on
48:34the show is going to rile people up.
48:38>> That is honestly one of my theories that
48:41why they did that because they knew that
48:43it would get people talking and it has.
48:45>> Yep.
48:46>> Hollywood is scary.
48:50Scary.
48:51>> Can you see my ugly socks? Can I show
48:53some of your blankie or should I just be
48:55ugly?
48:55>> You can get your own blankie. We have
48:56like 8,000 blankies.
48:58>> Don't touch my socks. These are my
48:59emergency socks. I forgot socks today.
49:01>> I can get you to
49:01>> You have emergency socks here.
49:04>> Yeah, because
49:06>> Why do you Oh, yeah. She literally So,
49:08we have a our new office, we have a
49:09shoes off policy because we're trying to
49:11It's a long story, but
49:12>> No, I had these emergency socks before
49:13then.
49:14>> But she comes in, she's like, I didn't
49:16wear any socks today. But you're you
49:18never wear socks. Your dogs are out 247.
49:20So I'm surprised you
49:21>> No, I've been socked up lately. Um
49:24>> not at your date. Not from the sock boy.
49:26>> No, I was socked up again and I was
49:29desked against my will.
49:31>> No, these are my emergency socks because
49:33we have walking pads. Uh Mile Hire
49:35really encourages. Thank you. Cindy is
49:38the sweetest human being on this planet.
49:40Uh we really encourage health around
49:42here. And um when I put on my tennis
49:44shoes, sometimes I I've worn um sandals
49:48to the office and I don't want to raw
49:49dog my tennis shoes and so I have my
49:51emergency socks.
49:52>> Okay, that's good. Yeah. Well, actually,
49:55it's cuz I got sent these when we
49:57ordered something for Higher Hope, but
49:58I've kept them. Those are from What was
50:00that? Like a keychain? This is the
50:02keychain company. They sent me these for
50:04no reason.
50:04>> Oh, right. Oh my god, that's okay. That
50:07was so funny. So, like we we have
50:09keychain.
50:09>> Shout out keychain company.
50:10>> We have keychains for Higher Hope. Uh,
50:12higherh hope. No, Mile Higher Media. No,
50:15>> MileHire merch.com.
50:16>> Highire Merch. There's too many damn
50:17websites. My higher merch.com. You can
50:18get your keychain. 100% of proceeds go
50:20to higherh hope. They were really cute,
50:21by the way. But this was so scary. So,
50:23we ordered thousands of these keychains
50:26because we put them in like the welcome
50:27bags for Crime Con. If you were at Crime
50:29Con, you got one, you know, and
50:31obviously there was thousands of
50:32attendees. So, we ordered thousands of
50:33keychains. They come to the office, we
50:36open one, and the first thing I see is
50:38socks. And I'm like, "Holy [ __ ] they
50:41[ __ ] up our package. They sent
50:43thousands of pairs of these random ass
50:44socks and not our keychains." I was
50:46scared for my life.
50:47>> No, we got socks. I mean,
50:49>> we got keychains.
50:50>> No, we got keychains
50:51>> and one pair of socks.
50:52>> My emergency socks. Anyways.
50:54>> Anyways, okay, back to this. Um, what
50:56was I saying? Uh,
50:57>> the traitor's cast.
50:59>> Yeah,
51:00>> everyone's like, "Why is he here?"
51:01>> Right.
51:02>> The cast doesn't even know his his
51:04background. Well, some of them probably
51:06do, but it's not a It doesn't even come
51:09up in conversation until What episode
51:11was that that we were just watching?
51:12Five.
51:12>> Four.
51:14>> Four or five?
51:15>> No, no, no. We circled back to three. It
51:16was three.
51:18>> No.
51:18>> No.
51:18>> Oh, was it five?
51:19>> Was he wearing the [ __ ] ass vest?
51:21>> It was when Michael said like blah blah
51:24when he was like Michael was like
51:26telling
51:27>> was like whatever he said that pissed
51:29him off.
51:29>> Blah blah blah blah.
51:30>> No, they were like at breakfast or
51:31something and then
51:32>> it was at breakfast and Darinda didn't
51:34know.
51:34>> Yeah. And um the Survivors girl, I
51:37forget her name, but I love her.
51:38Michelle, question mark um
51:43had to tell the cast his background.
51:45Obviously omitting the stalker stuff.
51:48>> Well, what's his background? Oh, he was
51:49on the Bachelor.
51:50>> He was on The Bachelor before he came
51:51out as gay.
51:53>> Yeah, just forgot like a really [ __ ]
51:55important detail. So, just that the only
51:59reason I mentioned that is just that it
52:00seems that the cast isn't even aware who
52:02they're with. Yeah, they really seem
52:04like they're unaware.
52:06Um, so yeah, he starts drawing attention
52:09to himself though after voting off
52:11Tiffany. Spoiler alert, sorry. Uh, which
52:14I love her. I watched her season of Big
52:16Brother. Big fan. She's iconic.
52:19>> And can I say something about that
52:20Tiffany vod? I got a bone to pick about
52:22that.
52:23>> Okay,
52:25>> again, these are spoilers. Um, but
52:28notice how in that episode, this is
52:30episode 4, there are three or four
52:33different male names being thrown out.
52:35All right, Colton comes in out of left
52:37field and throws this woman into the
52:40table and gets her voted out. We had
52:42three people whose names have been
52:44circulating for multiple
52:45>> circulating.
52:47>> Circulating.
52:49>> That reminded me of Anyways,
52:53>> yeah. whose names have been circulating
52:55for multiple episodes. He comes out of
52:57left field after being quiet for
52:59multiple episodes and is like, I all of
53:02a sudden vote Tiffany. He's getting
53:04everyone riled up about Tiffany. What's
53:06his suspicion on Tiffany? Well, he has
53:08beef with Michael and doesn't like that
53:10Tiffany partnered up with Michael. So,
53:12instead of getting Michael voted out, he
53:14opts to have Tiffany voted out. You're a
53:16weirdo. Sorry.
53:17>> Well, it's also just like
53:19>> that wasn't strategic. That didn't make
53:21sense. It was
53:24>> every
53:27round and as they're voting her out,
53:28people are visibly regretting it,
53:30apologizing, crying like why did you do
53:33that?
53:33>> I think it's seriously because she's a
53:35female and
53:36>> I think he has deeprooted issues with
53:39women
53:39>> probably.
53:40>> Sorry, that's my soap box. I'm jumping
53:43off.
53:43>> That's okay. That's okay.
53:46>> Okay, so things start to really
53:49escalate. Escalate. Yep, that's right.
53:52Escalate.
53:52>> Escalate and escalate.
53:55>> Words are fun for me. Uh, anyways,
53:58things start to get a little
53:59whackadoodle when they're at the round
54:01table again. This is when they all sit
54:02at a big table and like point fingers at
54:04each other. And Michael
54:08starts accusing Colton of being a
54:12traitor. And again, like we said, no one
54:15knows who's a traitor. The only people
54:17who know they're a traitor are the
54:19people who are traitors and they know
54:21who the other traitors are, but they're
54:22not going to say it obviously because
54:24that would spoil the entire show. So,
54:27most people have no idea who the
54:29traitors are. And Michael's over here
54:30pointing his little finger at Colton
54:33being like, "Bitch, you're a [ __ ]
54:34traitor." Because of the Tiffany.
54:37>> Because of the Tiffany.
54:38>> Cuz the Tiffany thing was so crazy. And
54:40the way he got everyone to rile up.
54:43>> Mhm.
54:45And during the round table, Michael
54:48says, quote to Colton, "Nobody in this
54:52room would be better at holding a secret
54:54than you." And he immediately is like,
54:58"Oh god, you you think it was fun for 29
55:01years of my life." He's talking about
55:03being in the closet. And um other
55:07contestants on the show took this as
55:10like a dig to Colton um keeping you know
55:13his sexuality a secret. Now Michael
55:16claims like that's not how I meant it.
55:18>> Okay. You know you pointed out during
55:20that episode which I think is so strange
55:23is that yeah he went so hard on Colton
55:25but then didn't even vote him even vote
55:28him out. Michael is so bad at this game
55:30mind you. Like, okay, again, spoiler,
55:34I agree that Michael should have been
55:37voted out. And now him him saying what
55:40what came across as a like dig at se
55:44Colton sexuality is what ultimately got
55:46him voted off. But yeah, he was
55:48obnoxious. And also, Michael Rabport is
55:51not a wonderful guy either. So, it was
55:53kind of hard because I was like, I don't
55:54like either of you, honestly.
55:57>> Either of you could go right now and I'd
55:58be happy.
55:59>> Yeah. But I don't Just because Colton's
56:02a bad guy does not mean you get to take
56:03a dig at sexuality either.
56:05>> Correct. Absolutely not.
56:07>> It's like it's This is It reminds me of
56:11people who call
56:14who misgender Caitlyn Jenner on purpose
56:17because Caitlyn Jenner is just a
56:20>> bad person.
56:21>> Anti- transgender and everything even
56:22though she is transgender.
56:23>> Yeah. But like they purposely misgender
56:25her or dead name her because she's a bad
56:28person and it's like you're such
56:30lowhanging fruit.
56:31>> Exactly. Yeah. You're not helping
56:32anything. And then you know as soon as
56:36Michael in his words realized what he
56:39did I think he already knew and and was
56:42just like oh [ __ ] What did I just say?
56:44He he did seem to realize how far he
56:46took it honestly.
56:48>> Yeah. Yeah.
56:50Um, so
56:53Michael spoiler gets kicked off the show
56:55and he goes on Andy Cohen's show and
56:59does an interview with him and he
57:02addresses the comment he made to Colton.
57:03He says, quote, "I didn't know anything
57:05about his life and I didn't know about
57:07some of the things he's been involved
57:09with. There's not a beef. I'm not a
57:11perfect person. I'm not a malicious
57:13person. I know what's in my heart. All I
57:15can do is apologize." Now, we can't
57:17watch this clip because it's
57:18copyrighted. Of course. Um,
57:21>> I tried.
57:22>> Yeah. But, so he claims he had no idea.
57:27>> I don't know that I believe that, but he
57:28did. If I believe that,
57:30>> I do believe that he knows he took it
57:32too far cuz even in his his exit um
57:35speech when he was banished, he did say
57:37like, you know, I'm sorry for taking it
57:39that far.
57:41>> I don't I still think he knew cuz
57:43>> But I think he knew. I think it was
57:44intentional and he took it too far.
57:46>> What is Nobody in this room would be
57:48would be better at holding a secret than
57:50you. What does that mean other than
57:52that?
57:52>> Yeah. And yeah, [ __ ] keeps going. Colton
57:55actually starts beefing with Lisa Rena,
57:57who if you don't know who she is, she's
57:58from um Real Housewives of Beverly
58:01Hills. Iconic
58:03>> one of the most
58:05like famous Real Housewives characters,
58:09people whatever personalities
58:11>> personalities. Thank you. Colton accuses
58:13Lisa of being a traitor and surprise,
58:16she actually is one of the traitors. Um,
58:19but it causes quite a bit of tension
58:20between them after his claim. So, the
58:23tension actually ends up spilling over
58:24onto social media after a fan of Lisa's
58:27posted on threads, which is anyone using
58:32threads? I don't remember threads like
58:34such a thing for a second. Well, but
58:35then everyone realized if you make an
58:36account, you can't delete it without
58:38deleting your Instagram account cuz they
58:39are tied in the back end, which is so
58:41annoying, which is why I never made one.
58:43>> Oh, I have a threads, but I don't.
58:44>> Well, and it also sends out
58:46notifications like without you knowing
58:48that's like blah blah blah and blah blah
58:49blah are on threads. Join them now. Like
58:51it'll use your name because you're on
58:53threads.
58:54>> It's obnoxious.
58:54>> Love that. Thanks, Meta.
58:57So yeah, Lisa posted one of a fan of
59:00Lisa's posted on threads a picture of
59:03her iconic Real Housewives quote coke in
59:06the bathroom moment and tease Colton for
59:08going up against her. So she's notori
59:12she's a notoriously
59:14blunt and and direct housewife. Like
59:17that's her housewife personality is
59:19she's blunt. She'll call you out. She's
59:22she's harsh and she's an investigator
59:27really because she
59:30is doing investigative work of like what
59:33coke in the bathroom.
59:35>> So anyway, someone someone basically
59:38posts this meme. It's a picture of her
59:41and in this clip she's like accusing
59:45other women um at the dinner of doing
59:47Coke in the bathroom at this like
59:49previous event that they were at. um
59:51because they all got up and left at the
59:52same time and went to the bathroom and
59:55they were like, "What are you
59:56insinuating?" She's like, "Did you do
59:57coke in the bathroom?" And they're like,
59:58"Oh my god, how dare you think that?" So
1:00:01this person posts a a still of her with
1:00:04the words, "Were people doing coke in
1:00:07your bathroom?" And this thread user
1:00:10says, "This is who Colton thinks he's
1:00:12slick up against. Good luck, buddy."
1:00:15Basically meaning like you're not going
1:00:17to be able to
1:00:19trick her. Okay, it's Lisa Rena. The
1:00:21[ __ ] knows what's going on and she'll
1:00:23call it how it is or call it how she
1:00:25sees it. And then Lisa responds saying,
1:00:29"Let's talk about you being a stalker."
1:00:33So, and correct me if I'm wrong, but as
1:00:36far as we're aware, this is the first
1:00:39time
1:00:41uh someone on the on the show Traitors
1:00:44like of this season called him out.
1:00:45>> That's first time that someone's
1:00:47addressed it.
1:00:48>> Addressed it. So now
1:00:49>> very Lisa Reena of her Rena
1:00:51>> Rena very Lisa Rena of her
1:00:54>> the the the can of worms has been
1:00:56opened. Okay. She's like [ __ ]
1:01:00this guy is a [ __ ] stalker. Let's
1:01:02talk about that.
1:01:02>> Okay. I think it's interesting that she
1:01:05posted this like because this is clearly
1:01:08they're done recording.
1:01:09>> Mhm.
1:01:10>> So it's I don't know. It wasn't like it
1:01:13happened while they were you know in the
1:01:15house or whatever.
1:01:16>> Yeah. And I think I think she she
1:01:18wouldn't have I'm not sure A if she knew
1:01:20about this when she was in the house or
1:01:23b if she would have brought it up
1:01:25because
1:01:27you know as we'll find out later she
1:01:30might not have been allowed to. Um but
1:01:34she might have just thought this was
1:01:35goofing and Gabin online.
1:01:37>> Yeah.
1:01:38>> I don't think so. I think she's very
1:01:39intentional. But you know she might not
1:01:42have thought this was going to blow up.
1:01:44>> Yeah. I don't think she she thought that
1:01:46it was going to be that big.
1:01:47>> She's like, "Duh, this is old news."
1:01:49>> It did. Um, it got a lot of attention.
1:01:53So much attention that she ended up
1:01:55retracting it because the reaction
1:01:56toward Colton became extremely intense
1:01:58and crossed the line. So,
1:02:01Colton began receiving death threats and
1:02:04re Lisa realized the situation had gone
1:02:06way beyond what she intended it to. So,
1:02:09she went on Instagram and posted a story
1:02:10and said, quote, "It comes to my
1:02:11attention that my post that I responded
1:02:13to in my housewife mode is taking on a
1:02:17life of its own and it's causing real
1:02:19problems for Colton. I do not want this
1:02:21because Colton and I are great."
1:02:24Um, so there you have it. Ed supposedly
1:02:27she like redacted her statement, but
1:02:29this
1:02:30>> it pretty much riled everyone up.
1:02:31>> Yeah. Like brought it all back up.
1:02:32>> Brought it all to the surface.
1:02:35And and and I think a lot of people who
1:02:38just watch Traders and don't know about
1:02:40his past are like, "Wait, what are you
1:02:42talking about?" and now know about this
1:02:44>> because it wasn't it I mean people knew
1:02:47about it obviously it was out there was
1:02:48information that was out there but I
1:02:50don't I think it's it was bigger now
1:02:52because maybe someone liked him on
1:02:54traders or like say there was like a fan
1:02:56of him and then they're like wait what
1:02:58>> now he's a stalker. So
1:03:00>> yeah exactly.
1:03:03So yeah, like I said, um a lot of people
1:03:06think that he's getting the good guy
1:03:08edit and that the show really leans into
1:03:11the fact that he is married now and does
1:03:13have a kid. And Colton has addressed the
1:03:16backlash as well. In a recent interview
1:03:17with Entertainment Weekly, he said,
1:03:19quote, "The coming out process takes a
1:03:21long time and I'm still very much in my
1:03:23coming out process. So there are always
1:03:25little things here and there that sort
1:03:27of re-trigger old emotions. I'm still
1:03:30working on how to process it." And I
1:03:32think you definitely see that come up
1:03:33and hit me. The reason I said yes to
1:03:35doing a show like The Traitors is that
1:03:37it's not personal. The drama and the
1:03:39intensity of the show are always so game
1:03:42focused. So I think that's what just
1:03:44threw me a little bit is when it got
1:03:46personal and he was using me as a human
1:03:48being instead of my gameplay against me.
1:03:51That's what caught me off guard. And I
1:03:53think you felt that and saw it in the
1:03:55episode.
1:03:58Um,
1:04:00which is interesting because why are we
1:04:02talking I just think he's I honestly I
1:04:05think he's a hypocrite because he wants
1:04:07to say don't use my my personal No, no,
1:04:11I don't think that Michael Raport should
1:04:12have ever mentioned him being gay or
1:04:14anything. Um, but if we want to talk
1:04:16about bringing
1:04:17>> but also he didn't
1:04:19>> but but also he didn't but you know what
1:04:20I mean. But don't we're not you went on
1:04:23the traders not wanting to bring out
1:04:25like external information. and you're
1:04:27only focusing on gameplay. But the whole
1:04:28reason he allegedly is going after Lisa
1:04:31is because he said, "Oh, well, you're
1:04:33just not acting how I expected. You're
1:04:35not acting how you are in real life.
1:04:37You're not acting how you are outside of
1:04:39this. And so clearly, you're a traitor
1:04:41because you're being sus now.
1:04:43>> Yes, she is a traitor, but it's like,
1:04:47>> okay, so you can you can bring in her
1:04:50external information, but you're saying
1:04:52that this isn't a show where you bring
1:04:53in personal information, right?" M
1:04:56>> which like [ __ ] dude. And this
1:04:58isn't just like
1:04:59>> narrative is spinning.
1:05:01>> And this isn't just like some random ass
1:05:04personal information. This is you harass
1:05:07harassing someone for months in my
1:05:10opinion. Like he's basically being like,
1:05:12why is this being brought up? Like that
1:05:14was my past and it's my personal
1:05:15information. Don't talk about it. No,
1:05:17you publicly harassed someone for
1:05:20months, so it's going to get brought up.
1:05:24>> And in that interview, right under that,
1:05:27Entertainment Weekly specifies
1:05:30>> that they were not allowed to ask any
1:05:32questions about Cassie as part of his
1:05:35stipulations
1:05:36>> that neither is
1:05:38>> what is the show? Peacock.
1:05:39>> Yeah, I bet they were not allowed to
1:05:42mention it on Traders. And if they did,
1:05:45I bet they were not allowed to let it
1:05:46make the final cut.
1:05:48>> Yeah. I'm sure he has that in a contract
1:05:50somewhere. I just feel like that's also
1:05:53so unfair to Cassie that it's like he
1:05:56gets to just declare
1:05:57>> he gets to just Yeah. It was a private
1:06:00agreement outside or um between them.
1:06:04They reached a private settlement.
1:06:06>> Yeah. and it was just like mentioned
1:06:08briefly
1:06:09>> that they couldn't talk about it
1:06:10>> that they're it's they're not supposed
1:06:12to comment on it,
1:06:14>> which I don't personally love. I mean,
1:06:16like I respect it.
1:06:17>> If they both agree to that, fine. But
1:06:19like she should be able to talk about
1:06:21this for as long as she chooses or
1:06:23chooses not to.
1:06:25>> I agree. Um, and that's why it's really
1:06:28hard to,
1:06:30you know, uh, since it was a a private
1:06:33settlement personally between the two of
1:06:35them, we don't, we will never know the
1:06:36stipulations of it fully. And it's hard
1:06:39because the victim,
1:06:42>> you know,
1:06:43>> can't
1:06:45fairly advocate for herself against her
1:06:48perpetrator in my opinion. But um you
1:06:52know
1:06:53>> but also it's kind of like it as much as
1:06:56like if she she can't talk about it but
1:06:58also knowing that it's not going to be
1:07:00talked about. So like I think she just
1:07:02like removed herself and like that they
1:07:03did that settlement after
1:07:06>> she dismissed the restraining order.
1:07:08>> Yes. Yeah. And honestly like he even
1:07:11said himself she's a kind-hearted person
1:07:12and to be honest when you've been
1:07:14terrorized for months that is mentally
1:07:16exhausting. I'm sure she just was like,
1:07:18"Whatever the hell it takes to have this
1:07:20be done."
1:07:21>> And if that's what she wanted, then I
1:07:22fully respect and support her 100%. Um,
1:07:25yeah, I guess we don't really know
1:07:26exactly what took place in, you know,
1:07:28behind closed doors with their agreement
1:07:30that they came to. But
1:07:31>> yeah, that's um that's kind of the tea
1:07:34on that, but overall, I think like the
1:07:35show is very entertaining. Um, and yeah,
1:07:40I'm just curious to hear what you guys
1:07:42think. Um, if you've if you've watched
1:07:44the show, so let us know. Yeah. Do you
1:07:47people are torn? Do you think that it
1:07:51since it's been it's been so long and
1:07:54people can grow and he's apologized for
1:07:57it, do you think that he should be
1:08:00allowed to continue on these kinds of
1:08:02shows
1:08:03>> or do you think that this is a casting
1:08:05thing where it's like at a certain
1:08:07point, yeah, you can grow and change and
1:08:08stuff, but your actions have like
1:08:10permanently barred you from
1:08:12>> certain experiences? I think that some
1:08:16personally, and maybe this is a little
1:08:18harsh, I think you should be banned from
1:08:20those kinds of experiences, especially
1:08:23where it is like a close-knit group of
1:08:25people in this castle for however many
1:08:27days. I just will never fully trust that
1:08:31you are a safe person, and I need to
1:08:34know that I'm in full disclosure of
1:08:38>> who I am around. Um, I just don't think
1:08:41that that's completely fair to everyone.
1:08:43>> I think a huge reason of it is because
1:08:45he was never charged.
1:08:46>> If he was charged, it would have been
1:08:48disclosed. It was never He was never
1:08:49charged.
1:08:50>> Yeah. So,
1:08:50>> and it's just, you know, it is what it
1:08:52is. What do you guys think?
1:08:54>> Yeah. Curious to to hear what you
1:08:56>> Maybe I'm harsh.
1:08:58>> I think a lot of people will agree with
1:08:59you.
1:09:00>> Um,
1:09:01>> yeah. He in an interview he said that
1:09:03they came to a private agreement and
1:09:05that they would like people to respect
1:09:07their privacy. Yeah. So, I don't know.
1:09:10>> I respect Cassie's, but Colt and I don't
1:09:13respect yours.
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1:11:44Okay, let's get into Am I the [ __ ]
1:11:49Am I the [ __ ] We don't have our
1:11:51gavvel because we moved and we don't
1:11:54know where the stuff went.
1:11:56>> Like literally
1:11:57>> missing box miss. There's a lot of boxes
1:12:00just thrown around here and there's also
1:12:02still stuff at the old office. So it's
1:12:04here somewhere in this state.
1:12:07>> We don't know where
1:12:08>> allegedly. So we'll have to uh keep
1:12:10digging for that. But that's okay. We
1:12:11can live without it. So Haley is
1:12:14desperate to read the uh first
1:12:18um whatever story.
1:12:21>> So take it away, sweetie.
1:12:23>> Thank you.
1:12:24>> I am so excited about this. I read this
1:12:27one a long time ago. I think it's
1:12:29hilarious. And the reason I want to read
1:12:31this to Janelle is because Janelle and I
1:12:33have very different opinions on what I
1:12:36call potty talk. Oh god. No. Okay. Wait,
1:12:40before I start, I just need to say Haley
1:12:43is a Leo. I'm a Leo. We have very
1:12:45similar personalities and very similar
1:12:47senses of humors and like ways of
1:12:49communication. Both our Mercuries are
1:12:51also Leo.
1:12:52>> Yep.
1:12:53>> So, um we have a lot of similarities and
1:12:55like most of the time we just like agree
1:12:57with each other. E that sounds just like
1:12:59so annoying. But um
1:13:01>> it's amazing. But when we don't
1:13:02>> but when we don't we don't and she and I
1:13:06have very different opinions on potty
1:13:08talk. I don't think poop jokes are
1:13:10funny. I don't think farts are funny. I
1:13:12think that [ __ ] I [ __ ] I love it.
1:13:15>> It gives me the ick if a man like farts
1:13:19in front of you has bodily functions.
1:13:21Like why do you have an [ __ ] Like
1:13:23why are you pooping? Literally
1:13:25disgusting.
1:13:26>> And you don't like Do you like poop? Is
1:13:28it okay if you're pooping and farting
1:13:30>> or is it not? Okay.
1:13:33>> Can you do it in front of like if you're
1:13:35dating somebody?
1:13:36>> Can you fart in front of your friends?
1:13:37Like, could you fart in front of me?
1:13:40>> Not without passing away, probably.
1:13:41>> You must literally Okay, cuz when we had
1:13:45to tell them,
1:13:46>> have I farted?
1:13:46>> No.
1:13:49>> Did you see the panic in my face? You're
1:13:50like,
1:13:51>> "Oh my god, Keystone
1:13:52>> at this conference in the mountains for
1:13:55Higher Hope."
1:13:56>> This is how this came up.
1:13:57>> It was me. Yeah, it was me, Kendall, and
1:13:59Haley. We were staying at this Airbnb
1:14:00and like we were hanging out at night
1:14:02and I don't know, for whatever reason,
1:14:04one of the days I was just so gassy. The
1:14:06conference food was really [ __ ] with
1:14:09Janelle and Kendall's stomachs
1:14:11>> farting.
1:14:11>> And these two think it's the funniest
1:14:14thing in the world. No, Kendall doesn't
1:14:15fart either. She just like doesn't fart.
1:14:16She doesn't think it's gross, but it's
1:14:18just like won't fart. I was to tooting
1:14:22at co at the [ __ ] Airbnb. Not in
1:14:24front of like in front of you, but not
1:14:25like to you. I was just in my bed going
1:14:28and you were
1:14:29>> I mean on the couch, too.
1:14:32>> It doesn't bother me that much. But like
1:14:34if you expect me to goof and gab with
1:14:36you about it.
1:14:36>> You were like kind of laughing. You were
1:14:38like what is wrong with
1:14:39>> I'm I was laughing out of pure shock and
1:14:42horror.
1:14:45>> Oh, I see. Like I will purposely
1:14:48>> like to John push out a fart because I
1:14:50think it's
1:14:50>> No. And see like when a man does that to
1:14:52me, I'm like if I'm not already in love
1:14:54with you, you're done chopping.
1:14:56>> Yeah. See, that's where the um growing
1:14:58up with six brothers and having a
1:14:59>> I had a true like deep sense of humor of
1:15:0212-year-old boy humor comes into play.
1:15:05>> I never had that. I never had I have two
1:15:06brothers and I never found it funny.
1:15:08>> All right, so that's why I want to read
1:15:10this one to you because
1:15:11>> I think we have my We're different
1:15:13sensitivities. We might We might have
1:15:15Cinny likes farting.
1:15:17>> This one's not about farting for the
1:15:18record.
1:15:21>> No, I don't like farting.
1:15:23>> But you fart in front of me. Maybe over
1:15:27the years.
1:15:27>> Actually, maybe not. Honestly,
1:15:29>> I don't I'm not like a I don't know. I
1:15:30try not to do it.
1:15:31>> I saw something that said that if you're
1:15:33scared to fart in front of your partner
1:15:34that it'll lead to divorce.
1:15:37>> Well, I don't Oh, I'm like traumatized.
1:15:40Like,
1:15:41>> wait.
1:15:42>> Wait. This is
1:15:43>> only if you want.
1:15:44>> Yeah.
1:15:44>> So funny though. It's so
1:15:46>> What? You [ __ ] your pants?
1:15:47>> No.
1:15:48>> Who here has [ __ ] their pants?
1:15:50>> Got him.
1:15:52I am so pissed off because I haven't
1:15:55[ __ ] my pants ever.
1:15:57>> I think that I first discovered I didn't
1:15:58like this. When I was 16, my boyfriend
1:16:00um told me that he [ __ ] his pants OFTEN
1:16:02AT WORK. AT WORK is funny. And and well,
1:16:07he was a landscaper and I was like,
1:16:09>> "What?"
1:16:09>> Something about that like makes me never
1:16:11want you to take your pants off around
1:16:13me again.
1:16:13>> You've never [ __ ] your pants?
1:16:15>> This man never shook my
1:16:16>> This man's nickname was also the panty
1:16:18snatcher. He was diabolical and he still
1:16:20tries to get in touch with me to this
1:16:22day. It's been 10 years. He's probably
1:16:23watching this.
1:16:25>> Ew. Wait.
1:16:25>> E. Wait. Have
1:16:27>> the one that messaged me on TikTok and
1:16:28was like, "Are you going to resent me
1:16:29forever?"
1:16:30>> Oh god. Have you [ __ ] your pants?
1:16:34>> Have I [ __ ] my pants? No. But I've I've
1:16:36trusted I've trusted a fart that was a
1:16:39shark and a thong.
1:16:40>> Absolutely. Oh, absolutely. And then
1:16:41you're like, whoa, that was
1:16:42>> so Never pants. Never pants. Yes. RIP to
1:16:46a Victoria Secret thong. Okay, I have an
1:16:48embarrassing story.
1:16:50>> I love this story. Go ahead.
1:16:51>> So, I don't fart in front of Jared or
1:16:55you know and like literally get so
1:16:58embarrassed and we were Oh. Oh, yeah. I
1:17:04we were like going getting ready for bed
1:17:05and I think I ran and like kind of like
1:17:07jumped on the bed and I farted and I was
1:17:10like And you know what?
1:17:12>> I lied. That's funny. But it's the
1:17:15image. I'm imagining you like belly
1:17:18flopping
1:17:20>> and something like that. And I was like,
1:17:22"Oh my god, I didn't know what to do."
1:17:26>> So, was he like ghost or did you both
1:17:30just like you would ghost him? You would
1:17:31ghost your husband.
1:17:32>> Never speak to him again.
1:17:33>> Sorry, I got to go.
1:17:34>> He's like sitting in the bedroom like do
1:17:35I just roll over? Do I just
1:17:36>> Did he like look at you or like
1:17:38acknowledge it or did you both just try
1:17:39and play it off?
1:17:40>> But you think he heard it?
1:17:42>> He 100%. She belly flopped a fart onto
1:17:46him. Yeah, heard.
1:17:47>> Oh my god. I was like, "Wow, that was
1:17:50>> I suddenly farted during sex the other
1:17:51day and I was really scared that the man
1:17:53heard it."
1:17:53>> That's scary.
1:17:55>> No, that's scary.
1:17:57>> Really?
1:17:58>> That's scary. What?
1:18:03>> Anyways,
1:18:04>> did it just happen? You like that?
1:18:07>> I was drunk. He had me in a position.
1:18:12Oh, it happens to the best song. It It
1:18:15does. It does.
1:18:17>> But I wanted to pass away. That's so
1:18:19funny.
1:18:20>> Oh my gosh.
1:18:21>> And in my head I was like, I don't even
1:18:22like this guy that much.
1:18:24>> Well, then it's not a problem to make me
1:18:25feel better.
1:18:26>> Yeah. Yeah. It's not a problem.
1:18:27>> I did like the guy a little bit though.
1:18:28Am I overreacting? She [ __ ] with me in
1:18:31the shower.
1:18:34Now, from that alone, you might have an
1:18:37idea.
1:18:39It's not that. Okay. Okay. I already
1:18:42have questions. Was there a waffle stomp
1:18:44involved?
1:18:45>> You know a waffle stomp?
1:18:46>> Of course I know what waffle stomp is.
1:18:47>> Sydney didn't know what a waffle stomp
1:18:49was. I literally was saving this to
1:18:50educate you on a waffle stomp.
1:18:51>> Of course. Okay, we'll get to the
1:18:52waffle. Save this. Sidebar. Save this.
1:18:54Got it.
1:18:55>> I am a 22-year-old female who has been
1:18:58>> Sorry, I'm done.
1:19:00>> Turn off my mic. Go ahead. I am a
1:19:0222-year-old female who has been dating
1:19:04this girl. Female 21. Oh, I didn't
1:19:07realize they were both girls for about 3
1:19:09months and it's been great. The only red
1:19:11flag I've seen before this was that she
1:19:13was a bit messy, leaving things without
1:19:15putting them away, including trash.
1:19:17Anyway, yesterday we went to a karaoke
1:19:19club, got super wasted. She spilled her
1:19:22drinks all over us. No big deal. We went
1:19:24to my apartment. We were in the shower.
1:19:27Nothing sexy or anything.
1:19:30We were too drunk for that. But I
1:19:32remember looking down and there was a
1:19:33streak on the bottom of the shower. And
1:19:35I asked her what it was. I [ __ ] you not
1:19:38>> or you [ __ ] you.
1:19:39>> She said yes.
1:19:40>> Oopsie. I did a poopsie.
1:19:45>> Okay.
1:19:46>> And pushed a ball of [ __ ] into the drain
1:19:49with her toe. I didn't know what to say.
1:19:54Now for those who don't know, that is
1:19:55called a waffle stomp. Well, it depends
1:19:57on what kind of drain. Only if it's the
1:19:59like grates. If it's like the bathtub
1:20:01terminology like a chapstick. It might
1:20:03not be a chapstick, but it's a
1:20:04chapstick.
1:20:05>> No, but like a waffle stomp is because
1:20:07it's like has the it's a circle with
1:20:08>> What do you think she did? Like shove it
1:20:10under the the lid of the
1:20:12>> Yeah. Well, like you know, like in like
1:20:14bathtub showers, they just have like the
1:20:16little like [ __ ] that you pull. Whereas
1:20:17like a shower without a shower without a
1:20:20bathtub has like the the like the great
1:20:23that's a waffle stomp cuz it's a waffle.
1:20:26>> Like it looks like a waffle.
1:20:27>> You think she shoved it into the the
1:20:31bathtub? Maybe
1:20:32>> whole lid drain with her toe.
1:20:35>> Maybe
1:20:35>> you're done.
1:20:36>> All right, back to the story.
1:20:39>> I just kind of stood there. This chick
1:20:41really just pooped. I told myself that
1:20:43she was drunk and we could talk about it
1:20:45tomorrow. Today. Does it say how long
1:20:47they had been dating? I don't remember.
1:20:49>> 3 months.
1:20:50>> Okay, that's not long enough. All right,
1:20:52>> that is early.
1:20:53>> Go ahead. All right, fast forward to
1:20:56this morning. We woke up. I could not
1:20:58get what I saw yesterday out of my head.
1:21:01So, I tried to keep it light and laugh
1:21:03about the pooping. Maybe try to get it
1:21:05into the toilet in the future.
1:21:09And she goes on to explain that she just
1:21:11feels comfortable with me and doesn't
1:21:12want to hide who she is anymore.
1:21:17I asked if she poops in the shower all
1:21:19the time, and she does.
1:21:22I asked if she could refrain from doing
1:21:24so in my shower and she agreed. I just
1:21:28feel like I can't move past this and
1:21:30look at her the same. I kind of want to
1:21:33break up with her. Am I overreacting?
1:21:36No. Holy
1:21:38>> stomp her. A waffle stomper is not a
1:21:41wife. Maybe can't turn a waffle stomper
1:21:44into a housewife. Maybe. Maybe. So, this
1:21:47is what this is why I wanted to read
1:21:49this to you. Okay. Okay, I have multiple
1:21:52thoughts here.
1:21:54If I was in the shower with John and he
1:21:57pooped in the shower on accident,
1:22:00>> I would not leave him because we're too
1:22:01far.
1:22:02>> See, I did a poopsy. Yeah, we're too far
1:22:03into it. Um I wouldn't
1:22:06>> relentlessly bully him for weeks uh and
1:22:11never let him live down the day that he
1:22:12[ __ ] in the shower
1:22:14>> and stomped on it
1:22:15>> and waffles.
1:22:16>> Okay. And that and you know what that
1:22:18thank you for pointing that out because
1:22:19that's a whole other layer to this stomp
1:22:22is diabolic.
1:22:22>> If you okay let's say you're you are
1:22:24drunk you let out a fart. It's more than
1:22:26a fart. Some gets in the shower and
1:22:28you're like holy [ __ ] And you like jump
1:22:31out and try and clean it up immediately.
1:22:32Okay. That's one thing to then be like
1:22:34>> why am I jumping out though if I pooped
1:22:36in the shower? I'm rinsing off. I'm
1:22:37turning around and rinsing.
1:22:38>> Yeah, but like but like
1:22:40>> to stomp on it to No, to pull the poop
1:22:42out of the shower.
1:22:44But if you proceed to stay in the shower
1:22:47and be like, "Yeah, sorry." Let out a
1:22:49little a little um little oopsie poopsy.
1:22:54>> Instead of dropping the kids off at the
1:22:55pool, you're dropping the kids off down
1:22:57a little slip and slide into the [ __ ]
1:22:59drain
1:23:01and then being like, "Yeah, sorry." And
1:23:03then the next day being like, "Yeah, I
1:23:04do that a lot." That's a different
1:23:05story. Um,
1:23:09and
1:23:11I don't know if
1:23:14if I could let that go. I I really don't
1:23:16think again. 3 months is not enough. 3
1:23:19months.
1:23:19>> 3 months is too soon.
1:23:21>> It's too soon to be pooping in the
1:23:22shower. Unless it's like a thing that
1:23:24both of you are doing. That's fine. I
1:23:26don't care what you do. [ __ ] in your
1:23:27shower together. Uh, but also it's not
1:23:30your shower. It's
1:23:32>> girlfriend shower.
1:23:32>> It's not even your shower. And I didn't
1:23:36consent to your oopsy poopsy. Why are
1:23:38you oopsie poopsying with me in the
1:23:40shower? Yeah.
1:23:41>> And this is where I get in I get serious
1:23:44because this speaks to a larger issue.
1:23:46If you're going to oopsie poopsy 3
1:23:48months into a relationship, you're going
1:23:50to terrorize me with poop talk and all
1:23:53of the things you think are funny for
1:23:55ever. And I that's why it would be a
1:23:57dealbreaker for me because I am so anti-
1:24:00poop, anti- joke.
1:24:02>> And you know what's interesting about
1:24:03that? because,
1:24:04>> you know, and another thing
1:24:05>> and another thing we've talked about how
1:24:08um I am I'm a gross person in general.
1:24:12Like
1:24:13>> very little grosses me out in general.
1:24:15Um
1:24:16>> same.
1:24:16>> Like I just don't really care about
1:24:18germs at all. I don't really think
1:24:20they're real. And Haley relates to that.
1:24:22>> I'm the same. Yeah. Germs don't exist.
1:24:24Germs aren't real.
1:24:25>> Don't care. Don't bother me. So it's
1:24:27interesting that
1:24:28>> poop.
1:24:29>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But you even said to
1:24:30yourself like like if my dog if my dog
1:24:33[ __ ] in my hand I'd be like whatever I
1:24:35don't care. Like my dog could [ __ ] on
1:24:37the pillow and I'd be like little
1:24:38inconvenient. Moving on with my life.
1:24:41>> I
1:24:43am not upset about the poop for the germ
1:24:45of it. I'm upset about it in the is
1:24:47there no is nothing sacred anymore?
1:24:50>> Right.
1:24:51>> Right. Right.
1:24:53>> Why?
1:24:53>> I have a quick question. He so say you
1:24:56get married or you're with someone for a
1:24:57really long time. Did you ever like [ __ ]
1:24:58with the door open or like
1:25:00>> Oh, absolutely. Absolutely. My favorite
1:25:02ex um absolutely we were there. However,
1:25:05I do think it took away from the
1:25:06romance. And will I go there again? I
1:25:07don't know. I don't know.
1:25:10>> Okay. I don't know. I think I think you
1:25:13know I think my farting took away from
1:25:15the romance. So maybe this is a deeply
1:25:17troubled
1:25:19um trauma of mine.
1:25:25>> Oh, but I will not
1:25:27stand for this.
1:25:29>> I do not think you're overreacting for
1:25:32wanting to break up with someone because
1:25:34they are
1:25:35>> and and and not so much because they
1:25:38pooped in the shower, although that's
1:25:40slightly concerning. More so the
1:25:43reaction and steps taken after of the
1:25:46flicking it down the um whether it was a
1:25:48waffle stomp or just pushing it down the
1:25:51little hole at the end of the bathtub.
1:25:55That's concerning to wake up the next
1:25:57day and be like, "Yeah, I'm just
1:25:58comfortable going around you. That's why
1:25:59I'm pooping in the [ __ ] shower
1:26:01>> with you in it."
1:26:02>> With you in it. And to be like, "Yeah, I
1:26:05do that all the time."
1:26:06>> Also didn't announce the poop.
1:26:08>> The person saw the streak.
1:26:11>> Ew.
1:26:13>> Disgusting.
1:26:15>> Jury is not
1:26:17>> overreacting.
1:26:18>> Overreacting. Thank you for that. Dump
1:26:21her
1:26:24>> and clean your drains. Probably
1:26:26>> get some Drano in that [ __ ]
1:26:27>> Be good to
1:26:28>> be pooping in your drain.
1:26:30>> Yeah,
1:26:30>> probably not.
1:26:33>> Hi, Tom. You leaving? Bye.
1:26:36You want to say anything? Do you know
1:26:38what a waffle stomp is?
1:26:39>> Oh my god.
1:26:40>> Are you a waffle stomper?
1:26:42>> Every week.
1:26:42>> Are you joking?
1:26:45>> She's like, get the [ __ ] out of my face.
1:26:48>> We'll do that. You heard it here first.
1:26:52You don't Wait, come over here if you
1:26:55want. If you don't want to be on camera,
1:26:56that's fine. You don't think waffle
1:26:58stomping is real?
1:27:00>> No.
1:27:01>> You don't think anyone does it?
1:27:02>> No. I think if anyone does that, they're
1:27:04just they're a degenerate and they don't
1:27:05deserve to be on this planet.
1:27:08>> Dang. So, he would have dumped the girl
1:27:10in the last
1:27:12>> scenario where these two girls were
1:27:14dating. They were drunk in the shower
1:27:16and one of them pooped in the shower and
1:27:17she like flicked it down the drain and
1:27:19then the next day was like not like oh
1:27:20[ __ ] I didn't mean to do that was like
1:27:22yeah I should all the time in the shower
1:27:24and the other girl was like should I
1:27:26break up with her
1:27:27>> in the shower break up with the girl
1:27:30>> immediately
1:27:33scat does not belong in a relationship
1:27:34outside of the privacy of being in your
1:27:36own bathroom like nowhere else.
1:27:38>> Got it.
1:27:40>> Not down the [ __ ] water slide.
1:27:42>> All right, sashies. All of those of you
1:27:44who [ __ ] in the shower, who are in love
1:27:46with Tom, you better keep that poop in
1:27:48the toilet. Do not [ __ ] in the shower.
1:27:50Bye.
1:27:50>> Keep it in the toilet.
1:27:52>> So, there's another one. You You want to
1:27:54do it again? I do love public reading.
1:27:56Oh my god. Were you Please God, tell me
1:27:59you weren't the uh student in school
1:28:01that was like, I'll read popcorn. Haley,
1:28:03you have to tell her what you did.
1:28:04>> Oh my god, she totally was.
1:28:06>> You have to tell her what you did in
1:28:07elementary school. Like, it was your
1:28:09sport.
1:28:09>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. No, I loved public
1:28:12reading. Do you know I was in a
1:28:13competitive reading club? This is not a
1:28:15joke. And we were state champions.
1:28:18>> What does that mean?
1:28:21>> You're about to piss me off right now.
1:28:23>> It was called Battle of the Books.
1:28:24>> Oh my god. You're about to
1:28:25>> Any of my fellow Battle of the Books. I
1:28:28was state champ. So
1:28:29>> you were state champ.
1:28:31>> If you're wondering, we were a team. It
1:28:32wasn't It was a team sport. Um if you're
1:28:35wondering where those state champs are
1:28:37now, what does that mean? Um, it means
1:28:39we have a list of books that we read and
1:28:43we had to read these books very
1:28:44seriously, multiple times. You have to
1:28:46memorize every detail because you have
1:28:47no idea what you're going to be asked.
1:28:49Your your team versus team on a stage
1:28:52and the the person is asking questions
1:28:56about the books and your whoever
1:28:58whichever team answers first gets the
1:29:00point.
1:29:00>> So, you're not reading out loud. No, I'm
1:29:02not like I'm not like Trisha Pisa speed
1:29:04reading.
1:29:05>> No, that's like honestly so iconic. No,
1:29:07it's that we had to have like multiple
1:29:09books like burned into our memory of
1:29:11like and what color was Martha's shirt
1:29:15as she broke up with Ethan? Like things
1:29:17like that.
1:29:18>> God.
1:29:18>> Yeah.
1:29:20Okay. Anyways, so yes, I will be reading
1:29:23this. Fine by me. Go ahead.
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1:32:04Is this an am I the overreacting or is
1:32:06this am I the overreacting? But if this
1:32:08is true off my chest, but it is kind of
1:32:11a am I the [ __ ] Okay, go. All right.
1:32:14I told my sister's fiance about her
1:32:17secret Instagram where she ranks his
1:32:19family by who she hopes dies first.
1:32:21Wait, hold on. My sister's fiance about
1:32:25her secret Instagram about the sister's
1:32:27secret Instagram of ranking their of
1:32:30ranking his the fiance's family by who
1:32:32she hers. Okay, so
1:32:36right off the bat, brother and sister.
1:32:38Sister has a fiance. She has an
1:32:40Instagram ranking her fiance's family
1:32:43members about who she thinks is going to
1:32:46die first. Yes, I believe this is a uh
1:32:49two sisters. But yeah. All right, let's
1:32:51get into it. So, my sister, 29 female,
1:32:54has a Fensta. Whatever. Lots of people
1:32:57do. I found it like a year ago because
1:32:59she accidentally logged into it on my
1:33:01iPad when she was over and I saw the
1:33:03notification. It's private, like 12
1:33:05followers, just her and her friends.
1:33:08Most of the posts are just shit-talking,
1:33:11her job, random people, Jake, her
1:33:13fianceé, 31 male. Like, she screenshots
1:33:17their arguments and her friends all
1:33:20reply, "King shit," or whatever, when
1:33:22she's being mean to him. I thought it
1:33:24was weird, but not my business. But a
1:33:27few months ago, she posted this like
1:33:30tier list, ranking his entire family by
1:33:33the order in which she hopes they die.
1:33:35His grandma was first.
1:33:39She wrote a whole thing about how she
1:33:41quote gives off two more years max.
1:33:46And I'm
1:33:46>> What's the expiration date? Two years
1:33:49from now and I'm inheriting that ring.
1:33:53>> Oh.
1:33:54>> Oh my god. His four, this is not real.
1:33:58His 14-year-old sister was on that list.
1:34:01>> This is [ __ ] wrong. This is rage
1:34:02bait. She said the sister has quote
1:34:06school shooter energy.
1:34:07>> Holy [ __ ] Oh my god. I screenshotted
1:34:10it. I don't know why. I just did.
1:34:13Anyway, last weekend we were at a
1:34:15barbecue and Jake fiance was next to me
1:34:18talking about how much his grandma
1:34:20adores my sister and how she's quote so
1:34:23excited for October. And I just I don't
1:34:26know, man. I showed him on my phone
1:34:28right there and he didn't say anything.
1:34:31He just walked to his car and left.
1:34:33Didn't even tell anyone he was going.
1:34:35Now everything is [ __ ] The wedding is
1:34:37paused, whatever that means. My sister
1:34:39called me sobbing and screaming at the
1:34:41same time, saying I ruined her life over
1:34:43a joke. My mom keeps texting me about
1:34:45how I quote always do this, which is
1:34:48like, what does that mean? My dad just
1:34:51said that was a choice and walked away.
1:34:54Jake won't respond to anyone. His mom
1:34:56called my mom apparently. Idk. I'm
1:34:59getting everything secondhand because my
1:35:01sister blocked me. I feel so sick about
1:35:03it. But also like what what was he just
1:35:06supposed to marry her not knowing she
1:35:08ranks his family by death order for fun?
1:35:11Her friends all knew. 12 people knew and
1:35:14let him propose to her. I don't know.
1:35:16Maybe I should have kept my mouth shut.
1:35:18Especially public rankings. Put that
1:35:21[ __ ] in a burn book. Does no one know
1:35:23how to [ __ ] have any sort of secret
1:35:26these days? Jesus.
1:35:28Okay, I have opinions.
1:35:31Same. I think we're going to have
1:35:33different opinions.
1:35:34>> Oh my god. What? All right. Do I think
1:35:40the sister was too mean? Absolutely. For
1:35:43having a fina of ranking deaths. I
1:35:46>> or the one that
1:35:47>> I grew up in peak Finina era,
1:35:51>> okay?
1:35:51>> Like everyone had Finstas and this is
1:35:54not I mean I I too posted screenshots of
1:35:58fights with boyfriends on my Finina for
1:36:00my friends to hype me up on.
1:36:02>> I I'm guilty of that.
1:36:03>> I'm not even joking. I am not even
1:36:06joking. I am guilty of that. And mine
1:36:07had like 130 followers. Okay.
1:36:10>> Okay.
1:36:11>> So like I had
1:36:13we've talked about my Twitter beefs
1:36:14before. I had Finina beefs with [ __ ]
1:36:17This is like Finstas were This is not
1:36:20crazy for a Finina. Let's be honest.
1:36:23However, I do think she was being mean,
1:36:25but I think the sister's wrong for
1:36:28showing the fiance. I don't think she
1:36:29needed to do all that. What do you think
1:36:31she should have done?
1:36:33>> Log the [ __ ] off your sister's Va
1:36:36>> and not said anything and let him find
1:36:38it on his own or not.
1:36:39>> This is why I advocate for going through
1:36:41your partner's phones. He could have
1:36:43found this out himself. I don't think
1:36:45you should snitch, first of all, on your
1:36:46sister. Unless your sister's like
1:36:48cheating or something. Yes, this is
1:36:51mean. This is like
1:36:53>> You would tell on your sister if she was
1:36:55um cheating. Like
1:36:56>> if if she was cheating, absolutely. Me
1:36:58and my sister are both snitches about
1:36:59cheating. We don't [ __ ] with that.
1:37:01>> Don't make I will not be an accomplice
1:37:02to your bad behavior. Absolutely not.
1:37:05>> Now, this this might not reach my
1:37:08threshold. I I might get dragged for
1:37:10this. This might not reach my I don't
1:37:12think this reaches my threshold of like
1:37:13I think about me and my sister and my
1:37:15sister's kind of a [ __ ] sometimes. Love
1:37:16her. She's going to watch this. I love
1:37:18you.
1:37:20But this is like
1:37:22>> I'm not stitching on that.
1:37:24>> This is like I would I would I would
1:37:26talk to my si like she did what? Did she
1:37:31talk to her sister about it? No. No
1:37:33mention of talking to her sister about
1:37:35it. I'm chewing out my sister for being
1:37:37a [ __ ] and telling her to be a better
1:37:38partner.
1:37:39>> I'm not. would so you would go to your
1:37:41sister and be like, "I know about your
1:37:42[ __ ] FA, you psycho. What are you
1:37:44doing?" Confront her about it or at
1:37:46least at least give her an ultimatum.
1:37:49Like tell him and do better or I will if
1:37:52you really want to be crazy, but I am
1:37:55not going straight to the fiance because
1:37:56I'd probably go to my sister.
1:37:58Absolutely.
1:38:01So, yeah. I I think she didn't ask, but
1:38:03I'm telling her anyways, you're an
1:38:04[ __ ] for going to going to the fiance
1:38:06about that, but your sister's also an
1:38:08[ __ ] Would you go to the fiance,
1:38:11Sydney?
1:38:11>> Um, no.
1:38:13>> Really?
1:38:13>> I wouldn't. I because I'm like
1:38:15>> sister [ __ ] because Janelle doesn't
1:38:17Janelle has brothers. So, I don't I
1:38:18don't think she quite gets that sister
1:38:20bond where it's like Yeah. I'd beat my
1:38:22sister's ass for it.
1:38:24>> Yeah. I mean, I would be like, "What is
1:38:26this?" Like, I would be But I wouldn't
1:38:28go behind her. Uh, yeah. I'd be like,
1:38:31"This is horrible." And you need to be
1:38:32the one to
1:38:33>> I'm trying to think like Kendall's the
1:38:34closest thing I have to say. So, I'm
1:38:35trying to think like
1:38:37>> you're going to Josh and saying
1:38:38Grammyy's ring is going to your field.
1:38:40>> OH MY GOD, THAT'S CRAZY. 2 years max.
1:38:43>> That's crazy. I don't know. I probably
1:38:46would go to Kendall and be like, "What
1:38:47the [ __ ] are you doing, you lunatic?"
1:38:49>> And also and also we're going off of
1:38:51like she this sister might just be like
1:38:54a bad person who whatever. But we all
1:38:56know people who have a dark sense of
1:38:58humor who take it too far and don't
1:39:00realize they're taking it too far. I
1:39:03mean, I would count myself as having a
1:39:06dark sense of humor. Like most jokes,
1:39:08you wouldn't think I have a dark sense
1:39:09of humor.
1:39:10>> No, no, no. Me, do you think I have a
1:39:12dark sense? You know, my sense of humor.
1:39:14>> Is it dark? I think
1:39:15>> No, it's stupid.
1:39:16>> It's stupid. But I think like it can
1:39:18also be Well, then maybe I don't have a
1:39:20I don't know. I I've never seen you have
1:39:22a dark sense of humor.
1:39:23>> Really? Okay, maybe I don't then. I
1:39:24don't know. I find like some things that
1:39:25are like what the [ __ ] Well, I had a
1:39:28best friend in high school who I kind of
1:39:31had to cut off for this reason because
1:39:33she was too far for me, but it was
1:39:36genuinely like she did not mean it and
1:39:38she was a good person, but she had way
1:39:40too dark of a sense of humor.
1:39:41>> Yeah.
1:39:42>> Okay. The comment about the 16-year-old.
1:39:46>> Okay. School shooter is crazy.
1:39:48>> That's crazy. School shooter is crazy.
1:39:50>> Because Because this is the thing, too.
1:39:52There's pictures of the 16-year-old.
1:39:55That's like defamation. Actually,
1:39:57>> she was 14.
1:39:58>> Okay, that is so [ __ ] scary to do. Um
1:40:02I think like to being like, "Oh, I'm
1:40:04going to take your grandma's ring."
1:40:05Okay, that's one thing. But to say that
1:40:06some accusing someone of potentially
1:40:08being a a [ __ ] mass murderer is
1:40:12incredibly detrimental because like
1:40:14that's on first off, yeah, it's not
1:40:17[ __ ] funny because that's a real
1:40:18problem we have in our society here in
1:40:20America. Second off, this person's
1:40:22reputation could be totally destroyed if
1:40:24some rando finds that or employer or
1:40:27something. I think that's incredibly
1:40:30damaging and I think it's just very
1:40:33inappropriate to do.
1:40:34>> I think it's inappropriate. But I do,
1:40:35and I'm not advocating for this. I'm not
1:40:38going around saying this, and nor would
1:40:40I, but in high school, and granted, this
1:40:42person's not in high school. This person
1:40:44is 29.
1:40:45>> Yeah.
1:40:46>> Way too old for this. 20.
1:40:47>> If she was like a teenager, I'd give her
1:40:50grace because the amount of people in
1:40:52high school that like, and this is
1:40:54bullying, and I don't advocate for it,
1:40:56but there were people in high school
1:40:57that'd be like, "Yeah, the person
1:40:58totally has school shooter vibes just
1:40:59for like emo weird kids." Like, that is
1:41:02a that is a common quote.
1:41:05>> It's [ __ ] up, though. And it's usually
1:41:06bullying. I think the sister's a bully
1:41:08who needs
1:41:09>> a 29year-old bullying a what?
1:41:1114-year-old.
1:41:13>> Insane.
1:41:14>> To be fair, she's she's not doing it to
1:41:15her face. shouldn't be doing it. Period.
1:41:18>> Um, you're doing it on you're harassing
1:41:21a child online.
1:41:22>> Well, it's it's okay.
1:41:24>> It looks like it's hidden.
1:41:28>> Do you never say things that sometimes
1:41:30are out of pocket in a group chat?
1:41:32>> 12 people is basically just talking to
1:41:35the girls.
1:41:37>> No, because it's public info. Instagram
1:41:39is public.
1:41:39>> No, Fina is private. Do you know what a
1:41:42Finina is?
1:41:42>> Yeah, I know. But still, it's on a
1:41:44social media platform,
1:41:47right? So, you think that she was right
1:41:49to go to the fiance?
1:41:50>> Oh my god, I'm so old. I literally
1:41:52thought a finsa was just like your own
1:41:54personal type of like fake Instagram.
1:41:56>> That is what a fina is.
1:41:57>> Yeah.
1:41:58>> You don't have to go to it. The app's
1:42:00not called. It's just Instagram.
1:42:01>> It's just Instagram.
1:42:02>> Oh, okay. Okay. That's what
1:42:04>> Wait, you thought it was an app?
1:42:05>> No, I thought that what Yeah, right now
1:42:07I was like, "Oh, there's an app."
1:42:09>> Oh, no. It's a fake Instagram is what
1:42:11it's called.
1:42:12>> Okay. I have friends that still use
1:42:13Finstas to this day.
1:42:15>> Okay, whatever about the Finsta. The
1:42:18fact that you're
1:42:18>> It's not about the Fina stuff.
1:42:20>> The fact that you're saying that about a
1:42:22child is so creepy in and grow up
1:42:26>> wrong on so many levels.
1:42:28>> Yes.
1:42:29>> The other [ __ ] is like weird as [ __ ] in
1:42:31my opinion, but like okay, I guess if
1:42:34that's what you want to talk about your
1:42:36his grandma dying and getting the ring,
1:42:37like that's just kind of [ __ ] but
1:42:39whatever.
1:42:39>> It's very teenager. You're 29. Talking
1:42:42about a child, get a life.
1:42:45>> Yeah. What is the conclusion we're
1:42:47supposed to Are we just
1:42:48>> Do you think she was wrong for going to
1:42:50the fiance about it? We all know the
1:42:53sister is a piece of [ __ ] The main
1:42:55character who did this?
1:42:56>> Well, I don't think she's wrong. And
1:42:59also, I think she should have gone to
1:43:01her sister first. That's my consensus. I
1:43:04think she's wrong for going to the
1:43:05fiance. I don't think she's wrong for
1:43:08seeing a major problem in this, but like
1:43:10screenshotting it instead of confronting
1:43:12your sister, it's kind of giving like
1:43:16you have a problem with it, but at what
1:43:18cost? Like cuz you won't even talk to
1:43:20your sister, but I think she's wrong.
1:43:21Sydney, what do you think?
1:43:23>> Um yeah, I think I agree. I think she's
1:43:25in the wrong. She should have brought it
1:43:26to her sister first.
1:43:28>> Now, before we wrap this up, um this
1:43:29story up, just a disclaimer. I do not
1:43:32condone these actions. Just because I
1:43:35think the sister is wrong for going to
1:43:37the fiance does not mean that I think
1:43:38that any of this is okay.
1:43:40>> Thank you, Haley. I think
1:43:42>> I'm really scared people are going to
1:43:43think that I'm going to be out here
1:43:44bullying a 14-year-old. I would never do
1:43:47that. No, I don't think that you're over
1:43:48here like, "Yeah, and she deserved it."
1:43:50>> And I only bullied my boyfriends on
1:43:52Finstas in high school. I would not do
1:43:54that at 29 years old.
1:43:56>> 29 is [ __ ] insane to be doing that.
1:43:59And her fiance's 31. Online bullying is
1:44:01wild. Period. Doing it past, I would
1:44:04say, high school is
1:44:07[ __ ] wild.
1:44:08>> Your frontal lobe never delivered.
1:44:09>> You need to get help.
1:44:13>> Get help and get off the internet.
1:44:15>> Seek help. Touch grass. Tag yourself.
1:44:17Janelle's Waffle Stomp and I'm Finsta.
1:44:20>> What is that supposed to mean? Tag
1:44:22yourself. What does that mean?
1:44:24>> Tag yourself is like, who are you in
1:44:26this scenario? Wample Stomp or
1:44:28>> Tag yourself in Tag yourself in this
1:44:30episode.
1:44:31>> Do you have a fster or are you wobble
1:44:33stomping? And if you're both,
1:44:36>> good for you.
1:44:36>> Round of applause.
1:44:38>> Proud of you. Proud of you.
1:44:41>> Mhm.
1:44:43Okay. Well, thank you for having me on
1:44:46today.
1:44:46>> You're welcome. Thank you for joining
1:44:48us. Greatly appreciate it. Um, I think
1:44:51that's going to be it this week. Let us
1:44:53know your thoughts. Let us know if
1:44:54you're watching Traders. and let us know
1:44:56if you would break up with someone over
1:44:58a poop in the shower and if you would
1:45:02tell the fiance about the Finsta. I want
1:45:05to know your thoughts. And that's going
1:45:07to do it for us this week's kids. Thanks
1:45:10so much for hanging out. We love you and
1:45:13we will see you in the next session.
1:45:14Until then, keep it fresh.

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