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Sex, Lies, and Sex Offenders - Part 1 - Protect your children from dangerous people! — Transcript

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  1. 0:19[Music]
  2. 0:28for
  3. 0:30[Music]
  4. 0:36this young Minister has been accused of
  5. 0:38child sexual abuse he's an outstanding
  6. 0:41member of the community widely respected
  7. 0:44and well-liked he has no criminal record
  8. 0:47of any sort is he guilty you decide I
  9. 0:52was a youth Minister and assistant
  10. 0:54Minister um it was a rather small
  11. 0:57congregation for our community around
  12. 0:59around 200 to 300 people at best 300 and
  13. 1:04um I I feel the needs of an of an
  14. 1:07assistant pastor uh an associate
  15. 1:09Minister a deacon uh and the highest
  16. 1:12being Elder Pastor uh and working with
  17. 1:15the with the Youth of the
  18. 1:18congregation he was a kid at church
  19. 1:22underprivileged he came in with a group
  20. 1:25of uh of other
  21. 1:26children and I reached out and tried to
  22. 1:29help him as no one else would and just
  23. 1:32like the kids that normally uh that
  24. 1:34normally are under privileged they try
  25. 1:36to take advantage of people who who who
  26. 1:39help him uh obviously he has a lot of
  27. 1:42disturbances mental problems I think he
  28. 1:44if you'll look in his records he was
  29. 1:46even uhu in a mental institution for
  30. 1:48three years before uh before um coming
  31. 1:51to church he's before being in the boy's
  32. 1:53home he has a criminal record anyway yes
  33. 1:56I think ministers are victimized by
  34. 1:58false reports the they have a very
  35. 2:01sensitive job um they are out there
  36. 2:05working with people constantly on a
  37. 2:07they're alone many times
  38. 2:09unsupervised uh the only
  39. 2:12person uh with them of course would be
  40. 2:14the minister and the child or the
  41. 2:15minister and the uh accusing victim if
  42. 2:18you will uh so who's to who's to say
  43. 2:21that the minister didn't do it most most
  44. 2:2420 80% of the time I would say uh the
  45. 2:28victim is believed more than the
  46. 2:29minister
  47. 2:31and it's because of all the heightened
  48. 2:35heightened hoopla over victims and all
  49. 2:38that stuff it's ridiculous ministers uh
  50. 2:42too much are are victimized themselves
  51. 2:44for their kind Deeds people want to get
  52. 2:47money out of them if they're a little
  53. 2:49bit successful then their entire
  54. 2:51reputation is shot they go back into the
  55. 2:52ministry and no one may they may say
  56. 2:55that they trust them and they're never
  57. 2:57totally trusted
  58. 2:58again their entire uh education work
  59. 3:03whatever they've gone through for years
  60. 3:04has gone down the drain never to be
  61. 3:06fully restored never to be fully
  62. 3:15recapacitar discouraging I have uh I
  63. 3:18have spent two years in
  64. 3:20seminary I am the youngest uh Deacon of
  65. 3:24the Methodist
  66. 3:26Church in the in in the state
  67. 3:30and it's Absolut all of that prior
  68. 3:33effort and work my entire life dream the
  69. 3:35hopes of my
  70. 3:37parents is now being
  71. 3:40questioned I only hope God deals
  72. 3:42mercifully with
  73. 3:44them what's the truth was he falsely
  74. 3:47accused as he claims you have told I had
  75. 3:50uh 53 Hands-On definite victims uh and
  76. 3:54there are uh 40 uh 42 other ones that
  77. 3:58can be questioned questioned as far as
  78. 4:01uh age and so forth is concerned they I
  79. 4:05have 53 minor victims okay um there's
  80. 4:09been a tremendous increase in child
  81. 4:11sexual abuse reports in the last decade
  82. 4:14some of the accused have been highly
  83. 4:15respected members of the community many
  84. 4:18people wonder whether such respectable
  85. 4:20citizens could be child abusers this
  86. 4:23film will explore this whole issue can
  87. 4:25you tell if someone is a child molester
  88. 4:27by their standing in the community how
  89. 4:30well you know them or how aggressively
  90. 4:32they deny it in fact did you molest
  91. 4:35Mikey yes I did I molested yes I
  92. 4:39molested Mikey uh on um numerous
  93. 4:43occasions throughout a three-year period
  94. 4:46from the time beginning at 9 until he
  95. 4:48was 12 years old um Mike um I knew
  96. 4:53Michael before he began coming to the
  97. 4:55congregation where I attended um he was
  98. 4:59I worked
  99. 5:00many times with the uh people in his
  100. 5:02area uh with with problem children um as
  101. 5:05a younger as an older teenager I would
  102. 5:08go out and uh and assist people um in
  103. 5:12the in the boys homes and so forth that
  104. 5:14for little small things like uh baseball
  105. 5:17games softball Games Etc and as a matter
  106. 5:20of fact I chose him because he was as a
  107. 5:23victim because he was a problem child
  108. 5:26because uh people neglected him and
  109. 5:29often times pushed him mide and I knew
  110. 5:30it would be easy for me to to get close
  111. 5:33to him uh to
  112. 5:36uh be his friend if you will and then
  113. 5:40again I also knew if he told that there
  114. 5:43would be little or
  115. 5:45uh small amounts of belief in him no one
  116. 5:48would believe him basically if he was if
  117. 5:50he told and in fact they didn't uh when
  118. 5:53when when he did tell and uh when it
  119. 5:56became um a bigger issue uh when I was
  120. 5:59in investigated the uh the the head of
  121. 6:02the Department of of my County told me
  122. 6:05he say you have nothing to worry about
  123. 6:06he said we can tell from the very
  124. 6:08beginning that this is all you know a
  125. 6:10big scheme and it was it was dropped
  126. 6:11almost as quickly as it came about I was
  127. 6:14caught twice before I was incar
  128. 6:17incarcerated
  129. 6:18um really it wasn't um being caught it
  130. 6:22was I was told on twice before being
  131. 6:24incarcerated they were not believe the
  132. 6:26first two times uh I had I had many
  133. 6:28people uh coun uh counselors um church
  134. 6:33leaders leaders of the community to come
  135. 6:36up and stand in my defense several times
  136. 6:39in uh in those occasions um and it was
  137. 6:43it was simply just totally disbelieved
  138. 6:45even the even the second time it was it
  139. 6:47was more stood out against him the first
  140. 6:49time because they thought well here he
  141. 6:50goes again this this this young man
  142. 6:52trying to help unfortunate children and
  143. 6:55they're turning against him and I was
  144. 6:57even told as much to say I had a I had a
  145. 7:00minister come to me and tell me he said
  146. 7:02he said uh Patrick what's going
  147. 7:05on is you'll run across it many times
  148. 7:08people you try to help will stab you in
  149. 7:10the back he said roll with the punches
  150. 7:12stick with it you're doing a good job he
  151. 7:14said uh and in the end you'll be blessed
  152. 7:16for
  153. 7:18it what about this next man is he in
  154. 7:21denial or is he an innocent man accused
  155. 7:23of adult rape to back up his claim of
  156. 7:27Innocence Roger took and passed a
  157. 7:30polygraph no I didn't do this I did a
  158. 7:33job at this lady's house a couple of
  159. 7:35months ago and during the process of
  160. 7:38working she came out and served us
  161. 7:40drinks she was friendly uh she was
  162. 7:43wearing really short shorts and well I I
  163. 7:47thought she looked nice she smiled a lot
  164. 7:50and uh I thought she even winked at me
  165. 7:52once and uh we talked some and she had a
  166. 7:57there was a motorcycle at the house for
  167. 7:58sale and I went to look at it and this
  168. 8:00is like a couple of months after the job
  169. 8:03and she remembered me she was alone
  170. 8:05except for her baby and uh he was in bed
  171. 8:09and uh we talked a little we talked
  172. 8:12about the
  173. 8:13motorcycle uh I came on to her but she
  174. 8:16didn't say no uh I kissed her we made
  175. 8:19out a little bit and one thing led to
  176. 8:21another and we were in the bedroom we
  177. 8:22had sex her next door neighbor came in
  178. 8:24the house and uh I guess he wanted to
  179. 8:28know who was there and on my car out
  180. 8:30front uh I understand that they're
  181. 8:32friends but she panicked at that point
  182. 8:35when he came in I guess she thought he
  183. 8:36would tell her husband and she screamed
  184. 8:38rape I didn't know what else to do but
  185. 8:40run I was scared Roger eventually
  186. 8:43confessed that what really happened was
  187. 8:46very different from what you just heard
  188. 8:48here is what actually
  189. 8:51transpired the victim was 23 years old
  190. 8:55she was a
  191. 8:57housewife um I gained access to the home
  192. 9:00knowing that there was a motorcycle
  193. 9:01there for sale so I went there during
  194. 9:04the daytime knowing she would be home
  195. 9:07the husband would be at work I had done
  196. 9:09a job there two months
  197. 9:13prior and knowing that I knew a lot
  198. 9:16about them doing the job for them I
  199. 9:19knocked on the front
  200. 9:21door she answered the door and I said I
  201. 9:24came to see about the motorcycle for
  202. 9:26sale uh I looked for signs of
  203. 9:29recognition she didn't seem to recognize
  204. 9:31me I had had a beard before and I was
  205. 9:33shaved and she told me to step around
  206. 9:37back on the patio that was around there
  207. 9:39and I walked around there and she met me
  208. 9:42out there and the back door was open and
  209. 9:45she turned around turned her back to me
  210. 9:47to take the cover off the motorcycle and
  211. 9:50that's when I I grabbed her well I
  212. 9:52grabbed her from behind and in my haste
  213. 9:55I dropped the knife that I had in my
  214. 9:57hand I was going to use that as a SC
  215. 9:59scare tactic because it didn't fit
  216. 10:02my it didn't fit my Mo I I had convinced
  217. 10:07myself that as long as I don't harm this
  218. 10:08person there's no real harm done and so
  219. 10:13she backed against me kicked back
  220. 10:15against me and I fell and but I wouldn't
  221. 10:18let her go and I held on to her and I
  222. 10:20threw her down with me and we fell
  223. 10:22through the back door into the living
  224. 10:23room and that's when I I got on top of
  225. 10:27her I wrestled her down put my hand over
  226. 10:29her mouth and told her not to scream
  227. 10:31that I was going to let her up but if
  228. 10:33she did scream I'd kill
  229. 10:35her I used fear as a weapon I all I just
  230. 10:39I knew already that as long as she was
  231. 10:41afraid that I would kill her even though
  232. 10:44I wouldn't she would do what I told her
  233. 10:45to and she did and I then forced her
  234. 10:49into her
  235. 10:51bedroom uh I raped her in the in the
  236. 10:56vagina three times three different
  237. 10:59different times I raped her in the mouth
  238. 11:01with my penis once I raped her in the
  239. 11:02anus with my finger uh
  240. 11:05once and
  241. 11:08afterward I gave I asked her if she had
  242. 11:10a knife and she said yes and she was
  243. 11:12real scared at that point I I could see
  244. 11:15that she thought I was probably going to
  245. 11:16kill her she had a child in the house
  246. 11:1818-month old boy I had her I made her
  247. 11:21put him to bed prior to all of this in
  248. 11:24his bedroom uh and he
  249. 11:27slept uh
  250. 11:29I forced her in the kitchen made her get
  251. 11:31out the butcher knife and she handed it
  252. 11:33to me and I said no it's not for me
  253. 11:35that's for that's for you I want you to
  254. 11:36stabbed me with that knife and I grabbed
  255. 11:39the blade and put the point of it right
  256. 11:42in my solar plexus my sternum I said I
  257. 11:44want you to push it real hard and when I
  258. 11:46close my eyes and uh so she started
  259. 11:50crying and she said that she couldn't do
  260. 11:52that she couldn't kill me she just it
  261. 11:54wasn't in her to kill someone and then I
  262. 11:57got angry uh because cuz I had planned
  263. 11:59on suicide that day and I was angry
  264. 12:02because she wouldn't do it and I didn't
  265. 12:04have the courage to do it myself and so
  266. 12:07I screamed at her and I told her well
  267. 12:09you'd better do it because if you don't
  268. 12:10I'm going to use it on you and I thought
  269. 12:12I could scare her into doing it she
  270. 12:14still wouldn't do it her baby started
  271. 12:17crying she left went and got him came
  272. 12:20back in the room and and then I broke
  273. 12:23down and cried I was crying for myself I
  274. 12:25was feeling sorry for me I didn't weren
  275. 12:27even thinking about her
  276. 12:31I would do kind and generous things for
  277. 12:36people um I would give uh families money
  278. 12:40that did not have uh any money that was
  279. 12:42not from the church treasury it was from
  280. 12:44my own personal uh bank accounts I would
  281. 12:47uh support them in all the ways that I
  282. 12:49could uh talk to them encourage them I
  283. 12:52would go to nursing homes uh talk with
  284. 12:56the elderly pray with the elderly I
  285. 12:59would uh do community service projects
  286. 13:01pick up litter off the side of the road
  287. 13:04um I would mow the mow The Lawns for
  288. 13:07elderly and handicapped people go
  289. 13:09grocery shopping for them um I would do
  290. 13:14activities that were centered around the
  291. 13:16things that young people like to do not
  292. 13:18the things that t tend to happen in
  293. 13:20churches which are boring and dull it
  294. 13:22was actually very exciting for them and
  295. 13:24they enjoyed it and our youth group grew
  296. 13:26it was definitely to cover up what I had
  297. 13:29uh what I had been doing the it seemed
  298. 13:31the more I would get into my deviancy
  299. 13:33the more I would try to do that was good
  300. 13:35in the eyes of everyone else and indeed
  301. 13:37in the eyes of everyone else I was a
  302. 13:39good kid um grew up making good grades
  303. 13:42in school went to a nice College um all
  304. 13:45of that just added to to the double
  305. 13:47life the double life like so many sex
  306. 13:51offenders Patrick worked hard at making
  307. 13:53people think he was not the kind of
  308. 13:56person who would commit a sexual offense
  309. 13:58the church was not an accidental choice
  310. 14:00of a place to hide Patrick felt that
  311. 14:03people in the church were very generous
  312. 14:05in their opinions of others and to use
  313. 14:08that to his
  314. 14:10Advantage I consider people that go to
  315. 14:12church glal uh because they have a trust
  316. 14:16that comes from being Christians um and
  317. 14:18other
  318. 14:19people they tend to be better folks all
  319. 14:23around and um they seem to want to
  320. 14:26believe in the good that exists in all
  321. 14:29people I consider people
  322. 14:33uh wanting to believe that these kind of
  323. 14:36things don't happen that children don't
  324. 14:38be the children shouldn't be molested
  325. 14:41and that it doesn't happen and it really
  326. 14:43doesn't happen in my community and in my
  327. 14:45church and because of that it was easy
  328. 14:48for me to convince them all the more
  329. 14:51with my uh Good Deeds that I had done
  330. 14:55with the uh actions that I had Pres
  331. 14:58presented the members of the
  332. 15:00congregation um I think that
  333. 15:05um that that they want to
  334. 15:08believe in in people and because of that
  335. 15:13you can easily convince uh with with or
  336. 15:16without convincing words they said well
  337. 15:20we know this young man he has been in
  338. 15:22our community all of his life we know
  339. 15:24his parents his grandparents his aunts
  340. 15:27his uncles this is not something that he
  341. 15:29would do this is not something that goes
  342. 15:31along with behavior that we see him in
  343. 15:34day in and day out and that was true
  344. 15:37because I was very careful that they did
  345. 15:39not see that behavior day in and day out
  346. 15:42most of my uh deviant Behavior happened
  347. 15:44at nighttime uh and behind the scenes
  348. 15:47away and Far From Any important people
  349. 15:51uh who could make those kinds of of
  350. 15:55judgments that yes indeed Patrick is the
  351. 15:58kind of person person who would go
  352. 15:59around molesting
  353. 16:01children Roger too felt that he had led
  354. 16:04a double
  355. 16:05life I think people are very easy to
  356. 16:09fool the government's been doing it
  357. 16:13forever what why do you think they're so
  358. 16:15easy to
  359. 16:17fool because people want to believe in
  360. 16:22something
  361. 16:24and they want to Hope and they want to
  362. 16:27believe
  363. 16:29they want to there's something inside of
  364. 16:31people that makes them want to believe
  365. 16:32or want to believe the best in things
  366. 16:35and the best in others because the
  367. 16:38alternative is not very
  368. 16:40nice if I wanted to fool people what
  369. 16:43advice would you give me how what's the
  370. 16:45best way to do it how how do I act what
  371. 16:48do I do to be
  372. 16:51polite um to be kind to show
  373. 16:56kindness uh especially in in public and
  374. 17:00where there are more than one
  375. 17:02present uh put this facade on constantly
  376. 17:05you wear it like clothes every
  377. 17:09day and you smile even when you don't
  378. 17:12want to smile you don't feel like
  379. 17:16smiling when you're hurting inside you
  380. 17:18you push that down and you smile anyway
  381. 17:22and you're polite you're kind and you
  382. 17:24say the right things you say the things
  383. 17:26that you think people want to hear
  384. 17:30that you would like to
  385. 17:32[Music]
  386. 17:33hear you exercise that
  387. 17:37sympathy the men in this film are all
  388. 17:40incarcerated sex offenders and
  389. 17:42interviewing men for this project over
  390. 17:44and over I heard the same stories they
  391. 17:47each had numerous victims they were
  392. 17:49often caught many times before the
  393. 17:51offense for which they were finally
  394. 17:53incarcerated and their victims had not
  395. 17:55been believed most ended up in prison
  396. 17:58only because some corroborating evidence
  397. 18:00was found such as pornographic pictures
  398. 18:02of a child or because they eventually
  399. 18:04confessed routinely these sex offenders
  400. 18:07talked about how they set up and lived a
  401. 18:09double life a life that covered up their
  402. 18:12deviate activities when caught they
  403. 18:14often denied aggressively and often they
  404. 18:17found it surprisingly easy to fool
  405. 18:20people Wayne has been incarcerated twice
  406. 18:23for child molestation the first
  407. 18:25incarceration was for raping an
  408. 18:278-year-old girl he tore her vagina so
  409. 18:31severely she had to be taken to the
  410. 18:33hospital how many victims do I have
  411. 18:36total I believe it's 12 okay and I have
  412. 18:41to really sit down and and and think
  413. 18:42about
  414. 18:43that most of my victims are
  415. 18:46girlfriend children okay why did nothing
  416. 18:50come of it when the children
  417. 18:52told well
  418. 18:54um like one of my victims she was she
  419. 18:57was rather Wild
  420. 18:59and it's a to have a victim like that
  421. 19:01it's very easy to make Liars out of them
  422. 19:03because they don't want to tell what
  423. 19:04they've been doing to start with you
  424. 19:06know it's kind of like if you tell on me
  425. 19:07I'll tell on
  426. 19:10you did you find people easy or hard to
  427. 19:14fool it depends on whether they care or
  428. 19:16not you know if if people in general
  429. 19:20they're going to think what they want to
  430. 19:22think and that's just basically all
  431. 19:25there is to it I mean if they want to
  432. 19:27think bad you they're going to think bad
  433. 19:29of you if they hear something bad of you
  434. 19:30and they kind of believe it they're
  435. 19:32going to believe it and if they don't
  436. 19:33they
  437. 19:34don't and something like that it's hard
  438. 19:37to believe in the business I was in you
  439. 19:40know uh this guy works around children
  440. 19:42all the time if he was molesting
  441. 19:44children you
  442. 19:45know there's no way you couldn't get
  443. 19:47caught what was your business I was
  444. 19:50night manager of grocery store I was in
  445. 19:52a public lot I led a double life I mean
  446. 19:56the store was I was entirely different
  447. 19:57person
  448. 19:59the
  449. 20:01U maybe not so much an attitude of the
  450. 20:03way I acted but I can honestly be me you
  451. 20:07know I could be a a a productive person
  452. 20:11and a a decent person in the community
  453. 20:14it was a place where I could say I'm a
  454. 20:15decent person you know when I went home
  455. 20:17I had to face this again you know I'm
  456. 20:19not a decent person I'm an indecent
  457. 20:21person I do in moral
  458. 20:23things it was like you know and you get
  459. 20:26at work for me if I got at work you know
  460. 20:28I loved work I loved to stay at work
  461. 20:30because I didn't have to go back home
  462. 20:31and face my real self when I was first
  463. 20:36asked the question when she first asked
  464. 20:38me the question if I did molest her and
  465. 20:42it was like electricity running through
  466. 20:44my body you know it's like being really
  467. 20:46I just really got nervous so basically
  468. 20:49was to get over the nervousness because
  469. 20:50that's the first Telltale sign you know
  470. 20:52is being really nervous and perspiring
  471. 20:55and such as that uh Quivers in my voice
  472. 20:58as is right now wouldn't be you know I
  473. 21:01would have worked through that already
  474. 21:04it was basically you know if the guy
  475. 21:06really didn't care it was kind of like
  476. 21:07an adult conversation you know like you
  477. 21:10know come on guy you know I'm not going
  478. 21:11to do anything like that you know me if
  479. 21:13I was talking to somebody I
  480. 21:15knew and uh I would use my job you know
  481. 21:18look I've been around children all my
  482. 21:20life you know
  483. 21:24uh if I was going to molest a child
  484. 21:26don't you think I'd pick a child outside
  485. 21:27my home and not have it in my home with
  486. 21:31me all the
  487. 21:32time how do I fool
  488. 21:35people hard one you know I
  489. 21:37I I guess I
  490. 21:41don't don't really know how F just stare
  491. 21:44them straight in the eye and just tell
  492. 21:46them just answer their questions when
  493. 21:48they ask you basically is not to be
  494. 21:50nervous and to look someone in the eye
  495. 21:53if you can get to grasp to look someone
  496. 21:55in the eye because that's you know you
  497. 21:56that's something that's driven in your
  498. 21:57head head all your life if somebody
  499. 21:59looks in your eye you know they're
  500. 22:00telling you the truth so if you can
  501. 22:03stare someone in the eye and tell them a
  502. 22:04lie they'll they're going to say you
  503. 22:06know the guy didn't even blink he didn't
  504. 22:08look away he he's pretty straight here
  505. 22:11plus you know he's he's pretty good in
  506. 22:13the community he's uh worked at this
  507. 22:16store 12 15 years or he's worked at his
  508. 22:19business 12 15 years and you
  509. 22:22know basically if you can stay calm and
  510. 22:26look whoever it is in the eye and
  511. 22:28especially if the mother of the victim
  512. 22:29or the or the victim there if the victim
  513. 22:32is anywhere that you can look at her and
  514. 22:35make her nervous or him whichever one it
  515. 22:37might be the more nervous that you make
  516. 22:40them the more it makes it seem like
  517. 22:41they're L if they're around you know
  518. 22:44most of the time they're not just a
  519. 22:47simple look to a child is traumatizing
  520. 22:50you believe it or not it really is
  521. 22:52especially if the adult is molesting the
  522. 22:56child if this one had gone G to court do
  523. 22:58you believe you would have been
  524. 22:59convicted or do you believe that a jury
  525. 23:02would have taken your word over the
  526. 23:04child's in my mind in my mind I probably
  527. 23:08would think that uh I would have gotten
  528. 23:11away with it because I could sit there
  529. 23:14and if she was in the courtroom which
  530. 23:16sometimes they do you know they do bring
  531. 23:18them in sometimes and sometimes they
  532. 23:19don't and I know when we went to the U
  533. 23:22the hearing she wouldn't even come in
  534. 23:24the courtroom and when she did come in
  535. 23:26when she looked at me I just look back
  536. 23:28at her and I really didn't even give her
  537. 23:30any kind of insinuation with my look you
  538. 23:33know I just just basically looked at
  539. 23:35her and uh she went right back out of
  540. 23:38the
  541. 23:39courtroom and if we had went to the
  542. 23:41court you know if we had went to court
  543. 23:43and we both had been in the courtroom at
  544. 23:44the same time then I could have made her
  545. 23:47nervous enough to make her lie or make
  546. 23:49her stumble to make people think she was
  547. 23:52lying sometimes the sex offenders
  548. 23:55themselves are taken aback by the denial
  549. 23:57of other people
  550. 23:58the next offender was a sadistic sex
  551. 24:00offender who was sexually aroused by
  552. 24:02pain and suffering he often severely
  553. 24:04beat his stepson as well as molested him
  554. 24:07even he was surprised by the reaction of
  555. 24:10a nurse at the emergency room when his
  556. 24:12son tried to blow the whistle on him uh
  557. 24:15I took him to the hospital on a number
  558. 24:17of different occasions uh recall one
  559. 24:20occasions I I beat him up very
  560. 24:22bad and uh I took him to the hospital
  561. 24:25and they asked me what happened and I
  562. 24:26told him that he fell down a FL of
  563. 24:28stairs and my wife was with me and we
  564. 24:31didn't have no stairs in the house uh my
  565. 24:35wife stood there and looked at me like
  566. 24:36are you crazy
  567. 24:39uh my son said we don't have stairs and
  568. 24:43the nurse told my son to be quiet that
  569. 24:46she's not talking to him she's talking
  570. 24:48to me and she asked me to just go ahead
  571. 24:51and continue relay giving her the
  572. 24:53information and I continued to tell her
  573. 24:55that he had fallen down a flight of
  574. 24:57stairs at home uh bumped into the wall
  575. 25:00and hit the rail uh she asked how many
  576. 25:02stairs it was I told her about 10 or 12
  577. 25:04stairs that he had fallen down and
  578. 25:07that's how he got himself hurt and
  579. 25:08bruised up and she said okay and that's
  580. 25:11the way the hospital report went it was
  581. 25:14reported only to my wife uh six or seven
  582. 25:19well I take it back it was reported to
  583. 25:20my wife and my
  584. 25:22parents uh probably six seven different
  585. 25:25times uh and there was actually one
  586. 25:28instance where I went to the police
  587. 25:29station myself to turn my turn myself in
  588. 25:33and the police day the officer at the
  589. 25:35desk told me to go home and sleep off my
  590. 25:37drunk and I left uh if it wasn't for the
  591. 25:40fact that they had found my landlord had
  592. 25:42found some pornographic pictures of my
  593. 25:44son in the Attic of the home where we
  594. 25:47were living I would probably still be
  595. 25:51molesting why wasn't your son
  596. 25:56believed I made up stories about him uh
  597. 26:01and there was a lot
  598. 26:03of belief that the adults were to be
  599. 26:07believed and stepchildren weren't that
  600. 26:10this was a problem with uh him and I not
  601. 26:13getting
  602. 26:15along and that's a lot of the reason
  603. 26:18that people didn't believe what was
  604. 26:19happening didn't believe
  605. 26:21him I think General Society is easy to
  606. 26:25form uh
  607. 26:28extremely easy to fool and I would say
  608. 26:31that I say that because of how long I
  609. 26:33have fooled society and how long I've
  610. 26:35fooled
  611. 26:36people I've been fooling people for well
  612. 26:38over 25 years and people have believed
  613. 26:41what I told them in this period of time
  614. 26:45when you were when you said you were a
  615. 26:47molesting monster at home what were you
  616. 26:50like in terms of
  617. 26:51control controlling people in terms of
  618. 26:54violence what was really going on in
  619. 26:56your house that people didn't know all
  620. 26:57about
  621. 27:02uh what people didn't know about going
  622. 27:04on in my home was uh a lot of extreme
  623. 27:07violence beating my son up uh beating my
  624. 27:11wife up if my wife wouldn't have sex
  625. 27:13with me when I wanted it where I or how
  626. 27:15I wanted it I would beat her up and then
  627. 27:18rape her after I'd beat her I had beat
  628. 27:20my son into
  629. 27:22unconsciousness a number of times
  630. 27:25uh and then I would keep your sometimes
  631. 27:28kept locked up in the house until his
  632. 27:30bruises healed up keeping him away from
  633. 27:33school keeping him away from his
  634. 27:35friends nobody around me
  635. 27:38knew what I was doing nobody around my
  636. 27:42community knew that I was such a violent
  637. 27:44individual in the home if they did they
  638. 27:46never said anything but I don't believe
  639. 27:48they ever knew because I was completely
  640. 27:51in totally different outside of the
  641. 27:53house once I left the
  642. 27:56home there There Is No
  643. 27:59Boundaries let me rephrase that there
  644. 28:01was no boundaries for
  645. 28:03me no place was off
  646. 28:07limits no time was off
  647. 28:09limits and no set of circumstances was
  648. 28:12off
  649. 28:14limits at any time that I saw an
  650. 28:17opportunity to get what I wanted which
  651. 28:19was to rape or
  652. 28:21molest I took advantage of that there
  653. 28:24were times that I raped in in a car with
  654. 28:28the parents in the front seat me in the
  655. 28:30back seat with the children the child
  656. 28:35would would feel such a bond of trust
  657. 28:39that the child would decide okay I'd
  658. 28:42like to go to sleep I'd manipulate the
  659. 28:45child in Laying across the seat and
  660. 28:48molest the child with my hand on his
  661. 28:50penis by forcing my hand on his penis
  662. 28:53while the uh parents were in the front
  663. 28:56seat
  664. 28:58um there were other times that I
  665. 29:00molested and raped while at work where I
  666. 29:04simply manipulated the child into coming
  667. 29:07into my
  668. 29:08office and I just very simply locked the
  669. 29:12door
  670. 29:14and and proceeded to do what I wanted to
  671. 29:17do which was to rap the
  672. 29:19child um my my
  673. 29:23nephew I raped him for a period of n
  674. 29:27years raped and molest him for a period
  675. 29:29of over 9
  676. 29:31years and very few
  677. 29:35cases did I rape him in which no one was
  678. 29:38in the
  679. 29:40house I
  680. 29:41have 11 male rape victims I have one m
  681. 29:46one female rape victim and I have
  682. 29:51approximately
  683. 29:52and
  684. 29:541,250 male molest victims
  685. 29:59there is a myth in this culture and a
  686. 30:01powerful one the people can tell if
  687. 30:03other people are lying by the way they
  688. 30:05act Liars people think act nervous they
  689. 30:09can't look people in the eye sex
  690. 30:11offenders know better they make it their
  691. 30:13business to trade on other people's
  692. 30:15myths they look people in the eye they
  693. 30:18use fluid hand gestures they deny
  694. 30:20vigorously and
  695. 30:22aggressively and what's more they often
  696. 30:24do kind and generous things for others
  697. 30:26as a cover for the Deviant activities
  698. 30:29there were many children these people in
  699. 30:32this film molested who reported them but
  700. 30:35they were simply not believed we will
  701. 30:38never deal effectively with the problem
  702. 30:40of sexual aggression if we do not first
  703. 30:43find examine and deal with the myths we
  704. 30:46use to make ourselves feel
  705. 30:54[Music]
  706. 30:56safe
  707. 30:59[Music]
  708. 31:12[Music]
  709. 31:56for

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