Patrice O'Neil Says THIS About Relationships — Transcript

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1. 0:01The only way a relationship could could
2. 0:03survive is if your girl looks at you
3. 0:06like you're better
4. 0:08>> than her. And I don't know how to
5. 0:10explain that to make people not mad
6. 0:12about it. If she looks at you like, man,
7. 0:14this dude is better than me, the
8. 0:15relationship's going to work cuz she's
9. 0:17going to be always always be trying to
10. 0:19make you equal or bring you down. So, if
11. 0:22you don't let her bring you down, she's
12. 0:24going to love you forever. She she hates
13. 0:26how much she's in love with you. Your
14. 0:28woman hates you. you're in a good
15. 0:30relationship cuz she really don't hate
16. 0:31you. She just hates how much she loves
17. 0:33you cuz she it it makes her not focus.
18. 0:36Like getting a woman is our job. Getting
19. 0:37a woman is hard for us. Getting her is
20. 0:39hard. Now, keeping her is not hard. But
21. 0:41but getting a man is easy for a woman,
22. 0:44but keeping a man is hard cuz cuz they
23. 0:47think they didn't really they don't
24. 0:49their keeping skills aren't sharp. I
25. 0:53think the only way a relationship
26. 0:54>> forwarding great message
27. 0:59>> that's what that that was uh
28. 1:01>> that was uh uh one of the uh
29. 1:05the comments right in the comment
30. 1:07section. Yeah.
31. 1:10>> Uh Corey Cool,
32. 1:13>> what was one of your first thoughts on
33. 1:14on this?
34. 1:15>> Uh it was a lot
35. 1:17that was a lot to digest.
36. 1:20Um,
37. 1:23what do I think about it? I don't know.
38. 1:25More so than he's better than me. You
39. 1:29know, I don't know. You do have to fight
40. 1:30for a level. Not fightful, but there's a
41. 1:32level of respect that you want her to
42. 1:35have for you. You know what I'm saying?
43. 1:37I'm I'm going to choose that word
44. 1:39instead of she's, you know, he's better
45. 1:41than me. No, but I think it should be a
46. 1:43level of respect, a level of, yo, this
47. 1:45dude could hold it down.
48. 1:47>> Yeah.
49. 1:47>> Things get rocky. I know. He'll figure
50. 1:50it out or he can do it.
51. 1:52>> One of the two things, right? Either he
52. 1:53can fix it right here or he'll figure
53. 1:55out how to get it fixed.
54. 1:57>> Exactly. Right.
55. 1:58>> I think that is
56. 2:01the way I would look at it. You know, I
57. 2:03love Patrice. God bless him, man. You
58. 2:04know, he's one of the great comedians,
59. 2:06so I'll never take anything from him.
60. 2:08The last part
61. 2:10>> when he spoke about was that
62. 2:13>> uh woman is hard to get, easy to keep.
63. 2:15Man is easy to get, hard to keep. Right.
64. 2:18That's how he phrased it.
65. 2:20>> That's exactly what he said.
66. 2:22>> Um,
67. 2:24yeah.
68. 2:25Yeah, I get it. Cuz if you can bag
69. 2:28shorty, then,
70. 2:30>> you know, you could, you know, just
71. 2:31don't do nothing too foul. You know what
72. 2:34I'm saying? You could
73. 2:35>> your odds are good.
74. 2:38You know what I mean? But I don't know
75. 2:39cuz this is kind of the same reverse. If
76. 2:41if if it
77. 2:43>> the guys easy to get. Yeah. I'm sure
78. 2:45we're not not that we're not that hard
79. 2:47to get ran you know what I mean to get
80. 2:48ran down.
81. 2:49>> Yeah. Men are hard to keep though for
82. 2:50women.
83. 2:52>> Yeah. But I wonder
84. 2:53>> Well, they give us that great prize
85. 2:55early in the relationship, right? Sex.
86. 2:58>> Mhm.
87. 2:58>> And I feel like that's what keep means.
88. 3:00I think the denotation mark of keep is
89. 3:03sex.
90. 3:04>> Once you have sex, that's when you kind
91. 3:06of like are that's when the tables shift
92. 3:10cuz that's the gift that they have for
93. 3:11us is that nookie. You know what I mean?
94. 3:14needed that cookie.
95. 3:15>> Yeah.
96. 3:15>> And once they give it to us, it's like a
97. 3:18lot of things are off the table. But now
98. 3:22they have to keep us interested and that
99. 3:24they keep us coming back to the cookie
100. 3:26shop. You know what I mean?
101. 3:27>> Mhm.
102. 3:27>> To their cookie shop, you know?
103. 3:29>> And I almost think it's the other stuff
104. 3:31from there, the intangibles.
105. 3:34>> That's what's going to keep us coming
106. 3:35back.
107. 3:36>> Yeah. You know, how comfortable the guy
108. 3:39feels around can he trust as well,
109. 3:42right? Can I trust you with certain
110. 3:43things? It might, you know,
111. 3:44>> yeah,
112. 3:45>> guys may put you through the ringer a
113. 3:46little bit more.
114. 3:47>> So, that's a difference.
115. 3:49>> It's whether or not a woman can be
116. 3:52>> okay with getting put through the
117. 3:53ringer.
118. 3:55>> By accident, you know, guys, things we
119. 3:57do by accident.
120. 3:58>> Yeah.
121. 3:58>> A lot of cookie shops open, yo.
122. 4:00>> Yeah. You know,
123. 4:03>> what you think?
124. 4:05>> Um, bring us home. No, I think he was I
125. 4:07think he was
126. 4:10I think he was, you know, pretty on
127. 4:11point with what he was saying,
128. 4:12>> right?
129. 4:13>> Um
130. 4:15yeah, I I I I kind of agree with Cordo.
131. 4:18It's like the wording or even the
132. 4:20comment that was said.
133. 4:21>> Um the wording of it, it sounds bad, but
134. 4:26it makes sense. You know, people will
135. 4:27get triggered by the wording, but you
136. 4:29know, it makes it it it makes sense or
137. 4:31whatever.
138. 4:32>> He's also a great comedian, so you know,
139. 4:34you know.
140. 4:34>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
141. 4:37>> Comedic edge at the same at the same
142. 4:39time.
143. 4:39>> Yeah. Cuz
144. 4:41she if if you're going to be in a
145. 4:43woman's life and you're supposed to kind
146. 4:45of lead her in a sense, she does have to
147. 4:49she has to think that you're good enough
148. 4:51or better, you know, or at certain
149. 4:54things to lead her. You know what I
150. 4:57mean? So
151. 5:00women women value security, right? And
152. 5:04the same way they would look at their
153. 5:07pops
154. 5:09and feel safe with their pops around
155. 5:11them.
156. 5:12>> Yeah.
157. 5:12>> Is the same way they got to look at you
158. 5:14in a sense.
159. 5:16>> That makes sense.
160. 5:16>> Can I side Can I ask a hypothetical
161. 5:19question here?
162. 5:20>> Absolutely.
163. 5:20>> Yeah.
164. 5:24Is it possible that some
165. 5:28women, this is just a hypothetical
166. 5:29question,
167. 5:32>> maybe aren't even so worried about you
168. 5:34leading,
169. 5:36but like being a consistent
170. 5:41I don't want to use the word like
171. 5:42cleaner upper, but like
172. 5:46I don't know, the the person that could
173. 5:48execute. Maybe not necessarily so much
174. 5:50leading, but being an executor.
175. 5:53>> Yeah.
176. 5:54>> Do you think that some women may be like
177. 5:57in the market for that, but just don't
178. 5:59know how to like necessarily say that
179. 6:02>> cuz you can lead like you lead somebody
180. 6:04with conviction into the ground.
181. 6:06>> No. All right. So, when when I when I
182. 6:09when I say that too,
183. 6:12>> I said this on a previous show that
184. 6:14women are not decisive,
185. 6:17>> right? they could have everything else
186. 6:20going for themselves, right? But then if
187. 6:23you get, you know, if you get a dude in
188. 6:26the mix, like a a woman will have
189. 6:30five different ideas of what she wants
190. 6:32to do, right? But a man may come in and
191. 6:35be like, "Nah, you should do this."
192. 6:37Right? And then since that's that's
193. 6:39leading her, that's leading in a sense,
194. 6:41right? Let's just say you you got a
195. 6:43chick that that has it all going on for
196. 6:45herself. And I said like, yo, a woman
197. 6:48could have this, this, that, and the
198. 6:49third. She could have the house, the
199. 6:52car, the money, all that [ __ ] right?
200. 6:54But then when it comes down to other
201. 6:55stuff in life doing more than that, you
202. 6:59know what I mean? Um,
203. 7:02she may need that that validation. Like
204. 7:05normally
205. 7:07even well, in relationships,
206. 7:10women validate men, men validate women.
207. 7:13You know what I to it's like that last
208. 7:16box you got to check to be like, "Yo,
209. 7:18what do you think about this?" "Yeah,
210. 7:19yeah, you should do it. All right, I'mma
211. 7:21do it." You know what I mean?
212. 7:22>> And
213. 7:24I think there's mad [ __ ] in life,
214. 7:26specifically, you know, for women that
215. 7:29they don't really want to deal with that
216. 7:30men kind of
217. 7:33they might be a little bit better at it.
218. 7:35You know what I mean? Um,
219. 7:38and sometimes when it in the reverse
220. 7:40with a man, he may we're we're more
221. 7:44prone to be like, "Yo, I'm doing this
222. 7:46[ __ ]
223. 7:48I got to see if my wife is okay with it,
224. 7:50but I'm doing it right." And women might
225. 7:52be like, "Should I do this?" And I think
226. 7:55that's the difference in we the way we
227. 7:58go about [ __ ] Men already know, "I'm
228. 8:00going to do it. I just got to make sure
229. 8:02my lady says it's okay for me to do it."
230. 8:04Yeah.
231. 8:04>> And women be like, "Yo, should I do
232. 8:06this?" Like, "Yeah, you should do that."
233. 8:08>> Yeah. That's a good observation.
234. 8:10>> It's just It's about the decisiveness.
235. 8:12>> Yeah.