Self Concept is the KEY to manifestation — Transcript

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1. 0:00The concept you have of yourself
2. 0:01determines everything. It determines the
3. 0:04way you move. It determines the way you
4. 0:05think. It determines what your brain
5. 0:07filters. It determines everything in
6. 0:09your life. And at the end of the day, it
7. 0:11influences the reality you love. The way
8. 0:14people treat you, the way the world
9. 0:16treats you, the way you treat yourself,
10. 0:18the things you do, everything is
11. 0:21determined by the concept you have of
12. 0:23yourself. And that is exactly what we're
13. 0:25going to be talking about in today's
14. 0:26video. Now, spoiler alert, your
15. 0:28self-concept is, quote unquote, an equal
16. 0:31to your identity. I've been speaking
17. 0:34about it quite some of my YouTube videos
18. 0:36lately, but I have to talk about it
19. 0:38because it's so important. Your
20. 0:39self-concept is, quote unquote, aka your
21. 0:43identity. And that is what we're going
22. 0:44to break down in today's video. Your
23. 0:46identity, the concept you have of
24. 0:48yourself, and how it influences and
25. 0:50affects your entire reality. I've seen
26. 0:53this for myself. At the time, I didn't
27. 0:54think self-concept was important. I
28. 0:56didn't think my identity was important
29. 0:58until I almost lost my apartment, my
30. 1:00lifestyle that I worked so hard to
31. 1:02manifest. Okay? That is how important
32. 1:04self-concept and identity is, and that
33. 1:06is why we're going to be breaking it
34. 1:07down in today's video. Hello, everyone.
35. 1:10It's Courtney, and welcome to my
36. 1:11channel. On the channel, we talk all
37. 1:12about closing the gap between your
38. 1:13current self, your ideal self, so that
39. 1:14you can manifest your dream life, the
40. 1:17dream reality you've always wanted to
41. 1:19wake up to. But, you know what? That
42. 1:21dream reality you've always wanted to
43. 1:22wake up to is paired with a certain
44. 1:24identity, one that you need to obtain
45. 1:26before you actually get the reality that
46. 1:28you want. It's proven. It's written. And
47. 1:31I'm going to tell you in this video
48. 1:32exactly why I believe it so deeply. But,
49. 1:34the reality you want is paired up with a
50. 1:36specific identity. And the only way to
51. 1:39obtain that reality is to walk into that
52. 1:41identity. That is why Neville Goddard
53. 1:42say, "Do not focus on anything outside
54. 1:45of you. Change the self, and the reality
55. 1:47around you will start to conform. It
56. 1:49will start to shift. It will start to
57. 1:51change. It will tell you who you are."
58. 1:53Because who you are makes up for
59. 1:54everything you experience in your life.
60. 1:57It's no wasting time, and let's get into
61. 1:58it. Now, identity I It's such a close
62. 2:01thing to my heart.
63. 2:02Almost lost my apartment, almost lost my
64. 2:04business, almost lost my YouTube
65. 2:05channel, lost almost lost so many things
66. 2:07I've worked so hard to to manifest
67. 2:08because of my identity. And that is
68. 2:10exactly why I created the identity
69. 2:12recode. If you want a completely
70. 2:14different life, if you want to change
71. 2:15your life, if you want a completely
72. 2:17different reality, this is the exact
73. 2:19thing I would recommend you, the
74. 2:20identity recode, because identity is the
75. 2:22core, the stem, and the root of why you
76. 2:25either have or don't have the life you
77. 2:27want. That's why I put so much work into
78. 2:29it. That is why this is the program I'm
79. 2:30going to be recommending for the rest of
80. 2:32the time being because this is a true
81. 2:34key to manifestation. It's a re-wiring
82. 2:36that identity of yours. And the identity
83. 2:38recode focus on the loop you keep
84. 2:40trapping yourself in, and how to get out
85. 2:42of it, and how to completely rewrite in
86. 2:44four weeks, how to rewrite your entire
87. 2:47identity. I highly recommend it. You
88. 2:49guys should go check it out in the link
89. 2:50down below. But, without further ado,
90. 2:52let's get into the actual video. Your
91. 2:54self-concept, your identity, and how it
92. 2:56influences your entire reality. Okay?
93. 2:59We're going to be breaking it down step
94. 3:00by step, and what you're going to do in
95. 3:02order to change your identity to
96. 3:03manifest a completely new reality. Okay?
97. 3:06Self-concept, identity. Let's talk about
98. 3:09it. Your self-concept is the concept you
99. 3:10have of yourself. It's the concept you
100. 3:12have of the world. It's the concept you
101. 3:14have about how people are going to treat
102. 3:15you or respond to you based on the
103. 3:17concept, at the end of the day, you have
104. 3:18of yourself. And that concept is
105. 3:20determined by the identity that you
106. 3:22hold, the identity you have of yourself.
107. 3:25Identity comes from I am. I am. This is
108. 3:29what I get. This is what I deserve. And
109. 3:31all of those I ams, those this is what I
110. 3:33deserve, this is what I see for myself,
111. 3:35this is who I am, this is what I get to
112. 3:36experience, this is what I get to have
113. 3:38in my life, all of that will start to
114. 3:40influence your thoughts. Okay? Thoughts
115. 3:43and identity is different because
116. 3:44identity is a core belief. It's a core
117. 3:47belief. It's really rooted in your
118. 3:48unconscious being, your subconscious
119. 3:51mind, and your unconscious being because
120. 3:53it influenced everything without you
121. 3:55even knowing it. The only way for you to
122. 3:58ever recognize and truly truly see your
123. 4:01identity and the concept of yourself is
124. 4:03when you look around at the world you're
125. 4:05living in. If you see the world you're
126. 4:07living in, you'll instantly instantly
127. 4:09recognize what you tolerate, what you
128. 4:11believe you deserve, what you have in
129. 4:12your life, what you believe you can
130. 4:14amount to, what you believe you can
131. 4:15acquire, the things you believe you you
132. 4:17can be in life. Who do you believe you
133. 4:19can be? You will see that when you look
134. 4:22around at your life. If you're sitting
135. 4:23in your bedroom, you're bed-rotting, you
136. 4:25have no job, you whatever, not to dis um
137. 4:28not to do not to say anything to you,
138. 4:29but this is just the hardcore truth
139. 4:31about who you believe you are and how
140. 4:32you perceive yourself and the identity
141. 4:34you hold. Okay? Whatever your life is,
142. 4:36if you see yourself sitting in your
143. 4:38bedroom, not doing anything, no job, no
144. 4:41this, you're broke, or whatever the case
145. 4:42may be, it is just a direct reflection
146. 4:45of the identity you hold. Okay? If
147. 4:47you're in a shitty relationship that's
148. 4:49not treating you well, that's a really
149. 4:51bad for you, but you're staying anyway,
150. 4:53it has nothing to do with that person,
151. 4:55but more so to do with the identity you
152. 4:58have because your identity creates your
153. 4:59standards. It creates what you what you
154. 5:01believe you're going to sit through,
155. 5:03what you believe you can or can't have,
156. 5:05what you believe you can or can't
157. 5:06tolerate. All of those things are
158. 5:07determined by your identity. So,
159. 5:09identity is so important because it
160. 5:11influences everything. Let's break it
161. 5:13down. Let's break it down. It starts
162. 5:15with a loop that your identity holds.
163. 5:18Your identity has a specific loop it
164. 5:19follows to keep itself there, to keep
165. 5:22itself there, and to keep you in the
166. 5:23specific reality. Okay? Now, identity is
167. 5:26very protective. It's very protective of
168. 5:28itself. It wants to stay prominent. It
169. 5:30wants to stay permanent. It wants to
170. 5:31stay there. That's why many people go
171. 5:33throughout their life feeling the same
172. 5:35way, stuck in their life, stuck in this
173. 5:37reality, stuck in this space they are
174. 5:39in. Okay? Forever, for the rest of their
175. 5:41life, they they end up being that way
176. 5:43forever. Why? Because unconsciously,
177. 5:45your identity makes sure that it keeps
178. 5:47you there. It wants to protect itself.
179. 5:49It wants to keep you there. That's why
180. 5:50it's so hard for people to change, to
181. 5:52walk away from relationships, to create
182. 5:54a new path for themselves. Why? They
183. 5:56self-sabotage. They sit in the same
184. 5:58situations. Why? Because unconsciously,
185. 6:00the identity keeps him like an anchor
186. 6:02down onto the ground. Okay? That is why
187. 6:05identity is so important. That is why I
188. 6:07created our program on it. That's
189. 6:09because it keeps you trapped. Okay?
190. 6:11Let's talk about the story of how I
191. 6:13almost lost my apartment. Okay?
192. 6:15When I moved out, I had this whole idea
193. 6:18of manifestation. I thought, if I
194. 6:19affirm, if I assume, if I do this, if I
195. 6:22do that, I will have my I will have my
196. 6:25um desires. And I did. I did have my
197. 6:27desires. I did move into my dream
198. 6:29apartment. I did acquire large amounts
199. 6:31of money every single month. I did
200. 6:32acquire a big YouTube success because
201. 6:34that was one of the biggest things. I
202. 6:36did acquire all of these things. But,
203. 6:38slowly slowly, they started to break
204. 6:40down. And why? Because I was living in
205. 6:44an identity that didn't allow me to sus
206. 6:46to have this reality. I only had mere
207. 6:49assumptions, mere luck, mere pure belief
208. 6:51that it could happen, and it did happen.
209. 6:54But, I couldn't maintain it. I couldn't
210. 6:55keep it because I still operated from a
211. 6:57completely old identity, an identity
212. 7:00where I'm supposed to lose my place. I'm
213. 7:02supposed to not have this YouTube
214. 7:03channel. I'm not supposed to make this
215. 7:04amount of money because my identity
216. 7:06doesn't know these things. It doesn't
217. 7:07know me being successful. It doesn't
218. 7:09know me acquiring the life I want. It
219. 7:11doesn't know me having an apartment,
220. 7:12being consistent, having a YouTube
221. 7:13channel. It doesn't know these things.
222. 7:15It wants to keep me stuck. It wants to
223. 7:17make me move back to my parents. It
224. 7:19wants to make me go back to that room,
225. 7:20back to that bank account, back to the
226. 7:22state I was cuz that's how important
227. 7:24identity wants to keep itself prominent
228. 7:27to keep you stuck
229. 7:29in that same reality. So, it almost made
230. 7:31me lose everything, absolutely
231. 7:34everything, until I had to recognize the
232. 7:36patterns, recognize the fault in my
233. 7:38identity. That's why manifestation is
234. 7:40not surface level. It is not. You can
235. 7:43get things on a surface level, but can
236. 7:44you even have it for one day? Can you
237. 7:46maintain it?
238. 7:47Absolutely not. That's why these um
239. 7:50lottery winner millionaires, they go
240. 7:52broke after 1 year of winning a million
241. 7:55rand. You would think if a person that
242. 7:57was already rich and rooted in success
243. 8:00and money, if they acquired that
244. 8:01million, they would be able to maintain
245. 8:03it, grow it, make it even more than what
246. 8:05it was. But, if you take a broke person
247. 8:07with a broke identity, give them that
248. 8:08million dollars, they will lose it in
249. 8:10the next 6 months to a year. The studies
250. 8:12show the studies show it as true. If you
251. 8:15look at the stock markets, if you see
252. 8:16the stock markets going up and down on
253. 8:18the charts, and you see the people that
254. 8:20are new to the space, new to the whole
255. 8:22economy system, and they are just normal
256. 8:25average people, you will see them lose
257. 8:26their stocks, their markets so fast
258. 8:28because that line, those stock market
259. 8:30lines, are not lines of strategic money
260. 8:33moves. They Those are emotional,
261. 8:35identity-driven moves. It's so funny,
262. 8:38and it's so interesting when you go and
263. 8:39you look at the articles, the science
264. 8:41papers of every single broke identity
265. 8:43out there, and how they had money to
266. 8:45losing it again, you will understand
267. 8:47that identity is truly what actually
268. 8:49keeps someone stuck in the same
269. 8:51situation, the same reality over and
270. 8:53over and over again. You could have a
271. 8:55boyfriend, two boyfriends, three
272. 8:56boyfriends, different relationships
273. 8:58treating you the exact same way. Why?
274. 9:01Because it's not them. It's not the
275. 9:03relationship. It's you. It's who you
276. 9:05choose. It's who you tolerate. It's what
277. 9:06you see. It's what you don't. And those
278. 9:08things are filtered by your identity.
279. 9:11So, how does it start? It starts with
280. 9:12the identity you have. Your identity
281. 9:14comes from your childhood. It comes from
282. 9:15all the things you've experienced in
283. 9:17your life.
284. 9:18Your identity is rooted in all the
285. 9:19things you have lived up to until this
286. 9:21moment you are in right now. So, the
287. 9:23decisions you make, it's not mutual
288. 9:25decisions. It's not smart decisions.
289. 9:27It's not specific decisions. It's
290. 9:29decisions that are influenced by your
291. 9:31identity. Your identity creates your
292. 9:33thoughts. You have thoughts now because
293. 9:35of your identity, because of who you are
294. 9:37so deeply, all of the things you went
295. 9:39through. It creates thoughts. Thoughts
296. 9:42in your brain. And that thoughts, okay?
297. 9:44That thoughts become so prominent to
298. 9:46you. Your brain starts to filter only
299. 9:48certain information. Remember, our brain
300. 9:51cannot filter the whole world. It
301. 9:53doesn't see everything I'm looking
302. 9:54around in my apartment right now. It
303. 9:56doesn't see awful to in everything. It
304. 9:58notices specific things. Like earlier
305. 10:00on, all I was noticing was my dishes
306. 10:02aren't done, the counter is dirty. Look,
307. 10:05I have a stain right here. I have a
308. 10:06stain on my couch. And that goes back to
309. 10:09my identity. I'm not a cleanly person. I
310. 10:12have ADHD. It makes me messy. It makes
311. 10:14me like this. It makes me like that.
312. 10:15That is how simple identity works. It
313. 10:17only sees specific [laughter] things.
314. 10:20Just like when you hop into a
315. 10:21relationship, if you are known to
316. 10:23toxicity, bad relationship that's all
317. 10:25you deserve. You're not good enough or
318. 10:26better things. You only deserve those
319. 10:28specific things. Your brain will only
320. 10:30see men that act that way. It will not
321. 10:35even make you look in the direction of
322. 10:37someone you truly deserve. It will not.
323. 10:40It will not. It's going to That's why
324. 10:41you go through all of these toxic
325. 10:43relationships over and over and over
326. 10:45again. Why? Because your brain is
327. 10:47filtered through your identity to only
328. 10:49see your act on specific things. Only
329. 10:52tolerate specific things. So, now you
330. 10:54have certain standards, okay?
331. 10:56You're going to let this person walk
332. 10:57over all over you cuz you're not good
333. 10:58enough to have someone that actually
334. 11:00respects your boundaries. So, you're
335. 11:01going to let this person walk over you.
336. 11:03So, the first time they speak to you,
337. 11:04you all it's already green flag in your
338. 11:07head. Why? Because your identity is like
339. 11:09that is safe. We know that. Let's get
340. 11:11into some more toxic relationships.
341. 11:12Let's get with this person because we
342. 11:14know these kind of people. These kind of
343. 11:15people are the people we are used to.
344. 11:17So, let's go on with that. Okay, now a
345. 11:18boring guy comes along. A guy that's
346. 11:20actually interested in you. Actually
347. 11:21does everything for you. Now he's
348. 11:23boring. I don't like him. He likes me
349. 11:24too much. He shows me too much interest
350. 11:25too quickly like Oh my god. No, no, no,
351. 11:27no, no. Not that guy. Even though that
352. 11:29guy is the one you truly want and you
353. 11:31truly need. You will still look over to
354. 11:33this guy hoping he's the guy that's
355. 11:35actually going to make you happy. But
356. 11:36instead he's going to treat you like
357. 11:38every other guy. Why? Because that is
358. 11:39what your brain filters out. Your brain
359. 11:41doesn't even know this other guy. He's
360. 11:43non-existent. Your brain is uninterested
361. 11:45because it doesn't feel normal. It's not
362. 11:47what adds up with the identity in you.
363. 11:49So, you're going to keep going after
364. 11:51those things. So, your brain filters
365. 11:53certain thoughts based on your identity.
366. 11:55And those thoughts create a certain
367. 11:57emotion in you. It creates a certain
368. 11:59nervous system regulation. For example,
369. 12:01the guy. When the guy responds to you a
370. 12:03certain way, when the guy doesn't
371. 12:05respond back, or he acts up, or he acts
372. 12:07a certain way, your nervous system is
373. 12:09like going like this. Oh, this is This
374. 12:11is my nervous system is acting up. This
375. 12:12is the emotion. This means This is I'm
376. 12:14used to this. Let's go with that. Let's
377. 12:15go with that cuz my nervous system is
378. 12:17used to being on these highs and lows.
379. 12:18My nervous system is used to this kind
380. 12:20of treatment. It's used to the I'm used
381. 12:22to feeling these emotions. If I'm not
382. 12:23sad, it's not normal. That is what your
383. 12:25identity is basically telling you. So,
384. 12:27you go with this guy. You keep going at
385. 12:28it. The more he distances himself, the
386. 12:30more he doesn't respond, you're used to
387. 12:31those distances. So, now you're going to
388. 12:33keep going after it. You're going to
389. 12:34keep going after it. This He's so
390. 12:36interesting cuz he's putting me on these
391. 12:37highs and lows.
392. 12:39After all, it's your nervous system.
393. 12:41It's telling you that
394. 12:42these nervous system things are coming
395. 12:44from my identity. I'm used to this. Let
396. 12:46me keep going in this direction. Even
397. 12:48though there was a perfect guy a second
398. 12:49ago, but you completely demolished this
399. 12:51guy because he was not He made your
400. 12:53nervous system calm. Your nervous system
401. 12:54was calm. It's too calm. I'm not used to
402. 12:56it. My nervous system is not used to
403. 12:58these things. So, it keeps going at it,
404. 12:59okay?
405. 13:00Now your nervous system influence your
406. 13:02actions. Now your actions are going to
407. 13:04determine results, okay? That is why you
408. 13:07go after this guy cuz your your nervous
409. 13:09system made you go after this guy based
410. 13:11on that identity. It's simply by that
411. 13:13identity. I'm not good enough. I don't
412. 13:14deserve this. I don't deserve that. All
413. 13:16influenced after all your actions. Now
414. 13:18you think the universe doesn't send me
415. 13:20good guys.
416. 13:22The universe doesn't send me good guys.
417. 13:24I don't even get good guys.
418. 13:27And and that is that is how it works.
419. 13:29That is how it works. That's why you
420. 13:30keep staying stuck. Whether it's your
421. 13:32money circumstances, whether it's your
422. 13:33job. I keep working the same crappy
423. 13:35jobs. I never get good jobs. I never get
424. 13:37good jobs. But your nervous system, your
425. 13:39body, your mind never ever thinks to go
426. 13:42after these things cuz it already tells
427. 13:43you you don't deserve that job. You
428. 13:45can't get that job. You're not qualified
429. 13:46enough. So, now you sit thinking I don't
430. 13:48get good jobs. I don't get good jobs.
431. 13:49But unconsciously, your identity says
432. 13:52and tells you I'm not qualified for
433. 13:54being a job. I'm not qualified for these
434. 13:56things. So, of course I'm never going to
435. 13:57get this job. That's why I constantly
436. 13:59complain about not having the job I want
437. 14:01or not having the finance I want or not
438. 14:03having the things I want. That is how
439. 14:05important your identity, your
440. 14:06self-concept, the concept you have of
441. 14:07yourself, the identity of rooted inside
442. 14:09of you unconsciously controls everything
443. 14:13you see, notice, tolerate, want,
444. 14:16believe, all of it. It It is literally
445. 14:19the key to true manifestation. What is
446. 14:21the point of manifestation?
447. 14:22Manifestation is to receive. It's to
448. 14:24bring things into your life. And you're
449. 14:26constantly manifesting. You're
450. 14:27constantly receiving. But what you're
451. 14:29receiving is the things from your
452. 14:31identity. That's why you receive bad
453. 14:33relationships. You receive bad money.
454. 14:35You receive bad jobs. You receive bad
455. 14:38things. Or you receive all of You may
456. 14:40receive some good things, some negative
457. 14:41things cuz that is how identity works.
458. 14:42Some things are negative. Some things
459. 14:43are positive. But the majority things
460. 14:45that you want that are negative,
461. 14:47you'll keep receiving it. Why? Because
462. 14:49your identity lets you receive these
463. 14:51things. Okay? If you want to receive
464. 14:54good things or the things you actually
465. 14:55want, the key is never to the things.
466. 14:58It's your identity. It's what you can
467. 15:00hold. That's why I almost lost my place.
468. 15:02I almost lost my place because my
469. 15:03current identity I was operating from
470. 15:06couldn't handle it. It could not handle
471. 15:09this this apartment. It could not handle
472. 15:11me being consistent. I was an
473. 15:13inconsistent person. I believed I was
474. 15:14inconsistent. I believed I never show up
475. 15:16for myself. I believed it so deeply. It
476. 15:18was rooted in my identity and it made me
477. 15:20act that way. No YouTube videos on my
478. 15:22channel. No filming. I keep
479. 15:23procrastinating. I keep self-sabotaging.
480. 15:25I keep bringing up other examples why I
481. 15:27can't from or why I can't do these
482. 15:28things. So, it shows in my results and
483. 15:30it reinforces my identity and I continue
484. 15:33staying stuck. Now that is the choice
485. 15:35you get to make. Either you stay stuck
486. 15:37or it's either you completely rewire
487. 15:38your identity to manifest a completely
488. 15:41new reality. Identity is important.
489. 15:43Self-concept is important. More
490. 15:44important than you ever ever believe and
491. 15:46think it is. Okay?
492. 15:48That was a mouthful. This video is too
493. 15:50long. Oh my gosh. If you guys want to
494. 15:52rewire your identity in step-by-step
495. 15:54practical form, I highly recommend you
496. 15:56guys go and check out the identity free
497. 15:58code. It's in the link down below. I
498. 16:00highly recommend it to manifest a
499. 16:01completely different reality. And I'll
500. 16:03see you guys very soon in another video.