Scarlet: One of Our Most-Booked Waitresses and Escorts — Transcript

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1. 0:00Scarlett is a topless waitress turned
2. 0:02companion, sugar baby, and escort.
3. 0:04>> Along the way, I also became a sugar
4. 0:07baby. I love having my personal life.
5. 0:09Why wouldn't I get paid for it? Again, I
6. 0:11love chasing money. I love hustling.
7. 0:13>> Cuddling this
8. 0:15>> man in crayon. This big man.
9. 0:17And I decided to sponge. First night of
10. 0:20the long weekend ended up in the
11. 0:21emergency room. At the end of the day,
12. 0:23service, you're not always having the
13. 0:25whole time. We were all on top of him at
14. 0:27one point, then we were taking in turns.
15. 0:30I got up to 10 grand at this point. We
16. 0:33are betting thousands of dollars with
17. 0:35rock, paper, scissors.
18. 0:36>> Wow.
19. 0:37>> I just make sure it's the best dance
20. 0:38I've ever given in my [ __ ] life.
21. 0:41Like, I will do the most in that dance.
22. 0:43>> Have you ever said that I can't do this
23. 0:45or I'm I'm not having sex with you?
24. 0:47>> No matter how ugly you are, at the end
25. 0:48of the day, I'm there to perform a
26. 0:50service. I don't care about that.
27. 0:51>> What are you earning on the average
28. 0:53week?
29. 1:00Hi guys, and welcome to another episode
30. 1:01of the Secret Waitress Diaries. Today,
31. 1:03we are joined by Scarlett. Scarlett is a
32. 1:05topless waitress turned companion, sugar
33. 1:08baby, and escort. She's worked for Envy
34. 1:11for over a year now. She's one of our
35. 1:13highest booked waitresses, companion,
36. 1:15and escorts. So, welcome to the podcast,
37. 1:17babe.
38. 1:18>> Thank you for having me.
39. 1:20>> So, tell us what you do.
40. 1:22>> So, yes, I started off with Envy as a
41. 1:24topless waitress, um, and then kind of
42. 1:26discovered the companion side of things,
43. 1:29um,
44. 1:30and then I moved into the escorting side
45. 1:32of things as well. Um, and then along
46. 1:34the way, I also became a sugar baby kind
47. 1:36of outside of, um, agent work. And yeah,
48. 1:40it's been a ride, for sure. It's been a
49. 1:43hell of a year, but it's been super fun.
50. 1:45I've enjoyed every minute of it.
51. 1:46>> Yeah, lovely. And you worked in a few
52. 1:49different roles in the industry. For the
53. 1:51people that don't understand like the
54. 1:52different services and different roles,
55. 1:55how would you best describe the
56. 1:57transition between the different jobs
57. 1:59that you do?
58. 2:00>> I would say starting as a topless
59. 2:02waitress, you definitely, you know, with
60. 2:04dances, that's where you're making your
61. 2:06money in your income. You know, when you
62. 2:08start going to jobs where they're doing
63. 2:09back-to-back dances and it turns Oh my
64. 2:11god, you get so excited. Um
65. 2:13and then I think you become
66. 2:14money-hungry. That's where the
67. 2:16transition kind of came for me. I
68. 2:18discovered the other side of things and
69. 2:19you know, it's not for everyone and I
70. 2:22think for me it was just something I
71. 2:23wanted to do. I wanted to kind of
72. 2:24explore
73. 2:26I love having sex in my personal life.
74. 2:27Why would I not get paid for it? So,
75. 2:30yeah, it's I think you kind of put on a
76. 2:33persona between
77. 2:35the jobs. If you're going there as a
78. 2:36topless waitress, you're there to bring
79. 2:38the party, to bring the vibe, but then
80. 2:40when you're there, you know, to do a
81. 2:41full service job, you kind of have to
82. 2:42put on this completely different
83. 2:44persona. You're not there to be this
84. 2:45kind of silly after girl. You're kind of
85. 2:47there to
86. 2:49fulfill their needs in that specific
87. 2:51time period. Um but then at the same
88. 2:53time
89. 2:54you also have to adapt, I guess, to each
90. 2:57client and how they are as a person. So
91. 3:00>> Yeah, it'd be quite tiring.
92. 3:02>> Yeah. So, tell us about your sugar
93. 3:04daddies. You got a few?
94. 3:06>> So, usually, I don't know, it's always
95. 3:09hit or miss if you take, you know, uh
96. 3:11clients of your own off, you know,
97. 3:13Instagram, Facebook, anything like that.
98. 3:15You always got to be careful. At the end
99. 3:16of the day, you don't have someone
100. 3:17behind you as some kind of security
101. 3:19blanket. And yeah, on Instagram, um this
102. 3:23man came up. We'll call him Greg.
103. 3:26And he came up and you know, I just
104. 3:29seems like one of those fake profiles
105. 3:30that are just trying, you know, I want
106. 3:32to spoil you. But he was mainly just
107. 3:34reaching out, I guess.
108. 3:36I don't know, I'd love to take you out.
109. 3:38And I kind of look at things like that
110. 3:40instead of ill disguised guy is trying
111. 3:43to take me out. I look at it that as
112. 3:44like, oh, those signs. I'm like, this
113. 3:47guy is trying to take me out. So,
114. 3:49initially met in a public setting. Um it
115. 3:51was kind of that companion sugar baby um
116. 3:54situation. We would go out for dinners
117. 3:56and that was the start of it. And then
118. 3:58it kind of turned into He's from Sydney,
119. 4:00so it turned into an ongoing thing that
120. 4:01whenever he would come down here and he
121. 4:04would start coming down here just for me
122. 4:05for the weekend and I guess doing it on
123. 4:07my own I can state my own rate. And you
124. 4:10can really kind of test those boundaries
125. 4:11with the client and just see how much
126. 4:14they are willing to pay and the minute
127. 4:17you kind of adapt to the role of what
128. 4:19they want,
129. 4:21they're willing to pay more. You know,
130. 4:22if you are going to give them the
131. 4:23experience that they want, they are
132. 4:25willing to spend. You just got to kind
133. 4:27of become that character. It's kind of
134. 4:28like acting.
135. 4:30>> What was the character that you'd be
136. 4:31with this guy?
137. 4:32>> So he's an accountant, he's a
138. 4:33businessman and he loves to talk about
139. 4:36work. And I I'm Look, I'm young. I love
140. 4:40I'm love to party. I can, you know,
141. 4:42bring out that side pretty easy, but I
142. 4:44think switching into that more
143. 4:45conservative role, you know, he buys me
144. 4:48outfits that I would never wear in my
145. 4:50day-to-day life. So I'm seen walking
146. 4:52down Melbourne in these princess outfits
147. 4:56almost and I see people I know and I'm
148. 4:58mortified. Or I'll send photos to like
149. 5:01my family and my friends and they'll
150. 5:02think, "Oh my god, what the [ __ ] are you
151. 5:03doing?" But it's, you know, at the end
152. 5:05of the day I'm walking down the street
153. 5:07and thinking I'm getting paid to be
154. 5:08dressed like an idiot. Maybe I look like
155. 5:10I'm in a wedding dress, but he's very
156. 5:13conservative and
157. 5:15he grew up very conservative as well.
158. 5:17Like this is kind of new to him as well.
159. 5:19So I can It's not something that he can
160. 5:22compare maybe me to other girls. It's
161. 5:24very new, so I can kind of show him this
162. 5:27is what this situation is meant to be
163. 5:28like, I guess. Um
164. 5:30but the hardest part is I would say is
165. 5:33over time when you are one-on-one, they
166. 5:35try and avoid This isn't all, but they
167. 5:38try and avoid making it a transactional
168. 5:41situation. They definitely bring the,
169. 5:44you know, this is so natural. It's like,
170. 5:47"Yeah, babe, it is natural, but let's
171. 5:48not forget how this started and it's
172. 5:50going to continue that way."
173. 5:51So, they do forget that. They want to
174. 5:53turn it into a relationship. Always,
175. 5:55yeah. And I think it's they're wanting
176. 5:57more, but forgetting that the reality of
177. 6:00it.
178. 6:00>> How do you go about trying to make it
179. 6:03natural without So, like how do you ask
180. 6:05for the money without asking for the
181. 6:07money?
182. 6:07>> Yeah, so with this particular client, um
183. 6:11he I remember at the start I would
184. 6:12always say, you know, cash at the start
185. 6:14and he just hate that whole thing. And
186. 6:16even for me I was like, this is kind of
187. 6:18going to ruin things between us. I was
188. 6:19like, we're going to break up.
189. 6:21This is going to ruin things. So, now
190. 6:23it's turned into while I'd be getting
191. 6:26ready to go see him, I kind of say,
192. 6:27"Hey, babe, do you want to just send the
193. 6:29money over now or just um sort out
194. 6:31payments?" Just try and say it as like,
195. 6:33you know,
196. 6:34as easy as I can and just get it out of
197. 6:37the way before I even see him cuz at the
198. 6:40end of the day he knows I'm not going
199. 6:41to, you know, rip him off or anything.
200. 6:43And then by the time I am there, the
201. 6:44payment's already out of the way and
202. 6:46then the whole situation can just be
203. 6:47quite natural. That's natural.
204. 6:50>> And when you are taking the payment, is
205. 6:51that like 3-hour booking and then if he
206. 6:53wants to extend, you have to be like,
207. 6:55"All right, time's up. Give me more
208. 6:57money."
209. 6:58>> Look, he's the biggest headache.
210. 7:01I think there's only so much of certain
211. 7:03clients you can take and I again, I love
212. 7:07chasing money. I love the hustling,
213. 7:09but it gets to a point where it can
214. 7:11become mentally draining. I think that's
215. 7:13something people, you know, don't
216. 7:15understand about this job. Oh my god,
217. 7:16the worst, you know, misconception is
218. 7:18that you do not get drained. It's easy
219. 7:20work.
220. 7:21Being with that man, even if it's for a
221. 7:23companion dinner and then going back to
222. 7:24the hotel, you are again acting. You're
223. 7:27putting on this persona and it's just
224. 7:29I'm not being me and I think doing that
225. 7:31for hours on hours on hours, especially
226. 7:33he likes to book you and it will start
227. 7:34at 10:00 a.m. If I'm working the night
228. 7:36before until 6:00 a.m., I'm getting up,
229. 7:39but I have to seem fresh. I have to seem
230. 7:40like, you know, I didn't just have the
231. 7:42biggest night ever cuz he's very during
232. 7:44the day kind of person, not at night.
233. 7:46So, we lock in some hours and
234. 7:49by the time it's the end of that, I'm
235. 7:51just like, all right, that's how much
236. 7:52we're paid. I don't think he's not
237. 7:54really the type to
238. 7:56I guess extend. He doesn't really know
239. 7:58that world of things and I I want to
240. 8:00keep it that way. Um yeah, he's it's all
241. 8:03very new to him and um
242. 8:06yeah, I think he does
243. 8:08push for overnight bookings and this is
244. 8:10where that relationship kind of changes
245. 8:12cuz he says, "I You know, I want to do
246. 8:14overnight bookings, but I don't want to
247. 8:16pay for overnight bookings." Well, then
248. 8:18you're not going to get overnight
249. 8:19bookings. Yeah.
250. 8:20>> So, you got to find out.
251. 8:22>> Yeah, you got to have that barrier up, I
252. 8:24think.
253. 8:24>> Mhm. Would you do overnight bookings
254. 8:27with other people?
255. 8:28>> I've done overnight bookings and for
256. 8:29that, I think I can't sleep next to a
257. 8:32stranger, but as long as I'm rolled over
258. 8:35and my eyes are like closed, you know?
259. 8:37>> Did they try and cuddle?
260. 8:38>> Yeah. Oh, they love Even with this
261. 8:41client, we'll do naps during the day cuz
262. 8:42he doesn't like I'm having a big night.
263. 8:44Well, babe, I've had such a big night
264. 8:46like, you know, let's watch a movie and
265. 8:47being clown cuddling this
266. 8:50man in clown, this big man.
267. 8:52And um yeah, you know what? I'll sleep
268. 8:55anyways. I was like I just I do fall
269. 8:58asleep and then I'm just turned over and
270. 8:59I'm like, oh, I'll take a little nap,
271. 9:01but
272. 9:02overnight bookings, it's that's a full
273. 9:04commitment itself. I feel like sleeping
274. 9:06next to someone, you're kind of giving
275. 9:07your energy to them in a way.
276. 9:09Doing a whole night with them and that's
277. 9:11a level of trust as well and if you're
278. 9:13not willing to pay that extra price, I'm
279. 9:15not willing to put my energy into that.
280. 9:18>> Yeah. Is it crazy money the overnight
281. 9:20bookings?
282. 9:21>> Yeah.
283. 9:22>> Escorting in general is crazy money.
284. 9:23>> It is insane. I There are some bookings
285. 9:26I've done with envy. I
286. 9:29I've had my best escorting jobs, if you
287. 9:30I have honestly, I just uh I I'm
288. 9:34obsessed.
289. 9:35I think there was one booking I did
290. 9:38I'm not sure. It was maybe a couple
291. 9:40months back and I just remember we got
292. 9:42there and it was, you know, companion
293. 9:45and then we were in like some restaurant
294. 9:48bar connected to a hotel. It's Strata.
295. 9:51And so you could go into the booths.
296. 9:52There was this one guy and we were all
297. 9:54just It was a bunch of girls, bunch of
298. 9:55guys and you don't think that it's going
299. 9:57to turn into anything when you see kind
300. 9:58of 20 guys, 20 girls. You don't picture
301. 10:01it being a you know, massive night, I
302. 10:04guess, money-wise. I mean, you never
303. 10:06know. But there was this one guy and he
304. 10:07was just like, "I've got a room upstairs
305. 10:09like where Strata is." And he goes,
306. 10:12"Let's go to our room." And I remember I
307. 10:13was messaging you guys and I was like,
308. 10:15"Extending an hour full service.
309. 10:16Extending an hour full service.
310. 10:17Extending an hour full service." And I
311. 10:18think it just got to a point he was
312. 10:19like, "All right, just just let me know.
313. 10:21I'm just, you know, you're good."
314. 10:23>> Yeah.
315. 10:23>> Um and it just kept going and it was
316. 10:25just It was great. It just You never
317. 10:27know what it could start at the start of
318. 10:29the night. You never know what it can
319. 10:30turn into. But then when it gets to that
320. 10:32point in the night, it is crazy money
321. 10:34and you're just like, "I will be here
322. 10:35forever."
323. 10:36>> So, last weekend was so busy. How was
324. 10:38your Grand Prix weekend?
325. 10:40>> So, being an escort, uh Grand Prix
326. 10:42weekend, I got my period at the start.
327. 10:45Yes. And I was just thinking, "This is
328. 10:48thousands of dollars I'm going to lose."
329. 10:50I was not ready for that commitment. So,
330. 10:52I had never really I kind of avoid doing
331. 10:55full service when I have that time of
332. 10:56the month. It's 5 days of the month. I
333. 10:57can't live, you know, just stick to
334. 10:59doing top of wage seeing. Not on the
335. 11:01long weekend. I was like, "Absolutely
336. 11:02not."
337. 11:03So, Thursday came around when it started
338. 11:06to kick off and I decided to use the
339. 11:09sponge. Uh if girls that know, know.
340. 11:13Just basically it's a tampon without a
341. 11:14string, but you just shove it up there.
342. 11:17Um yeah, did a about 4-hour full service
343. 11:20booking.
344. 11:21Got home. Sat there for 2 hours trying
345. 11:24to get the sponge out on my own. Could
346. 11:27not get it out. And I hear so many girls
347. 11:29say, "Oh, you can have sex with the
348. 11:31sponge. I do it all the time.
349. 11:32>> That's like what the porn stars use.
350. 11:34>> Yeah. Yeah.
351. 11:35>> Yeah. So, I think it's easy when you're
352. 11:39with someone that has not much
353. 11:42downstairs.
354. 11:43Well, unluckily um I yeah, had this guy
355. 11:47and he had a massive dick.
356. 11:50And yeah, first time [ __ ] with a
357. 11:51sponge could not get it out myself. So,
358. 11:54first night of long weekend ended up in
359. 11:56the emergency room.
360. 11:59And I'm stuck there with my legs spread
361. 12:01open and I'm just like get this thing
362. 12:03the [ __ ] out of me. The birds are
363. 12:05chirping outside. I just finished having
364. 12:07sex for how many hours. I was like get
365. 12:09this out of me. It was a nightmare.
366. 12:12>> They would have all known what's
367. 12:13>> Yeah. They've been there like
368. 12:15>> You've been there again some dick.
369. 12:17>> Absolutely. Like it was pushed so far
370. 12:19back. He pushed it so far back. Look,
371. 12:22it's great in the sense he had no idea a
372. 12:24sponge was even in there.
373. 12:25And neither did I cuz
374. 12:26>> No, it was no like residue of blood on
375. 12:29him. thing. Like so, it does work.
376. 12:32>> Look, it does work. I don't want to be
377. 12:33the one to encourage it after that. But
378. 12:35look, if the girls like I've got sharp
379. 12:37nails. So, I think getting it out it was
380. 12:40I didn't want to be putting them yeah,
381. 12:41in there. But other girls, look, if you
382. 12:43can do it
383. 12:44Yeah, there was no residue at all. When
384. 12:47When the sponge came out, it was all
385. 12:48there. But he had nothing when we were
386. 12:50[ __ ]
387. 12:51>> Yeah. Well, maybe just um
388. 12:54start the pill.
389. 12:56>> Honestly, I feel like that's the way to
390. 12:58go. Yeah, Saturday came around and
391. 13:01there was this guy from Sydney that came
392. 13:03down for F1 um and he was there since
393. 13:07Wednesday night and he was trying to
394. 13:08book me since Wednesday night. And I
395. 13:10kind of had bookings back to back and I
396. 13:11was like I can fit like I can come past.
397. 13:14It was about 1:00 a.m. on the Saturday
398. 13:16night. 1:00 a.m. came around and you
399. 13:18guys locked me in for the job. You're
400. 13:20like, all right, go. He's ready. Yeah, I
401. 13:22rocked up. He had two girls there
402. 13:24already booked for full service paying
403. 13:25$1,000 an hour. the girls had been there
404. 13:29for about probably 5-6 hours prior,
405. 13:32already on the $1,000 an hour. I'm
406. 13:34there, one of the girls is taking a
407. 13:35bath. You know, it's at the end of the
408. 13:37day, full service, you're not always
409. 13:39having sex the whole time. That's
410. 13:41another misconception. Sometimes you
411. 13:43are, so you don't get to walk in there
412. 13:44and kind of think that you're going to
413. 13:46do nothing. But sometimes, you know,
414. 13:48they could just want half an hour of,
415. 13:51you know, a bit of sucking dick, bit of
416. 13:52having sex, and then they just want you
417. 13:54to relax. Like I got there, and he was
418. 13:56just
419. 13:57ready. Like he sat down on the chair, I
420. 13:59remember, and he was just he said to one
421. 14:01of the girls, "Get me a drink." And he
422. 14:02was just like, "Get on your knees." I
423. 14:03was like, "All right." Like get straight
424. 14:05into it. And you know, I'm not going to
425. 14:07complain with $1,000 an hour. I will get
426. 14:08straight into it. And yeah, he was just
427. 14:10throwing money around like it was
428. 14:13nothing. At the end of the day, he had
429. 14:14three of us full service girls and him
430. 14:16on his own, and he was just kind of we
431. 14:18were all on top of him at one point,
432. 14:20then we're taking in turns.
433. 14:22Mind you, before I came, he went to the
434. 14:25casino and he got up 80 grand.
435. 14:28>> Yes.
436. 14:29>> Wow.
437. 14:30>> Yeah.
438. 14:31So, that's definitely where a lot of his
439. 14:33money I think he was just ready and had
440. 14:36a, you know, he's had a big weekend. He
441. 14:37was
442. 14:38>> Best night for him.
443. 14:39>> Right?
444. 14:40>> Like
445. 14:40>> And you. Oh. And then towards the end,
446. 14:44he one of the girls was showing him what
447. 14:46shoes she wanted. And you know, I love
448. 14:50it, too. Like me and the other girl, we
449. 14:51were kind of like, "Yeah, we want those
450. 14:53shoes, too. The Louboutins are great."
451. 14:55So, he was doing rock, paper, scissors
452. 14:57with us. And it was best of three.
453. 15:01And whoever whoever hit, you know,
454. 15:03three, and each we all won, I remember.
455. 15:07And the prize for the Louboutins, he
456. 15:08paid us in cash. And uh me, I'm at the
457. 15:12end of the day, I'm in this industry to
458. 15:13make money for the right reasons. I love
459. 15:15I love some Louboutins, don't get me
460. 15:16wrong, but if he doesn't know where that
461. 15:19that money is going, I'm putting that
462. 15:20money right into my savings. You know,
463. 15:22It's what they don't know won't hurt
464. 15:23them.
465. 15:24>> Yeah.
466. 15:24>> So, yeah, he was just throwing cash
467. 15:26around. I remember
468. 15:28towards the end of the night, I got up
469. 15:31to 10 grand at this point cuz I was
470. 15:34extending and I was there for full
471. 15:35service.
472. 15:36Rock, paper, scissors was still going
473. 15:38with one of the girls. He was He did
474. 15:39like five rounds with one of them. Yeah,
475. 15:42it like rock, paper, scissors. We are
476. 15:43betting thousands of dollars with rock,
477. 15:45paper, scissors.
478. 15:46>> Wow. Wow.
479. 15:48>> It was insane.
480. 15:48>> I love that. I love him.
481. 15:50>> I I miss him. I miss him already.
482. 15:53Um and then yeah, by the end of the
483. 15:55night, I was up to 14k. Um it would have
484. 15:59been more. I did lose a round of rock,
485. 16:00paper, scissors and I remember it's
486. 16:03because he goes, "I will extend you for
487. 16:05$2,000."
488. 16:07Um and then that last hour he said he
489. 16:09had to get up for the F1 and he goes,
490. 16:11"You can keep that $2,000 for the
491. 16:12extension."
492. 16:14Um but let's rock, paper, scissors. I'm
493. 16:16like, "You can go home. Keep the money
494. 16:18for the extension. Let's rock, paper,
495. 16:19scissors. You can give me back a
496. 16:20thousand if you lose."
497. 16:22And of course, the end of the night,
498. 16:23I've lost. I'm like, "I can't believe
499. 16:25I've just lost a thousand dollars to
500. 16:26rock, paper, [ __ ] scissors."
501. 16:28>> Yeah.
502. 16:29>> But he was insane. I miss him.
503. 16:31>> Oh, well.
504. 16:32>> So hectic.
505. 16:33>> You are one of our most repeatedly
506. 16:35booked girls. Like when we send you to a
507. 16:37job, if they're booking again, they're
508. 16:39going to request you again. What do you
509. 16:41reckon your kind of secret sauce or your
510. 16:43hustle is that keeps clients wanting to
511. 16:46come back and book the same girl?
512. 16:48>> I think bullocks. Uh there was this one
513. 16:51job I specifically remember and I feel
514. 16:52like this will answer your question that
515. 16:53I did with you guys.
516. 16:55And I'm always kind of iffy about doing
517. 16:57jobs so far away. And I remember you
518. 17:00guys put me on for this job. It was a
519. 17:01bucks party. I was like, "Fuck it. I'm
520. 17:03just going to do it."
521. 17:04Did the travel and I got there and I
522. 17:07First thing I always do at a job, I read
523. 17:08the room. It was me and another waitress
524. 17:10booked. And there was about I'd say 15
525. 17:13guys and they were young. They It was a
526. 17:16bucks party. They're ready to spend. So,
527. 17:19I read the room and immediately while
528. 17:21we're upstairs just getting changed, the
529. 17:23best man was saying, "You know, um I'm
530. 17:26just going to pre-pay a dance for the
531. 17:28buck." I was like, "Beautiful. You guys
532. 17:29know what this is about. You guys know,
533. 17:31you know, dancers are on the way." So,
534. 17:34I guess I was like, "Beautiful." Did
535. 17:36that dance for the buck within the first
536. 17:385 minutes of being there.
537. 17:39And one of my
538. 17:42like favorite things to do is if I give
539. 17:44that first dance at a bucks party, I
540. 17:46just make sure it's the best dance I've
541. 17:48ever given in my [ __ ] life. Like, I
542. 17:50will do the most in that dance. I will
543. 17:53start fingering myself, honestly, during
544. 17:55the dance. You're not touching me, but I
545. 17:57will sit there and do the most because
546. 18:01at the end of the day, you're going to
547. 18:02walk out of that dance, which he does.
548. 18:03He walks down the stairs and they just
549. 18:05go to all their friends,
550. 18:06"Oh my god, that was the best dance I've
551. 18:10ever
552. 18:11You know, and you're just doing you're
553. 18:13just touching yourself the right way and
554. 18:15just you know, some guys want to chat
555. 18:17during a dance. And so, if you if they
556. 18:19want to chat, chat to them. You just
557. 18:22mirror kind of how they're being towards
558. 18:24you. And then, yeah, they walk down the
559. 18:26stairs and it always happens at bucks
560. 18:28parties. Once you give that first
561. 18:29impression to one guy, they all just
562. 18:31want to see what you know, what's it all
563. 18:33about. And so then, it's just
564. 18:34back-to-back.
565. 18:35>> I love it. Some of the girls who are
566. 18:37wanting to get into the industry, give
567. 18:39us some tips. What's some advice you'd
568. 18:41want to give them?
569. 18:42>> Don't rush into it. It's pretty
570. 18:44daunting.
571. 18:45>> You will make lifetime friends. You will
572. 18:47have some [ __ ] up experiences. It's
573. 18:50just a roller coaster. And no day is the
574. 18:53same. But I think the best advice is
575. 18:56just do a bit of research, know who
576. 18:58you're working for is probably my main
577. 19:01bit of advice. There are some agents
578. 19:04I've worked for and I've worked up and
579. 19:06it's
580. 19:07their family friends and their family
581. 19:09friend has has the one to, you know,
582. 19:11sexually assault a girl or do something
583. 19:14do something, you know, uncalled for,
584. 19:16for sure, and they just take it a bit
585. 19:17too far.
586. 19:19And that's your family friend, you know,
587. 19:21that's our agency family friend. You're
588. 19:22meant to have trust for them. With Envy,
589. 19:24you screen the clients, and I think
590. 19:26that's the bit of security I need. So, I
591. 19:28like in my head I'm like, I'm going here
592. 19:30knowing that I'm going to be safe. I can
593. 19:33actually have that hustle mentality
594. 19:35rather than being in fight or flight
595. 19:36mode.
596. 19:37>> Yeah, definitely. Cuz it'd be so like
597. 19:39you rock up to a house, you don't know
598. 19:41this guy, you're about to be intimate
599. 19:42with them. It's a very energy exchange.
600. 19:45You really need to trust that. Have you
601. 19:47ever like said that I can't do this or
602. 19:49I'm I'm not having sex with you?
603. 19:51>> Um
604. 19:53I've never done it straight away. At the
605. 19:57end of the day, I give people the
606. 19:58benefit of the doubt unless you are
607. 20:00being dangerous to me. Um majority of
608. 20:02the time
609. 20:04I have had kind of an alarming
610. 20:05experience. It's just when guys get that
611. 20:07level of [ __ ] up throughout later in
612. 20:09the night. And that's mainly with um
613. 20:11toppy jobs, top of the wagering jobs.
614. 20:13So, you just got to be mindful. As the
615. 20:15night goes on, you know, devil hour.
616. 20:17Nothing good happens after People say
617. 20:1812, I say 12 6:00 a.m. Nothing great
618. 20:20happens after 6:00 a.m. Um
619. 20:23but I give people the benefit of the
620. 20:25doubt when I go there. No matter how
621. 20:27ugly you are, at the end of the day I'm
622. 20:28there to perform a service. I don't care
623. 20:30about that. But you can't be too handsy.
624. 20:32You can't push my boundaries. Um you
625. 20:35know, you can't insist, "Oh, I'll give
626. 20:38you so much more money without a
627. 20:39condom." No. What do you think they're
628. 20:41trying to do without a condom? I have a
629. 20:43wife and kids at home. That doesn't
630. 20:45matter. You're the same person spreading
631. 20:47chlamydia. Like nobody cares about that.
632. 20:49Or they'll push for other things.
633. 20:51They'll try and put it in your ass
634. 20:53sometimes. They'll pull out. And they
635. 20:55just try and put it in there. I'm like,
636. 20:57"Buddy, it's not going in. Like that's
637. 20:59not going to happen, but now you've
638. 21:00ruined your chance because
639. 21:02you've said at the start." I've had one
640. 21:03guy, and he's gone, "Oh, can we do
641. 21:05anal?" I said from the guy, no, this is
642. 21:08what the service is. We start and he
643. 21:10goes to try and put it in my ass. And
644. 21:13that's ruined, you know, that's ruined
645. 21:14it for you, that's ruined it for me cuz
646. 21:15now I'm getting up and I'm leaving. You
647. 21:17know, I'm not going to let you
648. 21:18disrespect me. I've come here exactly
649. 21:20that, come here not knowing who you are
650. 21:22and you're already, you know,
651. 21:23disrespecting me and pushing my
652. 21:24boundaries. I'm not going to be okay
653. 21:26with that.
654. 21:26So.
655. 21:27>> And when they're behind you and you're
656. 21:28like, I don't know what you're doing
657. 21:29back there.
658. 21:30>> Yeah. I'm very cautious especially, you
659. 21:33know what? It's a lot of uh S- Scott
660. 21:35said doggy is their favorite position
661. 21:36because we get to dissociate.
662. 21:39Like sometimes it's good because you're
663. 21:40sitting there
664. 21:42and I might got my head in the pillow
665. 21:43and I'm just thinking about, what could
666. 21:45I do for dinner later when I get home?
667. 21:47Like he's having the time of his life
668. 21:49back there and I'm like, chicken and
669. 21:50rice is going to go so good later.
670. 21:54And you know, it's the best. You just
671. 21:56got to find a way, I think, to make
672. 21:59these situations fun for yourself.
673. 22:01You're not Some people discourage what
674. 22:04we do for work and they're like, you're
675. 22:07having sex with these ugly people, these
676. 22:09gross people for money. Uh I make it
677. 22:11fun. I find it fun. I love what I do. I
678. 22:15just I you have to go about about it the
679. 22:16right way.
680. 22:17>> Yeah, that's a good way to look at it.
681. 22:18I'm glad that you have that outlook
682. 22:20because it can do a lot of damage to
683. 22:23some girls. How do you cope with your
684. 22:26mindset around it? Obviously, you just
685. 22:27said you make it fun.
686. 22:28>> Yeah.
687. 22:29>> Is there anything else you do?
688. 22:30>> Um I
689. 22:32definitely love to separate my working
690. 22:35life and my personal life
691. 22:38extraordinarily. Like I separate the
692. 22:40two. I have my friends outside of work,
693. 22:42I have my family outside of work. I'm a
694. 22:44completely different person outside of
695. 22:46work to what I am in work. You know, I
696. 22:48think I throw out throw around the word
697. 22:50babe every 5 seconds at work. Never used
698. 22:52that once in my personal life. I just
699. 22:55Yeah, I've just I I think the way I was
700. 22:58raised was completely different to kind
701. 22:59of obviously this world is we all are.
702. 23:01We never really anticipate to get
703. 23:03you know, in this world, but when we do,
704. 23:06you know, it's a blessing and a curse.
705. 23:08Um, but yeah, I just try and keep my
706. 23:11mental straight. I think if I'm doing 5
707. 23:14days straight, I need to, you know, turn
708. 23:16around to myself and say, "You know,
709. 23:17you've done All right, 10-hour days, 5
710. 23:19days straight. You need to turn around
711. 23:21and take a little break, you know, put
712. 23:22my mental health first cuz money's
713. 23:25great. Money's addictive.
714. 23:27But you can't consistently be doing this
715. 23:29if you're not giving yourself a break.
716. 23:31>> Definitely. What are you earning on the
717. 23:33average week?
718. 23:35>> So Formula 1 week, that was 20
719. 23:4122, I want to say if I'm doing the math
720. 23:42correctly. Yeah, Formula 1 weekend. So
721. 23:46that was Thursday to Sunday.
722. 23:49Um
723. 23:50Yeah, I would say that's not
724. 23:52>> That's like a great
725. 23:53>> That's amazing.
726. 23:54>> An average week, you know, a one girl
727. 23:57said to me, she goes, "It's never a slow
728. 23:59week if you know what you're doing."
729. 24:00>> I That's true to some extent. It depends
730. 24:03on the jobs and it depends on the
731. 24:04availability. But an average week for
732. 24:07me, if I'm not hitting five a week,
733. 24:09five, six, you know, I'm very upset. I'm
734. 24:12like, "What am I doing, you know? Might
735. 24:14as well go back to a 9-5." Even though
736. 24:15that's not it at all.
737. 24:17Um I need to hit five or six just for me
738. 24:20to kind of say, "All right, you know, we
739. 24:22have bills to pay." You know, you know,
740. 24:24five or six, I'm okay, but I aim for 10.
741. 24:27I'll always say I'll aim for 10 every
742. 24:29week. Five or six is getting me by.
743. 24:32>> Is dating
744. 24:33in normal life harder now that you've
745. 24:36been in the industry?
746. 24:38>> Look, you see the money that some men
747. 24:40throw around,
748. 24:42and then you look at, you know, some of
749. 24:43the men some of the men in your personal
750. 24:46life, and you compare the two, and you
751. 24:48It's a rough comparison. But I do also
752. 24:51think that
753. 24:52the men that are throwing these
754. 24:54thousands of dollars on me and are
755. 24:56extending me, they've got girlfriends of
756. 24:58their own and I do remember that while
757. 25:00I'm do you know I'm there to perform a
758. 25:02service, I'm not there to date you. You
759. 25:04know some guys I have been the hottest
760. 25:06guys I've ever slept with in my life at
761. 25:07work. But they've got a girlfriend at
762. 25:09home. They'll say it. I've I had one guy
763. 25:11I was having sex with and he said
764. 25:14I was on top of him and he was like, you
765. 25:15look like my wife and then he came
766. 25:17straight away.
767. 25:21>> That's cute.
768. 25:22>> Yeah, I was is this romantic?
769. 25:25>> It is and yes.
770. 25:27>> Yeah, and then I was like what do you
771. 25:28do? Well, I got up and I was like all
772. 25:29right time's over.
773. 25:32I have to go.
774. 25:34And then Yeah, it's just majority of
775. 25:37these guys I think in my head I'm so
776. 25:40fixated on it being a transactional
777. 25:41thing that when it's in my personal life
778. 25:44I'm looking for something other than you
779. 25:46know, I can provide financial stability
780. 25:48for myself. So I'm looking for something
781. 25:50a bit more emotional in the outside
782. 25:51world.
783. 25:52>> All right, well thank you for coming on
784. 25:54Scarlet.
785. 25:55>> Thank you guys for having me.
786. 25:56>> That's okay. Thanks for watching another
787. 25:58episode of the Spicy Waitress Diaries.
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