Qissa-e-Parsi — Transcript
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- 0:33[Music]
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- 2:54what does it mean to be a passing to me
- 2:57I think it is God's gift to me that he
- 2:59has made we have
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- 3:09pass this community in India still
- 3:11stands for qualities that are good that
- 3:14are honorable that are decent and I'm
- 3:16proud to be one of
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- 3:28those
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- 3:39what I love most about the community is
- 3:41our sense of humor and I feel if we lose
- 3:44that then we lose
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- 3:53everything I love being a Pary I love
- 3:56the idea that I enjoy all kinds of food
- 3:59I love the idea that the community is
- 4:01seen as a slightly eccentric slightly
- 4:03weird slightly strange Community but
- 4:06very
- 4:12loved for me being a Pary is really
- 4:14about a certain morality about growing
- 4:17up with uh good words good thoughts Good
- 4:19Deeds M I think somewhere it seeps down
- 4:22in
- 4:23you
- 4:26handsome in sism the religion is is very
- 4:30optimistic we believe that every moment
- 4:33things are improving and our belief is
- 4:36that we have to generate good thoughts
- 4:39words and deeds but importantly words
- 4:41and deeds to bring about an ethical
- 4:44awareness into the world and in doing so
- 4:47being happy within and promoting Harmony
- 4:51in the environment that I would say to
- 4:54you is the zor asan
- 4:58message
- 5:00the fravashi is in my view seen as the
- 5:04essence of God in man the wings of the
- 5:07fravashi represent the spiritual world
- 5:10the body of the fravashi represents the
- 5:12physical world and the head of the
- 5:16fravashi represents
- 5:19Consciousness it's now seen as a Zur
- 5:23asan icon of
- 5:28identity the the first important ritual
- 5:32that zor asan undergoes is the
- 5:35initiation ceremony known as the
- 5:38Nao an underest known as the sudre is
- 5:42given to the child and a cord made of
- 5:47Lamb's
- 5:48wool it's obviously tied three times
- 5:51round the waist and this na ceremony is
- 5:55done by an ordained
- 5:58priest
- 6:01in ZM we have this one life to live this
- 6:04life has to be lived in the most
- 6:07comfortable possible
- 6:10way there is no concept of fasting
- 6:14celibacy flagellation of the body in
- 6:17other words generate wealth it's a
- 6:19religion which in fact encourages
- 6:21capitalism but capitalism with a very
- 6:24important social responsibility that if
- 6:26you made a lot of money you must learn
- 6:29to
- 6:58carrots
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- 7:25[Applause]
- 7:28is
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- 7:56into
- 7:58now
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- 8:05ever
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- 8:11all
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- 8:28all
- 8:43remember that for any colonizing par a
- 8:48agent group of community or a group of
- 8:51community who acted as commission agents
- 8:53were very important if trade had to
- 8:55thrive the pares knew how to Source uh
- 8:59or where to Source goods and they were
- 9:02able to deliver to the British what they
- 9:05wanted um there was also the ability of
- 9:08the pares who by then had learned
- 9:10English so it was easy for them to deal
- 9:13with whereas other communities in India
- 9:16was still um maybe a step below the Pary
- 9:20simply because in terms of communication
- 9:22in terms of creating a raor the paries
- 9:26were way ahead every kind of service was
- 9:28given to the British so if they wanted
- 9:30sail makers or if they wanted rope
- 9:33makers even if they were not present in
- 9:35Bombay they were Source from the many
- 9:38villages of Gujarat and therefore you
- 9:40see migrations and waves of pares coming
- 9:43into Bombay between
- 9:461680 and 1780 over a period of 100 years
- 9:49more and more pares came
- 9:58in
- 10:02for most passes uh Bombay is the only
- 10:05home we
- 10:08have a lot of us don't have an ancestral
- 10:12Village to go back to so Bombay is all
- 10:15we
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- 10:21know we've been here so long we've been
- 10:24here practically since the beginnings of
- 10:26the city we've helped to build it we
- 10:28have such strong associations with it we
- 10:31have such strong Nostalgia about
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- 10:58it
- 11:00you know we are really a very very
- 11:03integral part of the city and the city
- 11:05is a very integral part of us I don't
- 11:08think we had an identity crisis where we
- 11:09suddenly said oh God who am I where do I
- 11:11come from it only happens when people
- 11:13ask us questions and if you ask your
- 11:15father where do you come from he say
- 11:16from RE
- 11:18Kandi which is the hospital room 501
- 11:21apparently don't have a memory I was
- 11:22inside the womb uh the female and then
- 11:26you but that's for all not just parses
- 11:28you come out from the same place the
- 11:30pares were certainly very closely
- 11:33aligned uh with the British almost twins
- 11:36in Partnership and when Independence
- 11:39happened the pares at least the top Pary
- 11:42industrialists had to make a huge leap
- 11:45perhaps the pares did it most
- 11:48successfully were those like the Tartas
- 11:51who moved into industrialization of
- 11:54India so if you are participating in the
- 11:57development and industrialization of of
- 11:59a new country you become part of that
- 12:01Elite group they must have felt orphaned
- 12:04in my opinion with the British moving
- 12:06away and they had to uh sort of
- 12:10renegotiate their position in Modern
- 12:13India
- 12:15now last year was The Diamond Jubilee
- 12:19celebration of her majesty Queen
- 12:27Elizabeth they were all
- 12:30celebrated in
- 12:32England and she was so good and so sweet
- 12:38to remember me so the queen sent me her
- 12:42full size picture from
- 12:45London and I have got it PR you like to
- 12:49see yes there she is there she is next
- 12:52to the her
- 12:58majesty
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- 13:52aachi really enjoys the food at the
- 13:54table really but they want good food I
- 13:57like food to be like nice
- 14:00antika of course danaka is my favorite
- 14:04then masur is my favorite fish is my
- 14:07favorite and the vegetables for a passi
- 14:11is very difficult some passis say ATI
- 14:14vegetables banado so I make it for them
- 14:17but to give them a meal with a vegetable
- 14:20dish and not even if you put meat in the
- 14:23vegetable like we have B go French beans
- 14:26go but they want
- 14:29Bas and no vegetables well there is the
- 14:33aroma which comes to
- 14:36you it goes to your nose then it goes to
- 14:39your head and then it goes to your
- 14:41stomach and your stomach expir z z z
- 14:46your tongue comes out po po po and then
- 14:50you start eating but mutton hot favorite
- 14:54mutton is the hot favorite of dby winner
- 14:58Pari food that be winner to be mutton
- 15:02mutton and mutton you can eat whatever
- 15:04you want there's no no beef no pork
- 15:06which is a good thing cuz I like my food
- 15:09and you know Pary food is the best like
- 15:11according to me like danak and all
- 15:14nothing beats
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- 15:27that
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- 16:04always cracking jokes making fun and
- 16:07they're very
- 16:09jovial but they are also very particular
- 16:12let me tell you one thing if a Pary
- 16:15comes on the cash counter he wants a
- 16:16fresh note you don't you can't possibly
- 16:19give him a Tor note or a soil
- 16:22note that is the characteristic of a uh
- 16:25the Pari is very honest they are very
- 16:28loyal
- 16:29then uh they are also uh very uh
- 16:35disciplined people like you won't find
- 16:38passy person will spit on the road I
- 16:41love that we argumentative I love that
- 16:44we have no central figure who's like a
- 16:47pope I love that it's so anarchic most
- 16:49of the time of course it's not good for
- 16:51the community to be like that but it's
- 16:53better than having a strong kind of
- 16:55dictator at the head of a community and
- 16:58I love that we are a bit eccentric a lot
- 17:01of the times sometimes inadvertently if
- 17:04I cross a red light uh and the policeman
- 17:08comes up to me I said haha mistake sorry
- 17:11sorry I'm finea so he
- 17:14says I said yeah he says I
- 17:19said he said to me in Hindi which is
- 17:22very bad where I speak he said youas are
- 17:24the only one who will not only admit to
- 17:27what you've done wrong but will insist
- 17:29on paying a fine cuz there's very few of
- 17:31us so I'm like a rare thing you know I'm
- 17:34exotic in my
- 17:35school I didn't know growing up that it
- 17:37was so small in the community in the
- 17:38sense that Mumbai is everything than it
- 17:40was Bombay uh so that's a bit strange
- 17:43actually suddenly the last 10 years
- 17:44people have woken up there along with
- 17:45the Great Indian bustard and the tiger
- 17:47the one Hound Rhino three of my favorite
- 17:50friends the par is also you know
- 17:51dwindling we find funny ways to express
- 17:55everything including something like
- 17:57death you know you know I mean there are
- 18:00four or five really fun ways to go about
- 18:03it one
- 18:04is one is another is uh which is one of
- 18:09my favorites photo
- 18:11frame you know I mean imagine being
- 18:14quirky about the most solemn things
- 18:17that's a lovely
- 18:20trade it means a face like an
- 18:23advertisement for castor
- 18:25oil when someone is very moros looking
- 18:29mutton shop they were all brains
- 18:32displayed one ask how much is that 50
- 18:35rupees why this belongs to this one this
- 18:38community this belongs to this community
- 18:41in the end when it goes to the 5,000
- 18:44rupes why so much this belongs to a why
- 18:49so expensive if you break 500 skulls you
- 18:52will get one
- 18:54brain so that is
- 18:57how we take care that is ridiculing but
- 19:02still people enjoy it so we say no
- 19:04breaks what happens to a Pary man with a
- 19:07hard on when he walks into a
- 19:09wall he breaks his
- 19:22nose he
- 19:24willay PS another string though he will
- 19:28pay
- 19:43Daddy was very sweet he used to take us
- 19:45to Hanging Gardens which is nearby and
- 19:47he said Johnny Johnny I'll teach him how
- 19:49to fetch the ball now you follow me and
- 19:51my dad would bend like that and throw a
- 19:53tennis ball and Figaro would not even
- 19:55look at it so every day he would go we
- 19:57would do this and then you know people
- 19:58would come to watch this old middle-aged
- 20:00Pary man go and pick up a ball in his
- 20:02mouth to show the dog and bring it
- 20:05back you know and but he never learned
- 20:08how to fetch the ball I mean my dad did
- 20:10but the dog didn't if there's a little
- 20:12thing happening because it is a b
- 20:15involved they take the total Liberty to
- 20:19accentuate the whole thing like if I
- 20:23were to tell
- 20:24you you are very
- 20:27beautiful so and someone
- 20:29do you know what Sam told that girl can
- 20:33you imagine
- 20:34any when he supposed to go up God knows
- 20:38where he's telling this
- 20:47girl and you are so tall and you're so
- 20:50gracious so that fellow goes and tell
- 20:57another
- 21:16so everyone goes on adding and adding
- 21:19and adding and adding and that is how
- 21:23something
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- 21:27gross
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- 22:21we do not realize being so small in
- 22:24numbers that we have a responsibility to
- 22:28community which has given us so much to
- 22:31a nation which has given us so much here
- 22:33the nation is telling us produce kids
- 22:36we're giving you money to produce kids
- 22:39and we then still say no no we want to
- 22:40marry out doesn't make sense to me but I
- 22:44think that children whose mothers are
- 22:46Pary and whose fathers are not it's
- 22:49absurd it's absurd to keep them out in
- 22:51light of morality in light of gender
- 22:53equality everything uh it's crazy that
- 22:56we go to such lengths to keep them out
- 22:59that's my feeling what you're asking is
- 23:01a very simplistic rationale that people
- 23:05come up with open our doors and those
- 23:07kids are going to become marvelous zans
- 23:11what are we interested in increasing zor
- 23:14asrian or increasing the number of pares
- 23:19which means to increase our ethnic stock
- 23:23how can ethnic stock increase if one
- 23:26marries out can zor astranis accepted
- 23:30from a religious point of view the
- 23:32answer is capital no And as far as we're
- 23:35concerned custom and tradition which
- 23:38always has to take precedence the custom
- 23:41and tradition is that a girl marrying
- 23:43out ceases to be a zor asran it's not
- 23:47something new it's been said by our
- 23:49learned priests for the last 100 years
- 23:51or so if a girl is married to a nonpar
- 23:54according to the spatial Marriage Act of
- 23:571954 when she's following a ro religion
- 24:01I don't understand why we can stop her
- 24:03from practicing the ation
- 24:06religion so this little bit of change
- 24:10will bring peace in the community and it
- 24:13will I'm not encouraging the interfet
- 24:16marriage by saying all these things but
- 24:18this are the problems where the youth
- 24:20are getting disintegrated from the
- 24:22community we are trying instead of make
- 24:25a fabric we are trying to break the
- 24:28fabric of the community historically
- 24:31Iranian Society has been agnetic this is
- 24:34not something you and I can change this
- 24:36is a legacy of history but should we
- 24:38change to something even worse by
- 24:42opening the doors for our girls so that
- 24:44there's a greater chance of more and
- 24:46more people marrying out as a result of
- 24:49which our ethnicity is weaken generation
- 24:52after generation that is the issue we
- 24:54have to think of we don't try to
- 24:57understand each other we just want to
- 24:59put our thoughts like this are my
- 25:00thoughts that's it it has to be like
- 25:02this because we have not done this in so
- 25:04many years we should not do it again but
- 25:07then there are so many things which we
- 25:09are not doing since we came from Iran
- 25:13and we have
- 25:14changed and we have the change is the
- 25:16most important thing and if we don't
- 25:18change we are not going to
- 25:27survive
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